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I KNOW SOMETHING I SHOULDN'T KNOW!!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.
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  Speaker 1: Good, hey, it's over the bat. Everyone listening right now
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  Speaker 1: is a baddie fired through licensed up. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So last week Oddie had brought in a letter to
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  Speaker 3: his younger self past yeah, past self, and I said
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  Speaker 3: I was.
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  Speaker 1: Going to do one.
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  Speaker 3: Completely forgot my sincerest of apologies. I will argue a point,
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  Speaker 3: Actually I won't because I had time.
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  Speaker 1: Toxic, so I had excuses.
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  Speaker 3: I did actually have time, but I just forgot. So
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  Speaker 3: next week I promise I'll bring a letter in okay.
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  Speaker 1: But leave it bat he's waiting, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So But but this week we are recording earlier.
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  Speaker 3: That means I have more time between now and the
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  Speaker 3: next time we record compared to the last time we recorded.
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  Speaker 1: To now, it's good because you're diginking yourself a whole
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  Speaker 1: if you forget.
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  Speaker 3: A yeng so, so that means I have more time
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  Speaker 3: to remember, but also more time to just keep forgetting.
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  Speaker 3: But I wanted to instead start with so last week
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  Speaker 3: we spoke about uh, male friendships, and then we spoke
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  Speaker 3: about how they're all surface level and shit very much so.
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  Speaker 3: And since then, we've seen each other a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: Since we recorded, we we parted ways. We're talking on
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  Speaker 3: the phone sometimes, not actually all that often. We saw
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  Speaker 3: each other yesterday, but I haven't I haven't even like
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  Speaker 3: asked you genuine like even in that moment we were talking,
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  Speaker 3: how are you?
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  Speaker 1: Like do you like?
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  Speaker 3: There's look no one's one hundred percent happy, and I
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  Speaker 3: believe you're happy, but like, how are you?
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  Speaker 1: How am I? How are you? Genuinely? And I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: not even for the podcast, pretend the cameras from no microphone.
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  Speaker 1: I just opened up there. I just was thinking, we
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  Speaker 1: haven't even like spoken since Overall, I'm good. I think
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  Speaker 1: my feeling at the moment is motivated after the holiday. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my body is still catching up, so I'm a little
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  Speaker 1: bit reluctant to go like one hundred miles a minute,
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  Speaker 1: even though you probably shouldn't ever do that, but like
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  Speaker 1: in that grind culture. But my body is catching up.
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  Speaker 1: My tummy still a little bit sore. But in the
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  Speaker 1: back of my mind, I know that's just going to
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  Speaker 1: go away eventually, just waiting on time. And then overall,
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  Speaker 1: I guess we've talked about it on Patreon. We're planning
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  Speaker 1: to move in a state.
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  Speaker 3: We're in New South Wales right inter state for anyone
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  Speaker 3: didn't understand that, I understood it.
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  Speaker 1: In a state inter that Aussie slang to Queensland. Where
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  Speaker 1: in New South Wales right now? And I'm very keen.
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  Speaker 1: But also I have a feeling of being overwhelmed. Yeah, same,
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  Speaker 1: just a little bit. I guess I underestimated the move
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  Speaker 1: or not. We haven't even started moving. The actual move
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  Speaker 1: won't be that bad. I think I underestimated how much
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  Speaker 1: thought has to go into moving.
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  Speaker 3: True, it's not just gonna get I think, yeah, it
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  Speaker 3: comes from we come from a privileged position to be
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  Speaker 3: able to say that we're in a we're in a
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  Speaker 3: position to think about it and maybe go through with it.
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  Speaker 1: But it doesn't just like you fucking have to hunt.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, to be fair, we wouldn't be able to do it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know I buying a house together, like it's
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  Speaker 3: going to be in both of our names and we
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  Speaker 3: have to combine an income because you can't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we've told anyone we're doing that. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we left them on a studio.
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  Speaker 3: Oh shit, Oh yeah, damn som job.
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  Speaker 1: We originally were going to go.
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  Speaker 3: We always wanted to move into state and we were
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  Speaker 3: going to buy a studio instead and maybe start a
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  Speaker 3: company where we have two studios one hours and we
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  Speaker 3: hire another one out which something is still a bit.
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  Speaker 3: It's a goal of ours, still a big goal of ours.
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  Speaker 3: But it made more sense to actually buy residential, have
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  Speaker 3: Audie and Cassie live in it because I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: move in with my parents for a bit and then
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  Speaker 3: we have a studio and it makes it makes more
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  Speaker 3: sense financially.
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  Speaker 1: So that's where we're at. Quick. That was a quick
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  Speaker 1: catch up for everyone that didn't. It was behind and
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  Speaker 1: I knew it was going to be a lot, But
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  Speaker 1: I guess it's just overwhelming in a sense of we're
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  Speaker 1: putting up so much money, yes, and what we're getting
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  Speaker 1: is still mid It is interesting. Yeah, Like I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to talk sums on here, but if anyone did
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  Speaker 1: their research on any valuable land anywhere, like you'd be like,
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  Speaker 1: that's so much. When I was a kid, I was
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  Speaker 1: thinking that amount of money, I'd be fucking I'd be
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  Speaker 1: living free. Yeah, I'd be free to do whatever I wanted.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm buying some shitty house with it. Yeah. I
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  Speaker 1: guess it's like a patience game. We don't really I know,
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  Speaker 1: we're only twenty five, yeah, young when maybe we should
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  Speaker 1: talk to we should get like some sort of like
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  Speaker 1: real estate mogul on here and just see No. No,
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  Speaker 1: I want to say I hate real estate agents. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sorry if you are one, I'm I'm sure there's some
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  Speaker 1: nice ones out there, but when you call them, it
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  Speaker 1: feels like they're the like dirt underneath your shoe way
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  Speaker 1: they make they make you feel like that you're putting
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  Speaker 1: up so much money, and they make you feel bad
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  Speaker 1: for not having enough money.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, if they weren't commission based, I guarantee.
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  Speaker 1: You they wouldn't give a fuck.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like that's the it's because it's commission based that
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  Speaker 3: they need to just get every single penny you can offer.
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  Speaker 1: And to be fair, actually we've only talked to male
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  Speaker 1: real estate agents. I reckon that's got something to do
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  Speaker 1: with it. Would I think you're on something there, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I know we shouldn't stereotype, but I am is
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  Speaker 1: that a male dominated field certainly seems that way so
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  Speaker 1: far from what we've looked at. Yeah. Yeah, every every
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  Speaker 1: person with CALLD has been a male. Yeah, I'm not sure.
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  Speaker 1: But other than that, just a little bit overwhelmed, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited, I'm motivated, but he needs to catch up
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  Speaker 1: a little bit overwhelmed, But overall feeling good. What about you?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say overall feeling good.
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  Speaker 1: I've been.
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  Speaker 3: Lacking in the gym. Went to the gym this morning,
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  Speaker 3: first time since I've been on from Balley. I just
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  Speaker 3: haven't been going, And honestly, I hate to say it,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna call out the gym name. I dislike
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  Speaker 3: my gym in Sydney, but I'm in there. I don't
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  Speaker 3: feel good. I don't feel motivated. I don't feel like
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  Speaker 3: I want to be there. It's close and it's it's
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  Speaker 3: definitely does the job, like it is like nice equipment stuff,
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  Speaker 3: but it doesn't. I feel way better at the gym
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  Speaker 3: on the central coast here compared to in Sydney.
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  Speaker 1: And so I just don't know what he's going to
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  Speaker 1: come up and see your best friend by I can't
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  Speaker 1: and I just I don't know what it is. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I just don't like the gym. Mean I
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  Speaker 1: go to. Maybe it's the color scheme. It's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of yellow. No, I'd resonate with that completely. Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: a bit of a gym slut. Yeah, you like to
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  Speaker 1: switch around on the coast. I switch all the time.
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  Speaker 1: I've been to let me one, two, three four. I'm
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  Speaker 1: at my fifth gym and I've become boys with the
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  Speaker 1: owner owners, and then I feel bad for leaving. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know what it is, you can't become friends with
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  Speaker 1: the owners. Yeah, I feel like I'm breaking up with someone.
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  Speaker 1: I need to be a dog and be like like
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  Speaker 1: not talking to anyone.
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  Speaker 3: Hate because especially when it's like when you go to
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  Speaker 3: a gym owner if you become friends with the owner
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  Speaker 3: of the gym, because where we are it's always like
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  Speaker 3: the owner quite often works there and then works out
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  Speaker 3: there and says hi to everyone and gets a good
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  Speaker 3: rapport with everyone. And it's a good, great way to
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  Speaker 3: keep members and get new members obviously.
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  Speaker 1: But when you try out a new gym behind behind
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  Speaker 1: their back, they don't own you, yeah, and you're not
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  Speaker 1: in a relationship, but you do do it. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it feels like you've going behind their back.
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  Speaker 3: You're trying in new gym, and then the gym's sick,
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  Speaker 3: so you sign up for the gym that session, and
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  Speaker 3: then you have to go in person and say I
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  Speaker 3: need to get rid of my membership, and they go, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I found another gym.
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  Speaker 1: And equipment is always going to win over the personnel.
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  Speaker 1: And then they they know that you've cheated on them. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and terrible. What it feels like to actually cheat.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like the way that it
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  Speaker 3: feels when you go to a gym and try and
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  Speaker 3: get ready membership because you found a better gym, and
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  Speaker 3: the feeling of that, what does it feel like to
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  Speaker 3: actually cheat?
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  Speaker 1: Funnily enough, though, so this is gonna sound toxic as fuck.
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  Speaker 1: The cheating isn't the hard part, no, no, no, no, no no.
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  Speaker 1: Stay with me for the gym as an example. The
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  Speaker 1: hard part's telling him yeah, yeah, yeah, so that's very
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  Speaker 1: that's a very good point.
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  Speaker 3: And no, no, no, no no. When it comes to
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  Speaker 3: cheating in real life, I dare say again, I have
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  Speaker 3: no experience in this.
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  Speaker 2: It must I dare say, the easiest part is the act.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then they don't think about the repercussions.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, let me think, how else am I feeling?
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  Speaker 1: I've been doing good.
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  Speaker 3: There was a moment a little while ago where I
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  Speaker 3: would wake up and every time I woke up I
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  Speaker 3: would have this anxious pit in my stomach for like
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  Speaker 3: ten minutes, and then it would go away.
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  Speaker 1: You've told me that before. Yeah, that was a while ago.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was having it in balley and it's
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  Speaker 3: like it's almost like this feeling of let me.
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  Speaker 1: Think, what's the best way I could describe this. Let's say.
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  Speaker 3: We are recording in Sydney one day and you told
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  Speaker 3: me not to bring my laptop because you're bringing yours,
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  Speaker 3: and so I'm there, You're nearly there, and you realize
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  Speaker 3: you forgot it.
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  Speaker 1: And you can't go back and get it.
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  Speaker 3: It's that feeling where you're like, but then I have
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  Speaker 3: to just be like, you know what, it's fine, it'll
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  Speaker 3: work itself out. And then the feeling but I haven't
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  Speaker 3: had it in a while, so that's good.
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  Speaker 1: That's funny. I kind of get a similar feeling of
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  Speaker 1: like anxiety. Mine's like before I go to bed, when
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing nothing, and I guess my feeling would be
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  Speaker 1: like something's wrong, but I don't know what's wrong. See,
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  Speaker 1: so you get it when you go to bed. Yeah, No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't get I'm at last like half an hour wow,
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  Speaker 1: and then it's gone. I have something in the back
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  Speaker 1: of my head. I'm like, but did I do something wrong?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know about yeah, And like then I go
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  Speaker 1: through like my life, I'm like, no, I haven't done
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  Speaker 1: anything wrong. Yeah, and it's feeling. It's just like I'm
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  Speaker 1: second guessing myself and I'm like and it just goes
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  Speaker 1: away and I don't think about it for like a
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  Speaker 1: week or two. Yeah, and that randomly comes back. Yeah. Weird.
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  Speaker 3: So I'll actually, you know, I'll let everyone know if
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  Speaker 3: my little bits of anxiety in the morning's come back.
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  Speaker 3: But like they're nothing to worry about. I don't think
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  Speaker 3: at least because it's seriously, it's ten minutes and all
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  Speaker 3: I do is get up, and I do find if
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  Speaker 3: I go on my phone straight away it's worse.
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  Speaker 1: One more. This is actually I don't think I've ever
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  Speaker 1: spoken about anyone about this something.
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  Speaker 3: One thing where I would say I'm not one hundred
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  Speaker 3: percent is I quite often think about how I have
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  Speaker 3: a whole separate family.
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  Speaker 1: On the other side of the country, other side of
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  Speaker 1: the world.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, sorry, world one big on like pretty much
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  Speaker 3: the opposite side.
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  Speaker 1: Of the world, and they're in Canada.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah right, And I you know, social media exists, internet everything,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like mad disconnected, and so I'll have bouts
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  Speaker 3: where I think I really really need to, like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: keep my relationship with my younger siblings over there, you know,
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  Speaker 3: up to scratch, because every time I go over it
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  Speaker 3: every it's every two years, and then they've grown up
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  Speaker 3: a bunch and whatever, and I just think they're going
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  Speaker 3: to fucking get to a point where they're my age
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  Speaker 3: and we.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know each other that well. And I was, and
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  Speaker 1: then so I have it.
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  Speaker 3: I'll be like thinking about that, but then I'll be like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, it's fine, it's fine as fine, and then
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  Speaker 3: not think about it, and then think about it and
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  Speaker 3: not think about it.
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  Speaker 1: It might be a therapist question. But it's also tough
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  Speaker 1: for you though, because if I was in that position too,
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  Speaker 1: I would give myself leeway because I'm like, well, my
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  Speaker 1: parents did this, it's not my fault as hard, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know, and then it is still on you to
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  Speaker 1: put the effort in. But also I'll be like, fuck
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  Speaker 1: the situation. And also not that they're in the wrong,
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  Speaker 1: but your family members aren't reaching out. No, No, it's
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  Speaker 1: the same thing, no, because it is hard, yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: also the time difference, and it's just like we're just
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  Speaker 1: living two different lives. Yeah, it's hard.
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  Speaker 3: I just don't know maybe anyone else that's goes through that.
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  Speaker 3: Andybody got like two. I think it's obviously super common,
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  Speaker 3: just two completely different, separate families.
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  Speaker 1: As soon as like parents get divorced, that's what happens.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah everywhere, So I do.
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  Speaker 3: We've definitely had a dilemma about someone having a family
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  Speaker 3: in New Zealand and Italy. That's fucking far. I think
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  Speaker 3: that's further. So maybe comment anything the good thing.
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  Speaker 1: About others in Canada is like we have so many similarities. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: within like not lifestyle, but how you operate with work
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  Speaker 1: and life balance and everything like that. It's very similar.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny. America is completely different, but then Canada is.
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  Speaker 3: Very Canada's Canada's commonwealth, Yeah, yeah, very They stayed with
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  Speaker 3: the old commonwealth. But yeah, so a new tips on
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  Speaker 3: how not to feel like a bad brother, because I
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  Speaker 3: go there and it's fine, but then I leave and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'll stay in touch or stay in touch
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  Speaker 3: or stay in touch, and I just don't. Yeah, to
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  Speaker 3: be fair, my younger sisters sixteen or seventeen late, and
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  Speaker 3: then my younger brother.
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  Speaker 1: Is he's going on twenty.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I don't even think he wants to hear
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  Speaker 3: from That's what I tell myself.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think he even wants to hear it.
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  Speaker 3: Alright's next up, oddie. I got things that aren't just
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  Speaker 3: for boys, aren't just for boys. This should be good,
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  Speaker 3: all right. Number one Saturdays Saturdays.
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  Speaker 1: I liked, Oh wait, actually, and they're all like Saturdays
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  Speaker 1: just for the boys.
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  Speaker 3: Talking about my little brother, he has a like a
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  Speaker 3: flag in his room that says Saturdays do you remember
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  Speaker 3: when that whole thing came out, like Saturdays and for
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  Speaker 3: the boys. I had a girlfriend at the time, and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, from from day one, I was like, nah,
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  Speaker 3: a hot take.
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  Speaker 1: After like having our party error, yeah, and seeing how
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  Speaker 1: my girlfriend parties, I reckon girls have more fun on
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  Speaker 1: Saturdays or going out. Actually Saturdays are for the boys
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  Speaker 1: because the girls don't want us. Yeah, alright, energy drinks,
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  Speaker 1: Energy drinks, explain. Think about it. Most energy drinks they're
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  Speaker 1: made for men.
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  Speaker 3: There's like the branding is all Marcho and stuff, and
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  Speaker 3: they've all just got like bulls and monsters and crazy
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  Speaker 3: ass colors.
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  Speaker 1: Thinking about it, like walking through the aisles and like
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to pick one. There's not many options that
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  Speaker 1: aren't very very masculine for the men are male dominator,
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  Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. That's why Marissa made perfect healthy drinks.
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  Speaker 1: They weren't even made with us guys in mind, and
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  Speaker 1: they slap Let me see juicy peach all natural powered
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  Speaker 1: by Marcher. What the hell this looks legit? Yeah? Wait,
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  Speaker 1: and the flavors are actually good.
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  Speaker 3: I'm all about juicy peach, but apple raspberry it's actually
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  Speaker 3: good as well.
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  Speaker 1: Apple. I'm going to go where where do I find it?
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  Speaker 1: Coals gets up, Coles Bro, I'm going there get stucked up.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: I know you're a Coals guy. I have a cold guy. Okay, baddies,
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  Speaker 1: it's time for dilemmas. Of those.
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  Speaker 3: This is I think going to become my new absolute
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: favorite segment because what I said last week was I'm
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: going to start doing themed. This week's theme, I went
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  Speaker 3: to the Instagram, put a story up and I said, everybody,
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  Speaker 3: we want your dilemmas.
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  Speaker 1: We want them to be falling under.
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  Speaker 3: This category of things I shouldn't know, or more of
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: I think it was I know something I shouldn't know.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: So that's the category that I know something I shouldn't know. Yeah,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: because you're in a sticky situation. Then pause, sticky is right?
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Sticky icky bro? And we got that many emissions? Yes,
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: oh my god, we got yeah, and more than we
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: can do. Unfortunately, apologies, but we'll do our best. I
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: think we have two each we do. Okay, I'll go first.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Before me and my partner got together, we were flirting
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: for like a year. During that period, he slept with
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: my friend twice, but it was none of my business
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: at the time, as we weren't together. He doesn't know
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: why I know. Should I tell him now or just
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: leave it as it's water under the bridge, but also
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: kind of juicaf interesting?
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Should you tell him? So they weren't exclusive, she said flirting,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: They were just flirting for like a year. What kind
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: of friend is that?
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: And in that time he has slept with her friend twice,
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: So he slept with that friend twice within a year,
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: and he also would flirt with this girl.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: For a little bit. So like when I but nowadating,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Here's the.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: Thing, right, when I was single, flirting, it's it's actually
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: very it's a very harmless thing.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: So unless she's mixing up flirting with tuning or like chatting,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Though, So, like I
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: don't know when I was single and like working at.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: A bar, it would be super easy to just like
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: flirt with even a coworker just like you just say
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: it and then it's like super harmless. And if that
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: co worker had I guess, But like it sounds like
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: she obviously liked him.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she might be confusing the terminology, but to me, yeah,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: flirting is kind of a doesn't mean to me. To me,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: it's doesn't mean much about you. Also, though, say she
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: sounds like she liked him, I can't. Yeah, say I
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: liked a girl and I started flirting with her and
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I went to you, and I was like, oh, Like
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I would tell my friend flirting with Sarah and then
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: she went and slept with him, even if it's just flirting.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: If you did that, I'd be like, well, what are
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: you doing? I told you I was flirting with her.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Stay out of my business, dude, I don't know. And
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: now they're dating and she wants to know if it's
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: worth telling him, I reckon, Nah, I can.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: It depends like are you super affected by it? Because
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: here's the thing as well, is if you are super
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: affected by it, I do agree with what she said.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: How during that time, like she hasn't said they were
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: sleeping together or they were exclusive.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: They literally were just flirting.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Like that doesn't mean that he can't and and your
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: friend can't. And also you could have.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what can you get out of telling him too? Though,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: like if you're in a happy relationship now, but also
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: if it's in the back of your mind, maybe it'll
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: help get it out of your mind. I would say,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: if you do it, do it in a playful manner
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: that you're like not that affected by it? Yeah, haha,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, it depends though, like are you affected
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: by it? Yeah? She didn't give us enough in for
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: me no, But he's the thing is are you affected
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: by it?
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: Because I think you wouldn't send it this dilemma in
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: and you because to me, this isn't juicy.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: A Yeah, to me, this is like she's like, haha,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: should I tell it to me? It's like it's hard.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: I don't know, because to me, I don't think this
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: is all that of a juice. This isn't all that juicy.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: No, not really.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because she she said, she said it's she could
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: should I leave it as water under bridge but also juice? Yeah?
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think leave it as water under the bridge? Hey. Yeah.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: And if you're super affected by it, then obviously you
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: liked him a whole lot more during that first year.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Then you thought the word flirting is throwing herself.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think throw throwing me off as well. Yeah,
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: because you could say, I like, if you really liked
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: him for a full year and he was sleeping with
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: other people again, not that he's not allowed to do that,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: but if he knew you really liked him, and then like.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know, this is actually kind of tricky. I'm
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: saying water under the bridge. I also I'm saying water
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: under the bridge. Okay, this one is juice fuck. Okay.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I was doing a clear out and found an old
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: iPhone of my boyfriend's. Of course, being the nosey twat
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: that I am, I charged it up, and since he's
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: a boy the password for that is the exact same
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: as his current phone.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Obviously, hold up, wait, she said that, as if like
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: people don't do that.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Obviously, I don't know. Have you ever changed yours? No? Yeah,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: exactly were both. The only time I ever changed it
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: was when Apple went from four digits to six and
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: you added two more of the exact same. I'm still four,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: you still, I'm still four. And guess what it is?
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: My debit card password? I never forget my debit card.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? When does my parkway they could
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: see you in public? Okay? Is it the same as
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: our debit password for our card? No? You and I
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: have different cards. Yeah, your debit for our business No? No, no,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: no no, no, our business one is different.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I actually think I had to make it
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: different it wouldn't let me make it this out.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, he wasn't at home, so I delved into the
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: camera roll and saw screenshots of a girl used to
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: talk to and or dated, which was a hard pill
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: to swallow since they were all ten out of ten.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. What does that mean?
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: They were all ten out of ten?
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: Like hot, I'm gonna say, yeah, I quickly you, Maddie,
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: I'm sure you're a ten.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I quickly stopped because it made me feel so insecure,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: and now I'm just comparing myself to them. Also, there
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: was a few worst of all. I briefly looked at
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: some messages with one of his exes, who he had
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: his longest relationship with, and I saw he called I
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: saw he called her darling, which is what he calls me.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: It broke my heart and I now think of it
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: every time he calls me. That this was a few
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: months ago, and I would say, I'm over the initial
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: emotion of it, but sometimes it still plays in my
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: mind and really bothers me. I can't blame him. He
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: doesn't even know I existed. Oh yeah, she's kind of
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: like the last one. He didn't even know I existed
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: and never touches this phone, And I knew I couldn't
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: admit it to him because then he'd know I completely
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: invaded his privacy. What's the saying curiosity killed the cat?
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: Don't do it, ladies, better to be delusional and imagine
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: his exes are all ugly.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: Ah damn, bro, this is so juicy and this is
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: literally the definition of fuck around him.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Find out bro. Oh my god. Oh and that's relatable.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Everyone has that urge, like that toxic urge, curiosity does
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: kill the cat. Yeah, damn, oh wait, dad is And
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: it sound sounded like at the end she kind of
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: made her decision that she's she she can't tell every
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: because it's an invasion of his prim Let's be real,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: it is.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so he's done nothing wrong, Like I'm assuming.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know that darling thing. I feel like each
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: nickname reserve for a different partner if you do have
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: more than one along the line.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, in timeline, separate points of time.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: True, I've never had the same nickname for you can't.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: But also, darling.
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: Is universal still, but get creative, dude, Darling is a
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: universal one.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: But I would be like, but just use babe, abes universal, Yeah, babes.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: If he's used darling, you've got another one right there, Babe.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Oh you mean choose another universe if you want a
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: universal obviously likes Darling. Oh damn.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: She so she goes on she's looking at photos and
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: then she just so happens to be like I need
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: to go deep and.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: She war messages too. What does Beth call you talk about?
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Not original? All right? So I, for some reason start
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: a corner pickle. Can't for the life of me and
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: remember why? Right?
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: So I would say, like, call a pickle turned into
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: pick now picky, it's picky and pick Guess what she
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: calls me, daddy, mister pick that's ship you came up
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: with it exactly what I'm saying. It's that kind of
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: still works.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: But not really. Say you found out that Beth quarter x,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: mister pick, how did you feel?
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: I would feel like, oh my god, I would feel hmm.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Let me just see if I can word this properly, properly, sorry,
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: let's see if I can be articulate.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I would feel.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: I would feel less useful than the bag of sand
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: that sits in the back of some mutes to weigh
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: down the back.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: What are we you an analogy? Fair?
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Fair like that that would be stated that bag of
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: sand has more useful, It has more use than I do.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: And justifying this baddiest decisions. You found something that's on
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: the border of what and wrong using reusing a nickname
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. However, also bro Ignorance must have been
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: believed she didn't know. Right here, what's what you do?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Here's what you do? Right? So look, let's be real.
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: You can't tell him what you did because you did
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: invade his privacy and he's done nothing wrong.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: These relationships were in the past. It sucks that they
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: were tends. Yeah, sucks, I'm sure you are too.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Sounds like he has a tight all right, And so
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: now every time he calls you darling, I think you
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: should just be like, I know we've been together.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: For a while and you call me that, but I
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: need to be honest. I hate that nickname. Get him
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: to think of a new one. No, I disagree. I
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: think honesty is the best policy moving forward. Hey, I
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: think you have to tell him fucking what because you've
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: done wrong by him, You've invaded his privacy, and imagine
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: like this happened a couple on ago. Imagine they get
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: married and he eventually finds out somehow it comes out
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: when they're both drunk one night, Like, I want you
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: to get it off your chest. I know you did
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: something wrong, but admitting you did something wrong, like it's
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: not that terrible is better owning up to it than
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: never telling me. Damn, because I it's not. That's not
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: break up worthy to me, I'd be devot, but I'd
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: also appreciate that you told me. Yeah, I'm trying to
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: think how I would feel in this situation, Like, I know,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: ignorance is bliss, but also trust is the foundations of
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: any relationship, which I have a feeling I would just
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: be like, what, why'd you go through it? Exactly? And
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: it's not break up worthy, But it's also better for
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: her to tell him so they can move forward, damn. Man.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: And you could also bring up the Darling conversation and
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: be like, look, I know I found something when I
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have been looking, but let's come up with some
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: new nicknames.
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I feel like you just got
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: to say to him, and now, yeah, one more thing,
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: the Darling thing.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: It's God, it's gonna have to change. Yeah, yeah, you could.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: You could admit to him, like I gotta say, ignorance
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: was bliss, but the darling thing's gonna have to check it.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Fuck. You are right, You've got to tell him. Yeah
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: that was juicy, but that was juicy. Fuck good lesson.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: This one's pretty charmer a bit I should have known better.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Okay, Before I go on, I would like to ask
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: all your question, where can everyone go if they just
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: fucking love this.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Podcast, If they love this podcast and they love us,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: go to Patreon. Yes, five dollars a month. You get
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: an extra episode of this every single week. You get
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: the book club early. And I'm gonna say it right now,
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Love Island Australia is coming out and we're going to
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: be doing live reactions over there as of the day
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: we are recording this.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: The first episode comes out tonight and we are gonna
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: watch it together and record it and post it on Patreon.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so head on over there as cheap as chips,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: and it really helps us a lot. All right.
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: Next to Lemma, I don't think my friend listens to
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: this podcast, so I feel safe sharing. Here's the situation.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: My friend is raising a fourteen month old boy. Let's
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: call him A. He believes A is his son, but
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: I know the truth. What A is actually his brother,
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: the biological father. My friend's dad passed away when A
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: was only six weeks old. My friend has no idea.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: He absolutely adores A and would give him the world.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: He even bought his ex a house so she and
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: A wouldn't be homeless. The only slip was at the funeral,
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: A was listed on the pamphlet as a son and
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: not a grandson. My friend just assumed the funeral home
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: made a mistake and no one corrected it. The biological
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: father's wife, so technically A's stepmother has no no clue either.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I only know the truth because the mother told me.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: As far as I am aware, it's just her and
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: me who know.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Now. I feel stuck.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: This secret doesn't seem like it would benefit anyone if
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: it came out. At the same time, I feel like
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: I should say something. But how as men, how would
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: you want to be told that the child, the child
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: you've loved since pregnancy and through their first fourteen months,
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: isn't your son, but actually your brother.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: We're not going down that happening. We're not going down there.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: So the friends ex slept with his dad.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but what I'm assuming while they were together, So
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: like she cheated with the guy's dad.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: But then the dad passes away. I don't know. We're
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: not entertaining this.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: This this we're honesty is the best policy.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: This goes to the grave. Yeah, but he's passed away.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: The dad's actual dad has passed away. Like, we're not
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: doing anything, all right? Let me think, when would you
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: want to find out? Is this like some TV series
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: we haven't seen? Yeah, she could be.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: Is it? Are we getting? Fucking damn? We're getting what's
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: it called pranked by prank patrol?
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Punked? Ah? When would you want to find out? Never?
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Don't tell me, because no matter what, I've got to
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: be the new father figure to this kid. Don't tell me.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Ignorance is sometimes ignorance is bliss. Ignorance is always blessing.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Let's be real. Ignorance is always been in this scenario.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: But also class half fool. This kid's going to think
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: he has a dad. It's a live that's good? Is
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: that good? I don't know. This is too techy. I
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: think just leave it. Just leave it. Also, not your place.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: The mother should really be yes on the don't. Yeah,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: don't say anything. It's on the mother up to her.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: She chooses where this goes. How did the dad? So,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: how did the biological father die? That? Hopefully not from
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: old age. Also, you couldn't tell me that my exits
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: slept with my dad. Don't tell me that.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, you couldn't tell me that, damn, especially after
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: your dad's dead and.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: You mourned him. That one is probably that's the craziest,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: the craziest lemma we've ever had ever.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: You're just an outside of looking in knowing that information.
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: What would you do if if you actually if you
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: found out that information, what would you do?
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: I think I'd run away? Yeah, I would leave. I
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: think I would distance myself with everyone and be like,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: no one loves I. I hope no, no loves me.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: Because you're an outside of looking in, You're just like
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: a friend. I would just distansplay your place.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: It's that.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's there's a time because you're if you're the
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: one that says it, you're in the middle of it.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: You don't need to be in the middle of this, Yeah, exactly.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: So you don't want to be in the middle of this.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: How would how would you tell I don't know entertainment,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: don't entertain it. I don't reckon entertain it all. Really,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: don't tell a friend, no fair, Okay, I know something
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't know. My brother and I found out that
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: our dad has a secret Instagram account, fake name, no photographs,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and he's following a few colleagues from his work. He
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: sent my brother on Instagram reel via WhatsApp and it
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: was connected to his secret account, So we are definitely
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: sure it's his. My mom doesn't have any form of
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: social media. Do we tell her? Ah?
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: They left out some key details. What's going on with
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: this account? Is he just one Instagram? He has a
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: secret Instagram account and here only follows coworkers.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: He's probably got his normal Instagram account and then a
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: secret one with no profile picture and not his name,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: and he's following coworkers. Fuck it. I can tell your mom. Yeah,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: they could figure it out. Actually confront your dad. You
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: can confront yeah, stead of your dad, like what's this?
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I can show your mum and let her do that.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Not my place. Now, you need to find out what
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: it is first. It's sure. You need to find out
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: what it actually is. Is that can't be justified something about
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: that's weird, give it to your mum. Like, this is
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: kind of at the very.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: Length, I think, depending on age, at the very least,
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: that parents with social media easily manipulated.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: But at the very least that he's all he's got
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: to say. It's very sucks. But all he's got to
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: say is something like.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: Oh why I had my other account and then one
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: time I couldn't get into it, and so I had
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: to make a new account. And I was halfway through
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: just like following new people and getting it ready, and
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: then my other account, I remember the password, so I
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: logged back in.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: So I don't even use this.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: Count easily You've done this before. Easily manipulated, is what
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. So you need to go to your dad,
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: need to confront him, and you need to say what
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: the fuck is this about? Yeah, or go on his phone,
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: sucks it out, see who's messaging. Yeah, he was just
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: on the wrong account of the.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: But also if he's got a fake account with a
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: random name and he's messaging these people, how do they
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: know it's your dad? Don't we know?
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Someone told us that their parents have been divorced for
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: ages and her dad made I gotta keep this mad
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: broad And her dad made a fake account just to like,
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: I guess see what his ex wife of like seventeen
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: years or some shit he's been up to because he's still.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: In love with her or something that.
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: Could be another reason, and and and and the only
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: reason they know is because he made the name an
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: old password or some shit like something.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Something like that.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: And I remember when she told us, I was like,
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: it's like, it's scary but maybe cute because he's still old.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: People shouldn't be on the gramm a like if you
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: treat it like that, I mean like people like I
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: don't know, fifty and older gen X and up? Yeah,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: what's gen X?
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: So my parents? Yeah, her parents probably still gen X.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon that aging up Yeah, fifteen up, gen
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: x and up should definitely stand Facebook.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: Not even read a newspaper. I don't know, just look
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: stuff up on Google. Sorry, you don't need social media.
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: It's too dangerous. Your footprint, like your footprints way too
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: broad and way too easy to and.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: You have no idea what's going on? Absolutely clueless. All right, Jake,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: I'm excited for this one. I g Question of the Week.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Things men do that make you say, oh yes, oh yes,
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: let me go first. So things men do that make
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: you say oh yes, knowing when to be silent? Oh okay,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: I took this in the bedroom.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I was gonna say I can't when you
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: initially said it, I was thinking, just in general, stop talking.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Could be taken both ways, like you're annoying me, But
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: in the bedroom that mouth shut? Should you ever be silent?
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I reckon, there's a time and a place to just
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: go to town and no to be silent, like it
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: speaks for itself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't need you
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: to talk. Yeah, this thing doesn't talk flush Okay. Things
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: men do that make you say, oh yes, Robert Irwin
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: need I say less? Oh yeah? What happened to that man?
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: Do you know he's like twenty he's younger than us,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: that bonds ad. I saw some people being like he
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: was hot until I realized that he was twenty.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah. True, everyone's thinking he's so hot, and they're like, wait,
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: he's twenty fair.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: I thought he was twenty five until someone said that, So, yeah,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: it looks a bit older, but I didn't think we
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: were that much older than him. I reckon, he's going
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: to age like fine wine to A he's gonna get hotter,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: and A damn he's not dancing with the stars right now. Yeah,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Bro's got such a good career and.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: He's and he did one did one dance where like
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: they ripped his shirt.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: Off his shirt today and apparently you had to apologize
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: for it too hot, too sexy. Maybe maybe yes, people
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: melted too many of you. Yeah. Yeah. Things men do
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: that make you say, oh yes, saying your light when
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: they pick you up fair. I saw a lot of
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: them do really, I didn't see any of them really,
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: that's heaves fair. I feel like the best thing too.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I think that goes both ways too. So when you
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: go to pick your girlfriend or whoever you're talking to
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: you up and they say no, I'm heavy, and then
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: you pick him up like, oh you're so light, you
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: both win because you feel masculine and she feels like
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: a queen.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: I thought when you said both ways, you're going to
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: say when she picks you up she says you're.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Heavy, I'm heavy, then okay.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say oh yes, doing
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: the stretch, the stretch like the stretch.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Upward dog or something. What's the stretch the cobra, he
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: stretched like one knee up, like stretching. Or maybe he's
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: stretching her. Oh, that could be it, because I've never
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: heard anyone say the stretch. It's got to be you
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: stretching them. But like, what's a stretch that all men do? No,
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: I think I feel like, what's the class Like that's
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: not a stretch. No, I think it's stretching her. Maybe
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: like a leg placement where like missionary legs up a
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: little bit of a stretch. Maybe maybe that's unique and individual.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but she like said these stretches, if everyone knew it,
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: that's why I think it's a girl thing.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: And we don't know. We've never stretched him that way.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Let us know, let us know, very derogatory, the stretch,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: initial penetration. I'm open to every single thing you can
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: think of. It could be that, yeah, because that makes
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: the most sense, Like it feels good. Maybe it's like again,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: the stretch is like the first time Nesta and Cassian
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: had She's just things men do to make you say,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: oh yes, this one took it very literally, leave me alone.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: Oh yes, fair, fair things men do to make you say,
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: oh yes.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: The way he drives my car. That is hot. A
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: that must be sexy. I feel like a man when
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: you drive your girlfriend's car, whipping that little thing around
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: and you always like put the seat back and they
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: act annoid, but you change the mirrors. Things men do
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: that make you say, oh yes, choosing me over the boys. Valid? Yeah, valid,
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: is a good feeling. Flash me them back dimples, back
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: dimples like back there, like down near your bump. No,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: that's weird. Girls like a back dimple, I don't know
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: about that. Is that like part of the dadbod excess skin?
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: I don't think I have any back dimples you're checking.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: I'm just feeling. I don't know about that one. Girls
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: like a back dimple, I don't know. I saw one
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: that said back muscles. That makes a less fair. That
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: makes me say yes, back dimples though, that's very fair.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: What's better? Uh is like a is a nice big.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: Muscly back more widely loved than say a nice big
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: muscley chest.
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: It goes yeah, back arms, chest yeah, funk legs yeah, legs,
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: k legs, fuck legs.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Most men have those cigarette legs anyway. Fair. Things men
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: do that make you say oh yes, being a swiftye
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: or directioner. Oh, I know.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: I mean I would say I'm a Taylor Swift supporter.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I swifty at some point. I don't know if I'm
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: allowed to call myself a proper swifty though, But you do,
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: I'll give you that.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say, oh yes, roll
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: up sorry, yeah, roll up shirt sleeve to show those
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: veiny arms.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I saw veiny arms. Your girls love vainy arms. With that.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's like alluding to like what's
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: under that shirt too? Yeah? True, and we roll up tight.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Those four arms are too big, okay. Things men do
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: that make you say, oh yes, smirk nah, bro, No man.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: Can smirk in a way to make you say, oh yes,
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: it's gonna be hard.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Pause. I can't do it.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: Also, when that was the worst thing I've ever seen ever, that.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Was the worst thing I've ever seen ever, you interjected
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: too early. Pick up the wet floors on fucking dry.
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: Dry. Things men do this make you say oh yes
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: when he says hold on tight to the headboard.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Hold on tight, yeah, bullshit. Things men do that make
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: you say oh yes when they finally find the she said, see,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: do you know what that is? The clip. Yeah, that
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: would be a good feeling. I need to admit something.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Don't say you've never found I can't say I have
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: what what about a bed or any girlfriend? Dude? I mean,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: if I have found it, fluked it, can't you find
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like seem like faicious.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: I can't tell you the conversation that I had with
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: Beth the other day, just because it's like quite bright,
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: I can tell you probably off.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: She was like, you still haven't found my No, like no,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I can't go on. But I just like, seriously, but
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: because but you can always feel it? Okay, big guy?
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: Is that true? I don't think so. I don't think
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: it is.
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, big guy, give me an anatomy lesson your girlfriend,
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: give you I've tried.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: She doesn't even know where it is.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: She does it, she doesn't, she does it hand on hearts,
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: wearing Henry's life.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: Beth seems to think she doesn't. Okay, interesting, come on,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: let me. We talked about vibrated before. It helps finding it,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: like exploring more like where it is the sensation rating
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: and I do it? Help me find it because she
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: will feel it and be like that's it, and then
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: you then you investigate more.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: One thing I do know is the glittorist is actually
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: it goes quite in, quite deep.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I only found that out. It's actually the outside of
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: the walls, the whole clippress, you know, yeah, like it
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: spreads a bit so you can't hit every guy. I
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: found it.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: I just haven't found that one that everyone seems to
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: think is the only glit.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Oh, there's just one big one.
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: So everyone's like, have you shut the funk up about
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: the clip bro, Seriously, I'm going to show you a
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: diagram after a I.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Don't believe it exists.
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: I don't think that that little everyone's like flicking the being.
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: This flicking the being, that terrible analogy. No one's flicking
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: that thing.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: It's similar to whanking, like the same analogy as wankan,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: Like you know, whankan isn't like I think it's a myth. Personally,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: If my girlfriend can't flick it, is that?
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: No? Seriously tell me, Okay, things men do that make
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: you say, oh, yes, this is actually a good one,
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: Remembering something I like, then having it there the next
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: time I see him.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: That's a great one. Actually I have another one. I
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: have another good one.
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: Back to back being vulnerable in a tender moment that
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: makes me weak to my knees.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like that. Being vulnerable is like, oh yeah,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: he's emotionally mature. Oh yeah, I guess even just like
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: not scared. I can see a future of this guy
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: that's not like, oh yeah, he's sexy. He's like, oh yeah,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: he's a man fair My last one, things men do
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: that make you say oh yes when he's gentle during cuddles?
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: I mean, let me just say something. If you've experienced
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: someone that's not gentle during cuddles, what were they doing?
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Can you be a ship cuddler? Imagine? How can you
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: be a shit cuddler? And how can you not be
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: gentle during a cuddle? Maybe you're like I don't know,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: always like hand on the head, like.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Ah well, I don't understand how you can't be gentle
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: in a cuddle.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: Maybe going a bit too quick, it's not like smooth. Sorry.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I thot you said wrestle talking about only your restle
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: with my bros. That's all I know, all right.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: Last one, what what's something I do that make you say,
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: oh yes, get on his knees to workshop at my.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: Altar workshop at my altar. I have a feeling it's like,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: get on his knees and ah, I feel I think
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: that's what it needs. Yeah, like a bit of like
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: voodoo christ in there, pull her up to the edge
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: of the bed. To be fair, that would be like,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, getting a workshop at my altar, putting the
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: altar of something, the entrance of something. Maybe putting him
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: on his knee to go to your altar would be like,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: oh yes, I just don't know how I can feel
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: about being like more. The longer we go on with
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: this podcast, the more vanilla I find out I am.
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually I am the same. And then when
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: I think I'm getting.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Less, I'm keeping that shit PG.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: It's almost like I'm yeah, yeah, true, yeah, like you
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: could if there was I'd say my life.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: Could be a PG movie. Yeah, I reckon. I feel
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: like a dog and the hear some of this and
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on Disney So fair. Alright, baddies,
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: before we jump into the comments, we have a big
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: announcement of a new campaign. We are calling this the
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Baddest Baddie Campaign. We're on the hunt for the baddest baddies,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: the real engines behind business side hustles and companies to
• 49:55
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• 49:58
  Speaker 1: off your hustle in a fun kind of gamified format
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: and compete for the crown of the badest bad ee. Okay,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: and you also win one month long podcast sponsorship for
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: the business you work for or your business? What which
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: is pretty cool? Did you just add that at the end? No,
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: it's always been there. Ah, you know what news to me?
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: One month sponsorship fucking for their business?
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. I feel like that's a good prices. Also,
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: what businesses are we talking about it? What if it's summariness?
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: This shows you. I sent Jake this fucking form and
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: he obviously didn't read it. I read up to what
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: was important, but clearly not so wait so bad You
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: said to me this was a great idea because it
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: is a great and then you said everything about it
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: this couise, So I was like, oh sick, everything about
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: it's good.
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: I really I just read like the competitions, like the
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: different games and stuff, and then I didn't right, I
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: just assumed that win was gonna get with the winner
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: go for both friend and boyfriend.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: Olympics one. It's just going to be a little ad read.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: So say, I don't know, they say they're not going
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: to work for a simple they're not gonna work for McDonald's.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: But say she's a macas manager. Yeah, and she wins
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: McDonald's macers. We recommend it. Yeah that four episodes. Yeah,
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: four episodes. So if that sounds of interest to you,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: that is will be competing, had to have head to
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: head in a playful workplace inspired challenges to test grit,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: wit and the grind. They're gonna be mini games. Some
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: are going to be like really simple, super fun. Some
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: are going to be complex. And if this sounds like
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: something you'd be interested in, and also if you don't
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: want like the ad read and you still have a business,
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: you can compete, you're true.
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we'll give up a prom Actually, there'll be
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: a prize that is maybe money equivalent.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: We'll give you guys, like a gift care, a gift
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: card something, if that's what you want instead.
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: Because what if they're working for a company and they're like,
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: I don't want to fucking give my company promotion?
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Fuck them, Yeah exactly. They didn't give me the rise
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: I wanted last month or some ship. So there's still
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: a little bit to working out apparently, but if you
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: want to apply, the link will be in the top
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: of the description and it starts next week. But Jake,
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: let's do comments.
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: I got two from YouTube, Okay, from Emma Hope. It
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: is definitely rock paper scissors shoot, or maybe that is
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: just the American way. No, it's scissors, paper, rock paper
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: rock rock rock paper shoot.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: There's no like dispute. He hate paper rock.
• 52:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's how it goes rock rock Yeah, right, sis
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: paper If you start with rock, it's like rock.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, I've got Nicky Varrus. Do you remember that at
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: Lama last week about Instagram? Can give me a brief
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: recap on how she was talking four dudes? Oh?
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: Yes, shit, So this is this girl talking to four
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: guys that actually likes one of them a lot.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: She gets added on Instagram by some random profile.
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: This person message and says, ah, you know, I do
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: this to every girl I'm talking to. What's my name?
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: Just to see if she's talking to more than one.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: Dude, Nicki said, you can log in with his user
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: name on ig then click forget password, and two or
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: three letters of his email will come up, and then
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: you can kind of see his name, so you'll know
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: which one it is. Wait, did she need to be
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: with them? No? No, no, So you just so you
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: log out of your Instagram copy and paste is gone
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: your computer, copy and paste he's user name of this
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: fake account into Instagram forgot password. It will come up
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: with three letters of his email and it'll be like
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: no or Sam, and you'll be like, that's him, fucking shit,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: losing Damn. I like our way. That was genius.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: I mean, we're not going to find out who he is.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: That's the best way to find out who he is.
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: But I liked what we said. Have how you have
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: to message him and just be like fuck off?
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do both? But vallid now.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: The next one from Sassy Mouse. This was about the
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: male friendships, surface level stuff. So she said women are
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: socialized to be thinking of and nurturing other people before themselves,
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: so a lot of women have a focus on others,
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: including their friends, partner, kids, parents, colleagues, et cetera. Men
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: aren't socialized like that, so unless they're intentionally trying to
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: get those good relationship and communication skills, men just sail
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: through life just receiving passively rather than really participating in relationships.
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: In home life and in community, etc.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: So it's about it. It's yeah, it's social. Passively is
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: a good word to describe male friendships. It's too passive.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: It's very passive. That's a good point. Actually, Okay, my
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: last one is from Ford. The car branch commented, we
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: want to give you guys two vehicles. Let's go now,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: this one's for you. Oh my god, I have to
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: go on the low FOD map too. The brand Fountain
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: has tomato sauced with have no onion or garlic, but
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: not sure about barbecue. What fountain? That's the brands Fountain?
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: But bad is it is time for one of you
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  Speaker 1: two sign off the episodes. Yeah, if you want to
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  Speaker 1: get called by us, the link will be in a description.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: You can sign up there. But today we are calling
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: Lauren bro it's that brand. Oh what a day? Hello
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: is that Lauren?
• 55:46
  Speaker 6: Yes?
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: This is it's Audi and Jake for the Relatables podcast.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: How's it going? Oh my god, it's so good?
• 55:51
  Speaker 6: How are you.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: Really good too? I were very good? Thank you for
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: picking up. We are calling today to see if you
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: would be okay to sign off one of our episodes.
• 56:02
  Speaker 6: Yeah. I was not expecting this. Wow.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone says that I'm expecting it. We're thinking you
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: signed up. How long ago did you sign off there?
• 56:08
  Speaker 6: Actually I think it did last week.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: Look at us.
• 56:15
  Speaker 6: But you guys called me like back in June when
• 56:18
  Speaker 6: I was in Scotland and my antient would let me
• 56:21
  Speaker 6: pick it up, and then you and then Jake diss
• 56:23
  Speaker 6: me on the path.
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: He's got some Well you've made up for it, yeah,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: or have you? Oh?
• 56:34
  Speaker 6: I don't know, that's hope. Oh yeah. So advice I
• 56:41
  Speaker 6: probably give is just to if you're scared to do
• 56:44
  Speaker 6: anything because of issues with like money, family, whatever, just
• 56:48
  Speaker 6: do it. It'll be worth it. If it is a
• 56:50
  Speaker 6: money issue, you can pay it back quickly. Just live
• 56:52
  Speaker 6: in the moment, enjoy it, and don't let them hold
• 56:54
  Speaker 6: you back.
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: Love that. As Niki once said, just do it. Yeah,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: thank you, lad, thank you, thank you. That was good.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: Thank you very much for listening. Stay bad