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SOME NEW THINGS TO TRY, DESPITE ANXIETY.. VAC BED, ANYONE? · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia and I have my Co host over here.
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  I've got Madame Liv. Hey freaks.
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  Oh, that's a definite opening statement there.
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  Such a good greeting. So, Liv, I have a an interesting
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  little e-mail. I thought it was sweet.
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  He writes his his thing is Mimi. God.
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  OK, his e-mail, you know, I don't know.
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  He didn't even you know. Sometimes we've seen.
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  No, no one we've seen this is somebody else.
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  OK. His name is Joey.
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  Coincidentally, we know Joey. It says, hey, how are you?
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  My name is Joey, I'm 20 years old.
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  I'm a huge fan of your podcast and I listen to it all the time.
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  It turns me on so much. I'm a sub but because of my
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  religion and other stuff, unfortunately I can't really do
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  anything because it won't be good for me apparently.
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  So at least your podcast gives me that feeling of being a slave
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  and being able to worship a mistress somewhat.
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  I wish I could meet you guys one time.
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  Can you please write back? It would mean the world to me
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  so. That he can't live through it.
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  That's the worst is when something holds you back and it
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  be religion, no? Shit.
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  Because he really feels like, you know, like it'll be the
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  death of him if he actually steps into it.
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  But honestly, it's it's not. It's like more of an awakening.
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  Yeah, you should just. I mean, you're 20.
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  Go for it. You know and and 20 is so young,
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  but at the same time you know what you want at 20.
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  Not really, it's more of experimenting at 20.
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  Do you figuring out what you want?
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  Yeah, 'cause when I was 20 I wanted like 5 kids, you know
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  what I mean? Like we all change.
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  Yeah, yeah, I, I get it. Yeah, I, I'm just talking like,
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  you know, at 20, I think you already have a concept as to
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  what you enjoy sexually. Yes, yeah.
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  Not like the fact you wanted five kids, you fucking weirdo.
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  I'm just saying, like, things do change, but yeah, yeah, 'cause
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  you can have awakenings at different times of your life,
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  but yeah, I mean, it's not gonna change for you.
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  You're just, I mean, if you can live through it, through this,
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  I'm very happy that we can be through that, at least this
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  little bitty way. Well.
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  You know, you did a a session the other day and he never minds
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  if I bring him his name up and that's Storm.
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  And you did a session with Storm.
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  So how did it go? Would you think of it?
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  Well, I honestly want to know how he thought about it, but I
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  feel like I was able to play into my full role pretty
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  quickly, able to get into headspace really easily.
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  I played very sensual. He likes CBT, which I love to do
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  CBT. I don't know why.
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  Maybe it's the inner woman in me.
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  Yes. Dick.
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  Now I will say again, at the dinner table the other night in
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  front of my 84 year old mother, you said yeah, I'm really
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  starting to get into CBT. Now granted, I think at this
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  point she might even know what that means, but I was like
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  please shut the fuck up. Look, sometimes she's OK with us
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  talking. I don't know what she's OK with.
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  I know sometimes she's OK, I think.
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  She's OK in certain moods, it's gonna be a mood.
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  And talking about like crossdressers and things like
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  that. She likes the funny ones, I
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  think, so she doesn't like the the ones that do we do other
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  things with, I guess. Yeah, 'cause I was talking about
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  the humbler and all I said was I unscrewed one with my tongue and
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  it's upset her. Yeah, it's like, how did she
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  know anything about the humbler? But that's got nothing to do
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  with like my my mouth wasn't near anybody.
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  I'm just unscrewing up my tongue 'cause my hands are full.
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  She's obviously thinking the worst.
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  Your mouth was inches within somebodies Dick and balls, you
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  know it. Wasn't on it though.
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  That's too funny. So.
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  So you were doing the the session with Storm?
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  How did it start? OK, it started with us putting
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  him in the back bed. And honestly, you were talking
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  about putting me in the back bed.
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  And he he kind of made me feel like because he said that his
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  mouth hole ran away from him. And I was like, I got to go in
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  there and figure out what he's talking about to be able to
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  maybe position people where they don't get that, that feeling of
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  feeling like they can't breathe. OK, let's clarify this.
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  Yeah, because so is Storm. Storm has anxiety issues.
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  OK, people who want to go in the vac bed, they genuinely really
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  want to go in the vac bed. Storm was doing it as hey, I'll
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  try it. He wanted to go back in at the
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  end, did he? Yeah, he was.
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  He was starting to feel it again.
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  He was like, you know what? I kind of want to go back in,
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  but I'm kind of like, he's kind of like, I'll probably try again
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  next time. So the thing with the whole
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  thing on the vac bed is it's a frame, you know, it's it's only
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  all right. So explain to people the vac bed
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  is this, it's, it's over. I think, I think it's like 66
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  foot three to five inches, give or take in length.
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  And obviously it's pretty wide, obviously for a plus size
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  person, but Storm is like 6-2. And so, you know, I had a guy in
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  there last night and he's 5/8 and you still have to bend your
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  knees a little bit when you're in that frame.
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  So, you know, when I explained to Storm before he went in, I
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  said, you know, it's got a little mouth hole and the mouth
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  hole is only 1/2 inch in diameter.
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  And then it has a, the penis hole.
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  And I told him, I said, you know, don't worry about your
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  penis. You know, nothing's going to
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  happen to that. So, you know, you have your
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  breathe, your breathe hole. And so when he was getting
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  sucked up, he's in there, it's pressing against his face and
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  all he sees is that hole and he can't see it anymore, you know,
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  So then it's like everything's being sucked up and it's like,
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  look, there's gaps of space between your face and the sheet
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  and you know, your face and the hole.
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  So, you know, it's like the hole was there.
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  It was near mouth. He wasn't going.
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  To which I think that's, that was just his thing probably.
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  But he, he wanted to get back in at the end.
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  Yeah. Which I thought was cool because
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  he was. He always worries people, you
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  know? Yeah.
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  Oh, 100%. And like I said, you know, it
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  was just the fact that he tried, he made the attempt, he went in.
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  You know, that says a lot because a lot of people are just
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  too scared to even try it. But you know, we, we said to
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  him, Hey, you know, it's fine, we're going to go in.
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  And I explained to him, Hey, this is what's going to happen.
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  You know you're going to go in and we're going to do the
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  suction and it's. Only going to be a couple
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  seconds. Yeah, and I'll turn it back off
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  and blah, blah, blah. And that's it.
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  But you know, people go in there.
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  Like I said, this gentleman was in there last night.
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  He was in there for two hours. You know, he comes to see me
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  once a month, give or take. And you know, he's in there and
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  he fucking loves it. He stays in there for two hours.
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  As long as they have ear protection, you know, it's good.
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  You know, now we were saying to puppy, hey, we were a little
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  concerned with you having the, you know, the choice to even go
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  into the back bed just because he's had eye surgery and you
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  know, you don't want pressure on somebody's eyes or anything to
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  that effect. But you know.
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  I'm sure he would want to get into it too.
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  Yeah, he would love to, but I think it would just play too
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  much of A risk, you know, because he's had repeated eye
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  surgeries and everything. And it does, you know, my
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  husband when it the other night and he's like, honey, it's just
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  pulling all my snot out of my head.
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  So you could imagine it pulling snot out, you know, It could
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  just pop your eyeball out, you know?
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  Don't scare me like that. So anywho, so continue telling
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  us about the whole session. Well, when we started, we
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  started out very light like I always do, just worked my way up
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  until I felt like I hit kind of like where he was like wincing.
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  And then I I stayed on that for a minute and then we moved to
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  CBT, which he didn't want to do sounding.
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  He didn't want to do anything anal play, but got to use a lot
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  of like sharp objects on it. And I don't know, I've had a lot
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  of CBT and usually they're always dripping during the CBT.
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  But if when it hurt worse and I could tell like he would drip
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  more. So I knew exactly what he he,
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  what would hurt him and what felt great to him.
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  So I was sticking with those things and then I would stop.
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  Then I'd move to something else, then come back to it like I felt
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  like I was able to be. It was two hours.
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  So I think 2 hours is like the perfect time to kind of like
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  dabble in what he likes and then move to a different thing.
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  Dabble. It's almost like a tease and
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  denial with what he wants. I would do what he wanted and
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  then I would move away from the subject, do what he wanted, move
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  away from the subject. And I think it was really cool
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  and he really liked it. Well, that's.
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  Good, Yeah, he doesn't realize he's a big old pain slut at
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  times. I.
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  Think he knew he was telling me that he could handle a lot.
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  Yeah, yeah, he can. It's crazy because the scenes
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  that I've seen him do has been like crazy intense at times.
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  So it's amazing where your mind can go in that situation.
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  When you're in your subspace, you can handle a lot more than
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  what you think you can. Yeah, yeah, that's crazy.
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  And it can be really intense. So that brings me up to a few
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  minutes ago you said I love consent, non consent.
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  Yeah, that's fun. Of course, with a trusted
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  partner of. Course, yes, so there's a
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  different lists of different BDSM and, and what people like
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  and that kind of thing. And it said and I've read this
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  before that nearly 40% of women and 60% of men have fantasized
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  about being dominated or dominating someone.
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  So what does that really say is that?
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  A primal. Yeah, and most people freaking
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  want BDSM. Yeah, they just don't realize
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  that's what it is. Yeah, because when they think
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  BDSM, they think pain, they think ropes, they think extreme.
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  They do, you know, it's not, it's you can be a sensual.
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  I mean, even ropes, I think ropes can be very like almost
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  beautiful if you do it right. Absolutely.
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  You know so. It's like you don't have it
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  doesn't have to be a scary thing.
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  Yeah, yeah, there's different types of rope techniques from
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  Japan, different things like that.
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  But you're right, it's beautiful.
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  There's a lot of things to it, but it's so fucking.
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  Tedious. Oh yeah, that's a long play.
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  It really is. You're like, fuck, it's long.
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  That's true. So you were talking about
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  sensual domination, and that was something that Storm wanted,
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  correct? Yes, yes.
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  Well, I don't know if he likes it at all.
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  I think he just wanted to try a central domination or that he
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  likes it. So you wanted to try it with me?
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  When people correlate sensual domination, they think of, you
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  know, temperature from like wax play textures, you know, fur.
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  Like I saw like it literally like a softer play.
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  Yes, yes. So there's different types of
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  things that you know people could do and you know, giving
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  people ideas. I know we have we have some
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  rabbit fur in the dungeon. You know people always like that
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  to be have that rabbit fur rubbed on them.
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  Especially after bathing. Beaten really hard, right?
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  It's almost like a hug. It's almost like.
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  Refreshing, like, oh thank God I got something nice, you know?
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  So what else did you do with Storm?
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  I did a lot of like rubbing on his body and rubbing on his face
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  and head and I would like yank him a little bit to make him do
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  something and then I would smack him.
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  Yeah. Like it would be like, like he
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  thought that he was going to get something nice and then they
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  would be not. Or then he would think that he's
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  getting something mean and then it would not to kind of like
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  throw him off sometimes. But it was more about like
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  playing with different parts of his bodies, like the, the the
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  soles of his hands or the palms of his his hands.
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  Yeah, use that a lot. Like touching it or making him
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  touch my face in the middle of him closing his eyes.
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  He doesn't know what he's touching, so he'll end up
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  touching my chin. And he was just like, like his
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  body would start shaking. Wow.
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  Just just being able to touch the chin and how soft it is.
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  It was just like, I walk past him and his arms are all like,
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  like he's on the cross and then I just put my chin on his hand.
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  Wow and. Then moved away.
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  So he was being like, he was like this.
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  Moving on his way pulled. Away from it and it was really,
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  I don't know, it felt like very a different kind of intense
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  because it was intense. But it was not like pain
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  intense. Yeah, it was intense of like all
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  the feelings. Yeah, it's almost like a
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  connective play to see you like how you move and you you move
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  and project your arms and your hands out.
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  Yeah, I could see it's like a connective touching.
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  Yeah, that's awesome. So he he liked it.
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  That's awesome. I think that's very cool.
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  So you know you've done BDSM for a number of years yourself.
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  Is there something specific you think you know?
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  When I think of couples, for example, you have not got to
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  dominate a couple yet in the dungeon.
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  Not as a both of them, no. Yeah, but you've dominated women
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  before. Yeah.
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  So so so so. Yeah, 'cause I, I'm, whenever
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  it's more play, I'm more of a dominating them.
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  I'm I'm the top whenever I'm with a girl.
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  You know, I've had my one friend.
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  He's in Chicago. His name's Joe.
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  We've never physically met. We've known each other and have
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  spoken to one another for 20 years.
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  Pen pals. Yeah, exactly.
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  And so he's really funny because, you know, he's always
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  been dominant in his life through everything.
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  And so for him to relinquish any control, he's always told me
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  he's like, you know, you're the only one who I will ever let do
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  that to me. And I said, well, you know,
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  maybe one day, one day, you know, he's like, but I got to be
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  able to fuck you. And I was like, yeah, no, no,
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  not going to fuck me. You know, I might suck your Dick
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  but. Yeah.
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  But, you know, so he's asked me, you know, what are some things
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  that he could do with his girlfriends, you know, that he's
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  intimate with? To like bring in the BDSM.
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  To BD exactly to bring in BDSM. A lot of it has to do with rules
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  and setting rules and setting like lines.
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  Draw lines like a box around her.
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  Say if you step out of this box, here's your consequence.
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  Always got to have a good consequence and a bad
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  consequence if she does right? You give her something nice like
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  you. You make her come.
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  She doesn't do it. Then you make yourself come with
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  somebody else, and then she sits there and watch, you know, like.
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  You're bringing that third person in.
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  Yeah, well, it's like it bring, it brings in a sort of like
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  jealousy and like, oh, I did wrong and I don't want this to
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  happen again, you know what I mean?
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  But I also like it at the same time.
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  Like I like watching you please yourself with somebody else.
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  But it also, like, I wish I was the one to do that.
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  Yeah. So it's like just good
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  consequences and bad consequences.
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  And you can always find them online to do for like
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  punishments because sometimes people get a little bit lost in
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  like what they can do to use to punish somebody because you can
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  punish somebody long distance too.
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  Yeah, so anyway, so I told my friend Joe, you know, using
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  things at home and you're, you're talking about, you know,
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  punishment, setting up rules and things like that.
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  You know, I was telling him, hey, make her go into the
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  refrigerator and get all the things that she can put inside
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  of her pussy. I mean that is something.
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  Right. You know, it's like, just try to
• 15:02
  be resourceful. And, you know, I've told people
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  a lot over the years. I was like, you know what?
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  Take your submissive out to the garage, put a chain somewhere
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  from the ceiling, suspend it, put their arms up and just go to
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  town. You know, have them do forced
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  orgasms, make them get spanked, you know, make them do these
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  things. And, you know, you just got to
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  be resourceful. And ball gag them.
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  Yeah, you can do that with a sock.
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  Yeah, sock duct tape, you know, be creative, A.
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  Lot of things is taking away 2 senses.
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  Yes. Take away 2 senses like eyes,
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  ears, things like that and then it heightens the sensations of
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  other. Things.
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  Absolutely. Yeah.
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  You know, it's like when you you had the deaf guy in here the
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  other day. I know that was.
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  He fucking loved it. He did.
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  He loved it. Didn't hear about his response.
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  Yeah, he just actually messaged me over the weekend.
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  He loved it. Well, I'm glad.
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  Yeah, he said. You know, the whole concept of
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  sensory deprivation, it adds so much to it.
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  Yeah. Yeah, because, I mean, he can't
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  hear, but he wanted, he couldn't really speak either.
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  Yeah. Which was, you know, you know,
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  just have to work around that, figure out the different ways to
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  be able to communicate. Especially since he wanted to be
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  ball gagged, but I couldn't. I've seen him anyway, so yeah,
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  it wouldn't have mattered. But yeah, taking away his sight
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  probably would have been more intense for him.
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  But I think, I don't think I was ready for that.
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  I wanted him to feel safe. Yeah.
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  He doesn't know me that well. Yeah, yeah.
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  It's amazing. You know, people come in, you
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  know, having this trust with us, and then there's others who they
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  don't even trust us at all. But we'll talk about that in the
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  next episode. But for now, I will say that,
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  you know, I've dominated a lot of couples over the years.
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  And I'm actually thinking about doing a class soon because I've
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  done that before with couples. And I tried to do an
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  introduction to BDSM with couples and how they can do
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  things and what they need to do. And, you know, and the biggest
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  thing is, like you said, setting rules, listening to one another,
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  you know? It does bring in a whole new
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  communication, which is really just healthy for the
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  relationship. BDSM is so good in so many
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  different ways. Yeah, it really is.
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  Individually and as couples. Yeah, it really is.
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  I saw a couple last year and the funniest thing was, you know,
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  everyone's hurt her with a Hitachi wand, you know?
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  You know, it's the the basic massager and it's like 14 inches
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  long, you know, And you know, it's very useful.
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  It's got, you know, vibration settings, etcetera on it.
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  And so when I brought the one we have in the dungeon out, the
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  husband's like, she always brings that out, you know, and I
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  said, OK, has she used it on you before?
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  He's like, no, why would she? And I said, well, you know, a
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  Dick is just like a clit. And he's like, get out of here.
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  I'm like just saying. So I gave it to his wife and I
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  said rub it on his Dick. And when that happened, he was
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  shocked. Wow.
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  Absolutely shocked. And he came.
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  He had a fucking orgasm. Buyer, right?
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  Of course, yeah. I'm glad that they were able to
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  open their mind a little bit because especially with him
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  being so reluctant when he saw it right?
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  And he's like, Oh my God, I didn't know he used 2.
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  Now they get to have a little bit more different kind of fun.
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  So I've seen this one one gentleman who comes to the
• 18:20
  dungeon and like I said, he sees me about once a month, but he
• 18:23
  loves the vac bed. He gets in the vac bed.
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  And you know, I do like tease and denial.
• 18:28
  I do different things, you know, I do impact, I do different
• 18:30
  things with him since replay when he's in there.
• 18:33
  And so interestingly enough, I've never done sounding rods on
• 18:37
  him, but he has an interest cock because the top, the head of his
• 18:42
  Dick is like just super big and even like like the the entrance
• 18:48
  going into his urethra is big. Yeah, it's like the size of an
• 18:51
  index finger. Big.
• 18:53
  Just the top. Though just the top.
• 18:55
  No, the rest of the penis is average size.
• 18:57
  You know, it's like he's like 6 inches.
• 18:59
  Well, isn't that ideal? Big head.
• 19:01
  Yeah, an average body is a wow. Nice Dick right there.
• 19:06
  It's nice. And, and that's what I said and
• 19:09
  'cause you know, I told him, I said, you know, I, you're, you
• 19:12
  always have, like, you always look good, but it's like, you
• 19:15
  know, I, I love your Dick and he's like, well, thanks.
• 19:18
  It really embarrasses me, you know?
• 19:19
  He's what? Yeah.
• 19:21
  He's like, you always say that, but I'm I'm not impressed with
• 19:24
  it. Like the big heads, like in the
• 19:26
  small bodies, That's literally what I mean.
• 19:28
  That's what the head is literally for.
• 19:30
  You have the biggest, that's great.
• 19:32
  It's great because then you get to fill all the fills.
• 19:34
  I see I. Posted a picture of it on fat
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  from last night, but I didn't get like an up close picture of
• 19:39
  his Dick. But it's like it's an ideal
• 19:41
  Dick, you know? And so Charles, he'd given us
• 19:46
  this massager, this new massager.
• 19:48
  It's the back massager thing and it has those the attachment with
• 19:52
  the two prongs I. Know what you're talking?
• 19:55
  About right. So last night I used that.
• 19:57
  And so his Dick is a little too fat for the prongs to go all the
• 20:00
  way down. Like especially at the top.
• 20:02
  So I thought, oh, I'm gonna take the one of the prongs and stick
• 20:06
  it in the head. Oh wow.
• 20:08
  Like at the entrance of his urethra.
• 20:10
  And let me tell you, he fucking loved that shit.
• 20:14
  I bet he loved it. So I was doing that.
• 20:18
  I was jacking him at the same time.
• 20:20
  He fucking loved it. It was a great time.
• 20:22
  So my thing of it is, be fucking resourceful.
• 20:25
  Yes, yes, innovative. Be innovative and resourceful.
• 20:28
  Exactly 'cause you can always find things like a Ruby has a
• 20:30
  guitar string. Yeah, who the fuck think about
• 20:33
  beating somebody with a fucking guitar string?
• 20:35
  Well she uses for CBT like wraps around their Dick and like jacks
• 20:38
  them off with it. Oh, I've.
• 20:39
  Seen her hit people with that shit really.
• 20:41
  Yes, see that? I mean, it's innovative.
• 20:43
  Like, yeah, you don't have to buy something really expensive.
• 20:45
  I mean, I have freaking violin strings in my house.
• 20:48
  Yeah, I don't know why, but I do.
• 20:50
  But you do. So you can find something in
• 20:52
  your house? Rubber bands?
• 20:54
  Yeah. I use our bands all the time for
• 20:55
  like, cock rings. Instead of the cock rings, you
• 20:57
  use a rubber band. Yeah.
• 20:59
  Or even just popping them. Yeah, use it to fucking hit
• 21:02
  people with. Yeah, pop them with the yeah.
• 21:04
  Rubber band. It's crazy.
• 21:06
  Just all the little things you can do with little things, you
• 21:09
  know. But yeah, Ruby cracks me up
• 21:11
  because I guess her boyfriend a few years ago found her an old
• 21:15
  doctor's medical bag. And you could tell it's from
• 21:18
  like the 50s, sixties. I mean, it's the classic.
• 21:21
  It looks like. It's like almost like alligator
• 21:24
  leather type. And yeah, it's an old vintage
• 21:28
  she uses. Medical bag now, yes, that's
• 21:30
  really cool. Yeah, and she carries all of her
• 21:32
  shit. And I was like, Oh my God, this
• 21:33
  is so neat. Yeah, yeah, she came in.
• 21:36
  Today showed it to you. Oh yeah.
• 21:38
  Oh, I missed. It Yeah, she's very resourceful,
• 21:40
  yeah, very creative. And she's a creative Dom and,
• 21:43
  you know, people need to go on their website.
• 21:45
  She's fantasy Ruby red. People can go on there and they
• 21:47
  can say she's got tour dates all over.
• 21:50
  Yeah, she travels for it. You don't even live in where
• 21:53
  we're at. Then she can come to you.
• 21:55
  Yeah, if she's bi, but yeah. Yeah, incredible.
• 21:58
  Right. All right.
• 21:59
  So guys, be very creative in the things that you want to use on
• 22:03
  your partner because you never know how good it might feel.
• 22:07
  Yeah, even the bad is good, right?
• 22:09
  Yeah. Because when you get to remember
• 22:10
  it, like, oh God, my knees hurt from the rice.
• 22:13
  And you're just like, and I have to think about it for the rest
• 22:15
  of the day. Yeah, yeah, you told me.
• 22:17
  Corporal punishment. You put some rice on the floor
• 22:19
  and. Melt melting the rice.
• 22:21
  Yeah, how you like that shit? All right, so Liv, that
• 22:25
  concludes another episode. Of Tommy, Mistress Bye.