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The Choice To Sport A New Look Plus How Damaging Is Ghosting Someone · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: Arrow dot net, a r Oe dot Net. Not just
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  Speaker 1: Ero dot net a r r Oe dot Net. Enjoy
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  Speaker 1: your exploration when it's extremely difficult to make up your mind.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we've all been there. Having the power of
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  Speaker 1: choice can actually weaken a person's heart. On this episode,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to put focus on the choice to grow
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  Speaker 1: facial hair or make a big change in your personal life.
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  Speaker 1: Why do we do this? Plus ghosting? It's still a thing,
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  Speaker 1: and it's messing up a lot of chapters long after
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  Speaker 1: the ghosting. My name is Erro. Life is a series
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  Speaker 1: of choices. Who decides when you're not making the right choice?
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  Speaker 1: And is it a fear of things going wrong? The
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  Speaker 1: greatest lessons in life are often lost inside hidden away
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  Speaker 1: attempts and concepts. Well, it is time to open up
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  Speaker 1: your heart. Having that power of choice is actually your
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  Speaker 1: daily gift on this highway. It is time to trust mirages.
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  Speaker 1: What is the choice. Do actors like David Spade grow
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  Speaker 1: a beard to look less like the baby face that
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  Speaker 1: he really is. It seems to be an easy answer
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  Speaker 1: to digest, right, but it goes a lot deeper than
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  Speaker 1: the surface of your chin. Someone like David Spade was
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  Speaker 1: born with a forever youthful face. Adding any type of
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  Speaker 1: facial growth has turned his movie roles into iconic characters.
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  Speaker 1: Facial hair adds age or ruggedness, Viewers take them more
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  Speaker 1: serious with a more masculine feature. Plus, creatively, it helps
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  Speaker 1: the actors separate themselves from other movie roles. David Spade
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  Speaker 1: isn't the only funny man sprouting the fuzz on his
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  Speaker 1: facial features. Some of the other ones in the must
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  Speaker 1: grow department include Seth Rogan, Will Ferrell, Tom Hanks, Look
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  Speaker 1: at Jim Carrey and what about David Letterman? Look at
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  Speaker 1: all that facial hair. Funny people wanting to be seen. No,
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  Speaker 1: there's only one goal, get beyond your goofy young self.
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  Speaker 1: Funny people who haven't altered their outside appeal. Well. They
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  Speaker 1: include Jerry Seinfeld, Steve Martin, Larry David Woody Allen, and
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  Speaker 1: even Betty White. I mean, some actors change to reinvent
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  Speaker 1: those that don't. Oh, there's still great Hollywood stories to
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  Speaker 1: be shared. Hey. Coming up next, the effects of ghosting someone,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's been you that's been ghosted or you have ghosted. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: welcome back to the choice. The after effect of making
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  Speaker 1: the choice to ghost someone. Ooh, I know it's hard
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  Speaker 1: on the heart as well as your process of growing forward.
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  Speaker 1: But you know what, in these modern days of time,
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  Speaker 1: it is called the great escape without advertising or slowing
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  Speaker 1: down because remorse, you don't have to deal with it.
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  Speaker 1: You've ghosted someone. Here's the thing. You do have to
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  Speaker 1: deal with it. And yes, yes, yes, there are after effects,
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  Speaker 1: not just for the victim but those who set it
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  Speaker 1: into play. Number One, Relief is often felt immediately, especially
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  Speaker 1: if the relationship was tense. Yeah, guilt is always knocking
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  Speaker 1: on your heart, which leads to avoidance patterns. Every conversation
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  Speaker 1: with any person feels different because of a serious lack
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  Speaker 1: of trust reputation. Oh my god, a good old fashioned
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  Speaker 1: ghosting can put a huge dant in your image. But
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  Speaker 1: let's go even deeper inside, to the part of the
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  Speaker 1: soul that is labeled. Don't you even think about coming
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  Speaker 1: close to me? If you've been ghosted or have ghosted someone.
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  Speaker 1: Both of your different personalities where a lot of emotional
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  Speaker 1: unfinished business. Sure you've got self protection, but research shows
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  Speaker 1: it's only causing mental confusion. Many many, many people learn
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  Speaker 1: after the ghosting how one short, uncomfortable conversation can land
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  Speaker 1: in a position that has really cut the power on
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  Speaker 1: having a peaceful life and it changes forever. Come on, now,
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  Speaker 1: it's more than the ten fingers on your hand. How
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  Speaker 1: many people have you ghosted or busted free from? In fact,
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  Speaker 1: just the other day I looked at somebody who was
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  Speaker 1: challenging my personal beliefs, and instead of fighting with them,
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  Speaker 1: this is how I pretty much ghosted them. With them
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  Speaker 1: standing right there, I said, here's the choice you have
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  Speaker 1: to make right now. The choice is if we continue
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  Speaker 1: this conversation, this is probably going to be the last
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  Speaker 1: time that you and I will ever ever be this
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  Speaker 1: close in words and appearance. So you make the choice
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  Speaker 1: right now. We either get on the up and up
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  Speaker 1: and be equal and accept each other's in differences, or
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  Speaker 1: you gotta go. The person looked at me and the
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  Speaker 1: first thing they said was, let's work this out. Did
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  Speaker 1: you see what happened there? Let's work this out. Ghosting
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  Speaker 1: has always been here. It's just a gave it a
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  Speaker 1: name somewhere in the New millennium. But the thing about
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  Speaker 1: it is, though, is that when you ghost someone, are
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  Speaker 1: you gonna be like me? When people say you're going
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  Speaker 1: back home to Montana, there's a reason why I moved
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  Speaker 1: two five hundred miles away. They've been ghosted. Has it
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  Speaker 1: affected me? Sure it has. Now that you know the truth,
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  Speaker 1: let's work on your ghosting and find peace in your
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  Speaker 1: heart so that you can grow together in whatever harmony
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  Speaker 1: is still available, because we're quickly running out of time.
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  Speaker 1: It is a choice. I'm arrow, and that's what I
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  Speaker 1: was writing while of the sudden was waking up on
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  Speaker 1: a brilliant new day.