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Yoreh De’ah 265:7-11. Bris Milah: Shehechiyanu, Holding the Foreskin, Dirt, Why Eliyahu Hanavi, Sandak · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We are continuing in the
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  helpless Mila Raish Samh. Hey, OK, we're starting with
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  Zain Keshahab Atsmo Mohab Mohabbana.
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  So the father himself is doing the Mila.
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  So then whom we're going to see, there's three opinions what to
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  do with Shahiyano. So the first opinion here, whom
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  are Shahiyano? So when the father does the
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  Bursmila, so he's going to say the bracho salamila, la hakuniso
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  or la hakuniso and then Mila, whatever it is, he cuts and then
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  he says the bracha. OK, the imam mohel who akher.
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  What if most of the time what happens?
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  The mohel is the mohel and the father is the father.
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  They're two separate people. So the mohel does the Mila and
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  the father says la Hakuniso. And then so this opinion says if
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  it's the father, is not the mohel A sham birka shahiyanu?
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  That's it. You lose out the braha shahiyanu
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  because shahiyanu is for the person who does the mitzvah.
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  When the mitzvah is done by the person who needs to do the
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  mitzvah. At the Shahiyanu, it's usually
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  when you see something or experience something, but it's
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  when you are the one who is experiencing it, who has the
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  obligation to do the Mila. It's the father.
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  So shahiyanu can only apply to the father.
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  It's not shayak to the Moab. We're not saying Shahiyanu for
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  cutting, we're not saying Shahiyanu for doing the mitzvah.
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  We're saying Shahiyanu for the Simcha of your son having a bris
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  Mila. So this is the fifth one.
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  This makes it a fifth bracha. When we said it, cola brachas, I
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  guess we're adding shaya. You can have the Sami maybe on
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  Hadassian, but OK, so now this is the first opinion in the
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  Shokanar and as far as I know, nobody passions like this
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  opinion. So let's keep reading.
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  UL Haram, the ulama of Navarre. Shahryanu, I'll call Mila
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  Vamila. The Ramvam writes no, no, no.
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  The father always says Shahryanu as long as he's there, right?
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  You see the baby right after the birth, Simila.
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  So then you say Shahryan, right? And because Shlukho Kimoso is
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  done, because the Father appointed the Moal to be a
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  Shulia, and we're going to see this again coming up.
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  Since the father appointed him to be his Shulia, it's as if he
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  himself did it. And so he does have the Simcha
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  and therefore he, he says the Brahad.
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  So that's the, that's the Rambam, the he Nahagu, the whole
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  Mahkut Eretzi. So oh, and this is the minhag
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  throughout Eretzi. So this Surya Osuvi Votel U
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  Mahkut meets Ryan and, and Syria and Egypt and in the entire
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  region, that's the minhag. So this is the opinion and this
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  is the Minhagan Eretzi. So by all circles, as far as I
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  know, Svartim Ashkenazim, as far as I know, everyone says
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  Shakiano, the Gras, unlike the first opinion, unlike the Rama
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  that's coming up. So he was says you should say
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  Shakiano. And so that became even though
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  that wasn't the men like in Europe, that was his opinion and
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  that became the opinion in arts Israel.
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  He points out, well, he already explains basically the same as
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  the Rambam and he says, right, you say Simcha, the bracha
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  Shahiano was for the Simcha on the mitzvah.
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  And he points out he gives a few different reasons why people
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  disagree not to say Shahiano. And he explains why that's none
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  of their proofs are very good ones.
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  I'll just run through them real quick.
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  Interesting. So one of them is we mentioned
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  Indian of the cheliac. Some say it has you only say it
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  when it's a mitzvah. Mizman, Lezman, Pidiona,
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  Beniochia and all the reasons don't hold up so well is always
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  said on things which happen every now and the year.
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  The general rule that anytime you have a mitzvah with Simcha,
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  that happens once in a while, once a year we say de Shahiano.
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  Even he points out even if you buy a house, you sell it and you
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  buy it back again, you would say Shahiano.
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  Some say maybe he's an AFL. We don't know if he's going to
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  live. He says that doesn't make any
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  sense. We on the child, a regular
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  child. We do a birth on Chavez, Sweden
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  and we'll call in Chavez. We never worry about that.
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  SAR di Anuka is a reason that some give because it'd be
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  insensitive to say it. What's an example is an Oval.
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  It says 2 brothels, Tova, metiv and bar of dynamics.
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  Yeah, if you inherit, only if you inherit.
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  My point is, even an Oval at the time of the death, he's still an
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  owning. He still says, I've told you I'm
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  80. When he finds out.
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  The only thing that the Gemara says, SAR vidhi anu kabai
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  because of the baby, we don't say shahasim ka bima Ono or as
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  the Gemara and Tsubas, we don't say that's only for a wedding.
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  But here, whenever there's a benefit for the person, we say
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  Shahiyano. The Baragola talks about it as
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  well right after the bris. But I think you wait till the
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  finish of the Priya and then you say Shahiyan before the Kayama
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  say yeah again. If you didn't you can still say
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  it after. But yeah, the however the
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  Minogue of Ashkenazi in in Kutzlawritz is the Rama hagah of
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  amedinos ailu noagim shalola varak shahiyano afilo ke shaha
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  of Atsmo maldeno. We never say Shahiyano in
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  Kutzlawritz on for a bris Mila. It's not like it's emitted to
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  Talibaritz. It's just where the Mennon
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  became what it is. We don't say Shekhyanov.
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  He says that's the Mennon. Even if the father himself.
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  That's the third opinion. And so the in in law.
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  OK, so this is the one exception of if the son is a bohor
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  Shekhaya Victoza Navarro, Shekhyanovich Attamila.
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  So if really pigeon a Ben, everyone agrees gets Shekhyanov
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  for the the one time mitzvah. And so therefore you say
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  Shahiano and that he agrees with and he says since you know it's
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  it's coming up, you can say the Shahiano already at the Mila.
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  That's The only exception. The Shah is against it.
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  The Shah says it's not the minute the Anna Mubarak Bishad
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  Pidion and then you don't say it later.
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  You already said it now, but even if it's a first born, but
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  it's not if it's not Shahbuddin abend by slavery.
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  OK, there's other reasons too, but whatever.
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  If there's no pidginabend, no, an aval also says Shahiano and
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  aval does say Shahiano if it comes up and that's that's the
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  time. So even as if a father has a
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  bris Mila while he's an aval, even during the seven days, if
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  that's when the bris is, he would say Shahiano.
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  The Eric clerk, Mamari Kashi writes, some of you have it in
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  yourself, some of you don't. So he'd also mentions, let's say
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  the father was out of town for the breast.
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  So you say Chef Yanu, when you see the baby.
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  We previously mentioned the question what to do about
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  Lahacaniso, if you can do it on Zoom or phone, whatever, when
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  you know exactly when it's happening.
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  We left it as a question mark. Hopefully it doesn't come up too
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  often for Chef Yanu at least. You hear he writes my ferush.
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  Normally Chef Yanu, like I said, you say it when you see it and
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  when you experience it. So he says you should say it.
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  You're happy that your son has a breast.
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  You didn't lose it out the mitzvah.
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  When you see him for the first time, then you should say
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  shahriya. He also quotes, and that's from
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  the name of the radbaz. He also quotes the shame of the
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  radbaz that adults also say shahryanu.
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  So as long as they can concentrate, they're awake,
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  whatever. They also say, let's say a
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  balchuva gets a bersamila. OK, aim, sorry, rehasat ervat
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  khatam vishad to braha. So what does the mole do now
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  that the baby's there? He's naked, The airva, right?
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  It's visible. What do you do?
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  So he says it's not a problem. You don't do not need to cover
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  it up. You can say a brotha, right?
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  The Allah is, unless the child is Rauli Libia, that means for
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  the whatever the genitalia, for a man or boy, it's nine years
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  old. For a girl, it's three years
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  old. Halafaki me Ikaradin is not
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  considered erva OK, la catrilla, we usually we keep it covered.
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  Me Ikaradin. It's not considered so it's not
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  a problem. You're allowed to.
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  You're allowed to look at it. Some are ma, some consider them
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  a game. Also enough to cover it with a
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  foreskin. You'll see.
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  But you won't see the rest of the Ava but Mikar then everyone
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  holds. It's not a problem the the Gras
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  actually writes it's usser to cover it because you have to
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  hold it and you have to be ready and you don't want to cover it
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  because it'll slow down the process.
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  First of all, that you could be causing extra to the child pain.
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  But he he also writes because every bracha has to be over Lesi
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  a ton, not over the over right. Whenever you say a bracha, you
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  want to hold the item before you see the bracha.
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  That's why like lulav, one of the classical cases.
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  We already mentioned that you wanted to be there, but so
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  should you hold everything or just the lulav?
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  That's how he here. So here also he says you want to
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  hold it so that you're ready to go.
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  And so too, Paskins the mishnabura that you should hold
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  it and not cover it by an adult. No, no.
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  So an adult is it's us or two 2. So therefore you cover it and
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  you say the brotha uncover, you cover it, say the brotha, then
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  you uncover it and then you you hold it.
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  If you're covering it, you should at least hold it.
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  Yeah, but it's better not to cover it.
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  Most posts can say it's better not to cover.
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  Oh, by a God, yeah. Touching is a problem even for
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  an adult. When you're saying brothos, it's
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  a problem even if it's in your underwear.
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  It's a problem if it's touching in your thigh.
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  So yeah, that's a problem. Next of all, yesh lunakota katan
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  meets so Ato call them shivarek. Now look Atila, he writes you
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  should clean if there's the baby does #2 whatever makes old SOA
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  bowel movement is preferable to clean it.
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  You don't have because any bowel movement, any SOA from a baby is
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  considered not a problem. I think it's so therefore I
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  think most say it's a year, but it's nice to clean it because
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  it's dirty and it's a brocha. Yes, the girl writes it's a
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  khumrabalma, especially if you covered it so up like Ted
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  Avihaben, Omar al Hamol, the Hodil Shu Shluko.
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  So the father should stand there and and and tell give a
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  directive, tell the the the moal that you are making you my
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  Shaliak proper Shaliak again, not this is not my a cave, but
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  it's it's like Akhila. Once one should do this and
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  Nagra explains, because the Mila, it's a little bit of
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  Pedrosh. It's considered like a korban.
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  It's a Domalamat la korban. We're sacrificing a part of our
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  body for a kaddish barkh. So therefore the Mila is it took
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  more the korban. We'll see how that comes up
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  again in a moment and right. And whenever a person makes
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  Cohen whoever for any korban, you appoint the korban to go
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  for, you have to make him your Shalia, whoever is doing it for
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  you, you if you don't appoint them, of course, it's an akin if
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  you don't know there's no shiuchus whatsoever.
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  I mean, if no one could just come up and bring a carbon on
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  your behalf. That's not you're noting in it
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  the Orla. Behold the afar, the minog is.
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  We take the Orla and we put it on dirt and we bury it, the pain
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  working down the Mitsitza a la Afar.
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  And some say you take some of the of the blood from Mitsitza,
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  the sucking, and you put it there as well the Imhu Shabbat.
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  But if it's Shabbos, you have to make sure prepare the dirt ahead
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  of time. Otherwise you have to just save
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  it for Mozi Shabbos to put it on dirt because general dirt is
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  moxa. You have to set it aside to not
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  make it just share real quick. What's the significance of afar?
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  There is even a midrash that some say punch will put up by
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  water based on silkim. I didn't I didn't bring them
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  here but can look them up. They're hats.
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  Couple of silkim in Nah where it talks about dam Mila basham
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  washing us and we do dirt. So in Pierke de Rebeliezer it's
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  quoted as Vinay Sir. Oh when they did their Mila in
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  in the desert. So they covered it up or they
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  put it on the on the ground. It made a pile, it put it on the
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  ground, on the dirt, and then Bilam came along.
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  This is also quoted in the grass.
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  You wanna look where he right. Bilam came to curse and he saw
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  that all these foreskins, all these auras were there on the
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  dirt of the in the desert and he says so he says how you know
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  would they have this? Schmidt when he saw that he's
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  like, how can I curse them? They have this mitzvah of
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  brismila. It was like right in his face.
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  He also he himself also said that in the Yaakov Benisrel are
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  alluded to like that's also another plus that is we're
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  alluded to yeah, that we can't count them that we should be so
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  many. It's a little bit related to the
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  Brismila, obvious reasons, but it's related to that.
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  The Jews should be so many, like so that's the meaning of using
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  alpha. There should be so many like the
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  alpha of the world in a pile of the Arlos and Gilgal and burned
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  them, right? That was another Madras.
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  Why? Why isn't it?
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  So that's about burning. Oh, so we have this Madras.
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  OK, anyway, I mean Hagen can always ask.
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  You can't over ask. OK, let's get to the OK you'd
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  olive. OK, this is gonna be a fun one
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  about Eliyo and ABI. No agim laso kisei le Eliyahu.
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  So we all know there's a minute of Eliyahu and ABI we make a
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  special chair for him. Shanigra mala Khabrit Eliyah is
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  called the Angel of the of the Bris.
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  Why? Why Eliyahu?
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  What's what's that about the shamanico yomar befieve shuhu
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  kise Eliyahu. So we say, we declare out loud
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  that this is the seat of Eliyahu.
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  So we put him down and we say that it's also in Pirke de rabi
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  Eliezer. And it's also it's in the gras,
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  it's in laprisha, It's, it's really it's from Navi malachim
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  olive yutet tet. So that's where Eliyawa Navi
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  was. They were killing all the naviy
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  and he was running for his life and he was starving and he
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  basically said take my life, it's enough.
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  So there there was the Navua, the Hashem and he both said that
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  Eliyahu Eliyawu was kanai for Kurdish paru.
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  He was upset that either talks about the breed over there,
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  either that the Jews weren't doing the breast Simila.
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  That's one version, or it wasn't or the briefs of keeping the
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  Torah in general. But according to the Eri
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  Eliezer, it seems like they the malchus of frying stop doing a
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  bris Mila Saliyo was, you know, basically telling them they're
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  going to get punished. He took away the rain and the
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  khule and he did what he can in order to fight for for Kodesh
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  Barkhu. And he was a bit of a canine and
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  may have went too far. So anyway, So what happens?
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  So Kodesh Barkhu says Hayeha Sheng Israel osing Brett Mila
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  acha Taro eBay NACHA because you are such a Kanai, I'm going to
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  make sure you go and you can see with your own eyes every Jew,
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  every every burst that happens, you're going to be there.
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  To wit, Laprisha. And some say it was Leshvaf.
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  This was like a reward for for Eliello.
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  You fought for me just like. And they also say he also quotes
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  over there that this is not the first time he was a Kanai for
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  Hashem because he himself is Pinhas Penalaza though, right?
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  We just read about in the parsha.
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  That's so you see, he was a kanai, so therefore Hashem he
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  gave him a reward to see it paid off what he did the Yeh dorsheim
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  Lishka 9. Some say no, it's actually a
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  curse that instead of resting and relaxing and gunading, he
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  has to busy himself every day running around to every breast.
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  Milan because he went too far against the Kaliesa Hagav Venugi
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  Mahathir author mitzvah Zuliot Sundak, which was Satinoco nolo.
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  It's great to be a sundek, to run out to the mitzvah if you
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  can. I mean, you have to be given it
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  and it's a greater honor to be a sundek than to be a moel.
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  So you should have have him get the Aaliyah to call Sandak Kavi
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  Kamak. Dear Katura, the sandak is
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  special. It's as if you brought katuras
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  that day. He quotes the girl quotes the
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  Major Sokritov from Kolos Mantai to Marna, where it says over
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  there and with because you want to use every part of her body
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  for a kaddish barfus. So what do you use your knees
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  for or your thighs? It's for a sandak to hold the
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  child, right? For the Mila and the Priya.
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  OK Noah game. She will retain Schnee Yeladim
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  Labal breed Ekhad that you don't like Katarina Katarik Kardashian
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  Katarik. So the guard doesn't like this,
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  but some say you shouldn't give it to you should.
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  If you have two children, don't make don't give it to the same
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  sound like to be twice based on them.
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  In other words, share the wealth you should share the because
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  Katarik we we know by the Kohanim, you only got to do it
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  once in your life because it was a brah or Sagula for for wealth
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  and for money. So therefore, you know you want
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  to pass that around to everybody.
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  So it's the same idea here. He writes with this Gula and
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  some could say it by others. He writes and we never slower
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  Inu sans actually meet that show.
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  We never saw Sandako actually got wealthy.
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  So therefore, but he says that I mean, he doesn't like the minute
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  for this reason, but he says is at Sava from review with Alhassi
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  that says you shouldn't give it to more than one.
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  And so that's the reason from chef Charlie Ish Mishim, David
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  Caprizas. One should not have a woman be a
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  sandak because it's Princess. Whether it's the covert of
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  getting that position, everyone's looking at her
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  burning the legs, whatever it might be.
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  Nico Marco he Ozaret Lavala, but no, but she still could be part
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  of it. She brings in the baby Knesset.
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  She brings it up to the right, the door of the bait Knesset,
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  and then someone takes it from her.
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  A man venas A Sandak and he becomes a Sandak.
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  I think he's talking about you give it to the she gives it to
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  the Sandak or you can pass it to a few people to get more kibbuti
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  and flatter and right exactly of all the Isha Cola said the coal
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  below Isha. Now, obviously the man could do
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  the whole thing. You don't you don't need her to
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  bring it in. But that's the minute Nagua
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  Moline with Paulo Bjoma Mila and there's an Indian for the Moell
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  to be to Davin for the Alma that day, because he's a Moell
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  Chinamar Roman MOT LB Granan Bakaric field be Adam.
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  They have a it's a play on word of the sword, but also he's the
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  BA al Mitzvah. So it's it's it's it's an inion.
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  However, the shock points out it's a much bigger inion.
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  If you're in Avell and that's your that's yours host for the
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  year, then you should you should do it.