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Romeo In The Morning 6-29-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: That was going on everybody. I hope you had a
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  Speaker 1: great weekend. We're back from Monday. And what did we
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  Speaker 1: talk about? We talked about a guy or a girl
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  Speaker 1: said she asked a guy about a relationship and he
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  Speaker 1: said she was special.
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  Speaker 2: Don't know what that means.
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  Speaker 1: Talked a little bit about winning contests, and then of
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  Speaker 1: course adult swim parties. All right, So I helped somebody
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  Speaker 1: out yesterday, just jumped their car, jump their their battery
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  Speaker 1: was dead, so I had some jumper cables in my truck,
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  Speaker 1: so I helped them out. But when's the last time
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  Speaker 1: you helped a stranger or was nice? When's the last
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  Speaker 1: time a stranger has done something nice or helped or
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  Speaker 1: maybe you're that person. You'd be surprised how many nice
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  Speaker 1: people there still are in this world. You just ain
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  Speaker 1: met him yet already. Fourteen five, four seven to seven
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  Speaker 1: Good Morning Rome. During Christmas on a different radio station,
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  Speaker 1: they do cares for kids or where you adopt a
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  Speaker 1: family and buy gifts for less fortunate. I adopted one
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't tell anybody I did it.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't do it for the praise.
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  Speaker 1: I did it because it makes me feel good and help.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's good. You should do that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's a great uh, everybody. I mean, that's
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  Speaker 1: one of the other things. Everybody wants some sort of
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  Speaker 1: praise for what they did. Maybe if you were just
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  Speaker 1: a good person and can look at yourself in the
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  Speaker 1: mirror at the middle of the night and know you
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  Speaker 1: did it, you've done right by everybody, you wouldn't need
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  Speaker 1: some redemption on social media. That's the stupidity of you
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  Speaker 1: people who think that you think you do it for
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  Speaker 1: the right reasons, and then you put it on social
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  Speaker 1: media and you're just a moron. It's really all you
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  Speaker 1: are because you're doing it for yourself at that point,
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  Speaker 1: not for helping somebody else out. Already for two pot
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  Speaker 1: four seven seven, So what happened? When's the last time
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  Speaker 1: something you just did nice, something nice for somebody you know,
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  Speaker 1: or somebody's done something nice for you, you help somebody out,
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  Speaker 1: I mean already four two pot four or seven to seven,
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  Speaker 1: throw me outside into four point one. When's the last
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  Speaker 1: time you helped a stranger? It's the last time maybe
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  Speaker 1: a stranger helped you. Just doing something nice, just doing
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  Speaker 1: something nice. Come onrty to hop what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: What's hey? So I did a nice thing yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: It was a hot day, man, and I was walking
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  Speaker 3: over to the vende machine to buy a hold water
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  Speaker 3: for a dollar.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Wait?
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  Speaker 3: What it was a hot day and I was walking
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  Speaker 3: over to the vending machine to buy a cold water
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  Speaker 3: for one dollar.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: And before I got to the vending machine, it's okay
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  Speaker 3: to ramp at me and beat me to it.
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  Speaker 4: And he pulled out a bunch of.
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  Speaker 3: Change like quarters and dimes, okay, and he was he
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  Speaker 3: was trying to get a gatorade for two dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I guess he only had one dollar and he didn't
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  Speaker 3: know what to do. And I looked at my wallet, man,
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  Speaker 3: I only had one dollar cash, and I gave it
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  Speaker 3: to the kids I could get a gatorade.
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  Speaker 2: And I suffered, and you suffered.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't get your water.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't get my water for a dollar.
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  Speaker 5: Roll.
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna be one of the nicest things in
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  Speaker 3: the bigger so yesterday, what a sacker.
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  Speaker 1: Look at how nice the houglue is? Huh? Alrighty four
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  Speaker 1: two seven to seven.
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  Speaker 2: It's the last time you did something nice?
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  Speaker 1: First, stranger, and maybe somebody said something nice to you
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  Speaker 1: for you, so we're talking about doing nice things for strangers.
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  Speaker 1: There's somebody doing something nice for you, helping you out
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  Speaker 1: just out of the kindness of their heart.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, roam.
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  Speaker 1: I work out in the oil fields and finished working
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  Speaker 1: a twelve hour day and was headed home back to Bakersfield.
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  Speaker 1: On Tapped Highway, I see an older man and a
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  Speaker 1: woman on the side of the road with a flat tire.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you turn, maybe you turn it. Came back to
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  Speaker 1: see if they needed any help. Come to find out
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  Speaker 1: their car did not have a floor jack, but I
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  Speaker 1: happened to have one, went ahead and changed the tire
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  Speaker 1: for them. The older man wanted to pay me, but
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  Speaker 1: I told him, no, just pay it forward. Well, I
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  Speaker 1: mean not, what does that come to. But that's what
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  Speaker 1: life's come to, right. That's awfully nice of you did
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  Speaker 1: do that for somebody, because the world's come to Well,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm gonna help you, you gonna help me. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: put it on sold media. You get some she gets
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  Speaker 1: some like so people will I can get paid. Yeah, nobody.
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  Speaker 1: But the bad part about it is what you see
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  Speaker 1: in the world is not the real world. I know
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  Speaker 1: so many nice people in Bakersfield that will do things
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  Speaker 1: for people just out of the kindness, just out of kindness.
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  Speaker 1: There are so many people here that I know that
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  Speaker 1: will help you out just because they're like that, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And it's funny because, uh, Ruben and Ruben and Raid
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  Speaker 1: and Rob always argue with each other, even Raider Dave,
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  Speaker 1: these guys, these cats will all argue on the radio
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  Speaker 1: with each other. But man, the things they'll do for
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  Speaker 1: people just because they're good guys. Yeah, they're all gonna
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  Speaker 1: get mad at me for saying that, but just I've
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  Speaker 1: seen it happen with all of them, you know. But
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  Speaker 1: they'll all fight with each other all day long on
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  Speaker 1: the radio.
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  Speaker 2: They just they just don't like each other.
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  Speaker 1: What what talking about doing something nice for somebody? Or maybe
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  Speaker 1: somebody did something nice for you, just a stranger right now.
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  Speaker 4: It's going on bro me morning. I had a story
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  Speaker 4: when I was smaller. My brother was working in school
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  Speaker 4: and we went to a liquor store and I wasn't
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  Speaker 4: took like a gay. I don't know what I wanted.
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  Speaker 4: I think I wanted to eat ad and uh, he said, no,
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  Speaker 4: here's the stingy and uh, there was a person behind us.
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  Speaker 4: He shared the whole conversation like I really wanted to eva.
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  Speaker 4: It was high and everything. So my brother he said no,
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  Speaker 4: So I was. I went to the car. We did
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  Speaker 4: in the car and uh when the other guy came out,
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  Speaker 4: but when that was behind us, he wanted that bought
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  Speaker 4: me my gateway. He looked He's like he looked at
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  Speaker 4: my brother, you know, like he's like he didn't take nothing,
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  Speaker 4: boy like, but his look like, well, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 4: be stins. You know, you just want the catering. But
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  Speaker 4: walked down and I'm like, oh damn. I like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: a long time ago.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if people still do nice things for
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  Speaker 1: everything anymore, just out of the kindness of the hard way.
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  Speaker 2: I think they do. I think they do.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think they do. I do sometimes. Yeah, when
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  Speaker 4: I say a homeless person, I'm like, you know what,
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to get them cash, but like I'll
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  Speaker 4: buy you something. Sometimes I just give it a cash
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  Speaker 4: and I'll find myself something.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of home.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of homeless, I was walking down the gas station
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  Speaker 1: the other day and about three of a specimen about
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  Speaker 1: three thirty in the morning, right over here, and the
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  Speaker 1: homeless guy asked me if I had changed for one
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  Speaker 1: hundred I said, no, I don't. I had to ask
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  Speaker 1: you to borrow money all remember one already for seven
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  Speaker 1: and seven. The problem is this when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: people doing nice things, uh, just because they're nice people
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  Speaker 1: is nice. People don't want credit for it. Nice people
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  Speaker 1: don't put it on social media so you can see
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  Speaker 1: how nice they are. Only insecure losers do that, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, And that's just why.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's why you don't think there's as many
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  Speaker 1: nice people in this world as there are, and there
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  Speaker 1: really are.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of great people in Bakersfield that.
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  Speaker 1: You never know how nice they are, all right, because
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  Speaker 1: they're not filming it already fourteen four or seven and seven.
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  Speaker 1: I would say. The guy reminded me of a story
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  Speaker 1: about ten years ago. I was in was around Christmas time.
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  Speaker 1: About ten years ago, I was at a No, it
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  Speaker 1: had to be longer that. When's the last time Toys
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  Speaker 1: on Rust existed? It was at a Toys r Ust,
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  Speaker 1: So it must have been longer than ten years ago.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you get gift cards. This little girl had
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  Speaker 1: a twenty dollars gift card and I'm standing in Toys
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  Speaker 1: r US and the little girl grabs his doll and
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  Speaker 1: it was like a Barbie or something. Nineteen ninety nine.
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  Speaker 1: Little girl's got a twenty dollars gift card. Mom tells her, well, no,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have enough tax. You gotta have enough for tax.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be more than twenty dollars. You gotta get
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  Speaker 1: something else. I thought to myself, you know what, So
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  Speaker 1: I was just standing there. I said, I said, here,
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  Speaker 1: here's five bucks. I give the girl five bucks so
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  Speaker 1: she'd have enough to.
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  Speaker 2: And the mom lost her mind.
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  Speaker 1: Was so upset. No, she needs to learn. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: she's eight.
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  Speaker 2: She needs to.
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  Speaker 1: Learn about four dollars or three dollars whatever tax is.
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  Speaker 2: On nineteen ninety nine, however long ago.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, I never had that conversation with you
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  Speaker 1: guys if it was right or wrong to do that.
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  Speaker 2: But screw that. Mom be a.
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  Speaker 1: Better parent talking about doing nice things for people this morning.
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  Speaker 1: And one of the things I did a few years
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  Speaker 1: ago when Toys the Wrest was open, a little girl,
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  Speaker 1: she could have been more than seven or eight. She
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  Speaker 1: had a little twenty dollars gift cards she got for Christmas, right,
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  Speaker 1: and her mom was telling her, well, you can't buy
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  Speaker 1: that Barbie doll because that Barbie Doll's nineteen ninety nine
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  Speaker 1: and there's gonna be tax. So I gave her five bucks,
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  Speaker 1: and the mom got pissed at me for doing that,
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  Speaker 1: and I thought, why are you being a jackass. She's
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  Speaker 1: just a little girl trying to spend her gift card.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you can't cover the three dollars for the
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  Speaker 1: tax because you're her mom, And then you're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: mad at me for trying to be nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, morning, how it's going on?
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  Speaker 5: You're talking about the lady. You know, you thought it
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  Speaker 5: a little enough bought, but you gave the little girl
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  Speaker 5: her the fight, you know, the extra sell. Okay, So
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  Speaker 5: I think I think it's you're right, and also the
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  Speaker 5: mom's right. I mean, the little girl needs to learn
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  Speaker 5: that there is.
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  Speaker 2: Not at the hold on slow down, mom, Not at.
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  Speaker 5: Eight Oh yeah, yes, But I also agree that you're
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  Speaker 5: in the right to be ted to know there is
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  Speaker 5: kind people that you know out there. So I think
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  Speaker 5: it's important because you know, money doesn't grow on treat
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  Speaker 5: They need to know those things too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but not at eight years old. That the little
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  Speaker 2: girl couldn't have been more than seven or eight.
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  Speaker 5: What's that I thought my kids about tax dollars, like,
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  Speaker 5: I mean, they need to know.
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  Speaker 1: Right seven and eight.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're a terrible mother.
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  Speaker 1: It was wrong with you.
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  Speaker 2: You're an awful mother.
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  Speaker 1: You probably had them talking politics and war two.
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  Speaker 2: What is wrong with you?
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  Speaker 1: Kids need to be kids till about seventeen, sixteen, seventeen.
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  Speaker 1: They need to be a kids and be oblivious to
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of nonsense in the world, and taxes is
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  Speaker 1: one of them.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I think that's a petty subject. But maybe I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: All Right, kids free, well not.
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  Speaker 2: At seven, but seven.
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  Speaker 5: Everything's free, yeah, I mean if you're find a cool yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I mean, we don't want to put pressure on them
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  Speaker 5: for the basic necessities.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a bad mom, all right, get out of here. Yeah, no,
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  Speaker 2: she sounds like a good mom. I'm just kidding with you.
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  Speaker 1: But until about a kid should be a kid and
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  Speaker 1: not worry about anything until about maybe fourteen fifteen maybe
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  Speaker 1: though maybe, yeah, that's maybe when you used to start
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  Speaker 1: teaching them about that life isn't free, But you don't
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  Speaker 1: do it at seven or eight. So I was just
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  Speaker 1: talking to a lady right now off the air, and
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  Speaker 1: she was asking me a question about a guy. She's
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  Speaker 1: been seeing right, she's been seeing him for a little bit,
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  Speaker 1: and she was asked about the relationship and where it
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  Speaker 1: was going, what was going on you know, which you
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  Speaker 1: can do, by the way, just so people understand, when
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  Speaker 1: you're in a relationship for a little bit, you can
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  Speaker 1: ask them where it's going. There's nothing wrong with that, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't mean you're clingy, doesn't mean you're needy. It
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  Speaker 1: just means you want to know what's going on and
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  Speaker 1: where it's headed. It's all you got to do. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I guess the guy.
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  Speaker 2: Told her she was special.
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  Speaker 1: And special is kind of one of those weird words, right, like, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: what what? What do you think when a guy? You
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  Speaker 1: ask a guy, so, how do you you know, how
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  Speaker 1: do you feel about me?
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  Speaker 2: Well?
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  Speaker 1: You're a special lady, You're special? What does that mean
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  Speaker 1: to you? Already? Four two five four seven seven, Because
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what it means to me. When I
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  Speaker 1: hear somebody say that, oh you're special, it's kind of
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  Speaker 1: like I I want to sleep with you. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's about it. It's not really uh endearing word to
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  Speaker 1: you use for somebody.
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  Speaker 2: You're special?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that doesn't really are you falling for that. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I'm wrong about it, But what does that mean
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  Speaker 1: to you?
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  Speaker 2: Ladies?
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  Speaker 1: If a guy says, yeah, you're a special what does
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  Speaker 1: that mean to you? Already?
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  Speaker 2: Four two five fours seven to seven.
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  Speaker 5: It just.
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  Speaker 1: To me, it's not the most endearing term to use
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  Speaker 1: for somebody. And maybe I'm wrong about it, maybe I am.
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  Speaker 1: Already four two five to four, seven to seven. I
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  Speaker 1: was talking to a lady and she was telling me
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  Speaker 1: about she was asking she was seeing a guy for
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  Speaker 1: a little bit, maybe a month or two couple of months, right,
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  Speaker 1: and she asked him where's it going? And he said,
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  Speaker 1: you know, or asked him how he feels. He goes, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you're a special woman, you're a special person, right, And
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  Speaker 1: she really didn't know how to take that.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 1: To me, when you use the word special, it's kind
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  Speaker 1: of like it doesn't really mean anything, right, I just
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of a meaning, this word as it pertains
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  Speaker 1: to relationships.
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  Speaker 2: So what are you saying? What does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: Already? Four two five four seven to seven? Ladies? What
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  Speaker 1: if your guy said you're special, not I love you,
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  Speaker 1: not your I don't even know what other word you'd use.
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  Speaker 1: But where's this going? What's going on between us? To
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  Speaker 1: use the word special to me, it just doesn't seem right.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like, it seems meaningless already four two five,
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  Speaker 1: four seven to seven A Romeo. When a guy uses
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  Speaker 1: a word like word like special to a woman, it
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  Speaker 1: means he still wants to be in a relationship with
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  Speaker 1: her to an extent, but he's not really going but
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  Speaker 1: it's not really going anywhere. Well, okay, is that what
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  Speaker 1: that means? I don't know already four two five, four
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven. So a woman was asking me, you know,
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  Speaker 1: she'd been seeing a guy for couple of months, and
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  Speaker 1: she asked them about the relationship, and he said that
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  Speaker 1: she was special. To me, telling a woman that, or
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  Speaker 1: telling anybody that doesn't seem like a great thing.
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  Speaker 2: It seems like.
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  Speaker 1: You're just trying to give them something that makes them
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  Speaker 1: feel like the relationship is going somewhere and that you're involved,
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  Speaker 1: but you're not ready to in the relationship. But you're
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  Speaker 1: also so you still want to sleep with them, so
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  Speaker 1: you say they're special. Right, It's like that just doesn't
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  Speaker 1: seem like a very enduring, we're endearing word to use
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  Speaker 1: to somebody in a relationship, right, all right eight four, two, five, four,
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven eight Romeo, So what you're saying is
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  Speaker 1: when she says I was special, it really wasn't nothing
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  Speaker 1: special about it.
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  Speaker 2: Now it makes sense, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Romeo, So what you're saying is when she says
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  Speaker 1: I was special, it really wasn't nothing special about it.
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  Speaker 1: Now it makes sense, yes, thank you. Yeah, that's what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's not tell it's just like something you
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  Speaker 1: say to try to trick you into thinking that the
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  Speaker 1: relationship or you mean something when the reality it doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know that maybe at this point the
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  Speaker 1: relationship doesn't mean anything, and you're not, you know, really special,
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  Speaker 1: because you're really it's just it's just not a great word.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: How does it make you feel? You know, it's like
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  Speaker 1: telling it. It's like telling the child, you know, oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You're special.
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  Speaker 1: You're a special you're a special person.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, alrighty four two five, four or seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to this woman and she had been
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  Speaker 1: seeing this guy for a couple of months, and she
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  Speaker 1: asked him about the relationship and he said she was special.
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  Speaker 1: He called her special. She didn't really know how to
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  Speaker 1: take that. How do you take that I did. I
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  Speaker 1: take it as a just playing you off. I take
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: it as he's just playing you off because he's not
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: really Maybe he's not really sure what he what he
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: what your relationship is. Maybe he didn't know how to
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: describe it. Maybe that was it. But to me, he's
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: just playing you off because he still wants to have
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: sex with you, he still wants to date you, but
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: he doesn't really see it going anywhere at this point. Now,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: that could change. I'm not saying that couldn't change. But
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: to me, you use a word like special for somebody,
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: it doesn't it doesn't sound great already, four two five,
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. Hey, roam, I would say
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: that when I I would say that when I would
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: want out of the relationship but couldn't find the right
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: timing or didn't want her didn't want to hurt her feelings,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: uh or hurt their feelings, you would use the word special. Okay, okay,
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: hey Romeo, it's called a fling. Get all the benefits
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: of a relationship, but just don't have a title to it.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: When the woman asked, where's it going, that's when you
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: got to cut them off?
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Okay okay, I I.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: Don't believe that. I think that's uh. I think you're
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: absolutely wrong about that.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: But that's fine. I mean, I just think when you
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: use a.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Word like special to describe your relationship or describe the
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: person in your relationship, I mean to me, it's just
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: you're trying to play them off in some form or fashion.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Like you could have said you're great, you know, you
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: could have said a lot of things. Special to me,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: is not the word that you use to describe someone,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: to describe someone in a relationship, unless maybe you're right.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Maybe you somebody said they use that word when they're
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: trying to get rid of them or get out of
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: the relationship. Maybe that's true already four two four seven
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: to seven. Oh wait, I can hold on. I think
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: that I can give you that. I can give you
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: the text. I can give you a little more.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: I got a screenshot from a text a little more context.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: The person says, I know you don't love me. I
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: know that, but can I at least know what you
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: feel about me? And then the response was I care,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I do your I care, I do your something special?
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: For sure? Yeah? No, that does not sound right at all. No,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: that sounds like a guy who either doesn't know how
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: to communicate whatsoever, or a guy who just doesn't just doesn't.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Want to stop having sex with you.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Let's talk at this woman about a guy called her special,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: and she actually sent me a picture of the exact
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: wording of the text message. She sent me a screenshot.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: So she says, I know you don't love me. I
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: know that, but can you at least let me know
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: what you feel about me? She goes, and the response
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: was I care I do. You're something special for sure?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Adding to something special makes it even worse. By the way,
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: now I think he's really just lying to her and
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: just wants to keep having sex with her. You're something
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: special that is not to me a great term of endearment.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, he should have stopped with I do care about you.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: That's where you should have stopped.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Once you say something special, you've completely have to reevaluate
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: what his intentions are in the relationship. It really it
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: really sounds like he just he just wants to keep
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: getting some and has no plans on going anywhere with
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: it already four two four seven to seven h roam.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: What's special about her is she either has.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: A basically I can't read what this person texted me.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: But basically what they said was she's good in bed. Okay,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: that's basically that's what's special about her. She's good in bed.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: And maybe that's what it is. But to call somebody
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: when somebody asks how you feel about them and they go,
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: you're something special, I don't see that as a good thing.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: To me. That's you're trying to placate the situation because
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: you don't care anymore than you get to have sex
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: with her. That to me is yeah, that to me
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: sounds like where he's at right now. And it doesn't
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: mean that it won't change. It just means that's where
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: he's at right now.
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: Hi, Romeo, Hey, what's up.
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: Good morning, Good morning.
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: Special?
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah sounds like to me.
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: But she's okay, but you're.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: Special again, you cut out for a little.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Bit, okay.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: It's like he has a side.
• 20:33
  Speaker 7: Piece okay, and he's saying, okay, i'll do it. I'll
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: give it to you because you're special.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: But the other one, the side.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Piece, she's okay, okay, Okay.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: I can see where you're going with that.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Feels not good.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Special has got to be better than okay, though, right.
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: That's why he agreed her to give her what she
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: what she asks what they were, you know.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with you.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thanks for calling, you know, just talking
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: to her right now. It made me when she said,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: you know, you're okay when she compared okay to special,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: special to me, sounds like now the way that she
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: just described to me, how do I explain this to you?
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: It seems to me like special is the good girl
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: that you want to have sex with, and okay is
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: the hoe that you're going to do anything you want to.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: You're right, that's what it sounds like that, and you
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: know you're special. Maybe I want to, I want to
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: sleep with you, but I'm not going to disrespect you
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: because you're special. Just based on the way it sounded
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: to me when she was explaining it right now, you're
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: special to me, so I'm not gonna do.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Nasty things?
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Do you? But if you were okay, yeah, maybe that's it.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's it alrighty fourteen four seven to seven.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Raider Rob here, Hey, Rob, what's going on?
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: What's going on?
• 22:17
  Speaker 6: But Hey, like you said, women, well not all women,
• 22:21
  Speaker 6: but yesterday at my family breakfast, I'm sitting in line
• 22:24
  Speaker 6: waiting for my omelet. Old girl kept saying, I'll have
• 22:28
  Speaker 6: I'll have some ham, I'll have some cheese, some mushrooms.
• 22:31
  Speaker 6: Wait wait wait wait wait wait a minute. No no no no,
• 22:33
  Speaker 6: I don't want ham. I want sausage. No no, no no,
• 22:37
  Speaker 6: I don't want tomato. I want bealpepper. Now you got
• 22:39
  Speaker 6: to talk about being special. She couldn't make up her mind.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, really, oh my god, Rob, you're such
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: an idiot.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: What get out of here?
• 22:52
  Speaker 6: Romeo is didre hey man?
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: May now let's get into this right here.
• 23:00
  Speaker 6: You can tell that girls who take that Okay, he
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: can't hold somewhere else.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: Because because I saything, he told it to special.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: You gotta right.
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that can mean a lot of different things, you know, like, oh, that.
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: Be special than the mood.
• 23:21
  Speaker 6: You know, but you had to take that somewhere else
• 23:25
  Speaker 6: because that special.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: Watch whych he going through that?
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: I don't I guess, I don't know.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: I just don't special seems to me.
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: I think he don't want to be awhere no more.
• 23:40
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, special is just such an odd word
• 23:44
  Speaker 7: to use for somebody. It's just it's you're right, it
• 23:49
  Speaker 7: has so many different possible meanings of what it could
• 23:52
  Speaker 7: be that.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: How would anybody understand it?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: You don't know.
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: But if he makes me feel some kind of way,
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: ain't gonna tell me I'm taking all this specialness and
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: I'm getting the head up out of there.
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: I'm taken.
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: For somebody else, Say I am.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: I don't think I like special.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I You're right, I mean it
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: could mean you special.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: That's like saying it's not it's not it's not you,
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: it's me.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: It means a lot of different things.
• 24:23
  Speaker 6: Maybe you need to clarify that her everybody.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: We don't know.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Ye, that's wild.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I don't know if special is the words you want
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: to hear from somebody, right, Yeah, you're special. I don't
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: know if that's the terminal term of endearment or what.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: I just don't know.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: Is this what it's come to? Some week morning jokes
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: by reader Rob and.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Well just funny Redda Robs.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know, rheta.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Rob's coming. He's coming kind of weak today.
• 24:56
  Speaker 6: I think I think there could be many reasons why
• 24:58
  Speaker 6: he used that word.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: One of the means that he's not that educated. Maybe
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: his vocabulary doesn't stretch as far as some of ours.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Well, what do you mean by his vocabulary doesn't stretch
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: us for us?
• 25:13
  Speaker 6: Maybe he's dumb. Maybe he doesn't know the proper word
• 25:16
  Speaker 6: to show that he has feelings for her, because I
• 25:19
  Speaker 6: have a lot of things that are special.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: I have special socks, I have a special place I.
• 25:23
  Speaker 6: Like to go eat and it's my favorite.
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: So maybe that's what he mean.
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: Oh you know, maybe man, he doesn't want her to
• 25:31
  Speaker 6: get too sprung, so he doesn't want to lead on,
• 25:34
  Speaker 6: So he's starting off middle words, maybe words special, fabulous,
• 25:38
  Speaker 6: that's awesome.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: You know, there's there's other things that are going to
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: come pretty soon.
• 25:42
  Speaker 6: Okay, and understand she has.
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: You know, maybe she got with a dumb person.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean he can't love her.
• 25:51
  Speaker 6: That's all that means from him.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, all right, I mean I just maybe special
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: just does not seem like a term of endearment. If
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: somebody's gonna call you special, you're a special lady to
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: be or you're a special girl, or you're a special guy.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: That does not seem like a term of endearment. That
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: does not seem like you really care about a person,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: And that's the terminology you're using, all right, but maybe
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: raiter day's right already four two, five, four or seven
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: to seven. Hey, roam, I was told I was appreciated.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Appreciated is another one of those terms I think like special, right.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I don't think anybody wants to hear that.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't think any woman.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: I just I don't I'm not a woman, but I'm
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: not sure that any woman wants to hear you're appreciated
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: or you're special. I don't know if that's the term
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: of endearment that really means something. But a roam man
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: every time I try to call the line is busy.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: I never.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Never anything other than a busy tone.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I'm gonna you.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Guys got to under understand something. Okay, a lot of
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: people try to stuff. Who doesn't want to win free stuff?
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: But you also have to understand this. Not everybody's a
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: winner when it comes to raffles or when it comes
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: to radio contest. I tell you guys this all the time.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: I mean, I tell Seawk Lou this all the time.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: I myself have one of those people. I have never
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: won a raffle. I have never won a radio contest.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: I've tried.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I have never won.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I've never won anything.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: Actually, to be perfectly honest with you, and there's some
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: of us are just never gonna win.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: We're not winners like that. Now. I did have somebody
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: tell me.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: That the reason I don't win is because I have
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: to change my mindset. I have to stay more focused.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: I have to believe a little hot win. And because
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I have a friend. I have a friend, and she
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: wished the time, everything, all the time, no matter what event.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: She is that if there's a raffle, you can guarantee
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: she's gonna win. But her her logic is, you gotta
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: be positive, you gotta you gotta have believe you're going
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: to win. Now, maybe I don't believe enough, maybe I'm
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: not trying hard enough.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: To win.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: But unfortunately, some of us are just never gonna win
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: a contest.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's just we're never gonna win the lottery.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: We're never gonna I know, I don't think I've even
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: ever won to scratch her, you know what I'm saying.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: So, yeah, just just so you guys know.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: It's yeah, Unfortunately, there's a whole bunch of us who
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: are never gonna win in life. Well, we might win
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: in life in other ways, but we're never gonna win contests. Okay,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: all right, somebody texted in about calling in. It's always busy,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: says uh. First they said, and every time I try
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: to call, the line is busy.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: And then uh, when you say no room, not even
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: just for contests, I'm talking even when I just want
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: to call in, it's busy. Well, I mean you must
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: only try to call in for contests, though, because right
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: now nobody's calling me. There's not one of my phone
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: lines is ringing right now. So yeah, I just you
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: just must try to call in during contest, because I
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: don't know when else you would try to call that
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: the lines were always busy. I mean now with text messaging,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I mean I understand when that when before text more
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: far more people text me to call me. I mean,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: it's a way different program now than it was before texting.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm not really sure. I'm not really sure
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: what's going on then maybe your phone maybe you're calling
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: the wrong number.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: I not really sure.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: I can understand the contesting, yes, but I don't know
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: about the other times already four two to five, four
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: or seven seven? What I was, Uh, what was I
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: going to? Oh? I want to talk about adult pool
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: parties later today I got invited to a couple of well,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I got invited.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: To one on on on.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Fourth of July, which, uh, yeah, I got to figure
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: out what I'm going to take. But I'll tell you
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: in just a minute about that.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: All right, all right?
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Eight four two five four or seven to seven?
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: Hello?
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what up?
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: I heard that.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: You know, people that are winning in life, they usually
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: lose at these sweepstakes and these giveaways.
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: And the people that are winning at the giveaways are
• 30:30
  Speaker 6: losing in life. So you gotta kind of pix on it.
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: Huh.
• 30:34
  Speaker 6: That's that, you know, the universe is lining it up
• 30:37
  Speaker 6: to give back to those that are losing. And we're
• 30:40
  Speaker 6: already rewarded because I have the same problems Romeo. You know,
• 30:43
  Speaker 6: I guess you win.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm not.
• 30:46
  Speaker 6: Calling every day, but I never win nothing.
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: And it's these.
• 30:49
  Speaker 6: Random people that we never hear from that are always winning,
• 30:52
  Speaker 6: but I think they're really losing.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Okay, so losers.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: So what you're saying is losers win on tests, win
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: raffles when okay, all.
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: Right, and the people that are winning in life, we
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: lose that those raffles and conscious so you know, you
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: got to take it for what it is. Okay, which one?
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: Which one do you want to be?
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Paraty for two, five, four or seven seven? Hey, good morning, Romeo.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: You're right, some people are just not that lucky when
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: it comes comes to that, including me. Rarely win at
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: those scratchers, and if I do it something, if I
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: do it something like a free ticket or five or
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: ten bucks. One time, the dude answered when y'all were
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: doing the elimination, oh the eliminated trip, Yeah, and my
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: phone cut off. Uh yeah, I mean it's just one
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: of those things. I've never won a scratcher anything. I've
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: never I mean, I tell you guys all the time,
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: I don't win. I've never won anything.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: So you know, what are you gonna do? It's just
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: some of us are not lucky like that just is
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: what it is.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: So when it comes to winning stuff, right, a lot
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: of you guys will tell me, hey, I never win,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: rome I can't get through, and well it's just you're unlucky.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: There's no there's no other way about it.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: We're not winners when it comes to any raffle any scratcher,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: any type of game of chance where just we're not winners.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: I'm not winners.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I have never won a contest in my life. I've
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: been doing radio contests for over twenty eight years, and
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I have never won any. And I still try, you know,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: when I go to other when I go out of town,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: or when I if I'm driving through a city and
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I'm listening to the radio and they do a contest,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I try to win. Never won anything, never never even
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: come close. Same as you guys get busy signals. I
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: go for raffles. I play in golf tournaments all the time,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I play in h I go to different charity events.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I never won.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: You know, I've been going and watching Mexico play over
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: about those talk the raffle every time I've been there.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Never won, never even come close. Well I don't know
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: how you come close, but never won anything.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: So yeah, just what it.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Is already four four seven seven yo Rome. My grandma
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: always told me, if you didn't have bad luck, you
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: had no luck at all. Well, I mean it's funny
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: that you say that, though, because I have some friends
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and these women they will they'll enter every raffle and
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: they all I have one friend who wins everything all
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: the time, and her logic was always, hey, you gotta
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: think positively, you gotta believe that you can win. Now.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I think that's a little stupid, but I just know
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: already four two five four seven seven. Typical dumb typical
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: dumbass Raider fan Rome. He's a winner when he's a
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: winner when he's losing. Of course, his team always losing,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: so he wants to feel like a winner when he loses.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: What a dumb ass. Oh you're talking about Raider Dave.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I mean, what do you do? It's just,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: you know, you just got to understand what it is.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: You know, you might you might be lucky in other aspects.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Like you know, one thing I can always tell you is,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: no matter how busy anything is, whatever, you will pick
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: your busiest spot on earth. If I roll up a
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: parking spot always opens up for me every single time.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: So there's just if.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: You if you pay attention, Like I've always said this,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I could be going to a drive through I get
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: up at three am. I could be coming to work,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: go through a Starbucks drive through and or any drive through,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: and there could be a I could be the only
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: person on the road. But once I pull into that
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: parking lot to go through that drive through, somebody else
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: shows up and gets in front of me every single time.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: So you just gotta know, man. But like I said,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: I'll always get a parking spot for some reason. I
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: don't know why I'm lucky like that, But I don't know.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Some things you're lucky at, some things you're not. You
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: just have to understand it, right. So we're gonna get
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: into adult swim parties here in just a few minutes.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I'm going to talk about some of the crazy things
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: this happens. For some reason, adult swim parties always turned
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: into ladies' night. They always turn into a bunch of well,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: it starts off with a bunch of you know, respectable
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: women married, you know. Then they turn into basically holish
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: activities happening whether they're married or not. But we'll talk
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: about that in a minute. I wanted to talk about
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I think it's funny because years years ago, one of
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: my oh men, years ago, one of my friends, his wife,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: she brought we were having to get together, right, and
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: she brings a tray of it was either I think
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: it was watermelon, cucumber and hikama. It was either watermelon,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: cucumber hickuma or pineapple cucumber and hikama. And I thought
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: it was the most refreshing snack I had ever have.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: So now I bring that whenever I go somewhere to parties,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: I bring it. And I got invited to a pool
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: party this weekend, and I was, uh, this coming up weekend,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: so I was thinking, well, that's coming to bring, but
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody's gonna like it. And then
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: fortunately for me, a friend of mine whose pool party
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: is asked me today, hey, you're gonna bring that platter, right,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh yeah.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: But you and I might be the only one that eats.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: It though, I mean, what do you bring to a
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: pool party? What do you bring to a you know,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: a four two five, four or seven seven? I know
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: everybody wants to bring alcohol, booze, but you got an
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: adult pool party, right, Yeah, so that's what I'm bringing.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I think it's watermelon, hikima and cucumber. I believe that's
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: what it is. With a little taheen right already four two, five,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven roam, you're talking about an adult
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: pool party? Like a what kind of an adult pool party?
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: You're talking about just a bunch of adults hanging out
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: without kids. Were you actually talking about some sort of
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: sexual pornographic Well, what I've noticed in Bakersfield, there's two
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: things when it comes to summer and having a pool party.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: One is and no, I'm not talking about adult pornographic.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Although what I've learned going to pool parties is when
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: you have kids, if you just have a regular old
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: family pool party, okay, in Bakersfield, depending on.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: How well let.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Me put you like this, there's always gonna be one
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: or two women that are dressed like hopes. Okay, They're
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: gonna be wearing the skippiest thing possible around the kids
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: and the families because they're trying to That's always gonna happen, okay.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: But when you have an adult pool party, which is
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: just adults, no kids allowed, no kids invited, just adults,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: that seems to turn into some sort of.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Kind of a hoe fest.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: For some reason, all these women seem to feel like
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: they need to dress like they're gonna be you know,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: and I don't know why. I don't know why that's
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: what it turns into. It's just what it turns into
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: all these and I won't say dressed inappropriately because they're not.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: They're not just however you want, I don't care. Maybe
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: some of you feel you shouldn't dress that way around kids,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: which is probably true, but you know, it is what
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: it is. You guys know what I'm talking about. So
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: you just got to know what you're getting involved in.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: And for some you know, once you get if you
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: go to some of these pool parties there are just adults.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: For some reason, it always turns into drunk Well, you
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: know what, ladies night. Ladies Night always starts out with
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: dinner and then ends up with a bunch of women
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: getting drunk getting hit on by dudes, a bunch of
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: married women, Right, that's ladies night. Well that's kind of what. Yeah,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: it's kind of what the pool party turns into. Right,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: A bunch of drunken people turns kind of sexual. Why,
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: I have no idea. Water and hoishness seem to go
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: hand in hand when it comes to pool parties. Right,
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: there's two things you can guarantee any pool party, that
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: is for families. You're going to have a couple of
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: women dressed what most people would consider inappropriately around kids.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: Right, that's Bakersfield for life.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Adult pool parties though, that's a totally different scenario when
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: it comes to Bakersfield or I don't know if it's
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: all pool parties or just Bakersfield, but they tend to
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: get out of hand and tend to become very sexually,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: very sexual. Not to mention, wow, these women, man, no
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: no shame when it comes to whether they're with their
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: husbands or not. Just no shame when it comes to
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: a pool party, like you're just but maybe that's what
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: it is. And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I just think it's funny, all right. Four seven seven
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: he Romeo. So, I work for a smaller company about
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: thirty employees, and my boss a couple of years back,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: had a pool party. We went to the pool party,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: me and my wife and now me and my wife
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: were kind of religious. We're not really, we're not really,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: you're not really what I don't know what that was. Oh,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: so you're kind of prudish people. Okay, I get it.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: Promiscuous that's what they're trying to say. I think they're
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: not really promiscuous people. About halfway through the party, rome
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: all the girls all the wives. We're just so naked.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: My wife got a little uncomfortable. Not that my wife
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: isn't unattractive, We're just not those kind of people. You're
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: absolutely light wrote, You're absolutely right, rome So we've never
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: gone back to one of my boss's pool parties again.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: We just felt uncomfortable. Well, that's what happens. These women
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: start getting a little touchy feely sometimes with other men
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: that aren't their husbands, and they dress, you know, things
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: start getting no. I'm just saying, you know what I'm
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: talking about. I mean, I didn't buy a house one
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: time because I went to uh, I went to the
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: how beautiful place, and I went about noon just to
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: see what it was like, you know, see what the
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: neighborhood was like. Because I'm home all day and I'm upstairs,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: I look down. The neighbors are basically you know, filming
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: a you know what. There must have been about fifteen
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: of them. I said, I don't think I could live
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: next to them, right, Romeo.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: Adult pool parties are nothing more than a mature peep
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: shows exactly.
• 42:00
  Speaker 6: You know, everybody just let it all hang out.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: That's a that is a that's a great way.
• 42:07
  Speaker 6: You might get a broken can of biscuits, or you
• 42:11
  Speaker 6: might do something that you like.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is a great way to put it.
• 42:17
  Speaker 6: Oh, I mean we're all in our we're all in
• 42:20
  Speaker 6: our underwear, boxers and fancy underwear.
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: Mix that with some alcohol, he's gonna go bad.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you ain't lying.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: I I've been to a few. I've been to a
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: few fool I've been a few full parties.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: Back to the one I'm going to, uh coming up,
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: you know, there's gonna be a fight.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Husband and wife's.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: Gonna get a fight because she's gonna get drunk and
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: he's she's gonna be showing too much or he's gonna
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: look too hard and another girl and they're gonna be fighting.
• 42:48
  Speaker 5: Up.
• 42:48
  Speaker 6: Yeah, So I try to avoid him unless I'm going
• 42:51
  Speaker 6: by myself.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Well, if I go by.
• 42:54
  Speaker 6: Myself, I know I'm gonna have a fun time. But
• 42:56
  Speaker 6: if I'm taking the lax ye old man, we're gonna
• 42:58
  Speaker 6: we're gonna definitely argue.
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: Leave early.
• 43:01
  Speaker 5: All right, It is all right, David.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: You're gonna go to any adult fool party. Now here's
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: what you got to remember. You have got to leave
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: if you're one of.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: The like the last couple the guy that text us said,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: they're kind of prudish. Uh, you got you can only
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: stay for about an hour, hour and a half because
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: raad to Day's right. It is just a peep show
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: for everybody, and you know somebody's gonna get in an argument.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. There's always these idiots. There's always
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: this couple that every adult fool party has a couple
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: or two that are married or dating, and for some
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: reason they'll both come dressed like hose and then get
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: mad at each other. Or he looked at somebody and
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: she she got looked at her.
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: She showed too much. It's always an argument, never fails,
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: never fail.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: All right, what you guys talking about here when you
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: text me here Adult fool parties right your roam. That's right,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Big Rome gonna be getting attacked by them females. You
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: know they love celebrities and Bakersfield's voice of common sense.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: It's funny that you say that, because what you just
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: said has never happened to me. Never I could tell you.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this. I've only been hit on twice. Really,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I've only been hit on twice in my life, and
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: they were both by hookers in Vegas. So, and I
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: don't even know if you call that getting hit on. Okay,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: so I've never been hit on. So no, you couldn't
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: be more wrong. Hey, you haven't cheese fans? A don't
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: pool parties turn into Diddy parties? That should have filed
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: a sexual harassment on his boss. Oh the guy who
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: said about the yeah, I.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Don't need to you don't need to do all that.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I don't think the guy and his wife who said,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: is the party turned into a Diddy party?
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: They laughed.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, somebody's forcing you to go to
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: these pool parties. But I mean, you're right, that's about
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: what a lot of I mean, not really diddy parties,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: but they do turn into some Yeah HR, you don't
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: want HR at your pool party. You're definitely right about that,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: But they just do for some reasons, Like every lady's
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: night turns into hope Fest, every adult poor pool party
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: turns into hope Fest.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: For some reason. That's just I don't know why. Maybe
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: it's the alcohol, maybe it's the I don't know.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: We were talking about these adult pool parties and how
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: they always turn to somebody said, turns into ditty parties. Yeah,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: they turned into ditty parties. Damn where already four two, five, four,
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, I don't know what kind
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: of friends you have or where you're hanging out, but
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: me and my husband have been to a lot of
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: pool parties that were just for adults, and it's never
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: happened like that.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: We've never seen that. Well, it's probably.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Because you leave earlier, you leave sooner than it happens,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: or yeah, I think that's uh, I think that's what
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: it is. You guys just leave before it all goes down,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: because you know what's funny is I was having a
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: conversation with one of the ladies at the gym, and
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: she's a very nice lady, very very real, very uplifting,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: very friendly, very very nice, very considerate, and always make
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: fun of her neighborhood because you guys don't realize what's
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: going on in your neighborhoods, right, Some of you do,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: some of you know, you know, like I was I
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: when I was when I was looking for a house
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: years ago, I looked at the neighborhoods and some of
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: the things that I saw going on in the neighborhoods,
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: and then some of the things that I've asked people
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: about what's happening. You guys just have no idea what's
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: going on in your neighborhood. I mean, you you hang
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: out with a group of people, whether it be neighbors
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: and friends, and if you don't understand the kinkiness or
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: what's going on in their home, if you're not down
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: with it, they don't tell you about it. You know,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: what was that movie if you guys ever watched that show? Whatever,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: it was something Saint Louis right, there's a line in
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: there where the lady goes the lady cop. She's talking
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: to the older, older cop, male cop, and she's telling everybody, do.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: You know what this is?
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: Do you know what that is? And she goes, these
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: are the kinky things that are going on in your neighborhoods,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: especially these Rosedale neighborhoods, or these Seven Oaks neighborhoods, or
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: these Stockdale neighborhoods.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: Now, a lot of these you.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Know, you guys just don't know. I mean, I could
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: tell you so many stories about things that I've seen
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: in these middle the upper class neighborhoods that these people
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: who are you know, they give you this, We're the
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: happiest family ever. And they may be, but they're doing
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: some kinky things that you might find, you.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: Know, not to your liking. It happens.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: So I know, I know you think your neighbors are
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: all you know, Yeah they're not. Some of them were
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: doing some kinky stuff. I was driving through a neighborhood
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: one time.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: And I looked.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: I stopped the stoplight or mean stop light, the stop
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: sign in this neighborhood in Stockdale.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I look over and there's this huge bay window and
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: this lady is standing at the counter just naked, completely naked,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: and you could see as I looked over to the
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: to the right, I could just see everything. There was
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: a huge bay window at her house. And I don't
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: know why she didn't there no kurt. I don't know
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: if there was curtains or I don't know if she cared.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: But you'd be surprised what's going on in some of
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: these neighborhoods that you think everybody's innocent, But no, you'd
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: be wrong. Some of these Hunting Wive shows, some of
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: these Netflix shows that you've seen, Yeah, that stuff's going
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: on in your in your neck of the woods. Oh
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: you send me here, somebody has sent me a neighborhood.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Like I said, you don't know, you don't know what
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: your neighbors. Some of you know what your neighbors are doing,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: but a lot of your a lot. There's a lot
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: of kinky things going on with your friends and your
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: neighborhood or your friends that they don't tell you because
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: they know you wouldn't be about it, so you don't know.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: About it, and they keep everything.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Can you be surprised how many secrets your friends and
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: these people who are putting on these you know, putting
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: on these facades of who they who they are, when
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: the reality they got some kinky I don't want to
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: say nasty, because hey, do what you gotta do if
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: you want to. It's funny because I talk to people
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: all the time who talk neighborhoods around town they live
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: in and how they're, oh, how how nice and how great,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: how family orientated.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: All these times they're not.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: I mean they are, but they're also doing some freaky
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: stuff behind closed doors and in parties that like these
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: adult pool parties, and people don't believe me when I
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: tell them until they find out. But yeah, somebody sent me,
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah you that wasn't the estates I was talking about
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: when I said I seen some stuff go down a
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: couple of different things. But I did look at a
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: house there where you're talking about. I did look at
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: a house there, but I didn't see anything crazy in
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: that neighborhood when I was looking for a house, because
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: you know, when you look for a house, you gotta go.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: You gotta go in the middle of the night, you
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: gotta go in the middle of the day. You gotta
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: go at different times to see what that neighborhood looks
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: like or is like at different times, you know, because
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: if you're going to be living there, you want to know.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: But yeah, two of the neighborhoods that I looked at
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: were just there was too much, too much, too much
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I think swinging, I'll say, swinging going on in the neighborhood.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: But yeah, the one that you just sent me is
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: not I did look at a house there, but I
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: didn't see anything going on in that neighborhood. But that
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything, right, You guys just don't know your
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: neighbors are doing some things. I know you think your
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: neighbors are the most innocent, you know, family orientated people,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: but they're still doing some kinky stuff behind closed doors,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: all right, four two, five, four or seven seven yo. Romeo, Hey,
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: you were talking about the neighbors and some of the
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: freaky stuff that they do. Well, after the kids left
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: for college, our last daughter was out, me and my wife,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: we decided to move to it. Oh, I can't something
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: of states. I'm not going to say the name of it.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: One of the neighbors used to invite some of the
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: other neighbors over for pool parties. We found out that
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: we were in a neighborhood with a few swingers. Since
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: we were new to the neighborhood, they invited us over. Now,
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: they didn't ask us to do a whole lot, but
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: they were fun to party with, and my wife and
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: I didn't really mind kind of watching the show, though
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: we never stayed long enough to.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: See any of Yeah, the actual swinging.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: It kind of brought the spark back to my wife
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: and I's love life. Now, we never participated. I just
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: want to let you know that. But we still do
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: hang out with them long enough to see the show
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: and then we head home. So, Romeo, it's not always
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: a bad thing. I'm not saying it's a bad thing.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: By any means you have. Adults can do what adults
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: want to do. I'm not saying that at all. I'm
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: just saying that things are going on in your neighborhood
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: that you don't know already. Ports two, five four seven
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: to seven A Romeo. I think you're talking about Rosedale.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: You're talking about the rich parts of town, right, Well,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Rosdale's in the rich part of town, right seven Oaks Stockdale.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Aren't those the rich parts of town? I mean? And
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: then she goes on to say, you must be talking
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: about the rich parts of town. Rome We moved from
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: the East Side, my husband and I about seven years ago,
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: into a beautiful neighborhood. All the people there were amazing,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: real nice neighbors, all professionals, all got really good jobs.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Everybody kept the neighborhood really clean, not really kind of funny.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: Once we started getting invited to some of these parties
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: that the neighbors were having, we noticed how they got
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: real sexual the later it got and the more alcohol
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: that started flowing. Just this weekend, we went over to
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: a pool party at one of the neighbors' houses and
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: the women started taking off their tops. Now I let
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: my husband look, but once that stuff starts happening, I
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: give them a chance to look, but then we head home.
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: We don't stay for whatever activities are happening after the
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: alcohol has really hit them. Okay, at least you know
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: what's going on. I mean, at least you know your neighbors,
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: let your husband have his look, and then I'm sure
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: you know you guys are out.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: I mean, it happens.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: The problem is there are so many people out out there,
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: and if you're the one that's living in one of
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: these upper middle class neighborhoods and you don't know or
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: you've never been invited to one of these parties, it's
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: because they don't like you.
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: They don't either they.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: Know who you are and they don't want you there,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: or you know, you notice these parties never end up
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: on YouTube, never end up on TikTok or Instagram, you
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: know that, or never end up on Kurrent County activities.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Would you send me your no, bro? Everybody loves to
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: have sex. It's just some people that like to act
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: all innocent and worry too much about what other people think.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: They act like they don't.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: They don't.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: Why you think there's always females at the gym working
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: on their bodies to be sexually attractive. Why are all
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: these people talk taking these weight loss drugs to look
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: good to be more sexually attractive. I was involved with
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: a sex addict female a couple of years ago, and
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: we do and we do it at least three times
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: a day true story. At first was embarrassing when I
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: would see the neighbors because they would know what know
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: what's up. But after a while it was all good
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: because I knew they had to be having sex with
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: their wives and too.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: It is it's just people are You're not wrong?
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: I mean I'm not.
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not saying that it's it's wrong. What
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: I'm saying I have.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: A friend, by the way, who was he was involved
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: with the sex at it.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: He couldn't handle it. After a while he had to
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: break up with her.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I'm not saying it's wrong.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's happening.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: And you're right. People are innocent.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: People are acting all innocent and we don't do that
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: and we're not those type of people until they're those
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: type of people. But that's all I'm saying is, don't
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: be fooled by the fact. And I know, I know
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: plenty of people who live in these neighborhoods where I
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: know what's going on in these neighborhoods, and they act like,
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: oh no, that happens. So either they're being n even
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: nobody's inviting them to the party, or they're lying too
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: and they're involved in it. So it just it is
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: what it is.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: Don't be naive about it, you know.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: And you're absolutely right, because there is nothing funnier than watching, uh,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: a bunch of women talk about how, oh they don't
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: sleep with their husbands, or they get embarrassed or they
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: act like, oh no, we can't talk about that. I'm
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: such a prude that Yeah, it's it's just you know,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: it is it's it.
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: It is what it is, man. So you're absolutely right, bro,
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: I get you.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying that, you know, don't be so naive
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: what's going down. You know, it's not that big a deal.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: You got a bunch of consenting, consenting adults, uh, who
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: are doing whatever they want because they can.
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: Well you know, why once again.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: Why do you gotta why do you gotta feel like
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: it's uh, it's an embarrassment you know already we're two
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: favore seven to seven eight Romeo. I do think it's
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: funny that these married women get embarrassed when talking about
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: their sex lives with their husbands. I mean, what are
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: we exposed? What do you expect?
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: I mean, you married him.
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: Why is it so wrong to talk about it? Well,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's embarrassing. Some people are just get
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: embarrassed about talking about sex. I mean, you get you,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: but you know, you have friend groups and people like
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: that who you know, you guys talk about it, and
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: you guys are okay with each other because you've known
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: each other for so long.
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: You're comfortable with each other, you know. But some women just.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Aren't comfortable publicly talking about, you know, their sex lives
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: with their husbands because it, like you said, it's embarrassing.
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: For what reason, I don't know. Maybe they don't want
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: to seem like their hoes. I don't know what the
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: I don't know why that is okay. I just don't
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: know why. I mean, you would think that common sense
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: just says you married this person. You guys are obviously
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: having a sexual relationship, right, so what does it matter
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: if you tell somebody or not? I don't know already
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: fourteen five or seven to seven. Hey Romeo, it's funny
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: that you brought that up. I was one of those wives.
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: I was embarrassed whenever my friends or anybody in a
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: group would talk about sex. I don't know why I
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: was embarrassed, so I would always play that role about
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: my husband and I not having sex because I didn't
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: want to talk about it. It embarrassed me. My husband
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: is a very good man. And it all changed after
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: a few months when one of my friends actually hit
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: on my husband because she thought we weren't actually having
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: sex because of the way I spoke about him publicly,
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: so she tried to hit on him. I lost my
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: friend over it. I didn't know she was like that.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: My husband told me about it. And now I act
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: a little bit less prudish when it comes or I'm
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: a little less embarrassed, at least because I'm trying to
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: protect my marriage and I don't want people to think that.
• 59:03
  Speaker 6: Well.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: Sure, there's also the other old at it, you know, talking.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of women out there who
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: downplay how good their husbands are because they don't want
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: their friends hitting on him.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying so.
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, publicly talking about sex is still not as I
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: don't think people are as open as as you think
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: they are. You know, social media really does a disservice
• 59:34
  Speaker 4: Every morning morning four point one