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Restoration Hardware · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in Happy Tuesdays.
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  Speaker 1: That's scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't do that last week, so I thought
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  Speaker 2: we were done with it. Oh, We're never done with it.
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  Speaker 2: Just whatever pops into your head is what we go with.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you look very beautiful today, like extra beautiful. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, did you just sing different to your hair?
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  Speaker 2: I did. Yeah, it looks good. Keep it like that.
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  Speaker 2: I just styled it different. It looks nice. Oh well, thanks,
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  Speaker 2: thank you so much. You look gorgeous as well, glowing
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  Speaker 2: per usual.
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  Speaker 1: I have never felt more disgusting popping.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much. And tall. Yeah, I rouse her all.
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  Speaker 2: The only thing I'm going for me right now. Sometimes
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  Speaker 2: that's all you need. Though, honestly, I think it's a
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  Speaker 2: testament to the power of the brow, the pal of
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  Speaker 2: the brow. I totally agree, because you look very awake,
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  Speaker 2: and he said you didn't feel awake.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they do add to the look of like awaketh.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you so tired? It's nine am on a Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: My smoke detector went off. I think in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of like my rum cycle last night, and I've been
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  Speaker 1: like coming off of just like all this craziness. I've
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  Speaker 1: been like very emotional and I just feel so like
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, I'm having a down time.
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  Speaker 2: You are, Yeah, a down start to the new Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I love you.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't think I was.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes you don't know the pal of a brow can
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  Speaker 2: just god, I have these eyebrows aminated.
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  Speaker 1: Otherwise I feel like a rat my inside.
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  Speaker 2: Well, what do we do? What do we do? You
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  Speaker 2: remember how we used to talk about like we'd lose
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  Speaker 2: our mojo and then we get our mojo back. Oh
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  Speaker 2: my gosh, my mojo is like so gone. I know,
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  Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say my mojo is so up.
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  Speaker 2: It's not that.
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  Speaker 1: But no, I haven't even made my vision board this year,
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm visionless.
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  Speaker 2: Like, but do you know what you know? How like
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  Speaker 2: last year was the year of the snake. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's the year of the horse. But the year the
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  Speaker 2: Horse doesn't start till February fourth, so we're still in
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  Speaker 2: the Year of the snake. So we're still shedding.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, am I shedding. Let me tell you
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  Speaker 1: how much I'm showing.
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  Speaker 2: So the vision board you really have until February fourth
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  Speaker 2: before we switch gears. Yeah, so don't let that be
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  Speaker 2: a part of burden. Don't let that be burdened.
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  Speaker 1: It does make me feel visionless, like I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: still am, like I can't believe I said.
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  Speaker 2: I have a vision board, like it's my January whatever.
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  Speaker 2: My vision boards are just beautiful travel photos and a
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  Speaker 2: few words scattered amongst it. It's all about vibes for me,
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  Speaker 2: no intention I need a vision. I'm like, I need
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  Speaker 2: the vision. I need the.
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  Speaker 1: I need it and I'm just down. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: what goes down must come up.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, is that not true? And what's the
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  Speaker 2: light without a little dark? Is that not true?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Robbie sent me like a Bob Ross like thaying, do
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  Speaker 2: you know who that is? Yeah? Of course, Okay, Hailey
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  Speaker 2: Hado During COVID, Haley had a zoom party and it
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  Speaker 2: was everyone painting aspect.
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  Speaker 1: So he sends you this like Bob Ross painting and
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  Speaker 1: it was like what he said. Robbie's like, this is
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  Speaker 1: the best thing he's ever said, and I'm gonna mess
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  Speaker 1: it up. I'm not gonna say it exactly, but it
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  Speaker 1: was something about like you need the dark for the
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  Speaker 1: light or something like that, like what's you can't have
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  Speaker 1: light without dark or I don't know, you can't stand
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  Speaker 1: in the dark you have dark on dark.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, you can't have dark on dark.
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  Speaker 2: We are head into the light. You know. It's like
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  Speaker 2: there's there's. Life is not linear. It doesn't ever just
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  Speaker 2: like flatten out and goes straight. You have ups and
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  Speaker 2: downs and different parts of the year. You're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to start the year on this, but
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  Speaker 2: what if you start the year like this and then
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  Speaker 2: the year only goes up? It can only go up here.
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  Speaker 2: It's a beautiful way of looking at the moment that
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  Speaker 2: you're in. It like sucks, and it's like let yourself
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  Speaker 2: grieve and be sad and feel all the things that
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  Speaker 2: you feel and know that it's going to get better
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  Speaker 2: because it has to, and the year could end on
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  Speaker 2: the highest high you've ever had. Yeah, Amen, Amen to that.
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  Speaker 1: Amen to that, Like going like god, yeah, that's so true.
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  Speaker 1: And I literally I was like thinking about I was like,
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  Speaker 1: what can I do to not to get my mojo back,
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  Speaker 1: but like to get myself back, and I was.
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  Speaker 2: Like, I need to move every day relevant, yeah, to
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  Speaker 2: get my mojo back. Yeah, prayer is relevant for mojo. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm gonna be doing that on the day leaf.
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  Speaker 2: Should we start our Artist's Way book? That's a way
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  Speaker 2: to get to be You wantk about getting a vision? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: when you feel ready, Yeah, just let me know, okay, perfect.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like to do things alone, So it's weird.
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  Speaker 2: I like to do things alone, but there are certain
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  Speaker 2: things where I'm like I need the accountability and the
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  Speaker 2: partnership of it. It's almost like when someone comes over
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  Speaker 2: and I haven't cleaned in forever, and then while they're
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  Speaker 2: sitting there, I'm like wiping the counters down because all
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  Speaker 2: of a sudden, I feel like I need to clean
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  Speaker 2: while they're always cleaning. When I come over, I feel
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  Speaker 2: you're old hand. You like, are looking at the base
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  Speaker 2: board here at the time. You know when people are like,
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  Speaker 2: no one looks at your baseboards if your baseboards are dirty,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Tanya's looking at I'm not looking at your baseboard.
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking at all the laundry that's scattered amongst the room.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, yeah, that's where my eye closed, yea, puzzling
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  Speaker 2: against the chairs and whatnot. Yeah, I know it's not
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  Speaker 2: going to the baseboard.
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  Speaker 1: That's good, respectfully, it's going to the clothes the room over.
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  Speaker 2: I do try to change, try to clean my baseboards.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm glad to know I don't need to do that.
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  Speaker 2: I just need to pick up. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: AnyWho, let oh my gosh, let me tell you what
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  Speaker 1: I did this weekend. I binged Next Level Chef season four.
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  Speaker 2: Is that your first time watching the show? No, I watched.
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  Speaker 1: I want to say I watched seasons one and two,
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  Speaker 1: and then I kind of like fell off, and I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I was watching a lot of like these
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  Speaker 1: psychological thrillers and I needed like a palate cleanser. So
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  Speaker 1: I was like Next Level Chef. This season of Next
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  Speaker 1: Level Chef really did something to me, Like I was
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  Speaker 1: so invested for some reason. I felt like these people,
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  Speaker 1: this mix that they had were so inspiring and biggering.
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  Speaker 1: They were all like such good people. There was so
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  Speaker 1: much camaraderie and like teamwork, even though it's like an
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  Speaker 1: individual game.
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  Speaker 2: Can you remind me of the characters on this season? Well,
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  Speaker 2: they're not characters, they're real life people. But characters.
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  Speaker 1: Spoiler alert, I'm going to tell you who wins.
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  Speaker 2: So season this Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: This has been a while spoiler alert. So Austin was
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  Speaker 1: the guy that won. He basically gave up his job,
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  Speaker 1: risked everything to be there, and he won. Okay, Beatrice
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  Speaker 1: with the eighteen year old girl who always were hearing
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  Speaker 1: like the Braids, Oh yes, yes, yes, Megan. And then
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  Speaker 1: there was like a Brandon, a Bobby. She was the
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  Speaker 1: home chef from like the Midwest.
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  Speaker 2: Did she have to go home? Really? No? No? That no,
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  Speaker 2: that was someone else. Oh. People during that season kept
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  Speaker 2: being like this girl Next Level show.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she just looks like you now that you say that,
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  Speaker 1: I don't remember her name. She had to leave pretty
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  Speaker 1: early on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this show's amazing. Yeah, if you're not watching, I
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  Speaker 2: don't ever watch cooking shows in general. It's not really
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  Speaker 2: saying something I watch, but Next Level Chef is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even like watching.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what I don't know what the
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  Speaker 1: hell they're doing, and yet I'm so invested in this show.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, is that's what I did this weekend? What
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  Speaker 2: about you? Oh? That was it? You were jeans for
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  Speaker 2: the first time for the first time in like two months,
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  Speaker 2: I feel and you were standing jeans to a sitting event.
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  Speaker 1: No, they're not standing jeans. These are these are comfortable
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  Speaker 1: jeans that I have. But they're not comfortable still, Jane.
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  Speaker 1: Now yeah again, So I had unbuttoned and then them
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  Speaker 1: at the party I was at.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, which is like one stuff at a time,
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  Speaker 2: one step at a time. I got them on.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that's pretty much. I saw Marty Supreme. Oh wow
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  Speaker 1: we left.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, it's just too long. It's too long. I
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  Speaker 2: think that social media has ruined my attention span. You
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  Speaker 2: can't sit through three hours much have been. You can
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  Speaker 2: just show for twelve hours.
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  Speaker 1: So fine, it's so funny you say that I need breaks.
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  Speaker 1: So I need to like to go to the restroom.
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  Speaker 1: I need to like go make a snack. I need
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  Speaker 1: to like do a little work. Like I can't just sit.
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  Speaker 1: I don't sit there and just binge straight through.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean I'm the same way though. Actually
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  Speaker 2: the only way to get me to have an attention
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  Speaker 2: span is to go to a movie theater. And that's
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  Speaker 2: why I like it because I physically can't grab my phone.
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  Speaker 2: Oh so you like that, Yeah, but I need to
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  Speaker 2: be entertained. Oh, we did see Avatar, Fire and Ash
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  Speaker 2: and that was so good. Three three and a half horror.
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  Speaker 1: So you're probably in there for four hours with like
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  Speaker 1: commercials and stuff or not commercials where they the trailers?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and you were fine. I'm fine as long
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  Speaker 2: as I get snacks, but feed me. Huh. Avatar was
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  Speaker 2: really good. Yeah. Have you seen Avatar?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: I love the second one. Oh, then you'll love the
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  Speaker 2: third one. I just can't sit for three hours.
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  Speaker 1: I'm waiting for it to come out on movie on
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  Speaker 1: my home so I can split it up.
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  Speaker 2: You're like, you need the Titanic VHS system where it's
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  Speaker 2: two separate. I do. Yeah, well wait, what did you?
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  Speaker 2: First of all, welcome back Easton, Thank you. Welcome back
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  Speaker 2: to the Scrubbing in twenty twenty six, our first episode
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  Speaker 2: with east Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: It's good to be back. I missed you, guys, miss you.
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  Speaker 2: Where are the East Awards this year? Do we have
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  Speaker 2: a location?
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  Speaker 3: We do?
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  Speaker 2: Have you announce seen it?
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  Speaker 3: You know I'll stay here.
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  Speaker 4: Well, the tickets turned on seal yeah, but they should
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  Speaker 4: be soon.
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  Speaker 3: It's going to be at the Allesion Theater, which is
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  Speaker 3: in Los Angeles. It's very very cool.
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  Speaker 2: It's awesome downtown.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's like silver Life.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, didn't it someone used to have? Isn't ever a
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  Speaker 2: home church used to be? Or Judas Smiths Church? Didn't
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  Speaker 2: they do it at the Allegian? No? Are you sure? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I've been to the Allegian before. That's a big deal.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: What it was for church service? But I guess not.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I'll check into that.
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  Speaker 4: But they're about to have their world's rocked when the
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  Speaker 4: East He's come to town on March twenty first.
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  Speaker 2: What's the capacity?
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  Speaker 4: One hundred and thirty Wow, so almost triple the last one.
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  Speaker 3: That's sell it out.
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  Speaker 2: I believe in the scrubbers.
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  Speaker 3: It's gonna be. I have some crazy stuff planned. I'm
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  Speaker 3: very excited about. It's gonna be a.
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  Speaker 2: Lot of fun. Wow, scrubbing and exclusive. Did you see
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  Speaker 2: Martia Supreme. I had a huge reaction to tany're not
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  Speaker 2: sitting through.
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  Speaker 3: The I did see Marty Supreme. I loved it. I
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  Speaker 3: thought it was incredible.
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  Speaker 2: I like it too.
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  Speaker 3: However, I have a complaint.
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  Speaker 4: It's the same thing as uncut Gems, which Cut Gems
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  Speaker 4: are one of my favorite movies of all time, so
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  Speaker 4: I was fine seeing it a second time basically, but
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  Speaker 4: it's very similar. So if you've seen the Gems, you've
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  Speaker 4: seen Marty Supreme, just in a different font.
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  Speaker 2: But I heard it was kind of anxiety and doucing
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  Speaker 2: very much, so Party Supreme. Yeah, like less ping pong moar.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it's like bad people like doing anything that
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  Speaker 1: they want at all costs.
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  Speaker 2: They don't care who gets hurt.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, bad people doing bad, bad people doing
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  Speaker 1: bad things and getting rewarded for it.
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  Speaker 4: Like it's not my it's the worst people you've ever
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  Speaker 4: seen making the worst decisions ever.
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  Speaker 3: And I love that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 4: I love like living as a piece of garbage for
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  Speaker 4: two hours.
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  Speaker 3: It's great.
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  Speaker 2: I will say.
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  Speaker 1: I will say Timothy Shallomet and Gwyneth Paltrow, and I
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  Speaker 1: excuse me, I don't know the name of the other
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  Speaker 1: girl who plays like the Odessa design. They were fantastic
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  Speaker 1: in it. The acting is extraordinary.
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  Speaker 2: Really, didn't Odessa have a Was there a rumored thing
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  Speaker 2: with her and Billie Eilish? Was that a thing? Or
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  Speaker 2: is that I'm thinking of someone totally different?
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  Speaker 3: I'm checking for you. That's exciting.
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  Speaker 2: I just remember the name Odessa. Oh, I thought there
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  Speaker 2: was like speculation. Maybe they're just close friends and people
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  Speaker 2: are trying to make it a thing.
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  Speaker 3: People believe they have a kissed platonically.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, Becca has the lore. Yeah click kissed platonically.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, it wasn't What did you do this weekend?
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  Speaker 2: What do we do this weekend? We on Saturday, we
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  Speaker 2: drove up to Westlake Village, Agora area, and we went
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  Speaker 2: and had a little day out there. Went to this
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  Speaker 2: hot like planter up pot shop, but like a planter shop,
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  Speaker 2: because I needed a planter for outdoors, and we've we
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  Speaker 2: always passed it on the freeway going to It's like
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  Speaker 2: right before Calabasas, and I'm always like, I want to
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  Speaker 2: stop there. It looks like really good stuff. So we
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  Speaker 2: finally did it. Found the pot real that's all. You know,
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  Speaker 2: you're getting older, you know. I was so excited about
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  Speaker 2: this planter. And then we went and had a nice
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  Speaker 2: little Mexican food, drove home, had a pretty chill night,
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  Speaker 2: and then Sunday we had our friend Brittany her son
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  Speaker 2: turned three, so we had his birthday party. And then
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  Speaker 2: Hayley's dad turned seventy seven and we had his birthday
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  Speaker 2: party that night, so it was a day of celebration.
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  Speaker 1: I had a lot of birthday parties this weekend two
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  Speaker 1: and you know what, I realized, I've been getting start
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  Speaker 1: and end times to birthday parties lately. Normally I would
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  Speaker 1: just get like party starts at two, ends at whatever time.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm getting like end times, so I'm like, what's happening.
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  Speaker 4: I went to a birthday party that had an end
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  Speaker 4: time over the weekend, and I was delight by it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm never but I'm not used to. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: this is a new thing. Do you think they're just
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  Speaker 2: sending you the end time.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's on the in by that they're sending to
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  Speaker 1: people by. I love an in time. Yeah, it was great.
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  Speaker 1: I went to birthday party last night.
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  Speaker 2: I ended at eight.
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  Speaker 1: We left a se fifteen. I was like, right on
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  Speaker 1: close to time.
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  Speaker 2: Right on forty five minutes early. Oh you know, well,
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  Speaker 2: I did I realize that I love At Brittany's son's birthday,
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  Speaker 2: there was so many babies. There was like kids everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: They had a bounce house, they had face paint. It
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  Speaker 2: was like Coachella for kids. But I there were so
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  Speaker 2: many little babies there and I just love babies, like
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  Speaker 2: before they can walk, yeah, and if they're kind of nappy,
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  Speaker 2: I love them. Yeah. And everyone's like, Becca, wow, you
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  Speaker 2: need one of these and I'm like, no, like I
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  Speaker 2: get to have this part of it. And then as
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  Speaker 2: soon as they wake up and they're crying, they're going
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  Speaker 2: right back to you. A joy. It's perfect.
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  Speaker 1: I just see you very nurturingly, like I see you
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  Speaker 1: as the other I.
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  Speaker 2: Do I have, like I do have very natural instincts
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  Speaker 2: of babies. But I just am so in this point
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  Speaker 2: in my life thrilled to hand them off, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's important, Yeah, to notice that feeling, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: to acknowledge, to know, to know myself.
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  Speaker 2: Like to know that like I was going to go
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  Speaker 2: home to the quiet house and nap was lovely for
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  Speaker 2: me and I got to have. It's so fun because
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  Speaker 2: everyone's having baby like that's my age. Everyone's having babies,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm just like, let me hold them, let me,
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  Speaker 2: let me give you a break.
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  Speaker 5: And it's perfect, speaking of speaking of children, Brooklyn, Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 5: we take a break.
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  Speaker 2: Ye back, We're back. So Brooklyn Beckham dropped a bomb
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  Speaker 2: of an Instagram post. Yes he did. My question is
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  Speaker 2: because I didn't do much re like I see stuff
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  Speaker 2: about them feuding all the time, like I always see
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: videos about it, but no, no, I like where this
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: is going. But did something trigger him publicly that he
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: posted that? Like what? Because they've been feuding for me,
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: it's been a while.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: I'm curious as to what that tipping point was for
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: him as well. But seeing as we're long long friends now,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: because he's still behind me in line at brunch right right,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: I have since been on his side of the squaw
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: squabble because I think before I was very much like
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: David Victoria right Dave, did I say, David Damian Victoria
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: long long pals, I was kind of like on their
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: side of all of this for the beginning portion, and
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: then ever since Brooklyn and I became fast friends, I
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: have now since taken his side. But since he posted this,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like also now more on his side.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Yes, right, So I don't want to want to answer
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: your question. I don't know what that was.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know the camel's back because I feel like, yes,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: it's been going on forever.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, because I was like, maybe I missed something because
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: I'm not following it so closely that they said something
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: or something came out publicly that he was like, I
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: have to share my truth.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: No, I think it was just like everything was compounded
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: and we just exploded.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: So I know, the the reality is that there's always
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: two sides to every story actually learned. There's three. There's
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: that everyone's perspective, and then there's the truth. Yeah.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, this's Brooklyn's side, there's David Victoria's side,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: and then there's the truth.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Right, that's yeah, I was just generalizing that. But I
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: think to speak out on something that's so heavy and weighted,
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: that goes against such a powerful force. Yah, yeah, I
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: mean they're basically yeah, they're super beloved. But it to me,
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: it says I cannot take this anymore and I need
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: it out there because personally, I don't know that I would.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: I guess that was my question of like what pushed
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: him to make it public because I personally don't know
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: that I would ever like expose family like that, right,
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, I would just be like,
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: if anything, it'll just stay in the family. It's our issue.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: It doesn't need to be like put out there. So
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: that's why from my perspective. I'm like, what what pushed
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: him over there?
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: I think, though, I think that most families that have
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: family drama aren't having their parents like leaking stuff to
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: the press constantly about you.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Wait, so that's what
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. So they leak stuff to the press about him.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean that's all the stuff's getting out.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's got to come from somewhere.
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: Met his post on Instagram. So we're talking about his
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: Instagram story. Yeah, let this all out. The first sentence is,
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: my parents and their team have continued to go to
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: the press, leaving me with no choice but to speak
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: for myself and tell the truth about only some of
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: the lies that have imprinted to me.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: His Instagram stories.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: The like five pages of it felt like just like
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: his like stream of consciousness. Like this did not look
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: like he ran it by his publicist, and did not
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: look like it he ran it by his lawyer. It
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: did not look like he ran it by anybody, to
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: be honest, it just looked like his stream of consciousness
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: on paper. This is what's been going on. This is
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: what's been.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Weighing on me. M hmm. I was like, my jaw
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: was on the floor when I read it. I also
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: felt so the comments being like, oh and look who
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: benefited from being in this family, And it's like he's
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: a kid, like he grew up in this world where
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: he didn't ask for that and he took like what
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: he could from it, just like anyone else would. But
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: then he married someone and in his mind or whatever
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: their side is, is being treated unfairly and disrespectfully.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: So like I saw a lot of comments about like
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: people just being like, oh, I'm so sad for his
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: like other siblings of this is how they treat their kids.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: But I feel like they had an issue with Nikola,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: his wife, right. I think that's what was the issue.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: Like they clearly didn't want him to marry her. They
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: wanted him to sign his what did he say, like
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: his name right away before the wedding. I even asked Robbie,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell does this mean?
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: That? Like they couldn't use the name Beckham No, So,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: like column I can read, you.
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: Said, my parents were preatedly pressured and attempted to bribe
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: me in assigning way the rights to my name. So
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: that makes you think, like what they can release something
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: under the copyright of Brooklyn Vete.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so like what he like on chatchabt what he
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: likely signed trademark commercial rights to use the name Brooklyn
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Beckham for business purposes. Those rights are usually transferred or
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: licensed to a company of family trust, a spouse or
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: relative entity. What he did not give up his legal name,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: his ability to live as himself, his public identity as
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: a person, his personal relationships. So and then why do
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: people do this before marriage, prenup, planning, brand protection, tax
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: in the state strategy. But I think that maybe they
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: wanted to use his name, And I don't know.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: None of it makes total sense to me. So he
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: signed away his name for them to be able to.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Use Yeah, but he didn't remember he said they want
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: him to sign this before he got married. And it
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: just seems to me like everything stemmed from Nicola coming
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: into his life, like they for some reason don't like her,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: don't trust her. Yeah, but that's what it appears to me.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: I just feel like it's sad. It's really sad.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like and how you can't just like, Okay, maybe
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: you don't like her, but your son married her, so
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: like you gotta get over it at some point.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: And like how bad. I guess it's like how bad
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: she has like a dog shelter, Like how bad of
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: a person can she be? You know, I don't like
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: the ins and outs, but I just I'm they thinking, like, Okay,
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: your son marries someone that you don't necessarily like you
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: wouldn't have chosen for him, But why do you not
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: trust him as the person that you raised to choose
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: someone that is good for him? Yeah? I don't know.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: And there's part of it.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: You've seen the videos of people just like taking Victoria
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: and making her AI like dancing all like sexual because
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: he said that like, oh she grabbed him for the
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: first dance, I was like dancing inappropriately on him, And I'm.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Like, what does that even mean?
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Like what does that even look like? I cannot picture
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: it to save my life.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: There's videos that aren't AI of her dancing though, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: So I don't know, but I do. It's very rare,
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: in my opinion, for a guy to stand up for
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: his wife against his mom if she's acting inappropriately. Yeah,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: not saying inappropriate in that way, but like if she's
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: disrespecting the wife, like you rarely see a guy stand
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: up against his mom, and especially publicly. I'm like, I'm
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: just my thing is what? What was it? That was?
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Like another friend of mine was like, well, why was
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Victoria like posting like happy birthday or like congrat Like
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: she would post publicly for Nicola like some things, whether
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: it was her birthday or like some big project that
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: was no. No, but like at some point like why
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: was she doing that if she didn't like her? And
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I was like, that goes back to Brooklyn's point of
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: like they just want the facade. They just want the people,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: like the image of people to like see.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: That their family or the Brady bunch. Yeah, and you know,
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: we Haley and I were having this conversation last night
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: about it, and she was saying, you know, typically the
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: person who ends up being and I put quotes up,
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: the black sheep of the family. They're always the one
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: that blames like, oh, they just went out and they
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: lost their way. But like sometimes people just got out
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: of a family system that didn't work for them anymore.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: And if the family doesn't like it or they go
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: against what the family wanted, they have opinions and a fit.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: And if someone's stands up for their path and what
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: they're going to choose it causes this friction, yeah, and
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: he was just he is like, I'm standing up for
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: myself and for my wife because she's my family.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Well, did you see the news story now that the
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: David Beckham's former assistant like came out into the chat
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: and was like, good for Brooklyn for speaking his mind.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: The truth always comes out. Poor Nicola, like poor girl,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: And I was like, that is some tea. But then
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I realized that this is the assistant, David Beckham's assistant
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: that like also allegedly alleged they had an affair back
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: in two thousand and four.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, that's the person he had an affair
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: with allegedly.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's denied it and now she's and now
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: she's coming back out like doing this, So I'm like,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: I always want to like take the woman's side. I
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: want to believe that her allegations against him were valid
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: or maybe it maybe wasn't necessarily an affair to where
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: you would think it's in a movie. There was no
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: sexual something, but maybe there was some physical emotional whatever.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Like I want to choose to believe believe her in that,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: But now this, I'm like, it just feels weird, like
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: why would you publicly comment on this.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: I just hope that I hope that their response is
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: I just hope as parents that they can like look
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: at this and realize we we are the parents, and
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: we like we want our son to be happy and
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: like be back in our lives. Like, I just think
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: it's so sad at how this goes down. I think
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: it's so far gone. You don't think there's I believe
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: in restoration. Oh yeah, I don't know. It might take time,
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: restoration and repair restoration hardware. I believe in. I believe
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: in time, heels, and if both parties make a point
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: to like forgive each other, I believe in that and
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I hope for that. Like I I think going through
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: life and having this type of sadness and resentment when
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: it's your own family is devastating. So I hope that
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: they can find that and even if it takes time
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: for both of them to get there. But it's really
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: the part that's sad is if his family's leaking stuff
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: that's so statistating for him. Can I feel so betrayed
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: by that? For sure? It's like you're my parents, like
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: you're supposed to protect me.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, family, I will say, just as an observer watching
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Brooklyn in the wild.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And no it was not an air one.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: It was I will not disclose where.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: It was because it was a small little it's like
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: a small little thing where that like see, it's like
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: ten people. But he seemed lonely and like wanting to
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Like I told you, he was like petting Sonny and
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: like engaging with her and like wanting to engage with us.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: He where he got sad.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: He was like talking to people next to him, like
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: I felt like he wanted like connection, you know, and
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: he seemed I mean again, this is totally like he
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: didn't seem like a dick. He didn't see you know
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: what I mean. Like I didn't get that vibe from him.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: So it was just like someone that was just like
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: sweet guy wanting to like pet my dog and like
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: engage in conversation with these strangers at this diner. That's
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: the vibe I got off three minutes of interaction.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Whether they have a relationship or not. I hope he
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: finds I hope this is like Burry the hat, Like
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: I've said what I need to say, and I'm moving
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: on and living my life. I think.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like the Mom Toxic Mom Group Part two,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: where this story just keeps every day, something new keeps
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: coming out, but we shall see.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: Oh is that a new Are there any updates on that?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're looking to make into a movie, the Toxic
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: Mom Group drama, the like Ashley Chisdal, Hillary Duff, Mandy
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Moore situation.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: A movie there, I guess.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Apparently there's like a ton of interest and like movie
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: execs and big production companies are pitching, like wanting to
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: make Ashley's essay like come to life. And I think
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: they're going to Ashley's camp and asking her to like
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: participate in it.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: And if she's smart, I hope she says yes, I'd
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: prefer just a reality show. No, that's never gonna happen,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: But if they came to her, like I could see
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: her saying no, because I feel like she probably didn't
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: think that this was going to blow up in the
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: way that it did, so she's probably just like, I
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: don't want the drama, get me out of here. But
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: if she's smart, I think she would sign up and
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: like have a hand in this.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: I don't think she's worried about the drama but really no,
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: because she started it, she wrote the blog publicly, and
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: then she kept like she went to the cut, you know,
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: the cut came and wanted to talk to her about it,
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: and she did it there. So she's not trying to
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: be like, oh my gosh. I just think she's personally
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: writing what I was feeling.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think she thought that it would take on, like,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I don't think she thought people would connect the dots.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Do you think she thought people would connect the dots
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: than you do?
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because everyone knows who's in that mom group and
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: at least was gonna start speculation.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Maybe you're right, but I just feel like she's so
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: zen and like.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Peace be with you.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: That I don't I don't see her being like liking
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: the drama.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, but I'll watch that movie.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Oh me too, what's so?
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I'm like, and everyone can play themselves the ministry.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: That won't happen.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: We have really big news that we should talk about.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: I know, I think we should do when we come back.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, that's fair. We're back. We're back in a
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: big way. You know why we're back. You know who
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: else is back? You know who else is back. Harry's stying, Well,
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: it's kind of you know. I love that. It's just
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: like he announced he was coming back, and it was
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: so subtle. There was no like roll out thing that
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: felt really big or loud, you know.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, there were simple posts and there was like
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: posters around towns.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: I haven't left the house much, but neither have I.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: Posters around town, yes, like all over the place. Okay,
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: so there's been a big rollout that I missed. But
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: what from my perspective, he just casually posted on his
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: Instagram one day and said new music.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: There were posters that were posted all over the place.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know if Sam can chime in here, she
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: would know exactly what cities that they were posted in.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: They were in New York, LA and around the world.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: I saw something like in Brazil. Yeah, stuff like that. Yeah, okay,
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: but it was it was subtle. Back. You were correct.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: It wasn't thank you major thank you Sam, Okay, subtle
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: giant posters all around the world.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: So it doesn't like a TikTok rollout. It just felt
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: very like ham that after leaving for years, yes, and
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: knowing that people were like ravenous for more ravenous it
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: was subtle, sure. So anyways, he announced that his fourth album,
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Kiss All the Time Disco Occasionally, will be released on
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: March sixth. That'll be here before we know it, so.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we're going to get a new single
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: from him on the twenty.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: Third aperture ature. I don't even know what that is.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: It's like a camera well, yes.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I know that is the adjustable opening and a camera
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: lens like the Irish people in an eye that controls
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: how much light enters the camera lights.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: For someone who didn't know, that was a.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Great well, that's a definition that that was not from
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: my own noggin, although if I was a pluribus I
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: would know that. So anyways, it's I feel like it's
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: going to be focused on letting the light in, which
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: feels very apro po to my life right now. It's
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: like he knows, he knows, He always knows what's going
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: to always knows what to say.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: I'm just very excited to hap him back. You know,
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: when he was on tour, I would watch every TikTok
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: video that came across of him dancing or performing. I
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: sat there and watched.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: He's a performers, a man, he's a star. He's a star,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: he is the ultimate star and.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: This shining star. Yeah, I'm very excited. And then there's
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: also rumors including a Madison Square Garden residency.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, why does New York always get the cool stuff?
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: But the forum is isn't the form part of Yes,
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: the Square Garden family? So maybe La will be a
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: part of next Yeah, I hope so fingers crossed.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Or we'll make a NYC.
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: I wanted to get your opinion on this, what because
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: there's okay, so there's this thing called micro cheating. Yeah,
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: and it's basically it's kind of like dancing around the
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: edges of cheating behavior. So some of the things that
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: are considered micro cheating, I want to ask if you
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: agree with these? Okay, not mention these are? Okay? What well?
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: I just was like, what you've done those? No? No,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: I haven't even Yeah.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: The first one I read, because the first one I read,
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: and I've seen.
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  Speaker 2: People do this, okay, So not mentioning your relationship status
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: when you meet someone new.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Yes, So I don't think you need to go around
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: and like any guy, I mean be like, hey I'm married.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're hoping that your ring speaks of alliams
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: and then if they if they direct I.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Feel like guys don't look at hands like we look
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: at hands, right.
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  Speaker 2: That's fine, But also I think I don't think if
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: you're just in a conversation where you're having small talk
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  Speaker 2: and then you're gonna say goodbye to them and never
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: see them or talk to them again, it's like do
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: you need to go buy like my fiance. I mean,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: I feel like I always throw in my fiance.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: So this happened to me once at the dog park.
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  Speaker 1: This guy was like talking to me. Our dogs were
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: kind of like talking or whatever whatever they do, sniffing
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: each other, and he was like engaging conversation with me,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: and I felt like he was like orderline, like being flirty.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: And I made.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: A point to be like, oh yeah, like I come
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: here all the time. It's either me or I think,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: here's my fiance at the time, my fiance bring our
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: dog here, Da da da dacka. I like I made
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: a point to like let him know, like back off brother.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Back off baby, because I felt like he was.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: But I feel like sometimes people like that and they
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: don't bring up the fact that they are like in
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: a relationship.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: They like that attention. So I do think it's micro cheating. Yeah.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I think if there's a sure sign of you know,
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: when someone's flirting with you, You know, when someone's I especially
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: feel like as a woman, you know when someone has
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: intentions that are not just small chit chat. Correct. And
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: so I think if you sense that, you either in
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: the conversation or you make a mention of your significant other, yeah,
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: just to clear the air. Yeah.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: And if you don't, you know, you're not doing it
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  Speaker 1: on purpose personally.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: Wait, what if you don't mention it?
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I think you're doing it because you like the flirting,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: You like the attention if yeah, if you.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Can feel them flirting, yeah, Okay. Another one is exchanging
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: phone numbers or social media and sending overly interested dms
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: or text Gosh yeah, yeah, why are you sending overly
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: interested dms or text to someone who's not your partner? Yeah?
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: And if I get a DM from someone that's like
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: a guy, which is very rare because my dms are
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: ninety percent female, I'll show it to Robbie. Because there
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: was like a boxer, there was some athlete that DMed
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: me recently. Yeah, like a six ab pack guy.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Six appts of Robbie, Yeah, I did. I was like,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: look at this guy. Wow. He was like, are you
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: gonna fall him back? I was like, no, I don't
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: want to say this was his move. Robbie does not
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: get jealous as much as No. What was the boxer's
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: Oh oh, I don't remember. I can't remember what it
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: was about. Yeah, you, if that was reversed, you'd be like,
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: let me get in the ring. Let me see this scab.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: A boxer girl wrote Robbie that had a six pack
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: apps six pack of abs. You'd like, put me in
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: the ring with her. Yeah, give me your nighbor ask Okay.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Sexting or sending suggestive photos even without meeting in person,
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: this is cheating. Yea, this is not micro cheating. Either
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: I'm unhealthy or this is Yeah. I will not stand
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: for this. That is cheating.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, this one's interesting though. Following models on social
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: media and consistently liking or commenting on their content.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: So my, this is my conversation with this. I personally
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: don't like it. So if Haley followed, there'd be a
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: conversation of like, hey, that doesn't make me comfortable. But
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: I think if both like, if both people are open
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: to it and comfortable with it. I don't see a
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: problem with it. Like I could see Easton following girls
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: with like nice butts and Alison being like, go for babe.
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: I appreciate that, and Alison is very comfortable and secure,
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: but I still don't.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: I don't do that. Sometimes I think about.
• 37:48
  Speaker 4: Like when I see guys commentat like Dualleifa's posts, you know,
• 37:51
  Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, there's no chance in a million years
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: that like du a Leafa is going to like respond
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: to this person, right, But like, is that giving a
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: kind of attention to some when it's not your partner?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Is that I feel is fine? Yeah?
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: No, But like like an Instagram model that like.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Is showing a lot of things, I don't know. I
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: don't like it.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I will never forget. There was one day we
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: were like laying in bed and Robbie was scrolling and
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: he scrolled past like it was just like butt I
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: just I like butt cheeks in a bathing suit.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: And I was like, who the hell are you fault?
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Like I was like who is He's like this is
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: your friend and he and I was like yeah, okay, fine,
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: keep on scrolling.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: No, like you cap scrolling someone asked the other day, like,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: if I could trade lives with the celebrity, who would
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: it be? And I was like, du a lipa because
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: she's always traveling to these amazing places. She's like on boats.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Everywhere she goes, she always is styled to perfection, and
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: I feel like she's at that level of fame where
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: she's like super famous, but she can go to the
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: grocery store life. Yeah, yeah, it's a good. She has
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: a nice she's a nice choice for me personally, m M.
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: And she has apps. Yeah, she has apps, six packs
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: of them, six packs. So yeah, that one is touchy.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: This is the last one. Keeping an active dating profile
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: even if you're not using it, Tanya guilty.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: As I think I had mine for six months after
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Robin Ammer dating.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: Mine might still be up there. I don't know. Well,
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: I deleted my apps, but you have to. You have to.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: You can't delete the app. That's what I did. You
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: have to like delete your profile, keep it up. Let's
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: keep the people wanting more.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: I did that trend on Robbie, the one where it
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: was like, oh I saw oh my gosh, I just
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: saw bloody blah on Hinge.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: I can't like what do we do? Do we like
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: tell his wife you know like that. Yeah, he knew
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: and he saw it. Oh, something really exciting happened for
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: me this week. So you know I played basketball last week. Yeah,
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: still sore a little bit in a week full week.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: Don't you play tonight? I haven't heard anything. I don't
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: know if I'm supposed to reach out, you should reach out.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: Y'all playing tonight? We playing tonight? Yeah, everyone like literally
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: made fun of my outfit. But I did what I did. Yeah.
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: So this professional women's basketball player, her name is Sophie Cunningham.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: She plays for I know the name you do? Yeah,
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: I don't know why. She plays for Indiana, but she
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: has a podcast. But she responded to one of my
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: stories of me playing and she was like, wait you
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: play And I was like, I literally played in high
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: school whatever. And I was like, by the way, what
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: kind of shoe should I get? And she was like,
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: I'll send you some. So then she has a podcast
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: actually I think with iHeartMedia, I'm checking on that and
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: it's with one of the guys from Summerhouse and they
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: do Arby's Hot Hot Girl of the Week and I
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: was her Hot Girl of the Week. Wow, yeah, because
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: of your basketball.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Still.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she was like, she and her fiancea are so
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: cute and they travel everywhere and they're just like happy,
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: and she's like, she doesn't look like it, but I
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: think she's a she's a beast. So that was a
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: big deal at thirty seven. You never know what's gonna happen,
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: never know, you never know someone's hot. I mean, Haley's
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: hot girl the week every week. I think I hope
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: micro cheating, But yeah, this is a big accomplishment for
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: me to thank you all. Everyone was sending it to me.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: I was like, what, that's why I know it. No,
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: I don't think anybody sent it to me.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: You're trying to get you on your podcast.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, they're training me on the podcast.
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: This is the description for the latest episode, which is
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: not part of I Hurt Media. Oh we still support
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: women in podcasting.
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: Let's see.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: The crew makes their picks for signing off with one
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: of their favorite episodes yet and a call to get
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: beca tilly on the pod.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: Let me say I can pull this.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: I want to get Maybe you should let me come
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: shoot hoops with her.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: At the point you to something, I'm serious, Can you
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: teach old dog.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, new tricks to an old dog. Yeah. Yeah. So anyways,
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: my new journey is just going to be like excelling
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: in basketball this year, really honing in on see that
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: for you. When are we going to start wedding dress shopping? Oh?
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: When I start playing basketball more and my arms? You
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: get the dress that works for you. You don't fit
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: to wear a dress and that's beautiful, But that's not
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: my mentality. No, because you know you can get it
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: back you of all people. What not? Because you want
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: your arms to look a certain way? Yeah, like I
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: want to. I want to at least feel like I'm
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: in a state of feeling like I don't want to
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: go trial dresses and be like spiraling because I will.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: I don't think you will. And that's just who I am.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: You're going to put that dress on and you're gonna
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: feel like I'm getting married. I'm wearing. I'm not getting married.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: I'm working sweats. I'll have like a full mental breakdown.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: And we don't want that. We wanted to be enjoyable
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: and happy. So give me a few weeks, tone in,
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: lock in, and I'll be ready to go. Okay, you
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: don't worry, you don't worry your little I'm not worried
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: at all. I'm trying to be very.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Respectful of you and letting you come to me. Although
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: when I was bored during the holidays, I couldn't have
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: sent you more like these are lucky days to get
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: married in twenty twenty sixties are lucky. These are the
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty six wedding trends.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: You just time to go. Yeah, it is time to go.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: But don't you worry, because we'll be back on Thursday.
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: With a dear bonya.
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: Before we got really quick, I just want to say
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: over the weekend I met a nice scrubber at the
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: Minruba Street Fair. Her name was Cindy with an e wow,
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: and she was so cool and she came up to
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: me and my friends and made me look like a
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: movie star.
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: And it was very nice for her to do that.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: Thank you for listening, Thank you for going up to Easton.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: He's so intimidating, and thank you for not being scared
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: to say hello, very brave. We love you all. Have
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: a wonderful week. We'll be back on Thursday. Last bye bye,