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CECE VALENCIA - Real Talk and Comfort Food · Eating While Broke

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  Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Eating While Broke.
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  Speaker 1: Your host Coleen Witt, and today we have very special
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  Speaker 1: guest TV and radio personality, CC Valencia is in the
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  Speaker 1: building from ninety three point five KD shout out, but
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  Speaker 1: super excited.
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  Speaker 2: They have you so excited?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I was like calling text in bothering people.
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  Speaker 2: Was on it.
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  Speaker 1: I have to say that she was on it like
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  Speaker 1: a true woman was. I was an email text calls, annoying.
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  Speaker 1: I will not stop until I'm like she better.
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  Speaker 3: Please please God no.
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  Speaker 2: And then when I've heard the concept of this show,
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  Speaker 2: I just thought it was so amazing because I never
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  Speaker 2: seen anything like this before. So I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: this is really a one of a kind, Like I
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  Speaker 2: love this.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I used to think it was like all about inspiring
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  Speaker 1: then Underdog, But the more I hear like fans talk,
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  Speaker 1: They're like, Yo, this is like a real chance to
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  Speaker 1: get to know the people that we like, we watch
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  Speaker 1: and right admire, Like we get to really and get
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  Speaker 1: in here from you.
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  Speaker 2: Yay. You know what I mean that you we have
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  Speaker 2: never heard before?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly absolutely so speaking of stories we ain't never heard before,
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  Speaker 1: cee ce, Yes, what is the broke dish.
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  Speaker 3: You are gonna have me eating today.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So the broke dish that I used to eat
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  Speaker 2: while growing up was my mom would cut tortillas and
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  Speaker 2: we would fry them, and then we would add a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of sea.
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  Speaker 3: We didn't.
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  Speaker 2: We had these, okay, and we ate these with everything,
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  Speaker 2: even white bread.
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  Speaker 3: Is that chicken hot dogs?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 3: Chicken hot dogs?
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  Speaker 2: Slice them and then you fry them and then you
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  Speaker 2: put the egg and I promise you it. I know
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  Speaker 2: it's a broke meal, but it's like the most delicious
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  Speaker 2: broke meal you ever had. It's all the flavors.
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  Speaker 3: Teach me, show me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I stand up to do this.
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  Speaker 3: Alright, let's go.
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  Speaker 1: It's so funny. So Jared shout out to Jared. Everyone
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  Speaker 1: no one ever gets to see Jared. He's like the
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  Speaker 1: guy from Home Improvement behind the fence. Yes, but Jared
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  Speaker 1: is Mexican, so like he understands it to a certain degree,
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  Speaker 1: way better than meal.
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  Speaker 2: Yes his life. Yes.
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  Speaker 3: He was like, I was like, Jared, can you set
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  Speaker 3: it up?
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  Speaker 1: He had cutting board, eggs, everything, Like I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: he knows what the and I was like, do we
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  Speaker 1: need butter?
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  Speaker 3: He's like, I got the oil. Yeah, Jar understands the
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  Speaker 3: struggle to stay in my lane.
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  Speaker 1: Ra absolutely, and then here pass me that cloth just
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  Speaker 1: in case we accidently turn on the wrong burner.
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  Speaker 2: We're good.
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  Speaker 1: So take me back to this time in your life
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  Speaker 1: when you were eating hot dogs and chickennout dogs and
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  Speaker 1: the eggs and corn tortillas. By the way, this taping today,
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  Speaker 1: all of my guests, all of their meals came to
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  Speaker 1: twenty dollars combined. Why and that's with inflation. So I
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  Speaker 1: know all the stories today I'm about to hear are amazing.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, take me back, Take me back.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So growing up, we moved around a lot. My
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  Speaker 2: parents were divorcing, so basically my mother was trying to
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  Speaker 2: we're basically staying with people that could house us, right,
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  Speaker 2: So it went from Compton to Lynnwood to watts back
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  Speaker 2: to Compton to Southgate, and she didn't have a lot
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  Speaker 2: of money. And at the time, we grew up on
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  Speaker 2: what people called food stamps.
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  Speaker 3: Right, I remember few sands stamps.
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  Speaker 1: You had the colorful ones right, the money right, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I wish they had the debit cards in our time,
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  Speaker 1: by the.
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  Speaker 2: Way, yeah, they didn't. We had to literally pull out
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  Speaker 2: in front of everybody. Everybody in the county line would
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  Speaker 2: give you dirty looks.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's how we grew up. And we were
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  Speaker 2: just really really poor at that moment. I remember I
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  Speaker 2: just told your story off camera where uh you know,
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  Speaker 2: my mom would buy us vans every beginning of the
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  Speaker 2: school year, and we were growing up fast, and at
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  Speaker 2: one point we're like, Mom, they don't fit us anymore.
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  Speaker 2: And she had no money until the next paycheck. So
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  Speaker 2: what she did was she put vasoline on our feet
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  Speaker 2: and shoved our feet in there and made it work
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  Speaker 2: for like a week and a half until she got paid. Wow,
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  Speaker 2: and then she went ahead. But she did what she
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  Speaker 2: could do because it was just us. And the one
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  Speaker 2: thing that I love about my mother is that she
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  Speaker 2: raised us. Like even when me and my sister would argue,
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  Speaker 2: She's like, ah, stop, we all we got because when
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  Speaker 2: I'm gone, she's gonna be the only person that's gonna
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  Speaker 2: have you. So we just really grew up with love
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  Speaker 2: in our household. And we listen, I'm cutting this up
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  Speaker 2: into triangles.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, by the way, yeah, I was not expecting that.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm about to learn a good hack from my
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  Speaker 1: own personal I think that's more than enough.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So I was just gonna say, well, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: cook for Jared too.
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  Speaker 3: He had this when growing up.
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  Speaker 1: Just so you know, we always throw food back to
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  Speaker 1: Jared off camera.
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  Speaker 3: The second is Jared, you want to eat something, but yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you need to turn it up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna turn it up. We're good.
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  Speaker 1: So are these gonna end up coming out like tortilla chiphina?
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  Speaker 2: But then what you do is that they're like tortilla chips.
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  Speaker 2: Then we're gonna end a little bit of the hot dog,
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  Speaker 2: and then we're at the egg over it.
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  Speaker 3: It's going to be so good.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, show me a good morning hack, because when I
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  Speaker 1: say I'm running out the door, I never know what
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  Speaker 1: to make.
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  Speaker 3: But this looks like a good.
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  Speaker 2: Super easy, super easy. I'm just waiting for the oil
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  Speaker 2: to get hot, so I'm just tensing it right now,
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  Speaker 2: but super easy. My mom made this for us all
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  Speaker 2: the time growing up. And it's crazy because now that
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  Speaker 2: you know, I consider myself a successful radio person. I
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  Speaker 2: view twenty years, twenty years, twenty years, I've been doing
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  Speaker 2: it and I still creep this.
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  Speaker 3: Oh so you still eat it?
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  Speaker 2: I still eat it? Yes, I could eat botsa nova
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  Speaker 2: and I could eat this like it doesn't bother me
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  Speaker 2: at all. Yes, yeah, it's getting hotter. We're working this out.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what, Colleen, I never growing up struggling.
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  Speaker 2: I never felt sorry for myself. I honestly thought everybody
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  Speaker 2: grew up like that.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 2: We used to go shopping at the second hand and
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  Speaker 2: in Spanish we call it the segunda, so my family
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  Speaker 2: shortened it and called it the Gundi. It was like
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  Speaker 2: a cute little name. So they'd be like, oh, we're
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  Speaker 2: going to go to the Gundi. So when I would
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  Speaker 2: go to school, I would be like, oh, you got
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  Speaker 2: that at the Goondi. I thought everybody shop the way
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  Speaker 2: we shop. I only started noting the no seeing the
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  Speaker 2: difference when I was in the seventh grade. And then
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  Speaker 2: I started getting teased for the way that I was dressed.
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  Speaker 2: And then I noticed other than that, I was happy.
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  Speaker 2: My mom was like, listen, as long as you guys
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  Speaker 2: are fed, you got a roof over your head, and
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  Speaker 2: you're happy, and you're healthy, and nobody's touching you or
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  Speaker 2: anything harming, you're good.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean. So that's really how
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  Speaker 3: was your father.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just genuinely curious was your father, Like, did he
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  Speaker 1: just disappear or.
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  Speaker 2: No, my dad was in and out of prison. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: So my dad and my mom are both from Compton
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  Speaker 2: and they grew up in that lifestyle. It is what
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  Speaker 2: it is. And my dad was gang banging and you know,
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  Speaker 2: drug dealing all that, and got caught up in that
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  Speaker 2: life and it was did a lot of time like
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  Speaker 2: it was either in to had to be wayside, you know.
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  Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, it's weird because
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  Speaker 2: people are like, you grew up kind of well rounded.
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  Speaker 2: And I said, well, yeah, you know what, I had
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  Speaker 2: a father that wasn't afraid to say he loved me either.
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  Speaker 2: He'd be like, I love you so much, baby, grad love.
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  Speaker 2: I just knew my dad loved me, and I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if it was just the God in me with
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  Speaker 2: my mom, but I also realized my dad didn't have
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  Speaker 2: a father figure, So my dad didn't know how to
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  Speaker 2: be a dad. He didn't have a dad, He didn't
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  Speaker 2: have a dad that raised him, so he didn't This
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  Speaker 2: was all foreign to him. But my dad loved me
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  Speaker 2: and always showed me, you know, whether he'd be out
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  Speaker 2: on the streets for a couple of days, come home,
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  Speaker 2: visit us, whatever, it was always full of love. You know.
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  Speaker 2: I started, as I started growing up and developing into
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  Speaker 2: a young women, I started noticing, like, Okay, you're out,
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  Speaker 2: You're not with the You're not with us all the time,
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  Speaker 2: you know. But I never held a grudge or anything
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  Speaker 2: like that.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't feel like you were and you didn't. And
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  Speaker 1: this is again genuine curiosity. So when your father was
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  Speaker 1: not when you started to realize that he wasn't always present,
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  Speaker 1: did you ever compare like the way your mom loved
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  Speaker 1: and the way he loved did you ever go through
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  Speaker 1: it like.
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  Speaker 2: You know what? No? I loved. I was always Daddy's
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  Speaker 2: little girl, so I I growing up, I think I
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  Speaker 2: was more towards my dad. And then once I started
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  Speaker 2: developing into a young women, I started seeing my mom
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  Speaker 2: was the one that was really making all the struggles
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  Speaker 2: for her household. My mom was the one that was
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  Speaker 2: always sacrificing. So I always still loved Dad because I'm
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  Speaker 2: Daddy's I was Daddy's little girl. However, I became more
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  Speaker 2: protective of my mother. I never nobody could ever speak
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  Speaker 2: bad about her, although they didn't. She was an angel
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  Speaker 2: but I never let anybody speA because I'm like, listen,
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  Speaker 2: my mom has paid the bills. She's taking two care
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  Speaker 2: taking care of two kids on her own, she's working
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  Speaker 2: two jobs. My mom was a welder because it was
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  Speaker 2: the only job she could have gotten at that time.
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  Speaker 2: And I remember just saying, listen, Mom, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever you need, we got you. We would clean the house.
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  Speaker 2: It was a partnership on me and my mom would
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  Speaker 2: be like, listen, miha, you're the oldest. I depend on
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  Speaker 2: you the most. You have to help with the house.
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  Speaker 2: You have to help me with your sister. We are
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  Speaker 2: all we got. I love that and that was how
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  Speaker 2: she raised us.
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  Speaker 3: And she never talked bad about your dad either.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's so crazy about that is that I
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  Speaker 2: recently did an interview and it kind of went viral,
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  Speaker 2: and it was surprising to me. My mom never talked
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  Speaker 2: bad about my father, and people were shocked about it.
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  Speaker 2: But my dad, in turn, never talked bad about my
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  Speaker 2: mother because he'd be like, that's the mother of my children.
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  Speaker 2: Regardless of what we got going on. She makes sure
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  Speaker 2: that my girls are okay all the time, and they
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  Speaker 2: got clothes and she was on their back. So my dad,
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  Speaker 2: although they were divorced, was still protective of my mother,
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  Speaker 2: which I thought was super cool. And my mom was like,
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  Speaker 2: no matter what, that's your father. And sometimes when he
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  Speaker 2: couldn't come to see us, she would drop us off
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  Speaker 2: so we could visit him. And people would be like, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: you need a hive for chand support. You need to
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  Speaker 2: get in for this, and She's like, my kids, all
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  Speaker 2: they know is they need their dad in their life.
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  Speaker 2: That's all they know. That's all they care about. They
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  Speaker 2: don't know bills, they don't know this, they don't they
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  Speaker 2: know their dad. So I need my daughters to have
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  Speaker 2: a father figure in their life. They need to understand,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, how a man is supposed
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  Speaker 2: to treat them. And so it worked out and they weren't.
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  Speaker 2: They weren't bitter or anything. It just I think I
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  Speaker 2: was blessed in that sense. But I feel good because
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  Speaker 2: that's me and my sister grew up with. You know, listen,
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  Speaker 2: daddy was out there in the streets. Daddy's doing what
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  Speaker 2: he does. But you know what, he loves us, not
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  Speaker 2: gonna change. I'm just gonna love him.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's unconditional love. Yes, Now, when did we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna start inching towards who you became the first twenty
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  Speaker 1: the first half of your twenty years. How did you
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  Speaker 1: start getting into radio?
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  Speaker 3: How did you?
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  Speaker 1: What inspired that that point of I'm interested in this field,
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  Speaker 1: you know what.
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  Speaker 2: I was working in television, and I was working in
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  Speaker 2: television and I had said something about being in the
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  Speaker 2: IE at the time, and there was a radio station
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  Speaker 2: that was developing and they hired me through a message
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  Speaker 2: on the phone. It was crazy. So I went and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, well, if I can do TV, I
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  Speaker 2: can do radio. No wrong. You have to understand that
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  Speaker 2: when you do television, even when you change your facial
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  Speaker 2: expression this, it says a lot. In radio, we have
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  Speaker 2: to amplify. We have to get excited and talk like
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  Speaker 2: this and get you to understand what we're doing. So
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  Speaker 2: the first couple of weeks I couldn't do that, and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, this ain't for me at all.
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  Speaker 1: And what were you doing in TV before you were
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  Speaker 1: hosting at LA TV? So LA you said hosting is
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  Speaker 1: different from radio because hosting you don't have to do
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  Speaker 1: as much amplification.
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  Speaker 2: No, because it's a lot facial expression. So I'm talking
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  Speaker 2: like this and you're watching me, but when you're listening
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  Speaker 2: on the radio, you can't see me. You have to
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  Speaker 2: feel my expression. So it was hard. And I gave
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  Speaker 2: my three weeks or my two week notice, my third
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  Speaker 2: week in radio twenty years ago, and God bless my
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  Speaker 2: program director at the time. He said, see, see, if
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  Speaker 2: I didn't think you could do this, I wouldn't have
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  Speaker 2: hired you. Give it six months. If you feel the
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  Speaker 2: same in six months, I will accept your resignation letter.
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  Speaker 2: And I said, okay, fair enough. It's been twenty years.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, yes, and I love it.
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  Speaker 2: And and the more that I learned and I grew
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  Speaker 2: and and I understood you know what I mean that
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  Speaker 2: I had.
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  Speaker 3: To Did you end up getting mentors in the game.
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  Speaker 2: Or yes, I did. I had a mentors. I had
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  Speaker 2: a mentor named Chris Lops that actually came from a
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  Speaker 2: station back in the day called The Beat. Ok yeah,
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  Speaker 2: ninety two point three The Beat, no color lines. He
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  Speaker 2: was there, I'm gonna put this right here because that
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  Speaker 2: is what people do when they broke.
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  Speaker 1: And uh, he would, uh this looks legit, by the way, guys,
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  Speaker 1: it's like little tortilla or anything. Yeah, I'm gonna stay
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  Speaker 1: out of your kitchen.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't you worry, girl, You're gonna love this.
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  Speaker 1: So so you you're you end up saying in radio
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  Speaker 1: you did get mentors that helped you.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of in the game.
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  Speaker 3: In the game, okay, And I.
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  Speaker 2: Had mentors in the game, and I learned from them
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  Speaker 2: and they taught me. And I even had the DJs, like,
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  Speaker 2: because I was a radio personality, it was kind of
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  Speaker 2: cool to learn from DJs because when you're on the
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  Speaker 2: radio and you're talking, you have a screen and it's
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  Speaker 2: the countdown of the music and what's coming up next.
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  Speaker 2: I was so focused on that and being perfect and
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  Speaker 2: hitting every break. I remember a DJ came in the
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  Speaker 2: studio put tape over the screen and said and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, what are you doing. That's my countdown when
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking on air right now. And he was like,
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  Speaker 2: you don't need that. You go to the club. You
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  Speaker 2: know hip hop, you know music. Listen to the beat,
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  Speaker 2: listen to the beat. See, you need to start thinking
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  Speaker 2: like a DJ.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, I'm not a DJ.
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  Speaker 2: I killed it and I started learning like that, and
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  Speaker 2: then once I started blending my boards and really excelling,
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  Speaker 2: people were like, Wow, you're really good at blending your boards.
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  Speaker 2: And I said, because I learned from a DJ, and
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  Speaker 2: shut up to that DJ, mister Swift, because he really
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  Speaker 2: helped me focus and and showed me how to be
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  Speaker 2: a better radio personality. So I did have a couple
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  Speaker 2: of mentors. Adrian Scott, who does all the concerts in
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  Speaker 2: Los Angeles. You see how the Wess won Crush Group.
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  Speaker 2: He was a radio personality program direct for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: He taught me a lot about my worst and also too.
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  Speaker 1: He talked you a lot about your worth, yes, like
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  Speaker 1: on a professional level or on.
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  Speaker 2: A professional level, or like a professional level, he was like,
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  Speaker 2: ask for this, always be about your money, get your money,
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  Speaker 2: know your wor sy like you know you know how
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  Speaker 2: to do this. Like he never cut me any slack,
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  Speaker 2: And a lot of times I thought he was hard
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  Speaker 2: on me, but he was hard on me because he
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  Speaker 2: saw the potential in me. So once I started accepting
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  Speaker 2: the constructive criticism and writing with it, I just became
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  Speaker 2: this beast and I and then I worked for Jennifer
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  Speaker 2: Lopez and that was something in itself, and I did
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  Speaker 2: Collective on newbou TV at the time, and my first
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  Speaker 2: check that Jlo gave me for interviewing. I thought it
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  Speaker 2: was a mistake and I remember I was like, oh shit.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: So I remember asked somebody else. I was like, hey,
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: is this about right? They got paid. They're like, yeah,
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: that's what you get paid. And I was like, oh
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: my god. And I remember her sister, Lindelopez was like
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: to say, this is what you're worst. I was in
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: a dressing room. It was huge. I had makeup person,
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: hair person, stylists, pa, a runner, and I'm like, all
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: this for me. You got to remember I grew up
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: in a trailer. I lived in a trailer in watts
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: We grew up in Compton. Look at what I'm making.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, I don't need all this. Like I
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: could do my own hair, I could do my own
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: make up, I do my own shop because it's what
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: we have to do. And they're like, no, no, no, no,
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: you're the talent. This is how you're supposed to be treated.
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: And once I accepted that, I think it was the
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: imposter syndrome. I don't belong here. You know, I grew
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: up like this. I don't belong here.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: And also I'm just backtracking.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: When you got the JLO gig, where you also kind
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: of like in that position of.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: H like I'm so thankful to be in the room
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: kind of.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I went okay, so like, oh, this is
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: Jalo soul, like so yeah, this is.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: Jayloh the most beautiful woman on the planet.
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: So and just a sidebar, is she as beautiful as
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: she is?
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: So I start really quick about Jennifer is that you
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: see all these little memes on Instagram and it's like
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: this like wrinkled looking face that is all like people
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: that do that editing because I went to her house.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: She invited us for barbecue. I was working for at
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: the time, and I remember sitting down and I was
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: just like, oh my god, and I was taking my
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: moment of man, this is where I grew up super poor,
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: my mom putting vasilaine on my shoes feet so I
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: can fit into shoes. And I'm sitting with like the
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: number one international artist in the world, right like Jennifer Lopez.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: She comes to me, she sits down and she's like,
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: are you good, CC, do you need anything? Did you
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: get yourself a plate to eat? Like, you know, because
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: it's a barbecue. And I remember looking at her like
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I'm looking at you, and I was like, oh my gosh,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: she's so perfect.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, money but money can buy.
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: Like it's just like I was like, I bet you
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: she's using the best lotions, the best serum. But she
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: was just so flawless.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: Really, but she was.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: She was hospitable, it sounds like very hospitable, but also too,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: she very healthy really.
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she doesn't hear alcohol, right, nope. And I was.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: There somebody was trying to smoke a cigarette on her
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: property and she made them walk across the street because
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: she said no smoking at her house. So yeah, so
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: she didn't play. But when I got hired there, I
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: mean listening, you see what I'm eating, right, So, so
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: what we grew up on. When I got hired there,
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: I was the chubbiest girl and all the girls were
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: like this skinny and freaking gorgeous, right, And I remember
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: going like on this day, trying to lose weight, trying
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: to lose weight, and I remember they pulled me aside
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: and lindelp was.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: Like, what are you doing?
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh girl, I'm losing weight. Thank
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: thank you for hiring me. I'm gonna be the best
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: for you. I'm making sure I'm good, and they're like, no, no, no,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: we hired you because the way you look like you're talented.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: But the way you look, there's more people that look
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: like you than like them. Yeah, you have to understand that.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: And I didn't understand it at the time. And then
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: I just learned to embrace the curves.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean. And you got a
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: nice body, by the way, thank you.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: So I just embraced the curves with a little bit
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: of meat on them because we do love to eat.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: It looks so good.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Girl.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Is the trick now? So now, this is the first
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: time I've ever seen someone do this in front of me.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: So the trick isn't to put a lot of oil.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: It's a little bit. Yeah, okay, it's a.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Little bit because you're gonna put the eggs in something
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: and you don't want it to be too oily, so
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: the tortillas will like basically soak it up and fry it. Okay,
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: So that's what I'm doing right now. So what I'm
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: doing is letting it fry a little bit more so
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: it can soak up more of that oil and then
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: when I put the eggs, we're fine. But I did
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: put a little bit of oil.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: I love. I know it's a good lesson because I'm
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: gonna go home and do this.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: It's so good. It's so inexpensive.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, and I literally like when I'm surprised you didn't
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: add cheese or something, no, because we.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Didn't have it, Like this is what we had, and
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: of course we had some topatio, but we can, you know.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: And then people like think, um, crazy because I'll even
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: put ketchup on this.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: Oh really I.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Like it.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: No, you know what, when Jara switches the cameras, he'll
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: probably bless us with some ketchup.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: I needed, and then we'll just add the egg over it.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: H wow, here that this is crazy. I'm learning so
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: many hacks.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: If you're a single mom or a mom at home,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: these are like the best moments because you could like
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: learn a quick hack.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's is home today.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's like a little crunch and then you get
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: your little meat in there protein and we did the
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: chicken so it's not pork, and then that's it. And
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: then when we did have cheese, we would do a
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: little bit of cheese and then most of the time
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: we would have like you know, green salasa or we
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: call it salata or we'll have like the thapathio and
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: we would just pour it on there and that was it.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: Sometimes though I was the only one of my family
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: that would put ketchup and people make fun of me,
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: but I loved it. But yeah, this was my broke
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: meal that got me through like every place I've been to,
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: Like I moved to Face to do radio. I did
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: radio out there for five years.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: And this was my go to mel because single at
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: the time, I had a studio apartment. I just moved
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: to this new city and I was struggling and this
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: was everything. And it's crazy because you know what the
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: trick is too or onion powder.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, Jared knew what he was doing because
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I promised you he laid out all those seasonings and
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: I was like, it wasn't even on your call shee no, yes,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: And right.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: Now, like even when I was looking, I was like,
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: oh my god, I forgot to tell him that onion powder. Nah.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: He he blessed you. So what happened with the Jalo situation.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: The network went out of business and then I just
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: continue to do radio because I was doing both at
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: the time, and I went.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: From how did you take that blown?
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: It was hard, but it wasn't. I wasn't the only
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: one affected. So we had We were at Neuveau TV
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: and that was Jalo's but at the time there was
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: a bid for Fuse TV, so she bought that.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: But she bought that.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Yes, so there was JAILO did ye okay?
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: Boss?
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Yes? And I don't know how much percentage.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: I just know there was.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: I just know we got talked to and we were like,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: so they're trying to figure it out because Neuvau was
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: in the West coast, Fuse was in the east coast,
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: so they were saying that she was going to somehow
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: try to take a She's gonna have to let go
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: half here half theresolidated, and so we didn't know what
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: was going on, but at the time they were just
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: they said they placed the show on hold but never
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: came back, So which was fine because radio was my
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: love and I loved it, and honestly, like I took
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: that as a lesson working with Jlo. She taught me
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: a lot and I was able to walk away with
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: what I figured with my work, and it showed me
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: how to negotiate and how to move through the industry.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: So it was a big blessing and then I got
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: a lot of gigs after that, you know what I mean.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: So I loved it and I loved working for her.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: She was awesome. She was never rude to me or anything.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Now people will say, well, she wasn't rude. She wasn't
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: like in Spanish we was saying like gon Gardino, like
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: you know, oh, I'm showing you everything, would love like
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: hey girl, and I hugguess not like that. It was
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: more like she was very like a polite she wanted
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: to make sure you were good. But it wasn't like
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I'm very loving and it wasn't that. But I could
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: only imagine she's probably been in the industry for so
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: long and been around so many people, she has to
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: be protective of herself. So I wasn't anything like that personal. Okay, yeah,
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: I don't take anything really personal. Yeah, but yeah, So
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: it was like but it was cool because I'm like,
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: oh my god, Like I literally I remember living in
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: a trailer in watts and we had to go to
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: the bathroom. It was just a shell and we had
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: to go to the bathroom because we're parked in front
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: of somebody's house. So my mom was like, you have
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: to go to the bathroom before they go to bed
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: because you're not going to be able to use the
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: restroom till they wake up.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: Oh, you mean you'd have to leave the house to
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: go to their house, leave.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: The trailer and going there because our trailer was in
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: front in the front yard. Wa.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: And so it was Office of Moor and Watts. Our
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: trailer was in front yard. And so my mom understood
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: they were doing us a favor by letting us live there.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: So she was very always conscious about not disturbing them.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: So you go to the bathroom before they go to bed,
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: and you don't get to use the restroom till they
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: wake up because our camper was just a shell. It
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: was not anything working in there. Wow. And so that's
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: what we had to do.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: And then to go like, look at your life fast forward.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: That's got to be an incredible journey. How did your
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: mom feel seeing all that growth?
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: Comfortable?
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Well, she wasn't. She didn't understand it. She like my
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: mom was had us when Chad me when she was sixteen,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: my sister when she was seventeen. You know, they're from Compton.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: She was just trying to survive. So I remember being
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: at the house and she was on the phone with
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: my aunt and she was like, oh, my poor baby,
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: because I'm in radio at this time. She's like, she's
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: trying to find herself. She don't, she don't trying to
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, and I'm listening. I tell my siter,
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I know who I am, but I'm doing
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: a different career path that my mom has ever imagined.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: She's all, welldre she's a hard work Yeah, she goes
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: from a different time.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Right, And all she wants is for me to have
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: health insurance, dental insurance, vision coverage, four one K plan.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: To her, that's successful. Yeah, And to me, I wanted
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: to really be who I was. So I just you know,
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: I had to accept it, and I had to. And
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: I remember my sister was there for me, and my
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: sister was like, she doesn't understand it, but it's okay, sister,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: keep going. My sister is like, has went back all
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: the time time, and I was like, okay. And then
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: once I started climbing and making real money and big
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: money and she started seeing the fruits of my labor
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: actually coming together, then it changed from oh, my poor
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: baby's trying to find herself too, Like, give me some
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: shirts I could pass out to everybody on the radio.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: They're gonna listen to you, baby, I've been telling everybody
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: she goes. She well, she used to because she's had
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: strokes now, but she used to go to the ninety
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: ninety cent store. She would shop all the time. There
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: would be like ma, and she would be like, oh.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: I went to the ninety nine cent store and I
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: told the manager that my daughter's on the radio and
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: he likes your radio stations, So give me a shirt
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: I could give to him, because this is how you
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: get your listeners.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I said, okay, Mom, go ahead, like go from one
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: to the other extreme.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Yes, wait, hold on, I gotta save some for Jared.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's save him a little spec And I'm Jared's
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: gonna love this.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: There we go, save you some, Jared.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: Can you bring us some kedget ye, Jared to do
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: that to you.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Let's try this. Oh my god, I like it.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: I'm definitely gonna like it.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: She loved it.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: I'll give you my word. I will be doing this
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: from my daughter at home.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: I'll give me my word.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Isn't it easy?
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: It's easy and it's so creative.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I didn't. I put pepper and I put onion.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Some people can put seasoning and salt, but I don't
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: put it a lot because I don't know what people like.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: But this is how I made mine, and literally, this
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: right here would get me through so many mornings and
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: people that even my friends, I'd be like, hey, do
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: you mind if I make this real quick? They loved it.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: Let me join you.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: If I was your homegirl and I slide through, everyone
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: always has that one home girl like a cooke, real good,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about. If I was your homegirl,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, girl, I'm coming through, can you make
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: that a tortilla egg?
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: And you'd be like, why don't have the green? I
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: got it, don't worry. I'll pick it up so good.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: And then.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: If you want to get a little fancy, sometimes I'll
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: do slice avocado on the side and then you eat
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: it like that. That's a little fancy.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: You know what I like about this is it's different
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: from your average but back crunch, right, it's the crunch.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: It's the crunch. It's a crunch. I don't care what
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: you put on this it's that crunch with.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: The cruntry really does it.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: So if your back because on the show, I'm really
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: supposed to be tasting, but everyone once we got a
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: dish is so good.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to take a step. Che can continue hearing
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: your story?
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: No, you're good. But yeah, so my mom I would
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: cook because my mom would have us cook, and these
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: are the dishes that she would have us make. And
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: from time to time, like like I said, we would
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: take my mom out and we'll be like, Mom, where
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: do you want to go? We'll take you to any restaurant.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Me and my sister loves spoiling her because she struggled
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: so much and we're very successful now, and but she doesn't.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: She's so simple, and I think that's beauty in her
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: that she still craves these dishes. She has me making
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: her every morning and a lot of yours will know this.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: She has me making her avenna and I was going
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: to have you make get that. So basically avena.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Is literally.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: Water, boil it, oat meal, put a little bit of
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: milk in there, brown sugar no I'm sorry, cinnamon and sugar,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: and we mix it and then we would get like
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: bean burritos, beans tortillas, roll it, and then you have
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: your avenna with your bean burrito. That's how me and
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: my family loved it. And then my niece is growing
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: up now they like it with toasts, so they will
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: make them the toast with the avenna.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: But it's like omeal, it's old milky.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's so good and.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: It's almost like, yeah, I'm glad I got this. Yeah,
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: this is so good. This is good.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I love that.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: I love it.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: So let's get closer up to where you are today.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Okay, what were some of the would you say, pivotal
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: moments between the j Lo gig and where you're at
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: today that kind of changed or re transitioned your trajectory
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: because I see j Loo bern j and having that
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: mentor really helped establish your worth in the industry and
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: kind of break you through the imposter syndrome. But now
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: that you established at worth, were there any points in
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: your career where you had to like almost backpedal or
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: renegotiate back to who you who, who you first envisioned
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: yourself for versus no one you're worth now.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: No, I think my ride has been pretty smooth. I've
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: had some bumps, but I think one pivotal moment was
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: when I was actually looking to apply at a certain
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: radio station, and I really believed that I was the
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: perfect person. I grew up on that music. I loved it.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: I knew all the artists they were playing. They were
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: looking for a Latina. I was like, oh, perfect, I
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: know everything. Yeah, I'm from here, born and raised. We're good.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: I went to audition and I did my air, submitted
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: my air chick, met with the UH manager and everything
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: went good. Then I got a call from the guy
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: who recommended me, and he said, you know, Ceci, I
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: don't know how to say this. I'm not Hispanic, but
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: you're like, you're awesome, but I you know, it's not me.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: But their vibe was that, and I just knew it.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: And I said, they're looking for a brown girl, but
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: I'm too brown, and he said exactly. I said, you're
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: looking for a brown girl that acts white maybe or
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: has more white friends. And he's like, not my words,
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: but you know, basically that's what they were looking for.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: So I didn't get the part. I wasn't upset, though.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: I was fine with it because I love being the
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: brown girl, you know, what I mean, that's from southern
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: California that's moved around because I know there's a lot
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: of little girls like me. So I may not be
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: accepted in that that specific job, however, but as.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: A radio personality, that's what they were looking for.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so weird. Sometimes in radio they'd be looking
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: for the weirdest shit. But that didn't bother me because,
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: like I said, there's a lot and I told him,
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: I said, I'm not offended. There's a lot of more
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: little girls that look like me, and I gotta stand
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: strong for them. I gotta stand strong for them. I
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: cannot fold. I gotta keep ten toes down. So if
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: that's if it wasn't for me, then that's okay, because
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: God didn't want me there. What for me is for me.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: So that kind of went away, and that, you know,
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: and from what I hear, it's not doing too well.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: But anyhow, now you know, and I'm at Kaye. Yeah,
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: I'm at KADA and KD is owned by Marillo Media,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: which owns Powerwin No. Six A, Los Calle ninety three
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: to nine. So when Marillo bought Power and we moved
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: into the same building, they already had ideas of putting
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: me in onto Power one O six to help pull
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: in the draw in the community. So that's what I did.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: I did my job. It was cool. However, I did
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: go back and I begged them to go and please
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: let me come back to KD because I loved being
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: at Power winto six and it was cool, like you know,
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: trying to get them read. My goal was to get
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Power to be reattached to the community, and I think
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I did that. But at the end of the day,
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I still had to think about my brand and what
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: I wanted, and what I wanted was to be at
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: nine three five KD. My family's from La born and raised.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: We grew up on fifteen eighty am, you know, so
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I wanted to be attached to that station. I wanted
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: the Tupas and the Snoop Doggs and the Ice Cues
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: and the Nwa and the Nases and the Queen Latifa's.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: That's what I wanted. I didn't really have too much
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: passion for, you know, to meet the new stuff at
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: the time.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I still like that.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: It's hard. I mean, there's some new artists that I
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: actually loved, but just there's nothing like that era, right, Yeah,
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: so I, you know, begged and begged and bagged, and
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: they finally were like, all right, we could bring it back,
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: you know. She she did what she did, and I
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: was like, just please, I love Cada, and they're like
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: all right. So I went back to kDa and I
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: did the morning show with Romeo dominated mornings, and then
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: pandemic hit and a lot of people were being furloughed,
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: and I remember a lot of radio personalities were getting
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: were able to work from home, but ours didn't allow us.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: So I was really nervous. I remember at that time
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: when pandemic hit, we didn't know anything about COVID. You
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: just knew, like you were so scared. You just knew
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: if somebody got it, the probably died. Right.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: That was like the beginnings.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: So I remember sitting in my bed in the bedroom
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: and they were like, you have to come in if
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: you want to still get a paycheck. And I was
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: crying and my fiance walked in and I was like,
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I love radio enough to die
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: for it. And I was like, and That's where I'm
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: at in my life right now. And I never thought
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: i'd be here, but the station promised us protocols and
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: everything would be clean. So I ended up doing it,
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: and then they stretched me out from mornings to mid days,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: so then I was on from five point thirty to
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: like two o'clock.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: In the afternoon.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Also, what time do you have to go on when
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: it's five thirty? Do you go in at like four three?
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: No?
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: I go in at five only because I show prep
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: everything the night before or right in the mornings before
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: I get them.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: I have my main stories, so you're up early. I
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: was always bedtime just random.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: When I was doing mornings, my bedtime was between eight
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: and nine, and then I'd wake up at three o'clock
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: in the morning because we still had to get camera read.
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I did it for what almost almost twenty years,
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: and then was doing mornings, and then when they stretched
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: me out to middays, then they started realizing, oh okay,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: people are coming back out now pandemic is kind of over. Hey,
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: workforst has changed now. Like before you'd have the nine
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: to fivers and we were set schedules. Now because of pandemic,
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: some people are working from home, some people working in
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: the afternoons, some people are working at nights. Like the
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: whole time has changed. So then they separated me in
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Rome and put me in the afternoons, and they're like,
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: we need your energy in the afternoons. It takes people
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: longer to get home from work than it does to
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: get to work. So I went in the afternoons dominated it.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: I'm killing it. I mean, we just had talks about
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: my show ratings. I'm like out the freaking gate with it,
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: which is awesome. But what I love is that I
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: have a team around me, and I stress to them
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: the importance of being outside. And so people are like,
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: what's your secret? You know, your ratings are so good,
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: and your ratings have been good since the pandemic.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: Like I've always hit what does never mean to be outside?
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: You got to be in the community. You got to
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: be doing these community events, you got to be at it,
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: you got to be at certain mixers because this industry,
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: if you're not outside, you can't get mad. They'll forget
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: about you if you're not at the top of their mind,
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: and you can't blame them. They're around the people that
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: they're seeing the mother and that that's what's coming to
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: their minds. So you have to be outside. And I
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: told people that I've said, you know, you can't run
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: a radio show from behind the console like I could
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: do this, but I also have to be outside too.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: I also have to be advocating for my show for KJA,
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: especially nowadays because we got so much competition, you know
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: what I mean. So that's been my secret.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: Is just but that's also what your mom was. Also.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: My mom was about that.
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: Yes she was oh yeah ninety nine said store less.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: And my mom was always about blessing other people, you know,
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: and that's what's her thing. We would be like, Mom,
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: we already have it, you're giving in and she's like,
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: they have it worse than us. They have it worse
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: than us. You need to stop thinking like that. Open
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: your heart. Like my mom has always been that way.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: So I think that's where I come from. And people
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: are like, Cecie, you're always in the community, like you're
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: just and to me it's so natural that I'm like,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: that's not a big thing. That's how you live your life,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: you know. It's being outside, is being with them, is
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: doing these fundraisers. I did fundraisers for the street vendors.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Remember during the Pendic, they were getting beat up and
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: getting assaulted. Ye I did a food drive in November
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: for them, and I found out in doing this food drive.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: Did you know that street vendors we couldn't get them
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: turkeys because they don't have refrigerators like you have a refrigerator.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: There's street vendors they have sometimes they only have an
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: ice chest. Wow. Yes, So we had to get them
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: dry goods, and we had to give them gift cards
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: because they don't have the refrigerator space. And I remember
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: there was a street vendor she was eighty two or
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: eighty three years old, by the name of Daisy. We
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: dropped off the food to her house. She didn't have
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: no couch. She had an office chair and a TV
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: and that was how she sat and watched her television.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: There was no couch. I mean, imagine being on your
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: feet all day and you don't get to rest. She
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: had one small refrigerator and like two three ice chests.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: We sat there, talked to her for a couple hours,
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: you know, blessed her. And then when we were getting
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: up to leave us already after nine point thirty, she
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: gets up too, and I tell the girl that's working
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: with me, where's she going? And she goes, where are
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: you going? She said, why didn't make enough today? So
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: I have to go back outside and sell. Imagine your
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: eighty three year old grandmother being out at nine thirty
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: at night in la and having to sell because she
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: didn't make any money. And when we tried to get
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: the directions, she didn't know her address, so we had
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: to write it down, put on refrigerator and be like,
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: this is your address when people ask you. So there's
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: so much more in the community that goes through that.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: And I remember sitting outside and I was bawling, and
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: I called my mom and I was like, it's not
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: fair that people live this way, Mom, it's not fair.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: And she's like, I know, baby, but you know what,
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: God has blessed you, and you're blessing her. And that's
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: the only way that I have learned to keep my
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: sanity and all this. I adopted an orphanage in Tijuana,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: and I did it because it was doable. It was
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: forty kids. So what we did was they made Christmas cars.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: I would give you one, give Jared one, and you
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: would be be in charge of that kid and they
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: would tell you, hi, calling my What I like is
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: I like Baretts, But what I need is underwear, that's
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: all I Hey, I love soccer. I would love to
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: have a soccer ball, but what I need is t shirts.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: So it's so crazy what their need was. And we
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: would go deliver it and I would just say, hey,
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: you just have to buy those two items, but decorate it,
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: wrap it up because we want to give them the
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: feeling of.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: A kid a wrap a gift.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: So this is what I do, and.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: This is how it's so important for me to still
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: be tapped in. I'm gonna be I'm trying to put
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: together a trunk or treat for kids for Halloween, but
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: we're doing it a step further. We're gonna have the
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: trunk or treat. Have you ever heard of that?
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: No?
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, So a lot of parents do because it's safe
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: trick or treating for the kids. Churches do it, schools
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: do it. So you get all these cars, they park
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: in a parking lot, they open up the trunk, they
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: decorate the trunk, and then the kids go around collect
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: a nice candy and it's just a safe way of
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: doing It's very controlled. But we're going to take it
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: a step further and we have a DJ and everything.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: We're gonna do a sensory hour that our before for
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: kids that have special needs, kids that are autistic, the
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: music's too loud for them, it's too much. So we're
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: doing something so we can include all children.
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: Wow, where are you gonna do that at? I'm trying
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: to do it at the Solfie Stadium.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: We're in talks right now.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: So okay, yeah, so Fa so fas tough stadium. Yeah
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: so yeah, So I'm lying, I'm trying.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you will be able to do it.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: It sounds really wonderful.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I just think that that's part of being outside,
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: that's part of being the community, and that is what's
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: carried me through twenty years of.
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: Radio and the where do you plan on going from here?
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: With the producing producing documentaries. I just did something. I
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: was in a documentary about Slim four hundred and you
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: rest in Piece a good friend of mine. And now
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: I'm working on something. I can't say the name of
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: the title, but it is gonna it's uh looking like
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: it'd be on Netflix or to b oh Nice has
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: to do a hip hop and then there's a huge
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: uh figure in La that does a lot of different events.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: If I said him a lot of people would know him.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: We're working and we've pitched him a documentary to do
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: on him. So what I want to do now that
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: I'm getting older is I still want to do radio, but.
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: I want to do more producing, more behind the scenes,
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: more developing. I want to tell stories now.
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: You know, well, you're a good story to thank you.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: I'm curious because we are so tight on time. I'm
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: super sad about it though, because I feel like we
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: didn't get to come. No, we're good, but I'm genuinely
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: curious of any iconic moments in your career that you'd like,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: were either shocked by or just we're like, you know what.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: I think an iconic moment in my life was when
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: I was interviewing Bone Legs and Harmony.
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: And I love them. I love them, and.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: Lazy Bone comes up to me. He's like, Cecie, come here,
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: I got something for you. And I was like, oh,
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: and I don't know why. I'm just like, oh, they
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: got me like either like a little and I don't drink,
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: but people will bring me bottles. I'm like, maybe they
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: got me a little bottle or something, right, No, they
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: gifted me a bone, a bone thugs and Harmony chain and.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: I will the real what yes, oh hey, And I'm
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: like they're so nice and I'm.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Like lazy me and he goes, well why not, You've
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: been supporting us for twenty years, and I was like,
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: well why not. Let's do this so I'll wear you
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: guys will see I'll be worried it from time time.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: And then when Snoop Dogg bought death Row records, they
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: came down and gifted me not one, not two, but
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: three death Row chains.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: Yes Snoop or bone Snoop no Snoops yes people.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: So they when Snoop bought death Row, because you know,
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: he bought death Row, so the guys that run it
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: came and he was like here you go. And I'm like, well,
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: my fiance also shoots for New Dog so he works
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: with him. So they but they came and gifted me
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: And I remember me Romeo.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: We're so excited and we're like, hey, are we the
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: only ones in radio that got this. It's just a
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: competitive of course, and they're like yeah, We're like yeah,
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: we're just excited. But those are moments where I'm like,
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: I just remember growing up listening to you guys I remember,
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: you know, and because I am Mexican from Compton, like
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: we grew up listening different music, Like I grew up
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: on Chaka Khan, the Ohio Players, Teddy Pendergrass, you know,
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: of course, the Ice Cubes, the Tupas, you know, the Whispers,
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: Tina Marie, like that was my whole playground of music.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: And so it was just so surreal that I'm just like,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: oh my god, Like these people I call them my friends, yeah,
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: and some good friends. And these are people I listened
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: to growing up, and.
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: I love that they value you back.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: I think there's nothing more special than a two way relationship,
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: like the fact that they're thinking of yeah, ladies.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: By the way, we had Lazy I love Lazy Bone.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: The I call it the third best ramen on our
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: No he did like all the ROMs we've had, he
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: had the.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: Was it the third or second best? I think he
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: was the second.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I know, you know, I think he may have been
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: the second best. He is the second best rama we've
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: ever had. And you want to know what he put
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: in his I think it was like a miracle whip
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: or mayonnaise in it.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: I was tripping.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I was like, bro, you gotta stop adding these ingreenent.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: It was like a spread type ramen.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: It was delicious though, but the only thing he messed
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: up with he put way too many peppers. But other
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: than that, it was by far the best ramen and
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: he had everything up in there. No watch that episode.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: People are still talking about how he was throwing down.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: Cool like what he does things? You know who also
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: can cook?
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: Warren g really, yes, he had Orang. We gotta get
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: him on here.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: He has his barbecue sauce and then he also he
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: he cooks like the ribs and.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: Really, what did you when you do for a long
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: time like slow cooker, I mean smoker smoker smoke.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Yess, yes, and they fall off the ribs so goodly.
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: And he has his own barbecue sauce. Yes.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Snip and Griffin's.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: Interviewed anything with jay I love a good jay Z story.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: You know what, I know you West Coast, but.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: I know I don't. I haven't done anything with jay Z,
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: but I love jay Z. But I interviewed Rick Rock
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: and Rick Rock is a producer and he told me
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: a dope jay Z story where he went to the
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: East Coast. Jay Z had heard his beat and was like,
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: I like this kid, like come over and he's like,
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, jay Z flow to the East Coast. But
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: then once he had his beats, jay Z was like,
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: do you have anything else? Yeah? I don't like that anymore. No,
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: I don't like it. No, do you have any And
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: he was like, oh shit, and he showed him all
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: his beats and then he saw a keyboard in the
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: corner and he said, can I just play something? And
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: he said yeah, and he was just playing and then
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: he said that's it. I like it, and he was
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: like but he was like at some point it was
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: like okay, I'm running out of OX and I'm like,
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: oh my god, Like how crazy is that?
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Imagine you get that far in the room and only
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: find out you get you know who?
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: One of the kids that well he's grown now. So
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: that's James Andre Jefferson Junior. I don't know if you
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: know James, but I remember Trevor Knall was tracking him
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: or whatever and he like flew him out and he
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: really wanted to.
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: James did to make the cup. But I was like, damn,
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: you got so close. Yeah, sometimes it's just what it is.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: But I think in this industry, the key is just consistency.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: Just keep going, just keep going, just keep going, Just
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: keep doing it. You know, even if you fail that
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: first time, keep doing it again, keep doing it again,
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: because it'll grow, it'll get bigger, and people will, you know,
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: catch on to it and really support you. So I
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: think for me, I just as long as I don't stop,
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: and I never look back at my highlights, I don't.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: Sometimes people got to ask me and I'll be like, oh, yeah,
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: the other day my assistant was like, oh, you interviewed
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: that person I said I did. I don't even remember, Like,
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: I don't really go back and look my highlight.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: You don't think that's good to do.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: I enjoy the moment really quick, but I have so
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: much more I want to do, so I will let
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: people tell me. You know what I mean, Oh you
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: did good, did all right? Perfect? You liked it?
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: Was it good to touch you? All right?
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: Bet? And then I go into the next because I
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: have more projects I have to do, so I never
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: look back at it. And then one thing I've never
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: done and I don't care. I stand by it. It
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: doesn't bother me. I have never ever watched myself on
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: television what never, Never, I don't. I will have my
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: friends watch me, and I.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: Will says, your sister ever comment on your stuff?
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, souse, sisters be they Oh my see that's
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: the thing that my sister and sister you were the
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: amazing You're so great. Yeah. Yes, I take constructive criticism
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: for my friends, and I'm like, look, if there's something
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: that you think I could do better, please tell me.
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: You're my friend. I value it and I will listen.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: But I can't watch myself because me I will beat
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: up myself. I will look at myself. I will tell
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: myself I could have worn this, I shouldn't have did
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: my hair like this. Why did I do my makeup
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: like that? I didn't blend very well? Oh my god,
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: I stuttered at this word. And I will depress myself.
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I was sitting here thinking before
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: you said that. I think one of the most beautiful
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: things about you is the embracing of you, Like, yeah,
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: embrace you. So to hear you say that is crazy
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: because on the outside, the way you handled your business,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: it seems like you embrace you. But to hear that
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: there's this side of you, that there there yourself down
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: is crazy because I'm sitting here like, I love how
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: you love who you are and what you represent. Like
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: I think that if I were to walk away from
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: this whole interview, I'd say I love the way she
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: loves who she is, and and.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: I do, and I think in those moments, I don't
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: want to take that away because like I'll be at
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: an event and I'll be so happy and I'll be
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: like we did good and I loved it and everything
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: came out good, and I'll see a video and the
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: video I'm leaning a little forward when I'm walking, so
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: it looks awkward and I'm like, why did I walk
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: like that?
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: So madam more like perist.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm such a perfectionist and so I I do
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: that to keep my own sanity and my sanity at
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: the house, so I don't watch anything. I will tell
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: I tell people that all the time. So I'm like,
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: what do you? And my friends always give me beautiful
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: constructive criticism, but they're like you're good. See they're good,
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: They're and they just say, I wish you would watch
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: yourself one time, and yeah, and I get I have anxiety,
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: like I'll get up. My mom has tried to make
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: me sit down and watch and she's like, baby, just
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: sit right here, just watch this real quick. And I'll
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: sit there and then I'll get up and I'll like
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: act like I'm making something because I need to be
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: out of the room because I am looking through a
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: different lens than my mother is. So those are that's
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: just my thing. But I'm a perfectionist. But at the
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: end of the day, I'm happy, like I I I
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I'm happy. But I think
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: that I'm also conscious of like other people around me,
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: and I don't know how I am perceived to them.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: So I always want to be like extra loving or
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: you know. I always wanted to take time and speak
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: to people just because there was a time I met
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: somebody and they were like, oh, cec I met you
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: a couple times. I don't think you like me. And
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: I said, I don't even know you, what are you
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: talking about? And they're like, well, I wanted to take
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: a picture with you at a concert and I went
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: like this and you pushed my hand off you, and
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god. I was probably in
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: a moment where I was going through something and I
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: am some random guy and you touched me. I went like,
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, and I'm like, this happened two years ago.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: You carried this with you for two years. You think
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: I don't even know you. What's your name? My name
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: is Cecil. Let me introduce myself properly. And that bothered
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: me because I felt bad and I was like, Wow,
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: somebody really walked around thinking that I didn't like them
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: when I was just in a moment and concert moments crazy.
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: I was in a moment and they must have touched
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: me and I didn't realize it and I pushed her hand.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: So I try to stay conscious.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: Look how approachable you are, though, because for the fact
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: that they can come up to you and say that
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: shows that probably they got they caught you when you
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: weren't a party at somebody's party, we were able to
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: talk to you about it. Yeah, I think you're a
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: real beautiful genuinely beautiful, like it's vibrating, very loud, one
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: of my favorite breakfast dishes on the show.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: Yes by far, I hope we could stay in touch.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, are you gonna make? You should make like a
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: like a recipe book with all this we are.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: That's why I said, put to put your address very yeah,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: because we want to send out an Eating while Broke cookbook.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: It's so funny because I've talked to publishers about doing
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: the cookbook, and when I send over the ingredients of
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: all the celebrities, I mean, these are successful people, and
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like sending over their their dishes spam and egg
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: and cheese, and they're like, who's gonna buy this cookbook?
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, bruh, you It's not just it's the stories
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: behind the cookbook. It's known that your favorite MC, your
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: favorite author, your favorite entrepreneur started at this point. And honestly,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: most of these dishes these people still eat because now
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: it's become an iconic thing. I used to tell people
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: all the time, you don't you don't want to rush
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: past your brokeness because I look back at my broke
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: stories and I laugh and they bring me so much joy. Right,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: And when I hear like the success stuff just doesn't
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: do it for me as much as like eating all,
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: you know, like just just my old stories. I still
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: joke about, like I used to search my car to
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: make a whole dollar to buy like a dollar make chicken.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: Like I would be like, I.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: Know, there's a quarter somewhere in this car, and I
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: just need one more quarter to buy this And I
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: joke about it now, but like those stories like make
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: me so happy and know like I came from this.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: But this dish is absolutely affordable, easy to make.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be my daughter's gonna be eating this tomorrow,
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: probably for a long time.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: And I love that being on this show, I'm learning
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: more and more on how to make tortillas work. Yes,
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: And then one last sidebar we are definitely over time
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: is how do the women DJs work with each other
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: behind the cameras. Are you guys supportive or you guys
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: hater ish? Like I'm genuinely curious both, because there's few,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: there's only there's a very few of them.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: There's very few. Mmm. Sorry, I know you got a mouthful.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: Some are supportive and some are haters, like you just
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: have your you have both. You know, everybody's different. But
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: I think that with the people that have been in
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: radio for a very long time, where we like to
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: say like we're the vets, we're kind of like the ogs.
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: We're more supportive because we have more of an understanding
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: how crazy, how hurtful, how judgmental, this industry can be
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: so we have I want to say the girls that
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: have been in it longer have a better understanding and
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: support each other. I think the girls that are coming up,
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: they don't have that understanding yet because they haven't experienced
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: certain things. So I could be a little caddy, you know.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: I think once they sty they learn though, and they
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: go through it, then they understand it. But I support myself.
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: I surround myself with a supportive network with girls that
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: have been in this business, whether they're promoters their concert
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: you know, concert throwers, or their producers, or their fashion
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: designers you know DJs. I support my I really have
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: a small circle, very tight, very loving, and very strong.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: And that's how I move through the business. A lot
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: of people know me, and a lot of people see
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: she's so sweet. But you know what keeps me sweet
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: on their radar? I don't. I don't. I don't out well,
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: outwear my welcome. That's one thing I don't do.
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: Outwhear you're welcome.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: You don't. I go to an event, I'm there. I
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: mingle everything. I'm out. I'm not involved in the what
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: we like to call it cheese man. I'm not involved
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: in gossip I'm not involved in no petty stuff.
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: I literally like, you do your time and your out
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: and I'm out.
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: I make a classic yes clastic and.
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: I'm known for that. People like, oh Ce, she's in
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: and out, and I think that's that's why a lot
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: of artists like me too. Like when I go to events,
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: Snoop will do stuff at the compound. We go to events,
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: we don't outwear, are welcome. We're not the person that's
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: sitting there and you're like, dang, they've been here for
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: every they need to go home. Now why they're here?
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: You know those people like that.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: You said you don't gossip because this is a very
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: click clacking industry, and you're right. If you stay too
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: long anywhere, gossip will be the conversation that comes up.
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: It does, it really does. So if you go in,
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: do your network, make sure you're seeing, take your pictures,
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: what's up, you know what I mean, be very happy.
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: Then we're out.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: We're good. I give myself a two hour window for everything.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: I'm like, we're gonna be there for maybe an hour
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: and a half, So it's like an hour and a
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: half to two hours, two hours. If I'm really enjoying
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: myself and then I'm out because I and I think
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: that's why I feel really in my heart, that's why
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: a lot of people have respect for me because I'm not.
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: I don't never get too close where we cross that
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: boundary or that line. I'm very respectful in that sense.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: But I also love being home. It's my fortress. It's
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: where I feel safe, you know. So I will go
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: to an event and my fiances in the entertainment industry too,
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: will go and then we're out and we're like, Okay,
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: we're home now, you know what I'm saying. We get
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: to chill a little bit. Yeah. So it's been a.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: Balance and hearing your whole story, you can actually see
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: where your mom's uh what do you call it foundation
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: was laid even if you hear how you're talking about.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: And I'll stay in your welcome like so you guys
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: living in the trailer and like, hey, be mindful of this,
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: very mindful everything that you had you carried, if you
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: actually trace it back, it's these little foundation seeds that.
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: She planted right right right. I just think that's incredible.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: And my toughness that I have, I do have a
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: tough exterior and you know it's for my father, you
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: know what I mean, Because my father was out there
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: doing what he.
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: Did, gang banging, and he's still around right.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: No, he passed away, and it was it was due
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: to his lifestyle, you know what I mean. He just
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: he succumbed to the lifestyle. He lied, you know, so,
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: but he passed away. But he taught me always to
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: be strong. And he'd be like, my daughters ain't no suckers,
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. My dad growing up, I
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: don't know, just like you're, my daughters are gonna be
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: in suckers. You girls are gonna know what's going on.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: When I was at a restaurant, my dad taught me
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: you never sit with your back towards the door. You
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: sit facing the door. You're a female, you know. I
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: remember when I had a Nissan Center. Back in the day,
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: we used to have something called Dayton's. I don't know
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: if you remember that, the rims. But I was like, Daddy,
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: I want Dayton's and he's like, no, you're a girl.
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: You don't want to draw attention. People are gonna try
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: to rob you. Like he always he was from the streets.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: He had me. I was very streets.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Did he also teach you about man like players manibulation
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: all that day?
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, And my.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: Dad spoke to me like I was a boy, so
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: with a lot of cussing. It was a lot of
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: ulgarty you know what I mean. You're gonna You're gonna
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: go this dude, This dude, don't give a funk about you. Like.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: But you got to understand, my daddy was from the streets.
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: He didn't have a father to be like. You know.
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: My mom used to have to remind him at you
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: got daughter, he's ain't your homeboys, and he'd be like, read,
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: I only know how to speak to them the way
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: I know how to talk. This is one, you know.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: So I learned to accept that too. So I do
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: have a rough exterior that people be like, oh, you're
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: a little rough, But I'm very loving. But I feel
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: like I have my mom's like heart, you know, and
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: I try to apply it in everything that I do.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: And I know that we're blessed. You know. My sister's successful.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: I'm successful. My mother's had seven strokes, and we take
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: turns taking care of her, and thank God, we have
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: the ability to provide for her and to make sure
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: she's good and she's taken care of and our thing
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: was we don't want anybody else taking care of mom.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: Mom didn't have nobody take care of us. She did
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: it by herself.
• 58:38
  Speaker 3: I love that. Yeah, I love that.
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: So where can everybody keep up with CC Valencia?
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: So you guys can follow.
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: Me on how to be like you? Just so I
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: don't know if you see, I'm like trying to add
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: my little radio cute.
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: I love it and I love your hair at I
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: AMCC Valencia on all social media platforms and you can
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: hear me every single day daily on KD from three
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: pm to seven pm. I do the afternoon Ride and
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: I'm the only girl doing afternoons in a hip hop format.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that.
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: I love everything about you than you, including your cooking. Okay,
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: but you're still in La right, You're not Valley.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: I'm Valley.
• 59:17
  Speaker 3: You are.
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: No.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: No, that's good because I'm Valley.
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I could be like, yeah, girl, what's your cooking today?
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah I'm Valley now.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, where as you said, I was happy, okay because.
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: Because my friends would be like, girl, you move to
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: the valley now, you brand new now, and.
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: I'm like No, just worked really hard.
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: You know what.
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: People always hate on Valley, but I will say this,
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: LA is very expensive. You get way more bang for
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: your bucket Valley.
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah you do.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: But no, I'm happy because you know I may hit
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: you every once in all. Listen cool, whatever you need
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: I got, He was banging. Shout out to y'all, thank
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: you for tuning in to another episode of Eating While
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: Broke He sol six one thous