Latest / Second Date Update / The Demolition Derby
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- 0:00All right, Well we're in Windsor. It is Second Date Update time and
- 0:03we've got Derek on the line. Good morning, Derek, welcome to Second
- 0:06Date Update. Hey, good morning, Thanks so much for taking my call.
- 0:09Oh yeah, well listen obviously, you know second date Update is when
- 0:12you go on a first date, you have a great time, but then
- 0:14you get ghosted. We get the answers, So you need to tell me
- 0:17about this great first date. Yeah. I had an amazing time. I
- 0:21think she did too. Awesome chick Jessica. We went to the fair,
- 0:26you know, we walked around, we enjoyed all this stuff. We had
- 0:29some beer and some food, some good fried stuff, funnel cake. Oh
- 0:34yeah, we really hit it off. She's just cool. You know,
- 0:38she kind of understood everything I was talking about. We I don't know,
- 0:42we just really got each other's vibes. And I don't know, I thought
- 0:45she was super, super attractive. But I just haven't heard from her since,
- 0:49and I'm I'm wondering what happened, because I don't think I'm misread it.
- 0:53I feel like we were into each other, but now, you know,
- 0:56I haven't heard a thing from her. Well here's the thing, Derek,
- 0:58I think fair dates are fab Listen. The only thing I could think
- 1:00of is, I know, like years and years ago, somebody took me
- 1:03on a first date to affair, but they didn't tell me we were going
- 1:04to the fair. And I wasn't dressed properly, Like I froze and my
- 1:07feet hurt. It was like horrible. Was she like dressed to go to
- 1:11the fair? Yeah? I think so. It was a perfect day.
- 1:14It was only in seventy degrees, and I think she didn't complain at all.
- 1:17She looked comfortable. So all right, Derek, now don't take this
- 1:19wrong way. I'm just asking, because this happened to a friend of mine,
- 1:23do you like aggressively eat fair foods? Because like, she went on
- 1:26a date and the guy was like going in ham on these chicken wings and
- 1:29it like made her on comfy. I actually thought about this. I was
- 1:33like, all right, don't eat anything too messy. I avoided the cheese
- 1:34fries. I only had stuff that I could eat without getting all over my
- 1:38shirt, So I think I avoided that. What a gem. Yeah,
- 1:42you sound like a great guy. It sounds like a great date. So
- 1:45we're gonna call her up. We'll call Jessica up, you're gonna be listening
- 1:47in, Derek. We're just gonna ask her how she thought the date went.
- 1:49I'll just be blunt with her and ask her why she's ghosting you.
- 1:52But if you're ready to find out and get her answer, we're gonna call
- 1:55her. Yes, please, thank you so much. I also can ciarette
- 2:00that he thought about not eating the messy food, especially since but most men
- 2:05don't think. I know we're of a mind. A great point A patch
- 2:12him through, though, don't forget. Hello. Hello, is Jessica there?
- 2:16Yeah, Hi, this is Jessica. Hi, Jessica's Courtney, and
- 2:20what's up. It's Walmart, Jeff, Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling.
- 2:23Hey, Hey, we're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. I gotta
- 2:27let you know you're on the air this morning. M hm, okay,
- 2:30okay, you're on second date updates. So when somebody goes on a first
- 2:34date, if they get ghosted, they call us. And that's why we're
- 2:36calling you this morning because Derek called us. Derek told us, Jessica,
- 2:40he took you to the fair and you guys had a great time. He
- 2:44thought you had a fantastic time, and he's reached out. But you're ghosting
- 2:47him. Yeah, okay, yeah, we we did go on a date.
- 2:54Okay, it was It was okay in the beginning. We went to
- 2:58a fair and we just like walked around ate had a beer. It was
- 3:04totally normal. But the reason why I didn't reach out to him again was
- 3:08when the when the demolition derby started, he just went absolutely nuts. But
- 3:15he was yelling, he was jumping up and down. At one point he
- 3:20like took his shirt off and started waving it around his head. Jessica,
- 3:25really, yes, I'm serious. He was drinking beer and he was spilling
- 3:30it on himself. Okay, embarrassing, All right, Derek's there, go
- 3:36ahead, Derek. Derek heard everything. What do you want to say,
- 3:38Derek? I just want to say, first of all, it's the derby,
- 3:43and that's what you do. I would have looked crazy if I didn't
- 3:46take my shirt off. Everyone there was going up and having a good time,
- 3:49like what do you expect someone to do with the derby? And I
- 3:53spilled like a tiny bit of beer, but it's beard, it wipes off.
- 3:55I don't understand what the issue was. I know, I know you
- 4:00were just having a good time, but I'm sorry. I was looking around,
- 4:02and you were definitely like going more crazy than everyone else there, Like
- 4:09there were like there was maybe one other guy that had his shirt off,
- 4:12but you were screaming, like screaming at the top of your life. Oh
- 4:15no, it's the Derby. Don't you want someone who's gonna have a good
- 4:19time at the Derby? I feel like it. If you don't, then
- 4:23you're kind of a lame person, right, am I crazy? It was
- 4:28our first date. We could have had like a cotton candy, we could
- 4:30have gone on the ferris wheel. But that's true. We did a ton
- 4:34of that kind of stuff and then the Derby was there, so obviously we're
- 4:39going to enjoy the Derby. Are you serious? Right now? I think
- 4:42I'm probright. I think we're just maybe not a good match. It was.
- 4:46It was embarrassing. I think maybe it's safe to say like a Derby's
- 4:49maybe like a fifth or sixth state kind of activity. What's embarrassing is someone
- 4:55who doesn't know how to have a good time at something like the Derby.
- 4:58It's the Derby. Come on, yeah, hey, Derek, you know
- 5:00what, Derek, I agree with you. I mean, this one's on,
- 5:03Jessica. I mean you're going to a fair, you should know like
- 5:06the ins and outs of like the demolition Derby and all that stuff derby etiquette.
- 5:12I'm sorry, Jeff, he's spilled beer on her. He was screaming
- 5:15and yell and waving his shirt. Listen, it's just sounds like it's not
- 5:17a good match, you know what. I think you're right because someone who
- 5:20doesn't get the Derby, then it's probably not gonna get me. Well,
- 5:25listen, would you guys like to go on a second day because I will
- 5:27pick up the tap and we could just keep it low key, like there
- 5:29doesn't have to be like a like cars crashing or anything. We could do
- 5:31something low key. I don't know about Derek, but I'm gonna say no,
- 5:38thank you. Okay, you beat me to it. I was gonna
- 5:42also say no because I'm going to be good nat with someone who enjoys things
- 5:45I enjoy. Okay. Yeah, Well, maybe you guys can go watch
- 5:48the motorcycles in the cage next time because that's always fun. All right.
- 5:55Well, listen, Jessica, Derek, I'm sorry we didn't make a love
- 5:57match, but I'm glad we got down to business and got the answers.
- 6:00You needed. Thank you guys so much for being open and honest on second
- 6:02date update, thank you for having me EXPI