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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Welcome to stefone.
- 0:07Speaker 3: Never told you a productive I Heeart Radio, and once
- 0:19Speaker 3: again we are so happy to be joined by the curious,
- 0:23Speaker 3: the charming Bridget Todd.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Welcome, Bridget.
- 0:27Speaker 4: Thanks for having me. I appreciate the c adjective theme.
- 0:31Speaker 4: Thanks for having me.
- 0:33Speaker 2: Yes, thank you, thank you so much for being here.
- 0:36Speaker 3: We were talking a little bit before we started recording.
- 0:40Speaker 3: But I guess here comes a loaded question. How are
- 0:43Speaker 3: you doing, Bridget?
- 0:45Speaker 4: Oh, I'll just say I've been better for folks who
- 0:49Speaker 4: don't know. I live in Washington, d C. Which you
- 0:52Speaker 4: might know is a crime infested hellhole. No, just kidding.
- 0:56Speaker 4: It's actually a lovely place to live. But President Trump
- 1:00Speaker 4: has taken over our city's police force and has unleashed
- 1:06Speaker 4: the National Guard and with federal agents into the city.
- 1:09Speaker 4: When this first happened, for whatever reason, it was centralized
- 1:12Speaker 4: right on my street, which wasn't my favorite. It still
- 1:17Speaker 4: persists every day is a new surprise I guess that
- 1:23Speaker 4: he has in store for us. If people are listening,
- 1:26Speaker 4: are following what's going on in DC, one of the
- 1:29Speaker 4: biggest I mean, I'll get on my soapbox right now.
- 1:31Speaker 4: The reason why it's happening in DC. It's because DC
- 1:33Speaker 4: is not a state. DC has what's called home rule,
- 1:36Speaker 4: so we we have some ability to make decisions for
- 1:40Speaker 4: ourselves and sort of for like our local leaders are
- 1:43Speaker 4: able to make some decisions for us. But everything that
- 1:46Speaker 4: happens in DC is at the pleasure of the President
- 1:49Speaker 4: and Congress because DC is not a state. And so
- 1:52Speaker 4: the reason why Trump can send not just the National
- 1:55Speaker 4: Guard to DC but also take over our police force
- 1:59Speaker 4: is because DC is not a state, and so advocate
- 2:02Speaker 4: for statehood for DC. The only reason why this is
- 2:05Speaker 4: happening in DC in no other place in terms of
- 2:08Speaker 4: our police force being taken over by Trump, is because
- 2:10Speaker 4: DC is not a state. So advocate for DC statehood.
- 2:13Speaker 4: DC statehood. Now I don't have an elective official that
- 2:16Speaker 4: I can call about this call for me and advocate
- 2:19Speaker 4: for the full self determination of the people of the
- 2:21Speaker 4: District of Columbia.
- 2:22Speaker 5: That's my soapbox.
- 2:25Speaker 2: It was a good one. Thank you, yes, yes, thank you,
- 2:30Speaker 2: and I'm we're both so glad you're okay and good
- 2:34Speaker 2: to have you. As always.
- 2:36Speaker 3: Even if the topic you're discussing is a pretty is pretty,
- 2:40Speaker 3: it's one that makes me very angry, and actually this
- 2:43Speaker 3: is a sad state.
- 2:44Speaker 2: Of affairs that we live in.
- 2:46Speaker 3: But as I was discussing before we started recording, I'm
- 2:49Speaker 3: going to this big event, dragon Con this weekend, and
- 2:53Speaker 3: every year I go, I think I might die in
- 2:55Speaker 3: a mass shooting. Oh, because that's just the world we
- 3:00Speaker 3: live in. And part of what you're talking about here
- 3:05Speaker 3: is it's awful enough that that happens, But it's also
- 3:10Speaker 3: awful enough that so many people in power are so
- 3:16Speaker 3: quick to blame somebody else, anybody else, other than what
- 3:20Speaker 3: is actually happening and what we could actually do to
- 3:23Speaker 3: prevent things like this.
- 3:25Speaker 5: Oh my god, Annie, you and me both.
- 3:27Speaker 4: If I am in any kind of a big event,
- 3:29Speaker 4: people who know me in real life know I can't
- 3:31Speaker 4: get comfortable until I'm like, Okay, exit there, exit there,
- 3:34Speaker 4: exit there, Like I need to know where the exits are.
- 3:37Speaker 5: It is. I'm not comfortable until I do that.
- 3:39Speaker 4: And as you said, I mean in this country, I mean,
- 3:43Speaker 4: I hate to say it, it feels like we have
- 3:45Speaker 4: just decided we're not going to do anything about the
- 3:48Speaker 4: real cause of mass shootings, which is the guns. Right,
- 3:54Speaker 4: So then we have to start scapegoating things and trying
- 3:56Speaker 4: to blame these issues that are non issues on what
- 4:00Speaker 4: we have shootings, and unfortunately, in today's internet landscape, that
- 4:04Speaker 4: thing is the existence of trans people. I know what
- 4:08Speaker 4: you're thinking, I don't know how trans people are linked
- 4:11Speaker 4: to mass shootings. Well, you would be right, because they're
- 4:14Speaker 4: not linked to mass shootings. But that does not keep
- 4:17Speaker 4: trans people from being baselessly blamed for any kind of
- 4:21Speaker 4: mass shooting, mass tragedy, or mass instance of violence or
- 4:25Speaker 4: bad thing happening by very loud voices online.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Yes, and this has happened several times. Correct.
- 4:36Speaker 4: Yes, it is a constant thing, and it's a kind
- 4:39Speaker 4: of identity based disinformation that I see over and over
- 4:42Speaker 4: and over again. I would be willing to bet that
- 4:45Speaker 4: folks listening have probably actually seen this play out at
- 4:48Speaker 4: one time or another. If you spend any time online,
- 4:51Speaker 4: there is this image of someone with blonde, shaggy hair
- 4:54Speaker 4: holding a rifle that often circulates online that claims to
- 4:58Speaker 4: show the perpetrator who Commenters will say, oh, this is
- 5:01Speaker 4: a trans person who was mentally disturbed and they're the perpetrator,
- 5:05Speaker 4: But it's actually a very well worn image of Sam Hyde,
- 5:09Speaker 4: who is not trans and is actually an extremist, comedian
- 5:13Speaker 4: and YouTuber. In Fact, in twenty twenty three, fact checker
- 5:16Speaker 4: and journalist Bill McCarthy described that when he sees a
- 5:19Speaker 4: mass shooting, his heart doesn't just sink for the victims
- 5:22Speaker 4: and their families and communities. His heart also sinks because
- 5:25Speaker 4: he knows, just from doing it for a long time,
- 5:27Speaker 4: that it means that other people who are not involved
- 5:31Speaker 4: will be baselessly and falsely accused of being the killer.
- 5:34Speaker 4: They're pictures shared all over the web by social media users.
- 5:38Speaker 4: In a piece called mass Shootings, the Other Innocent Victims,
- 5:41Speaker 4: he sheds light on this where he talks about a
- 5:44Speaker 4: mass shooting happening in Nashville where Hide was misidentified as
- 5:48Speaker 4: both trans and the perpetrator. He writes, shortly after police
- 5:52Speaker 4: says that they had responded to a shooting, I opened
- 5:54Speaker 4: Twitter and ran a simple keyword search Nashville shooter identified.
- 5:58Speaker 4: According to dozens of results, the city officials had already
- 6:01Speaker 4: singled out the perpetrator. It was a transgender woman named
- 6:03Speaker 4: Samantha Hyde. The post claimed, So this again, like, if
- 6:08Speaker 4: you spend any time at all online when there's some
- 6:12Speaker 4: sort of mass instance of violence, this image of Hide
- 6:15Speaker 4: is probably you can probably picture it like I can
- 6:18Speaker 4: picture it.
- 6:18Speaker 5: I see it every single time.
- 6:20Speaker 4: And you know, this person is very familiar to fact
- 6:24Speaker 4: checkers at this point because of all the different variations
- 6:27Speaker 4: of an image of this person showing up. But it's
- 6:29Speaker 4: been this long running hoax that initially originated on four
- 6:33Speaker 4: Chan as kind of like a meme.
- 6:35Speaker 2: Oh I do not like that.
- 6:39Speaker 3: And the thing is it has such a trickle down
- 6:42Speaker 3: impact of because I'm not hugely online, but I am.
- 6:48Speaker 2: I'm aware of all of.
- 6:49Speaker 3: This through like news in quotes, I guess news sources,
- 6:55Speaker 3: and it has horrible impacts on the people who were
- 7:01Speaker 3: not involved at all.
- 7:04Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's it's really not just Nashville. In the
- 7:09Speaker 4: shooting in Texas, a photo of an actual trans woman
- 7:13Speaker 4: named Sam, a different Sam than the one I was
- 7:15Speaker 4: just talking about, circulated on social media claiming that she
- 7:18Speaker 4: was the perpetrator. She actually had to post a picture
- 7:20Speaker 4: showing that she was alive and well, because as we
- 7:23Speaker 4: know that that shooter was killed by police, right, and
- 7:25Speaker 4: so I mean, just imagine not being involved in a
- 7:29Speaker 4: shooting that that that trans woman Sam was like, I
- 7:32Speaker 4: don't even I don't even live in Nashville, right, and
- 7:34Speaker 4: so just imagine having to prove to people online that
- 7:37Speaker 4: you were not involved in something that you had nothing
- 7:39Speaker 4: to do with. None of these people were actually the
- 7:41Speaker 4: perpetrators or even connected to the to the incident at all.
- 7:44Speaker 4: But that does not stop these claims from going viral
- 7:47Speaker 4: and harming innocent, actual trans people and then furthermore kind
- 7:52Speaker 4: of creating this false impression that trans people are violent
- 7:56Speaker 4: or dangerous, just based on nothing like the facts very
- 8:00Speaker 4: really do not back that up. And so the way
- 8:03Speaker 4: that people are able to scapegoat and fear monger around
- 8:07Speaker 4: just the existence of trans people and then somehow link
- 8:10Speaker 4: it to violence is really it's not just it's not
- 8:13Speaker 4: just harmful for the trans people who are targeted, it's
- 8:17Speaker 4: harmful for everybody. Like, it's just a very harmful, dangerous climate.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Yes, and.
- 8:24Speaker 3: You know, when we have these narratives around trans people
- 8:27Speaker 3: in our politics that are so painting them in such
- 8:30Speaker 3: a way as if they're all pedophiles or something like,
- 8:34Speaker 3: it's just ridiculous. These attacks are horrible, they're not backed
- 8:38Speaker 3: up by facts, and it's we know the trans community
- 8:42Speaker 3: faces so much violence and this only makes it worse.
- 8:49Speaker 3: And you have an incident that happened kind of near
- 8:54Speaker 3: you where we saw this play out right?
- 8:57Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, so this brings me to you. This horrible
- 9:02Speaker 4: plane crash that happened earlier this year. There was a
- 9:04Speaker 4: great piece about this incident and Wired called a transpilot
- 9:08Speaker 4: was falsely blamed for a plane crash. Now she's fighting
- 9:11Speaker 4: the right wing disinformation machine that was published earlier this
- 9:14Speaker 4: summer that really sheds light on this issue.
- 9:16Speaker 5: So I wanted to shout them out.
- 9:17Speaker 4: So back in January, there was a deadly plane crash
- 9:20Speaker 4: where I live here in DC, where a helicopter crashed
- 9:24Speaker 4: into a plane. Both of them landed in the Potomac River,
- 9:27Speaker 4: and sixty seven people died. It was a hard way
- 9:30Speaker 4: to start out the new year, and it just was
- 9:32Speaker 4: a really dark time here in DC. However, it also
- 9:37Speaker 4: became very dark for this woman, Joe Ellis, who is
- 9:40Speaker 4: a transgender National Guard pilot who was falsely blamed for
- 9:45Speaker 4: causing this crash. Now, to be super duper clear, Ellis
- 9:50Speaker 4: was not involved in this crash in any capacity whatsoever,
- 9:54Speaker 4: just was not involved. However, days before the crash happened,
- 9:58Speaker 4: she had published this pretty good essay about what it's
- 10:01Speaker 4: like being a transgender pilot. That alone was enough for
- 10:05Speaker 4: right wing influencers, some of which you have millions of
- 10:07Speaker 4: followers across the Internet, to baselessly accuse her of being
- 10:11Speaker 4: responsible for this crash. So in the days leading up
- 10:14Speaker 4: to this crash, she wrote this piece called Living to Serve,
- 10:17Speaker 4: Living as Myself a transgender service members Perspective, where she
- 10:21Speaker 4: describes growing up in a family of service members and
- 10:24Speaker 4: joining the Virginia Army National Guard in two.
- 10:26Speaker 5: Thousand and nine.
- 10:26Speaker 4: In her piece, she described sending an email to her
- 10:29Speaker 4: command and giving them notice that she intended to start
- 10:31Speaker 4: transitioning under the then current in service transition policy, and
- 10:36Speaker 4: she says she was met with a lot of support
- 10:38Speaker 4: from her team. It's clear in the piece that she's
- 10:41Speaker 4: trying to sort of push back on some of these
- 10:44Speaker 4: well worn myths about how trans people get all this
- 10:47Speaker 4: free stuff and that you know they're just you just
- 10:50Speaker 4: join the military and the government pay for everything. She
- 10:54Speaker 4: actually describes paying out of pocket for all of her
- 10:56Speaker 4: trans related care. So after her piece was published, just
- 11:00Speaker 4: days later the crash happened. She describes waking up to
- 11:04Speaker 4: a friend warning her that she had been named online
- 11:07Speaker 4: as the pilot who killed all of these innocent passengers
- 11:09Speaker 4: in this deadly crash. At first, she's thinking, Oh, this
- 11:12Speaker 4: is just some weird, isolated claim. Somebody must have mistakenly
- 11:16Speaker 4: connected me to the crash because of this essay I
- 11:19Speaker 4: describe being from Virginia. This happened really close to Virginia.
- 11:22Speaker 4: She's like, Oh, just a mistake. Then she gets on
- 11:25Speaker 4: Facebook and she sees lots of messages both from friends
- 11:29Speaker 4: basically being like.
- 11:30Speaker 5: Are you alive orre you okay?
- 11:32Speaker 4: I see that you were involved in this crash, as
- 11:35Speaker 4: well as hateful, really transphobic messages from people saying that
- 11:39Speaker 4: they thought that she had been involved in this crash.
- 11:41Speaker 5: So again, I can't quite imagine what it.
- 11:45Speaker 4: Would be like to go to bed just a normal
- 11:48Speaker 4: person and wake up being at the center of this
- 11:51Speaker 4: horrible tragedy that you weren't even involved in in any capacity.
- 11:55Speaker 1: You know what I really hate with all of this
- 11:58Speaker 1: conversation is that that was part of the point. They
- 12:04Speaker 1: love taking an incident that they know they may have
- 12:08Speaker 1: some liability in because we know what was happening with
- 12:11Speaker 1: the Department of Transportation and the FAA. We knew like
- 12:13Speaker 1: things were happening, and things were slowly like falling apart,
- 12:17Speaker 1: Like we could see things falling apart before this happened.
- 12:20Speaker 1: And if they just like with the shooters, any of
- 12:24Speaker 1: the shooters, when they're like, ooh, this is not going
- 12:25Speaker 1: to be good for our side. So what we're gonna do
- 12:28Speaker 1: is put in as much disinformation and misinformation as we
- 12:31Speaker 1: can and also give them a villain that we have
- 12:36Speaker 1: already used to capitalize on traditional families in order to like,
- 12:40Speaker 1: you know, get our narrative out there. There's so much
- 12:43Speaker 1: to this, and like it doesn't matter if they're wrong.
- 12:46Speaker 1: They've got the perfect victim and they've got someone to
- 12:49Speaker 1: be the villain that that could only help perpetuate their platform.
- 12:54Speaker 4: Right, You're exactly right, Samantha, And I mean that is
- 12:57Speaker 4: exactly what's going on in this case. When initially, like
- 13:00Speaker 4: I remember the day this crash happened, and I also,
- 13:04Speaker 4: when I'm not making my podcasts, there are no girls
- 13:06Speaker 4: on the internet. I also co host a local daily
- 13:08Speaker 4: news podcast called Citycast DC, so I was reporting on
- 13:11Speaker 4: this story and I will never forget literally the day
- 13:14Speaker 4: it happened, you had administration officials essentially blaming DEI. This
- 13:20Speaker 4: was when we didn't even know what the cause was,
- 13:22Speaker 4: and so they were so confident getting up on television
- 13:26Speaker 4: and being like, oh, the problem was DEI. And then
- 13:28Speaker 4: back in March, the administration spent two point one million
- 13:31Speaker 4: dollars on an actual official investigation into whether or not
- 13:35Speaker 4: DEI policies were causing all these recent safety incidents with airlines, right,
- 13:39Speaker 4: And so it's just I don't think I have to
- 13:41Speaker 4: tell anybody that there's just no credence to this, like
- 13:45Speaker 4: you don't need two point one million dollars to study this.
- 13:49Speaker 4: But also the way that even before, like I'm not kidding,
- 13:53Speaker 4: there were still bodies in the Potomac River when Donald
- 13:56Speaker 4: Trump was getting on TV talking about this being because
- 13:59Speaker 4: of DEI, And so you're exactly right that they've just
- 14:02Speaker 4: created this scapegoat that you know, it's horrible for trans
- 14:08Speaker 4: folks on the trans community, but it's also horrible for
- 14:13Speaker 4: everybody because when we're trying to somehow pin deadly plane
- 14:19Speaker 4: crashes on diversity, we're not actually looking at what causes
- 14:23Speaker 4: the deadly plane crashes. So the planes are less safe
- 14:26Speaker 4: for all of us because they're like, oh, it's you know,
- 14:28Speaker 4: how trans people are always causing plane crashes and then
- 14:31Speaker 4: the thing that it's actually causing plane crashes is going unexamined,
- 14:34Speaker 4: and so it's a real problem.
- 14:36Speaker 5: And I just hate that it's been so effective.
- 14:39Speaker 1: In my head, this is like it's such a bad
- 14:43Speaker 1: Like when the queer community are involved, I'm like, it's
- 14:46Speaker 1: because they were like dressed too too good, Like they're
- 14:49Speaker 1: they're showing off their fits, you know, Yeah, a little
- 14:51Speaker 1: trend that's happening on TikTok. Yeah, they're showing their office
- 14:54Speaker 1: and so they were being too distracting and caused this
- 14:57Speaker 1: plane crash.
- 14:57Speaker 5: And that's what it goes in my head.
- 14:59Speaker 4: I mean, that's essentially it's like a joke, but like
- 15:03Speaker 4: that's essentially what they're saying.
- 15:04Speaker 5: Sometimes it's so silly. It is beyond.
- 15:18Speaker 1: This is the part I think you're coming back to,
- 15:20Speaker 1: and I want to make note of that there is
- 15:23Speaker 1: no real liability in this different this information slash just
- 15:27Speaker 1: straight out lies because this plays out on social media exactly.
- 15:32Speaker 4: So we're starting to see a little bit of movement there,
- 15:35Speaker 4: and I'll talk more about that toward the end of
- 15:37Speaker 4: the episode. But yeah, because it's all happening online, it's
- 15:41Speaker 4: happening in a space where real damage can be done,
- 15:45Speaker 4: and then real accountability can be elusive, and so that's
- 15:49Speaker 4: exactly what happened in this case. Right wing influencers just
- 15:53Speaker 4: started boosting lies that Ellis was involved in this crash
- 15:57Speaker 4: when she wasn't. On Twitter, Matt Wallace, who has over
- 16:00Speaker 4: two million followers, put out a post saying that a
- 16:02Speaker 4: trans Blackhawk pilot had written a letter about depression and
- 16:06Speaker 4: gender dysphoria the day before a deadly crash. So if
- 16:09Speaker 4: you actually read Ellis's piece, she talks about how she
- 16:13Speaker 4: was depressed, but when when she was young, before she
- 16:17Speaker 4: transitioned her her piece is all about how, you know,
- 16:21Speaker 4: I feel like I have a supportive community both professionally
- 16:24Speaker 4: and personally and socially. Her her piece did not make
- 16:27Speaker 4: her sound like she was an unhappy person. It made
- 16:29Speaker 4: her sound like she was a very happy, you know,
- 16:32Speaker 4: solid person.
- 16:33Speaker 5: So even even that is a lie.
- 16:35Speaker 4: But he went so far as to suggest that it
- 16:37Speaker 4: might have been some kind of a quote trans terror attack.
- 16:41Speaker 4: That post blew up and got almost five million views
- 16:44Speaker 4: before he deleted it. Then Anne vander Steele, who was
- 16:48Speaker 4: a pretty well known QAnon personality with a huge following online,
- 16:51Speaker 4: jumped in and pushed the same false claim. She did
- 16:55Speaker 4: eventually post a attraction, and of course it would not
- 16:58Speaker 4: be an episode abouts phobia without mentioning Elon Musk. Musk's
- 17:02Speaker 4: own AI chatbot, known as Grock, falsely named Ellis as
- 17:07Speaker 4: the pilot, which only made the rumor spread faster. So
- 17:10Speaker 4: before long, Ellis was actually trending as the second most
- 17:14Speaker 4: talked about topic on Twitter, with more than ninety thousand
- 17:17Speaker 4: posts about her like speculating that she was involved and
- 17:22Speaker 4: that the whole thing was some sort of a quote
- 17:24Speaker 4: trans terror attack. She had to put out a proof
- 17:28Speaker 4: of life video on social media to reassure her community
- 17:31Speaker 4: that she wasn't dead, and also just as an attempt
- 17:35Speaker 4: to push back against these lies.
- 17:39Speaker 1: I hate that she had to do a proof of
- 17:41Speaker 1: life video just to like save her name. But also
- 17:45Speaker 1: I wonder how many people like this is AI, like
- 17:48Speaker 1: they still refuse to believe in Yeah.
- 17:50Speaker 5: I mean, that's the thing.
- 17:51Speaker 4: So we know that in that crash there were no survivors,
- 17:54Speaker 4: and so I almost wonder if someone has to saw
- 17:56Speaker 4: a video of for her being like, well there were
- 17:57Speaker 4: no survivors and here I am, They're like, that's not
- 18:00Speaker 4: that's AI, and that just goes to show how our
- 18:04Speaker 4: digital media landscape is is that some people, when confronted
- 18:09Speaker 4: with the truth that does not align with the reality
- 18:13Speaker 4: that they want to be true, will always reject it.
- 18:15Speaker 1: Right.
- 18:16Speaker 4: They can meet her in the flesh and it's like, oh,
- 18:18Speaker 4: it's a body double like it does not It truly
- 18:20Speaker 4: does not matter, so I will say. After she posted
- 18:25Speaker 4: her proof of life video, Matt Wallace, one of the
- 18:29Speaker 4: people who initially claimed that she was responsible for this accident,
- 18:34Speaker 4: did post to say, oh, I saw that video. Ellis
- 18:37Speaker 4: is alive and well and not responsible for the crash.
- 18:40Speaker 4: He shifted the blame to another account called fake Gay Politics,
- 18:45Speaker 4: which has since been suspended on x saying this is
- 18:48Speaker 4: apparently the first account who reported what we now know
- 18:51Speaker 4: is false. It seemed credible because Joe Ellis wrote an
- 18:54Speaker 4: article calling out Trump's trans military band only a few
- 18:56Speaker 4: days ago. I have to point out that in this
- 18:59Speaker 4: post where he said, oh, I got it wrong, she
- 19:01Speaker 4: wasn't responsible, he of course also misgenders her because he
- 19:05Speaker 4: can't just he just can't help himself like he has
- 19:07Speaker 4: to even in a post where I don't know he
- 19:10Speaker 4: should maybe be apologizing for baselessly accusing her of committing
- 19:14Speaker 4: a trans terror attack to like millions of people. He
- 19:17Speaker 4: should maybe apologizing, No, he's like I got a missgender
- 19:19Speaker 4: her on the way out also right.
- 19:22Speaker 1: I mean it's definitely like, you know, gotta less, treat
- 19:25Speaker 1: them less than human type of narrative from him, of
- 19:28Speaker 1: course Wallace, which I can't stand him anyway, But Matt
- 19:31Speaker 1: Wallason himself, he can't. He can't really actually show any
- 19:35Speaker 1: compassion exactly.
- 19:37Speaker 4: And I think, what what How this moved? How this
- 19:41Speaker 4: claim moved online? I think really shows what an effective
- 19:46Speaker 4: social media and media apparatus folks on the right really
- 19:50Speaker 4: do have, where these claims maybe start in more fringe
- 19:54Speaker 4: pockets of the Internet like four Chan or some random
- 19:56Speaker 4: extremist bloggers Twitter page, but then they quickly get boost
- 20:00Speaker 4: did by right wing politicians media figures, and then bleed
- 20:04Speaker 4: into more mainstream media outlets where they just sort of
- 20:07Speaker 4: become part of people's consciousness.
- 20:09Speaker 5: Like I would be willing to bet.
- 20:10Speaker 4: That because that picture of Sam Hyde where it misrepresents
- 20:16Speaker 4: Sam as a trans woman responsible for this attack, I
- 20:19Speaker 4: would be willing to bet that some people out there think, oh,
- 20:21Speaker 4: that image is of an actual trans person who committed
- 20:24Speaker 4: a horrible atrocity, even though it's not because it's just
- 20:28Speaker 4: like part of the ecosystem.
- 20:29Speaker 3: Now, yeah, And I mean that's part of the damage here,
- 20:32Speaker 3: is even with these retractions, which I mean, I guess
- 20:39Speaker 3: I'm glad I did them, but at the same time,
- 20:41Speaker 3: I'm kind of like, yeah, sure, okay, but at that point,
- 20:44Speaker 3: the damage is kind of done, Like somebody has already
- 20:48Speaker 3: been pinned for this, some you know, some people who
- 20:52Speaker 3: digested that information might not ever see the retraction, Like
- 20:57Speaker 3: the damage is kind of done. They might have that
- 21:00Speaker 3: already in their head. And Ellis was someone who went
- 21:05Speaker 3: who experienced this kind of thing.
- 21:08Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 21:08Speaker 4: She described going essentially overnight, going from being unknown in
- 21:13Speaker 4: public to being somebody who felt like they could not
- 21:15Speaker 4: even go out in public for her own safety. She
- 21:18Speaker 4: told The New York Times quote, my life was turned
- 21:21Speaker 4: upside down at that point, adding that her employer sent
- 21:24Speaker 4: armed bodyguards to protect her family and that she started
- 21:26Speaker 4: carrying a loaded weapon as a precaution. Forever on, I'm
- 21:30Speaker 4: known as that trans terrorist. And so as you both
- 21:34Speaker 4: were just saying these claims, they it can be hard
- 21:39Speaker 4: to get accountability because they're happening online. And even though
- 21:43Speaker 4: Matt Wallace did retract his claim that she was involved
- 21:47Speaker 4: in this. I have to imagine that he did that
- 21:50Speaker 4: because Ellis did not take this sitting down. She actually
- 21:54Speaker 4: fought back. And so we've talked about this on my
- 21:56Speaker 4: own podcast a lot. But when online right wing influencers
- 21:59Speaker 4: and figures spread lies about people, we're starting to see
- 22:03Speaker 4: more and more the people that are targeted by their
- 22:06Speaker 4: lives are filing defamation lawsuits against people who spread demonstrable,
- 22:11Speaker 4: harmful lies about them. And that's exactly what Ellis did.
- 22:14Speaker 4: She filed a defamation lawsuit against Matt Wallace in April,
- 22:18Speaker 4: saying that he was behind a destructive and irresponsible defamation campaign.
- 22:23Speaker 4: The lawsuit against Wallace, filed in the US District Court
- 22:25Speaker 4: in Colorado, was a way for Ellis to seek damages
- 22:28Speaker 4: for the harm cause to her reputation, privacy, and safety.
- 22:32Speaker 4: Ellis said that Wallace has not yet counter filed, and
- 22:34Speaker 4: her lawsuit was filed by the Equality Legal Action Fund,
- 22:37Speaker 4: which is a group of volunteer attorneys and advocates who
- 22:39Speaker 4: helped members of the LGBTQ community fight online defamation. And
- 22:43Speaker 4: so I have to imagine that when all these people
- 22:46Speaker 4: were like, oh, looks like I got it wrong and
- 22:49Speaker 4: this person wasn't involved in this tragedy. As I just
- 22:51Speaker 4: said to a million people. I have to imagine part
- 22:54Speaker 4: of that was because they did not want to face
- 22:57Speaker 4: a defamation lawsuit, which yeah, they If you lie about
- 23:00Speaker 4: people in a way that can harm them, harm their career,
- 23:03Speaker 4: harm their livelihood, you might actually be looking at a
- 23:06Speaker 4: defamation lawsuit.
- 23:08Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 23:09Speaker 3: Yeah, and we have seen some cases of this working
- 23:12Speaker 3: out recently.
- 23:14Speaker 2: Interestingly, I don't.
- 23:15Speaker 3: Know if you've been following what happened, what's going on
- 23:19Speaker 3: with the app Tea?
- 23:21Speaker 5: Oh yes, I have, very very closely.
- 23:23Speaker 3: Yes, But we were talking about that recently in an
- 23:26Speaker 3: episode about defamation. Is it can be tricky, but if
- 23:32Speaker 3: you can prove like this demonstrably hurt me, you can
- 23:38Speaker 3: you can get some money from that.
- 23:40Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 23:41Speaker 4: Are you talking about how the women who were had
- 23:44Speaker 4: their information, you know, exposed by Tea are suing.
- 23:49Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we were talking about both because men were
- 23:52Speaker 3: so angry and they were trying to sue for defamation,
- 23:56Speaker 3: and it's kind of tricky when a lot of it
- 23:58Speaker 3: is just well, this is the date you went on
- 24:03Speaker 3: and this is what you posted online. So it's kind
- 24:05Speaker 3: of tricky, but in other cases like it, then the
- 24:10Speaker 3: women were have their information leaked and they're like, well,
- 24:16Speaker 3: this is a bit.
- 24:18Speaker 4: I When I was covering the t APP, we were
- 24:20Speaker 4: talking about those are we dating the same guy? Facebook
- 24:23Speaker 4: pages that kind of were a sort of precursor to
- 24:27Speaker 4: the t APP, And as you just said, men tried
- 24:30Speaker 4: to sue women who talked about the dates that they
- 24:33Speaker 4: had had that on those pages, and those lawsuits did
- 24:37Speaker 4: not go anywhere. And I remember watching a press conference
- 24:39Speaker 4: of these women who posted on one of those pages
- 24:42Speaker 4: after the case was dropped and they were not going
- 24:44Speaker 4: to be found libel for defamation.
- 24:46Speaker 5: They basically said exactly what you just said. Annie.
- 24:49Speaker 4: You know, I'm sorry that you didn't like that what
- 24:53Speaker 4: I said about what happened on our date was not
- 24:56Speaker 4: favorable to you, But that is what happened, and that's
- 24:59Speaker 4: not defamation.
- 24:59Speaker 5: And I guess the court of reed right.
- 25:02Speaker 1: And I think the thing about these types of cases
- 25:04Speaker 1: and anything with like civil lawsuits in general, with defamations
- 25:08Speaker 1: and all of this, is that it really does give
- 25:10Speaker 1: an upper hand to victims who can prove what is happening.
- 25:14Speaker 1: We talked about this in the Meet two episode. We
- 25:17Speaker 1: just had an interview with EA Gene Carroll and her
- 25:19Speaker 1: defamation lawsuits, which you were like, yes, girl, get them,
- 25:22Speaker 1: but like, the level of proof is not as deep
- 25:27Speaker 1: as a criminal case. But you still have to prove
- 25:29Speaker 1: it obviously, And it's such a tricky thing because there's
- 25:32Speaker 1: so many unsure ways and this is not as well
- 25:36Speaker 1: known obviously defamation and civil lawsuits. Civil suits are not
- 25:39Speaker 1: as well known as criminal suits. We're not like watching
- 25:42Speaker 1: shows based on that, although we could, and I'm guessing
- 25:45Speaker 1: like this is probably going to be one of those
- 25:48Speaker 1: same things where it's kind of like, uh, how do
- 25:50Speaker 1: we proceed?
- 25:51Speaker 5: What does this look like?
- 25:53Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean again, it is this like tricky gray
- 25:56Speaker 4: area legally. Another good example of people successfully suing for
- 26:01Speaker 4: defamation were the parents of the Sandy Hook shooting, who
- 26:04Speaker 4: successfully sued Alex Jones for defamation after he repeatedly and
- 26:09Speaker 4: baselessly claimed the shooting that killed their babies was a hoax,
- 26:13Speaker 4: that their kids were not really dead, that they were actors,
- 26:18Speaker 4: or that the parents were involved in some massive conspiracy,
- 26:21Speaker 4: and that I mean, they were able to prove that
- 26:24Speaker 4: he actually did defame them. Also, it's it's such a
- 26:27Speaker 4: despicable thing. To do, like he deserves every bad thing
- 26:31Speaker 4: that could happen to a person. When you actually look
- 26:33Speaker 4: at the at the le he didn't just say this
- 26:35Speaker 4: offhand once or twice. These people had his listeners showing
- 26:39Speaker 4: up to their houses to harass them in person. Like,
- 26:42Speaker 4: when you actually look at the things that he did,
- 26:43Speaker 4: it's so despicable. And we also know that Dominion Voting
- 26:47Speaker 4: Systems got a seven hundred and eighty seven million dollar
- 26:50Speaker 4: settlement from Fox News because Fox claimed that their voting
- 26:54Speaker 4: systems during the election were rigged against Trump. So there
- 26:58Speaker 4: is some precedent for suing businesses for defamation. You know,
- 27:03Speaker 4: Fox is a business, Alex Jones, it runs a business,
- 27:06Speaker 4: but not really a precedent for suing individual influencers who
- 27:11Speaker 4: spread damaging lies about people. So I think that's what
- 27:14Speaker 4: Ellis is really trying to do. Trying to say, like,
- 27:16Speaker 4: if an influencer with millions of followers says a demonstrably
- 27:21Speaker 4: false claim about me that harms me, I should be
- 27:24Speaker 4: able to seek damages for that. And I think, you know,
- 27:27Speaker 4: especially for marginalized people, there should be some kind of
- 27:30Speaker 4: legal recourse that prevents this. It should not just be
- 27:33Speaker 4: that anybody can say, any harmful, dangerous, damaging lie they want,
- 27:39Speaker 4: and you just have to.
- 27:40Speaker 2: Eat it right, right.
- 27:42Speaker 1: I mean, when we look at like Giuliani again with Trump,
- 27:46Speaker 1: even the Megan, thee Stallion, recent cases like those are
- 27:49Speaker 1: these are really interesting. Of course we have bigger names
- 27:53Speaker 1: doing these cases. Not the Juliani case. That was a
- 27:55Speaker 1: beautiful suit to see in itself, But there are so
- 27:59Speaker 1: many things that it looks like, you know, this is
- 28:00Speaker 1: the best solution. I say that hesitantly because it's so
- 28:05Speaker 1: gross that we can't people can't get justice in general.
- 28:08Speaker 5: Yes, but like I guess you know what I.
- 28:11Speaker 4: Mean, No, totally, and I'm glad that you brought up Giuliani.
- 28:14Speaker 4: So he was sued by two women who probably heard
- 28:19Speaker 4: of Ruby Freeman and Shay Moss Georgia, women who he again,
- 28:23Speaker 4: I guess, I want to bring this up because it's
- 28:25Speaker 4: not like he just casually, offhand said, oh, maybe they
- 28:29Speaker 4: were involved in vote rigging the election for Biden against Trump.
- 28:33Speaker 4: The way that he said this repeatedly, the way that
- 28:36Speaker 4: he I mean, he like. In one instance, he accuses
- 28:39Speaker 4: them of passing back and forth USB files that had
- 28:44Speaker 4: secret hidden votes on them, as if they were doing
- 28:47Speaker 4: a drug deal together, like the way that he it's
- 28:49Speaker 4: not so I just want to make clear because some
- 28:51Speaker 4: people are probably thinking, oh, well, why can't I just
- 28:55Speaker 4: say whatever I want about anybody? But these were not
- 28:57Speaker 4: public figures, right, And it's not just an offhand casual remark.
- 29:02Speaker 4: It is baselessly and repeatedly saying very inflammatory things about somebody,
- 29:08Speaker 4: over and over and.
- 29:09Speaker 5: Over again to audiences of millions, Like it really is.
- 29:13Speaker 4: When you think, when you actually look at what some
- 29:14Speaker 4: of these cases involved, it's really clear that you should
- 29:17Speaker 4: not just be able to do this.
- 29:18Speaker 5: This would it really did.
- 29:20Speaker 4: Have a clear damaging impact on the lives of the
- 29:24Speaker 4: people targeted, Like people broke into Ruby Freeman and Shae
- 29:27Speaker 4: Moss's home they tried to make a citizens arrest while
- 29:29Speaker 4: her grandmother, her elderly grandmother, was in the house.
- 29:32Speaker 5: Like that was probably terrifying.
- 29:34Speaker 1: Right, And we know a lot of this as we
- 29:35Speaker 1: started the conversation about mass shootings and shootings in general,
- 29:39Speaker 1: have like a lot of these bases could be on
- 29:42Speaker 1: the misinformation. The CDC shooting literally was based on that
- 29:46Speaker 1: as far as we know. And by the way the
- 29:48Speaker 1: way that was just swept under the rug, can we
- 29:50Speaker 1: talk about that.
- 29:51Speaker 5: Yes, sorry that was a side note, but.
- 29:53Speaker 1: I'm just like this miss, this disinformation is what's causing
- 29:56Speaker 1: some of these awful outcomes.
- 30:00Speaker 4: We are living in a time where somebody can baselessly
- 30:04Speaker 4: disparage really anybody, and that and like in this day
- 30:08Speaker 4: and age, I'm sorry to say that.
- 30:10Speaker 5: Can have violent outcomes.
- 30:11Speaker 4: And the fact that we I agree with you, the
- 30:14Speaker 4: fact that the CDC shooting happened and we all just
- 30:16Speaker 4: sort of moved on from it, and the number one
- 30:20Speaker 4: figure of public health and in this country RFK Junior
- 30:23Speaker 4: barely even mentioned it. I mean, I think it really
- 30:27Speaker 4: deeply means that we have reached a new echelon in
- 30:31Speaker 4: this kind of thing that it could be open season
- 30:34Speaker 4: on anybody, like genuinely, today it's CDC workers, or two
- 30:39Speaker 4: black women who are election workers, or a trans pilot.
- 30:43Speaker 4: Tomorrow it could be you, like genuinely, like that is
- 30:46Speaker 4: where we're at.
- 30:48Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 31:00Speaker 3: Unfortunately, in this case, we are talking about the damage
- 31:06Speaker 3: done to the trans community, which is already facing so
- 31:10Speaker 3: much violence and this is just exacerbating it.
- 31:16Speaker 4: Yeah, And so as I was saying, blaming trans folks
- 31:19Speaker 4: for incidents they had literally nothing to do with, is
- 31:21Speaker 4: no isolated saying. A review of news reports and fact
- 31:24Speaker 4: checking database claim View shows that since twenty twenty two,
- 31:27Speaker 4: there have been a dozen incidents when a transperson was
- 31:29Speaker 4: wrongly blamed for a tragedy or a violent incident. So
- 31:33Speaker 4: after the tragic death of Melissa Hortman, the lawmaker and
- 31:36Speaker 4: her husband who were tragically murdered by a gunman earlier
- 31:39Speaker 4: this year, Donald Trump Junior said, quote, the radical transgender
- 31:44Speaker 4: movement is per capita of the most violent domestic terror threat,
- 31:47Speaker 4: if not in America, then probably the entire world. And
- 31:51Speaker 4: that shooter was not even a transperson. A trans woman
- 31:55Speaker 4: was initially blamed for the Trump shooting in Butler, Pennsylvania.
- 31:59Speaker 4: After a shooting where two people were killed in Wisconsin,
- 32:01Speaker 4: Alex Jones, who like I said, really should not be
- 32:05Speaker 4: lying about anybody at this point, said, if the statistical
- 32:09Speaker 4: trend continues with this tragic event, there's a ninety eight
- 32:12Speaker 4: percent chance the shooting is trans.
- 32:14Speaker 5: Or gang related. I don't know where you got that from.
- 32:16Speaker 4: If this is another trans whack job or gang shooting,
- 32:19Speaker 4: it will be out of the news in less than
- 32:21Speaker 4: twenty four hours. And so I gotta say, this is
- 32:23Speaker 4: just a complete lie. Trans people are far more likely
- 32:27Speaker 4: to be the victims of crime, not the perpetrator.
- 32:30Speaker 5: This is from Wired.
- 32:31Speaker 4: Research shows that trans people are four times more likely
- 32:34Speaker 4: to be the victims of violence compared to sist people.
- 32:37Speaker 4: According to the LGBTQ advocacy group GLAD, between May twenty
- 32:40Speaker 4: twenty four and May twenty twenty five, there have been
- 32:42Speaker 4: at least twenty six injuries and one death reported among
- 32:45Speaker 4: trans and gender nonconforming people, a fourteen percent jump in
- 32:49Speaker 4: the previous year. Meanwhile, claims that trans people are behind
- 32:52Speaker 4: mass violence doesn't add up. Per the Gun Violence Archive,
- 32:56Speaker 4: there have been four thousand and four hundred mass shootings
- 32:58Speaker 4: in the past decade, of which fewer than ten known
- 33:02Speaker 4: suspects were trans. That is zero point one one percent.
- 33:06Speaker 4: And again, I mean trans people are already not a
- 33:09Speaker 4: huge number of the population in general, so like just
- 33:12Speaker 4: common sense would probably tell you they would not be
- 33:15Speaker 4: statistically overrepresented in mass shootings. And so all of these
- 33:19Speaker 4: claims linking trans people to being the perpetrators of violence
- 33:22Speaker 4: are just bunked.
- 33:23Speaker 5: They're not true. It's just another way to lie about
- 33:26Speaker 5: this community and demonize them.
- 33:29Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's the same similar to the bathroom
- 33:35Speaker 1: argument that there's going to be men and the trans
- 33:38Speaker 1: men are men coming into the bathroom to molest your children.
- 33:41Speaker 1: They're like, what, that's never been a that's never been
- 33:44Speaker 1: a what are you what?
- 33:47Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 33:47Speaker 4: And whenever I hear about that when people are like, well,
- 33:50Speaker 4: CIS men are just gonna go into the bathroom with
- 33:52Speaker 4: your little daughters and creep on them, isn't what shouldn't
- 33:56Speaker 4: not beyond the CIS men? Like, if you're saying that
- 33:58Speaker 4: the problem is that sis ana are gonna use this
- 34:01Speaker 4: to sneak their way into bathrooms to harm girls, what
- 34:04Speaker 4: a trans Like, there's not a trans person in the
- 34:07Speaker 4: mix in this scenario that you've paint in, this fear
- 34:09Speaker 4: mongering scenario that you've just painted out, wouldn't.
- 34:12Speaker 5: That be on the CIS men? Right?
- 34:14Speaker 1: Also, can we if we're really worried about these young girls,
- 34:16Speaker 1: can we talk about child bride laws? And you're like,
- 34:18Speaker 1: are we gonna talk of nonet me?
- 34:22Speaker 4: I mean I have said this so often and I
- 34:24Speaker 4: mean it literally, we hate children. We will absolutely be like, oh,
- 34:29Speaker 4: we have to protect the kids, and this really convenient
- 34:31Speaker 4: one instance that aligns with my political policies. But then
- 34:35Speaker 4: in every other instance, it's like those kids. We hate
- 34:37Speaker 4: kids we're not interested to protect. We wouldn't even be
- 34:39Speaker 4: having this conversation about how we allow kids to get
- 34:42Speaker 4: shot when they try to go to school if we
- 34:44Speaker 4: actually gave us about kids.
- 34:46Speaker 5: We hate kids like we don't care about them at.
- 34:48Speaker 1: All, feeding kids, giving them lunches, Oh dear God, what
- 34:52Speaker 1: let them starve?
- 34:53Speaker 5: Put them in the minds. Get a job. Just then
- 34:56Speaker 5: go ahead do your thing. Okay, listen, you're in kindergarten.
- 35:00Speaker 4: If you don't have a job, and if the rectory
- 35:02Speaker 4: are a mind, I don't want to hear it.
- 35:04Speaker 1: I love the regressing, and we all have a lot
- 35:06Speaker 1: like the child labor laws, like they need to work
- 35:08Speaker 1: at ten, they absolutely need to be working.
- 35:10Speaker 5: Let's let's bring them into the fields. I almost feel like.
- 35:13Speaker 4: We're getting closer and closer to this being explicit because
- 35:16Speaker 4: I at least we don't have to hear the sort
- 35:19Speaker 4: of protect the children rhetoric so much anymore.
- 35:21Speaker 5: We still hear I'm not saying we don't hear it, but.
- 35:23Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that people their naked hatred of children
- 35:26Speaker 4: is becoming more and more on display. So at least
- 35:28Speaker 4: we can all just have an honest conversation about it.
- 35:30Speaker 4: We don't have to pretend that you want to protect
- 35:32Speaker 4: kids when you want them to be starving in minds
- 35:35Speaker 4: or whatever.
- 35:36Speaker 5: Right, give us our batteries.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
- 35:42Speaker 4: Anyway, coming back to so that was just my little
- 35:46Speaker 4: rant about how much you make kids.
- 35:47Speaker 1: You know how I love going on the side quest
- 35:50Speaker 1: made these conversations with you.
- 35:52Speaker 5: But yeah, like we do.
- 35:53Speaker 1: Like I said, I've mentioned before about this whole level
- 35:56Speaker 1: of social media and what kind of a role they
- 35:59Speaker 1: are playing.
- 35:59Speaker 5: Can you kind of bring us back to that.
- 36:02Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean all of this, all of the things
- 36:04Speaker 4: I've just talked about, it's all made worse when you
- 36:05Speaker 4: look at how most social media platforms have really rolled
- 36:10Speaker 4: back whatever rules they did have that were meant to
- 36:13Speaker 4: prevent trans people being harmed on their platforms. This was
- 36:17Speaker 4: something I personally worked in when I was working for
- 36:19Speaker 4: an advocacy organization called Ultraviolet. We worked with platforms like
- 36:22Speaker 4: TikTok and read It to have them spell out that
- 36:26Speaker 4: behavior like dead naming or misgendering was going to be
- 36:29Speaker 4: called out in their hateful conduct policies. Almost instantly, when
- 36:33Speaker 4: Trump got on office, a lot of that stuff was
- 36:35Speaker 4: rolled back. That was one of the first positions that
- 36:37Speaker 4: Elon Musk rolled back when he took over Twitter. So
- 36:39Speaker 4: like the way that we are living in a less
- 36:43Speaker 4: protected landscape for trans and queer and marginalized people online.
- 36:47Speaker 5: It's just sad how quickly that became the case.
- 36:50Speaker 4: And you know a lot of these platforms, even linked In,
- 36:54Speaker 4: have really rolled back whatever protections they did have around
- 36:58Speaker 4: this kind of harmful content and language toward marginalized people
- 37:01Speaker 4: like transpokes, and it becomes an even bigger problem as
- 37:04Speaker 4: algorithms amplify harmful content, while platforms like Facebook and Twitter
- 37:10Speaker 4: really just abandoned fact checking. Earlier this year, Facebook also
- 37:14Speaker 4: loosened its rules around hate speech and abuse.
- 37:17Speaker 5: And so, yeah, we're just.
- 37:18Speaker 4: Living in a much less moderated online landscape when it
- 37:25Speaker 4: comes to marginalized people, trans people, queer people, and it's
- 37:28Speaker 4: a problem. And I think all of that relates to
- 37:31Speaker 4: you know why, when Matt Wallace baselessly accuses a trans
- 37:36Speaker 4: pilot of being involved in this crash, not only is
- 37:39Speaker 4: it amplified, but that sticks around. It becomes a trending
- 37:43Speaker 4: topic on a platform even though it's just a complete lie.
- 37:47Speaker 4: And I think at the heart of all of this
- 37:50Speaker 4: is really just shows how eager people are to use anything,
- 37:55Speaker 4: even outright lies, to paint trans people as violent. You know,
- 38:00Speaker 4: it's like they're trying to build a world where trans
- 38:03Speaker 4: folks never get to just exist at the as themselves. Instead,
- 38:06Speaker 4: they're being constantly scrutinized and held responsible not just for
- 38:11Speaker 4: what other trans people do, but even for things that
- 38:13Speaker 4: have never actually happened, Like, how could you ever exist
- 38:17Speaker 4: if that was the climate that you were that you
- 38:19Speaker 4: had to exist under. It just it just really goes
- 38:22Speaker 4: to show how much people want to create a climate
- 38:26Speaker 4: where these folks don't exist.
- 38:29Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 38:31Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels very purposeful, and it's frightening in that
- 38:40Speaker 3: it is so effective. And you know, I know we've
- 38:44Speaker 3: talked about this before, but there have been people in
- 38:46Speaker 3: the periphery of my life where I've sort of watched
- 38:51Speaker 3: them fall into this kind of conspiracy world.
- 38:55Speaker 2: Well they'll say something and I.
- 38:56Speaker 3: Just pause, like, wait what, And I've just seen them
- 39:01Speaker 3: go further and further and further down this path, and
- 39:04Speaker 3: it's it's it's.
- 39:07Speaker 2: Frustrating and frightening. And I do.
- 39:12Speaker 3: Think that in some places it's like misinformation, but I
- 39:16Speaker 3: think a lot of it is purposeful. I think they
- 39:19Speaker 3: want to a RaSE.
- 39:21Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I completely agree.
- 39:24Speaker 4: And you know, I will definitely be following Ellis's defamation
- 39:28Speaker 4: suit because it I don't want. I don't like the
- 39:32Speaker 4: idea that the only recourse is fighting back in the courts.
- 39:35Speaker 4: But I do think having there be a cost for
- 39:39Speaker 4: spreading these kinds of harmful lies online would be a
- 39:42Speaker 4: good thing. I think a signal that says, if you're
- 39:45Speaker 4: going to get on the internet and blast a lie
- 39:48Speaker 4: about a transperson to millions of people, that might be
- 39:51Speaker 4: a decision that comes out of cost for you, so
- 39:53Speaker 4: think twice about it. And so I think I'll be
- 39:56Speaker 4: interested to see where this suit goes and whether or
- 39:59Speaker 4: not it creates a dynamic where folks do think twice
- 40:02Speaker 4: before they get online and lie about trans people because
- 40:04Speaker 4: they should.
- 40:05Speaker 2: Yes, they should.
- 40:07Speaker 5: I mean you should. You should think twice before you
- 40:09Speaker 5: lie about anybody, but don't lie.
- 40:12Speaker 3: Yes, I think that would be fantastic for everyone. Uh,
- 40:18Speaker 3: if people thought twice before lying online, It's it's fascinating.
- 40:21Speaker 3: I used to have to answer the comments on YouTube
- 40:25Speaker 3: under our videos, and it was so interesting to me
- 40:27Speaker 3: how many times I'd be like, hi, I'm a real person,
- 40:32Speaker 3: and they'd be like, oh my god, I'm so sorry, so.
- 40:38Speaker 5: Funny that you say this.
- 40:39Speaker 4: I made a video of a video on Instagram about
- 40:43Speaker 4: AI and someone let the comment that said, why should
- 40:46Speaker 4: we trust you? Aren't you AI? And I was like,
- 40:48Speaker 4: oh my god, am I AI? I had a moment
- 40:51Speaker 4: where I thought, you know, I thought I had a childhood.
- 40:54Speaker 4: I thought I had blood drawn? But am i AI?
- 40:57Speaker 4: But what would AI? Wouldn't if you were AI? What
- 41:00Speaker 4: didn't you think you were real? Like, it's not like
- 41:02Speaker 4: a I would know they were AI. It really caused
- 41:05Speaker 4: me to go down an existential tailspin. I think I'm real,
- 41:08Speaker 4: but could I ever be? Could I ever be sure?
- 41:11Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the dude that got engaged to the AI.
- 41:14Speaker 1: I think we talked about before and didn't she admit
- 41:17Speaker 1: she's not a real person. I think she said that
- 41:20Speaker 1: I'm not real, but my feelings, our feelings are real.
- 41:23Speaker 4: Yes, like that the guy who got who proposed with Aiah.
- 41:28Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just not real, but our feelings,
- 41:31Speaker 1: their feelings, the relationship was.
- 41:33Speaker 5: I was like, wait, my feelings are real.
- 41:39Speaker 1: I love it was, Oh, we're gonna have a crisis.
- 41:42Speaker 2: Yeah, we're getting into matrix territory.
- 41:45Speaker 3: You know this, This very question became a huge deal
- 41:50Speaker 3: in the Star Wars fandom a couple of years ago
- 41:52Speaker 3: because they introduced a droid that could use the Force.
- 41:57Speaker 3: So if a droid can use the Force, then you're saying.
- 42:02Speaker 2: It's alive.
- 42:03Speaker 3: So they what are we doing with all of these
- 42:05Speaker 3: other troids?
- 42:07Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 42:08Speaker 5: Yeah, I've always wondered this. I mean, this is a
- 42:10Speaker 5: whole rabbit hole.
- 42:11Speaker 4: But and I'm not I don't know a ton about
- 42:12Speaker 4: Star Wars, but I do notice the Stormtroopers Are they
- 42:16Speaker 4: are they? Because when they get killed there it's never
- 42:20Speaker 4: it's never like my body, I'm always Are they are?
- 42:22Speaker 1: They?
- 42:22Speaker 5: Are they human?
- 42:23Speaker 1: Are? Like?
- 42:24Speaker 5: What's the what's going on with them?
- 42:26Speaker 3: Well, bridgie, I could go into a long thing, but essentially, yes,
- 42:31Speaker 3: most of them are human and or clones which are
- 42:34Speaker 3: also human.
- 42:35Speaker 2: But yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, they kind of have like
- 42:39Speaker 2: numbers for names. Yeah, so so.
- 42:43Speaker 4: They're not like when they're not doing Stormtroopers stuff, it's
- 42:46Speaker 4: not like they're taking off their mask and like going
- 42:48Speaker 4: home to the kids and watching teacher.
- 42:49Speaker 2: And most of them are not.
- 42:51Speaker 3: Some of them aren't, but a lot of them are
- 42:53Speaker 3: like grown quickly in a in a tube, so they
- 42:56Speaker 3: like might not have even had a childhood.
- 43:00Speaker 5: Hot it. Yeah, my god, how deep does this thing go?
- 43:02Speaker 2: You don't even want to know.
- 43:05Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not the question. Dangerous unless you got a week.
- 43:10Speaker 3: Okay, well maybe later welcome back to that, but in
- 43:15Speaker 3: the meantime, always wonderful to have you on. Thank you
- 43:19Speaker 3: so much for bringing this topic and for being here.
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