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"You're too hot AND you're my 4th cousin" · The Casey Clarke Show

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  Speaker 1: What have you done for Susie Huthy?
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  Speaker 2: I leave her a note every single morning.
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  Speaker 3: That's very sweet.
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  Speaker 1: I used to do that.
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  Speaker 2: Then what happened?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she can read my handwriting.
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  Speaker 2: The She's like, why is he leaving prescriptions for me
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  Speaker 2: every morning? Does he think I'm really sick?
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  Speaker 4: Casey Clark's show this.
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  Speaker 5: The Casey Clerk Show.
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  Speaker 2: When you're at the grocery store kind of a social experiment,
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  Speaker 2: if you will. You're ready to check out, you're ready
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  Speaker 2: to leave, pay for everything, and you're walking up to
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  Speaker 2: the till and you notice that the self checkout and
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  Speaker 2: the cashier both lines. Nobody there home.
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  Speaker 3: Free either way?
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  Speaker 2: I'm free? Wow, Okay, which one do you pick?
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  Speaker 3: Where do I go? I would always go to the
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  Speaker 3: cashier unless I was buying something kind of embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, then them me, Oh what is she doing all
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  Speaker 2: that stuff? Holy moly? How just one person with all
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  Speaker 2: that callo, how that's just gonna go bad? That doesn't
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  Speaker 2: make any sense?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, Hey, economically, it's just out the windows.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, stinky as cheese I've ever seen.
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  Speaker 3: See, That's what I'm saying, Like, what is going on?
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  Speaker 3: I don't need a cashier commenting on all the blue
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  Speaker 3: cheese I'm buying. Right, So, if I'm buying something embarrassing,
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  Speaker 3: hands down, I will always go through self checkout. But
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  Speaker 3: if it's just a regular just a regular day, no
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  Speaker 3: cheese needed, I will always always go to a cashier
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  Speaker 3: because I do like that experience. I like a little
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  Speaker 3: bit of help and social interaction when I'm at the grocery.
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  Speaker 2: I understand you don't want to explain your exotic produce.
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly it, thank you. Yeah, there's so many nuts
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  Speaker 3: in this order?
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  Speaker 2: What is that even? You know, I'd rather not say
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  Speaker 2: I got it to get into. You can go now
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  Speaker 2: through the self.
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  Speaker 3: Checkout, exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Amazing complicated life you lead, Melissa. Which one do
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  Speaker 2: you choose self checkout?
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  Speaker 1: Uh? Huh?
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  Speaker 3: Why is that?
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  Speaker 6: Because I'm faster and better?
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  Speaker 7: Who?
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  Speaker 3: You just know what to do? Did you work at
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  Speaker 3: a grocery store at some point?
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  Speaker 4: No? No, I've just always been really good.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, faster, I'm better, I'm cuter.
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  Speaker 3: You know what's funny is I when I'm packing my
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  Speaker 3: own groceries, I think to myself, I'm like, I'm pretty
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  Speaker 3: good at this, and I feel I feel like not
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  Speaker 3: enough people notice me when I'm at the grocery store.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like a top notch begger my calling.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm the opposite. I want them to do all
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  Speaker 2: of the work.
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  Speaker 1: I want to get in.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I kind of like the pampering of it,
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  Speaker 2: of it all. It's fancy. Yeah, what what do you mean?
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  Speaker 8: No?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm like, okay, are you done? I'm like, I
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't have done it like that, but okay. I'm a
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  Speaker 2: riot when I go through those lines.
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  Speaker 4: Ie, they love it. Yeah, Casey Clark show.
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  Speaker 2: If you just popped in Social experiment time, You're at
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  Speaker 2: the grocery store, ready to go home, pay for everything,
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  Speaker 2: and you walk up in the self checkout line and
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  Speaker 2: the cashier line are both free.
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  Speaker 3: Oh man, so you have the choice dealer's choice.
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  Speaker 2: You're either going this way or that way. And I
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  Speaker 2: think it says a lot about somebody were and how
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  Speaker 2: you choose.
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  Speaker 3: So what would you do?
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  Speaker 5: You know?
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  Speaker 2: How many items do I have?
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  Speaker 3: Like not a crazy amount, let's say twelve? You have
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  Speaker 3: twelve items?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: That's right on the button too, right? It kind of
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  Speaker 2: is because it's at where do I go? I only
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  Speaker 2: have twelve? But I have twelve?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Right, I'm probably going to the cashier. I'm probably doing
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  Speaker 2: that way okay. And why is that because I'm lazy?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I get that.
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  Speaker 2: And I just and I'm gonna have one of those
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  Speaker 2: buckets right right, I just throw things down like I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I just rolled it over. Yeah okay, and they they'll
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  Speaker 2: they'll sort it out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that words professionals, absolutely right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, your self checkout.
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  Speaker 3: Unless no, I'm cashier, unless I'm buying something embarrassing, embarrassing.
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  Speaker 3: The other thing is, I think at certain stores you
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  Speaker 3: might have some type of a multi saved deal or
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  Speaker 3: a discount that my confidence and if that deal is
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  Speaker 3: going to go through, if I'm just doing self check out,
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  Speaker 3: yeah I got it. Whereas a cashier, oh you know
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  Speaker 3: how to do that? Please help me? So I will
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  Speaker 3: most likely go to a cash here, unless yes, I'm
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  Speaker 3: buying embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: Things, embarrassing things or eclectic things. What is eclectic at
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  Speaker 2: a grocery store?
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  Speaker 3: It just sounds better than embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: That's you're not wrong, I know. Yeah. Uh, Cindy, what
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  Speaker 2: about you? Which one do you choose?
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  Speaker 9: Check out?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Why just quicker?
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  Speaker 3: Okay? Even though you have to beg everything yourself. What
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  Speaker 3: if you have to weigh a bunch of tomatoes or
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  Speaker 3: something like that. Okay, Okay, so if you have produce,
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  Speaker 3: you're probably gonna go to the cashier.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. I'll go to the cashier. And then even if
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  Speaker 2: I have one item, and I'll make sure it's on
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  Speaker 2: just the start of the belt, right, and then they
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  Speaker 2: have to they have to bring it all the way
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  Speaker 2: to them, and I'll follow it like right, and I'll
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  Speaker 2: make sure I put the two sanctions on either side
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  Speaker 2: so they know it's just mine even though there's nobody
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  Speaker 2: behind me and or in front of me. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: I will keep eye contact with them at all times.
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  Speaker 3: You're just there for the experience.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they love it.
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  Speaker 7: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 2: So new research says that gen Zetter's and millennials that's
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  Speaker 2: SASH keeps separate accounts versus gen X and boomers that
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  Speaker 2: they have joint accounts.
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  Speaker 3: Now, you and your wife you have one single account.
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  Speaker 2: One single account. Now we have a holding account that
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  Speaker 2: we move money around, you know, being the big wheel
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  Speaker 2: that I am.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no kidding, right, but.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, everything is like boom right?
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  Speaker 3: Could you separate if you all of a sudden had
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  Speaker 3: to separate your bank accounts.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if we could.
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  Speaker 7: No.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, and I take like I take care of
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  Speaker 2: all the bills. Uh uh huh. And Susie Cusey is
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  Speaker 2: my wife. I Dora and I love it, my reason
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  Speaker 2: for breathing. She takes care of basically everything else, okay,
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  Speaker 2: like food, No, no, you know, costco purchases. But she
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  Speaker 2: came home last night with a box of patio lights
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  Speaker 2: that they're forty eight feet I'm like, are we turning
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  Speaker 2: the backyard into a landing path?
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  Speaker 3: That's what it sounds like.
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  Speaker 2: Like, so you want me to take them back? I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 2: I want to see what they look like.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, you might as well give him a try.
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  Speaker 2: Well, my neighbors're gonna love me. But so no, just
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  Speaker 2: one account. Just I can't do too it's too much?
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  Speaker 3: Is it too much?
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  Speaker 2: Just too much?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I get it. Is there a like a trust
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  Speaker 3: thing with uh? And I'm not necessarily saying with your situation, what.
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  Speaker 2: Are you trying to start?
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  Speaker 10: No?
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, not like nothing. I'm just wondering if
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  Speaker 3: that's if we look at it that way, like if
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  Speaker 3: you can do separate if you can't do it if
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  Speaker 3: you want to go together, does it Does it come
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  Speaker 3: down to trust or is it just like can be
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  Speaker 3: a convenience?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, because then there's some maintenance that has to happen
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  Speaker 2: on a monthly basis, right right, You're gonna have to
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  Speaker 2: have one account anyway, that money's going to get filtered
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  Speaker 2: out to pay fill in the blank.
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  Speaker 3: So so doesn't necessarily mean there's trouble in paradise. If
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  Speaker 3: you're like, no, I want to keep it separate.
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  Speaker 2: Well, to me, there is.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 3: I feel I feel that energy for me every time
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  Speaker 3: I talk about how Tyler and I have separate.
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  Speaker 2: You have your money, he has his money. Well whatever
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  Speaker 2: I mean, if if it works at works a judgment.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, if it works, it works, Kelsey. How
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  Speaker 2: many accounts do you all have over there?
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  Speaker 9: Do you have one joint account?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 9: We have two houses, so our money is kind of
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  Speaker 9: like sash as we've pooled it together.
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  Speaker 6: I have all my own accounts, I have all the
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  Speaker 6: kids accounts.
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  Speaker 9: I have access to his bank.
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  Speaker 3: Account, but all of our money from our.
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  Speaker 9: Paychecks and stuff go into our own accounts.
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  Speaker 2: Really, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I think that's similar.
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  Speaker 2: To Yeah, but at some point somebody's skimming off the top.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 9: Oh, I just take money out of his bank account.
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  Speaker 4: When I need.
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  Speaker 9: LS?
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  Speaker 2: Does he do the reverse?
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  Speaker 9: Oh gosh, it was in there.
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  Speaker 2: Good.
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  Speaker 3: I love that. You get it girl.
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  Speaker 9: Oh it's because he is a spender. I am a safer.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, yes, okay.
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  Speaker 9: I would have an absolute panic attack as the money
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  Speaker 9: just went down, down, down.
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  Speaker 2: And Kelsey has a little rainy day account we call it.
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  Speaker 2: I know you do. Get out of here, Chelsey. You
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  Speaker 2: are the best. We appreciate you.
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  Speaker 7: I appreciate you.
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  Speaker 3: Guys, have a great day.
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  Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to break this down for you. New research
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  Speaker 2: shows that Gen Z and millennials that's you, yes, are
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  Speaker 2: keeping separate bank accounts. That's compared to Gen X that's
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  Speaker 2: me and boomers. In fact, it's about thirty percent of use. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they're keeping separate accounts, versus like fifteen percent of mes
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  Speaker 2: that aren't that aren't Oh yeah, way smaller. Yeah. Now
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  Speaker 2: you and your partner Tyler have separate accounts.
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  Speaker 11: We do.
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  Speaker 3: We've always had separate accounts. We've briefly talked about joining
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  Speaker 3: all our money together, but I don't like that, eh,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just at this point we still
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  Speaker 3: do we have, you know, money conversations.
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  Speaker 2: Together, but you're still a couple.
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  Speaker 3: Right, We still hang out once in a while. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but you know, we have the same financial advisor, and
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  Speaker 3: we do pool our money in certain situations. The place
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  Speaker 3: that we live in now that we bought, we bought together. Like,
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  Speaker 3: there's ways that we have compiled our money. But at
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  Speaker 3: the end of the day, our accounts are very separate.
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  Speaker 2: I love how you emphasize.
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  Speaker 3: Very very separate.
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  Speaker 2: So are you responsible equally for the collective bills or
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  Speaker 2: do you take over some bills and vice versa or
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  Speaker 2: is it a ratio thing? No?
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  Speaker 3: We I like, I'm mainly the grocery girly. I buy
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  Speaker 3: all the groceries, and we split the mortgage and Tyler
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  Speaker 3: does more of the utilities. We've done we've figured out, like.
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  Speaker 2: I think he's getting the better deal. By the way,
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  Speaker 2: maybe you better check that out.
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  Speaker 3: No, And that's the thing, And we do sit down
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  Speaker 3: every once in a while to make sure that it's
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  Speaker 3: relatively even.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but at.
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  Speaker 3: The end of the day. It's it's all our money together.
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  Speaker 3: It's just kind of separate, separate together, but separately. You
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  Speaker 3: get it. No, that sounds super clean, very romantic.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh, I love it, Scott. Now you
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  Speaker 2: have separate accounts with your wife. Now, could you guys
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  Speaker 2: ever go back to one?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 2: How come?
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  Speaker 9: I was trust issues.
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  Speaker 2: From their first yea from his first wife. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think that is absolutely fair.
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  Speaker 2: And he calls his wife his current wife.
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  Speaker 3: So you just never know at any moment that change
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  Speaker 3: that could drop.
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  Speaker 9: Just you know, after after like I think sixteen years now.
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  Speaker 2: Oh really, well, you know, I don't know, Scott. I
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  Speaker 2: think you built a pretty good foundation. But listen, I've
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  Speaker 2: heard of I've heard of people getting divorced after twenty years.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the mask could still slip at some point.
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  Speaker 2: So I can understand your hesitation a little bit.
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  Speaker 9: I have a I have a go bag and a
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  Speaker 9: secret account somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I got you do that's the spirit? Hey till
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: death do us?
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  Speaker 10: Now?
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  Speaker 2: Whatever's to finish that? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you love that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: tell me how that works.
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  Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark show. Your pet have attitude?
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  Speaker 2: If so, how does this pet demonstrate their attitude. I'm
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  Speaker 2: thinking it's a bad attitude.
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  Speaker 3: I think both my cats have quite the twode on them.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta say though, my girl cat, especially Ja, she
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  Speaker 3: just will come up to me whenever, and she doesn't
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  Speaker 3: give me like the sweet meals. Like when she wants something,
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  Speaker 3: it's not like a cute little meal, it's just show
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  Speaker 3: she announces her present, she'll just be like, eh, like
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  Speaker 3: she just like oh. And that's the other thing is
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  Speaker 3: I have smooshed face cats, and Millie in particular has
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  Speaker 3: really tiny nostril. Yeah, so she oinks like she's a pig.
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  Speaker 7: Like.
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  Speaker 3: There will be times where we will be just gushing
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  Speaker 3: over how cute Cubby is our boy cat, not that
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  Speaker 3: she isn't cute, but he just happens to be in
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  Speaker 3: the room already and we're like, oh, Cobby, you're so cute,
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  Speaker 3: we love you so much. And she'll walk in. She'll
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  Speaker 3: be like, oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: Here comes here comes the other one.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, you're cute.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 3: She just commands a room in a very obnoxious, pink
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  Speaker 3: like way.
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  Speaker 2: Only, Jill, you have male cat, does he have attitude?
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  Speaker 9: He does have attitude. He likes to go outside, but
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  Speaker 9: we don't like to let him outside.
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  Speaker 3: So what does he do?
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  Speaker 10: Uh?
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  Speaker 9: He stomps around in the house.
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  Speaker 3: A cat stomping around? That is so cute?
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  Speaker 2: Is it? Jill's like, is it really?
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  Speaker 5: Really?
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  Speaker 2: Is it cute?
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  Speaker 3: Is he quite a vocal kitty when he wants something?
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  Speaker 3: H Yeah, I love that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you though? Do you love it? Do you like?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: The Casey Clerk Show.
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  Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about attitudes and your pets and things that
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  Speaker 2: they do to show you attitude. Our pet, hang on
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  Speaker 2: our dog, because we have more than just.
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  Speaker 3: Your four pets.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, Yeah, yeah, good one. She will go
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  Speaker 2: upstairs and one of her many beds. This dog, please please,
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  Speaker 2: This dog has so many beds.
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  Speaker 3: She has one in the studio.
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  Speaker 2: She's here. She'll go upstairs to her You're my main bed,
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  Speaker 2: and she will. It's so dumb. She will go to
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  Speaker 2: her main bed and she will she will rustle it up. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and she'll mess it up.
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  Speaker 3: And she's doing that because she's mad something.
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  Speaker 2: She probably had a bad dream. I was in it mad.
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  Speaker 2: She's I'm gonna mess things up.
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  Speaker 3: Does opal ever do I find a lot of cats
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  Speaker 3: and dogs do this if they're a little bit upset
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  Speaker 3: at you, like go to a wall and just stare
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  Speaker 3: at stare at it yet yeah, like they have a
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  Speaker 3: dunce cap on. They just sitting there like I.
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  Speaker 2: Just I've had too much of you right now.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And it's almost like they think if they can't
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  Speaker 3: see you can't see them. So it's like, well, I'm
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  Speaker 3: just I've just disappeared. It's fine.
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  Speaker 2: When I'm making her her dinner, I look at her,
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  Speaker 2: She'll look away, and then she'll look back and I'll
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  Speaker 2: look at her. She'll look away. She's so so weird.
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  Speaker 3: Eh, I'm trying to be really inconspicuous.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care.
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  Speaker 3: I don't whatever you want to do. You want the
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: food now?
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  Speaker 2: Ur later, I'm watching. I'm not watching, Susan. What do
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  Speaker 2: you have as a pet?
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  Speaker 9: I have a cat, and I'm telling you he thinks
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  Speaker 9: he owns house.
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  Speaker 3: The whole darn thing, Hey, the whole darn thing.
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  Speaker 6: And he doesn't care if you tell.
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  Speaker 4: If I tell, he jumps up on the table.
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  Speaker 9: If I tell him no, he looks at me and
• 15:58
  Speaker 9: just sits his behind down.
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  Speaker 3: That is my favorite thing about cats is they will
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  Speaker 3: maintain eye contact when you tell them not to do
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  Speaker 3: something like, hey, don't knock that glass off the cant.
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  Speaker 2: And then they do it anyway.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah right, I love that about cats, do you really? Oh,
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: they're their own people that.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: Would drive me nuts, Like there can only be one
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: person in the house that, when asked to do something,
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: stares you down and does the complete opposite. Okay, right,
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: I don't need more than that Casey Clerk's show.
• 16:33
  Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: Good to have you along.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: Listen.
• 16:38
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• 16:39
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• 16:42
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• 16:45
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• 16:48
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• 16:53
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• 16:55
  Speaker 2: This or that we're asking you and you got it.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: You can't alter this, Okay, you gotta you gotta honest it. Uh,
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: answer it honestly. Which is planting trees up north, dealing
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: with the bugs in the nature and the elements in
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: the bla or you got to clean out hockey bags
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: at a local arena inside the locker room and the
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: doors closed.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can't wear like a has mat.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: No you're there, Oh, no raw dog in it.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think at the end of the day,
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: just because I have such issues with bugs, mainly spiders. Hey,
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: if a lady bug lands on me, that's good luck,
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: that's cute. I don't mind. But I would just be
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: so terrified at the thought of a spider crawling on
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: me at some point during planting trees that I think
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: I gotta go with the hockey equipment.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Don what about you?
• 17:44
  Speaker 6: One hundred million percent planting trees? My daughter high page.
• 17:49
  Speaker 6: My daughter goes through planting in the summertime.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: She's a beautiful little hippie.
• 17:53
  Speaker 6: But my son plays hockey and I want no part
• 17:56
  Speaker 6: of that.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: Oh, you are the perfect person for this.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, this is right up my house.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: Oh you just want to be a beautiful little hippie.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: I love that.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, Sunflower, starlight pray, Sandy Beach, are you are you okay?
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: Over there?
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: You and your a hemp skirt, your bed that you
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: turned into a hammock.
• 18:31
  Speaker 6: Exactly, yeah, exactly.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: Anybody want to do a pickup hackey sack game Casey
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Clark show, we if you just jumped in or doing
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: another round of this or that, and again, you can't
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: alter this. I know a lot of people like we can.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: I only do it for like five minutes. No, it's
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: this or that. Either plant trees up north and deal
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: with the bugs in the nature and the whole, or
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: clean out hockey bags or the local arena inside inside
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: the locker room which is always designed to have no ventilation.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, they're always so small. Locker rooms at
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: hockey arenas are tiny and dank is a great word
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: for it. And I feel like the lights don't ever
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: totally work right flicker dull flicker is always going off,
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: and the toilet never works.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Y exactly, Come on, I just changed with the refs. No,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: you can't.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: Go.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I tell you. When I first started playing hockey, I
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: didn't and I didn't start until I was like thirty three.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: It was a safe hockey league guy back in Markham.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: And I can I put my hockey equipment on wrong,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: because there's a way you.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Do it right, of course there is. Yeah, I always
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: did it wrong backwards inside out.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Well I would uh yeah, yeah, no, And I put
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: things on wrong like anyways, it's it's a big mess,
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: and it just shows you how well of a hockey
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: player I was. I was fighting even before I got
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: in the ice. Yeah, Scott, this or that, plant trees
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: up north, deal with the bugs of nature, or clean
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: out hockey bags inside uh an arena inside the locker room.
• 20:16
  Speaker 9: Well, I've done both. Planted trees as a youngster, and
• 20:23
  Speaker 9: yeah I would, I would. I would go with a
• 20:26
  Speaker 9: I would go cleaning hockey bad. Yeah, come you're because
• 20:29
  Speaker 9: you're at home. You're at your bed.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, at the end of the day.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you may stink a lot, but to go home.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to shower quite a bed, I would think.
• 20:40
  Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, yeah I would. Yeah.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Does that smell that a rouma of a hockey locker
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: room just has? It's just it hits you different.
• 20:51
  Speaker 9: Hey, yeah it does. Yeah, you were.
• 20:56
  Speaker 7: Listening to the Casey Clark Show.
• 21:00
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• 21:02
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• 21:05
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• 21:09
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• 21:12
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• 21:14
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• 21:19
  Speaker 3: the Casey Clark Show on Apple and Spotify.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: Our friend Trina contacted as she listens to the show.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: She plays Rex Soccer all women's team, and she's noticing
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: other women on the team are doing things with their partners.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like the husbands are coming along their partners. Sometimes
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: the kids are coming along and watching and supporting mom
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: and wife play soccer. Right, And Trina brought it up
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: to her husband. She was like, Hey, why don't you
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: just come hang out to some of my games too?
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: And even if you're super bored, I mean there's other
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: husbands that you can talk to. Four Yeah, that's the
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: way to sell Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. Why don't you
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: just come out and support me? And I guess he
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: flat out told her, I don't know, I'm just I'm
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: not interested And why would I want to have this
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: like forced like hang out with all the other husbands?
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Right, Wow, listen. I don't know what her husband's name is,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: but you know you got to go on with that
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: program because that's going to rear it's ugly head in
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: different areas, not even your red soccer. Your wife's Wrex
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: soccer Tea. Yeah, yeah, right, so you got it.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: I know I've had this conversation with Tyler a couple
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: of times before. No matter what I'm doing where sometimes
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: I'll try and sell it and be like, oh, well,
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: so and So's boyfriend will be there, So and So's
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: husband will be there, And he's like, why is that? Like, right, okay,
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: I don't know them, so why is that better any social?
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: Hey? Sometimes I don't think that's what it is? What
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: is it?
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: Because I think if the shoe is on the other foot,
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: if he said the same thing to me, like, oh,
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: so and So's girlfriend's going to be there, you can
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: talk to her, I'd be like, but I don't know
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: so any social hey, No, I you know, time in
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: a place.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I guess I can feel that too.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: But I definitely understand where Trina's coming from, Like, it'd
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: be kind of nice to have your boo there every
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: once in a while.
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: It's cheering on.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Maybe you would play.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Better, hey, a little little support?
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no kidding, Okay.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: Sandy, Should Trina make this a big deal or just
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: move on and.
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: You let it go.
• 23:16
  Speaker 9: Your own thing?
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: I think that is a really good point, Like enjoy
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: the the fact that you've got your own thing going on, right, and.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Listen, life is not a scoreboard. Ladies, hit it, hit it, boyoloar.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Even even though there is one probably on the field,
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: don't use it to keep track of your relationship.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, look at that.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: Huh is that great? Or what?
• 23:48
  Speaker 9: That's great?
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: I got to write that one. Please write all this
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: on a T shirt. Okay, and people will be wowed
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: by your knowledge.
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clarks Show.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: If she just popped in, we're helping out her friend Trino,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: who listens to the show. She plays women's reck soccer,
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: and it seems that all of her other teammates their
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: partners came out to support, but hers not so much.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And she asked her husband, Hey, why don't you
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: come and watch me play every once in a while,
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: and he was just like, eh, I'm not really interested
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: in watching women's soccer. And then she tried to sweeten
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: the deal by being like, hey, there's other husbands. There's
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: dudes there that.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: You she's just not women talk to.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you can hang out with the guys,
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: maybe crack a beer or whatever. And he was still like, Eh,
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: it's not my thing, and she's upset about it. But
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: she's wondering if that's warranted or if she should just
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: let it go.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I think he has to show up.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: He has at least once.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: That's kind of what I'm thinking, Like, what's the harm
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: in going, especially if you have nothing else going on,
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: If you're just sitting at home doing nothing.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Well, listen, there's always something going on.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: Sure, of course you can make time, though, yeah, to
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: go and support your wife. And if you hate it,
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: then never go again. Sure, but maybe you'll go and
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: she'll score like a gajillion goals and you'll be her
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: good luck charm. That's amazing.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: And then what happens later you can say, well, I'm
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: now your good luck charm.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: And now he has to come to every game. Oh
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: I see?
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: Oh no, oh yeah, so went horribly, horribly wrong. I
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: should never listen to.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Myself, but it's nice to support.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: Sure, you know, at the end of the day, you're
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: absolutely right, Susan. Should she just let this go or
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: should she make a deal of it?
• 25:38
  Speaker 6: I myself would let it go.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, not a big deal to you. Maybe you
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: don't want an audience anyway.
• 25:46
  Speaker 6: Right, and if he's not interested, he's not interested. It's
• 25:48
  Speaker 6: not a big deal.
• 25:49
  Speaker 9: Yeah, maybe he does stuff that I'm not interested in.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: What is something that you do that he doesn't want
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: to do?
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Then?
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: Oh? Golf golf?
• 26:00
  Speaker 9: No, thank you?
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Oh I see that's something he does that you don't
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: want to do.
• 26:03
  Speaker 6: Oh you're sure, right?
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, but I want to see. I want to
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: know the reverse. I want to know it's something you
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: do that he doesn't want to do.
• 26:10
  Speaker 6: Karaoke?
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, oh my.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Gosh, that's so cut.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, so he refuses to go karaokeing with you?
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: Oh absolutely, wow.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's fair.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: That's such a cute date night idea though, to do
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: a little karaoke, golf and karaoke, that sounds perfect.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: What if you did that, you did a golf karaoke night.
• 26:31
  Speaker 6: Well, you know what, I could probably handle that once
• 26:33
  Speaker 6: in a while.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I get that. I got that.
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 26:41
  Speaker 6: Good to have you here.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, So this actually happened to grad student eighteen year
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: old Taivone Campbell. This is why she didn't get her diploma.
• 26:50
  Speaker 12: I did a pretty precise lege. Did my splint got
• 26:53
  Speaker 12: back up and I tried to reach my for my
• 26:56
  Speaker 12: diploma and I didn't get it, and I was confused
• 26:58
  Speaker 12: at first, I thought they.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Mixed up my name.
• 27:00
  Speaker 12: He did with see rules, but the rules had nothing
• 27:03
  Speaker 12: to do with what you can and can I do
• 27:05
  Speaker 12: while you walk across the stage.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: So you should walking across the stage. She does the splits.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: School officials didn't like that, then didn't give her her diploma.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: She had to walk off, and since then they're looking
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: for an apology from her. Oh way before she gets
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: her diploma, She's like, well, there was no written rules
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: of conduct on whether or not you could do this,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: And I don't know. I'm sure when you went to
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: your graduating ceremony and you're going across the stage, there's
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: some clown person, you know, they do something.
• 27:41
  Speaker 10: Well.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: I remember having a lot of conversations with my friends
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: about what are you going to do? Yeah, running across
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: that stage. Splits never came up. It's usually just oh,
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: I'm going to do this funny pose, or I'm going
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: to flex or something something very small. But to me,
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: what is the difference between doing the splits and quickly
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: like flexing your muscles or something like? It's just striking
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: a pose. I really like, what is the issue? I
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: don't get it.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: During the grad ceremony that I was at earlier last
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: week with our daughter, one guy fell off the stage.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: But no, but it turned out that it was the gag, right.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: He told his buddies this is what he was going
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: to do.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: But you fell for it.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Everybody did good. There was this large gasp like and
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: he just got up and just walking. But he didn't
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: fall off the stage like this way you failed down
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: the stairs accident stumbled, rolled And I'm like, and then
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: later we found out that he planned that.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: Good for him.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: But that's what yeah, yeah, right is the last day?
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: Come on, everybody's right? Just lighting up? Adam? What do
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: you think about that? Who's right or wrong here in
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: your opinion?
• 28:49
  Speaker 6: Oh? Her?
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Come on?
• 28:50
  Speaker 9: If they didn't like unless it's like explicitly laid out, hey,
• 28:53
  Speaker 9: you can't do the splitsle across from the stage. I
• 28:55
  Speaker 9: think she's in the right, honestly, like be yourself in
• 28:58
  Speaker 9: that situation, right, Like she's into that sort of stuff.
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: Wants to, you know, show off her gym fistic skills
• 29:05
  Speaker 6: or whatever. You know, great, go.
• 29:06
  Speaker 8: Ahead and do that.
• 29:07
  Speaker 6: I think that's crazy. You know, schools and institutions like this,
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: they need to stop being so uptight.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: Ah and listen. Technically, it's like her, you know, essentially
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: her last day at school.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: So she's just striking a pose. To me, it's nothing
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: different than like shooting the thumbs up or the finger guns.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Right, yeah, come on, well, I mean she's taking it
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: to a next level. I mean that's I mean, but
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: mad respect for that.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Maybe everyone's jealous that they can't do splits.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it could be that too, Yeah, could be could
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: be Adam, you're a duo and a half my friend.
• 29:40
  Speaker 9: Thank you so much.
• 29:40
  Speaker 6: You guys, have a good days.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: The Casey Clerk Show.
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: Is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: Maybe just popped in a high school? Has uh withheld
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: the diploma from grad student Taiwon Campbell. Here's Tython telling
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: what happened.
• 29:59
  Speaker 12: I did a pretty princess Lee didn't my splint got
• 30:02
  Speaker 12: back up, and I tried to reach my for my
• 30:05
  Speaker 12: diploma and I didn't get it, And I was confused
• 30:08
  Speaker 12: at first, I thought they mixed up my name. He
• 30:10
  Speaker 12: did receive rules, but the rules had nothing to do
• 30:13
  Speaker 12: with what you can and can I do while you
• 30:15
  Speaker 12: walk across the state.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I feel because she did the splits.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: Now she's being punished because the school admin didn't like it.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: And what did the school say about that?
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: They basically said, hey, listen, you made this about you
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: and not about the grad class. This is what it
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: upset everybody.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: Of course, it's about her, Like in that moment you
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: were getting your diploma, that's about you.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: There's somebody and some kids like, I'm going to wear
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Bermuda shorts underneath while you went naked.
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: I did. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, all my friends we
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: went commando under our can.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: It was the thing, but it was wild.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: By the way. I didn't like flash or anything. While
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: I know it wasn't part of it.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: No you no, it wasn't. No, but you all went naked, correct, easy?
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: See, we all do things. Yeah, I still got my diploma.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: I think it's you.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Know, wearing flip flops or you know, a wacky bikini.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: Stuff like that.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: We all do. And you know, when we have that
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: opportunity to grab our diploma and look at the camera,
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: we all do a pose. So what difference doesn't make
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: that she did the splits, yeah, or go naked exactly
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: same Zy's shames.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Hey Scott, what did you do.
• 31:26
  Speaker 9: When I graduated? I tap dance across the floor.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: Oh did you you were one of those guys.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: Did you wear tap dancing shoes?
• 31:32
  Speaker 9: I had? Yes, Yes, Kitchen, I have tap dance. I
• 31:37
  Speaker 9: took tap dance for a number of years and I decided, Hey,
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: practice practice.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: And yeah, I'm going out with a bang. It all
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: comes down to this, and I bet you to this
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: day people remember that.
• 31:50
  Speaker 9: I'm sure they do. Yeah, I got I got someone
• 31:52
  Speaker 9: a standing ovation.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, someone those that were physically possible.
• 32:00
  Speaker 9: Something like that.
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Casey Clark's show, this is the Casey Clark Show.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, that's the goodt This is where we celebrate
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: amazing things people are doing. Even after twenty two years,
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: we call this the good stuff. A retired firefighter has
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: just proven that some emergency calls stay with you for life.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Let's go all the way back to February fifteenth, two
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: thousand and four. Then firefighter Alan Kent responded to a
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: medical call. When he got there, he heard a mum
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: upstairs screaming, I think I'm having a baby.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: Oh No.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Minutes later, beautiful little Chloe Huddle was born. Alan was
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: the first person.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: To hold her.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: This story doesn't end there, though. Mom Stacy later brought
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: baby Chloe to the fire station to meet everybody, and
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: the family made a pack. Chloe would keep celebrating birthdays
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: at the fire station.
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: Oh my God.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: Every year she'd go there and Alan would show up
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: to all of her big life moments. Now, twenty two
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: years later, Alan traveled over thirteen hundred kilometers to watch
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: Chloe graduate from university with a degree in educational study. Now,
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: Chloe says, Alan feels like family, and then their bond
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: reminds her that there's so many great people in this world.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: I love talking.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: About it because it just shows like there is so
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: much hope in the world and goodness in the world,
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: even in a heartbroken world.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah. For Alan, who now is retired, he says, Man, this,
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: this family, and this opportunity to be close to them,
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: just doesn't happen all the time our line of.
• 33:56
  Speaker 11: Work, you know, we don't usually have all time. Good
• 33:59
  Speaker 11: things happen, and sometimes very bad things happen in our careers,
• 34:03
  Speaker 11: especially in the fire service. They have something as great
• 34:07
  Speaker 11: as this was, and then to continue out throughout the
• 34:10
  Speaker 11: years to watch her grow, that's been that connection, that
• 34:14
  Speaker 11: bond throughout the end.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Man, that's the good, right.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: It doesn't happen every single day.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And to show up for twenty two years is incredible.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: And for Alan, he's not done yet. Oh okay, there's
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: another big moment coming up. Chloe's getting married and Alan
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: plans to be there for that milestone as well. And
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: then maybe she starts a family and he'll be there for.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: That and lots more birthdays to come in and then yes,
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: and then he's going to be that uncle.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Oh right, he's going to be that uncle the.
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: Casey Clark Show.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: If a third, fourth, or fifth cousin that you've never
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: met contacts you to say, hey, can I day with
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: you because they're here for the World Cup? Yeah? Would
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: you allow them to do that?
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: You've never met before?
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: I never met them, and it's legit. Yeah, Yeah, it's
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: checked out. They are a third, fourth, and fifth cousin. Ah. Now,
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: the theory that I have, and I think this is
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: rock solid, is that if I can marry you, chances
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: are you're not family.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: I Actually, as weird as that rule is, it does
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: draw a line in the sense.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Oh if we can hook up, and it's socially okay
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: and legally okay, which.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Is kind of at the third cousin mark.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: It is at the third cousin mark, then forget it. No,
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: absolutely not. You're no longer family, okay.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Is there any part of you that even though yeah,
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: you haven't met them before, it might be weird having
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: them in your home, having that connection with your homeland
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: or whatever and really talking about, Hey, you knew Grandpa
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: so and so, and you come from this country and
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: that could be kind of.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Cool, but it is too risky. I could probably get
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: that on a Wikipedia or something.
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, Right, you can find that out ancestry. Right, you
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: don't need your fourth cousins. It's with you that you
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: could possibly marry.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Oh there's there's that draws the line. Hey, that's what
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: it is, right, it's not bad. It's not bad, pretty solid, genoy.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: What do you think I'm gonna go with? No?
• 36:30
  Speaker 6: Because I really liked your logic.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: But he could marry them there last, Okay.
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: So you draw the line at yeah, third cousin, thank you,
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: because it's pretty practical, don't you think?
• 36:46
  Speaker 9: I think so?
• 36:47
  Speaker 10: I think that makes the most sense.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: And what if they're really hot, like I you know
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: the loads of the jungle now apply, right.
• 36:54
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it could get tricky exactly.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Sorry, you can't be here, you're too hot, and you're
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: my four cousins, so legally we could hook up.
• 37:07
  Speaker 7: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: Good to have you here, with the World Cup just
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: around the corner. If you got contacted by a third, fourth,
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: or fifth cousin that you never met that was said, hey,
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I'm coming to Canada. We should stay together. Would you
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: let them?
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: I think I would. I do think I would.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Now it's all legit, right, it's all legit.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, as long as I knew for sure that they
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: were family, Yeah, yeah, I think I would. They're they're busy,
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: they're doing other things. Anyway, I think it would be
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: cool to chat and see where our family connections lie.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: I'd need a bigger place.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Though, that's yeah.
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: Sure, it's more of an issue of space, not so
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: much of If I.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: Lived in a castle, sure I would do it right right,
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: But if they're in my space, yeah, that's something else.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and really, when you live in a
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: small space like I do, I think you have to
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: really know the people that are staying over too. Yeah,
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: so yeah, maybe I'm rethinking this a little bit.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Sue and I did that when we went on our
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: first trip over to the UK, she had family and
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: again I think it was a second or third cousin.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: We stayed in Bath before we went over to Cardiff. Okay,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: that's the place that she plugged up the toilet and
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: we didn't tell them. We just ripped out of town.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: No way. That is what mortifying.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: No, I know it was. It was we were a wreck.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: We were oh no.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: And that's the risk you take when you take in
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: family that you don't know. Vers what I'm saying, they
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: could plug your toilet, This is what I'm saying.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: There's all sorts of things they could happen.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: What a nightmare.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: There's all sorts of things, Dave, all sorts of things.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: What would you do?
• 38:52
  Speaker 10: Uh?
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 38:53
  Speaker 6: Just because like when Facebook was created, someone contacted my
• 38:57
  Speaker 6: parents from Italy and she actually came down the Canada
• 39:00
  Speaker 6: to visit us.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: I've never met them.
• 39:03
  Speaker 6: They spent I think two weeks with my parents.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: Really that is so wild. So was there any sort
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: of proof that was done to make sure that she
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: was in fact a family member?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: You know what?
• 39:16
  Speaker 6: Just the last name, and I know my dad did
• 39:18
  Speaker 6: a little bit of research and like found relative.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so you did some due diligence, checked her,
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: checked them out a little bit. Yes, yeah, okay, that's good. Yeah,
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: you didn't really nearly let people come in.
• 39:29
  Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so I would let someone in my house, yes.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, fair enough.
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: Another round, a quick draw for Casey's cash up for grabs. Renee,
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: we got twenty five dollars. Okay, that's just so you know,
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: just so you know, that's twenty five dollars. It's not
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: coming from some corporate account, okay, that's been traded over
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: and over and over again. It's on an L and
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: P spreadsheet. This is twenty five dollars, Renee, coming out
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: of my own bank account. Okay.
• 39:58
  Speaker 6: That's just cold, hard cash.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: It's like it doesn't get any colder or any harder.
• 40:04
  Speaker 6: I don't get tax on this or anything.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Well, I listen, hang on a second, because I know
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: there's people who work for the CRA that listens to
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: this show.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: You gotta be careful, and you know what.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: Let's let the record state that Renee said that, yes, yes, okay.
• 40:23
  Speaker 6: Whatever, I'll release the T for I don't care.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you want me to issue a T get
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: out of here so much?
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: So with quick drop for Casey's cash, I will ask
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: the both of you questions, and I will take the
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: fastest and most acceptable answer. There's five questions. Questions will
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: go something like this, Hey, name something that you would
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: see in Santa's workshop that starts with the letter see oh,
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: claws yeah, or cookies?
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. So you don't have to buzz in or anything. Okay, Renee,
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: you just shout out your answer. Sound good?
• 40:57
  Speaker 6: All right, sounds good?
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: All right, let's do it. Estion one, quick draw for
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: Casey's cash. What might you see out of family reunion?
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: That's?
• 41:08
  Speaker 9: Sorry?
• 41:09
  Speaker 8: Sorry?
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: What is he doing?
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: What are you doing?
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: You? No, he's getting Okay.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: What's something you might see at a family reunion that
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: starts with the letter you?
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: Uniform? I was just about to say that uniforms good
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: one day.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: Okay, Renee's up one nothing in quick draw, Renee versus Casey.
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: Question two, name something you'd give as a housewarming gift
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: that starts with the letter.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: L uh linguini.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: Let us.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: You're both terrible answers. So I guess Renee because he's faster.
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: I'm doing like an Italian heritage.
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: You know it's yeah, you're bringing Linguini over.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: You said, you said, lettuce man, we're gonna shal you
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: have no leg to stand on. Whatever happened to like,
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: you know, like a nice centerpiece? I know that doesn't
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: start with it anyway?
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: Anyway, xophone.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: Question three, Renees two nothing? What's something you'd see out
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: of farmers market that starts with the letter G?
• 42:32
  Speaker 9: Grapes?
• 42:33
  Speaker 6: I've got grapes and didn't I Yeah, what.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: Did you say?
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: Like the country on a map?
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: You'd seem good?
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 42:45
  Speaker 6: Have you had your coffee today? You're usually money at this.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: I don't like him at all. I don't like I
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: don't like Renee at all. I don't like him at all.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: So Renees up three nothing.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: I don't you know that?
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: Hey, okay, I know guam Like what wrong?
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: WEENI? This is what I'm dealing with.
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: Question four, what's the boy? What's a boy's name that
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: starts with the letter H.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Harry had?
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: Okay, Casey, you're on the board. Do you feel better now?
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: I got hating it? Yeah?
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: Sorry, Renee, Renee we're recording all of this. Yeah, unfortunately,
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: you gotta give Casey that one.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Come on, Hey, hey, Renee, guess what.
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: If you just popped in. We're talking about the latest
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: romantic gesture that you've made to your partner or vice versa. Sure, yeah, okay,
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: it has baffled you.
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: Okay, but I.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Think that we do sweet little nothings for each.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: Other's emphasize nothing. Hey, it's true.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: And I do think we are very food motivated, like
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: it's my dog one hundred percent. Like it's something like
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: if I'm out, I'll bring back you know, his favorite
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: fooh whatever. See, Like I think that's really nice. But
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: have I, like, you know, hired an airplane to write
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: his name in the sky lately?
• 44:21
  Speaker 8: No, I have not.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, that's a grand gesh.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: It is, okay, So if you don't have that DNA
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: and you and that chip and I get it. So
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: this is what I did. And I just did it
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: out of I don't know. I wasn't bored. I thought, hey,
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: I stumbled on this idea. Again. It's AI, so don't
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: freak out. But what I did is I took the
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: last couple of text messages that I got from my wife,
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: Susie Cuesu, I door, I love is my reason for breathing.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: Put it into chat, told it I need you to
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: make a song out of this. Oh nice. It gave
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: me the song. Sorry, it gave me the lyrics. Then
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: I went to another AI and I said, okay, now
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: put this into motion. Make a song, female voice, and
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: I want it slow and melodic.
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: And kind of sad. Right, that's your thing.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: I like sad mus like as much as I'm a
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: bright light. I do love sad music.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: Okay, you know.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Okay, So this is just a small sample of this song.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: And again, these are text messages I took from my
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: wife and put it into a song.
• 45:32
  Speaker 10: Okay, Noura, she's there until twelve fifteen. I try to
• 45:39
  Speaker 10: get a doctor's appointment today, Daves, I'll head.
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: To its Costco.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: Just let me knowing you are free.
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: Going into Marshalls.
• 45:53
  Speaker 8: Now I have to pee.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: I love. I love these lyrics. They're real, and they're
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: they're raw, they're raw on there and they're they're customized
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: to us.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: Yes, just a snapshot of your life right then and there. Yeah,
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: it's beautiful.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: So if if you want, all you gotta do is
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: take the text messages.
• 46:15
  Speaker 10: Okay, no, she's seven until twelve fifteen. I try to
• 46:22
  Speaker 10: get a doctor's appointment today. Theaves ahead to its Costico
• 46:30
  Speaker 10: have just let me.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Know you.
• 46:34
  Speaker 8: Going into Marshalls now I have to pay beautiful so
• 46:40
  Speaker 8: and then you make a song out of it, and
• 46:42
  Speaker 8: you deliver the song and they're like, oh my gosh,
• 46:44
  Speaker 8: has you heard this?
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: Of course she has and she loves it.
• 46:47
  Speaker 4: Okay, great, it's the Casey Clerk Show.
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: A very difficult question for a lot of people to
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: answer today that we're asking what is the most recent
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: romantic gesture that you have given to your partner or
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: vice versa.
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: And it shouldn't be a tough question, but I will say,
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: just because I'm trying to defend my own honor here,
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: I guess that when you've been together for a long time,
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: you do these sweet little nothings for each other every single.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Day, sweet little and just focus on the term nothing.
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: I know nothing.
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: You know, you're not always doing these big grand gestures.
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: And I think that's okay for sure.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: Whatever floats like, listen, you're keeping the score, not.
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: Me, okay, I'm not keeping any score.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Okay. So the tip that we were giving you today
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: is what I did is I took some text messages
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: that my wife and I exchanged. I put it into chat.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: It gave me song lyrics. I didn't put that into
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: another AI, and it gave me a song. Here's a snippet.
• 47:52
  Speaker 7: Can she's seven.
• 47:55
  Speaker 10: Till twelve fifteen. I try to get a fucktor's appointment
• 48:02
  Speaker 10: to day, Dave ahead to it's costco.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Just let me knowing you.
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: Going into Marshalls.
• 48:13
  Speaker 8: Now I have to pee.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's it's it's real, it's it's
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: it's only us and it speaks volumes.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: She loved it, by the way, which is very sweet. Yeah,
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: hilarious too.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I know, right, Dave, we're asking you the question,
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: what's the last romantic thing you've done?
• 48:34
  Speaker 6: I bought my wife flowers a Mother's Day.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: There's something because you kind of had to though, yeah.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: Do I though? Yeah?
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, do you. I I kind of
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: think you do?
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: What What have you done for Susie Huthy?
• 48:50
  Speaker 9: Huh?
• 48:51
  Speaker 10: You know what I do?
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: I make her songs? I leave her a note every
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: single morning.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: That's very sweet.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I used to I used to do that.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Then what happened?
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she read my handwriting.
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: She's like, why is he leaving prescriptions for me every morning?
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: Did you think I'm really sick?
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: The Casey Clark Show.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: This has been another episode of The Casey Clark Shows
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: weekly podcast, giving you company on demand. So whenever you
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: need us, we're here, but not like in a creepy, desperate,
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: weird way, I promise. This episode is hosted and produced
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: by Casey Clark and me Sasha. You can follow along
• 49:36
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• 49:38
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• 49:41
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• 49:44
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