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Matchmaking Story! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Interesting matchmaking story. Follow up to a date that I was
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  talking about. Recently I I set one of my
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  younger clients up. He's my new client, my youngest
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  clients, and he's adorable. He's like so smart and
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  interesting. He's great.
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  Anyway, so set him up this this girl from a database.
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  And I say girl because she's a young girl and because he's a
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  young guy. And things went really, really
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  well on their first date. Like, so well, they closed the
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  restaurant. Love to hear that.
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  OK, Then he had tickets to Coachella with his friend.
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  He had plans. He came in town from San
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  Francisco and she was going to Coachella with her friends, but
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  she didn't really have tickets. But they hooking up there.
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  Not hooking up in that way, but just, you know, connecting
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  there. He got them tickets for
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  Coachella. So they all hung out and had a
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  great weekend and then this happened.
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  Hang on, he was just telling me about this yesterday.
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  OK, So what I'm about to tell you though, I want the men to
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  really listen up here because here's what I notice.
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  I think men, as they get older, start to lose their fire, they
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  start to lose their oomph, and then they become just like
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  limping along, limping along. And and I can just feel it when
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  I interact with a guy. And you, you ladies do too.
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  But I think as a matchmaker, I know what it is, and I think
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  it's loss of testosterone, I guess.
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  And so when I interact with a guy and he just, he doesn't have
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  that fire under his ass, like he's not excited about the
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  woman, He's not going to go above and beyond.
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  He's just lukewarm. Lukewarm.
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  Lukewarm, guys, is so unsexy. Lukewarm is so unsexy.
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  But this one I'm about to to tell you, is not lukewarm.
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  This is red hot, and this is how you get the gal.
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  Hang on, It's also not about money.
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  Yes, he used his money, but it's not necessarily about money,
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  truly. It's about effort and oomph and
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  thinking outside the box. So anyway, so she lost her
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  mascara at Coachella and it was like apparently a Chanel
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  mascara. And so he says to me, he called
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  me yesterday because he's still giddy and excited about her and
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  they're so excited about each other.
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  And she and he said, Gina, I saw that she had Chanel Mascara and
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  that told me she was a woman who likes nice things and I like to
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  do nice things. And he said, so I plan to
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  surprise. And the surprise was this, he
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  said. So I wanted to replace her
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  Chanel Mascara, because she was really upset that she lost it.
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  It was like a big deal to her. Ping Ding.
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  Not about the money, but he was listening and paying attention.
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  Listening and paying attention. OK, so whether he had the money
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  or not, listening and paying attention huge.
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  That shows he's got fire. He's got a fire under his ass,
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  OK? And he's excited.
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  So he wanted to replace her mascara.
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  So he called over to, I don't know, probably Barney's in LA
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  that carries Chanel and he arranged she didn't know this.
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  He said you're gonna go here to get the mascara and when you
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  show up. He kept it kind of secret, but
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  he told her where to go, but he kept it a secret.
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  So he hired A stylist there at the department store and had the
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  stylist meet her. And not only did he get replace
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  her Chanel mascara, he also made arrangements for her to pick out
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  two Chanel items of any of her choosing.
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  And so that is what I call bringing you a game and that's
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  what I call having a fire under your ass And obviously she was
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  surprised she was excited. So whether you have money or you
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  don't, I think limping along with lukewarm effort, not
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  listening, not paying attention, not really getting excited about
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  the woman or excited to do nice things for her is always going
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  to result in you staying single longer than you'd like.
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  I I just believe that am I an advocate of like buying
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  luxurious gifts to to strangers? No, I'm not really like that.
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  But I do think there's something to say be said about how happy
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  and excited, genuinely excited it made him.
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  It wasn't like he was like some rich guy, just like here, go
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  shopping, and he was just like, it's just something else I do.
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  No, this kid is genuinely on fire, excited to make her happy.
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  And if you come from a place of that, whether you have money or
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  you don't, usually the fire is contagious.
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  He feels the fire in his excitement, she feels the fire
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  and the excitement and it becomes this reciprocal thing.
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  It certainly is for them. I will keep you posted.