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How do we feel about Prenups? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Wake your ass up, John Jay Rich, what's crack a leg?
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  Speaker 1: We're not talking about Rin ten team, We're not talking
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  Speaker 1: about last year. It's the one and only dog y'all
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  Speaker 2: And you're listening to John Jay and Rich. John Jay
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  Speaker 2: and Rich. Our phone numbers eight seven, seven, nine three, seven,
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  Speaker 2: nine three. Good morning, Dinah.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning. I'm about to get married and I need
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  Speaker 3: to talk this out because I'm spiraling a little. So
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  Speaker 3: I brought up wanting a prenup, not because I'm planning
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  Speaker 3: to leave him, but because I'm a grown adult. You
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  Speaker 3: understands how life work and just you know, want.
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  Speaker 1: To be set.
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  Speaker 3: So his response to that, though, completely threw me. He
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  Speaker 3: was like, you didn't have money or success when we met,
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  Speaker 3: so why would you need one out? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Rude?
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  Speaker 3: Right, So that threw me back, and I'm right, and
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  Speaker 3: obviously it felt like an attack, it felt personal. And
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  Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be shady, I'm just trying to
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  Speaker 3: be smart. And he also has a ton of student
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  Speaker 3: loan debt, so you know, and I love him, I
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  Speaker 3: trust him, but I don't trust the economy or the future.
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  Speaker 3: And so now he's acting like I'm predicting our divorce
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  Speaker 3: and I'm just over here trying to protect the both
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  Speaker 3: of us.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so you said that. He said you guys
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  Speaker 2: had enough when you met. So now how long have
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  Speaker 2: you guys been together and what do you have now?
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  Speaker 3: Well, we've been together now for about two years, and
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  Speaker 3: I mean pretty much the same, Like it's nothing like
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  Speaker 3: super crazy, but you know, combining both of our incomes, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: would be higher. But he also has that loan depth
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  Speaker 3: that I don't ever want to fall on to me
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  Speaker 3: in case something were to happen to him.
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  Speaker 2: You know, do you guys, have you either of you
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  Speaker 2: guys been married before?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 5: Hmmm, do you have anyone in your life who had
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  Speaker 5: like a really nasty divorce, because I mean, you could
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  Speaker 5: always use that as an example, like I don't want
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  Speaker 5: I don't want us to ever get divorced.
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  Speaker 2: I want us to be forever.
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  Speaker 5: But in the event that the unthinkable happens, I don't
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  Speaker 5: want to end.
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  Speaker 2: Up like so and so right.
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  Speaker 3: No, I definitely have a friend that has gone through
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  Speaker 3: that and his wife ended up taking everything because they
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  Speaker 3: didn't have a prenap. Oh he was left with nothing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm curious that. So, Peyton, you're young and you're getting
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  Speaker 2: married soon. Do you and Kadeem or have you guys
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  Speaker 2: had this conversation.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we have talked about the prenup conversation. We probably
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  Speaker 4: will not be signing one. I mean, but we also
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  Speaker 4: don't have the student loan debt problem. Like both of
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  Speaker 4: us are good because we both played basketball in college,
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  Speaker 4: so all that was paid for us. So we don't
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  Speaker 4: really have any like looming debt like that, which would
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  Speaker 4: probably make us maybe have that conversation.
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  Speaker 2: But no, for now, about you, Richard, you got married
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  Speaker 2: and you this guys were grown ups.
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  Speaker 1: So I remember when I talked to my divorce attorney
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  Speaker 1: and I said, hey, I got engaged, and she didn't
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  Speaker 1: say congratulations. She said, have you had her sign a prenup?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, No, I take that as.
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  Speaker 1: A totally different congratulations.
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  Speaker 5: That would be what a divorce lawyer would say, because
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  Speaker 5: I'm sure make divorce a lot easier.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So when I brought it up to Stacey, she left
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  Speaker 1: hysterically and said, I have more than you anyway, I'm fine.
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  Speaker 4: So she said, Okay, I'll sign the pre or signe
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  Speaker 4: what O.
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  Speaker 2: Get your guitars, dude, your speaker, She'll guitars.
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  Speaker 1: Look at all the magic tricks I can get. Get
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  Speaker 1: all those magic tricks from her family of magic.
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  Speaker 2: My friend Greg. You guys know my friend Greg I've
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  Speaker 2: talked about all the time. He's single. He was engaged
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  Speaker 2: and she got upset when he pitched her a prenup.
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  Speaker 2: So I called her on the radio and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you need to sign a prenup. And
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  Speaker 2: you know she did broke up with him. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: if I have to take the le birthday next week
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  Speaker 2: because of the.
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  Speaker 1: Terrible I mean, I get, I get the conversation of
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  Speaker 1: like that means you don't believe in what this can
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  Speaker 1: be forever if you're if you're planning ahead for that,
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  Speaker 1: so but it's still if you got stuff to protect
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  Speaker 1: for yourself.
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  Speaker 4: But him acting like that tells me like Dinah's catch. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I because if you would think that
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  Speaker 4: if it was he had an insane amount of student loan,
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  Speaker 4: that he wouldn't want that to fall onto you.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know the way you could pitch it and
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  Speaker 1: don't listen to me because I didn't love you could
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  Speaker 1: say this just assures that we're both gonna work hard
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  Speaker 1: to stay together. This is almost like us saying, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we don't plan on happening, and we're gonna work hard
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  Speaker 1: to stay down so we never have to go to
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  Speaker 1: the prenup. That could be a reverse cell for you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good way to put that, actually, so.
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  Speaker 1: Might as well try it if you're concerned about it.
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  Speaker 1: But then again, I never got that done, so don't
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  Speaker 1: ask me.
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  Speaker 5: I can.
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  Speaker 4: It's heard that wants the prenup.
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  Speaker 2: It's such a tough conversation to have.
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  Speaker 5: It is, but it is also like, wouldn't you like
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  Speaker 5: we You're in a spot where you guys love each
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  Speaker 5: other so much right now, It's like I want to
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  Speaker 5: always have that love and respect. We don't know what
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  Speaker 5: the future holds, we don't know what's going to happen.
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  Speaker 5: In the event that something terrible does happen, I would
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  Speaker 5: rather deal with this stuff when we love and respect
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  Speaker 5: each other and can deal with this fairly for one another.
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  Speaker 2: Then have you know vicious spite in the back of it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so true. That's exactly it.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you came to us for advice. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if for give me any but yeah, you're
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  Speaker 2: still in the same situation. But thanks, Dinah, thanks for
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  Speaker 2: calling up.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: If I get married again, I will have her sign
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  Speaker 2: the prenup.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta protect all of your things like your oxygen.
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  Speaker 1: Tak a cold plunge my mouthguard.
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  Speaker 2: Mind, She's like, I'm taking a mouth guard. I know
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  Speaker 2: a lady that got a divorce and in her divorce
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  Speaker 2: she lost uh and this is her thing. She had
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  Speaker 2: our show on September eleventh. She loved that show and
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  Speaker 2: she had it on a disc and her husband took it.
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  Speaker 2: I would put all John Jay rich property in my prenup.
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  Speaker 1: What if that new wife yours comes after your Gary
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  Speaker 1: Bricka pan? Got to protect that. I have a story
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  Speaker 1: about that pan that Kyle gave me.
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  Speaker 2: I do I do.
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  Speaker 5: Someone us specifically John Jay's pan.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's my pan. My wife used my pan yesterday
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  Speaker 2: and I was pissed off. She has her own pair
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  Speaker 2: and human resources lady. It's actually it's Pam. I'm sorry, Well, Pan,
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  Speaker 2: my name is Pam. You're saying Pan Pam.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying Pam.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. Who's this gentleman sitting behind you? Hello,
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  Speaker 2: miss lady. I'm Dale. I'm brandon step brother, and I.
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  Speaker 1: Think I might be able to help with a Pan
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  Speaker 1: Pam dilemma.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that'd be great.
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  Speaker 1: Pam, there's no deed, it's Pam.
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  Speaker 3: It's like calm, No, there's just one m. I needed someone.
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  Speaker 2: I think we've had a for one second.
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  Speaker 3: I needed someone.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry going off stupid.
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  Speaker 5: You are wearing tuxedos to a job that requires you
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  Speaker 5: to clean baths.
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  Speaker 2: Please leave this office. We're Donald the Center here. Do
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  Speaker 2: we get any sort of souvenir? Get out of my office.