Latest / Future Christian / Why Church Renewal Fails (and What Actually Works)
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- 0:00>> Khris Vos: Foreign.
- 0:05>> Martha Tatarnic: This is the Future Christian Podcast. A
- 0:08conversation about church leadership, fresh ideas
- 0:11and the future of the church. Welcome to the
- 0:19Future Christian Podcast. Today, Loren Richmond
- 0:22Jr. Is in conversation with Chris Boss and Larry
- 0:26Durenbos. Chris is the campus pastor of a church
- 0:29Restart in Lake Worth, Florida that is part of
- 0:32Sunlight Community Church campuses of South
- 0:35Florida. He is also the director of the center for
- 0:38Church Renewal. Previously he spent 20 years
- 0:41leading a church plant, Crossroads Community
- 0:44Church in Indiana. On his journey of church
- 0:47planting, he spent time learning from and training
- 0:50other church planters. Currently in the work of
- 0:53renewal, he has come alongside other renewal
- 0:56leaders. His greatest passion is building
- 0:58relationships with people who don't know Christ.
- 1:01He is married to Deborah and together they have
- 1:03four children and four grandchildren. Larry loves
- 1:07and is committed to the local church. He is an m
- 1:10experienced pastor, church planter and leader. He
- 1:13began his ministry in New Mexico. In 1993, Larry,
- 1:17along with a core group of seven families, began
- 1:20Evergreen Ministries in Michigan. Evergreen is an
- 1:24outward facing church that serves its community
- 1:26and the world. Larry served as director of Vibrant
- 1:30Congregations, helping congregations discover
- 1:33their God given, hope filled future. Presently he
- 1:36is president of Imagine Church and director of the
- 1:39New Horizons Project. In his free time, Larry
- 1:43loves hanging out with his wife Linda, professor
- 1:45at Oakland University, exploring cities and
- 1:48viewing British tv. He also works out, but he does
- 1:52not enjoy that at all. Linda and Larry have two
- 1:56children, Gail, a professor at Dort University and
- 1:59Chris, a special needs young man who inspires
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- 2:38>> Loren: I suppose since there's two of you work how you
- 2:41look on my screen. So Chris, you're just to my
- 2:45side.
- 2:45So Chris, let's begin with you. Share kind of
- 2:48about your journey of faith, what that looked like
- 2:50in the past and what that looks like today.
- 2:53>> Khris Vos: Yeah, it really started for me, uh, in early,
- 2:57early adolescence with uh, loneliness. I was
- 3:00really felt isolated. I had a severe case of acne
- 3:04that made me feel kind of like a leper. Uh, among
- 3:08my Pryse and through my parents, uh, their
- 3:13faithfulness and their brokenness, I discovered a
- 3:16friendship in God and that really transformed my
- 3:21future and my life. Yeah, currently I think one of
- 3:26the you asked about spiritual practices. I think
- 3:28one of the things that I'VE added to my spiritual
- 3:31routine is listening to the psalms set to music.
- 3:35And that's really been, uh, a great growing thing
- 3:39for me in my spiritual life.
- 3:42>> Loren: So, yeah. Yeah, thanks for sharing that. Larry,
- 3:45how about you?
- 3:47>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah, I was blessed to be raised in a pastor's
- 3:50home. And so I'm a pastor's kid and, uh, walked
- 3:53that pathway of faith, uh, with a family that
- 3:56managed to do that balance of being kind of in the
- 3:59fishbowl and at the same time allowing us freedom
- 4:02to be who we were. And so we're really thankful
- 4:04for that, uh, upbringing in the faith. And when I
- 4:08think a little bit about spiritual practices,
- 4:10mine, um, constantly shift. And so at certain
- 4:14times I'm deeply into prayer, other times I'm
- 4:16deeply into the scriptures and, um, just all the
- 4:19different practices. And I'm a person who kind of
- 4:23needs that shift to kind of keep things kind of,
- 4:26uh, fresh and alive for me. Uh, and right now I've
- 4:29just started doing a read through the Bible using,
- 4:32uh, the Bible project materials. And uh, so, yeah,
- 4:35just that whole flavor of movement and so on in my
- 4:39spiritual life.
- 4:40>> Loren: Awesome. Thanks for sharing all that.
- 4:43So let's begin the conversation with this.
- 4:45Actually, I'm thinking, um, Larry and Chris,
- 4:50you'll have to correct me here or clarify, but
- 4:53they come from the Christian Reformed Church and
- 4:56the Reformed Church of America, or at least those
- 4:58are the contexts you both work within. So for our
- 5:01listeners maybe who are unfamiliar with those
- 5:04contexts, those traditions, uh, Larry, can you
- 5:07just share a little bit about those traditions?
- 5:11>> Khris Vos: Sure.
- 5:11>> Larry Doornbos: So the Reformed Church in America is actually the
- 5:14oldest denomination, Protestant denomination in
- 5:16the United States. Uh, and so if you go to the
- 5:19west coast or to the east coast, you'll find, uh,
- 5:22churches that have a history of more than 400
- 5:24years. Uh, and we've had the joy of working with
- 5:26some of those churches along the way. Uh, and the
- 5:29Christian Reformed Church is actually kind of an
- 5:32offshoot of the RCA in the 1800s, late 1800s. Um,
- 5:38and Chris and I have been part of the Christian
- 5:40Reformed Church that whole time. Um, I'm now an
- 5:42RCA pastor. Uh, but there's a lot of similarities
- 5:46between the two denominations. Uh, and we get to
- 5:48serve those denominations, but also, uh, through
- 5:52part of our project, we also serve non
- 5:54denominational churches and Pentecostal churches.
- 5:57>> Loren: Yeah, Chris, I have to ask this as someone who
- 6:01this podcast and myself, we are primarily situated
- 6:04within like the mainline tradition in America. And
- 6:08this is a question that I always ask folks. Like,
- 6:11I ask about folks who I know who are like LCMS
- 6:15Lutheran Church, Missouri Synod. Uh, same
- 6:17question. Like D.O. c. Does. Does the RCA and CRC
- 6:22consider themselves part of the mainline?
- 6:25>> Khris Vos: That's a great question, and I think one we're
- 6:28continually wrestling with. Yeah, we like to see
- 6:32ourselves, uh, both, both in the mainline
- 6:35tradition as well as in the evangelical camp. So,
- 6:39yeah, we're. We like to ride the fence on that
- 6:41particular issue.
- 6:43>> Loren: Yeah, fair enough. Fair enough. I, uh, was just
- 6:45reading a book by, by a United Methodist author.
- 6:48Hopefully will be on the podcast soon. Leavitt
- 6:50Weems talks about how Methodism really, in many
- 6:54ways should be seen as sort of, I think, a bull
- 6:57fan, like you said there.
- 7:00Well, let's talk about this. I somehow came across
- 7:03Yalls work and thought this would make for an
- 7:07interesting conversation as, uh, this is a podcast
- 7:09where I'm always interested. Martha and I are
- 7:11interested in the future of the church and what's
- 7:13happening to seek revitalization, renewal. So I
- 7:17Keuss begin by talking about the center where you
- 7:21all work, where you're all a part of, kind of how
- 7:23that came to be and what that, uh, emphasis is on
- 7:26now.
- 7:29>> Khris Vos: Yeah, um, I'll start with my, uh, own journey
- 7:32there, actually. Keith Doornbos, Larry's brother,
- 7:35was the, uh, is our founder and he's still on our
- 7:39teaching team, though he's retired. Uh, but I kind
- 7:42of came to the whole journey, um, not willingly. I
- 7:45was a church planter for 20 years, and God really
- 7:50blessed that church plant in Northwest Indiana
- 7:52where I was at. And I had a little bit of that
- 7:54arrogant edge of church planters that they
- 7:56sometimes have, and kind of never kind of bought
- 8:03into that, saying that we like the same church
- 8:05planting. It's easier to give birth than it is to
- 8:07raise the dead.
- 8:09>> Loren: Yeah.
- 8:10>> Khris Vos: And then, then God called me to a renewal work,
- 8:13really a, uh, replant here in South Florida. And
- 8:16then Keith and Larry invited me into the teaching
- 8:19team for what we call the Renewal Lab. That's kind
- 8:23of our flagship ministry of the center for Church
- 8:27Renewal. And I just, I began to see pastors and
- 8:32leaders who were really passionate missional and
- 8:36wanted to see renewal in their churches. And as we
- 8:40began to teach some of the principles that we do
- 8:43in the Renewal Lab, they were just eating it up
- 8:45and working in every way possible to apply these
- 8:51principles in their local setting. And my heart
- 8:54just was moved to say there are so many churches
- 8:58and so many local pastors out there that need
- 9:02encouragement, that need some guidance and some
- 9:05coaching along the way in the very difficult
- 9:08journey of church renewal. And that just really
- 9:11moved my heart uh, to be a part of it. And
- 9:15eventually God positions things so that I'm now
- 9:18the director of the center for Church Renewal. And
- 9:21it's been a blessing for me to be a part of it for
- 9:24the last two years.
- 9:26Larry, maybe can give you a little bit more of the
- 9:28early beginnings.
- 9:30>> Loren: Yeah. Yeah. Great.
- 9:32>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah. So, uh, we started in about 2013. Uh, I was
- 9:36working at the time for something called Christian
- 9:38Reformed Home Missions, um, and my brother was
- 9:41beginning this journey, and we began to think
- 9:44about what's it look like to create churches that
- 9:46follow renewal Pathway and make their way towards
- 9:49a healthier future. And so we worked on that
- 9:52together about 2013, 2014, uh, when we began, we
- 9:57were connected to Calvin Theological Seminary in
- 9:59Grand Rapids, uh, and were there for a few years
- 10:02and then became, uh, an independent organization,
- 10:05uh, under, uh, what's called 222 multiply. Um, and
- 10:11so we've served about 120 churches and over 1,000
- 10:15leaders, uh, over the years we've been together.
- 10:18And, uh, it's just been a great journey. Uh, we
- 10:20work with wonderful people. And, uh, kind of our
- 10:23big move right now is we're working with Native
- 10:25American congregations and Latino congregations in
- 10:27renewal and with groups in, um, Michigan, Florida,
- 10:32uh, Los Angeles and New Mexico.
- 10:37>> Loren: So, Larry, I'm curious. Like, my hunch is that
- 10:40regardless of the context or regardless of the
- 10:44tradition or denomination in America, especially
- 10:46amongst like, uh, predominantly white
- 10:49congregations, like, I imagine many of the
- 10:51challenges are the same. And I'm curious, is that
- 10:55suspicion accurate regardless of tradition?
- 10:59>> Larry Doornbos: You know, I think it is. So as we've gone through
- 11:02this journey, uh, we talk about, uh, the big three
- 11:07and the hidden one when it comes to almost all
- 11:09churches we work with. And so the big three are
- 11:13most churches lack either a vision or a calling.
- 11:16Uh, they lack a discipleship pathway. And they
- 11:19haven't figured out how to bridge people from
- 11:21their community back into the life of their
- 11:23congregation. And then we talk about a hidden one,
- 11:26which is, uh, what's the culture of the church?
- 11:30Because culture will destroy almost everything
- 11:32else into a real process. And so there are. So we
- 11:37found that along the way, um, that really when we
- 11:40start talking to congregations and work with them,
- 11:42that it's these big three things that they need to
- 11:44focus in on and then also discover the culture of
- 11:47their church, which is either blocking the way of
- 11:50the renewal journey or giving them, uh, health
- 11:53towards that renewal journey.
- 11:55>> Loren: What was that third one you said?
- 11:57>> Larry Doornbos: Um, the third one is connecting people from their
- 12:00community back into the life of the congregation.
- 12:03>> Loren: Tell me More about that.
- 12:05>> Larry Doornbos: So what we find, often these churches do a really
- 12:07good job, if you will think about a bridge that
- 12:10they bridge to their community through all kinds
- 12:13of things. You know, they. They have a food
- 12:15pantry, they do vacation Bible school. They, uh,
- 12:18have some events or something like that. Right.
- 12:20But they've not figured out how do we take that
- 12:23bridge and not only go this way, but have it come
- 12:25back this way so that people become part of the
- 12:28life of the congregation. And so that's the really
- 12:31difficult thing. Most congregations do a really
- 12:33great job of things in their community, but they
- 12:36never figured out how do we actually build the
- 12:38relationships and the connections that move those
- 12:41people from where they were into the life of the
- 12:43congregation and into faith.
- 12:46>> Loren: Let's stay on this for a moment, Chris, because I
- 12:48find this. I'm definitely seeing this or, uh,
- 12:53recognizing this trend too, because obviously
- 12:55people understand, broadly speaking, lacking a
- 12:59vision. Most people, I think, understand lacking
- 13:02discipleship. And I think anybody who's tried to
- 13:04lead a church, an unhealthy church, understands
- 13:06how much culture can make or break your efforts.
- 13:10But this, this. I'm intrigued by this point about,
- 13:14uh, if I'm thinking about it visually of like, you
- 13:19know, like you said, the bridge back to the
- 13:20church. Because tons of churches will do lots of
- 13:24stuff for outreach. But certainly depending on
- 13:27the. The context, I mean, there is certainly, I
- 13:31want to acknowledge, within some traditions, some.
- 13:33They might even have some angst. I'll just be
- 13:36frank. In some of the conversations I have with
- 13:38different church leaders in different contexts,
- 13:40there might be some angst about expecting any kind
- 13:43of, uh, return or folks to come from the
- 13:47community. Uh, but what have you seen? How have
- 13:50you helped churches think intentionally about, um,
- 13:55making pathways, like you said, back to the
- 13:57church?
- 13:59>> Khris Vos: Well, nothing transforms a culture like genuine
- 14:03relationships with people who are far from Christ,
- 14:08whether, uh, those people come to the church or
- 14:10not. Uh, if we can encourage and train people to
- 14:14build relationships, intentionally build
- 14:17relationships and be in environments where they're
- 14:22with people who are far from Christ and really
- 14:24listen to them and understand their perspective,
- 14:28their worldview. Man, that does wonders to
- 14:32transform the culture of a church. To say, wow, I
- 14:37never thought about that. Uh, you know my good
- 14:41friend Pat, uh, who I talk about in the lab a lot,
- 14:44he is not a Christian. Uh, his wife gets into our
- 14:48church, so he's a regular part of it. But after
- 14:51about three years of attending our church, he said
- 14:54to me, chris, I gotta tell you, I don't hate
- 14:56church anymore. And it was like, wow, that was
- 15:00just a. It was so encouraging to me. But at the
- 15:02same time, it's like, man, you've come a long way.
- 15:06What's going on in your head when it comes to
- 15:08church? You know? And how do we begin to shape men
- 15:12ministry in a way that addresses some of those
- 15:15concerns or those misconceptions about what church
- 15:19is? And if you can get more and more people in the
- 15:21church to have those kind of relationships, it
- 15:25really begins to change their thinking about
- 15:28what's important and what's a priority in the
- 15:30church. So hopefully that answered your question.
- 15:34>> Loren: Yeah, I'm thinking, too, about, like, I was just
- 15:37at a church that past week that has a ministry. It
- 15:41sits right next to a big high school, and they
- 15:43have an intentional ministry effort where they
- 15:46welcome kids come over from the high school during
- 15:49the lunch break to hang out, get snacks, whatever.
- 15:53And the church is very explicit that they said,
- 15:56like, we're not expecting, you know, immediate
- 16:00attendance in youth group or Sunday morning. Like
- 16:04they said, we recognize this is a long game. So
- 16:07how much. How much is that important, Larry? Just
- 16:10to set maybe realistic expectations, like, I mean,
- 16:14gosh, Chris, three years and the, you know. Three
- 16:18years.
- 16:19>> Khris Vos: Yeah,
- 16:23>> Larry Doornbos: I think. Sorry about that. I had a little
- 16:25interruption on my computer.
- 16:27Um, a couple of things come to my mind. One is
- 16:31that, um, when churches talk about, um, bridging
- 16:35back into the church, um, my first thought about
- 16:40that is we bridge people back into the church. Not
- 16:43for something that we're getting or getting their
- 16:45attendance or getting their, you know, time or
- 16:47getting their money. We're bridging them back into
- 16:50the church because the church has good news and
- 16:52good life.
- 16:53>> Loren: Yeah, Right.
- 16:54>> Larry Doornbos: And so when we talk to people, what we want to be
- 16:57able to say is, we invite you in, not because, in
- 17:00a sense, we need you here. We need your money,
- 17:03your time, but we believe this is a place of life,
- 17:07and we want to make sure that you find this place
- 17:09of life. And Chris has this in his congregation.
- 17:13Uh, one of the congregations that I served had
- 17:15this.
- 17:15>> Khris Vos: Uh.
- 17:16>> Larry Doornbos: But we have had a strong recovery ministry. Right.
- 17:19And we could literally say, in our church, there
- 17:21are people alive today that wouldn't be because
- 17:24they're part of that recovery ministry. And as
- 17:27they became part of that recovery ministry and
- 17:29they found life there, they also began to find
- 17:31life in the church. And so I really want to say,
- 17:35um, you know, for those high school kids, no,
- 17:37we're not. We're not trying to get you here
- 17:38because we want your bodies in pew.
- 17:40>> Loren: Right, Right.
- 17:41>> Larry Doornbos: We want you here because this is a place of Life.
- 17:44>> Loren: Yeah.
- 17:44>> Larry Doornbos: And. And so part of the, the work of the
- 17:47congregation is to make sure that it's a place of
- 17:50life, uh, and that it becomes a draw because of
- 17:55that life, rather than saying, oh, you ought to be
- 17:58here, but there's no life here.
- 18:01>> Loren: Yeah. I'll say this because this is my podcast and
- 18:04I can offend my listeners, um, who, you know, I
- 18:08tend to have a lot of folks on the mainline side
- 18:12and the main line, there are some, certainly some
- 18:15liberal sides to the mainline. And I think this
- 18:18can be a challenge, is that there's a doubt of
- 18:23whether the church has life. Uh, I'll just be
- 18:25frank. So I think, like, that's hard, you know,
- 18:28that's gonna be hard to overcome, especially
- 18:30because inevitably when that is doubted, it
- 18:34becomes the first part. What you said it's because
- 18:36we need you. Like, we need you to prop up our
- 18:39dying institution, which never works. So, you
- 18:45know, I want to clarify, I want to emphasize that,
- 18:48but I think that's such an important point is
- 18:51like, if you don't really believe that you have
- 18:53something to offer, like, it's not going to work.
- 18:56Mhm.
- 18:58>> Khris Vos: And that takes me to one of the challenges I
- 19:01thought of that I think a lot of churches faces is
- 19:04that they're more eager to survive from the
- 19:08mission than they are to die for the mission. M.
- 19:12And that's a struggle. You know, it's a tension
- 19:15that I. That we deal with, with people and we, we
- 19:18try to get to that place where we want to do
- 19:21whatever it takes to bring the gospel to our
- 19:25community. And if that means our death, so be it.
- 19:29But that's not an easy place to get to.
- 19:33>> Loren: Yeah. Because like, I'm sure y' all see this all
- 19:36the time, where it inevitably that the unstated
- 19:39mission becomes just survival. Like, it's not like
- 19:43we're trying to share the gospel or reach our
- 19:45community, whatever. It's just like survival is
- 19:47the mission.
- 19:48>> Khris Vos: Yeah.
- 19:49>> Loren: Which certainly is not helpful or healthy for
- 19:51anybody.
- 19:53I'm curious, I'm curious about this, Chris. Like,
- 19:56where do you see churches most often misdiagnosing
- 20:00their problems. So I mean, certainly there's some
- 20:03like, lag measures, to use that word, I would
- 20:05think. Like attendance is a lag measure. Uh, you
- 20:09know, lacking of leadership is a lag measure. But
- 20:12like, I'm convinced it's probably more lead
- 20:15measures. Uh, what, like, what do you see? Like
- 20:19what churches. They're pointing the wrong thing is
- 20:23a problem, I Keuss is what I'm saying.
- 20:25>> Khris Vos: Yeah. I think it is so easy for A church to have
- 20:31no indication that we're making disciples. And yet
- 20:37we have good attendance, we have good finances.
- 20:40You know, we have good worship on the weekends.
- 20:43And, uh, yet we, we can look back at our history,
- 20:47and there's no evidence that we're making more and
- 20:50better disciples. And that's part of our mission
- 20:53statement at the center for Church Reform Renewal
- 20:55is we want to help churches may be intentional,
- 20:58intentionally, missionally, and make more and
- 21:00better disciples that transform lives and
- 21:02communities for Christ. And I think it's amazing
- 21:05to me, even in my own ministry, I've spent a lot
- 21:08of years measuring, uh, the wrong things. And like
- 21:13you said, we, we use that language of leading and
- 21:16lagging indicators in, in the renewal lab. And I
- 21:20think we try to help churches say, let's measure
- 21:24the right things. How are we raising up more? So
- 21:28we're adding, you know, new people from, to the
- 21:33kingdom who were far from God. Uh, so we're adding
- 21:35more, but we're also bringing people deeper. And
- 21:38that's one of the things that Covid just exposed
- 21:41in the Western church, right? Is that all of a
- 21:44sudden we cut millions of people from the church
- 21:47who said, uh, I Keuss I don't need church. And,
- 21:49uh, it was so clear that we are focusing on the
- 21:53wrong things. And so we try to say discipleship
- 21:57and growing people deeper. More and deeper is the
- 22:01center. And how do we measure that? And we try to
- 22:03help give churches tools so they know, are we
- 22:07making more and better disciples?
- 22:10>> Loren: Larry, let's stay on this discipleship thing,
- 22:12because this is something that I've been thinking,
- 22:14thinking about, about even more generally. Like, I
- 22:18saw this. I'm trying to pull it up on my phone. I
- 22:21saw this tweet or post, Gosh, oh, yeah, here it
- 22:27is. And as someone was saying again, the bugaboo
- 22:30of church attendance you guys probably encounters
- 22:33all the time travel, sports. And I want you to
- 22:37listen to this. This guy gives some, like, uh,
- 22:41bullet points about travel, sports, guaranteed
- 22:44family time every weekend, tour the entire
- 22:47country, see the sights. Kids gain athletic skills
- 22:51and priceless memories, chance at scholarships.
- 22:55Kids stay out of trouble, make friends with people
- 22:58in town. And he says this is supposed to be,
- 23:01quote, unquote, bad, asking a question. And I just
- 23:05thought like, wow, is that, uh, not just so
- 23:09perfectly summarized that more and more families
- 23:15are looking at other things to form or disciple
- 23:19their kids?
- 23:23>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah, we had that a lot. Uh, as I was, as I was
- 23:27pastoring, right, we were kind of at the front end
- 23:30of that whole movement, which has gotten more and
- 23:32more uh, over the years. And, um, one of my fellow
- 23:37pastors on, uh, staff, uh, would say to me, he
- 23:39was. He was a guy who got a scholarship playing
- 23:41basketball and all this kind of stuff. And, and he
- 23:44said, you know, he could talk. Talk all they want
- 23:46about scholarships. You know, how many of those
- 23:47kids are actually going to get a scholarship? M.
- 23:50And so it's a little bit of an excuse, but I
- 23:53think, you know, one of the things the church has
- 23:55to figure out is we can say what we want. Uh,
- 24:00families are going to do what they're going to do.
- 24:02And so in that context, um, how do we disciple
- 24:06people who are there intermittently and kids who
- 24:12are there intermittently? And, um, there's a book,
- 24:17ah, called Imagine Church. And he talks about
- 24:22recognizing that when we're at work, God wants to
- 24:24disciple us at work. And he begins to talk about
- 24:28how do we work that, um, how do we think with
- 24:31people in their jobs towards discipleship. And I
- 24:36would say that if we're going to wisely live into
- 24:39this reality, we're not going to shame people
- 24:43probably out of it.
- 24:44>> Loren: Right, right.
- 24:44>> Larry Doornbos: Uh, so how do we then, ah, begin to say, so how do
- 24:48we disciple families that are living that reality?
- 24:52Because we're not going to force them to change.
- 24:55But just like, we start talking about what your
- 24:58work is a place of discipleship. So if your
- 25:00weekend's a place of discipleship and you're gone
- 25:0320 weekends a year, um, how do we disciple you and
- 25:07disciple your kids in that context? And that calls
- 25:10for, you know, a whole different way of us looking
- 25:13at this. And, you know, this as well, Loren But,
- 25:16you know, most people now, if they show up to
- 25:18church once out of six weeks, they say, you know
- 25:21what? I'm a member of that church. I'm faithful.
- 25:23Right. And, you know, in years past, I mean, you
- 25:26know, in Chris, in my tradition, it was Sunday
- 25:29morning and Sunday evening.
- 25:30>> Loren: Right.
- 25:31>> Larry Doornbos: And. And then you had oncers. Right. And they just
- 25:33came once a week, and now it's once every six
- 25:36weeks. And so we have a whole different pathway
- 25:39that we have to think about when it comes to
- 25:41discipleship and how we work in the realities that
- 25:44we're doing ministry in. And sometimes I think we
- 25:48always tried to battle against that, and I think
- 25:50eventually we said, we're not going to win that
- 25:52one. So how do we do this differently?
- 25:54>> Loren: Yeah. First of all, as someone who grew up
- 25:56independent Baptist and had evening church on
- 25:59Sundays, I'm thrilled to hear I'm not. Was not the
- 26:01only one. Who else? Who else what other tradition
- 26:05did that? So I Keuss you all.
- 26:08I want to ask about Chris, like, what's the
- 26:12biggest thing? Because I think this is so often
- 26:15what happens in. In struggling churches or
- 26:17churches seeking renewal is just like. It just
- 26:20becomes like a. Let's throw some things at the
- 26:22wall, see what sticks. How do you move from trying
- 26:25new things to actual transformation in culture and
- 26:29identity?
- 26:31>> Khris Vos: Yeah, well, we do encourage them to try new
- 26:34things, but at the core, core of what we encourage
- 26:37is, uh, that the gospel is at the center of
- 26:40everything. So that it's not innovation for the
- 26:43sake of innovation, it's innovation for the sake
- 26:45of the gospel. And that we really begin, uh, with
- 26:51helping them understand. How do we put the gospel
- 26:53at the center of everything? In our preaching, in
- 26:56our relationships with people, uh, in our
- 27:00decision, discipleship, how does that shape who we
- 27:03are? And so that the forms, whatever the forms
- 27:07might take, you know, whatever program or idea we
- 27:10might have, that it's grounded firmly in the
- 27:14gospel. And in some ways that sounds. Yeah, I
- 27:18mean, we're rediscovering the first love, as John
- 27:22would say in revelation. Right. It's like you've
- 27:25held on to you, not forgotten your first love. And
- 27:28that is the gospel at the heart of everything. And
- 27:30I think it's amazing to me that everybody knows
- 27:35that. I think, uh, at least most of the churches
- 27:38that we work with, I think that's. That's, you
- 27:42know, that's not surprising to them, but it's how
- 27:45they apply that and how that really looks on a
- 27:48practical basis. We really. There's some real
- 27:53transformation that we see happen in the lives of
- 27:56leaders and, uh, elders and deacons that come
- 28:00alongside the point leader, because we work with
- 28:03both in the renewal lab. So, yeah, just bringing
- 28:07them back to that core piece, I think, is really a
- 28:10huge part of what we do.
- 28:13>> Loren: Larry, let's stay on this. I'm thinking about.
- 28:17Oftentimes I've seen where a church wants to try
- 28:20this big sort of moonshot thing, and I think there
- 28:24can kind of be this sense that a struggling church
- 28:28will try something big and bold, and it doesn't
- 28:32succeed, doesn't land, and then they're even more
- 28:36reticent to try something again in the future. So,
- 28:40like, practically speaking, what does your
- 28:42suggestions, uh, look like for churches and trying
- 28:46new things?
- 28:47>> Larry Doornbos: So we do a couple of things. We talk about
- 28:49creating a healthy church culture, which is a
- 28:52culture of grace and permission that we treat each
- 28:54other with grace that God and Christ treat us
- 28:57with, but also a culture, um, of permission where
- 29:01we are permitted to try new things and fail at
- 29:04them. Um, but we also probably more connected to
- 29:09that, but we talk about short term wins, so we
- 29:12don't, we don't talk about moonshots. We talk
- 29:15about building a number of short term wins that
- 29:19give people confidence, um, that they can try new
- 29:22things. And some of those things will work, and
- 29:23some of those things won't work, but it's not the
- 29:25end of the world because they haven't done a
- 29:27moonshot. You know, I mean, you know, one example
- 29:30of this is that we were working with a church that
- 29:32wanted to increase their hospitality. Um, they
- 29:35served poor coffee back in a fellowship room. You
- 29:39had to walk to the front of the sanctuary through
- 29:40a six single door to get into. You know, it's very
- 29:43intimidating for guests in particular. And they
- 29:46said, you know what, we're going to serve better
- 29:48coffee and we're going to serve it in the narthex.
- 29:50Well, ah, that's just a little thing. Right. It
- 29:52cost them a couple hundred bucks to do better
- 29:53coffee and so on. But for them, for the
- 29:56congregation, they said, oh, something's changed,
- 29:58something's happening. We, uh, had another church
- 30:00that said, we're going to invite our neighbors to
- 30:02come at Christmas time and just decorate the trees
- 30:06outside our church and, and we'll have hot
- 30:08chocolate and cookies and that kind of stuff. And
- 30:11so we don't say shoot for the moon. We say find
- 30:15some short term wins that build some confidence
- 30:17that if they fail, you can say we're a place of
- 30:19grace and permission. If they go, well, you can
- 30:21say, let's celebrate. So we're, we're more
- 30:25incremental rather than shoot for the moon kind of
- 30:27people.
- 30:28>> Loren: Yeah. I want to stay on this culture of grace and
- 30:31permission, especially the permission part,
- 30:35because I imagine I'm making assumptions here, but
- 30:38I imagine in churches you work with that have been
- 30:41around for a while, or like many churches that I'm
- 30:44familiar with, been around for a while, like a lot
- 30:47of like, committees and structure and complicated
- 30:51processes for like traditionally running things
- 30:54through to make things happen. Like is a
- 30:59restructuring or reallocation feeding of like
- 31:03permission giving, like, what does that look like?
- 31:05What do you advise churches to do for that?
- 31:08>> Larry Doornbos: We actually spend, uh, one, uh, entire session of
- 31:12our lab talking about structures.
- 31:14>> Loren: Yeah.
- 31:14>> Larry Doornbos: And Right. And talking about, uh, what makes for
- 31:18healthy structures. What makes for permission
- 31:20giving structures? Um, what size is a good size
- 31:23for your board? Right. A lot of people think the
- 31:25bigger the board, the better the board. And our
- 31:28response is no, no, the smaller the board Usually
- 31:31the better the board. And so we do spend time, uh,
- 31:34walking through that and encouraging, uh, along
- 31:39the pathway from the very first moment for
- 31:42leadership to go back, uh, to the church and start
- 31:45talking about becoming a permission giving
- 31:47community and structuring themselves so that
- 31:50permission can happen. And we know that's a real
- 31:53struggle. We had somebody walk into our church,
- 31:57uh, a number of years ago. We were building
- 31:59something out and uh, the guy said, that looks
- 32:02like a really great thing. What did it take to
- 32:04have that done? And I said, well, it was in the
- 32:07budget and we built it out. He said, that would
- 32:11have taken three committees and five months at my
- 32:13place. Right?
- 32:13>> Loren: Yeah.
- 32:15>> Larry Doornbos: And I said, wow. I said that's a structure that
- 32:18isn't going to be a very healthy one for you to be
- 32:20able to move forward.
- 32:21>> Loren: Forward.
- 32:21>> Larry Doornbos: So we try to work as best we can with
- 32:23congregations to think about their structures, to
- 32:26be able to move them forward in a place of
- 32:28vitality.
- 32:30>> Loren: Okay, Chris, uh, I gotta ask this then because I'm
- 32:33thinking of a, uh, conversation I had with. So I'm
- 32:37ordained in the Christian Church Disciples of
- 32:39Christ, and I had a conversation with one of my
- 32:43fellow, uh, uh, colleagues in the tradition Jared
- 32:46Longbond's in. He uses words like, it's hard to
- 32:50argue. Like our denomination, speaking for Jared
- 32:52and I, is not structured for growth. Like, it's
- 32:55just not. Because like you said, the structures
- 32:58and the polity and the governance is just, I hate
- 33:02to use the word backwards, but it's just, it's
- 33:04meant for another time. Right. So, Chris, what is
- 33:09thinking about the unique specifics of uh, you
- 33:13know, CRC and rca, Whether it's theological,
- 33:16whether it's historical governance practices.
- 33:19Because this is like again, in my tradition, the
- 33:21disciples. This is something I hear over and over
- 33:24again where it's like, oh, we can't do that. Like,
- 33:26that's not disciple, that's not our tradition. So
- 33:30certainly, like there's some institutional, um,
- 33:34friction, inertia. What is how, like. Because, uh,
- 33:40I think this is something many traditions wrestle
- 33:42with. So Chris, how do you help, how do you help
- 33:45churches overcome that when it's like, oh, no,
- 33:47this is not, we can't do this. This is not us.
- 33:50>> Khris Vos: Yeah, yeah, that's a great question, Loren I think
- 33:54we try to hold up examples, uh, you know, of what
- 33:59it looks like when structure is designed for
- 34:03function, you know, and for mission. And I think
- 34:06we also acknowledge the challenge that a lot of
- 34:10leaders face that that is not going to be an easy
- 34:13thing to all of a sudden change uh, their
- 34:17structure. And we acknowledge that our polity does
- 34:21not lend itself to that kind of change, as you
- 34:24said already, even though, you know, we in our
- 34:27reformed tradition acknowledge, hey, polity is
- 34:32changing all the time. We want it to be helpful,
- 34:35and ordinarily is a word we use a lot in our
- 34:38church polity. And yet, uh, it's as much the
- 34:42history and, uh, the way we've always done things
- 34:46that hold people in that place of we have to do it
- 34:49this way in terms of structure. So you're not only
- 34:52fighting church polity that was dissolved,
- 34:55designed, as you said, ours too, for another age.
- 34:57Right. For a certain size for his church. And so
- 35:02we're, you know, it's an uphill battle to try and,
- 35:05uh, help churches see a different vision for what
- 35:09a missional structure looks like. Because we often
- 35:13say to them, you know, structure doesn't promote
- 35:17mission, but it will kill it. You know, generate
- 35:21missional thinking, but it'll kill missional
- 35:23thinking. So we try to give them good models of
- 35:27what that looks like when structures are designed
- 35:32for mission.
- 35:33>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah, if I can just throw something, too.
- 35:36Um, we also talk to church, uh, leaders about
- 35:40things that their people need through a change
- 35:42process. Um, and I'm playing from memory, so maybe
- 35:47Chris can help me a little bit here. But, you
- 35:49know, we talk about things like, they need to know
- 35:51that you care about them.
- 35:53>> Khris Vos: Yeah.
- 35:53>> Larry Doornbos: So as the process goes on, they need to know that
- 35:55you care about them. Uh, they need to know that
- 35:58certain things won't change, that there are poor
- 36:01things in the life of the congregation, uh, that
- 36:03won't change. Right. And so the gospel will be
- 36:06preached, uh, you know, in our tradition, the, uh,
- 36:09creeds of confessions will still be there. Uh, so
- 36:12there's. There's some stability in the mix of
- 36:14change. They need to know that there's hope. So
- 36:17you need to be a person of hope. So you can say to
- 36:19them, uh, we talk about, you know, you can't stay
- 36:21here, but we can go here. So there's hope. Right.
- 36:25And so one of the things we want leaders to be
- 36:27able to do is to know what they need as leaders,
- 36:31uh, as they step into a change process, um, what
- 36:34things their congregation are going to need in
- 36:37order for that change process to go forward. So
- 36:39congregations that feel, uh, left behind, put out,
- 36:42uh, ignored, whatever it may be.
- 36:46>> Khris Vos: I think when churches understand the why, you
- 36:50know, that it's not just changing our structure
- 36:53because we need a more modern. It's really about
- 36:55the mission, uh, then I think we see leaders
- 36:59really step up and say, okay, we need to get
- 37:02serious about making some changes because it's
- 37:04going to make a difference for the kingdom.
- 37:08>> Loren: Okay, this is not really off topic, but I got
- 37:10asked for curiosity, like, what's the craziest
- 37:12church structure you've seen? Like, I can't
- 37:16remember which context I saw this in or read about
- 37:19this, but I remember reading about one church
- 37:20where like, I think it was like an elder based
- 37:24structure, but elders, like, they would, they
- 37:28would transition off being an elder, but then they
- 37:30could reactivate for a lifetime, like their
- 37:33eldership to come on and vote, which was just, you
- 37:37know, uh, who could ever see that being a problem?
- 37:39I mean, so, uh, for maybe help some listeners or
- 37:43pastors commiserate that theirs actually is not
- 37:45the worst. Like, what is the craziest structure
- 37:48you have seen?
- 37:50>> Larry Doornbos: So I'm not sure if it's the craziest one I've ever
- 37:52seen, but one of the things we experience is that
- 37:54churches hold onto the structure they had when
- 37:57they were 200 and now they're 175 or they're 50 or
- 38:02they're 50. And so one of the, one of the
- 38:04churches, um, we were working with had an elder
- 38:07board and then a pastoral care elder board and
- 38:11they had about 60 people left at worship. And
- 38:14their pastoral care alder board was 15 people and
- 38:17their regular board was 10 people. Right. And so
- 38:20they had 25 people involved in this leadership
- 38:22structure. It was just insane because, I mean, how
- 38:26do you get anything else done in the church? First
- 38:28of all, when you got 25 people, how do you get
- 38:29enough people to even fill those positions?
- 38:32>> Loren: Right.
- 38:32>> Larry Doornbos: Um, and it was just a completely broken structure.
- 38:36Uh, but they had been 500 at one point, and so
- 38:39they structured themselves for 500. And one of the
- 38:42things we talk about is structuring yourself for
- 38:45the size you are maybe one size larger. But, um,
- 38:49that was one of the crazier structures I've seen.
- 38:53>> Loren: I'm curious, do you, like, I kind of imagine like
- 38:56once you're able to kind of help these leaders
- 39:00process through and grasp the change that you're
- 39:03offering, that there can almost be like a sigh of
- 39:06relief because to me, like, there's nothing more
- 39:10exhausting or, or even like energy sucking than
- 39:17just especially for a new person who's like
- 39:21engaged in the church, wants to be part of it, and
- 39:23then it's like, oh, go sit in committee meetings
- 39:26for three nights a week kind of thing.
- 39:32>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah. So, but one of the things, uh, again, uh,
- 39:35Chris and I are both church planters, so Chris
- 39:38planted in, um, Indiana, I planted in Michigan.
- 39:41And we had the gift of creating our own structures
- 39:43to a certain extent.
- 39:44>> Khris Vos: Extent.
- 39:45>> Larry Doornbos: Um, and so the structure that we created, that I
- 39:48was at, had no committees. Um, and, uh, and. And
- 39:53we turned. That turned out to be in many ways
- 39:56largely a gift. Um, but at the same time we
- 40:00started talking to our staff and saying, you don't
- 40:02have a committee, but you need advisors. You need
- 40:05to hear from the voice of the congregation. Right.
- 40:07So you don't have to create a committee around
- 40:09education, but you. But you should have a few
- 40:10people out there who you can listen to and trust,
- 40:14uh, their voice, uh, in that area of education.
- 40:17But, um, yeah, too many churches. Um, I think it
- 40:22was Rick Warren who said, you know, we have a
- 40:24staff that administers so people can minister.
- 40:27>> Loren: Yeah.
- 40:27>> Larry Doornbos: And so our goal was always to say, how can we slim
- 40:31down the administration enough so that people are
- 40:33opened up for ministry.
- 40:36>> Loren: Chris, I think what, uh, Larry shared there about
- 40:38having not necessarily education committee, but
- 40:41trusted advisors, even informally, is a great
- 40:44point. Any other good kind of tips you'd add
- 40:47there, relatedly?
- 40:49>> Khris Vos: Yeah. I think one of the biggest challenge in our
- 40:52structure is that there's this attitude that the
- 40:55pastor is the employee of the council. And, um,
- 41:00there's truth to that and there's good account
- 41:02there. There should be accountability for the
- 41:04pastor, but there needs to be a leader. And I
- 41:08think in our structure in the crc, and maybe to a
- 41:11lesser extent in this rca, but also there, there's
- 41:15this attitude of, uh, you work for us, you're here
- 41:18for a short time. We're going to be here long
- 41:20before after you're gone. And I've heard of
- 41:23pastors horror stories of being denied their. They
- 41:27put in for vacation. Nope, that's a bad time. You
- 41:29can't go then you can't go to that conference.
- 41:32It's like, wow, that. But that's just a small
- 41:35symptom of the problem of leaders are not allowed
- 41:39to lead. And I think they're given all of the
- 41:42responsibility and none of the authority. That is
- 41:46a huge challenge when it comes to structure. If
- 41:49you've got tons of responsibility but no
- 41:51authority, that is a remedy for disaster.
- 41:55>> Loren: Yeah. Burnout and dissatisfaction. I mean, at
- 41:59minimum for the pastoral leader.
- 42:03So, Chris, let me start with you here and then
- 42:06Larry, you can follow up too. Like, what is one
- 42:10truth that about church renewal that either a
- 42:15pastor doesn't want to hear or the congregation
- 42:17does not want to hear?
- 42:21>> Khris Vos: Yeah. I think one of our teaching, uh, team Pastor
- 42:24Scott Vanderplug who, uh, also designed a
- 42:28discipleship process called 222 Disciple that we
- 42:31use as a really good model in our lab, uh, that
- 42:35really measures discipleship. But I think it's
- 42:39difficult to hear. You have to go slow to go fast.
- 42:43In other words, you're going to have to make
- 42:46significant investments in the community and your
- 42:49relationships in the community to build a
- 42:52missional heart for yourself and for the church
- 42:56and you. So that's, and that's, you know, you
- 43:00don't see a lot of dividends from that. You, I
- 43:03mean, you can, but it's slow going, you know, uh,
- 43:06when you're building relationships with people in
- 43:08the community, it's going to be a slow journey for
- 43:10that, to bring people to church. And the same is
- 43:14true for discipling people that, that are a part
- 43:17of your church. That's a slow process, uh, when
- 43:21you're. But if you're able to build into an
- 43:25individual, multiple individuals as a pastor and
- 43:28you disciple people who then in turn disciple
- 43:30others, uh, that's going to pay dividends in the
- 43:34long run. But it's going to be a slow process.
- 43:37Process. And none of us want to go slow. Right.
- 43:40It's a microwave culture.
- 43:42>> Loren: Yeah, that's good, that's good.
- 43:44Larry, how about you?
- 43:45>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah, and I'm going to play off that just a little
- 43:46bit because one of the things we say to churches
- 43:49is thousand days to renewal. And uh, the idea
- 43:53there is that to shift your culture to begin to
- 43:56think differently, to change that structure, all
- 43:58those pieces, it takes at least a thousand days.
- 44:02And our process is, is about a two year process.
- 44:04And so we say to people, when you're done with us,
- 44:07you still have three to 400 more days to go. And
- 44:10most churches, as Chris is saying, you know, it's
- 44:12a microwave culture. They want to say, well, if
- 44:14we're going to renew, we're going to renew like
- 44:16in, you know, six to eight months, right? And
- 44:18everything's going to turn around and things are
- 44:20going to go great and all that kind of stuff. And
- 44:21we say, no, no, this is a long, you know,
- 44:24obedience in the same direction. And uh, most
- 44:28churches don't want to hear that. In most cases,
- 44:30pastors don't want to hear that. And I think
- 44:33leaders, as they go through this process, start
- 44:35getting pushback because people saying, you've
- 44:37been doing this for eight months now. Where are
- 44:39the new people? Why aren't there? Why, you know,
- 44:41why don't we have, you know, 73 new families and
- 44:43all that kind of stuff and one of our responses to
- 44:46them often is, how long did it take you to get
- 44:49here?
- 44:50>> Loren: Yeah, right.
- 44:51>> Larry Doornbos: 30 years, 40 years, 50 years, uh, that brought you
- 44:55to this space, um, and you want to get out of it
- 44:57in five months. That's not how this works. And so
- 45:00you need to have patience to continue the process
- 45:03for that thousand days and actually beyond those
- 45:05thousand days. So that's one of the hardest
- 45:08things. It really is. We've got to go slow, to go
- 45:10fast, and I think it's really difficult for
- 45:13pastors and congregations to grab that.
- 45:16>> Loren: So I mean, three years, let me just say that,
- 45:18like, that's no joke. Like that's a legitimate
- 45:22length of time.
- 45:23So Chris, I've got to ask, and certainly Larry,
- 45:26you're, you're welcome to chime in here too. Like,
- 45:32how often do you find churches connecting with
- 45:34you, wanting help when it's just, I don't want to
- 45:36say too late because let's be frank, like, we
- 45:40believe nothing is ever, you know, with God,
- 45:43nothing is impossible. Right. But also, like, I'm
- 45:47sure you encountered that, right, where there's
- 45:49eight people left and no money in the bank.
- 45:52>> Khris Vos: Mhm. Yeah. I'm working with a church in Homewood
- 45:55right now that it's a Mennonite church that is,
- 45:58ah, facing some of that, that reality in terms of
- 46:02finances and numbers and yeah, that's not an easy
- 46:05hill to climb. I don't want to sugarcoat that in
- 46:09any way, but I think there is a hopefulness. We
- 46:13also have what we call the Legacy Project as part
- 46:16of the center for Church Renewal, where we help
- 46:18churches that are facing that unique challenge of
- 46:23should we renew or should we what we call complete
- 46:26and bless? You know, in other words, how do we
- 46:29leverage what we have right now for the kingdom in
- 46:33the future? And Keith leads that. And it is one
- 46:37of, it's a great ministry and we've been able to.
- 46:40To come alongside a number of churches and not
- 46:44come to them and say, here's what you should do,
- 46:46but help them in a discernment process. We have
- 46:49what we call a congregational assessment tool.
- 46:53It's one of the first things you see when you come
- 46:55to our website and it really helps churches
- 46:59assess. Okay, here's where we're at. We've got
- 47:04great concern, but there's hope for the future or
- 47:06we're doing great or we're at a score where it's
- 47:10like, maybe we should consider how we can complete
- 47:13and bless. So we try to walk with churches through
- 47:17that journey and be. Have honest conversations
- 47:19with them. Uh, to face the reality. That's one of
- 47:22the things we talk about in the renewal lab as
- 47:25well is leaders, uh, need to define reality. What
- 47:28is the current reality? Yeah, tell that story. And
- 47:32then the next one is, what's our default future?
- 47:36If nothing changes, what is our future? And then
- 47:40finally, what is our God preferred future? What
- 47:43does the future look like if we can implement
- 47:46renewal in this context? So, Larry, anything to
- 47:50add?
- 47:50>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah, I think that we find this all the time.
- 47:54Churches have waited too long. Um, and one of the
- 47:58challenges that we have actually is, is recruiting
- 48:01churches into this process of renewal. Uh, because
- 48:04most of them say, well, it's not that bad yet.
- 48:06Right. I Keuss we're doing okay. And then, you
- 48:09know, 18 months later they're going, oh my, this
- 48:13is not good, we've got to do something. Um, and
- 48:16the truth is that as we've gone through, you know,
- 48:19these last 10, 12 years of being, uh, in this
- 48:22renewal process is we've actually closed churches
- 48:25down in the middle of their renewal lab. So
- 48:27churches get to the point, they say, you know,
- 48:29what we are recognizing now that we can't, we
- 48:33can't go on. And so we've actually closed down
- 48:36some churches. Um, one of our churches uh, decided
- 48:39to be, uh, taken over by another church. Um, and
- 48:43so the process also kind of unintentionally, uh,
- 48:47in the renewal lab leaves some churches to just
- 48:49say, yeah, we see where we're really at. And this
- 48:52too late.
- 48:53>> Khris Vos: Yeah.
- 48:54>> Loren: Yeah.
- 48:55Well, this is such an important and you know,
- 49:00complicated topic in some ways. Anything else,
- 49:03anything else that you'd want to share for, for
- 49:06churches or leaders out there going through
- 49:09wrestling with renewal, praying for renewal in
- 49:12their churches. Chris, let's start with you again.
- 49:16>> Khris Vos: Yeah. Just piggybacking off what Larry said. We
- 49:18don't begin the renewal lab with jumping in
- 49:21saying, here's what you need to do in terms of
- 49:23mission, vision, value setting goals, strategic
- 49:25planning. We begin with, let's start with
- 49:28listening. Let's listen and we give them some
- 49:32practices that they can do to listen to God
- 49:34through scripture and through prayer. But we also
- 49:38say, let's listen to our community. Let's do some
- 49:40interviews with folks in our community that know
- 49:44our community well, teachers, law enforcement,
- 49:47community leaders. And let's hear, and let's see
- 49:51as we listen to the community what bubbles up in
- 49:56that process. And also we uh, say let's listen to
- 49:59our people that are in our church. So we listen.
- 50:03We call it four directional listening. And a lot
- 50:07of churches and leaders, uh, don't want to Take
- 50:09the time to do that. Right. Let's jump to what we
- 50:12need to do. And we try to, you know, say to them,
- 50:16let's. It's vital that we take the time to listen
- 50:20first and then see where God leads.
- 50:24>> Loren: Yeah, Larry?
- 50:26>> Larry Doornbos: I think one of the things, uh, it's helpful for
- 50:29churches to do and that I really want to encourage
- 50:31churches to do is to, as Chris said earlier, to
- 50:35name the present, we. And one of the ways that we
- 50:38do that, um, is we use something called the church
- 50:40life cycle, which you've probably seen, Loren
- 50:42Right. Uh, but for churches to see in that life
- 50:48cycle where they are, so they know they need to
- 50:50act now. And the reality is, you know, in that
- 50:54church life cycle, um, before you head over the
- 50:58top and start going down the side when you're at
- 51:01the top, is the time you start thinking about
- 51:03renewal. If you're already down the side, you've
- 51:06got a lot of work to do. And we say it's kind of
- 51:08like, you know, when a rocket takes off, it takes
- 51:10all kinds of energy to go, but once it gets going,
- 51:12it's okay. But if it starts coming down again, it
- 51:15needs a whole lot of energy to get back going. And
- 51:18so one of the things I'd say to pastors and to
- 51:20church leaders is, have you checked your church
- 51:23life cycle? Because that's going to tell you where
- 51:26you are and where you need to be going, uh, and
- 51:29some next steps to take.
- 51:32>> Loren: Well, this is great conversation. I appreciate
- 51:34Yalls wisdom and insights here. Um, let's take a
- 51:39quick break, and we'll come back with some closing
- 51:42questions.
- 51:44All right, we're back with Chris Voss and Larry
- 51:46Dornbos. So thanks for this conversation. All
- 51:50right, some closing questions. We always tell
- 51:51folks you can take as seriously or not as you'd
- 51:54like to. Uh, Chris, we'll start if you're pope for
- 51:59a day. And again, you can take this seriously or
- 52:03not you'd like to. What would you want to do with
- 52:05that day?
- 52:07>> Khris Vos: Well, I think, uh, for me, I'm going to take it
- 52:10seriously. I'm going to say we're going to die on
- 52:12the hill of church planting and church renewal.
- 52:16>> Loren: Okay.
- 52:17>> Khris Vos: I say that in the midst of a little bit of
- 52:18frustration in the CRC where we've recently the.
- 52:22Our agencies made a decision to cut funding for
- 52:24church planting. Not m funding for the staff in
- 52:28that agency, but funding for new church plants.
- 52:31And it's like, man, for me, I just want to. Let's
- 52:34cut everything but that.
- 52:36>> Loren: Yeah.
- 52:37>> Khris Vos: And so that. That would be Mine. That would be my
- 52:40papal decree. Yeah.
- 52:42>> Loren: Larry, how about you?
- 52:44>> Larry Doornbos: I think if our quote for a day, uh, I want to have
- 52:48churches, uh, grab a vision of full orbed
- 52:52ministry. Um, I think sometimes, at least in the
- 52:57context that Chris and I work in, uh, it becomes a
- 53:01ministry of, you know, how do we get, um, either
- 53:04going to talk about fire insurance or a pass into
- 53:06heaven. And I want to see how do we help people.
- 53:10Imagine a full orbed ministry that touches issues
- 53:14of, you know, life for people, justice in the
- 53:17world, uh, hope in the world. How do we make our.
- 53:20How do we make our communities places of life, um,
- 53:23rather than just places of fire insurance.
- 53:26>> Loren: Love it. Yeah. Uh, okay. Theologian or historical
- 53:30Christian figure you'd want to meet or bring back
- 53:32to life.
- 53:34>> Khris Vos: St. Patrick has always been one of my favorites.
- 53:36Okay. I mean, what a story. A guy enslaved and
- 53:41then he is called God calls him to go to the
- 53:44people that had enslaved him. And he's one of the
- 53:47only missionaries, uh, in history that we know
- 53:50that transformed a whole people group. And so I
- 53:55would love to sit down and have a conversation
- 53:57with, uh, St. Patrick.
- 54:00>> Larry Doornbos: I would love to talk to George McDonald, who was,
- 54:03um, one of the precursors of Caesar, C.S. lewis
- 54:06and others. And uh, the way that he thought and
- 54:09wrote, um, I'm just intrigued by that. And so I'd
- 54:12love to sit down with George McDonald.
- 54:14>> Loren: Yeah, I don't think I've ever gotten any of either
- 54:17though. So this is good.
- 54:20Uh, what do you think history will remember from
- 54:22our current time and place?
- 54:26>> Khris Vos: M. I think it's a time in history when the church
- 54:32had an incredible opportunity for influence. And
- 54:37instead it is withering. And that's not, you know,
- 54:42that's, I Keuss just our time, um, in recent
- 54:46history that we're seeing decline when we had
- 54:50incredible, uh, status and influence. And that is
- 54:54withered. And I think. I think nationalism is
- 54:57going to play a part in that too. When people,
- 54:58people look back on history, how nationalism, uh,
- 55:02had such a significant role in the church and with
- 55:06devastating effects.
- 55:08>> Loren: Yeah.
- 55:09>> Khris Vos: But a remnant rose from the ashes.
- 55:15>> Larry Doornbos: Yeah. I think about Phyllis Tickle and uh, how she
- 55:17talks about the shift every. I think it's 500
- 55:20years m. Of what the church is and what it does.
- 55:23And I think that this, uh, she saw this as a
- 55:26tipping point, uh, in what she wrote. And I wonder
- 55:30that as well, um, what will this moment be as a
- 55:34tipping point. As Chris is talking about churches
- 55:37that have kind of given themselves over to a
- 55:38Christian nationalism and to that pathway, um, and
- 55:44kind of sold themselves out to get power.
- 55:46>> Loren: Um, ah.
- 55:47>> Larry Doornbos: And how will this become a tipping point where
- 55:52there's maybe even a divergence in the church
- 55:55between a church that says we're after power and a
- 55:57church says no, we're after the uh, good news of
- 56:00life giving communities.
- 56:01>> Loren: Yeah, yeah. What do you hope then for the future
- 56:05of Christianity?
- 56:08>> Khris Vos: For me, first thing, I mean you've heard it a
- 56:11number of times in our conversation, but renewed
- 56:14discipleship?
- 56:15>> Loren: Yeah.
- 56:15>> Khris Vos: I think that the local church would have a clear
- 56:20and intentional understanding of what biblical
- 56:24discipleship looks like and that we would live
- 56:27into that and lean into it.
- 56:31>> Larry Doornbos: So to play off just a little bit, I think one of
- 56:34the things we talk about, um, in our context is
- 56:38um, restoring the practices of the early church
- 56:42from Acts 2. And I would love to see a church that
- 56:45reflects, reflects that Acts 2, 42, 47 context.
- 56:49Um, and then we, we also talk about, uh, the
- 56:53passage in Luke, uh, where Jesus says the spirit
- 56:56of the Lord is upon me. And so I would love to see
- 56:58a future of Christianity that reflects the
- 57:02practices of Acts 2 and the ministry call of Jesus
- 57:05in Luke 4.
- 57:07>> Loren: Yeah, yeah, great, great. Well, share how folks
- 57:10can get in touch with the center and connect,
- 57:12connect with you all, uh, share all that
- 57:15>> Khris Vos: churchrenew.org that is our website and you can
- 57:19find uh, everything that we do at the center for
- 57:22church renewal@churchrenew.org and I know Loren
- 57:26you're a fan of Andy Root. Ah, so we have Andrew
- 57:29Root coming to our Church Now Cafe in Holland,
- 57:33Michigan coming up in August. Uh, this will be
- 57:36Larry, I think our third time hosting Andy. Yeah,
- 57:41yeah, we uh, we've got so much out of those Church
- 57:45Now Cafe conferences that we have in, in West
- 57:49Michigan. And I should let Larry say that because
- 57:52he, he knows Andy better than I do.
- 57:55>> Larry Doornbos: I was just going to say, uh, every time Andy comes
- 57:58out with a new book, we have him in for a
- 57:59conference. That's kind of what it comes down to.
- 58:01And so his latest book on evangelism, uh, uh, has
- 58:05just really captivated us. And so he's going to
- 58:07come in and talk about that. And it's a. We call
- 58:11Church Now Conversations or Church Cafe, uh,
- 58:14because Andy does some talking, but then we have
- 58:17uh, church leaders gathered around tables and they
- 58:19have conversations about how to implement that or
- 58:21how to have those ideas come into the life of the
- 58:24congregation. Um, so that's there. And the other
- 58:27thing I'd like to just mention, Loren is that,
- 58:29yeah, uh, we have, um, a Lilly Grant, uh, that
- 58:33allows us to work with Native American, Latino
- 58:35congregations. And, um, sometimes those
- 58:38congregations, um, uh, sit a little bit outside
- 58:42the renewal process. Uh, they don't have the
- 58:44resources and so on. And so Lilly Grant allows us
- 58:47to engage those congregations. And at the same
- 58:50time, for us it's a learning process because we've
- 58:53worked largely with Anglo congregations over the
- 58:55last 12 years. So they're teaching us and we're
- 58:58learning and we're teaching them. Um, and it's a.
- 59:00It's a wonderful, wonderful space. And so if there
- 59:04are congregations that are out there that are
- 59:06either Latino or Native American interested in the
- 59:09renewal process, um, again, churchrenew.org they
- 59:12can find us. But we'd love to have a conversation
- 59:14with them.
- 59:15>> Loren: Okay, I have to ask then. Sorry, uh, to cut you
- 59:17off, Chris. I have to ask then a. Uh. I'm trying
- 59:20to get Andy on for his latest book again. So if
- 59:24you talk to Andy Root, like, tell him I'm, like.
- 59:27He is in his email sending his inbox from me,
- 59:31trying to get another one scheduled.
- 59:33Um, but seriously, I do want to ask this, even
- 59:36though we're running along on time, so, like, uh,
- 59:39I want to ask this in your work with. What do you
- 59:42think your Anglo congregations could most learn
- 59:45from your non. Some. Some from these non Anglo
- 59:49congregations that you've worked with.
- 59:52>> Khris Vos: One of the things that comes to mind with the
- 59:54Native Americans especially is, uh, a more of a
- 59:58storytelling structure, you know, that it's a non.
- 1:00:01Linear. You know, we're so steeped in Western
- 1:00:05culture in a. Linear. Okay, we do this, we get
- 1:00:08this. And I think the relationships and the
- 1:00:11storytelling kind culture has. And Larry did a
- 1:00:15great redesign of some of our m. Material based
- 1:00:18more on a, ah, storytelling culture. And that's
- 1:00:22been really a beautiful thing for us and helping
- 1:00:24us, uh, reshape some of what we're doing with
- 1:00:27Anglo churches. Yeah.
- 1:00:30>> Larry Doornbos: And I would add to that both, um, in the Native
- 1:00:33American and Latino cultures, um, one of the
- 1:00:37surprising things to us is that we go and we speak
- 1:00:40and talk to them and say, would you like to join?
- 1:00:42And for the most part their answer is yes.
- 1:00:45>> Loren: Right.
- 1:00:46>> Larry Doornbos: Um, and we say, well, don't you have to run it
- 1:00:48through, you know, these, you know, 27 committees
- 1:00:50to get you to this place? And they're going, no,
- 1:00:51no, we want to be part. And so one of the things
- 1:00:54I'd like to say that at, um, least in the
- 1:00:56recruitment phrase is that what Anglo churches can
- 1:00:59learn is to be a whole lot more willing to jump in
- 1:01:02and participate in a renewal process. Uh, like
- 1:01:05these other churches are and their willingness.
- 1:01:09>> Loren: Yeah, yeah. Well, this is, this has been a great
- 1:01:13conversation. I appreciate your time. And uh,
- 1:01:16yeah, we always leave folks with the word of
- 1:01:17peace. So may God's peace be with you. Thanks for
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