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ALEXIA NEPOLA (RHOM) · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Cheese in
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  Speaker 2: the Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge. Before
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  Speaker 2: we begin, we have a very special guest. We have Alexia.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 3: Hi Alexia.
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  Speaker 5: Hi girls, I'm so happy to be here.
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  Speaker 4: You're here.
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  Speaker 3: Can you just let us know what last name you
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  Speaker 3: go by?
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  Speaker 5: These days?
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  Speaker 6: I still go by Napola, Okay, but for some reason
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  Speaker 6: I can't get rid of that again.
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  Speaker 4: That's like what's Edward's last.
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  Speaker 3: But we are here with a Lexianapola and San Francisco
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  Speaker 3: for the Janet Jackson concert. Janet Jackson is on tour
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  Speaker 3: with special guest Nelly. It's called Together Again. Tour tickets
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  Speaker 3: are on sale now at livenation dot com. Check out
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  Speaker 3: tour dates and cities at livenation dot com or Janet
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  Speaker 3: Jackson dot com. But also we have a pretty big
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  Speaker 3: announcement to start.
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  Speaker 5: I'm scared.
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  Speaker 4: You're right, I'm okay with it, guys.
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  Speaker 3: She's okay with it now, She's okay with us until
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  Speaker 3: July eleventh, because I'm officially announcing that my co host
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  Speaker 3: on Twatts for Real Housewives of Orange County is Alexia Woo.
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  Speaker 5: I'm so excited, thank you, my god one honor. I
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  Speaker 5: have big shoes to fill.
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  Speaker 3: I oh well, I mean, I think the big thing
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  Speaker 3: is we need somebody who's going to be outspoken, which
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  Speaker 3: I think both of you and I if we went
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  Speaker 3: into a competition on who could talk more, I feel like, I.
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  Speaker 5: Know, I feel like we're gonna have a hard time.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like that's a housewife quality, right that we
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  Speaker 6: just talk over each other.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, you talk over each other, but I think it's
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  Speaker 3: especially when we're in this setting, we can at least
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  Speaker 3: see each other and know like, Okay, this person's going
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  Speaker 3: to say. You know, she's coming up with something. But
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  Speaker 3: what I love about you is and my favorite thing
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  Speaker 3: about watching you on the show, whether it comes across
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  Speaker 3: well or not, well, you're always gonna say what you think.
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  Speaker 3: And that's why when iHeart was like how do you
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  Speaker 3: feel about Alexia? And I was like hell yeah, hell yeah,
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  Speaker 3: Because if I want anybody to fill my shoes, oh
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  Speaker 3: thank you.
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  Speaker 7: And are you gonna oh my goshes to plot? Are
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  Speaker 7: you gonna feel comfortable talking about Tam when she makes
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  Speaker 7: bad behavior.
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  Speaker 6: Well, no, she doesn't make bad behavior. I approve of
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  Speaker 6: all her behaviors.
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  Speaker 3: For the love what watch watch I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 5: Have to watch the show for someone and have to
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  Speaker 5: watch a show. Am I gonna just talk?
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  Speaker 4: I actually very well behaved this season.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, No, And I'm a natural blonde.
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  Speaker 4: I am not joking. I come in in a different,
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  Speaker 4: different time in my life, like my daughter's on the
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  Speaker 4: show this year.
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  Speaker 3: It's just I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I'm very comfortable in my own skin. I'm happy. Like
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  Speaker 4: last season, I felt like I came back to the
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  Speaker 4: show after being gone for two years, and I felt
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  Speaker 4: like I kind of had to do the Yeah, as
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  Speaker 4: much as I really thought at the moment, I wasn't.
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  Speaker 4: Now looking back, I'm like, yeah, I was trying to, like,
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  Speaker 4: and you know what, I did the fucking job.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like you're gonna do the job again this year.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I always do the job, but I feel like
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  Speaker 4: they're going to see a softer side of me the share.
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  Speaker 5: I like that, you know, I like that because I
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  Speaker 5: do know that softer side of you.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I'm happy that you're in a great
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  Speaker 6: place you know, this season and every season is different,
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  Speaker 6: you know, I know that the audience only gets to
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  Speaker 6: see us and Joe just by that season. Yeah, it
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  Speaker 6: really does say a lot about what you're going through
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  Speaker 6: in your life at that moment.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm going to be very disappointed if you're
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  Speaker 3: not a shit show at some point.
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  Speaker 5: But you still have to do that, Like, yeah, you
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  Speaker 5: have to have one of those moments.
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  Speaker 4: I'm a natural born show.
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  Speaker 3: Just so you know, Tamra, what are you most nervous
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  Speaker 3: about in regards to me and Alexia recapping this season?
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  Speaker 4: Honestly, this season, I'm really not nervous about much. I'm
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  Speaker 4: really not, and I'm not like, I'm okay like recapping
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  Speaker 4: the show. And if I'm an asshole, I don't care
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  Speaker 4: if you call me an asshole.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care if.
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  Speaker 4: You, you know, say it like it is, I don't care.
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  Speaker 4: I can watch it and see it as well, so
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  Speaker 4: you know it is what it is.
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  Speaker 3: Have you been doing your research? Are you caught up?
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  Speaker 6: Like, no, I'm not, but I'm going to. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 6: watch the last season, oh god, which she didn't behave
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  Speaker 6: so well. I'm not going to judge you by that Okay.
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  Speaker 5: See that's the beauty about me.
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  Speaker 6: Like I know all these women, you know that I've
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  Speaker 6: gone to know throughout you know, the years, throughout the
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  Speaker 6: different franchises, but I've never really watched their shows. And
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  Speaker 6: for whatever reason, I've always connected to you, and I
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  Speaker 6: haven't really watched you. You know that, you know throughout the seasons,
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  Speaker 6: and with Teddy, the same thing when you war on
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  Speaker 6: Beverly Hills, and alex Is the same when she was on.
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  Speaker 6: It's kind of like, I don't want to judge you
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  Speaker 6: by how you behave on the show because I do
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  Speaker 6: this for a living too, so you know, sometimes we're
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  Speaker 6: like misread and sometimes you know, people judge it so and.
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  Speaker 8: I think it's about misread.
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  Speaker 3: But I need you to watch last season. I am
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  Speaker 3: going to watch last season.
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  Speaker 5: That's good, I say, don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to be misread that bad. No, you
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  Speaker 3: won't be.
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  Speaker 6: You know what, because I understand that you had to
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  Speaker 6: come back and you felt for whatever reason, I felt
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  Speaker 6: a little pressure and you felt the pressure.
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  Speaker 4: I felt the pressure, you know, being fired for two years.
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  Speaker 4: You come back and you know the show is failing,
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  Speaker 4: and if you come back and make it, make it good.
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  Speaker 4: It's a lot of.
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  Speaker 6: Pressure, it is, and I feel like you always have
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  Speaker 6: that pressure because you are the face to your show.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it was on a very long pause, to
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  Speaker 3: the point that when I watched season one, it's like, great,
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  Speaker 3: how long was.
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  Speaker 4: The po How long was the pause?
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  Speaker 5: Eight years? Eight years is a long time.
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  Speaker 3: That is a long I was the only one that
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  Speaker 3: knew that I was going to come back some day.
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  Speaker 4: So what point did you know that it was going
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  Speaker 4: to come back? And what point did they reach out
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  Speaker 4: and said, you know what, we're gonna We're going to
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  Speaker 4: redo this.
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  Speaker 6: You know. I feel like around twenty fifteen, you know,
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  Speaker 6: there was a lot of different things going on, Like
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  Speaker 6: our producers always believed on us, and I feel like
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  Speaker 6: so did the network and you know, and Andy and
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  Speaker 6: the executives, but they were scared, you know, there were
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  Speaker 6: so many other, you know, shows to focus on and whatnot.
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  Speaker 6: So I think they just kind of like never said no,
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  Speaker 6: never said yes, We never really did anything about it.
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  Speaker 6: And around twenty fifteen, I always thought that, you know,
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  Speaker 6: Lisa was going through things. I felt like Lisa and
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  Speaker 6: I would have been the anchors at that time, you know,
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  Speaker 6: to bring the show back.
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  Speaker 3: How rich is he.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I really don't know, because you know, in Miami everything
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  Speaker 6: is so questionable and so shady that you don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, he has a great profession, and I think
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  Speaker 6: his biggest acid is this home in Star Island. I mean,
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  Speaker 6: I'm not sure about that. You know, I don't know
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  Speaker 6: what people's finances, so I don't really know. But he
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  Speaker 6: does have a great profession.
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  Speaker 4: At the house that Lenny and Lisa lived in together.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, would you ever let him do work on you?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that speaks volume.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, because I know him a different way. And besides,
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  Speaker 6: I always felt it's funny because I wanted to redo
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  Speaker 6: my boobs like years ago, and and I wanted for
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  Speaker 6: him to do it. But then after I was like,
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  Speaker 6: oh my god, I can't go have dinner with Lisa
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  Speaker 6: Lenny and like he just did my boobs and he's
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  Speaker 6: gonna be looking at my boobs or I'm going to
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  Speaker 6: be asking, hey, Lenny, way, can you check out my boob?
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  Speaker 6: So that's why I never did it. But you know,
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  Speaker 6: I do think he's a good surgeon. I'm not going
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  Speaker 6: to say, you know, I do think he's a good surgeon.
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  Speaker 6: I think he has a different look that I would like.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, he does like super huge boobs, you know,
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  Speaker 6: and they look great like on a twenty something year old.
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  Speaker 6: But you know, I would be scared, like just to
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  Speaker 6: go and.
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  Speaker 4: Do it the night for the gigantic boobs.
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  Speaker 6: Not in Miami, babe, Really Miami, the bigger, the better
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  Speaker 6: and whatever.
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  Speaker 3: Like with the is it b VBL or BBL.
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  Speaker 5: And all that, boy, Yeah, the big booty, the big boots. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: you know, Miami is just like a whole different We
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  Speaker 5: do need to.
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  Speaker 3: Go to Miami. As for another franchise, Real Housewives in
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  Speaker 3: New Jersey, I know you're friends with Teresa. Are you
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  Speaker 3: following this online blogging drama? And have you spoken to.
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  Speaker 5: Her at all?
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  Speaker 6: I just saw that yesterday for the first time, honestly,
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  Speaker 6: and I haven't spoken to her since maybe like three
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  Speaker 6: or four days ago.
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  Speaker 5: Right before this happened, she absolutely reached out.
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  Speaker 3: I think she started reaching out to us too. So
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  Speaker 3: we're confused why this is all happening right now.
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  Speaker 6: I mean she and I always reach out to each other,
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  Speaker 6: especially like now more than ever, Like she reaches out
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  Speaker 6: to me a lot to see how I'm doing.
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  Speaker 5: So I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I know she went to Paris and she
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  Speaker 6: was you know, with her daughters, and you know she
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  Speaker 6: stays busy, she has you know, a lot on her plate.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're all heartbroken to hear about the top than
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  Speaker 4: news about Todd, so am I I don't know if
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  Speaker 4: you can talk about it. I don't know if you
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  Speaker 4: want to talk about it.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I'd rather not talk about it out of
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  Speaker 3: respect for him.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I more than anything, I want to know
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  Speaker 4: how you're doing.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I'm doing better.
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  Speaker 6: It's been two months and you know, I've gone to therapy,
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  Speaker 6: We've gone to therapy, we're doing couples therapy, and you know,
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  Speaker 6: I'm just trying to like understand is there a.
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  Speaker 4: Chance you can get back together?
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  Speaker 6: I mean, for me, I would want that, like deep
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  Speaker 6: in my heart because I'm met in love with him
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  Speaker 6: and I would want it to work out. So that's
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  Speaker 6: why it's so difficult. But you know, there's a lot there,
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  Speaker 6: there's you know, a lot to unpack. There's you know,
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  Speaker 6: but again, you know, I feel that being in the
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  Speaker 6: public eye is so much harder, and I think that's
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  Speaker 6: like one of the reasons that.
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  Speaker 4: He's you know he's struggling with its struggling with it, yes,
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  Speaker 4: because he does not want to be in the public eye.
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  Speaker 5: He does not like it.
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  Speaker 3: No, do you think he doesn't like the public eye
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  Speaker 3: or he doesn't like Also the fact that because you
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  Speaker 3: are in the public eye, you have a certain amount
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  Speaker 3: of control.
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  Speaker 6: I think sure, I think I think a lot of
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  Speaker 6: men are afraid of that, absolutely, Like.
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  Speaker 3: You are strong, you're a strong woman, You're in control,
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  Speaker 3: you know what you want. And I think you could
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  Speaker 3: start to see him push up against it and times.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I feel like a lot of them.
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  Speaker 6: Again, men get scared, you know, when they're in a
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  Speaker 6: relationship and you know their lives are still public. And
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  Speaker 6: even though like he doesn't want our life to be public,
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  Speaker 6: even though he knew what he was signing up for,
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  Speaker 6: and when he met me, you know, the show wasn't
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  Speaker 6: on TV at that time, but I had already done
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  Speaker 6: a few seasons and had, you know, like that housewife status,
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  Speaker 6: whether we like it or not, So he kind of knew.
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  Speaker 5: What he was getting himself into.
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  Speaker 6: But I think that once they're in it, they're like, oh, like,
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  Speaker 6: I don't like this, how do I get out of it?
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  Speaker 4: Were you completely blindsided or shocked.
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  Speaker 5: I was, Yeah, I was, whichhich makes it so much harder,
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  Speaker 5: so much harder.
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  Speaker 3: So there was no lead up, No, there wasn't like
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  Speaker 3: you guys were in couples therapy and you're trying to
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  Speaker 3: figure things.
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  Speaker 5: No, we did that afterwards. We're doing that now.
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  Speaker 4: But that's promising, it is.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you know, that's how how I am.
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  Speaker 6: Like, I'm full of optimistic about everything in my life,
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  Speaker 6: you know, not only about my relationship with Todd. I'm
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  Speaker 6: just that person and I think that that's why I
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  Speaker 6: live my life differently and you know, and as happy
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  Speaker 6: as I can be, because I always like, see.
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  Speaker 4: You know, what is Frankie telling you to do?
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  Speaker 6: You know, Frankie doesn't really tell me much, but I
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  Speaker 6: know he's been affected by it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he has to be.
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  Speaker 5: He has to be because you know, we all live together,
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  Speaker 5: so he has to be.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 6: I think we're all affected by it. I think Todd's
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  Speaker 6: affected by it as well. I think we all are.
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  Speaker 3: It's why what do you think is great about you
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  Speaker 3: and Todd? Like? What is it that you said? You know,
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  Speaker 3: I'm still madly in love with him? Like, what is
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  Speaker 3: it that you think could make you guys, you know,
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  Speaker 3: work Stan in the distances.
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  Speaker 6: That's a good question. So, I mean, I just believe
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  Speaker 6: that we have to have better communication.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 6: I think we're strong people, and I think that we
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  Speaker 6: struggle with the way that we communicate.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and then we have those we so we have
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  Speaker 5: different attachment styles.
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  Speaker 6: So he's like an avoidant attachment too, and an anxious
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  Speaker 6: attachment like I need affirmation, I need reassurance, and you know,
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  Speaker 6: Todd doesn't like that, you know, he kind of like
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  Speaker 6: backs out.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And that's.
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  Speaker 3: What we do. You say things sometimes and your relationships
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  Speaker 3: because we talk about this with our with our husbands.
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  Speaker 3: Like when my husband's annoyed, he'll say something and then
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  Speaker 3: he'll be over it in three minutes. Like he could
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  Speaker 3: say something to me that I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 3: that just kind of broke me to my freaking core.
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  Speaker 3: And then he's like, hey, oh my god, it's beautiful,
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  Speaker 3: that's great.
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  Speaker 4: What do you want to have for dinner?
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, I will hold onto this for four
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  Speaker 3: and a half years, right, And I don't have that,
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  Speaker 3: like I can completely shut down not have that conversation
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  Speaker 3: like which which one are you?
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm like your husband.
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  Speaker 6: So I'm like the Anxi just one, and I do
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  Speaker 6: have that that style so that I can once I
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  Speaker 6: get it out, I'm good like five minutes later where
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  Speaker 6: we you know, having dinner. You know, I can make
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  Speaker 6: love to you, I can kiss you, I can keep
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  Speaker 6: on loving you, and I forget about that. I don't
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  Speaker 6: hold any grudges. Granted, if it does come up again
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  Speaker 6: or there's like a you know, hard conversation again, I'll
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  Speaker 6: bring it up.
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  Speaker 5: But I don't like to bring up the past. Like
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  Speaker 5: you know, we all know the past.
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  Speaker 6: We lived it, we suffered it, cried about it, thought
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  Speaker 6: about it, so you know, it doesn't make any sense
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  Speaker 6: to like bring it up again.
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  Speaker 4: Didn't you guys have problems leading up to it or was.
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  Speaker 3: It you know?
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  Speaker 6: You know, I'm always so busy with you, and I
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  Speaker 6: feel like this happens to a lot of women within
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  Speaker 6: their own life and like so fulfilled and that and
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  Speaker 6: so much going on that I really, you know, it's
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  Speaker 6: kind of like I for me, it was okay, Like
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  Speaker 6: for me, it was working, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 6: I just thought that there were like typical fights and
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  Speaker 6: problems that that every couple has. But it's not like
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  Speaker 6: how much you fight or hard you fight. It's being
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  Speaker 6: able to work through those, you know, fights and finding resolution.
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  Speaker 5: And I think that that's where we have like our
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  Speaker 5: biggest challenge.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm just happy that you guys are talking and
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  Speaker 4: going to counseling.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it sounds like.
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  Speaker 4: You're working for a better future, whatever that might be.
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  Speaker 6: We are, Yeah, I think that we are because I
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  Speaker 6: felt like he's very impulsive and you know, that was
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  Speaker 6: like the decision that you know, that he took at
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  Speaker 6: that moment, and then after I think that after, you know,
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  Speaker 6: being away from each other, I think the distance sometimes
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  Speaker 6: is good because you can like you know, refresh and
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  Speaker 6: you have time to think about things and in a
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  Speaker 6: different environment than when you're at each other's throats like
• 14:31
  Speaker 6: every day, even though like that wasn't the case you
• 14:33
  Speaker 6: know before.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: Are you guys still living in the same place that
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: you ended up moving into?
• 14:38
  Speaker 5: No, well, I'm living there.
• 14:40
  Speaker 6: I actually move out this month because it's like our
• 14:43
  Speaker 6: last month that we had rented there for a year
• 14:45
  Speaker 6: and Todd got his own apartment.
• 14:47
  Speaker 5: Kind of like j Loo and Ben.
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: You know, can I ask you like a really transparent
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: friend type question because I catch myself doing the same
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: thing with when when work's going really well me or
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: things are good in the pot or like I'm busy,
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes I can get wrapped up in
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: myself and I don't really realize what could potentially be
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: going on with my husband, and then I will say
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: something like, oh, well you were working you like, I'll
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: kind of throw it out on him.
• 15:20
  Speaker 5: Absolutely, are you think that?
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Do you think that there was a part of that?
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: And I think that is so many of us, yes,
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: that are in the public eye, regardless if it's a podcast,
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: the television show, whatever it is, where you get so
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: into what your life is so important that you forget
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: to ask.
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: This about that. I recognize that, and I'm accountable for that.
• 15:43
  Speaker 6: And you know, that's why I think therapy is important,
• 15:46
  Speaker 6: you know, because you get to talk about all these
• 15:48
  Speaker 6: things without.
• 15:51
  Speaker 5: Starting a fight.
• 15:51
  Speaker 6: You know, maybe like your conversation like this just at
• 15:53
  Speaker 6: home will like trigger you know, we'll be certain triggers
• 15:56
  Speaker 6: where you know, in a therapy you feel more in
• 15:58
  Speaker 6: a safe environment.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: And at the beginning of last season, I gave you
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: a little bit of a hard time about it, not
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: realizing that then that it was there was going to
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: be truth to come to it later. But I think
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: you you made some sort of a joke, like I
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: have an announcement. Me and Todd are not getting it.
• 16:15
  Speaker 6: I put that out there to the universe. I was
• 16:18
  Speaker 6: so mad because I said, that's what the girls are
• 16:20
  Speaker 6: going to think. Like he even got mad that I
• 16:22
  Speaker 6: said that because at that moment.
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: We saw there.
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: What how did that? I know, I don't know if
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: that just came out from my heart like that.
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: Just so, was there any truth of what Adriana had
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: said that she had said?
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: Well, I don't believe Adriana. There's no way in hell.
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: I don't think anybody her shares at the gym though.
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: No, he was okay, I know I will because I
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: mean I know that.
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: Did any of the girls rally around you after this
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: information broke?
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: Yes, any of the of them that didn't reach out to.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: All of them, even Adriana reached out. Really, who other
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: than are clearly Marisol because and we love her, I
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: love her. Other than Marisol? Who do you find yourself
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: like having the most true, authentic close relationship with in Miami?
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: Julia? Julia. Julia's really special.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: Because I haven't seen that yet. On the show, right.
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: Well, you know, I think she struggles also with with
• 17:14
  Speaker 6: filming the show.
• 17:15
  Speaker 5: You know, she's new at this.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: She's not comfortable her.
• 17:19
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not natural. But in real life, which is
• 17:21
  Speaker 6: what counts to me, she's a very great person.
• 17:24
  Speaker 5: She's great.
• 17:25
  Speaker 6: So it was Martina and I mean I I obviously
• 17:28
  Speaker 6: with Larsa, even though last time you all saw each other,
• 17:31
  Speaker 6: we all saw each other was at the reunion, and
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: you know things didn't work out, so good for us.
• 17:36
  Speaker 5: They're at the reunion when.
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: The news broke out, Larsa was actually you guys are
• 17:41
  Speaker 6: a person that called me?
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: Yes, love Larsa.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: I love Larsay, Larsa doesn't love me? Because guests who
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: got invited to the Boca Ratone party and who didn't?
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: I didn't why. I don't know why you didn't, but
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: I did.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: The last time she came on, it was I think
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: I think Larcia loves you.
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: It is not invited.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: Well, I don't care that I'm not invited. We can't go.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: It's not a day that we're available, but I am.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: Can I ask you a personal question since this filing,
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: have you guys made out or had any sort of physics?
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: Yes, Okay, all right, so there's a chance.
• 18:19
  Speaker 6: Yes, all right, so that we've done it all. Yeah,
• 18:22
  Speaker 6: we love each other and we're super into each other.
• 18:24
  Speaker 6: It's not because of that.
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: They're fine.
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: There are fine.
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: He's just pissed.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: He's putting down his like he's he's letting you know,
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: these are my boundaries. Don't fucking cross them. But I
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: love you and I want you and.
• 18:40
  Speaker 6: So no, I believe that too, and I want him
• 18:43
  Speaker 6: and love him too. But we're just trying to, you know,
• 18:45
  Speaker 6: make this work.
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: I don't mean this in a negative way, but does
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: he have some narcissistic behaviors that maybe like this is
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: what I want and this is what you shouldn't have
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: in your mine and I don't want to share you
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: and those things because I'm getting that feeling a little bit.
• 19:03
  Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, I mean he's needy and he loves to
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: be with me the entire time, and I love to
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: be with him as well. So yeah, I mean, I
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: think more than narcissists, I think he's like that. I
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: started reading this book called Secure Love that, by the way,
• 19:16
  Speaker 6: every woman should read. Okay, It's so good and it
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: really does explain, you know, because I feel like this
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: is my third marriage, and I think that that's why
• 19:24
  Speaker 6: I'm trying harder. So whatever, you know, I've always tried
• 19:28
  Speaker 6: hard with all of them because I'm a fighter and
• 19:30
  Speaker 6: I do you like believe in love and saving you
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: know what it is that you have. You know, like
• 19:36
  Speaker 6: you can have a lot of love, and I know
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: how to love each other. And I guess that other
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: times before I didn't put so much thought because I
• 19:43
  Speaker 6: think I thought it was different things, like I couldn't
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: save my marriage. I tried both with the dad and
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: with herman.
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: But isn't it weird with it because I've been married
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: three times? Yeah, and with my marriage now, like your
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: eyes open wide to different things, and you want to
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: make things work, and you want to try hard, harder
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: than you've done in the past, and you're at a
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: time where your kids are grown. Yes, my kids are grown,
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: and it's it's a different relationship and you want it
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: to work and you think about the future and I
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: want to grow old with somebody.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: And nine times out of ten, it's not like there's
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: better things out there right, Like it's it's going to
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: be work with no matter who it is. What are
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: your thoughts on people that are saying all of this
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: is about a storyline, but you're not even still me.
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: I know, I know, you know what.
• 20:32
  Speaker 6: I I don't even pay attention to that because it's
• 20:35
  Speaker 6: obviously people that they're so like obsessed with the show
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: in the wrong way, because that's not how these shows work. No,
• 20:42
  Speaker 6: you know what I mean, it's like none. I wish
• 20:44
  Speaker 6: I can change all my storyline. My storylines have been
• 20:47
  Speaker 6: very painful. I don't know Honor whatever saying I can't.
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: You shouldn't even talk about her because she's dreadful and disgusting,
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: and you know, she's a loser, like she has nothing
• 20:57
  Speaker 6: else going on with her life that she has to
• 20:59
  Speaker 6: like try to like in other people's lives.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: Now you come to Orange County.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: Wow, did you did you see the trailer?
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: I love it.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: I opened it.
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: I was so happy I did.
• 21:12
  Speaker 6: By the way, your trailer looks so good, so good God. Yes, yes, yeah,
• 21:17
  Speaker 6: I'm actually excited to talk about your show because I
• 21:20
  Speaker 6: was like, wow, it looked really really good.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: It's going to be a good epic season ever we've got.
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: How do you girls do this after so.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: Many I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: It's funny because I had a conversation with Andy Cohen
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: when I saw him, and this is like two weeks
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: ago at a party, and I said, do you ever
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: think about retiring? Like sometimes I think because we're Me
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: and Andy are the same age. So and he's like,
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: stop saying that word. He's like, I have young kids.
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: I can't retire. I go, I have older kids. So like,
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: at my age, I'm fifty seven, You're so full.
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: Of shit, I'm retiring.
• 21:57
  Speaker 4: I think, like, like you know, mentally, you think like, okay,
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: it's you know, it's time to give it up, like
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: it's time.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: But then it's like you have I listen, all of us,
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: I think are the same. I know that I am
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: not on a television show, but we all like making money.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: We all run this year.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: We all like being able to have our own independence.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: And I think whether you're on the show, you used
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: to be on the show, we're creating lives for ourselves
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: within it. Yeah, and I think.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: That's some I think I would be bored as fuck
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: if I retired from the house. I'm like, oh my god,
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: what do I do with myself?
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: Well, I like, great, I'll do to teas in a
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: pot and recab Horn County.
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: My mind, my mind gets destructive if I'm not busy
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: all the time, and then I think.
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: That's my therapy.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: Complacency kills all joy. Yeah, we saw last reunion that
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: even you and and Marisol had some hiccups.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: I love Marion.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: You think it's the end of that drama or Yeah.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: The thing is that we're like sisters, you know, So
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: we love like sisters. We fight like sisters.
• 23:07
  Speaker 6: You know, we tell each other whatever it is we
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: need to say to each other, and then we're like
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: two minutes later back, you know, like nothing happened. You know,
• 23:14
  Speaker 6: we never We've never in all these years and over
• 23:17
  Speaker 6: twenty years, we've never been like in a fight where
• 23:19
  Speaker 6: we have never spoken or like you know, stay days
• 23:22
  Speaker 6: without talking.
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: Can you tell us how much you love doing a
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: podcast together?
• 23:25
  Speaker 5: Oh, it's so much fun and I love it. We
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: do it in person. I think it's so much better
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: the energy because like through.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: How often are you doing it in person?
• 23:33
  Speaker 6: We're actually we're really liking it. So on Friday, I'm
• 23:35
  Speaker 6: gonna go do it again with her at her house. Yeah,
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: that way I get it, you know, I drive there.
• 23:39
  Speaker 6: It's like an hour away.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Graduate live that far away.
• 23:43
  Speaker 6: It is, and Miami everything is you need a card
• 23:45
  Speaker 6: to go everywhere, and it takes me like an hour.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: In my mind, I think everything's like five five minutes away.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: It's like an hour away. It's worse than she has
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: to drive it is. I don't drive.
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: She doesn't drive me.
• 23:56
  Speaker 5: Yeahs marathol Yeah, I drive to Marathon.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she drives to me. If you're thinking about season
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: is it seven that's coming up?
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, you're so excited.
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: What do you think other than, of course your personal life.
• 24:22
  Speaker 6: Which I hope is great, you know, I hope I
• 24:23
  Speaker 6: can get it, you know, go on and say, you
• 24:25
  Speaker 6: know what, we're working it out, and you know we're together,
• 24:28
  Speaker 6: and you know, I'm just you know.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: So you're win a lot of changes. So you and
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: Todd have split up, Larsa and Marcus have split up
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: as well.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Aren't they back together again?
• 24:39
  Speaker 5: No, they're not.
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: They're not together back together again.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: I thought again, like I think they're friends.
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: I think No, No, I don't even think they're in
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: the friend zone.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: Oh, they're not in the friend zone anymore.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: If you could bring back one og Miami housewife, who
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: would be.
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: Mm hmm. I don't know. I think that all the
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: ones that are there should be there. I don't think there's.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: Any og what's left? What's that one girl it's always
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: on Jeff Lewis no the one, the one that moved
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: to La or something.
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: She was never Miami.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 25:10
  Speaker 6: The thing with Miami is, like I says, more people, No, no,
• 25:15
  Speaker 6: she had a boyfriend that lived in Miami, Okay, and
• 25:17
  Speaker 6: then that was like her story.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: But she was the only she was never on another housewife.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: She just found no.
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, she has fought with Brandy, Yeah, what she
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: fought with a lot of people.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: What are your what are your thoughts about New Jersey
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: not having a reunion this year?
• 25:31
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't never imagine that that would have happened, you know,
• 25:33
  Speaker 6: I think that's that's terrible. But like I understand, you know,
• 25:36
  Speaker 6: production wise, why they wouldn't invest all this time and
• 25:38
  Speaker 6: money into it, because who wants to listen to the.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Same ship again?
• 25:42
  Speaker 6: And it's kind of like it even like in no comparison,
• 25:45
  Speaker 6: but like it's going to be one side of the
• 25:46
  Speaker 6: couch against the other side of the couch.
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: They're not gonna have any resolution, They're not going to get.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Half, We're going to get fired.
• 25:52
  Speaker 6: I think, uh, well, that's the only way to move on.
• 25:55
  Speaker 6: You know, you're gonna have to pick sides. And I
• 25:57
  Speaker 6: really do believe that. You know, they'll be either or
• 26:00
  Speaker 6: a whole new friend.
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: Who do you think is gonna get fired?
• 26:03
  Speaker 6: Well, I think that they're probably gonna stay with Teresa show.
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: Whether you like it or you don't.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I agree, watch what happens, Like you did see the
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: way Andy looked at her.
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: There's only one picture in the clubhouse and it's of Teresa. Okay,
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: I'm sorry. And Teresa's not getting it in her life.
• 26:20
  Speaker 6: I mean, she's like she shares so much and nobody,
• 26:24
  Speaker 6: no other lady on that show has done the same
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: thing that she's done.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: And you know, I mean not that she wants.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: And I think probably there's.
• 26:31
  Speaker 6: Children and her family and whether you like it or not,
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: like she is the face of the show. And I
• 26:37
  Speaker 6: think the Lauris is good to you know, Lauris. I
• 26:39
  Speaker 6: love Deloris, but I also think she's good for I
• 26:42
  Speaker 6: love her.
• 26:43
  Speaker 8: I think she's I think amazing, amazing, And I know
• 26:47
  Speaker 8: we're running out of time before we we have to
• 26:50
  Speaker 8: zip out of here, but if you were to say,
• 26:54
  Speaker 8: if you were to choose me and Tamra to compare
• 26:57
  Speaker 8: to uh Miami house Wife, who would you say each
• 27:01
  Speaker 8: of us were.
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: Oh that's a good question.
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: Wow, So don't say Drina because I'll know.
• 27:13
  Speaker 6: Like Adriana, I think you would be more like me
• 27:20
  Speaker 6: and Tamra would be more like mab Larsa. I'll take that, Lisa,
• 27:30
  Speaker 6: I mean I think we both.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: As we get in On that note, thanks for tuning
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: in to another episode of two. We will be back
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: later with both Alexia and the