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Same Side Sittin' · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Radd, an iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: And two-time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, everybody.
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  Speaker 4: We are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, we are. Happy Monday, October the 5th.
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  Speaker 4: It's hot as hell.
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  Speaker 3: It is hot as hell.
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  Speaker 4: It's so hot here.
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  Speaker 2: I am in the, I think that everywhere I go,
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  Speaker 2: there's a heat wave. Like I have this fear I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to Rhode Island at the end of the month
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  Speaker 2: and it's supposedly fall weather there. And I have this
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  Speaker 2: fear that there's going to be a random heat wave.
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  Speaker 2: Like all I want is some cooler weather. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I could use some cold weather too.
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  Speaker 5: I love summer and I'm so excited when summer comes,
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  Speaker 5: but then when summer's over, I'm like ready for fall.
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  Speaker 4: But it's perpetually summer here. Would you all agree? I
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  Speaker 4: would agree. It's been a long summer.
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  Speaker 1: They call it endless summer.
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  Speaker 4: In Southern California.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's been like, it gets cold here.
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  Speaker 6: It doesn't actually, but to you it does because you've
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  Speaker 6: lived here your whole life.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: To most people, it's endless summer. Tis cold.
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  Speaker 4: Tis cold.
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  Speaker 1: It's not. To you it is. But like to the
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  Speaker 1: rest of the country, it's not. It's a beautiful, always
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  Speaker 1: endless summer in Southern California.
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  Speaker 3: Mark woke up on the wrong side of the bed today.
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  Speaker 6: That is not true.
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  Speaker 3: He came in here to fight.
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  Speaker 4: She said you were grumpy, but I didn't get grumpy
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  Speaker 4: energy from you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not grumpy at all.
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  Speaker 3: Grumpster.
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  Speaker 4: Are you the grumpy one and you're projecting?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. So anyways, happy Monday. It's October.
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  Speaker 2: Haley was like, should we go get some pumpkins? And
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, will they rot outside in the sea?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: In like 48 hours, they'll be moldy.
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  Speaker 3: No, not if you don't carve them.
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  Speaker 2: We're waiting until next week as it cools down to
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  Speaker 2: low 80s. And that's your weather report from scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 5: Well, my weekend was great because it kick-started off with
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  Speaker 5: a date night with you.
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  Speaker 2: Can I just tell y'all, trying to get this friend
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  Speaker 2: night on the docket, with your date night in place?
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  Speaker 3: First of all, I would.
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  Speaker 5: Just like to say there was not much back and forth.
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  Speaker 5: There was literally, hey, you want to do Friday? I said, hey,
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  Speaker 5: want to do Thursday? You said no. I said, okay,
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  Speaker 5: let me see if we can do our date night
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  Speaker 5: on Monday instead. I did not end up taking my
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  Speaker 5: Valium for my procedure on Monday. So we had our
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  Speaker 5: date night on Monday.
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  Speaker 4: You know what? I was having to text Robbie to
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  Speaker 4: be like, can you move date night?
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  Speaker 5: It could have very well, you could have moved your
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  Speaker 5: date night on Thursday too.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't have a date night.
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  Speaker 2: Well, no, because Haley had just gotten in from the
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  Speaker 2: UK and that was our.
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  Speaker 4: Only day off together. So you and Robbie see each
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  Speaker 4: other every single day and night.
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  Speaker 3: And so do you guys. More so, because we have children.
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  Speaker 4: I know, but she was out of town.
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  Speaker 5: Then she came back in town and she's going to
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  Speaker 5: be in town for quite some time.
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  Speaker 4: She went to San Francisco today.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying. It's really the same situation.
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  Speaker 4: Anyways, we had a best friend date night and.
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  Speaker 2: So originally I had chosen a spot in Santa Monica,
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  Speaker 2: which for all of you who don't know the logistics
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  Speaker 2: of L.A.
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  Speaker 4: Is quite far from me.
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  Speaker 2: Not ideal for Tanya, but significantly closer for Tanya.
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  Speaker 5: For all intensive purposes, this is a restaurant.
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  Speaker 1: Say that again.
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  Speaker 3: All intensive purposes.
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  Speaker 1: It's all intense and purposes.
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  Speaker 3: It's not intense.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like intent, like intention for all intent.
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  Speaker 1: T-E-N-T-S.
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  Speaker 3: For all intent.
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  Speaker 1: Intents and purposes.
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  Speaker 3: Intents, but it's not, it wasn't intense.
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  Speaker 6: No, we're not saying that. No, that's a different word.
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  Speaker 4: That's, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Valium, okay.
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  Speaker 5: For all intents and purposes, this is Becca's favorite restaurant. Like,
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  Speaker 5: she loves this place. You've spent birthdays there. We did
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  Speaker 5: your engagement dinner there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it.
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  Speaker 3: Becca loves it. I don't particularly like this place. Since when?
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  Speaker 3: I would never opt to go there.
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  Speaker 5: But because Becca loves it so much, I was happy
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  Speaker 5: to go.
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  Speaker 3: I was prepared to go. I was ready to go.
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  Speaker 2: But when I told her the place, I received a
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  Speaker 2: very underwhelmed response.
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  Speaker 4: So I clocked it in my head.
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  Speaker 2: And then as I was driving to said restaurant, I
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  Speaker 2: was about to pass the exit where I would need
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  Speaker 2: to get off to go to Tanya's place. And I
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  Speaker 2: was like, would you... prefer to go somewhere closer to
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  Speaker 2: your house. And she was like, I'd always choose somewhere
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  Speaker 2: closer to my house. So I said, okay, do you
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  Speaker 2: think we can find somewhere on a Friday night right now?
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  Speaker 2: Like last minute. So she got to work and she found.
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  Speaker 4: I got to work. W-E-R-K. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Work. Yeah. Cause I was like, I'm driving. So if
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  Speaker 2: you want to go somewhere else, you gotta, you gotta
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  Speaker 2: source it.
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  Speaker 3: And this was 5pm and we were looking for a
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  Speaker 3: 5.30 reservation. So it's tough.
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  Speaker 2: Well, which isn't that hard because most people on a
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  Speaker 2: Friday are not heading out at 5.30.
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  Speaker 4: You'd be surprised. Okay, so she finds a restaurant.
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  Speaker 2: And texts the girl who manages it or runs it,
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  Speaker 2: owns it.
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  Speaker 3: No, she doesn't own it, but she's very high up.
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  Speaker 3: She's a scrubber. Her name is Erin. Shout out, Erin.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out to Erin.
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  Speaker 3: Bad Roman Erin.
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  Speaker 5: I text her at five and asked for a 530
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  Speaker 5: reservation thinking that she was like not going to get
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  Speaker 5: back to me.
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, let's just try. Let's just like
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  Speaker 3: wing it and go. But guess who got back to me?
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  Speaker 4: Erin.
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  Speaker 3: Erin, our scrubber. And she said, you're all set.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Which made me delighted because I've been wanting to take
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  Speaker 5: you there for a while.
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  Speaker 3: And so it all kind of worked out. But it
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  Speaker 3: was so funny.
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  Speaker 5: And what made me like really happy is Robbie got
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  Speaker 5: home from work and he was like, why do you
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  Speaker 5: look so sexy?
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  Speaker 3: Aren't you going? I was like, oh, yeah. Are you jealous?
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  Speaker 3: This is making you jealous. It's the first time I've
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  Speaker 3: ever seen him give any ounce of like.
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  Speaker 2: He's probably like, what is girls night mean if you're
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  Speaker 2: dressed like this?
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  Speaker 4: But you weren't dressed.
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  Speaker 3: I just had a bra. I basically had, like, a
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  Speaker 3: bra and, like, a sheer top on.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the sheer top of the bra.
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  Speaker 5: It was sexier than I normally dress, but it was, like,
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  Speaker 5: 100 degrees. So in my mind, I was just, like,
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  Speaker 5: put on the least amount of clothing I possibly can.
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  Speaker 4: It was like, that's your vacation outfit.
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  Speaker 2: Correct.
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  Speaker 4: Our romantic vacation look.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And I was like, no.
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  Speaker 5: Going out where the 20-year-olds go with Becca. I feel
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  Speaker 5: like that's what Elefante is. It's, like.
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  Speaker 1: Youth.
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  Speaker 3: Youth.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so.
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  Speaker 3: Had to dress appropriately.
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  Speaker 4: But we didn't go there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. But the restaurant we went to was incredible.
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  Speaker 2: But they go to sit us down and they put
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  Speaker 2: us at a four top. So it was a booth
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  Speaker 2: and then two chairs on the other side.
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  Speaker 3: Isn't that great, Mark?
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  Speaker 1: Not for me, but good for you. I'm glad because
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  Speaker 1: I know that's a dream of yours. What is?
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  Speaker 6: Sitting on the same side of the table like newscasters.
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  Speaker 2: And so she goes, oh, my God, we can sit
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  Speaker 2: on the same side. And I had a choice to
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  Speaker 2: make because my initial reaction is.
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  Speaker 3: Like, No.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Normal human reaction.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: There's more room for that. But then I was like,
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  Speaker 4: you know what?
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to have a night to make Tanya feel
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  Speaker 2: loved and celebrated and be a good friend to her.
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  Speaker 4: So I sat on the same side.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. And did your neck hurt after a while?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: You guys are so dramatic. You just turn your body.
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  Speaker 2: The logistics are so weird as a friend sitting on
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  Speaker 2: the same side.
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  Speaker 4: If you're with your partner, it makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: Cause it's like, okay, you're like physically touching and cuddling
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  Speaker 2: and like having that. But like, Just having conversation with
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  Speaker 2: someone made it so, I was like, this makes no sense.
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  Speaker 5: And Becca was like very, and once you pointed it
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  Speaker 5: out to me, I couldn't unfeel it. But she's like,
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  Speaker 5: there's no barrier between us and then the people that
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  Speaker 5: are like the table across from us.
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  Speaker 4: So we're just staring at them.
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  Speaker 3: We're just like staring at this. And they're a booth.
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  Speaker 3: So they're basically like in like a square facing us.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, right.
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  Speaker 6: Right, like you're delivering the news to them.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: And she was like, I just feel like there's no
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  Speaker 5: barrier between us and that table across. So then I
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  Speaker 5: started feeling weird because I was like, she's right. And
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  Speaker 5: then I just kept staring at them.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was very awk. So I'm glad I was
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  Speaker 4: able to do it for you.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't, I think I'll be just a little,
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  Speaker 2: but not because I don't love you or respect you,
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  Speaker 2: just because of just like my neck comfort.
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  Speaker 4: It's fine.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I usually take the L. I always sit
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  Speaker 5: across from you. Really, every time we've gone, I sit
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  Speaker 5: across from you.
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  Speaker 4: Well, normally they put us in a, Two top.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I was blessed with that four top. I
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  Speaker 5: was like, Erin knows, Erin knows me.
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  Speaker 3: She knows what I need right now.
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  Speaker 4: Erin set you up for success and set me up
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  Speaker 4: for discomfort.
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  Speaker 3: Correct.
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  Speaker 2: Um, but the meal is amazing. Like I can't wait
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  Speaker 2: to take Haley there. It's so fun.
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  Speaker 4: So fun and cute. And we were home by seven 30. Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Delicious.
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  Speaker 4: So then what'd you do?
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  Speaker 5: And then Saturday we went to a celebration of life
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  Speaker 5: and actually it was like really impactful to me in
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  Speaker 5: a way. Cause this was one of Robbie's like really
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  Speaker 5: good friends from high school. And so it was a
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  Speaker 5: lot of like his friends and I'd met him a
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  Speaker 5: couple of times. I didn't know him that well, but
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  Speaker 5: the thing that I found so like beautiful about this
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  Speaker 5: is like everybody that came up and spoke, the sentiment
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  Speaker 5: was that this man was somebody who was there for people,
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  Speaker 5: even when they didn't ask for it. And that like
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  Speaker 5: really stood out to me because I feel like I'd
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  Speaker 5: say in particular this past year, I've been like very
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  Speaker 5: inward I've been like very selfish in a way like
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  Speaker 5: I've just been so focused on like me and like
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  Speaker 5: my journey right now that I I don't feel like
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  Speaker 5: I'm as aware of like the people in my life
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  Speaker 5: and like what they need obviously if they ask for
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  Speaker 5: help and they need something I'm there but like when
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  Speaker 5: people don't ask for it I feel like I've just
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  Speaker 5: been so unaware um and so like it really stood
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  Speaker 5: out to me after that memorial of like that I
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  Speaker 5: just want to be better about that I love that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I was thinking about it because you messaged me
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  Speaker 2: about that. And I was thinking about how at the
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  Speaker 2: end of our life, when, when people talk about you, like,
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  Speaker 2: what are the things you want them to say about you?
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  Speaker 2: And it's that you leave an impact of people leaving
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  Speaker 2: something like that and feeling challenged to be better.
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  Speaker 4: Because of the legacy, you know?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Um, yeah, I, you sent that message to me and I,
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  Speaker 2: we were in Palm Springs and I had had a
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  Speaker 2: drink and I was trying to tell Haley that sentiment
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  Speaker 2: of like how beautiful it is to want to be
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  Speaker 2: to leave a legacy and impact like that. But I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if my period's coming.
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  Speaker 3: Or the alcohol, but I was sobbing.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't get it together.
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened.
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  Speaker 4: It was a combo of many things, but she was like,
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  Speaker 4: it's okay. Let it out.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like you're very much like that.
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 5: Like you are able to see the people in your
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  Speaker 5: life when they're like drowning and you can like oh.
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  Speaker 4: My gosh don't I can't no you are.
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  Speaker 5: Like I really feel like you are that's why I
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  Speaker 5: sent you that message I feel like you're very much
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  Speaker 5: that person and I want to be better and be
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  Speaker 5: that way wow but I do feel like you are
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  Speaker 5: like that wow thank you.
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  Speaker 4: That's really nice but yeah it was it really impacted me.
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  Speaker 5: It really impacted me too it was it was really
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  Speaker 5: crazy it was really beautiful though yeah very emotional.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah yeah as it would be you know yeah
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  Speaker 4: Your Saturday was very different. My Saturday was different. We
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  Speaker 4: woke up, Haley performed at, I don't want to speak
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  Speaker 4: on it wrong.
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  Speaker 2: I believe it's like a, I would say like a
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  Speaker 2: lesbian festival. It's called Dinah Shore, but it's in Palm Springs.
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  Speaker 2: They do, they've been doing it for, I think like
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  Speaker 2: 30 years or maybe longer. But they asked her to
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  Speaker 2: come perform. And so she, we went up and she
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  Speaker 2: found out she was performing at midnight. The way we
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  Speaker 2: were so stressed out. about having this day up. The
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  Speaker 2: amount of times we were having to go, okay. Maybe, like,
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  Speaker 2: at this point, we could take a nap or this
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  Speaker 2: time we need to eat dinner.
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  Speaker 4: Like, it was so sad that we were having to really.
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  Speaker 3: I would be stressed, too.
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  Speaker 5: Because, like, performing at midnight is different than just staying up. Like,
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  Speaker 5: on New Year's Eve, staying.
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  Speaker 3: Up till midnight is one thing, but, like.
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  Speaker 4: We stay up till midnight regularly, but we're cozy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, performing, you need to be, like, on.
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  Speaker 2: On. Yeah. And so we got up to Palm Springs
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  Speaker 2: and we went to the rehearsal. And I hadn't seen
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  Speaker 2: the show yet. I didn't really know what she put together, but...
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  Speaker 2: I just assumed it was going to be great because
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  Speaker 2: everything she does is great. But the show was so
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  Speaker 2: she did such a great job putting it together and
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  Speaker 2: making it look like a proper tour show that she
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  Speaker 2: was doing.
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  Speaker 4: And, you know, she was just doing the.
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  Speaker 2: Rehearsal, but they had the lights kind of testing and
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  Speaker 2: seeing how everything looked.
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  Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, my God, that's my fiance.
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  Speaker 1: Like, whoa.
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  Speaker 4: So cool.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get turned on?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I was just like, wow, she's so cool.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So the show was really fun, and she was amazing.
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  Speaker 2: And then I had the idea of, like, should we
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  Speaker 2: drive home after?
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  Speaker 3: I told Robbie this.
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  Speaker 2: Because I was like, if I'm sober, which I only
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  Speaker 2: had that one drink at dinner, so it was hours.
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  Speaker 4: Later, way later.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, if I'm hype and awake because
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  Speaker 2: I haven't been sleeping super well and I might just
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  Speaker 2: be awake anyway, I could just drive home and we
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  Speaker 2: could beat any traffic. But then Haley was like, I'll
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  Speaker 2: do anything to stay and just go to sleep.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, wow. So I said, that's a really desperate plea.
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  Speaker 4: And I hear you. So we'll stay. So we stayed.
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  Speaker 5: When we woke up on Sunday morning, I was like, Becca,
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  Speaker 5: I was like, I'm curious if they're home or if
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  Speaker 5: they're still in Palm Springs because Becca told me she
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  Speaker 5: was going to try and drive home after the show.
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  Speaker 5: And Robbie was like, what? And I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: she just wanted to be in her own bed, which
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  Speaker 5: I understand. So then I like went to my fine
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  Speaker 5: mind to look for you. And I was like, they're
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  Speaker 5: still in Palm Springs.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 3: And she didn't win that battle.
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  Speaker 2: We decided to make a stop at Cracker Barrel on
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  Speaker 2: the way home.
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  Speaker 4: Cracker Barrel is like a time warp.
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: I walked in and felt like I was back in
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: Louisiana on a Sunday after church.
• 13:35
  Speaker 4: It was so interesting, but it's so good.
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: Can't relate.
• 13:40
  Speaker 4: You don't like it? I've never been. Oh my God,
• 13:42
  Speaker 4: you would love it. You think? Yeah, it's so good.
• 13:46
  Speaker 4: It's like country home style diner food.
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: Do I like that?
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know that you would like Cracker Barrel. I
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 13:52
  Speaker 4: I think she'd love the pancakes for sure.
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: Well, sure.
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: Are they gluten free?
• 13:56
  Speaker 6: No, this is what I'm talking about.
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: By the way, she ate every gluttonous thing on the
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: menu on Friday night.
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: So this gluten free thing is a preference. No, no, no, no, no.
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: It's not a preference.
• 14:08
  Speaker 5: But when I go into like the mindset, I knew
• 14:11
  Speaker 5: my Friday night was going to be gluttonous because of
• 14:13
  Speaker 5: where we were originally going. I was like, I know
• 14:14
  Speaker 5: I'm going to have the whip eggplant. I'm going to
• 14:16
  Speaker 5: have the bread that comes with it. So in my mind,
• 14:18
  Speaker 5: I was already preparing for my Friday night to be gluttonous.
• 14:21
  Speaker 5: So the rest of the week I was tight and strict.
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: Whipped eggplant and bread? Are you crazy? I mean, good golly,
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: what is going off the rails here?
• 14:30
  Speaker 4: I know.
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: It's the gluten bread that I'm talking about. And they
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: offer you crudités if you're gluten-free. It doesn't hit the same.
• 14:40
  Speaker 4: Well, what I'm saying, it's a preference.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: Like, Haley has realized she cannot eat gluten or her
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: whole body goes into.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm... What happened to you that night
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: when you ate bread?
• 14:52
  Speaker 6: So it's a preference.
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 14:55
  Speaker 5: So I wouldn't say it's a preference because I had
• 14:57
  Speaker 5: Hashimoto's and by going gluten free, I reversed it. So
• 15:00
  Speaker 5: I do feel like my body inflammation wise internally like
• 15:04
  Speaker 5: freaks out, but I don't get any symptoms.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: So if you just went heavy gluten on a regular basis,
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: you feel like your Hashimoto's might come back.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 15:12
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I see.
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: Right, right, right.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: So I try to like live in the, live in the.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: I think we're all probably a little allergic to gluten.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: I can't imagine it's great for our inflammation.
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: Inflammation.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: Something I could lessen the load on.
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, there's such good gluten-free options, especially in LA.
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: I feel like it makes it easy.
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: Anyways, I think you'd love a griddle pancake from Cracker Barrel.
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: Do they have those in LA?
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: No, it was in Riverside. Yeah.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: And then the girl was like, do you want to
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: become a member? And I was like, oh, I wish.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: What I would give. But no, I can't.
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: Because you're too far.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: But anyways, so yeah, we had that and then drove
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: home and then we basically caught up on Survivor.
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: Oh, the two episodes?
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: When I say we, I casually watched.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: You're not into it?
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: Haley's very into it.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: The season's good.
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah. She's very into it.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And then we watched Amazing Race. It was a
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: lot of catching up on reality competitive television. Nice.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: Did you watch the pilot episode of Grey's Anatomy?
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: I did.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Oh! Yeah.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: We'll get into that way later then.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: Let's put that in our back pocket because I had
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: a really shocking response to it.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah. A feeling I've never felt watching the show before.
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: We're back.
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: We're back.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: So Verity has had a lot of discussion.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: I've heard it's bad.
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: Everyone's saying it's bad.
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: Rotten Tomatoes is saying bad, too.
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, 34%. But I don't always agree with Rotten Tomatoes, personally.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: I do.
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: I live and die by the tomatoes.
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: No, you remember how.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: There was that Kim Kardashian show, and you were like,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: it got a zero, and you were like, no.
• 17:06
  Speaker 6: That's true.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: They don't know what they're talking about.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, they don't like women-led things. Screw them.
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: So I went and saw Verity. And I haven't read
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: the book in a long time. Like it's been years
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: and years.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: So I watched it from just the lens, almost like
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: I know the story and know how to follow it.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: And listen, there are certain adaptations where you just know
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: it's going to be slightly corny. Like you go in
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: kind of knowing there's going to be an element of cheese,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: you know, like, are they really going to be able
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: to make this book?
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: He's one of those people.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: What?
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: The book people. it was so much better. The book
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: was so much better than the movie.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that's almost always the case.
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: You little bookworms and go slither away into your book
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: world and leave the big screen for us non-readers.
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: And that's like every single time there's a book adaptation,
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: the book people are like, the book was so much better.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: I was more so meaning that it was, it's, Because
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: of what the story is about and how it's written,
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: I think making it into a movie was just like
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: really challenging. I don't know how they could, because a
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: lot of it's in her head. So I guess it's
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: hard to see the thought of.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: Something in your head. I don't know.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: Like a dream.
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: But thanks for your opinion on... Book readers? Just readers.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: Me and Alex are all on the other side of
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: the internet.
• 18:34
  Speaker 6: You do read.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: You just have to read self-help stuff.
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I mean, I wouldn't say I'm
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: a reader. It takes a minute. It takes a minute.
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: The self-help ones. Anyway, so.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Not a shame to admit it.
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: I thought Verity, I was like, it was an easy watch.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I knew, I think my expectations were probably low enough
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: that I was like, it was whatever, fun.
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: It is getting slammed.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: Slammed.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: Everyone's a hater because everyone has asked me about it.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: And granted, in my theater, there were several times where
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: we all were giggling out loud and I don't think.
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: It was supposed to be funny. You know?
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Dang, that's not good.
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: I think if.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Maybe Jennifer Lawrence had played the Dakota Johnson role.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, really?
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: You think Dakota Johnson made it cheesy? You don't like her, huh?
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: I love her.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: As an actress, you don't like her.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't connect with her as an actress.
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: But when I watch interviews of her, I love her.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: But she's so deadpan and sarcastic that I don't see
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: the transition to the acting roles.
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: I saw this interview that her and Anne Hathaway did.
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: And like, I can't remember where it was, but they
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: were showing her this new trend.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: Where like, just thinking about it makes me laugh.
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: You take a saran wrap, like a piece of saran
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: wrap and you put it over your face and then
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: you put your makeup on like you would put it
• 19:53
  Speaker 5: on like all your wet you know like your foundation
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: your concealer you leave it down on the table and
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: then the morning you just flip it over and you
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: put that on your face and it like is supposed
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: to like That's crazy.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: It's a trend right now.
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: We should do that.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: It's a trend. And, like, they showed Dakota Johnson and Halloween.
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: Dakota Johnson is, like, her reaction to it is just, like,
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: we gotta, like, we gotta, this is, this can't be serious.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: Like, she was just, like, at one point, we gotta
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: land our trees and just, like.
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: By the way, when I'm watching them, I'm like, brilliant.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Like that is like, so did they do it?
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: She did it right then and there.
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: Like she did on the surround rep and then she
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: flipped it over, put it on her face and then
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: she just like blended it with a beauty blender and
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: it looked great.
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, if I tried to do that, it
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: would look.
• 20:43
  Speaker 6: I think that's your next video.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: I'm begging for this.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: But it looked great on her.
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: And they're like, this is supposed to save you time
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: in the morning. I'm like, How much time do we
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: need to save in the morning?
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Yikes.
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: I don't know where I got on, but just watching
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: that video was so funny.
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: Because she's really funny.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And that's what I'm saying. I really like her
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: as just an individual. And I think she's so pretty
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: and I love her hair and stuff. But anyways, I
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: feel like the reviews have been tough. And I was
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: personally hoping that maybe one day a movie would come
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: to us and see if we'd want to be a
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: podcast where the actors are cool.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: You know where it could have happened is Grey's Anatomy.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: But they turned a blind eye to scrubbing in.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: A blind eye.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: Well, we've kind of turned a blind eye to them
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: as well.
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: We've given them plenty of years of full 2020 vision.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: There was a time where they really could have had.
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: Us on there and it had been an absolute thrill.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: It doesn't really work when you think about it. Cause
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: you would, you would have, cause you've had the actors
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: on here. It'd be weird to have the characters on here.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Like where, remember they had a, they had a soul
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: whole storyline where these two podcasters were on in the hospital.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Oh, that could work. I'm talking about when Owen and, um,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Kim Raver were on a podcast. No, Kim Raver was
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: on a podcast talking about this amazing medical breakthrough and
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: I was thinking of that. That wouldn't work.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: I must have missed that episode.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: Me too.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: Definitely did not hit my zeitgeist.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: That must have been the most recent season. That sure was.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Missed that one. Oh, yeah.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: What if we had Meredith Grey on talking about the
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: new breakthrough on the scrubbing?
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: No, that is weird.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: But you know what I saw that I wanted to
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: bring up because it just like makes my heart melt?
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: What?
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: Dean Unglert photographed a scrubber's wedding for free and she
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: wrote about it in our Facebook group and she basically
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: like put it in there after the fact, cause she
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: don't want to like jinx anything, but basically she just
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: said how much she loves his photography and like, would
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: he photograph her wedding? And he did, it was somewhere
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: that he could like drive. Um, he did it for
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: free because he wanted to like pay it forward because
• 22:57
  Speaker 5: I think some, like somebody did that for him for
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: his wedding or something, like something along those lines. But
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: I was just like, that is so Dean to like go.
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: And like, that's a lot of pressure to photograph somebody's wedding.
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: Like I would be scared.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: I'm sure the photos are beautiful.
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and it was funny when she wrote about it
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: in the Facebook group. She was like, please don't inundate
• 23:17
  Speaker 5: him with people asking Dean to photograph their wedding.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: I mean, it could be a lucrative business for him.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: He's an amazing photographer.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: I know, he's amazing.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: He's like, locals only. Only if I can drive.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: I just thought it was really heartwarming and sweet.
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: I know, he's the best.
• 23:34
  Speaker 5: He really is the best. And then I want to
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: talk about Dancing with the Stars because... Last week, Britt
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: went home.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: Shocking.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: I wasn't shocked.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Shocking in the sense that they seem so shocked. And
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I keep getting messages when I've predicted who I think
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: is going to be in the top three. They're like,
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: don't underestimate the Hanson fans. They're such a strong, powerful group.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I felt like he was going
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: to go far based on just his fan base and
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: how likable he is.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: I'm having a hard time connecting with several of them.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: Who are you having the hardest time connecting to?
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: Jenna Dewan.
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: I know why, though. But why?
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: It's because the whole concept of the show is to
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: watch someone come in and be really vulnerable and nervous to.
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: Try this new thing that they're not going to be
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: good at.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: And there's this lack of being able to connect to
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: her because she's not really having to.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: She's amazing. Like her dances, she looks like a pro
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: out there.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: But I think because of that, there's this lack of
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: wanting to root for her because she's already, she's already
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: where she should be.
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: But like all of them, like really like most of
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: the men, I'm not like, I really am only connected
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: to like Guillermo and Ezra, like, and Maura, those three.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: That's a strong three. Yeah. That's my top.
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: Three because I can't get there with really, and then
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: like Tatiana, I could say Tatiana would be like my fourth.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. That's a good group, and I also love Amber.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. I like her, too, but I also don't
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: feel connected to her.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: I think I'm connected to her because I felt so
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: sad at how her Olympic run went because they thought
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: she was going to maybe take gold, and she just
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: had a rough go and messed up.
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: I'm not aware.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: So I think I'm rooting for her to have her
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: redemption on the dance floor.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: They should make that clear. Did they?
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: It may have been in her package. Maybe during like
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: dedicate or like the more.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Emotional night she'll talk about it. Okay.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I've seen a lot of that about Jenna
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: Dewan and Harry Shum.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: It's almost like they're too good.
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: But even with like Sierra Miller, like I was like
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: really excited because like everybody loves her to like get
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: to know her more.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, it's giving nothing.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Well, I also think there's so many people and I
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: feel like they're having to rush through the show a lot.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: So maybe as people, it.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Dwindles down, we'll have more time getting to know people
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: during the packages and stuff, because I do feel like
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: it's very rushed.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: And even Tyler Cameron. I'm getting nothing from him.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Like.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: Jackson Olsen, nothing.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Maybe it's because it's all going really fast. There's not
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: enough time to really sit down and get to know them.
• 26:22
  Speaker 5: But I'm seeing a lot of hate online for Guillermo.
• 26:25
  Speaker 5: It's so unwarranted.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: Do you know what really pisses me off?
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: And like, this is my first season watching, so take
• 26:32
  Speaker 5: it with a grain of salt.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: But like, it's not called the best dancing star. It's
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: not called the best dancing star. It's called dancing with
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: the stars.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: It's not the best dancer shall win competition.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: It's not called B, D, S, W.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: No, it's called D, W, T, S.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: Does not mean the best dancer will win. Does the
• 26:58
  Speaker 5: best host win the Emmy all the time?
• 27:03
  Speaker 6: Well, that's the idea, I think.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: Does the best actress win the Academy Award every time?
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: Well, it's pretty subjective, right?
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: Exactly, Beccatilly. Exactly.
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: And it's based on votes.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: Exactly, Beccatilly.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: But if the majority votes for someone who they consider
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: to be the best dancer objectively.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: You hit the nail on the head.
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I get.
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: I get what you're saying. And do I do I
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: think Guillermo is going to like take it all home?
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: No.
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: But do I think he deserves to be there with
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: what he's done so far? Absolutely.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Because people are comparing him to Andy from last season
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: because Andy, like everyone loved him and wanted they were
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: rooting for him.
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: But he wasn't improving, but they wanted they loved him.
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: So he got.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Through multiple weeks and people were mad about it. So
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: I think they're trying to compare the two, but it's
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: not the same because Guillermo is improving.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: Much so. Much so.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: And I just love watching Whitney's face every time it's
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: not their name being called for who's going home. I
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: literally think that she thought she was going to be
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: on a plane with her husband and kids going home. And....
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: She was like, there's no way.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Like, in my mind, I think she's like, there's no
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: way I'm going to make it past week two.
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: But he is.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: Like, he's doing such a good job. I think he's
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: going to go far.
• 28:27
  Speaker 5: I think that I relate to him because I'm like,
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: I feel like I, too, would have a similar arc
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: to his where I just, like, don't. I'm not good,
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: but I think I could improve, but I don't think
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: I'm ever going to be like Jawan, Jawan.
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: Jenna, Jawan, Jenna, Jawan, Jenna.
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: I don't think I'll ever be Jenna, Jawan status or
• 28:48
  Speaker 5: even Amber. Like, I don't even think I could get
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: to that level with, Hours and hundreds of hours of training. Like,
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: I just don't think my body moves that way.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 28:56
  Speaker 5: So I feel like I connect to Guillermo because I
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: feel like that is how I would be on Dancing
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: with the Stars.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: But you know what?
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Now that I'm saying that, it is interesting because Charli
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: D'Amelio was on and won.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: And she's a dancer. But she made it all the way.
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Did people like her?
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: But I'm saying this whole.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: I guess my whole argument has been I think it's
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: because there's this lack of... vulnerability or like wanting to
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: or improvement with Jenna and Harry's.
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: But I also feel like that was probably the case
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: with Charlie as well.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: She was probably already really good.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: It's hard for me because I literally have never watched
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: a single season up until now.
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: Well, everything's fresh. Everything's new.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: So new.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: So new.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: I feel like a kid in a candy store.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: But I would love to have Jenna on, Jenna Dewan,
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: because I would like to talk about that. Just like
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: what it's like, because to be so good at something
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: and then to have people... saying, like, I'm not feeling
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: connected to it.
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: I know, but every week, every single week, she says
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: something to the lines of, like, this is really hard,
• 30:05
  Speaker 5: even if you have a dance background.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: This is totally new.
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: I've never done this before. Like, I'm like, she's really
• 30:10
  Speaker 5: trying to hammer it in that it's different.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: I believe it, though. I do, too.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: But I also think when you're just that good and
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: you have that much rhythm, you definitely have the advantage
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: of being better than the others. Yeah. Yeah.
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: So what, what are, it's Mariah Carey night tomorrow night.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: The fact that nobody's dancing to all I want for Christmas.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: What?
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: Always be my baby is what I was shocked by.
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: Oh, all I want for Christmas is like her biggest hit.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: It's basically Christmas time.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: It's really not.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: It could have been a jive.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Huh?
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: Could have been a good jive.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Could have been an amazing cha-cha.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: That's not the same thing.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: Oh, um, Yeah, so I was shocked because there was
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: a lot of, when Britt and Taylor went home, Britt
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: immediately turned to him and was like, I'm so sorry.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: And everyone was like, why did she say that? Why
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: was that the first thing out of her mouth? So
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: it was like, was there something going on behind the scenes?
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Did she know it was coming?
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: I don't know. There was all this talk. Are there
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: conspiracy theories?
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think for a lot of people, it
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: came out of nowhere. People were outraged. I just think
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: she's an amazing choreographer. And everyone, if you watched all
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: the pros, everyone seems to love her. And I think
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: she choreographs all the cast dances. I think she's amazing.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: So I think people are just like, why is she
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: not going further? Like, she should be going so much
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: further than she does every year.
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: I also heard that her, like, dream partner that she's, like,
• 31:37
  Speaker 5: always wanted was Harry Shum.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: So I'm like, why didn't they give him her?
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: I know.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: It feels.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: But I think they thought with Taylor Hanson, he's like
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: younger and they thought like he has a big enough
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: fan base.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: Younger than Harry Shum Jr.? No, no, no.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: I'm saying younger than her other partner she's had before.
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: They feel like they're the same age to me.
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, no.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: Everybody keeps calling him Harry Shum. Is it Harry Shum?
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: Oh, Harry Shum Jr.
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: Is it Shum?
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 32:02
  Speaker 6: How old do you think he is?
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: Harry Shum?
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: Shum or Shum?
• 32:06
  Speaker 6: I think it's Shum, but I don't know.
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: I thought it was Shum too.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: But everybody says Shum.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Well, I feel like they would know. They're with him, right? Like,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: if they're saying it on that show, wouldn't they say, hey, Harry? No,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know what they're saying.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: I actually don't know how they're saying it.
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: We'll pay attention.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll pay attention this week.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: How old do you think he is?
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: I think he's 41.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Becca? I think he's... This is an impromptu how old
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: are they game.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: 44.
• 32:25
  Speaker 6: And you're right, it's 44. Very good, Becca.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: What about Taylor Hansen?
• 32:29
  Speaker 6: Well, I'd be happy to look that up. Thank you.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: I'm guessing Taylor Hansen's 47.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: Oh, I'm guessing he's 42.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: 43.
• 32:36
  Speaker 6: Very nice, Becca. Gift that ages continues.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: Shoot.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Anyways, I would love to have Britt on. I was
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: just telling you her story. Her story is amazing of
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: her relationship with her husband. He was a contestant on
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Dancing with the Stars, and he's deaf. She learned sign
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: language to be able to teach him and communicate with him.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: That's so crazy. That seems hard.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: They did a dance.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: I think it was either a contemporary dance or something
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: freestyle dance. And they did a whole section where it's
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: dead silent. The music stops so that the audience could
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: hear what he's hearing while he's dancing.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: Chills. Anyways.
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just got chills hearing that.
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: They are married and their story is so beautiful.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: And I just, a lot of people are like, I
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: wouldn't be shocked if she like is just over the
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: show and leaves. I don't think, I don't know if
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: she feels that way, but I would love to talk.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: I would love to have her on.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: The ask is out, Becca Tilly.
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: She follows you.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: Does she follow you?
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: No. What?
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she follows you. She's a, Tot. Tanya Tot.
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: Well, if we can't get her, maybe I DM her.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: Really just go grassroots on this podcast here. We have
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: to go grassroots. We're going to start going grassroots in here.
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: What was it?
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: Oh, the thing about the grunting in the workout class
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: and everyone was in the comments was like, the tots
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: are really quiet today.
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: They were absent. They couldn't even defend you on that one.
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: It's fine because.
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: I know in my heart what's right.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 34:14
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: Good to know.
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: Being free to express myself.
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about your spiral with the Clorox
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: wipes because I didn't quite understand the panic, but we're
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: going to take a break and we'll be right back.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: What are you doing?
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: We're back.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you, your whole life, especially within the last decade,
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: has been.
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: Decade? Wow. Yeah, I mean, basically since I've known you.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: Has been to be.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: As health conscious, keep microplastics, keep your endocrine.
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: Disruptors far away.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Minimal, yeah. Not drink out of aluminum.
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: Just like many different things.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: And you expose yourself with a habit that you've been
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: doing for many years.
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: You know what's so crazy is like you think your
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: day to day, like I do, I try to minimize
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: all the toxins, like all the things. And then there
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: was something that I've been doing every single day that's
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: like so insanely toxic.
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: I had no idea. So I posted like, you know,
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: like it's, is it like a trend? You do like
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: my five to nine before my nine to five. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay.
• 35:40
  Speaker 5: So I did that, but it was, the times were
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: obviously different, but just like my routine that I do
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: before I start work. Right. And the last thing I
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: do is I wipe down my microphone and my desk
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: with Clorox wipes every single day.
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: Full on.
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: I wipe down Becca's mic. I wipe down the podcast mic.
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: I wipe it down after you're done. Like I'm constantly
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: Clorox wiping everything. I have never received more DMs when
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: I tell you in my Aside from my, like, when
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: I get my period and stuff, more messages of people
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: being like, Clorox wipes are endocrine disruptors.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: Don't touch them with your bare hands. Wear gloves. I
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: was like, so now.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, no.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they're by your feet. There's, like, a new wipe.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: It's by your feet. There's, like, a big tub of
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: apparently cleaner wipes.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, I see.
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: I knocked it over.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, wow.
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that was what that was. The thumb.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: And so now I have these, like, cleaner wipes.
• 36:38
  Speaker 5: Because I'm like, the last thing I'm doing is putting
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: on gloves before I wipe down my desk.
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: That's a commitment.
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: But it's just like, it was very eye-opening for me
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: because I'm like, there's things that you do and you
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: just don't even realize it.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: Sometimes you just gotta live life, though, right? Let go,
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: let God?
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: Maybe just take off the pressure of.
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: Doing everything right. No, because now that it was in
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: my head, there's no way I can touch a Clorox
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: wipe again.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: But, like, normally when I.
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: Wipe something down with a Clorox wipe, I wash my
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: hand after.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: Not good enough. And I don't. I just wipe it
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: down and I just sit my ass down for hours.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: Seeping into my pores.
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: My endocrines are very disrupted. I'll tell you that much.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you that much.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: And then they hit you with like the TTC stuff.
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, this is where the spiral begins.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: I think of you every time I see an outrageous.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: AI video I'm like I literally feel like Tanya if
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: she saw this she'd send it to me like how
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: cool is this I saw this one where this girl
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: and this guy are standing in front of this airplane
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: that's taking off and the guy runs and it's sunset
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: and she like launches him up and he does like
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: a back flip and I was like I just know
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: if Tanya saw this she'd be.
• 37:57
  Speaker 5: Like whoa that's so cool I saw a girl running
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: in a spiral staircase that went in like a loop-de-loop.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: And I was like, wow. How does she do that?
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: That's some core strength. Dang.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: Tough.
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: Well, that's all the time we have for today.
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: That's all. But don't you worry your little head because
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: we are going to.
• 38:22
  Speaker 5: Before we go, I did mean to ask you, have
• 38:24
  Speaker 5: you been doing the artist's way?
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: Just a morning pit.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: No.
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: But I've been doing the morning pages. It's so hard.
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: So I, too, did not do my solo date this week.
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: But it doesn't mean that I'm out. It just means
• 38:41
  Speaker 5: I'm down. And I will do two solo dates this week.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: I'm realizing something that I... This practice is going to
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: be really good for me. Because I hate being told
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: what to do.
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: Yes, you do.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: And I hate being told that, like, to do this
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: right and to be committed to it, you... You have
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: to commit and do the morning pages every day. You
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: have to do, you know, I'm really struggling with that
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: part of it.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: This is where your breakthrough is going to happen.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 39:09
  Speaker 5: Because I do think you need something, someone to like
• 39:12
  Speaker 5: hold you accountable and push you through this 12 weeks.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: I know.
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: Come 2027, it's going to be like, watch out.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: Becca Tilly is going to be a new person.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: But I'm with you. I've done the morning pages every day.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: And you're so dedicated and you have a lot of
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: structure and routine.
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: And if it's hard for you, imagine. what my I can't.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: I knew there was no way you're keeping up with it.
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: I am. I just didn't do the same thing you
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: didn't do.
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: I did try.
• 39:40
  Speaker 5: I tried to take myself out to lunch one day
• 39:41
  Speaker 5: and I couldn't find parking. Yeah.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: Okay. Well, I feel better.
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: So the attempt was there. I just did the follow through.
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: It didn't happen. I was like, I'll just do it
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: another day. And then another day didn't come.
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 39:56
  Speaker 5: But I'm going to do two dates this week to
• 39:57
  Speaker 5: make up for it. I'm not letting, normally I would
• 39:59
  Speaker 5: let this like make me quit and.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: Just like, Oh, whatever.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna start over later. No, I'm not quitting.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: You're just going to, why don't you just commit to
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: do it? Like, why don't you just do one this
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: week so that you're okay. Two.
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: What are you going to do?
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: I'm going to take myself to lunch and I'm going
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: to color me mine.
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: I told Haley that we both said Color Me Mine
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: and she was like, y'all, like how y'all view artists
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: is like that.
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: Color Me Mine.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: Color Me Mine. Stop numero uno.
• 40:27
  Speaker 6: Are you going to record yourself at Color Me Mine?
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: Oh, I'm sure she will. I sure can.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I'd love to see people's little double takes. Like, that
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: woman is really just here by herself, huh? Just making
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: a pot. Great.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: I feel like Color Me Mine is a very, I
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: think that's why I feel like it'd be a great
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: solo date. Because it feels like something you definitely, you
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: know what you should do is go to a movie
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: by yourself.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: That's so easy.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: That one's easy.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: I've never seen anyone at Color Me Mine without children.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never seen them without children. And I've never
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: gone without children.
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: I've only been without children.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Wow, shook.
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: I've never been alone, but I've only been without kids.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: With friends.
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, never. Okay.
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: So we'll look forward to hearing about that next week.
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, so we're going to be back
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: on Thursday. We're going to do our Grey's Anatomy recap,
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: and we have a really fun game. Mark, take it away.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I have another family feud. If you
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: want to do another family feud, it will hold until Thursday. Nice.
• 41:18
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: Perfect.
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Evergreen. I'll post it again. So I'll see you tomorrow
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: and Wednesday. And then Thursday when we get on, no,
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: that's what we have to do.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: We're going to talk about Graves, the pilot.
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Family feud.
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: Another round of don't say the same thing. You guys
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: have still not gotten close to 10.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 41:35
  Speaker 6: So we'll try that again.
• 41:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: It's going to be a great Thursday.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: Great.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's only three sleeps away.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Can't wait. Well, really it's, yeah, three sleeps away.
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Well, stay tuned for Thursday's episode and we love you
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: so much.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: Love you.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: Bye.
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: Bye. Love you, Crystal.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: I want to go into this dive that people did
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: about Taylor Swift.