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Season 2 - Episode 106 - My definition of hell · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Coupe today, I want to share with you my personal definition
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  of hell when the person you are meets the person, you could have
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  been ouch that one got me when I heard it years ago, probably
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  many years ago now. I think that was a big driver
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  for me to focus on and really pay attention to because I have
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  to say it is one of the things that drives me forward.
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  Most of all in thinking about the fact that geez who can Be,
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  you know, when you just stop and you start to think about things
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  like that and say to yourself, you know, am I being the person?
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  I was meant to be, or am I being a person that I have been
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  conditioned to be? There is a huge difference
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  between those, and I think that's what I personally know,
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  everyone has their own thing, but that they want to focus on
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  or that they want to step into, but I often will see people and
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  they say, well, I'm entitled to blah, blah blah and yeah, no
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  one's telling you you're not. You can do with your life,
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  whatever you choose to do. You can decide you don't want to
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  do any of the things to, you know, take care of yourself.
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  Let's say let's say it's a physical thing and you're like I
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  don't want to confine to the societal stuff.
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  That's out there. Yep.
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  You are completely entitled to do that.
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  I don't do. That when it comes to clothing
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  and the things that I wear, I'm very, very, very much tomboyish.
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  I guess this is the way you would call it.
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  As I was always called as a kid but I don't care because it's
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  genuinely how I feel, I feel best in baggy pants and
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  ponytails and tank, tops, and sneakers.
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  I mean, honestly, that is the truth.
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  And I'm not confining myself to something that someone else is
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  telling me, I should, or shouldn't do, because it's
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  mystical. Cole anyway.
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  What they're putting out there is just, you don't have to hear
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  it. Nobody comes to my house in the
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  morning and says those things. If I'm allowing that to come in,
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  that's just me allowing that to come in.
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  Have I been teased about it before?
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  Of course, did it bother me at those times?
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  Yes, because I was still vulnerable about it but the
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  reality is once I heard this you know the definition of hell is
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  when the person you are meets the person you could have been.
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  I decide you know what, I don't want to be the person that gets
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  riled by Stuff. I don't want to be the person
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  that lets that happen. You know, I have people that
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  think it's very weird that I have the chickens and spoil them
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  the way that I do and take care of them.
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  The way that I do, that's okay, this is the person I choose to
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  be and the person that I could have been is developing every
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  single day choosing myself to look to Greater and more
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  expansive, thoughts and things to do for myself is part of what
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  Makes me just feel excited about life.
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  So when I when I think about how we have this opportunity we are
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  given a huge opportunity being here and growing and we are
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  given this awareness that the person you are right in this
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  minute is not the person that you have to stay every day.
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  You get to change every day you get to shift for better work for
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  worse. You can grow.
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  You can stagnate All of it is choices.
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  You can make this be whatever you want, but that phrase that
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  one little phrase, the person you are meets that definition,
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  hell is when the person you are meets the person you could have
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  been. I think about that.
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  And I'm like well who do I think I could have been and I stopped.
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  And I really say to myself why am I living on track?
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  Or if I just kind of stepped into a place in the world where
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  I'm accepting, Ting, what's there?
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  And and the second, I start to think about accepting things,
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  I'm like, I don't know. I want to I want to examine that
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  and that's why it's so important to examine this for yourself.
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  You know. Oftentimes I'm in the middle of
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  doing a program right now while I was in the middle of one and
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  then I'm switching to another one because I'm pushing myself,
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  really, really hard. Maybe that's why I have this
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  damn cold but, but in any event I'm pushing myself.
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  Of physically because I was getting these messages from my
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  body saying that I had, I was, I was experiencing pain in my
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  knees and I wasn't, I was while I walk constantly.
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  One could say, oh, it's because you're pushing yourself walking
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  too hard. Maybe but I didn't want to
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  accept that. So I was like no the person I
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  really want to be wants to be this main this really fit
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  person. So I just cut all these things.
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  Out of my diet With a Little Help from My Friends.
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  And I cut them all out and I'm like, okay so you know here's
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  the thing, this is a experiment I'm experimenting right now, if
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  it doesn't work, I can always go back and do something different.
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  Because the person I want to be wants to be healthy.
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  The person that I think I could be wants to be even healthier
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  stripping things. Out of my diet has taught me.
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  That the pain was a message from my body saying you got to do
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  away with some of this sugar and yes, what the sugar is gone and
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  the pain is gone. Wow.
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  What a concept and I love that that happened because it just
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  reinforces again interpretation of messages matters.
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  So I'm going to challenge you guys to really think about that
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  definition of hell because it can affect so many areas of your
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  life when you sit and really ask yourself about it.
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  You know the definition of hell is when the person you are meets
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  the person you could have been what are you going to do with
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  that? Because I don't ever want to get
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  there. Air and have God say to me.
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  Listen if you hadn't just been so freaking stubborn and you had
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  done this, you would have been skyrocketing.
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  Well guess what? I am not taking that chance.
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  My friends. I hope you have a blessed day
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  and I will see you all tomorrow. Bye.
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  Air and have God say to me. Listen if you hadn't just been
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  so freaking stubborn and you had done this, you would have been
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  skyrocketing. Well guess what?
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  I am not taking that chance. My friends.
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  I hope you have a blessed day and I will see you all tomorrow.
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  Bye.