Latest / Radio 831: A Romance Podcast / Let Mary Bennet Be a Freak, Nikki Payne on Austen's Imprint on Romance, and Sense and Sensibility Double Homework
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- 0:06Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome to the Radio 831 Podcast. We're your hosts,
- 0:10Speaker 1: Sanjana Bhaskar and Tyler McCall, and we're so excited to
- 0:13Speaker 1: talk everything romance, from the novels and the tropes to
- 0:17Speaker 1: the book-to-screen adaptations and, of course, the drama of it all.
- 0:21Speaker 1: You know, unpacking what the genre says about who we
- 0:24Speaker 1: are and how we love. Big stuff. Important stuff. Sanj, hello.
- 0:29Speaker 2: I'm so excited to talk to you today as I
- 0:31Speaker 2: am every day, but a little bit more excited because...
- 0:34Speaker 2: I would really like to give you the floor today.
- 0:37Speaker 3: Okay.
- 0:38Speaker 2: To really pitch me on something that you have been
- 0:41Speaker 2: mentioning to me. This is not an exaggeration.
- 0:43Speaker 1: All summer. Correct. Once a week minimum.
- 0:46Speaker 2: Absolutely. And it is now the notably end of summer
- 0:49Speaker 2: and I am deeply behind on my television, but fall
- 0:52Speaker 2: is the season in which I get back into TV.
- 0:54Speaker 2: And so I would really like to hear your.
- 0:56Speaker 1: Pitch on the show. The Other Bennett Sister. Tyler, I
- 1:00Speaker 1: thought you'd never ask. I know you did. Oh my gosh.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Pull up the PowerPoint, get your slides ready. I'm so excited. Okay,
- 1:08Speaker 1: a little bit of background. The Other Bennett Sister is
- 1:10Speaker 1: an adaptation of a novel written by Janice Hadlow called
- 1:15Speaker 1: The Other Bennett Sister, which follows Mary Bennett, who is
- 1:19Speaker 1: one of the Bennett sisters of the acclaimed Bennett family
- 1:22Speaker 1: in Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. Mary Bennett is
- 1:26Speaker 1: the sister who is quite overlooked for the duration of
- 1:29Speaker 1: Pride and Prejudice. There is a little bit of an
- 1:31Speaker 1: iconic scene where she plays the piano at a family
- 1:34Speaker 1: gathering and totally embarrasses herself. Her father has to kindly
- 1:39Speaker 1: be like, girl, please stop. You're embarrassing yourself. And it's mortifying.
- 1:43Speaker 1: It all happens in the background. She's such a background
- 1:46Speaker 1: peripheral figure in the actual novel Pride and Prejudice. The
- 1:50Speaker 1: other Bennett sister is her story, her fictionalized story. The
- 1:54Speaker 1: TV show is an adaptation done by BBC that was
- 1:57Speaker 1: a miniseries that came out in spring of this year, summer,
- 2:00Speaker 1: for us Americans on BritBox. And it follows Ella Brugleri
- 2:06Speaker 1: as Mary Bennett, Donald Finn, who I have discussed at
- 2:08Speaker 1: length on the pod. Internet boyfriend. As the fictional Mr.
- 2:11Speaker 4: Hayward.
- 2:12Speaker 1: And the actress who plays that one person in Sex Education,
- 2:17Speaker 1: she plays Caroline Bingley in this. It is Tanya Reynolds.
- 2:22Speaker 3: Okay.
- 2:22Speaker 1: This is not, strictly speaking, exclusively a romance. There is
- 2:26Speaker 1: a huge romance component between Mary Bennett and Mr. Hayward,
- 2:31Speaker 1: and there's a love triangle. The other romantic lead is
- 2:35Speaker 1: William Ryder, played by Laurie Davidson, who is this, like,
- 2:38Speaker 1: wealthy young cad who is very taken by Mary Bennett
- 2:42Speaker 1: because of her charm. But the other piece of this
- 2:47Speaker 1: is that this is a TV show... that is not
- 2:50Speaker 1: concerned about making Mary Bennett likable. Mary spends the bulk
- 2:57Speaker 1: of the first half of this show being an insufferable nerd.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Hell yeah. She is difficult, not because she's rude. She's
- 3:06Speaker 1: infinitely polite, but she's so awkward that it is hard
- 3:09Speaker 1: to look at her for a huge chunk of the show.
- 3:12Speaker 1: She spends so much time trying to prove herself and
- 3:15Speaker 1: assert herself as different From her witty, charming, radiantly beautiful
- 3:21Speaker 1: sisters and being told over and over that she will
- 3:26Speaker 1: never be them. She wants to talk about theology and
- 3:29Speaker 1: geology at the dinner table when other people are talking
- 3:32Speaker 1: about gossip and other things. And the show is in
- 3:36Speaker 1: huge part her own journey to self-acceptance. And it's a
- 3:41Speaker 1: beautiful love story about people who like really come to
- 3:44Speaker 1: try to understand her and see her clearly. as she
- 3:48Speaker 1: comes into her own as an adult. So it follows
- 3:51Speaker 1: her over several years and through processing the grief over
- 3:54Speaker 1: the loss of her father. And also as all of
- 3:58Speaker 1: her sisters get married and leave the house and fulfill
- 4:01Speaker 1: their womanly duty. There are a few reasons why I
- 4:03Speaker 1: would like for you to watch this. One, the piece
- 4:05Speaker 1: about her being unforgivably awkward.
- 4:08Speaker 2: I love that because I'll tell you, I get really
- 4:10Speaker 2: scared when people do these. I'm going to do a
- 4:13Speaker 2: story about this forgotten character or this background character because
- 4:16Speaker 2: I feel like the tendency is to sort of yassify them.
- 4:19Speaker 1: Yes, correct. And I don't want that. Why are we
- 4:23Speaker 1: yassifying them? It's not the exact same, but very similar.
- 4:25Speaker 1: We've gotten a slate of... Greek myth retellings focused on
- 4:31Speaker 1: women in these stories who are underappreciated or background figures.
- 4:36Speaker 1: My overall critique of these retellings is that they are often,
- 4:40Speaker 1: not all, but many of them, are scared to make
- 4:44Speaker 1: these women disagreeable in any way. The secret, the retelling is,
- 4:50Speaker 1: don't you know they were good all along? Yeah. And
- 4:53Speaker 1: Mary is good. Mary Bennett is good. Mary is good,
- 4:55Speaker 1: but let her be a little freak.
- 4:57Speaker 3: She's a freak.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Let her be a little weirdo.
- 4:58Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:00Speaker 1: So I think it's bold where it needs to be bold.
- 5:02Speaker 1: And it is so soft and tender where it needs
- 5:05Speaker 1: to be tender. And also, I've talked about Donald Finn
- 5:08Speaker 1: so much. He's such a good romantic lead. He's such
- 5:11Speaker 1: a good romantic lead. Yeah. He's such a good romantic lead.
- 5:15Speaker 1: He's such a good romantic lead. He does this delivery
- 5:17Speaker 1: of a couple of lines where I'm just like, please
- 5:20Speaker 1: do it again.
- 5:21Speaker 2: And actually the most surefire way to get me to
- 5:23Speaker 2: watch anything is telling me that a hot Irish man delivers.
- 5:27Speaker 1: A fabulous love confession. Delicious love confessions to me.
- 5:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:30Speaker 1: Like, say no more. I will also say it's like
- 5:33Speaker 1: a very short, quick watch. And there's a Christmas special
- 5:36Speaker 1: coming out this year. Oh, okay. Which, who even gets
- 5:39Speaker 1: a Christmas special anymore?
- 5:40Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 5:41Speaker 2: And didn't I do the right thing by waiting until
- 5:43Speaker 2: the end of summer to watch it in the end?
- 5:45Speaker 1: I do think it's a beautiful fall watch.
- 5:47Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:48Speaker 1: It's very pastoral England, flowing dresses. It's all of that.
- 5:54Speaker 1: It's all of that stuff.
- 5:55Speaker 2: There are certain things that God did not intend for
- 5:57Speaker 2: us to watch in the summer. And a British historical
- 6:01Speaker 2: drama is one of them.
- 6:03Speaker 1: And you know what? I can accept and allow that.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:06Speaker 1: Tyler, has my pitch sold you? Are you thinking of
- 6:08Speaker 1: watching it? I'm buying in heavily.
- 6:10Speaker 2: Okay.
- 6:11Speaker 1: I'm sold. I'm really delighted.
- 6:13Speaker 2: I don't know about you. My watching habits all like
- 6:16Speaker 2: fall off during the summer. Like I'm behind on so
- 6:18Speaker 2: much stuff. And then fall happens and I get depressed.
- 6:21Speaker 2: And I'm like, what if I did just stay on
- 6:23Speaker 2: my couch for six hours straight and binge the series?
- 6:26Speaker 2: And that's exactly what I need to do.
- 6:29Speaker 1: I don't want you to be depressed, but I am
- 6:30Speaker 1: excited for you to watch it. This is not an
- 6:33Speaker 1: endorsement of you being on your depression couch, but this
- 6:37Speaker 1: is me being really excited for you to be in
- 6:39Speaker 1: a spiritual state ready to accept the love of the
- 6:42Speaker 1: other Bennett sister into your heart. Since I'm proselytizing today.
- 6:46Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 6:47Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 6:47Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 6:48Speaker 1: I will say this is really wonderful, too, because I
- 6:50Speaker 1: leave TV town in the fall.
- 6:52Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 6:53Speaker 1: And together we make a full portrait of media. That's beautiful.
- 6:56Speaker 1: Speaking of beautiful things. I had the total pleasure of
- 7:00Speaker 1: getting to speak with Nikki Payne about all things Austin.
- 7:04Speaker 1: We have a very Austin-themed episode today.
- 7:06Speaker 3: Yes.
- 7:06Speaker 1: Truly, like beginning, middle, end.
- 7:08Speaker 2: All Austin, all the time. I do like that the
- 7:10Speaker 2: calendar switched to September and we were like, Jane Austen time.
- 7:14Speaker 1: The calendar switched to September and we were like, what
- 7:16Speaker 1: if we thought about pastoral England, perhaps? What if we
- 7:20Speaker 1: thought about foliage?
- 7:21Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 7:22Speaker 1: And you know what? I love that about us.
- 7:24Speaker 3: I do too.
- 7:25Speaker 1: Nikki Payne is... such a brilliant, thoughtful, sparkling person. She
- 7:31Speaker 1: is the author of several books that you might know,
- 7:35Speaker 1: like Pride and Protest, Sex, Lies, and Sensibility, The Princess
- 7:40Speaker 1: and the P.I., and most recently, the one that she's
- 7:43Speaker 1: got coming up is The Pro and the Con. She
- 7:47Speaker 1: is a devout fan of Austen and And she's also
- 7:52Speaker 1: a cultural anthropologist. She is such a cool person and
- 7:56Speaker 1: she's such a pro at exploring the cross-section of love, culture, desirability.
- 8:03Speaker 1: And that's why she makes kind of the perfect guest
- 8:05Speaker 1: to talk about Austen's enduring impact on the way we
- 8:10Speaker 1: think about and talk about love in romance novels and
- 8:13Speaker 1: outside of them.
- 8:13Speaker 3: So Nikki, welcome to the pod.
- 8:24Speaker 1: I'm so delighted to have you on today. How are
- 8:28Speaker 1: you doing?
- 8:29Speaker 4: I am fantastic. I'm getting ready for a Jane Austen fall.
- 8:34Speaker 4: I love it.
- 8:34Speaker 2: Good.
- 8:35Speaker 1: Well, see, okay, here's the thing. I really wanted to
- 8:39Speaker 1: have this conversation with you because I'm fascinated by romance
- 8:43Speaker 1: as a genre's interest in repetition, like the reason why
- 8:47Speaker 1: we keep coming back to familiar stories, tropes, frames, plots,
- 8:51Speaker 1: whatever it is. And like, It's hard to imagine a
- 8:53Speaker 1: romance genre that exists without Austen. I'm curious about your
- 8:58Speaker 1: relationship to Austen's work, because I know that your first
- 9:01Speaker 1: two adult romances were heavily inspired by Pride and Prejudice
- 9:05Speaker 1: and Sense and Sensibility. But when did you start reading Austen?
- 9:10Speaker 1: When did you fall in love with her work? What
- 9:11Speaker 1: does it mean to you?
- 9:12Speaker 4: So let me set the scene for you. Okay. Here
- 9:18Speaker 4: it is, Year of Our Lord, 1996. Okay. And I'm
- 9:23Speaker 4: coming of age. People are saying totally, you know, things
- 9:26Speaker 4: are just very 90. Okay. And I watched this movie
- 9:33Speaker 4: and this movie was clueless. And I became with Cher.
- 9:39Speaker 4: And I said, as if, and I wanted a little
- 9:41Speaker 4: plaid tennis skirts and Dion. And it was just diverse.
- 9:46Speaker 4: It was LA. And I'm like, this is my new personality.
- 9:50Speaker 4: Then I found out. that it was a Jane Austen
- 9:53Speaker 4: retelling of Emma. And I said, I know you fucking lying. Okay.
- 9:58Speaker 4: I've been weird ever since. And if you can, think
- 10:00Speaker 4: about that year of 1996, about like what was happening
- 10:03Speaker 4: in people's brain, in the elder millennial brain, like that
- 10:08Speaker 4: crazy ass Romeo and Juliet came out. Right. That O
- 10:14Speaker 4: with Othello thing. That sense of sensibility with like Emma
- 10:18Speaker 4: Thompson having that nervous breakdown and shades.
- 10:20Speaker 1: So good.
- 10:21Speaker 3: Okay. So good.
- 10:22Speaker 4: This is all within like a six month period. Like
- 10:26Speaker 4: congratulations for all of these girlies who came out normal
- 10:29Speaker 4: after that. For some reason, I became a classic scholar,
- 10:33Speaker 4: but like in the retail, 10 things I hate about you.
- 10:36Speaker 4: She's the man, like literally all within a very tight
- 10:40Speaker 4: window of time. So, like, they were feeding us the
- 10:43Speaker 4: classics in the 90s and having us reimagine them in
- 10:47Speaker 4: fun teenage ways. So I was really primed for the
- 10:51Speaker 4: pump of becoming obsessed with some old white person. Yeah.
- 10:57Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 10:57Speaker 1: Well, my other question is about this point about it
- 11:00Speaker 1: sort of being white folks business, because I've always been
- 11:02Speaker 1: curious about why. Like, my mom loves period pieces. She
- 11:06Speaker 1: loves the 2005 Keira Knightley Pride and Prejudice. I grew
- 11:10Speaker 1: up watching Sense and Sensibility with Emma Thompson. You know,
- 11:14Speaker 1: these movies were so influential on my family as well.
- 11:17Speaker 1: And I'm always like, why were we so interested in
- 11:21Speaker 1: stories about a bunch of white people? Like, what was
- 11:24Speaker 1: the enduring appeal of that?
- 11:25Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:27Speaker 4: I think there are, like, three reasons for this. One,
- 11:29Speaker 4: I think we inhabit and I'm just going to be
- 11:35Speaker 4: like an anthropologist for a second. We are in the
- 11:37Speaker 4: water of the colonizer. So like we're in these spaces
- 11:43Speaker 4: where our values, our rituals, our understanding of what is ideal,
- 11:48Speaker 4: what is even classical, right? Is wrapped up in our
- 11:52Speaker 4: colonizer's mentality, right? And so sometimes the media that hits
- 11:57Speaker 4: you first when you are 13, 14, 15 becomes the,
- 12:02Speaker 4: architecture in your brain. And it becomes scaffolding, for better
- 12:07Speaker 4: or worse, about how you understand storytelling, how you understand value,
- 12:12Speaker 4: how you understand how people are supposed to act and
- 12:15Speaker 4: be together. But I also want to give a short
- 12:18Speaker 4: shrift to the story that Jane Austen particularly was telling
- 12:22Speaker 4: for a woman.
- 12:24Speaker 1: In our contemporary world, I know many South Asian women
- 12:27Speaker 1: who have to deal with similar politics around marriage and
- 12:31Speaker 1: power and the similar dilemma of being unqualified for something,
- 12:37Speaker 1: but qualified for a very specific something. Like, the experience of,
- 12:42Speaker 1: I don't want to, like, be beyond my position in life,
- 12:48Speaker 1: and yet the position I'm in has trapped me. Like,
- 12:50Speaker 1: in the way that Jane is herself, and many of
- 12:53Speaker 1: her characters are, where they, like, are not becoming governesses
- 12:58Speaker 1: overnight and not becoming working women overnight. Like, they were
- 13:01Speaker 1: raised and bred to be in someone else's home. And
- 13:04Speaker 1: when that doesn't come to pass, like, the, like, utter
- 13:07Speaker 1: stagnation of that, I think, is an experience that lots
- 13:10Speaker 1: of people from outside of a white American context have
- 13:13Speaker 1: much more intimate experience with.
- 13:15Speaker 4: Deeply intimate experience. Some of the best Jane Austen retellings,
- 13:19Speaker 4: I would argue one of the two best are Ayesha
- 13:23Speaker 4: at Last, right? It was my holiday. And unmarriageable, right?
- 13:28Speaker 4: Which is unmarriageable as a Pakistani family. And I see
- 13:32Speaker 4: those as actually some of the best contemporary retellings today.
- 13:36Speaker 1: I guess I'm also curious, do you see Austen's novels
- 13:39Speaker 1: as romances? Like, do you consider them to be romance novels?
- 13:42Speaker 4: In our contemporary sense, no. I think they were social
- 13:45Speaker 4: commentary novels with a marriage plot. I'm going to even
- 13:48Speaker 4: go out on a limb. I feel like Sense and
- 13:51Speaker 4: Sensibility was a philosophy argument, right?
- 13:55Speaker 3: It was.
- 13:56Speaker 4: About our stance. What was happening at that time was
- 14:00Speaker 4: this tension between this rational enlightenment and the romantics, right?
- 14:05Speaker 4: So we think, therefore we are. We feel, therefore we are, right?
- 14:10Speaker 4: So this arc is happening at this time. And she
- 14:13Speaker 4: makes these two sisters, right? The original title of this
- 14:16Speaker 4: was Rational Creatures, right?
- 14:19Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that.
- 14:20Speaker 4: Yes, the tension between being human, right? And being this
- 14:25Speaker 4: kind of loving thing, this animal. And the sense of like,
- 14:30Speaker 4: whether we follow the whim or we run to love
- 14:33Speaker 4: or whether we are stoic and follow our heads and
- 14:36Speaker 4: do the right thing, the smart thing.
- 14:38Speaker 1: I was rewatching the 1995 Sense and Sensibility, but now
- 14:42Speaker 1: we have two more Austens coming up. We've got Dolly
- 14:47Speaker 1: Alderton's Pride and Prejudice by the end of the year.
- 14:49Speaker 1: And we have Sense and Sensibility with Daisy Edgar Jones
- 14:53Speaker 1: coming out. I find myself going in with some skepticism where,
- 14:56Speaker 1: I mean, the interpretations that I fell in love with
- 15:00Speaker 1: as a kid were predominantly white casts, like the 2005
- 15:05Speaker 1: and the 1995. And I have great fondness for Emma
- 15:08Speaker 1: Thompson's voice. And I think often about that speech, the
- 15:12Speaker 1: acceptance speech she gave, where she wrote like a fictional
- 15:15Speaker 1: letter from Jane Austen, like what Jane Austen would think
- 15:18Speaker 1: if she'd seen the 95. Sense and Sensibility. And I
- 15:20Speaker 1: think about that, like, wit and that humor. And I
- 15:22Speaker 1: do think they were formative for me. And I'm sort
- 15:25Speaker 1: of like, 20 years later, why are you trying to
- 15:28Speaker 1: replicate that or remake that instead of taking, like, a
- 15:35Speaker 1: bigger swing? Or is it even a bigger swing? Like,
- 15:38Speaker 1: I think these are more logical ways of interpreting this
- 15:42Speaker 1: work that has lived on in so many different contexts.
- 15:45Speaker 1: I find myself a little bit disappointed by that I mean,
- 15:48Speaker 1: I'll be there, but it does feel a little bit
- 15:52Speaker 1: like a lost opportunity sometimes. No, you're right. You're right.
- 15:55Speaker 4: Especially for Jane Austen, which, you know, retellings and reimaginings
- 16:00Speaker 4: and adaptations of Jane Austen are at this point a
- 16:03Speaker 4: cottage industry. And it's one of the perfect examples when
- 16:07Speaker 4: I'm telling people when they're interested in becoming writers. And
- 16:10Speaker 4: they get like seduced by the idea of making something original.
- 16:13Speaker 4: It's like, like I have to create this original thing or,
- 16:17Speaker 4: you know, it won't be, you know, the same or interesting.
- 16:20Speaker 4: And I said, my first novel was literally a Jane
- 16:22Speaker 4: Austen retelling. And at the same time that year, a
- 16:26Speaker 4: book came out and it was Pausing Prejudice. And it
- 16:29Speaker 4: was about a dog. And I said, listen, give that
- 16:34Speaker 4: out of your head that that's the only novel. Interesting
- 16:37Speaker 4: thing has to be something that Noah's ever seen before.
- 16:40Speaker 4: And I think when these adaptations think about retelling, they
- 16:46Speaker 4: think about retelling the movie they saw. They don't really
- 16:49Speaker 4: retell the themes or the stories or the ideas. A
- 16:53Speaker 4: perfect example of that is the Romeo and Juliet. Romeo
- 16:55Speaker 4: and Juliet with Leonardo DiCaprio, it was word for word,
- 16:58Speaker 4: but it was a retelling in the world and where
- 17:01Speaker 4: the themes came alive for 14-year-olds. They were in lowriders.
- 17:06Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Like, still think about that.
- 17:09Speaker 1: You know? It's interesting that it seems like people are
- 17:11Speaker 1: willing to take bigger swings with reworking Shakespeare than they
- 17:14Speaker 1: do with Austen. I don't know if that says something
- 17:18Speaker 1: about the sort of conservative bent of our culture right
- 17:20Speaker 1: now as well, but like many of the more inventive,
- 17:23Speaker 1: creative Austen reinterpretations that we've seen in recent years were
- 17:27Speaker 1: in the 90s and 2000s. And I'm even thinking about
- 17:30Speaker 1: all the discourse around Christopher Nolan's The Odyssey, where there
- 17:35Speaker 1: are all these allegiances to a very specific fictionalized form
- 17:40Speaker 1: of what the true story is. And I wonder if
- 17:43Speaker 1: that also informs the fact that our forthcoming Austen adaptations
- 17:47Speaker 1: seem to want to replicate a very specific traditional Austen look.
- 17:54Speaker 1: The reality is in romance, where you have such a
- 17:57Speaker 1: familiar frame, regardless of whether or not there's an Austen
- 18:01Speaker 1: influence in your work, The thing that really stands out
- 18:04Speaker 1: is always going to be voice. Like the thing that
- 18:07Speaker 1: stands out about your work is that like within the
- 18:12Speaker 1: familiar conventions of an Austen novel, like it is a
- 18:16Speaker 1: story that is so decidedly your authorial voice. Like I
- 18:20Speaker 1: don't think anyone who's read your work could say otherwise.
- 18:23Speaker 1: And I think that that distinction of voice is so
- 18:26Speaker 1: special and something that I wish other media would make
- 18:30Speaker 1: use of that like film and TV would make use
- 18:32Speaker 1: of as well. Right.
- 18:33Speaker 4: The lens becomes an incredibly powerful superpower. You're able to say,
- 18:39Speaker 4: here's the story and here's how it looks, different body,
- 18:43Speaker 4: different perspective. And you give credence to that story, but
- 18:46Speaker 4: you also add depth and power and imagination to an
- 18:51Speaker 4: engine already have working, that scaffolding that's already there. And
- 18:56Speaker 4: you're just pushing people further up the ladder than they
- 18:58Speaker 4: had realized the scaffolding could go.
- 19:01Speaker 1: I really love that framing. I'm also curious, on a
- 19:04Speaker 1: different note, who is your favorite Darcy? Are you partial
- 19:08Speaker 1: to Firth, McFadyen?
- 19:11Speaker 4: Listen, it's McFadyen. It's McFadyen. He's so good. Not even
- 19:17Speaker 4: the flex. Like, the flex is great, right? The flex
- 19:20Speaker 4: is great. Listen, nail the flex. But it is the stuttering, like,
- 19:26Speaker 4: at that meadow with the fog.
- 19:28Speaker 1: And he's like, ah, ah.
- 19:31Speaker 4: And it's.
- 19:37Speaker 1: Also like he comes by that nervousness honestly. Like you
- 19:41Speaker 1: really believe him. I was thinking also about that really
- 19:44Speaker 1: famous Goodreads review of Pride and Prejudice where that person
- 19:48Speaker 1: was just like, just fuck off. I think was the
- 19:51Speaker 1: review or the one that's like this is just a
- 19:53Speaker 1: bunch of people going to each other's houses and talking
- 19:56Speaker 1: but I think about the one that's like just fuck
- 19:58Speaker 1: already because like I think I part part of one
- 20:01Speaker 1: of my theories of like fan fiction is that something
- 20:03Speaker 1: about the original piece of media needs to be in
- 20:06Speaker 1: need of correction. Like, so much of fan fiction is, like,
- 20:09Speaker 1: a response to a failure of writing, a gap in writing. And, like,
- 20:13Speaker 1: the supposed sort of sexlessness of Austen, I'm curious also
- 20:17Speaker 1: how you see that as, like, an opportunity in, like,
- 20:20Speaker 1: a contemporary romance setting.
- 20:23Speaker 4: I think all the time in, when I'm reading the classics,
- 20:28Speaker 4: about when characters would have boned canonically. You know what
- 20:31Speaker 4: I mean? I'm like reading something and I'm just like,
- 20:36Speaker 4: they're boning. Like in their head, like there's no way
- 20:39Speaker 4: that like when she's dancing with him in the second
- 20:42Speaker 4: and she said yes without realizing it. And she's dancing
- 20:45Speaker 4: with him and like the world kind of like drops away.
- 20:49Speaker 4: And she's saying like, this is how you have a conversation,
- 20:52Speaker 4: by the way, you know? And he was like, oh,
- 20:54Speaker 4: you know, is it? You know, and they're just looking
- 20:57Speaker 4: at each other. I'm just like, they boned after this.
- 21:00Speaker 4: They boned, you know, like in my mind.
- 21:04Speaker 1: Oh, yes. I think some of my favorite parts of
- 21:07Speaker 1: your books are the sex scenes where like, I really
- 21:09Speaker 1: feel like They take advantage of those opportunities in such
- 21:13Speaker 1: a fun, pleasurable, beautiful way. It feels very much like, oh,
- 21:17Speaker 1: this is filling the, like, potential gap or at least, like,
- 21:21Speaker 1: the thing that is so concealed in Austen I see, like,
- 21:25Speaker 1: filled with, like, more richness and fullness in your work.
- 21:29Speaker 1: So I find it to be, like, such a fun
- 21:32Speaker 1: opportunity in a contemporary reworking.
- 21:35Speaker 4: One of my favorite sex scenes is Sex, Lies, and Sensibility.
- 21:39Speaker 4: And it's Bear and Nora in the wigwam. And one
- 21:43Speaker 4: of the things about sense and sensibility, particularly with Edmund
- 21:49Speaker 4: and Eleanor, is restraint. And it is about this person's valor,
- 21:54Speaker 4: this person's promise to another individual and what they would
- 21:58Speaker 4: not do, even though everything in them wants to. And
- 22:02Speaker 4: when I thought about their first sex scene, it wasn't
- 22:07Speaker 4: actually about like, How can I let them go crazy now?
- 22:09Speaker 4: It was like, what can they do with the utmost restraint?
- 22:14Speaker 4: How can they express their desire for each other within
- 22:18Speaker 4: the tightest constraints of desire? And that little mutual masturbation
- 22:25Speaker 4: scene was born, you know, in a wiggle room.
- 22:28Speaker 1: Thank God it was. So you're working on Persuasion in Space,
- 22:32Speaker 1: but is there another Austin that you would like to
- 22:35Speaker 1: rework if given the opportunity?
- 22:38Speaker 4: The pro and the con that's coming out. It's a
- 22:40Speaker 4: novel about a, you know, a girl socialite who is
- 22:43Speaker 4: coming out of jail and she's wronged by her best friend.
- 22:47Speaker 4: And her first order of revenge is her best friend's husband.
- 22:51Speaker 4: If you're one of the girls, and when I say
- 22:53Speaker 4: the girls, I mean a Jaina Knight, you're going to say,
- 22:56Speaker 4: wait a minute, spoiled princess, longtime family friend, age gap.
- 23:01Speaker 4: And you'd be like, I know this bitch didn't.
- 23:05Speaker 3: Emma!
- 23:07Speaker 1: I'm so delighted.
- 23:09Speaker 4: It's like, her name is Emeka Woods. If you just,
- 23:13Speaker 4: you know, get into it a little bit.
- 23:17Speaker 3: I'm so delighted.
- 23:19Speaker 4: It's just like, what would happen if these stories took
- 23:23Speaker 4: a different frame? So it's a romantic thriller, but it's
- 23:26Speaker 4: also honestly like the bones, you will see that you're like,
- 23:31Speaker 4: Is this fucking playing about us?
- 23:32Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 23:33Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you'll see it. I love that. Like
- 23:36Speaker 4: the hypochondriac dad, like every, the obsession with cake, like
- 23:41Speaker 4: it's all there, you know?
- 23:43Speaker 1: Wow.
- 23:43Speaker 3: Okay.
- 23:43Speaker 1: I'm so delighted to have this insider knowledge about Pro
- 23:46Speaker 1: and the Con. Thank you for coming on. This was
- 23:49Speaker 1: so lovely. And I learned so much from you every
- 23:51Speaker 1: time we have a conversation. I'm delighted.
- 23:54Speaker 2: This was great.
- 24:04Speaker 1: Tyler, I had a chance to talk to Nikki Payne today,
- 24:07Speaker 1: and it's got me thinking all things Austin. It's Austin
- 24:12Speaker 1: week on the pod. And I thought we could talk
- 24:14Speaker 1: a little bit about Sense and Sensibility, which is an
- 24:17Speaker 1: Austin that neither of us had read prior to today.
- 24:22Speaker 1: Which feels bananas. Today is mutual homework. We're both doing homework.
- 24:25Speaker 1: Mutual homework for once. Yeah, for once, which I'm really
- 24:29Speaker 1: pleased about because I've read all of the other Austens,
- 24:32Speaker 1: I think, besides Sense and Sensibility until now. But I've
- 24:35Speaker 1: watched the movie a million times and I'm quite excited
- 24:38Speaker 1: for the Daisy Edgar Jones version that is coming out
- 24:42Speaker 1: very soon. How did you feel about Sense and Sensibility?
- 24:46Speaker 2: I'm not a big Austin head. Nobody come for me.
- 24:49Speaker 2: That's just, like, my personal preference. I have not seen
- 24:53Speaker 2: the movie, even though I know it's classic. So the
- 24:56Speaker 2: reading experience, I was going in fully blind, fully fresh.
- 24:59Speaker 1: Okay, I should also say, I know it's well over
- 25:02Speaker 1: 100 years old, but in service of offering a synopsis,
- 25:06Speaker 1: Sense and Sensibility follows two sisters, Eleanor and Marianne Dashwood, who,
- 25:10Speaker 1: because of financial circumstances... end up moving from their beautiful
- 25:14Speaker 1: home into a small shabby cottage because of inheritance games
- 25:19Speaker 1: that happen. Because of that, marriage is a little bit
- 25:22Speaker 1: of a priority for both of them because that is
- 25:24Speaker 1: the only way that women of that class position can
- 25:26Speaker 1: acquire wealth or position or status of any kind. This
- 25:32Speaker 1: is really a book about sisters more than it is
- 25:35Speaker 1: a love story, I will say. And yet it is
- 25:38Speaker 1: deeply influential on how we think about I think, sister
- 25:42Speaker 1: relationships in love stories and romance novels of our present day,
- 25:46Speaker 1: I would argue. That's not me definitively saying that's like
- 25:48Speaker 1: an argument I'm making. Eleanor is the reserved, responsible, considered
- 25:55Speaker 1: older sister. Marianne is the passionate, artistic, creative, effervescent younger sister.
- 26:04Speaker 1: There's also a third sister, Margaret, who is not really
- 26:07Speaker 1: discussed very often.
- 26:08Speaker 2: Who's the Jan Brady of the Dashwood family.
- 26:13Speaker 1: She just kind of shows up sometimes. There's always one
- 26:16Speaker 1: of those in an Austin. It follows their trials and
- 26:19Speaker 1: tribulations with falling in love and finding community in their
- 26:23Speaker 1: new position under the new financial circumstances. I actually really
- 26:28Speaker 1: loved it. I really loved it. And I loved it
- 26:31Speaker 1: because it's about sisters, I think.
- 26:33Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 26:34Speaker 1: Where I had thought about this when I watched the
- 26:36Speaker 1: 1995 with Emma Thompson, but I've talked online in the
- 26:40Speaker 1: past about my interest in how eldest daughters are portrayed
- 26:43Speaker 1: in both fiction and in contemporary discourse. There is this
- 26:49Speaker 1: particular archetype of the martyred elder daughter who is parentified
- 26:54Speaker 1: and responsible and holding the family together because her parents
- 26:59Speaker 1: can't do it. It is this very tried and true,
- 27:02Speaker 1: well-worn trope in not just public discourse, but in romance.
- 27:07Speaker 1: I'm even thinking of books like Book Lovers by Emily Henry.
- 27:10Speaker 1: And it's interesting to read Sense and Sensibility and be like,
- 27:13Speaker 1: how much of this came from this book? Yeah, that's true.
- 27:16Speaker 1: And so I think I love Sense and Sensibility because
- 27:19Speaker 1: I love Eleanor Dashwood. I love her as the archetypal
- 27:24Speaker 1: eldest daughter. And I also love that Austen, as in,
- 27:30Speaker 1: I think, the most successful interpretations of the eldest daughter,
- 27:33Speaker 1: probes the question of, do you have to buy into
- 27:36Speaker 1: your own press? Do you have to be the responsible, mild-mannered,
- 27:41Speaker 1: peacekeeping person all the time? And are you willing to
- 27:45Speaker 1: change or assert yourself for love? That, I think, is
- 27:49Speaker 1: an interesting question. My question for you is this. So
- 27:53Speaker 1: I don't have a sister. I just have a brother.
- 27:55Speaker 2: And so I generally have found myself in my life
- 27:58Speaker 2: sort of immune to like most sister relationships on screen,
- 28:03Speaker 2: in books, whatever. Not immune totally, but it doesn't connect
- 28:06Speaker 2: with me in that same way because I haven't had
- 28:07Speaker 2: that experience. I think it took me a while to
- 28:09Speaker 2: realize that it was more about the sisters. I'm telling you,
- 28:12Speaker 2: I went in totally blind. Do you think that I've
- 28:14Speaker 2: never encountered Jane Austen in my life?
- 28:17Speaker 3: Yes.
- 28:17Speaker 2: The parts that really delighted me were Lucy, who is
- 28:21Speaker 2: sort of Eleanor's romantic rival, shows up and they're just
- 28:24Speaker 2: like constantly talking to each other in code. But like,
- 28:27Speaker 2: you know that they're being huge bitches to each other. Like,
- 28:29Speaker 2: that was really fun for me.
- 28:31Speaker 3: So good.
- 28:32Speaker 1: As you're saying this, I listened to Sense and Sensibility.
- 28:35Speaker 1: I didn't read the text version.
- 28:36Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 28:37Speaker 1: Which is the first time I've ever done an audiobook
- 28:38Speaker 1: for an Austin. I'm also not a huge... audiobook listener,
- 28:42Speaker 1: the narrator was Nicola Coughlin, who plays Penelope Bridgerton. I
- 28:47Speaker 1: should have done that. She's fabulous as an audiobook narrator.
- 28:50Speaker 1: She does every voice. She imbues it with so much personality.
- 28:53Speaker 1: The humor, like, really came out in Nicola's narration. And
- 29:00Speaker 1: I'm very particular about audiobook narrators.
- 29:02Speaker 3: She was incredible.
- 29:03Speaker 4: She was so good.
- 29:04Speaker 1: And she did different voices for the mom. She did
- 29:07Speaker 1: different voices for Fanny, who is, like, The horrid, like, sister-in-law.
- 29:13Speaker 1: Horrible sister-in-law. Nightmare sister-in-law. She did different voices for Eleanor
- 29:16Speaker 1: and Marianne and Margaret. Like, I think that might fill.
- 29:19Speaker 2: The gap for you of feeling... Yeah, I should go
- 29:22Speaker 2: back and do that. I should also say, and this
- 29:24Speaker 2: is just like... Someone's going to come after me with
- 29:26Speaker 2: a pitchfork. I was reading this by the pool, and
- 29:28Speaker 2: I also don't think Sense and Sensibility is a pool read.
- 29:30Speaker 1: It's not like.
- 29:31Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like, I don't think Sense
- 29:33Speaker 2: and Sensibility... I don't think Jane Austen intended me to
- 29:35Speaker 2: be reading it on a Kindle by the pool. You
- 29:37Speaker 2: know what I mean?
- 29:37Speaker 1: Sure, sure, sure, sure, I get that. I will say
- 29:40Speaker 1: some other things that I was thinking about. Romance has
- 29:43Speaker 1: been interested in the relationship between money, power, and love forever.
- 29:49Speaker 1: And Sense and Sensibility reminds me of that all the time. Like,
- 29:55Speaker 1: rereading that, thinking about There's so much conversation about money.
- 30:00Speaker 1: The whole book is, yeah. I really was struck by
- 30:03Speaker 1: how love and money have rarely have ever been inextricable
- 30:07Speaker 1: qualities in the fiction that I have ever consumed. We've
- 30:10Speaker 1: talked about it in the context of sex work. We've
- 30:12Speaker 1: talked about it in the context of games by Anna
- 30:15Speaker 1: Maria Volkova. We've talked about it when we have brought
- 30:18Speaker 1: up billionaires in the past. Romance will always care about sex, love, money,
- 30:23Speaker 1: and power.
- 30:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 30:25Speaker 1: Even in its most, like, almost prudish context. classic form
- 30:29Speaker 1: of sense and sensibility. Did you have a favorite character?
- 30:32Speaker 1: I did really love Lucy.
- 30:33Speaker 2: I loved Fanny too, because I feel like the writing,
- 30:36Speaker 2: like obviously in a loathsome kind of way, but the like,
- 30:39Speaker 2: I love a diva manipulating her way into what she wants.
- 30:42Speaker 2: And both of them were just so like, here's what
- 30:46Speaker 2: I have available to me to get what I want
- 30:48Speaker 2: and I'm going to use it.
- 30:49Speaker 1: And I respect that. These women are often so deeply powerless,
- 30:54Speaker 1: like they cannot take up a trade. They cannot be
- 30:56Speaker 1: financially independent. And so they ruthlessly manipulate circumstances in order
- 31:02Speaker 1: to achieve some modicum of power. And I have to
- 31:04Speaker 1: respect that.
- 31:05Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 31:05Speaker 1: Their trade is manipulating people.
- 31:08Speaker 4: Right.
- 31:08Speaker 1: And I love to see a woman winning. You know,
- 31:11Speaker 1: words to live by. Words to live by.
- 31:13Speaker 2: But in conclusion, Jaron Austin is great, so no one
- 31:15Speaker 2: should yell at me.
- 31:17Speaker 1: Would you recommend it? I would but not under the
- 31:20Speaker 1: circumstances in which I read it. I think that's the show.
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