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Did Scotty try TOO hard to impress his GF's parents?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best music is made nine.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to share something that happened over the weekend
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  Speaker 2: that I've been replaying in my head. It's been giving
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  Speaker 2: me a ton of anxiety on whether or not I'm
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  Speaker 2: messed up with my girlfriend's parents. And I want to
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  Speaker 2: run it by you, Abbey, Okay, and I want to
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna wait for that for just a second.
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  Speaker 1: I am the girlfriend next work as someone who's never
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  Speaker 1: been a girlfriend myself.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I just want to see, like if you like
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  Speaker 2: feel awkward as I do. But we'll get to that
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  Speaker 2: in just a second. I did also just see on
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  Speaker 2: your Instagram. I mean, I don't know if this is
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  Speaker 2: going to be too late by the time this airs,
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  Speaker 2: but is it too late to sign up for the
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  Speaker 2: Girls get Away?
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  Speaker 1: No, it's never too late, but I think at this point,
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  Speaker 1: like if you were going to sign up, you would
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  Speaker 1: have signed up. Yeah, you know what I mean, because it's
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  Speaker 1: next month, so like, if you want to come, I'll link.
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  Speaker 1: I think this is the final day, but yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: think it's kind of the end. It's the end of
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  Speaker 1: the road.
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  Speaker 2: But do you notice when you do the other Girls trips,
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  Speaker 2: Like people like to wait till the last minute to
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  Speaker 2: do anything.
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  Speaker 1: Well, the thing is with the last Girl Trips that
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  Speaker 1: I've done is that I've either worked with a company
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  Speaker 1: where they have a deadline and it's like I think
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  Speaker 1: four months.
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  Speaker 3: Before, oh ahead of this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so for this, I'm like, oh, it's a month before,
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  Speaker 1: like this is this is the group, which is great
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  Speaker 1: because then I can start making arrangements and make arrangements
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  Speaker 1: for this specific group.
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  Speaker 2: Gosh, that's gonna be so fun. I was looking and
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure because I was planning out
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  Speaker 2: some things for like my girlfriend's birthday, and I was
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  Speaker 2: looking at weekends to book things, and I remembered your
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  Speaker 2: like your weekend. I was like, oh no, we got
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  Speaker 2: to be in town for.
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  Speaker 1: August twenty first, of the twenty fourth. But her birthday's
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  Speaker 1: way before then. I know.
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  Speaker 3: But there's things that I'm putting together.
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  Speaker 1: That oh yeah, yeah, sick your sex room I'm building.
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  Speaker 1: Oh is that coming along? By the way, I know what.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, I got to stop telling people I watch that
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  Speaker 2: show because the look that people give me is just insanity.
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  Speaker 1: It's not the fact that you're watching the show that
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  Speaker 1: I find funny in a little off kilter. It's the
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  Speaker 1: fact that you out you searched for that show, because
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  Speaker 1: if you go to my Netflix, you know what pops up.
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  Speaker 1: It's like the Love Barn, Farmer Wants a Wife, mysteries
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  Speaker 1: involving magic, Ride and Prejudice, Pride and Prejudice. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: did this pop up on your feeed? Did you search it? No?
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  Speaker 2: Well, okay, I learned about the show, So if you
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  Speaker 2: didn't hear the other episodes, there's a show on Netflix
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  Speaker 2: called How to Build a Sex Room. Now it's like
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  Speaker 2: The Home Improvement but for your freaky side.
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  Speaker 1: So it's HGTV.
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  Speaker 4: But after ten pm, yes, like straight up though, And
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  Speaker 4: I heard about the show because somebody was telling me
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  Speaker 4: that it's super funny, you'd actually really enjoy it, and
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  Speaker 4: so I wasn't going to watch it.
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  Speaker 2: But what ended up happening was I watched the movie Obsession,
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  Speaker 2: and I was We're gonna be honest.
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  Speaker 3: I was traumatized that heard.
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  Speaker 1: It's terrifying.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god. Like somebody was asking me yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: Like, oh, did you like it?
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I mean, yes, technically it was good,
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  Speaker 2: but that was one of the movies where I felt
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  Speaker 2: sick afterwards.
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  Speaker 3: It's too real.
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  Speaker 2: So I needed something to clear my palate. So it
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  Speaker 2: was how to build a sex room? I remember somebody
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  Speaker 2: told me, I said, you know what I'm interested.
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  Speaker 1: Well, if you think about it, obsession really is just
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  Speaker 1: the scarier how to build a sex room when things
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  Speaker 1: go really wrong.
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  Speaker 2: And so I was like, let me go ahead and
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  Speaker 2: take a look. And I was hooked because it's this
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  Speaker 2: British woman that takes you through the intricacies of everything
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  Speaker 2: that's in that world.
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  Speaker 3: Fascinating.
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  Speaker 1: What's the wildest thing one could find in the sex room? Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Well there was a poly couple.
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  Speaker 2: So they had like eight people that they were like
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  Speaker 2: truly trying to make happy. And so they knocked down walls,
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  Speaker 2: they put in an in the room shower, they had
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  Speaker 2: a bed the size of the house. It was crazy,
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  Speaker 2: chains on the ceiling, wild kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 1: See. I could never be in a polycule because that
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  Speaker 1: to me sounds like being the middle child somewhere, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like someone's got to be the
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  Speaker 1: most important, someone's got to be the least important.
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  Speaker 3: I think there's like a king and queen being there.
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  Speaker 1: I really do.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's like they're what I learned from the episode.
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  Speaker 2: Oh lord, I'm gonna get messages about this.
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  Speaker 3: Which if you're in Polly, Hey, I'm well, let me
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  Speaker 3: rephrase this.
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  Speaker 2: I find it interesting. I'd be interested to learn. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not looking for Polly.
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  Speaker 1: But it didn't know it sounds like you are.
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  Speaker 3: Like my partner. I just want to keep my partner. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But in the couple, it looked.
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  Speaker 2: Like these two were married at one point and then
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  Speaker 2: they decided that, Okay, now we're gonna expand and just
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  Speaker 2: build like a whole family, a whole commune. And so
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  Speaker 2: they brought in like I think it was six people,
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  Speaker 2: and so I don't know if they're married anymore. But
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  Speaker 2: they seem like the ones that they're more lovey dovey
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  Speaker 2: toward each other. Yeah, everyone has love for each other,
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  Speaker 2: but it's like friends that friends that please each.
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  Speaker 1: Other, but they're in a committed relationship to all of them.
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  Speaker 1: Or is it just like a consistent orgy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think like they said, it was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: we have movie nights, we hang out together.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think it's all sex all the time.
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  Speaker 1: This is like that friend group in high school that
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  Speaker 1: they were all just banging each other.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's so true.
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  Speaker 1: They were all just like swip swap and boyfriends and girlfriends.
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  Speaker 2: I do remember in a high school there was groups
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  Speaker 2: of friends and you know what, I will say, they
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  Speaker 2: are more of like the outcasts, but they would be
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  Speaker 2: like sitting on the hallway floor, like all cuddled up
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  Speaker 2: all the time, so much love, feel like.
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  Speaker 1: The band kids. Yeah, the band kids and the theater
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  Speaker 1: kids were having more sex than anybody truthfully were.
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  Speaker 2: And those are the ones that traditionally like, oh, people
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  Speaker 2: like look at or make fun of.
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  Speaker 3: They're getting it. You're getting it, Like I heard stories
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  Speaker 3: that things going down in the storage room even when
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  Speaker 3: I was in middle school.
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  Speaker 1: That's so crazy to me. I'm like, you guys, I
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  Speaker 1: was reading what Pad until one am, and you guys
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  Speaker 1: were having actual sex.
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  Speaker 3: You should have joined band, you would have been It's
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  Speaker 3: a wild world, That's what I've heard. But you let
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  Speaker 3: it out. But in the show you got to see
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  Speaker 3: all the things that these couples, you know, get to
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  Speaker 3: enjoy with.
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  Speaker 1: Each other, not like the actual like action of it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I love that website. It's I hate they have to
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  Speaker 1: show your ID now.
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  Speaker 3: But you gotta gotta what is it?
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  Speaker 1: The god? What do you have to get out?
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know VPN that's it? Okay, See that's
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  Speaker 2: how you know I'm not looking at these things. I
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  Speaker 2: thought the show was just very fascinated and I don't
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  Speaker 2: even know what got me on that topic.
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  Speaker 1: Me on that topic, I think I asked you if
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  Speaker 1: you how you were searching it out? Like did it
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  Speaker 1: pop up on your feet?
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  Speaker 3: And did you People told me about it. People told
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  Speaker 3: me I kind of told you about it.
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  Speaker 2: I can't reveal my sources, but I think it was
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  Speaker 2: a group of friends that were like, you'd find this
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  Speaker 2: really funny.
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  Speaker 1: But building a sex room? No, I think I'm I.
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  Speaker 2: Reveal too much on this podcast. I think it just
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  Speaker 2: starts good conversations. I'll leave it at that. Okay, it
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  Speaker 2: just starts there. But I was telling the dude.
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  Speaker 1: You've been dating here for three months? How stale could
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  Speaker 1: it be?
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, you know what. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: leave that. Bee, don't worry about me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just a student. I'm a student to make.
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  Speaker 2: Sure I could say this. Here's what I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to have happened. I don't want it to ever get stale.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to ever feel like I'm not putting
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  Speaker 2: in enough effort or thinking that I just know it all. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I said that before on this podcast. Even when it
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  Speaker 2: comes to love, like, I don't want to just be like,
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  Speaker 2: oh yeah, no, We've been so comfortable with each other.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to keep trying like. I want to
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  Speaker 2: continue to try, to continue to learn, to continue to
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  Speaker 2: make sure that I am curious and interested in making
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  Speaker 2: sure that we're still falling deeper in love every single day.
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  Speaker 2: Those are the goals that I'm after. Now, if some
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  Speaker 2: of that has to deal with you, maybe get a
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  Speaker 2: fur rug?
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  Speaker 1: Well, then how amazon here I come? I had a
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  Speaker 1: fur rug in my room when I was twelve years old.
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  Speaker 1: It's very platonic piece of furniture.
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  Speaker 3: What textures are a big deal?
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  Speaker 1: Oh and the sex room.
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  Speaker 2: But also I did learn I was like, wait a second,
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  Speaker 2: that makes the room very cozy too, if you anyway,
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  Speaker 2: I was telling the producers of the TV little show
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  Speaker 2: that I'm on over at Fox thirteen Floord to for
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  Speaker 2: real huh. And I was just kind of joking around
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  Speaker 2: and like literally the look that I got from them
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  Speaker 2: because I was like, oh yeah, after Obsession, I had
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  Speaker 2: to watch I had a middle sex room and like
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  Speaker 2: the whole room just dead silent.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, some of us just turned on not see for
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  Speaker 1: work or friends or Seinfeld.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone looked at me and I was like, huh
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  Speaker 2: you freak, Like, all right, well, I'm gonna go ahead
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  Speaker 2: and see myself out the door.
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  Speaker 1: What's the first texture you're gonna put in your sex room.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you it's probably the fur rug fur rug.
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  Speaker 3: Those things are sweet, you know, Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about, like, how do you clean that?
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  Speaker 3: That's a good question, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: You need to get like a Stanley steamer.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so. You actually have to put in
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  Speaker 3: some You explain.
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  Speaker 1: That to the technician like, okay, first you're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: the family room in the kitchen, and then next up
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  Speaker 1: the sex dungeon. And he's just like, are we in Dunedin? Well.
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  Speaker 2: The hard thing is like if you do that, well,
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  Speaker 2: if you have people over and let's just say they're
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  Speaker 2: doing a tour of your house. You know some people
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  Speaker 2: in the show they have their own private areas. I
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  Speaker 2: have a one bedroom apartment. There ain't no hot in nothing.
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  Speaker 2: If you go and look at my room again.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like that. I don't have to I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know. But you're a single man in
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  Speaker 1: his twenties. Your apartment is the sex room.
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  Speaker 2: But if you walk in there's certain things that if
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  Speaker 2: you have like people are gonna look at you like
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  Speaker 2: you nasty.
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  Speaker 1: I know. I didn't have to see your apartment to
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  Speaker 1: know you were a freak. I was like Scott gives
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  Speaker 1: band kid freak.
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  Speaker 3: I should have stayed in band longer than I did.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't learn enough.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't well school. I had some great times. That
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  Speaker 2: sounds weird. That sounds really weird, funny stories from middle school,
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  Speaker 2: let me rephrase that, but the high schools where it
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  Speaker 2: really was like, oh, y'all, y'all are getting it, y'all
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  Speaker 2: are getting it.
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  Speaker 1: I was not.
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  Speaker 3: I was not in high school.
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  Speaker 2: I just I had like two girlfriends in high school
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  Speaker 2: and then one just happened to be like, you know, weird.
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  Speaker 3: We weren't right for each other, but we kept it
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  Speaker 3: going for way too.
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  Speaker 1: That's like I only had two girlfriends in high school.
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  Speaker 2: It's four years, two girlfriends and then a couple good rejections. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: based on me, but based off of Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Let me take a step back. I don't even know
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  Speaker 3: how I got on the topic of this.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get out of the sex room.
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  Speaker 3: Let's everyone take a step out, Go shower, clean, back.
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  Speaker 1: Up, vacuum the fur rug.
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  Speaker 3: Put that thing on the washer for a second.
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  Speaker 2: Let it dry out on it anyway, taking the step back.
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  Speaker 3: This weekend I got to meet my girlfriend's parents.
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  Speaker 1: That's huge. Did they like the sex room?
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  Speaker 4: I pray to y'all they don't listen to They won't.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, Actually, I take that back you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm always surprised that who listens.
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  Speaker 2: Me too, because that was one of the things that
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  Speaker 2: I learned immediately is because my girlfriend lives in a
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  Speaker 2: little town called Arcadia.
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  Speaker 3: It's a small town. Like I thought.
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  Speaker 2: I grew up in a small town Vero Beach, Florida.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of towny kind of city, but there's a
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  Speaker 2: good amount of people. Yeah, they got one main street,
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  Speaker 2: that's it. They got an old opera house, a coffee shop,
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  Speaker 2: an old bar that everyone goes out to. It's a
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  Speaker 2: small town. So when we went out there, I literally
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  Speaker 2: started meeting all of her friends right away. People that
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  Speaker 2: you went to high school with, people that now have
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  Speaker 2: kids that are in the same like like when my
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  Speaker 2: girlfriend like will go and help teach classes.
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  Speaker 1: Those kids are the kids of people that you went
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  Speaker 1: to school with.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So as soon as I walked in, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, I met the entire town in one place.
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  Speaker 2: I say that all to say, they're all big listeners
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  Speaker 2: on the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: The kids. No, not the kids. God bless it. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So we're huge in Arcadia, massive in Arcadia.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking to people that were listening to us
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  Speaker 2: on the show that were listening to whole the love
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  Speaker 2: story that we've shared over the podcast of how her
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  Speaker 2: and I met all because of this. So if you're
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  Speaker 2: in Arcadia, hey, thank you. And I enjoyed your town.
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  Speaker 2: So I really did. But the whole purpose of going
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  Speaker 2: there was to meet my girlfriend's family. And I was
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  Speaker 2: talking a little bit on the show of you know,
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  Speaker 2: how do you know if you really nail this moment
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  Speaker 2: because it's nerve wracking. She got to meet my dad.
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  Speaker 2: That was a success. My dad got to see all
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  Speaker 2: the things that I talked to her and talked to
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  Speaker 2: him about. But I was going over there and we
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  Speaker 2: have a friend in the building, Scottie. She was talking about,
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  Speaker 2: you know, something going on in her family, but a
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  Speaker 2: way that you know, people have won over her heart
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  Speaker 2: if they, let's say, dated her daughter and I was
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  Speaker 2: taking some of the tips, I was like, oh, he
• 11:45
  Speaker 2: did that. When he came over, he did that. So
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  Speaker 2: the first thing I knew, I was like, I'm bringing
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  Speaker 2: her flowers. I brought my girlfriend's mom flowers immediately, and
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  Speaker 2: so I showed up. And I think that was the
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  Speaker 2: first win right away. I think I nailed that. But
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  Speaker 2: the part that I'm kind of playing in my head
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  Speaker 2: are the interactions that I had with her dad. So
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  Speaker 2: let me go with the first one. As soon as
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  Speaker 2: I get in, I don't know, I felt so comfortable immediately,
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  Speaker 2: which is a good sign.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I.
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  Speaker 2: Walked in and you know, I throw my arm around
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  Speaker 2: her dad like he's a college buddy, and like he's
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  Speaker 2: like in my arm and I'm like giving him a hug.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't said two sentences to the guy. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know what came into me, but we're all having a
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  Speaker 2: good time talking.
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  Speaker 1: We have dinner.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the part that has just been giving me
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  Speaker 2: so many different thoughts. They treated me so well. We
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  Speaker 2: had a great dinner. The next day, they wanted to
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  Speaker 2: go out to dinner. I thought to myself, the proper
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  Speaker 2: thing to do. They let you stay in their house,
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  Speaker 2: they cooked you a meal, they're driving you to dinner.
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  Speaker 2: The proper thing to do would be to pay for
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  Speaker 2: the dinner. And so as we sit down, I literally
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  Speaker 2: this sounds so goofy, but I line up my fanny
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  Speaker 2: pack so it's in quick price.
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  Speaker 1: Were you wearing a fanny pack that.
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  Speaker 3: Holds everything happy? I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: My pockets were stuffed, but I was doing it because
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  Speaker 2: the night before we went out to this little bar
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  Speaker 2: and there was a cover fee, and before I could
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  Speaker 2: get out my money, boom, her dad took out the
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  Speaker 2: money bam paid for all of us to get in,
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  Speaker 2: and the security guy was making fun of me for it.
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  Speaker 3: So this kind of put the stem in my head.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, man, you were too slow.
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  Speaker 3: Hah.
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  Speaker 2: He got you, and I felt bad. I was like, man, no,
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: I do want to pay for things like yo, let
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: me pay for something, huh. So we get to dinner
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: and I pull around my fanny pack. We're all ordering
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, as soon as that check comes, I
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: got my wallet in my hand. I'm literally sitting there waiting. Now,
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend's family speaks Spanish, the waiter speaks Spanish, so
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: I couldn't even time it up perfectly because they were
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: talking about the check.
• 13:45
  Speaker 3: I didn't understand.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: They were talking about the check. Well, what's check and Spanish?
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: I didn't learn that one yet. Well check out no
• 13:52
  Speaker 3: cheek k noka. No. I don't think that's great.
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: It's not your cada. I think that's checking it. Well.
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: As soon as he pulls out it, I whip out
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: my wallet and it goes right to her dad. He
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: takes it.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: He's like no, no, no, and I kind of was
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: like I really wanted to show that I was gonna pay,
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: so I take on my card.
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I will give you my car, like please.
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: Take my money, take my money. And then I was
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no no. My girlfriend's like.
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: No, you don't have to. But that was nice that
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: you tried.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: Good thing knows all in the same language.
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: I felt like it was the right thing to do
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: to try, But then I felt like I overdid it
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: by pushing the card and my girlfriend.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: Take it, take it. I literally was I.
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: Was like, take my card, like if you don't take
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: my card. I'm gonna throw my card at you. I
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: think we're my exact words.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: They probably appreciated the effort.
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: I really hope so, because afterwards I felt so uncomfortable.
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: It was like I really won. I did truly mean it.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: I wanted to pay.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I felt honestly honored that they did all that
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: for me. And then two, I was like, y'all, I
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: also wanted to let you know cause we're like, I'm
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: about to be thirty, Like I could pay for everybody.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: I mean yeah, But also, you know, he probably feels
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: the same way I'm taking my daughter out and your boyfriend,
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: he probably feels good that he gets to treat you guys.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: That's a good point because I did run through that
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: in my head. I was like, wait a second. You know,
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: it's something a lot of men do as we like
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: to be the provider and take care. So I had
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: to like play that back in my head, like, one,
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: I want them to know that about me for their daughter.
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: Two I also recognize that in him for his family.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: So that was the way that I kind of calmed
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: myself down afterwards. I was like, Okay, yeah, a little uncomfortable.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: I made it a little awkward by being so aggressive
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: with shoving my credit card in his direction. But I
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: think at the end of the day, as long as
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: I show the effort that I truly wanted to, then
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: I think that was the right movie.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: It sounds like you. I think that you did. I
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: think you could have shown a little bit more effort
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: in your outfit planning. Why the hell were you wearing
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: a fanny pack to the Mexican restaurant in Arcadia?
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, so one of the things, what did we talked
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: about this well yesterday and yesterday's podcast. You know you're
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: talking about the little like bathing suits and they're short
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: and they're tight.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how my normal shorts are. So I can't fiddle.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: If I wear a wallet, keys.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: And a phone, I look like I'm bowlging out of
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: every single pocket of my pants.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: That's where the thing, Oh, you're gonna look like how
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: I looked at Universal. Yes, I was wearing a pair
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: of running shorts and I had my keys, my wallet, everything,
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: and it looked like at a constant boner.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: Didn't you wish you had a fanny pack?
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I did, but different I'm a girl. You have shorts
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: that fit just wear proper sized shorts.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: No, you can't wear baggy shorts. Okay, this is the
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: thing with dudes.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: I am.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give myself a generous number of around five eight. Okay,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: if I wear baggy long shorts, I will look like
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: a troll at five foot.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm here to pay for the dinner. I'll come starting.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I'm your girlfriend's friend, like we're supposed to. Because I
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: hail from troll Toupia. I want to pay for everything
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: with my eight inch inksteam pants. So go to my knees.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: That would look so goofy.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: My legs are already short.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: The knee coverage would be crazy. You imagine that.
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: That's like when I was in elementary school.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know why I was allowed to dress like this,
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: but I got to wear some big old baggy jean
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: shorts or big old baggy cargo shorts. And the size
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: at the time for your boy was husky. Your boy
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: wore a husky, shunky, chunky monkey.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: And so I'm Scott, I hail from chunk Topia.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: I didn't dress properly, I don't think until college, and
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: even then I look back at photos and I'm like,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: oh boy, yeah, you were struggling. It wasn't until I
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: started living with a couple awesome gay men that truly
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: taught me how to dress, I swear to God.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: So how do the gays feel about your fanny pack?
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: I think they're in favor of it. I think they
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: support it because they a lot of them have like.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Bag bags, like oh, they have satchels, satchels, mrses.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: And then I try to do the in between.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: With a fanny pack.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: We gotta get you like a like a wallet, like
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: a phone wallet.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Oh god, I didn't think that would make more sense.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: But then your phone's so thick, and what am I
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: supposed to just carry my phone around all the time?
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: And then it's not this nice limb phone. You see.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: This is first world problems at its finest.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: Every place has Apple pay now. Well.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: Also, if I'm going to have my wallet, I know that, Eh,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: you guys are trustworthy. I leave it in the car
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: a lot of the times. If I go to somewhere
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: and you know, I say that, don't rob my car.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: But do they know what your car is?
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: I don't know. People know everything now, and it's true.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm literally you could probably look me up
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: and be like, oh, there it is, got it. He's
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: got that red Mustang, got you three off the track.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: But usually I leave my wallet in because I could
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: pay with Apple Pay. But when I don't feel like
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: getting robbed that day, I bring my wallet.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: What days do you feel like getting robbed? Tuesdays, Tuesdays, Thursdays,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: Labor Day.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: I have had those moments where I literally go out
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, you know what, and this is horrible.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: I hope it never happens, but I'm like, if I
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: get robbed, I did it to myself.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: I let myself get that's a victim blame you mentality.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: Well, I think it's I don't want to carry my
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: wallet and so if it does get stolen, I'll just
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: be pretty quick about canceling my credit cards.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: If that happens.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Let's get you Immerse and let's put your wallet and
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: also a glock in there.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, so that brings it out so well, you
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: can't get robbed. You're telling me that Immerse is better
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: than my fanny pack.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. Immerse feels more deliberately ironic, whereas
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: a fanny pack feels like a deliberate fashion choice. Do
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, I wear it across my chest, if that makes
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: it any better.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: I don't always around a hip. I like that's a
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: theme park. I wore it around my hip.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I was picturing you sitting in the booth at the
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: local Mexican restaurant and sitting there and going like and
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: having to like swipe your fanny pack around so you
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: could reach into the top compartment.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: I have had plenty of, plenty of moments like that.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: So you just have it next to your move your
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: man boob.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Yes, when I'm walking around, it's like a little tiny
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: cross satchel, which is funny because it is the size
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: where it could fit a glock in it.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: I was told that from one of the people.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: I got a glock in my fany seventeen shots thirty eight.
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: If you gotta stay pack and stay packaged, you gotta
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: be stay packing in the fanny pack.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: It's the perfect size. So it's a good way to
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: hide concealed weapon. Now, whether or not I have one,
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: uh huh, that's none of our business here.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: But we need to get you on how to build
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: a safety room next.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Honestly, the more that I go out with you know,
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: and it's just crazy how much you could care for someone.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: I think about these things all the time.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Now, Oh that's so beautiful.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: Oh god, well I think about the ways I could
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: protect yeah, and it's I'm sure so many people understand this,
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: and especially oh my I say this, if you have kids,
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: I don't know how you function in a normal society.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I don't understand how they do it either, having so
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: much anxiety about someone snatching my kid up. My parents
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: used to say that all the time growing up, and
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: I'd literally be like, who would want to steal me?
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: And then people, Yes, a lot of really messed up people, truly.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: I think about that all the time. There's one weird
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: interaction that we had when I was in Arcadia. What's
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: some dude? It's just that I don't think he was
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: a threat or anything, but he was just like a
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: close talker, a boisterous man, and I'm like, bro, first off,
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: your breastings. Second off, like, just take a step back,
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: just take a step back. But it did make me think,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: I'm like, man, I care so much about my girlfriend's
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: safety and I am willing to do whatever it takes
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: to make sure that she stay safe.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I love how I'm sitting here like, well, that's so romantic,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: and I'm like the bare minimum.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Now I know it should be, but I think the
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: wild part is and I connect that back to parents.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: It's like I think about that all the time.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: Now, now I add in a thought of a family,
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh my god, what the hell am
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: I gonna be?
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Like I literally will have a glock in my fanny because.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: You're sentient adult woman, wife or girlfriend like can protect
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: themselves theoretically, but the kids, because I think about that
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: about my cats all the time, Like if someone opens
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: up the door, I'm I don't let the cat out.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Do not let the cat out. The cat's gone, because
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: the cat's gonna be gone. Maybe not Betty. Betty's my big,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: chunkie furry cat. She'll be fine. She won't make it
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: down the street. She won't want Butdella, she's gonna see
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: one wide opening to go get some sun, and she's
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: gonna be like, I'm gonna go tan see you never.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: This is what I stress about.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: When I was living with my ex at the time
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: and we had a dog, and when people would come
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: over for like a party, the only thing I cared
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: about in the damn party was like, I'm like, where's
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: the dog?
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Where's the doll? I feel the same way.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: It's such a weird stress. But I do think other
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: people understand that. Yeah, like we all have that protected barrier,
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: but that's literally like as a that's a male. Like
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: my brain goes through that all the time. Now I'm like,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: oh my god, the protector. This is running through my
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: head all the time.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: I'm going to take tekwondo. I probably will.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Actually you want to know legit though, I am going
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: to take boxing, like straight.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Up, okay, if you go box, I would like to
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: go box as well. Really, I do it atrun. I
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: used to do kickboxing in college. I mean, granted it
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: was like the woosy girl version, but I did a
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: couple of classes and I really enjoy It's a good workout.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: I would love to get back into it. Yeah, one
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: for the workout, but two I had a realization the
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: other day.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: I was like, can I fight?
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But if I ever have to get myself in
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: that position, like I want to make sure that it's
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: not just like oh, Scott, talk's a big game.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: You want to be able to deck someone? Yeah, I
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: want to be able to do something right. Yeah, you should.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I'm sure lady will think that's hot. That's what I'm saying.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: That's my fantasies. I want someone to get in a
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: bar fight over me. Really, that's my fantasy because I
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: want someone to get in a bar fight, but I
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: want him to win. If he loses, then it's not
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: my fantasy.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: Literally my thought because that it's so awkward. I had
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: a Okay, I'm not going to go into that crazy thought,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: but I was that was a question I legit asked
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend. I was like, okay, you know what I've
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: been in, Like in past relationships, people weren't always like
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: the biggest fan of violence, and I'm not that violent
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: of a guy.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: But if push comes to shove, I'm not backing out.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: It depends what the intent is, correct, you know what
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: I mean?
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: So in your head, when you play out the bar fight,
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: how does it start? Like what's the occasion that you're like,
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: that's hot?
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know, just like the thought of him throwing
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: a punch and winning. It could be over anything. It
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: could be like someone saying like, hey, you didn't tip
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: your bar tender enough and I could rely and I
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: clearly did, and then he goes not on my watch.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that's why I like hockey
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: now because I like to see him fight. Oh, but
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I don't like the WWE or what is it, w yeah,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: WWE WWE Like I don't. I don't like the intentional fighting,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: like you get off on it. There's got to be
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: a cause, whereas I feel like when I watch ice hockey,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: I'm like, there's a story. They care about their teammates,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: they're defending their teammates, they're all pushing for a common goal,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: and things just got a little heated.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: So it's not like the okay, so like UFC where
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: it's like in a cage, yeah, and they're literally just fighting.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I don't want someone to be like I'm going out
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: to fight somebody today. I want it to just be
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: a spur of the moment instinct.
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: Ah.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: So if they oh, that's so awkward because there has
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: to be somebody that loses in that moment. Not my man,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: not your man.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: And if he does not not my man anymore. Oh,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. That's why I'm going to boxing classes.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Never going to be me, I know, but this's my
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: one toxic fantasy like, I know, if it happened in
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: real life, I'd be like, ew, why are you fighting?
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Let's let's let's go to a different bar. Yeah, but
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: in my head, if I look at the guy that
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I'm dating and I feel like he would lose in
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: a bar fight, it does give me the eck.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: That's exactly okay.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: But I recognize that that's toxic. But if you're like Abby,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: why can't you find someone that you like? It's because
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: of that. That's my type.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: I don't think, Okay, well toxic. I don't know, because
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: I did ask my girlfriend that question. Is like if
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: I got in a fight, like, what would your thoughts be,
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: And it wasn't like a, oh my god, that'd be horrible.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: I would hate it.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: It was like, well, I mean, you know, just if
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: you're protecting me, yeah, I think it would be fine.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: It's yeah, what's the intention behind it?
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: Correc Yeah, I'm not going out there. I'm not the
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: one that's starting things. Yes, I'm not that drunk asshole
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: that's like bump into people and you're causing the problems.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: But I swear to god.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: You sounded like the monster from the Goonies there. You're
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: like Wan eye even that or me after two glasses
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: of wine. That's gonna be me and my brother's wedding,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be like, so, I'm gonna have nothing
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: to eat that day to be in the bridesmaid's dress,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I'm gonna be like, oh, wine,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: wine time.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: Oh that does sound so fun. Though, it sounds like
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: you could just let loose fully hopefully. I mean, I
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: hope there's no family drama that goes down at your wedding.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Oh there will be, Maybe there won't be. I wonder
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: if family drama is like leading up to the wedding.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: You know what causes a lot of problems is the
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: seating chart. Weirdly, the seating chart causes so much stress
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: and so much drama. Do you know who you're I'm
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: at the bridesmaid's table. Oh, so I'm gonna be with
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: all the other bridesmaids and their plus ones.
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: Oh that's cool.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I mean, the thing about the seating charge is it's
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: so dumb because who sits down at a wedding well
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: for dinner.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: It's like an hour.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but like, you know, you should be able.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: To conversate with the people at your table. Yes, I'm okay,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: because I know every couple struggles with that, like where
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: do we put people? I think I'll probably struggle a
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: little bit, but all at the same time, I'm gonna
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: have that in the back of my head, like I'm
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: not gonna let this take up too much time.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they'll be fine.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you could sit next to somebody you've never
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: talked to and have a conversation.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: They're gonna get out on the dance floor, They're gonna
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: get drunk, they're gonna have cake, and it's gonna be great.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: And honestly, that might actually make more sense because if
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: you've put them next well, it depends. Weddings are a
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: hit or miss, But if you put them with people
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: that they don't necessarily know, maybe they're quicker to get
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: the dance for like dance floor.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, get me out of here.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I've done somry weddings where they just sit there
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: the whole time.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: If they make friends with the people at the table,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: are they more likely to go get up and dance
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: with the people at their table? That would be the goal
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: because they feel comfortable. Yes, honestly, maybe that's the hack.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: So honestly, that's why the ceading charge is so important,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: because if you want people dancing, you.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: Want to put them with people that they don't know
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: so they get comfort. So they could dance in one
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: of those people that they don't know.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Oh, never thought about.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: There's so many couples that are listening like you guys
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: are idiots. They're absolutely not.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: That was thought process. We were just trying not to
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: start fights at the wedding.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: See.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: I like the idea of getting one of those big tables,
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: big old long tables, and everyone could just sit there
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: and it's one. It just feels very I don't know.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I have a fascination with Vikings.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: Is the last show that you watched how to build
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: a biking room? I don't know what do they what
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: did they? How to build a what's the name of
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: their boats? How to build a gorge? How to build
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: a gorge? What do they call?
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: This is going to eat at me.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: The show, though, that I'm referring to, is called The
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Last Kingdom. I highly recommend that show. Well, if you
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: like Vikings. I thought it was amazing, But you walk
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: into this room and it's like all of them sitting
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: at these long tables and they're just in dulging in
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: their wine and their gauntlets and their meat on the plate.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: That's kind of what I want my wedding to.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: Look like, like a Viking, you know what, kind of
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: like I want the wine to be getting served out
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: of big ass barrels where it's like you just tap
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: into that thing and you just let it gush.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: Those are called kegs.
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: I want kegs.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: We're getting kegs. We're getting turkey legs. Scott's getting married
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: to buffalo owings.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: I'm going to medieval times to get married.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: You're literally going to mid Honestly, would it not be
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: a great time? What rehearsal dinner vibes would be kind
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: of fun.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: I'd rather that than like putting my nose up in
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: the air and it being so neat that you don't
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: feel like you could drop a piece of sauce on
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: your pants.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: So here's you want? Like a long table? Yes, like
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: you're on a Viking ship kind of which apparently there's
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: no name. They're just called long ships.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: Long ships.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Yep, she just feels a little too on the nose.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: I think every wedding the guest tables should be circular.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Oh and I'll tell you why. Okay, because I have
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: done the long table, like the long skinny table situation
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: where it does not encourage conversation because you're you can
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: really only see the person in front of you and
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: the people next to you, and the people next to
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: you are typically in a couple, whereas if you're in
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: a big circle, you can see everybody and everyone's part
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: of everyone's a part of the conversation.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: M I want to have it where everyone's sitting on
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: the floor on pillows, then in a circle Japan.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: Now, yes, everyone's criscross applesauce.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: That does make sense because I went on a trip
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: and we had the long table, and it is true,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: like if you're only going to be able to talk
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: to those four people, because you're not gonna be able
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: to lean across the table and look all the way down,
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: you can't have that conversation.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: It's so it's not very conducive to too joy to
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: the camaraderie, to the camaraderie because listen, I've been to
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: some not great weddings, but they had circular tables, and
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: it makes you bond with everyone at that table.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: You know what the underrated part of a wedding though,
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: is that goes way too quick that I want to
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: put a lot more time into the wedding night. Oh
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: well maybe, But the cocktail hour, that's like my favorite
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: part of a wedding.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: So here's the thing I feel like think brides and
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: grooms always have an obsession with the cocktail hour, and
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: to me, that's my least favorite part of the wedding.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Why I'm always just trying to get to the reception.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Ah see.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: I love being able to, like finally kick back with
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: a glass of champagne. Huh and sit there and talk
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: to people I haven't talked to in years. Oh, let
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: me think about this last wedding and I went to
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: we got.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: To Yeah that's good stuff. Oh that's good stuff.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Because then you're just hanging out. You got the meats
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: and cheeses.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: I love a spread.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Give me some nuts, some cheese, and some meats and
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: a glass of wine. You boys.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: See, I love that. That's fantasy girl dinner. That's we're
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: on a quest. I'm with some man who hates me,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: who I eventually will fall in love with her. On
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: page two hundred and fifty for eating cheese and crusty
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: bread and we're at an inn Ah.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: It's beautiful.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: It's beautiful.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: See that's why I like that part. Now, I will say,
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I do know this. The bride and groom don't get
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: to enjoy that part. No, that's the part you actually
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: miss out on, like the whole thing.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: But who cares they got married? They won? I mean,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: now do you I'm still single? Who cares if I
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: got cheese?
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: I mean maybe the well, I don't know about this wedding,
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: but let me just take it one step further and
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: tell me if I'm going too far.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: During the wedding.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, like the actual actual wedding.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: I've had friends that have done this. Okay, so it
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: works out well a time for the bride and groom
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: to go hook up.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: That's so weird to me. I have heard that. I
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: feel like I've gotten on like a TikTok for deep
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: dive where people share stuff like that, And I'm like,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: what about like the most sentimental room. I mean, maybe
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: speaking out loud makes it makes sense, but I'm like,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: your whole family's they're watching you. You're wearing this real
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: stiff dress, You're crying. It's romantic and that's you want
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: to go like fucking a closet.
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: Maybe, you know what I mean. I don't think it's
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: because it's just so exciting. I don't know.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: It depends on how your body reacts to those moments, huh,
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: because I have seen friends didn't see them do it,
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: but I knew they did it, and it's you know whatever, like, oh,
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: it's your marriage, your.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: Wife, go ahead, they did Where did they do it?
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. Where do you go?
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Let me think on the wedding that I definitely know
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: they did it. They were very open about.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: It, but also like I feel like it as a
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: girl would ruin your hair and your makeup.
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: That's a good point, That's what I mean.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I don't want to walk in with like an eyelash
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: hanging off like oky.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: I don't wonder how this podcast is gonna go.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: But unless it's like a quickie, you know, it's just
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: like you go as you're going to change the down bomb,
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: you know, and then you go back to the party
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: just for like the fun excitement of it.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know why this is giving me the ick.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's because my literal brother is getting married this weekend.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: But the thought of you you like standing up in
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: front of your entire family and then bon't and then
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: like that getting you hard, you know what I mean
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: like and then you're like doing it in a closet
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: and then you got to go back with your whole family.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it just gives me like.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: The ick I you know what, I can't say, but
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: What, who I've never been in love, so I'm really
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: not the person who should be joking. That's true.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: It's like I think there might be a moment where
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: it's like, wait a second, you're just so infatuated with
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: your person, so excited that you're like, you know what, Yes,
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: we're gonna go bounce chick a wow wow right now.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: But I think there's like nobody here in the church.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: Well this is the Holy zacrament.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: If you have like the big old barn house and
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: there's like they're getting ready room and you just sneak
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: over there as you're going to change into your reception out.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Someone of the stables.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Honestly, though, isn't that like one of the books that you.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: All read probably see like it could probably be a
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: feature in that wedding Night in the barn Stable that sounds.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: That's the most PG sounding neurotic novel. Like I need
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: to introduce you to Ice Planet Barbarians. What the Oh
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: it's a pandemic hit.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: I think they made a joke about that in the
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: show that I was watching, and they did like an
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: animation for it that looks terrifying.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. No, they were like, unironically so good.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I don't necessarily mean that like a sexual way, but
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is really sweet, Like it's these women.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: The first book is terrifying. The first book is like
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: giving Handmaid's Tale. They like abduct them and some them die,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: and then they go to this ice planet where they
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: get infected with a parasite. Oh my, and the parasite
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: makes you want to mate with one of the aliens.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: But it's sweet because they fall in.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: Love all so long. Maybe that parasite, just maybe that's
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: what we all need, is.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: The parasite of Ice Planet Barbarian. Though maybe maybe the
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: real or maybe the what joke am I trying to make?
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm trying to say? Maybe maybe the
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: real ice plane at Barbarian was the parasite we ate
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: along the way, something along the side you'll get an
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: inserting joke there.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: So romantic. Well, I'm I hope the wedding goes really well.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I hope will it?
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: I hope yes, I mean I hope so, I hope
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: it sounds like the do you know? I think I
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: asked you this, Sorry, but I forget what is the
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: spread for food?
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: So I think the option was like almond crusted chicken
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: or sirloin, or there's a vegetarian option boom. So I
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: think that it'll be good. I trust my family not
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: to pick out gross food.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: What does your go to drink for the wedding?
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I usually drink champagne at weddings, but since I'm with
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: my family, I might want to stick with tequila. Tequila
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: is a little bit more evil, but sometimes it's just hard.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: I like something it's very easy to get at a
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: wedding because my mo is typically like I just want
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: to be on the dance floor, and so I feel
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: like champagne and white wine is just easy to get.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like white wine, and then you just gived you
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: the white wine, whereaf I'm like, can I get a margarita?
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Then it takes a minute. You're holding up the whole
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: line the whole thing. Mm hmm.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: And there's only so many of those, like those sweeter
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: drinks they could have. Yeah, I feel like those are
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: the ones that get me sick quicker. Yes, but if
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: I sip on champagne for a little bit or that
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: is weirdly enough, that is my go to now too,
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: It's like I'll do.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: It tequila soda.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I could sip on that. It's just enough
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: where you could feel it.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Now that we're thinking about it, I think I do
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: want to go with tequila.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: That'd be a fun night. That'd be a fun night.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: Like yesterday we did talk about the songs that you
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: did request you Nek and the Good Groove. Today on
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: the show we did mention like what you what you
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: wantn't want to have.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Played when I would not want to have played.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: So at the wedding. So your songs that you will
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: dance to, songs that you won't dance to though today.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: And the Oh I can't tell you what's on the
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: list of songs we are going to play. I don't
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: know that we have a Oh no, your girlfriend just
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: texted me.
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: Oh wait what oh about what we were talking about earlier?
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that ruins on my plant.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Oh no, oh, but oh did she tell you the
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: second part of this?
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: She did? But that's not that wasn't my m O.
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: Being so vague for the podcast?
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: Being vague for the podcast? I guess I can reveal nobly.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: Wait, yeah, we'll wait, wait on that.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, I have a backup plan. I think there has
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: to be other great catches. Yeah, I have a backup plan.
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: Back to the request. From that, back to the requests.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: So and I say that because I do know a
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: lot of you know, different couples have their definite play songs.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: I do that all the time on my DJ weddings.
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: But there's also been a very fascinating list of it
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: do not play songs?
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, what has been on the list?
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: Well, some people love and I I am in favor
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: of like a group dance song.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: You give, it's got to be a unifier. I agree.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know why people will be playing songs that
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: don't unify.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: The group, That's what I'm saying.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: But well, how do you feel about Okay, let me
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: go down a couple of the more popular ones, like
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: a traditional, like a Chashaw slide. Yeah, I like that
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: electric slide a little older, the Wobble Wobble.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: I like these to kind of get people in the
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: dance floor. That's exactly the point of You've got to
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: start with those while people aren't sure if they're ready
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: to get up and dance.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: Correct or you spice them in when like the DJ
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: and me, that's when I know, like, I don't usually
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: start with them, but like around song six, I'll drop
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: one in just to get the ones that have been hesitant.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Uh huh. On what was the most common song people
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: told you not to play with?
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: Cotton Eye Joe, Cotton Joe.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I love that song. I do do well. But here's
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: the thing. I love that song because I have lore
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: with that song, But I don't know that I would
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: necessarily love it if I didn't have lore.
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's understandable.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: It's just I like songs that are goofy like that
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: they don't have to do the whole thing. Yeah, give
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: me a song, like a minute of it.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows it, everyone does, and don't play the whole song, Like,
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: just play the first verse, the first chorus, and then
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: let's get out.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: Get out. That's the hardest thing though.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, so here's the song list. I think they did
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: get a band, so the priority requested ones Love Story,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift, Red Dirt Road, Curtis See the Red, White
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: and Blue, American Girl, Save a Horse, and then Alabama
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Taxia Land Delight.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: That's going to be a banger.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: We're a big SEC family, so that'll be a big song. Okay.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: Reception songs Maroon five, I won't go Home without You.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: That's so specific, go home without You. I don't know
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: that song.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: You. When you hear it, you'll recognize.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: My brother did like Marine five in high school, so
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: I guess that's not shocking. Brown Eyed Girl, Oh great,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: Jason Aldean, my kind of party. Jason Aldean when she
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: says baby, Coldplay Viva This is so my brother's list cold.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: My brother went to one cold Play concert and he
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: hasn't shut up about it since I heard Viva LaVita.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: He used to play that all the time in high school.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Love Story, Taylor Swift, Red Dirt Road. Wait, these are
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: all replays cold plays. Something just like this, Elton John
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: Tiny Dancer, Brooks and Dunn, My Maria, Leonard Skinnert, Swing Home, Alabama,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Oh there we go, Tim McGraw, something like that. Luke
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Beer never broke my heart. That's a good unifier.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: See, that's a good one. Bring the beer out to
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: the dance floor.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Luke Bryan, Country Girls, shake it for me.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: It's a good one.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: More.
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: I'm impressed with this list.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: It's definitely Harry take it, Carrie Underwood before he cheats.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know what, I could see the Bridesmaids
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: singing that one loud.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: Yep, yep.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: It could be fun.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: That's a good one to yell.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: It's fun when you get everyone on the dance floor
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: just screaming lyrics.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: I love a song that you could sing.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: So wait, okay, explain this to me. It says songs
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: not on your list for the reception question mark. So
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know if maybe these are ones they didn't
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: meant mention, and maybe the band was asking because these
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: are all great songs. Billy Joel Piano Man Whitney. He said,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I want to dance.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: With somebody that you can't say no to that one.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Backstreet Boys, I want it that way. These are all
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: songs I love.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Okay, maybe it is the band asking if you want
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: these in these in the set list?
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: Interesting because they probably know them because they are very popular.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Wedding songs.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's the last one. Oh wait, here's more. Yeah,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: and then just like more a lot of like classic
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be fun.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: So it's not so much like a shaking that ass
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: kind of wedding.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of country music and a lot of
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: cold Play apparently, which you know what cold Play is universal? Yo,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: the people love cold Play.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: I try to think of sometimes I try to put
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: songs for the dinner specifically. That'd probably be more of
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: my cold Play vibe. Probably maybe you could just sit there,
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: have you a nice steak while you're listening to Viva
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: La beat Up whatever it's called.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: That's so funny to me because it's like such like
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: not a wedding song to me, weird. I can just
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: picture my brother in the back like put his hands up.
• 40:35
  Speaker 4: Like.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: And as long as long as they're happy, well, then
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: I guess everyone's happy.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: That's the goal.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: That'll be fun.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Well, enjoy it, Abby. I know we have some more.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: Before we actually get out of here, but it'll be
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: a fun wedding. It'll be fun for me to have.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Oh I mean, I'm gonna have fun with it. I'm
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: gonna just enjoy the fourth, I'm gonna go down to
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: the beach bars and have myself a hell of a
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: Fourth of July.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: I wish I was doing that.
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: You're going to a wedding. I know that's gonna be
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: fun enough.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: It'll be fun, are you guys? Oh?
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: Are there going to be fireworks?
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: We didn't pay for fireworks, but I can imagine somebody
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: will have fireworks close by. Yeah, maybe love sparklers. I
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: I was like, what a perfect tie in. Was there
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: a reason this would be my last question? Then we'll
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: get out of here and go to a meeting.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: Was there a reason why your brother and fiance wanted
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: to do it on the fourth of July? Are they
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: that patriotic? No?
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: So, for whatever reason, this was just one of the
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: dates that worked for them. And I think they got
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: a little bit of a discount for choosing July fourth.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: I think it.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: Actually works in your favor, though, because usually people have
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: off that Friday.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean is I was like, well, that's
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: kind of fun, you know what. I was a proponent
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: of it. I'm like you, everybody wants plans for the
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: fourth It's like New Year's Eve. Nobody typically has plans,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: but they all want something fun to do, so I
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: felt like it worked out. Well.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: See, that's the one that's controversial. Like a wedding on.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: New Year's Eve, I went to a New year Y budding.
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: It was probably lit.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, well I have several stories associated with
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: that weddy Okay, very fun.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: All right, Well, maybe we'll hear some of those in
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: the end of this week.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: If I guess it is the last time to get
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: on the girls getaway trip, that will.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Stop being a loser. Come hang on this in Tampa.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: That's like the last time we get to even talk
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: about it, I think at this point, because everything's gonna
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: be booked up. Looking up at the Abbey, Murphy Einsta,
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: at the not the Scott Tablin, that's Scott Tablin, and
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: at Magic ninety four nine for all the other station stuff.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: Thank you for being part of the podcast. If you
• 42:21
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• 42:23
  Speaker 2: love to see it. I'll see if there's any on
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: one of the Love Island episodes. Oh there it is,
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: let's see I got one.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: Would they say, oh, see, perfect.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Comment, this is fantastic. Let me see if I could
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: read from Charles. Charles wrote, first of all, how to
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Build a Sex Room is actually a great show. It's
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: really good, like Home Design show, fantastic, highly recommend Yes.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: And also Scott is right, you don't know what you
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: don't know? Always Taylor learning, people always stay learning. I
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: don't know that last part. Men, Charles just been like
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: that type of I think it was the type. But yes,
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: always stay learning. I'm right there with you, Charles, thank
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: you for that. And the other comment was, since I
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: no longer have The Bird Show or listen to any
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: other radio shows, you all are the only way I
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: hear about anything pop culture anymore.
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: So I love when you talk about all those things.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: They keep me in the loop.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: You gotta get on the Love Island train. I did, well,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: it's what all the people are talking about.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Let me finish this first episode of Love Island. I
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: hopefully have time tonight. I went to watch it and
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: it was like an hour and a half of the
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: recent episode.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's a movie, it's a show. It's
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: so good.
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: All right, then we'll talk a little Love Island tomorrow. Okay, Bye,