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- 0:04Speaker 1: M M. Good morning, ning y'all.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Being ve needo, I no tc us.
- 0:22Speaker 1: That's so time. That's all time.
- 0:26Speaker 2: See mm hmm.
- 0:28Speaker 1: And they're the guy yeah mm hmm.
- 0:37Speaker 2: So yeah. Welcome to this week's episode of Want and
- 0:40Speaker 2: Audacity of the podcast. I'm your very little energy host
- 0:44Speaker 2: Brendan's cart. I'm joined by two of my favorite people
- 0:47Speaker 2: in the world. How are you feeling this week?
- 0:50Speaker 1: I'm here.
- 0:53Speaker 2: Good, that's all I got, really good. I'm struggling, it's all.
- 0:58Speaker 2: So it's clearly mark when y'all have seen this. But
- 1:05Speaker 2: ash Wednesday, you know, happy Marty gra to those who
- 1:08Speaker 2: celebrate that was that was this past week. Some beads
- 1:12Speaker 2: you'll have to show titty Yeah, I don't want to
- 1:20Speaker 2: see them.
- 1:20Speaker 1: That yucky.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Ash Wednesday was the day after. And for those of
- 1:26Speaker 2: y'all that know, I don't know Ash Wednesdays start of
- 1:29Speaker 2: the LNTON season. I am the Wednesday, Thursday Friday said,
- 1:34Speaker 2: four days into Lent. No sugar again, no sugar. I
- 1:37Speaker 2: do it every year. And when I last night celebrate
- 1:45Speaker 2: my friend DT's birthday. Happy birthday, Dt, Happy birthday girl.
- 1:48Speaker 2: We had a good time last night. We went to
- 1:50Speaker 2: the herschel Wing the d c's the Museum Modern Art.
- 1:54Speaker 2: That went to dinner and I had two double knob
- 1:58Speaker 2: Creek neats, saved yourmaine mm hmm uh huh, and and
- 2:04Speaker 2: died coke because again I can't have sugar. So and
- 2:09Speaker 2: then she was like, oh, I'm ordering to kill the
- 2:10Speaker 2: shots with the table?
- 2:11Speaker 1: Was it he call her amblamps? Please?
- 2:17Speaker 2: Because I can't drink, but I drink because ain't no bitch.
- 2:23Speaker 1: And uh, I'm.
- 2:26Speaker 2: Moving a little, little, little delayed this morning, y'all because
- 2:28Speaker 2: I don't normally drink that much.
- 2:31Speaker 1: Drink ain't no bitch, and didn't.
- 2:37Speaker 2: I'm a social drinker. I don't drink much like I've
- 2:40Speaker 2: never been a big drinker, so I'm feeling it today.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Well, I tell you I was your little lush as.
- 2:51Speaker 2: I am a social drinker.
- 2:55Speaker 1: So shall I drink? Why not?
- 3:03Speaker 2: Catching one on nine in the afternoon on the Surrey.
- 3:09Speaker 3: I don't know, friend, I just wanted to be noted
- 3:13Speaker 3: that I didn't say anything.
- 3:13Speaker 1: I don't.
- 3:14Speaker 2: I don't be fermenting my own fruit in my refrigeratord
- 3:16Speaker 2: home and put it in beverages like somebody at the
- 3:18Speaker 2: other end of the table, like you know what, bit
- 3:22Speaker 2: I said, what the funk? I said, I did exactly.
- 3:25Speaker 2: I own it. But I'm a sociallow drinker, bitch.
- 3:30Speaker 3: But you like it, though, said what's in the bottle?
- 3:38Speaker 3: He said, Craneberry? U, it's just some peaches? Did I
- 3:43Speaker 3: left soaking eighteen?
- 3:45Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 3:45Speaker 1: It was coming, it was coming out, was coming. It
- 3:47Speaker 1: was just just letting just let him keep talking. Yeah, yeah,
- 3:51Speaker 1: it was coming out.
- 3:52Speaker 2: I can't. I can't drink like that and not like
- 3:54Speaker 2: I used to be. I still got to drive home afterbody.
- 3:56Speaker 1: Trying to be one, but I don't.
- 4:00Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I'm that type of It's like I ain't
- 4:02Speaker 4: gonna get that unless I'm in the house. Bro Like yeah,
- 4:05Speaker 4: even the house. I mean what I'm saying, I'm in
- 4:07Speaker 4: the house. You know I can sleep, you know I
- 4:08Speaker 4: can sleep it off.
- 4:08Speaker 1: I'm cool, But yeah I can't. I can't do that
- 4:11Speaker 1: in puppet not no more, not as much. You know
- 4:14Speaker 1: what I mean?
- 4:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't can We don't condemnt drinking and driving.
- 4:18Speaker 2: Just say no kids. But then in my early twenties,
- 4:21Speaker 2: mid mid early mid mid to late twenties, I went
- 4:25Speaker 2: to a bar in DC called the Fireplace Speed. All
- 4:28Speaker 2: the mods go in du part circle, and uh, their
- 4:32Speaker 2: drinks are gasoline. You know, it's one of them bars.
- 4:36Speaker 2: If you get a cup this big of a mixed drink,
- 4:38Speaker 2: it's this much chaser and this much alcohol. So I
- 4:42Speaker 2: went and had me a couple of kind of carrying on, right,
- 4:46Speaker 2: I call myself having two drinks at the fireplace. Those
- 4:48Speaker 2: who know, no, that's that's a lot of fucking liquor.
- 4:52Speaker 2: And you know, I was living in DT at the time,
- 4:54Speaker 2: and I was like, all right, I'm going home. So
- 4:56Speaker 2: I got in the car, started driving, had the music going,
- 4:58Speaker 2: and I was like, oh shit, I've been.
- 5:00Speaker 1: In the car for a while.
- 5:03Speaker 2: Why is that sign say Potomac Mills.
- 5:08Speaker 1: I was like, oh, fix it, Jesus, mind you.
- 5:13Speaker 2: It was like three in the morning at this point,
- 5:15Speaker 2: and I was I've been caught for almost forty minutes.
- 5:18Speaker 2: Fix it, Jesus. I lived in Anacostia at the time.
- 5:21Speaker 2: Inside d C, I was so oblivious. And I drove
- 5:26Speaker 2: into Virginia down ninety five to Woodbridge. It's like almost
- 5:31Speaker 2: the hour outside of DC.
- 5:32Speaker 1: Was like, my nigga said. My nigga said, oh damn,
- 5:40Speaker 1: it's not my exit.
- 5:41Speaker 4: Bye by forty miles. Yeah, it wasn't outside. I can
- 5:44Speaker 4: I catch it coming back up?
- 5:46Speaker 2: I did good thing. I didn't drive the Richmond because I.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Was cham you had to pull on sleep that one.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah, I know no, or would have went
- 5:56Speaker 2: in there at my brother's house. But either way, I said,
- 6:01Speaker 2: you know what, I can't drink it drive.
- 6:02Speaker 1: I can't.
- 6:02Speaker 2: I can't do that, So you gotta pat yourself. Kids.
- 6:06Speaker 2: I drated.
- 6:08Speaker 1: This is water. That's death. That is not fucking Oh.
- 6:13Speaker 1: This water to the cup is just pretty.
- 6:22Speaker 4: It's juice and it's purple juice.
- 6:25Speaker 2: It's proof juice. Nigga, you you throw a matchinge that
- 6:30Speaker 2: that's gonna blow up off over the day.
- 6:31Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no, I ain't gonna no no ship.
- 6:34Speaker 1: That was moonshine.
- 6:35Speaker 2: Maybe mm hmm.
- 6:37Speaker 4: Want to talk about moonshine? Izza never had moonshine before.
- 6:41Speaker 1: And I'm good.
- 6:41Speaker 2: I'm a whiskey drinker.
- 6:42Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 6:42Speaker 1: No, No, you did, You're good.
- 6:45Speaker 2: I didn't that moon shine?
- 6:47Speaker 1: You take you taste it up and now I mean
- 6:49Speaker 1: you you know you ain't. You ain't like drink it,
- 6:51Speaker 1: drink it? You feel me? You know you touched a
- 6:53Speaker 1: little little apple pie, the little apple moon shine.
- 6:55Speaker 3: We had, Oh, I had authentic down from the South.
- 6:58Speaker 3: Probably was brewed in the bathtub. Moonshine.
- 7:01Speaker 2: Yeah, I know my limits.
- 7:02Speaker 1: I can't. It was a lot of stuff.
- 7:04Speaker 2: I'm sorry that.
- 7:05Speaker 1: Ship where you hit, that ship hit you. You can
- 7:09Speaker 1: feel the chest head growing like I.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Got my glass already. I don't need no chest head.
- 7:14Speaker 2: And the way my life going, we getting older to
- 7:17Speaker 2: be heal nose heir fucking around ship cham. I told
- 7:21Speaker 2: you the first time I Bob got my head cut
- 7:23Speaker 2: and he put that thing. What brother, I hate to
- 7:28Speaker 2: brek it to you, but you know you got some hair.
- 7:30Speaker 1: What the fuck? Thirty eight?
- 7:31Speaker 4: He said, it's Obama, just said, brother, but I hate
- 7:35Speaker 4: to break it to you, but you know you got
- 7:37Speaker 4: some he was he looked around.
- 7:38Speaker 2: You got nose head, dude?
- 7:39Speaker 1: What the fuck? He said?
- 7:41Speaker 2: Yeah, welcome in the middle age. I said, no, no, no, no, yeah.
- 7:51Speaker 2: It is the crumping the covers.
- 7:53Speaker 4: She might be you didn't have business. I mean sometimes
- 7:59Speaker 4: I guess you get to urge. You need to hump
- 8:01Speaker 4: on side. Don't move around, even if it is your
- 8:04Speaker 4: hopes and dreams. The little dog she got up there,
- 8:07Speaker 4: that thing up.
- 8:08Speaker 3: I bet in the middle of the whole way. I
- 8:10Speaker 3: was like, well, you clearly don't believe in privacy.
- 8:20Speaker 1: Get it.
- 8:21Speaker 4: Look at I get how I live. It's about to
- 8:24Speaker 4: get a real X rayed in her here. So you
- 8:29Speaker 4: want to stay. If you want to stay or not,
- 8:30Speaker 4: I don't give.
- 8:31Speaker 2: A I'm gonna get mine one way or that motherfucker.
- 8:33Speaker 1: She just.
- 8:37Speaker 2: She here.
- 8:38Speaker 1: You know, she moved it.
- 8:40Speaker 2: She heard us talking about him, was like, yeah, come,
- 8:50Speaker 2: So what else is with y'all? How y'all been feeling
- 8:52Speaker 2: these past a few days?
- 8:55Speaker 1: Tired?
- 8:57Speaker 2: Well you're dying, but you what? O? Who you been doing?
- 9:01Speaker 1: I wish it was a person.
- 9:04Speaker 3: Breaking all these extra damn I was because of this
- 9:06Speaker 3: damn snow just got back on my reckless schedule, and
- 9:08Speaker 3: now more snow is supposed.
- 9:10Speaker 1: To be coming.
- 9:12Speaker 2: Yeah, you on.
- 9:20Speaker 4: To me.
- 9:20Speaker 3: No, I'm no, I'm not interested in in hooking up
- 9:25Speaker 3: for fucking niggas. I can beat them anyway.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Sometimes they make genuine connections, Shauna.
- 9:32Speaker 4: I don't know a couple of people who's met off
- 9:34Speaker 4: ats who got married tender Oh No, that's that was tendernesssle.
- 9:42Speaker 2: No, that was that was what the name is the
- 9:45Speaker 2: at for big boys?
- 9:46Speaker 1: Mm hmmm mm hmmm.
- 9:48Speaker 2: Hold on, my friend now Jus met his husband christ
- 9:52Speaker 2: On christ On, hold on, what onder.
- 9:56Speaker 1: Big boys for big boys? Yeah, never heard of that one. Interested.
- 10:01Speaker 2: Yeah, I will hope not. It's not growler, it's called Growler.
- 10:08Speaker 2: But yeah, the whole bad thing. Yeah. I called myself
- 10:18Speaker 2: just looking around to see what was on there, like
- 10:20Speaker 2: a month or two, and was like, mm hmm, yeah,
- 10:24Speaker 2: I'll passed.
- 10:25Speaker 1: Yea, they're not worthy. That's okay. Yeah, interesting, y'all.
- 10:35Speaker 2: I'm a I'm a mute this part. Hold on, hold on, okay,
- 11:00Speaker 2: mm hmm.
- 11:01Speaker 1: The milk was ran sid That's a whole lot, a
- 11:06Speaker 1: whole lot of it was all milk and it was dawned. Dad,
- 11:10Speaker 1: I not is this location that the West Virginia said
- 11:13Speaker 1: I wanted man not cheese curds?
- 11:24Speaker 2: Well, you know, they fetishized my big ass self.
- 11:27Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 11:28Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about dating whiteness.
- 11:30Speaker 4: I mean, I.
- 11:37Speaker 1: Over stand, friend, you gotta at least be of some
- 11:40Speaker 1: sort of car. He gonna be warrior. Oh no, no, no, no,
- 11:48Speaker 1: straight shocking, no zulu. Mm hmm.
- 11:53Speaker 2: I think that's the episode. Damn you Aaron, you hit
- 11:59Speaker 2: you got two in the row.
- 12:00Speaker 1: My nigga, a whole lot of whole life.
- 12:04Speaker 2: Oh Ship, no, you you did badshots of broomsticks? Seanna did.
- 12:09Speaker 2: It's a suit, it's a tome outside mm hmm, straight
- 12:16Speaker 2: shaka noz.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Can we use a shovel ring song?
- 12:23Speaker 2: Mister loving man? Yepkay, you gotta said, what's the to do?
- 12:28Speaker 2: Oh no, your body won't lie to me, my Mexican,
- 12:31Speaker 2: your body.
- 12:31Speaker 1: Won't lie to me. Shut. Look shut.
- 12:42Speaker 3: We don't know what the hell we were saying. We
- 12:44Speaker 3: were just singing a song. It's like we didn't know
- 12:47Speaker 3: all them years, but we were singing with h murder.
- 12:51Speaker 3: She wrote.
- 12:51Speaker 1: We didn't know it was just a boe man. We
- 12:54Speaker 1: just wanted to grind out hires.
- 12:57Speaker 2: Could you see yourself doing swirl? Swing? Since we aut
- 13:06Speaker 2: of Black History Month, you know, but still power to
- 13:07Speaker 2: the people over here. But it's March, so we could
- 13:09Speaker 2: have this conversation. Now you think you could? You could
- 13:14Speaker 2: get down with the swirl.
- 13:19Speaker 1: I don't know shit. He had to he had to
- 13:22Speaker 1: be Italian. I don't know.
- 13:25Speaker 2: I think some PAULI d ship.
- 13:28Speaker 1: Never say never.
- 13:31Speaker 2: I guess if you meet somebody in the connection is there.
- 13:33Speaker 1: But I mean stranger things of that.
- 13:41Speaker 4: He'll be able to cook. He gotta be funny, he
- 13:47Speaker 4: gotta be like a wine connoisseur and his and his
- 13:53Speaker 4: idea of a great drink. Don't have to and don't
- 13:55Speaker 4: have to be black on the rocks.
- 13:58Speaker 2: Eron here you play the white woman for they.
- 14:01Speaker 3: Didn't gotta have bro like like Crisps allegedly dated or
- 14:09Speaker 3: involved in the horizontal tango dated a white woman. Nah,
- 14:13Speaker 3: dated the mixed guy. He was wiping low the waist.
- 14:17Speaker 3: But yeah, but that was a stereotype, you know. But exercise,
- 14:20Speaker 3: you know, did cardio with Yeah?
- 14:23Speaker 1: Was it different? Was it was it noticeably different? It
- 14:26Speaker 1: was it kind of like No, it's like it's not
- 14:28Speaker 1: it's not no world like, it's not no real difference.
- 14:31Speaker 1: And I mean tell you she wanted black cock. Yo.
- 14:38Speaker 1: If somebody says some ship like, oh this is over,
- 14:45Speaker 1: I'm hot, I'm hopping out with.
- 14:47Speaker 3: Come out, it's a big bed call call. That word
- 14:58Speaker 3: annoys me. You know, it just makes me eat.
- 15:02Speaker 1: You say some ship like that, It just don't hit
- 15:05Speaker 1: the head right. Well, does she wanted to have your
- 15:07Speaker 1: big black babies like the chick that I can't babies babies? Yeah,
- 15:14Speaker 1: I can't do all, I can't. I can't do race play.
- 15:18Speaker 1: I just I don't know. Mm hmm. Think I used
- 15:22Speaker 1: the N word too much to day outside he.
- 15:25Speaker 4: Said, well, baby, you said, why can't I know Charlotte
- 15:28Speaker 4: come out like that. Nigga did some ship I ain't
- 15:32Speaker 4: never seen before. I'm still trying to figure out what
- 15:35Speaker 4: the fuck he was doing with raisins. No, that'll get
- 15:39Speaker 4: him shot. I picked the raisins out my oatmeal raisin cookies.
- 15:44Speaker 2: I don't.
- 15:47Speaker 1: I picked him up by my cennhim and raisin bagels.
- 15:51Speaker 1: Said he was trying to make some oatmeal raisin cookies
- 15:54Speaker 1: with your cookies. Oh some go there, said.
- 16:02Speaker 2: Well, back to what I don't think living in this
- 16:06Speaker 2: area where it's a lot of black people and you
- 16:08Speaker 2: have your your your pick of black people to choose
- 16:11Speaker 2: from because they because we are everywhere, I don't really want.
- 16:16Speaker 1: To appears that we may be the majority now, which
- 16:21Speaker 1: is crazy.
- 16:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never dated a white guy before.
- 16:26Speaker 1: I did a half Like I said, he was vibe
- 16:27Speaker 1: racial with us half.
- 16:31Speaker 2: But if I live in the airplace like LA where
- 16:33Speaker 2: we make up, well, black people will make up like
- 16:35Speaker 2: ten percent of the population of the whole metro area.
- 16:37Speaker 2: Of like four million people, and.
- 16:39Speaker 1: We can see that, you know, going to go play
- 16:42Speaker 1: tennis for android or some ship.
- 16:45Speaker 2: I mean even the places I have been that are
- 16:47Speaker 2: black black, like Atlanta. Of course its own New Orleans
- 16:53Speaker 2: is all black. But I mean even I've heard of,
- 16:55Speaker 2: like I've wanted to go to Houston in Dowllas. I've
- 16:57Speaker 2: never been in Texas before, but I've heard of like
- 16:59Speaker 2: you know, Houston and else of having like really large
- 17:01Speaker 2: black gay populations. But if I wanted to, Well, when
- 17:04Speaker 2: I was in Miami, I was, I was with family,
- 17:07Speaker 2: and I wasn't on no apps or nothing, but the
- 17:09Speaker 2: pop the black population down there is significantly smaller compared
- 17:13Speaker 2: to hear that it's mostly Hispanic guys. I don't know,
- 17:19Speaker 2: not for to say never, but I mean I don't
- 17:21Speaker 2: frequent places that white gay's going. Like I said, they
- 17:23Speaker 2: fetishized my big as, so I the ones I have encountered,
- 17:27Speaker 2: I'm I'm good. I mean not a piece of meat.
- 17:31Speaker 2: You know, I could be, but not for them. Let's
- 17:36Speaker 2: move on, because this is just I'm rambling that. I'm rambling. Now,
- 17:40Speaker 2: how are you a what's new with you?
- 17:44Speaker 1: I'm good? Good, you know, cater birthday. Celebrate Catero birthday
- 17:51Speaker 1: when he was last month. B yeah, but.
- 18:02Speaker 4: Technically it's still February. Then it's tomorrow mm hmm. But
- 18:09Speaker 4: as birthday coming up, man, it's like damn USh your book.
- 18:13Speaker 1: You about to turn too, looking at him, like, boy,
- 18:16Speaker 1: we kept you alive for two years? All right, Okay,
- 18:18Speaker 1: that's right, we were doing all right.
- 18:20Speaker 4: First of all, like I told him when I texted
- 18:24Speaker 4: out of it, when I text your out of it,
- 18:26Speaker 4: like the other day, by accident, this nigga cheated on
- 18:29Speaker 4: the fucking battery.
- 18:32Speaker 1: Are you trying to get super powers? Son?
- 18:36Speaker 4: He's no, he's interesting, like y'all y'all saying from the
- 18:39Speaker 4: video skity're saying, like he interested in writing. So he's
- 18:42Speaker 4: starting like so he'll pick up a pen and you know,
- 18:44Speaker 4: try to find some paper and write down or write
- 18:46Speaker 4: on it or whatever, or try to write.
- 18:48Speaker 1: On the wall.
- 18:49Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean, sould kids thought, you know, kider
- 18:53Speaker 4: just thought that he might have like beiten into the pen,
- 18:55Speaker 4: like bet into a pen, and I got like ink
- 18:57Speaker 4: like ink around his mouth. So when then he she
- 19:00Speaker 4: found a battery and it's like the paper was gone.
- 19:04Speaker 4: It's like like like he looked like he did a
- 19:07Speaker 4: real number on that shit. I'm like, ah shit, here
- 19:09Speaker 4: we going I get home. I was like, are we
- 19:11Speaker 4: gonna take them to the emergency?
- 19:12Speaker 1: Bro? Already cool?
- 19:13Speaker 4: Call my mother and like, hey Ma, you're gonna get
- 19:15Speaker 4: us and take us take his take his emergency around
- 19:18Speaker 4: a jahoo on the battery. Mom was like Mom's and
- 19:21Speaker 4: the damn headdressing like hell wet. She sent us the
- 19:24Speaker 4: month so she was like, I'm gonna say, you all
- 19:26Speaker 4: the money to get an uber and I just gonna
- 19:28Speaker 4: pick y'all up. So I paid fucking forty dollars for
- 19:33Speaker 4: Uber to get me to get us down to mergency
- 19:36Speaker 4: because that's where his information is.
- 19:39Speaker 1: Hey, rain y'all forty bucks.
- 19:42Speaker 4: This was like it was last night when it was like,
- 19:45Speaker 4: I mean it was uh, I know, the night before
- 19:48Speaker 4: it was like it was like raining and some shit
- 19:50Speaker 4: and you know, like rach go up when rain.
- 19:52Speaker 1: So my mom was like, she texted me like did
- 19:56Speaker 1: you call boys to control what they say? I was like,
- 19:58Speaker 1: oh shit, poison control. I had to do it one
- 20:04Speaker 1: time something and I had to call boys control. So
- 20:07Speaker 1: I called him. Think it was medicine or something. He
- 20:09Speaker 1: decided to take to the head.
- 20:11Speaker 4: I called him and I asked, oh, like I was like, sir,
- 20:16Speaker 4: I was like, hey, look, my son was chewing on
- 20:18Speaker 4: the battery.
- 20:18Speaker 1: He he like, he don't have no like he don't
- 20:21Speaker 1: have nothing on his mouth, no burns or anything like that.
- 20:24Speaker 1: But the control after you paid, yeah for the ober
- 20:28Speaker 1: to go to Mercy. So what did they tell you
- 20:30Speaker 1: at Mercy?
- 20:30Speaker 4: No, no, nigga, The poison control was like, dude, was like, oh,
- 20:35Speaker 4: it's just a battery. Oh, he's all right, Just just
- 20:37Speaker 4: give me a bad like give my bath, washll like
- 20:39Speaker 4: wash all, wash all, told me, wash all the black
- 20:41Speaker 4: stuff off, give my bath. He's not he if he's
- 20:43Speaker 4: not burned, he's not showing those signs of like you know,
- 20:46Speaker 4: no signs of h like, no other symptoms, like he's
- 20:48Speaker 4: still himself.
- 20:50Speaker 1: Washed myll, you know, washing myll pruscious teeve and give
- 20:52Speaker 1: me his favorite drink. And they didn't tell you that. No,
- 20:57Speaker 1: he never held me. He told me. I ain't had
- 20:59Speaker 1: to go. So I'm sitting here like sign of a bitch.
- 21:04Speaker 1: I was up, so I'm out, like I was out.
- 21:06Speaker 4: I was out forty dollars because they was like, you know,
- 21:10Speaker 4: I had to pay some of that bad because motherfucker
- 21:12Speaker 4: was like at I got to voice roll over, it
- 21:13Speaker 4: was like two minutes away.
- 21:15Speaker 1: Oh. I was like, ain't that a bitch?
- 21:19Speaker 4: Then my mother in law was like, y'all not taking
- 21:21Speaker 4: him to the mercer like mine? He say you fine?
- 21:23Speaker 4: Like you said he fine? I would didn't have to
- 21:25Speaker 4: take it to the emergency from he's jumping off the
- 21:28Speaker 4: tables and he jumping off a chick and he's fine.
- 21:30Speaker 4: He wanted super powers and he fine. Not too much
- 21:33Speaker 4: for my god time. But I was up, but I
- 21:35Speaker 4: was up all night. I'm up all night playing the
- 21:37Speaker 4: game and ship like like just looking over, like just
- 21:40Speaker 4: looking over like, h I'm right, you still breathing but
- 21:45Speaker 4: no coughing it right? Yeah, fucking kids, man.
- 21:51Speaker 1: So do y'all want to do questions of the week?
- 21:52Speaker 2: First? Do y'all want to talk about this America's next
- 21:54Speaker 2: time ode of documentary?
- 21:56Speaker 1: We need? Let's let's do this question that we get
- 21:58Speaker 1: it out the way, because I got some things it
- 22:00Speaker 1: all my chest.
- 22:00Speaker 3: Okayt that documentary, baby, because just come outside when we
- 22:06Speaker 3: ain't gonna do nothing to bring your big ass head
- 22:12Speaker 3: as outside up to her and why yeah, they bring bring,
- 22:18Speaker 3: bring break. Bring mister mister, mister J, mister what's his name.
- 22:22Speaker 2: Mister J. Bring him with Manell?
- 22:25Speaker 1: Yeah, bring him wi. I'm gonna make the maybe leing
- 22:27Speaker 1: off his motherfucker face. Bring which.
- 22:32Speaker 2: How about we do talk about the documentary for so
- 22:34Speaker 2: we already started talking about it before we before we
- 22:38Speaker 2: get into I'm gonna actually read the synopsis. So for
- 22:41Speaker 2: those of y'all that have been living under rock for
- 22:43Speaker 2: the past month. At the top of February, Netflix really
- 22:46Speaker 2: documentary called The Night Agent is Back. That's my show
- 22:50Speaker 2: I'm watching.
- 22:53Speaker 3: And Cross came back onto and the nay to sit
- 22:56Speaker 3: down and I don't want to start it in our
- 22:58Speaker 3: k you know, she get interrupted. It's only it's three
- 23:01Speaker 3: episodes up so far. I just turned The First World
- 23:04Speaker 3: on and so Eldest halled and was like.
- 23:07Speaker 2: Lusty ass. So Netflix released documentary at the top of
- 23:14Speaker 2: February called Reality Check Inside America's Next Top Model, and
- 23:18Speaker 2: the synopsis reads Tyra and the judges reflect on the
- 23:21Speaker 2: early vision and ambitions of ANTM as the show became
- 23:24Speaker 2: a cultural phenomenon. Drama builds up behind the scenes. The
- 23:28Speaker 2: story details the show. Again, like we mentioned earlier from
- 23:32Speaker 2: our younger years. When we were in high school that
- 23:35Speaker 2: started called America's Next No No, they started in old
- 23:38Speaker 2: ANTM started in two thousand and seven, So yeah, we
- 23:41Speaker 2: were in high school when ANTM started, in our junior
- 23:44Speaker 2: year of high school when America's Next Top Model started,
- 23:47Speaker 2: and it was revolutionary because it peeled muffin cap back
- 23:50Speaker 2: blue on the modeling industry and gave would be miles
- 23:54Speaker 2: a chance at realizing their.
- 23:55Speaker 1: Dreams and goals.
- 23:58Speaker 2: I think we all knew who's Howard Banks was being
- 24:01Speaker 2: millennials from seeing her as Jackie or Fresh Prince of
- 24:03Speaker 2: bel Air. I think Life Side had come out on
- 24:07Speaker 2: the Disney Channel at that point. She was a model
- 24:11Speaker 2: that we had seen around and she had been on
- 24:13Speaker 2: TV for years. But this is revolutionary because it was
- 24:15Speaker 2: nothing like it on TV at the time, so I said,
- 24:19Speaker 2: and I think earlier this week, I watched all three
- 24:20Speaker 2: episodes back to back. I'm glad it was only three
- 24:22Speaker 2: episodes because I would have been all night finishing all
- 24:25Speaker 2: ten of them. But I do think the show deserved it.
- 24:28Speaker 2: They could have done a much deeper dive on like
- 24:30Speaker 2: season by season.
- 24:31Speaker 4: You know they need to do a deeper dive, but
- 24:35Speaker 4: twer don't need to be any part of it though, well,
- 24:37Speaker 4: from what I.
- 24:38Speaker 2: Was seeing online, she initially wasn't a part of this documentary.
- 24:41Speaker 2: They added her in after the fact. That's what I
- 24:43Speaker 2: was sold, Yeah, and get her top billing. But she
- 24:45Speaker 2: wasn't initially a part of the documentary that the two
- 24:49Speaker 2: J's now joined and a lot of the contestants were,
- 24:53Speaker 2: but she they added her on after the fact to
- 24:55Speaker 2: get her perspective as co executive producer with Kim Mock
- 25:00Speaker 2: and the creator of the series, seeing the behind the
- 25:03Speaker 2: scenes of a lot of the shit that happened on
- 25:06Speaker 2: that show was wild, and I think agreed a lot
- 25:10Speaker 2: of the commentary I'm seeing online. Of course, people have
- 25:13Speaker 2: to understand that, no, while it doesn't absolve you from
- 25:18Speaker 2: the wrongs you did to people looking at this through
- 25:21Speaker 2: a twenty twenty six lens for a show that premiered
- 25:23Speaker 2: on TV twenty three years ago, of course, people aren't
- 25:26Speaker 2: going to have the same level of sensitivity. They're not
- 25:29Speaker 2: going to consider things the same way that we do now.
- 25:33Speaker 2: Like for example, with Shandy in season was it cycle
- 25:36Speaker 2: two or cycle three? When they went to Milan and
- 25:39Speaker 2: she was sexually assaulted, she got drunk.
- 25:41Speaker 3: She got drunken and had now recollection really of what
- 25:46Speaker 3: happened next day. This is why I always say to
- 25:49Speaker 3: people you should never get You have to know your
- 25:53Speaker 3: limits to be able to protect yourself, because you cannot
- 25:56Speaker 3: depend on other people to protect you and in no
- 26:01Speaker 3: way to victim blame anything like that. I'm sure a
- 26:03Speaker 3: lot of people have gone beyond their limits and don't
- 26:06Speaker 3: remember a lot of stuff. You have to know what
- 26:08Speaker 3: your your your limit is when it comes to alcohol,
- 26:10Speaker 3: because some people look to prey on people like that.
- 26:15Speaker 3: And her her story was heartbreaking. It was It was
- 26:18Speaker 3: very heartbreaking, and.
- 26:19Speaker 1: It was there was just so nonchalant about it. That's
- 26:21Speaker 1: the put that pissed me off.
- 26:23Speaker 3: So it was just like, well, I mean, and then
- 26:25Speaker 3: they tried to get her to keep talking about it
- 26:28Speaker 3: when she went on Tier show after the Fix brought
- 26:31Speaker 3: it up, and you saw she was uncomfortable when you
- 26:34Speaker 3: kept fucking talking, you big forehead, that it's bitch.
- 26:37Speaker 1: So you kept asking her, you kept questioning that I
- 26:41Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about that show. That's the problem.
- 26:43Speaker 3: Now, people cared so much about ratings and going viral
- 26:47Speaker 3: and all this ship like that, and that girl was
- 26:50Speaker 3: clearly uncomfortable.
- 26:51Speaker 1: So what happened? Did you break up with you?
- 26:55Speaker 3: You saw how you can anybody with any kind of
- 26:58Speaker 3: fucking and they can look and see how uncomfortable that
- 27:02Speaker 3: girl was, and they kept questioning.
- 27:04Speaker 2: But the thing about that that they talked about and
- 27:06Speaker 2: I thought that was really Of course, when it aired,
- 27:09Speaker 2: we just thought in our young brains, oh, she just
- 27:12Speaker 2: got drunk a cheated on a boyfriend, right, But looking
- 27:14Speaker 2: on it, looking back on it as thirty nine and
- 27:16Speaker 2: forty year olds, was like, my nigger, that was sexual assault.
- 27:19Speaker 1: It was she cannot give consent.
- 27:21Speaker 2: She could to be. To be quite honest, the guy
- 27:23Speaker 2: could have been past his point of being able to
- 27:26Speaker 2: consider because he was so faring drunk.
- 27:28Speaker 1: He was drunk too.
- 27:29Speaker 2: Neither one of them could have been in a place
- 27:31Speaker 2: where they were able to consent. But the fact that
- 27:34Speaker 2: the cameras kept rolling while rolling while it was happening,
- 27:38Speaker 2: nobody from project production thought to step in and say.
- 27:41Speaker 1: Hey, wait a minute, y' intoxicated?
- 27:43Speaker 3: Now?
- 27:43Speaker 1: That was that was That was the thing. That that
- 27:45Speaker 1: was the fucked me up because j J.
- 27:47Speaker 4: Because Jay was like the role you know, their role
- 27:51Speaker 4: was if it was if you were in the bathroom solo,
- 27:55Speaker 4: you would not be recorded. And then it's like now
- 27:58Speaker 4: that took you know, and it felt like the producers
- 28:01Speaker 4: took that and ran with that, like, Yo, you know,
- 28:05Speaker 4: you see two drunk ass people and it's like and
- 28:08Speaker 4: I'm not and them, and it's like, I'm just going
- 28:10Speaker 4: off of you know when you know when we seen it,
- 28:14Speaker 4: when we seen them when we were younger, she got drunk,
- 28:16Speaker 4: like yo, she got drunk.
- 28:17Speaker 2: He drunk.
- 28:18Speaker 1: She feeling it, you know what I'm saying.
- 28:19Speaker 4: They going in there at that point, Yo, Once they went,
- 28:21Speaker 4: once they went, once they went past that. We shouldn't
- 28:24Speaker 4: have known.
- 28:24Speaker 3: What they shouldn't have been allowed to invite strangers to
- 28:27Speaker 3: the fucking house in the first place. That should have
- 28:30Speaker 3: been a real double was in places I was talking.
- 28:33Speaker 3: You don't know what that person was capable of fucking doing.
- 28:35Speaker 3: They could have been set y'all up, and it could
- 28:37Speaker 3: have been a whole lot worse.
- 28:39Speaker 2: Than what it was.
- 28:40Speaker 1: You have no idea what they was capable.
- 28:41Speaker 3: They didn't know them, them niggas, they had just met them,
- 28:44Speaker 3: and you allowed them to invite them over to the house.
- 28:46Speaker 1: Just so you can get a moment one came. But
- 28:47Speaker 1: that was fucking bananas.
- 28:49Speaker 4: And then when she and then it's like the fact
- 28:51Speaker 4: that she said she needed to call her boyfriend and
- 28:54Speaker 4: they the phone call.
- 28:56Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm saying like.
- 28:58Speaker 4: All of that, going through all of that until she
- 29:00Speaker 4: until she said she was gonna quit like that, and
- 29:03Speaker 4: then it's like, oh, well, if you're quitting, then you
- 29:05Speaker 4: know how we can give you the phone, but we
- 29:08Speaker 4: need to refort We need to record that conversation because
- 29:10Speaker 4: we see what she was gonna say.
- 29:13Speaker 1: Yo, that ship. Nah, they knew, you know, they they know,
- 29:16Speaker 1: they know that it was gonna be something different.
- 29:18Speaker 2: And watching it back and see her body, she's physically
- 29:21Speaker 2: laid out on the ground. You hear her sobbing and crying.
- 29:24Speaker 2: He's sobbing and crying on the other end, and she's
- 29:26Speaker 2: just laying in her body. Baby he called you, yeah,
- 29:30Speaker 2: her body even and all this stuff, and the fact
- 29:33Speaker 2: that Shandy literally said when they finished recording the scene,
- 29:37Speaker 2: the camera member like, we are so sorry that we
- 29:40Speaker 2: had to record that moment for the show. We're sorry
- 29:43Speaker 2: that this happened to you, and we're sorry that we
- 29:45Speaker 2: had to capture that happening to you.
- 29:47Speaker 1: I would have walked out that was that was the
- 29:50Speaker 1: things that people do to to chase pain. It's it's crazy.
- 29:59Speaker 3: This stuff that they felt like they had to deal
- 30:01Speaker 3: with and put up with because they were pursuing their
- 30:03Speaker 3: dreams was it was a lot.
- 30:07Speaker 2: But doesn't that speak to reality TV as a whole,
- 30:09Speaker 2: where that's how they get a lot of people who
- 30:12Speaker 2: may be down and out, may not have other options
- 30:14Speaker 2: or things to fall back on, so they will put
- 30:16Speaker 2: up with things or undergo what a lot of us
- 30:18Speaker 2: considered to be drastic about it.
- 30:20Speaker 3: And look the reality shows that we grew up on
- 30:22Speaker 3: and the way that these people go on TV and
- 30:24Speaker 3: humiliate themselves for a paycheck. Just to the Zeus with
- 30:30Speaker 3: With With Love and the Love and Hip hop franchise,
- 30:34Speaker 3: with Flavor of Love and For the Love of Ray
- 30:37Speaker 3: J and Rock of Love and Real Chance of Love
- 30:39Speaker 3: and I Love New York and all of those shows
- 30:43Speaker 3: that were coming on for years. They literally get on
- 30:45Speaker 3: TV and humiliate themselves. And we know how editing is,
- 30:49Speaker 3: so they edit something to make it look ten times
- 30:52Speaker 3: to wards it's.
- 30:53Speaker 1: Already bad, was reinforced, they add it.
- 30:58Speaker 3: And take stuff out to make it look ten times.
- 31:01Speaker 3: Even the Housewives franchise, Oh, yeah, all of it to
- 31:05Speaker 3: look ten times worse.
- 31:07Speaker 1: Married to medicine.
- 31:08Speaker 3: I promise you I would never trust none of them
- 31:11Speaker 3: bitches with my medical kid. Doctor Happily couldn't do nothing
- 31:15Speaker 3: with my teeth, Doctor Simone couldn't be in my cootie cat, No,
- 31:19Speaker 3: I would.
- 31:19Speaker 1: I wouldn't trust me, and hell especially doctor Jackie. What
- 31:25Speaker 1: how fat shaming ass fuck her?
- 31:27Speaker 4: Well, wait, but my hunger, one of my one of
- 31:31Speaker 4: my hungirl she her old bag was doctor Jackie when she.
- 31:34Speaker 3: Doctor fuck her but after she got her her male
- 31:38Speaker 3: nutrition looking ass on TV. And what she can talk
- 31:42Speaker 3: about fat bitches, I'm talking about her skinny aga and
- 31:46Speaker 3: and said that they made their comment about and then
- 31:48Speaker 3: tried to backtrack order they comment about uh.
- 31:52Speaker 1: Black women.
- 31:55Speaker 3: Being able to tolerate more pain or or over exaggerating
- 31:58Speaker 3: whatever the fuck she said, and try to say she
- 32:00Speaker 3: misspoke or reworded and wrong whatever the fuck.
- 32:03Speaker 1: She said, doctor Jacky.
- 32:04Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I'll say this. I said what I said
- 32:08Speaker 4: before before watching the documentary. I already had like I
- 32:12Speaker 4: already had, I was, I was already like fuck tower.
- 32:15Speaker 3: Same just her spirit, her spirit don't sit right, no, no, no,
- 32:20Speaker 3: you know watching you know like watching, watching YouTube videos
- 32:23Speaker 3: talking about America's Next Time Model watching, and then you
- 32:25Speaker 3: know we're going back, and then it's like, yo, you
- 32:28Speaker 3: had a platform.
- 32:31Speaker 4: To help uplift it and to help uplift up and
- 32:33Speaker 4: coming models. The first cycle, okay, we saw it and
- 32:37Speaker 4: it was good.
- 32:37Speaker 2: Like it was. It was good, and those girls didn't
- 32:39Speaker 2: know what they were getting into because it was a
- 32:40Speaker 2: brand new show, so there was no way for it.
- 32:42Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 32:42Speaker 2: I would even say the first maybe two or first
- 32:45Speaker 2: two or three seasons, those early seasons of the show,
- 32:48Speaker 2: the girls didn't know what they were getting into. They
- 32:50Speaker 2: may not have known or had enough backstory to know, Hey,
- 32:53Speaker 2: they gonna put you through some ship. You gotta undergo
- 32:56Speaker 2: medical procedures on the show, Like remember john gave the
- 32:58Speaker 2: teeth that would Andy they got her, they closed her
- 33:01Speaker 2: gap or they found her teat and put in a
- 33:03Speaker 2: prosthetic thing the closer gap. And then the other girl
- 33:06Speaker 2: they teach took her teeth out of her mouth and
- 33:09Speaker 2: did something to her like that was a lie. So
- 33:12Speaker 2: that girl didn't want to close her gag and she
- 33:14Speaker 2: said Johnnie said that she was eighteen, but she didn't
- 33:16Speaker 2: have a chance to talk to her mother. To seek
- 33:18Speaker 2: legal counsel. Like they put they put like a release
- 33:21Speaker 2: in her face that she had to sign on the spot,
- 33:23Speaker 2: and then they put her infidental care.
- 33:25Speaker 1: My yeah, was my favorite one on because she was
- 33:29Speaker 1: giving all the time. You mean that ship. Yeah, that
- 33:34Speaker 1: was my whole I mean, but that was my whole,
- 33:35Speaker 1: that's my whole thing.
- 33:36Speaker 4: It's like, Yo, you had this platform, and then I
- 33:37Speaker 4: just felt like you're you're trying and it's like, Yo,
- 33:41Speaker 4: you're trying to put them through the ship that you
- 33:43Speaker 4: went through, and and it's like Yo, then it don't
- 33:45Speaker 4: have to it doesn't have to be like that, Like yo,
- 33:48Speaker 4: you you putting like the one the one little the
- 33:49Speaker 4: one little bit you almost had hypothermia, like shiver, right,
- 33:54Speaker 4: you're putting them the people, and then you started treating
- 33:57Speaker 4: like it's fair factor because you asked them how to
- 33:59Speaker 4: you know. I think I remember one cycle she was
- 34:03Speaker 4: it was like people like they were taking you did
- 34:05Speaker 4: you did a photo shoot about other people fizz and
- 34:08Speaker 4: these people are like definitely scared of spiders and shipp
- 34:10Speaker 4: and it's like.
- 34:12Speaker 1: And that was that picture.
- 34:16Speaker 3: Listen him even motherfucking picked for Marcel uh Sterling whatever
- 34:23Speaker 3: the name is.
- 34:24Speaker 1: These days. Maybe maybe listen that picture.
- 34:31Speaker 3: That's easily I say the top one thing you can
- 34:34Speaker 3: take from her her face called face car.
- 34:36Speaker 1: They never declined.
- 34:36Speaker 2: Honey, I would say, is that picture that even with
- 34:39Speaker 2: the with the tarantula, Johanna had the picture with that
- 34:41Speaker 2: with the motorcycle helmet on. If you remember that from
- 34:43Speaker 2: cycle two she was a white model, she had like
- 34:46Speaker 2: a motorcycle helmet on. That's one of the top five photos.
- 34:50Speaker 2: I would say Kenya's photo.
- 34:51Speaker 1: They they said they was picking bad photos of them
- 34:53Speaker 1: on purpose.
- 34:54Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that was my but that's also that's also
- 34:57Speaker 4: my that was also my problems after watch documentary was
- 35:00Speaker 4: still fuck Tarboro because Yo, these girls like these girls,
- 35:03Speaker 4: they didn't like Yo.
- 35:05Speaker 1: She didn't take any accountability for the ship none.
- 35:08Speaker 4: And then not in j and then in j Man
- 35:11Speaker 4: you well you saw then then it's like Yo, you've
- 35:15Speaker 4: seen where he was out of it, like visically like yo.
- 35:19Speaker 4: And and now when you now, when you when you
- 35:21Speaker 4: look back on it, when they did when they did
- 35:24Speaker 4: the when they did the race swap, when they did
- 35:26Speaker 4: the race swap, and they was they was making you know,
- 35:29Speaker 4: they made they was putting giving the white girls black
- 35:31Speaker 4: face and ship and it's like, yo, he he wasn't.
- 35:33Speaker 1: It was like he wasn't feeling it.
- 35:35Speaker 4: And then you notice that the second time that she
- 35:37Speaker 4: did it, Tyra Banks was like, oh, you know it
- 35:39Speaker 4: was was in charge of it, you know, like put
- 35:42Speaker 4: it out there to make it feel, you know, to
- 35:43Speaker 4: make it feel some kind of way. And then like
- 35:45Speaker 4: then for her to say, I was just trying to
- 35:47Speaker 4: put you know, put put the emphasis on more on
- 35:50Speaker 4: the black and brown people say nah, no, no, like.
- 35:54Speaker 2: Yo, you were wrong.
- 35:58Speaker 1: Mm hmmm it was you.
- 35:59Speaker 4: You were wrong and you were you were but little
- 36:03Speaker 4: in these girls. You were purposely putting them through the ringer.
- 36:06Speaker 4: And then Janice didn't make.
- 36:08Speaker 1: It no different.
- 36:11Speaker 3: I can't stand at old cool cool. I've never liked
- 36:16Speaker 3: Janie Dickerson. I've not didn't like her then, I don't
- 36:19Speaker 3: like her now. She is a horrible fucking person.
- 36:22Speaker 2: I will say, looking at it from because there are
- 36:25Speaker 2: some some contestants from the show who to this day
- 36:29Speaker 2: showered Tower but nothing but praise.
- 36:31Speaker 1: I think he was one of them.
- 36:34Speaker 2: Who else but see Eva got a career to carver
- 36:38Speaker 2: to an extent, and it was even crazy watching to
- 36:41Speaker 2: Carra come on and how they were talking about how
- 36:44Speaker 2: she's so fat and she they don't have clothes that
- 36:46Speaker 2: fit her.
- 36:47Speaker 1: Her and the other girl what was the white girl named?
- 36:50Speaker 1: That was so considered plus Whitney.
- 36:52Speaker 2: One second I watched Whitney season actually followed Whitney on
- 36:55Speaker 2: TikTok after.
- 36:56Speaker 3: The I was shocked by that because they kept emphasizing
- 36:59Speaker 3: her wait. I said, well, if she fed, I'm my
- 37:02Speaker 3: motherfucking a sham mo. If she considered fat, that's crazy.
- 37:07Speaker 2: And but the fact was they tried to. They emphasized
- 37:10Speaker 2: it by saying, well, we don't have closed that fit
- 37:11Speaker 2: y'all know, y'all could have got closed to.
- 37:13Speaker 4: Figure it out here she was a bigger when when
- 37:17Speaker 4: we have to stitch it or like clamp it in
- 37:22Speaker 4: the back, But you got your home. The thing was,
- 37:24Speaker 4: and I've seen pictures of Takara. To Carra is maybe
- 37:27Speaker 4: I think at the time of the size ten besides eight, size.
- 37:30Speaker 3: Ten, she just had big boobs, Yes she did, she
- 37:33Speaker 3: did fine, still fine, is still fine?
- 37:37Speaker 2: I think correct me if I'm wrong, y'all, And not
- 37:40Speaker 2: to compare her, but I think to Carra is smaller
- 37:43Speaker 2: than Meghan is Stallion.
- 37:45Speaker 1: Now it's possible.
- 37:46Speaker 2: I think even back there, or they might have been
- 37:48Speaker 2: like no matter, they might have similar bills. But Meghan
- 37:51Speaker 2: is all like butter Ye Meghan ship like a w superstar.
- 37:59Speaker 1: Yeah she is just with more ass.
- 38:01Speaker 2: Yeah I love.
- 38:04Speaker 1: Anyways.
- 38:05Speaker 2: Sorry Clay, don't throw basketball head know who we all.
- 38:10Speaker 1: Know we've been lusting for.
- 38:11Speaker 2: Yes, but Tokara was if you look at pictures of
- 38:13Speaker 2: Takara to Carra was small. Like I get it. Standards
- 38:19Speaker 2: in the real world or regular world are a lot
- 38:23Speaker 2: more loose and less stretched than the modeling world because
- 38:25Speaker 2: they want models to fit into sample sizes, which is
- 38:28Speaker 2: a two.
- 38:30Speaker 3: The real world sample sizes don't fit most people ain't
- 38:36Speaker 3: no sign.
- 38:36Speaker 1: Most people ain't no zero or two zero or double zero. No. No,
- 38:41Speaker 1: that's not that most people are not that size. You're
- 38:45Speaker 1: not being inclusively on doing it.
- 38:46Speaker 3: Purposely, And that's what pisses me Off're hide and behind,
- 38:50Speaker 3: hide behind the guys of were emphasizing and plus size
- 38:53Speaker 3: models because the model world, the modeling the world, doesn't
- 38:55Speaker 3: acknowledge them.
- 38:57Speaker 1: Yild boo boo tomatoes.
- 39:01Speaker 4: Yeah, but and then you know, but then then then
- 39:04Speaker 4: the other thing that was fucking with me about it
- 39:06Speaker 4: is that the ones that got eliminated. They couldn't use
- 39:09Speaker 4: their they couldn't they couldn't use their.
- 39:13Speaker 1: And it's like that was crazy.
- 39:14Speaker 4: I mean, at least American idolo they signed. They signed
- 39:18Speaker 4: the top five to their little to their little record label,
- 39:20Speaker 4: and the.
- 39:21Speaker 2: People actually came up with actual records that went the
- 39:23Speaker 2: distance compared to a Jennifer.
- 39:25Speaker 1: Think about it. Rubens studied one American item, but Clay
- 39:30Speaker 1: still blew up. Yeah, if I'm not mistaken, Clay Ship
- 39:33Speaker 1: sold more than Rubens did. That was crazy.
- 39:36Speaker 4: Well, well, Clay, Clay got Clay got more support than
- 39:40Speaker 4: than than than the black Man Bro like Clay, Clay
- 39:42Speaker 4: and Clay and Clayton and led by Bro. They like
- 39:45Speaker 4: they're gonna support you everywhere he anyway he performed and
- 39:50Speaker 4: they they're right that the first fifteen rows it sold out.
- 39:53Speaker 2: Was he out back then? I don't think.
- 39:56Speaker 1: I don't think he came afterwards, but that came out.
- 39:58Speaker 2: He came. Same with Lance Joe Thomas, like Jo was
- 40:02Speaker 2: like we knew. I mean we ain't say nothing, but
- 40:06Speaker 2: we all knew.
- 40:08Speaker 1: We know.
- 40:11Speaker 2: Have y'all seen a quick aside? Have y'all it's supposed
- 40:13Speaker 2: to quarter around on social media. It's supposed to Ricky
- 40:16Speaker 2: Martin from back during his living Levita Local days. He's
- 40:19Speaker 2: performing on stage. All you see ships moving, He's performing
- 40:23Speaker 2: the song and a girl I think she's gen Z
- 40:26Speaker 2: was like, how did y'all not know that man was gay?
- 40:29Speaker 2: Because I'm watching this and clearly.
- 40:31Speaker 1: We knew, we know, we knew. We just didn't say anything.
- 40:33Speaker 2: We don't care. It's like it's like Luther, yeah, we know.
- 40:37Speaker 1: And the teeth.
- 40:40Speaker 2: Queena Tea our she was her wife and basketball how
- 40:44Speaker 2: was it? Go ahead, Queen Tea, you know this, this
- 40:49Speaker 2: is this is a day laying on staying podcast.
- 40:52Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we love us in these parts calling
- 40:59Speaker 4: the bitch. I don't want no smoke, won't want yeah,
- 41:02Speaker 4: I won't want her to pull out that Cory motorcycle.
- 41:06Speaker 4: Why honey, we love and you take.
- 41:13Speaker 1: The helmet up. She take the helmet off and the
- 41:14Speaker 1: Cleo braids. It's like, yeah, my bad, bro.
- 41:17Speaker 2: You got that.
- 41:19Speaker 1: Queen the problem says no.
- 41:24Speaker 2: But to go back to America's next top model, I think,
- 41:28Speaker 2: going off of the perspective of a lot of the
- 41:30Speaker 2: girls who praised Tyra and I think by the time
- 41:32Speaker 2: Whennie Harlowe came out, I had long stopped watching America
- 41:35Speaker 2: Sex Time Model by the end, but they were saying
- 41:39Speaker 2: that Tyra did, in fact prepare them for what they
- 41:41Speaker 2: would experience in the actual modeling industry, from the way
- 41:44Speaker 2: that they've spoken to or about on the show about
- 41:46Speaker 2: their bodies, the way the things that they could expect
- 41:49Speaker 2: from casting directors and other models and agents and people
- 41:52Speaker 2: in the room.
- 41:53Speaker 1: And it was crazy to.
- 41:54Speaker 2: See how Danny, Danny Evans or she went by her
- 41:57Speaker 2: full name Danielle, she was like she was out around
- 42:01Speaker 2: the same time as Shanel Lamont and they were in
- 42:03Speaker 2: like a model models apartment, and Chanelle had to ask
- 42:06Speaker 2: why Danny wasn't getting bookings and how she would come
- 42:08Speaker 2: home with a silence for everybody else, but Danny will
- 42:11Speaker 2: be singled out as a person on the side, and
- 42:14Speaker 2: it's like, well, you know, she did she she we
- 42:16Speaker 2: gotta treat her differently because she came from reality television,
- 42:20Speaker 2: And it's kind of like it's a catch twenty two
- 42:23Speaker 2: because you're damned if you do, and you Danny if
- 42:25Speaker 2: you don't. Because if you use the show for a
- 42:27Speaker 2: platform to get exposure to be presented to these modeling
- 42:31Speaker 2: agencies and companies, and brands and everything. But once you
- 42:34Speaker 2: get to get there, or you win the title America's
- 42:37Speaker 2: Next Top Model, they still don't want to fuck with
- 42:38Speaker 2: you because you didn't come through doing the traditional shows,
- 42:41Speaker 2: because you were on a TV show, but without the
- 42:44Speaker 2: TV show, Especially if you come from like what Danny's
- 42:47Speaker 2: from Little Rock, Arkansas, you're from some town in North Dakota.
- 42:50Speaker 2: I think Shandy is from Fargo, North Dakota, or Bismarck. McKee,
- 42:55Speaker 2: well McKee is from Brittany McKey. Sullivan is from Chicago.
- 42:58Speaker 2: But if you're from some town North Dakota or out
- 43:00Speaker 2: in Idaho, out in the sticks, who checking for you
- 43:04Speaker 2: working at Walgreens? Like it's a catch twenty two? Yeah,
- 43:09Speaker 2: and I see it. But it was wild watching just
- 43:13Speaker 2: to see what a lot of those girls went through.
- 43:16Speaker 2: And I'm glad that we were able to see a
- 43:19Speaker 2: lot of the girls that you know, that were our age,
- 43:22Speaker 2: you know when they were on the show, and they're
- 43:24Speaker 2: older now and they have more perspective. It was I
- 43:27Speaker 2: was happy I got to see Shandy, you know, even
- 43:31Speaker 2: though recounting her story but seemed a bit traumatic. Hopefully,
- 43:35Speaker 2: I hope she was able to find some peace with it,
- 43:37Speaker 2: you know now twenty years later, because it's one going
- 43:41Speaker 2: to have to live that, right, but to have to
- 43:43Speaker 2: live that on national teleor international television and have your
- 43:46Speaker 2: story replayed out repeatedly, and have you on asked questions,
- 43:52Speaker 2: judge people.
- 43:53Speaker 1: Judge you and think you call kinds of sluts, and this,
- 43:56Speaker 1: this and this. Everybody. Everybody fucks up, everybody makes mistakes.
- 44:01Speaker 1: The end of the is the end of the era.
- 44:07Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
- 44:08Speaker 3: The the end game for it is to learn from
- 44:12Speaker 3: it and do things different. She was eighteen, nineteen years old.
- 44:18Speaker 1: She was inexperienced, bro inexperienced.
- 44:22Speaker 3: People who should have been there to protect her did
- 44:24Speaker 3: not protect her. And a lot of girls come from it,
- 44:28Speaker 3: came from back and they talked about on the show.
- 44:30Speaker 3: A lot of these girls come from backfronts where they
- 44:31Speaker 3: don't have supported family or they they like I mentioned earlier,
- 44:35Speaker 3: they come from families. They man have money and they
- 44:37Speaker 3: struggling to make ends meet, and they are using this
- 44:39Speaker 3: as a launching pad into a potential career which didn't
- 44:43Speaker 3: honestly materialize for the vast majority of them.
- 44:45Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, I will say this.
- 44:47Speaker 3: I want I want to work at Walgreens after the fish.
- 44:51Speaker 3: Shandy went back, Andy went back to Walk was back
- 44:53Speaker 3: at Walk Greenody, Hey, when.
- 44:54Speaker 1: You want DV, you know, like it's it's a lot.
- 44:58Speaker 2: I think even somebody mentioned at least what I was
- 45:00Speaker 2: reading in the comments, because I felt like I said,
- 45:02Speaker 2: I follow Whitney, who was a Cycle ten winner jazz
- 45:04Speaker 2: Leine one Season nine, Cycle nine Whitney Thomas was the
- 45:07Speaker 2: first plus sized girl that wanted Cycle ten.
- 45:10Speaker 1: Somebody because I wanted the other Whitney to I wanted
- 45:12Speaker 1: black Whitney to win.
- 45:14Speaker 2: Black Whitney.
- 45:15Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, wait, I think that was I think it
- 45:19Speaker 1: was like she was she was also plus sized.
- 45:22Speaker 2: No cycle do you remember.
- 45:24Speaker 4: I think it was the same one that Whitney. I
- 45:25Speaker 4: think it was two Whitneys. It was like a black
- 45:26Speaker 4: Whitney then a white Whitney. And she had and she
- 45:30Speaker 4: had they had changed their names and whatever.
- 45:34Speaker 1: Name. Yeah, and she was like she wanted to be
- 45:35Speaker 1: with te and.
- 45:37Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm I'm grateful that a lot of those girls
- 45:43Speaker 2: have some similars of a voice and are able to
- 45:46Speaker 2: call Tyra out for what happened to them and have
- 45:49Speaker 2: found careers.
- 45:50Speaker 1: She moved, moved the colors.
- 45:52Speaker 2: Yeah, I would have loved to have seen Takara on
- 45:57Speaker 2: the documentary. I would have loved to have seen jazz
- 45:59Speaker 2: Leene was Iis on the documentary. No, I would have
- 46:03Speaker 2: loved to have seen Ices as the first trans woman
- 46:06Speaker 2: on that platform on national television. Yeah, like to see
- 46:10Speaker 2: her experiences as a trans woman going through the contest
- 46:13Speaker 2: and then her life and story of what happened afterwards.
- 46:18Speaker 4: Honestly, I think I think if this, I think, if
- 46:22Speaker 4: this gets enough, it gets enough traction, then they will
- 46:25Speaker 4: they will dive deeper because you also, I mean, I
- 46:29Speaker 4: also want to see that inside of on the other
- 46:32Speaker 4: side of you know, when they when they stopped they
- 46:35Speaker 4: stopped doing just the girls and they started doing like
- 46:38Speaker 4: like both.
- 46:39Speaker 1: You know, both men and women, and that was in
- 46:42Speaker 1: later cycles.
- 46:43Speaker 4: Yeah, like at the end of the day though, but
- 46:46Speaker 4: it's still just like I understand that some people that
- 46:47Speaker 4: feel like they you know, that tower did allow for them.
- 46:51Speaker 4: But I but I also believe that she also had
- 46:52Speaker 4: her picks with with certain with the cycle, with the
- 46:56Speaker 4: cycle winners, you know what I'm saying.
- 46:57Speaker 2: And this is it's still so it's still number one
- 47:00Speaker 2: of the TV shows, this show. So the documentary came
- 47:02Speaker 2: out either the top of this week or late last
- 47:04Speaker 2: week and it's still number one. And TV shows on
- 47:07Speaker 2: Netflix today this.
- 47:08Speaker 3: Saturday, Joe Joe Tyler Perry's new movie of number one,
- 47:13Speaker 3: because that was number one and that just came out
- 47:17Speaker 3: last week. They came out back to back, Yeah, and
- 47:20Speaker 3: that was number one for Yeah until they came out.
- 47:24Speaker 3: Sure was the state number on that movie. That was
- 47:27Speaker 3: a funny shit.
- 47:28Speaker 2: So let's go, let's go deeper into this conversation. What
- 47:31Speaker 2: do y'all think we of course, as we get older,
- 47:36Speaker 2: our bodies change the things we look at and things
- 47:39Speaker 2: we consume. You know, we don't have eighteen and twenty
- 47:41Speaker 2: five year old metabolisms anymore. In terms of you personally,
- 47:48Speaker 2: how has your body changing as you've gotten older affected
- 47:52Speaker 2: you or what have you noticed about yourself physically changing
- 47:56Speaker 2: as you've gotten older. That's kind of like giving you
- 47:58Speaker 2: pause or made you feel a way or or something
- 48:01Speaker 2: like that.
- 48:02Speaker 1: With my confidence really, because.
- 48:06Speaker 3: I was small for so many years, and even if
- 48:08Speaker 3: I had trade, I did put some weight on, but
- 48:09Speaker 3: not as much. This as the biggest I've ever been,
- 48:12Speaker 3: And it's mainly in my stopch like I see, That's
- 48:14Speaker 3: why I'm like taking pictures.
- 48:15Speaker 1: Because I'd be like, oh, look at my face. My
- 48:17Speaker 1: face so fair, I got like five chins. I hate it.
- 48:19Speaker 3: I'm over exaggerating. But that's just the biggest of you
- 48:23Speaker 3: known me all my life. I was always small. To
- 48:25Speaker 3: put on all that weight has been an issue for me.
- 48:30Speaker 3: I know that it's gonna take self discipline to use
- 48:32Speaker 3: the weak. But the worst part, I really just hate
- 48:36Speaker 3: the most of my stomach and stuff like I hate
- 48:37Speaker 3: because I feel like I I don't I want to
- 48:40Speaker 3: wear certain things and don't look right on me, and
- 48:41Speaker 3: I don't want to be over here the gore.
- 48:42Speaker 1: Like a bust can and biscuits.
- 48:43Speaker 2: He about to say something stupid. I'm not even look
- 48:46Speaker 2: look at.
- 48:47Speaker 1: He's gonna say something, so I'm not.
- 48:49Speaker 3: I'm confident because you ain't one thing you ain't going
- 48:51Speaker 3: I don't care how fat I am, bitch, I'm cute,
- 48:53Speaker 3: so I don't care.
- 48:55Speaker 1: But that out here looking crazy because I see people
- 49:00Speaker 1: sometimes like what was she put on?
- 49:02Speaker 2: But you can wear it but still realize that it's
- 49:04Speaker 2: a trigger or it's something that you noticed about.
- 49:07Speaker 3: Like I love and stuff that I just recently put
- 49:11Speaker 3: a romp on one. I think when I went on
- 49:12Speaker 3: vacation a couple of years ago. But the way it
- 49:14Speaker 3: was made, I felt okay in it because it was
- 49:16Speaker 3: kind of flared a little bit. But I put on
- 49:21Speaker 3: one one day and I felt like I looked like
- 49:22Speaker 3: the music next bug. That's how I felt. And nothing
- 49:26Speaker 3: nobody could have said to me would have made me
- 49:27Speaker 3: feel better. Nobody could it be like, no, girl, you
- 49:29Speaker 3: look fine. No, no, the fucker, I'm looking at the
- 49:31Speaker 3: mean right and I don't like what I see.
- 49:33Speaker 1: So that's my my issue.
- 49:35Speaker 2: Was Top Model or at that time when it first
- 49:39Speaker 2: started airing, did people did the appearance or the way
- 49:44Speaker 2: that they talked to those girls, like did the meat
- 49:47Speaker 2: make it? Make it a broader question?
- 49:50Speaker 1: Did?
- 49:50Speaker 2: How did media affect you growing up in terms of
- 49:53Speaker 2: like your body and seeing stuff the way that those
- 49:56Speaker 2: girls were treated on the show talking about their fat
- 49:58Speaker 2: and these girls are size fours and sixes and eight,
- 50:01Speaker 2: So how did media affect you and your self perception
- 50:04Speaker 2: growing when.
- 50:04Speaker 3: The Chauffurst, specifically speaking on top of my when that
- 50:08Speaker 3: show first came out, I was I was smaller. I
- 50:11Speaker 3: had just started putting on weight, so we were in
- 50:13Speaker 3: the junior year. I had just put on some weight
- 50:16Speaker 3: that because I was working in fast food and I was.
- 50:21Speaker 1: Donald so I did.
- 50:23Speaker 3: I finally had a little bit of a booty and
- 50:25Speaker 3: I gained some weight. I always had boobs.
- 50:27Speaker 1: That was the one thing. I was small, but I
- 50:28Speaker 1: had boobs. Had like middle school but saying but growing
- 50:37Speaker 1: about freshman year, bullshit. I had middle bro that was
- 50:46Speaker 1: our other friends. She didn't get no, said she and
- 50:48Speaker 1: her baby.
- 50:49Speaker 3: She went from like almost beat up to like a
- 50:52Speaker 3: triple D after she had her baby. I always had boobs,
- 50:56Speaker 3: and I just went from a heavy seed to a D.
- 51:00Speaker 1: I had Tray.
- 51:01Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is seeing this is before the
- 51:07Speaker 3: BBO craze started. Oh yeah, right, So, but I wanted
- 51:11Speaker 3: to have the flat stomach and I never had hips.
- 51:14Speaker 3: I've never had hips. I had a little bit of
- 51:16Speaker 3: a booty and but I had a flat of stomach
- 51:19Speaker 3: and I had boob So as I got older, especially
- 51:23Speaker 3: after I had Tray, and I started seeing the girls
- 51:26Speaker 3: with the nice little butts and the small waists and
- 51:30Speaker 3: the hips and the flat stomachs.
- 51:32Speaker 1: And stuff that did affect me. I can admit to that.
- 51:34Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I wanna be shipped like that
- 51:36Speaker 1: ship to this day, babe. If I could be shaped
- 51:38Speaker 1: like niece and Nash or or a meg thee stallion
- 51:41Speaker 1: or what.
- 51:42Speaker 3: I don't want to be shaped like Cardi. Cardi got
- 51:43Speaker 3: too much booty. It's too much, too much of his.
- 51:47Speaker 3: But I would want to be shaped like that because
- 51:51Speaker 3: I want to wave with the fuck I want to wear.
- 51:52Speaker 3: But sometimes I want to tell you I'll go on
- 51:54Speaker 3: vacation and not give a fuck. The people don't know me,
- 51:57Speaker 3: so I put on what the fuck I want to
- 51:58Speaker 3: put on?
- 51:58Speaker 1: Baby, I had on two pieces of mind last time
- 52:00Speaker 1: I've been onge and everything all head was a damn
- 52:02Speaker 1: too beat and oh that's short man, it's leven. Now
- 52:07Speaker 1: what about you, Aaron? We we don't focus.
- 52:09Speaker 2: The focus is a lot on women, but as men
- 52:12Speaker 2: growing up like we also had you know, we could
- 52:15Speaker 2: have had body image issues. And from seeing guys with
- 52:19Speaker 2: muscles and you athletes who aretoned and they can run,
- 52:22Speaker 2: and you know, how did media affect your self perception
- 52:27Speaker 2: and your your body image ground?
- 52:29Speaker 1: I mean it didn't.
- 52:30Speaker 4: It didn't, honestly because for me, like y'all New York
- 52:35Speaker 4: Man middle school, I was I was a fact, like
- 52:38Speaker 4: I was, I was chunky then then you know, like
- 52:41Speaker 4: freshman year, it was still you know, I was, I was,
- 52:44Speaker 4: I was bigger, and you know, I accepted it, like
- 52:47Speaker 4: I accepted it for what it was. And I knew
- 52:48Speaker 4: that if I wanted a six pac like them niggas
- 52:50Speaker 4: I got, I gotta get my big ass down and
- 52:52Speaker 4: start doing some set ups and some ship.
- 52:55Speaker 1: And you though, because you got taller, Yeah, that help
- 52:59Speaker 1: me in heights in fifth grade.
- 53:01Speaker 2: Yeah, she was taller to me at one point.
- 53:03Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the crazy and yeah, but I will
- 53:07Speaker 1: say when.
- 53:10Speaker 4: You know, when I when I was in California for
- 53:12Speaker 4: like that six months and like I lost like one
- 53:14Speaker 4: hundred pounds baliant, Yeah, and nigga y'all like that showed.
- 53:19Speaker 1: I was like damn and I was like, yeah, looks
- 53:21Speaker 1: sick case.
- 53:22Speaker 4: Its just like.
- 53:24Speaker 1: Niggas like yo, you good like you sure? But then
- 53:28Speaker 1: it's like but that was because I couldn't get it,
- 53:32Speaker 1: you know, I couldn't.
- 53:33Speaker 2: Get a job.
- 53:33Speaker 4: So pretty much I was in the gym all like, yeah,
- 53:35Speaker 4: we was in the gym and then walking up and
- 53:36Speaker 4: down Calabasas all day. So it was one of them
- 53:39Speaker 4: situations like I do like thirty minutes on thirty minutes
- 53:41Speaker 4: of cardio. Then the rest of it would be like
- 53:43Speaker 4: strength training, and then we walk in and because you
- 53:45Speaker 4: walking in California heat, that dry ass doesn't heat, you know,
- 53:49Speaker 4: niggas just sweating their asses off. So it's like, yo,
- 53:52Speaker 4: I'm shedding, like I'm shedding like motherfucker. But I didn't like,
- 53:55Speaker 4: I ain't like myself when I was that size because
- 53:57Speaker 4: you were too small. Yeah, I felt I felt like
- 53:59Speaker 4: I was too small. All so then you know, started
- 54:01Speaker 4: eating again, and it's like, yeah, I'm at I'm at
- 54:05Speaker 4: the right way. I need to be right here because
- 54:08Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, like I said, when you see the niggas,
- 54:10Speaker 4: you know, you see the niggas out here like changing
- 54:12Speaker 4: their dice and everything, and you see them with the muscles,
- 54:14Speaker 4: You'll be like, yeah, yo, that looks good.
- 54:16Speaker 1: Ship, I could do something like that. It's too much.
- 54:18Speaker 3: And then you'd be like, you know, y'all, I just
- 54:20Speaker 3: thought you should know, legs. Do you think something it's
- 54:22Speaker 3: a certain thing, it's too much. Yeah, it looks scary.
- 54:28Speaker 4: It's like I'm willing, like, you know, wanting to change
- 54:30Speaker 4: my diet changed and like change the routine and all that.
- 54:32Speaker 4: But then at the same time, it's like, yo, just.
- 54:34Speaker 1: Creepd me out. I would do it just to see it.
- 54:36Speaker 1: But it looks like they're just about to bust through
- 54:38Speaker 1: their skin it you know what I mean. Like I
- 54:41Speaker 1: would do it just big up top and smaller than
- 54:44Speaker 1: the bottom.
- 54:44Speaker 2: Then that's niggas. Don't do legs.
- 54:49Speaker 1: I was like, look at its plumping yours. I can't
- 54:56Speaker 1: do it. I understand, you know what I'm saying.
- 54:59Speaker 4: It's like I would like I would do it, like
- 55:01Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, Like I do it, just
- 55:02Speaker 4: say if you know, just say if I'm the door.
- 55:04Speaker 4: But then at the same time, it's like maintaining that shit.
- 55:06Speaker 4: I'm like, boy, that's the motherfucking work. And it's like
- 55:09Speaker 4: everywhere and it's like now I'm cool, Like you know,
- 55:11Speaker 4: as long as I'm healthy, you know what I'm saying,
- 55:13Speaker 4: Like I still I still walk everywhere, you know, Like
- 55:15Speaker 4: I walk everywhere and even you know, and even even
- 55:19Speaker 4: when I had the car, Like I like, if I
- 55:20Speaker 4: would walk like I have walked, like when we was
- 55:25Speaker 4: living me we was living in the Art District, you
- 55:27Speaker 4: feel me, Like I walked straight down to go get
- 55:29Speaker 4: go get kid the medicine to come right.
- 55:31Speaker 1: Back up because I like walking, walking is fine. Yeah
- 55:36Speaker 1: like that, Like, yeah, I said, I haven't walked.
- 55:39Speaker 2: It's been honestly since twenty twenty six, I haven't really been.
- 55:42Speaker 2: There was a people where I was doing two thousand
- 55:45Speaker 2: steps today. I for like a whole spring, summer into
- 55:47Speaker 2: the fall till it got cold and never went back.
- 55:50Speaker 2: I lost my weight, was like, but it it that
- 55:57Speaker 2: was I enjoyed it because you're outside getting the disconnect
- 56:01Speaker 2: from the ship stressing you out. You're just out walking
- 56:03Speaker 2: around here, you know, have a little sweat brag and
- 56:05Speaker 2: my sunscreen on, had hat, you know, sunglasses.
- 56:08Speaker 1: I was cool.
- 56:09Speaker 2: I loved it. But you know me, once I get
- 56:11Speaker 2: distracted and stop going, I just.
- 56:14Speaker 3: Go and walk with Key and kan Kin sometimes. But
- 56:19Speaker 3: it's it's a it's it's a mind over mad thing
- 56:22Speaker 3: when it comes to weight loss and stuff. Because like
- 56:25Speaker 3: he did a really good job. He kept saying she
- 56:27Speaker 3: needed to lose weight, and I was like, well, no
- 56:28Speaker 3: you don't. But she didn't lose too much and she did.
- 56:33Speaker 1: I was like, what did you do?
- 56:34Speaker 3: When she started fasting? So she only eat between a
- 56:37Speaker 3: certain time at a certain time, and she drank a
- 56:39Speaker 3: lot of water. She always drank a lot of water
- 56:41Speaker 3: though speaking and drinking water. She started walking and stuff
- 56:44Speaker 3: like that, and she been doing good. She been maintaining it, maintaining,
- 56:48Speaker 3: not continuing to lose weight. But now she's in the
- 56:50Speaker 3: stage of maintaining and where she got to. So if
- 56:53Speaker 3: I can discipline myself, I'm sure I can do it.
- 56:55Speaker 3: It's just a I just be talking myself. All I'm
- 56:58Speaker 3: a young boy.
- 56:59Speaker 1: He change my clothes and I'm gonna go walk and
- 57:01Speaker 1: then I sit down and then I'll be like, oh no,
- 57:03Speaker 1: but I gotta fix dinner, all right, but then I
- 57:05Speaker 1: gotta eat, so because I can't go walk and then
- 57:07Speaker 1: come in here and eat, and then I gotta do.
- 57:10Speaker 3: I try get them all like so I talked myself
- 57:12Speaker 3: out up but a lot, that's what it is. But
- 57:14Speaker 3: if I can get this stomach to go down, because
- 57:15Speaker 3: I hate wearing spanks and stuff. They are annoying, especially
- 57:18Speaker 3: I was sie, I don't want to put spanks on
- 57:21Speaker 3: and I don't No, it's not okay for me to
- 57:24Speaker 3: walk around my coochie hang down to my stomach. I
- 57:25Speaker 3: don't like the way it looks.
- 57:26Speaker 1: Wait wait, yeah, coach, you hang it down to your stomach.
- 57:29Speaker 3: Wait, it don't look good, and I see it all
- 57:32Speaker 3: the time around I got you, like you said, I'm
- 57:36Speaker 3: hanging in and my coo, I'm sorry. I don't know
- 57:38Speaker 3: what I meant, but I just see people sometimes and
- 57:41Speaker 3: it just.
- 57:42Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie. I was about to call you roasty.
- 57:47Speaker 2: I had to catch myself because.
- 57:50Speaker 1: But yeah, if I stomach hang down like I see
- 57:53Speaker 1: all the time, I was like, but I'm just some
- 57:58Speaker 1: people just don't care.
- 57:59Speaker 2: But I don't tell you.
- 58:00Speaker 4: I'll tell you the flip side of that, though. Now
- 58:03Speaker 4: the flip side is being us been on the outside.
- 58:06Speaker 1: And for years I.
- 58:08Speaker 4: Keep telling y'all I would once y'all. You know, one
- 58:11Speaker 4: day wish y'all could see y'all solf the way I
- 58:13Speaker 4: see y'all. You know what I mean, he go getting
- 58:16Speaker 4: all deep and ship philosophical. No, but no, but I
- 58:20Speaker 4: wish I could see y'all see all the way I see. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 58:23Speaker 4: because I mean y'all always you know, y'all, like, I
- 58:25Speaker 4: ain't gonna think nothing wrong with y'all. You feel me,
- 58:27Speaker 4: and I mean that's just that's just me being like
- 58:29Speaker 4: me being honest, and it's like, you know, you want
- 58:32Speaker 4: to do it, like I support you.
- 58:34Speaker 3: I like, like old me, you used to be able
- 58:40Speaker 3: to say stuff like that about me, and it would
- 58:41Speaker 3: hurt my feelings, talk about my way, to call me
- 58:43Speaker 3: ugly or something like that.
- 58:44Speaker 4: Now I'm like, bitch, okay, I mean saying, you can't
- 58:48Speaker 4: call it my fucker ugly, just my fucker got bodies
- 58:50Speaker 4: on them, like you.
- 58:51Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. Like if you you know what
- 58:54Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I know a lot of butterfaces, and
- 58:57Speaker 1: that's okay. So I mean, well, so I mean you can't.
- 59:08Speaker 1: You can't hurt my feeling. You can't talk. That's I
- 59:12Speaker 1: love it. I love me as a person, but it's
- 59:15Speaker 1: how I feel about myself.
- 59:16Speaker 2: Of course that's all that magic.
- 59:18Speaker 3: But yeah, the stuff like that really used to effect me.
- 59:21Speaker 3: Still looking at TV and like, Damn, I wish I
- 59:23Speaker 3: could wear something like that. Damn I wish I could
- 59:25Speaker 3: put that ship on. Damn I wouldopt it. I tell people,
- 59:28Speaker 3: I said, Babe, if I was shaped like me, if
- 59:29Speaker 3: I was shaped like I never had no clothes.
- 59:32Speaker 2: On shut who would if you work for a body
- 59:36Speaker 2: that have your body. My perspective growing up was is
- 59:41Speaker 2: a bit different than Aaron's. I didn't really notice anything
- 59:48Speaker 2: rewind my body image, and I wouldn't even say issues.
- 59:52Speaker 2: But the concerns around in my body image really weren't
- 59:55Speaker 2: a thing for me until I got to high school.
- 59:58Speaker 2: I was always a bigger kid. I was wearing husky
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: clothes growing up. I was, you know, always bigger than everybody.
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: A big and tours section.
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: Yeah, I was nigga.
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: I was husky.
- 1:00:08Speaker 2: Wasn't no bigger tall a bus then it was just
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: husky by school uniforms from the husky sections. I'm sure
- 1:00:17Speaker 2: one of the I think the big things I noticed,
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: and I was living in Chicago at this point. I
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: actually I played football in high school freshman year, junior year,
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: and sophomore year, and I swam on my high schools
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: freshman year and junior year. We were gone before my
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: junior year season started. We moved back to Baltimore in
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: October two thousand and three. But I also swam at
- 1:00:45Speaker 2: the same time. When I was playing football. I swam
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: on like the local intramural team as well. So I
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: would literally go to school all day, go to football practice,
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: then literally leave football practice, go to the other locker room,
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: change out all my past, put a swim swim swimming
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: trunks on, and then go swim for a number two hours.
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: There was a point in high school where I started
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: noticing that I was different from a lot of the
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: guys on the team because when I was the only
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: black person on the team, but now so not only that,
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: I was also the biggest person on the team, because
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: again I've always been bigger than everybody else, and not
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: just terms of like physical stature, because of course I
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: broad shoulders. I joke about being shipped like a refrigerator now,
- 1:01:25Speaker 2: but I was just bigger than everybody.
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: It is, That's what everybody ain't meant to be the
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: same sound is, but it plays.
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: It played a number on my side, on me mentally,
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: because it's like, okay, it's a comparison is the thief
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: of joy and you get that nail at thirty nine
- 1:01:43Speaker 2: and forty years old, But at fourteen fifteen years old,
- 1:01:46Speaker 2: when you're surrounded by a whole bunch of guys with
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: swimmers body types and you are bigger than everybody, You're
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: doing the same workouts as them, but you're not losing
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: weight or your body just doesn't react the same way
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: as I'll be honest never mentioned this to y'all. I
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: starved myself for like a month when I was in
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: high school.
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: Oh wow.
- 1:02:06Speaker 2: I would eat at lunch and wouldn't need anything else
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: the rest of the day. I would go through all
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: my workouts, would go through everything, and I starve myself
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: for a month. And it actually got to a point
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: where my mother would work. I think she was working
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: like three or eleven at this point. So by the
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: time I came home from school, she was at work
- 1:02:21Speaker 2: already and she wouldn't get home until after I was
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: already in bed for the night.
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: And I remember, so it was easy for you to
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: hide it.
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: Yeah, but not as easy as I thought, because she
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: would buy groceries for the house. And I remember one
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: day she came home. She I think she had like
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: a day off work because she had like a doctor's
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: appointment or something.
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: But she came home from.
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: Work and she realized the food in the fridge hadn't
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: been touched, and she she looked. She never asked me
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: what was going on, but she said, you need to
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: eat something. She looked at me, stopped me from what
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: I was doing. She said, Brandon, you need to eat something.
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: And I was like I'm eating and she was like,
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: you need to eat something. But I think the catch
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: for me was after about three or four weeks of
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: doing that, I said, fuck this, I'm hungry and I'm
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: gonna back to eating and never had an issue with
- 1:03:12Speaker 2: it again. But for me, the issue comes in not
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: necessarily with yo yo dieting, but it's like the big
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: push to do workouts and do and push myself crazy,
- 1:03:23Speaker 2: and then I stopped for months, and it's like weight game.
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: It goes up, it goes down, it goes up, it
- 1:03:28Speaker 2: goes down, it goes up, it goes down. When I
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: was twenty three something before I went to Germany, I
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: was in college and I was doing morning workouts before class.
- 1:03:39Speaker 2: I think my first class that semester started at noon,
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: so I had the entire morning to go to the gym.
- 1:03:43Speaker 2: I would go to the gym, get up, go to
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: the gym, come back on shower, change, eating, and then
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: go to class. I was doing an hour and a
- 1:03:48Speaker 2: half cardio five days a week. I would do an
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: hour weight training. I lost in three months time. I
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: think I might have lost seventy or eighty pounds.
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: Yeah, what I mean with us, what I'm saying, and
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: I get that, but it's not it wasn't sustainable.
- 1:04:03Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but yeah, that's what that's what I
- 1:04:05Speaker 4: was saying about. It's like, yo, I like, I can
- 1:04:08Speaker 4: do it, but it's the prob the issue is. I
- 1:04:10Speaker 4: mean I could probably like I can do it, but
- 1:04:12Speaker 4: it's the issue of like you said, it's like, yo,
- 1:04:14Speaker 4: we're gonna push push, push, push push, then you get
- 1:04:16Speaker 4: the then you get the result.
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: You all reclined. Is how of that mountain?
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: Now I sit back down and there you slowly but
- 1:04:20Speaker 2: surely putting weight on again. It's like it's a never
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: end the cycle. The biggest struggle for me throughout my
- 1:04:25Speaker 2: life is doing something that is sustainable that I can
- 1:04:28Speaker 2: sustain for a long period of time. For me, it was, honestly,
- 1:04:31Speaker 2: at that point it was walking because walking is low effort.
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: I literally I wasn't jogging. I mean, it was a
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: point where I started doing that couch the five k
- 1:04:38Speaker 2: where it was like you're doing walk run intervals, so
- 1:04:41Speaker 2: you walk most of the time, then you run for
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: a minute or no ninety seconds, and you stop, you
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: walk for two minutes. I would do stuff like that.
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: It's you know, it's it wasn't too too bad. But
- 1:04:52Speaker 2: my thing is getting back to a point where I
- 1:04:54Speaker 2: can do workouts that are sustainable. I can do workouts
- 1:04:58Speaker 2: that don't take a lot of effort. And like Seana
- 1:05:01Speaker 2: you mentioned, I taught myself out of doing shit all
- 1:05:03Speaker 2: the fucking time. Once I get home, when I get comfort,
- 1:05:06Speaker 2: and I think for me, COVID fucked this up for meeting.
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: We were up here, we at COVID lockdowns, and all
- 1:05:13Speaker 2: we could do is walk. I wasn't moving to the gym.
- 1:05:14Speaker 2: I literally sat around and gain weight.
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: Me too, And I was learning how to cook new shit,
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: no stuff like that like hey yo yo yo, y'all
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: want a girl.
- 1:05:23Speaker 2: I can't say My saving yeah, you want to grow,
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: you want to grow. I can't say that. My saving
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: grace is the fact that with me having mail prep
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: now for close to fourteen years, I've learned how to
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: cook and make things. And I basically because I'm I
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: call it measured laziness. I don't I rarely order stuff
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: from deal dash. I don't eat out a lot, really
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: just on weekends. I still eat healthily.
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: There was another one of my problems. I just don't move.
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: I just don't move enough I be.
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: Tired, especially when I was in school and stuff. I'm like,
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: I come home, I didn't study it. I didn't have
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: to do this pain this I was I wasn't there
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: in the week. I'm not doing this.
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: I wasn't.
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: But I would try to make stuff one day that
- 1:06:04Speaker 3: it lasts a couple of days or some days I'm like, yeah,
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: I want that no more, so I'll grab something on
- 1:06:08Speaker 3: the way home from work.
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: It just became too much. So that's my issue. I
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: think if I could really just discipline myself, change my
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: eating habits, I'll be fine. Overall. I'm healthy.
- 1:06:18Speaker 3: I've been, you know, been to the doctor. My prescious
- 1:06:21Speaker 3: has gotten better, and you know, I'm not susceptible to
- 1:06:25Speaker 3: I don't have diabetes or anything like that. My cholesterol
- 1:06:28Speaker 3: was a little high, but you know, I'm due for it.
- 1:06:30Speaker 3: I'm for a physical and April.
- 1:06:32Speaker 2: But also for me year in spite of how my
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: weight is going up in there thought through years, I've
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: always been healthy. I've never had high blood pressure issues,
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: never had cholesterol issues.
- 1:06:40Speaker 3: I never had they started having them, but you know,
- 1:06:41Speaker 3: mine probably got something to do with the new boards.
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: Right, but and also the blood birth control.
- 1:06:47Speaker 3: Yeah, they swapped you, and they swapped, but they I
- 1:06:50Speaker 3: swapped it out. They put me on something else.
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: But for me, in spite of my weight fluctuating throughout
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: the years, I thankfully have never had health issues, no
- 1:06:58Speaker 2: blood pressure issues, cos for issues, no like dia. Bet
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: these three dabs know anything because I guess I eat
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: so well. Even when I went to the doctor for
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: my physical this past I told but my doctor was like, well, Brandon,
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: you know your labs, they look good. Ain't nothing you stable?
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: He said, If you want to start baking the eggs
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: every day, he said, you should go for it, because
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: so fine, you fall within range for everything and half
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: for so many years, he said, if you want to
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: eat baking the eggs every day, going, I mean, like,
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: then next.
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: Time I come back, then you can tell me my shit,
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: because I mean, sir, true, I think, but I do.
- 1:07:33Speaker 4: But to take it, I mean, but to take it
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: back to the teyrorbank shit I did before, Like before
- 1:07:41Speaker 4: watching I did, I felt, I felt like, yo, you
- 1:07:43Speaker 4: you had a platform to help these girls, and you you,
- 1:07:48Speaker 4: we just watched you break these women and younger like
- 1:07:52Speaker 4: younger us we we we just looked at it like yo,
- 1:07:55Speaker 4: I mean, we didn't look at We wasn't looking at
- 1:07:58Speaker 4: what Tarbor was actually doing. We were more so focused
- 1:08:01Speaker 4: on the house, like what they were, what they were
- 1:08:04Speaker 4: going through, what they were going through in the house
- 1:08:06Speaker 4: before they you know, before they did all the child.
- 1:08:09Speaker 2: People that age ourselves, we were concerned with the reality
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: TV aspect of it all. We weren't really concerned.
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: And then then it's like, yo, then you look.
- 1:08:17Speaker 4: Then you look at the then you look at the
- 1:08:18Speaker 4: challenges that they're doing, and then you look at like
- 1:08:20Speaker 4: the runway shows that they're doing.
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: Like the ship.
- 1:08:22Speaker 4: It seemed like, Yo, the ship just didn't make sense,
- 1:08:25Speaker 4: like the depending on them, like when they're not the
- 1:08:27Speaker 4: little when not the girl ast the goddamn thing, and
- 1:08:29Speaker 4: it's like.
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: Yo, she'd broken she had broken foot.
- 1:08:31Speaker 4: Took you to deduct the points for that because it's
- 1:08:33Speaker 4: like you supposed to you you didn't handle little with
- 1:08:36Speaker 4: poison all that bullship, Like we couldn't get No, we're
- 1:08:39Speaker 4: gonna get a good picture you because you was on
- 1:08:40Speaker 4: you know, he was on the floor. And it's like,
- 1:08:43Speaker 4: I don't know, I just I feel like she had
- 1:08:45Speaker 4: she she had power, She had power in that situation,
- 1:08:48Speaker 4: and she kind of abused the power. And then when
- 1:08:50Speaker 4: you then when you see then when you see that,
- 1:08:54Speaker 4: when you see the people that she's working with, her circle,
- 1:08:56Speaker 4: her core circle.
- 1:08:57Speaker 1: Telling her like you know, they can't, they can't do
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: this it you fire.
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: Them niggas like she she did not take accountability from
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: for any of it, or she glossed over a lot
- 1:09:10Speaker 2: of what happened.
- 1:09:11Speaker 4: Yeah, and the NFLT. I felt bad for note because
- 1:09:13Speaker 4: the quarter astray. Like how so when when when all
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: three of them got one of the network said, you know,
- 1:09:19Speaker 4: when the network told him nighte fire all three of them,
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: It's like it's like.
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: Damn, what the natal do?
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: Bro?
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: Like he just taking pictures. But they had some very
- 1:09:28Speaker 1: controversial shoots on this show too.
- 1:09:29Speaker 3: Yeah, to kind of wrap this up the issue, I
- 1:09:33Speaker 3: didn't like the race play one where they made him
- 1:09:36Speaker 3: switch races and all that, and that was she did
- 1:09:39Speaker 3: that multiple.
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: I didn't care.
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: I didn't stand the point of it that became her thing.
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: I didn't like it. I didn't understand it. And as
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: a black woman, you shouldn't put up with that. I'm sorry.
- 1:09:50Speaker 3: It just didn't make you situ that had him them
- 1:09:52Speaker 3: doing black and white face and stuff. And I saw
- 1:09:55Speaker 3: somebody in the comments compared to like stuff like white
- 1:09:57Speaker 3: chicks and stuff like that, and I was like, I mean,
- 1:10:00Speaker 3: I can I can see what you're trying to say.
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: But I meant there was a movie they were acting.
- 1:10:06Speaker 3: I just didn't understand whatever. I have a differentive opinion
- 1:10:09Speaker 3: when it comes to that. But it was a lot
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: of the stuff that they had them doing. It came
- 1:10:13Speaker 3: less about modeling and more about like, let's see how
- 1:10:16Speaker 3: far we can push them.
- 1:10:17Speaker 2: But even she said doing like she brought up fear
- 1:10:20Speaker 2: factor to your point earlier, Aaron, she said that Waller
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: was a modeling competition. They have ratings, and they have
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: you know, network hares that are over top of the
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: executive producers of the show. So a lot of the
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: ideas for you know, getting in coffins and posing like
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: domestic violence victims and stuff, that stuff was ratings draws.
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: Because you had wanted people to sit and watch the show.
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: Doesn't make it right, Yeah, I mean, but I think
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: I think that's what's watching that for so long. Anyway.
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: I think the last season I may have watched was
- 1:10:53Speaker 3: when whatever season yah y'all was on their that was
- 1:10:56Speaker 3: like season three. I think I don't know if I
- 1:10:58Speaker 3: watched it. I think I watched when Yeah, y'all there
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: when what season was to car On four or five?
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: I think that was early.
- 1:11:04Speaker 3: I think I watched Carver was on it. Yeah, so no,
- 1:11:07Speaker 3: it may have been whatever the last season was that
- 1:11:09Speaker 3: Carver was on. I don't think I watched it. I
- 1:11:13Speaker 3: did just stay consistent at that. I watched it for
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: some years. No, but again, it came out when we
- 1:11:16Speaker 3: were in high school, so we were younger than But
- 1:11:18Speaker 3: I sitting watching now no so and then you know,
- 1:11:21Speaker 3: I'm a reality TV junkie, but now or these I
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: found myself still even sitting here watching real TV.
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: Like you went on TV and did it.
- 1:11:28Speaker 2: I tuned out. I think, like I said, I watched
- 1:11:31Speaker 2: season Season nine was when jazz cycle when I was
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: when jazz Leane won, and cycle ten was when Whitney
- 1:11:36Speaker 2: Whitney won who was the first plus size model. I
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: think after Whitney season cycle ten, I think I tuned
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: out the show pretty much after that because you had
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: been watching it basically five to six years at that point,
- 1:11:46Speaker 2: and it was like the same thing, same stuff. And yeah,
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: I stopped watching after Whitney one, so same with like
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: the real world, I would.
- 1:11:54Speaker 4: I think, no, I think I take the only good thing,
- 1:11:58Speaker 4: only good thing that came from that well that became
- 1:12:02Speaker 4: that used to be our thing, like you come over
- 1:12:04Speaker 4: the crib and we were down in my mother's basement kitchen.
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: Watching it, watching on the big TV.
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:12:10Speaker 1: Oh and it like it brought like ship we just
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: do that. Well that was just out time, like you know,
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: the weekly little like little get together.
- 1:12:18Speaker 2: It was yeah, and.
- 1:12:21Speaker 1: It's but like I said, it's it's just crazy.
- 1:12:23Speaker 4: And I feel and then I felt bad for Miss
- 1:12:26Speaker 4: Jay my mom my Nigga was in the damn call
- 1:12:29Speaker 4: was in a calla for like five months and.
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: This bitch ain't go see him at all. Yell and
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: it's like that was that was that was That was tough.
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: That was your mail. It's tough like you. She was sixteen,
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: she's cold. She checked on me, but you have not
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: got your monkey as on the fucking plane and went
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: and so.
- 1:12:47Speaker 2: But even she christ j was like she texted, said
- 1:12:50Speaker 2: I want to come see you, but Miss was like yeah.
- 1:12:53Speaker 2: But that was like right before we also started filming
- 1:12:55Speaker 2: this one. She probably knew that we were gonna probably
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: interact on this program.
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: Yeah that became too. I didn't like that at all.
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: It was genuinely your friend, It wasn't And and him
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: saying I taught models how to walk and now I
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: can't walk. I said, who not yet, not yet, not yet,
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: not yet. I believe he's gonna he's gonna make a recovery.
- 1:13:19Speaker 2: I really did, because even not just said you were
- 1:13:23Speaker 2: from not being able to speak, not being able to
- 1:13:25Speaker 2: do anything to move and you.
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: Back to your facial express and talk.
- 1:13:29Speaker 3: But it was on who was saying on the other day,
- 1:13:30Speaker 3: tam Ring or Sherry or somebody was on the other
- 1:13:33Speaker 3: day and he said something.
- 1:13:34Speaker 4: He was like, I said, face, yeah, it's it's it's
- 1:13:40Speaker 4: just I mean, it's just the fact that you see
- 1:13:42Speaker 4: how they did how she did them niggas dirty, and
- 1:13:45Speaker 4: it's like they do.
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: That's the clearest part.
- 1:13:48Speaker 4: Up.
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: Everything ain't on TI. There's a lot of people who
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: didn't take no damn accountability who were responsible for this stuff.
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: Her co exactly producing.
- 1:14:00Speaker 2: Is response was like this, but I mean, the buck
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: stopped with Ken and Tarber because they were co executive
- 1:14:10Speaker 2: producers of the show. But you also have to blame.
- 1:14:13Speaker 4: Upn Head that CW Head vh one, whatever network that
- 1:14:18Speaker 4: show was on, there greenlit a lot of those that
- 1:14:21Speaker 4: stuff happened, because at any point the head of UPN
- 1:14:24Speaker 4: could have been like, the girls just get sexually assaulted
- 1:14:26Speaker 4: on the TV show.
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: This is cut that out, cut that out. She can
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: stay on the show, or y'all can say that she
- 1:14:31Speaker 2: chose to leave and we'll keep this part of the
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: show out. No, but they left in it. So a
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: lot of people were responsible. Tyra has been sacrificed or
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: set up as the sacrificial land for lack of a
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: better term, because it was her show. She was the
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: creator and co executive producer. But she is not the
- 1:14:48Speaker 2: only person responsible for how that shows turned out. She
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: can mocking people up the chain.
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: So in conclusion, fuck them all well, and I will say.
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: I mean, I honestly think a lot of people felt
- 1:15:00Speaker 2: like this. The documentary from Tyra being included seems like
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: a three episode long commercial four a new cycle of America's.
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: Next Top Model.
- 1:15:08Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, but we're coming up a cycle twenty five,
- 1:15:12Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, you know, I'm not watching.
- 1:15:15Speaker 4: What's also funnyest fuck to me is that show you
- 1:15:18Speaker 4: you living, you living in Sydney.
- 1:15:20Speaker 2: Now, yeah, she lives in Australia.
- 1:15:22Speaker 4: You ain't that could well, you can't walk, you can't
- 1:15:25Speaker 4: walk the streets in this motherfucker same stock.
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: I'm all right, I'm playing, I'm playing.
- 1:15:29Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know for sure, but I'm
- 1:15:31Speaker 4: just saying, it's like it's kind of ironic that, you know,
- 1:15:34Speaker 4: like this shit came out in like twenty twenty. You know, everybody,
- 1:15:37Speaker 4: you know, everybody was in the house rewatching and shit,
- 1:15:40Speaker 4: and then now you got all this shit online niggas
- 1:15:42Speaker 4: just telling you how fucked up you are as a person.
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: And then it's like you go, you know, go somewhere
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: else where. They can't well know where. They don't know. Shit,
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: they didn't see the.
- 1:15:50Speaker 4: Original America's Next Time Model. They got Sydney's Next Top Model.
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: But yeah, this show, I wonder if Tyra made, because
- 1:15:56Speaker 2: she probably that show would probably turned into a millionaire
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: because I think she made have gotten EP credits or
- 1:16:02Speaker 2: may have gotten some sort of like not a kickback,
- 1:16:07Speaker 2: but like gotten money from basically like royalty licensing the
- 1:16:12Speaker 2: show out worldwide to different countries because every country had
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: a Time Model, Canada, the UK, France, Germany, Indonesia, Africa's
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: Next Top Model, Japan's Next Top Model, China's Next Top Model.
- 1:16:23Speaker 4: Tara.
- 1:16:23Speaker 2: Basically, I think she got royalties from all of that,
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: or her and the network of royalties from all of that.
- 1:16:28Speaker 1: That's why I seen tripping about that shit.
- 1:16:30Speaker 4: Bro.
- 1:16:31Speaker 1: She almost.
- 1:16:34Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she got yeah, she got sexual saug doing
- 1:16:36Speaker 4: on She had sexual saws doing the show.
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:16:39Speaker 2: One thing that I noticed about Tyra was when she
- 1:16:42Speaker 2: was when they were talking about like the Jay's and
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: Nagel getting fired and everything, she kept saying that nobody
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: is bigger than the program, nobody's bigger than the program,
- 1:16:51Speaker 2: nobody's bigger than the program. But then even when it
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: came term when they talked about her getting fired as
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: the host, and she said it again, nobody is bigger
- 1:17:01Speaker 2: than the program or bigger than the show. So maybe
- 1:17:07Speaker 2: she was a victim as well of the show's success. Maybe,
- 1:17:10Speaker 2: I think again, just as a Sagittarius like Tyro, maybe
- 1:17:15Speaker 2: internally she made peace with a lot of the shit
- 1:17:18Speaker 2: that happened on the show internally years ago. And it's
- 1:17:21Speaker 2: trying to put on like a face of like it's fine,
- 1:17:25Speaker 2: this happened, and this happened. But even I think I
- 1:17:28Speaker 2: saw an interview I think was Tamman or Sherry that
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: said that when Jay was on the show, she wasn't
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: showing her real personality or her real feelings about what
- 1:17:37Speaker 2: happened on the show. She still had the mask on,
- 1:17:40Speaker 2: and people did not connect with her, possibly could not
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: have connected with her because of that. Right, So I
- 1:17:49Speaker 2: don't know, man, I just I'm not watching Psycle twenty
- 1:17:52Speaker 2: five of American's XCIT Model. You know, my days of
- 1:17:54Speaker 2: watching reality TV have, I think, are, like I said,
- 1:17:57Speaker 2: outside of Real Housewives, the three franchises I do keep
- 1:18:00Speaker 2: up with are largely over at this point.
- 1:18:03Speaker 3: Yeah, it's my guilty pleasure. But even now, I'm like,
- 1:18:06Speaker 3: there's a lot of stuff. I'm just like, I watch
- 1:18:08Speaker 3: all the bored them sometimes, like I do. I don't
- 1:18:11Speaker 3: pay to watch the ship, but I do. I did pay,
- 1:18:13Speaker 3: like for one, I paid for like one month of
- 1:18:17Speaker 3: Zeus just to see what the hype was about. And
- 1:18:19Speaker 3: I initially paid for to watch uh No, I paid
- 1:18:23Speaker 3: for to watch Chances show and they gave Chances to
- 1:18:25Speaker 3: show me okay, and that was read to as hell too,
- 1:18:28Speaker 3: and then I ended up watching I didn't watch the
- 1:18:30Speaker 3: first cycle of Baddies. Initially I didn't watch South, and
- 1:18:34Speaker 3: then I think I ended up watching East because they
- 1:18:37Speaker 3: booked for sean On and I was like, Okay, let
- 1:18:39Speaker 3: me just watch that, and I didn't watch Africa. I
- 1:18:44Speaker 3: think I'm watching America now, but I'm not paying for it.
- 1:18:47Speaker 3: I found free online somebody posting videos, so that's how
- 1:18:52Speaker 3: I see that. But a lot of them, I just
- 1:18:54Speaker 3: don't just sit there and be like, yo, really, it's.
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: Just it's safe to say.
- 1:19:00Speaker 4: It's safe to say that day you're trying to keep
- 1:19:04Speaker 4: like Zeus is like that one that work that just
- 1:19:06Speaker 4: trying to keep that.
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: That's trying to keep that nostalgic, you know that nostalgia TV.
- 1:19:11Speaker 3: I don't care nobody saying they are the girls who
- 1:19:14Speaker 3: don't have it, you who are Internet famous, I G
- 1:19:18Speaker 3: Famous and stuff like that, and give them the opportunity
- 1:19:21Speaker 3: to be on TV and stuff they once they want
- 1:19:24Speaker 3: to be artists. And there's a few rappers. Baby Mama's
- 1:19:26Speaker 3: on en y'all. Let y'all like she can't get popped
- 1:19:31Speaker 3: in her chins. And it ain't no way how Crimson
- 1:19:36Speaker 3: should be talking me crazy.
- 1:19:40Speaker 1: No, it's just the negative she got, I was just saying,
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: I will not let's daughter talk to me like that.
- 1:19:52Speaker 4: I'm just saying juice, I said, juice. Zeus feels like
- 1:19:56Speaker 4: they're just trying to keep They're trying to keep that
- 1:19:58Speaker 4: that that flavor love reality, like reality, and like they're
- 1:20:03Speaker 4: trying they're trying to keep it alive.
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: They're trying to keep it alive. But it's we moved,
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: Damn were moving.
- 1:20:10Speaker 4: I feel like, like I said, like I said a
- 1:20:11Speaker 4: couple of episodes ago, like we're moving past that era now.
- 1:20:14Speaker 4: It's like now we're moving back into the back into
- 1:20:17Speaker 4: the drama, like the drama to like drama TV shows
- 1:20:21Speaker 4: and original like original plant like original idea, also older fantasy.
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: Yeah, we're also we started watching reality TV in the Springkasta.
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: That was the nineties, the talk shows. When we started
- 1:20:36Speaker 2: watching reality shows in the nineties. I think the first
- 1:20:39Speaker 2: season of The Railroad I watched when it was Aaron
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: or MTV was The Railroad with Hawaii. That was like
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: nineteen eighty seven, nineteen eighty eight was that was that
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: tacking Ruth in Hawaiian Oh.
- 1:20:51Speaker 4: All right, bat bat back and then tech became like
- 1:20:53Speaker 4: this whole he became like this whole, this whole, whole
- 1:20:57Speaker 4: MTV personality.
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: After that, I saw a railroad in New Orleans. I
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: think I watched the Real road.
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: I did.
- 1:21:05Speaker 1: I used to watch it. I wanted to be I
- 1:21:08Speaker 1: didn't yet. I definitely didn't get into role.
- 1:21:10Speaker 2: Well that ended before. You know. That ended in the
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: mid nineties, so was Baby. I've seen the way you
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: look at other things you've been with. Come on, Swey
- 1:21:28Speaker 2: can be done with this move on the question. But
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: I will say we started watching reality TV in the nineties.
- 1:21:37Speaker 2: At least I started watching reality TV in the nineteeneties,
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: and at this point you watched when watching nothing. We
- 1:21:44Speaker 2: mentioned it before. I think the last episode twenty years
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: of the same foolishness narrative been painted about people people
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: being put through all sorts of ship and I mentioned this.
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: We talked about Zeus before. I didn't even finish the
- 1:21:55Speaker 2: first season of Bad Boys. I got it and was
- 1:21:57Speaker 2: using Shauna's login to watch Bad Boys on Zeus because
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: everybody was talking about it. And I did not finish
- 1:22:03Speaker 2: that season because I'm like, all y'all doing, all y'all
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: doing on this show is fighting each other, beating it
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: out of each other, talking shit about each other, y'all
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: living in the house.
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: And putting out music. Some of their music is horrible,
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm.
- 1:22:17Speaker 2: Losing brain cells watching this, and I had never watched
- 1:22:22Speaker 2: anything else on Do since then. But if that's how
- 1:22:24Speaker 2: you get your money, more power to you get it
- 1:22:26Speaker 2: how you live.
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: Y'all want to let the little sam with Davis Junior
- 1:22:30Speaker 1: keep pimping, y'all, that's fine.
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: What power to y'all? Any closing words before we continue
- 1:22:36Speaker 2: going with the rest of the show. Yeah, I'm not
- 1:22:40Speaker 2: watching like a twenty five of America's sext time Model,
- 1:22:44Speaker 2: but yeah, have fun if y'all do, And let us
- 1:22:47Speaker 2: know what y'all think in the comments about like just
- 1:22:51Speaker 2: the show and like your thoughts on the documentary, your
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: thoughts on like body image and how media shaped your
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: perception of how your body should look, or what you
- 1:23:00Speaker 2: think that you know, if you were affected by Tarbor
- 1:23:05Speaker 2: telling girls who were size sixes that they were fat
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: when they weren't actually fat, but that the modeling industry standards,
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: you know they were because they weren't sample size dropping
- 1:23:15Speaker 2: in the comments, let's get a dialogue going.
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: And if nobody told you today you're beautiful.
- 1:23:19Speaker 2: You're beautiful. Word the word, the gloom.
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: Every curve, every curve, every floor. Yo, Yeah, you know
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: you're unique. Stretch tastes like cinnamon, those crns. It's okay.
- 1:23:31Speaker 2: You are beautiful. No matter what they say. Words won't
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: bring you down. You are beautiful because no matter what
- 1:23:40Speaker 2: they say, but words can't bring you down. So don't
- 1:23:45Speaker 2: you bring me down today?
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: Because what I am? What I am, sir. Hey, the
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: roads are still a roads, baby girl, You're still a flower.
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: He can leave you and then take you, make you
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: break you. Darland, you hold the.
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: One time question of the week. Hey, y'all, we're back
- 1:24:17Speaker 2: on that from the top down by five. Okay, all right,
- 1:24:24Speaker 2: time a question of the week. And when I question
- 1:24:26Speaker 2: of the week segment in the show, I scattered into rubs,
- 1:24:29Speaker 2: read my TikTok f I P page because where the
- 1:24:32Speaker 2: hell us would I look?
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: Oh, bump bump, I got the sound balls the soundbox fixed, y'all.
- 1:24:48Speaker 1: Ah figured that was NS moving all y'all.
- 1:24:59Speaker 2: Finally figured out how to use it. That wasn't mean
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: that was that was the machine.
- 1:25:03Speaker 1: I mean it. It had been better if you had
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: like you personal button and had like an air horn
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: like start that our fourth ho she going through something
- 1:25:18Speaker 1: right now, I swear.
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: Saving in our group chat, pulling them from the show
- 1:25:23Speaker 2: to read for y'all say, ready for this week's question.
- 1:25:27Speaker 2: I got inspired by cast this letter from a couple
- 1:25:29Speaker 2: of weeks ago. Have you checked the inc if?
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: She responded when I looked a couple of days ago,
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: she had, Okay.
- 1:25:36Speaker 2: So I kind of aspired by casts question from a
- 1:25:38Speaker 2: couple of episodes to go from episode of bed shots
- 1:25:41Speaker 2: backshots and broomsticks where bed shots came from?
- 1:25:44Speaker 1: Because we were thinking bed knobs and I was thinking
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: bead knobs and broomsticks the movie, by the way, me neither.
- 1:25:51Speaker 2: But this week's question is I want to know the
- 1:25:55Speaker 2: most insane reasons why you ended a friendship. I'm not
- 1:25:58Speaker 2: talking we grew apart. I'm talking they popped my tires
- 1:26:01Speaker 2: and broke into my house. Get ready for this question?
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 1:26:07Speaker 2: Showing him I'm scared, Okay, I want to know the
- 1:26:13Speaker 2: most insane reasons why you ended the friendship. I'm not
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: talking we grew apart. I'm talking they popped my tires
- 1:26:18Speaker 2: and broke into my house. Her child was being touched
- 1:26:22Speaker 2: by her boyfriend and she kept telling me I can't
- 1:26:24Speaker 2: believe he cheated on me with my daughter. I can't
- 1:26:26Speaker 2: be friends with someone who's going to blame their child
- 1:26:28Speaker 2: for something like that.
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: Hell no, hell no, hell no, look at it. You
- 1:26:34Speaker 1: know what she's doing. You should have called the fucking police. No, man,
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: look at the way she hold that crayon. Know what
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: she's doing.
- 1:26:40Speaker 3: No, ma'am.
- 1:26:41Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.
- 1:26:43Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. I want to fight. I want to fight
- 1:26:50Speaker 1: because what the fuck you should have called CPS. Oh
- 1:26:53Speaker 1: my god, raiding, that'll been my exit.
- 1:26:57Speaker 4: That's but no, we ain't gonna be friends after that, like,
- 1:27:00Speaker 4: because gonna beat you once I call CPS.
- 1:27:02Speaker 1: Show more. Mm hmmm mm hmmm, because, bitch, what.
- 1:27:08Speaker 2: She stole? She stole your boyfriend?
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: Huot rabbit as mine. She was born in gene.
- 1:27:15Speaker 2: Reading.
- 1:27:16Speaker 1: She all rabbit as mine.
- 1:27:17Speaker 3: Call CPS, of course, bro lord knows how long she's
- 1:27:22Speaker 3: been letting uh uh uh uh, letting him do that
- 1:27:25Speaker 3: to that baby.
- 1:27:27Speaker 2: Next one. I want of know the most insane reasons
- 1:27:31Speaker 2: why you ended a friendship. I'm not talking we grew apart.
- 1:27:34Speaker 2: I'm talking popped my tires and broke into my house
- 1:27:38Speaker 2: after seventeen years of friendship. She sent my abusive ex
- 1:27:41Speaker 2: husband all of my personal info, where I lived, worked,
- 1:27:45Speaker 2: hung out, with phone numbers, et cetera to help him
- 1:27:48Speaker 2: stalk and harass me. Mind you, she witnessed the abuse
- 1:27:51Speaker 2: for a decade and knows how bad he is.
- 1:27:54Speaker 1: Jesus fix it so so so, came Michellatoya.
- 1:28:02Speaker 2: I don't think they was friends.
- 1:28:03Speaker 4: I know they weren't friends, but it's like, Yo, I'm
- 1:28:08Speaker 4: telling you that nigga fucking crazy.
- 1:28:09Speaker 1: I an't believe. No, that's how it bitches me. I'm
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: telling you that nigga crazy. I don't believe it to
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: what happened to in that sounded like one of them
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: two movies we watched.
- 1:28:19Speaker 4: Mm hmm yeah, fuck them, Rainy, fuck them what he said,
- 1:28:25Speaker 4: because mm hmmm, Like that's bananas. I've been there. I've
- 1:28:31Speaker 4: been there, got the T shirt. I could show it
- 1:28:33Speaker 4: to you, I got the stitches. You don't want that,
- 1:28:38Speaker 4: you be careful.
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: You don't want that. You don't want to listen. I don't.
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: I don't want no parts of that. Brom that's bananas.
- 1:28:45Speaker 1: Mm hmmm mm hmmm mm hmm. What's bananas? I don't
- 1:28:51Speaker 1: even know what to say about that? Next one?
- 1:28:56Speaker 2: I want to know the most insane reasons why you
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: ended a friendship? Am I talking? We grew apart. I'm talking.
- 1:29:00Speaker 2: They popped my tires and broke into my house. I
- 1:29:04Speaker 2: won one direction tickets on the radio. Her and her
- 1:29:07Speaker 2: mom said that they would go pick them up from me.
- 1:29:09Speaker 2: She then stopped talking to me and took her cousin
- 1:29:11Speaker 2: to the concert with my tickets. Yes we were twelve,
- 1:29:14Speaker 2: and yes, I'm still mad as hell. Bit why would
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: you let your friend go get your concerts?
- 1:29:22Speaker 4: Because she was probably gonna take She was probably going
- 1:29:24Speaker 4: to take her friend, you know. And and mom was like, okay,
- 1:29:28Speaker 4: and she probably couldn't go down there because you know,
- 1:29:29Speaker 4: you probably gonna be eighteen picked the tickets up anyway,
- 1:29:32Speaker 4: so mom was gonna go to Mom was supposed to
- 1:29:33Speaker 4: go down there and they bring them back, but nope,
- 1:29:35Speaker 4: you took them.
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: That's crazy. Rating fuck them like, I'm sorry that Yeah,
- 1:29:42Speaker 1: you you stole from me. Bitch. Mm hm, we got tossled.
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: They take me back to a couple of episodes back
- 1:29:50Speaker 1: remember when the girl friend brought them to eighty five
- 1:29:56Speaker 1: so show tickets and she brought them bleed seats and to.
- 1:30:02Speaker 4: Pay her Uh, Genie speaking whatever she is, whatever state
- 1:30:08Speaker 4: dating speaking of.
- 1:30:09Speaker 2: I've been I don't know about you all, but I've
- 1:30:11Speaker 2: been checking the BG have to see how much my
- 1:30:14Speaker 2: bill is. Like I'm waiting for schools to be closed TV.
- 1:30:18Speaker 1: My chest hurt. Mm hmm.
- 1:30:24Speaker 2: What so bills came out? I overpaid my bill by
- 1:30:31Speaker 2: two hundred and seventy three dollars because I'm like, I'm
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: just gonna keep putting money on it every time I
- 1:30:34Speaker 2: get paid. This is how much money I have left
- 1:30:37Speaker 2: over cha? Three cents?
- 1:30:41Speaker 1: I like that. And you're gonna tell you how high
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: mine was this month if you like. And you trying
- 1:30:51Speaker 1: to the last time you your foot up pro mm
- 1:30:54Speaker 1: hm m hm.
- 1:31:03Speaker 2: Oh this is the amount this dude, I owe three cents.
- 1:31:06Speaker 1: I put three pennies in the envelope and mailet.
- 1:31:13Speaker 2: Yeah, I owe three cents. My billis was two seventy three.
- 1:31:18Speaker 3: Money order for three pennies. The money order for three cents.
- 1:31:26Speaker 3: Here's a nickel. Give me my change back. Remember to
- 1:31:30Speaker 3: be ten dollars for the money order. I mean, I guess,
- 1:31:34Speaker 3: mm hmm.
- 1:31:35Speaker 1: They free depending on what bank you got.
- 1:31:37Speaker 2: Next one, I want to know the most insane reasons
- 1:31:40Speaker 2: why you ended the friendship. I'm not talking we grew apart.
- 1:31:43Speaker 2: I'm talking they popped my tires and broke into my house.
- 1:31:46Speaker 2: My jealous ex bestie told my wedding singer that I'm
- 1:31:49Speaker 2: the ugly friend in the friend group. The wedding singer
- 1:31:51Speaker 2: was so quick with, yes, she's the one getting married.
- 1:31:55Speaker 3: Okay, wedding singer, yep, you jealous, no man heading lonely, desperate,
- 1:32:06Speaker 3: bitch only kind of weddings. Get fucked, bitch, ain't nobody
- 1:32:10Speaker 3: still ain't want you? And these niggas been drunk for
- 1:32:12Speaker 3: three days?
- 1:32:14Speaker 1: How dag yet she.
- 1:32:15Speaker 4: The want to get yo, she the want to cut that,
- 1:32:17Speaker 4: catch them they caught the bouquet niggas is like, that's okay,
- 1:32:20Speaker 4: here you give him the got him?
- 1:32:22Speaker 1: There you go. I ain't back the way when the
- 1:32:25Speaker 1: god to God thrown because she didn't want that, caught
- 1:32:27Speaker 1: the bull guy.
- 1:32:28Speaker 4: You know what?
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: Oh, I guess I'm not the ugly one. Then hum
- 1:32:33Speaker 1: bitch rating girl, Fuck you, that's the rading. I'm glad
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: you caught it all. Fuck you.
- 1:32:43Speaker 2: Next one.
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: Okay, people true call the show baby when they be made.
- 1:32:46Speaker 2: Speaking of I want to know the most insane reasons
- 1:32:50Speaker 2: why you ended the friendship? Am I talking? We grew apart.
- 1:32:52Speaker 2: I'm talking. They popped my tires and broke into my
- 1:32:54Speaker 2: damn house. Her bridesmaids toast at my wedding was about
- 1:32:59Speaker 2: how much she was in love with my husband.
- 1:33:01Speaker 1: Excuse me, you must have got the kind of cousins
- 1:33:07Speaker 1: I got, because they they to beat her ass, data
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: took her outside beat the ass.
- 1:33:13Speaker 3: Yep, that's m You wouldn't had to end the friendship.
- 1:33:16Speaker 3: She became up missing. Yeah, that's crazy.
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: That's bananas.
- 1:33:21Speaker 2: B A n A n A s rady.
- 1:33:25Speaker 4: Fucked them like shit. Bro, that's that's that's the thing
- 1:33:30Speaker 4: right now, because.
- 1:33:30Speaker 1: Yeah, a whole lot of fun in this cube, and
- 1:33:34Speaker 1: they can be. We're gonna swing this over to the
- 1:33:36Speaker 1: next episode because I know, okay.
- 1:33:38Speaker 2: I want to know the most insane reasons why you
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: ended a friendship? Am I talking? We grew apart. I'm talking,
- 1:33:43Speaker 2: they popped my tires or broke into my house. She
- 1:33:46Speaker 2: told my husband I was cheating on him. I wasn't,
- 1:33:49Speaker 2: and then she tried to get with him. Obviously when
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: we blocked her on everything, she walked into my house
- 1:33:55Speaker 2: screaming at me. Let's just be thankful. I stayed cool,
- 1:33:58Speaker 2: calm and collective. Collect did rather. I wouldn't be typing
- 1:34:02Speaker 2: this if not.
- 1:34:05Speaker 1: Where are you finding these bitches? That this? What's the
- 1:34:08Speaker 1: hell should you lie on me? It didn't work? And
- 1:34:14Speaker 1: now you mad at me because you couldn't steal my man?
- 1:34:17Speaker 1: Why are you hurting her? That?
- 1:34:20Speaker 4: My wife coming straight through the door, comes straight through
- 1:34:22Speaker 4: the door, kicking the door wave in the four four
- 1:34:25Speaker 4: all you.
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: Heard is Jessica, don't hit.
- 1:34:30Speaker 1: That's my mand bitch, And it's like, that's my man,
- 1:34:33Speaker 1: right yo. It was like, what in the fuck? Bitch?
- 1:34:41Speaker 1: The fuck out of if you don't get your little
- 1:34:43Speaker 1: troup of faed.
- 1:34:46Speaker 2: Random, let's got the four bans of fries. I want
- 1:34:49Speaker 2: to know totally random. I want to know the most
- 1:34:53Speaker 2: in the same reasons.
- 1:34:54Speaker 4: Why.
- 1:34:55Speaker 2: Yes, I want to know the most insane reasons why
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: you're intoed the friendship? Am I talking? We grew apart?
- 1:35:00Speaker 2: I'm talking. They popped my tires and broke into my
- 1:35:02Speaker 2: house after my husband died. She didn't like how me
- 1:35:06Speaker 2: being sad was ruining her fun, so she said, can't
- 1:35:09Speaker 2: you just pretend it's like you broke up and move on?
- 1:35:16Speaker 3: So after I punched her hand face. I would have said,
- 1:35:19Speaker 3: can't you just pretend like you know you fell into
- 1:35:21Speaker 3: my fists and.
- 1:35:22Speaker 4: Just move on?
- 1:35:23Speaker 1: The fuck? What is what a funnies bitch to say?
- 1:35:28Speaker 4: Reading fulcom like, I'm sorry, you deserve you do deserve
- 1:35:34Speaker 4: to get punched in your face?
- 1:35:35Speaker 1: Yo, dude, Like, what my god today? You that's what? Okay?
- 1:35:43Speaker 2: Wow?
- 1:35:44Speaker 1: Next one?
- 1:35:45Speaker 2: I want another? Most insane reasons why you ended a friendship?
- 1:35:48Speaker 2: I am not talking we grew apart. I'm talking. They
- 1:35:50Speaker 2: popped my tires and broke into my house. She called
- 1:35:53Speaker 2: my wedding venue, pretending to be me and canceled the wedding.
- 1:35:56Speaker 2: We found out three days before. Fun times.
- 1:36:02Speaker 1: This should make my blood pressure go up. You know what,
- 1:36:08Speaker 1: Me and Steve just start working and I've come to
- 1:36:12Speaker 1: the decision that you know, I know.
- 1:36:14Speaker 4: I'm not going to get a refund, understand losing the money,
- 1:36:17Speaker 4: but you know my peace of mind is important.
- 1:36:20Speaker 1: My god, I just that's crazy. I think we just
- 1:36:23Speaker 1: want to go ahead and cancel the venue. I just
- 1:36:25Speaker 1: I can't. I can't.
- 1:36:26Speaker 3: That's why this ship should be past word protected, past
- 1:36:31Speaker 3: word protected.
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: That that's what protecting the YEA followed this chicken on
- 1:36:39Speaker 1: what was what was your past word? Followed chick on
- 1:36:41Speaker 1: TikTok real good okay, okay, just like just like that.
- 1:36:48Speaker 2: That's from some more as most recent comedy special.
- 1:36:53Speaker 1: Yeah, that was pretty good.
- 1:36:54Speaker 2: I like that something about Shandely, something about Shandely. I
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: remember the name of it, but it was good.
- 1:36:58Speaker 3: It was like some I like the chick can't see
- 1:37:00Speaker 3: I follow on TikTok. She's like a wedding coordinator and
- 1:37:04Speaker 3: she does what stuff for weddings and a lot of
- 1:37:07Speaker 3: the theme I noticed in a lot of because she
- 1:37:08Speaker 3: does story times and they're based on stories that people
- 1:37:12Speaker 3: sent her.
- 1:37:12Speaker 1: And in one of them, I think it was like
- 1:37:15Speaker 1: an overbearing mother or something.
- 1:37:16Speaker 3: She kept trying to call it change stuff and it
- 1:37:19Speaker 3: includes stuff and all us and uh, that's what they
- 1:37:22Speaker 3: She always says that you should always pass word to
- 1:37:24Speaker 3: protect your venue, your vendors, all of that stuff if
- 1:37:27Speaker 3: they offer that kind of thing.
- 1:37:28Speaker 1: Because people do their parents siblings.
- 1:37:32Speaker 3: One chick, the aunt was called and trying to the
- 1:37:34Speaker 3: aunt called, pretending to be the mother because the uncle
- 1:37:39Speaker 3: had died and she wanted to try to use the
- 1:37:41Speaker 3: wedding as the uncle's going homegoing service as well, she
- 1:37:44Speaker 3: wanted to hear two ceremonies at the same time, and
- 1:37:47Speaker 3: she called trying to change stuff, and luckily they caught
- 1:37:49Speaker 3: it before she was able to do it.
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: It was it was crazy. It was crazy, but protect y'all.
- 1:37:58Speaker 4: Crazy trying to get Uncle Ricky your homegoing service during
- 1:38:03Speaker 4: my wedding.
- 1:38:03Speaker 1: Nah.
- 1:38:04Speaker 3: This She tried to convince me not to get married
- 1:38:06Speaker 3: that day because we were gonna have his funeral that day.
- 1:38:08Speaker 3: You could have picked it any other day. Why don't
- 1:38:10Speaker 3: you pick my wedding day to be here?
- 1:38:13Speaker 4: I mean?
- 1:38:13Speaker 3: And that's how she try justify. With everybody's going to
- 1:38:15Speaker 3: be in town, it's not fair to have them come
- 1:38:16Speaker 3: in town again. So she was like, we'll do it
- 1:38:17Speaker 3: the day before day after you're not she said, we
- 1:38:20Speaker 3: will have a moment of silence fam at the wedding.
- 1:38:22Speaker 3: I'll have a seat for him at the wedding. Still,
- 1:38:24Speaker 3: you'll put his picture on the seat, she said. But
- 1:38:26Speaker 3: I am not canceling my wedding, she was like. And
- 1:38:28Speaker 3: then the mother was like this it was the mother's brother.
- 1:38:29Speaker 3: This was a system law that was doing all of this.
- 1:38:32Speaker 3: And the mother was like, my brother wouldn't want her
- 1:38:33Speaker 3: to cancel her wedding right.
- 1:38:36Speaker 2: Could you imagine being there there with the with the
- 1:38:38Speaker 2: with the efficient, giving your vows and your crazy as
- 1:38:42Speaker 2: someone's wheeling.
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: You're the biggest casting That's what hold on your Could
- 1:38:44Speaker 1: you make her for Uncle Ricky? She'd have been in
- 1:38:48Speaker 1: that casket with Uncle Ricky. Since we are for one,
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: he wanted to come, let's leave my hand out that
- 1:38:56Speaker 1: I'll be damned next one.
- 1:38:58Speaker 2: I want to know the most insane reasons why you
- 1:39:00Speaker 2: inted the friendship? Am I talking? We grew apart. I'm
- 1:39:02Speaker 2: talking they popped my tires and broke into my house.
- 1:39:05Speaker 2: That's still throwing me fifteen year friendship. He said he
- 1:39:08Speaker 2: didn't feel bad for Hurricane Helen victims because no one
- 1:39:11Speaker 2: felt bad for him when he was unhoused. He was
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: in house for poor choices he made on his own,
- 1:39:18Speaker 2: not because a natural disaster took everything he owned.
- 1:39:23Speaker 3: I mean foolishness. Oh I'm homeless, by the fuck I
- 1:39:27Speaker 3: care about them being homeless.
- 1:39:28Speaker 1: No, I won't.
- 1:39:29Speaker 4: I won't be on like I won't be on that
- 1:39:30Speaker 4: train like you like evens had, But I would, I
- 1:39:33Speaker 4: would start to like you know now you now you.
- 1:39:38Speaker 1: You spend all your money on roadblocks nigga, right, Like
- 1:39:42Speaker 1: this is.
- 1:39:42Speaker 4: When this is when you start to like really analyze,
- 1:39:46Speaker 4: like this is just the person you want him to
- 1:39:48Speaker 4: be around, like you want to be around.
- 1:39:51Speaker 1: I'm just saying, that's the first thing that popped in
- 1:39:53Speaker 1: my mind. I got a teenager roadblocks fortnight fortnite.
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: There, mm hmmm.
- 1:40:02Speaker 1: Online gambling, you know, take your choice.
- 1:40:04Speaker 2: That's the thing too.
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: Fucking fucking the little bats and ship.
- 1:40:10Speaker 2: Next one, I want to know the most insane reason
- 1:40:13Speaker 2: why you ended a friendship. I am not talking we
- 1:40:15Speaker 2: grew apart. I'm talking they popped my tires and broke
- 1:40:17Speaker 2: into my fucking house. My son ended up with strep
- 1:40:22Speaker 2: throat when he was barely two, and it happened to
- 1:40:24Speaker 2: be her wedding day, and she said, I just feel
- 1:40:27Speaker 2: like you're don't you don't prioritize our friendship. Bro it's
- 1:40:30Speaker 2: my kid.
- 1:40:35Speaker 1: I'm trying. That's some narcissistic ship.
- 1:40:39Speaker 4: I'm trying, not even narcissistic, but that's that's some selfish ship.
- 1:40:46Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, yeah, we couldn't be friends.
- 1:40:50Speaker 2: Just don't prioritize our friendship. And I feel some type
- 1:40:52Speaker 2: of way like.
- 1:40:52Speaker 1: Okay, I know, like bitch, I stayed up all night
- 1:40:56Speaker 1: with fucking make up and get dressed. Bitch, don't do that.
- 1:40:59Speaker 1: I'm just saying that your baby is sick. But what
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: about me?
- 1:41:03Speaker 2: Don't don't do that about what I need?
- 1:41:07Speaker 1: It's my running. He'll be fine. It's just a little infection.
- 1:41:16Speaker 1: M rated I'll give I'll give her tooth bruster virgr.
- 1:41:24Speaker 3: What not?
- 1:41:27Speaker 1: Get the two brush to junior.
- 1:41:28Speaker 4: Ye, I'll give her two bush i brush drinking tea
- 1:41:31Speaker 4: for her tooth brush, bitch, brush the toil, the seat.
- 1:41:34Speaker 1: No, no, you don't. You don't care that he got struck. Well,
- 1:41:37Speaker 1: now y'all got it together, bitch.
- 1:41:39Speaker 2: Look at your Yeah, we're gonna do the rest of
- 1:41:42Speaker 2: these next episodes. That that's a question to week except
- 1:41:46Speaker 2: for the week we'll be back with part two or more.
- 1:41:48Speaker 2: That's foolishly all my bad. That might that might have been,
- 1:41:51Speaker 2: that might have been too much. I apologize. You want
- 1:41:53Speaker 2: to find some oral be today, bitch?
- 1:41:57Speaker 1: Yeah, get all the way back.
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- 1:44:33Speaker 3: seven years. We built the light together, twins, shared routine,
- 1:44:37Speaker 3: shared dreams, the kind of history that makes leap and
- 1:44:40Speaker 3: feel impossible even when staying hurts. And year three, he
- 1:44:43Speaker 3: cheated on me with the coworker I left.
- 1:44:46Speaker 1: I was done.
- 1:44:47Speaker 3: He apologized relentlessly, and I told him that the only
- 1:44:50Speaker 3: way I would ever move forward was if we clearly
- 1:44:53Speaker 3: we were clearly hitting towards marriage, ma'am. Three months later,
- 1:45:01Speaker 3: I laid him back in, believing that line in the
- 1:45:05Speaker 3: saying meant something.
- 1:45:06Speaker 1: Two years after that, he cheated again, this time.
- 1:45:11Speaker 3: With his cousin's best friend. She got pregnant, she had
- 1:45:16Speaker 3: an abortion. I walked away again. My heart bruise was
- 1:45:20Speaker 3: still somehow open. Four months past he came back with
- 1:45:25Speaker 3: grand justice and promises, and I listened.
- 1:45:28Speaker 1: Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame
- 1:45:31Speaker 1: on me, fool me a third time, bitch. Okay, you're
- 1:45:37Speaker 1: glutted for punishment, as my mama used to say. He
- 1:45:41Speaker 1: planned a lavish proposal and flew me to the Cayman Islands.
- 1:45:44Speaker 1: It felt like a fresh start, like proof that everything
- 1:45:46Speaker 1: got endured, had finally found led somewhere solid. But once
- 1:45:51Speaker 1: we were engaged, the ground shifted again. Every time I
- 1:45:54Speaker 1: tried to talk about setting a wedding date and he
- 1:45:56Speaker 1: stole he needed more time. Well.
- 1:45:58Speaker 3: He told me to plan everything myself and he'd let
- 1:46:00Speaker 3: me know the date, as if our future was a
- 1:46:03Speaker 3: casual appointment and not a commitment.
- 1:46:05Speaker 1: A year ago, we bought a house together. I believe
- 1:46:10Speaker 1: that meant permanence. Then this past Saturday, my world collapsed.
- 1:46:13Speaker 3: I found out he has a three year old child,
- 1:46:16Speaker 3: a whole for me at the same time, at the
- 1:46:22Speaker 3: same time, I'm pregnant.
- 1:46:26Speaker 1: Stand in the records of everything.
- 1:46:27Speaker 3: I'm now considering an abortion.
- 1:46:33Speaker 1: Value life, They could never be any more rass.
- 1:46:39Speaker 3: Sorry, at the same time, I'm pregnant records of everything
- 1:46:46Speaker 3: I thought it was true. I'm now considering abortion because
- 1:46:49Speaker 3: I don't not because I don't value life, but because
- 1:46:52Speaker 3: I'm exhausted from bringing children to the instability. When I
- 1:46:55Speaker 3: in front of him, he asked what he would need
- 1:46:57Speaker 3: to do for us to get through this. I told him, plainly,
- 1:47:01Speaker 3: set a wedding date, showed me finally that you choose me.
- 1:47:05Speaker 3: He declined, again.
- 1:47:08Speaker 1: What do I do now?
- 1:47:09Speaker 2: Get a fucking backbone, But I got a face, Reality team,
- 1:47:13Speaker 2: that's what you give.
- 1:47:14Speaker 3: Get a backbone, get some self esteem. Go take your
- 1:47:18Speaker 3: ass to therapy, call it y'allly to fix your life.
- 1:47:21Speaker 3: Stop letting these motherfuckers play in y'all faces. Man, Stop
- 1:47:26Speaker 3: letting them play in your face. Only gonna do what
- 1:47:27Speaker 3: you allow them to do. Once you take a man
- 1:47:30Speaker 3: back after he cheated on you, you just essentially told
- 1:47:33Speaker 3: him that you was okay with what he did. He's
- 1:47:35Speaker 3: never gonna stop cheating.
- 1:47:36Speaker 1: I promise you. He not. I promise you, he is
- 1:47:40Speaker 1: not gonna stop because he don't value you. He don't care.
- 1:47:43Speaker 1: He know that you're gonna fuss, you gonna cush, you're
- 1:47:45Speaker 1: gonna leave for one month to month, three months, and
- 1:47:47Speaker 1: you're gonna take him back.
- 1:47:47Speaker 3: And I only to take him back. But then you
- 1:47:50Speaker 3: went and bought a house with him. Yeah, so now
- 1:47:53Speaker 3: you're connected to him financially. You already had twins bo him,
- 1:47:57Speaker 3: so you was already connected to him for life any.
- 1:47:59Speaker 1: Day and when so you say that you don't want
- 1:48:01Speaker 1: to the house, and then got pregnant again after he
- 1:48:05Speaker 1: still he married your ads. At this point, says her father,
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: just say, you're not gonna do nothing. Just that, just that,
- 1:48:16Speaker 1: because you shouldn't accepted the proposal in the first day.
- 1:48:18Speaker 1: In place that he cheated on you multiple times, got
- 1:48:21Speaker 1: somebody pregnant, which means he out here, roared Dickon. Not
- 1:48:26Speaker 1: necessarily he's not gonna change, but I mean I agree,
- 1:48:29Speaker 1: I mean, I agree with he he a tiger, so
- 1:48:33Speaker 1: he's not gonna change.
- 1:48:35Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's always but you provide that stability. You provide,
- 1:48:40Speaker 4: You provide that stability and that safety, not that you
- 1:48:44Speaker 4: he can that he can always come home like you.
- 1:48:47Speaker 4: If you want a world, if you wanted a real change,
- 1:48:50Speaker 4: or if you wanted to see real change, and you
- 1:48:52Speaker 4: could have pulled the what's Calvin and Miranda and like
- 1:48:55Speaker 4: really really leave this nigga alone and force that nigga,
- 1:48:58Speaker 4: you know, force him to for enders standing on his own,
- 1:49:01Speaker 4: like standing on his own and fight for you like
- 1:49:03Speaker 4: he ain't and he only need to fight. He on
- 1:49:05Speaker 4: need to fight if he knows that he's never gonna
- 1:49:08Speaker 4: he don't have nothing to lose that I feel like
- 1:49:12Speaker 4: this will be double week around. He got a lot
- 1:49:14Speaker 4: to lose, but he don't know that he has a
- 1:49:15Speaker 4: lot to lose because you keep coming back mm hmm.
- 1:49:19Speaker 4: You know, and that's and that's the fuck, you know,
- 1:49:21Speaker 4: that's the fuck shit, Like he know that you're gonna
- 1:49:25Speaker 4: keep coming back, or he knows that he can always
- 1:49:26Speaker 4: come back and until you be like fuck you and
- 1:49:30Speaker 4: then keep it moving. You know you're going to do
- 1:49:34Speaker 4: definitely doing to follow the cycle.
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I kind of feel like
- 1:49:41Speaker 2: in this instance, I hate the I don't think it's
- 1:49:44Speaker 2: blaming blaming the victim, but you what you say, mm hmm.
- 1:49:49Speaker 2: I'm not going to do to my voice this time, y'all.
- 1:49:51Speaker 2: But when somebody shows you who the fuck they all
- 1:49:53Speaker 2: believed in the first time you let yourself say in
- 1:49:57Speaker 2: this situation, after this man repeated show you who the
- 1:50:00Speaker 2: fuck he was? Yeah, so why I feel bad and
- 1:50:04Speaker 2: you stink? And it doesn't doesn't absolve him for not
- 1:50:07Speaker 2: treating you correctly. You also have to take some accountability
- 1:50:11Speaker 2: for staying in the situation you knew wasn't serving you,
- 1:50:14Speaker 2: even after he got another one pregnant or found out that,
- 1:50:17Speaker 2: you know, he was denying his own flesh and blood
- 1:50:20Speaker 2: word to marry j Blige, you still chose to stay
- 1:50:24Speaker 2: with him. So do you gotta take some accountability with
- 1:50:27Speaker 2: that too? Yeah? All right, both of y'all fucked up.
- 1:50:31Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean but, like I said, if you
- 1:50:34Speaker 4: want to see, if you want the exact world change,
- 1:50:36Speaker 4: you have to be that change you have.
- 1:50:38Speaker 1: Like yo, you you gotta change. You gotta change the
- 1:50:41Speaker 1: way that you approach this ship. Like you. You talk ship.
- 1:50:44Speaker 1: You know you already talk a lot of shit to
- 1:50:46Speaker 1: your homegirls. Like him. I can't stand him. I put
- 1:50:49Speaker 1: his girl, I put his ass ship no more, don't talk.
- 1:50:56Speaker 1: He's just a little Mims from No man was better.
- 1:51:02Speaker 1: Fuck y'all, what Jody? That was? Like twenty five.
- 1:51:08Speaker 3: Nobody has been able to confirm with the nota was
- 1:51:13Speaker 3: older than Jody and the child was like, what five, Yeah,
- 1:51:17Speaker 3: so they saying that was older than Jody and and
- 1:51:20Speaker 3: she was holding like the niggas that be sitting outside
- 1:51:22Speaker 3: the middle school.
- 1:51:25Speaker 2: But even in that instance, I feel like, yes, you
- 1:51:27Speaker 2: can love. And of course it's it's it's all about
- 1:51:29Speaker 2: being young and being inexperienced in love and dealing with
- 1:51:32Speaker 2: somebody and feeling like I'm never gonna be somebody else again.
- 1:51:35Speaker 2: And people can pray, people can do pray on that. Yeah,
- 1:51:39Speaker 2: but you also have to have enough self worth to.
- 1:51:42Speaker 1: Be like this ain't for me.
- 1:51:44Speaker 2: I don't deserve this. I don't deserve to be treated
- 1:51:47Speaker 2: like this. And knowing that peace and being by yourself
- 1:51:51Speaker 2: is better than let somebody come in and fucking you.
- 1:51:54Speaker 1: You need to be with him.
- 1:51:55Speaker 2: That part I know.
- 1:51:56Speaker 1: I got a friend.
- 1:51:58Speaker 3: You can love somebody, but that don't mean you need
- 1:52:02Speaker 3: to be with them. Some people are just toxic for
- 1:52:05Speaker 3: each other, very very toxic. I got a friend right
- 1:52:08Speaker 3: now and the toxicast stuff and I just was like,
- 1:52:10Speaker 3: let me start my business. I said my piece. At
- 1:52:14Speaker 3: the end of the day, people gonna do what they
- 1:52:15Speaker 3: want to do. If you watched the you know episode
- 1:52:18Speaker 3: A few episodes mag when we got the question from
- 1:52:21Speaker 3: Caz and I told, you know, we told our story
- 1:52:24Speaker 3: about why one of the friendships we had ended, and
- 1:52:29Speaker 3: it had a lot to do with regardless of how
- 1:52:31Speaker 3: much you want to fight for that person, that person
- 1:52:33Speaker 3: gotta want to.
- 1:52:33Speaker 1: Fight for theirself. And that's it. That's it. Yep, Yeah,
- 1:52:42Speaker 1: that's gonna be it for this episode.
- 1:52:44Speaker 2: Your so damn yeah it is.
- 1:52:47Speaker 1: But uh, get a bag bone sugar and go to
- 1:52:51Speaker 1: seek therapy. Talk.
- 1:52:52Speaker 3: Please, Look, you need to hear on your not your homegirls.
- 1:52:56Speaker 3: Go talk to a licensed professional.
- 1:52:57Speaker 2: Go talk to that lady with the degrees on my wall, and.
- 1:53:02Speaker 1: Go to church. Talk to past us about something.
- 1:53:05Speaker 2: You got a lot of this stuff boils down or
- 1:53:07Speaker 2: not not having enough self esteem, self self good, sense
- 1:53:10Speaker 2: of self work.
- 1:53:12Speaker 1: Let somebody keep playing in your face like that. That's
- 1:53:14Speaker 1: that's a lot.
- 1:53:15Speaker 2: But you got one time to do the ship to me.
- 1:53:17Speaker 1: I let a lot of ship slide when I was younger,
- 1:53:20Speaker 1: at this age.
- 1:53:21Speaker 2: You know, Uh, baby, ain't nothing better than.
- 1:53:27Speaker 3: Ain't nobody coming to you as a woman or a man.
- 1:53:30Speaker 3: Ain't nobody man? You see business mean mother, I.
- 1:53:34Speaker 1: Ain't do nothing.
- 1:53:34Speaker 4: I don't know this lady, but move on, like they said,
- 1:53:37Speaker 4: go go go talk to somebody first, because you need
- 1:53:42Speaker 4: to be securing yourself. You know, you know what I'm saying,
- 1:53:45Speaker 4: Like you know, once you once you know what the
- 1:53:47Speaker 4: problem is, or once you know like what's going on,
- 1:53:49Speaker 4: and you you can protect yourself from falling for like
- 1:53:53Speaker 4: falling for the bullshit. Because when you when they tell you,
- 1:53:56Speaker 4: when you finally take that time to actually go talk
- 1:53:58Speaker 4: to the person, they already know the buttons per us
- 1:54:00Speaker 4: and it's like you gotta be strong, Yeah, be stronger
- 1:54:02Speaker 4: than your buttons.
- 1:54:03Speaker 2: Ye.
- 1:54:03Speaker 3: People will manipulate you. They want no more here. Yeah,
- 1:54:09Speaker 3: it's been long enough. You're not going to marry you baby,
- 1:54:13Speaker 3: your losses.
- 1:54:14Speaker 2: You canna work like that. Like that one lady, And
- 1:54:16Speaker 2: that's the question you asked a few episodes ago when
- 1:54:19Speaker 2: she was eighty five years old, talk about something, well
- 1:54:21Speaker 2: that I waste my life chasing behind my husband who
- 1:54:23Speaker 2: cant cheating on me, and.
- 1:54:24Speaker 1: He only stop cheating because dick don't work no more.
- 1:54:27Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:54:28Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a that's a sober motherfucking realization to come
- 1:54:31Speaker 2: to you, bem My, fifty years you can't get that
- 1:54:34Speaker 2: hell bro, that's it.
- 1:54:38Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:54:39Speaker 2: Well, if you have any questions for us, feel free
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- 1:55:19Speaker 3: who I actually got chased from. She she she been
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- 1:55:26Speaker 3: I old classmates, Michael my help and watching them and
- 1:55:30Speaker 3: and liking and comments and stuff, and my cousin and
- 1:55:34Speaker 3: my cousin message told me she just don't start listening.
- 1:55:36Speaker 1: So she said she just started listening and shout out
- 1:55:39Speaker 1: to mister. She ain't got this far in the episode yet.
- 1:55:41Speaker 3: She just recently started. And every time I see her,
- 1:55:43Speaker 3: she was like, I've been listening to y'all pocket. You
- 1:55:45Speaker 3: guys are funny. I learned a lot of stuff about
- 1:55:47Speaker 3: you showing up. I didn't know you guys are funny.
- 1:55:50Speaker 3: So shout out to mister the.
- 1:55:51Speaker 1: Day that one of my coworkers.
- 1:55:53Speaker 2: It's gonna happen, but that one of my coworkers or
- 1:55:56Speaker 2: my boss friend this fucking podcast and hear me talk about.
- 1:56:00Speaker 1: That's what I said. I actually did mention something about it.
- 1:56:03Speaker 1: What about co working?
- 1:56:06Speaker 2: Yet?
- 1:56:06Speaker 1: Really, so, Brad, you have for a weekend.
- 1:56:11Speaker 3: What you mean I heard I had your little show,
- 1:56:16Speaker 3: you know, shallow podcast Yellow Kids.
- 1:56:21Speaker 1: So you're like, you're like saying, by yall, I've been
- 1:56:32Speaker 1: standing into silence. So with that, we thank you for
- 1:56:35Speaker 1: watching who.
- 1:56:43Speaker 2: That's how I'm getting in trouble because I say, like, we.
- 1:56:47Speaker 1: Missed a couple of birthdays too. You're doing another seventeen
- 1:56:49Speaker 1: minutes of the birthday show. We missed Keitha's birthday. Lady,
- 1:56:52Speaker 1: if we say birthday to the kids In the last
- 1:56:54Speaker 1: episode of February, Birthday says every birthday since we love you,
- 1:56:58Speaker 1: and we did say every birthday, but it's past now.
- 1:57:01Speaker 1: Happy fortieth birthday to our father. Co host key her birthday.
- 1:57:04Speaker 3: She's the first went off the boat technically brought these
- 1:57:06Speaker 3: first one on the once to turn forty.
- 1:57:07Speaker 4: I think about to turn forty two. He turned forty. Yes,
- 1:57:11Speaker 4: and she the first of eighty six babies. Yeah, she's
- 1:57:14Speaker 4: the first of eighty six babies. And in a couple
- 1:57:17Speaker 4: of days we will have a two year old up around.
- 1:57:20Speaker 4: So happy birthday, SHABOOKI had birthday.
- 1:57:22Speaker 1: Aj get off my chair.
- 1:57:27Speaker 3: And had birthday to my grandmother. Her birthday is on age.
- 1:57:31Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Yes, happy birthday, Grandma.
- 1:57:34Speaker 1: I think we got anybody? Yeah, Okay.
- 1:57:36Speaker 2: Because I was added an episode, I was like, god, damn,
- 1:57:39Speaker 2: I know I was listening.
- 1:57:40Speaker 1: I said, Damn I did say, hey, birthdayday, okay.
- 1:57:43Speaker 4: Leave our people out your whole damn zip cold that said.
- 1:57:46Speaker 4: I was like, oh lord, see if she go go ahead.
- 1:57:51Speaker 3: And I also realized that I left my nephew Cash
- 1:57:53Speaker 3: out list, my god son Cash. I left him out
- 1:57:56Speaker 3: of the last episode of February to his birthday is
- 1:57:58Speaker 3: twenty fifth, So happy birthday.
- 1:58:00Speaker 2: We're gonna just give you a list to write all
- 1:58:01Speaker 2: these names.
- 1:58:03Speaker 1: Hell yeah, like every episode we're gonna have it. We're
- 1:58:07Speaker 1: just gonna have it up the episode like Pok not
- 1:58:15Speaker 1: Poky in the I told your niggas Pooky died in
- 1:58:18Speaker 1: the fire.
- 1:58:18Speaker 2: Don't do that. We thank y'all for washing. We love y'all,
- 1:58:21Speaker 2: and we will see y'all next week. By y'all.
- 1:58:25Speaker 1: Teddies, Yes, teddies to cover. Teddies go to hell with
- 1:58:34Speaker 1: bells on them like that.