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EP 81 "Seduction vs Manipulation" · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to these niggas and
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  Speaker 3: you hoes.
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  Speaker 2: This is your co-host, AJ. What up? Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: It's 10 Band. Thank y'all for tuning in.
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  Speaker 2: I love y'all, man.
• 0:24
  Speaker 1: I gotta change my life. Bitch you better stop.
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  Speaker 3: Budgeting Bruh Motherfucker be throwing in a bag all month
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  Speaker 3: This shit said I spent $ 2, 000 On dining and drinks
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  Speaker 3: $ 3, 000 on personal care $ 2, 000 on shopping $ 2, 000 Uncategorized And
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  Speaker 3: then $ 2, 000 On entertainment.
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  Speaker 1: And recreation Bitch did you pay any bills I didn't
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  Speaker 1: hear that.
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  Speaker 2: No utilities? Oh, wait, it's more.
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  Speaker 1: Loan payments, $ 800.
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  Speaker 3: Auto and transport, $ 900.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't spending nothing but $ 200 on grocery.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, listen.
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  Speaker 3: I follow money. And we have been in a recession
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  Speaker 3: since last October. Fuck what they trying to say. And
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  Speaker 3: then they trying to change the definition of recession. Same
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  Speaker 3: way they changed the definition of vaccine and vaccination.
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  Speaker 2: Let's be clear.
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  Speaker 3: We in a recession and you spending like that. Girl,
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  Speaker 3: you could have bought a lot of silver and gold.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't realize I spent that much money last month.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sad.
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  Speaker 3: That's how them here sounds be. Y'all live like drug dealers.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all make the money right back. And y'all spend it.
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  Speaker 3: That's just how it goes down.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not spending no month in the month of August.
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  Speaker 1: Money in the month of August.
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  Speaker 2: You know what you need?
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  Speaker 3: You need a motherfucking baby. What, bitch? I bet you
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  Speaker 3: start budgeting then.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you wish that bad luck on me, Ricky Bobby.
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  Speaker 2: You know, they say mamas come with a loaf of bread, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Shit.
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  Speaker 3: All my friends were kids rich. meanwhile I'm just out here.
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  Speaker 1: Oh goodness I'm gonna do better this month that is
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  Speaker 1: ridiculous girl.
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  Speaker 3: We got a lot of expenses this month too try
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  Speaker 3: it again what's the other month?
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  Speaker 2: September try it again in September.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going nowhere I didn't go anywhere this weekend
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  Speaker 1: this weekend I didn't spend no money how the fuck
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  Speaker 1: did I still manage to spend that.
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  Speaker 2: Much money you ain't order nothing to your house this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah I did see look.
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  Speaker 2: I did.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't leave to spend money. I spent it from home.
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  Speaker 2: All right. Touche.
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  Speaker 1: Touche. How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 2: My weekend was cool.
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  Speaker 3: Shit, my dad, well, actually, I hope none of my
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  Speaker 3: family on my daddy's side listen to the show, but anyway,
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  Speaker 3: because I'm going to talk a little bit of shit
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  Speaker 3: about them. So one of my older aunts, she's the
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  Speaker 3: age of my, excuse me, she's not my aunt, one
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  Speaker 3: of my older cousins.
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  Speaker 2: She's an auntie age, but she's an actual cousin.
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  Speaker 3: She's my mom's niece, but my daddy's niece, but she's
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  Speaker 3: the same age as my mom is what I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to say.
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  Speaker 2: So this is an older person. So she had like a.
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  Speaker 3: Gathering for all the cousins ages 18 to 50 at
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  Speaker 3: my dad's house. So it was like a meet and greet,
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  Speaker 3: you know, for the cousins. I know majority of them,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't know like people's kids.
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  Speaker 2: She had like a whole thing.
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  Speaker 3: She said a prayer for about, I don't know, 20
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  Speaker 3: minutes and everybody kept saying amen to get her to
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  Speaker 3: stop but she fucking wouldn't but she was just trying
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  Speaker 3: to you know cover us you know on my daddy's
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  Speaker 3: side of the family is like everybody dies of heart
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  Speaker 3: disease or they get murdered like the niggas is either
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  Speaker 3: in prison or dead and the women die young of
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  Speaker 3: heart disease like most of the people are older older
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  Speaker 3: people that's diet exactly and like I'm there right and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: And then what y'all ate we had potato salad macaroni
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  Speaker 1: and cheese.
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  Speaker 3: Fried chicken all they had was hot dogs hamburgers and
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  Speaker 3: a bunch of crabs you know Charleston that's the thing
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  Speaker 3: blue crabs I don't know how many damn crabs I
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  Speaker 3: ate this weekend so thank god they had something.
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  Speaker 2: There for me to eat but yeah but everybody just.
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  Speaker 3: Unhealthy belly on rotund like I literally be in the
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  Speaker 3: mirror talking to my stomach Bitch.
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  Speaker 2: Don't you get any.
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  Speaker 1: What you say to your.
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  Speaker 3: I want my stomach to stay how it is. Like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to be walking around with that big-ass
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  Speaker 3: booty do.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, no.
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  Speaker 2: All of them got a booty do over there.
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  Speaker 1: They ain't going to invite you to the next cookout, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: Bitch, I be feeling like a celebrity around them people.
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  Speaker 3: Where you been at, bitch? I don't know nowhere. No,
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  Speaker 3: you can't have my number.
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  Speaker 1: Give them your number.
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  Speaker 2: For what?
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  Speaker 3: For they can call me cousin. Cousin, that's their favorite thing, girl.
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  Speaker 3: Just because you're a lady, you think you can use me. No.
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  Speaker 1: There ain't nobody trying to use you. They trying to
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  Speaker 1: build a relationship with you, a family bond.
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  Speaker 3: The motherfuckers want to ride. They need some money. They
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  Speaker 3: don't want to bond.
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  Speaker 2: They might need bond. Borrow money.
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  Speaker 3: But I love my family, though, so it was a
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  Speaker 3: good time drinking and eating crabs.
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  Speaker 1: And catching up. Catching up.
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  Speaker 2: Get to see my daddy. I love my daddy. I'm
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  Speaker 2: so in love with my dad.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: My daddy is getting old, man. That nigga moving slower
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  Speaker 2: and slower.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. It's crazy watching your parents get old.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: You know, they always be like superheroes in your eyes. Yep.
• 6:03
  Speaker 1: Then they get a whole shit wild.
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  Speaker 2: Walking slow. How was your weekend?
• 6:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't do shit but spend money apparently. God damn.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't go nowhere at all this weekend. I chilled.
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  Speaker 1: I was exhausted from all the birthday festivities all month
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  Speaker 1: of July. Apparently, I've been running amok. So I didn't
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  Speaker 1: do nothing this weekend. I just smoked weed and watched
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  Speaker 1: Rap Shit. I like that new show on HBO. If
• 6:34
  Speaker 1: y'all need something to watch, Rap Shit is Issa Rae's
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  Speaker 1: new show. It has two best friends.
• 6:41
  Speaker 2: I love Chameleon.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's in it. And I'm not sure of the
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  Speaker 1: other girls. She's a new face to me. But they
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  Speaker 1: both rap and they start a rap group. And it's
• 6:50
  Speaker 1: such a cute little show. I like it. So I
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  Speaker 1: watched that this weekend. And P-Valley, if y'all watch... If
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  Speaker 1: y'all have stars or you can get on somebody else's stars,
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  Speaker 1: watch P-Valley. It's very entertaining. Pussy Valley or D-Valley, whichever
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  Speaker 1: one you want to call it because there's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of male love triangles going on as well as female. So, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's a good show. Watch it. That's what I did
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  Speaker 1: this weekend. And I smoked weed and I bought some tequila.
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  Speaker 1: I had me a little drink of drink. And that
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  Speaker 1: was it. I didn't leave the house. had my little
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  Speaker 1: friend my little friend came over and that was it
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  Speaker 1: nothing too special matter of fact he owe me $ 150
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  Speaker 1: cause I had bought the dinner on my door dash
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  Speaker 1: and he was supposed to give me that money back
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  Speaker 1: and I just realized that he didn't give me that
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  Speaker 1: $ 150 for dinner back I'ma.
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  Speaker 2: Need that let me find out you over there paying for.
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  Speaker 1: Dick look like I did I did on Friday.
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  Speaker 3: Look see we do buy dinner okay I ain't mean
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  Speaker 3: to he was supposed to give me the cash oh
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  Speaker 3: goodness girl I'll be like let me get your phone
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  Speaker 3: that's how I be let me hold your phone I'm
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  Speaker 3: ordering the Uber off your phone I'm ordering the food
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  Speaker 3: off your phone like who motherfuckers be forgetting let me
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  Speaker 3: help you remember.
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  Speaker 1: It's cool I know I'll get it back.
• 8:22
  Speaker 2: What we got going on in stupid ass internet news
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  Speaker 2: this week A.
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  Speaker 1: Single winner won the Mega Millions jackpot, which was an estimated, what,
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  Speaker 1: $ 1. 2 billion?
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Girl.
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  Speaker 1: It's probably an old Hispanic person. It's always an.
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  Speaker 2: Old Hispanic person. Old white couple.
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  Speaker 1: It really is? You saw it? Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 2: Damn. What y'all going to do with that?
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  Speaker 1: Give it away?
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  Speaker 2: I need to know.
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  Speaker 3: Man. Man. i'm really jealous okay i'm trying not to
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  Speaker 3: be jealous about it because i did play and i've
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  Speaker 3: been doing my little money rituals all fucking month well all.
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  Speaker 2: Of july actually.
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  Speaker 3: For the new moon the end of july like why
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  Speaker 3: the fuck all i needed was one of the million
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  Speaker 3: i didn't need the whole because that's like they would
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  Speaker 3: probably settle not settle but like it take a lump
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  Speaker 3: sum of what a half a million i mean a
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  Speaker 3: half a billion.
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  Speaker 1: We'll find out what their name is and start messaging them.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe they'll send you a mail.
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  Speaker 2: Uh-uh.
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  Speaker 3: No. So the jackpot was 1.2. So if they do
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  Speaker 3: like the cash out, they probably going to get like
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  Speaker 3: 400 and something thousand.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Especially.
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  Speaker 3: 400 and something million.
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  Speaker 2: What am I talking about? 400 and something million dollars.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Yeah. Would you do the cash out or take the.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: Because we can see right now a dollar is not
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  Speaker 3: worth the same tomorrow, you know, as it is today
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  Speaker 3: and vice versa. So it's always best to take the
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  Speaker 3: lump sum. With inflation, how much are you really getting?
• 9:55
  Speaker 3: It's going to keep going up. So yeah, you got
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  Speaker 3: to get that lump sum and then try to convert
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  Speaker 3: it into something. some other shit. Bitch.
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: You ain't got to convert $ 470 million to nothing. It's
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  Speaker 1: a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but what happens when they be like, you see
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  Speaker 3: what happened in China, how they locked the doors of
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  Speaker 3: the bank. They're not letting people get their money out.
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  Speaker 3: They basically saying like, this money in this bank is
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  Speaker 3: for investment purposes.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody else money?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 10:23
  Speaker 3: What happens when the banks do that? Because that's what
• 10:25
  Speaker 3: happens in a recession and depression. If everybody starts running
• 10:29
  Speaker 3: to the bank for that paper fiat money, they're going
• 10:32
  Speaker 3: to be like, oh, you can't get that money. That's
• 10:35
  Speaker 3: why you have to have tangible things like silver and gold.
• 10:38
  Speaker 3: So yeah, I would definitely do half of that shit
• 10:41
  Speaker 3: in silver and gold if they would let me buy
• 10:43
  Speaker 3: that much.
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: I would. My great grandma, I remember she would not
• 10:47
  Speaker 1: put her money in the bank. She used to put
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: her money in old coffee ground cans and bury it.
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  Speaker 1: Because she was alive during the recession.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't believe in no fucking bank.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you shouldn't because you technically can start a bank
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  Speaker 3: with $ 50, 000. If we wanted to open a bank, we
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  Speaker 3: can open a bank. The banks make money off of
• 11:09
  Speaker 3: everybody else's money. While I'm giving you 2% interest on
• 11:13
  Speaker 3: your money, I'm charging somebody else 15% to borrow your money.
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  Speaker 2: That's how the banks work. It's fucking bullshit. It's really bullshit.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, I would take my lump sum and gold.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: What would be the first thing that you would buy?
• 11:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 11:34
  Speaker 3: Okay, the first thing I would buy would probably be
• 11:38
  Speaker 3: my dream home in Barbados on an ocean.
• 11:42
  Speaker 2: An oceanfront villa.
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: Next to the Fenty estate.
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  Speaker 3: In Barbados that would be the first thing I buy
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  Speaker 3: I swear because I just feel like that's where my
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  Speaker 3: soul is supposed to.
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  Speaker 1: Be I just uh the first thing I'm gonna do
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  Speaker 1: is just like spoil my mama with everything she want
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: that would be the first thing what you want mama
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  Speaker 1: a house a car a man I'll buy you a
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: man out this bitch what you.
• 12:04
  Speaker 3: Want look all them niggas got a price shit they
• 12:10
  Speaker 3: definitely be right there I don't know that's the first
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  Speaker 3: thing I'll do though I'll get settled. I might not
• 12:17
  Speaker 3: even tell nobody I fucking won, bitch. If I hit
• 12:19
  Speaker 3: your ass up and be like, Tam, what's your bank
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  Speaker 3: account number? And if you try to act like you
• 12:23
  Speaker 3: don't want to give it to me, I'm like, all right, cool.
• 12:25
  Speaker 3: I ain't going to never call your ass again, bitch.
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: You won't trust me.
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  Speaker 1: You know I would give you my bank account number.
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: Look, bitch, I already got it.
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  Speaker 2: How about that?
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: Right, I know. That's why I was about to say,
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: you know I would give it to you, bitch. You
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: already got the information.
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: Be like, bitch, check your account, bitch, check your account, bitch.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: I just kicked on your ass, bitch. Fuck these niggas.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: I know, I was laying in bed thinking about, like,
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: if my ticket, you know, won, how many people accounts
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: I would bless. And I thought about 15 people I
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: would give a million off the gate.
• 12:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if I got 400 and something million, like, that
• 12:59
  Speaker 3: wouldn't be shit for me to give out.
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's 15 people I would throw a million right
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  Speaker 1: in their pocket right away.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, no questions asked.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: And then all this shit in my house, I was thinking,
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  Speaker 1: everything here I would leave in this motherfucker. There's nothing
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: that I would take with me. maybe pictures, my grandma
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: old photo albums. That'd be the only thing I would
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  Speaker 1: want to take. All this other shit I live right
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  Speaker 1: in this motherfucker.
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  Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: It holds no value.
• 13:24
  Speaker 3: Look, I'll still be trying to make more money. I'll
• 13:26
  Speaker 3: Airbnb that bitch out.
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: I'll take this too, my necklace. Girl, fuck that. I'm
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: leaving all this shit here.
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: I'll still be trying to make more money. People were
• 13:36
  Speaker 3: mad because some celebrities was playing the Mega Millions. If
• 13:40
  Speaker 3: I had an M, I would still be playing.
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: Right, what the hell?
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: I still need more money.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: How are you going to be mad at rich people
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  Speaker 1: for wanting to be richer?
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: They have to maintain those riches.
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: Y'all see basketball players who go broke five years after retirement?
• 13:55
  Speaker 3: If you don't know money, no matter if you're a
• 13:57
  Speaker 3: millionaire today, you could still be broke tomorrow. These niggas
• 13:59
  Speaker 3: is just in a different tax bracket. Look, we're talking
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: about what we're going to buy as soon as we
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: get the money. You see what I'm saying? It's going
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: to start evening out the.
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: More shit you buy. Bitch, I want a goddamn Aston Martin.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: We just talked about all, I didn't even say nothing
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: about what I would buy. I just talked about all
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: the money I would give away. I just realized that.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't even say that. My mama and 15 people,
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: I didn't say nothing for myself.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, you nice.
• 14:28
  Speaker 3: Because I need to get the fuck away first. And then,
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: because imagine people going to be busting your door down
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: about this money. You have seen videos of people being murdered.
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: Not videos, but news headlines. People got murdered after they
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: won the lottery.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lottery curse.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: Yes, I need to be safe first.
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: I need to be safe first and shit. I might
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: put that check in my mama's name with her cash.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: Right now, that ain't nothing for us to worry about, bitch.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: We still got to go to work.
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: We still regular.
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: What else happened?
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Oh, you want to talk about Beyonce album just right quick?
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: So the album came out, y'all. Okay, Renaissance.
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: You know, start of something new. How do y'all feel
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: about the album? I only listened to a few songs.
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: That break my heart shit, I cannot break my soul.
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: I can't listen to that song. But I listened to
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: a few other songs on the album. How did you
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: like it?
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: I love Beyonce. This particular album, I don't feel like
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: I was the target audience for it. I do like
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: Church Girl was good. Mm-hmm. what's the thick I did
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: like that one those are the two songs that I
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: kept playing from the album but it did not uh
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: give me the feelings that like Lemonade gave me or
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: B-Day gave me it just didn't do the same for
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: me but I still love Beyonce I'm always gonna be
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: a big fan of hers but yeah it wasn't it
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: wasn't my favorite Beyonce album.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: It's for the girls not the girls that's how I
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: felt about.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: It Yeah, because the girls are loving it now. The girls, yes,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: they loving it. I don't know. The baby, there was
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: a video released over this past weekend of the baby
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: in a Miami interrogation room. And he's just running off
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: at the mouth. And people were like saying, oh, he's
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: a snitch. Look at him snitching. but really if you
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: listen to what he's saying he's just defending himself.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: Right yeah that's all i saw you know to me
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: snitching is when you telling some shit that don't have
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: nothing to do with why you're arrested he was only
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: talking about what was happening in whatever situation which i
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: don't even remember that whole ordeal what he's talking about
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: but I don't consider that a snitch. And I got
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: a real problem with civilians calling people snitches. Like, you
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: don't know what you want to do when you get
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: in a real situation to be calling somebody a snitch.
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: Because the majority of y'all would really be snitching in
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: a real way. Sorry, nigga.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: I'm just trying to come home in a real way.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: So I don't think what he was doing was snitching.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: He was really defending himself. But my question is, where's
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: your lawyer? And how did this video get on the Internet?
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: It's like some first 48 shit. Like, what the fuck?
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I was laughing when I watched it because.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: He's so animated.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: No, it's because why every time a nigga in the
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: interrogation room, that motherfucking room must be cold as fuck
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: because they always have their arms in their sleeves. It
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: don't never fail. They pull their arms into their shirt
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: every single time. It's cold as fuck in the interrogation room.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: Like he was nervous.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: Arms coming in and out the shirt because one minute
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: he had to like, what? Yeah, I never noticed that.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: But you be looking at shit in detail. I didn't
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: realize that.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: But that's true. So is that a sign of lying?
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: What is that? I always feel.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Like a nigga finna tell when he put his arms
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: in the shirt down.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: That's what I be thinking.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: It must be like some psychology type shit to make
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: the room cold.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, to make it uncomfortable.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: To make it more comfortable.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: They want to get the fuck up out of there,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: so whatever I got to do to get out of here,
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: I'm going to do. Yep.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Is that seduction or manipulation?
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Right the fuck because yeah I didn't think what he
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: was doing was snitching at all I wish he would
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: stop saying that and I wish that video was not
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: on the internet I just don't like talk about other
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: people like not no like street shit I don't like
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: talk about.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: People street shit.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Legal issues it's scary for me it's a scary situation
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: for me but.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: What else happened Neo and his wife or going back
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: at it back at it again on the internet.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: You know Gossip of the City I think that's that
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: blog they been reporting on his ass for the longest
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: the nigga been had a side bitch I feel like
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: Crystal Smith knew about it she cleared the air she
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: was like she was not with him while he was
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: with his ex he didn't he didn't she didn't know
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: him at the time so people can stop saying that
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: shit like you know you you keep him how you
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: get him or however that that saying.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Goes she was saying that you know yeah you lose him.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: How you get him yeah she was saying that they
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: were she didn't even know him when he was with
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: his ex-wife so you know trying to dispel that lie
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: but uh yeah like she she knows that man she
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: know that man been out here fucking bitches man either
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: you gonna deal with it you or you or you
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: aren't I feel like I thought that they were married
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: before but from some other shit I seen this is
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: their first marriage they just recently got married two months
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: ago now they were saying they were renewing vows but
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: There was not a marriage certificate out there prior to now.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: From the information I've seen.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: I just don't understand. I'm seeing a lot of people
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: air their dirty laundry via social media. Like Tyrese and
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: his girlfriend.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: That made my stomach sick.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Why do people take to social media to air their
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: marital affairs and their relationship problems on social media? I
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: just don't understand that. Like, why y'all want people in
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: y'all business like that?
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Because I never seen any side chicks come out about Neal,
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: so obviously they stay in place.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: So we would know nothing. If y'all break up, y'all
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: break up. But to me, it's kind of like manipulative
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: when you put stuff like that on the internet so
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: she could very well be hurt but it's almost like
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: it's kind of manipulative.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: To put him on blast like that.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that yeah I wouldn't do that to
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: a man that's embarrassing.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: To me too especially when you love someone y'all go
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: through like shit and y'all might end up back together
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: now you looking crazy you know like.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: Right now I know I've talked some shit about my
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: ex on this damn show But nothing too crazy.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: Don't nobody know who he is. That's different.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: I would never, like, if people knew who he was,
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't just be putting out no goddamn PSA about
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: the nigga.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Well, some people do know who he is. Who? You?
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: People who know you and know him.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: It's like this many people. It's not the whole internet.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: It's just different.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: It doesn't compare to Neo and his wife. Yeah.
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And I mean, and it's also how I would
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: talk about an ex.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: It's just different.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about my life experiences at that point. It's
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: not me putting them on blast for something in particular.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: It's just like this happened and this is what happened
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: in this particular situation.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: It's also my business to tell.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: But the way that they do it, like celebrities do
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: it online, is really blasting the other person is what
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: they're trying to do.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: That shit with, what's the nigga? Tyrese? That, he's a narcissist.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: He is a narcissist.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: That girl didn't say shit. He really didn't have nothing
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: to put out about her. He just basically was telling
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: fans to spam her. Yeah, go DM her. Like, that's
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: weird old behavior.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like that. Don't send your fans to
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: say shit.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Harass me?
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: No, this wasn't in our mentions, but did you see
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: that video? That guy who goes around, he's like, oh,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: what is the freakiest thing you've ever done? Did you
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: see that? And that man was like, I suck my
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: own dick and came in my own mouth.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Oh, shit.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: No. Is niggas sucking their own dick out here? It's trouble.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: They really trying to do some population control because if
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: niggas start learning how to suck their own dick, it's
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: over for us, bitches.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Niggas ain't that damn flexible.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: That's why they have to be catching all them goddamn cramps.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: They ain't that flexible to suck their own dick.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: No, I had an ex where it was a video
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: going around of a person sucking their own dick and.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: It looked like him.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Bitch.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: He did not like that. That video was going around
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: the job.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: If you were flexible enough and you had a dick,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: would you suck your own dick?
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Why not?
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: I would not suck my own dick, dog.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: Why not? Is that the same as sucking your titties?
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: Because I do that. I lick my own breasts. See?
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: If you lick your own titty, why wouldn't you suck
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: your own dick? My titty ain't big enough to get
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: to my face. My titty won't come to my face.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Are you trying to fit you so stupid?
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it won't get there.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: I'd definitely be sucking my titties. I don't know if
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: I'm about to suck a whole dick if I was
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: a man.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Come on, man. That's a little extreme, no?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: It's your dick.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Is it gay? Can you be gay with yourself?
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: No, that's auto-sexual, right? I guess.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know about that. I don't know. I'm not
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: a man. I don't know. I don't know. If I
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: were a man, I'd probably feel different. Men gonna say no,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: but they probably done tried to suck their own dick.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: They balled up in the bed trying to suck their
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: own dick doing yoga.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Getting a Charlie horse in your stomach.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: All y'all yoga niggas suck y'all dick. I know it.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: All them yoga bees. Listen, Did you see that video
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: with that girl? I believe it's a skit. Okay. Half
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: of these videos I see.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: Online, I think it's like people just doing shit for clickbait,
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: but it's a guy dropping her off at the airport.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: And basically because she ain't even fucking, he was like,
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: I can't, I'm dropping your ass off and I cancel
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: your ticket back home, which we know that he can't
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: cancel her ticket. It's in her name. She'd have to
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: cancel it. Even if he paid for it, she'd have
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: to cancel it. So that's another way I know that's
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: some bullshit.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: But I thought if someone, if they did pay for it,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: they can cancel your ticket. How? I know you can
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: put a security code on your ticket to keep anybody
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: from tampering with it, though.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: I've done that before.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: He would have to have a woman then call in
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: to cancel her ticket.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: Because the airlines ain't going to let you do that.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: A man can't call and cancel your ticket. It's in
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: your name once it's paid for.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: But how do they know? Like with the climate today,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: you could be very well say you that woman. And
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: they can't say you're not.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Right. Girl, I don't know. This shit is so sketchy.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: But anyway, she needs to.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Ayo, this Catherine Jones and I want to cancel my
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: motherfucking ticket. What are they going to say? They can't
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: say shit.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: You have to sound like, what's the dude from St. Louis?
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Ayo, you.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Ayo, no delivered. Ayo.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Ayo. Ayo.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Caldwell. That's his name. What's his name?
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Something Caldwell.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Anthony?
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: No.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Whatever that boy name is. That's who
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: you sound like just now. Andrew.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Andrew Caldwell.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Yo. Hey, yo.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I want to cancel my ticket.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she needs the flute out.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Episode we have an episode for that it was episode
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: 22 go back and look at it uh flew out
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: 101 all the rules are getting flew out one you
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: never leave without no money never never that's the biggest
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: mistake you don't want to be dependent on nobody like
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: that that's.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Crazy because you know and then you have people saying
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: oh why would you like the guy whole thing is
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: like you flying out and ain't fucking like what's up
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: with that But who's to say that she didn't have
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: all intentions to fuck?
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: If you did something, you know.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Are you stupid?
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: You got body odor. Your dick had like that cheesy
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: bits around it when she saw it.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: All type of reasons why women change their mind. She
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: could have changed her mind.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: But you know what the problem is, Tam, is that
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: niggas fucking regardless. There's going to be nothing a woman
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: can do to turn a man off.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: He going to fuck you at least. And then. And
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: then play with your ass after that.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Never fly you back.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: Exactly. But he going to still fuck me.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: Y'all mad at us because we got standards and integrity
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: and goddamn, I don't know, self-esteem. All these different things
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: make me not want to let you fuck on me
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: when I know I'm going to be disgusted while it's happening.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: It's kind of rapey at that point. A nigga will
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: hold his breath. He'll fuck you from behind and hold
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: his breath.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Nasty.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Coochie just as stank as it want to be. He just.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: I done paid $ 400 for this. Might as well. No, nigga.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: $ 400 on Klarna.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: He's still paying for it.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Have some self-respect.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: So y'all looking at us crazy.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: Oh, you ain't fucking. He done flew y'all. He done
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: spent money. How dare you?
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: Like, y'all don't know what could happen in between time. Like,
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: especially if you chatting it up, sexting it up with
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: a man.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: Like, you're set to do this. I am anyway. You know,
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I'm not flying nowhere.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: Where I'm not right I'll just stay home okay but
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: if I get there and it ain't what it should
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: be and I don't feel comfortable comfortable enough to do
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: it I'm not nigga and you can feel how you
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: want to feel about it and guess what I got
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: fuck you money I never worried about not being able
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: to get back to where I'm going right y'all bitches better.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Grow up yeah don't go nowhere with no money that's
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: the first rule your mama should have taught you that
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: you don't be depending on no nigga Because then you
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: got to pay for your flight with your coochie. Like,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: you really got to pay for it with your coochie
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: at that point. And you can't clarna that pussy. You
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: can't clarna that pussy.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: Oh, you can afterpay it, though.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Afterpay definitely got flights.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah. No, you can clarna a flight, but you can't
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: clarna that pussy. That's what I'm saying.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Shame.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: One more thing.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: One more thing, y'all.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: Mystical Ass is back in fucking jail with no bond
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: for rape and a few other charges. These niggas exist
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: in our community, dog. We got to stop acting like
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: they don't. yes people will have all excuses for these
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: predatory men you know because they only men are only
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: concerned about the people under.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: They fucking roof.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: Technically you know but these guys exist out here man
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: we don't be making this shit up most black women
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: in particular are attacked by people they know it's not
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: strangers a lot of times it's people we know.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: That's crazy but Mystical gives off rapey vibes, honestly. Does he?
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: I always thought he was so fine. Nice looking man. Like,
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: why you need to take pussy? The way he be
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: yelling in them songs.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Watch yourself!
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Shake your face! Show me what you're working with!
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Bitch!
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: This nigga scary.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: This nigga is yelling at me. So, I feel like
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: he gives rapey vibes. Somebody gonna be mad about these jokes, y'all.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: We're not making fun of rape, okay? It's not.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: Wasn't he in the military? Does he have PTSD or something?
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: I remember him being in the military, right?
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: But he did seven years before for rape.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: Got arrested again in 2017 for rape, but they said
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: they couldn't prosecute because there wasn't enough evidence, supposedly. And
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: then now here he is again.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Like he's a rapist.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Like he gets off from taking it.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: He's a rapist.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: But listen, this kind of leads us into what we
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: want to talk about briefly today. We want to talk
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: about manipulation versus seduction.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: We'll be right back, y'all. Okay, y'all.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: So I was talking to Tam and I know y'all
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: know Taylor. Fun size T.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, our producer. And we were talking about like Like
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: I said, I don't know.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: I know I'm not the only one that this has
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: happened to, but I don't think men consider this predatory
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: behavior kind of. Anyway, have you guys, or Tammy, have
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: you ever been in a situation where you just, like
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: you're around a guy in a closed setting with a man, right?
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: And I don't want to say it's rape, right? But
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: you got a little more pressured than you would have
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: liked to. And you engaged in sexual activity when you
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: really didn't want to. And I've just blocked a nigga
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: and ghosted them afterwards. Right.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: I let them do what they want to do.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I definitely have been in the situation when I was
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: much younger in my early twenties, where I engaged in
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: sex that I really didn't want to have, but the
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: pressure was just a lot. And I did. but I
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: couldn't call it rape because I consented to something I
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: didn't really want to.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Do so that's why I want to talk about manipulation
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: versus seduction because I think a lot of men think
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: that damn I kissed her in the neck that didn't
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: work let me try someplace else they keep trying different
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: erogenous zones to see if they can get you going
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: But if somebody got to tell you, no, move, stop,
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: I'm just chilling too many fucking times, and then, I
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: don't know, maybe you just get on top of them.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: I done had somebody hump the hell out of me
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: with clothes on before.
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: That's like borderline disgusting rape, okay? Yeah, we were fully clothed,
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: but he dry humped me for a long time.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, and I was like, you don't go clean up?
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: He was like, and it's not that much. like this
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: actually happened so not to make fun of the situation
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: but this shit happens and i want to say to
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: younger women because i feel like even when men get
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: older this is not something that they probably go around
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: doing you know what i'm saying but when.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: That testosterone kicks in a lot of times.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: Men can't control themselves yeah you know so women we
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: just you know to get it over with You might
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: engage in some shit that you didn't want to do.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: So is that manipulation or is it seduction?
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: I think men make a combination of both.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: So I like to look up definitions of words because
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: clearly we know what manipulation is and we know what
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: seduction is. But, you know, when you look up definitions,
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: you get a better context of things sometimes.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: So.
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: manipulate is to handle or control typically in a skillful
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: manner alter edit or remove examine or treat a part
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: of the body by feeling or moving it with the
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: hand control or influence a person or situation cleverly unfairly
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: unscrupulously and then yeah that's basically it that's manipulation right
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: a tempting or attractive thing okay so even we look
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: at seduction like that like maybe this person is already
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: attractive to you he's already kind of tempting so he
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: might do a couple little things and that gets you
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: there to go ahead and go on so I guess
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: it becomes manipulation when you really don't want to right
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: how do men maneuver in a world like that.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: See, it's kind of fucked up for the guys because
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: his intention may not be to manipulate you, but if
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: you don't like him and he don't know that, then
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: it looks like he manipulated you, you know?
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: And see, that's why I always be like, y'all think
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: I'm crazy, but I don't like to go to, like,
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: if I don't want to fuck at this age and then, like, I,
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: and I, because I've put myself in situations I really
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: should not have, right? So you see shit, you know,
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: in hindsight.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: But I don't like to go in closed settings with
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: any man if I don't plan on having sex with him. Like,
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: I'm not coming to your house 11 o'clock at night.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: And not because women shouldn't be able to, but we
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: know the stories. You know some men can't control themselves,
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: and you don't know somebody until you know them.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: So you might think he's cool, and then you get
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: there and he fucking violates you.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair. I do. You know, I go where
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I want to go when I want to go, and
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I don't. Feel like any type of way about it.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: I got a gun. I carry a gun with me.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I would go to a nigga house at 11 o'clock
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: with no plans. And I leave my pussy at home,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: but bring my pistol with me.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: You hear me?
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: So seduces entice someone into sexual activity, attract someone to
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: a belief or into.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: A course of action. That is. Yeah, no, I can't read.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Hold on.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: Attract someone to a belief or into a course of action.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: That is foolhardy? Foolhardy?
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Spell it for me.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Foolhardy! F-O-O-L-H-A-R-D-Y. That's the word. Yeah.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: What is foolhardy? I don't even know that word. I've
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: never heard that term.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: I don't know. It says inadvisable or foolhardy, seduce, seduces, seducing. Yeah,
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: all of these attract powerfully.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: So I think the only difference is, like, beauty is
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: in the eye of the beholder. Like we said, like,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: it's only manipulation if the bitch don't like you. And
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: that's kind of unfair.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: But what if I like you, but I don't want
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: to fuck you right now? And here you are pressuring
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: me to fuck. Like, I want to fuck you at
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: some point, but not right now. So, you know, women,
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: it's like almost you have to have, you know, 10
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: times the willpower not to have sex when men can
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: do whatever they want to do, right? Because if you
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: don't fuck you a bitch, if you do fuck you
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: a hoe, you know what I'm saying? And so you
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: have to be real meticulous. Like it's almost fucking like
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: a surgeon with this relationship shit. Right. If you want
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: somebody for more than sex, right? If you want somebody
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: to like you, You can't fuck them fast, right?
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Well, that's not necessarily true.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: It depends on the person, right?
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: But the majority. You know, maybe I'd be, a lot
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: of times, maybe.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: I'm speaking from more personal situations because I do what
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: I want to do, right? But I feel like the
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: relationships I've been in, for some reason, like later on
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: in arguments, it comes up like how fast I fuck them.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: confused did you not want to fuck were you not
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: like touching my titties and caressing me and coercing me
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: into this act and then when I actually do it
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: a year later you saying something about yeah cause the
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: first night yeah I done.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Had somebody shame me after we had sex like in
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: a public place and then shame me for doing it
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: with them and I'm like wait that was your idea
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: weren't you here too yeah that was your idea to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: fuck in that movie theater and now you want to
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: embarrass me the.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: Fuck it's like.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: What you picked that movie.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: That's some bullshit boy fuck you That's some.
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: Bullshit because why are we, like, the things that women do, like,
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: which are natural because we're sexual beings too.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: It's like you get shunned on for doing it. It's normal, right?
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm. So men need to stop pressuring women out here
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: to fuck if they don't want to fuck. If they
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: don't want to fuck the woman.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Because then when I do
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: smash your ass, I'm a hoe.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: It's a double standard, that shit right there. It really is.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: It's an ugly double standard with men and women when
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: it comes to hoe shit. Because a nigga can just
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: roll around in the mud and he the man. But
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: if a woman does anything, oh, she is a dirty
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: cum dumpster. You fucked in a movie theater. What a slut.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I fucked you in a movie theater. We go together.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: I thought we was a couple. Right. Whatever.
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: Nope. You ain't no damn couple.
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: You're just a dirty whore a month, a year later
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: in the middle of an argument.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: I literally have been in full blown, you know, relationships
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: with men and that type of shit comes up.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: That was my boyfriend who was, uh, sex shaming me.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: slut shaming you right slut shaming me for something he
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: encouraged me to do yeah you suck my dick in
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: the movie theater I.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: Don't know but yeah like I was saying if I
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: do not want to have sex with somebody like nowadays
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: like I'm not I'm not going in closed settings with
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: them because anything can happen I don't want to have
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: regrets because I'm gonna fucking ghost your ass the next
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: day you ain't gonna never be able to reach.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Me again where you gonna smoke weed.
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: At But see, I don't smoke weed like that. I
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: don't smoke like that. And I mean, there's always, hey,
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: I'm going to stop by. We can sit in the
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: car and smoke, maybe. We can sit outside and smoke.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Ah, shit. I'm coming in your house. I'm about to
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: eat your snacks. I'm about to listen to music, watch
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: some TV. We're going to smoke, tell some jokes, because,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm going to tell some jokes, and then
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go home. And it shouldn't have to
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: be I have to be so guarded. I think you
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: also have to have a certain level of discernment. When
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: you're going, like, you got to know. I mean, there's
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: no way to know for sure who you're going to meet.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. You don't know people until you
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: know them.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: But you have to have a level of discernment when
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: you're going in people's house. Yeah.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: I'm a pretty good judge of character. Like I said,
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: I was younger, younger days. And I like to talk
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: about these things because this is shit that bitches in
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: college is going through right now. These are things younger
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: women are going through right now.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: And they probably think it's only them, but this is.
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: being pressured to have sex when you really don't want
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: to have sex with a person but you go ahead
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: and do it that is manipulation that is manipulation if
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: you want to have sex with somebody and y'all already
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: talked about it and he coming you know rubbing you
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: up and rubbing your feet first and kissing you like
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: all the foreplay type things that go into sex that's
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: different you know what I'm saying but somebody just forcefully
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: just harassing your ass.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Won't go to sleep.
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: Like, you know, like you, I have stayed over to
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: a man's house and had to get up and leave.
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: Like the whole thing was for me to come stay tonight.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: Not necessarily smash. I never put that out there, but
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: I come stay tonight. You cannot sleep in men's beds.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: They not going to go to sleep. That testosterone start
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: kicking in and they going to harass you all night long.
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: You won't have to go home.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: You've never been in that situation.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely. I don't go though. Boy, calm down.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: You stay there i'm not.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: Staying go to sleep i'm not staying because i'm not
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: gonna be able to sleep and half the time i'd
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: rather sleep in my own bed anyway but i'm not
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: gonna be able to sleep but you just harassing me
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: touching me all night get.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: No eventually they stop if they got good sense they'll
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: just stop and go to bed mad I still love you.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get up and make it. I'll make
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: you some bacon and eggs if you got something in
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: this motherfucker. I'll make it for you in the morning
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: and then I'm going to go home. But it just
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: depends on, you have to have those type of conversations though. Like,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: I would let a nigga know that I ain't bringing
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: no pussy with me. That don't stop them from trying.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: But at least they were forewarned. Right.
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but in their minds, especially in young men's minds,
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: they can finesse you. Yeah.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: They think they can finesse. Because they are hunters, right?
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: Men are.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: are hunters so that's why when you yeah by nature
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: so that's why when you do give it up too
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: easy it just becomes like a a turn off for
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: them because they want.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: To feel like they conquered caught you.
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: Yes that's what they want to feel like they want
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: to feel like they caught you and and got you
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: to do something look i was telling a nigga once
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: i was like dude i already knew i was fucking
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: before i came here like you ain't have nothing to
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: do with that he does not like to hear that
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: like like i set the whole shit up in my
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: mind like my whole day was set on fucking him
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: tonight like you ain't have nothing to do with that
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: i hit you out what's your address we done been
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: on some dates like what's your address i had never
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: been in his house before and now like i'm we've
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: had conversations after the fact.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: And in his mind and in his mind he got
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: me to fuck.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Right And he can't handle the fact that.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: Nigga, I lined you up all day. I lined your
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: ass up all day. When a woman gives you pussy,
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: a lot of times, willingly, okay, it has nothing to
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: do with you.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: She already knew.
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you didn't finesse the situation. You didn't manipulate the situation.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: But sometimes you do. Sometimes they do. I done definitely
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: gave her some pussy like, damn, the next day. I
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: did not mean to give that nigga that ass.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: Whatever, because you probably put on matching brown panties. You
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: did something a little extra in the shower.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: No panties.
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, motherfucker, we be prepping now. We definitely will prep
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: to not get a coochie up.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: Just in case.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: I done just in case the pussy did not. It
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: was a nigga I really wanted to fuck him, but
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I wanted to wait because I wanted to get to
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: know him better. So I wore holy drawers. I wore
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: some holy ass panties. I was like, I cannot let
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: him see these drawers. And then I.
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: Still fuck them tight. Them balling pennies up in his
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: trash can. These niggas don't got no standards. They don't
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: give a damn about no holy pennies.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: These niggas just easy.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: He'll fuck you right through that hole in them drawers.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: They easy.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, goodness. I'm joking, y'all. Sometimes I really just be
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: making up shit for it to be funny. Not that, though.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: That really did happen.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: I don't know, man.
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: I just say middle fingers to my old life a lot. And,
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: you know, you live and you learn.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: And I don't know. I just, I don't know.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: I have a niece who is 24 and I be
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: trying to tell her stuff, but everybody just be wantin'.
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: to learn on their own. Yeah.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Life is going to be your best teacher.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: Instead of just living vicariously through other people, like they
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: just got to know it.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: Learning from your mistakes. Uh, I posted about that, um,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: that girl getting flewed out and the guy, and I
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: posted about, you know, putting your, uh, security question on
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: your ticket. So nobody can tamper with your ticket. And
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: he was like, a guy came on the post, like,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: how'd you learn that? I said, bitch, the hard way.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: the hard way nigga I'm putting that information out so
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: someone doesn't have to learn the hard way you.
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: Know exactly yeah look now he gonna be like trying
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: to figure out how he can set a security code
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: first for a bitch ticket.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: Right see damn I done put that information out.
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: There see man you can't be telling all the secrets
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: look he like how you know right yeah you done
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: fucked the game up for the young hoes.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: See niggas don't listen as much as the women so
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: if you get that tidbit first you'll be up on
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: game I.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: Don't know I don't know people just gotta be careful
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: out here man just be careful don't you know have
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: some discernment okay I feel like that's the majority of
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: women's issues we be complaining about these men.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: But we just be out here fucking willy.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: Nilling it Just rolling it along. No accountability for the
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: shit that happened to you. Like, you gotta have accountability.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Right. And now this monkey park shit going around. You
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: fly out to the wrong nigga, you gonna come back
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: lumped up.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: And we gonna see it. Yeah, we gonna see it.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: That walk of shame gonna be a little different.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: A whole lot different.
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be a bumpy road ahead.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so... My advice would be not to fly out
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: to nobody right now until they get that shit contained.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: Girl.
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: I feel like is it not just like chicken pox?
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: On steroids.
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: It is definitely chicken pox on steroids because that girl,
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: you saw that video of that girl from Atlanta?
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: Let me knock on wood.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, me too.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: I ain't even been scared of COVID for real, but listen.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: My monkey pox?
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: Motherfuckers don't want to be walking around looking crazy now. Right.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Niggas rather die than be walking around looking ugly. Niggas
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: is taking their chances with COVID, but.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: That monkey pox, bruh.
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because you know how chicken pox tore us up,
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: you know, the scarring and stuff. So imagine like black
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: people's skin is just different. What I don't like about
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: the monkeypox and about any of these diseases, they always
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: try to say it originated in Congo. They want to
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: say all these diseases originated in Africa. But we know
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: who brought the diseases to the Indians, right? We know
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: who brought smallpox. We know they got a whole book
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: written on dirt. The name of the book is Dirt,
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: if y'all want to go out there and look and
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: check it out and see how our counterparts weren't washing
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: and we had to teach them how. So all these
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: diseases really originated from them through like a natural progression
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: of bacteria and viruses and shit like that or they
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: created it in a fucking lab and they can't detain
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: it that's what's happening so stop putting shit on to
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: fucking Africa what they want to do is they want
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: to keep going into Africa and stealing them natural resources
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: over there right so oh this area all these people
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: just got all these diseases and y'all are over there
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: making people sick to get them out of their natural
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: habitats that's what they're doing They're killing the people. Y'all,
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: y'all know we got to pay these bills. We'll be
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: right back.
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: Dumb bitch stories.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: You are so dumb. Because we've all been a dumb
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: bitch at least once or twice.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: So look, y'all, we do have a dumb bitch story
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: this week. You know, a lot of times we get stories.
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: They don't really be like dumb bitch stories. It's just
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: motherfuckers want to tell us their business, but I'm here
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: for it, okay?
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: She don't really need no advice based on this.
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: And it's kind of long, but I feel like the
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: whole thing needs to be read for context. So she
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: starts off by saying, I would like to remain anonymous.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you're anonymous.
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: So I started fucking with this coworker April 2020. Now,
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: if you can remember, this was peak pandemic.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: So due to that, we were both able to tell.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: Our significant others that we had to work hours that
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: weren't usual times we went in. We were fucking once
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: a week, every week. We would take one day out
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: the month and get a hotel room and spend the
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: day together.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: This went on forever. Excuse me.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: This went on for over a year. I'm adding shit
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: to this bitch story. This went on for over a year.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: Things were just getting too heavy. Feelings got involved. We
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: both started saying I love you. He was pressing me
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: to leave my husband. He was going through a divorce supposedly.
• 52:20
  Speaker 3: My intentions were never to leave my husband. I just
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: wanted the side dick. I told him we needed to
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: stop because my husband started getting suspicious, taking drastic measures.
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: I just went to no contact. But that backfired. He
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: was blowing up my phone, so I blocked him. He
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: started emailing me, calling, texting me through other numbers.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: He was like, okay, okay, okay. We'll do it your way.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: No feelings. Just fucking. I'm like, all right.
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: So when he goes, can I see you? Naively, I agreed.
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: So we hook up again. The next day, he sends
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: me still images, screenshots, Of us. I'm staring at my phone.
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: I'm staring at my phone trying to figure out what
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: I'm looking at. My heart sunk to the pit of
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: my gut. I had to pick my job off the floor.
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: This motherfucker recorded us having sex without me knowing. The
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: thing was, he would always ask me when we were
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: doing it if he'd record. And I'm like, sorry, that's
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: a hard no. I replied back, what the fuck is that?
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: what the, oh, excuse me, I replied back, what the fuck,
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: is that what I think it is? And he's like, yep,
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: it's a whole movie. I said, send it to me.
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: He said, nope, this is through text. She, like, this
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: is a good writer, this person, okay? Let's be clear.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: Is this a good reader?
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: Is this a good reader, though?
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: Fuck you.
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: My immediate response was, I'm calling the cops. As a joke,
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: he's like, call him. Frustrated, I told him, If you
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: don't send me that video in one minute, I'm never
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: speaking to you again.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: He says, don't be like that. I'll show you in person.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: I texted him back, time's up.
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: At first I was like, okay, maybe I'm overreacting. But no,
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: I trusted him and I felt so violated. I told
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: him that was not okay with me and he did
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: it anyway. I was betraying my husband and he did
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: that to me. I was so mad, humiliated, I could
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: not believe this was happening. I didn't know what he
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: was going to do with the film recording anyway. Blackmail me,
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: send it to my husband. I was living in fear.
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: And she says, update. Since then, he stayed trying to
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: reach out to me. Still, I left him on read.
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: What part of I'll never speak to you again? Don't
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: you understand? No means no. He ended up breaking, excuse me.
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: He ended up taking a leave of absence from work
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: for five months for personal reasons, home slash life. He
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: came back to work May 2022, popping up on me
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: while I was on the clock. Our schedules are posted
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: for all employees to see. He had the fucking nerve
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: to ask me how I was. I turned my head,
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: shuck it, and thought, you must have lost your mind.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: So when he goes, well, at least I know you
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: ain't dead. I wanted to be like, and if I was,
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: why the fuck would you care? But I held strong
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: and kept my mouth shut the way I should have
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: in the beginning. Don't get me wrong, the sex was amazing.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: And if it was for that, I'd probably, and if
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: it wasn't for that, I probably would have still been
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: fucking with him. But he moved the way he moved,
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: and I'm glad I seen it when I did. I
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: was about to risk it all for a little sneaky
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: ass sneaky link. Cheating on my husband with a married
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: man was the worst thing I've ever did in my
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: entire life.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: That's her dumb bitch story.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you almost got jammed up, my girl. He could
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: have extorted you for money.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: But he still got it. He still has the video.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: He still can extort her. It's time to get real hard.
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: Not really extorted because, I mean, that's why they have
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: the laws now for revenge porn. So you really don't
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: have to worry about that.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: Type of shit.
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: You think niggas care about that? If he got a girl,
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: he probably going to care. Like, why are you releasing
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: footage of you having sex with somebody else and you
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: got a wife or a girlfriend?
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: So, I don't know. I don't like shit like that.
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: That has happened to me and it's kind of triggering.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: Somebody recorded you and then tried to.
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: Well, I consented to the recording, but he posted a
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: still image, like she's saying. He sent her still images
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: to the phone. This nigga posted a still image online.
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: You know that story.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah. I got the picture in my phone.
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: Shut up. Delete it, bitch. What's wrong with you? This
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: bitch a fucking freak. Girl.
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: So I don't know who screenshot that little quick image
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: anybody could have somebody probably got it but I know
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: he still has the video also I don't it's.
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: Not in my possession so I don't like that either I.
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: Got I got some real lawyer money if a nigga
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: ever try it okay.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Right well I'm glad that ended well for you sis
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: cause that could have went totally.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: Bad she better hope he just dies really.
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: How else you gonna get the footage like how else
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: can you be like okay with it being out there
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: knowing this person has it like what what could she
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: do that's a helpless ass feeling yeah um.
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: I only send out news that i don't mind the
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: world seeing so if you get like a new picture
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: of me or if it's a video of me If
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: the world see it, I ain't going to feel that bad.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: I look amazing in it.
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: Share it.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: All you going to do is turn me up, bitch.
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: Mine now. Somebody might do it then. You see how
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: you feel when it actually happens.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: My daddy's still alive. Please don't put that out there.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: I was just joking. I'm joking. All right, y'all. Listen.
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: Y'all better be careful out there. Just be careful.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: Just be fucking careful. But anyway, if you enjoyed this episode,
• 58:10
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• 58:16
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• 58:21
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• 58:25
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• 58:27
  Speaker 1: And y'all follow me on Instagram, OfficialTambam.
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: I love y'all.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in again. Once again, and we're
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: going to be in New York August 28th. We're doing
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: our very first live show with the Black Effect Festival.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Y'all come check us out, man. If y'all really fuck
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: with us, we're going to be out there. So come
• 58:43
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• 58:47
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• 58:49
  Speaker 1: black friend. We always appreciate them. We love y'all. Remember
• 58:53
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• 58:55
  Speaker 2: And never hold your peace.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: Deuces.