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(VIDEO) MISTRESS MIA TALKS ORAL SEX AND FINDING YOUR KINK WITH KEDS · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today I'm going to read some
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  e-mail. I'll tell you, the first one was
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  from Tony and we had read it last weekend.
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  It was really just kind of going over everything and the fact
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  that when he reached out to me, I hadn't spoken to him since New
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  Year's. So here we are and I wrote him
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  back. I just told him, Tony, you were
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  just great. I just think you're the bee's
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  knees. You know, considering I really
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  don't have Co workers dealing with shit bags, it's just
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  something I have to deal with from time to time when I deal
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  with very difficult people. I said I promise I just block
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  them and call it a day. I said let's see the guy in
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  Fetlife with the gay orgies. I sent him the information for
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  that because it's just cool. He gets some guys together maybe
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  once every 2-3 times a month and and they go back to his place
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  and have male gangbangs. I mean what could be better
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  right? A bunch of bears fucking and
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  that's his thing. Tony loves that, so I thought it
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  was kind of cool. Anywho, I told him that when I
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  actually come up to, you know, his neck of the woods at some
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  point, I'll certainly be happy to meet him or give him a
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  session and we'll just have fun with it.
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  It doesn't have to be anything serious, but there's just parts
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  of, you know, Tony's life that, you know, he's constantly giving
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  to others and I think he just needs a little down time for
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  himself to be a submissive and who he really, you know, used to
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  embrace and how much he really enjoyed it.
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  Then he writes back, he's like Mistress.
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  My emails are well thought out because they're thoughts that
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  have kicked around in my head for a long time.
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  I hope one day I do get to session with you.
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  I've only had one true session with the Dom before and a couple
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  of encounters with a strong woman.
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  A session with you would be something though, because I feel
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  like we have a connection on a different level.
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  That's all because of you and things again.
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  And Tony, honestly, it's just because we have the
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  personalities that we do. It's nothing that I do.
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  I value people that make the effort in doing genuine things,
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  you know, and reaching out to me and really just peeling back the
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  layers of showing their true self and to be honest with
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  themselves. And I mean, anyone should value
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  that. It's just as if, you know,
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  submissive comes to me and wants to, you know, relinquish his
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  power or her power to me. Of course, I don't take that for
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  granted and I value anyone that's willing to do so, just
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  like I value anyone that feels comfortable enough to reach out
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  to me and be completely honest and transparent.
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  And that's something that I value in Tony.
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  Now I, I use this term kink dispenser because I got it from
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  Evie and you know, Evie gets it because people that are around
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  me on a daily basis, they see that I get these emails or I'll
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  get these text messages and messages on the fet.
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  And it's from people that they're cool with assuming that
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  I want to hear them have an orgasm on the phone or I want to
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  see Dick pics. And just because I'm Mistress
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  Mia. And to me, that's not what I'm
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  here for. I'm here because I help people
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  explore their submissive side. I help Doms even reach out into
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  their their Dom side. I'm here to help people grow and
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  learn and experience things. I am not a phone sex operator.
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  I did that 20 years ago. It's not something I do now.
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  So for me to sit on the phone and talk about you masturbating
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  or seeing pictures of your cock, trust me, I've seen the most
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  impressive cock. It was 26 inches and I sucked
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  it. That's about as impressive as
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  you can get. Anyone else?
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  I'm not going to be that impressed.
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  So yeah, it's really shitty and we can go into shitty too on
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  that. But yeah, I had this one guy and
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  he's like, oh, Mr. Smea, for $150.00, do you think you could
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  put your boots on and then, you know, shit right next to the
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  camera and you know, I can pay you to do that 15 minutes.
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  I guys, I know you might say Mr. Smea, that's easy money, but
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  women are different than men. I don't want to sit back and
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  expose myself so someone can just, you know, eat it up and
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  watch for $150.00. Just doesn't sound appealing to
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  me. You want to pay me more, Sure, I
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  might consider it. But one, it's not even in
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  person. So it's like, who is seeing it?
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  Who's potentially recording it? Who's going to repost it or
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  who's going to continue to watch it?
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  It's so impersonal. It's just, again, so
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  aggravating. This guy, Max, he wrote a lovely
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  e-mail to me and he said it's an honor to be able to write you an
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  e-mail. Mistress Mia, I've listened to
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  your podcast with Tony's e-mail and you have such a lovely voice
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  and a wonderful laugh. That's sweet.
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  You seem like a very lovely Dom. Your sissy's very lucky to serve
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  you. May I ask how one earns the
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  privilege of talking to on the phone?
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  Well, you know Max and I wrote him back.
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  I said honestly, just being honest, just being a genuine
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  person contacting me and I'm happy to to talk to someone if
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  they want to tell me their kinks or they want to talk about their
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  life with me and be transparent, I'm absolutely fine with doing
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  that. If someone wants my advice, I'm
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  happy to do that. I really am.
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  It's just like Tony, like I said, he's extremely
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  transparent, he's genuine, he's respectful.
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  And you know, guys, this is the thing.
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  If you just going to be respectful to women now, trust
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  me, I get it. There's women out there that are
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  cunts. They're just cunts.
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  I have very few friends that are close that I'm close with
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  because they're not assholes, they're not cunts.
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  And I know women I know in different parts of, of the
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  world, you know, different cultures and, and that kind of
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  thing, that there's women that are kind and great, but then
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  there's a lot that are just cunts.
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  So I get it. But the point being is if
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  someone wants to reach out to me, male or female, and just be
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  honest, they want to talk to me. I'm happy to talk to someone.
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  I really am. So then I will say that Nikki
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  Elites, I hope I am saying that correctly.
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  Elites always leaves me the sweetest little reviews and
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  feedback on my podcast. And like I tell everyone, if you
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  enjoy the podcast, go on Spotify or Apple, you know, leave me a
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  review. It's something nice to do it, it
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  puts me up on the charts and you know, I've been in the, the top
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  three BDSM charts on the number one and the number two spot on
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  on different podcast ratings. And that's, that's always cool.
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  I, I like that. And I'll tell you what else I
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  liked. I have a friend who I just met
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  on Fetlife a few months ago and we were recorded an episode then
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  and there was something wrong with the mic and it just didn't
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  work out and blah blah blah. Anyway, we did another episode
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  and he is a former podcaster, he did Cauldron's Crypt and he's a
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  master. He's extremely knowledgeable.
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  He has he has 20 plus years in the mental health field.
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  He's extremely knowledgeable with a lot of things.
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  And we did an episode, I posted it on Monday and it was, it was
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  a great conversation. We talked a lot about mental
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  health and BDSM and yeah, I had to spot some stuff out.
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  And he talked about scenes. He talked about having a, an
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  actual 24/7 slave for several years.
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  And I just thought, well, man, that's so cool.
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  That's really cool. But yeah, that's really great.
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  I will also say I made this post a few days on fat.
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  For those of you that follow me on fat.
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  I have a Sissy and he loves kids.
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  He loves those types of shoes. That's his thing.
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  He came to see me when he was in college and I mean, at least
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  spotted it out. I was just like, you're, you're
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  really a Sissy. Like you want a Dick in your
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  mouth, You want to dress as a Sissy.
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  He's like, Oh no, no, no, I just want to do this, you know, every
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  so often, blah, blah, blah. But I've talked about him before
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  on the podcast and he is just an absolute sweetheart and he's
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  sexy as fuck. So he has all these great
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  qualities and he wants to have a KED party.
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  So he's telling me that, you know, I can invite these
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  different domes and they can come and he'll buy them a pair
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  of KED shoes. And I know there's, there's one
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  listener and he's like, oh, Mistress Mia, you got KED shoes.
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  And I'm like, yeah, you know, he bought me a pair of KED shoes
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  like 8 years ago. And at the time it was like a
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  last minute thing. And I was like, yeah, I usually
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  wear, you know, at the time I was like in a 10 and they didn't
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  have a 10. So he bought me 11.
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  I'm like, yeah, they're 11 narrow.
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  It'll be fine. And I don't wear them out.
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  I just wear them in the dungeon for him.
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  But they're like, oh, you got to take pictures in your kids.
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  So I'm like, OK, I'm going to take pictures in my kids.
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  I'll put on some PVC or latex pants and everybody will get to
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  see it and it'll be fun. So I'll be posting those.
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  I'm going to take some additional pictures of feet and
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  all that good stuff because that'll love my foot guys.
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  And of course, I'm going to do a shout out to the Curious Girl
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  Diaries. Layla London.
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  We did a, we did another interview episode together type
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  thing. We, she wanted to see if I had
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  this, you know, ability. She calls it like psychic
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  powers. I'm like, no, I don't have
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  psychic powers. I can just assess someone
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  physically in some way and break their kinks and fetishes down.
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  And she tested that theory and she sent me two, well, it was
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  like 4 pictures of two different people 'cause I told her I said,
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  yeah, I want to really see the good picture of their face.
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  I want to look at their eyes. And man, I was 2 for two.
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  It didn't surprise me. I, I don't know why I have this
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  little ability, but I think it's just really the fact that I've
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  seen thousands of people over the years and I just had that
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  capability of seeing people and just knowing their kinks.
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  And by all means, I think sometimes it's a gift and
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  sometimes it's a curse because I don't want to know Kings and
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  fetishes for family members and friends.
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  I try to really keep that separate.
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  Sometimes it just happens and you have to block it out.
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  Oh, goodness. I will say I was telling Layla
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  London that there was a, an actual insurance adjuster had
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  called me one time and I just heard his voice.
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  And just in hearing his voice, I could tell he was a Sissy.
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  I could tell he wanted to cross dress and wear panties and
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  stockings. And that was his thing.
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  And I could hear it. I could just hear it in his
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  voice. And he's like, how did you know?
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  And I'm like, well, you know, I've been a dominatrix for
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  several years and I just hear that pain in your voice.
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  And he's like, I've never told anyone.
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  And no one's, no one's ever known.
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  And he wasn't married, he was single.
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  But I told him, I'm like, you got to live your best life.
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  You got to be happy. So that's what I always tell
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  people, you come to the dungeon, you get to explore.
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  There's certain aspects of their kink fetish that their kink or
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  fetish that they want to explore.
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  And here is the perfect place to do it.
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  We're non judgmental. We're not going to judge anyone
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  for anything for that matter. And you know, you just got to
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  live your life and be happy. I will I'll say that years ago I
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  did this scene. It was it was someone who would
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  come to the dungeon a couple times a year.
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  Another time, he was in a terrible marriage, and so he'd
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  want to come late at night. He's like, yeah, I have to wait
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  till my wife goes to sleep. And I'm like, how many times
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  have I heard this before? You know, it's great.
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  But so he comes to the dungeon and he's just, he's very
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  feminine. When I first met him, I was
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  like, yeah, OK, he's another crossdresser.
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  I get it. I love it.
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  He was probably late 40s, early 50s, and again, he really wasn't
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  able to explore anything. So I kind of got this dress from
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  the the 80s. It was very retro, you know, I
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  had the sequins. It was almost like Flashdance
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  type 70s, you know, disco almost.
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  But anyway, I put this little dress on him and it was
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  strapless and, you know, you just kind of slid it up and, and
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  put panties and stockings on him and he loved it.
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  And we put him against the cross and we're talking to him and I
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  was like, you want to suck cock so bad, don't you?
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  And he's like, yes, mistress. And I'm like, you want to suck
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  just a big, hard cock and so juicy and you just want him to
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  cum in your mouth and it's just going to be so great.
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  And he's like, yes, mistress. And I said, you want to suck
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  that big black cock, don't you? And he's like, yes, I do.
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  And it was so taboo that it was going to be a big black cock.
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  I'm like, only in the South. So cute.
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  But Needless to say, I got him the big black cock and he sucked
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  the fuck out of it. It was great.
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  So fun. It was so fun.
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  He got face fucked the next time he came in to see me.
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  It was, yeah, it was relentless. Some of these black guys, they
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  show 0 fucking mercy. They're like, take that fucking
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  Dick. I remember one time I had Brie
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  in the dungeon and I had this guy and I was called him the
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  White Anaconda because he had this massive like 1011 inch
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  cock. It was beautiful and she wanted
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  to try to ride his Dick because she could control how far it
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  went in. I'm like, look, you're not going
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  to get off that easy. I said you can ride his Dick,
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  but I'm going to force you down on it.
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  And, you know, she was just like onion, onion.
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  You know, there's times where, you know, I'll listen to a safe
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  word. But for someone who I know and
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  who was my good little submissive at the time, I didn't
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  hear a thing. So I put a ball gag in her mouth
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  and I said, yeah, I don't hear anything.
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  Do you hear anything? He's like, no, no, I don't hear
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  anything. So she took that Dick and that's
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  what happens. You get what you want with me.
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  I'm not going to play games with you.
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  So don't tell me you want to get rammed with a big cock and you
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  want to get fucked so hard and then the time comes and you
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  pussy out. Don't fucking pussy out on me.
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  No, ain't happening. But yeah, that was that was one
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  of those fun little brief stories.
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  And you know, if you go on to obviously this podcast or
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  Mistress Mia's bedtime stories, there's other stories about Brie
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  that they're all true. There is a great Bastianato
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  story. There's a great, you know, Brie
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  in the basement story. Great.
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  You know, you just have to be happy, you have to live out your
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  fantasies and live out your kink and don't have shame towards it.
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  So aside from that, I have told you some fun little stories and
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  I hope that you enjoy them and I hope that you go on and, you
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  know, listen to my other stories.
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  Anyway, this has been the latest episode of Owe Me Mistress.
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  Until then, I'll see you all next week.