Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / #876 Failed at School, Successful at Life: Cam Barber
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- 0:03Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families Podcast. It's the podcast for the
- 0:07Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers now. All this
- 0:10Speaker 1: week on the Happy Families Podcast, we are talking about
- 0:13Speaker 1: the importance of education, but how education differs depending on
- 0:16Speaker 1: your child. At the moment, around the nation U twelve
- 0:19Speaker 1: students are sitting their final exams, or they're about too,
- 0:23Speaker 1: or they've just finished. It's one of those times where
- 0:25Speaker 1: there's a lot of stress and a lot of families.
- 0:27Speaker 1: But even if your kids aren't in year twelve, these
- 0:29Speaker 1: conversations matter because education matters to us all. My guest
- 0:34Speaker 1: today is Cam Barber. Cam started as a public speaking
- 0:39Speaker 1: coach who broadened his approach to leadership skills and marketing messages.
- 0:45Speaker 1: His clients include Paramount Pictures and the Hawthorne Football Club.
- 0:50Speaker 1: He wrote the best selling book What's Your Message? And
- 0:53Speaker 1: this is why I wanted to talk to Cam? Because
- 0:55Speaker 1: Cam only attended one day of university that became recognized
- 1:02Speaker 1: globally as an expert in his field. His current passion
- 1:05Speaker 1: is something else that's very did in my heart, that
- 1:07Speaker 1: is parenting messages, and Cam argues that parenting skills are
- 1:10Speaker 1: a bit like leadership skills. I've had the same thought
- 1:12Speaker 1: and had the same conversation with plenty of CEOs. So
- 1:15Speaker 1: today we're going to talk about the messages that we're
- 1:17Speaker 1: delivering to our children that develop their initiative, their character,
- 1:19Speaker 1: and their thinking skills, especially when it comes to their education.
- 1:23Speaker 1: Cam Barba, thank you for joining me on the Happy
- 1:25Speaker 1: Families podcast. I'm thrilled to have you here.
- 1:28Speaker 2: It is a pleasure. Cam.
- 1:29Speaker 1: Let's start with your background. I'm fascinated by what sort
- 1:32Speaker 1: of a student you were as you were going through school,
- 1:36Speaker 1: and we've got to talk about this this first day
- 1:39Speaker 1: of university drop out. But you've got a son, and
- 1:43Speaker 1: i'd love to know how that's affected the way that
- 1:46Speaker 1: you engage with your son around his education. I know
- 1:48Speaker 1: that's three questions in one, terrible interviewing skills, but my
- 1:52Speaker 1: sense is there's a good story here.
- 1:54Speaker 2: All right, let's go. I was a pretty good student
- 1:57Speaker 2: until about twelve or thirteen when home work became a
- 2:01Speaker 2: big thing. I wasn't very self disciplined, and it got
- 2:06Speaker 2: worse and worse. So as high school progressed, I became
- 2:10Speaker 2: a worse student and I used to get stressed, very
- 2:14Speaker 2: stressed about I'd look at my homework, I'd open it
- 2:17Speaker 2: up and put it on the kitchen table, and then
- 2:19Speaker 2: I'd stress about, you know, doing it and so on.
- 2:23Speaker 2: So I actually was saved from high school by becoming
- 2:28Speaker 2: an exchange student to Sweden. So halfway through Form four,
- 2:34Speaker 2: Form five, halfway through whatever you want to call it,
- 2:38Speaker 2: Grade eleven, halfway through grade eleven, I left and did
- 2:42Speaker 2: a year in Sweden as an exchange student. And I'll
- 2:47Speaker 2: tell you a further story about that in a moment
- 2:49Speaker 2: when we talk about messages, because I got my own
- 2:52Speaker 2: sponsorship money for that based on a message my dad
- 2:55Speaker 2: gave me. But the deal was that when I after
- 2:58Speaker 2: I got that sponsorship money from a Swedish company, I
- 3:01Speaker 2: had to work for them for six months to pay
- 3:03Speaker 2: it back. So I got some work experience, and then
- 3:06Speaker 2: I went back and did what was called a tertiary
- 3:09Speaker 2: orientation program, which was an equivalency done at at a university,
- 3:14Speaker 2: but it was a tafe course I got into. I
- 3:19Speaker 2: got accepted into my double degree marketing psychology course. I
- 3:22Speaker 2: went into defer it because my dad had asked me
- 3:25Speaker 2: to join him help him with his business. So I
- 3:28Speaker 2: went into university for one day I deferred and then
- 3:32Speaker 2: I never went back.
- 3:33Speaker 1: Listen to that story. I'm certain that so many parents
- 3:36Speaker 1: will respond with nods of affirmation as certainly as my
- 3:40Speaker 1: story as well. I was a really good student in
- 3:43Speaker 1: primary school, hit high school, like you said, twelve or
- 3:45Speaker 1: thirteen years of age, and something happened and the bottom
- 3:49Speaker 1: just fell out, and from that point on there was
- 3:52Speaker 1: no salvaging my educational career. For one of a better word,
- 3:57Speaker 1: it was just diabolical law. And I finished strade twelve
- 4:00Speaker 1: with another fifteen and a star next to it, meaning
- 4:03Speaker 1: I s got him the bottom fifteen percent of New
- 4:05Speaker 1: South Wales. They wouldn't tell me what number it was.
- 4:06Speaker 1: The star just says you did badly. Fifteen is the
- 4:09Speaker 1: lowest number we offer. So you've gone and done this
- 4:14Speaker 1: university day. And then what happened? You went and helped
- 4:18Speaker 1: dad at work.
- 4:19Speaker 2: Yeah, so he had started a business a year before
- 4:23Speaker 2: and he was struggling, and over the summer period I
- 4:27Speaker 2: went and did some work for him to help him
- 4:28Speaker 2: get organized. And not that I was organized, but you
- 4:30Speaker 2: know I was another person to help.
- 4:33Speaker 1: Pair of hands, yeah, in other pair of hands.
- 4:35Speaker 2: Well, actually I had one thing. He had all these notes,
- 4:37Speaker 2: all these notes in these little notebooks, exercise books, and
- 4:41Speaker 2: he'd say, oh, we've got some peakments. He was in
- 4:45Speaker 2: the coloring concrete business, and he said, we've got some
- 4:48Speaker 2: such and such and then he'd I go, what do
- 4:50Speaker 2: you mean? And he'd search around for an exercise book,
- 4:54Speaker 2: and I said, what about a filecard system? You know?
- 4:57Speaker 2: So anyway, he thought that was great and that I
- 4:59Speaker 2: was really helping him get organized. And he said, in fact,
- 5:03Speaker 2: and this is the power that he had over me,
- 5:04Speaker 2: he touched me on the should a very tall man,
- 5:06Speaker 2: big huge hand still to this day, and he sort
- 5:09Speaker 2: of looked up into the sky. There was nothing there,
- 5:11Speaker 2: but we were looking up together, and he said, join
- 5:14Speaker 2: me in the business camp, and I went great. My
- 5:18Speaker 2: mum never forgave him though, because you know, I was
- 5:21Speaker 2: supposed to go to university. But what ended up happening
- 5:24Speaker 2: after I left after two years with him, and I
- 5:27Speaker 2: realized that I learned how to run a business, and
- 5:31Speaker 2: in those areas, I'd learned how to sell, I'd learned
- 5:34Speaker 2: how to read a balance sheet, I'd spoken to the accountant,
- 5:37Speaker 2: so I've done the taxes. I thought, I don't need
- 5:41Speaker 2: to go back to school. I'm actually ready to go
- 5:44Speaker 2: and I started my own business from that point.
- 5:47Speaker 1: Wow, what does that do for you in terms of
- 5:50Speaker 1: the way you look at education. You're raising a son
- 5:53Speaker 1: who is at the point end of education, right, he's eighteen.
- 5:58Speaker 1: My educational experience has had dramatic impact on the messages
- 6:02Speaker 1: that I give my kids about the value of education
- 6:05Speaker 1: and how education works.
- 6:07Speaker 2: So that's part of your three part question. Was you know,
- 6:09Speaker 2: how is this related to so sorry, yeah, bring up
- 6:12Speaker 2: my son. No, No, it's very valid because there are
- 6:16Speaker 2: different ways to look at it. And I hoped at
- 6:20Speaker 2: one point, I hope that I could sort of off
- 6:23Speaker 2: load my parenting to the school and particularly around high
- 6:28Speaker 2: school age, and that did not work. The absolute opposite happened. So, so,
- 6:34Speaker 2: my son, James is gifted and challenged. Now, he's gifted
- 6:38Speaker 2: in the sense that he has perfect pitch. He played,
- 6:42Speaker 2: He's played violence and tea was for he taught himself
- 6:45Speaker 2: to play piano because he went and saw the queen
- 6:47Speaker 2: movie Bohemian Rhapsody, and he watched YouTube videos and taught
- 6:51Speaker 2: himself to play piano. Well, right, so he's gifted and
- 6:54Speaker 2: a lot of people go, oh, he must be good
- 6:55Speaker 2: at maths, because no, here's where he's challenged, and every
- 7:00Speaker 2: teacher he has frustrated, every single teacher, he drives them nuts. So,
- 7:07Speaker 2: for example, one of the teachers came to when he
- 7:09Speaker 2: was I don't know, five or six years old, and
- 7:12Speaker 2: they all have this look on their face. Mister Barber,
- 7:16Speaker 2: I need to talk to you about your son. And
- 7:20Speaker 2: she said, he can't draw a straight line. And I said,
- 7:24Speaker 2: what are you talking about? And she goes if she
- 7:27Speaker 2: tried to explain it to me, and I got little James,
- 7:29Speaker 2: a cute little kiddie look up at me. I go, mate,
- 7:32Speaker 2: what's wrong? Why can't you draw Australia? And goes, I
- 7:34Speaker 2: don't know. They confuse me, And I said, but she
- 7:36Speaker 2: gives you a ruler. She's given you a ruler so
- 7:39Speaker 2: you can draw the straight line. And the poor little
- 7:41Speaker 2: adorable kid said, but if I moved my hand, the
- 7:44Speaker 2: rule of moves. I don't know. Can you understand as
- 7:47Speaker 2: a parent this is how he worked. I'll tell you
- 7:50Speaker 2: another one. When he was in kindergarten, he had a
- 7:53Speaker 2: French teacher French class, and she had the same thing.
- 7:57Speaker 2: She was always saying, James, I don't understand James. I
- 8:00Speaker 2: think he's lying to me. And so that the exercise
- 8:04Speaker 2: for the day was you call your dad dad, but
- 8:09Speaker 2: what's his actual name, you know, and all the other
- 8:11Speaker 2: kids going, oh, Joe, Ralph and James said I don't know,
- 8:16Speaker 2: and she said, well, James, I don't believe you a couple.
- 8:20Speaker 2: And it was this butting heads all day long, and
- 8:24Speaker 2: at the end of the day she came to me,
- 8:25Speaker 2: she said, I must talk to you about James. And
- 8:28Speaker 2: here's this gorgeous little kid looking up at these two
- 8:30Speaker 2: adults talking about him, and she said, you know, I'm
- 8:35Speaker 2: sure he knows your name. Why wouldn't he participate in class?
- 8:38Speaker 2: And I looked down at him and I said, you
- 8:40Speaker 2: know what my name is, don't you? And he goes, yeah,
- 8:42Speaker 2: but not in French.
- 8:44Speaker 1: I love this. I love this. Your stories would be
- 8:49Speaker 1: resonating with so many parents who are absolutely tearing their
- 8:52Speaker 1: hair out with the way their kid's doing at school,
- 8:55Speaker 1: Like school could be a really confusing place for them,
- 8:58Speaker 1: really really confusing place.
- 9:00Speaker 2: Well, he in primary school for the last two years
- 9:03Speaker 2: of primary school. He had the same teacher and they
- 9:05Speaker 2: were in the same classroom all day long. And he
- 9:08Speaker 2: is charming. He's a charming kid. He learned that he
- 9:11Speaker 2: wasn't good at certain things, but he could make people laugh,
- 9:14Speaker 2: and so he said, I'll just make them laugh and
- 9:16Speaker 2: they'll let me off. They'll let me and that's what happened.
- 9:18Speaker 2: She thought he was so charming she led him out
- 9:21Speaker 2: of homework. So anyway, he was kind of cruising, thinking, oh, no,
- 9:26Speaker 2: I've got life worked out. Then he goes to high
- 9:28Speaker 2: school and they say, you're in all sorts of different rooms,
- 9:33Speaker 2: You've got all sorts of different teachers. Here's a computer
- 9:36Speaker 2: that you've never used before, and five different apps that
- 9:39Speaker 2: you have to use to navigate your classes. And what
- 9:43Speaker 2: he did was he went sure, and he never even
- 9:46Speaker 2: opened it, and he just lied to everybody. And so
- 9:50Speaker 2: I got called in again. I got called in three
- 9:52Speaker 2: months after the start of high school. And all these teachers,
- 9:56Speaker 2: three of them had the same look on their face,
- 9:59Speaker 2: and they said, there's just something about James. It seems
- 10:03Speaker 2: like he doesn't even know where his classes are. We
- 10:04Speaker 2: see him walking around looking in the windows. And he
- 10:08Speaker 2: denied it all because he didn't want to be seen
- 10:10Speaker 2: as dumb. And anyway, in question and answer in that session,
- 10:15Speaker 2: one of the teachers said, did you get my email
- 10:18Speaker 2: this morning? Because you haven't responded to my last deal
- 10:21Speaker 2: email and he said yes. And then later in this
- 10:25Speaker 2: discussion someone said blah blah blah blah, and he said, oh,
- 10:27Speaker 2: I couldn't do that because my laptop has got a
- 10:30Speaker 2: flat battery. And I went, hang on, if your laptop's
- 10:33Speaker 2: got a flat battery, how did you get her email?
- 10:37Speaker 2: And he looked around and he went, well, she said,
- 10:39Speaker 2: she said it to me. I believe it. So he
- 10:41Speaker 2: did not work well within the education system. He passed
- 10:45Speaker 2: though he worked out. He said, Dad, I know how
- 10:49Speaker 2: I can scrape through, and that's what he did.
- 10:52Speaker 1: So he did better than me.
- 10:54Speaker 2: Well, I don't know that he did because he said
- 10:57Speaker 2: I don't have to do that test because I can
- 10:59Speaker 2: pass by doing this, that and the other. I'm not
- 11:01Speaker 2: even sure I understand it. But he didn't go to university.
- 11:04Speaker 2: That wasn't a good idea. But I don't know if
- 11:07Speaker 2: we're staying on track but where he is now. So
- 11:10Speaker 2: we wanted him to be an exchange student. That kind
- 11:12Speaker 2: of saved me. It got me out of school, let
- 11:15Speaker 2: me mature at my own pace. There was no real
- 11:17Speaker 2: pressure in Sweden because I didn't speak the language. For
- 11:19Speaker 2: the first six months, so I kind of had a
- 11:21Speaker 2: lead off, and then i'd aged a couple of years,
- 11:24Speaker 2: I'd done some work, and then I went back and
- 11:25Speaker 2: I was kind of okay, and we thought that would
- 11:28Speaker 2: be good for James. But COVID, you know, put the
- 11:30Speaker 2: kibosh on that. We just the timing was wrong, and
- 11:35Speaker 2: then he left. Then he finished school, and so I
- 11:38Speaker 2: wrote a letter which is this message. My dad gave
- 11:41Speaker 2: me to all my friends in America and Europe and
- 11:45Speaker 2: created an exchange program for him. And so he's now
- 11:49Speaker 2: done some acting classes in LA, he's in Sweden. He's
- 11:53Speaker 2: been volunteering on two different farms. He's learned all sorts
- 11:56Speaker 2: of things. So he's getting an education outside of the
- 12:00Speaker 2: education system.
- 12:04Speaker 1: This is fascinating. I'm sure that there are light bobs
- 12:05Speaker 1: going off in everybody's minds as you talk through this story.
- 12:11Speaker 1: Let's talk about what you do now as a university dropout. Well,
- 12:16Speaker 1: I mean just differring on day one even counter as
- 12:18Speaker 1: attending university. I don't know what's well.
- 12:21Speaker 2: I'd like to say that because I'm into memorable messages.
- 12:24Speaker 1: Right, I was going to say, what's your message?
- 12:26Speaker 2: I attend university for a day and of course, that's
- 12:29Speaker 2: that's memorable. It is anyway, so however you want to
- 12:32Speaker 2: describe that.
- 12:33Speaker 1: Yeah, So what is your message? Because that's your's that's
- 12:35Speaker 1: your book, right, you're about parent messages. What's your message,
- 12:39Speaker 1: especially when it comes to or maybe a better question
- 12:42Speaker 1: is what's a vivid message? Because that's really what you're
- 12:45Speaker 1: aiming for? Vivid messages Like I went to UNI for
- 12:48Speaker 1: a day. It's vivid, it's memorable, it captures the imagination.
- 12:52Speaker 2: Correct, So I guess I'll continue with my story. So
- 12:56Speaker 2: I left my dad's business. I started my own business
- 12:58Speaker 2: and then I joined radio and I was five years
- 13:01Speaker 2: as in radio sales than as a sales manager. And
- 13:04Speaker 2: I attended a presentation skills course, a two day course,
- 13:08Speaker 2: and I wasn't good. I was very nervous. I'm a
- 13:10Speaker 2: confident person in meeting people. But that's easy because you
- 13:13Speaker 2: just have to answer questions, you know, Whereas if you
- 13:16Speaker 2: stand up, everyone's staring at you. You're separate to them.
- 13:20Speaker 2: They're sitting down, you're standing up, the spotlights on you,
- 13:23Speaker 2: and I would freeze and I would talk rubbish.
- 13:25Speaker 1: It's my happy it's my happy place.
- 13:28Speaker 2: So I did a presentation course two days and I
- 13:31Speaker 2: came away from that training more nervous than before the training,
- 13:36Speaker 2: and it took me a few months to work out
- 13:38Speaker 2: what was going on. And what I learned was that,
- 13:41Speaker 2: at least in the past, this presentation skills training was
- 13:45Speaker 2: taught in a dumb way. They said, you have to
- 13:48Speaker 2: worry about your body language. You've got to change basically,
- 13:50Speaker 2: you've got to change who you are to fit a
- 13:53Speaker 2: mold that we say is optimum. And it didn't work
- 13:58Speaker 2: for me. For example, you can see me, the audience,
- 14:00Speaker 2: can't My hands are moving all the time. And they said, well, no,
- 14:03Speaker 2: six gestures and minutes is optimum. You're doing sixty. And
- 14:08Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I didn't even know.
- 14:11Speaker 1: For this cause like, who's counting? Honestly?
- 14:14Speaker 2: Well no, they videoed us and they got the whole audience,
- 14:17Speaker 2: the other participants to count and tell us what we
- 14:20Speaker 2: were doing wrong. You know how many arms and hours
- 14:22Speaker 2: and so on. So anyway, long story shot, I did
- 14:27Speaker 2: my own research. I got my own education by reading books,
- 14:31Speaker 2: attending seminars, and testing things with my sales team, and
- 14:35Speaker 2: I developed a presentation skills of course that was focused
- 14:38Speaker 2: on two things message transfer because you can speak, but
- 14:42Speaker 2: did they actually get the message, can they recall it?
- 14:45Speaker 2: And natural style, because when you're relaxed, you think more clearly,
- 14:49Speaker 2: and that helps you communicate more effectively. And so my
- 14:52Speaker 2: business is Vivid Presentation Skills. The company is called Vivid Learning,
- 14:56Speaker 2: and I've been teaching these presentation skills or messaging skill
- 15:00Speaker 2: and structuring skills for about twenty five years.
- 15:02Speaker 1: I hear a story like this and I just think
- 15:04Speaker 1: to myself, Okay, here's this guy who got through a
- 15:08Speaker 1: high school. Okay, ish didn't go to university, has had
- 15:12Speaker 1: a global educational experience with Sweden in particular, but now
- 15:18Speaker 1: mentoring CEOs Hawthorne football Club, movie companies, Fortune five hundred
- 15:22Speaker 1: companies in the United States. This idea when it comes
- 15:26Speaker 1: to what the education system is giving us, and it's
- 15:30Speaker 1: how fit it is for purpose in twenty twenty three, really,
- 15:34Speaker 1: and listening to what you're describing about your son James
- 15:36Speaker 1: as he makes his way in the world being an
- 15:38Speaker 1: absolutely round peagan a square hole. This whole conversation, I guess,
- 15:43Speaker 1: makes me want to press pause on the story. I
- 15:47Speaker 1: think this is a compelling story and simply ask you
- 15:49Speaker 1: if you're all about messages, Vivid messages what would be
- 15:54Speaker 1: a customized message that parents who are listening to this
- 15:58Speaker 1: conversation could share with their children, either A as they're
- 16:02Speaker 1: doing their high school exams right now, or B as
- 16:06Speaker 1: they're navigating the challenging place that education can be for
- 16:10Speaker 1: so many families.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Every kid's different, so you've got to work out the messages.
- 16:14Speaker 2: But what is a vivid message? So a vivid message
- 16:16Speaker 2: is something that's alive, So if it's got a visual
- 16:19Speaker 2: component to it. I'll give an example of James, right,
- 16:24Speaker 2: So we watch movies together. James is actually very good
- 16:29Speaker 2: at remembering movie lines too. You can give him a line,
- 16:31Speaker 2: he'll see the next line. So I see that that's
- 16:33Speaker 2: a talent for him. And has everyone seen Finding Nemo?
- 16:38Speaker 2: I mean, it's just one of those great movies. So
- 16:40Speaker 2: there's a scene in Finding Nemo with the turtle, the
- 16:43Speaker 2: old turtle who talks like a surfer dude, right, and
- 16:47Speaker 2: he's got two or three little kids, one of them
- 16:49Speaker 2: is called Squirt, and they're floating around in this fast
- 16:51Speaker 2: moving channel of water. And if you go out of
- 16:54Speaker 2: that channel of water, you get separated from the group.
- 16:57Speaker 2: And so Nemo's dad is the main characters a nervous parent.
- 17:00Speaker 2: He doesn't think the kids can be trusted on their own.
- 17:03Speaker 2: So one of the little kids, little Turtle kids, gets
- 17:07Speaker 2: lost and the dad Turtle talks, hey, let's see what happens.
- 17:13Speaker 2: And so Nemo's dad is panicking, Oh, he's come out,
- 17:16Speaker 2: he's gone out, and mister Turtle says, who.
- 17:20Speaker 1: Kill the motor dude? Let us see what Squirk does
- 17:23Speaker 1: flying solo.
- 17:24Speaker 2: And what happens in the movie is that the kid
- 17:26Speaker 2: works out where he is and he gets back in. Now,
- 17:29Speaker 2: what I said to James, and I've done this three
- 17:31Speaker 2: or four times. One time I said, okay, James, we're
- 17:34Speaker 2: on a tram which he's five years old, six years
- 17:37Speaker 2: old us, so we have to go on another tram.
- 17:39Speaker 2: It's called it's number twenty six. You have to find
- 17:42Speaker 2: the tram for us. And his first reaction says, I
- 17:45Speaker 2: don't know what to do. Is my dad abandoning me?
- 17:47Speaker 2: I'm scared. But what I did is I said, you
- 17:50Speaker 2: have to find it. Let's see how you go flying
- 17:52Speaker 2: so low. So what I've done is I've made that
- 17:56Speaker 2: message vivid by linking it to a movie that he knows.
- 18:00Speaker 2: And look how much parenting is done for me effortlessly.
- 18:04Speaker 2: That movie scene. Number one, it makes him smile. Dad's
- 18:07Speaker 2: playing with me. This is not serious. Number two, the
- 18:11Speaker 2: movie scene shows that a child when he's flying solo,
- 18:14Speaker 2: ends up working out what to do and getting back
- 18:17Speaker 2: and it's a happy ending. So it gives him a
- 18:19Speaker 2: little bit of courage from the movie. So he finds
- 18:22Speaker 2: the number twenty six tram. He gets praised from his dad,
- 18:25Speaker 2: you know, and it goes well. Sometime later at where
- 18:29Speaker 2: the movie is and I go, James, you have to
- 18:30Speaker 2: buy the ticket. He goes, I don't know how to
- 18:31Speaker 2: buy the movie ticket. I said, look, they're standing over there.
- 18:34Speaker 2: Here's the money. You hold the money in your hand,
- 18:36Speaker 2: you stand in the line, and when you get to
- 18:38Speaker 2: that lady at the window, you say, I want two
- 18:41Speaker 2: tickets to this movie, and you give her the money.
- 18:43Speaker 2: Let's see how you go flying so low right. And
- 18:48Speaker 2: so the first time there's a reference that's successful. The
- 18:51Speaker 2: second time, as a parent, I say, it's an even
- 18:53Speaker 2: stronger message because he's already had a successful result.
- 18:58Speaker 1: Vivid messages valuable customized parenting messages from a guy who
- 19:05Speaker 1: mentors and leads CEOs of fortune five hundred companies and
- 19:09Speaker 1: didn't do a day of UNI. Well we'll discussed I
- 19:12Speaker 1: didn't stay the whole day and didn't it. Just went
- 19:15Speaker 1: in to defer never actually attended the class. Cam Barber,
- 19:19Speaker 1: just a delight to have you on the podcast. Thanks
- 19:20Speaker 1: so much for sharing your story.
- 19:22Speaker 2: Absolute pleasure.
- 19:23Speaker 1: Cam Barba started as public speaking coach who broadened his
- 19:25Speaker 1: approach to the leadership schools and marketing messages, and he
- 19:29Speaker 1: wrote the best selling book What's Your Message? You can
- 19:32Speaker 1: find it online you look for books. The Happy Family's
- 19:35Speaker 1: podcast is produced by Justin Ruhland from Bridge Media. Craig
- 19:37Speaker 1: Bruce is our executive producer. Tomorrow we're speaking with somebody
- 19:42Speaker 1: I can't wait to introduce you to. She didn't do
- 19:46Speaker 1: so well at school and went on to become a
- 19:49Speaker 1: professor of audiology, but along the way produced sound for
- 19:55Speaker 1: the artist to formerly known as Prints. I can't wait
- 19:58Speaker 1: to introduce you to Susan just tomorrow on the podcast
- 20:01Speaker 1: and I'll see that, yeah,