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I Love Other People Outside My Marriage - Actor Daniel Etim Effiong · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Banted Lorenzia.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great?
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about Nollywood actor
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  Daniel ET Murphy Young. Daniel ET Murphy Young is back
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  in the news and let me start by saying that listen, this man is
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  giving us content and we are going to continue to talk about
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  him. All his fans should sit down and
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  enjoy. Stop complaining.
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  Stop complaining now, Danielle. For some of you who don't know,
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  it was alleged that Danielle had gotten somebody pregnant outside
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  his marriage, and since then, Danielle has been running around
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  granting interviews, making things worse.
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  According to Danielle, he loves his wife but he loves other
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  people. Just because he has chosen to
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  love his wife does not mean he doesn't love other people.
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  He said what he has with his wife, Toyo C is a business
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  arrangement. Now let me start by playing that
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  video for you to understand what I am talking about.
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  What I have with my wife is, is a partnership, right?
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  So, so, so we decide that, you know, we're going to build this
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  family. We're going to be.
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  So it's a working relationship. So it's, it's like a business,
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  it's an enterprise, It's a. As founded on love.
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  Yes, exactly. Right.
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  I might love you as my guy, right, but I'm not and I might
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  have a partnership with you that's different from the
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  partnership and it's a different kind of set up.
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  It's a different kind of. Structure.
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  And that's it. However, do I get attracted to
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  people? Yes.
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  I can get attracted to someone and not necessarily be in love
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  with the person. There's been in love with
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  someone and there's loving someone, right?
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  All these. There's lusting after, there's a
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  lot of. Yeah, you know, so there are
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  lots of what's the word now, lots of different parts, lots of
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  different expressions of love. Now that is Nollywood actor
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  Danielle A-Team Egg fiong. For some of you who don't know
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  why this is going viral, news had news has surfaced that and
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  Daniel got somebody pregnant. They had not denied it.
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  Their relationship had remained awkward.
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  According to Daniel, he met Toyosi after somebody rejected
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  his proposal. So when he saw her, he was she
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  was directing one of his movies or one of the movies that he was
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  acting in. So he saw her and he thought
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  that he could build an empire together.
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  Just like he said, there was no love from the beginning.
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  And I don't think there's love at this point because to him it
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  is a business arrangement. It is somebody he got married to
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  who he felt they could build a business together.
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  She would have her kids or their children and she will be able to
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  hold her own. I know there's nothing wrong
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  with that. In my opinion, there's nothing
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  wrong with that. But we reporting the news, I
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  think got a whole lot of people talking.
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  But Danielle is talking and we cannot shut up.
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  We have to talk. Now let me play another video
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  for you to see because they asked Daniel.
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  Do you love your wife? Let's hear from Daniel's mouth.
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  That I'm love being. I love people.
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  I do love people because that's who I am and because I am driven
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  by the spirit of love, by the force of love, I just love.
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  It is a nature that flows out of me, however I have chosen to be.
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  With. One person I have chosen to be
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  in one, to be with one person, and that's why I am with you.
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  And because of the love I have for you around that choice to be
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  with you, I will stick to my decision.
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  But do I not love another person?
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  I love another person, but because I've chosen to be with
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  you, that love will constrain me to be with you and not be with
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  every other person. In what?
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  Capacity, is it? Possible in what capacity?
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  Again, I don't even know what capacity is, but again, would
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  you say the love you have for your wife is the highest form of
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  love you've felt? But I mean, but for your
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  children, that is maybe I. Mean that's a good question.
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  I would say yes. 02 years C2 years C Oh, the I actually feel
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  sorry for Toyosi because listen, there are so many dynamics in
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  marriages. People marry themselves.
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  People marry men who don't love them.
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  People marry men who they know don't love them but they just
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  want to be married. People married to have children,
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  people married to build empires. There are different reason why
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  people get married. And Daniel has stated his reason
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  loud and clear. In my opinion, it is a very
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  valid reason. And I like the fact that he's
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  coming out to his full chest to say these things.
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  He's saying that this is just like addressing the fact that
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  you got you had gotten somebody pregnant.
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  Whether that baby was kept, we don't know.
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  OK, what on the streets is that? Allegedly the lady did not keep
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  the pregnancy. So he is basically addressing
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  it, saying that yes, he is married to Toyosi.
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  That does not mean he cannot love other people.
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  He is loving other people, but he is constrained in the
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  marriage. He cannot go and marry somebody
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  else. He don't.
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  According to him, he does not want to be Yuli Duchi that is
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  married to me. Duchi, yes, you got Judy
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  pregnant. He shouldn't have stepped out
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  because he made a commitment to me.
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  So Daniel is basically saying that yes, I got somebody
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  pregnant allegedly. And in my opinion he did.
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  And he is saying that people should leave him alone.
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  He loves his wife. I mean, it took him some time to
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  even because they asked him is the love you felt like he said
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  is a very good question. He had to rub his head to think
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  of what to say. And he said yes.
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  But that does not mean he doesn't love other people.
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  Daniel is in love with other people.
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  All his defenders or everybody typing in my comment section
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  saying that I am trying to spoil their marriage, I am trying to,
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  I am a liar. I am this, I am that.
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  In my own opinion, Daniel is everything he is saying he is.
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  Daniel said he, he, he, he was not.
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  He was in love with somebody else when he met his wife and
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  decided to get married to his wife because he was rejected.
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  Daniel is now saying that what he had with his wife or what he
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  has with his wife is a business arrangement.
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  Daniel is also saying that he loves other people, but because
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  he has chosen to be married to Toyo, see, he is going to stay
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  in that marriage and build that business.
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  Listen, I am of the opinion that marriage is a business
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  arrangement. Listen, I am before I think of
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  getting married to somebody, I am going to consider it as a
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  business. If it's a viable business, I'll
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  go ahead and do it. So I get it.
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  But these are public figures and your wife had publicly come out
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  and say she will not leave because of cheating.
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  She's not going to leave her marriage because of cheating.
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  So I can understand their dynamics in my opinion.
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  But there are certain things you don't say.
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  There are certain things, even if you are, you are in an open
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  marriage. In my opinion, you don't come
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  out and say those things. Respect your wife.
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  Understand the fact that this woman is carrying you like a
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  Gigi bread on her head, selling you, saying that she's married
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  to a thin God. But Daniel had never come out
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  and talk positively about his wife.
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  Everything he's saying is a business.
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  Is this I am constrained like he's been tied to Toyosi.
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  It's just like getting into a business.
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  The business is not working, but you're you're you're constrained
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  because you, you there are commitments that you've made.
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  Maybe you collected a loan. You had to pay back that loan.
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  So even if you close down the business, you're still paying
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  the loan. Danielle, Danielle, stop
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  talking. Stop talking.
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  I understand that you had to go to all these podcasts to sell
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  your markets. It is, it is allowed.
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  But at the same time, there are certain ways you need.
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  I think he needs media training and I, I honestly think he need
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  media training because he's just blabbing, which is good for us.
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  It's good for content, but at some point you have to, you have
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  to manage how you package your marriage, your wife, your
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  relationship. Here he hasn't talked about his
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  kids, so he knows if he can have self-control about talking about
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  his kids, then Daniel can actually control what he says
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  about his wife, his marriage and his home.
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  But we're here for it. We love it.
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  It's good content. We are happy.
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  Somebody said I was so happy talking about the fact that he
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  got somebody pregnant. And I'm like, listen, have you
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  heard of entertainment news? We are here to share the gossip.
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  The gossip is sweet. I am not sitting down here
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  praying for somebody to end their relationship or their
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  marriage. But I love gossip.
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  I'm going to talk. You want me to be crying?
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  OK. Oh, Daniel.
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  Daniel said that his marriage is a business.
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  Daniel said that he he can. He loves other people.
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  Is that what you want? No, I'm a very happy person.
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  I'm a very, you know, playful person.
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  So it's always going to be band. I mean, it is called bands with
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  Lorenzia. I can if you want serious news
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  that can come and be reading obituary on a daily basis.
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  I will not be laughing reading obituaries.
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  So let's just pray for Daniel and Toyosi.
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  I pray that their marriage makes it because they they, they have.
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  But Toyosi is not living a marriage.
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  Daniel is stating categorically that he's not going to leave,
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  but he's going to love other people.
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  Whatever that arrangement is, in my opinion, is working for them.
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  Let me know what you think. Would you have this kind of
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  arrangements in a marriage or would you rather your husband
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  cheat in peace and not tell you? Let me know what you think.
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