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A Solution for the Fear of Being Judged · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hey, it's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio. And
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, metaphysical wisdom,
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  Speaker 1: and personal development. All right. So, I think it's time
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  Speaker 1: for all of us to lock in. Lock in. This belief.
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  Speaker 1: No one is judging you. I came across a video,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm not even sure how it even showed up
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  Speaker 1: in my feed. Obviously, my algorithm set to spiritual and
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  Speaker 1: personal development on YouTube. You know, that's a lot of, well,
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  Speaker 1: and then lately a lot of USC football commentary posts.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not really sure how this even showed up.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't a super popular video. It had only a
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  Speaker 1: few views. And I thought, oh, this is a message
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  Speaker 1: from the divine about what I need to do in
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  Speaker 1: my next show. And I won't even say I watched
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  Speaker 1: the video. But basically, it was a man talking about
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  Speaker 1: the fear of being judged. And... He was just a
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  Speaker 1: regular guy and he was talking about his journey towards
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  Speaker 1: learning to speak English. And he was so afraid of
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  Speaker 1: being judged. And I'm like, wow, are we really living
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  Speaker 1: in an environment where this man is in this country?
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  Speaker 1: He needs to learn the language. And We have created
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  Speaker 1: such structures in our mind that we can't even do
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  Speaker 1: the basics because we're so afraid of being judged. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm not, believe me, I'm not making him wrong. I
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  Speaker 1: love his heart. And I believed him and I saw
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  Speaker 1: his struggle where he's trying to, you know, as I
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  Speaker 1: was tuning into him psychically, where he was trying to
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  Speaker 1: form these words and he's so afraid to say them
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  Speaker 1: out loud because he thinks someone's going to judge him.
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  Speaker 1: And immediately, as I had that vision of that, the
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  Speaker 1: message came forward, who's fucking judging him? Right? And not
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  Speaker 1: a diss on him, not a diss on you if
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  Speaker 1: you are constantly afraid of being judged. But really, I
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  Speaker 1: think we need to lock in that there is no
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  Speaker 1: one judging us. Whatever path we're on, whatever we've been
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  Speaker 1: called to do, if we are stuck and not moving
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  Speaker 1: forward because we're afraid someone's negatively judging us. I want
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  Speaker 1: you to eradicate that thought from your thinking. So let
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  Speaker 1: go fully and completely of the idea that you are
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  Speaker 1: being judged. I want you to affirm right now in
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  Speaker 1: this moment, no one is judging me. No one is
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  Speaker 1: judging me. No one is judging me. It doesn't even
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  Speaker 1: show up in my world. Judgment? Absolutely not. I get
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  Speaker 1: to move throughout this time-space reality, and no one shows
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  Speaker 1: up in my world that I can feel or sense
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  Speaker 1: or hear or know is judging me. Nope. I get
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  Speaker 1: to live my life. I get to do everything I'm
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  Speaker 1: called to do, and no one is judging me. It
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  Speaker 1: just doesn't even show up. As a matter of fact,
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  Speaker 1: everyone's cheering me on. Everyone's cheering me on, whether they
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  Speaker 1: know it or not. Everyone is cheering me on. Every
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  Speaker 1: energy I encounter is supporting me, fulfilling my purpose, my desire,
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  Speaker 1: my goal, my next level of excellence in this lifetime. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let's go. Yeah, let's go. No one is judging me.
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  Speaker 1: And I really, really want you to be with that statement.
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  Speaker 1: No one is judging me. No one is judging me.
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  Speaker 1: And what you're talking to is that trained voice within us. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: someone's going to make fun of you. Someone's going to
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  Speaker 1: put you down. Someone's going to question you. Someone's not
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  Speaker 1: going to like it. Who cares? Who cares? Tune it out. Say, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to think those thoughts. I am not
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  Speaker 1: going to care about those thoughts. The only person that
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  Speaker 1: cares is you, right? Who cares is the message that
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  Speaker 1: was coming forward? You. And so all you have to
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  Speaker 1: do is stop caring. No one is judging me. No
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  Speaker 1: one is judging me. So going back to the video,
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  Speaker 1: here's this man like really showing up. And wanting to
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  Speaker 1: live his life, wanting to be the best version of
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  Speaker 1: himself in this moment. And for him, that required he
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  Speaker 1: learn a language. And as hard as that is, right?
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  Speaker 1: He's a grown man. As hard as that is to
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  Speaker 1: learn a language. And I actually have a language learning disability.
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  Speaker 1: And so I look at that nicely. That is an
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  Speaker 1: extremely hard thing to do. The last thing you need
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  Speaker 1: is some thought that someone is judging you. No one
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  Speaker 1: is judging you. No one is judging you. No one
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  Speaker 1: is judging you. Let go of the fear of being judged.
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  Speaker 1: Let go of the fear of inadequacy. Let go of
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  Speaker 1: the fear of being embarrassed. Just don't even, those thoughts
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  Speaker 1: may show up and be like, oh, I don't care
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  Speaker 1: about those thoughts. They're not even real. There's just a
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  Speaker 1: thought in my mind. And if I start to give
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  Speaker 1: it attention, then it starts to hold me up. I'm
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  Speaker 1: here to do my thing, whatever that thing might be.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here to fulfill my desire for this time. I'm
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  Speaker 1: here to reach my goals. I don't have time for
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  Speaker 1: thoughts about somebody judging me. And here's the next level.
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  Speaker 1: If there is somebody in your life judging you, don't
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  Speaker 1: talk to them. It's so simple. I know. It seems
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  Speaker 1: like it's not. And believe me, there are many years
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  Speaker 1: that I did not believe that. I thought, well, I
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  Speaker 1: got to get them on my side. No, that's all
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  Speaker 1: a waste of energy. If they're taking their time to
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  Speaker 1: judge you, they are not worth your time and energy.
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  Speaker 1: Don't talk to them. I have a, there's a business
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  Speaker 1: coach I followed for years and she talked about as
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  Speaker 1: she was going through her journey and reaching her goals,
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  Speaker 1: her family. And she said, well, I just stopped talking
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  Speaker 1: to them about it. I still interacted with them. I
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  Speaker 1: still love them. I still enjoyed them. But I didn't
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  Speaker 1: talk to them about business. They didn't know anything about business.
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  Speaker 1: And it was such a click for me. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute. There is not a soul in my
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  Speaker 1: life that fully understands what I'm up to. Why am
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  Speaker 1: I even talking to them about it? Why? Because something
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  Speaker 1: in you is trying to get some type of approval
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  Speaker 1: because you think that if I get that approval, then
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  Speaker 1: that must mean whatever I'm up to is okay. It's
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  Speaker 1: going to work. I can be successful. But honestly, as
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  Speaker 1: we move into higher and higher levels of living, meaning
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  Speaker 1: past the basics, No one's really going to understand what
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  Speaker 1: you're up to. And you have to understand. And a
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  Speaker 1: part of that understanding and really leaning into all that
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  Speaker 1: you need to do so that you can accomplish that
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  Speaker 1: desired result is stop believing someone's judging you. Stop feeling
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  Speaker 1: the need for validation, praise from those around you. You
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  Speaker 1: be your praise. You be. your validation. Because I promise you,
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  Speaker 1: if you show up with your sense of excellence, like
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  Speaker 1: you're pursuing something from the place of what you believe
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  Speaker 1: is excellent to you, I call it the click of excellence.
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  Speaker 1: And you'll feel it. It's an intuitive like, oh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: in my zone, if you will. That's all you need.
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  Speaker 1: you'll find that you don't really need somebody to co-sign
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  Speaker 1: whatever you're up to. Because the minute you open the
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  Speaker 1: door to that, you're also opening the door to people
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  Speaker 1: judging you. We don't think of it that way, but
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  Speaker 1: really that's what happens. When we need praise from outside sources,
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  Speaker 1: there's the other side of the coin is, all right,
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  Speaker 1: now I'm saying I need negative judgment from others. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you won't get praise. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying that someone might... No, I'm not even... No,
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  Speaker 1: no one is judging you. No negative judgment shows up
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  Speaker 1: in your world. If you stay there, everything you need...
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  Speaker 1: to move through your experience you're going to receive so
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  Speaker 1: when you do need encouragement the encouragement is going to
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  Speaker 1: show up when you do need inspiration the inspiration is
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  Speaker 1: going to show up When you do need motivation, the
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  Speaker 1: motivation's going to show up. You don't have to go
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  Speaker 1: seek it. You don't have to be needy for it.
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  Speaker 1: If you just stay pointed towards your desired result, operating
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  Speaker 1: from your point of excellence, you'll be just fine. So
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  Speaker 1: now in this moment, take the breath. No one is
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  Speaker 1: judging me. No one is judging me. Now in this moment,
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  Speaker 1: I let go of the fear of being negatively judged.
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  Speaker 1: Just doesn't show up in my world. I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: do what I came here to do. And I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to do it to the very best of my ability.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm going to love this human life to the
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  Speaker 1: best of my ability. A life that's not always easy
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  Speaker 1: to love. But it gets way harder. when we're so
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  Speaker 1: afraid of judgment. And we think we're going to hit
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  Speaker 1: a point where it goes away. But listen, I'm coaching
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  Speaker 1: people in their 50s and 60s, and they're still very
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  Speaker 1: much afraid of judgment. And so here's my solution. Let's
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  Speaker 1: just lock in. No one's judging me. No one's judging me.
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  Speaker 1: No one's judging me. No one's judging me. I'll end here. So,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I talk a lot about my new life
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  Speaker 1: driving in Los Angeles. And I promise you, when I
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  Speaker 1: get on the road and I'm a safe driver, like
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  Speaker 1: all the rules they told you to follow, I still
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  Speaker 1: follow them. Checking all the mirrors every, you know, 30
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  Speaker 1: seconds or whatever that is. I do that. And looking
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  Speaker 1: like I, I drive to the speed limit or slightly below.
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  Speaker 1: I like, I am a safe driver. Or a cautious
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  Speaker 1: driver and a safe driver is the way I should
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  Speaker 1: describe it. And when I get out there and I
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  Speaker 1: start to think, oh, I'm driving too slow. Somebody behind
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  Speaker 1: me is going to be mad at me. Or they're
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  Speaker 1: going to honk at me. Or, oh, you know, someone's
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  Speaker 1: annoyed that I'm, like, one of the things that I
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  Speaker 1: do is I'm very, very cautious about making a right
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  Speaker 1: on a red. very, very cautious to the point where
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  Speaker 1: I only do it really 50% of the time, maybe
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  Speaker 1: even less than that, 30%. And there's always can be
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  Speaker 1: a moment where I'm sitting there and I'm thinking, oh
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  Speaker 1: my God, somebody's going to get mad at me. Somebody's
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  Speaker 1: going to get mad. And then inevitably that fool, and
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  Speaker 1: they are, LA is full, full of foolish drivers will
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  Speaker 1: start honking at me. And I'll get nervous and I'll
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  Speaker 1: roll up and I'll be getting ready to make the
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  Speaker 1: turn because I feel bad that I'm holding. And then
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  Speaker 1: that's when some car comes whizzing by. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: it's enough. It's a close enough call for me where
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, hold up. This is my vehicle. I am
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  Speaker 1: in charge of getting myself to and from safely. This
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  Speaker 1: person behind me is not in charge of me. If
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  Speaker 1: they are in such a hurry, that's on them. That
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  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with me. And I hold my ground.
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  Speaker 1: I have to consciously sink into my root chakra and say, no.
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  Speaker 1: And not from being an asshole, not from being a jerk, saying,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in charge of my safety. And so when I
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  Speaker 1: move about town and I'm thinking, I'm just, I'm safe. I,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm safe. I'm safe. The foolish drivers don't
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  Speaker 1: find me. It's only when I'm afraid of being judged
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  Speaker 1: by somebody else on the road. Like, who are they? Like,
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  Speaker 1: no one is an authority over us. Like, we don't
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  Speaker 1: realize that. Yes, we are in systems where there might
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  Speaker 1: be a hierarchy. Sure, we have to adhere to that.
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  Speaker 1: And we might be in systems where A part of
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  Speaker 1: being in that system is that you will be evaluated
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  Speaker 1: or critiqued. But that's not something you need to take personally.
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  Speaker 1: That's just a part of the game, right? So really,
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  Speaker 1: in our day-to-day human life, there's no reason to be
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  Speaker 1: fearful of judgment. No one is judging me. No one
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  Speaker 1: is judging me. No one is judging me. I only
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  Speaker 1: attract negative judgment when I believe that negative judgment can exist.
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  Speaker 1: I sink into my zone of genius. I focus on
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  Speaker 1: my click of excellence. And I do what I need
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