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Love Should Never Hurt - Dating & Relationship Guide · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is Sparta. I am not here to show you
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  Speaker 1: how to play the same flawed character in the same
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  Speaker 1: inconsistent way and get the same inconsistent results. I am
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  Speaker 1: here to declare that there is no need to be
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  Speaker 1: afraid anymore. What if they don't like the way I look?
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  Speaker 1: What if I don't have anything interesting to say? What
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  Speaker 1: if they find someone else? Stop having imaginary conversations and
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  Speaker 1: living out fantasies of failure. There are women who tell
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  Speaker 1: themselves shit like men don't like darker-skinned women, men only
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  Speaker 1: date skinny women, you have to match a man financially
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  Speaker 1: to be taken seriously, and all of these other pitiful
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  Speaker 1: tall tales. Every story you make up about why this
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  Speaker 1: world won't give you what you want will come true.
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  Speaker 1: Each fear that you have as to why you will
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  Speaker 1: be rejected will come true. The universe is built to
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  Speaker 1: give you what you keep asking for. And no matter
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  Speaker 1: how hard you cry or how sick you are of
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  Speaker 1: the dating stage, it's a purgatory of your own making.
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  Speaker 1: You will find true love. That's not an affirmation. That's
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  Speaker 1: a spoiler. You will be genuinely happy. That's not an affirmation.
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  Speaker 1: That's a spoiler. Everything you need is already yours. That's
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  Speaker 1: not an affirmation. That's a spoiler. The hell you've put
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  Speaker 1: yourself through will lead to a happy ending, not by default,
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  Speaker 1: not because you're nice, show gratitude, or pray, but because
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  Speaker 1: you worked for it. This book isn't entertainment. It's the
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  Speaker 1: pill that gets you out of the rabbit hole. There
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  Speaker 1: is no them. There is only you. There is no failure.
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  Speaker 1: There is only success. There are no setbacks. There is
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  Speaker 1: only discovery. There is no fear. There is only courage.
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  Speaker 1: The story you are about to write throughout this book
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  Speaker 1: will challenge you to look back at what you used
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  Speaker 1: to do or those things that you still do and
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  Speaker 1: burn it down. You are not shy and you are
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  Speaker 1: not unattractive. You are not your past. You are not
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  Speaker 1: your mistakes. You are simply what you choose to be.
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  Speaker 1: Today and every day that follows, you will choose to
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  Speaker 1: be a fucking Spartan. The new story you're going to
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  Speaker 1: create is about how you take over the world and
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  Speaker 1: reign over it for years to come. Are you ready?
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  Speaker 2: Men Don't Love Women Like You, the book that changed
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  Speaker 2: the dating landscape, is back! All new chapters, plus old
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  Speaker 2: chapters updated and expanded. We're talking over 500 pages in
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  Speaker 2: book form, like 40 hours on Audible. If you can't
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  Speaker 2: win with this book, then what the fuck? I don't
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  Speaker 2: care if you've read the first version. This new edition
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  Speaker 2: changes every fucking thing. Here's a sneak peek. Pay attention
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  Speaker 2: and breathe it in.
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  Speaker 1: Men kill. Wage wars.
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  Speaker 3: Lie.
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  Speaker 1: Steal.
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  Speaker 4: Pay.
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  Speaker 1: Beg and betray each other for women. Are you really
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  Speaker 1: going to believe the bullshit that you are soft, replaceable,
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  Speaker 1: or just a sexual release? You are the most powerful
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  Speaker 1: of all human beings. It is time to embrace this
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  Speaker 1: fact and shake off the habit and traditions that men
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  Speaker 1: have saddled you with in order to keep you obedient
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  Speaker 1: and unsure of your place in this world. Take some
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  Speaker 1: time to appreciate how important you are in regards to
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  Speaker 1: the role you play in this universe. Spend a moment
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  Speaker 1: basking and how potentially great you could be once you
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  Speaker 1: had the self-esteem and confidence not to give a fuck.
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  Speaker 1: What do you have to fear from a man rejecting you,
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  Speaker 1: a woman not liking you, or a group of people
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  Speaker 1: judging you? Life is Sparta, a world tailor-made for the
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  Speaker 1: strongest women to succeed and ingeniously designed to keep the
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  Speaker 1: weakest women in their place. You are no longer a lamb,
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  Speaker 1: Waiting to be slaughtered. You are the slaughterer.
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  Speaker 4: You are a Spartan. You're listening to Men Don't Love
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  Speaker 4: Women Like You. Ten-Year Anniversary Edition. Written by G.L. Lambert.
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  Speaker 4: Narrated by Garen Patrick.
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  Speaker 2: Narrated by Clay Luma Cayu.
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  Speaker 1: Narrated by Patrick Stevens.
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  Speaker 4: We hope you enjoy. In 2020, the world went through
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  Speaker 4: a pandemic that fundamentally changed how we date. During the lockdown,
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  Speaker 4: I received more emails for advice than ever before because
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  Speaker 4: online dating apps, social media DMs, hookups, and even FaceTime
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  Speaker 4: dating suddenly became a thing. After the pandemic ended, people
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  Speaker 4: claimed to be back outside, but the way to meet
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  Speaker 4: people stayed the same, online. A shift happened where men
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  Speaker 4: became hip to the technology dating game and used this
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  Speaker 4: new era of screen time connections to manipulate women on
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  Speaker 4: an entirely new level. No longer did he have to
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  Speaker 4: use the phone to call. Texting, DMing, or a quick
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  Speaker 4: voice note became forms of attention that women accepted as effort.
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  Speaker 4: Check in with a dry sub or I've been thinking
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  Speaker 4: of you. Send a stupid meme or video. then randomly
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  Speaker 4: ask if you're free to link at the last minute.
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  Speaker 4: This is the strategy a lot of men use to
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  Speaker 4: manufacture fake deep bonds and get quick sex. Because he's
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  Speaker 4: handsome or successful, you all allow dates to be downgraded
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  Speaker 4: to meetups. These new men, Mr. Modern and Dick Pick Dante,
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  Speaker 4: they are having the time of their lives in this
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  Speaker 4: new world. Mr. Modern will have a girl he met
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  Speaker 4: on Hinge who he gaslights into being single, but exclusive.
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  Speaker 4: The hustle is he doesn't take her out, doesn't talk
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  Speaker 4: to her on the phone, just texts her sporadically. Bonding
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  Speaker 4: with shallow words and attention keeps other men away from
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  Speaker 4: his seat filler. Mr. Modern will then build his roster
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  Speaker 4: by shooting his shot on social media at every pretty
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  Speaker 4: girl on his Explore page. throwing a few dollars at
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  Speaker 4: girls on a TikTok live feed, and sending, hey stranger,
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  Speaker 4: messages to exes, former co-workers, or even classmates. He's drowning
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  Speaker 4: in placeholder pussy. Dick pic Dante is the kind of
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  Speaker 4: hypersexual guy who will seem sweet at first, then blitz
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  Speaker 4: you with pictures of his dick, sexting, dirty talk, and
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  Speaker 4: all the reasons why you should let him hit it. Normally,
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  Speaker 4: this would be gross, but he's perfected his game and
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  Speaker 4: script to the point where he always includes how you're
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  Speaker 4: so special and different. Yes, dick pic Dante gets blocked
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  Speaker 4: by a few women, but 70% of the time he'll
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  Speaker 4: make his shot. How? Because modern women crave attention, even
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  Speaker 4: if it's perverted and sexual. They want to feel wanted
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  Speaker 4: and desired, even if it's from a man sending pictures
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  Speaker 4: of his dick next to a soda can at 1pm
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  Speaker 4: in the afternoon. The mental health ramifications of now living
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  Speaker 4: in a world where we're connected but distant can't be underplayed.
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  Speaker 4: You are overstimulated, you're tired, and your nervous system is
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  Speaker 4: on 20 because you don't know what's real. Everything is
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  Speaker 4: a game. Everything is strategic. You just want to skip
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  Speaker 4: to the part where you're cuddled up in bed and
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  Speaker 4: watching true crime shows together. Mr. Modern knows you want peace.
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  Speaker 4: Dick Pick Dante knows you want companionship. Every single man
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  Speaker 4: you meet, even the decent ones who are looking for love,
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  Speaker 4: will still test you to see if you're a unicorn
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  Speaker 4: or just another typical. How much can I get from
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  Speaker 4: her by giving the bare minimum? It's how today's men
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  Speaker 4: test because they know they can bluff you into making
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  Speaker 4: an exception. Men have become the trophy. Think about how
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  Speaker 4: easy it is for men to have multiple women in
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  Speaker 4: this modern dating world without ever having to take them
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  Speaker 4: on a real date. You're not together, but you treat
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  Speaker 4: him like he's your man. You see that he's actively
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  Speaker 4: thirsting after other women online, but you still want him
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  Speaker 4: to choose you. Every single red flag is picked up
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  Speaker 4: by men who aren't even that amazing because intimacy has
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  Speaker 4: become a lost art. You're not back outside. You're not
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  Speaker 4: as social as you once were. So when a man
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  Speaker 4: finally enters your life saying the right things, at first,
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  Speaker 4: you hold on. How did this happen? Because after high
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  Speaker 4: school and college, your social circle shrank. Coworkers, bros at
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  Speaker 4: the gym, and random guys on social media are all
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  Speaker 4: you have. No one truly exceptional talks to you, and
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  Speaker 4: you dare not talk to a man first because you
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  Speaker 4: think that's chasing. As a result, you all date men
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  Speaker 4: who pick you, not guys who win you. You're lonely
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  Speaker 4: and getting older. Since you don't have anything else going on,
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  Speaker 4: you let the wrong one in. Medium ugly men, handsome
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  Speaker 4: broke guys, sprinkle in a few successful nerds or charismatic narcissists.
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  Speaker 4: That's your roster. not kings, clowns who convince you that
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  Speaker 4: you can't do better. Why do you have this book?
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  Speaker 4: I hope you bought it to empower yourself for yourself,
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  Speaker 4: but most likely it was some boy that led you
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  Speaker 4: to seek out relationship help. You want to be better
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  Speaker 4: for them, and they don't even have to change to
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  Speaker 4: keep you on their dicks, which proves my point. Mediocre
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  Speaker 4: men are winning. No high-level dates, no stepping up and
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  Speaker 4: making you feel secure. Most of you don't even get
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  Speaker 4: shit for your birthday. How can you aim high when
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  Speaker 4: you don't aim at all? You simply wait for a
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  Speaker 4: man to pop into your life and pick you so
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  Speaker 4: you can stop being alone. Tell me how that's working
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  Speaker 4: out for you. GL, why did he get my number
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  Speaker 4: but hasn't asked me out? Why would he take you
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  Speaker 4: out when he's already got you pressed, beloved? GL, I
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  Speaker 4: took a look at his phone and he still hasn't
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  Speaker 4: deleted the dating app we met on. Why would he
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  Speaker 4: delete the app when he just sees you as a placeholder,
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  Speaker 4: not a game changer? GL, why am I not good
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  Speaker 4: enough for him? Because you're not even good enough for yourself.
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  Speaker 4: The younger version of you would ugly cry at how
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  Speaker 4: you've devolved. It's time to take back your power. It's
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  Speaker 4: time to be selfish. and put yourself at the center
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  Speaker 4: of this story. Stop allowing men to test you, and
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  Speaker 4: start testing them. This next section of the book is
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  Speaker 4: Date Like a Spartan, and it's critical that you consume
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  Speaker 4: it until you know it like the back of your hand.
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  Speaker 4: Read the physical copy and highlight it. Listen to the
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  Speaker 4: audio version before bed. Keep the digital copy on your
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  Speaker 4: phone for when you're on an actual date and need
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  Speaker 4: to sneak a quick look in the bathrooms. Trust me,
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  Speaker 4: knowing this next section by heart will pay off. The
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  Speaker 4: reason why this book was originally split in half between
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  Speaker 4: Awaken the Spartan and Date Like a Spartan was that
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  Speaker 4: most of you didn't use the first part of this
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  Speaker 4: book properly. I told you that you are God herself.
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  Speaker 4: I was one of the originators of the main character
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  Speaker 4: concept in dating and life way back in 2016 before
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  Speaker 4: it became trendy and bastardized. I proved that this universe
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  Speaker 4: is built to give you what you want if you
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  Speaker 4: dared to be selfish, fearless, and aggressive. What did you
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  Speaker 4: do with that knowledge? You went back to sleep. Let
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  Speaker 4: some peasant convince you that you're just another lover girl
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  Speaker 4: who needs to bring something to the table. Some of
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  Speaker 4: you are back after all these years, still unable to
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  Speaker 4: do the things I wrote about ten years ago. Not
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  Speaker 4: because you lack the intelligence, but Because you lack the
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  Speaker 4: courage to be aggressive. The days of waiting for a
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  Speaker 4: man to pick you are over. The days of only
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  Speaker 4: talking to guys who DM or speak to you first
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  Speaker 4: are over. Spartans don't chase, but they damn sure give
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  Speaker 4: out invitations to the World Cup of Love. Because when
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  Speaker 4: multiple men compete, you win. It's time to learn step
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  Speaker 4: by step how to de-center men and never lose control again.
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  Speaker 4: Let's begin with your re-education on how to date like
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  Speaker 4: a fucking Spartan.
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  Speaker 2: Let's hit pause right there. If you want to listen
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  Speaker 2: to or read the entire book and level up your
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  Speaker 2: love life, your confidence, and become a master at manifesting,
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  Speaker 2: then go over to Amazon, Audible, or Apple Books and
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  Speaker 2: search for the all-new Men Don't Love Women Like You
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  Speaker 2: 10-Year Anniversary Edition. Or if you want your book signed
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  Speaker 2: by GL Lambert, go over to SolvingSingle.com and get that
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  Speaker 2: autographed collector's edition. What are you waiting for? Go finish
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  Speaker 2: this book!
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  Speaker 3: The same time i learned to hurt felt the give
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  Speaker 3: and felt the take called me your baby then texted
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  Speaker 3: i was your worst mistake i'm such a savage randy
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  Speaker 3: but you want more mandy your mom said don't step
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  Speaker 3: foot in her house how would she feel if she
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  Speaker 3: Last night Getting fucked on her couch.
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  Speaker 5: I lied when I said I wouldn't Surprise, surprise, I'm
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  Speaker 5: not exactly who I say You cried, those tears felt
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  Speaker 5: so wooden Too easy to break.
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  Speaker 3: Me apart This way from the villain Then why do
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  Speaker 3: I feel this way from the villain Then why are
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  Speaker 3: you back under my cape?