Latest / Everyday Ancestral with James Barry / Real Health, Real Connection: Holistic Hilda on What We’ve Lost and How to Get It Back
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- 0:00we have to do things that lift our hearts, that bring us joy, whether it's music, prayer,
- 0:05connection with others, every community I've been a part of, and I think particularly
- 0:10of the Ecuadorian community, like they had music, they had connection, they shared meals together,
- 0:15like this is a piece that we would do well to revisit, because what good is all the right
- 0:20pieces in place of movement and nutrition and, you know, getting the sun if you're downcast
- 0:24and sad and feeling isolated and lonely.
- 0:29Welcome back to Everyday Ancestral on Rehost James Berry. I am so excited to share our next guest,
- 0:38Hilda, Labrada, Gore, aka Holistic Hilda. Truly the only person I know who has found
- 0:47the fountain of youth. I've known her now, oh I want to say four years, and no joke she's actually
- 0:55reversing an age. She's getting younger. She feels like she's aging backwards as she taps into
- 1:02all these health paradigms and learns and applies these learnings to her life. Let's talk about
- 1:08Hilda. So she's a certified health coach. She's kind of like Dora the Explorer, but 2.0. She's
- 1:15traveled extensively as an experiential anthropologist. She's gone to Mongolia, Peru, Ethiopia,
- 1:21Ecuador, Kenya, Australia, among all the other places she's been, with the objective of exploring
- 1:29traditional practices to improve the energy and vitality of humanity. Hilda is the host and
- 1:36producer of the Wise Traditions podcast on behalf of the West Bay Prize Foundation. That podcast
- 1:42has had over 14.000 million downloads to date. Hilda shares the best of experts, experiences,
- 1:50and epic adventures on the podcast and on her Holistic Hilda YouTube channel and in person
- 1:57at conferences and retreats. Hilda truly does have energy to spare because she keeps her
- 2:03feet on the ground and her face to the sun and that's true. She really does walk a talk. She's
- 2:09always out in the sun, always soaking in the good vibes and sharing them with those around her.
- 2:15Welcome to everyday ancestral. Please enjoy Holistic Hilda. The word on the street
- 2:22is it your change in your name from Holistic Hilda to ice plunge Hilda is that true?
- 2:30That is not true. That's just a rumor. No, I've been loving the scene all your health modalities
- 2:37that you're doing on your Instagram and whatnot. You've been doing fantastic travels. You've been
- 2:43going to Ecuador, Mongolia, Ethiopia, hosting the Wise Traditions podcast. You're learning all
- 2:50these things from amazing influencers and practitioners around the world. What is the best of what
- 2:57you're soaking in and taking? It has been a phenomenal ride. I'm literally just like holding on.
- 3:03I'm feeling like, well, let's do this. Life does that for us. I never would have thought 12, 15
- 3:09years ago what I'm doing today would be my job asking people questions like you as the host
- 3:15of a podcast, but also getting to be with them in their context. I've been happy to report James
- 3:22that everywhere I go, I see people who are still living according to their traditions. I find
- 3:29it so fascinating. Let me just say it's not just dietary traditions or ancestral traditions
- 3:36related to nature and so forth, though I do see those things, but it's also the importance of
- 3:41connection and community. I'll give you an example. I was recently in Mexico in Oaxaca and Oaxaca
- 3:47is the cradle of traditional foods in Mexico. I was so excited to try some of them. I went off
- 3:53the beaten path because I was there for a conference called ferment Oaxaca, but I was like, okay,
- 3:57let me get with the abuela, so there are off the beaten path and see what I can find out and
- 4:01experience. Of course, I had Chapulina, Spitzer Grasshoppers, which they enjoy as a delicacy,
- 4:06and blood and meat tacos and all the things, but what struck me the most was actually when I was
- 4:12leaving this abuela, it's like backyard restaurant kind of thing. It was amazing. My husband and I
- 4:17were kind of stranded to be honest with you. We had taken a taxi there and the taxi guys like,
- 4:21I can't wait around for you. I'm sorry, I have to go. I'll call my friend Jesus to come get you.
- 4:26Well, Jesus never showed up. Honestly, we're like, shoot, he didn't show off. What are we going to do?
- 4:32So we started talking to this man and he's like, yeah, this is my first visit here. I just found out
- 4:36about this place. It's called Maís, Cocina Tradicional that this woman started in her backyard.
- 4:41The next thing we knew, my husband and I were in the car of this random man with his wife and
- 4:47daughter and they were giving us a ride like back to the main drag so we could catch a taxi and I was
- 4:51like, I don't even know you and the lady was giving me her phone number. Like, you've got to visit us
- 4:55next time you're in Wahaka and I was like, this kind of connection and hospitality. You just don't
- 5:03find in the US. This is my experience. Most of us are like looking at our devices. We're too connected
- 5:09virtually to be connected in person. So when I travel, I do have my eyes wide open to see what
- 5:16health traditions are people still keeping. Some of them include like this aspect of connection with
- 5:22each other, which we have to hold on to before we lose it all together.
- 5:27Oh yeah. Isn't it fascinating? We have more technology to connect, but that same technology is
- 5:33resulting in disconnection. I just find that fascinating. It is fascinating and you know,
- 5:38you've probably heard tell of communities or tribal peoples who would say, don't take my picture
- 5:44because it steals my soul. And I've come to realize these devices are doing something to us.
- 5:50They're kind of sucking away and dribbles and drabs at our humanity. We become almost robotic
- 5:57as we're entertained and the word entertain has to do with being held onto. We're being taken
- 6:02captive when the people around us and life around us nature is so much more fascinating, so much
- 6:09more vibrant and full of life. And I have seen the saddest circumstances in my own neighborhood.
- 6:14This was only about a couple of months ago now, but I was walking past a truck. Parents were in
- 6:19the truck with their little girl. She must have been maybe three years old. And she was looking
- 6:23out the window like almost like someone helped me and I looked more closely and both her parents
- 6:28were on their phone. And I thought, here's this little girl desperate for someone to notice her.
- 6:33Now maybe they were looking for directions to where they were going and maybe the wife was texting
- 6:37saying, we'll be late. Sorry, but I was just like, oh my gosh, this is so telling. So I want to
- 6:42invite people back to traditions like connection with one another. And yes, food that truly nourishes
- 6:48and all the things. And I've come to realize on my travels that there are basically what I like to
- 6:53call six ancestral secrets, because I'm big on alleration. But there are six ancestral secrets that
- 6:58we would do well to harken back to that will help us boost our energy and vitality. And so that's
- 7:03kind of what I'm about right now. I'm definitely hosting the wise traditions podcast. I love all the
- 7:06people I get to talk to so they inform my understanding of the world, but then I see it with my own eyes.
- 7:11I know you're creating programs around these, but what are the titles of the six?
- 7:16Okay, thank you so much for asking. I can say them pretty succinctly now because I love them so much.
- 7:21And they're so basic, but let me just say this, just because they're simple doesn't mean they should
- 7:27be overlooked. And you understand this as well as I do because of your work with pluck and so forth
- 7:33that simple nourishing foods can go far. And sometimes it takes a while for the science to catch up
- 7:38to that traditional wisdom, right? So I think people are like, oh yeah, I've heard that before, but
- 7:43are you applying it to your life? And if so, how is it impacting it? So yeah, I have a little
- 7:47course about these secrets, but I'll just tell you right off the bat. Sun is the first one because
- 7:51I consider it like the great multivitamin in the sky. It energizes all of our body's functions,
- 7:56including the hormones and the cognitive function. I like to say sunrise before screen rise,
- 8:01because it's that important. I get out and get the sun first thing. So sleep is another and that's
- 8:06related. What if we honored our sleep and understood that it was a detoxing mechanism? You know,
- 8:11when I was in Ethiopia last summer, I got to meet with some tribes along the Omo Valley and they
- 8:17had no electricity. So they were living according to nature's rhythms. When the sun rises,
- 8:22they got up and they would have like a little tribal ceremony and a lot of the tribes I visited.
- 8:27When the sun goes down, it's either a fire or lights out. And there is nothing artificial that's
- 8:32interfering with the melatonin release and so forth. So their sleep is profound. They're sleeping on
- 8:37goat skins and calf skin. So they're connected to the ground and they sleep in small heads
- 8:42with their nuclear family. So there's connection with each other. I mean, I could go on and on. But
- 8:46so it's sun, sleep shivers as you intimated early on. I think it's important for us to experience
- 8:52the elements, right? We're far too comfortable and so on mitochondria don't have to work. And they
- 8:57kind of get fat and lazy and you want exhilarating and vibrant mitochondria in number and in energy.
- 9:04So they are boosted by experiencing the elements and having your body have to regulate your
- 9:08temperature for lack of a better way of putting it. Then there's sustenance, which you know, I'm a
- 9:13big fan of really looking for the most bang for our buck. Sometimes we go the other way around.
- 9:17We're like, oh, it's an all-you-can-eat buffet. That's great. Let me just see what I can cram in.
- 9:21But just because you're satisfied with your palate doesn't mean your body has been well nourished.
- 9:26So I'm big on sustenance, nutrient density in particular. And then the fifth and the sixth are
- 9:31strength because everywhere I go, people are moving. It is true of languages, but also people,
- 9:36if you don't use it, you will lose it. So you need to move your muscles and be intentional,
- 9:41especially if your work is sedentary. The last secret, which I actually think is the most important,
- 9:45has to do with spirit. We have to do things that lift our hearts, that bring us joy,
- 9:51whether it's music, prayer, connection with others, every community I've been a part of. And I think
- 9:56particularly of the Ecuadorian community, they had music, they had connection, they shared meals
- 10:02together. This is a piece that we would do well to revisit because what could is all the right
- 10:07pieces in place of movement and nutrition and getting the sun if you're downcast and sad and
- 10:13feeling isolated and lonely. I'll tell you, it's no good. So this is why I try to incorporate these
- 10:18into my day every day and then share them with others. And it shows in your spirit because you
- 10:24live in such spiritual abundance and energetic abundance. Now you just mentioned something that I
- 10:31find really fascinating because I think a lot of what informs us of what's working or not is
- 10:38contrast. Let's bring up EMFs, for example. So EMFs are something that a lot of people don't
- 10:44feel. They don't sense because they don't have the contrasts of not living around EMFs. But you do
- 10:51in these tribes where there's no electronics said, what did you notice? What did you feel?
- 10:55It's the same feeling James that people get when they go camping. They're not just happy because
- 11:00they're away from the demands of work, but it's because your body has a time to relax. Your nervous
- 11:06system can kind of reset when you get your feet on the ground at the beach. Again, when people
- 11:11are on vacation, they think, oh, I'm just feeling great because I'm out of the office. That's not the
- 11:15only reason. It's because you're getting the earth's frequency instead of these non-native
- 11:20electromagnetic frequencies that man makes. The problem is, to be honest with you, is sometimes we
- 11:26only measure things by what's visible to our eyes. And we see a very, very narrow band of light
- 11:33and things around us when there's a lot more going on than meets the eye. I think I interviewed
- 11:38a guy, George Carlo, who said, if we could see the frequencies that we're surrounding us right
- 11:43now, this room would be filled with smoke as if it were cigarette smoke like we would be astounded
- 11:48by how much is bombarding us. So we don't see it. So we think it's not affecting us, but it is.
- 11:53It's like a burden that our bodies are carrying and it's like a scientifically they call it a
- 11:59positive charge. That sounds like it's good, but it's a positive charge that kind of is wiring us.
- 12:05If your cortisol feels through the roof, sometimes if you're just like, oh, I just, I've got to get
- 12:09away. I just want to throw this laptop or you know, get out of this kitchen or whatever. It might
- 12:13not be just that things are on your last nerve. It may be that you're literally being kind of fried.
- 12:19So it's important to pay attention. I would say at the very least where your router is in your home
- 12:25and turn it off at night because yes, when I get to these places like by the Omo Valley,
- 12:29people are barefoot. There's no frequencies right in their immediate vicinity and there's a lot more
- 12:35peace and calm and joy. And if you don't believe me, just experience it yourself, experiment with it,
- 12:42go camping, go to the beach, see what it's like to have your phone away from you for a couple of
- 12:45hours, even, and you'll feel the difference because what we don't realize is when we have our
- 12:49devices also, by the way, every time we touch it, we're getting into some mini zap. And so it's
- 12:54not just the light that's interfering with our circadian rhythm and so forth, but it's also the
- 12:59energy that's being emitted from that device. So our devices were meant to serve us. They're good,
- 13:04I use mine too, for sure, but we had to make sure that we own them and they don't own us.
- 13:10Back in the day when I was cooking for celebrity that I had to have, I had one of those motorola,
- 13:16it wasn't a pager, but it was, there's a whole name for it, but it's so old that this one,
- 13:21I don't remember the name of it. It was so fascinating because I wore it on my hip because I had to
- 13:26be always in touch and it wasn't as well known then what kind of resulted from that. And I would feel
- 13:32it in my body before it went off. So I would know a text or whatever was coming in and the machine
- 13:40hadn't even gone off yet. I would feel it. And then maybe 30 seconds later, it would go off. I mean,
- 13:46that just says so much right there. It does say so much. And I'm so glad you're bringing this up
- 13:51because I just think we are sacrificing our health sometimes for these modern conveniences.
- 13:57And I've interviewed people in the Wise Traditions podcast about movement, for example,
- 14:01and I'll never forget. I think it was Rhonda Patrick. She's the found my fitness girl. She's like,
- 14:06even how we don't need to turn a key to start a car anymore, you just push a button. Or you know,
- 14:11we don't have to get up to change the channel on our TV in the old days, people you had to get
- 14:14up and do it. Like those micro movements, the loss of them is affecting us. And so in the same
- 14:20way, we just think, Oh, how convenient I can order a door dash or how convenient I can just
- 14:24text my brother in law. That's great. But what's missing because of that? You know, and what are the
- 14:29effects? There's so many. So I do my best to give parameters or boundaries to my tech. So we turn
- 14:37our Wi-Fi off at night. I think even on my holistic health website, I have a little device you can buy.
- 14:42It's not hard to use, but it just makes it easier. You don't even have to be near the router to
- 14:46click it off at night. That's one thing we do. And then we also charge our phones outside of our
- 14:52bedroom so that we're not getting even that pinging happening back and forth all the time.
- 14:57It's interesting. I have to tell you a story. So I was with this little seven-year-old girl,
- 15:01neighbor girl yesterday. We've become besties. That's so much fun. Because I do have that kid
- 15:05like spirit, right? But anyway, we're working on a little project together. She saw me put my phone
- 15:10on airplane mode after I recorded something we did. And she's like, why'd you put out an airplane
- 15:14mode? And I thought to me, it's second nature. This kid has no idea. Her parents probably have
- 15:19their phones on all the time. I said, well, there are waves. And what's happening is the phone is
- 15:23trying to kind of ping and see where it can get information from. And I want to stop that. She was
- 15:28surprised. And so I think as I'm putting boundaries, that's modeling it for others around me. So
- 15:34even if the people around you were just on their phones all the time, like I just wait till they
- 15:37make eye contact with me to start talking again, because it can be a distraction for that in person
- 15:42connection too, as I was mentioning. Yeah, it's a real testimony that we only know what we know.
- 15:47Right? If you're not introduced to something, then you really don't necessarily understand or
- 15:51know it. And you don't know to look or feel for it. You might feel something, but you don't know
- 15:57what it is. And until you have a label or some awareness of what it could be, you just don't
- 16:03know. You think it's normal. Yes. And so that's why I was saying we did experiment with being
- 16:06away from our phones because we're so used to being electrified all the time. We think this level
- 16:11of agitation is normal. And I did read the invisible rainbow by Arthur Firstenberg. And in there,
- 16:17he said, you know that the diagnosis of anxiety didn't come about until the electrification of
- 16:23our cities. In other words, when cities in the late 1800s and early 1900s, starting putting up
- 16:28lampposts, people started getting anxious and they didn't know why. So they put it in their
- 16:33psychology book that this is a diagnosis anxiety, but he suspects it's linked to this condition
- 16:39of being around. And notice that wasn't even electromagnetic frequencies in terms of unwired.
- 16:45It was all wired at the time, but now we've got wireless stuff around us all the time. So yeah,
- 16:49I want people to test on themselves what it feels like to be like I said away from the phone or
- 16:53getting your feet on the ground, making these small shifts because this is also not just kind of
- 16:59woo-woo information that I'm into it. I do some of that in my life for sure, but fill up the head
- 17:05of LilaQ. I don't know if you've heard of that company, but they've developed these quantum
- 17:09blocks and little quantum capsules that you can wear. I like them a lot because they have been
- 17:14scientifically tested. And so Beverly Rubik, who is someone I've had on the podcast,
- 17:18who's a scientist who's done some studies on these things, she studied what happens if you've
- 17:22got your cell phone in a backpacker in a purse on your body. And she noticed that the blood had
- 17:26a tendency to clump. And as we all know, we don't want clumpy blood, you know, you want it to kind
- 17:30of flow, right? So she tested these blocks and noticed that they de-clumped the blood basically
- 17:37in layman's terms. And I'm like, okay, that's cool. And that's something I want and need. Why?
- 17:41I personally live in a city even though I look like a country girl. And I do fly a lot. And I'm
- 17:45exposed to a lot of radiation. So I'm trying to do what I can to mitigate its effects on my life.
- 17:50I also spend time barefoot outside. I connect with nature a lot. And I do travel a lot to get out of
- 17:56the city, to be honest, to be in these rural places where I know there's not a lot bombarding me
- 18:00so my body has a chance to rest. In many ways, you are on a pursuit very much with this podcast
- 18:07is about, which is why you're such a fantastic guest. But the idea of let's take the best from the
- 18:12past and bring it to the present. We're looking back towards our ancestral roots and we're trying
- 18:17to bring those and reconnect our modern society to those. Yet you are very much here
- 18:26because of modern medical practices. Can you talk about what was discovered when you were
- 18:33young? And then technically you wouldn't be here if that surgery wasn't possible. Those modern
- 18:38techniques, right, at the time. So I'd love to hear your thoughts on that. I'm so glad you brought
- 18:44it up to make a long story short. I was born with a birth defect and my childhood was very shaky
- 18:51because of it. I was born with a ventricular septal defect, which is a hole in the heart between the
- 18:57lower two ventricles. And so the blood was flowing in a direction. It shouldn't flow. It wasn't
- 19:00oxygenating properly. The doctors literally called me a blue baby because any baby born with that
- 19:06condition was labeled blue because their blood wasn't oxygenating, right? And they didn't know
- 19:10how long I would live. So they monitored me for a number of years thinking maybe this will heal
- 19:15on its own. It did not. So when I was nine years old, they performed open heart surgery. And even as I
- 19:21say that, I'm like mind blown, I was so little. And this is before the days they could do it in
- 19:26like fancy ways. They literally like sawed me open, cracked open my ribcage, you know, put my body
- 19:33on ice and sewed up the heart, put it back in and then said, you can do whatever you want. And I was
- 19:39like, well, first, and I think this is where I get some of my spiritual roots, I was like, I want
- 19:45to thank God because I might not have even made it to this planet, you know, and I feel like you
- 19:50used the surgeon's skill to save me. So that was the first thing I wanted to do. But then I started
- 19:53thinking, I want to make sure that my body stays as healthy and as strong for as long as possible.
- 20:01And then as I got older, I realized I want to help other people do the same. Now, interestingly,
- 20:08I didn't enter the medical field. You might have thought I did. But there was something James
- 20:12and I've never said this on a podcast before, but it's true. There was something about being in
- 20:18the hospital as often as I was as a kid for the monitors, for the catheterization and all things
- 20:22that I didn't like. I don't know if I was just, you know, seeing as, oh, that's the little kid,
- 20:29patient, you know, in the room to be or I don't know what it was about the system. But I
- 20:35rebelled against it inside. So for example, I remember on the 14th floor at the National Institutes
- 20:40of Health where I had my surgery, there was a little play area for young children who were patients.
- 20:46I went up there as often as I possibly could because I had to get away from all the monitors
- 20:51and the beeping. Did alopathic or conventional medicine save my life? I would say yes. I would say
- 20:57those surgeons knew what they were doing. They sewed up the heart. I've been problem-free ever
- 21:02since with that heart situation. But I somehow knew also that the best way to care for my body
- 21:10was to stay away as far as possible from hospitals. And so I'm not saying they don't have their
- 21:16place. But what I'm saying is I want to do it and live my life in such a way that I'm preventing
- 21:22a hospital visit or stay. So I am getting outside. I'm exercising every day. I'm eating food
- 21:28at nurses. I'm doing all those secret things. And I am so hail and hearty. I have never felt
- 21:33better in my life to be honest with you. I'm just so thankful. So this is what I would suggest
- 21:38for most people. If you need an alopathic or a conventional medical solution, don't be afraid of
- 21:44it. You can invite it. But why not do the best you can to stack your hacks as I like to say
- 21:50so that you never have to go there in the first place? That is incredible. And I have to testify
- 21:56that you are a Benjamin button. Every time I see you, you seem younger. And even looking at you
- 22:04now, you're glowing and you just have this young, vibrant energy. And of course you can say,
- 22:11well, that's spirit. Or that's just my least on life. But it's got to be also the health
- 22:17modalities that you're practicing daily, wouldn't you say? Yes, I would definitely say that. I am
- 22:23more peaceful, more joyful, more present than I have ever been in my life because James, I've
- 22:28always been a go-getter. I did everything all full out. You know, I taught exercise classes. I was
- 22:34ahead of the PTA. I was a worship leader for years. Like I just was unstoppable. And that's great.
- 22:38But what I did not realize at the time is even though there weren't even that many devices
- 22:43back in the day, I wasn't always present and peaceful. You know, I was very agenda driven.
- 22:48It might be a function of my age now, but I think it's also a function of wisdom that does come
- 22:52with that too, that I've learned to like slow down and really connect with people, with myself,
- 22:58with nature. So I just feel better than ever. And a little insight for your audience too. I am
- 23:03not dying my hair anymore. So even though I might look younger, I know some age is showing there,
- 23:07but I'm like, this feels so good to me too. I'm like, why was I dying my hair? And was that some kind
- 23:12of social morey that I took on? I don't know. But I'm like so happy to be as natural as possible,
- 23:18because I think that is a key to living that joyful, peaceful, present life that I'm enjoying so much
- 23:25today. Well, you mentioned in other articles and podcasts that, you know, when you were growing
- 23:30up, you felt a bit like an outsider that you weren't accepted for who you are. So what I hear
- 23:34you saying is that you very much accept who you are now. And if anything, you kind of put it
- 23:39front and center of like the badge of honor in a sense. But what do you think was the shift for
- 23:44that? You know, I kind of call it the linchpin or that crossroad. When do you think that was in
- 23:49your life? And what do you think caused it? Wow. This is deep. Well, I'll go back to my childhood.
- 23:56So I was raised by a dad from Cuba and a mom from Mexico. And so I was Latina by birth and by
- 24:02blood. But born and raised in a very kind of white suburban neighborhood, very homogenous. So
- 24:09I think in that sense, I felt different because at home, we spoke Spanish. But then with everyone
- 24:14else, I spoke English and I just didn't feel like I fit in. But I've come to now realize that
- 24:20here's a little secret. Nobody really fits in. And whether we trying to fit into
- 24:27who are we modeling after? Yes. So I had a big aha in middle school, I will say or maybe it was high
- 24:33school. I was trying to fit in with this little pom pom squad. This is like dance team I was on.
- 24:38And I would go a lunchtime to sit with what I considered like the cool table, you know. And these
- 24:43kids were just not nice to me. And after a while, I thought, why am I trying to sit with some people
- 24:49who are unkind? And I just made a shift. And I remember a friend of mine saying, I am so proud of you
- 24:54for coming to sit with us because I was realizing it's not worth it to try to conform to their
- 24:58standards. And so I would say the reinvention or the the release or unveiling of holistic
- 25:05hell that as she really is has been a gradual process. There wasn't really one linchpin moment.
- 25:10But I will say that the more I interview people on the wise regions podcast who think outside
- 25:15the box, the more I realized, hey, I like this way of thinking. I like having curiosity and not
- 25:23accepting everything at face value. I think 2020 was an example of that too. There were a lot of
- 25:27things we were told about the sickness that was around us or even the solution to the sickness that
- 25:32I was like, I don't think so. My spirit doesn't feel right with that. So ironically, as the world
- 25:38became smaller and people were unlocked down and afraid to go anywhere, I feel like I became more
- 25:44of who I was meant to be. So those are some of the things that have shaped me and who I am today.
- 25:49You're interviewing and you're speaking at events, you're constantly around people that are
- 25:54really looked at. And I know you're looked at this way too, but I'm curious how you see them.
- 26:00These are people that looked at as the top of their fields as as major influencers, major
- 26:06leaders within health. In those environments, do you ever feel imposter syndrome? And if you do,
- 26:13how do you care take yourself in those moments? Yes. Oh, thank you so much for asking. You know,
- 26:18it's interesting because I think it's very easy to look at any group and think, why am I not
- 26:26a part of that one? So I'll be honest with you as a podcaster. There was a time where I was like
- 26:31knocking on other fellow podcasters' doors. People at my same level, I'm not going to mention
- 26:35your names, but maybe a smidge bigger, but not a lot. And I'd be like, hey, have me on your show,
- 26:40have me on your show. And after a while I realized, oh my gosh, yes, I am reliving my middle school
- 26:45years. This is ridiculous. Why am I begging to be on their show? If the time is right,
- 26:51they're going to come find me. And I also realized, I don't need to conform, you know, a bunch of
- 26:57these guys are just, you know, let's say 30, 40 something, you know, white guys. And I'm like, I'm
- 27:02an older woman now. I'm Latina. Like I have my own secret spice and sauce. So why don't I just
- 27:08embrace that? So I think one thing is awareness, awareness of attitudes or thought patterns
- 27:15that we may have put into play because of our past. And then the second thing is gratitude.
- 27:21So if I ever do feel left out and it does happen from time to time or like a little twinge of
- 27:26why them and not me, you know, I turn it around to the things I can be grateful for. And I've also
- 27:32started doing this practice, which is fun. I think to myself, let's say I see someone that has
- 27:36a hundred thousand more followers than me on Instagram, which by the way, that numbers game,
- 27:41it's just very easy to get sucked into the comparison. Anyway, when I look at other people and they've
- 27:47got more followers than me, I sometimes think, do I want their life? And I realize, no, I don't want
- 27:53their life. I don't envy what they have as a whole. And that's when I look at my own life,
- 27:58I think, oh my gosh, I'm so happy. And I'm happily married. I've got four children, young adult
- 28:03children. And we love them. And I get to travel the world like you said, I've had so many things.
- 28:07And even if all of it burned up and smoked tomorrow, it doesn't do my heart any favors to be
- 28:14looking out there with envy. So I try to look at what I have with gratitude. So those are some
- 28:20ways I refocus and reframe what's happening. Is that where your childhood of faith and religion
- 28:26come and you think, or is this something you've just learned over time? Wow, you're good at asking
- 28:31questions. I think my faith came in early because my life was so shaky. I have to believe in
- 28:38something bigger than me because I can't count on my heart or my body or even my parents divorced
- 28:43when I was 11, you know, so things felt very unstable. Before I even knew anything of God as I
- 28:49understood him, I was ready to believe. So my best friend was Catholic. And so I would go to church
- 28:54with her on Sundays. And I just thought, oh, this feels so good and feels so right to me like
- 28:58thanking God and they would have all these rituals. This is the mystery of faith. And I told my friend
- 29:02as a mystery to me, I don't understand the mystery of faith. I'm just hanging in there, but I liked
- 29:06it. So I was ready to believe. And then after my heart surgery four or five years later, a doctor
- 29:14said to me, you know, the cross might not have been like this. It might have been just like a
- 29:18T shape. And that's exactly the shape of your scar. And I was like, oh my gosh, I've been marked.
- 29:25And I've been marked with like a sign of like my body is not my own. It's a temple of the Holy
- 29:30Spirit. And so I was predisposed to believe in the gospel when I heard that God loved me and
- 29:35sent a son to die for me. I was like, okay, I'm in because that's the kind of love I needed.
- 29:40A kind of love that was bigger than my parents love. A love that was bigger than the the fickle
- 29:44love of the middle schoolers. And when let me sit at their table, you know, even in my own love so
- 29:48many times, James, we judge ourselves and criticize ourselves. And we're so unkind to ourselves.
- 29:55We need to be reminded that we are beautiful and designed to love and to be loved. And I just
- 30:01think we just all need so much more grace. So that was the trajectory in my faith. And then
- 30:05I became a worship leader, which is so cool also in God's economy that nothing is wasted because
- 30:09all those years of playing the guitar in front of crowds of people ready to worship the Lord.
- 30:14They weren't worshiping me. But the point I'm making is it taught me how to communicate. And so
- 30:19when I became a podcaster, I felt like I was ready and then a speaker and so forth. So I just
- 30:24love this about life. Like it's just such a beautiful journey. And I I do want to say
- 30:30wherever people are on their faith journey or their health journey, I do think this spirit
- 30:34piece really matters. And I think how we see ourselves really matters. When I was in Ecuador,
- 30:40I met a healer woman, a bartera, and curandera. She was a midwife and a healer. Mama
- 30:46prosita colta. And she said to me, because she had seen so many births, she said,
- 30:50no, our cuerpo es sagrado. And if she said it once, she said 100 times in our conversation,
- 30:56our body is holy, our body is holy. And I thought later, if we could let that sink in somehow,
- 31:03I think it would change how we nourish ourselves, how we spend our time, how we see others.
- 31:09Like if we really realized how miraculously beautiful we are, it would change everything.
- 31:14So I think that does help my spirit. And it definitely informs everything I do.
- 31:19It's a beautiful reminder. I mean, I sometimes joke with people. It's like, isn't it
- 31:24miraculous that we can live in such a toxic world for so long? People can actually live with chronic
- 31:30illness for so long as a sign of how amazing the body is. I have to imagine that you didn't
- 31:37grow up eating like this. So in obviously you went through that miraculous life change of
- 31:44having a defect and then that getting fixed. But when did the diet piece come in? And how did it
- 31:49look when you were growing up versus when it changed? Yeah. So my parents, when they came to this country,
- 31:56got on the treadmill that a lot of immigrants do. They were both working. So it was fast foods and
- 32:02frozen dinners and so forth. We had a nanny who would cook now and then. But when my parents
- 32:07divorced, that was all over. I wasn't necessarily given the best base of nutrition. And so I didn't
- 32:14understand that. As a matter of fact, I remember thinking that cooking was kind of something that the
- 32:18the peasants did, if you will. Like my parents kind of looked down their noses at food like we don't
- 32:23care about those things. You know, so I was like giving it very little attention. And when I got into
- 32:28the health and wellness space, I became a fitness instructor. So I taught group fitness classes
- 32:33several times a week. And I loved it. And I thought, okay, it doesn't matter what you fuel your
- 32:36body with. Just move it, move it. And so I was big on that. But it didn't really work completely
- 32:42for me because I would find in the middle of classes, I was teaching like I would start to get
- 32:47really sweaty and shaky. And it wasn't that I like pushed past a certain level, but it was a blood
- 32:52sugar dip because all I had had for breakfast was like cereal with some 2% milk and some berries.
- 32:57It wasn't enough to sustain the level of activity that I was challenging my body with. So I still
- 33:03didn't know where to go. I would just grab a power bar and be like, okay, I'm just one of those
- 33:06people that needs to graze all the time until a good friend of mine said, hey, Hilda, you might want
- 33:12to check out this West and a price foundation because as I've started to change my diet, my friend
- 33:17told me to lean more toward wise traditions. I've started to regain my health. And this is a friend
- 33:23who was very chronically ill actually. And so I was like, huh. And I started thinking about it. And
- 33:28then again, with my faith background, I was like, wait, what God makes is beautiful and good. And
- 33:33what we make often screws stuff up. So of course, this makes sense that the local seasonal organic
- 33:39traditional foods, the single ingredient foods are the ones that are going to nourish us best. And
- 33:43the stuff in packages is filled with preservatives and additives that are probably not doing our
- 33:49bodies any favors. So I started making that shift. And what I did was actually, I just tried to
- 33:54make one change a year because I was like, you know what, it's too much to empty the whole cabinet
- 33:58of seed oils and you know, start all over and read every single label. So I just literally started
- 34:04with butter. I was like, okay, I'm going to put away the country crock, which I now know is a crock.
- 34:09You know, I'm like, none of that stuff. We're going to just do butter. It's the year of butter.
- 34:12I was almost going to do like the Chinese calendar, the year of the ox, the year of the monkey, the year
- 34:15of butter, you know, the year of no processed foods. And so we just gradually made a change. And
- 34:21some people say to me, well, did your family complain? No, they were ecstatic because until that
- 34:26time I had not paid attention exactly to what we eat. Like I would just literally dinner might be
- 34:32I'd put bagels in the toaster oven and actually this isn't a bad idea. Maybe if you get sour dough
- 34:36ones, but anyway, a bagels in the toaster oven slathered with some tomato sauce and some cheese on
- 34:40top. And it was like bagel pizzas on my there you go kids, you know, but they were often still
- 34:45hungry. They would say, you know, can we have something else? And after what I'd say, the kitchen
- 34:50is closed because I still hadn't figured out that I needed to lean more into the proteins and the
- 34:53fats and the organ meats, right? So it's been a process there too. I would say for the past 15
- 34:58years. And now I'm happy to say my young adult kids are like, do you have any raw milk mom? Are they
- 35:04come by and raid our freezer for the quarter cow? We got recently and I'm just like this is so good
- 35:11because they've also learned that the nourishment piece is really critical. But I do want to say to
- 35:16you and to the listener like, don't feel like you have to take it on all at once. I see these people
- 35:20on Instagram and I love them. You know, the ones that are making everything from scratch from the
- 35:24sourdough to the firmens to, you know, the very fancy meal that there's spouse ones. But I'm like,
- 35:31you know what, it doesn't have to be fancy. You can literally just start with getting food from a
- 35:35local farmer. I use farm match and I love it. But food from a local farmer like the meat. Max
- 35:40came. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, exactly. Just get some good meat, get some raw milk, a little
- 35:45firmens and some sweet potatoes and some butter and you've got dinner and it's so satiating. Like,
- 35:50if I fed my kids back in the day, what I'm feeding my family now, like they wouldn't have been
- 35:56still hungry after dinner, you know, or still hungry after their school. I mean, lunch, I sent
- 36:01with them to school. So yeah, I look back now and I'm like, shoot, I could have done some things
- 36:05differently, but all we can do is move forward, right? So start to make those gradual shifts and then
- 36:10again, see what happens in your family and in your own life. Now, but you also travel a lot though.
- 36:15So how are you managing, you know, because as we all know, it's impossible really to be healthy
- 36:21when you're eating out. So you really have to, when you're traveling and you are being mindful
- 36:26of what you're eating, you have to kind of pre-plan, right? So and sometimes you can't even pre-plan
- 36:33if you're gone a long time. So how are you managing that? You have to do the best you can wherever you go.
- 36:39I'm careful not to become, as they call it, orthorexic now, where you're so concerned with every
- 36:46by being organic or fitting a certain paradigm that you are so obsessed. You can't really relax
- 36:53and that's actually anxiety-producing, right? So what I do is I plan ahead a little bit. I'll take some,
- 36:58you know, paleo valley beef sticks with me and you know, a few little things to have in the suitcase,
- 37:03but mostly I go with the flow. So if I'm out at a restaurant or eating in a different country
- 37:08with some people, I don't even know. I just, I receive everything with gratitude and try to focus
- 37:13on the real food that's on the table. So I will generally find broths and meat, not so much
- 37:19raw milk, but cheese, you know, I'll go with the big guns and avoid the extra little sweet stuff
- 37:24that inevitably even in the most remote gurz or yurts in Mongolia, they would have like little
- 37:30dishes of candy because they said, well, actually, they were trying to make that a special treat for
- 37:35any visitors because they knew how hard it was to get to this city. Like Mongolia is one of the
- 37:39most sparsely populated countries on the planet, actually. And they do have such hospitality that
- 37:45if I leave my little yurt or gur and I go away for a week or two, like I'll leave food for whoever
- 37:50comes by and just needs a place to stop. Like that's how it works. It's amazing. And these little
- 37:54remote yurts, they would have these dishes full of single wrapped candies, you know, but I wouldn't
- 38:00have that, right? I would just have, oh my gosh, there we just ate so well. It was all animal
- 38:04products, you know, either a yak or calf or horse or goat or whatever, like we were just eating meat
- 38:10and fat and dairy products like little curdled little cakes of way. And I mean, it was just wild.
- 38:16It was wild stuff, but it was all good. So you'd be surprised. I mean, there's always real food
- 38:21wherever you go. You just have to keep your eyes open for it. And just know you're not going to be
- 38:25asking a quiz like, hey, was this regeneratively raised? They're doing the best they can wherever they
- 38:30are. So you have to do the best you can too. And I would say just to correct something you said
- 38:35earlier, you said, it's impossible. It's not impossible to eat healthy when you're on the road. You
- 38:38simply do the best you can and trust that your body is being nourished as best you can. And then
- 38:43you recalibrate when you get home. The one thing that's hard for me actually when I'm on the road
- 38:47is movement because I like to work with free weights a lot. And I just, I get a kick out of it. Like
- 38:52I've always loved it because I taught the classes years ago, right? I can't get weights when I'm
- 38:57in different places. I just have to use my body weight in the walking and just again, trust that I can
- 39:01jump back into the system and my little exercise plan when I get home. Yeah, I know that's great.
- 39:07Yeah. And I think I'm more think of it when you're eating, if you're stuck eating at restaurants
- 39:11all the time because restaurants, you know, they have bottom lines and they're they're how they
- 39:16make their money is sometimes choosing cheaper ingredients. And then the ones that don't do that are
- 39:20just so expensive. It's not sustainable for most people. I know. It's true. Eating out at restaurants
- 39:26is tough. It is tough because generally every fried thing on that menu is going to be done in
- 39:30canola oil or some seed oil. And as you know, those are really damaging. They cause oxidative
- 39:36stress in the body leading to cancer or joint pain, obesity, like a lot, a lot of conditions. So
- 39:43I take what I get with gratitude and try to avoid the fried stuff and just take what I can
- 39:49that I see that is real food as close to it as possible. And sometimes you'd be surprised what
- 39:54you can ask for. Like if I'm stopping at a hotel, for example, when I got to Mongolia, we went to
- 39:59the capital city, Mary Rhettigan, I'm Lulampatar. And so we're in this nice hotel before we go off
- 40:05the beaten path into Western Mongolia and just really, really far away. There we would say if they
- 40:10had better, hey, can you cook these eggs in butter? Like because they're probably going to do it in
- 40:14some random oil, but you just ask. And sometimes they say, yes, they can accommodate you. So do the
- 40:19best you can under your circumstances and you have to let the rest go. Now I know you, when you've
- 40:24done events, you will lead prayer before eating. Do you do that when you're just alone? Do you
- 40:30kind of say grace or do a prayer before eating? And how much does your space, your energy play
- 40:37into how your body receives any of the food you're eating? Ah, thank you for asking. You know,
- 40:43it's interesting because sometimes we can get so on the go in the US, present company included,
- 40:49I will be, you know, scarfing something down in my kitchen standing. And then my body is not
- 40:56at all in the rest and digest mode. So I have to catch myself. I guess I'm still a little bit of
- 41:01that go, go, go, girl, I mentioned earlier. So I have to pause and I've come to find out
- 41:07that actually prayer or pausing before any meal, it's good for all of us. You don't have to be
- 41:13a person of faith to do it. I remember being with some friends who just believed in energy. And of
- 41:18course, this isn't complicated to think about, but think about the stake that's on your plate.
- 41:25So whatever situation that cow was in was the energy it was receiving and the way it was treated
- 41:31if it was out in the sunshine and so forth. And that energy is getting communicated to you through
- 41:36this stake. And I interviewed, I think it was Will Winter on the subject at one point and some
- 41:40people were pushing back like, how do you know when you shouldn't say that because people who
- 41:44can't afford that grass-fed, you know, grass-finished stake are going to be sad. Again, remember I said,
- 41:49do the best you can in the circumstance that you're in. If your budget doesn't allow you to get
- 41:53that, get the meat you need to from Safeway. But I am convinced just as he is and he's a veterinarian
- 41:59with a lot of farming experience that the energy flows through that. So when you pause,
- 42:06you may be able to affect the energy of that animal and affect the energy of your own body at
- 42:12the very least. It shifts you from that high cortisol, that stress place, which is the opposite of
- 42:18the rest and digest. It's the sympathetic nervous system instead of the parasympathetic. It gets
- 42:22you to relax, to be grateful. And if it doesn't change the energy on your plate of the food on your
- 42:28plate, at least changes your energy so that you're more able to absorb what nutrients are there.
- 42:33So I think this is important to take into account. So yes, when I'm alone, I'll prayer, prayer,
- 42:38or sometimes I even just put my hands like over the food to almost like rakey style.
- 42:45Kind of blessing it. I guess it's a mix of prayer and blessing it. I'm asking God to shift things
- 42:52and make it work for my body. And even when I'm drinking water, actually, that sometimes we'll
- 42:56say thank you because I know that the energy I'm putting out there is going to affect what I'm
- 43:01taking in. And I think that's really important to keep in mind. As we've kind of encapsulated, I mean,
- 43:06it is anyone listening can tell you have a lot of energy and beautiful energy and you're constantly
- 43:13putting energy out. You're either learning or giving. And just for the sake of anyone out there
- 43:21that's listening that, you know, just has those days where they have fallen off the wagon or they
- 43:26aren't feeling positive or the energy isn't there. I have to imagine you have those days,
- 43:31do you not? Yes, yes. Yeah. So can you kind of just share what is a hard day for Hilda look like
- 43:37in a sense where she's not living her purpose, not living her mission, she's not in that kind of
- 43:43curiosity and hungry space, but she's really kind of more than I'm spent or you feeling the gaps.
- 43:48What does that look like? And then on the flip side of that, how do you self-care in those moments?
- 43:54So I think the days when I'm off-kilter have less to do with my external circumstances
- 44:02than they have to do with what's going inside in my mind. It's all about my perspective.
- 44:09I have read so many books and had so many experiences that helped me understand
- 44:14I'm as free as I choose to be. So I can look at something and grumble this person, this email,
- 44:23they sent me and start my day like that. And then my tone is set for the whole day. I'm
- 44:29begrudging or annoyed and that will set me off and then maybe I'm not feeling well nourished.
- 44:35So yes, I have days like that to answer the question. So what I do is I do my best to have these
- 44:43habits, these happy habits that recalibrate me and I literally, this is a great place for anyone
- 44:50to start, I think. I bookend my days with positivity and starting and ending the day on my own
- 44:56terms. This is what I mean. I'm not in a reactive mode when I start my day. I'm not like, oh shoot,
- 45:03you know, this email came in or this text or there's this demand and keep in mind I don't have a
- 45:08little baby that's crying to wake me up. I know there are times when you have to be responsive and
- 45:12it's not necessarily a bad thing, but I get outside first thing and I basically go on a 30 to 45
- 45:21minute prayer and connection walk. So I'm connecting with nature. I'm not reactive. I'm active,
- 45:28physically. I literally put on a little weighted vest too because I'm into all this stuff. I'm
- 45:32lifting up my day. I'm, you know, lifting up the people I love. I have certain prayers and
- 45:38scriptures that I repeat even affirmations because I want to set the tone. I don't know if you've
- 45:44ever seen certain runners before they have a race, they have a pregame ritual. This is my pre day
- 45:51ritual that really sets the tone for my day of gratitude, of movement, of getting the sun.
- 45:56And that's not to say I'm not going to come inside, turn my phone on and find I have, you know,
- 46:00five messages that I have to reply to immediately that might not get that cortisol rising,
- 46:04but I still started the day on my terms. Before I put my head on the pillow,
- 46:08I've already been wearing my blue blockers. So I'm not getting a lot of light that's overly
- 46:11stimulating as my body's trying to wind down. And then I wind down my spirit too by reading.
- 46:18I'm not on my device. I'm not one more email. No, I used to do that. I used to and it was
- 46:23to my detriment really. That's the one area as a health coach that I short-changed was my sleep.
- 46:28I was one of those, oh, I'll sleep when I'm dead. And now I'm like, oh, no. If I say that,
- 46:32the truth is I'm going to be dead sooner because you need that time to detox your body,
- 46:37really needs to rest. So right when I put my head on the pillow or before I do, like I said,
- 46:41I read, I unwind. And then when I put my head on the pillow, I think of what I'm thankful for.
- 46:46Some people talk about like reviewing the day and doing this kind of self-examine practice,
- 46:50but that's too much for me. I just think of what I'm thankful for and just kind of review things
- 46:54a little bit and try to end and begin the day with a smile on my face because no matter what happens
- 46:59in between, like that's kind of taking ownership. And that's what I always try to invite people to
- 47:04do too. Like there may be people listening to this podcast where like, I'm so sick and I wish I
- 47:09could do a 45 minute walk. But by the way, I've got this demanding job or I've got four kids under
- 47:14five. I mean, I was at that place. I actually had my four kids in a row. I didn't know anything about
- 47:18spacing. So I four kids in five years. Yes, I was like a little accordion with my womb. I was crazy
- 47:23in and out and in and out. But it was crazy. But even then, this is what I would invite those young moms
- 47:30or the people struggling to do is you can make choices that are healing for you and helpful for
- 47:35your family. So you can say to them, Hey, before breakfast, we always get outside. Before breakfast,
- 47:40kids will start any routine and follow your lead. We always put our feet on the ground for five
- 47:44minutes. Let's see how long we can last today because it's really cold out there. You know,
- 47:47when you make it a game. And then at the end of the day, we would read with our kids every night too.
- 47:51And so you're helping them come up with a happy, healthy routine. And so you can actually model
- 47:57it yourself as well. But wherever you are, implementing some of the basics can get you back up to
- 48:03that starting line. And you can always return to those to recalibrate on the hardest days.
- 48:08These are such great tips and shares. Thank you for those. I find it interesting. And this is not
- 48:14always the case. But so in many ways, you know, Western price and ancestral very much connect.
- 48:22But then you're also a biohacker. You talk a lot about different biohacking tools and tips.
- 48:29Do you see those as different? I mean, clearly you see them as being able to co-exist. But can you
- 48:37share a talk a little bit about that? Because I don't think everyone connects those dots. They don't
- 48:41think of biohacking as also ancestral, but clearly you're connecting the dots.
- 48:47Well, I guess I straddle both worlds, but I must say I lean more ancestral. So maybe I'm more of
- 48:52an ancestral biohacker. And this is what I mean by that. The biohacker is trying to
- 48:59make his environment both internal and external conform with the health that he wants. So he or she,
- 49:05so let's say you want to experience the elements as I was saying about shivers.
- 49:10An ancestral person would go outside without a jacket, which I totally do all the time,
- 49:14even when it's 35 degrees or whatever I like to challenge myself. But the biohacker might not
- 49:19want to do that, but they might jump in a nice bath. So so happens I do have a plunge in my backyard.
- 49:23So I'm willing to take the shortcuts, some of them, for that kind of effect that I would get
- 49:31if I were living more ancestral. But I don't do everything. I'm not big on things like
- 49:36methylene blue or some of them more unusual things. Because I'm like, why should I do that to detox,
- 49:44for example, when I could have some black walnut tincture or I lean more ancestral or get my
- 49:51feet on the ground to get rid of the EMFs. Do I have a little quantum block in my bedroom? Yes,
- 49:56but I'm also putting my feet on the ground and I see those as just as valuable. So I think those
- 50:01biohacking shortcuts are great, but sometimes they're pricey too. And I'm like, shoot, the sun is
- 50:06free. We don't need a sauna. You know, again, I do have a sauna. But so I have the things,
- 50:12but I know that they're accessible for everyone. Even I'm going to say the sustenance piece,
- 50:17which people can say can be the most expensive. Like, why should I get organic? Or do I need
- 50:21grass fed grass finished as I was saying earlier? Do the best you can to get real food on your
- 50:26table and on your plate and it's going to do you good. You don't need to get super fancy. You don't
- 50:31need to get the the high and different meats and so forth that are like really pricey. A lot of
- 50:37my meat comes from an Amish farmer in Pennsylvania through farm match. So there are ways to live
- 50:42ancestral with all the fancy gadgets. Because I'm really not big on the gadgets. Are they helpful
- 50:46now and then yes. But I think this kind of lifestyle is more ancestral than biohacking and it's
- 50:53very accessible. Where do you get your information? Is it mostly from your connections and
- 51:02conversations with people? Or are you like specifically like, oh, I go to this resource because
- 51:08this is the tried and true source. You're mentioning farm match of course for food resource. But where
- 51:14can people in your judgment go to kind of discern like what should we be focused on? Because as you
- 51:21know, there's constantly noise. There's constantly reference to some new trend or some new
- 51:30modality and everyone thinks, should I do this? Should I not do this? And then 10 years later,
- 51:35we learn, oh, that's actually misinformation. Coca-Cola actually was holding back the truth
- 51:40because they wanted you to think that you could just walk off their sodas. You know what I mean?
- 51:45Things like that. So where are you going to kind of discern truth from fiction? I love to look at
- 51:52two things. One is truth that has stood the test of time. I think there's a verse in Jeremiah that says
- 52:02stand at the crossroads and look, ask for the ancient path and walk in them and you will find
- 52:08rest for your souls. So I feel like this is one reason I do have faith because there are people
- 52:15who walk this earth in such wisdom that I can learn from. I read books about saints of old who
- 52:21knew how to levitate, you know, I haven't gotten that far yet, but I'm so impressed with their
- 52:27perseverance, with their diligence, with their confidence. I used to end every podcast on the
- 52:32Wise Regions podcast till they told me, please stop. With a quote from St. Julian of Norwich,
- 52:38this wonderful saint from like the 15th century who would say, all shall be well and all shall be
- 52:44well in all manner of things shall be well. I'm like, what was this woman thinking? I don't know if
- 52:49that was a prayer or a mantra or a hope, but she clung to it when the people in her town and
- 52:55England were going through the black plague. So I look for spiritual and physical things that
- 53:02have stood the test of time. That's one. But the second thing is, James, I don't outsource as much
- 53:07as you think. I have a friend that used to whip herself into a tizzy with, oh my gosh,
- 53:13children's health defense is saying this and highwire is saying that and this person saying that
- 53:17and she was more anxious than people who were watching the regular news. This is during the pandemic.
- 53:23And I was like, okay, wait, maybe we're not helping ourselves. Maybe there's fear on both sides.
- 53:29And there were some real words of wisdom imparted to me by an aboriginal woman in Australia.
- 53:36And she said, in our tribe, we have the custom of the dairy, which is deep listening.
- 53:42It means being still. It means not outsourcing my thinking. It means looking within and seeing
- 53:49if there's a deep knowing within me that will help me, whether it's within immediate decision
- 53:55or with what I need to do for my body. If I'm still enough, I might hear the voice of God or my
- 54:00ancestors. I mean, who knows what that's going to come in, but I need to be willing to learn
- 54:05from the deepest places of me and willing to stop outsourcing my health, whether it's to conventional
- 54:12or natural methods. You know, I just feel like we're too quick to give up our thinking really.
- 54:17And our decision making and just saying, well, that person saying this, I guess I'll try it too.
- 54:21No, like really give yourself a chance to be still and know if this is for you.
- 54:26So I do look for what stood the test of time, but I also look within.
- 54:30That's beautiful. And I think your story and your life is a testimony of that we are
- 54:37vessels. And you're very much living your life like that. You are valuing your uniqueness and letting
- 54:46the world sift through that unique vessel that you are and come out through you and in your
- 54:52unique way. And so I think there's just not only so much beauty, but so much that we can all
- 54:58learn from, you know, of our own unique beauty and that we shouldn't quite our voices.
- 55:05It's very important for people to know if you don't know, if you've ever listened to the Y
- 55:09traditions podcast, that wasn't a podcast that existed before Hilda suggested it. So she made
- 55:16that happen. And when she did that, she had never podcast ever. So this was like truly following
- 55:23your instinct in your divine vision. And you co-created that. You created that path. And it's just
- 55:30very inspiring. So thank you for all that you do. I want to just share a quote. And then I'm
- 55:35going to ask you something. And of course, you can say no, but we'll just see if you say yes.
- 55:40I took this quote from some other source and you said, you know, that you look for potential,
- 55:45you get excited about it. And then you believe that it can become reality. And I just, I really love
- 55:52that, you know, we have to be seekers and get excited about what we see. But then we have to believe
- 56:00that is possible. So thank you for modeling that. So my ask is that you have sang worship.
- 56:09And I'm just wondering if you might take two minutes to share your voice with us on this podcast,
- 56:15where you just sing a very, could be two sentences, could be some, some piece of worship
- 56:21they used to sing back in a day. But I was just wondering if I could put you on this spot and
- 56:25have you do a little singing. Oh my gosh. That feels so special to me. Thank you so much.
- 56:32Trying to think. Oh gosh, it's hard for me to think except I can sing a song that's never been
- 56:38published that I kind of wrote with a kid in mind. So I will share that. So that's great.
- 56:44That feels good to me. And it's actually cute because it goes along with our stories. It goes
- 56:47like this. Like before I was born, God saw me inside my mom. He for me. He kept me safe.
- 56:58And one before I was born. That's all I remember right now. Oh, I love it. Thank you so much,
- 57:07Hilda. Oh my pleasure. Beautiful conversation. We met many years ago. Not many, but I guess a few
- 57:13years ago. I've just loved our interactions. And I so appreciate you being on our podcast.
- 57:18Where can people find you? I know your website. I don't know. Is it been fully
- 57:23transitioned to the new site yet? Because I went on it prior and it looks fantastic. Is that the
- 57:28new website? I guess. I don't know. But it looks great if it is. Yeah. So yeah, my website is
- 57:34holistichilda.com. I do have my six secrets course which releases a couple times a year.
- 57:40And I'm also building a holistic hub, a community where we can connect. And we're
- 57:45going to have a private podcast, by the way, where I'm just going to do a solo cast and tell
- 57:49everybody what I'm thinking because I don't always have opportunities like this James. So I'm
- 57:53really, really grateful. And then I've got my Instagram, holistichilda, and of course the
- 57:56Wise Traditions podcast. And I'm also on YouTube where I try to put longer forum content.
- 58:02But I just want to say along the lines of what you're saying about me and fulfilling my purpose,
- 58:07I see this in you. I see this even in a listener I haven't met yet right now who's like,
- 58:12you know, I've got three kids, you know, below my knees, like Togganami all day, you are fulfilling
- 58:18your purpose. And you are here for a reason. I'm so thankful. And just know that life is a long time.
- 58:24I had that season too. And you never know what's around the corner. So enjoy every moment
- 58:29until it's time for something new that you can dream about and see come about.
- 58:34Thank you so much, Hilda. And thank you everyone for participating in the everyday ancestral
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- 58:45team. You know, we rising tides. Let's get the word out there that these ancestral
- 58:50ways are important to bring into our modern and present day. So thank you all. And just stay
- 58:58curious. Love it. Thanks James. Thank you so much for joining me on everyday ancestral.
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