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Why Talking About the Affair Makes Everything Worse (And How to Heal After Infidelity the Right Way) | E318
Why does talking about the affair make everything worse? If every conversation about infidelity turns into a fight, shutdown, or emotional explosion, this episode will explain why — and what to do instead.
Betrayal trauma activates the nervous system into fight, flight, or freeze. When couples try to “process” the affair while emotionally flooded, it often retraumatizes both spouses instead of bringing healing.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why activated nervous systems cannot process safely
• How premature processing retraumatizes the betrayed spouse
• Why defensiveness escalates the…
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