Latest / Motivational Podcast / WHAT DOESN’T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER – Embrace the Struggle
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Everything's going to go south on you.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Everything's going to go south, and you're going to say,
- 0:03Speaker 2: this is it, this is how I end.
- 0:06Speaker 3: Now.
- 0:06Speaker 4: You can either accept that or you can get to work.
- 0:10Speaker 4: That's all it is.
- 0:12Speaker 1: You just begin.
- 0:14Speaker 5: Nothing is going to change unless you change what you're doing.
- 0:19Speaker 5: Change the junk food that you're eating, change the time
- 0:24Speaker 5: that you wake up, change what you do when you
- 0:28Speaker 5: get out of bed, change what you do with your time.
- 0:33Speaker 4: That's what you need to do.
- 0:36Speaker 5: You have to change some things or nothing will change.
- 0:42Speaker 6: I said, Loodie, what's the secrets to success?
- 0:45Speaker 7: You said, eighty five to ninety percent of life is
- 0:49Speaker 7: just showing up.
- 0:51Speaker 4: Show up. If you show up, there's.
- 0:54Speaker 8: A chance something could happen.
- 0:57Speaker 9: Well with life and death, either live or or die?
- 0:59Speaker 9: Which one do you want on top? That was the
- 1:00Speaker 9: decision in the corporate life.
- 1:02Speaker 8: And in the gym.
- 1:04Speaker 9: But if you want something bad enough, if you want
- 1:07Speaker 9: something bad enough, you can't let anybody tell you can't
- 1:10Speaker 9: do something. I'll repeat that, if you want something bad enough,
- 1:15Speaker 9: you can't let anybody tell you you can't do something,
- 1:17Speaker 9: not even yourself.
- 1:20Speaker 10: If you pan it down here you seas about three
- 1:22Speaker 10: o'clock in the morning, and there's not a car or
- 1:25Speaker 10: a person in sight. If you pan over here, it's
- 1:28Speaker 10: the same thing, not a car or a person in sight.
- 1:32Speaker 4: We're not living by the clock man.
- 1:34Speaker 11: You get a clock says o'clock time go asleep, or
- 1:37Speaker 11: nine to five time to go to work.
- 1:39Speaker 4: That's if you're in bed right now and you're rolling around.
- 1:42Speaker 4: You can't fall asleep. Get the if it means you
- 1:45Speaker 4: haven't done an honest day's work to earn that rest.
- 1:47Speaker 4: At nights two amne person's here, I.
- 1:50Speaker 12: Screep up so I can put in an honest day's
- 1:53Speaker 12: working here that more than anyone does in a week.
- 1:58Speaker 13: Life will attempt you to become bitter. Age will make
- 2:03Speaker 13: you bitter because during age you collect enough experiences to
- 2:08Speaker 13: become cynical till after a while you don't expect anything
- 2:11Speaker 13: good to happen because you've been through.
- 2:13Speaker 4: So many bad thing that if anybody.
- 2:15Speaker 13: Comes knocking at your door, you're predisposed to think of
- 2:19Speaker 13: something evil. You have to be careful lest you become bitter.
- 2:24Speaker 13: Either your troubles make you better or they make you bitter.
- 2:29Speaker 14: We mature with damage, not with the years. You gain
- 2:34Speaker 14: wisdom from your wounds. You will grow through what you
- 2:39Speaker 14: go through, but.
- 2:41Speaker 4: You must be willing to go through it.
- 2:44Speaker 15: Now.
- 2:44Speaker 16: I don't care if you don't have the money, you
- 2:47Speaker 16: don't have the help, and you don't have the family
- 2:49Speaker 16: for it, and you don't have the background for it,
- 2:52Speaker 16: and you don't have the friends for it. Don't you
- 2:54Speaker 16: give up on your drink? Coach you do it? Don't
- 2:57Speaker 16: you do it? Don't you do it? It may take
- 3:00Speaker 16: you twice as long. You may have to take courses
- 3:03Speaker 16: and classes. You might not read as fast, you might
- 3:06Speaker 16: not move as quick, you.
- 3:08Speaker 13: Might not have as much, But don't you quint far
- 3:12Speaker 13: easier not to be successful.
- 3:14Speaker 17: It takes courage to be exceptional. It takes courage to
- 3:18Speaker 17: be wise. It takes courage to be educated. It takes
- 3:21Speaker 17: courage to be knowledgeable. Because a moment you do it,
- 3:23Speaker 17: but you don't talk like, oh you got forgot where
- 3:26Speaker 17: you take from?
- 3:26Speaker 4: Legit? You talk to me. It takes courage, It takes guts.
- 3:30Speaker 12: You gotta dig down deep to cut it out, keep
- 3:33Speaker 12: on going again and again and again.
- 3:35Speaker 4: You've got to believe in yourself.
- 3:38Speaker 12: You've got to believe in your abilities, your ideas. Unquestionably, No,
- 3:43Speaker 12: it's hard, Yes, it's hard, it's difficult, and it's worth there.
- 3:48Speaker 4: It doesn't matter what it costs. I'm not gonna rest
- 3:51Speaker 4: until I have it. I'm gonna do it.
- 3:54Speaker 12: And if this is the price that I must pay, then.
- 3:57Speaker 4: So be it.
- 3:58Speaker 12: It's not easy living it. It's not easy reinventing yourself.
- 4:02Speaker 12: It's not easy sticking to and focusing on your goal.
- 4:06Speaker 4: It's not easy being happy in the midst of a
- 4:09Speaker 4: great deal of negativity.
- 4:10Speaker 12: It's not easy to remove people from your life that
- 4:13Speaker 12: are no longer good.
- 4:14Speaker 4: For you and you When you experience the feed.
- 4:17Speaker 12: And failure again, on again and again, it's not easy
- 4:19Speaker 12: to pull yourself back up and start all over again.
- 4:22Speaker 4: It takes a great deal of courage to face yourself
- 4:25Speaker 4: and say, no, my life is not what I want
- 4:27Speaker 4: it to be, and God can change. That's not easy.
- 4:30Speaker 4: You gotta already make up your mind before you get
- 4:33Speaker 4: your cancer.
- 4:33Speaker 18: You gotta make up for your mind before you get
- 4:35Speaker 18: to that extail to task that them.
- 4:37Speaker 4: You gotta look together before you repreg it to it.
- 4:39Speaker 19: Do.
- 4:39Speaker 20: You gotta be posed, if you gotta be excited, you
- 4:41Speaker 20: gotta be commony, you gotta be tough. You can be
- 4:44Speaker 20: poised if you can be negative, you can be happier,
- 4:47Speaker 20: you can be sad, you can be a winner.
- 4:49Speaker 4: You can be a loser.
- 4:50Speaker 20: For folks, I'm made up my mind as long as
- 4:52Speaker 20: there's a breath left in me. Ain't nobody or nothing
- 4:55Speaker 20: gonna make me quit. Ain't nobody gonna make me give up.
- 4:58Speaker 20: Ain't nobody gonna make me negative.
- 4:59Speaker 2: D coming.
- 5:00Speaker 20: I'm gonna do it, and I'm gonna be happy, and
- 5:02Speaker 20: I'm gonna be positive.
- 5:06Speaker 4: You gotta work. Your time is gonna happen.
- 5:09Speaker 21: You're here for a reason, but you gotta be ready
- 5:11Speaker 21: because if you're not, it's on you.
- 5:13Speaker 22: People who are obsessed about work life balance are typically
- 5:16Speaker 22: mediocre at both. Obsessed people apply their obsession to everything
- 5:20Speaker 22: and just call it life, and.
- 5:21Speaker 23: No one sees it's supposed to be that way.
- 5:24Speaker 7: What you need is the one thing I talk about
- 5:26Speaker 7: my book, which is straight up brutal work ethic. You
- 5:31Speaker 7: have to be willing to outwork everybody in the world.
- 5:36Speaker 3: You just got her staring back at you. Yeah, that's
- 5:39Speaker 3: your toughest, the potent every time you get into the room.
- 5:43Speaker 3: That's who your goal against. I believe that in boxing,
- 5:46Speaker 3: and I do believe that in life.
- 5:48Speaker 24: There's human beings that have different temperament and different minds,
- 5:54Speaker 24: and different mentality and a ruthless competitive drive.
- 5:58Speaker 4: You have got to change the way you think.
- 6:01Speaker 12: It is the whole determining factor of where you go
- 6:05Speaker 12: in life. We are all where we are today because
- 6:08Speaker 12: we thought ourselves.
- 6:10Speaker 4: To this position. If you don't like the position, think
- 6:13Speaker 4: yourself out of it. Change your attitude. You change your altitude.
- 6:18Speaker 25: No matter what your hardships, no matter where you came from,
- 6:22Speaker 25: no matter what your parents did, no matter what your
- 6:24Speaker 25: can teacher told you.
- 6:26Speaker 4: You can learn to accept winning. It's my journey.
- 6:31Speaker 15: Nobody decides how I live, Nobody decides my life. I'm
- 6:34Speaker 15: not a victim. I'm a victory. It's my journey. This
- 6:37Speaker 15: is your journey. You're not a victim. It can't hind
- 6:41Speaker 15: the way you want it to end. But you got
- 6:43Speaker 15: to grind if you want it. You can grinduate through it,
- 6:46Speaker 15: or you can graduate through it.
- 6:47Speaker 4: So much Tramama told you.
- 6:49Speaker 26: You can't through it so much, you told you you
- 6:51Speaker 26: can't do it. So what your teacher told you. You
- 6:54Speaker 26: don't have what it takes. You don't walk in their reality.
- 6:57Speaker 26: You don't live in your reality. Learn to live in
- 7:00Speaker 26: your own reality. You walk with a certain con when
- 7:04Speaker 26: you know you expect to get all. Hey, you expect
- 7:07Speaker 26: to be rich, you expect to be healthy. I don't
- 7:10Speaker 26: care what the doctor says. You are expecting it when
- 7:13Speaker 26: you expect it. That's why.
- 7:15Speaker 4: What do you do when you feel like giving up?
- 7:19Speaker 27: When you feel like I don't have the energy to
- 7:21Speaker 27: go one more step, I'm just gonna chuck it. I'm
- 7:25Speaker 27: gonna give up on my marriage. I'm gonna give up
- 7:27Speaker 27: on my job. I'm going to give up on my dream.
- 7:29Speaker 27: I'm gonna give up.
- 7:30Speaker 4: On my health. It's over. I'm done finished.
- 7:34Speaker 28: What do you do when you don't know what to do?
- 7:37Speaker 28: And the things you should do you don't do, and
- 7:38Speaker 28: the things you shouldn't do you do. It just seems
- 7:41Speaker 28: like that my life is in shambles. It's a disaster,
- 7:44Speaker 28: that nothing's working.
- 7:46Speaker 4: What do you do when you have no external motivation?
- 7:49Speaker 4: It's about the eternal? What do you say to yourself?
- 7:51Speaker 4: How are you going to fire yourself up? What's that
- 7:54Speaker 4: flame inside of you that keeps you going there? Times
- 7:56Speaker 4: you're gonna want to give up that, Times you feel deserted.
- 7:59Speaker 4: People a lot to you. You're gonna run out of resources.
- 8:01Speaker 4: That's a part of it. But that's how you grow,
- 8:04Speaker 4: that's how you learn from life. So whatever you're experiencing.
- 8:08Speaker 12: Right now, it has not come to say it has
- 8:11Speaker 12: come to pass.
- 8:13Speaker 29: The person that shows up, the person that grinds from
- 8:16Speaker 29: the bottom, it hits the rock bottom, it still goes on.
- 8:19Speaker 29: The person that's in the car white or tears off
- 8:21Speaker 29: their face, and it's still accomplishing the mission.
- 8:24Speaker 4: Because I'm telling you right now. You might not feel
- 8:26Speaker 4: it now, you might not.
- 8:27Speaker 29: See it now, but it's gonna pay off in your life.
- 8:30Speaker 4: Failure is not hauling down. Failure is staying down. I
- 8:33Speaker 4: fail over and over and over again in my life,
- 8:38Speaker 4: and that's why I succeeded. You get to make a choice.
- 8:42Speaker 4: It's pail you're going to break you, or it's phil
- 8:44Speaker 4: you're gonna make you.
- 8:46Speaker 25: It's never gonna make you feel good if you're leaving
- 8:50Speaker 25: it on the table, if you're not exercising your potential,
- 8:54Speaker 25: if you don't have a purpose, you don't have a mission.
- 8:57Speaker 25: The reason you feel like shit is because because you
- 9:00Speaker 25: know that you're letting your potential die on the vine.
- 9:04Speaker 25: You're letting your potential go to waste, and that is
- 9:07Speaker 25: an underlying condition that's causing you this anxiety, causing you
- 9:12Speaker 25: this stress, causing you this uncomfortable place. But the reality
- 9:16Speaker 25: is you need to solve the underlying problem. When the
- 9:18Speaker 25: underlying problem is you're not exercising your potential and for
- 9:21Speaker 25: that reason you feel like shit.
- 9:24Speaker 4: That's it.
- 9:26Speaker 22: So here is a list of things that I'm not
- 9:27Speaker 22: doing the thing. Preparing to do the thing isn't doing
- 9:30Speaker 22: the thing. Scheduling time to do the thing isn't doing
- 9:32Speaker 22: the thing. Making it to do list for the thing
- 9:34Speaker 22: isn't doing the thing. Telling people you're going to do
- 9:37Speaker 22: the thing isn't doing the thing. Messaging friends who may
- 9:39Speaker 22: or may not be doing the thing isn't doing the thing.
- 9:41Speaker 22: Writing and bang a tweet about how you're going to
- 9:44Speaker 22: do the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating on yourself
- 9:46Speaker 22: and not doing the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating
- 9:48Speaker 22: on other people who have done the thing isn't doing
- 9:51Speaker 22: the thing. Hating on the obstacles in the way of
- 9:53Speaker 22: you doing the thing isn't doing the thing. The only
- 9:55Speaker 22: thing that is doing the thing is doing the thing.
- 9:57Speaker 6: Take action and.
- 9:58Speaker 4: Start moving forward.
- 10:00Speaker 24: Dumb that I've done or the bad mistakes that I've made,
- 10:03Speaker 24: they've taught me. You know, you learn. Like that's why
- 10:06Speaker 24: failure so important, Like failing up and making mistakes, it's
- 10:11Speaker 24: very important. That's how you learn. The bad feeling that
- 10:14Speaker 24: you get from something that you shouldn't have done or
- 10:17Speaker 24: wish you didn't do, or wish you did better, like
- 10:20Speaker 24: especially failing in something where you half asked it and
- 10:23Speaker 24: you just feel like the fuck loser. Like that just
- 10:26Speaker 24: teaches it teaches you to get your You know.
- 10:30Speaker 30: That six months you're also not gonna hit it by yet,
- 10:32Speaker 30: and they're gonna be like, I'm still right, And of
- 10:34Speaker 30: a year, you're still not gonna hit it big and
- 10:36Speaker 30: it'll still be fun, right, And every day that you
- 10:38Speaker 30: haven't hit it, they're gonna feel like they were right,
- 10:41Speaker 30: but they're wrong because they're measuring in days and you're
- 10:44Speaker 30: measuring in decades.
- 10:45Speaker 4: There's no losing, only learning.
- 10:48Speaker 18: There's no failure, only opportunities, and there's no problems, only solutions.
- 10:53Speaker 4: The thing is, man, it's always going to be a party.
- 10:55Speaker 11: There's always going to be a time to celebrate and
- 10:58Speaker 11: at a time to join friends or data. I mean,
- 11:02Speaker 11: the bars are always open, always open.
- 11:06Speaker 4: How old you are, they're always open.
- 11:07Speaker 11: You know what's not always opens the opportunity to to
- 11:13Speaker 11: check the box in life.
- 11:15Speaker 24: You gotta achieve your dream.
- 11:16Speaker 18: You gotta be able to see it when it cannot
- 11:18Speaker 18: be seen. You gotta see it in your minds Ah.
- 11:22Speaker 18: You have to see it happening. You have to see
- 11:24Speaker 18: yourself writing the book before the book is finished. You
- 11:28Speaker 18: have to see yourself graduating even though the teakets are telling.
- 11:30Speaker 4: You that it's not going to happen.
- 11:33Speaker 18: You better see it because if you can't believe in it,
- 11:36Speaker 18: you will never manifest it.
- 11:38Speaker 4: But when you believe in it, you demand the universe
- 11:40Speaker 4: to assist doing what you're doing.
- 11:42Speaker 29: You get to decide if I'm gonna be rich, home, mediocre, happy, saved.
- 11:49Speaker 4: You have a.
- 11:50Speaker 12: Decision to make, but you have to claim it. You
- 11:54Speaker 12: have to expect it. You have to live your life
- 11:59Speaker 12: with the expectation that great things are coming your way,
- 12:03Speaker 12: that your thoughts can create things.
- 12:06Speaker 18: Before I leave this art, the vision got to be
- 12:08Speaker 18: done that no matter what you're going through, you ain't
- 12:11Speaker 18: gonna switch up. I'm telling you that you've gotta be
- 12:14Speaker 18: possessed with the vision. Stop running stop playing, stop running,
- 12:19Speaker 18: stop giving.
- 12:20Speaker 4: Up, and you there, take the fight tool, go to
- 12:23Speaker 4: the heat, the soon of the heat, the so on
- 12:25Speaker 4: of the dream.
- 12:26Speaker 18: Because your success is on the other.
- 12:28Speaker 4: Side of the problem.
- 12:29Speaker 18: Stop running from your pain and embrace your pay Your
- 12:33Speaker 18: pain is going to be a part of your pause.
- 12:37Speaker 4: I challenge you to push yourself.
- 12:39Speaker 15: Go do it.
- 12:39Speaker 4: Don't run from it no more.
- 12:41Speaker 26: Go get it.
- 12:41Speaker 4: You gotta take that thing out, you gotta take the
- 12:44Speaker 4: breath out. You gotta go get it.
- 12:46Speaker 23: When you taste these fire things of life, all the pain,
- 12:49Speaker 23: all the work, all the sacrifice you get on is
- 12:52Speaker 23: well worth it. If anything, it's a small doalt payment
- 12:55Speaker 23: for the cris and the reward you got and once felt.
- 12:58Speaker 23: How do you ever turn your back it? Stop running
- 13:01Speaker 23: from the potential what you can be. Guys, it's inside
- 13:04Speaker 23: of you.
- 13:04Speaker 4: It's always been there, you set it's home for your life.
- 13:09Speaker 1: I love this question, which is what would you do
- 13:12Speaker 1: if you weren't afraid?
- 13:14Speaker 30: And I just I love thinking about that when I'm
- 13:16Speaker 30: thinking about big life decisions, like what would I do
- 13:18Speaker 30: if I weren't afraid? And it's usually like the big one,
- 13:22Speaker 30: the bigger thing that I really want to do, but
- 13:24Speaker 30: I'm afraid to do it.
- 13:25Speaker 1: It's like, that's what I should do.
- 13:26Speaker 31: You're always afraid to take the first step because all
- 13:29Speaker 31: you see is every negative thing ten miles down the road.
- 13:32Speaker 31: But you can do anything you want. You are bound
- 13:35Speaker 31: by nothing. What are you passionate about?
- 13:39Speaker 6: What do you want?
- 13:41Speaker 1: So?
- 13:41Speaker 6: What do you really want to do?
- 13:43Speaker 3: The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows.
- 13:46Speaker 4: It's a very mean and nasty place.
- 13:48Speaker 3: And I don't care how tough you are.
- 13:50Speaker 13: It will beat you to your knees and keep you
- 13:52Speaker 13: there permanently if you're letting.
- 13:54Speaker 4: But you have a choice to make.
- 13:56Speaker 7: Do you want to sit down and go back to
- 13:58Speaker 7: that guy you once work?
- 14:00Speaker 4: No, so they see what it takes.
- 14:02Speaker 32: You don't start things and not finish.
- 14:04Speaker 4: You don't quit.
- 14:06Speaker 32: There's nothing that comes out of quitting besides knowing that
- 14:10Speaker 32: you didn't finish. We finish everything you start it, finish it.
- 14:14Speaker 32: If you're gonna do it, do it to try and
- 14:16Speaker 32: be the best.
- 14:17Speaker 33: If you want to know something about yourself, sit on
- 14:20Speaker 33: your bed one ninth and say, what's one thing I'm
- 14:22Speaker 33: doing wrong?
- 14:23Speaker 18: Life happens to everybody when winners approach it like victors
- 14:27Speaker 18: and losers like victims.
- 14:29Speaker 4: You know a victim. Stop talking about I can't I quit.
- 14:33Speaker 4: I don't think I can make it happen. It's impossible.
- 14:36Speaker 18: Stop talking like that, Stop cursing, and stop believing me.
- 14:39Speaker 18: Do anything says something you're doing what you know you've
- 14:42Speaker 18: been calling you. The only thing is you. Nobody can't
- 14:44Speaker 18: stop you. You're the only person I can sop you.
- 14:47Speaker 15: So stop talking like a victim, stop thinking like a victim,
- 14:49Speaker 15: stop acting like a victim, and walk into your destiny.
- 14:53Speaker 4: Walk into it. You sitting there homely, things gonna get better.
- 14:57Speaker 4: You gotta work. This don't happen on this O this break,
- 15:00Speaker 4: Bring my bread? Where do I start?
- 15:01Speaker 14: I don't know.
- 15:02Speaker 4: Take a spot and go get it.
- 15:03Speaker 18: We can start the process right now of turning it
- 15:06Speaker 18: all around by getting up.
- 15:08Speaker 4: And every day just looks the same and feels the same.
- 15:11Speaker 1: Now I get the feeling like this is endless.
- 15:13Speaker 4: Now I get to feel like.
- 15:14Speaker 30: Maybe these chains are never gonna break, This storm is
- 15:17Speaker 30: never gonna cease.
- 15:18Speaker 12: I don't care who you are. I don't care how
- 15:20Speaker 12: many defeats that you've suffered. What if you don't give that?
- 15:22Speaker 4: If I don't get there, I have enjoyed the journey.
- 15:25Speaker 4: It's okay, but you've got.
- 15:26Speaker 12: To make up your mind that whatever it takes, how
- 15:28Speaker 12: I'm going to do it, that you've deserve it, that
- 15:31Speaker 12: you want it and won't do it about it. You
- 15:33Speaker 12: want to give up, you wanna fall down, you want
- 15:36Speaker 12: to turn around and run with everybody else.
- 15:38Speaker 4: You're gonna question it yourself. You're gonna say, is this
- 15:40Speaker 4: really making much sense? All of that will create you
- 15:44Speaker 4: to a certain kind of person.
- 15:46Speaker 12: Experience the rejection, experience the hard times.
- 15:50Speaker 4: That's how you grow, that's how you develop yourself. That's
- 15:53Speaker 4: how you begin to appreciate what you get.
- 15:57Speaker 12: When you're working on a dream, at some point in time,
- 16:00Speaker 12: a transition take place, and the transition is what you're
- 16:05Speaker 12: becoming in pursuit of the dream, because even if you
- 16:07Speaker 12: don't get the dream, you've become such a strong and
- 16:10Speaker 12: powerful person, because you've now developed yourself in such confidence
- 16:14Speaker 12: and such competence and how to deal in the arena
- 16:17Speaker 12: of life, that you can move into another area not
- 16:20Speaker 12: miss a beeed.
- 16:20Speaker 4: Once you begin to discover who you are, then you
- 16:23Speaker 4: really realize.
- 16:23Speaker 12: How you have been given authority and dominion.
- 16:26Speaker 4: Over everything on the face of the earth. But you
- 16:28Speaker 4: can only do that through the struggle of life. You're
- 16:31Speaker 4: facing those rejections day in and day out.
- 16:33Speaker 17: Don't say I had a bad day to day, say
- 16:36Speaker 17: I had a character building day.
- 16:38Speaker 4: What did you learn? What did you get out of
- 16:41Speaker 4: that day.
- 16:41Speaker 18: You can't spend your time worrying about the failures, worrying about.
- 16:45Speaker 4: The mistakes, and you sit don't worrying about the mistakes
- 16:47Speaker 4: all day. You take away time, You take away energy
- 16:49Speaker 4: from doing what you're supposed to do. You're not going
- 16:51Speaker 4: where you're supposed to be going. And what you gotta
- 16:53Speaker 4: do is learn to.
- 16:54Speaker 13: Play through the haters, play through it as if it
- 16:57Speaker 13: doesn't exist.
- 16:58Speaker 29: Sometimes it takes in your everything just to show that
- 17:01Speaker 29: it was nothing that you ever needed in the first place.
- 17:03Speaker 29: Sometimes it takes losing everything that you think you need
- 17:06Speaker 29: just to show you that that's something.
- 17:07Speaker 4: Better for your life.
- 17:08Speaker 29: Your greatest setbacks will sets you up for that major comeback.
- 17:11Speaker 29: Sometimes you have to lose certain things to gain better things.
- 17:14Speaker 29: Sometimes the best way to act to your life is just.
- 17:17Speaker 12: A tract from beyond that which you've already mastered.
- 17:19Speaker 4: You will never grow, So you've got.
- 17:21Speaker 12: To put something out here that you can't reach easily.
- 17:24Speaker 12: That has got to make you stretch, got to make
- 17:26Speaker 12: you jump for gotta make you get back a little
- 17:28Speaker 12: big and you dig in so that you can take
- 17:30Speaker 12: a leap for it. And maybe you jump up there
- 17:32Speaker 12: and you'll miss it and you stin your knees and
- 17:34Speaker 12: you come back again and you.
- 17:35Speaker 4: Bust your lip next time. But you keep on and
- 17:37Speaker 4: through that process you learn how to leap higher. You
- 17:40Speaker 4: start challenging.
- 17:41Speaker 34: Yourself that you're never going to completely solve anything in
- 17:45Speaker 34: your life or in the world, and there's always going
- 17:47Speaker 34: to be compromises that you have to make. And if
- 17:50Speaker 34: you aren't willing to make those compromises, or you don't
- 17:53Speaker 34: keep your mind open for those compromises, you're going to
- 17:55Speaker 34: run into.
- 17:55Speaker 4: Some real problems.
- 17:56Speaker 34: But if you look at it and the fact that
- 17:59Speaker 34: you know you might a little more effort over here,
- 18:01Speaker 34: and it's going to take away from some effort over there,
- 18:03Speaker 34: you can't just do everything at once. So yeah, no solutions,
- 18:06Speaker 34: only trade offs.
- 18:08Speaker 25: This is why most people never get anywhere. Most people
- 18:10Speaker 25: are incapable of picking a direction and going just going.
- 18:14Speaker 25: They observe the possibilities, they get paralyzed by all the
- 18:18Speaker 25: possibilities They refuse to move forward on all the possibilities,
- 18:22Speaker 25: and then time.
- 18:23Speaker 7: Passes and by.
- 18:24Speaker 25: So it's very important that you make a decision and
- 18:27Speaker 25: you go down that path, you commit to that path
- 18:31Speaker 25: with the mentality of having zero options. I don't have
- 18:35Speaker 25: a choice but to see this through. Okay, If I
- 18:38Speaker 25: don't see this through, I'm going to be digging ditches.
- 18:40Speaker 25: That's what I tell myself when I don't want to
- 18:42Speaker 25: come here and I don't want to do this, and
- 18:44Speaker 25: I get tired of, you know, doing what I do,
- 18:47Speaker 25: which happens to everybody you go through ups and downs,
- 18:49Speaker 25: I tend like I have zero options. I say, well,
- 18:54Speaker 25: if I don't do this, bro, I'm gonna be digging ditches,
- 18:56Speaker 25: so I better show the up get done. And that
- 18:58Speaker 25: might sound ridiculous to you because that's not the truth anymore,
- 19:01Speaker 25: but I still tell myself that, and that's how I operate.
- 19:04Speaker 25: You have to pick something and then you have to
- 19:07Speaker 25: commit to it.
- 19:08Speaker 12: Dig deeper, and then you discover some things about you
- 19:11Speaker 12: that you don't know right now, some talents that you
- 19:13Speaker 12: have in you that you didn't know that you can do.
- 19:15Speaker 4: I don't know everything. I'm not accomplished everything, I'm not
- 19:19Speaker 4: where I want to be.
- 19:19Speaker 18: I'm still learning, I'm still growing, I'm still trying to
- 19:23Speaker 18: get better. You gotta position yourself and stef tiuting some crime.
- 19:27Speaker 18: Start looking at what other people are getting, and look
- 19:29Speaker 18: at what they're doing, and if you start doing it,
- 19:31Speaker 18: you start getting it.
- 19:32Speaker 4: You don't get out of life what you want. You
- 19:34Speaker 4: get out of life what you earn. Even if you
- 19:36Speaker 4: can't see the light at the end.
- 19:38Speaker 35: Of the tone, even if you have no evidence to
- 19:40Speaker 35: support that position, even if no one else believes that
- 19:44Speaker 35: you can do it, even if the arts are staged
- 19:47Speaker 35: against you, even if your chances of survival are slim
- 19:51Speaker 35: to none, say to yourself, no matter how that it
- 19:54Speaker 35: is or how that it gets, I'm going to make it.
- 20:00Speaker 4: It doesn't mean that it doesn't work. All it means
- 20:03Speaker 4: is that your approach isn't working. And so now you've
- 20:06Speaker 4: got to become more creative. Now you've got to do
- 20:08Speaker 4: that to the drying walk. Now you need some more coachy.
- 20:11Speaker 4: Now you need some more direction of what you need
- 20:13Speaker 4: to do, to take some corrective action. It gets you
- 20:16Speaker 4: on the path. How do you know what can happen?
- 20:17Speaker 4: You know because O those have done as much possible
- 20:20Speaker 4: that you can do it. And what is necessary is
- 20:23Speaker 4: that's your work.
- 20:24Speaker 26: The system that.
- 20:25Speaker 12: You take, the culture, take the directions, look at the
- 20:28Speaker 12: people that are doing it, that are successful, and emulate
- 20:31Speaker 12: them and it'll work.
- 20:33Speaker 30: There are moments when the weight of the trials we
- 20:36Speaker 30: go through it feels unbearable, pain can linger, and oftentimes
- 20:39Speaker 30: we wonder.
- 20:39Speaker 1: Whether we're ever gonna feel whole again.
- 20:41Speaker 2: And the world will tell us if we're under something
- 20:43Speaker 2: like under pressure or undervalued, over under different areas in
- 20:48Speaker 2: our life that are making us so comfortable and it
- 20:50Speaker 2: feels isolating and dark.
- 20:51Speaker 4: That's the place where you should give up.
- 20:53Speaker 36: You should go head and give up on that dream.
- 20:55Speaker 36: You should go head and not study for that no more.
- 20:58Speaker 36: You're always gonna live in this community. Your mama's broken,
- 21:01Speaker 36: you've broke you look at it. The thing your mom
- 21:03Speaker 36: is gonna make you wealthy, but you just die.
- 21:06Speaker 7: If you have big goals, big dreams, along the way.
- 21:10Speaker 4: Failure is going to happen.
- 21:12Speaker 7: So how fast do you get up from that?
- 21:15Speaker 37: That If you want some kind of a good outcome,
- 21:17Speaker 37: you're going to have to work hard for it. And
- 21:19Speaker 37: if you and if you don't work hard for something
- 21:22Speaker 37: you're not going to get an outcome that's really worth much.
- 21:26Speaker 1: You know, greatness is not meant for a few chosen people.
- 21:29Speaker 30: It's meant for those who persistently pursue their dreams every
- 21:32Speaker 30: day and make that choice.
- 21:34Speaker 1: When they wake up. So just a mentality, really, So.
- 21:39Speaker 4: You want to be normal.
- 21:41Speaker 7: So you just want to be like everybody else that
- 21:44Speaker 7: roams the world, not knowing the power that's in them,
- 21:47Speaker 7: being fine with being mediocre. We're gonna go back to
- 21:50Speaker 7: who you were, dam.
- 21:52Speaker 22: Like, the biggest risk to your future isn't your competition,
- 21:57Speaker 22: it's the distractions you insist on keeping in your life
- 22:00Speaker 22: rather than doing the things even though you should be doing.
- 22:02Speaker 22: But don't. People delay doing things they don't like for
- 22:06Speaker 22: longer than it takes to do.
- 22:08Speaker 10: Them, And so nothing is easy, Like it sucks?
- 22:12Speaker 8: Why did I take this job? Why did I make
- 22:15Speaker 8: this move? You start second guessing yourself, You start doubting yourself,
- 22:19Speaker 8: You start filling yourself with feelings of failure, like I
- 22:23Speaker 8: can't do this. You lose your confidence, you start feeling
- 22:27Speaker 8: like your failure because of the frustration of fatigue. How
- 22:31Speaker 8: do you handle failure? How do you react when your
- 22:34Speaker 8: plans collapse. How do you react when it's taken longer
- 22:38Speaker 8: than your thought, it's more complicated your thought, and you
- 22:42Speaker 8: start doubting do I even have the ability to do this?
- 22:45Speaker 2: The place that is dark, that is lonely, and sometimes
- 22:48Speaker 2: where the pressure of life.
- 22:50Speaker 4: Is on you, that's the place that is making you.
- 22:53Speaker 4: That's where the growth takes place. That's where the work is.
- 22:58Speaker 12: That's when life really with deals itself, and that's when
- 23:02Speaker 12: you discover your true identity.
- 23:04Speaker 4: Under does not mean over.
- 23:07Speaker 2: And if you find yourself under under pressure, undervalue, under attack,
- 23:14Speaker 2: what it looks like is.
- 23:15Speaker 4: Not what it is. This failure, this sychtastrophe.
- 23:20Speaker 12: Sometimes you have to take two or three steps back
- 23:23Speaker 12: just to go forward again. Sometimes you might have to
- 23:26Speaker 12: get a part time job just to keep things going
- 23:30Speaker 12: until you get back on track again.
- 23:32Speaker 4: It's okay, it's happened to the best levels. It's all right.
- 23:36Speaker 4: It won't break you. It only introduce you to yourself.
- 23:41Speaker 12: But during those times, there was something in me that said,
- 23:45Speaker 12: don't stop, don't give up.
- 23:47Speaker 4: Just keep on keeping on. I want you to hold on.
- 23:51Speaker 4: It may not happen at.
- 23:52Speaker 18: The time that you think is going to happen, but
- 23:54Speaker 18: I want you to know something.
- 23:55Speaker 4: If you quit, it's never going to happen. If you quit,
- 23:58Speaker 4: if you give.
- 23:59Speaker 18: Up, if you stop, if you do not persevere, you
- 24:02Speaker 18: will never see it.
- 24:03Speaker 4: I didn't get here through academics. I got here because
- 24:06Speaker 4: I reviewed the quick. What you gonna go? Do all
- 24:08Speaker 4: this pain?
- 24:08Speaker 3: Quick?
- 24:09Speaker 4: You won't go do all his suffering your stuff? You
- 24:11Speaker 4: come too party quick?
- 24:12Speaker 13: Now?
- 24:13Speaker 4: You should keep going. You should keep going. You are
- 24:15Speaker 4: readying enough, pay get a wark it. Where you are
- 24:19Speaker 4: is temporary.
- 24:20Speaker 12: This will guarantee that because somebody now donald the luck.
- 24:24Speaker 4: They can never come back.
- 24:25Speaker 12: Who can guarantee that you can't be that you can't
- 24:28Speaker 12: have your tree?
- 24:29Speaker 4: Who can guarantee that you can't do what you want
- 24:31Speaker 4: to do. No one can't predict that. You don't know
- 24:34Speaker 4: what the possibilities are for your life. You know the
- 24:38Speaker 4: human staring is powerful. This nothing is powerful. It's hard
- 24:42Speaker 4: to kill the human stir it.
- 24:44Speaker 12: Give yourself a chance, give yourself a fighting chance.
- 24:47Speaker 4: Whatever you go after, whatever you.
- 24:49Speaker 12: Said, this is your stuck, pursue.
- 24:51Speaker 4: It, Tessonday. Let them be a deep hunger in you
- 24:54Speaker 4: that you won't be denied.
- 24:57Speaker 12: And that when things hamper, that they won't immobilize they
- 25:00Speaker 12: want the fleet short, arn't you.
- 25:02Speaker 4: But you look at it and you observe it.
- 25:03Speaker 12: But you know there's something in you that's going to
- 25:06Speaker 12: take you to the top, and that this is only
- 25:08Speaker 12: a temporary inconvenience.
- 25:11Speaker 4: That's all it is. Nothing more.
- 25:13Speaker 12: Can't stop you something as powerfully as you cannot be continued.
- 25:17Speaker 4: You're not powerless. You are powerful.
- 25:21Speaker 22: There's a quote that I've fallen in love with. The
- 25:24Speaker 22: magic you are looking for is in the work you're avoiding.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Freck dude.
- 25:29Speaker 22: The magic you are looking for is in the work
- 25:31Speaker 22: you're avoiding.
- 25:32Speaker 6: I don't want to live in a hole anymore. It
- 25:34Speaker 6: makes me feel poor.
- 25:35Speaker 5: We are poor, but we're happy.
- 25:38Speaker 6: Come see it comes out anyway. The views are better
- 25:41Speaker 6: above ground, honey. I'm seven none fox years old now.
- 25:45Speaker 6: My father died at seven and a half. I don't
- 25:47Speaker 6: want to live in a hole anymore, and I'm going
- 25:49Speaker 6: to do something about it.
- 25:50Speaker 5: You'll be surprised. The little things, the little changes, they
- 25:53Speaker 5: add up and they become big things. Change the little things,
- 25:59Speaker 5: and over time you can change your life.
- 26:04Speaker 4: If you don't fail, you're not even trying.
- 26:09Speaker 1: I'll say it again.
- 26:11Speaker 4: If you don't fail, you're not even trying. My wife
- 26:13Speaker 4: told me this great expression.
- 26:15Speaker 18: To get something you never had, you have to do
- 26:18Speaker 18: something you never did.
- 26:25Speaker 38: If you can't get out of your beds and you
- 26:28Speaker 38: choose not to win, you listen to your feelings. If
- 26:34Speaker 38: you choose to get out of bed and you said
- 26:38Speaker 38: there's a win for me, that's your mind. And each
- 26:42Speaker 38: one of those individuals you decide who gets a vote.
- 26:46Speaker 38: And some days not all the popular things are going
- 26:49Speaker 38: to get a vote. Success may not get a vote.
- 26:51Speaker 38: Winning may not get a vote.
- 26:53Speaker 22: This is probably one of the heaviest time of blows
- 26:55Speaker 22: I think today, this next one, this is a real
- 26:58Speaker 22: anger tweting.
- 26:59Speaker 7: No, it's not.
- 27:00Speaker 22: It's an existential one golf line. You've already achieved goals
- 27:03Speaker 22: you said would make you happy. You've already achieved goals
- 27:08Speaker 22: you said would make you happy.
- 27:10Speaker 39: The man who never fail has no glory. The man
- 27:14Speaker 39: who fell and got back up, that's where his glory is.
- 27:18Speaker 39: The man who fell twenty times and got up twenty
- 27:21Speaker 39: one times, that man has even greater glory. Wow, that
- 27:25Speaker 39: man has more courage, way more cursed than the guy
- 27:28Speaker 39: who was so strong from birth that he never failed.
- 27:31Speaker 40: I think I'm fifty four years old right now like that,
- 27:35Speaker 40: I mean, it just flew by.
- 27:38Speaker 4: You direct the power in your life.
- 27:39Speaker 12: Whatever your life is right now, it is a duplication
- 27:42Speaker 12: of your consciousness, is result of how you have decided
- 27:46Speaker 12: to use your power.
- 27:48Speaker 4: That's all it is. That's not who you are. That's
- 27:50Speaker 4: just a perverted use of your power that you aren't
- 27:53Speaker 4: satisfied with. And you've got the power.
- 27:56Speaker 12: To change that wherever you are power I don't know,
- 28:00Speaker 12: and I know you've got the power to do that,
- 28:02Speaker 12: but you don't know what has happened to me. It
- 28:04Speaker 12: really doesn't matter what has happened to you. The only
- 28:07Speaker 12: thing that really matters is what are you going to
- 28:09Speaker 12: do about it? You can allow it to destroy you,
- 28:13Speaker 12: or you can allow it to feel you out.
- 28:15Speaker 4: And know that it's not going to be easy. It's
- 28:18Speaker 4: going to be extremely challenging.
- 28:20Speaker 12: I know not what it takes to do this, and yes,
- 28:24Speaker 12: it's gonna be hard. It's going to be difficult, and
- 28:26Speaker 12: you get more knows than you do.
- 28:27Speaker 4: Yes, but when you hold out, things will begin to happen.
- 28:31Speaker 4: You won't even understand power when you don't give up,
- 28:35Speaker 4: When you don't get it, break you.
- 28:36Speaker 12: I had somebody in my life at one time told
- 28:38Speaker 12: me you'll never make it.
- 28:42Speaker 28: They laugh.
- 28:44Speaker 4: They're gonna laugh at you. People are gonna laugh at you.
- 28:49Speaker 41: People will help you out. They're like, that guy's not
- 28:53Speaker 41: gonna be anything. Yeah, he's not gonna be nothing. They
- 28:57Speaker 41: have no clue. I'm gonna tell you what I know.
- 29:01Speaker 41: I know underdogs kick. Everybody's to make.
- 29:04Speaker 4: You get serious when they get serious.
- 29:07Speaker 7: I can still do this.
- 29:09Speaker 4: And the first step for me was saying something I
- 29:12Speaker 4: was not.
- 29:13Speaker 24: Before I was.
- 29:16Speaker 18: He says, imagine you're on your deathbed, and standing around
- 29:19Speaker 18: your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential, the
- 29:24Speaker 18: ghost of the ideas you never acted on, the ghost
- 29:27Speaker 18: of the talents you didn't.
- 29:28Speaker 4: Use, and if you turn it to your advantage.
- 29:33Speaker 12: So I have now made that a blessing for me
- 29:35Speaker 12: as opposed to a head acaun.
- 29:37Speaker 4: I would improve.
- 29:38Speaker 12: Them wrong by engaging in self study and consciously working
- 29:42Speaker 12: to develop myself.
- 29:43Speaker 4: I started going to work earlier, I started being the
- 29:46Speaker 4: last one to lead that.
- 29:48Speaker 12: I started working harder than anybody else.
- 29:51Speaker 4: So now they have to ask them, say, what were
- 29:52Speaker 4: we thinking about when we labeled this guy.
- 29:55Speaker 12: Doesn't matter how many failures I've made. It doesn't matter
- 29:58Speaker 12: how many mistakes I've It doesn't matter about my defeat,
- 30:03Speaker 12: doesn't matter about what I've done. I don't care about
- 30:05Speaker 12: the fact I'm as a hole now, doesn't matter about
- 30:08Speaker 12: where I am.
- 30:09Speaker 4: The last chapter to my life has not been written yet.
- 30:12Speaker 4: If you judge, mean how you judgement team of Charlie.
- 30:15Speaker 4: I haven't exposed all my stuff yet.
- 30:20Speaker 42: I've always had an eye, a discipline, and a work
- 30:23Speaker 42: ethic that I've had at a young age. I just
- 30:25Speaker 42: kind of I just apply it to everything that I
- 30:27Speaker 42: that I want to do. So so I would say that,
- 30:30Speaker 42: you know, I rarely go out you know, reading, you
- 30:34Speaker 42: know what I'm saying, trying to reverse engineer how to
- 30:36Speaker 42: be successful, Like how do I, you know, start my
- 30:38Speaker 42: own production company?
- 30:39Speaker 4: How do I do this?
- 30:39Speaker 3: How do I do that?
- 30:40Speaker 42: And I always felt like if other cats was out
- 30:42Speaker 42: partying and I was home studying, I would have.
- 30:44Speaker 4: An edge, see what I'm saying.
- 30:45Speaker 42: If cast is out here doing this and that, being
- 30:47Speaker 42: hung over the night before, I would have an edge.
- 30:49Speaker 42: If I wasn't. I'm like, I'm a delayed you know
- 30:51Speaker 42: what I'm saying, gratification. I'm that type of person. So
- 30:53Speaker 42: like I'm literally like, all right, I will party later.
- 30:56Speaker 42: I work hard now, so the second half of my
- 30:58Speaker 42: life I could do what you want. That's been my
- 31:01Speaker 42: mentality is like, I'm not going to trick off my
- 31:03Speaker 42: early years for partying. It ain't worry about struggling on
- 31:06Speaker 42: how I'm going to make it, How mlet take care
- 31:07Speaker 42: of my family? How I going to take care of
- 31:08Speaker 42: everybody else? Like, that's not going to be me. I'ma
- 31:10Speaker 42: grind it out now, you know what I'm saying. I'm gonna
- 31:12Speaker 42: set up the foundation so I can enjoy myself later.
- 31:15Speaker 30: And so whatever reasons that we usually give ourselves in
- 31:18Speaker 30: the beginning for why we can't achieve something, you can
- 31:20Speaker 30: almost always find not only just someone, but someone who's
- 31:23Speaker 30: achieved world class levels of success with worse conditions than
- 31:28Speaker 30: you currently have, which then means it's absolutely possible.
- 31:30Speaker 1: And then the only thing that it takes to get
- 31:32Speaker 1: there is work.
- 31:35Speaker 22: Unchosen suffering is going to happen in life. Your parents
- 31:39Speaker 22: are going to pass away, loved ones are going to die,
- 31:42Speaker 22: your relationships are going to break down, your body is
- 31:44Speaker 22: going to fail you. You're going to become ill or
- 31:46Speaker 22: sick or destitute. Things are going to happen, and you
- 31:49Speaker 22: have no control over m. And the only way that
- 31:51Speaker 22: you can prepare yourself for unchosen suffering is with chosen suffering.
- 31:55Speaker 4: If you don't show up, guys, you know the outcomes.
- 31:58Speaker 11: You never get the job, never get the part, never
- 32:01Speaker 11: get the girl if you don't show up. If you
- 32:04Speaker 11: show up, you put yourself in a situation to create
- 32:07Speaker 11: those opportunities. And when you show up, how hard do
- 32:10Speaker 11: you go? That's the facts the app to come to
- 32:13Speaker 11: light for you.
- 32:14Speaker 1: It's up to you, guys.
- 32:15Speaker 4: But I applaud you for being here.
- 32:17Speaker 11: I applaud you for watching this, encouraging you to incorporate
- 32:20Speaker 11: this in your workout.
- 32:22Speaker 4: You'll see the games the guy did and you'll fall
- 32:24Speaker 4: in love.
- 32:24Speaker 11: With it, even though it's tiring and exhausting me and
- 32:26Speaker 11: you're sweating your ass off and your tires can be
- 32:30Speaker 11: small down payment that you're willing to pay every day
- 32:33Speaker 11: for the large investment of a greater life.
- 32:37Speaker 4: You only got one life.
- 32:38Speaker 43: Guys, Guys, the whole bunch of people walking around out here,
- 32:41Speaker 43: we have no idea how talented that you really are.
- 32:44Speaker 43: Now IM gonna talk about talent like some god giving
- 32:46Speaker 43: the building talent that sometimes you have to hone, you
- 32:49Speaker 43: have to work on, you have to harness yourself, and
- 32:53Speaker 43: they just walk around this on their phone with this
- 32:55Speaker 43: clueless how powerful they are.
- 32:58Speaker 4: If you aren't dead, then it's just psychological. It's in
- 33:02Speaker 4: your head.
- 33:03Speaker 44: As long as you don't surrender, as long as you
- 33:07Speaker 44: don't give up, as long as you don't.
- 33:09Speaker 4: Quit, then you haven't failed.
- 33:11Speaker 44: Just means you've made a temporary tactical retreat, means you've
- 33:15Speaker 44: made a brief withdraw so that you can regroup and reattack.
- 33:20Speaker 44: As far as I'm concerned, if you get beat, unless
- 33:23Speaker 44: you're dead, you are not defeated, and you have not failed.
- 33:28Speaker 44: What you've done is you've learned, You've gained experience.
- 33:32Speaker 12: I'm still in the process of transforming my life. I'm
- 33:36Speaker 12: still in the process up becoming.
- 33:38Speaker 4: I don't care if it's impossible. I don't care how
- 33:41Speaker 4: hard it is.
- 33:42Speaker 12: I don't care how difficult is I will on my
- 33:44Speaker 12: way through it.
- 33:45Speaker 4: All I want you to focus on is the impossible.
- 33:48Speaker 4: And one day you won't laugh at the impossible.
- 33:51Speaker 13: You will look at the impossible and go how was
- 33:53Speaker 13: that ever impossible?
- 33:55Speaker 18: You won't look at the impossible and go Well, what's
- 33:57Speaker 18: I think is you'll come. You're about to talk out.
- 34:01Speaker 18: You've gone too bar Now you ain't.
- 34:02Speaker 4: Got a too QUI.
- 34:03Speaker 18: Hold on, you'll take Quinn. Now hold on, but this
- 34:07Speaker 18: is about six time taking it. You're gonna pass on
- 34:09Speaker 18: the seventh. Hold on, but you gotta get something from
- 34:12Speaker 18: all that hell you've been through. I'm talking to somebody.
- 34:15Speaker 18: You all to get excited. You're a hundred yards away.
- 34:18Speaker 18: You all hunting y'alls away. You can see it in
- 34:21Speaker 18: the distance.
- 34:22Speaker 4: You'll close Foo.
- 34:23Speaker 26: Don't give up.
- 34:24Speaker 4: Now you close, my brother. Hold on. Pain is not turning.
- 34:28Speaker 18: It all rolls to success. You gotta go through pay
- 34:32Speaker 18: It's not going to be easy, But I want you
- 34:34Speaker 18: to feel that pain going through your body and shame
- 34:38Speaker 18: leadings your body. Just what's gonna take his place success?
- 34:42Speaker 40: You think when you're young that you have all this time.
- 34:45Speaker 6: You have no time.
- 34:47Speaker 40: There's there's no time. I mean one of the of
- 34:49Speaker 40: the quotes on the wall in the gym, and there's
- 34:53Speaker 40: you know, there is no tomorrow from Rocky three.
- 34:57Speaker 30: It's your brother, your mom, your friend. The one comment
- 35:02Speaker 30: they're going to say, you've changed. Why are you doing
- 35:07Speaker 30: another kick like this?
- 35:08Speaker 1: Oh? You're going to try that now. Okay, here we
- 35:11Speaker 1: go again.
- 35:13Speaker 30: And the thing is is that it's not about them
- 35:16Speaker 30: being right or wrong again, it's about how right and
- 35:19Speaker 30: how wrong they could be.
- 35:20Speaker 22: Without the bad days, the story would be way more lame.
- 35:24Speaker 22: That would be no glory and overcoming anything, because what
- 35:27Speaker 22: did you overcome? It's all just forty to sixty, you know,
- 35:31Speaker 22: vanilla ice cream, mush gray like existence.
- 35:36Speaker 1: Yeah, And every morning you.
- 35:37Speaker 7: Wake up, you hold yourself accountable to that mission, not
- 35:41Speaker 7: accompanies your own make up your own mission statement. What
- 35:45Speaker 7: do you want to be in life? And once you
- 35:48Speaker 7: do that, now you can work with somebody to get better.
- 35:50Speaker 7: You can work with yourself to get better. But until
- 35:53Speaker 7: you know what you want to stand for, you always
- 35:57Speaker 7: just be sitting down. You'll never stand for anything, you know.
- 36:00Speaker 21: So when the game's on the line, I'm not asking
- 36:02Speaker 21: myself to do something that i haven't done thousands of
- 36:04Speaker 21: times before. Right, So when I'm prepare, I know what
- 36:08Speaker 21: I'm capable of doing, I know what I'm comfortable doing,
- 36:11Speaker 21: and i know what I'm not comfortable doing. And so
- 36:14Speaker 21: in those moments, if it looks like I'm ice cold
- 36:17Speaker 21: or not nervous, it's because I've done it thousands of
- 36:20Speaker 21: times before, so it's one more time.
- 36:22Speaker 22: It is astounding how many people want to be spectacular
- 36:26Speaker 22: in life but also want to fit in and be normal.
- 36:28Speaker 22: Like by being normal, you are, by definition aiming for average.
- 36:34Speaker 22: Normal people get normal results. Weird people get weird results.
- 36:38Speaker 22: You literally can't do what everyone else does and not
- 36:41Speaker 22: expect to get what everyone else has. By doing what
- 36:44Speaker 22: everyone else does, you guarantee average results.
- 36:47Speaker 19: Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living with the
- 36:50Speaker 19: results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of
- 36:53Speaker 19: other's opinions dround out your own inner voice, And most important,
- 36:57Speaker 19: have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They
- 37:00Speaker 19: somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything
- 37:04Speaker 19: else is secondary.
- 37:08Speaker 4: No matter what you do, you're all in. This is
- 37:11Speaker 4: gonna kill you.
- 37:13Speaker 33: So I think you might as well play the most
- 37:15Speaker 33: magnificent game you can while you're waiting, because do you
- 37:20Speaker 33: have anything better to do? Really, why not pick the
- 37:23Speaker 33: best thing possible that you could do?
- 37:26Speaker 8: Why not do that?
- 37:27Speaker 33: Maybe you could justify your wretched existence to yourself that way.
- 37:31Speaker 4: Hold on just a minute, man, he can't do that.
- 37:34Speaker 4: He can't be successful. Remember all this crap that he
- 37:38Speaker 4: was covered in. Hold, look at the mistakes this guy's made. Look,
- 37:41Speaker 4: they try to reel you back into that. Man, that's
- 37:44Speaker 4: what people want to do. What they call it crab little.
- 37:46Speaker 45: Bucket, right, They want to pull you back down into
- 37:49Speaker 45: that crap that you came out of.
- 37:51Speaker 4: It freaking pisses them off. Dude.
- 37:53Speaker 45: Most people make these big mistakes in life and they
- 37:56Speaker 45: hide in the corner, man, and nobody remembers you. I
- 37:59Speaker 45: don't care what you you did it freaking ten years ago. Man,
- 38:02Speaker 45: I don't care what you did yesterday. You just gotta
- 38:05Speaker 45: keep going.
- 38:06Speaker 4: That's it.
- 38:06Speaker 45: That's how you cut yourself in these environments to become
- 38:10Speaker 45: who you want to because.
- 38:12Speaker 4: You gotta work through it. I use the pain so
- 38:15Speaker 4: pushing to greatness. I'm telling you right now, don't give up.
- 38:19Speaker 4: I'm telling you right now, don't give here.
- 38:21Speaker 26: Get through it.
- 38:22Speaker 4: Just don't let it bake you. If you get past it,
- 38:25Speaker 4: on the other side of it is going to be phenomenal.
- 38:29Speaker 4: That the end of pay is your millions, at the
- 38:32Speaker 4: end of way is your promise. So stop crying about
- 38:35Speaker 4: it and use your energy to get through it.
- 38:39Speaker 40: If you ever go through something?
- 38:40Speaker 4: Hold your head up? Do you ever make a mistake?
- 38:43Speaker 4: Hold your head up? Do you ever do something that
- 38:46Speaker 4: everything goes wrong? Like text you on the blind side?
- 38:50Speaker 4: Hold your head up? And sometimes you think you know
- 38:53Speaker 4: how it ends. But what if it's not over yet?
- 38:55Speaker 4: What if it's not over yet? What if your best
- 38:58Speaker 4: stays are not behind you?
- 39:00Speaker 8: Nobody succeeds at first. Successful people simply see failure as
- 39:05Speaker 8: a temporary setback. There is no comeback without first setback.
- 39:10Speaker 13: You don't know what sue can take until the pressure
- 39:14Speaker 13: is applied to your life.
- 39:16Speaker 4: You don't know what sue can endure.
- 39:18Speaker 13: Until people stab you in the back and walk away
- 39:21Speaker 13: from you. You don't know how much courage to have
- 39:24Speaker 13: until you've been under the fire and the struggle and
- 39:27Speaker 13: on the tragulisa.
- 39:29Speaker 4: It's when all hell breaks smooth. That's when you get
- 39:33Speaker 4: to see what's the guy?
- 39:39Speaker 5: How many times do you have to hear? If nothing changes?
- 39:42Speaker 5: Nothing changes?
- 39:44Speaker 4: I can't, you can't. Are you kidding me? You just
- 39:47Speaker 4: said I can't? No, you can't.
- 39:49Speaker 13: You will.
- 39:50Speaker 12: A lot of things gonna happen that will catch you off. God,
- 39:53Speaker 12: You're gonna make a lot of mistakes you're gonna have
- 39:55Speaker 12: a lot of failures.
- 39:56Speaker 4: You're gonna have a lot of struggle. You're gonna feel
- 39:58Speaker 4: dumb and ask questions, don't know, have to do, where
- 40:00Speaker 4: to go?
- 40:01Speaker 12: And that's part of growing, that's part of the experimentation process,
- 40:05Speaker 12: because when the tough time's coming, they're going to come.
- 40:08Speaker 4: When life hits you on the blind side and that's
- 40:10Speaker 4: going to happen.
- 40:12Speaker 12: Or someone you thought you'd be married to for the
- 40:14Speaker 12: rest of your life and they decide they want a divorce.
- 40:17Speaker 4: Call life. It's the panic of the pain and it
- 40:20Speaker 4: breaks makes us. You weren't expecting it and it threw
- 40:23Speaker 4: you off.
- 40:24Speaker 8: And that's what broke you.
- 40:26Speaker 46: When you're going through hell, what do you do? You
- 40:29Speaker 46: don't stop there. You want to stay there, You want
- 40:31Speaker 46: to spend the rest of your life there. You keep
- 40:33Speaker 46: going and you put one foot in front of the other.
- 40:37Speaker 46: If at first you don't succeed, you're normal.
- 40:40Speaker 40: Listen. Every day when you get out of bed, life's
- 40:43Speaker 40: standing right there to kick you in the space. Man,
- 40:46Speaker 40: could be anything, could be. You get up and you
- 40:48Speaker 40: walk downstairs, you gotta fuck by tire and you're late
- 40:51Speaker 40: for work, and you got this and that life is
- 40:52Speaker 40: gonna throw all kinds of crazy you right, and you
- 40:56Speaker 40: have to be ready for it.
- 40:57Speaker 34: And you got to deal with it.
- 40:59Speaker 40: Can't curl up and ball, you can't run away from it,
- 41:01Speaker 40: you can't hide. You have to take all this head on.
- 41:05Speaker 40: You have to get up every every day. When I
- 41:06Speaker 40: get up out of bed, I strap up and I'm
- 41:09Speaker 40: getting ready for full before.
- 41:10Speaker 30: It takes more effort to start in the beginning, and
- 41:13Speaker 30: more people are right about the fact.
- 41:14Speaker 1: They're like, hey, you're not going to hit it big
- 41:16Speaker 1: and guess what a month then you're not. But they're
- 41:17Speaker 1: only measuring on much.
- 41:18Speaker 27: What is everything that you have been through can serve
- 41:21Speaker 27: a greater purpose?
- 41:23Speaker 46: What if it's national curse was being broken through your battle?
- 41:28Speaker 4: Life will always be, to a log.
- 41:30Speaker 12: Extent, not what circumstances will make of it, not what
- 41:34Speaker 12: other people will make of it, but what you make
- 41:36Speaker 12: of your life.
- 41:37Speaker 4: That's what your life will.
- 41:38Speaker 12: Be, Not what other people say it will be, not
- 41:41Speaker 12: what the environment will try.
- 41:43Speaker 4: And dictate to you, No, what you make your life.
- 41:46Speaker 12: When you hold on to your dream, don't let anybody
- 41:49Speaker 12: kill it in you guess, hold on to that dream
- 41:51Speaker 12: when it doesn't make sense to anybody include news.
- 41:53Speaker 4: Sometimes just hold on in order to stay down there
- 41:56Speaker 4: on a low level. But it calls on everything in
- 41:59Speaker 4: you you have. I have to hauness your will.
- 42:01Speaker 12: To say I'm going to challenge myself. Sometimes I have
- 42:04Speaker 12: to pull myself out of bed to car less. You
- 42:07Speaker 12: got to learn to stand up to yourself, inside yourself
- 42:10Speaker 12: and shot circuit, override that conversation that's always going on.
- 42:15Speaker 4: Eighty five percent of what that.
- 42:16Speaker 12: Conversation will tell you it is negative.
- 42:19Speaker 4: It's negative.
- 42:20Speaker 12: It will tell you and you're tired when you really
- 42:22Speaker 12: are not tight.
- 42:23Speaker 4: It will tell you you can't do it. It will
- 42:24Speaker 4: fill you with fear.
- 42:26Speaker 12: So you've got to watch that conversation and when you
- 42:28Speaker 12: find it going on, you've got to stand up to
- 42:31Speaker 12: it and say.
- 42:31Speaker 4: I'm gonna do this anyhow. I'm afraid, but I'm afraid
- 42:34Speaker 4: not to do it, and I'm not going to let
- 42:36Speaker 4: you stop me.
- 42:38Speaker 18: This is not a question of if if you can
- 42:40Speaker 18: get to the next level, it's win winn.
- 42:43Speaker 4: You gonna blow up, But worry about if you know
- 42:45Speaker 4: you can do it. You know it's within you, You
- 42:48Speaker 4: know you have what it takes to get to that
- 42:50Speaker 4: next level. The question is not if the question is win.
- 42:55Speaker 4: And I had to hold on. I had to persevere.
- 42:58Speaker 4: I had to tell myself you can't do it. That
- 43:01Speaker 4: means you to expect it. You go fastest thing.
- 43:04Speaker 26: You have to start acceliting the reality of other people,
- 43:08Speaker 26: and you gotta accept your own reality.
- 43:10Speaker 4: I walk in my reality. I don't walk into.
- 43:12Speaker 18: Other people's limitations because you can't do it, because you
- 43:16Speaker 18: can't see it, and telling me it can't happened.
- 43:18Speaker 4: I expected God expected you phenomenal. I don't affect anything
- 43:23Speaker 4: else but phenomenal. Start your is not an option. And
- 43:27Speaker 4: you have to have patience. You gotta have the ability
- 43:31Speaker 4: to wait stuff out, to hold on and hold out. Well,
- 43:35Speaker 4: turn over, you don't turn me out. Yeah, that's what
- 43:38Speaker 4: does not kill you, will make you stronger.