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- 0:58Hi, everybody.
- 0:59Welcome to another edition of the Small Biz Chat podcast where we help small business
- 1:04owners get real answers so they can succeed as their own boss.
- 1:09I'm Melinda Emerson, the small business lady, America's number one small business expert.
- 1:14And it is my honor to host another episode of the Small Biz Chat podcast.
- 1:19Hi there, Joe.
- 1:20Welcome to the Small Biz Chat podcast.
- 1:23Hi, Melinda.
- 1:24How are you?
- 1:24I'm excited to be here.
- 1:25You got a lot of energy going on.
- 1:28Absolutely.
- 1:28I'm waking up in the afternoon listening to Absolutely.
- 1:31Absolutely.
- 1:31Well, I'm so excited to have you because ever since your team reached out to me about you
- 1:37being on my podcast, I was thinking to myself, where has this man been all of my life?
- 1:42So let me formally introduce you and then I wanna get into this.
- 1:48Mr.
- 1:49Joe Munnett is a connector and operator and author focused on turning social capital into
- 1:56real economic outcomes.
- 1:58He is the co founder of Nolodex, a referral platform designed to help communities and B2B
- 2:05organizations capture, track, and pay for introductions, bringing transparency and
- 2:13accountability to a channel that has historically been hard to manage.
- 2:18He's also the founder of Konnective, a curated multi chapter network of vetted connectors,
- 2:25experts and founders who open doors for one another and share commissions through a clear
- 2:32tech enabled model.
- 2:34And for more information, go over to noladex.com.
- 2:38Joe, welcome.
- 2:39Thanks Melinda.
- 2:40Thanks for the nice introduction.
- 2:41I'm excited to talk about it.
- 2:43A lot of people like yourself that are connectors are like, I wanna be paid.
- 2:46That's kind of what
- 2:47I I want mean, from for twenty years, I've always been told givers get, right?
- 2:51So I've always been a generous person with my role.
- 2:56Even when I first meet somebody, I will open my phone and be like, oh, you know what?
- 3:00I need to introduce you to so and so.
- 3:02Never really thinking about the only people who've ever sent me a check back for
- 3:06introductions is franchise consultants.
- 3:08Now them people, they pay for introductions.
- 3:10Oh, yeah.
- 3:11Yeah.
- 3:11They're the best.
- 3:12Nobody else in my life though that's ever sent me a check.
- 3:15Every now and again, I'll get an Amazon gift card or some flowers or something from
- 3:20somebody, but I'm like real contracts, like what's up with that?
- 3:25So tell me about you and how you got into this business of helping people monetize
- 3:32relationship.
- 3:33Yeah, it's like one of those long story, old stories that you just kind of fell into this
- 3:39business.
- 3:39I wasn't planning on starting a business and starting a software company because I'm not
- 3:46very technical savvy, but luckily I got a great partner that knows tech.
- 3:50And all of sudden I own a software company that was never part of the plan.
- 3:54I've never actually, it's funny, I just recently in the last year or so realized I've
- 3:58never actually worked for anybody.
- 4:00I knew it, but I never thought about it.
- 4:01So I got out of college and I just kind of fell into the marketing role and started a marketing
- 4:06company and grew it for twenty years.
- 4:10And then from there I started a magazine and I started some other businesses.
- 4:14I just fell in love with starting companies And I was a sales guy, I was always a sales guy,
- 4:19but I learned how to market having a marketing company.
- 4:22Learned how to market.
- 4:23So why don't I market my own companies?
- 4:25I want to start my own thing.
- 4:25So that's just kind of how the ball started rolling.
- 4:28And then after twenty years, I sold the company, I sold the magazine that I'd started,
- 4:32and I was starting two other companies, but I was a connector and I was the guy people
- 4:36called.
- 4:36Joe, need this, Joe, I need that.
- 4:38I said, Melinda, I don't do websites anymore, but let me introduce you to these people.
- 4:42And like you said, we have always been connected.
- 4:44I love connecting people.
- 4:46It's always been a thing.
- 4:47But I connected a $100,000 project.
- 4:50It was actually mentioned in the franchise world.
- 4:52It was actually in the franchise world.
- 4:55And I introduced one of my old clients to an agency and he hired him for $100,000 and I
- 5:00wasn't getting anything from it.
- 5:02And I basically set the deal up and I was like, you know what, I should be getting paid.
- 5:07Like you said before, pay me.
- 5:10So I called the agency back.
- 5:11I was like, hey, how about I bring you some more business?
- 5:13Like you guys know I know a lot of people.
- 5:15How about I bring you business, you pay me a referral fee?
- 5:18I won't charge you anything.
- 5:19There's no upfront fee.
- 5:21You bring them and I bring another piece of business like that, will you pay me?
- 5:24They're like, yeah, all day long.
- 5:26Why would I not?
- 5:27You literally handed us $100,000 deal.
- 5:30So that agency was like, I'll pay you 15% or whatever you bring me.
- 5:34And they actually paid me 15% on that deal.
- 5:37So I got a check for
- 5:3815 They should have.
- 5:39Yeah, they should have.
- 5:40And like you were saying before, why aren't these people paying you?
- 5:43Only the franchise people.
- 5:44If you gave me a great deal, you should be thanking those people that gave you a deal
- 5:48because guess what?
- 5:48Melinda's got more deals like that.
- 5:50But if Melinda finds out and you got $100,000 and they didn't even send that Starbucks gift
- 5:55card, Guess what?
- 5:56The next time she has an opportunity to send you, you're not getting it.
- 5:59So that's the mentality.
- 6:01And I cannot tell you how many times I hook somebody up and then I later heard that they
- 6:08got an opportunity and didn't even say anything to me.
- 6:11And then the next time I had a chance to hook them up, was like, Lo dolo.
- 6:16I mean, and
- 6:17it, I
- 6:18hate to be punitive with people, but I just think it's just basic common courtesy to tell
- 6:23somebody, Hey, that introduction you gave me, I ended up being interviewed on CNN and this is
- 6:29what happened.
- 6:30I mean, like I got them kind of connected.
- 6:32So it's like, how am I gonna hook you up and you not even call, tell me what happened, send
- 6:38me a thank you card or whatever, like that's just ridiculous.
- 6:42Yeah, and they don't realize.
- 6:43When I started this whole thing, kind of on my own, just kind of sending introductions, I had
- 6:48an old vendor of mine I knew for years.
- 6:51I said, help bring you business.
- 6:52I introduced him right away to somebody, never heard anything.
- 6:55Finally, six months later, I find out that Todd's been sending this guy Joe business the
- 6:59whole time.
- 7:00And Todd's like, I just sent a $50,000 project to him.
- 7:03And then of course that guy reached out to me and said, hey, you got more business?
- 7:06I said, what about Todd?
- 7:08Well, Todd, I forgot he acted like he forgot about it.
- 7:11I'm like, that's the worst thing you could do is, first, not even pay me.
- 7:14Second, act like he didn't even know what was going on.
- 7:16And I'm like, you know what?
- 7:17It's okay.
- 7:18You've missed out on hundreds of thousands of dollars of other business I've given another
- 7:23vendor just like you because you want to stiff me for a little commission.
- 7:27Absolutely.
- 7:29I mean, I've even had people who've been on this podcast who got business from being on my
- 7:33podcast and called me back and said, hey, Melinda.
- 7:36This happened.
- 7:37I'm gonna send you.
- 7:39You know what I mean?
- 7:39But, literally, I don't have that as a closet to be on my show or anything, but but just but
- 7:44just a courtesy thing like, hey.
- 7:45Like, my podcast is kind of big, people beg
- 7:48me But to do
- 7:52let's talk about referrals.
- 7:55You believe that referrals should be treated as a true, real revenue channel and not a side
- 8:01hustle.
- 8:01And can you talk about how you turned it into a more formal engagement with people?
- 8:09Well, when I got that one deal done, said, let me test this out, right?
- 8:13I've been networking all my life, I've been connecting people.
- 8:16I got a dozen agencies that I knew and said, hey, Melinda, you and Sarah and John and Kevin,
- 8:22I'm going to send you guys business and you pay me.
- 8:24And I did that as a side hustle for that year or so while I was building these other
- 8:29businesses.
- 8:30And they were closing deals.
- 8:32And I wound up bringing in 85,000 in commissions for myself, dollars 85,000.
- 8:38I mean, that's not peanuts as a side hustle.
- 8:41So that no longer is a side hustle.
- 8:43That's a full time salary.
- 8:45That's nice.
- 8:46So I'm not retiring off of it.
- 8:48But for $85,000 for Melinda, like forty hours of work.
- 8:53Like if it took me forty hours, a week's worth of work to make those introductions that I did,
- 8:58that was probably a lot.
- 8:59So I'm making lawyer money, dollars 2,000 an hour for those introductions.
- 9:04So that's when I was like, wait a second, this is something that could generate real revenue.
- 9:10And there's other people like me that want to do this.
- 9:13So I called up people.
- 9:14You, Melinda, you're a good connector.
- 9:16I called 20 people that I knew and said, hey, listen, I just made $80,000 making intros.
- 9:22Melinda, you know people.
- 9:23Doctor.
- 9:24Michelle knows people.
- 9:25Let's all connect each other and you get a deal, Melinda, pay into the pot.
- 9:30We'll take that dollar you put in and we'll split it fiftyfifty.
- 9:32I'll run the group and we'll split it.
- 9:34And that's just kind of a very simple way to do it.
- 9:37And it's always been about you know.
- 9:39Sales has always been from the dawn of time, who do you know?
- 9:43Melinda, do you know John?
- 9:44Can you make an introduction?
- 9:45I do.
- 9:45Now it's like, I do know John.
- 9:47I'll make the introduction.
- 9:49If you get business, pay me.
- 9:51That's it, very simple.
- 9:52Connectors get paid.
- 9:53That's why I wrote it.
- 9:55I feel like I'm honking my book.
- 9:56Connectors get paid.
- 9:57Hey, this is a place where you can hog book.
- 9:59Connectors get paid.
- 10:03Think I need you to send me that.
- 10:05Anyway, all right.
- 10:05I'll send you a copy.
- 10:07Yeah.
- 10:07And that's very simple, connectors get paid.
- 10:10So if someone wants to turn referrals into this sort of like measurable revenue stream, like
- 10:16this quarter, what is the simplest place to start?
- 10:21Well, not to hawk our software, but noladex.com is the software we built to run our community
- 10:28to track all those deals and pay out all the it does everything for you.
- 10:32So anyone could sign up and get on our software.
- 10:35It's only $129 a month.
- 10:37So if you are looking to start your own referral network group or take your network
- 10:41that you already have and put it into a trackable system or trackable platform, it's
- 10:45$129 a month.
- 10:47We made it very affordable for people to start.
- 10:50Now, if you don't want to do that, you don't have to.
- 10:53I started with an Excel file.
- 10:55Make an Excel file.
- 10:56Hey, Melinda, I introduced you to Doctor.
- 10:59Michelle.
- 11:00How did that go?
- 11:00I heard you close the deal for $5.
- 11:03We've agreed to 10%.
- 11:04You owe me $500 and track it in an Excel file.
- 11:07And that's what I did for the first year with the people that I had.
- 11:10And then eventually, when you start making money and you want to buy a system and get it
- 11:15more of a licensed platform, something more enterprise level, you can go to a software.
- 11:21But for now, an Excel file and a simple contract to send.
- 11:26You want to send somebody the contract up front.
- 11:29That's the problem.
- 11:29You don't wanna go back after.
- 11:31Hey, Melinda.
- 11:32I heard you closed that deal.
- 11:32You wanna pay me?
- 11:33Well, Joe, we didn't talk about that.
- 11:35Right.
- 11:35Right?
- 11:36So you wanna talk about that up front.
- 11:38Okay.
- 11:39I I like that.
- 11:40I like that.
- 11:41So you you let's talk about the money.
- 11:44So you you okay.
- 11:46So I'm I'm saying I'm gonna make these strategic introductions for you.
- 11:50Is 5%?
- 11:51Is 10%?
- 11:52Is 15%?
- 11:53Is it a sliding scale based on how big the opportunity is?
- 11:56I mean, how do you feel like a flat fee kind of situation?
- 12:00Yeah, we let everyone that comes onto the platform, they decide what they want.
- 12:03In our community, they decide what they want to pay.
- 12:05Other communities that sign up for the software, say everyone has to pay 10%.
- 12:09That's up to them.
- 12:10We allow people to decide what they want to pay because everyone has different margins.
- 12:15Some have huge margins.
- 12:16And those people are paying 20%.
- 12:18Some people pay 25.
- 12:20Like, look, I got great margins.
- 12:21I will pay you, Melinda, 25% on an ongoing basis because I know if you get me that deal
- 12:26and you're the one that's going to get me into that company to close that, I'm happy to pay
- 12:30you because otherwise I'm still making my money.
- 12:32Others have like a 7% margin, so they're going to pay less.
- 12:36So, it's up to them.
- 12:37Everyone that goes on the platform puts their number on there.
- 12:40So, let's say, Melinda, you've agreed to 8% commission.
- 12:43That's what you feel comfortable as your this is your incentive for the other person in your
- 12:48community to give you more business.
- 12:50If they know you're doing big deals and making margins, you're giving a little percentage, it
- 12:54might backfire on you.
- 12:55You want to be fair with what you're paying.
- 12:57And now if I introduce you and that client says, Melinda, I love you.
- 13:01I want you to be my person here.
- 13:05It's a little high on the price.
- 13:06Can you come down a little bit?
- 13:07Then you can negotiate the 8% down.
- 13:09You go back to the other person that introduced you and say, hey, Joe, thank you.
- 13:13I want to work with this client.
- 13:14Are you Okay if I pay 5% on this deal?
- 13:16So it's always negotiable.
- 13:20All right, Joe, but how do you normalize people paying for introductions without potentially
- 13:28damaging long term relationships with people or making people feel like your relationship with
- 13:35them is now transactional?
- 13:37Well, everyone signs an upfront contract, right?
- 13:40And going into it knowing that, yes, Belinda, anyone you introduced me to, I've agreed to
- 13:45pay.
- 13:45I'm signing a contract, legal binding document that says, hey, I am in this group with you
- 13:50now.
- 13:51Anyone you introduce me to, I will pay a fee for.
- 13:53So I don't have to go back and make it awkward after.
- 13:56Hey, Melinda, I heard you close that deal.
- 13:58And I am not.
- 13:58Look, and we tell everyone that joins, this is not a transaction.
- 14:03Introduce Don't Melinda to your client because she is paying 10% commission.
- 14:07Make sure you talk to Melinda and get to know her a little bit.
- 14:13Ask her a couple of questions.
- 14:14You are never going to just refer.
- 14:16This is your reputation on the line.
- 14:18So you are not just going to hand it over just because you are getting paid.
- 14:21So help me understand.
- 14:23So do people on your platform that do not know each other refer stuff to each other?
- 14:28Yeah.
- 14:29So when somebody new joins, right, like we have five fifty people in our community.
- 14:33If you join tomorrow, Melinda, you don't know everybody.
- 14:35You're going to get to know them.
- 14:36And it's still about building relationships, right?
- 14:39You're going to build relationships with people.
- 14:40You're going to start to talk to Corina a little bit more and hit it off with her and be
- 14:44like, I love you, Corina.
- 14:45You know what?
- 14:46I think you would be great.
- 14:47You would be perfect for my client.
- 14:48I trust you.
- 14:49And we don't let everybody in the community.
- 14:51We are very strict on who comes in.
- 14:53So we don't just you have to be invited to our community as well.
- 14:57And other communities, they do what they want with it.
- 14:59They don't have to do it that way.
- 15:00But we want to make sure that you're getting building relationship with people, then you're
- 15:04going to introduce them.
- 15:05You're never just going to pick, go on the site and be like, I need a website person, boom, and
- 15:08send them to your client.
- 15:10Because what happens if that person does a bad job?
- 15:12But we're pretty strict about who we let in and do things, but you're never going to just
- 15:17introduce somebody just to make the money.
- 15:19That's the secondary part.
- 15:20Relationships is always still the first part of any networking group.
- 15:24We just happen to have a nice component that says, hey, Melinda, you and I have gotten
- 15:28along.
- 15:28We've really we've really hit it off well.
- 15:29I want to introduce you to somebody.
- 15:31Oh, yeah.
- 15:31By the way, I get a I get a I get a percentage of the deal if you close as well.
- 15:35That's the icing on the cake.
- 15:36Sure.
- 15:37Now, in the platform, do you guys take any money from people other than their monthly fee?
- 15:43Yeah, so we don't charge a monthly fee.
- 15:46So, charge the licensing fee to the community owner.
- 15:51So, you own the community, Melinda's community.
- 15:53All your members, whoever you sign on, if you want to charge them a membership fee on a
- 15:57monthly basis, you can charge through our system.
- 15:59It'll charge automatically.
- 16:01We'll charge them for it and that's all included.
- 16:03We charge $20 once a year for each person to use the platform.
- 16:08So $20 once a year.
- 16:10So if you sign up today, Melinda, you get charged $20.
- 16:12Next year, you get charged $20.
- 16:14And then we take 10% of the deal.
- 16:16So let's say your community closes a deal where it's a $1,000 commission.
- 16:21We're going to take 10% on that.
- 16:22And we pay the credit card fee.
- 16:24So we're going to take 10%.
- 16:26We're going take $100 out of that deal.
- 16:27We're going to pay the 4% credit card fee.
- 16:29So we wind up with $60.
- 16:31And your community has $900 as the commission.
- 16:35And then you decide how you want to split that commission up as your community.
- 16:38So you could say, I'm gonna give my member 90% of that deal.
- 16:42Melinda, I'm gonna take 10%, I'm gonna give my member 50% and you're gonna keep 50%.
- 16:47So everyone decides on how they wanna split that remaining money up.
- 16:50Okay, so wait a minute.
- 16:52So all of the money for all of the commissions flow back through your platform.
- 16:57So if I decide that I'm gonna pay you, Joe, a commission, I pay it through the I'm not
- 17:03Venmoing you money.
- 17:05I'm
- 17:05paying Right back through the on the platform.
- 17:08So you're you're putting your referral in the system and then you close that deal Melinda,
- 17:12you go on to the system, you hit add my payment, you owe $1,000 you're going to pay it
- 17:16right online.
- 17:17And the system is going to take that money and say, okay, this community has decided to break
- 17:22it up this way.
- 17:23So, it could break it up a couple of different ways.
- 17:26Our system takes it, 50% goes to the member, 25% goes to the people that run our different
- 17:32chapters.
- 17:32We have different chapters that incentivizes them to bring business to their members.
- 17:37And then we take 25% as the community owner of our community.
- 17:41So the system can divvy it up and then it can even take the 25% and break it into two if it's
- 17:46amongst two different chapters.
- 17:47They each get 12.5%.
- 17:49So the system is very complex in the back end.
- 17:53It takes that dollar and says, Melinda, how do you want to split that dollar up?
- 17:56And every community owner says, well, I want this 10% go here, 20% to go there.
- 18:00So it's very intuitive system and it does it automatically.
- 18:03And everything goes through Stripe.
- 18:05The money doesn't come to us.
- 18:06It all goes into Stripe.
- 18:07And the next day it spits out the money.
- 18:11And Stripe doesn't normally process money that fast.
- 18:14Maybe you have a better deal than So I how have you kept these relationships from becoming
- 18:22litigious or people getting upset because if I did a deal with you and it was a deal for a
- 18:30thousand dollars and the platform's already gonna take 10%, I wouldn't wanna share that
- 18:36money with anybody else in my community.
- 18:38That's my commission that I earned from the opportunity that I gave to you.
- 18:42So that's why I'm a little bit thrown off about the people in the community getting a cut of
- 18:48the money.
- 18:48I don't completely understand how that works.
- 18:51Yeah, so if you join our community, right, we have five fifty people in our community.
- 18:57We're giving you the opportunity to sell five fifty other things that you don't have the
- 19:01opportunity to sell right now.
- 19:02And all five fifty of those people have agreed to pay commission, Melinda, if you get that.
- 19:08So you don't know these people.
- 19:09You now have an opportunity to sell this stuff.
- 19:11We're So giving you an opportunity to make this nice new passive income by referring all these
- 19:16five fifty businesses that you have never met before that can now say, okay, have a video,
- 19:21I'm going to send it over to Mike.
- 19:22He's going to do the video and I'm going to make a commission on it.
- 19:24So yes, we split it.
- 19:27The reason we always split it because when I started this, it was like, hey, Melinda, you
- 19:31bring a deal to the table.
- 19:32I will handle the back end, all the money, all the processing, everything else.
- 19:37If we make a dollar, you get 50¢, we get 50¢.
- 19:40Other communities could do it.
- 19:42Some communities give 100% to their members.
- 19:44They don't take anything.
- 19:45It is up to them how they want to do it.
- 19:46That is the way our community is set up.
- 19:48That works for us.
- 19:50Interesting, interesting.
- 19:51Okay.
- 19:52So does your platform sit on top of Circle or School or anything like that?
- 19:57Or you made it custom, is it proprietary?
- 19:59Yeah, it's custom built platform.
- 20:01We built it onshore here and we built it from scratch.
- 20:04Okay, interesting.
- 20:06All right, well, you've really given me something completely new to think about that I
- 20:11like.
- 20:11It's interesting.
- 20:12So I'm here for affiliate relationships and commission relationships.
- 20:16So I definitely feel like I'm gonna investigate it.
- 20:19But tell me this, what is the best business advice you have ever received?
- 20:26So I was thinking about it when you asked that before, I've got a lot of business advice, but
- 20:30the one thing I've always kind of been my mantra, it's more of a quote than a business
- 20:34advice, is the only way to predict the future is to create it.
- 20:38If you want to predict your future, you can't predict it.
- 20:40You've to create it for yourself.
- 20:42And like I said before, I've always had my own business.
- 20:45I created this business from scratch.
- 20:47Like it was just an idea.
- 20:49If you want to predict the future, then go out and create what your future is going be.
- 20:52So I've always had that mantra in the back of my mind, like go and do it.
- 20:56And there's a lot of people you're talking a lot of small businesses, probably a lot of
- 20:58people listening, like I have an idea.
- 21:00I want to do something.
- 21:00Go ahead.
- 21:01Do it.
- 21:01Create it.
- 21:02Like come up with the idea and go out and create it and do it yourself.
- 21:04That's the way you're gonna predict the future.
- 21:07Love it, love it, love it.
- 21:08Well, thank you so much, Joe, for being on the Small Bitch Chat podcast.
- 21:14Please go and check him out, you guys.
- 21:15His name is Joe Mendack and his platform is noladex.com.
- 21:23Thanks for listening to the Small Biz Chat podcast with Melinda Emerson.
- 21:28Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen to podcasts, and join us next Wednesday for
- 21:33more fantastic information and interviews.
- 21:36You can find more sources and small business success strategies by visiting Melinda's
- 21:40website, succeedasyourownboss.com.
- 21:44Thanks again for listening, and we'll see you next week.