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DLHS Hour 2 | Should Woman Pay Child Support After Signing Dad · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the DL Human Show. So listen to this audio.
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  Speaker 2: I was dating news girl for five or six years, right,
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  Speaker 2: she ended up getting pregnant. I signed the birth certificate
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  Speaker 2: because the dad did not want to. Our relationship did
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  Speaker 2: not work. She ended up dating the baby daddy again.
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  Speaker 2: And now they put me on Chelse support for that kid.
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  Speaker 3: Jasmine, you came up with some injuring information because the
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  Speaker 3: stud is it actually formed in the question, So.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, and to go all the way back.
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  Speaker 5: Stud actually refers to a pillar or a post right
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  Speaker 5: back in the old English time, when basically that was
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  Speaker 5: the male breeder of like a horse.
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  Speaker 4: Like you were the one that came in and got
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  Speaker 4: you know whatever.
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  Speaker 5: So black lesbian women took it in the sixties as
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  Speaker 5: a way to differentiate themselves between white lesbians who were
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  Speaker 5: considered fish or fam or butch or fem and they
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  Speaker 5: didn't want to be in the same category, so they said,
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  Speaker 5: we're going to adopt the term, uh stud.
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  Speaker 4: There were other terms such as boy.
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  Speaker 5: B o I things like that, ye like boy George, No,
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  Speaker 5: that's b a y.
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  Speaker 1: All I know is look like Manny Fresh. I know
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  Speaker 1: they all do they all do?
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  Speaker 6: They?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, look up every stood ever I already know.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, they all like although although I must tell you
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  Speaker 5: if you spend out, don't ask me how I know
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  Speaker 5: these things, but I do. On TikTok, the new stud
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  Speaker 5: is looks different. They look more like Britney Griner and
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  Speaker 5: really kind of if I may put that in there,
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  Speaker 5: they look different now, like very very different.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, So do you think we're having a
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  Speaker 3: stud beauty president? Do you think you do? You think
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  Speaker 3: she should have to pay UD support?
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  Speaker 1: Skip? What do you think?
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  Speaker 7: Yo?
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  Speaker 8: Once you signed that paper is just like an adoption.
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  Speaker 1: She signed it.
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  Speaker 8: That the You know, you have guys who have signed
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  Speaker 8: the birth certificate to find out later that that wasn't
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  Speaker 8: their child. And it takes an act of God to
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  Speaker 8: stop paying child's the boy if you can ever stop so.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel the same way then as I feel now,
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  Speaker 1: and he's smiling.
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  Speaker 8: I ain't got to put you.
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  Speaker 3: I feel the same way then as I feel now.
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  Speaker 3: I think that that's an abuse of the system. I
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  Speaker 3: think that and I would feel that way, uh no
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  Speaker 3: matter who it is.
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  Speaker 1: And I think it's abuse of the system. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think she should be.
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  Speaker 3: Saddled with abuse of the system. I think that if
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  Speaker 3: you if she is not the well we we know
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  Speaker 3: she right, we know for sure. Yes, I think that
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  Speaker 3: it shouldn't be that. You suld have the dude who
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  Speaker 3: did it?
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  Speaker 1: I think so.
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  Speaker 4: But what if it was in Vitro or what if
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  Speaker 4: it was like that's a sperm bank?
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  Speaker 1: Not he she did, but she did, She made it immediately.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, what I'm saying, you can't go after the guys.
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  Speaker 1: But but this wasn't that. Don't sign it.
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  Speaker 4: It has to be her. She signed it.
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  Speaker 5: She said, I'm going to accept the responsibility henceforth until
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  Speaker 5: this child is eighteen years old.
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  Speaker 4: This is why I'm signing my name on the paper.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't in Vitro. It was at the Motel six.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't a Turkey base. It was a dude and
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  Speaker 3: they been together. Now right, well back, what did she
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  Speaker 3: back with the dude?
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  Speaker 7: No?
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  Speaker 1: Man, I.
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  Speaker 5: So the dude is the real father and he doesn't
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  Speaker 5: have to pay chelase, No, she does.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, that's a lot, man, that's a lot. That's a lot.
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  Speaker 7: Time.
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  Speaker 4: You got a thing before you jump down that rabbit
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  Speaker 4: role it don't go jumping.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Peter got tall. This We're gonna get to the
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  Speaker 1: question we're asking scenario.
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  Speaker 2: I was dating this girl for five or six years, right,
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  Speaker 2: she ended up getting pregnant. I signed the birth certificate
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  Speaker 2: because the dad did not want to. Our relationship did
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  Speaker 2: not work. She ended up dating the baby daddy again,
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  Speaker 2: and now they put me on child support.
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  Speaker 1: Kid, do you agree?
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  Speaker 3: That's the question we're asking, Junius, what do you think? Well, unfortunately,
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  Speaker 3: she just got played. I mean, in light of the circumstances. No,
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  Speaker 3: she shouldn't be. I don't think something with.
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  Speaker 9: That, especially since her old girlfriend is back with the
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  Speaker 9: dude that man made the baby.
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  Speaker 3: So, man, man, this is all contorted all kind of way.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't think I have told all this. I
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  Speaker 3: think I just have to live with it. I think
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  Speaker 3: I don't know that this would have been on top
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  Speaker 3: of my list to say to people.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think.
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  Speaker 9: But it was dumb to sign it just because the
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  Speaker 9: guy didn't want to sign it. I mean, man, yeah,
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  Speaker 9: because he didn't want to be saddled with that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 9: so you got somebody leaving her with this. She's really
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  Speaker 9: getting the shaft. I'm telling you this is and she
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  Speaker 9: didn't want that, that's for sure. Somebody needs to stick
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  Speaker 9: up for her because that's an she been over baggers,
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  Speaker 9: the lower really screw. So here's the scenario.
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  Speaker 2: I was dating this girl for five or six years, right,
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  Speaker 2: she ended up getting pregnant.
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  Speaker 4: I signed the birth.
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  Speaker 2: Certificate because the dad did not want to. Our relationship
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  Speaker 2: did not work. She ended up dating the baby daddy again,
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  Speaker 2: and now they put me on child.
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  Speaker 4: Support for that kid.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think she still have to pay with going
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  Speaker 1: through the folks?
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  Speaker 10: I think that she should pay child support. If you're
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  Speaker 10: dumb enough to sign your name on a document and
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  Speaker 10: you know you ain't no man, then get triggered like
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  Speaker 10: a man. They have to pay child support. So since
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  Speaker 10: she wanted to be the man.
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  Speaker 11: Pay it, she should pay. You signed and you signed
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  Speaker 11: paperwork like that. I mean, it's just like they want.
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  Speaker 11: They want equal rights like men. Okay, we have to
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  Speaker 11: go through stuff like that. As soon as they go
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  Speaker 11: through what we have to go through it. Oh it's
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  Speaker 11: not right, no, no.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah we know that.
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  Speaker 11: But guess what you want to be a man or
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  Speaker 11: act like one, you got to endure. We endure too,
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  Speaker 11: So yeah, I think it is very fair that she
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  Speaker 11: should pay that all of it.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, I respect people that identify as the father or
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  Speaker 2: male or female.
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  Speaker 10: But you can't just cut that once you break up
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  Speaker 10: with somebody.
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  Speaker 4: That child is yours.
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  Speaker 5: Now you yeah, pay out child sport.
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  Speaker 12: You sign the versatificate.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, pay that child sport.
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  Speaker 12: This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever
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  Speaker 12: heard in my life. But she signed the paper. She
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  Speaker 12: signed a legal document claiming to take care of that child,
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  Speaker 12: taking all the responsibility. As stupid as you sound, she
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  Speaker 12: was stupid for siding it. So yeah, she did to
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  Speaker 12: go ahead and pay it. Well, try to try to
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  Speaker 12: get it reduced because she signed a legal document free
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  Speaker 12: of her own will. So signing it, William, you wouldn't
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  Speaker 12: let that money go out to your pocket each and
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  Speaker 12: every month for child's before So she got what she
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  Speaker 12: asked for.
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  Speaker 13: Yes, she should take child support. She signed for it.
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  Speaker 13: She also get visitation right and everything else. You cannot
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  Speaker 13: play in and out of kids life. I'm a mentor
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  Speaker 13: and as a lot of kids they get their hearts.
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  Speaker 13: Bo could not end up in the street, are in
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  Speaker 13: my gym because the parents won't accept them. But she
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  Speaker 13: stood up to the play be a man like she
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  Speaker 13: signed it and take care of drop them dollars.
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  Speaker 12: Car about ht L L you want to be quality.
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  Speaker 12: Now you've got it. Now you get the suffer like me.
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  Speaker 7: And do get it off. I heard about the case
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  Speaker 7: when I was in Vegas, Lesbend.
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  Speaker 12: Couple got divorced, she got wanted to pay child's report.
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  Speaker 14: All I think was welcome tomorrow world.
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  Speaker 10: Absolutely she should.
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  Speaker 14: You want to assume the role, play the game.
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  Speaker 10: You want to play the game, We're gonna give you
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  Speaker 10: the bomb, pay the money.
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  Speaker 3: Some people some subjects we just can't have. And they
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  Speaker 3: have a mature some of them. But this is right
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  Speaker 3: up right up the alley. Wait, that's not all right,
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  Speaker 3: we're gonna go what do you say?
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  Speaker 1: He's the idea?
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  Speaker 2: I was they this girl for five or six years, right,
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  Speaker 2: she ended up getting pregnant.
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  Speaker 4: I signed the birth.
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  Speaker 2: Certificate because the dad did not want to. Our relationship
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  Speaker 2: did not work. She ended up dating the baby daddy again.
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  Speaker 2: And now they put me on child support for that kid.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think we go right to the phones.
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  Speaker 15: You know she has a huge heart or making a
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  Speaker 15: gesture of doing that, and.
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  Speaker 10: That was heartfelt.
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  Speaker 15: However, it was not the wisest decision because at the
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  Speaker 15: end of the day, it's looking like she got played
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  Speaker 15: and they ran off into the sunset. I mean, and
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  Speaker 15: if they wanted to do the right thing, they can
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  Speaker 15: reallyquish her rights.
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  Speaker 16: But or her you know, they can go down there
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  Speaker 16: and have it agested if they wanted to, and they're not.
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  Speaker 16: So it's kind of grinding me on their part. That
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  Speaker 16: for her and as long as the kid is taken
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  Speaker 16: care of either way.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, that's that's a mess of situation.
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  Speaker 14: No, I don't think she should have to pay child support.
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  Speaker 14: You know, that is wrong. She need to get her
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  Speaker 14: attorney and fight that because of the due you know,
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  Speaker 14: the circumstance. It's not her child, you know, so I
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  Speaker 14: think it's unfair for her to pay child support. But again,
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  Speaker 14: once again it's proven what Janson Brown said. Same sex,
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  Speaker 14: same problem. So Jansy Brown was right again. I don't
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  Speaker 14: think she has to pay child support.
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  Speaker 12: She should.
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  Speaker 14: She shouldn't have to be forced to pay child support
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  Speaker 14: for that kid. But I get it, get your lawyer.
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  Speaker 7: Absolutely not.
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  Speaker 13: She should not have to pay child support. I don't
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  Speaker 13: care she did sign the birth pontificate, mama got back
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  Speaker 13: with the baby's dad. Let you pay child support.
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  Speaker 14: That woman should Yeah, I think she should have to
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  Speaker 14: pay a child support for that baby because she signed
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  Speaker 14: the document. In fact, she should pay for insurance and
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  Speaker 14: college after she finished high school.
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  Speaker 6: No mercy, Well, unfortunately, you have to pay the play.
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  Speaker 6: She signed the documents and so that's what signing the
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  Speaker 6: document means. She probably really shouldn't have to pay it.
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  Speaker 6: But that was a choice and she made the wrong one.
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  Speaker 6: So it's a legal binding document and she's just gonna
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  Speaker 6: have to go with it. Maybe so you know, kids
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  Speaker 6: need all of the love and parents they can get,
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  Speaker 6: so a bonus parent is not a bad thing for
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  Speaker 6: the child.
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  Speaker 7: I think she definitely should have to pay to have
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  Speaker 7: to get her name taken off. I think she should
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  Speaker 7: definitely pay child support because the one she wasn't like
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  Speaker 7: a guy. She knew for a fact that child wasn't hers,
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  Speaker 7: so she wouldn't sign her name in front of that
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  Speaker 7: man to block him off from being you have a child,
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  Speaker 7: So I first come, first served verses who gets to
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  Speaker 7: say this is I'm claiming child and not claiming the child.
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  Speaker 7: She knew that child was hers, so make her pay.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, she should have to pay.
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  Speaker 12: Because they fought for the same rights. They wanted marriage
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  Speaker 12: to be recognized.
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  Speaker 11: They got that for the same.
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  Speaker 13: Thing applys to Mary John apply to Mary in Sarah.
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  Speaker 2: She should have to pay.
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  Speaker 12: I think, well, there's a mayor or she now if
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  Speaker 12: it ain't their child, they don't need to be paying nothing.
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  Speaker 12: And yeah, I don't think she should pay.
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  Speaker 7: It's like a due should have to pay.
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  Speaker 12: I think she should pay.
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  Speaker 10: She accepted responsibilities.
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  Speaker 12: It's like she adopted without adopting. But yeah, and I
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  Speaker 12: think she ought to be held responsible.
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  Speaker 6: She signed the birth certificate, meaning that she was accept
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  Speaker 6: the responsibility for that child.