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- 0:02Speaker 1: For obvious reasons. Last Sunday we pulled away from our
- 0:06Speaker 1: study of the life and times of Paul and addressed
- 0:10Speaker 1: where we are as a country. And we returned today
- 0:13Speaker 1: to our continued series on Paul. And I'd like for
- 0:18Speaker 1: you to turn with me to first Thessalonians Chapter two.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I want to read for you the first twelve verses
- 0:28Speaker 1: of this second chapter of Paul's first letter to the
- 0:35Speaker 1: people of Thessalonika. Here we will find some helpful negatives
- 0:42Speaker 1: and positives as related to leading like Paul lad We'll
- 0:49Speaker 1: begin at first Thessalonians two. One for you yourselves, no brethren,
- 0:54Speaker 1: that are coming to you was not in vain, but
- 0:58Speaker 1: after we had already suffered and been mistreated in Philippi.
- 1:03Speaker 1: As you know, we had the boldness in our God
- 1:07Speaker 1: to speak to you the Gospel of God amid much opposition.
- 1:13Speaker 1: For our exhortation does not come from error or impurity,
- 1:17Speaker 1: or by way of deceit, but just as we have
- 1:21Speaker 1: been approved by God to be entrusted with the Gospel,
- 1:25Speaker 1: so we speak not as pleasing men, but God, who
- 1:31Speaker 1: examines our hearts. For we never came with flattering speech,
- 1:36Speaker 1: as you know, nor with a pretext for greed, God
- 1:41Speaker 1: is witness. Nor did we seek glory from men, either
- 1:46Speaker 1: from you or from others, even though as apostles of
- 1:50Speaker 1: Christ we might have asserted our authority, but we proved
- 1:55Speaker 1: to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly
- 1:59Speaker 1: care for her own children. Having so fond an affection
- 2:04Speaker 1: for you, we were well pleased to impart to you
- 2:08Speaker 1: not only the Gospel of God, but also our own lives,
- 2:13Speaker 1: because you had become very dear to us. For you recall, brethren,
- 2:18Speaker 1: our labor and hardship, how working night and day, so
- 2:23Speaker 1: as not to be a burden to any of you,
- 2:26Speaker 1: we proclaim to you the Gospel of God. You are witnesses,
- 2:30Speaker 1: and so is God. How devoutly and uprightly and blamelessly
- 2:36Speaker 1: we behaved toward you, believers, just as you know how
- 2:40Speaker 1: we were exhorting and encouraging and imploring each one of you,
- 2:46Speaker 1: as a father would his own children, so that you
- 2:49Speaker 1: would walk in a manner worthy of the God who
- 2:54Speaker 1: calls you into his own kingdom and glory. Isn't that
- 3:01Speaker 1: a magnificent section of scripture, so candid, so pertinent to
- 3:06Speaker 1: the subject of leadership in a few moments we are
- 3:12Speaker 1: going to pray together, and following that we are going
- 3:16Speaker 1: to give to the work of God. One of my
- 3:20Speaker 1: mentors used to say that, if you want a surprise,
- 3:24Speaker 1: check the cornerstones of many of the great cathedrals and
- 3:29Speaker 1: churches in our nation. You will find they bear the
- 3:32Speaker 1: date nineteen twenty nine or nineteen thirty, or thirty one
- 3:38Speaker 1: or thirty two, in an era of time known to
- 3:43Speaker 1: my father and mother as the days of the Great Depression,
- 3:49Speaker 1: times of crisis, rather than pushing us from God, draw
- 3:54Speaker 1: us to Him. And I have found that also times
- 3:59Speaker 1: of God's great need result in times of great generosity.
- 4:05Speaker 1: Isn't it interesting how that works? Knowing this to be true,
- 4:10Speaker 1: and knowing that these last months of this year could
- 4:14Speaker 1: truly be days of great trial and need, we're believing
- 4:18Speaker 1: in our church that these will also be days of
- 4:20Speaker 1: great generosity. God will wonderfully meet our needs as he
- 4:27Speaker 1: has since our inception, and as he will do when
- 4:30Speaker 1: you and I are distant and forgotten memories. Join with
- 4:35Speaker 1: me in prayer for a few moments. Will you? You
- 4:39Speaker 1: came with your own needs and burdens and faces in
- 4:43Speaker 1: your mind that concern you. This is your time to
- 4:48Speaker 1: remember those things while the world around you is preoccupied
- 4:55Speaker 1: with the war and oh so many things about it.
- 5:00Speaker 1: You may be facing an illness that has really grabbed
- 5:07Speaker 1: your attention. You may be seriously ill or someone you love.
- 5:11Speaker 1: Maybe you may be a quiet sufferer going through a
- 5:16Speaker 1: time of a desperate situation that very few, if any,
- 5:21Speaker 1: may know about. You may have some great concern on
- 5:29Speaker 1: your heart that only your closest friends know about. Admittedly,
- 5:36Speaker 1: you may have a son or daughter on their way
- 5:40Speaker 1: to the war. You may know someone who grieves over
- 5:45Speaker 1: the loss of someone recently taken snuffed out because of
- 5:50Speaker 1: the tragedy. That's your prayer today. For a few moments,
- 5:59Speaker 1: may I lead you. We may tremble on the rock,
- 6:06Speaker 1: but the rock never trembles under us. And how grateful
- 6:12Speaker 1: we are that it's solid. That our hope is built
- 6:17Speaker 1: on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness, And we
- 6:27Speaker 1: don't trust the sweetest frame. We wholly lean on Jesus' name,
- 6:35Speaker 1: his oath, his covenant, his blood supports us in the
- 6:44Speaker 1: whelming flood when all around our soul gives way. You're
- 6:51Speaker 1: still our hope, and stay like father and solid stone
- 7:04Speaker 1: savior living and abiding within your people. Today we call
- 7:11Speaker 1: upon you as our only refuge, a very present help
- 7:18Speaker 1: in this time of need. You've heard the prayers of
- 7:21Speaker 1: your people, and the needs are as many as each
- 7:28Speaker 1: one filling this room of worship. Some are in grief,
- 7:34Speaker 1: some are in fear, some are confused, some seriously seriously
- 7:42Speaker 1: concerned about a loved one, And we often feel so helpless, Father,
- 7:48Speaker 1: like today, the enemy of our nation has no name,
- 7:55Speaker 1: only a characteristic terrorist, has no flag, no boundaries, no
- 8:02Speaker 1: single country. We're told that the enemy is among us
- 8:09Speaker 1: within these United States, and is multiplied around us in
- 8:14Speaker 1: some fifty to sixty other countries. This overwhelms us in
- 8:21Speaker 1: our own flesh, but with you it is as nothing.
- 8:26Speaker 1: You're the solid rock on whom we stand Now. Father,
- 8:33Speaker 1: I pray that as you use the teaching of your
- 8:37Speaker 1: word today to meet certain needs, that you will also
- 8:42Speaker 1: minister deeply and communicate personally to those who aren't necessarily
- 8:47Speaker 1: addressed in this sermon. You might choose to use this song,
- 8:53Speaker 1: You might use this moment of giving as a special
- 8:56Speaker 1: ministry to many. We began in kneeling and leaning on you,
- 9:04Speaker 1: our father, and we continue in that same way. We
- 9:07Speaker 1: trust you to meet our every need as a church
- 9:12Speaker 1: for the children, for the youth, for the adults right
- 9:15Speaker 1: now engaged in ministry and learning and growing. Together, we
- 9:21Speaker 1: pray that you would enrich those who teach, and those
- 9:24Speaker 1: who have taught, and those who are learning and growing.
- 9:33Speaker 1: And now we commit to you this offering. We asked
- 9:36Speaker 1: that you would watch over it with careful surveillance, that
- 9:40Speaker 1: every bit of it would be used with integrity and
- 9:45Speaker 1: spent with care. We take none of it for granted.
- 9:51Speaker 1: Meet needs through these gifts that are given. Father. I
- 9:57Speaker 1: ask this in the fair name of our fairest Lord Jesus,
- 10:03Speaker 1: and for his sake alone. And everyone said amen. We
- 10:10Speaker 1: call it Black Tuesday around our house eleventh of September
- 10:14Speaker 1: two thousand and one. There will never be another morning
- 10:18Speaker 1: like that. By God's grace, it rocked us back on
- 10:23Speaker 1: our heels. We weren't ready for it, We never expected it.
- 10:29Speaker 1: But what we did expect shortly after it was in
- 10:32Speaker 1: one word, leadership. If there was ever a time that
- 10:39Speaker 1: our national leaders needed to step up and provide what
- 10:43Speaker 1: we would call a command performance, it was then. It
- 10:48Speaker 1: was then we need clear and absolutely certain words brought
- 10:57Speaker 1: about by a sense of responsibility and vision. It was
- 11:01Speaker 1: no time to sit and stare paralyzed in confusion and fear.
- 11:08Speaker 1: The savage acts of aggration called for words and actions
- 11:13Speaker 1: that would bring confidence and reassurance and strength to go
- 11:18Speaker 1: on and certainly hope. Remaining silent and neutral at a
- 11:23Speaker 1: time of crisis, those were not options. Nor was it
- 11:29Speaker 1: time for political rhetoric or screams of rage, or for
- 11:35Speaker 1: that matter, feelings of panic. And it all hung on leadership.
- 11:44Speaker 1: Certainly our president needed to rise to the occasion. I
- 11:49Speaker 1: am pleased to say, in my opinion, he has done that.
- 11:55Speaker 1: Matter of fact, that speech he delivered on that Thursday night,
- 12:00Speaker 1: it's one of the finest speeches I have ever heard
- 12:03Speaker 1: in my life. Sent and I were cheering and applauding
- 12:08Speaker 1: and giving thumbs up. You know you're getting old when
- 12:11Speaker 1: you talk to the television. And we were walking around
- 12:16Speaker 1: the room and we were shouting and we were affirming,
- 12:19Speaker 1: and I thought, whoever helped him write that speech needs
- 12:21Speaker 1: a serious raise. To the surprise of some within the Beltway,
- 12:29Speaker 1: he stepped up and showed himself to be the leader
- 12:33Speaker 1: that many of us already knew he was. I appreciated
- 12:36Speaker 1: the words that appeared in a special edition of Newsweek
- 12:40Speaker 1: magazine that told me a lot more about the man
- 12:42Speaker 1: than I had known before. It was the result of
- 12:46Speaker 1: a meeting that was held in his office where several
- 12:50Speaker 1: had gathered, each one with his or her own agenda,
- 12:54Speaker 1: and they came expecting to be disappointed. Were they surprised?
- 12:59Speaker 1: The article reads, they all got more than they bargained for.
- 13:03Speaker 1: The meeting didn't last minutes but half an hour. The
- 13:07Speaker 1: President was relaxed and in control. As for their aid request,
- 13:13Speaker 1: I'm with you, the President responded eagerly, and it was
- 13:18Speaker 1: approved by Congress the next day. The Virginians got their
- 13:21Speaker 1: promises of aid too, and the warlike words that all
- 13:26Speaker 1: of them yearine for they heard. For example, listen, when
- 13:31Speaker 1: I take action, I'm I'm not going to fire a
- 13:35Speaker 1: two million dollar missile into a ten dollars empty tent
- 13:38Speaker 1: and hit a camel in the butt. That's a great line.
- 13:52Speaker 1: That is my kind of leader. He added, It's going
- 13:56Speaker 1: to be decisive. The Newsweek reporter added the sentence following,
- 14:01Speaker 1: Winston Churchill might not have used those words, but he
- 14:06Speaker 1: would have loved the sentiment and admired the maturation of
- 14:11Speaker 1: the man who uttered them. Most people of my generation
- 14:15Speaker 1: would have to name Winston Churchill as one of the
- 14:18Speaker 1: leaders of the past and other war heroes. Who doesn't
- 14:24Speaker 1: remember the qualities that Churchill not only wrote about, but
- 14:27Speaker 1: emulated in the life of a leader. Optimism, kindness, magnanimity, gratitude,
- 14:37Speaker 1: independent justice, judgment and self criticism, loyalty to the team, rest,
- 14:44Speaker 1: relaxation and a change of pace, calmness under stress, the
- 14:50Speaker 1: ability to face and communicate bad news squarely, to name
- 14:55Speaker 1: only a few. But I'll tell you, having studied the
- 15:02Speaker 1: life of the man we're looking at in the scriptures,
- 15:06Speaker 1: I have to confess to you I am more impressed
- 15:09Speaker 1: with Paul than I am of any leader I've ever studied.
- 15:14Speaker 1: As great as the other men and women we could
- 15:16Speaker 1: name from other generations and this generation, none, none could
- 15:22Speaker 1: stand alongside Paul in my opinion. Woven through the texture
- 15:28Speaker 1: of his life like gold and silver threads in a
- 15:32Speaker 1: priceless garment, are qualities of leadership that deserve our special
- 15:39Speaker 1: time and attention. My problem today is not what should
- 15:44Speaker 1: I emphasize, but what can I leave out? Because the
- 15:50Speaker 1: material is enormous, So to keep from overloading you with
- 15:56Speaker 1: a truckload of things that you'll never remember. I'm going
- 16:00Speaker 1: to deliberately limit my remarks to Paul's own words from
- 16:05Speaker 1: a little letter he wrote early on in his missionary
- 16:08Speaker 1: travels from the city of Corinth. He wrote to the Thessalonians,
- 16:15Speaker 1: and he was remembering back to the days when he
- 16:18Speaker 1: was with them, and from the memory of days gone by,
- 16:23Speaker 1: he draws to our attention, and I think, not necessarily
- 16:28Speaker 1: meaning to do so, some of the qualities of leadership,
- 16:32Speaker 1: four of them negative, four of them positive. But before
- 16:36Speaker 1: we get into those eight qualities, let me say something
- 16:39Speaker 1: by way of a general observation, and let me draw
- 16:42Speaker 1: a couple of impressions from the observation. The observation I
- 16:48Speaker 1: make is that they knew Paul. He was no distant celebrity.
- 16:57Speaker 1: He was no pit house dwelling prima donna who lived
- 17:02Speaker 1: away from them and above them. He walked with them
- 17:07Speaker 1: and worked alongside them. The reason I say that is
- 17:12Speaker 1: because of the seven references in a very few verses
- 17:16Speaker 1: to his comment you know you know you are witnesses.
- 17:22Speaker 1: Let me show you chapter one, verse five, For our
- 17:26Speaker 1: gospel did not come to you in word only, but
- 17:28Speaker 1: also in power and in the Holy Spirit and with
- 17:32Speaker 1: a full conviction, just as you know, I've got that
- 17:36Speaker 1: underlined in my Bible, just as you know what kind
- 17:40Speaker 1: of men we prove to be among you. Look at
- 17:42Speaker 1: Chapter two, verse one. For you yourselves know brethren. Second time,
- 17:48Speaker 1: he mentions, the second verse continues, after we had already
- 17:53Speaker 1: suffered and been mistreated in Philippi, as you know, so
- 17:56Speaker 1: they knew of his suffering and mistreatment. Third time, verse five.
- 18:01Speaker 1: We never came with flattering speech, as you know. Fourth time,
- 18:07Speaker 1: verse nine. For you recall fifth time, verse ten, you
- 18:13Speaker 1: are witnesses. Sixth time, verse eleven, just as you know.
- 18:19Speaker 1: Seven times, he says, when you look back to my
- 18:23Speaker 1: years of or my weeks of ministry with you, you remember,
- 18:27Speaker 1: you know you were witnesses. You were there, you saw
- 18:29Speaker 1: it in action. So I draw a couple of things
- 18:34Speaker 1: from that. First, these are not theoretical ideals. Paul isn't
- 18:41Speaker 1: writing a text book that offers theories. He's writing of
- 18:48Speaker 1: what they remember that they saw modeled in his life.
- 18:53Speaker 1: So understand what I share these several thoughts with you.
- 18:58Speaker 1: I'm not giving you theoretical ideals. These are attainable, and
- 19:03Speaker 1: these are worth the time to cultivate. Second thing I
- 19:08Speaker 1: want to say by way of impression, he was neither
- 19:11Speaker 1: aloof nor secretive. He was among them. They knew where
- 19:17Speaker 1: he lived, He talked to them. He doesn't speak one
- 19:25Speaker 1: day and then absent himself from the whole world around him,
- 19:28Speaker 1: and then come back a week later and bring another talk.
- 19:32Speaker 1: He lived among them, he worked among them, He sweated
- 19:36Speaker 1: alongside them, and as a result, he wasn't afraid to
- 19:41Speaker 1: be candid when he wrote them. We would say today
- 19:45Speaker 1: his life was an open book. And isn't it refreshing
- 19:49Speaker 1: to find people you admire today whom you are comfortable
- 19:54Speaker 1: being around. Isn't it enjoyable to know that individual that
- 20:00Speaker 1: you would confess represent the kind of leadership that you
- 20:07Speaker 1: would wish to emulate. Are people who are accessible, They're believable.
- 20:15Speaker 1: John Stott writes Paul's ministry in Thessalonaika had been public.
- 20:20Speaker 1: It was exercised in the open before God and human beings,
- 20:25Speaker 1: for he had nothing whatever to hide. A person lives
- 20:32Speaker 1: a life out in the open when that person has
- 20:34Speaker 1: nothing to hide. But if they're always on the move,
- 20:39Speaker 1: if they are forever hiding behind locked doors and drawn blinds,
- 20:43Speaker 1: you have reason to suspect there's something more going on,
- 20:48Speaker 1: and I would caution you about following leaders like that now.
- 20:55Speaker 1: Then Paul gets extremely personal in the twelve verses of
- 20:59Speaker 1: chapter two. The first twelve verses he's thinking back, and
- 21:05Speaker 1: when he thinks back, his initial response verse one, you
- 21:10Speaker 1: yourselves know that our coming to you was not in Vain.
- 21:15Speaker 1: Isn't that encouraging? You may not know a number of them,
- 21:20Speaker 1: but I know many pastors who look back on former
- 21:23Speaker 1: churches and say, as they shake their head, that was
- 21:26Speaker 1: a ministry in Vain. That was a disappointment that has
- 21:31Speaker 1: a hollow ring to it. Paul is saying just the opposite,
- 21:37Speaker 1: whether in public or private, whether busy or still. When
- 21:40Speaker 1: I look back and I remember that short period of
- 21:43Speaker 1: time that you and I shared lives together, I know
- 21:47Speaker 1: this it was not in Vain. It was not in Vain.
- 21:50Speaker 1: It's a wonderful thing to be able to say that
- 21:53Speaker 1: looking back. However, he did come from a time of
- 21:57Speaker 1: great suffering. You may have forget gotten that before he
- 22:02Speaker 1: got to Thessalonika, he had been at Philippi. You remember
- 22:07Speaker 1: what happened there. They beat him, Both Paul and Silas
- 22:14Speaker 1: were beaten. You know what that means. One authority says
- 22:19Speaker 1: it had not only been an extremely painful experience, but humiliating,
- 22:24Speaker 1: since they were flogged naked in public, without trial and
- 22:29Speaker 1: in spite of their Roman citizenship. I've never seen such
- 22:34Speaker 1: a beating, and thankfully I've never had to endure one
- 22:38Speaker 1: like that Paul had, which makes us admire him all
- 22:42Speaker 1: the more. After we had already suffered and been mistreated
- 22:46Speaker 1: in Philippi, as you know, we had the boldness in
- 22:50Speaker 1: our God to speak to you the Gospel of God
- 22:54Speaker 1: amid much opposition. You got to take your hats off
- 22:58Speaker 1: to people like that. I think when he got to Tessalonaika,
- 23:02Speaker 1: he still had the scabs over the wounds on his
- 23:06Speaker 1: back and buttocks and legs where they had thrashed him,
- 23:15Speaker 1: dropped him in a prison carelessly, unconcerned about who they
- 23:22Speaker 1: were dealing with. And you think he quit? Why as
- 23:26Speaker 1: soon as the Lord freed him, he was on his
- 23:29Speaker 1: way to Thessalonaika, and wouldn't you know it, he met
- 23:32Speaker 1: opposition even there. So this is a leader who led
- 23:36Speaker 1: in the midst of a very unpopular public. There was
- 23:41Speaker 1: a handful of folks who really did believe him. But
- 23:44Speaker 1: he had been beaten in Philippi, and he came to Thessalaonaika,
- 23:50Speaker 1: and he brought with him the Gospel of God amid
- 23:53Speaker 1: much opposition. Keep that in mind as we look at
- 23:57Speaker 1: these qualities. I find four negatives in verses three through six,
- 24:03Speaker 1: and then I find four positives in verses seven through twelve.
- 24:09Speaker 1: Verse the negatives. The reason I say they are negative
- 24:11Speaker 1: is because of the repeated use of the word not
- 24:15Speaker 1: or nor or never verse three. Our exhortation does not
- 24:24Speaker 1: verse four, not as pleasing men verse five, nor with
- 24:30Speaker 1: a pretext for greed verse six, nor did we seek glory.
- 24:36Speaker 1: Those are little signs along the way as you read
- 24:40Speaker 1: your Bible that should cause you to perk up your
- 24:42Speaker 1: ears and take notice. This is a series of negatives.
- 24:47Speaker 1: In other words, they are things that good leaders are
- 24:51Speaker 1: not or do not do. The first of the four
- 24:56Speaker 1: good leaders are not deceptive verse three. Our exhortation does
- 25:04Speaker 1: not come from error or impurity, or by way of deceit.
- 25:13Speaker 1: Look at those three words error. The original Greek term
- 25:19Speaker 1: means wandering, and interestingly it's used for planetary motion. As
- 25:24Speaker 1: they seem to wander through the sky, we know they
- 25:27Speaker 1: don't but it seems as though they are on a
- 25:30Speaker 1: wandering path, and it came to be used with reference
- 25:34Speaker 1: to people or relationships as delusional. Our leadership does not
- 25:40Speaker 1: come from delusion. See the word impurity. It is frequently
- 25:46Speaker 1: used for sexual impurity. We didn't have several women on
- 25:52Speaker 1: the side. To put it straight, we weren't living a
- 25:56Speaker 1: so called godly life in front of you, but a
- 25:59Speaker 1: shameful life in behind closed doors. It wasn't impure, And
- 26:05Speaker 1: the word deceit or by way of deceit simply means
- 26:10Speaker 1: nothing devious in method or motive. Paul didn't conceal the
- 26:17Speaker 1: cost of discipleship. He told them it was a rugged journey.
- 26:22Speaker 1: Neither did he hold out a promise of fraudulent blessings
- 26:25Speaker 1: and benefits, such as name it and claim it. Or
- 26:31Speaker 1: if you really want something great from God, you really
- 26:34Speaker 1: have to give a lot more to God. And when
- 26:38Speaker 1: you give a lot more to God, he is obligated
- 26:41Speaker 1: to give you even more in return. Nonsense. Some people
- 26:47Speaker 1: give their lives in places of obscurity and never know
- 26:53Speaker 1: such a bargain. Paul never did that to his people.
- 26:58Speaker 1: He never manipulated them. It wasn't from error delusion or impurity,
- 27:08Speaker 1: hidden immorality or deception. That is nothing devious. He had
- 27:19Speaker 1: no guilty conscience. There were no tricks, there were no
- 27:24Speaker 1: hidden motives. General Dwight Eisenhower wrote, to have followers, one
- 27:33Speaker 1: must have their confidence. Hence, the supreme quality for a
- 27:37Speaker 1: leader is unquestionable integrity. If one's associates find him or
- 27:43Speaker 1: her guilty of phoniness, if they find that he lacks
- 27:47Speaker 1: forthright integrity, he will fail. His teachings and actions must
- 27:53Speaker 1: square with each other. That's what Paul is saying. A
- 27:59Speaker 1: good leader is not deceptive. Second, good leaders are not
- 28:06Speaker 1: people pleasers. That's in verse four. But just as we
- 28:13Speaker 1: have been approved by God to be entrusted with the Gospel,
- 28:17Speaker 1: so we speak here's the negative. Not as pleasing men,
- 28:29Speaker 1: not as pleasing men, but God. A sure sign of
- 28:36Speaker 1: personal insecurity is wanting to be liked by everyone, peace
- 28:42Speaker 1: at any price, remaining neutral lest someone be offended or
- 28:50Speaker 1: someone in the group feel alienated, telling people what they
- 28:54Speaker 1: want to hear rather than what they need to hear.
- 28:58Speaker 1: Paul said, as you look back over these weeks I
- 29:00Speaker 1: was with you, you can't name a time that what
- 29:03Speaker 1: I did was prompted by wanting to be liked, I
- 29:07Speaker 1: wanted to be right. I'll tell you an experience of
- 29:14Speaker 1: my own life that I refer back to on a
- 29:17Speaker 1: number of occasions and maybe have mentioned before. I was
- 29:20Speaker 1: serving another church and I was caught in the middle,
- 29:23Speaker 1: we say in Texas, between a rock and a hard place.
- 29:27Speaker 1: There were seven of us on the elder board. Three
- 29:30Speaker 1: were voting in one direction, three were voting in another.
- 29:34Speaker 1: And they reminded me that whenever there was a tie,
- 29:36Speaker 1: the pastor cast the deciding vote. And I was caught there,
- 29:45Speaker 1: I would not win. And I remember we took a
- 29:49Speaker 1: twenty four hour break so that I could screw up
- 29:52Speaker 1: the courage to do what I ought to do. As
- 29:56Speaker 1: I look back, I think that was probably what prompted
- 29:58Speaker 1: them to do that. I went home and said to Cynthia,
- 30:01Speaker 1: I'm going to spend some time alone. I'm going to
- 30:04Speaker 1: spend the night at such and such a place. And
- 30:06Speaker 1: I had a good friend who was a pharmaceutical salesman,
- 30:09Speaker 1: and I knew where he was on the road, and
- 30:11Speaker 1: he was an awfully wise individual, and I thought I
- 30:15Speaker 1: would spend some time in prayer with him and some counsel.
- 30:19Speaker 1: But on the way there. I was reading my Bible.
- 30:22Speaker 1: Who drove a little volkswagon at the time. I remember
- 30:25Speaker 1: propping my Bible up on the windshield. I mean on
- 30:28Speaker 1: the steering wheel, not the windshield on the steering wheel.
- 30:35Speaker 1: People love it when they hear that story that I'm
- 30:37Speaker 1: driving along reading from the Bible and Galatians. And I
- 30:41Speaker 1: got to Galatians one and verse ten you got to
- 30:43Speaker 1: turn to it. And I pulled off the road, pulled
- 30:47Speaker 1: off the shoulder of the road, and I read it
- 30:49Speaker 1: aloud about five times. And I thought, if this isn't
- 30:52Speaker 1: a direct answer from God, I don't know what he is.
- 30:56Speaker 1: Listen to one ten of Galatians. Am I now seeking
- 30:59Speaker 1: the favor of men or of God? Or am I
- 31:04Speaker 1: striving to please men? If I were still trying to
- 31:07Speaker 1: please men, I would not be a bond servant of Christ.
- 31:12Speaker 1: By the way, Paul used to be a man pleaser.
- 31:14Speaker 1: That's why he says still, if I were still trying
- 31:19Speaker 1: to please men, I would not be a bond servant.
- 31:21Speaker 1: You cannot be a faithful bond servant of Christ and
- 31:26Speaker 1: spend your life making people happy, telling people what they
- 31:31Speaker 1: want to hear. Back to first Thessalonians, I turned around.
- 31:37Speaker 1: I never went to my planned destination. I drove into
- 31:40Speaker 1: the driveway and Cynthia met me at the door and
- 31:42Speaker 1: was surprised. I said, I know exactly what I need
- 31:46Speaker 1: to do. I know what my heart's telling me. And
- 31:49Speaker 1: I just didn't want three of the men not to
- 31:52Speaker 1: like me. And I was told, by the way, by
- 31:55Speaker 1: the board that could easily split the church depending on
- 32:00Speaker 1: how I voted. That's always encouraging when you hear that
- 32:05Speaker 1: from one of your friends. Not only did we not
- 32:08Speaker 1: split the church, our church doubled in about the next
- 32:11Speaker 1: two two and a half years. I realized that I
- 32:18Speaker 1: needed to please God. That sounds pretty pious. I don't
- 32:22Speaker 1: mean it that way. By the way, it's a good
- 32:24Speaker 1: time for me to say this is not a word
- 32:27Speaker 1: of encouragement to you who are abrasive thinking hot dog. Now,
- 32:31Speaker 1: I've got a biblical reason for offending as many people
- 32:34Speaker 1: as I possibly can, because I'm not supposed to please people.
- 32:38Speaker 1: That's an extreme reaction. Please see the word flattering in
- 32:44Speaker 1: the next verse. We never came with flattering speech, only
- 32:48Speaker 1: time in the Greek New Testament, where that Greek term
- 32:51Speaker 1: is used translated flattering flattering. Well, how do I keep
- 32:57Speaker 1: a balance between pleasing God flattering people, or pleasing people
- 33:00Speaker 1: and flattering them and pleasing the Lord. Look at the
- 33:04Speaker 1: end of verse four. You spend your time focused on
- 33:08Speaker 1: what God would have you do, and he's the one
- 33:10Speaker 1: that examines your heart. You listen closely to him. If
- 33:15Speaker 1: you don't know, you say I don't know. If you
- 33:17Speaker 1: feel certain that you know, you say it like you
- 33:20Speaker 1: believe it, and you blind yourself to the fact that
- 33:23Speaker 1: some may not want to hear it. Some may get
- 33:25Speaker 1: up and walk out. Rarely have I preached a sermon
- 33:28Speaker 1: where nobody walked out on me. And I see anger
- 33:32Speaker 1: on some people's faces at times, I see disapproval and disagreement,
- 33:36Speaker 1: and I've gotten to the place where when I don't
- 33:39Speaker 1: see it, I'm a little surprised. And I don't mean
- 33:41Speaker 1: not to be funny. Invariably, when you come down on
- 33:45Speaker 1: certain areas pretty strongly, you'll have some who won't like it.
- 33:48Speaker 1: They'll leave and audios. That's my response, because I am
- 33:54Speaker 1: not here to get my way. I am here to
- 33:57Speaker 1: help us find God's way, and if it works against
- 34:01Speaker 1: what I would have wanted, so be it, or what
- 34:04Speaker 1: you don't want to hear, so be it. Good leaders
- 34:08Speaker 1: are not people pleasers. He is the one who examines
- 34:12Speaker 1: the hearts, and not one of you can examine my heart.
- 34:16Speaker 1: That's why I don't answer to any one of you
- 34:19Speaker 1: in the sense of getting your approval before I say
- 34:22Speaker 1: what I believe should be said. There's a third one.
- 34:26Speaker 1: Good leaders are not greedy. Look at verse five. We
- 34:33Speaker 1: never came with flattering speech, as you know, nor with
- 34:37Speaker 1: a pretext for greed. Eugene Peterson in the message paraphrases
- 34:43Speaker 1: that we never used words as a smoke screen to
- 34:46Speaker 1: take advantage of you. Isn't that a good rendering Preachers
- 34:51Speaker 1: can do that. People who deal with spiritual things are
- 34:54Speaker 1: fairly good with words, and they can manipulate people, and
- 34:58Speaker 1: they can often say things that come back to their
- 35:01Speaker 1: own advantage. Greed is a vicious master, and it's not
- 35:07Speaker 1: always related to money, though it often is. You could
- 35:11Speaker 1: be greedy for desire. You could be greedy for a dream.
- 35:15Speaker 1: It could be greedy for a hidden with a hidden
- 35:19Speaker 1: motive in mind, and you manipulate things to bring it
- 35:23Speaker 1: back into your favor. Really, it comes from discontentment. When
- 35:29Speaker 1: one is discontented with things and he's under pressure or
- 35:33Speaker 1: she's under pressure about it. Greed can prompt the wrong
- 35:36Speaker 1: kind of action. Sometime it backfires on you. I read
- 35:42Speaker 1: a huge story a couple of weeks ago that illustrates
- 35:45Speaker 1: that a couple was having a double celebration, both of
- 35:50Speaker 1: them celebrating not only their sixtieth birthday but their fortieth
- 35:55Speaker 1: wedding anniversary. During their quiet evening of celebration together, a
- 36:00Speaker 1: fairy appeared to them and said, because you have been
- 36:05Speaker 1: such a loving couple all these forty years, I want
- 36:08Speaker 1: to give each one of you a wish, whatever you
- 36:11Speaker 1: may ask. Being the faithful, loving spouse that she was,
- 36:16Speaker 1: the wife wished that she and her husband could have
- 36:18Speaker 1: the most memorable and romantic vacation they've ever had together.
- 36:22Speaker 1: She wished for a cruise around the world, and whush,
- 36:27Speaker 1: the tickets appeared in her hand, paid for with their
- 36:30Speaker 1: names on it, and she had that to look forward to. Next,
- 36:35Speaker 1: the fairy turned to the husband and said, it's his
- 36:38Speaker 1: turn to ask for whatever he wished, and whatever is
- 36:42Speaker 1: his heart's desire, the fairy would do. He pulled the
- 36:45Speaker 1: fairy aside and whispered, in all honesty, I'd love to
- 36:51Speaker 1: have a wife thirty years younger than I. The fairy
- 36:56Speaker 1: picked up her magic wand and whush, he was suddenly
- 36:59Speaker 1: ninety years old. Gotta watch out for greed, folks. A
- 37:23Speaker 1: good leader is not deceitful. A good leader is not
- 37:27Speaker 1: a people pleaser. A good leader is not greedy, and
- 37:30Speaker 1: good leaders are not self serving. Verse six. Nor did
- 37:37Speaker 1: we seek glory from men, either from you or from others.
- 37:42Speaker 1: But don't miss the last part of the verse. Even
- 37:44Speaker 1: though as apostles of Christ we might have asserted our authority,
- 37:51Speaker 1: I wish to shout apostles, you've never met one, nor I.
- 37:58Speaker 1: Apostles were breed. They literally had seen the resurrected Christ.
- 38:05Speaker 1: They literally could perform miracles. They literally founded churches. They
- 38:10Speaker 1: had incredible discernment and gifts of words of wisdom. They
- 38:16Speaker 1: were like the Lord's right hand men at crucial and
- 38:19Speaker 1: critical times. And Paul was one of them, one of them,
- 38:25Speaker 1: the apostle. Paul stepped in proved himself a worthy apostle,
- 38:31Speaker 1: and with that comes a sense of recognition and respect.
- 38:37Speaker 1: Why the thought of being mentored by or taught by
- 38:42Speaker 1: an apostle who wouldn't stand in line for that? They
- 38:48Speaker 1: could speak ex cathedra remarkable, remarkable individuals. But even though
- 38:57Speaker 1: as an apostle of Christ we might have asserted our authority,
- 39:02Speaker 1: we refuse to throw our weight around. One of the
- 39:11Speaker 1: most obvious marks of genuine humility is the restraint of
- 39:16Speaker 1: those who have great authority. It's not what they display,
- 39:21Speaker 1: it's what they hold back that reveals true leadership. They
- 39:29Speaker 1: don't throw their weight around, they don't try to impress
- 39:32Speaker 1: other people. They don't take unfair advantage. Oh, speaking of
- 39:38Speaker 1: that was almost fifty years ago. It was nineteen fifty
- 39:42Speaker 1: two when Elton Trueblood wrote a fine book called Your
- 39:47Speaker 1: Other Vocation. If you're a professional, listen to this statement
- 39:52Speaker 1: from true Blood. It's hard to think of any job
- 39:56Speaker 1: in which the moral element is lacking. The skill of
- 40:00Speaker 1: the dentist is wholly irrelevant if he is unprincipled and irresponsible.
- 40:07Speaker 1: There is little in that case to keep him from
- 40:09Speaker 1: withdrawing teeth unnecessarily. Because the patient is usually in a
- 40:14Speaker 1: helpless situation, it is easy to see the harm that
- 40:17Speaker 1: can be done by an unprincipled lawyer. Indeed, such a
- 40:22Speaker 1: person is far more dangerous if he is skilled than
- 40:26Speaker 1: if he is unskilled. Every one of us engaged in
- 40:31Speaker 1: a profession has an enormous opportunity to take advantage of
- 40:37Speaker 1: and to seek the glory from others. Just the very
- 40:43Speaker 1: calling of our role, and just the education and just
- 40:46Speaker 1: the command of it causes people just naturally to listen
- 40:52Speaker 1: to us and to be willing to cooperate with us.
- 40:58Speaker 1: The apostle says, we never once sought the glory of men.
- 41:04Speaker 1: It's a remarkable statement. Good leaders are not self serving
- 41:12Speaker 1: so much for the things that are not to take place.
- 41:16Speaker 1: Did you get them? Deception? People pleasing, greed, conceit, or arrogance.
- 41:24Speaker 1: It's time for the positive. See the word butt in
- 41:28Speaker 1: verse seven. But it's a very sharp and strong adversative conjunction.
- 41:36Speaker 1: Doesn't that thrill you? Adversative conjunction meaning at this point,
- 41:41Speaker 1: he says on the contrary exclamation point, rather than these
- 41:47Speaker 1: four qualities, let me tell you, and you know it
- 41:51Speaker 1: to be true, because you and I lived among one
- 41:53Speaker 1: another during those weeks. I ministered to you, but we
- 41:57Speaker 1: proved I like that. The first quality that's true of
- 42:03Speaker 1: good leaders is that they are sensitive to needs. That's
- 42:07Speaker 1: in verse seven. We prove to be gentle among you
- 42:11Speaker 1: as a nursing mother, tenderly cares for her own children.
- 42:17Speaker 1: I love that word picture. I have lived long enough
- 42:23Speaker 1: not only to see my own wife and the mother
- 42:26Speaker 1: of our children nursing our little babies, but I have
- 42:30Speaker 1: now lived to see our daughters do that. It is
- 42:34Speaker 1: the most I rarely use the word as a man,
- 42:38Speaker 1: but I got to use it. It's the most precious sight.
- 42:43Speaker 1: It's the most tender moment as either with their own
- 42:46Speaker 1: breast or with a bottle, they're cradling this helpless infant,
- 42:52Speaker 1: and they're holding that child's life in their hands, and
- 42:56Speaker 1: they are tenderly caring for that little baby. Paul says,
- 43:03Speaker 1: I was like a mother nursing a child. I was
- 43:08Speaker 1: that gentle among you. You see what I mean about
- 43:14Speaker 1: the greatness of this man. May I urge you, who
- 43:19Speaker 1: are in places of unique leadership responsibilities, don't lose your gentleness.
- 43:27Speaker 1: Your tenderness will work. I loved it that various leaders
- 43:35Speaker 1: in our nation came to the site of destruction and cried.
- 43:44Speaker 1: I loved it when the Mayor of New York stood
- 43:46Speaker 1: before the people and regularly gave his report till you
- 43:50Speaker 1: know it was just those words stung in his throat,
- 43:54Speaker 1: and he often had tears that ran down his face.
- 44:01Speaker 1: I love it when leaders treat me with tenderness and gentleness.
- 44:09Speaker 1: So do you. We proved to be gentle as a
- 44:14Speaker 1: nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children, sensitivity to needs.
- 44:22Speaker 1: Good leaders have that. They also have affection for people,
- 44:29Speaker 1: having so fond an affection for you. And look how
- 44:32Speaker 1: the verse ends verse eight, because you had become very
- 44:36Speaker 1: dear to us and crypt here is this strong man,
- 44:41Speaker 1: an apostle of Christ, looking back on the Thessalonians, and said, oh,
- 44:47Speaker 1: what an affection I had for you, How dear you
- 44:50Speaker 1: were to me. He used intimate terms to keep this
- 44:57Speaker 1: simple and easily remembered. I want to suggest that people
- 45:02Speaker 1: affection boils down to two qualities. Number one, small yet
- 45:07Speaker 1: frequent acts of kindness, and second, stated are written words
- 45:13Speaker 1: of appreciation. Those you lead should have a few notes
- 45:19Speaker 1: from you by now where you are saying thank you,
- 45:24Speaker 1: or where you have said I appreciate such and such,
- 45:28Speaker 1: or I noticed so and so. Along with that, the
- 45:32Speaker 1: people affection includes small yet frequent acts of kindness. We're
- 45:38Speaker 1: never above kindness, and to do that one must have
- 45:46Speaker 1: courage himself and security. I came across a little couplet
- 45:51Speaker 1: that says life is mostly froth and bubble. Two things
- 45:55Speaker 1: stand in stone, Kindness in another's trouble, courage in your own.
- 46:05Speaker 1: It always troubles me when I witness a strong leader
- 46:08Speaker 1: walking over people that always bothers me. I know they
- 46:14Speaker 1: can and I know they can get away with it
- 46:17Speaker 1: as they are whisked off in their limousines. I understand
- 46:21Speaker 1: that it just troubles me, And just an extra piece
- 46:28Speaker 1: of advice for no extra charge. If you don't enjoy people,
- 46:33Speaker 1: please do us a favor. Don't go into leadership. Say
- 46:39Speaker 1: no when you're offered an opportunity to lead. Love does
- 46:44Speaker 1: an enormous amount of motivation when words fail and times
- 46:52Speaker 1: are hard. If they know you'll love them, they'll go
- 46:56Speaker 1: to the wire for you. He told me he loved him
- 47:01Speaker 1: not only sensitivity to needs, but an affection for people.
- 47:05Speaker 1: But third, there was an authenticity of life. I left
- 47:09Speaker 1: out the middle of verse eight on purpose until now,
- 47:12Speaker 1: having so fond an affection for you, Now look at
- 47:15Speaker 1: this authenticity of life. We were well pleased to impart
- 47:19Speaker 1: to you not only the gospel of God, but also
- 47:21Speaker 1: our own lives. Chuck, are you telling me that the gospel,
- 47:31Speaker 1: that the gospel isn't important. I'm not saying that. Well,
- 47:36Speaker 1: then what are you saying? The gospel alone isn't enough?
- 47:43Speaker 1: Just giving people gospel truth isn't enough if you hope
- 47:47Speaker 1: to be an effective leader. This man says, I had
- 47:53Speaker 1: such an affection for you that when it came time
- 47:55Speaker 1: to serving, I decided I would just give you my
- 47:58Speaker 1: whole life and wonderful In fact, look at nine you
- 48:05Speaker 1: recall our labor and hardship, working night and day, so
- 48:09Speaker 1: as not to be a burden to any of you. Hey,
- 48:11Speaker 1: this is in Macedonia. Times are hard. It wasn't as
- 48:15Speaker 1: rich as Corinth. And he said, knowing that it was
- 48:18Speaker 1: hard for you, I didn't expect, not only not expect
- 48:21Speaker 1: to raise. I wouldn't accept anything I earn my own living,
- 48:27Speaker 1: so as not to be a burden. We proclaim to
- 48:29Speaker 1: you the Gospel of God, your witnesses, and so is God.
- 48:32Speaker 1: How devoutly and uprightly and blamelessly we behave towards you believers. Wow,
- 48:39Speaker 1: he's not bragging. He's just saying, remember the diligence and
- 48:42Speaker 1: the thoughtfulness, and the devotion and the purity we behave
- 48:45Speaker 1: like that, and call me into question if I'm wrong
- 48:48Speaker 1: he's implying low. Holts addresses rights and privileges in one
- 48:54Speaker 1: of his comments to a reporter. Holts was the head
- 48:58Speaker 1: coach for Notre Dame for eleven year and led them
- 49:00Speaker 1: to over one hundred victories, remarkable achievement, tough schedule, tough school.
- 49:06Speaker 1: Then he went to a smaller school and was interviewed
- 49:08Speaker 1: by a reporter who was interested in the difference between
- 49:13Speaker 1: twenty five years ago. But he began to coach and
- 49:15Speaker 1: now as he continues to coach, his answer is profound.
- 49:20Speaker 1: He said, today everybody is talking about their own rights
- 49:23Speaker 1: and privileges. Twenty five years ago they talked about obligations
- 49:27Speaker 1: and responsibilities. You have to lead people like that, and
- 49:34Speaker 1: most of us are selfish. Most of us look out
- 49:38Speaker 1: for our own rights and want our own privileges, and
- 49:41Speaker 1: that becomes tough for a leader. If there isn't an
- 49:46Speaker 1: authenticity of life. There's one more, and that's enthusiastic in
- 49:56Speaker 1: affirmation verse eleven, as you know how we were exhorting
- 50:01Speaker 1: and encouraging and imploring each one of you as a
- 50:05Speaker 1: father with his own children. That's great, isn't It Starts
- 50:08Speaker 1: with a mother, tenderly, caring, nursing. We see a father.
- 50:13Speaker 1: What are the words? Does this sound like a dad
- 50:15Speaker 1: encouraging and exhorting and imploring. You ever been around or
- 50:20Speaker 1: sat in front of the father of the high school
- 50:22Speaker 1: quarterback who was on the field. God for God, your frank, Frank, Frank,
- 50:30Speaker 1: you got it?
- 50:30Speaker 2: Do it?
- 50:31Speaker 1: You go? What in the world? Good job, Frank? Goodnes's great,
- 50:36Speaker 1: that's great. Let's go for it. Let's go for it.
- 50:38Speaker 1: Go all the way, Frank. You think could give me
- 50:40Speaker 1: a break? What's the problem? He's a dad. You see
- 50:46Speaker 1: the high school killed in the field, going dad, come on,
- 50:49Speaker 1: like it off? But he's loving it. Would you have
- 50:53Speaker 1: enjoyed more affirmation from your father? And wouldn't I encouraging
- 51:02Speaker 1: and exhorting and imploring. No one should be getting more
- 51:06Speaker 1: encouragement from us, more encouragement than our own children. Convicting,
- 51:19Speaker 1: isn't it? Good? Leadership has a balance between the tenderness
- 51:24Speaker 1: of a nursing mother and the affirmation of a caring father.
- 51:29Speaker 1: I read somewhere that encouragement is oxygen for the soul.
- 51:34Speaker 1: It is an oasis in the desert of daily living.
- 51:38Speaker 1: What's the desert? Well, it's the pressures that bear down
- 51:41Speaker 1: on us, the criticism from those who don't often understand.
- 51:46Speaker 1: It's failure when we tried so hard to achieve or
- 51:49Speaker 1: to succeed. It's a lack of progress when we just
- 51:54Speaker 1: wanted it to happen. It's the breakdown in relationships, and
- 51:58Speaker 1: it's a thousand other things. Desert, it's the desert. It's
- 52:01Speaker 1: the desert, and you long for an oasis, to get
- 52:04Speaker 1: a cool drink of water. And that comes from the
- 52:07Speaker 1: affirmation of the leader who dips his ladle in ice
- 52:12Speaker 1: water and brings it out and splashes it all over you,
- 52:19Speaker 1: and it cools you off. Why concern ourselves with these
- 52:24Speaker 1: qualities as leaders? Verse twelve. I love this. Here's the
- 52:29Speaker 1: whole goal, So that you would walk in a manner
- 52:32Speaker 1: worthy of the God who calls you into his own
- 52:36Speaker 1: kingdom and glory. So that you would walk in a
- 52:39Speaker 1: worthy manner, So that you would walk in a worthy manner.
- 52:45Speaker 1: We lead like this so others will live like that.
- 52:49Speaker 1: That's it. We lead like this so others will live
- 52:55Speaker 1: like that, so that we would walk worthy of the
- 53:00Speaker 1: God who calls you into his kingdom and glory. Question,
- 53:09Speaker 1: where'd Paul learn that the soul of Tarsus we've studied
- 53:17Speaker 1: about and that I've read about, was the most arrogant
- 53:19Speaker 1: pharisee on the face of the earth. He was a
- 53:23Speaker 1: vicious savage around Christians when he was lost. What happened?
- 53:32Speaker 1: What happened to his pride? What happened that caused him
- 53:35Speaker 1: to say, all those things that I had I counted
- 53:39Speaker 1: as nothing compared to That's where he learned in Christ Jesus.
- 53:49Speaker 1: I had walked life's way into an easy tread. I'd
- 53:51Speaker 1: traveled for pleasures and comfort lad until one day, in
- 53:54Speaker 1: a quiet place, I met the Master face to face.
- 53:57Speaker 1: With station and rank and wealth from my God, much
- 54:00Speaker 1: thought from my body, but none for my soul. I'd
- 54:03Speaker 1: entered to win this life's mad race. When I met
- 54:05Speaker 1: the Master face to face, I'd built my castles and
- 54:09Speaker 1: reared them high till their towers had pierced the blue
- 54:12Speaker 1: of the sky. I'd sworn to rule with an iron mace.
- 54:15Speaker 1: When I met the Master face to face, I met him,
- 54:18Speaker 1: and I knew him, and I blushed to see that
- 54:21Speaker 1: his eyes full of sorrow were fixed upon me. I
- 54:25Speaker 1: faltered and fell at his feet that day, while my
- 54:27Speaker 1: castles melted and vanished, away, melted and vanished. And in
- 54:31Speaker 1: their place nothing else could I see but the Master's face.
- 54:34Speaker 1: My thoughts are now for the souls of men. I've
- 54:36Speaker 1: lost my life to find it again. Ever since that
- 54:41Speaker 1: day in a quiet place, when I met the Master
- 54:47Speaker 1: face to face, somewhere between the Damascus Road and the
- 54:54Speaker 1: visit from anonaias a transformation to place that continued to
- 55:04Speaker 1: be revealed in the life of Paul, because Christ came
- 55:12Speaker 1: to live as a master his life. I want you
- 55:17Speaker 1: to bow your heads. I want you to close your eyes.
- 55:21Speaker 1: I want you to forget how this talk has been
- 55:23Speaker 1: appropriate for so and so or somebody else, or how
- 55:26Speaker 1: you wish somebody could have heard this. This is for you,
- 55:31Speaker 1: This is for me. And if you've never met the Master,
- 55:36Speaker 1: this is your moment right now. You won't be struck
- 55:42Speaker 1: down and stricken blind. You won't be in the midst
- 55:46Speaker 1: of some hidden spot for three days waiting for somebody
- 55:50Speaker 1: to come and tell you what it's about. That was
- 55:52Speaker 1: Paul's experience. But you know how strong willed and proud
- 55:58Speaker 1: you are. You know how slow you are to encourage
- 56:02Speaker 1: and how reluctant you are to affirm. You know if
- 56:07Speaker 1: you're greedy, you know if you're self serving. This is
- 56:14Speaker 1: your moment to have the Lord turn you into a
- 56:17Speaker 1: nursing mother and a gentle father who encourages and exhorts
- 56:22Speaker 1: and affirms, who can bring about integrity where there has
- 56:26Speaker 1: been deception and error and self will. I invite you
- 56:32Speaker 1: right where you're sitting to turn your life over to Christ.
- 56:38Speaker 1: Don't even think about waiting. This is your moment. We
- 56:47Speaker 1: have a staff of very qualified people who would love
- 56:50Speaker 1: to talk with you. They'll help you find your way
- 56:55Speaker 1: to what real leadership and living is all about. Thank you,
- 57:01Speaker 1: Father for never giving up on us, for working with us,
- 57:05Speaker 1: and amazingly by your grace working through us. Thank you
- 57:11Speaker 1: for the part of this talk that has been most
- 57:14Speaker 1: appropriate for each one of us. You've pierced through and
- 57:18Speaker 1: you've penetrated down to where we live, and we're grateful.
- 57:23Speaker 1: We feel convicted. I know I do, and I thank
- 57:31Speaker 1: you for your patience with me. I thank you for
- 57:36Speaker 1: putting up with me in all of my impatience and
- 57:44Speaker 1: strong will. Thank you, dear Father, for speaking in such
- 57:53Speaker 1: a way that each one of us knows what the
- 57:57Speaker 1: next step needs to be with us as we take it.
- 58:04Speaker 1: Let us never return to the way we were. Thank you,
- 58:09Speaker 1: for Christ not only comes to transform us, but he
- 58:14Speaker 1: enables it and energizes it. Meek and humble of heart,
- 58:25Speaker 1: the son of God, who could have blasted this earth
- 58:29Speaker 1: with a thousand self serving miracles, tenderly walked and worked
- 58:36Speaker 1: among the people of his time, and some were never
- 58:42Speaker 1: the same again. Do that now, Lord, at this place
- 58:51Speaker 1: and in our midst, for jesus sake. For Jesus' sake.
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