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- 0:02Cathi Spooner: Welcome to Next Level Play Therapy, a weekly podcast dedicated to supporting the next generation of child and adolescent therapists to provide exceptional play therapy services.
- 0:14Cathi Spooner: We'll explore all things play therapy to elevate your work with children and adolescents using the therapeutic powers of play.
- 0:23Cathi Spooner: I'll discuss practical tips and ideas so you can provide a transformative experience for your young clients and make a real difference in their lives.
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- 0:49Cathi Spooner: All right.
- 0:49Cathi Spooner: Welcome, everyone.
- 0:51Cathi Spooner: Welcome to this week's episode of Next Level Play Therapy, and I am super excited this week.
- 0:58Cathi Spooner: We are gonna be talking all things psycho- uh, Jungian psychoanalytic play therapy with Jared Andes.
- 1:06Cathi Spooner: He is a licensed clinical social worker and a registered play therapy supervisor.
- 1:12Cathi Spooner: One of the reasons that I thought this would be an awesome topic is because, like Jared and I were talking a little bit before I hit the go live button, which is a lot… Like nowadays, it seems like there's only a couple of options for trainings.
- 1:29Cathi Spooner: If you're a play therapist and you're wanting to learn play therapy and learn a theoretical model There's, there's usually only a couple of trainings available these days, which is good.
- 1:43Cathi Spooner: They're good trainings, and if you don't really resonate with them, it doesn't seem like there's another option available.
- 1:51Cathi Spooner: And so today we're gonna talk about Jungian psychoanalytic ther- uh, play therapy, and then we'll talk a little bit at the end because the Utah Association for Play Therapy has a training coming up on s- um, Jungian psychoanalytic play therapy.
- 2:11Cathi Spooner: I'm gonna… That's just a mouthful to say.
- 2:14Cathi Spooner: Jungian psychoanalytic therapy.
- 2:17Cathi Spooner: All righty.
- 2:18Cathi Spooner: So we're gonna talk about what Jungian psychoanalytic play therapy is, what are the core components of psychoanalytic, uh, Jungian psychoanalytic therapy, and just all things, um, Jungian play therapy.
- 2:36Cathi Spooner: So Jared is a play therapist, a supervisor, a trainer, and he also specializes in Jungian psychoanalytic play therapy, selective mutism.
- 2:49Cathi Spooner: I've seen some of your trainings that you're doing other places about selective mutism as well, trauma and neurodivergence.
- 2:57Cathi Spooner: He's currently serving as the vice president for the Utah Association for Play Therapy branch, and is the clinical director for the APT Play Therapy magazine.
- 3:10Cathi Spooner: So welcome, Jared.
- 3:11Cathi Spooner: I don't know if you wanna tell people a little bit more about what you're up to these days and what you're doing, and then we can talk about what's going on.
- 3:19Cathi Spooner: Oh, before you do that, sorry.
- 3:21Cathi Spooner: I forgot.
- 3:21Cathi Spooner: I always forget this part.
- 3:23Cathi Spooner: Um, for those of you watching live, if you have questions about the topic, please feel free to post those in the comments.
- 3:33Cathi Spooner: If you're watching the replay, please feel free to post in the comments and ask your questions.
- 3:40Cathi Spooner: I'm sure we can make sure that Jared responds to those, or I can get an answer for you.
- 3:45Cathi Spooner: Um, and for those of you listening on the podcast, I'm also gonna give you some ways to connect with Jared if you have questions or the Association for Play Therapy, Utah Association for Play Therapy.
- 3:59Cathi Spooner: You can reach out to them or message me.
- 4:02Cathi Spooner: Um, but feel free to join the conversation, and if you know somebody that might be interested in this topic, please feel free to share the information across your social media platforms and let your friends and colleagues know about the training coming up.
- 4:21Cathi Spooner: All righty.
- 4:21Cathi Spooner: There, I got my pitch in.
- 4:25Jared Andes: Well, thanks for the pitch.
- 4:26Cathi Spooner: You're welcome.
- 4:26Jared Andes: Um, so a little bit more about me.
- 4:28Jared Andes: I, um, I'm gonna start with this.
- 4:30Jared Andes: I'm the father of two.
- 4:31Jared Andes: Um- Oh … I've got two kids.
- 4:33Jared Andes: Last time I joined you on your, um, your live stream, uh- Okay… we were getting ready for my younger son's graduation, so that was an exciting day for us.
- 4:40Jared Andes: Um- Yeah.
- 4:41Jared Andes: Awesome … and outside of that, I am a private practice, uh, in- I have an office in Salt Lake and one in Sandy.
- 4:46Jared Andes: Um, I'm- I am really excited about, uh, sharing things like selective mutism and Jungian analytical play therapy, um, because the, the Jungian play therapy community is pretty small.
- 4:58Jared Andes: We're not like the, uh, you know, the Adlerians or Child Centered.
- 5:03Jared Andes: It's a, it's a pretty small community.
- 5:05Jared Andes: Um, so I'm excited to bring that out to people and to help, um, that community grow.
- 5:09Jared Andes: I love when I run into people and they're like, "Oh, I've been doing this for a while, but I haven't really met anyone, uh, anyone else who's doing this." It's, it's really
- 5:15Cathi Spooner: exciting.
- 5:16Cathi Spooner: Oh, that's
- 5:16Jared Andes: exciting.
- 5:16Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 5:17Jared Andes: Um, and then, uh, yeah, the magazine keeps us pretty busy.
- 5:21Jared Andes: A lot of, uh- Nice … lots of great articles coming in.
- 5:24Jared Andes: And I- anyone who's listening, if you have an idea, um, I definitely encourage you to, you know, submit your manuscript.
- 5:30Jared Andes: If you have questions, feel free to reach out.
- 5:31Jared Andes: Um, we're always happy to help you.
- 5:34Cathi Spooner: Awesome.
- 5:34Cathi Spooner: Awesome.
- 5:37Cathi Spooner: All right.
- 5:37Cathi Spooner: So a little bit of full disclosure.
- 5:40Cathi Spooner: My husband just went off to work, which means he opened the door to my office to let my dog in.
- 5:46Cathi Spooner: So if you hear… Ope, she's leaving now.
- 5:50Cathi Spooner: If you… Sometimes she rolls around in the back and moans, so if, if you hear any weird noises in the back, I promise I'm not doing anything untoward back there.
- 6:02Cathi Spooner: It's just my dog, Luna, 'cause she does- she doesn't like to- be in the house by herself, so she comes and hangs out with me during my livestreams.
- 6:12Jared Andes: All
- 6:12Cathi Spooner: right.
- 6:12Cathi Spooner: And sometimes you can see her little tail walking back and forth in the background if you're watching the video.
- 6:19Cathi Spooner: I was watching one of my videos one ti- this is a couple years ago, and I could see her… Oh, she's back.
- 6:25Cathi Spooner: You could- I could see her little tail, little black and white tail in the background.
- 6:30Cathi Spooner: Yep, she's over there laying down.
- 6:31Cathi Spooner: All right.
- 6:32Cathi Spooner: So, so if you hear weird noises, it's Luna.
- 6:35Cathi Spooner: Now
- 6:36Jared Andes: we know.
- 6:37Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 6:38Cathi Spooner: So, um, Jared, tell us a little bit about what is Jungian play therapy?
- 6:46Jared Andes: So I'm gonna try not to do a really long history lesson, but we do have to go back a little bit to- Yeah Carl Jung.
- 6:52Jared Andes: Um, so, uh, Carl Jung was a collaborator with Freud, uh, but they separated on some key ideas and issues.
- 6:58Jared Andes: And, um, Jung started, started his own, um, psychology school, and, um, Jungian play therapy descended from his theory.
- 7:08Jared Andes: Um, and it was, um, modified for play therapy by John Allen and then, um, continued, uh, by people like JP Lilly, who was my first play therapy supervisor, and then Eric Green, uh, both of who unfortunately passed away.
- 7:21Cathi Spooner: Right.
- 7:22Jared Andes: Um, and continues to be something that, um, evolves and grows.
- 7:26Jared Andes: Um, but like I said, it is a small community right now.
- 7:29Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 7:30Cathi Spooner: You know what's interesting?
- 7:31Cathi Spooner: I think John Allen, isn't he in Canada?
- 7:34Jared Andes: He is.
- 7:35Cathi Spooner: I remember, like this must have been a bazillion years ago.
- 7:39Cathi Spooner: I don't remember if it was a national APT conference or a Virginia Association for Play Therapy conference, but he came and did a, excuse me, did a training, and he talked about his serial drawing.
- 7:56Jared Andes: Mm-hmm.
- 7:56Cathi Spooner: He, and he has a book, Inscapes of the Children, about that model that he developed, and I, I still use that one to this day.
- 8:05Jared Andes: Mm.
- 8:06Cathi Spooner: So yeah, it's a really good b- it's an oldie.
- 8:08Cathi Spooner: I don't even know- Yeah … if it's in print anymore.
- 8:09Jared Andes: Actually, they just released a new pr- uh, edition, so 2025 I think is when that will come out.
- 8:14Jared Andes: Oh, okay.
- 8:15Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 8:15Jared Andes: It's back in publication.
- 8:16Cathi Spooner: Oh, nice.
- 8:17Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 8:17Cathi Spooner: It's a… I, I use it all the time.
- 8:21Cathi Spooner: Um, yeah.
- 8:22Cathi Spooner: So that's-
- 8:23Jared Andes: Inscapes, uh, sorry, Inscapes of the Child's World is the, the name of that one.
- 8:26Jared Andes: It's a, it is a great book.
- 8:28Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 8:28Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 8:28Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 8:29Cathi Spooner: That's awesome.
- 8:31Cathi Spooner: Awesome.
- 8:32Cathi Spooner: And g- okay, so, uh, this is my little nerdy part.
- 8:36Cathi Spooner: Warning, I feel like I should warn people.
- 8:39Cathi Spooner: Warning, you have entered the nerdy zone.
- 8:41Cathi Spooner: Um, so, um, when I think of Jungian psychoanalytic therapy theory and expressive art, does, does the work that Dora Koff did with sand play play over into some of the Jungian psychoanalytic play therapy-
- 9:02Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 9:03Jared Andes: Actually, I just
- 9:03Cathi Spooner: happen-… Jared Andes: theory?
- 9:04Cathi Spooner: … just happen to have her book right here, actually.
- 9:05Cathi Spooner: Oh.
- 9:06Cathi Spooner: I'm not even kidding.
- 9:07Cathi Spooner: Um- Oh, cool … it's, uh, just right there.
- 9:09Cathi Spooner: But, um, so yeah, it, they kind of descended in two different, um- Tracks… Jared Andes: lineages.
- 9:17Cathi Spooner: Yeah, tracks.
- 9:17Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 9:17Jared Andes: Um, but they do have a lot of, um, bleed over, right?
- 9:20Jared Andes: Like, um, Jungian play therapy, Jungian analytical play therapy, uh, uses sand tray, um, r- all of the time, right?
- 9:27Jared Andes: That's a very common thing.
- 9:29Jared Andes: Um- Yeah … and, and they both are descending from Carl Jung's ideas.
- 9:33Jared Andes: So things like all of us are wired for individuation, which is becoming, um, our whole self.
- 9:38Jared Andes: We're wired for wholeness, and so we can trust the, the individual psyche, in this case the child's psyche, um, to help direct therapy where it needs to go.
- 9:46Jared Andes: Um, things like, uh, understanding archetypes and the energy that is, um, transmitted in a session.
- 9:52Jared Andes: Things like, uh, transference and counter-transference and how important that is.
- 9:56Jared Andes: It's not just, oh, like, oh, you know, you're a, you're a bad therapist.
- 9:59Jared Andes: You have these counter-transference feelings.
- 10:01Jared Andes: It's actually information.
- 10:02Jared Andes: It's data for the therapist.
- 10:04Jared Andes: Um, all of those things come from that same source.
- 10:06Jared Andes: So yeah, there's a lot of bleed over between the two.
- 10:08Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 10:09Cathi Spooner: And I, y- I, like I mentioned to you previously, I went c- oh, this is probably- Nine years ago when JP Lilly did the Jungian play therapy training for the Utah Association for Play Therapy, and there, there seemed to be that s- some I found some similarities with child-centered play therapy.
- 10:35Cathi Spooner: But I find that this part, what I'm about to say, is kind of Similar across all the play therapy models and that idea.
- 10:44Cathi Spooner: But I think in what I noticed in Jungian play therapy is that, uh, like sometimes the child leads and sometimes the therapist leads.
- 10:56Jared Andes: So- So that idea that- … there's a ton of similarities Yeah.
- 11:01Cathi Spooner: Uh, what
- 11:01Jared Andes: was that?
- 11:02Jared Andes: Um, JP would always say that, you know, the people who really… So I'll introduce a new topic that I was gonna talk about later, but I'll introduce this now.
- 11:08Jared Andes: Um, there's this concept in Jungian analytical play therapy called temenos.
- 11:13Jared Andes: Um, and temenos means, like, the, the sacred district.
- 11:16Jared Andes: It's the area, literally it was the area around the temple that set it apart from the secular.
- 11:22Jared Andes: Um, and Jung said that the therapy space needed to be set apart and sacred.
- 11:27Jared Andes: Um, and, and in Jungian analytical play therapy we recognize it's not just the playroom that needs to be separate and sacred, it's also the relationship that holds that temenos.
- 11:37Jared Andes: So we are, as, as the play therapist, we are as much a part of that as the space that we're in.
- 11:42Jared Andes: Um, and JP would always say that, you know who gets temenos, uh, best out of anybody?
- 11:47Jared Andes: The child-centered people.
- 11:48Jared Andes: They really get it right.
- 11:50Jared Andes: Um, so yeah, there's, uh, I think there's a lot of similarities, and then there are some big divergences.
- 11:55Jared Andes: For example, um, you know, if a child asks a question, I, I feel very free to answer the question.
- 12:01Cathi Spooner: You can answer the question.
- 12:03Jared Andes: Right.
- 12:03Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 12:03Jared Andes: You know, it does depend.
- 12:05Jared Andes: Like, sometimes I'll reflect it back to the child and say, "Oh, you're wondering this thing." Or, you know, I might even use the, the very famous child, uh, centered line like, "Oh yeah, it sure seems like that to you." Something like that.
- 12:15Jared Andes: Um, but if the relationship calls for it I'll, I'll say,"Yeah, I'm, I'm afraid of that thing," or, "That is a really cool thing that you built.
- 12:22Jared Andes: I do like that."
- 12:23Cathi Spooner: Mm-hmm.
- 12:24Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 12:25Cathi Spooner: Th- so that ide- I think that idea of the relationship, um, and how important that is kind of anchor and set play therapy apart from other play therapy models is a, it's really important.
- 12:42Cathi Spooner: And I'm, I'm curious from a Jungian standpoint, a Jungian play therapy standpoint, like how is, how does the play therapist, what is, I guess, their way of being so to speak- Mm … for lack of a better way of saying it, in the playroom?
- 13:00Cathi Spooner: Because I, I feel like a lot of… I, like I'll tell people you need to learn a play therapy model.
- 13:06Cathi Spooner: Like, you have to be grounded in something.
- 13:08Cathi Spooner: Learn one, learn how to apply it through every stage.
- 13:14Cathi Spooner: Like, learn how to do it.
- 13:16Cathi Spooner: You can always add later.
- 13:19Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 13:20Cathi Spooner: But you need to at least learn a play therapy model, 'cause that's your framework.
- 13:25Cathi Spooner: But the bottom line is while you're learning The model, lean into relationship, because if you don't have relationship, then you're not gonna get anywhere anyway.
- 13:36Cathi Spooner: So,
- 13:37Jared Andes: and I'm- I don't know any model of play therapy that says we can deprioritize the relationship and focus on the technique.
- 13:43Jared Andes: I don't know any type that does that, and certainly not Jungian analytical play therapy.
- 13:46Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 13:47Jared Andes: Very, very much focused on the relationship.
- 13:49Jared Andes: Um, I'm gonna, I'm gonna bring in a couple of people, um, to talk about what you just asked.
- 13:54Jared Andes: Okay.
- 13:54Jared Andes: So I'll start with John Allen.
- 13:55Jared Andes: He's got this great quote that I think about frequently.
- 13:58Jared Andes: Um, he said, um, "Carl Jung viewed therapy as an existential exchange." And, um, then John Allen went to say, or went on to say, um, "If the therapy's any good, both parties are changed." So the therapist experiences a change, and so does the client.
- 14:13Jared Andes: It's not a one-way, a, um, change, right?
- 14:16Jared Andes: That both people are going to be changed by this.
- 14:19Jared Andes: Um, that's why countertransference and transference is so important, um, because we are going to experience something.
- 14:26Cathi Spooner: I love that.
- 14:27Jared Andes: I think it's a beautiful
- 14:28Cathi Spooner: quote.
- 14:28Cathi Spooner: So true, right?
- 14:29Cathi Spooner: Because if you bring your authentic self therapeutically, right, in a professional way, but if you bring your therapeutic self into, and you enter into authentic relationship, then of course it's gonna- impact you.
- 14:48Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 14:48Cathi Spooner: That's all- I think
- 14:49Jared Andes: many
- 14:50Cathi Spooner: therapists would say- I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be pondering that the rest of the day.
- 14:53Jared Andes: I think many therapists, especially people who've practiced, you know, for a certain length of time, would say they carry clients with them.
- 15:00Cathi Spooner: Yes.
- 15:01Cathi Spooner: I mean, I have some clients, I've been doing this co- I'm rounding the, rounding the corner close to 35 years.
- 15:10Cathi Spooner: There are still some clients that I think about.
- 15:15Cathi Spooner: There's, like, a handful of them I think about to this day.
- 15:20Cathi Spooner: Somehow they found me on social media, like years and years later.
- 15:25Cathi Spooner: Wow.
- 15:25Cathi Spooner: And they'll just like my posts.
- 15:27Cathi Spooner: Um, which I think is very sweet because I, I know what a dark place they were in at the time- Yeah and what a, kind of a privilege it was to walk with them through that process.
- 15:41Cathi Spooner: So it's very cool.
- 15:42Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 15:43Cathi Spooner: You can see my dog Luna's head popping up between my Yeah.
- 15:48Cathi Spooner: In and out.
- 15:49Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 15:49Cathi Spooner: If you're watching on the video.
- 15:49Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 15:50Cathi Spooner: I l- I love that so much.
- 15:52Cathi Spooner: And you know, I think about what you s- I tell people too, countertransference, don't be afraid of it, uh,'cause it isn't a bad thing.
- 16:01Jared Andes: Right.
- 16:01Cathi Spooner: It's, it just gives information.
- 16:05Cathi Spooner: I remember years a- this is when I was, like, first getting started back a gazillion years ago, and I was asking my supervisor at the time, "What do I do when countertran…" Like, like, "What do I do with my countertransference?" You know, like super nervous.
- 16:22Cathi Spooner: We're all out of grad school.
- 16:23Cathi Spooner: We've been told We're not supposed to have this empathy … about our bias.
- 16:27Cathi Spooner: You know, watch your bias.
- 16:29Cathi Spooner: Basically, don't be a butthead-
- 16:31Jared Andes: Mm-hmm… Cathi Spooner: um, And so we're, like, super nervous about everything and wanting to do a good job and do right by our clients.
- 16:40Jared Andes: I was so nervous about countertransference.
- 16:45Jared Andes: And I remember my supervisor said, um, "Well, just use it." And I, and I was like, "What are you talking about?" And she's like, "Well, let's say you feel like there's anger coming, and you feel yourself getting irritated," 'cause the, this was a adult client I was getting, I was getting irritated with, uh, in the session and trying, trying to manage that internally.
- 17:08Jared Andes: Um, and she said, "Well, if that comes up, just ask them,'Do you ever feel like there are times when people get mad at you or irritated with you, and you don't understand why?'" And it was like, yeah.
- 17:21Jared Andes: Am I… And I was like s- I was, I was sold from then on that countertransference- Yeah … is the magic secret sauce to figuring things out.
- 17:31Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 17:32Jared Andes: From a, from a s- analytic, a psychoanalytic, a union analytic play therapy standpoint, how, how do you guys use that as a play therapist?
- 17:46Jared Andes: So, um, I hope that this is true of all types of play therapy, but it is certainly true in Jungian analytical play therapy.
- 17:53Jared Andes: The Jungian play therapist is always in consultation, always working on their own interiority.
- 17:58Jared Andes: Our- the interior of the therapist is so important, right?
- 18:01Jared Andes: So we have to do that work to get to know where, you know, where is my stuff coming up and where is this coming from the client.
- 18:08Jared Andes: Um, you know, I have a, have a bad day, I'm tired and whatever, I can get irritated really easily.
- 18:13Jared Andes: So if it's just me being irritated, like, you know, in your example, and it's not something that this client is doing, then I need to, you know, realize like, hey, this is what's happening for me.
- 18:22Jared Andes: I need to work on that.
- 18:23Jared Andes: But if I can go through that process and say, actually, I have… like, my level of irritation is pretty low, something else is happening in this room, then I sit with that.
- 18:32Jared Andes: There's-- So the analytic stance is something that's really important.
- 18:35Jared Andes: We'll talk about that more, um, you know, for anyone who's interested, we'll talk about that, um, in the six-hour training here in Utah.
- 18:41Jared Andes: But, um, I'll say one thing that's, I think, really important on this, and that is to have a soft hypothesis.
- 18:47Jared Andes: So anytime we're approaching it, we don't say, "Aha, it's this. I've got the answer.
- 18:50Jared Andes: It's the one answer." We hold this, the hypothesis very carefully, really lightly, because it might be right and it might not be right.
- 18:58Jared Andes: We sometimes actually will even present that in play therapy.
- 19:01Jared Andes: Like, "Oh, okay.
- 19:02Jared Andes: So, um, you know, that guy looks really angry," or, "Wow, she is so powerful." A, a soft hypothesis stated like that.
- 19:10Jared Andes: Mm-hmm.
- 19:10Jared Andes: And the client will sometimes say, "No, he's not scary.
- 19:14Jared Andes: He's actually scared." And then we're, "Oh, okay.
- 19:17Jared Andes: Thanks for telling me." And then you just, you sit with that, you hold it.
- 19:21Jared Andes: Um, so the analytical stance is to hold these soft hypotheses and, and just hold them.
- 19:25Jared Andes: Um, and if, you know, if you're in the play therapy session, you're doing Jungian analytical play therapy, and you're like,"Ooh, I'm not sure what to do," I, I agree with you fully.
- 19:34Jared Andes: You go back to the relationship.
- 19:35Jared Andes: And then also JP identified three key roles for a play therapist.
- 19:39Jared Andes: Um, so the, the first one is witness.
- 19:42Jared Andes: That one I, I think we can do pretty easily.
- 19:44Jared Andes: I, I can sit here, I can witness this with you, and I can even reflect back to you that I'm witnessing it.
- 19:48Jared Andes: I think that's really important.
- 19:50Jared Andes: Um, and then the next one is interpreter.
- 19:52Jared Andes: So when we interpret, it does sometimes happen in the room, but we don't always offer it in the room.
- 19:58Jared Andes: And usually it happens once we've left the play therapy room.
- 20:00Jared Andes: As we're reflecting on the session, writing our note, thinking about the child, that's when we're really starting to work on the interpretation.
- 20:06Jared Andes: Okay, so it might be this thing, it might be that thing.
- 20:08Jared Andes: But it does sometimes happen within the playroom as well.
- 20:10Jared Andes: And then the last one is container, which is, um, you know, crucial.
- 20:13Jared Andes: You can't have temenos, like I was talking about earlier, without container.
- 20:17Jared Andes: So there must be containment of strong emotions.
- 20:20Jared Andes: There must be boundaries around the behavior, um, otherwise no one can feel safe.
- 20:25Cathi Spooner: I love that.
- 20:26Cathi Spooner: You know what's so interesting when you were talking about that, I was kind of thinking about the parallel, 'cause I know you, um, you s- you said you work with trauma as well, and how important these are to create a sense of safety for clients who have experienced trauma, but selective mutism as well.
- 20:47Cathi Spooner: They're n- Yeah … they're not gonna do anything until they feel safe.
- 20:51Cathi Spooner: Mm-hmm.
- 20:52Cathi Spooner: They'll just stay frozen in the playroom until, until that happens.
- 20:57Cathi Spooner: And so that, that whole idea of witness and feeling seen, heard, held, and understood Also within structure and containment because that's where the, the safety is with those boundaries.
- 21:16Cathi Spooner: Mm-hmm.
- 21:17Cathi Spooner: And I'm… I always think of, um, the, uh, circle of security from an attachment standpoint.
- 21:24Cathi Spooner: Parents have to be bigger, stronger, wiser, and kind.
- 21:27Cathi Spooner: I think in the playroom that their play therapist needs to be bigger, stronger, wiser, and kind, and that's kind of what I'm, I'm hearing you talk about in terms of those, the three roles-
- 21:39Jared Andes: Yeah
- 21:39Cathi Spooner: of a play therapist.
- 21:41Jared Andes: Yep, and I, I'm gonna, you know, bringing in what you just said, um, that so systems was part of, um, Jung's model from nearly the beginning.
- 21:51Jared Andes: He would look at where is this person coming from, not just who is this person showing up.
- 21:55Jared Andes: Um, and so looking at the family, like you just mentioned, helping the parents know, hey, like, this is what the child's doing in therapy.
- 22:00Jared Andes: Here is how I can help support them.
- 22:02Jared Andes: Here's how we can coordinate these things together.
- 22:04Jared Andes: Mm-hmm.
- 22:05Jared Andes: And it's a huge part of play therapy.
- 22:07Cathi Spooner: Do you guy… From a, um, Jungian analytic play therapy, d- does the parent ever come into the playroom or is it only individual?
- 22:19Jared Andes: Um, so, uh, two things I would say it depends on.
- 22:21Jared Andes: One, um, the therapist.
- 22:23Jared Andes: I know some therapists who w- would almost never have a parent in the play therapy room.
- 22:28Jared Andes: JP very, very rarely had, um, parents in his play therapy room.
- 22:32Cathi Spooner: Mm-hmm.
- 22:32Jared Andes: I work with kids with selective mutism, and not bringing the parent into the play therapy room does not work very well.
- 22:39Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 22:39Jared Andes: They usually start off in the, in the room with me.
- 22:42Jared Andes: And then we work on having them, you know, work themselves back out of the room as we go on.
- 22:46Jared Andes: Um, so it would depend on the therapist, and then also depends on the, the parent and the child and, you know, what they're looking for.
- 22:53Cathi Spooner: Oh, interesting.
- 22:54Cathi Spooner: Okay.
- 22:55Cathi Spooner: If you, if you had the parent in the room, how do you, um, set them up to join the room or do you just bring… I, I'm a firm believer, 'cause I, I have people tell me this all the time, especially in Play Therapy Academy where we, we do a lot of skill building.
- 23:14Cathi Spooner: Um, they'll, they'll say they'll bring the parent in the room and then it doesn't go very well.
- 23:20Cathi Spooner: And then I'll say, "Well, did you talk to them about, like, why did you bring them in?" And they're like, "Oh, because, you know, the client asked." And like, well, you, you can say no.
- 23:32Cathi Spooner: Um, because it, it's not gonna go very, very well.
- 23:35Cathi Spooner: So I'm curious from a Jungian, um, analytic play therapy h- if, if you are gonna bring the parent in, is there a way that you kind of prepare them for it?
- 23:48Jared Andes: So, um, I, I think we prepare them for it with, uh, y- before they even show up to the office for the very first time.
- 23:53Jared Andes: With those conversations we have where, "Hey, play therapy looks a little bit different from therapy you may have experienced or seen on TV," depending on what the, you know, the parent's, um, experience with therapy is.
- 24:04Jared Andes: Your child's probably gonna really wanna come here, and they're gonna come out of the room, and they'll be like, "That was so fun." And you're maybe even gonna wonder what was happening in that room.
- 24:11Jared Andes: Was that therapy?
- 24:12Jared Andes: What's going on in there?
- 24:13Jared Andes: Right.
- 24:13Jared Andes: Um, and so I like to, I have those conversations before the child ever shows up.
- 24:17Jared Andes: And- Oh,
- 24:18Cathi Spooner: I love that… Jared Andes: then, you know, I'm thinking about bringing the parent in or when it's time to bring the parent in, I have conversations about here's my role in the play therapy room as the therapist.
- 24:28Cathi Spooner: Here's what I- you're gonna see from me.
- 24:30Cathi Spooner: Um, and you're gonna hear me saying things that are gonna sound maybe just a little bit different from what you're expecting, um, a therapist to say, uh- Mm-hmm … because the playroom is a different place.
- 24:38Cathi Spooner: Here is what I'm hoping from you, from your role in the room as a play ther- or as a parent.
- 24:43Cathi Spooner: What would you like your role to be?
- 24:44Cathi Spooner: And kind of collaborate on that.
- 24:46Cathi Spooner: And then I let them know,"Hey, your child is probably having some expectations from you as well. So what do you think those might be?" So a kind of exchange of what are the expectations, what are the roles, and then just know it's gonna look different.
- 24:58Cathi Spooner: It's not going to be what you think therapy looks like unless you're really well-versed in therapy.
- 25:03Cathi Spooner: That's awesome.
- 25:04Cathi Spooner: I love that.
- 25:05Cathi Spooner: That's a great way to explain it also, I think.
- 25:09Cathi Spooner: So if you're doing, um, I know people like to kinda get an idea from a play therapy standpoint what, what might a Jungian analytic play therapy session look like.
- 25:22Cathi Spooner: So if you're, if you're… Are there times when you sometimes lead, um, and do a certain activity, or is it, are you just kind of following and leading in the session?
- 25:36Cathi Spooner: Do you ever do, like, a directive activity?
- 25:39Cathi Spooner: How does that work?
- 25:41Jared Andes: So, um, I, I, I would actually again refer people back to Inscapes of the Child's World, uh, by John Allen, um, because he's got some great information on this as well.
- 25:49Jared Andes: The level of directiveness or non-directiveness, um, will depend on the therapist and their, their viewpoint.
- 25:56Jared Andes: Mm. Um, for me, it has a lot to do with the client's age and developmental level.
- 26:00Jared Andes: Um- Yes … I work a lot with neurodivergent people, and that is, you know, that's a whole different thing.
- 26:06Jared Andes: Um, so it depends a lot on the specific person that I'm in the room with.
- 26:08Jared Andes: Okay.
- 26:09Jared Andes: And I trust the relationship a lot.
- 26:11Jared Andes: Um, so, um, and, and sometimes I'm like, "Okay. You know what? I think this directive activity might be really helpful for this person," and I, I offer it, and it gets shut down really quickly.
- 26:21Jared Andes: Or we try it- … and the person's like, "Well, that was lame." And I'm like- … "Oh, okay.
- 26:25Jared Andes: Well, that didn't work." Um, but sometimes when I offer it, the person's like, "Okay, let's try it," and then it becomes a very, very important aspect, uh, you, you know, an important intervention, and they remember that as the, you know, they continue therapy.
- 26:38Jared Andes: Um, I, I like to say this, by the way.
- 26:42Jared Andes: In my, my very first time training, um, on Jungian analytical play therapy, I said, um, that Jungian analytical play therapy is a way of being and seeing, not a way of doing, which I think is true.
- 26:54Jared Andes: Mm. And I also realized afterwards that it's kind of like putting people in a pool and saying, "Swimming is a way of being with the water, so just be with it." Um, but people who are learning need to know how to do some dos, um, while they're learning how to be with and see.
- 27:10Jared Andes: Um, so, um, I think that's a really important thing to talk about.
- 27:13Jared Andes: You talked about one already, serial drawing-
- 27:16Cathi Spooner: Mm-hmm… Jared Andes: with John Allen.
- 27:18Cathi Spooner: Um, so for people who don't know that one, first off, it's chapter two of that book.
- 27:23Cathi Spooner: It's a great chapter.
- 27:24Cathi Spooner: Um, so the idea of that one is we sometimes look at a drawing from a child and think, "Okay, this is what this drawing means." We derive meaning.
- 27:33Cathi Spooner: We kind of d- even direct therapy off of that one drawing.
- 27:35Cathi Spooner: Um, and it's kind of like looking at one snapshot from a child's life and saying,"Aha, I think I understand what's going on here." Mm.
- 27:43Jared Andes: When I worked in the hospital, we really focused on trends, right?
- 27:46Jared Andes: Where is the blood pressure going?
- 27:47Jared Andes: Is it going up, down, staying the same?
- 27:49Jared Andes: Heart rate, same thing.
- 27:51Jared Andes: Doing serial drawings allows you to do that same concept.
- 27:54Jared Andes: Where are the trends going?
- 27:55Jared Andes: Where's the energy going?
- 27:56Jared Andes: Is this person in… Uh, John Allen, um, identifies three areas.
- 28:00Jared Andes: Is this in chaos?
- 28:02Jared Andes: Um, are we moving to resolution?
- 28:03Jared Andes: Where are we in, in this whole phase, uh, you know, in this, in this child's life?
- 28:08Jared Andes: So serial drawings, the child will come in and they'll draw.
- 28:12Jared Andes: Um, doesn't have to be every session, but, you know, they will draw regularly.
- 28:16Jared Andes: And again, it could be a directive.
- 28:18Jared Andes: You could say, "Hey, draw me a picture of your family.
- 28:19Jared Andes: Draw a picture of a house." You could do a, um, you know, person, house, tree.
- 28:23Jared Andes: Um, y- or if you're less directive, you could say,"Here, here's a piece of paper.
- 28:30Jared Andes: Draw whatever you'd like." Over time, as you're viewing how these pictures change and evolve, um, you're able to see how the therapeutic process is ex- is happening within the child.
- 28:42Jared Andes: And it's not a one picture tells me the whole story.
- 28:45Jared Andes: It's this series of photos gives me an idea over time what's happening.
- 28:51Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 28:51Cathi Spooner: That's awesome.
- 28:53Cathi Spooner: One, one of the ways I've used it is I've, um, used the prompt, if you were an animal, what kind of animal would you be, and what kind of environment would your animal like to live in?
- 29:04Cathi Spooner: And then we kinda use that to go from there.
- 29:09Cathi Spooner: So, yeah.
- 29:10Jared Andes: I'm smiling about that one, because I'm always assigned to the bald eagle.
- 29:13Jared Andes: Um, but I don't think I would choose that for myself.
- 29:15Jared Andes: I think I would choose something different.
- 29:18Cathi Spooner: That's funny.
- 29:19Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 29:20Cathi Spooner: You know what?
- 29:21Cathi Spooner: It's, it's interesting as you were, as you were talking about like the leading or following, and I think that's what struck me so much when I, when I did the training probably nine years ago now, um, is how similar that kind of philosophy is with child-centered play therapy.
- 29:48Cathi Spooner: Because when I got trained a gazillion years ago, you pretty much only had one option, and that was child-centered play therapy.
- 29:56Cathi Spooner: Um, and s- so now there's a, there's a l- lot more options.
- 30:01Cathi Spooner: I think the, the thing that I found beneficial about child-centered play therapy is you have to really learn how to get out of grown-up mode and give up control, and just really focus on being present-
- 30:17Jared Andes: Yeah
- 30:17Cathi Spooner: and being attuned.
- 30:19Cathi Spooner: Um, and I, I hear that a lot from what you're saying with the Jungian model, which is that u- that use of self, therapeutic use of self, it's the relationship, it's the relationship, it's the relationship, and everything kind of flows out of that.
- 30:38Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 30:38Jared Andes: And I think, um, sometimes we cr- we co-create interventions in the, the Jungian space, right?
- 30:44Jared Andes: While we're playing with the child, m- you know, the play is happening, it's evolving.
- 30:48Jared Andes: W- we may not know where it's going, but, um, because we're so in tune with the relationship and, um, because we are self-attuned, we can realize that, okay, I think this is the energy that the child's bringing to this.
- 31:00Jared Andes: This is where they're trying to get this to go.
- 31:02Jared Andes: Um, and we can w- you know, offer things sometimes.
- 31:04Jared Andes: Um, if the child's like, y- if they seem like they're stuck, or if it seems like I'm stuck and I'm not sure exactly where I need to go, I'll say,"Oh-" Like, what do I do?
- 31:11Jared Andes: Do I do this thing?
- 31:12Jared Andes: And the child will be like,"No, do that thing." Or they're like, "Yes, do that." Um, and so I follow the lead, but it gets kind of co-created, and those are the, the most powerful interventions I've found.
- 31:21Jared Andes: Not the ones that like, "Oh, okay, I read this in that book. I'm gonna go do that, like, on Thursday with that
- 31:25child at 3: 00." It's more, okay, we're… Like, I'm in this, I'm in the actual moment, I'm in the relationship.
- 31:33child at 3: Something about the unconscious connectedness- Mm … is telling me this is where this might need to go.
- 31:39child at 3: Let me try it out, and sometimes it works, like I said.
- 31:41child at 3: And, and when it does, it's very powerful.
- 31:43child at 3: And sometimes I'm like, "Oh, nope, I missed that one.
- 31:45child at 3: Okay, I'll try it again."
- 31:46Cathi Spooner: I know, and I, I, I find that, too.
- 31:49Cathi Spooner: Like, sometimes you're like, "This is an easy fix.
- 31:53Cathi Spooner: Oops, I got that wrong," you
- 31:57Jared Andes: know?
- 31:57Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 31:57Jared Andes: But you're like, "Okay." Easy fix for you.
- 31:57Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 31:57Jared Andes: But yeah, the child has their own idea.
- 31:59Jared Andes: Um, and, um, you know, after I finished with JP, I still had to do, um… There was a moratorium on the applications.
- 32:07Jared Andes: That's when I got my RPT.
- 32:09Jared Andes: Oh, wow.
- 32:09Jared Andes: And so I had to continue doing, um, supervision, and he suggested that I go to someone who did, who does, uh, child-centered, so I did child-centered afterwards, which was a very hard switch.
- 32:20Jared Andes: I feel like the switch from child-centered to Jungian analytical play therapy might be an easier switch, but I don't know.
- 32:25Jared Andes: I've only done it one way.
- 32:26Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 32:27Jared Andes: Um, but y- I think you're right.
- 32:29Jared Andes: The, um, the relationship is such a key focus for both.
- 32:33Jared Andes: That w- that part was so easy.
- 32:34Jared Andes: I can, I could be in the relationship with the child.
- 32:37Jared Andes: I could surrender the control of the session, um, knowing that I'm gonna be able to set therapeutic and safe boundaries for both of us.
- 32:43Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 32:44Cathi Spooner: That's awesome.
- 32:46Cathi Spooner: Well, I, um, I know you guys have a training coming up, um, at this month actually.
- 32:55Cathi Spooner: Do you wanna- Yeah … for people who are interested in learning more about Jungian analytic theory, do you wanna tell them a little bit about the training and, like, h- when it is, how long it is?
- 33:13Cathi Spooner: Is there a virtual option?
- 33:15Cathi Spooner: Is there an in-person option?
- 33:17Cathi Spooner: How do they register?
- 33:20Jared Andes: I'm happy to do that.
- 33:20Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 33:21Jared Andes: We're… So the training is, um, Back to the Future: The Past, Present, and Future of Jungian Analytical Play Therapy.
- 33:27Jared Andes: Now, that's a mouthful.
- 33:28Jared Andes: Um, so we'll be looking at Jungian analytical play therapy, um, through the lens of Back to the Future.
- 33:35Jared Andes: Um, so we're gonna start in the past, and we're gonna work all the way up to where we are today, and look into what the future may hold for, uh, Jungian analytical play therapy, and play therapy in general.
- 33:45Jared Andes: Um- Hmm … we are going to talk about the theory.
- 33:48Jared Andes: We're gonna, we're gonna look really deeply into the theory, the anatomy of the psyche, all of those important things, all of those aspects that you have to know if you're gonna do this, because theory drives the intervention, not the other way around, right?
- 33:59Jared Andes: So, um- Yeah … JP would say all of the time, like, without the theory, the interventions are dangerous.
- 34:05Jared Andes: Um, and, and by the way, I didn't say this yet, but Carl Jung called this a most dangerous method.
- 34:10Jared Andes: Um, so we really do need to know the model- Mm-hmm … the, the theory really well.
- 34:14Jared Andes: Um, and so we're gonna take six hours, um, which is still just the introduction.
- 34:19Jared Andes: It's a-
- 34:19Cathi Spooner: Yeah… Jared Andes: great way to that you continue to work on and master over the, the course of your, your whole career.
- 34:26Cathi Spooner: Um, so six hours, uh, in Lehigh on June 26th.
- 34:31Cathi Spooner: Um, great way to get some history, uh, CEs if you need them, and of course, seminal theory, um, because that's six hours of a seminal theory Um, and it also, we're gonna be doing some of our own inner work, um, because like I mentioned, this is about self-attunement.
- 34:46Cathi Spooner: You can't go into the, um, play therapy room, you can't enter temenos and be safe if you don't know who you are and what's going on with yourself.
- 34:53Cathi Spooner: So we're gonna do a little bit of that, um, of course encourage people to do their own work individually as well, um, but we're gonna look at that.
- 35:00Cathi Spooner: Um, and yeah, if you're interested, it's utahplaytherapy.org.
- 35:05Cathi Spooner: You can get your tickets and registration there, um, and sign up.
- 35:08Cathi Spooner: We- I think we have nine tickets left.
- 35:11Cathi Spooner: Oh, okay.
- 35:12Cathi Spooner: And is it, is it just in person?
- 35:15Jared Andes: Yes, it is just in person.
- 35:16Jared Andes: Oh, okay.
- 35:16Cathi Spooner: Oh, that's interest- yeah, that's awesome.
- 35:19Cathi Spooner: Um, and I, you know, I think you said something too, I think is really, really important, and we were kinda talking about this before 'cause you and I both supervise people, um, pursuing their registered play therapy credential, but also like helping people learn how to take theory and apply it.
- 35:39Cathi Spooner: That's what, that's what supervision is.
- 35:41Cathi Spooner: How do you take a theory and how do you apply it in practical application?
- 35:45Cathi Spooner: And, um, I, I think it's really important to learn a theory, and one of the ways that you figure out what theory you resonate with is going to different trainings to get information and learning about the theory to see if it's something that resonates with you, and then you have the opportunity from there to learn how to apply it, and that's the key.
- 36:16Cathi Spooner: Like the training is key, but a consultation is key as well.
- 36:22Cathi Spooner: A lot of what you were talking about before, which is that, that self-work and how do you tell if it's me or if it's the client, or what do I do in this situation?
- 36:34Cathi Spooner: My client did this.
- 36:36Cathi Spooner: But you're always looking through the lens of the theory, so you're looking through the lens, how would Jungian analytic play therapy, how would, how would they define what is at the root of the problem, and what are the patterns sustaining it?
- 36:56Cathi Spooner: So you're looking at it through that theoretical lens.
- 37:00Cathi Spooner: But the … And then you're gonna learn how to apply, what does that look like in the first phase?
- 37:05Cathi Spooner: What does that look like in the second phase?
- 37:07Cathi Spooner: How do you know when they're ready to terminate- Successfully.
- 37:13Cathi Spooner: Well, you're only gonna know if you figure out what stage of change they're in and where they are in the healing process, which means you have to- Yeah go back to your theory model to figure out what your theory would say is evidence of their readiness for discharge.
- 37:30Cathi Spooner: Yeah, so I think- Mm … I think that's awesome.
- 37:33Cathi Spooner: I, I've been excited to see that Utah Association for Play Therapy, you guys have been doing some seminal and historic… We kind of talked about that before we hit the live, so I think it's, um, awesome.
- 37:47Cathi Spooner: You guys have a lot of good trainings going on there.
- 37:51Jared Andes: Yeah, I'm excited for the lineup that I have this year, and we haven't, um, we haven't told everybody or haven't told anybody about what's going on for next year but it's in the works.
- 37:59Jared Andes: I'm excited for that.
- 37:59Jared Andes: I think we're gonna bring in some, some, uh, great trainings that people are going to enjoy.
- 38:04Jared Andes: And, um- Oh … also just playing off of what you said, there's a, a Carl Jung quote, um-
- 38:08Cathi Spooner: Oh… Jared Andes: specific Um, so he said, "Know all the theories, master all the techniques, but when it comes to being," uh, sorry, "when it comes to touching another soul, just be a human soul." Mm.
- 38:21Cathi Spooner: That's awesome.
- 38:23Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 38:24Cathi Spooner: Kind of speaks to that healing power of presence too.
- 38:28Jared Andes: Yeah.
- 38:28Cathi Spooner: And knowing how you're gonna Gotta
- 38:29Jared Andes: master it and then yes.
- 38:31Cathi Spooner: Yes.
- 38:31Jared Andes: We can be that healing presence.
- 38:33Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 38:34Cathi Spooner: Well, awesome.
- 38:35Cathi Spooner: Well, thank you.
- 38:36Cathi Spooner: So for those of you who are interested, we are gonna put in the comments, we'll put a link to the training so you can register.
- 38:46Cathi Spooner: Also, if you want to get in touch with Jared, you can alway- I, we put some of the links in the description, so you can check out his website, you can connect with him on Facebook and Instagram.
- 39:01Cathi Spooner: If you're interested in learning about what the Utah Association for Play Therapy is up to, then pop over to their website.
- 39:10Cathi Spooner: So and that, that is it for today.
- 39:14Cathi Spooner: So we will see you guys… Well, I'll see you guys next week, and Jared will hopefully see you at the training.
- 39:21Jared Andes: Yes.
- 39:22Cathi Spooner: All right.
- 39:22Cathi Spooner: Excited for that Thank you for joining me on this episode of Next Level Play Therapy.
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