456. You Want A Better Intimate Life, But Your Spouse Won't Talk About It - What Do You Do?

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast · Mar 31, 2026 · 26m

One of the most common messages we hear from our audience is something like this: “I want a better intimate life… but my spouse wont talk about it and I don't know what to do.”

For some, the conversation feels too risky, what if it leads to conflict or rejection? For others, they’ve tried to open up, only to be met with silence or resistance and be told by their spouse that they don't want to talk about it. It’s frustrating, confusing, and often deeply lonely.

The truth is, so many couples are quietly facing this same struggle, and it genuinely breaks our hearts every time we hear it.

In this…