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Episode 63: The Willingness to Do More, Do Less, and Pivot · From My Planit to Yours...

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  SPEAKER_00: Hey, I'm Blizzard Planet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Imagine this.
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  You're ready to critically think,
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  creatively think,
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  and approach life with relentless optimism.
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  SPEAKER_00: And have fun while you do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you visit Planet Butter, a world made of sparkly peanut butter.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the queen,
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  SPEAKER_00: Blissey,
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  SPEAKER_00: the disco ball of self-reflection,
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  SPEAKER_00: is whirling around in her Transforming.
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  SPEAKER_00: Convertible.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is from my planet to yours.
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  SPEAKER_00: The I stands for intuition.
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  SPEAKER_00: Intucentricism.
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  SPEAKER_00: Planet butters philosophy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stick with me.
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  The show is where we reflect on society and practice leading
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  with our intuition,
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  prioritizing self-control and self-expression while holding
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  space for the feelings,
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  SPEAKER_00: desires,
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  SPEAKER_00: and experiences of others.
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  SPEAKER_00: into centricism.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stick with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll show you how.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for joining me in my 63rd episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: As always,
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  please email me any questions you have about your world or
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  Planet Butter's philosophy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Myplanetsyours at gmail.com.
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  SPEAKER_00: Myplanetsyours at gmail.com.
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  SPEAKER_00: So last week,
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  I ended the show telling you guys that I heard somewhere
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  somebody said that gravity
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  SPEAKER_00: is like glue.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, there's a lot to say about that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's think about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's play.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I played.
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  And actually,
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  I've decided that gravity is more like a seatbelt,
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  not glue.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because think about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're floating in space.
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  SPEAKER_00: Earth is in space.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are part of space, the universe.
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  So to keep us from floating off of Earth and into space,
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  we have a seatbelt called gravity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we can technically fly off of Earth, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Planes, rockets.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're already exploring other parts of space, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So...
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  SPEAKER_00: We have, like, it's not glue.
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  SPEAKER_00: Glue keeps you down.
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  SPEAKER_00: Seatbelts are like a suggestion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Buckle up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Glue is like stay forever.
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  SPEAKER_00: Gravity is not like glue.
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  SPEAKER_00: Gravity is like a seatbelt.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, the how for everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I love to remind us that everybody's how is different.
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  SPEAKER_00: However,
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  SPEAKER_00: another thing I remind us all is that we have not so unique ideas,
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  SPEAKER_00: but unique arrivals.
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  SPEAKER_00: Most of the time, ideas aren't unique.
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  SPEAKER_00: However, the way we arrive at ideas will forever be unique.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's the same with how.
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  SPEAKER_00: How we do things, well, it's not the same, but similar.
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  SPEAKER_00: How we do anything will vary per person.
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  And the how is always the fundamental things involved in a how
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  are personal
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  SPEAKER_00: responsibility and magic.
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  Personal responsibility through Planet Butter's lens is the
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  willingness to do more,
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  do less,
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  SPEAKER_00: and pivot while trusting the unis got the rest.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the magic.
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  The magic,
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  quote unquote,
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  as I love to call it,
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  is really just the stuff we can't fathom.
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  SPEAKER_00: Magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: The stuff we can't fathom.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we're just humans.
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  SPEAKER_00: We have incredible intellect, but there's still so much we cannot fathom.
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  SPEAKER_00: possibly understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: And maybe one day we'll evolve to understand, but right now, no.
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  SPEAKER_01: So, magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And on taking responsibility, let's dig into that a little bit more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Again,
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  SPEAKER_00: through Planet Butter's lens,
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  SPEAKER_00: taking responsibility is the willingness to do more,
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  SPEAKER_00: do less,
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  SPEAKER_00: and pivot.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doing more is reflecting, acting, considering.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doing less is resting, receiving, releasing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And pivoting is perspective dancing,
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  SPEAKER_00: which is taking a fact,
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  SPEAKER_00: phrase,
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  SPEAKER_00: perspective,
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  SPEAKER_00: and finding,
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  SPEAKER_00: creating,
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  SPEAKER_00: creating,
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  SPEAKER_00: creating,
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  SPEAKER_00: creating,
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  SPEAKER_00: creating a way to view it from an empowered way
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  SPEAKER_00: and optimistic lens.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's perspective dancing.
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  SPEAKER_00: The other two pieces of a pivot are the reverse clause,
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  SPEAKER_00: Planet Butter's reverse clause,
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  SPEAKER_00: which is approaching things in an inside out,
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  SPEAKER_00: backwards,
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  SPEAKER_00: inverse,
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  SPEAKER_00: or whatever kind of way.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the perpetual question of what makes sense to me?
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  SPEAKER_00: Not me, me, you, you.
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  SPEAKER_00: For me, I ask me.
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  SPEAKER_00: For you, you ask you.
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  SPEAKER_00: What makes sense to me?
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  SPEAKER_00: And the third part of the pivot is objectivity.
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  So we become objective so that we can perspective dance and do
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  the little reverse clause.
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  SPEAKER_01: So again, taking responsibility.
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  SPEAKER_01: Do more, do less, pivot.
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  SPEAKER_01: You got it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And email me if you have any questions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lastly on that is a note on magic.
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  If we think that we need magic in an area of our life where
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  it's not apparently
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  SPEAKER_00: showing up,
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  SPEAKER_00: then we do not need it there yet.
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  It's an invitation to take more responsibility in that area if
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  we are outsourcing money.
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  Magic or relying on magic in an area where we don't think we
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  see magic because
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  SPEAKER_00: there's always magic because we don't know about it,
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  SPEAKER_00: right?
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  SPEAKER_00: However,
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  SPEAKER_00: if we think it needs to show up somewhere and it's not showing up,
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  SPEAKER_00: then that means we need to take more responsibility.
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  SPEAKER_01: Very important detail.
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  SPEAKER_00: Also, expecting magic where it's not blatantly obvious.
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  is also creating resistance because you're not taking personal responsibility.
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  We need to take personal responsibility where we think there
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  needs to be magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you think there needs to be magic and it's not showing up,
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  SPEAKER_00: I've said this so many times now,
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  SPEAKER_00: Chloe,
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  SPEAKER_00: find where you can take more responsibility.
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  SPEAKER_00: Double down, triple down, quadruple down, do what you got to do.
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  SPEAKER_00: Find a way.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's something that you can do.
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  SPEAKER_00: It could be something tiny.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just do something.
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  SPEAKER_01: The uni will see your efforts and love you for it.
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  Now,
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  while things take time,
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  time is really just a mix of energy,
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  to put it simply.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if we shift energy, we're playing with time.
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  Example,
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  I have a little coffee table where I keep my...
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  Oh,
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  I was looking at myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hi, baby.
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  Where I keep my copy,
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  one of my copies of my coffee table book with a lesson,
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  SPEAKER_00: And on that coffee table,
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  SPEAKER_00: well,
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  SPEAKER_00: actually,
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  SPEAKER_00: I just gifted that book to a friend who asked for it,
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  SPEAKER_00: which was so cute,
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  SPEAKER_00: and I signed it for him.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be personal, it already is.
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  So I have since moved that energy from the table and have some
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  seashells and Palo
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  SPEAKER_00: Santo on the table,
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  SPEAKER_00: and I have two little Planet Butter postcards on this table.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I do now, since gifting that book,
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  SPEAKER_00: I, every morning, afternoon, whenever I feel like it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  I literally just shift the shells and the Palo Santo and the
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  postcards around the
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  SPEAKER_00: table in like a different order,
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  SPEAKER_00: just to mix up the energy playing with time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Planet butter's time specifically,
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  SPEAKER_00: because the energy of planet butter is just like boom,
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  SPEAKER_00: boom,
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  SPEAKER_00: boom on that table.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like, magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: time, energy, whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's fun.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just try it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It makes me feel good and it keeps the energy fresh.
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  SPEAKER_00: It really does.
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  SPEAKER_01: Try it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Also,
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  SPEAKER_00: I've shared with you guys recently on Planet Butter's Instagram that Dr.
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  Jill Bolt Taylor has clarified for us that emotions take only
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  90 seconds to process.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that means that if an emotion is lasting longer than 90 seconds,
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  SPEAKER_00: that's you ruminating on the thought.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, this can be a positive experience or a negative one.
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  SPEAKER_00: The choice is yours.
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  We can repeat positive thoughts and the release of the new
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  emotion can be a
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  SPEAKER_00: positive one,
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  or we could ruminate on negative thoughts and the release can
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  be an unpleasant emotion.
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  SPEAKER_00: The choice is yours.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I did the math.
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  SPEAKER_00: We have 960 emotional experiences in a day.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is 90 sets.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, 960 sets of 90 seconds in 24 hours.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not a math girl, but I played.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was fun.
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  SPEAKER_00: Partially for silliness, partially for this perspective.
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  SPEAKER_00: 960 emotional experiences a day.
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  So consider your dominant emotional experience in those 960
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  sets of emotional processing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Are you happy with your decision?
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  SPEAKER_01: If not, how are you going to take responsibility for it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me know.
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  Now,
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  a popular phrase that I've been seeing,
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  I think Mel Robbins coined it,
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  let them,
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  let them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let them do this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let them do that, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like whatever it is, just let them.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when I see people talk about it, it's like negative things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let them treat you like shit so you know where they stand.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let them blah, blah, blah.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, that's true.
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  SPEAKER_00: Great reminder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And let them do.
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  SPEAKER_00: but for the good stuff.
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  Because I think sometimes some of us have a little resistance
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  or a hard time
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  SPEAKER_00: accepting the good stuff from people because of past trauma.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's really it.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's always trauma.
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  SPEAKER_01: Childhood, baby.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, oh, this is hilarious.
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  SPEAKER_00: These guys at my gym slash spa, there's a pool lounge area.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's pretty social with these two guys.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a bit of a younger crowd.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like we're all 20s, 30s, some 40s.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: But these two guys are clearly on the older side.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it was a pretty busy day.
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  SPEAKER_00: They come and they sit.
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  SPEAKER_00: They walk towards me to sit because there was some space next to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I said something friendly to them, whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: We had a little chat.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then they jokingly, but half jokingly said, don't leave too soon.
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  SPEAKER_00: It'll make us look bad.
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  SPEAKER_00: And while it is a half joke,
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  the half of it that's not a joke is unfortunately all the guys
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  in society who give
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  SPEAKER_00: men a bad reputation.
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  have made perfectly kind gentlemen like them have to ask women
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  to not leave too
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  SPEAKER_00: soon so they don't look back.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's so fucked up.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like the loud ones always cause the problems, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So the men in society that people love to hate on do suck.
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  SPEAKER_00: But not all men suck.
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  SPEAKER_00: In fact, I would say most don't.
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  We just are aware of the shit ones because they're shit and
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  people focus on shit.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if we focused on not shit, men wouldn't have such a bad rep.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, I could say more.
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  SPEAKER_00: We could talk about women too, but I'm not gonna.
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  SPEAKER_00: That was the note.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get it.
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  SPEAKER_00: We had a good giggle.
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  SPEAKER_00: Moving on.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here's an important reminder.
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  Just because we start something actually doesn't mean we need
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  to finish it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's just a little seed of action for other inspiration.
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  SPEAKER_00: And speaking of seeds,
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  sometimes it's just time to water a seed and there doesn't
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  necessarily need to be
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  SPEAKER_00: anything else.
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  Sometimes our little inspiration is just like,
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  check in on that little guy over there.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then you go, okay, I will water this one.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then you just let it, just let it grow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Step away.
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  Do the little inspired action and then step back and go do
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  whatever comes next.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes it'll grow.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes it won't grow.
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  SPEAKER_01: Just keep going with your inspired action.
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  self friendship the commitment to embracing understanding and
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  enjoying ourselves
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  get inspired check your boundaries embody confidence because
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  you've respected those
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  boundaries once you've checked them and then you'll operate in
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  alignment which is
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  embodying your role in the ever expansive universe and in that
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  you get to embrace
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  SPEAKER_00: understand and enjoy yourself the silliest okay
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, cool.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, here's a perspective dance.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's experience, not a limitation, unless you allow it to be.
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  SPEAKER_01: We allow it to be.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you think something is a limitation, perspective dance it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that perspective dance can be this is an experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then you decide what is the experience
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  SPEAKER_00: And maybe,
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  SPEAKER_00: especially because it's a limitation,
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  SPEAKER_00: it's likely a self-imposed one because of your belief system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even if it's an external one,
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  it's still self-imposed because you're allowing it to dictate
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  whatever you're doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if an external circumstance seemingly is limiting you,
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  SPEAKER_00: self-reflect,
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  SPEAKER_00: self-connect,
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  SPEAKER_00: how can you take more responsibility?
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  SPEAKER_00: Can you do more, do less, or pivot?
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  SPEAKER_00: Think about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  The uni,
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  our darling universe,
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  which by the way,
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  I was on a podcast the other day.
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  SPEAKER_00: It'll be out soon behind the mic bonus.
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  SPEAKER_00: I forget when the day it releases, but it was such a good episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I read the,
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  SPEAKER_00: one of my love notes that's in my opening of the chapter book,
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  SPEAKER_00: Planet Butter's chapter book,
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  SPEAKER_00: Far Out Fundamentals,
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  SPEAKER_00: coming soon.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was so good.
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  SPEAKER_00: And Scott,
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  SPEAKER_00: the host,
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  SPEAKER_00: pointed out to me,
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean,
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  SPEAKER_00: obviously I know this,
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  SPEAKER_00: but I forget that other people don't call the universe uni.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I just talk to uni regularly.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like, that's my buddy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, you know, it's like a little kid calling their parent mom or dad.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like they hear their real name.
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  SPEAKER_00: What are you talking about?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I kind of think the universe is like my parent in some ways.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it's just looking out for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, the uni keeps us on a need to know basis.
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  It tells us what we need to know so that we do what we need to
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  do so it can do its magic.
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  SPEAKER_01: Consider it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bali, I live in Bali.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm based in Bali, Indonesia, this amazing, magical little island.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've been convinced that there's an extremely potent energy here.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I was telling one of my friends this,
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  SPEAKER_00: he told me that Bali is part of the Ring of Fire,
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  SPEAKER_00: which I didn't know was a thing,
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  SPEAKER_00: but it just sounded so cool.
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  SPEAKER_00: But apparently people know that this is a thing.
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  And what it is,
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  it's all of the countries that are on Earth's equator,
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  right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's the hottest places.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it would make perfect freaking sense that it is a more potent energy.
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  And that further blew my mind,
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  especially because there's this other concept of Bali time.
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  SPEAKER_00: People joke about people being late or slow because it's Bali.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's an island life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here's the thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: I believe part of that
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  potent energy that I observe in Bali and I observe it because I
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  see it in the
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  SPEAKER_00: experiences of people that I talk to here and myself,
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  SPEAKER_00: the intensity of it.
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  And I think this,
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  because I also have been really talking a lot about how time is
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  not linear.
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  And that's also the love note that I shared on Scott's show
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  behind the mic wellness is
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  my love note is about how time is not linear and relating it to
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  Planet Butter's
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  philosophy of into centricism and further connecting it to the
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  individual's timeline.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so Bali has this time.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's like,
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  SPEAKER_00: we've all collectively agreed on 24 hours in a day,
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  SPEAKER_00: 60 seconds in a minute,
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  SPEAKER_00: blah,
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  SPEAKER_00: blah,
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  SPEAKER_00: blah.
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  And yet,
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  I mean,
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  this will vary place per place,
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  but I'm talking about Bali.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just Bali.
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  I've found the energy to be potent and I found the time to
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  further enhance this
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  belief of that potency and the fact that it is this ring of
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  fire placement on earth
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  SPEAKER_00: and we're in space and it is,
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  SPEAKER_00: everything is entirely energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It just makes so much sense because Bali time,
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  SPEAKER_00: it's,
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  SPEAKER_00: there's something to say for the fact that collectively people are,
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  SPEAKER_00: experience the days as longer here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like what happens in two days here might happen in a week somewhere else.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's because we've all collectively agreed to those labels of like,
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  SPEAKER_00: it has only been 48 hours.
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  SPEAKER_00: It has only been whatever, whatever, whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: However,
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  SPEAKER_00: because time is not linear,
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  if we stripped away those labels of what time is and focus on
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  just the experiences
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  SPEAKER_00: of whatever happens in that time being whatever the experience is,
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  SPEAKER_00: It would help in our evolution,
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  in our development and expression of our healthy ego because we
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  wouldn't be
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  SPEAKER_00: attributing it to a label.
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  We wouldn't have the pressure of societal labels on whatever
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  we've experienced in a
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  set timeframe because our emotional and physical experiences of
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  time do not reflect
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  SPEAKER_00: the societal construct of what time is.
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  SPEAKER_00: So come to Bali, see for yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now,
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  SPEAKER_00: that same friend that told me about the Ring of Fire also said to me,
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  SPEAKER_00: people love extremes because they're easier to wrap their heads around.
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  I loved that because I found it very interesting because
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  everything I talk about is
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  SPEAKER_00: entirely a nuance and entirely gray,
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  SPEAKER_00: if you will.
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  SPEAKER_00: So
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  People loving extremes because it's easy to wrap their head
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  around gave me a lot of
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  SPEAKER_00: understanding for navigating my communication of planet butter.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what I find so funny is we can perspective dance this, okay?
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  SPEAKER_01: Perspective dance.
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  Consider reflecting on why an extreme is easier for you to wrap
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  your head around,
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  SPEAKER_00: if it is for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And maybe consider that gray is easier to wrap your head around,
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  SPEAKER_00: perhaps,
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  SPEAKER_00: because gray embodies all.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the understanding of multi-perspectives.
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  SPEAKER_00: Gray is perspective dancing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Gray is oneness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Extremes are duality,
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  which is really just a concept that we use to break down the
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  understanding of oneness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything always comes back to oneness because that is all there is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Duality helps us understand it, but there's only oneness.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you love an extreme,
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  maybe consider the other extreme and then you'll find yourself
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  back in that gray.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oneness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Plan it better.
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  The development and expression of the healthy ego,
• 21:44
  a world made of sparkly peanut butter.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stick with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now there's two types of compartmentalization.
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  SPEAKER_00: Narrow-minded and expansive-minded.
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  Narrow-minded are those who compartmentalize as a means for
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  categorizing and logic.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's nothing wrong with this.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's simply narrow-minded.
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  Expansive compartmentalization is a form of emotional intellect
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  because it's the
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  SPEAKER_00: separation of segments of a situation and dynamics,
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  SPEAKER_00: people,
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  SPEAKER_00: things,
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  SPEAKER_00: what have you,
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  SPEAKER_00: as a means for effectively interacting,
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  SPEAKER_00: engaging,
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  SPEAKER_00: understanding,
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  SPEAKER_01: and evolving.
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  SPEAKER_01: Consider it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me know if you have any questions.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's myplanetsyours at gmail.com.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, why we should...
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  SPEAKER_00: quote unquote, have expectations.
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  SPEAKER_00: Nuances, people.
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  SPEAKER_00: While expectations in terms of results is rarely,
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  SPEAKER_00: if ever,
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  SPEAKER_00: productive,
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  expectations in relation to standards in any given situation
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  can be correlated to
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  SPEAKER_00: our boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: The first core method to activate our self-friendship,
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  SPEAKER_00: the commitment to embracing,
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  SPEAKER_00: understanding,
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_00: and enjoying ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: While I expect Planet Butter to be a beast of a business,
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't have an expectation as to how.
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  I just have the standard of high impact on society and for
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  myself to take full
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  SPEAKER_00: responsibility for it.
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  SPEAKER_00: In relationships,
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  SPEAKER_00: if you don't have any expectations of a person,
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  SPEAKER_00: you might not have enough standards or boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Remember, if we're rooting this in boundaries, then
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  SPEAKER_00: You should have them, right?
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  At least if you want to practice self-friendship and develop
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  and express your healthy ego.
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  SPEAKER_00: Remember my phrase too.
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  SPEAKER_00: What we accept is what we deserve.
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  SPEAKER_01: Keep those standards high, baby.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now here's a cool one.
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  SPEAKER_01: The receiving side of people-pleasing.
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  SPEAKER_01: The receiver of the people pleaser,
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  SPEAKER_00: if emotionally intelligent enough,
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  SPEAKER_00: likely will be able to identify that a person is people pleasing them,
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  SPEAKER_00: self-abandoning themselves for their needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: People pleasing is really a form of self-abandonment.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've talked about this before.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't remember the episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: Listen to all of them.
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  SPEAKER_01: On the receiving side,
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  SPEAKER_00: perhaps considering being considerate of your friend,
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  SPEAKER_00: friendly,
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  SPEAKER_00: or whatever,
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  SPEAKER_01: and encourage them to not people-pleased.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ask them if they're sure that that's what they want to do and why.
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  SPEAKER_00: Challenge their self-friendship practice.
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  SPEAKER_00: Encourage their boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't enable it by letting them bend and please you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you like that they're bending to please you,
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  SPEAKER_00: then you're not healthy and you need some help.
• 25:29
  SPEAKER_00: Now, writer's block is bullshit.
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_00: You don't have writer's block.
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_00: You have resistance.
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  SPEAKER_00: Writing is literally putting your thoughts to paper or keyboard.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's impossible to stop thinking, right?
• 25:44
  SPEAKER_00: That means you're trying to write about something that's not in flow.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're trying, you're resisting.
• 25:54
  SPEAKER_01: If you're resisting, you're not blocked.
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  SPEAKER_01: Drop the excuse.
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  SPEAKER_01: Lastly, intuition in small moments.
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  SPEAKER_00: The other day, I was at the gym.
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  SPEAKER_00: I did my sauna, my ice bath, all good things.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I had a smoothie on my walk to sunset.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's a high protein smoothie, like 33 grams of protein.
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  SPEAKER_00: And
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  SPEAKER_00: I finished it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was delicious.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sunset was gorgeous.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was full.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was probably going to eat again in a couple hours, but I was full.
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  And even though I was full,
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  my intuition was like pizza,
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  pizza,
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  pizza,
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  pizza,
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  pizza.
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  SPEAKER_00: It wasn't my stomach.
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  SPEAKER_00: My stomach was full.
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  SPEAKER_00: My intuition was like, go to Tony's Pizza.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like a New York style pizza place here in Bali.
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  SPEAKER_00: And honestly, they do a really good job.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I was like, fuck, I'm full, but I can't say no to my intuition.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was like, obviously I'm supposed to go to Tony's Pizza.
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  SPEAKER_00: And intuition always wins.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I went.
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  SPEAKER_00: I got a slice.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was delicious.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was super full by then.
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  SPEAKER_00: But intuition called, I answered.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I arrived,
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  SPEAKER_00: I saw two of my lucky numbers right off the bat.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it was meant to be, obviously, I was affirmed in being there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Nothing so dramatic happened.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was just affirmed.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why I'm sharing this because our intuition is always with us.
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  SPEAKER_00: It does not only need to be referenced in these big pivotal moments where
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  SPEAKER_00: everybody's like,
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  SPEAKER_00: listen to your body,
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  SPEAKER_00: listen to yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is what you, you know what you need to do.
• 27:31
  SPEAKER_00: And it's like, yeah, true.
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  But also sometimes it's just going to get a slice of pizza
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  because your intuition said so.
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_00: Planet Butter.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's about making life fun and staying in alignment.
• 27:45
  SPEAKER_00: Your role in the ever expansive universe.
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  SPEAKER_00: My role in that moment was to get pizza.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't know why.
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  Maybe I was supposed to deliver a message to the cashier that
• 27:53
  was super important
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_00: for them to hear during our conversation.
• 27:57
  SPEAKER_00: Or maybe I was supposed to talk to somebody else,
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_00: or maybe somebody else was supposed to say something to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's just like, and it's all supposed to be whatever it was.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we don't know why, because that's the uni's magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't need to know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Our intuition is just leading us along the way.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm always happy to have a slice of pizza.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whatever you want, you need.
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  SPEAKER_00: You see?
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  SPEAKER_00: Take that with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ta-da!
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  SPEAKER_00: Have a beautiful day.
• 28:23
  Email me any questions you have about your world or Planet
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  Butter's philosophy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I will answer on the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: MyPlanetToYours at gmail.com MyPlanetToYours at gmail.com
• 28:37
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for visiting Planet Butter,
• 28:39
  SPEAKER_00: my world made of sparkly peanut butter,
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  SPEAKER_00: where I hopefully inspire you to critically think,
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_00: creatively think,
• 28:46
  SPEAKER_00: and optimistically approach life.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_00: Believing in the magic,
• 28:50
  developing and expressing our healthy ego through the practice
• 28:55
  of self-friendship,
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_00: which is the commitment to embracing,
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_00: understanding,
• 28:59
  SPEAKER_00: and enjoying ourselves.
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  Integrated with the PV Jet Ring of Consciousness,
• 29:05
  our cycle for decision-making,
• 29:07
  SPEAKER_00: Intuition, sensations, action, sensations again.
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  SPEAKER_00: The cycle repeats.
• 29:14
  SPEAKER_00: Keep listening.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll get there together.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not easy, but we can choose to make it fun.
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