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S3 #4 Daddy Issues · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio is the Ben and Ashley I Almost
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  Speaker 1: Famous Podcast. I've been I'm Ashley, and we are excited
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  Speaker 1: to be with you this week. We have a great
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  Speaker 1: show prepared for you. Actually, I have a lot to
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  Speaker 1: catch up on. I've actually missed, actually a lot. I
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  Speaker 1: haven't talked to her and it seems like I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: three or four days. Actually, how you doing? It has
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  Speaker 1: felt so long. It's only been seven days since we
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  Speaker 1: sat here together actually in studio, and I've been great.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a pretty relaxing week for me. Actually, I've
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  Speaker 1: be't had one of those for a while. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: seen you since I was and we can't get into details. Um,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, I guess we talked the day after
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  Speaker 1: lip sync battle and uh, and that was the last
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  Speaker 1: moment I've been able to lay eyes on you. And
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  Speaker 1: at that time I still had um makeup on my
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  Speaker 1: face from the night before. So this I promised today
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  Speaker 1: my makeup is a little less than last time. Well
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  Speaker 1: tweet me guys, um, Ashley, I go to tell me
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  Speaker 1: what you think about guyliner, because I think Ben rocked it.
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  Speaker 1: And back into late two thousand's when it used to
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  Speaker 1: be a more common thing. I was so into it.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's so sexy. I mean, I want to
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  Speaker 1: miss some to you and uh, And I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: if I do this or not. I'm kind of into it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: did in the mirror and was like did. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if you noticed. But the next day when I
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  Speaker 1: came into studio and everybody's like, oh, here's some stuff
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  Speaker 1: to help you get it off, and I was a
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  Speaker 1: little hesitant. I was like, oh, it's not working. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's you know, it burns my eyes. I didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to take it off. I knew I had an excuse
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  Speaker 1: to have it on. I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, why does it become a thing again? And
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  Speaker 1: then Nick uh posted a picture of Wells, Nick and
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  Speaker 1: I at lip sync battle right after I got off stage,
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  Speaker 1: and I read you the comments and they're hilarious. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just everybody's super confused and hating on me for
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  Speaker 1: having guyliner on. And there's a lot of things when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to social media that kind of offend me
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  Speaker 1: and make my skin crawls' super upset. This one I
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  Speaker 1: was I was oddly confident in So I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I just had to admit that to you and everybody listening. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad that you do feel confident in makeup because
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  Speaker 1: you look great in it. And uh, is that illegal?
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  Speaker 1: Like quote illegal um of Nick to post because I
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  Speaker 1: want to post the picture of you with guyliner on.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, no, I don't think so. I mean, let's
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  Speaker 1: think that it was a blast, right, it was a
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  Speaker 1: great show. I had one of the best experiences I've
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  Speaker 1: ever had. I think as long as we don't give
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  Speaker 1: away the details, Um, I think showing that kind of
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  Speaker 1: behind the scenes of it would be great. I mean
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  Speaker 1: I won't. I hope everybody watches it because it was
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  Speaker 1: a really good time. I think Rachel and myself really
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  Speaker 1: went all out. Um and so as long as nothing's
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  Speaker 1: spoiled and and just a picture shared, why not what
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  Speaker 1: we can apologize later? Well you know what picture I
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  Speaker 1: will be using now to promote this week's podcast once
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  Speaker 1: the uh one of you like in rock Star Attire.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's awesome, um be, I'll be excited to see you. Know,
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  Speaker 1: it's been a good week for me, Ashley. I I
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  Speaker 1: just launched we talked about it. Last week, I just
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  Speaker 1: lost Generous Coffee Company UM and UH. I was actually
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  Speaker 1: in Warsaw, Indiana with myself and the two other founders
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  Speaker 1: UM this weekend kind of preparing for our launch and
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  Speaker 1: and obviously the stuff that happened in Vegas put a
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  Speaker 1: huge UM, I guess constraint on a loss we didn't
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  Speaker 1: on our launch. We didn't want to be inappropriate. We
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  Speaker 1: also want to respect UM, the victims and the scenaire
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  Speaker 1: at hand, and so now Generous Coffee Company is not
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  Speaker 1: only giving profits to people in Honduras for jobs, but
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  Speaker 1: we're also going to split the UH split the profits
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  Speaker 1: up between for the victims and Las Vegas as well.
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  Speaker 1: So it's a big week for me. UM. I've been
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  Speaker 1: working on Jennas for a long time, but I also
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  Speaker 1: want to share my my small town of worse On, Indiana,
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  Speaker 1: where I grew up. We did a fundraiser this weekend
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  Speaker 1: for Humanity Hope and raised thirty eight thousand dollars for
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  Speaker 1: this organization. So I am I am writing high right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty jacked and in Indiana came out once again
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  Speaker 1: in support of something great. Ben, You're killing it. I
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  Speaker 1: need to order my Generous coffee and put some pumpkin
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  Speaker 1: creamer in it. And I think all you do need
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  Speaker 1: to do that too, that you haven't ordered yet, that
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  Speaker 1: hurts a little bit. No, I know, I'm ordering it
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  Speaker 1: right now. Is this big? Well? Actually, you can go
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  Speaker 1: to Generous Movement dot com and buy your coffee today.
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  Speaker 1: Look at that. Look at that. You just made a
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  Speaker 1: great transition. Speaking of transitions, we should probably talk about
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  Speaker 1: Peter joining the Winter Games. He is the first one's
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  Speaker 1: been a officially announced. Um of course, per usual, Mike
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  Speaker 1: Flies has been tweeting up the wazoo this week, teasing
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  Speaker 1: and teasing about more contestant releases but our announcements, but
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  Speaker 1: he has yet to do so it's been like a
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  Speaker 1: week or is like Peter's it Now I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: tell you who's who else is in it? And now
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you who else is in it
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  Speaker 1: and hasn't dropped any name. So do either of you
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  Speaker 1: know any more that we can share with people listening? Like,
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  Speaker 1: what is it? Oh? Ben? Do you know? No? Definitely,
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  Speaker 1: I can, I can definitely. Here, I do have a
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  Speaker 1: question before I share that the details of the show, Actually,
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  Speaker 1: is there any chance that your name will be announced
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  Speaker 1: for Winter Games. Oh, I have no idea. So there's
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  Speaker 1: a chance. Oh, I don't know. There's a chance. Is
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  Speaker 1: there a chance that your name would be dropped? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: there's a chance. There's a chance. How can we do? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So this is what I know about Winter Games so far.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a great show. I think
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be exciting and fun. I think it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be um a little more um, less intense than Paradise
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  Speaker 1: and The Bachelor and The Bachelor at but also have
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  Speaker 1: this really good, um a feel to us. What what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying is um bachelor franchise from all of the world. Right,
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  Speaker 1: there's a Bachelor of Australia, there's a Bachelor Canada, there's
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  Speaker 1: a Bachelor Age like, there's there's Bachelor's all over um
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  Speaker 1: the globe. They're gonna all come into one location, um
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  Speaker 1: and compete against each other in an Olympic type and
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  Speaker 1: Olympic type events. Now, the details of the dating portion
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  Speaker 1: or if people are going to be introduced to each
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  Speaker 1: other from different parts of the world, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: that side. But all I do know is that it
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  Speaker 1: won't just be people that we recognize from the United
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  Speaker 1: States Bachelor franchise. It will be people of the World,
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  Speaker 1: which I think is so cool, and it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: a blast. We're gonna I mean, it's gonna be a
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  Speaker 1: lot of fun to watch and and I actually I
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  Speaker 1: hope you're on it because it would be excited. Well,
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  Speaker 1: we'll see who would you guys like to kiss if
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  Speaker 1: you were on it. Um, I'm I'm being the non
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  Speaker 1: Ashley I and I'm going to say I'm open to everyone.
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  Speaker 1: That's insane. Um, I I have you know, I've been
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  Speaker 1: kind of googling a little bit and uh, I notice
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  Speaker 1: and and this says just me me, but the Australian
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor seems to have some people that are just incredibly attractive,
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  Speaker 1: Like it is wild, So I'm kind of keep my
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  Speaker 1: my my eyes open. I don't even know if I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be in on this show, but I'll be excited
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  Speaker 1: to kind of hear what happens. I would love. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: how cool of a story would it be if, like
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  Speaker 1: Peter meets somebody from The Australian Bachelor and they fall
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  Speaker 1: in love and their story is a little bit bigger
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  Speaker 1: than we could have ever expected. I think that's if
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  Speaker 1: you did do it. Do you feel ready to kiss someone? Amy,
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  Speaker 1: That's a great question. Um do I feel just kiss? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I I think so. I mean I would
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  Speaker 1: assume so, I guess for me, Um, kissing carries weight,
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  Speaker 1: but if you know, it's kind of like hand holding too,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I don't. I don't know if it's a
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  Speaker 1: little bit more intimate. Um, but I think I think
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready. Yeah. I mean I feel pretty good, like
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a pretty good spot. I'm cruising along. Life's good,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm busy. The Almost Famous podcast is
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  Speaker 1: a great little thing for me. So, and I'm still working. So.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm feeling pretty confident in life right now.
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  Speaker 1: And it might be the guyliner I were last week here. Um,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm feeling pretty nice, all right. I think Ben's
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  Speaker 1: been kissing girls. I don't think that. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you can take that from what I just said at all.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing I just said goes back to I've been kissing girls.
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  Speaker 1: That just says, you know, actually, if if the right
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  Speaker 1: thing came up, am I ready to move back into
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  Speaker 1: that world? Um? I think so you've got your swag back?
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  Speaker 1: What do you think do you get think I got
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  Speaker 1: my swag back? Yes? Oh it's been so obvious. You're
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  Speaker 1: like doing the higgy all over the place. It's ridiculous. Well, um,
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  Speaker 1: so we got Winter Games coming up. Um, that's going
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  Speaker 1: to be incredibly exciting. And I'm glad Peter was announced first.
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  Speaker 1: I mean he obviously we were hoping to see him
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  Speaker 1: as the next Bachelor. Um. I want to talk about what,
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  Speaker 1: like how Peter is going to be a great American
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  Speaker 1: team leader. I just think he's like the face of
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  Speaker 1: the American team these cats in America escot is, isn't he.
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  Speaker 1: I Mean he has he kind of has everything going
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  Speaker 1: for him to be the face. Um, and I mean
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  Speaker 1: what a face it is. We we noticed it in
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  Speaker 1: Vegas when we're with him a few weeks ago. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: The guy is is just the I mean We're sitting
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  Speaker 1: having lunch one day and I was talking to him
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  Speaker 1: about his past career and he was talking about how
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  Speaker 1: he traveled in the world for his past career and
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  Speaker 1: how you know you meet all these great people. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, man, what did you do? You must have
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  Speaker 1: been you know, an executive somewhere or something. Goes now
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  Speaker 1: as a model as I got. That makes sense, That's
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  Speaker 1: that's completely truth. People like me don't get the opportunity
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  Speaker 1: to travel the world because we look at people like
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  Speaker 1: me travel the world because I pay for it, um
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  Speaker 1: Or you're doing very good things around the world with
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  Speaker 1: all your charity work, I hope. So no, we're you know,
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  Speaker 1: I hope. So now that's been, that's been a blasphemy
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  Speaker 1: um and it's going to keep going, and Bachelor Nation
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  Speaker 1: has been you know, maybe I should do that right now.
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  Speaker 1: Let me give a shout out and I thank you
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  Speaker 1: to everybody out there listening to this podcast because you
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  Speaker 1: have been very supportive of of the things that actually
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  Speaker 1: I really care about, including this podcast. And uh, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I knew a couple of weeks ago we had a
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  Speaker 1: little rough go at it and actually I were a
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  Speaker 1: little down and out and you did nothing, UM but
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  Speaker 1: support and love on us and say, hey, we like
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  Speaker 1: what you're doing, please keep doing it, which makes this
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  Speaker 1: a lot more fun. And it makes me walk into
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  Speaker 1: UM either studio or to an office every day or
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  Speaker 1: every week and call Um Ashley excited to talk to
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  Speaker 1: her about all this going on in Bastinations. So thank
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  Speaker 1: you to the listeners, UM, share about our podcast, tweet
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  Speaker 1: about our podcasts. We need more listeners so we can
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  Speaker 1: keep doing this for a long long time. Yeah. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I do want to talk about how interesting it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be that Peter in his you know, Bachelor Winter
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  Speaker 1: Games lead season will in a way be going up
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  Speaker 1: against Ari in his season, because we don't know the
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  Speaker 1: actual details whether or not The Bachelor The Bachelor will
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  Speaker 1: be airing during the actual NBC Winter Games, Um, but
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  Speaker 1: the numbers should be like thought of as comparable, Like
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  Speaker 1: will the Winter Games lead my Peter get comparable ratings
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  Speaker 1: to Ari's Bachelor season, and then they'll be able to
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  Speaker 1: see if they made the right decision with the Bachelor.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's a great idea. I think
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  Speaker 1: that's a great point, um. And I wonder if that's
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  Speaker 1: why Peter is the first time announced. But that brings
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  Speaker 1: me to to the conversation that about Ari, because I
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  Speaker 1: haven't heard much from from Aris filming so far. Usually
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  Speaker 1: we can get some hints and we get some some spoilers, um,
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  Speaker 1: but not too many people are talking about it, and
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  Speaker 1: so I actually want to ask you, is that because
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  Speaker 1: they're keeping it very secret this year or do people
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  Speaker 1: just not care so far. I feel like people don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like super connected to him currently, so they're not
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  Speaker 1: stalking he ever tell you though, they I know for
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  Speaker 1: a fact they are working extra hard to keep spoilers
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  Speaker 1: to a minimum and keep everything as top secret as possible.
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  Speaker 1: It's awesome, So they're working hard to make sure pictures
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  Speaker 1: don't leak, information doesn't leak, that everything is kept under
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  Speaker 1: wraps so that when we watch, we're all surprised instead
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  Speaker 1: of knowing everything every season. I say this is gonna
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  Speaker 1: be the season where I don't find out who the
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  Speaker 1: actual winner is beforehand, and maybe because I'm not connected
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  Speaker 1: to Aria at all, I will be able to be
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  Speaker 1: surprised like a regular fan. Yeah, I mean that's it,
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  Speaker 1: and I hope people watch. I haven't heard many. I
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  Speaker 1: just don't know a lot about Ari, but I'm excited
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  Speaker 1: to see, you know, how it goes. This is the
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  Speaker 1: old format kind of you know, right, they bring in
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  Speaker 1: a random person it was talented and ready to find love,
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  Speaker 1: and we would watch them explore that and get to
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  Speaker 1: know them as the season goes on. So I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of excited to see his complete story play out. Um
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  Speaker 1: during the Bachelor, But I still am biased and and
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  Speaker 1: I think everybody knows that I really like Peter and
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  Speaker 1: I kind of wish I could be watching him, um
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  Speaker 1: just because I think he really does want to find somebody.
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  Speaker 1: And I think the Bachelorette was just not at the
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  Speaker 1: right format for that, but I think the Bachelor could
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  Speaker 1: have been. When Peter came out of the pool in Vegas,
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  Speaker 1: it was like Aquaman, like I don't know how to explain,
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  Speaker 1: it went so motioned my vision goblery like it was
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  Speaker 1: literally like I remember thinking, is he Aquaman? I will
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  Speaker 1: say that I'm like very much a face girl. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not a huge body person. I'm not like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: his body, but seriously, oh my god, his body. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not, Oh he has a great body. Hey, hey, hey, Ben,
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  Speaker 1: I have a question for you that I asked a
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  Speaker 1: lot of guy friends. When you first meet a girl,
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  Speaker 1: do you know it's her face or her body? First?
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  Speaker 1: Her face? Definitely her eyes. I think it's the eyes
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  Speaker 1: that you know. I'm a big eyes person. I think
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  Speaker 1: that like the eyes can really draw you in. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gonna lie. I mean, obviously, somebody
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  Speaker 1: that's in shape and Um, you know treats themself. Wells
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  Speaker 1: is important to me, but it's not. It's not my
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  Speaker 1: first thing. It's really the eyes and then um, people
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  Speaker 1: can get more or less attractive just by even the
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  Speaker 1: first couple of words that they say. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: I guess Amy, and actually I want to ask you, then,
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  Speaker 1: um to put you on the spot. When I walked
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  Speaker 1: out of the pool, how do you feel she is
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  Speaker 1: recovering from that fever beautifully? Oh right, with the moment
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  Speaker 1: of silence made things awkward for me. I'm blushing on red. Um.
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  Speaker 1: That swagger that I said I had is now in question.
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  Speaker 1: Your body fell in line between Wells and Peter. All right,
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  Speaker 1: that's enough, Ashley, you look great. I like your chest hair. Alright, Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: you're not making this any better. Here here's the deal. Um,
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  Speaker 1: somebody does have some swagger who is in great shape.
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  Speaker 1: We've just watched their journey of of love on last
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  Speaker 1: year's Bachelor. We want to give them a big congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: That's Nick Vile. Um. Nick Vile was just announced that
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  Speaker 1: he is acting on ABC's Speechless with Many Driver. That
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  Speaker 1: is a huge, huge win for Nick. I know this
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  Speaker 1: is something that he's desired to do. Uh. He was
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  Speaker 1: obviously a big, a big friend of the podcast, and
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  Speaker 1: so we all want to, at almost famous sake, congratulations Nick,
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  Speaker 1: and we will be watching um to see how that goes.
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  Speaker 1: Let's try calling him. Why don't you guys do a
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  Speaker 1: commercial while we try calling? Okay? Great? I do know
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  Speaker 1: that Nick filmed his episode last Monday, and it's cool
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  Speaker 1: for him because Mini Driver was kind of geeking out
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  Speaker 1: over him because he's a big Bachelor fan. Who would
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  Speaker 1: have thought that's wild? I mean, how cool? I mean
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  Speaker 1: I think for Nick Um, this is just maybe the
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  Speaker 1: start he's he's been very patient Um kind of pursuing
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  Speaker 1: this acting career, and we've all kind of made fun
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  Speaker 1: of him and laughed at him along the way. I
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  Speaker 1: know I have. I don't want to hide that, but
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  Speaker 1: ultimately we want to see him succeed, and so if
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  Speaker 1: this is the start of him succeeding, I will congratulate
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  Speaker 1: him and celebrate that, and I hope we can get
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  Speaker 1: him on the line. If we can't, then I hope
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  Speaker 1: everybody out there listening will reach out to Nick via
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  Speaker 1: social media however they can and say congratulations. But you
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  Speaker 1: know what's going to get Nick really far in this career.
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  Speaker 1: It's his beautiful teeth. That's wow. Actually that was that
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  Speaker 1: was a winner. Keep going. Um. He may use Quip,
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  Speaker 1: a new toothbrush that Ben and I have been using,
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  Speaker 1: and the studies suggest that having good oral health like
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• 18:21
  Speaker 1: the first time preparing for today. And today you gotta
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to try to sell somebody something I
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  Speaker 1: equipped toothbrush today for many many reasons. Um, Hey, Ashley,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you're able to get nick on
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: the line, and we weren't but we do have another guess.
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  Speaker 1: He is the star of Who the heck are You?
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: This week? Ben, say it correctly, who the heck are you?
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: It's been even sane, Vinny, even insane. Who the heck
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: are you? Yeah? I don't know. I mean, I don't
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: know if that's a good thing. You guys just pulled
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: me off for this segment or that thing. Vinny. Last week,
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: when we knew that we were going to have you
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: for this segment, we basically were like, well, this is silly.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows who Viney is. But Vinny, I can tell
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: you this. I forget your real last dame. Vn't e
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: ven tire Ben tire, un tier up vent Tira. Well,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: it's just insane for me now because that is your
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: DJ name. I'm down with that. Um it was okay,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: So people do know who you are. We've watched you
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: in your little exploration of life over the last year
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: and a half. Now, but for all the listeners out
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: there that do need a little catch up on your
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: life and feel free to give a little Shameles plug
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: or whatever you're doing today, how did how do people
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: know you? And how would they know you today? Well, then,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: first of all. Nice to meet you, man, I never
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: met you in person. Well, um, yeah, I was done.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: I got introduced to the Bachelor world and Joe Joe's season. Um,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: you know, I made it about halfway through there and
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: then you know, life took over and when on Paradise
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: um season three, I believe it was, and had a um,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: a little mixed up in a relationship with Izzie and
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: I kind of went home early and then um, the
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: tide took me back out and brought me back in
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: on last season of Paradise. So I was with that
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: whole um, you know, that season with the controversy and
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. So and now I'm just, um, you know,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: traveling the world DJ and doing what I loved. Um.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: You know, at the time when I went in the
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: first I was I was also a barber. I was
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: cutting hair, and I kind of lost my passion for it.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: So I just wanted to follow my dream and um,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: you know, toward the world and nightclubs and travel level
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: and meet new people. So that's what I've been doing
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: since then. Hey, Vinny, meeting new people and traveling so
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: much and having Bachelor groupies. You have a crazy fan
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: experiences like I know you're no in sync, but anybody
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: ever try to like sneak into your room service try well.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I mean there's always like little situations where, you know,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: you start returning to the same city, and then you know,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: when you leave there, like woll I this one girl
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: kept staring at me and like really awkward the all night.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: And then you go back there the next year and
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: the same girl is there saying like, all right, whoa,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: this is not a you know that that wasn't just
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: a one time thing to start to become a coincidence.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: So you know, I don't I don't do good with
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the people that lurk in the corner, you know, if
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: like you want to come out to see me, um,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: you know, just trying up a conversation, you know. And
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I don't do well when people like take a picture
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: of me rather than with me. I always find that
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: a little awkward, like you're like a like an animal
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: in a cage. I always kind of like break the
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: ice and be like, let's let's take a picture together,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Like I don't want anything to picture of me. Just
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: kind of weird. What's the best way for a girl
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: at one of your shows to get your attention? Um,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: one time, there's I was in l A actually last month,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: and I guess she like wrote on like on her phone,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: she wrote you are daddy, And I put her phone
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: number right up right up to my face right when
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I was DC. I thought that was pretty clever. What
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: does that mean? You are? Time out? Guys. I need
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: my second here because this brings up a great point. Um.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: It just came up with me this weekend. What in
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: the heck does somebody calling me daddy? Me explain this?
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, it's a pretty it's a
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: pretty vague thing. Maybe they need a father figure. Maybe
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: they just wanted to be dominated as daddy. I mean,
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: so some girl comes up to you and she's obviously
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: attracted to you, and she calls you you are daddy.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Here's my number. Like for me, I get a very
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: like protective mindset. Then it's like, if you refer to
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: me as your as your father a figure, I want
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: to care for you and look out for you. I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: don't want you hitting on me. That just makes things
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: weird and man, it a low awkward. I guess I
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: could see it for me or and I don't I
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: think in that in that situation I don't know. I
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: think she just wanted to call me daddy. And I
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: don't know if it was in a nurturing way or
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: in some other kind of way. All right, well, we
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: need everybody out there listening to the almost famous podcast
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: right now to tweet at us, to Ashley and I
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: and that Vinnie and let us know when the heck
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: you mean when you call somebody daddy in the most
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: appropriate way possible. Hey, Vinny, which bachelor girl who you
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: haven't dated on the show yet? Would you want to
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: call you daddy? Which girl? That's a great question. Call
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: my daddy? Um, that is a great question. I gotta
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: think about this. I don't know if we've got enough
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: time for this. Wait, we're good at awkward time. Free
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: call me daddy. Um, all in the anticipation continues to grow.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Come on, you're just trying to be careful, now, that's
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: the problem. Um, I don't know. I'm trying to. I'm
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: just gonna give you a little word of advice. You
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: can fail and really mess up on this show, and
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: people are gonna care for just a little bit of time,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: So you're okay to say it. Apologize later. I think
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I think somebody that I missed on Paradise that I
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: thought it was pretty cute, was Daniel l Okay? Okay?
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: So I mean, are we shipping this one? Ashley Nony,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: my cousin wanted to date you so bad, but she's not.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: I really wouldn't say that. She's mentally in this space
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: to start a relationship with one of my friends. So
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: I didn't give you don't want her, You don't want
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: you don't want her? Call me daddy? Is that what
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: you're saying? She's gorgeous former model. Just don't think I
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: want to, you know, put you in that position right now? Okay,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: maybe one day, but one day next time? Wiping him
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: up Ashley way to get him excited about I'd happily
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: send you a picture of her and you can decide
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: whether or not you want a lot of text message. Hey,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: I got this gorgeous friend who has such a sweet
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: and big heart, and she has such a good right
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: and the and the best morals, and all she wants
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: is to care for somebody and to have somebody care
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: for her back. But m and she really care likes you,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: and she finds you very attecked it, But I'm not
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: gonna do it. Um, it's right now and with Anny
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I got, I got a couple of questions for you. Um, okay,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: So one is I asked this questions a few weeks
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: ago to Daniel when he came on the podcast. Um,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I've seen these videos that you put out there, and
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: then asked him, just out of my own curiosity, is
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: do you have somebody literally folle you around with a
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: video camera at all times of your life? Well? I
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: mean I wouldn't say all times of my life. Usually
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: want to have a big month planned out where I
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: have shows like, you know, three times a weekend. You know,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I have one of my buddies down here in South Florida.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: He's been kind of seeming me since about two thousand
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: and fourteen with all like my actually probably early two
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: thousand and twelve, but um, feeling a lot of my
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: bigger gigs. Um. At first, it kind of was just
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I wanted to make a little short, um little promo
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: videos just to show people that, um, you know what,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I could do it and my cloud. I can show
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: my my personality that I'm not just a DJ, that
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I'm not just pressing buttons. So I like these videos
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: to kind of show more of who I am as
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: an old, real person and then you know, once I
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: had filming me for about uh years now they listen,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: I want to turn all this footage into like a
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: mini documentary of how you know, I was, you know,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: djaying some of the smaller venues and then I went
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: on a reality show and how my life has changed
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: from that, you know, trials and tribulations, and so I
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: just want to kind of get all the footage that
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I can and then hopefully within another year kind of
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: put out like a little short, you know, documentary of
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: maybe even adding my upbringing in there, and then um
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: to now you know, current times. So it kind of
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: so to answer your question, yeah, I mean maybe sixty
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: percent of the time when I am traveling. Yet my
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: buddy Jared is with me. He's a good kind of mine,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: so that makes it easier to just act naturale and camera.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: So yeah, has it been good? I mean, has it
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: been good for your career to kind of highlight that. Yeah,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: it has. Like I said, I owe people, you know,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: sometimes it's hard when you go on a reality show.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: They think that you're just you know, pulling like a
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: Paris hilt in. And now you're just trying to be
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: a DJ, but you know I've been I've been working
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: in nightclubs in dejaying and you know, putting together events
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: since probably two thousand seven. So um yeah, And that's
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: why I want to do this, just to show people
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: that I am just you know, on a pretty pretty
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: cool person to hire to have your nightclub. That I'm
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: not just you know, showing up her appearance, but I
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: can also you know, get the party going. So it
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: has helped those little promote videos. Speaking of that, what music,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: what artists really get the party going? I would have
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: to say, and you even for myself, I think Drake
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: is always the go to move Like if you want
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: like a hip hop song, yeah, that would get people
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: go on. And then now I think that song that
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: all the Girls is that the Cardi B song? Was it?
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Kodak um Kodak Yellow cordad Black? I forgot the name
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: of it. If you if you were to think about
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Ashley and I in your club, it's just the two
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: of us were in the middle of the dance floor
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: and you're the DJ, and and you need to get
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: us going. When you think of Ashley and I, what
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: song do you play thank you. I think I actually
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: loves that you tailor soft song because I've seen a
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: singer in our snapchat like every day, thank you, thank
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: you performing quite well. Right then, thing on the boat,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: she can sing it and she she has no same
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: you know what, actually likes to do. And it just
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: makes me feel so awkward inside. Um. She she liked
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: to singing in her camera, like you put their camera
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: to her face and she sings, and she like kind
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: of does this like posing thing as she sings. Um,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: but she knows all the words and so it kind
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: of looks like a music video when you watch it back. Um,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: it's something I could never pull off. I can't imagine
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: even doing that and how I would look doing it,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: and actually can make it at work, But when you
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: watch it happen, Oh, it's it's hard. Only to Taylor.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: You have to do the lips and the pause and
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: like looking to the side and like kind of squinting
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: her eyes a little bit. And I'm doing it right
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: now that you guys could see it so weird. Look
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: what you made me do? Look what you made me
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: do it? Oh my god, every second of this. Well, wait,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: what about Ben? You got to answer the last question
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: about what would you play for Ben Ben? Oh Man, Ben,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: I'm going on a limb here. I would have to
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: kind of go with like one of the classic songs
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: that everybody knows you're like, a classic rock song like
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: shot Do. I love that song. That's such a good song.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: He really gets me going to it really gets me going. Man.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: That's weird that you said that. Hey, going back to
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise? Have you fallen in love on Paradise?
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Have I fall in love? Um? I wouldn't say that
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I was love, but I can definitely see that I
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: was heading in the right direction last time I was there. Yeah,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: you mean last summer with Izzy. Yeah. Yeah, such an
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: unfortunate situation, but I think you probably grew from it.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: You learned a lot about yourself in relationships. Yeah. I
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: think I was just leaving as you were coming in.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Uh No, I was there for a little while with you,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: and I told you that if Wells wasn't going to
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: come in, that I was going to give you my rose.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: Oh boy, Yeah, we're talking about that. Let's talk about
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Ashley that I told him. I was like, I know
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: that it's not going very well for you and it's
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: not going very well for me. So if the guy
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: that I think is really cute doesn't walk in, then
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: then your roses your rose, My roses yours second hand
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: really realizing and um and she's great. She uh, I
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: hear great things about it. I haven't got to know
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: is he very well? But he was on the season
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor that I was a part of. Um yeah, yeah,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: I didn't get to know her well, but I think
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: from everything I hear and from emby that knows her, um,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: it just sounds like she's an awesome person, which again
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: reiterates my thought that those women that were on my
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: season Ambassador were a crazy good group of women. I
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: agree with that. If Anny, we are out of time,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: but we really appreciate you coming and explaining your job
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: and who the heck you are beyond this franchise. That
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: is who I am. If you're ever de jailing in Denver,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: let me know. I'll come out and I will I'll
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: head bob and and groove and move to any music
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: you're playing. Right, sounds good? Then thanks for guys. Well,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: you know when what you do when you're about to
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: hit the club, you go shopping, do you? I? I
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: don't think I go shopping. Um, maybe because I'm just
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: too lazy, um, But actually I know that you really
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: really enjoy the stores. You know, sometimes I know where
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: to go and one of the places that I know
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: to go is Liotote because they helped me be more fashionable.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: But they help me because they have these stylists. The
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: one time box is full of stylus selected fashion that
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: is hand picked for you, and you just like let
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: them know through this little question answer what your personal
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: style is and they conveniently deliver these outfits right to
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: your door. Their personal stylists find looks that you're gonna
• 32:43
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  Speaker 1: Moving into one of our favorite segments, one that we
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: skim over a lot, and and we don't want to
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: do that anymore. We really do care about the emails
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: that you're writing into us. We've been um reading through
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: emails and emails and emails over the last couple of weeks,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: and we've pulled out just a couple today to to
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: kind of to talk about. And so Ashley, with that,
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I want to lead you into point out some of
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: these emails that we think really stand out. Okay, the
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: first one is from Sophia hi Bett and Ashley. I
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: like to think I have a decent head on my
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: shoulders and I'm not want to over exaggerate or get
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: to ahead of myself. So I don't understand why some
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: guys feel the need to hide their feelings or just ghost.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: To give an example, I recently came back into contact
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: with a co worker we actually matched on bumble. We
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: met up for drinks and dinner one night and we
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: had a great time, and that was that. We left
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: with the exchange of a side I'd hug and him saying, uh, yeah,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: let's do it again sometime side hug sometime Did I
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: do something wrong here? Since that happy hour slashed dinner,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: I haven't heard from him. I know, Ben, you are
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: recently single and probably not approaching the dating scenes so much.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: But I would really enjoy hearing an episode on how
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: you deal with this dating culture we're living in. Actually,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I'm curious as to how you go about meeting people.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Do you deal with the ghosting and lack of communication
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: as well? Sophia, I have good email in this email? Yeah, okay, Well,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: let's spend some time here. Um, and let's not let's
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: not hesitate. So let's start with the first couple of
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: sentence there. Um, why do you guys feel like they
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: have the ghost Let's let's not just make this about guys.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Let's make it about guys and girls, because I think
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: it goes both ways. Probably, Uh, we need to talk
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: about it in in a universal sense. So here's the deal.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: I don't understand this, but I do it myself. I've
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: done in the past. I mean, I guess I don't
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: know today, um what I do in situations like this,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: because I haven't really started to step back out there yet. Um.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I would like to believe that I'm mature enough now
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: and confident enough to say when something's not going well,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: to stand up and say it. But but again, I
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: can't promise that because because in the past, through college
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: and even after college, I did ghost I would go
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: on a date and I would instead of wanting to
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: hurt the person's feelings by saying, hey, I'm just not
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: into you, I would just disappear. So maybe they thought
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: I disappeared. UM. I honestly, I want to believe it
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: comes from a place of just not having the courage
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: to be confrontational and also not wanting to hurt somebody
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: because you know they don't deserve to be hurt. It
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: usually doesn't come from a bad place. It does come
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: from a place of not wanting to hurt the other person.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: A lot of people will argue it hurts more to
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: be ghosted. UM. I have a ghosting segment on my
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: I Don't Get a podcast where we confront ghosters with
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: their ghost ease. But by doing that segment, I've learned
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: what I feel is the definition of ghosting, and I
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: don't feel like going on one day and then never
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: hearing from the person again is the definition of ghosting.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I think ghosting happens when you're having a rapport with
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: someone and it's spanned over at least weeks. I don't
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: think going on one day and then never hearing from
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: that person again, it's goes that that's just a date
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: that you're just not supposed to be with that person. Yeah,
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: and then today's culture too, I mean, and we'll move
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: down to the bottom of this paragraph or this email,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: UM with this, But in today's culture, it's really hard
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: to ghost. I would assume, uh, you know, back what
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: was it four years ago when I was in the
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: dating scene. I mean, I haven't really gone back out
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: in the dating scene in four years. Um, social media
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: wasn't as big a thing, and so you could kind
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: of disappear, you could, you know, you could turn off
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: your Instagram or whatever. Now, Um, you're gonna be able
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: to find that person. I'm gonna find you. That's true,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Like they can really find you. Um, Ben, how do
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: you feel? Okay? So I don't think I'm ghosting this person.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I don't think i'd be ghosting this person. But how
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: do I don't know? You let me know. So I
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: went on this day with a guy like in July.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Haven't gone a date since July. This guy I felt
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: nothing with, like justin nothing. It seemed forced, like just
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: the hour seemed forced to me. And of course I
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: show disinterest or just not disinterest but just neutrality or whatever,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: and he will just keep texting me every couple of
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: weeks being like, hey, what are you doing? Um? Do
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: you want to do this? Do you want to do that?
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: And I keep saying like, oh, sorry, I can't do it.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: I'm busy. And the thing is like I usually am busy.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: Why are they getting the hint? Is that ghosting to
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: just keep saying hey, I'm not doing it. I'm not
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: doing it by me, not like saying hey, sorry, didn't
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: feel anything. Uh No, I don't think it's ghosting it.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I mean I think at some point you might want
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: to confront it, right, I mean he obviously I still
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: believe there's something. He's still confused. Um, But it also
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: sounds like he's not very self aware and he's not
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: very aware of the situation. Um. I don't find that
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: to be inappropriate. The one thing I think that gets
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: confusing with all of this is when it starts to
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: hurt somebody else. Right, So you go on one date,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: a date to a date, it's to discover, it's to explore,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: it's gonna figure out if you want to go on
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: that next day. Now, if the other person isn't showing
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: a common interest in going that next day, I personally
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: believe to let it go at that point because it's
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: only going to cause trouble if you keep pushing and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: you keep prodding, you keep texting, and you keep trying
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: to find your way into their life. It sounds like
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: what this guy is doing to you. Um, I mean really,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: it's really mild. I'm just saying that I feel bad
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: because I feel like he should be getting the hint
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: by now. Well, I mean, at some point if you
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: feel like it's if if you feel um, kind of convicted,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong for you, uh to approach
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: him and just say, hey, you know this isn't working.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I think you're great, but if we were to hang out,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: it would send you the wrong message. And I don't
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: want to send you the wrong message because that would
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: just get stickier in the end. And so it's that,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, the question is really and I know you
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: walk a very thin line here, um, but you do
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: it really well. Is you have a lot of friends
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: that are our men and then our male and so
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: you know, if you don't see this becoming a friendship,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: then there really is no purpose, or you don't have
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: to hang out with this guy. It would just send
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: the wrong message to him. How do you feel about
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: people that you go on dates with them becoming a friend?
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I just don't need that. It does that sound bad?
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Like I just I have a lot of friends. If
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: I went on a date with you and you wanted
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: it to be romantic, like I'm I don't think that's
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: a smart thing for me to hang out with you again.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Just to be I'm real torn on this topic. You
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: are hitting a hot but me, that's my problem need
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: to be so much more hard to get. And so
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: do you, Ashley. I know, I know, I feel like
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I'm growing up. I think I'm going up a little bit. Ben,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: What do you think? I mean, how do you deal
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: with that friendship with somebody that you kind of would
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: want to date? Uh? Yeah, there, I mean I think
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: it's it's all scenario based. And so for example, I
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: had a family um that I grew up with that
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: had two daughters that were similar to my age and
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: a son, and we were all very close. They're like
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: my brothers and sisters and I love them. But I
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: absolutely love them and they're beautiful people. They're not only
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: physically beautiful, but they're just just beautiful human beings. And
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: we were friends and we always were friends, and there
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: never was you know, I kind of look back at
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: this point in my life and I look back on
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: that and think it was pretty impressive that we all
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: were friends for our whole lives, that there was never
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: any romantic feelings. Right. So, um, I think, for example,
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: those two girls felt like sisters to me, but they
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: also feel like friends to me, and and so that
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: is a very important friendship to me. It's it's a
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: very important friendship to me, and I will always have
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: them as friends. Um. But then I look at scenarios
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: where like we've talked about before, like ex girlfriends and
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: cannot be friends with your ex is, And I think
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: you can be, but I think it does add this
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: little bit of Um, there's just always gonna be that
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: little bit of tension. There's always gonna be that little
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: bit or can we really just be friends? And what
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: happens on the perfect night when we're out together, will
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: something happen that will spark something up again? And as
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: long as you're single, I think that appropriate world to
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: play in is are we friends? Are we not? Do
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: we have feelings? Do we not? But my buddies and
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: I talked about this all the time. As soon as
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: you enter into relationship that has to be cut off
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: because it's no longer healthy or appropriate or beneficial or
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: mature of you to keep friendships like that because it
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: just adds a temptation and you have to set boundaries
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: because long term that's only going to affect and mess
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: with your mind. So I think it's an air based situation. Um,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: And this is a great So I want to move
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: on here to the final piece of this email and
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: then we'll jump to your email. But this is such
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: a good email. We've gotten so far, We've got so
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: far on the weeds. And the question to me was
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: how how am I approaching the dating sooner? Or how
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: would I navigate um in this dating in this culture.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: And then they asked you, actually, um, you know, how
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: do you go about meeting people? And so let's answer
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: this as quickly as possible for me, I don't exactly
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: know yet, but how I would imagine it going is this.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: So there's these expectation. This is where I struggle. All Right,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get into my I'm really. I feel like
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: it opened up in my insecurities on this podcast way
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: too often. And then I get emails from people feeling
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: really bad and sad for me, and you shouldn't. I'm
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: actually I'm doing pretty well. Um, but this is an
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: insecurity of mine, um is. And I don't want you
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: to go Actually, I definitely don't want you to respond
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: when I say it's like, oh no, that's not true. Okay,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: don't dimiss my insecurity. Um. I think in this world
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: I never feel cool enough to date somebody because of
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: the social media pressures out there, right, so everybody portrays
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: these lives on social media. They're hiking, their camping, um,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: they're traveling the world, They're eating the best foods. They're
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: always out with their friends, you know, doing boomerangs, of
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: tipping mimosas up and down, and you know, guys are
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: taking shirtless pictures with the perfect perfect light lighting after
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: they've oiled their bodies down so they look real nice
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: and real ripped. And and I never and I see
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: this stuff, and I know that it's all the perfect
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: image getting displayed and it's not the true image getting displayed,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: but it's still and I can't imagine for somebody that
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: younger than me, who hasn't been through it, that hasn't
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: fallen in love, that hasn't built a strong foundation in
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: their life on their faith. Um, I don't. I can't
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: imagine how much this is canna affect them. Because for me,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: even as I'm starting to enter back in the dating world,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I never feel like any woman is going to sit
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: down to dinner with me and go, Wow, I'm lucky
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: to be sitting at dinner with you, because you're pretty
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: great and I would love to explore life with you.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: That is a big insecurity, and I know it rings deep,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: but I do think a lot of it is because
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: of the pressures that we see to be perfect and
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: to live the coolest, best life now on social media.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: And I don't know how to get past that. Um,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: I'm won't be little your insecurity. I won't even respond
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: to it if you don't want me to. But you
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: know it's ridiculous, right well, you know that you live
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: like such an exciting life or I know you're the
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: last person to be able to say that. That's And
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: that's another thing, is that's why I feel I feel
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: terrible for the like I do live a great life.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I live a very exciting life. My life is it's
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: constantly moving and grooving with great things happening to it.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: I'm meeting amazing people, and I'm and I'm able to
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: do great things. But I can't imagine if this was
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: me four years ago, when I was not doing these things,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: how down and out I might feel. And I think
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: that's a sad part about social media or just the
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: pressures of the dating culture. I guess that's where it
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: comes from, is the question was how do I deal
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: with dating in this culture to day? I think that's
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: where that's the negative part of dating in this culture today.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I think the positive part is that you're able to
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: now get to know people better via social media because
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: you can get like explore their Instagram page or Twitter
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: page or facebooks before you go on these dates and
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: get to know what they're interested in. So you're going
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: into the dates a little bit prepared. But I wrote
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: a blog piece on Ahogany workplace. I was like, don't
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: set expectations too high, you know, don't try to get
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: to know them too much. So anyways to answer in
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: short is it's it's a hard time to day, but
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: it also, I think can be an exciting time to
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: day And I would like to believe that when you
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: finally meet that person, they're going to know you so
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: well and be able to kind of explore life life
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: with you so well, and you're gonna be able a
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: document life so well that day him is going to
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: be a blast. I want to believe that. I believe
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: that's coming up for me. Um, We'll just see what
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: it happens. Well, I want to do like a p
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: s A for all the younger kids out there, Like, yeah,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not like super affected by social media, um, because
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: but I'm like concerned about high schoolers out there who
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: are so influenced by these curated personalities like this facade
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: that people put out there, and just like that's not
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: real life, guys, and you shouldn't have to feel like
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: you have to compete with like all these filters and
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: all these like crazy things that people put out there.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: I just can't even imagine how hard it must be
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: feel to be accepted in this weird image focused world
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: that we live in as somebody who's like not fully
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: developed yet. I agree. I mean I thought about it
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: last night actually, and then I want to hear how
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: you're meeting people today. You know, I was cleaning up
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: my sink. I just shaved and I had a bunch
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: of hair that had like you know how you get
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: it in the bottom of your sink and you can't
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: get it out and I and it was like stuck
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: to the side. So I was like scrubbing it and
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: trying to find way to get out. Was like, this
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: is the picture that we need, because that's about ninety
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: percent of my life is in some way scrubbing hair
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: out of something. Um, it's not. It's not going on
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: these beautiful festivals. Caitlin does this thing. It's called real beauty.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Um backup posted something like that. I posted something like that.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: It was just like straight up, no makeup, no filters.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: I try to do that every now and again just
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: to make people be like no, no, seriously, Like the
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: way that we look when we're at events is not
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: the way we look when we wake up. I did
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: that this week. Like, you know, I just think it's
• 47:33
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  Speaker 1: and that's fun. Then can I continue with my rent? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Please do? Okay. So I had Siggy Flicker on my
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  Speaker 1: other podcast this week and she gave me this this
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: advice that really just stressed me out. Um My dad
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  Speaker 1: always used to say, like, when you're doing your thing
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  Speaker 1: and you have your career rolling, that's when you'll meet
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  Speaker 1: somebody organically. And I was like, that's a lovely way
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  Speaker 1: of thinking about it. That's what I'm gonna do. Because
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: we live very social lives, right Ben, And I don't
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: know about you, but I really do need my alone time,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: like to just decompress. I'm I'm an introvert, extrovert in
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: the way that like when I'm out and about, I'm
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  Speaker 1: very like friendly and outgoing, but I do need my
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  Speaker 1: alone time to recharge. So the last thing I want
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  Speaker 1: to do at the end of the day is going
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: on like a socially exhausting first date. Um So, I
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: always just hope that I would meet him organically, but
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: she made it seem like I need to go and
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: like kind of like make it almost like a job,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: like I have to go on at least one first
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: day to week and I'm like, really, um, the past
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: three times, the past three dates that I've gone on
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: over the summer, and because I have taken a little
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: bit of a break of caring, because I like to
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: think of my dad's motto, I'm going to find them
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: organically doing the things that I love to do. Um.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: But these are how I met the past three dates.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: One met organically, that was the guy that I like
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  Speaker 1: the most. Um too, went on a hinge date and
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: that was just straight uphoard three it was a setup
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: and that that's set up was the one where I
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: said I didn't feel any chemistry and it was hard
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: to keep conversation for just an hour. Okay, so perfect.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: So I mean we have the traditional organic, we have
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: an app date who you know is becoming pretty traditional.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends and a lot of
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: people I know that have met on so through a
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: dating app of some kind. Um. And so at the
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: end of this, I think all of us out there
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: who are dating are trying and doing the best we can.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: So there's not these I think that's the one thing
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: that always gets in my mind is are there secret
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: ways at which people are meeting people that I'm missing
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: out on, Like, am I just not aware of this
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: super cool little nightclub that everybody goes to and everybody
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: falls in love at um where there is this like
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: secret television show out there that everybody seems to want
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  Speaker 1: to go on to fall in love and meeting people
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: and getting married and having babies? Like where am I
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: missing the mark? And I think the truth is is
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: for everybody out there listening, you aren't missing the mark.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: You're right on target. You're doing the right things. Your
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: heart's open if you're ready and you're interested. I can't
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: promise you that you'll meet somebody I don't want to
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: do that. That's not the promise I can give you.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: I can promise you, though, that the pursuit is in
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: the right direction if you're ready and if you're putting
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: yourself out there and that's the only thing you can do. Okay, Well, Sophia,
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry that your date didn't go super well, but
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: don't worry about it. You guys just you weren't meant
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, I mean you should have known what
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: the side hug you gotta go Pelvis to pelvis really
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: didn't Mark, don't go side hug that's when we got
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: more emails coming up. I want to hit up one
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: more email here at least um from one of our
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: listeners and try to respond, Okay, this one I think
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: is really important, Hi, Ben and Ashley. I am interested
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: and knowing what happens to everyone's original jobs they had
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: before going on the show. I just find it disappointing
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: that these regular, normal, everyday working individuals prior to the show,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: and then they go on to find love, and then
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: they never get back to their true normal life without
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: having a celebrity status after the show. Anna, Anna, you
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: quit and you do social media. I don't know what
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: she's talking about. Sounds like a great idea to me.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I have so many feelings on this one. Nothing frustrates
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: me more than people commenting under our pictures on social
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: media saying you really have to go get a job.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I guess this podcast. I guess my
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: I don't get a podcast. I guess the correspondent work
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: that I do for Access Hollywood. I guess that me
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: hosting a clever news that's not a real job. Like
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: my four real jobs. They guess they don't count because
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: they're in media and because I went to broadcasting school,
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: like I have my masters and broadcasting. This is my job.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: And just because it's fun doesn't mean it's not a job.
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't go. I don't know why people
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: complain about this. I think there is a little bit
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: of a sellout factor, like if you start promoting products
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: that you don't believe in and that you don't like,
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: and I think that's wrong. Um, but here's the deal.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: A lot of the comments that you're getting, Ashley, that
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: I get are happening about two o'clock in the afternoon
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: Eastern time, which is about at the core of the
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: work week. All right, I mean, this is the Wednesday.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I just want to know what these people are doing
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: with their lives, um, and and all. You know, we
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: could go through all the jobs we have. I still
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: have my full time job. I still love my full
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: time job. I get to do some cool stuff on
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: the side. It doesn't really matter, honestly, And I think
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: that's the part that's the most frustrated everybody out there too,
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: that that has to take this, like, um, criticism of
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: go get a job, why are you just famous? Now?
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: We'll shoot Yeah, maybe maybe these people have a platform
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: now and they can use it to either do what
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: they've always wanted to do or tried to use it
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: for good, right, And I think Jade has a really
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: good point when she explains selling out and how many
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: as she and Tner do. She's like, well, my house,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: my beautiful house, was on this and I'm providing like
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: the most loving, wonderful life for my daughter and right
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: now we're just we have a college fund for her
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: which is almost done, and like we are providing the
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: best life for our kids, and like we're going to
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: just keep doing it. And I think this is the thing,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: and this isn't it something we need to keep expounding on.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: I think I'd be I mean, I've I've worked for
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: five years and I still sit in the cubicle and
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: I still have a computer in front of me, and
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: I still love my Excel spreadsheets, um, and I do
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: still with myself, even get frustrated with the idea that
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: I could post a picture on Instagram and make a
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: lot of money doing it and and be able to
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: support myself so I don't have to sit behind the
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: cubic all at the time. And that's not a bad idea.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: It is a weird idea, and I understand why it
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: could be frustrating to see people do that. So here's
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: where I get frustrated, and here's where the changing happens.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: I really don't care if Ashley, or if Jade or
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: of Tanner. If these people are posting products on their
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: social media and they're making money from it and that's
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: what they're doing to survive, that's a great thing. And
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: like Jade said, she's able to support her family from it, well,
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: I care about. But also at the same time, Tanner
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: has a great job and he makes a lot of
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: money from his job, so supplemental income. But so my
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: point is this, it's what you're doing with it. Are
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: you doing good with it? You've been given so much,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: You've been handed so much, You've literally gone on a
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: show and we've became entertainers for whatever reason, um, which
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: is an awesome thing. And I help everybody out there
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: listening and that watches The Bachelor's really enjoyed kind of
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: watching our stories unfull because they are they are our stories.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: But now to all the entertainers out there, my call
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: to action is what are you doing with it? Are
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: you just making money? Are you just posting pictures. Do
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: you just drive the nicest car, now, do you just
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: buy the bigger house? Do you wear the nicest clothes?
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Or are you giving back? Are you saying, hey, thank
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: you all for what you've given me. Now it's my
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: time to give something else. And that's what it might
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: call is. So go make your money, Go post your pictures,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: go support products, go out there and shake hands and
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: kiss babies for appearances. But in the day, make sure
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: that you can sleep at night because something good is
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: coming out of it. This is how I think about it.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: So say I go post an ad um. I'm able
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: to live off the ads that I can put together
• 58:16
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• 58:19
  Speaker 1: times more than what I got for that ad for charity.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: And same with you, Ben. Now you can go, you
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: do this podcast, you talk, you do you do ads
• 58:28
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• 58:30
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  Speaker 1: So this topic, like I said, has really really affected
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  Speaker 1: me over the last few months. It makes me feel
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: awkward inside in all sorts of ways. We have to
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  Speaker 1: get some callers out there and we're asking the question
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: is it okay or do you call your boyfriend daddy? Um?
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Right now, we have a couple of callers in the line. Actually,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: who are they? We got Carol from Ontario, Canada. Hi, Hi,
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in gosh, no problem,
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  Speaker 1: Hey Carol, Um, So what do you think? Is it
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  Speaker 1: creepy or is it fine? I think in the right context,
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  Speaker 1: it can be slipped in and it's okay. Wait, in
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: the right context, it can be what and it's okay,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: like slipped in like in a joking way. It could
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, daddy, you know, I wish you could
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: see my facial expression right now. Oh trust me, I'm
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: probably just in bed. See. Maybe it's not okay for
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: me because like my dad's number in my phone it
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: says daddy. Like I just call my dad daddy half
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: the time. I will definitely not work for you then.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: But I think if you're calling your dad father, but
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: you know, if you just kind of slipped in daddy,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: but I think it will be okay. Oh no, I'm
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. So I gotta ask you. So when you okay? So,
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: if you slip in the daddy and you get it
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: and you sell it right and he's okay with it,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: how long do you have to wait to kiss him
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: afterwards before it's no longer awkward? I mean, I think
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: you want to move in right away. Oh come on, Carol, Carol,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: violence the awkward silence will make it ten times words.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: You need to fill it with something. Does your significant
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: other enjoy it? I don't think he likes it particularly,
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: but I think sometimes it surprises him, so it's like, oh, wow,
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: you know, things are getting weird, Carol. Can I call
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend mommy? No? No, okay, now I'm mad. If
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: you can call your boyfriend's daddy. I want to be
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: able to call my girlfriend's mommy. I mean, if she's
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: okay with it, whatever floats your boat. But I don't
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: think that's a societal norm. Okay, Well, what about I
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: can do like I like a little Latin flair, and
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: I'm like all about like the mommy or the poppy,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: Like that's cute. I'm into that. Actually, I spent a
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: lot of time in Latin America, and what you just
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: did there is not Latin. Okay, Well, I'm just gonna
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: have j LO songs. Yeah, I think I'm totally down
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: for the mommy. I think it's a little different too.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. We have somebody who has quite
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: a bit of explanation on this topic. It's Alyssa from Connecticut. Hey, Alyssa,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: what is your theory on calling the dude daddy. So
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: I have like a theory because with my friend, I
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: will be like, oh, god, guys such a daddy. I
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  Speaker 1: don't have a boyfriend, so I don't call my boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: daddy because it doesn't exist. But I feel like there's
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  Speaker 1: levels of like you're like, oh, he's such a daddy.
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  Speaker 1: I follow some Instagram that plays hot guys called like
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  Speaker 1: dirty daddy's, but now gilts are a whole other thing.
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  Speaker 1: Well what can I say, Like, like, when I see
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  Speaker 1: a really hot I'm like, oh my god, do daddy
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  Speaker 1: Like I just I know Astley you love Harry Styles.
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  Speaker 1: I just saw him last week and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: who's the daddy? Like I wouldn't talk that, I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: call it daddy. But I feel like if I ever
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  Speaker 1: actually heard my friends or ever thought to myself, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to call my boyfriend and daddy like I would
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  Speaker 1: need there because that's not normal. This is where I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to just stow this out here. And you're right,
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  Speaker 1: Harry Style daddy, I'll let you too, because I can
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  Speaker 1: use the exception to life. Yeah, he's the exception to
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  Speaker 1: all things. So no, I just wonder, why is your
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  Speaker 1: response even without a boyfriend. When you're explaining a good
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  Speaker 1: looking guy, why is it? Daddy? That's what I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to get down to. I'm I mean, I don't even
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  Speaker 1: know if I'm okay with people calling each other daddy's
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  Speaker 1: and mommy's yet, because I don't even know what you're
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  Speaker 1: meaning by it, Like what do you mean? So I
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  Speaker 1: don't Well, when I hear mommy, I get like ringey.
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  Speaker 1: But Daddy. I feel like when you think of like
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  Speaker 1: a Dil's, you're like, oh, I want like maybe like
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  Speaker 1: that's your goal, Like I want to marry a dilt
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  Speaker 1: and like raised my kids with like this amazing guy
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  Speaker 1: and be like lusting after him always, when maybe you
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  Speaker 1: were attributing, sorry, do you think of like a celebrity
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  Speaker 1: Dil's Like who is it? Who's the idea Dil's? Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, there's like so many has been so bad?
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  Speaker 1: Are you get too excited? I know? I always thinking,
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  Speaker 1: like Nick Dreamy, like like what I think? I can't
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  Speaker 1: believe you just said that, because Ben, that's what I
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  Speaker 1: was just gonna say, And then how weird would that's been?
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  Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, like, God, you deal with
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  Speaker 1: my head? I see m Dreamy shut exactly. I can't believe.
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  Speaker 1: I think that also, honestly was kind of like the
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  Speaker 1: attraction for me to Peter. I was like, oh, he's
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  Speaker 1: kind of a daddy. Hold on, hold on, yeah. I
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  Speaker 1: was just gonna say, Peter defines gylt to me, and
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  Speaker 1: he's not even a dad. He looks exactly like the idea.
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  Speaker 1: That's why you say daddy, because it's like, oh, he's
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  Speaker 1: hot and he's going to be a guilt nothing hotter
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  Speaker 1: than a guy who was hot and a warm, loving father,
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  Speaker 1: exactly like if I see I used to work at
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  Speaker 1: at smothe place. I don't anymore, but when I used
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  Speaker 1: to see guys coming with their babies, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, you're ten times hotter than you would
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  Speaker 1: have ever been. We'll see. We have Easton in the studio.
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  Speaker 1: Easton is one of our sound guys and he just
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  Speaker 1: got married and he said, hey, does my wedding ring
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  Speaker 1: make me look more trustworthy and reliable? And I said,
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  Speaker 1: I always say, like, we see wedding rings and we're like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, there's so much hotter. But I think
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  Speaker 1: it's because we're like, oh my god, they settled and
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  Speaker 1: like they're willing to be that person in our minds.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like so much more attractive. But I would
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  Speaker 1: never I would never like meet Ben and be like,
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  Speaker 1: then you're such a daddy. I would like say it
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  Speaker 1: to my sister. I'd be like, oh, but actually then
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  Speaker 1: I don't think then like I'm not being rude, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't think look at you as a daddy. But
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  Speaker 1: like I wouldn't meet Peter and be like, oh my god, Hi, Peter,
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  Speaker 1: nice to meet you. You're such a daddy. You and
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  Speaker 1: Peter were intimate, would you say bring it daddy? Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god. I don't know, like cringing thinking about that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I would like text my
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  Speaker 1: sister my friends and be like, oh my god, he's
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  Speaker 1: such a daddy or he was such a daddy. But
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  Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. Maybe in the heat of
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  Speaker 1: the moment, but like then I feel like I would
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  Speaker 1: be like what did I just say? Sorry? Uh? I
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  Speaker 1: would I would turn real awkward. Okay, So there's different
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  Speaker 1: categories to this, Like so you look at Peter and daddy,
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  Speaker 1: you look at me and be like, oh, he's he's
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  Speaker 1: a wholesome, handsome one. He's a wholesome, young man who
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  Speaker 1: looks like he has a good head on his shoulders.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to go to church to it, Ben,
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  Speaker 1: and and Peter's a daddy. No, you take Bend and
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  Speaker 1: you take Peter to uh man, my life? Good? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, here's the deal? Um, this is such
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  Speaker 1: an interesting topic and you have been a great caller. Dress.
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  Speaker 1: I need all of the listeners out there to please
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  Speaker 1: email us this week, Ashley. What's the email? It is
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  Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley at I heart media dot com. You
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  Speaker 1: guys are always all of your thoughts, all of your concerns.
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  Speaker 1: Please let us know what you think you would call
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  Speaker 1: Ashley if you're walking down the street, or what you'd
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  Speaker 1: call me if you're walking down the street. And who
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  Speaker 1: in your life do you refer to as a daddy?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Alyssa. That was such a good call. On
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  Speaker 1: next week on the podcast, we have Desiree hard Stock
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  Speaker 1: talking about her new bridle line. It's gonna be great.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited. This has been a weird podcast. I've had
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  Speaker 1: a blast with it. Ashley, You've been awesome. You made
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  Speaker 1: me laugh as usual. Thank you all listeners out there listening.
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