Latest / All About The Joy / Beyonce's Transformative Power, Cultural Crossroads of Music, Racism and OJ
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- 0:00Carmen Lezeth: Hey everyone, welcome to All About the Joy.
- 0:01Carmen Lezeth: We're a little bit early.
- 0:02Carmen Lezeth: We're live.
- 0:03Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia and I went on live quick.
- 0:04Carmen Lezeth: Who said hi?
- 0:05Carmen Lezeth: Is that?
- 0:06Maurio Dawson: That was Alma.
- 0:07Carmen Lezeth: Oh, hi Alma, Hi Alma.
- 0:09Maurio Dawson: She said hey.
- 0:10Carmen Lezeth: Hey.
- 0:12Carmen Lezeth: So we were getting in the depths of a conversation and I was like let's just go on, because, see, this is the juicy stuff.
- 0:18Carmen Lezeth: So, Cynthia was just giving me an update on what happened last week with her patient.
- 0:24Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia was just giving me an update on what happened last week with her patient.
- 0:27Carmen Lezeth: The doctor came and apologized to her for a patient's behavior and I was asking but why did the doctor?
- 0:31Carmen Lezeth: It's not the doctor's fault.
- 0:32Carmen Lezeth: So, Cynthia was going on to tell the rest of the story.
- 0:35Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, Cynthia.
- 0:37Cynthia Ruiz: So the doctor sent me an email apologizing, you know, just asking if there was anything that she could have done or said to make the situation better, Because she felt bad for me.
- 0:44Cynthia Ruiz: She, you know, she saw how upset I was and how the patient was treating me and I just told her you know, people are having an off day.
- 0:51Cynthia Ruiz: It's no one's fault, you know.
- 0:53Cynthia Ruiz: It is what it is.
- 0:54Cynthia Ruiz: We deal with it and move on.
- 0:56Maurio Dawson: So that's empathy, that's just empathy, that that's nothing else.
- 1:01Maurio Dawson: You know when, when you have, when you have concern for someone, if you're a good person or a kind person, it's nothing.
- 1:08Maurio Dawson: It's not that they did anything wrong, but they felt bad that you had to enjoy that situation and there's nothing wrong with that.
- 1:12Maurio Dawson: I think that's great yeah hey, rick, we're live.
- 1:15Carmen Lezeth: We're live already.
- 1:16Carmen Lezeth: You know what let me give a shout out to uh tony, because it's totally the reason why we've come up with this.
- 1:25Carmen Lezeth: All about the joy thing and it's so funny on that clip.
- 1:28Carmen Lezeth: Did you guys check out the clip?
- 1:30TikTok: Yes.
- 1:30Carmen Lezeth: So funny I was cracking up.
- 1:32Carmen Lezeth: We didn't even rehearse, it was so good Speaking of Tony and.
- 1:37Carmen Lezeth: Tony Speaking of.
- 1:37Cynthia Ruiz: Tony, how are you?
- 1:38Carmen Lezeth: doing, but that's kind of part of our whole logo and our thing now.
- 1:41Carmen Lezeth: So so Cynthia was just giving an update on what happened last week with one of her patients and her doctor turned around and apologized.
- 1:49Carmen Lezeth: We were just going through that kind of thing where I was kind of asking why would the doctor apologize for the patient's behavior?
- 1:55Carmen Lezeth: And Mario, of course, is like empathy bitch.
- 2:00Carmen Lezeth: I didn't say that, but yeah empathy, yeah, but Rick, how are you doing Good good?
- 2:08Rick Costa: good, just as always, busy, busy, busy.
- 2:11Carmen Lezeth: Busy, busy, busy Mario.
- 2:12Carmen Lezeth: How?
- 2:12Maurio Dawson: are you?
- 2:13Carmen Lezeth: I didn't check in with you when you came on.
- 2:14Maurio Dawson: I'm doing really well.
- 2:15Maurio Dawson: Can't just counting down the days getting stressed out for this kid?
- 2:19Carmen Lezeth: Wait, what do you mean getting stressed out for this kid?
- 2:20Maurio Dawson: Because my kid's graduation, graduationations, everything's like.
- 2:23Maurio Dawson: All the phone calls are coming in my, my dad's getting ready to fly in.
- 2:27Maurio Dawson: You know, it's just logistics.
- 2:29Maurio Dawson: Now everybody's just calling me back to back.
- 2:31Maurio Dawson: People are saying you know, they got, you know stuff in the mail.
- 2:33Maurio Dawson: I'm like okay, yeah.
- 2:34Maurio Dawson: They're like what are you doing?
- 2:36Maurio Dawson: What's next?
- 2:37Carmen Lezeth: I'm like you know let's just, let's just tell everyone, especially people who are listening to the podcast um in the future, that your daughter Marissa.
- 2:43Carmen Lezeth: I say Mauricia.
- 2:45Carmen Lezeth: Can we say it in Spanish like that?
- 2:47Maurio Dawson: No, Even if it's in Spanish, it's Marissa All right whatever.
- 2:52Maurio Dawson: It's Marissa Luz.
- 2:53Carmen Lezeth: Marissa no, I'm just kidding, I'm just saying I knew her when she was in the belly and everything you did, you knew her before she knew herself.
- 3:00Maurio Dawson: That's right, I knew her before she knew me.
- 3:03Carmen Lezeth: Oh, my God, I did not say that, I'm just kidding, I just.
- 3:07Carmen Lezeth: But she's graduating from Pepperdine.
- 3:10Maurio Dawson: Yes, at 20 years old.
- 3:12Maurio Dawson: Come on now.
- 3:13Carmen Lezeth: That is just a blessing.
- 3:14Carmen Lezeth: Yes, are we snapping?
- 3:17Carmen Lezeth: Is that what we're doing?
- 3:18Maurio Dawson: That's for the kids, that's what the kids do.
- 3:19Carmen Lezeth: Yay, yay, that's so cool, so well.
- 3:22Carmen Lezeth: Congratulations.
- 3:23Carmen Lezeth: That's a good thing to be busy and crazed about.
- 3:25Maurio Dawson: I'm just saying Today she had her sunset ceremony.
- 3:37Maurio Dawson: So when the freshmen come in, they have a sunrise ceremony as freshmen at Pepperdine, where they go and watch the sunset as a class and it represents the beginning of their journey at Pepperdine.
- 3:43Maurio Dawson: And now that they're seniors, they're having their sunset ceremony where the sun is setting on their time there and it's a beautiful thing and they sit and watch the sunset and they have this beautiful ceremony at sunset.
- 3:48Maurio Dawson: It's great.
- 3:48Carmen Lezeth: So that is beautiful.
- 3:50Maurio Dawson: Wow.
- 3:51Carmen Lezeth: Congratulations.
- 3:52Carmen Lezeth: I'm so happy for us.
- 3:53Carmen Lezeth: I feel like I had a part to do with it.
- 3:54Cynthia Ruiz: Absolutely.
- 3:57Carmen Lezeth: Nothing at all, but and I can't believe I still haven't met her.
- 4:01Carmen Lezeth: I'm gonna have to meet her.
- 4:02Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, we'll talk about that later.
- 4:03Cynthia Ruiz: Well, I do have you know.
- 4:04Carmen Lezeth: I feel like I know her, know her and I don't you know that's okay, but you do, but you don't I know I do, but I don't, okay, but here's the thing, here's what I want to talk about.
- 4:11Carmen Lezeth: So, mario, it's so funny because we, we, we're thinking the same.
- 4:15Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean?
- 4:16Carmen Lezeth: We were thinking the same thing.
- 4:17Carmen Lezeth: All right, mario texts me and he's like I really want to talk about Beyonce, I really want to talk about this song, jolene, and I was like baby, of course, whatever you want, and if you can come on, that'd be great.
- 4:27Carmen Lezeth: And you said you would come on, which I think makes it all flavorful.
- 4:30Carmen Lezeth: But before we start talking about it, I think we should show a little new video.
- 4:35Carmen Lezeth: Rick, you have it all queued up, right, let me just set this up.
- 4:38Carmen Lezeth: We're going gonna have a little conversation about it and we'll get to the whole age oj thing later, because I think it's all kind of the same thing in a lot of different ways.
- 4:58Carmen Lezeth: So, uh, trust me on that, all right.
- 5:00Carmen Lezeth: So let me just do this and we're gonna watch this video, and I don't think mario or cynthia have seen this, not from me.
- 5:05Carmen Lezeth: I just had rick do this, uh, late today, because I thought it was interesting okay so beyonce is in her country phase right now.
- 5:13Paul Murray: Um, okay, um, I get it.
- 5:16Paul Murray: You know this ain't texas, it ain't hold them.
- 5:17Paul Murray: My kids just say that over and over and over and over and over again.
- 5:20Paul Murray: It's a nice start to a song, but the next version has a bit of Dolly Parton's Jolene in it.
- 5:24Paul Murray: But apparently this is empowering.
- 5:25Paul Murray: Has she actually read the words that she was singing?
- 5:28Megyn Kelly: Can I tell you something Like why do we have to?
- 5:30Megyn Kelly: It's fine that they make a queen out of Beyonce.
- 5:33Megyn Kelly: I don't totally understand why.
- 5:34Megyn Kelly: I mean she's she's a good singer, she's talented, I don't deny that.
- 5:37Megyn Kelly: Why does it have to be yes, not a queen?
- 5:42Megyn Kelly: People like her music.
- 5:43Megyn Kelly: She sings some good music, that's it Okay.
- 5:50Megyn Kelly: She didn't cure cancer.
- 5:51Megyn Kelly: She's not Marie Curie Calm down.
- 5:51Megyn Kelly: So now she decides to take a step into the country lane and it's like country music has been remade.
- 5:54Megyn Kelly: It's remade, is it Okay?
- 5:56Megyn Kelly: A new player in country music has been around for a long, long time.
- 6:00Megyn Kelly: It goes right to the heart of America and most Americans in red states have been loving and enjoying it long before Queen Bey decided to stick her big toe into the lane.
- 6:08Megyn Kelly: But fine, okay, she comes over.
- 6:10Megyn Kelly: She makes an album which, of course, because she's queen has gotten the thumbs up and the promotion from Michelle Obama, from vice president Kamala Harris, from Paul McCartney, from Dolly Parton herself she's no dummy.
- 6:23Megyn Kelly: She called everybody and said I need you to do me this favor and say you love my album, which they did.
- 6:26Megyn Kelly: But she takes Jolene, which is such a catchy song by Dolly Parton and Jolene the most interesting thing about that song, in addition to its catchy tune, is the story it tells.
- 6:37Megyn Kelly: It tells a story of a very insecure woman who sees another woman who she thinks and strongly believes is much more attractive than she is, with her auburn hair and her green eyes.
- 6:46Megyn Kelly: I love the auburn hair line.
- 6:47Megyn Kelly: And she knows yeah, well, she knows Jolene can steal her man away.
- 6:50Megyn Kelly: Now, this doesn't say good things about her man, but she knows that it could happen and instead of like going over and threatening Jolene, what she does is begs Jolene not to take her man away.
- 7:00Megyn Kelly: She begs her saying I know you could do it, but I'm begging you please don't, because for me he's the only guy there is.
- 7:05Megyn Kelly: And that's an interesting window into an insecure woman's heart, and it's also kind of clever because she flatters Jolene like it's a smart but insecure woman.
- 7:14Megyn Kelly: Anyway, that's the story of the song, or at least it used to be.
- 7:17Megyn Kelly: Queen Bey got her hands on the song and God forbid, she sing anything that make her look less than you know, all empowered with the muscle, and so now she's got to change it to.
- 7:26Megyn Kelly: If you come by, my man, I'm basically going to beat the hell out of you.
- 7:30Paul Murray: I'm going to beat you up Is that right Like take that biatch.
- 7:33Megyn Kelly: And she uses the B word in the song and she turned.
- 7:37Megyn Kelly: Jolene into her version of a badass, because that's what modern day feminism looks like.
- 7:42Megyn Kelly: By the way, completely missing that, the true power move is to write a song about Jolene, not even worrying about this.
- 7:49Megyn Kelly: Jolene has no worries because her man loves her and is committed to her and would never cheat on Jolene.
- 7:53Megyn Kelly: So the most beautiful woman in the world could come walking by.
- 7:55Megyn Kelly: She's good, but Queen Bey doesn't understand that.
- 7:58Megyn Kelly: She's got to pretend she's tough, which only telegraphs to those of us who are paying attention that she isn't.
- 8:03Megyn Kelly: The whole thing is bass-ackwards and I object.
- 8:06Paul Murray: Yeah, also.
- 8:07Paul Murray: Look, you know, if this current version, the redoing, ain't doing it for you and the Dolly Parton one is a little bit too old for you, can I play Dolly Locks here for a second?
- 8:15Paul Murray: There's a magnificent version that Miley Cyrus did.
- 8:19Paul Murray: It's very sort of low-key and she's kept on all of her clothes for most of it.
- 8:22Paul Murray: It's a good version of it if you get the chance.
- 8:26Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so I'm not going to say a word, I'm just going to let Mario start.
- 8:30Carmen Lezeth: Where's Rick, where's Rick, rick, rick.
- 8:34Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry.
- 8:35Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry, I accidentally clicked you off with the thing.
- 8:38Carmen Lezeth: I only clicked.
- 8:39Maurio Dawson: I'm going to say something real quick.
- 8:45Carmen Lezeth: No, no, not real quick, go ahead.
- 8:46Carmen Lezeth: You got the flow, baby.
- 8:46Carmen Lezeth: No, we can't see it or hear it.
- 8:47Maurio Dawson: Oh, you can't hear it.
- 8:48Carmen Lezeth: No, what are you listening to?
- 8:49Carmen Lezeth: It's Dolly P.
- 8:50Carmen Lezeth: You know that hussy with the good hair you sing about, reminded me of someone I knew back then, except she has flaming locks of a open hair.
- 8:58Carmen Lezeth: Bless her heart.
- 8:58Carmen Lezeth: Just a hair of a different color.
- 9:06Carmen Lezeth: It hurts, just to say it.
- 9:06Carmen Lezeth: It's the album.
- 9:07Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead.
- 9:08Maurio Dawson: That was Dolly Parton herself on the album Speaking to her.
- 9:13Maurio Dawson: She said hey, honey bee, this is Dolly P.
- 9:15Maurio Dawson: She said yes.
- 9:17Maurio Dawson: She said, basically, this is her giving her kiss, her seal of approval to the remake.
- 9:24Maurio Dawson: And then Beyonce never called that woman a bitch.
- 9:28Maurio Dawson: She said I'm a bitch.
- 9:29Maurio Dawson: She said so, there's a difference.
- 9:32Maurio Dawson: And then, on top of it, when you have somebody like Willie Nelson, who she didn't have to call, he could have said no, dolly Parton has been all over social media giving everything she wanted to Beyoncé.
- 9:47Maurio Dawson: Then, on top of that, dolly Parton said back in 2022 that she wanted Beyoncé to remake her song, so she asked for this on top of so miss me with that, all that foolishness.
- 10:01Maurio Dawson: And then miss me with that idea that country music came from red States.
- 10:08Carmen Lezeth: Let's, let's stop from there, for let's just stop for just for a second.
- 10:10Carmen Lezeth: Okay, let me just say what hi Sheila, hi Alma, alma just said she's empowered and is in step with the time.
- 10:15Carmen Lezeth: The whole point is to engage the younger generation, and Dolly P gave her the go at it.
- 10:20Carmen Lezeth: I actually think this is a much bigger conversation.
- 10:22Carmen Lezeth: I actually don't think it's about approval from Dolly Parton or changing the lyrics a bit or whatever.
- 10:28Carmen Lezeth: First of all, I want to say to Megan what's her name, megan?
- 10:33Maurio Dawson: Kelly, Megan Kelly, who got canceled on NBC.
- 10:35Maurio Dawson: But let's keep it moving.
- 10:36Carmen Lezeth: It's okay.
- 10:37Carmen Lezeth: She has a right to her opinion.
- 10:38Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to say this and then I want Cynthia and Rick to chime in before I go off.
- 10:42Carmen Lezeth: Okay, here's my thing about Megyn Kelly and anyone else who is in this kind of nasty place where they're trying to dismiss someone who created a piece of art.
- 10:54Carmen Lezeth: It says more about who you are than it does anything at all about Beyonce.
- 11:01Carmen Lezeth: Beyonce don't need no approval from anybody.
- 11:04Carmen Lezeth: She don't need approval from Dolly Parton, from Willie Nelson, from anybody.
- 11:08Maurio Dawson: Paul McCartney.
- 11:09Carmen Lezeth: Paul McCartney from anybody.
- 11:11Carmen Lezeth: And let me just say this the idea that Beyonce had to call them and ask them to help her bullshit.
- 11:18Carmen Lezeth: She called them probably to be like hey, I'd love to do this, I'd love to collaborate, blah, blah, blah.
- 11:24Carmen Lezeth: But this idea that Beyonce would be begging for some approval is a weird idea of what art is Megyn Kelly?
- 11:32Carmen Lezeth: What's her name?
- 11:33Carmen Lezeth: Megyn Kelly?
- 11:33Carmen Lezeth: Megyn Kelly, I mean, I saw that clip and I was going to send it to you all and I thought nope, let's just play it on the show.
- 11:39Carmen Lezeth: It's.
- 11:40Carmen Lezeth: I want people to learn from this situation.
- 11:43Carmen Lezeth: You can be a better person when you understand nuance.
- 11:47TikTok: Yes.
- 11:47Carmen Lezeth: These are not black and white.
- 11:49Carmen Lezeth: Things are intricate.
- 11:51Carmen Lezeth: There is a much bigger issue going on than what Megan Kelly is throwing out there to the public, which is bullshit to get us all riled up.
- 12:00Carmen Lezeth: She is so full of shit with what she's talking about it's heart wrenching to me to listen to and that's why I played it.
- 12:08Carmen Lezeth: Hi Ash, how are you?
- 12:09Carmen Lezeth: And Ash, I want to say something to Ash.
- 12:12Carmen Lezeth: Ash wrote on YouTube, on one of our videos, that she's so glad that we don't talk about race, and I told her today do not come on here.
- 12:20Maurio Dawson: It's a race kind of day.
- 12:23Carmen Lezeth: So, cynthia and Rick, before I keep going on, I'd love to get you guys to chime in.
- 12:27Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia, I wonder what your thoughts are.
- 12:29Cynthia Ruiz: Oh yeah, she's definitely hating.
- 12:31Cynthia Ruiz: First of all, like from the back.
- 12:33Cynthia Ruiz: She's hating on Beyonce, whether she calls herself a queen or not.
- 12:37Cynthia Ruiz: Who is she to say that she can't call herself a queen or that anybody else calls her a queen?
- 12:40Cynthia Ruiz: She is a queen in her own right.
- 12:46Cynthia Ruiz: She has worked her ass off and dolly parton gave her.
- 12:48Cynthia Ruiz: Okay, I'm not a fan of this of the song jolene, but you know that that's my choice, that's.
- 12:52Cynthia Ruiz: You know, my opinion.
- 12:53Cynthia Ruiz: Everyone has the difference.
- 12:54Cynthia Ruiz: That's not my favorite song on the album either, by the way.
- 12:56Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, you know um and she didn't even.
- 13:00Cynthia Ruiz: this megan person didn't even get it right, because jolene is actually the person who's trying to take the man, trying to take Dolly Parton's man, and she was referring to her as if she was the person who had the man.
- 13:11Cynthia Ruiz: So she couldn't even get her facts straight.
- 13:15Carmen Lezeth: This is all about hate, right?
- 13:16Carmen Lezeth: It's all about yeah, yeah, rick thoughts.
- 13:20Rick Costa: Well, my first impression was we are taking up television time to talk about what you feel about a song.
- 13:26Rick Costa: Ok, that's what we're doing, all right, like you can't talk like that with your friends.
- 13:30Rick Costa: You got to go on national international TV to talk about a song that you personally don't care about.
- 13:35Rick Costa: Like, if I came on and talked about everything I don't care about, we'd be here forever.
- 13:38Rick Costa: Like that's what we're doing with our valuable time.
- 13:40Rick Costa: I don't know.
- 13:41Rick Costa: I listened to the song, listen to the whole thing, actually the whole album, um, and I was like, all right now jolene's, the only one I know.
- 13:47Carmen Lezeth: I know rick is really low rick, why are you so low today?
- 13:50Carmen Lezeth: And your mic I don't see if I could I just, I tried to raise you over here, but I think you're talking awfully go ahead.
- 13:55Rick Costa: Is this better?
- 13:56Rick Costa: I just jacked it up yeah, go ahead.
- 13:57Rick Costa: I think it's better go ahead, let's so um jolene's, the only one I was familiar with at all.
- 14:01Rick Costa: So I was like all right, let's see what Beyonce does with it.
- 14:03Rick Costa: And I was like, okay, it's all right, like if you're going to do a song that's super popular, like that, I'm like I'm expecting, like to be wowed, and it was all right.
- 14:15Rick Costa: So I picked two songs that I did, like Texas Hold'em and Most Wanted, which I think had Miley Cyrus sound in it.
- 14:20Rick Costa: Those were, those were the only two that I was like, oh, I could kind of jam with this, but the rest I was like well go ahead.
- 14:25Rick Costa: I was going to say Jolene, I was like I was expecting more, not saying it was bad, but just was expecting more, especially because it's Beyonce.
- 14:33Rick Costa: You know she has a beautiful voice.
- 14:34Maurio Dawson: Yeah, ashley exactly, ashley, she does the thing is, she also remade Blackbird.
- 14:40Maurio Dawson: I don't know if you know.
- 14:42Maurio Dawson: Blackbird is a very poignant song which was written by Paul McCartney and if you know the history of the song, the history of the song is based upon the Little Rock Nine, who actually were the first integrated kids in Arkansas.
- 14:56Maurio Dawson: But he was over in the UK seeing all the hate and the racism that was going on towards these kids and he wrote a song about the Little Rock Nine and that's really what that song is based upon.
- 15:07Maurio Dawson: So for him to again, her rendition is actually very beautiful because it's a solemn song.
- 15:16Maurio Dawson: It's not a upbeat song.
- 15:18Maurio Dawson: Blackbird is actually a very sad song and it's country, but to me it's's more folk.
- 15:24Maurio Dawson: But folk and country can interchange.
- 15:29Maurio Dawson: But I thought Herbendition was done very well.
- 15:33Maurio Dawson: And then also she's taking this opportunity to expose us to a lot of other African American country artists that I was not aware of, like Tanner Bell one.
- 15:44Maurio Dawson: Willie Jones was another one I was not aware of.
- 15:45Maurio Dawson: Tanner Bell is one, willie Jones was another one.
- 15:46Maurio Dawson: I was not familiar with their music but because I was able to listen to this and say, okay, who is that?
- 15:51Maurio Dawson: I went and Googled them and like, oh, okay, I can get into it.
- 15:56Maurio Dawson: Because I personally am not a fan of country music in general, because it just-.
- 16:02Carmen Lezeth: The twang, it's the twang, it's the twang and some people twang, it's the twang.
- 16:05Maurio Dawson: And some people say country music is storytelling.
- 16:07Maurio Dawson: Well, our music is storytelling.
- 16:08Maurio Dawson: Yes, everyone has a story.
- 16:10Maurio Dawson: It's just how it's delivered and depicted and there's and I believe there's a right way and a wrong way to deliver music.
- 16:15Maurio Dawson: You know, every other word doesn't have to be.
- 16:18Carmen Lezeth: Wait, wait.
- 16:18Carmen Lezeth: Can I just intervene?
- 16:19Carmen Lezeth: Let's that there's a right and wrong way for you as an individual.
- 16:22Carmen Lezeth: To receive it Right to receive it.
- 16:24Carmen Lezeth: Okay, let's just be clear Because I love rap, so do I.
- 16:26Carmen Lezeth: A lot of people can't handle rap because they can't receive it.
- 16:29Carmen Lezeth: That's not their thing.
- 16:30Carmen Lezeth: I feel the same way with you about country, but I just want to make sure that we don't want to degrade art.
- 16:33Carmen Lezeth: No, no, no.
- 16:38Maurio Dawson: I'm not, yeah, I just.
- 16:39Maurio Dawson: If you listen to this country album, it's not really a country album.
- 16:44Maurio Dawson: And then Beyonce.
- 16:45Carmen Lezeth: Didn't Beyonce say that it wasn't a country album?
- 16:47Maurio Dawson: She said it's not a country album.
- 16:49Maurio Dawson: She said it's a Beyonce album.
- 16:50Maurio Dawson: That's right.
- 16:51Maurio Dawson: There you go.
- 16:55Maurio Dawson: But because all of this controversy and all of this stemmed from when she went on the Country Music Awards, the CMAs, with the Chicks and at the time the the chicks were blacklisted and she brought them out and she performed with them and people were all in an uproar.
- 17:11Maurio Dawson: People are walking out during our performance and protest, you know, because wait but, mario, let's talk about what that really is and look at.
- 17:18Carmen Lezeth: I understand that we don't normally talk about politics and race on this show and I talked about that in my latest podcast, but there are going to be times when we need to talk about it and as long as we do it respectfully and kindly and respect, I'm okay with it.
- 17:31Carmen Lezeth: But it's not our everyday thing.
- 17:32Carmen Lezeth: But why do you believe that the album that came out stemmed from that performance?
- 17:39Carmen Lezeth: On this, I kept saying the CMTs, but the CMAs what's your thought process on that?
- 17:46Maurio Dawson: Well, that's layered.
- 17:47Maurio Dawson: I know there was some controversy with the chicks at the time and they were an issue within themselves, right.
- 17:55Maurio Dawson: And then Beyonce has been pigeonholed into a category of an R&B singer or whatever, and she's quote, unquote, not country.
- 18:05Maurio Dawson: So that was a second part of this.
- 18:09Maurio Dawson: I don't want to say it's because she's a Black woman.
- 18:14Carmen Lezeth: You know what and you know what I'm going to say it.
- 18:16Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to say it.
- 18:17Maurio Dawson: So I am, I'm going to say it, I'm sorry, well the only reason I'm trying not to say that is because I don't want to be disrespectful to the other Black artists who are country artists.
- 18:25Maurio Dawson: But here's the thing I wouldn't, but I disagree with you.
- 18:29Carmen Lezeth: Look it, and I'm not going to fight with you.
- 18:31Maurio Dawson: No no.
- 18:32Carmen Lezeth: Here's my feeling.
- 18:33Carmen Lezeth: I didn't even know Other than Hootie and the Blowfish guy whose name I still don't know.
- 18:36Maurio Dawson: Darius Rucker.
- 18:39Carmen Lezeth: Darius Rucker, I black country person except that Beyonce just turned around.
- 18:44Carmen Lezeth: Right, but they're not so fantastical that I know them.
- 18:48Maurio Dawson: No.
- 18:49Carmen Lezeth: I don't know them.
- 18:49Carmen Lezeth: So why is that?
- 18:52Carmen Lezeth: What is the layering of this situation that we as a public are just finding out about some of these artists who happen to be black?
- 19:01Carmen Lezeth: And, by the way, I didn't know until Beyonce's album that country music started in the African-American community in slavery times.
- 19:13Maurio Dawson: It came from Africa In.
- 19:15Carmen Lezeth: Africa.
- 19:16Carmen Lezeth: It came over right the whole banjo conversation.
- 19:18Carmen Lezeth: And here's what I'm trying to say to white people and I'm saying white people, I know, I know this is know.
- 19:24Carmen Lezeth: I know this is painful.
- 19:25Carmen Lezeth: I know this is painful when we are just learning new things, when we are understanding and having the ability to be smarter about where things originated.
- 19:35Carmen Lezeth: We should embrace that, not push it away.
- 19:38Carmen Lezeth: This is a fact, this is not hearsay, this is not pretend.
- 19:43Carmen Lezeth: This is a fact, this is not hearsay, this is not pretend.
- 19:45Carmen Lezeth: And I am angry that I keep having to learn new things about my country.
- 19:50Carmen Lezeth: I am angry about you should be angry about it too.
- 19:53Carmen Lezeth: You should be angry that you don't know this about country music.
- 19:59Maurio Dawson: Go ahead.
- 19:59Maurio Dawson: I mean, it's country music as a whole.
- 20:02Maurio Dawson: It's just not my.
- 20:02Maurio Dawson: It will never probably be my favorite genre, but I'm open to learning more about it, only because of the of the um, the artists that I'm discovering through this, and it's opened my eyes to the different forms of country music.
- 20:19Carmen Lezeth: It's not just I know, but just because people are black and I have to like their music, wait, wait, wait.
- 20:23Carmen Lezeth: But I'm just gonna say just because black people are doing country music doesn't mean I have to like it.
- 20:27Carmen Lezeth: I had a conversation with billy, my brother from another mother, and he was like all up in arms about beyonce, beyonce, this beyonce, that, and I was like lemonade, like I'm a huge lemonade fan.
- 20:37Carmen Lezeth: That's one of her albums.
- 20:38Carmen Lezeth: If you don't know, she's had eight albums, okay, like full-on amazing albums, and my favorite is lemonade.
- 20:45Carmen Lezeth: And what I was saying to him, because he's you were mad, weren't you?
- 20:47Maurio Dawson: you had you said you was angry.
- 20:48Maurio Dawson: You know angry chick if you like lemonade.
- 20:55Maurio Dawson: You was mad, it was an angry album.
- 20:57Carmen Lezeth: It was so good, it was so amazingly done and it was so the the.
- 21:01Carmen Lezeth: The thing about beyonce is she's so layered, she's so intricate in how she presents her music.
- 21:09Carmen Lezeth: And I'm going to say this and piss a lot of people off, but Prince is the only other artist that I think can get at my heart in the same way that Beyonce, and Beyonce isn't one of my favorite artists.
- 21:20Carmen Lezeth: I'm not a Beyonce-like crazy person, but when I listen to Beyonce's entire albums and I do because I respect her I think she's amazing.
- 21:27Carmen Lezeth: I'm shook by her ability to write and sing and put together something and her fashion.
- 21:34Carmen Lezeth: It's all of it.
- 21:36Carmen Lezeth: She is a genius artist.
- 21:39Maurio Dawson: Yeah.
- 21:40Carmen Lezeth: And the idea that someone like Megan Kelly or whatever Kelly, whatever the fuck her name is can't call her a queen.
- 21:46Carmen Lezeth: Nobody's calling her a motherfucking queen, like Beyonce isn't walking around calling herself a motherfucking queen.
- 21:51Maurio Dawson: No, she doesn't.
- 21:51Carmen Lezeth: We call people queens because we revere them.
- 21:54Carmen Lezeth: Like that's the weird thing about the Megan Kelly thing?
- 21:57Carmen Lezeth: It's like girl, you don't even get what queen means.
- 22:00Carmen Lezeth: Bitch, why are you even talking about it?
- 22:02Carmen Lezeth: You don't even get.
- 22:02Carmen Lezeth: It means bitch, why are you even talking about it?
- 22:03Carmen Lezeth: You don't even get it.
- 22:03Carmen Lezeth: It's not even a black thing.
- 22:05Carmen Lezeth: You don't even get the honor in it.
- 22:07Carmen Lezeth: Bitch, you don't get it.
- 22:09Carmen Lezeth: What am I missing in the laughter?
- 22:12Carmen Lezeth: No, it's because you're going hard.
- 22:14Carmen Lezeth: I'm not even going off, okay, I'm just saying I'm not a country person, music fan at all.
- 22:23Carmen Lezeth: I don't like the twang.
- 22:24Carmen Lezeth: Texas Hold'em was interesting.
- 22:27Carmen Lezeth: I love this album because of the controversy and the artistry and the brilliance of it and the reasoning and the beauty of it.
- 22:33Carmen Lezeth: Come on, that is something.
- 22:36Carmen Lezeth: That is art, baby, that is art that is beautiful.
- 22:38Maurio Dawson: Well, you know what we're talking about it.
- 22:40Maurio Dawson: Art is discussed Whether you like, like, like Rick likes Texas, hold' about it.
- 22:47Maurio Dawson: And artists discussed whether you like, like, like rick likes texas, hold them.
- 22:48Maurio Dawson: And he likes uh, was it two most wanted, right, most fun?
- 22:49Maurio Dawson: Yeah, two most wanted, but see, those are two songs that he hadn't, he wouldn't have thought about liking before you understand what I'm saying.
- 22:55Maurio Dawson: So you know it's.
- 22:56Maurio Dawson: It's still exposing and, because we're having conversations, probably you exposed yourself to something you probably wouldn't normally listen to.
- 23:02Maurio Dawson: Right, rick, right, right, but it's also, art is discussion.
- 23:07Maurio Dawson: You can appreciate it.
- 23:08Maurio Dawson: Appreciation.
- 23:09Maurio Dawson: It's agreeing, it's disagreeing.
- 23:11Maurio Dawson: It sparks conversation, it sparks thought.
- 23:14Maurio Dawson: That's the purpose of art.
- 23:15Carmen Lezeth: That's art, that's art.
- 23:16Carmen Lezeth: Let me just say hi to Brian, hi, brian, hey, brian Ghosttown's album First, first, last time is really good.
- 23:26Maurio Dawson: What's ghost towns album I?
- 23:27Carmen Lezeth: don't know what that is.
- 23:27Carmen Lezeth: Ghost towns is the name of a group.
- 23:28Carmen Lezeth: Oh okay, I didn't know that.
- 23:29Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry, but hi, brian, thank you for stopping by and ash love you.
- 23:32Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, right off the hop she's come out rocking who she is exactly.
- 23:35Carmen Lezeth: Yes, I love that.
- 23:36Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia rick.
- 23:38Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry we're in the mic, but please, that's right.
- 23:41Cynthia Ruiz: I mean I listen to some country.
- 23:43Cynthia Ruiz: It's like it's not my go to music, but I do appreciate it.
- 23:47Cynthia Ruiz: I listen to all kinds of music.
- 23:49Cynthia Ruiz: My Pandora has all kinds of music.
- 23:52Cynthia Ruiz: Like you said, carmen, beyonce is not my top artist, but I can appreciate her music ok, wait, wait, wait.
- 24:00Carmen Lezeth: I just want to be clear.
- 24:01Carmen Lezeth: I love Beyonce.
- 24:02Carmen Lezeth: I do, too.
- 24:04Carmen Lezeth: I love her.
- 24:08Carmen Lezeth: I love her as an artist, as an art, I revere her.
- 24:13Carmen Lezeth: I just want to be clear.
- 24:14Carmen Lezeth: This album is not my favorite.
- 24:15Carmen Lezeth: I listened to it from beginning to end and I enjoyed some of the songs, but I'm a little.
- 24:20Carmen Lezeth: Not for me, but it's white people and country music.
- 24:25Carmen Lezeth: I'm laughing little.
- 24:25Carmen Lezeth: It's not a banger, but you know it's not for me, but but it's white people in country music I'm laughing my ass off.
- 24:28Carmen Lezeth: I'm freaked out about it.
- 24:28Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, cynthia, I'm sorry.
- 24:30Cynthia Ruiz: The Texas hold them song just kind of reminds me of another line dance song like the cha-cha slide or, you know, the Cupid shuffle.
- 24:37Rick Costa: That's all it reminds me of, yeah rick uh, kind of going along with what mario said.
- 24:44Rick Costa: When you see people going to a place where they feature art, they don't just look at it, they discuss, they talk about it.
- 24:51Rick Costa: This is what I see and this is what I.
- 24:53Rick Costa: This makes me feel this way.
- 24:54Rick Costa: And art, that is exactly right, what he says, exactly right.
- 24:57Rick Costa: You discuss it, you talk about it and you, your point of view could be completely different.
- 25:00Rick Costa: You see something I don't see and I'm like I don't see, but they see that and you can't say you're wrong.
- 25:04Rick Costa: That's not what you, you know.
- 25:06Rick Costa: You see it differently, you have a different perspective.
- 25:08Rick Costa: So to say somebody's wrong is just ridiculous.
- 25:11Carmen Lezeth: Mario, what is your feeling?
- 25:13Carmen Lezeth: I mean, I know that you're nicer than I am, but this whole queen conversation really pissed me off.
- 25:21Maurio Dawson: I mean.
- 25:22Maurio Dawson: Well, you know what, in music they give everybody a title Prince was Prince.
- 25:25Maurio Dawson: They call Patti LaBelle the godmother of soul.
- 25:28Maurio Dawson: They call Aretha the no, but we use queen pretty liberally.
- 25:31Maurio Dawson: They call Aretha, frankly, the queen of soul, right.
- 25:34Carmen Lezeth: I don't know, but the word queen is pretty usable.
- 25:39Maurio Dawson: It's being revered as the top of something.
- 25:41Maurio Dawson: You understand what I'm saying.
- 25:42Maurio Dawson: It's not that she is a literal queen.
- 25:44Maurio Dawson: She is at the top of her game, okay, but can I, can, I, can I Say it, say it I'm going to say it.
- 25:51Carmen Lezeth: The reason why Megyn Kelly is all over all like you know, her clutching her pearls and panties in a bunch is a fucking jealousy thing that I can't understand.
- 26:02Carmen Lezeth: With white people Like white people, like white women and I know, I know I'm a lose followers and shit.
- 26:07Carmen Lezeth: It's all good, but because I can't be who I'm not, I can't do it.
- 26:12Carmen Lezeth: No, why would you be so upset and angry about somebody being called a queen?
- 26:19Carmen Lezeth: A queen is an honor.
- 26:21Carmen Lezeth: It is something that we bestow on somebody that we respect and feel has done something brilliant and amazing.
- 26:28Carmen Lezeth: And the fact that, man, if I knew Megyn Kelly, I swear to God I would sit down and have a conversation with her.
- 26:33Carmen Lezeth: Like bitch, you just made yourself look so motherfucking stupid.
- 26:36Maurio Dawson: But not to her base, I know, but her base.
- 26:39Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but here's the thing.
- 26:40Carmen Lezeth: Here's the thing I'm done with her base, because her base is part of my country and I still have faith in the people in my country that they are good and decent human beings and they understand nuance.
- 26:53Carmen Lezeth: They do.
- 26:54Carmen Lezeth: We keep thinking that these people are stupid as fuck and that's why Megan is doing what she's doing.
- 26:58Maurio Dawson: Brian, you're right.
- 26:59Maurio Dawson: Calling anyone royal title is just a sign of respect.
- 27:02Carmen Lezeth: Brian exactly.
- 27:03Maurio Dawson: You get it.
- 27:05Carmen Lezeth: He gets it.
- 27:05Carmen Lezeth: He's in Texas, he gets it.
- 27:07Maurio Dawson: That's what you mean.
- 27:10Carmen Lezeth: But that's what I'm saying.
- 27:11Carmen Lezeth: I'm so angry with her for doing that, for doing that whole video.
- 27:15Carmen Lezeth: Hey, Rick, can you put up that TikTok?
- 27:17Carmen Lezeth: Do you have the TikToks as well?
- 27:19Maurio Dawson: Oh, I can bring it up yeah, in the meantime, what did they call Michael Jackson?
- 27:28Carmen Lezeth: I don't remember, but the king of pop, okay, but I think that's a different thing.
- 27:31Carmen Lezeth: Okay, okay, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
- 27:32Carmen Lezeth: Let's be honest.
- 27:33Carmen Lezeth: Let's be honest.
- 27:34Carmen Lezeth: Calling someone the king of pop is different than we call people queen.
- 27:37Carmen Lezeth: What I felt was happening with Megyn Kelly was she was upset with the terminology of queen.
- 27:43Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 27:45Carmen Lezeth: Like that's what I heard from that whole clip.
- 27:47Maurio Dawson: She was bothered by it, because we call queen.
- 27:50Carmen Lezeth: We call different people queen at different times because it's something they've done.
- 27:53Carmen Lezeth: That is an elevated state.
- 27:55Maurio Dawson: Yeah.
- 27:56Carmen Lezeth: It's a black thing.
- 27:57Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, it is a black thing.
- 27:59Carmen Lezeth: And again, it's not that I want to get into racism, but you know what I don't want to do on my podcast or who I am.
- 28:05Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to pretend that things don't exist.
- 28:09Maurio Dawson: No, okay, let's turn it on its head.
- 28:12Maurio Dawson: What brought you joy from the album?
- 28:14Maurio Dawson: We know what brought Rick joy.
- 28:16Maurio Dawson: What brought you joy?
- 28:18Carmen Lezeth: Okay, can I go first, you go first.
- 28:20Carmen Lezeth: Okay, no-transcript was saying this whole kind of idea that she didn't have no right to.
- 28:55Carmen Lezeth: She's not really country, she ain't got no right to do this song and blah blah.
- 28:59Carmen Lezeth: But in the same breath, in the same interview, as being like oh right, shania twain when she did that song and popped out, was fine, right like so my joy in this album is that it's making us have the conversations and I have faith I do.
- 29:13Carmen Lezeth: I have faith in white people.
- 29:15Carmen Lezeth: I have faith in the american people, and of white people specifically during this time, to understand motherfucking nuance and understand a history, even if they're, at first, you know, being defensive.
- 29:26Carmen Lezeth: Look at Mario's diet.
- 29:28Carmen Lezeth: I know, I know I'm losing people, but I also think I have to be who.
- 29:32Maurio Dawson: I am Show, show, bang bang, you know.
- 29:36Carmen Lezeth: We're about to put a Zoom call by ourselves.
- 29:38Carmen Lezeth: I'm good, but listen, I do.
- 29:41Carmen Lezeth: I have faith in people that they understand the layers of things.
- 29:45Carmen Lezeth: This is bullshit, come on.
- 29:47Maurio Dawson: Oh, come on, Alma, you better say it for the people in the back.
- 29:49Maurio Dawson: She said John Schneider, it was okay when you're taking Tyler Perry's money, boom, that's right, he was being paid by a black man and it was all good.
- 29:57Carmen Lezeth: But now, you know, that's right.
- 29:58Maurio Dawson: Go ahead.
- 29:59Carmen Lezeth: Alma Say it for the people in the back, that's my wife Come on.
- 30:03Cynthia Ruiz: That's my wife.
- 30:04Cynthia Ruiz: What brought me joy was basically you know that Dolly Parton gave her a stamp of approval.
- 30:10Cynthia Ruiz: You're mixing black and white right there.
- 30:15Maurio Dawson: So, what is the?
- 30:16Carmen Lezeth: problem.
- 30:16Carmen Lezeth: That's it.
- 30:16Carmen Lezeth: And if Dolly Parton gets it, I don't understand why we don't have faith in the rest of America to get it.
- 30:24Carmen Lezeth: You know, let me read what Ashton said we should be encouraging each other as they branch out and show their range, not deterring people from wanting to show their abilities.
- 30:32Carmen Lezeth: Exactly Brian just said you'll be mind-blowing when you see my music playlist.
- 30:38Carmen Lezeth: You won't be able to keep up.
- 30:39Carmen Lezeth: Okay, Challenge accepted.
- 30:41Carmen Lezeth: Yaya brings me joy.
- 30:42Carmen Lezeth: I love Yaya.
- 30:43Cynthia Ruiz: That's why I'm here.
- 30:44Cynthia Ruiz: Can I just tell you about Yaya?
- 30:45Cynthia Ruiz: I heard that song and I felt like I was in church.
- 30:47Cynthia Ruiz: I was like I was going with it.
- 30:50Carmen Lezeth: Hey Sweet Pea, Bye, Sweet Pea.
- 30:53Carmen Lezeth: Love you, Rick thoughts.
- 30:57Rick Costa: I told you already.
- 30:58Rick Costa: I said the Texas Hold'em.
- 30:59Rick Costa: I can jam with that.
- 31:00Rick Costa: And then the Miley Cyrus one.
- 31:01Rick Costa: What was it?
- 31:02Rick Costa: Two Most Wanted.
- 31:02Carmen Lezeth: I wrote it down, so I don't forget, I love that one too.
- 31:04Carmen Lezeth: That's a good one.
- 31:04Carmen Lezeth: Miley Cyrus is brilliant.
- 31:06Rick Costa: I love good harmony, yes, and they harmonize together very, very well.
- 31:09Rick Costa: And I didn't know, I heard a different voice.
- 31:12Rick Costa: I was like I think I know that voice.
- 31:14Rick Costa: I was like that's Miley Cyrus.
- 31:15Carmen Lezeth: I think it's and kind of this album in general and how it's affecting people in the country.
- 31:33Rick Costa: Genre well, I agree with you about the whole.
- 31:35Rick Costa: Sounds like she kind of jealous.
- 31:37Rick Costa: Oh, why would you say that?
- 31:39Rick Costa: Like, why do you have a problem with calling somebody queen?
- 31:41Rick Costa: Like you know, when somebody excels at something, it's something that people do, you know.
- 31:45Rick Costa: Or if you're at an event and somebody's like, yeah, it's queen, like where they use that as well, but um, but yeah, when somebody's excelling at something, it's not unusual to call somebody a queen or a king, like you know.
- 31:57Rick Costa: So if you just go out in the street and be like famous female black singer, I bet you more people are not gonna say beyonce no you don't think so no, do you guys?
- 32:07Maurio Dawson: did you guys know?
- 32:08Maurio Dawson: I bet you, none of us, me included, I didn't know who linda martell was.
- 32:12Carmen Lezeth: I don't know, know who Linda Martell is.
- 32:14Maurio Dawson: Linda Martell is the first Black woman ever to play at the Grand Ole Opry.
- 32:20Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I do know her name, you're right.
- 32:22Maurio Dawson: And if you listen to the album she's in several of the interludes on this Cowboy Cotter album and I was like who is Linda Martell?
- 32:30Maurio Dawson: And again went to go look her up and mine was blown.
- 32:34Maurio Dawson: I'm like, oh wow, that's history right there.
- 32:36Maurio Dawson: And then the other thing is there's the interlude with Willie Nelson, which I think is hilarious.
- 32:42Maurio Dawson: Yes, it is great he's playing the DJ.
- 32:44Maurio Dawson: Yes, he says.
- 32:47Maurio Dawson: If there's one thing you can take away from our set today, let it be this.
- 32:50Maurio Dawson: Sometimes you can take away from our set today, Let it be this.
- 32:54Maurio Dawson: Sometimes you don't know what you like and then someone you trust turns you on to some real good shit, and that, ladies and gentlemen, is why I'm here.
- 33:00Maurio Dawson: He said up next on the Smoke Hour is Just For Fun.
- 33:04TikTok: Yes.
- 33:06Maurio Dawson: So I mean, like come on now, he said sometimes you don't know until somebody introduces you to it.
- 33:10Maurio Dawson: And that's what she really kind of did.
- 33:12Maurio Dawson: That kind of summarized this album for me.
- 33:15Maurio Dawson: She really introduced me to a lot of people I just would have never heard of, and I think it's dope.
- 33:20Carmen Lezeth: And can I say this this is again a little bit on the negative, but I feel it in my heart to share we revere people when they die, and what I mean by people is I mean Black people.
- 33:30Carmen Lezeth: So people die, and what I mean by people is I mean black people.
- 33:34Carmen Lezeth: So people in the white community are all about muhammad ali.
- 33:35Carmen Lezeth: Oh, muhammad ali is amazing, he's great, whatever, but they forget.
- 33:38Carmen Lezeth: Cassius clay, who became muhammad ali, was hated because he wouldn't go into war, he wouldn't be going to the military, and he was vilified.
- 33:46Carmen Lezeth: We do the same thing with martin, and when I say we, I'm talking about white people.
- 33:50Carmen Lezeth: Okay, like like we not me y'all'all hated Martin Luther King when he was alive and I don't mean you personally, I mean white folk hated him because of what he was doing.
- 33:59Carmen Lezeth: But now that he's dead, we all up in Martin Luther King Jr's business.
- 34:04Carmen Lezeth: He was the savior of-.
- 34:06Maurio Dawson: But they really aren't that into him anyway, because all they know is the I have a dream speech.
- 34:10Carmen Lezeth: They have no exactly history of what that man persevered and did, so let's exactly, exactly, and I don't want to say all white people, but I'm trying to give you information right now, like what we need to do is revere people while they are alive and stop accidentally because I think it's accidental.
- 34:30Carmen Lezeth: I don't think people are trying to be racist on purpose, but when you are vil, vilifying Beyonce, I don't care if you don't like her music.
- 34:38Carmen Lezeth: You don't need to like her music.
- 34:39Carmen Lezeth: You don't need to respect or even enjoy anything that she does.
- 34:45Carmen Lezeth: I could care less about most country music, but when you turn around and are evil and you don't see the nuance and you dismiss her, that's when I have a problem.
- 34:56Carmen Lezeth: That's when I have a problem.
- 34:58Carmen Lezeth: You cannot turn around and say that she has no right to be in country music without knowing the history of country music.
- 35:04Carmen Lezeth: But let's just even make it smaller than that, because I didn't even know the history of country music until her album came out.
- 35:10Carmen Lezeth: Let's make it simpler.
- 35:11Carmen Lezeth: You can't do that.
- 35:12Carmen Lezeth: And then be okay with all of the country artists.
- 35:15Carmen Lezeth: Taylor swift is another one, shania twain there are all of these artists who came from country music and planting themselves into other genres and make millions of dollars can't be a hypocrite.
- 35:27Carmen Lezeth: Is what I'm saying yeah, mcgrath and nelly who tim mcgr, country singer.
- 35:33Cynthia Ruiz: He made a song with Nelly.
- 35:34Maurio Dawson: He made a song with Nelly, that's right.
- 35:35Maurio Dawson: He sure did.
- 35:36Cynthia Ruiz: Yep.
- 35:38Maurio Dawson: But Nelly also did another country song with another group, right it was.
- 35:44Maurio Dawson: He had two country hits which he was the first rapper to do that before.
- 35:51Carmen Lezeth: Here's the funny part.
- 35:52Carmen Lezeth: I don't know enough country music people to even be saying it, but we know the people that made it in pop music, you know in hip hop or whatever it is.
- 36:00Maurio Dawson: Here's the perfect example of the, the, the roles being reversed.
- 36:03Maurio Dawson: What's her name?
- 36:05Maurio Dawson: Maren Morris.
- 36:06Maurio Dawson: She started out.
- 36:07Maurio Dawson: She's Maren Morris.
- 36:09Maurio Dawson: She had a song with that.
- 36:10Maurio Dawson: She had with Alicia Keys, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, right, meet me in the middle, right, that was an R&B.
- 36:16Maurio Dawson: That came out as an R&B song but people didn't have any problems.
- 36:20Maurio Dawson: When she went right over in the country and she became you know, and he said Cowboy Troy was accepting it.
- 36:26Maurio Dawson: I don't know who is Cowboy Troy, you want?
- 36:30Carmen Lezeth: we need music.
- 36:31Carmen Lezeth: Tell us the song, because we don't know who.
- 36:32Maurio Dawson: Cowboy.
- 36:33Carmen Lezeth: Troy is.
- 36:33Carmen Lezeth: Let me google him because I don't.
- 36:33Carmen Lezeth: Is Cowboy Troy?
- 36:33Carmen Lezeth: We need music.
- 36:33Carmen Lezeth: Tell us the song, because we don't know who Cowboy Troy is.
- 36:34Maurio Dawson: Let me Google him, because I don't know.
- 36:35Rick Costa: Cowboy Troy, oh he's a black guy.
- 36:37Rick Costa: Okay, she must have heard us talking about Prince.
- 36:41Carmen Lezeth: You know what I was on TikTok and Toby was live and I went on her live for a minute.
- 36:45Carmen Lezeth: I was at work and her and Tony were on.
- 36:47Carmen Lezeth: They were talking and I just need to see.
- 36:49Carmen Lezeth: Toby is a very beautiful woman, gorgeous woman.
- 36:53Carmen Lezeth: Okay, what are you showing us, mario?
- 36:55Maurio Dawson: Because of my screen.
- 36:57Carmen Lezeth: Okay, and what about Cowboy Troy?
- 37:00Maurio Dawson: He said Brian says he's accepted in the country music.
- 37:02Carmen Lezeth: But why wouldn't he be?
- 37:03Carmen Lezeth: It seems like a lot of black artists are.
- 37:05Maurio Dawson: I mean, there are a lot of black artists out there.
- 37:08Carmen Lezeth: But is his point that Cowboy Troy was somebody in other genres?
- 37:12Carmen Lezeth: Because I've never heard of him, but not that I'm the music aficionado.
- 37:15Maurio Dawson: Yeah, and there's another young man.
- 37:18Maurio Dawson: He was just on Dancing with the Stars.
- 37:20Maurio Dawson: He's a cowboy.
- 37:21Maurio Dawson: He's a Black country artist, kay Brown.
- 37:24Maurio Dawson: Huh, kay Brown.
- 37:26Maurio Dawson: Kay Brown didn't know he was Black until he was almost an adult.
- 37:31Maurio Dawson: So let's start there.
- 37:32Maurio Dawson: I'm just going to start right there.
- 37:35Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia, you see, I'm drinking my.
- 37:41Rick Costa: You made me think of the skate with the guy going into KKK.
- 37:43Maurio Dawson: That was black and he was like I mean the King Brown said that himself, it's not that I'm making that up.
- 37:49Maurio Dawson: He said he didn't know he was black.
- 37:51Maurio Dawson: I swear by hand to.
- 37:54Carmen Lezeth: Jesus.
- 37:55Carmen Lezeth: That's okay.
- 37:55Carmen Lezeth: That's the world I hope we live in someday where color is just another thing like our color.
- 37:59Carmen Lezeth: But we are not there yet.
- 38:00Carmen Lezeth: That's the problem.
- 38:01Carmen Lezeth: We are not there yet, people.
- 38:02Carmen Lezeth: Okay, we are not there yet.
- 38:04Rick Costa: Color matters right now, so I saw something really, really funny um, yesterday.
- 38:08Rick Costa: Matter of fact, I just came on my feed for some reason.
- 38:09Rick Costa: It was a black comedian and he goes you know what, what, what if the roles were reversed?
- 38:14Rick Costa: What if it was the white people that were the slaves?
- 38:17Rick Costa: What, what, what kind of, what kind of spirituals would they have, can you imagine?
- 38:20Rick Costa: So he starts going like just a small town girl living in a lonely world.
- 38:26Carmen Lezeth: I was dying, it was so funny can you segue into showing the um the talk of you want both the second one yeah, show the second one, because that's kind of funny.
- 38:36Carmen Lezeth: I mean I guess we could show both, but show the second one first chicken with the train, okay I thought it was relevant I don't know I don't see.
- 38:45Cynthia Ruiz: The name of the song is cracking me up yeah, right hiccup.
- 38:50Maurio Dawson: Oh, I saw this one, yeah.
- 38:51Carmen Lezeth: I said this to everyone, right.
- 38:53Rick Costa: Yeah, yeah.
- 38:54Rick Costa: Let me go ahead.
- 38:55Carmen Lezeth: Yeah go ahead.
- 38:57TikTok: Jolie, jolie, jolie, bitch Jolie, I'm one of your girl.
- 39:02TikTok: Yeah, best to not cover my man.
- 39:04TikTok: Bitch, jolie, jolie, Jolie, jolie.
- 39:09TikTok: I'm making it clear so you can understand.
- 39:14TikTok: Bitch, I see you there with your thin blonde hair.
- 39:17TikTok: I'm going to whip your ass from here to there If you ever say hello to my man again.
- 39:21TikTok: I know my man is fine as hell, but that is mine.
- 39:25TikTok: Bitch, can't you tell you don't compete, so you can't compare.
- 39:28TikTok: You don't even got no derriere.
- 39:30TikTok: I'm that booty.
- 39:31TikTok: One more time, Let me tell you one thing about me I'm a Louisiana, texas, banshee, creole bitch and I'ma beat your ass if you talking shit.
- 39:39TikTok: Hold up, jay, hold up, jay.
- 39:41TikTok: Hold my earrings.
- 39:49Maurio Dawson: Now my dude.
- 39:51Cynthia Ruiz: Okay, so maybe this was the version that Megyn Kelly was talking about.
- 39:55Maurio Dawson: Right For those who are listening to us and can't see us.
- 39:59Maurio Dawson: It says what white people are hearing, what they hear when they hear Beyonce's version of Joe.
- 40:05Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, it was so funny.
- 40:07Carmen Lezeth: Can I just tell you I was crying.
- 40:08Carmen Lezeth: It was so funny because it's like that's not what I heard, but I could.
- 40:13Maurio Dawson: But that's what they're hearing.
- 40:14Maurio Dawson: I'm like I didn't hear that.
- 40:16Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but wait, wait.
- 40:17Carmen Lezeth: Can we have a nuanced conversation?
- 40:18Carmen Lezeth: Do you think that it's possible that white folk it's just hard to be in a situation where they're constantly being told now that things are different than what they're used to understanding.
- 40:32Carmen Lezeth: We can lie about our history.
- 40:34Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 40:35Carmen Lezeth: Like, what do you think about that?
- 40:38Maurio Dawson: The word purist comes to mind, and that goes on.
- 40:42Carmen Lezeth: So many different levels You're going to have to explain that.
- 40:45Carmen Lezeth: I need you to explain it.
- 40:47Maurio Dawson: Purist can go to the people who believe in the sanctity of the original of something, whereas they'll say, oh, I'm a purist when it comes to country music, or I'm a purist when it comes to R&B, where only they believe certain people fit into a category.
- 41:02Maurio Dawson: I'm a purist when it comes to race, when I'm a purist when it comes to people don't believe in mixing races, they're purists.
- 41:11Maurio Dawson: They don't believe in the evolution or developing new ideas because they are stuck in a way of things, the way things they believe they should be.
- 41:23Maurio Dawson: Does that make sense?
- 41:25Carmen Lezeth: You're saying that country music, people are saying that they're purists, because you can only be country music if you are what White.
- 41:33Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I just want to make sure we're on the same page that they're purists, because you can only be country music if you are what white.
- 41:34Maurio Dawson: Okay, I just want to make sure we're on the same page yeah, yeah, I mean, I mean it's just what it is, because I mean but.
- 41:39Maurio Dawson: But, like brian said, most people of all generations are scared of change all ethnicities, and that's and that's very true, brian, because they're, you know, just like you know, not to get into race anymore than we've already done today.
- 41:51Maurio Dawson: But you know, people have.
- 41:58Maurio Dawson: They have.
- 41:59Maurio Dawson: I still get looks.
- 41:59Maurio Dawson: I've been with my wife for 30 years but I still get looks.
- 42:01Maurio Dawson: You know what I'm saying To me.
- 42:02Maurio Dawson: I don't care anymore, I don't see it anymore.
- 42:03Maurio Dawson: But people, people of Hispanic race, get pissed off.
- 42:07Maurio Dawson: People who are Black get pissed off.
- 42:09Maurio Dawson: And you know the same thing about people giving me shit because they think that I don't love black women.
- 42:14Maurio Dawson: That has never been the case.
- 42:16Maurio Dawson: My mama's a black woman.
- 42:17Maurio Dawson: I love a black woman, but I don't feel like I have to defend myself, just like everybody else.
- 42:22Maurio Dawson: They feel like they shouldn't have to defend themselves and, being able to evolve, you don't have to be stuck somewhere.
- 42:28Maurio Dawson: You understand what I'm saying.
- 42:29Maurio Dawson: If that's not your thing, that doesn't have to be your thing, but you don't have to make it everybody else's thing, and I think that's where I'm at.
- 42:36Maurio Dawson: If you don't like it, okay, cool, you don't like it.
- 42:38Maurio Dawson: But you don't have to say I don't like it.
- 42:40Maurio Dawson: You shouldn't like it.
- 42:41Maurio Dawson: Everybody else shouldn't like it either, because I don't like it.
- 42:46Carmen Lezeth: And it's wrong.
- 42:47Carmen Lezeth: It's wrong.
- 42:47Carmen Lezeth: It shouldn't be able to say that.
- 42:48Carmen Lezeth: But, cynthia, what are your thoughts?
- 42:49Cynthia Ruiz: and rick, because I totally agree, and you know it also happens with religion.
- 42:54Cynthia Ruiz: I know we don't talk about religion, but it does happen with religion today everything's open rick is like oh my god, don't.
- 42:59Cynthia Ruiz: We're in the weeds, now we're in the weeds, you know there are some, there are some religions that do try to push their beliefs on other people, and it's like you know, as long as I believe in god, I believe in some type of higher power, somebody that's bigger than me, then that's all that should matter.
- 43:16Cynthia Ruiz: You shouldn't care what my beliefs are, and you know you have your opinion.
- 43:19Cynthia Ruiz: That's it, rick.
- 43:22Rick Costa: Yeah, there's an interesting thing in that Christian music community.
- 43:26Rick Costa: I especially remember, even when I was younger, so when I was first getting into my belief system, right, all there was was country, bluegrass, everything southern gospel.
- 43:40Rick Costa: They didn't have no modern version of christian, nothing.
- 43:42Rick Costa: Now it's.
- 43:43Rick Costa: You got everything.
- 43:44Rick Costa: But there was a time when, like hard rock, christian started coming into play.
- 43:48Rick Costa: And then rap started coming into play and I was like a lot of people I thought this was very interesting.
- 43:54Rick Costa: Well, again, some people, they didn't like neither one.
- 43:56Rick Costa: No, that's not of god.
- 43:58Rick Costa: That's not of god.
- 43:58Rick Costa: Some people are like oh, rock is cool, but rap, no, that's of the devil.
- 44:01Rick Costa: I'm like why?
- 44:03Rick Costa: And then even one preacher who was pretty famous literally said he was not gonna have a guy he didn't know he was a.
- 44:10Rick Costa: He was a.
- 44:11Rick Costa: Not have a guy come to his church once he found out he was a rapper.
- 44:14Rick Costa: And he's like no, that's not of God.
- 44:16Rick Costa: I'm like you are so stupid.
- 44:17Rick Costa: One thing I noticed looking at the lyrics of the rock Christian and then the rap Christian.
- 44:23Rick Costa: The lyrics of the rap blew me away.
- 44:27Rick Costa: Comparatively to the rock.
- 44:28Rick Costa: The rock was just like basic, but the rap stuff I was like, ooh, bars, what Say that again.
- 44:34Rick Costa: It was deep stuff.
- 44:36Cynthia Ruiz: They're still preaching the word of God.
- 44:38Cynthia Ruiz: So it's like, who cares how they're doing it?
- 44:40Maurio Dawson: It's coming out how it's packaged.
- 44:42Maurio Dawson: It doesn't matter how it's packaged, yeah, exactly.
- 44:44Cynthia Ruiz: There's a guy on TikTok I don't know if you guys have seen it who does a version of preaching about God to Texas Hold'em and it's beautiful.
- 44:52Maurio Dawson: Yeah, like you said, even with the gospel music man, the purists of the Winans and Shirley Caesars at the back of the day.
- 45:00Maurio Dawson: Man, when they when Kirk Franklin first came out, they were in the uproar about Kirk Franklin.
- 45:04Maurio Dawson: Come on now.
- 45:05Maurio Dawson: The man is still delivering the message.
- 45:10Rick Costa: It doesn't matter how it's wrapped up, you as long as you're getting the gift and the thing that would really tick me off even to this day it still does, because I still see people doing it in the churches.
- 45:17Rick Costa: They'll say god doesn't like that kind of music you ain't god sit down and shut up you.
- 45:23Rick Costa: You don't like that music.
- 45:25Rick Costa: Wow, like that.
- 45:26Carmen Lezeth: Whatever it's not god, shut up, go ahead.
- 45:28Rick Costa: Rick preach who woulded me off.
- 45:29Rick Costa: Sorry, come on now.
- 45:31Cynthia Ruiz: Oh, he got hit.
- 45:32Cynthia Ruiz: Come on, Rick.
- 45:34Carmen Lezeth: Get Rick going.
- 45:36Carmen Lezeth: Hey, there I see many Indian, punjabi artists collaborating with hip hop rappers and singers like Sia.
- 45:41Carmen Lezeth: Is that how?
- 45:42Carmen Lezeth: We say it yeah, Sia I think it's a beautiful thing that artists integrate their talent in different genres.
- 45:46Maurio Dawson: Gigi, thank you Absolutely, Gigi another perfect example is Missy Yelly and Get your Freak On.
- 45:51Carmen Lezeth: That's right.
- 45:52Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that's a good one.
- 45:53Carmen Lezeth: That's a good one.
- 45:54Carmen Lezeth: Alma just said exactly.
- 46:00Carmen Lezeth: We are to share the good word with all people and look just for all the atheists out there.
- 46:02Carmen Lezeth: I do have atheist people who follow my channel.
- 46:05Carmen Lezeth: Look, whatever works for you is fine.
- 46:08Carmen Lezeth: I think my whole thing about what's happening now whether it's this whole thing with Beyonce or whatever situation when it comes to issues of race or things that we in our gut just automatically start to be defensive about please check yourself.
- 46:25Carmen Lezeth: There is nuance to everything and I know white people are having a hard time.
- 46:31Carmen Lezeth: I said this in my podcast last week.
- 46:32Carmen Lezeth: I did a Carmen talk and I got some feedback and I know people listen to it and I know it was a little bit hard to listen to.
- 46:42Carmen Lezeth: But here's the thing it's.
- 46:43Carmen Lezeth: We are in a world right now where people are just automatically, quickly, without thinking, without doing the actual work, reacting to shit.
- 46:52Carmen Lezeth: Your hate for Beyonce is stupid.
- 46:55Carmen Lezeth: You don't need to hate Beyonce.
- 46:57Carmen Lezeth: Beyonce is one of the geniuses of our time and I'm I'm not like a Beyonce crazy person.
- 47:02Carmen Lezeth: I'm not part of the beehive or anything, but the idea that if you go back with an open heart and an open mind and go back and listen to all of her albums which I own all of them, if you list, she is a storyteller and she's a great storyteller and she's a historian.
- 47:19Carmen Lezeth: I know people are going to be all freaked out because I said that, but she does something that a lot of artists don't do.
- 47:25Carmen Lezeth: The only other person I think of that touches me this way is Prince.
- 47:28Carmen Lezeth: I know people are going to be upset.
- 47:30Carmen Lezeth: People are going to be upset, like, don't do that.
- 47:31Carmen Lezeth: Beyonce, prince, I am telling you right now, when it comes to the music and the genres that I love, I'm telling you no one else has done this kind of thing.
- 47:41Carmen Lezeth: With all of their albums, where they teach history, they teach me something new, they make me a better person than Beyonce, and I'm not a fan.
- 47:50Carmen Lezeth: I mean this album is fine, it's just not my favorite.
- 47:53Carmen Lezeth: But stop being a knee jerk reaction kind of person and start being a person who has depth, who listens to nuance, who looks deeper into what's going on.
- 48:05Carmen Lezeth: Please, I beg of you.
- 48:06Carmen Lezeth: This country is in so much trouble because y'all keep knee-jerking reaction to everything.
- 48:13Maurio Dawson: Can I ask a question?
- 48:14Maurio Dawson: Yes, when something bothers us so deeply or so viscerally, it's something in it that is within us that's really striking a chord, whether it be good or bad.
- 48:29Maurio Dawson: And when we have a visceral response to something, especially if it's something you're unfamiliar with, you have to sometimes do self-reflection and say why is it bothering me so much?
- 48:38Maurio Dawson: What is it about this thing that is just making me so upset?
- 48:43Maurio Dawson: And if you do some self-reflection you'll learn something new about yourself.
- 48:48Carmen Lezeth: But, mario, it's harder because I'm not trying to be disagreeable.
- 48:52Maurio Dawson: No, no, no, I'm going to disagree with you for a moment.
- 48:54Carmen Lezeth: I think white people are going through something right now and what they're going through is real.
- 48:58Carmen Lezeth: They're going through something which is they have always been right, in power, correct.
- 49:04Carmen Lezeth: They've been the inventors of everything.
- 49:07Carmen Lezeth: The history is the way it was taught to all of us, and now they're being told all of that is wrong.
- 49:13Carmen Lezeth: All of that is wrong.
- 49:15Carmen Lezeth: That is not true.
- 49:15Carmen Lezeth: The country music thing is a great, motherfucking example.
- 49:19Carmen Lezeth: Even I didn't know that country music wasn't a white thing.
- 49:24Maurio Dawson: I learned and they're mad about it.
- 49:27Carmen Lezeth: And rightfully so.
- 49:28Carmen Lezeth: But instead of being mad about being lied to to, what's happening is they're rejecting the information.
- 49:34Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean like and and that's what's infuriating.
- 49:37Carmen Lezeth: When I learned about tulsa and I learned about rosewood and this happened during the whole fucking black lives matter march I was pissed at my country for not teaching me the truth about what happened to black communities that were of wealth and trying to establish themselves and were already established with their own income, with their own wall street black wall street their own abilities to, to, to create, and then they were totally killed, literally bombarded by airplanes and and and bombs and decimated.
- 50:14Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, when I learned that as an American, as as a person who is a patriot and loves their motherfucking country, when I learned that, I was pissed.
- 50:23Carmen Lezeth: So if I'm pissed as a person of color, learning that, shit, white people are having a come to Jesus moment, and for the atheist, whatever that is for you, but I'm just saying they're having a moment to Jesus moment.
- 50:32Carmen Lezeth: And for the atheists, whatever that is for you, but I'm just saying they're having a moment.
- 50:33Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, that is really hard and I fucking get it.
- 50:36Carmen Lezeth: I get it to the ability that I can.
- 50:39Rick Costa: Yeah, I watched a show.
- 50:41Rick Costa: I wish I could remember what the name of it was, but and it was, it was showing the Tulsa thing, cause it was like a time travel thing.
- 50:47Rick Costa: I went back in time and they went into the Tulsa what are they called in?
- 50:50Maurio Dawson: Tulsa.
- 50:50Rick Costa: Black.
- 50:51Rick Costa: Wall Street Wasn't there like a Tulsa massacre, not massacre.
- 50:54Carmen Lezeth: Tulsa massacre.
- 50:55Rick Costa: I watched it.
- 50:56Rick Costa: I was like oh, wow.
- 50:57Rick Costa: And then I was like I've been listening to people talk about the show and they're like, yeah, that was a real thing.
- 51:00Rick Costa: I was like, wait, what.
- 51:01Rick Costa: I was mad because I was like, wait, why is this not known?
- 51:05Rick Costa: This is crazy.
- 51:06Rick Costa: This is history, not in school no, that's right, I was mad.
- 51:11Maurio Dawson: Only reason I knew about it is because my grandparents taught me about it.
- 51:14Carmen Lezeth: Um, what a blessing.
- 51:15Maurio Dawson: I'm glad that you knew that, because I didn't know nothing yeah, I grew up knowing about black wall street and about that because it was you know for for people of the south.
- 51:23Maurio Dawson: You know, a lot of our stories are told through our ancestors.
- 51:28Maurio Dawson: That's right and so, therefore, and it was important to to share the stories.
- 51:32Maurio Dawson: Now, some of the accuracy you know, right, but you get the general gist of and then you can go back and verify for yourself.
- 51:40Maurio Dawson: But, yeah, it definitely.
- 51:42Maurio Dawson: And then another another group of people were made aware of the, the.
- 51:47Maurio Dawson: The Tulsa massacre was through Lovecraft country.
- 51:51Maurio Dawson: Oh, yes.
- 51:55Maurio Dawson: Yeah, if you watch Lovecraft Country, which is considered a horror genre, but it was still the massacre of all these black people, you know, and you got to see part of that in there, but for sure you know it's.
- 52:08Maurio Dawson: I think people are just mad because we're being, our history is being whitewashed.
- 52:14Carmen Lezeth: Well, no, no, it has been whitewashed, but now it's coming to fruition with a truth is, and I think it's.
- 52:19Carmen Lezeth: Look at and I black folk in my life get mad at me because I'm trying to have as much compassion as I can for white folk who are learning something that I think is detrimental and painful to their idea of who they are in this country, and I think that's fair.
- 52:36Carmen Lezeth: I don't think that's a bad thing to acknowledge.
- 52:39Carmen Lezeth: I don't hate anyone in this country.
- 52:42Carmen Lezeth: I love my country.
- 52:43Carmen Lezeth: I have faith in the American people, even though they let me down over and over and over again, but I still have faith.
- 52:49Carmen Lezeth: And here's what I'm saying.
- 52:50Carmen Lezeth: We're all learning the truth about the United States and I think the best thing we can do is embrace that.
- 52:56Carmen Lezeth: Embrace that and become the country we can actually be by embracing it.
- 53:02Carmen Lezeth: By the way, black and people of color and indigenous people, we're not going anywhere.
- 53:08Carmen Lezeth: We're not going anywhere.
- 53:09Carmen Lezeth: We're here.
- 53:11Carmen Lezeth: So this idea that somehow you can keep denying it and I'm going to go back to the Megan Callie thing whatever the fuck her name is because I'm so pissed about her because she has a platform.
- 53:20Carmen Lezeth: She is the epitome of what a white woman is.
- 53:23Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 53:23Carmen Lezeth: Like everything about her she's white, she's beautiful, she's smart, she's got all these people following her, whatever.
- 53:27Carmen Lezeth: And to get up there and say what she did.
- 53:29Carmen Lezeth: I wish I knew her, because I would call her and be like dude, what are you doing?
- 53:34Carmen Lezeth: You have all this power.
- 53:35Carmen Lezeth: What are you doing?
- 53:36Carmen Lezeth: Embedding this crap?
- 53:38Carmen Lezeth: You know, this is the stuff that annoys me.
- 53:42Carmen Lezeth: The kind of fueling of the continuous racism and that's what she was doing is continuing and fueling racism.
- 53:50Carmen Lezeth: You can put lipstick on it, you can put a bow on it, you can call it whatever you want.
- 53:56Carmen Lezeth: Her jealousy and her racism was shining, shining brightly, and I think we have to acknowledge that and realize that there's a fear in the white community.
- 54:06Carmen Lezeth: That's valid.
- 54:07Carmen Lezeth: But you know what?
- 54:08Carmen Lezeth: Get over it and move on and let's just figure it out.
- 54:12Carmen Lezeth: I don't hate white people.
- 54:13Carmen Lezeth: I love white people.
- 54:14Carmen Lezeth: I do.
- 54:14Carmen Lezeth: I love white people.
- 54:15Carmen Lezeth: But we have got to figure it out to be really true Great, to be the great country we thought we were, we actually have to move through this part of us and the reason why I call it racism is because it is and you all know the nuances of it this whole hatred for Beyonce is about racism.
- 54:34Carmen Lezeth: Whole hatred for Beyonce is about racism.
- 54:38Carmen Lezeth: It's about racism.
- 54:39Carmen Lezeth: This is not about Dolly Parton or about Paul McCartney, or about her being in country or whatever.
- 54:41Carmen Lezeth: It's none of that.
- 54:42Carmen Lezeth: At the end of the day, if you sat with yourself, wrote in your journal and really had a conversation, this is about racism.
- 54:48Carmen Lezeth: You're angry that a black woman made country music, who is a an amazing artist, and walked into another genre.
- 54:56Maurio Dawson: And made history.
- 54:56Maurio Dawson: History she made history.
- 54:58Maurio Dawson: Number one album number one country album, number one single, all number ones, all in the same week.
- 55:07Carmen Lezeth: By the way, the reason why she has made history in country music is not because of me, it's because of country people listening to her motherfucking country music bitches.
- 55:16Carmen Lezeth: Get a grip.
- 55:22Carmen Lezeth: Brianrian, you said welcome to political, to political science.
- 55:24Carmen Lezeth: Everything you learned in high school is sugar-coated.
- 55:25Carmen Lezeth: Welcome to the real shit.
- 55:25Carmen Lezeth: I listen to my professor amen brian, amen for real yeah, and I'm sorry you look at I.
- 55:31Carmen Lezeth: I know this podcast is billed as something we don't usually talk about racism and religion.
- 55:35Carmen Lezeth: But here's the other thing I know for sure and on my Carmen talks, I will talk about whatever I damn well please, and you don't have to listen to it.
- 55:40Carmen Lezeth: But we also can't be authentically myself, and this conversation is about race.
- 55:48Carmen Lezeth: It really is, and to shy away from it would be crazy.
- 55:51Carmen Lezeth: We're smarter than that.
- 55:52Carmen Lezeth: We're nuanced.
- 55:53Maurio Dawson: You know what I mean Go ahead, mario, no, no, no, listen, it was on my spirit.
- 55:58Maurio Dawson: I felt like I needed to bring the topic to the table.
- 56:01Carmen Lezeth: It's not Mario's fault, by the way, don't at me either.
- 56:07Rick Costa: Alma brought up the whole making of the Green Book thing and that's a whole movie in and of itself.
- 56:11Carmen Lezeth: Wait, wait, wait.
- 56:12Carmen Lezeth: Did I miss something about Alma?
- 56:14Rick Costa: She said that show also touched on the making of the Green Book and why it was so needed.
- 56:17Carmen Lezeth: That's right, my grandmother had a Green Book, but why don't one of you explain what the Green Book is, please?
- 56:22Rick Costa: Well, there's a funny part in the show where so basically it's these are places, restaurants, you can go where you're okay with Black people, basically.
- 56:31Carmen Lezeth: And hotels it's not just restaurants Places you can go, you can go there.
- 56:34Rick Costa: They're not going to try to lynch you, right?
- 56:36Rick Costa: So in the show they went to this restaurant because it was in the book, didn't know that it got bought out by somebody else who was not pro-Black people, and so they're sitting down, they're like chilling, like everything's cool.
- 56:46Rick Costa: Then all of a sudden the girl goes.
- 56:54Rick Costa: I got need to get down here and she came back.
- 56:56Rick Costa: She said we got to get out of here right now.
- 56:58Rick Costa: We got to go now, now.
- 57:00Rick Costa: And I was like wow that is.
- 57:02Maurio Dawson: That's so crazy.
- 57:03Maurio Dawson: And then there's also what they call sundown towns.
- 57:06Rick Costa: Yep.
- 57:07Carmen Lezeth: Wasn't that part of the Green Book, though that's part of the whole Green Book thing.
- 57:10Rick Costa: That's all part, and in that TV show too, yeah hotels, restaurants, gas stations, cities.
- 57:19Maurio Dawson: It was a path through the South to get all the way through safely and you had to be out of these sundown towns to make sure you stay alive to see the next day.
- 57:29Carmen Lezeth: This was something that was told between networks of people of color, so you would know where to go and where not to go.
- 57:34Carmen Lezeth: Let me just say, growing up in Boston sorry, I love you, boston, but, cynthia, you know what I'm going to say we kind of had our own little green book without actually having it written down.
- 57:42Carmen Lezeth: You grew up where you could go and you couldn't go.
- 57:45Cynthia Ruiz: It was very well established after dark or whatever, like right now, where I live, you live, in South Boston, I live in south boston, which was it's basically all irish.
- 57:56Cynthia Ruiz: So back in 70s, early 80s, I was going to come to south boston.
- 58:01Cynthia Ruiz: Looking like me, carmen, you know, like unless you were with a white person.
- 58:05Carmen Lezeth: so I would go without carrier all the time, or I would be.
- 58:07Carmen Lezeth: It was why because I used to hang out in south boston, but only with other white people, I would never go.
- 58:13Carmen Lezeth: So it's the same kind of thing you knew as a person of color, where you could and could not go, and that's part of what all this is.
- 58:21Carmen Lezeth: And here's the thing white America I'm saying this on purpose.
- 58:25Carmen Lezeth: We need to know our history, because the only way we get better as a country and as a people is to understand a truth.
- 58:33Carmen Lezeth: This isn't about me being hateful to white I love white people.
- 58:35Carmen Lezeth: This isn't about me.
- 58:36Carmen Lezeth: I want us to understand a truth.
- 58:37Carmen Lezeth: This isn't about me being hateful to white I love white people.
- 58:38Carmen Lezeth: This isn't about me.
- 58:39Carmen Lezeth: I want us to know our truth, because we become stronger as a nation, as a people, when we know the truth of who we are.
- 58:45TikTok: Yes.
- 58:46Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 58:47Carmen Lezeth: Alma just said I have a friend in San Diego that says they have a son downtown.
- 58:51Carmen Lezeth: We do Absolutely in San Diego.
- 58:52Maurio Dawson: We do oh absolutely.
- 58:54Carmen Lezeth: Melanie just said, so many people have crossed over from one genre of music to another Beyonce, the latest.
- 58:59Carmen Lezeth: I don't see the problem.
- 58:59Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, melanie, I agree with you.
- 59:01Carmen Lezeth: Hey, audrey, welcome.
- 59:04Carmen Lezeth: Audrey is Cynthia's sister.
- 59:06Cynthia Ruiz: Hey Audrey.
- 59:07Carmen Lezeth: But there's also people of color who are not supporting Beyonce's country song.
- 59:11Carmen Lezeth: Have you seen a TikTok video of a woman who's in her car listening to music with her daughter?
- 59:15Carmen Lezeth: Beyonce song comes on, the text is hold on.
- 59:17Carmen Lezeth: The mother says, oh no, this is not happening.
- 59:19Carmen Lezeth: So she changes the station and the daughter was like what the hell?
- 59:22Carmen Lezeth: Well, bravo to the daughter.
- 59:23Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 59:24Carmen Lezeth: Like bravo to the daughter.
- 59:25Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I mean, look, there's a lot of people who have angst, but I think we's why we're having the conversation, mara.
- 59:36Carmen Lezeth: I think that's why you wanted to have the conversation.
- 59:39Maurio Dawson: A hundred percent.
- 59:40Maurio Dawson: You know, it's just about.
- 59:41Maurio Dawson: You know now, mind you, texas Hold'em was playing a lot and there's another meme it was another meme where the lady is the old black and white video and a woman.
- 59:50Maurio Dawson: She goes to the Victrola and you hear Texas Hold'em playing and all of a sudden she takes the record off the Victrola and smashes it.
- 59:56Maurio Dawson: She says if I hear that song one more time, that's right.
- 1:00:02Maurio Dawson: Yeah, my God, this was such I'm sorry.
- 1:00:06Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, rick, I'm sorry.
- 1:00:08Rick Costa: I think this doesn't apply necessarily to everything, but in a lot of things, if you have a problem, you have a problem, you have a problem, say.
- 1:00:15Maurio Dawson: You have a problem.
- 1:00:16Maurio Dawson: You have a problem, you have a problem.
- 1:00:17Maurio Dawson: Say that.
- 1:00:17Maurio Dawson: Say that Say it loud you have a problem.
- 1:00:21Maurio Dawson: Come on now.
- 1:00:22Carmen Lezeth: Woo, Rick is my co-host.
- 1:00:24Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, baby Woo.
- 1:00:26Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, Rick, Go ahead.
- 1:00:28Carmen Lezeth: That was good, yeah, you know what.
- 1:00:30Carmen Lezeth: But here's the thing I have faith in the American people.
- 1:00:33Carmen Lezeth: I do, I do, I do.
- 1:00:34Carmen Lezeth: If Andrea was here by the way, she's on a flight still and she was delayed, you know she would probably be like oh Carmen, you're so crazy.
- 1:00:42Carmen Lezeth: I think she's kind of a little bit lost faith in the American people.
- 1:00:45Carmen Lezeth: I still have hope, I love my country and I still have faith in us.
- 1:00:49Carmen Lezeth: I think we're great people.
- 1:00:50Carmen Lezeth: I think it takes us a long time to get wherever it is we need to be, but once we get there, we're solid.
- 1:00:58Carmen Lezeth: Look at Mara Mara's like I have faith.
- 1:01:01Carmen Lezeth: But wow, we are at one hour 13 minutes and we did not talk about OJ.
- 1:01:06Carmen Lezeth: We still can.
- 1:01:09Maurio Dawson: Deuces.
- 1:01:10Carmen Lezeth: Woo.
- 1:01:11Carmen Lezeth: Well, let's talk a little bit about OJ.
- 1:01:13Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, Mario.
- 1:01:14Carmen Lezeth: Why don't you throw in?
- 1:01:15Maurio Dawson: I said what I said, deuces.
- 1:01:17Carmen Lezeth: What's deuces mean?
- 1:01:17Carmen Lezeth: I don't even know what that means.
- 1:01:19Maurio Dawson: See you later.
- 1:01:20Carmen Lezeth: See you later, bye, I mean.
- 1:01:22Maurio Dawson: I don't, like you know he's so divisive Divisive rather.
- 1:01:26Maurio Dawson: People are like he didn't do it or he did it wasn't there.
- 1:01:40Maurio Dawson: I'm not on the journey, I don't care.
- 1:01:42Maurio Dawson: I wish his family peace and solace because he was still a father.
- 1:01:44Maurio Dawson: He still had children.
- 1:01:45Maurio Dawson: I hope that his children are at peace.
- 1:01:47Maurio Dawson: I hope the Goldman family is now at peace, because that was an ongoing thorn in their side.
- 1:01:53Maurio Dawson: So shout out to the Goldman, shout out to the Simpsons.
- 1:01:57Maurio Dawson: Let everybody be in peace and it's now over.
- 1:02:00Cynthia Ruiz: Cynthia, I really don't care about that.
- 1:02:03Carmen Lezeth: I don't care for the man, so I mean, I'm going to say something, but go ahead, Rick.
- 1:02:07Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to say something that's going to throw you all, but go ahead, Rick.
- 1:02:10Rick Costa: I forgot the movie.
- 1:02:11Rick Costa: Is it called barbershop, where the barber goes?
- 1:02:14Carmen Lezeth: oh, jay did it, oh, they did it no, I'm gonna I'm just gonna say this part and then you guys can chime in and and we'll close it down.
- 1:02:24Carmen Lezeth: Um, so I moved here in 1994.
- 1:02:27Carmen Lezeth: I moved here in 1994, what, what, mario?
- 1:02:29Maurio Dawson: my wife asked me did any of us see the last post that oj simpson did?
- 1:02:32Maurio Dawson: I said I don't know.
- 1:02:33Maurio Dawson: I have to look I I have no idea.
- 1:02:34Carmen Lezeth: It's not like I followed him.
- 1:02:36Maurio Dawson: Neither did.
- 1:02:36Carmen Lezeth: I, audrey, just said.
- 1:02:37Carmen Lezeth: Well, technically, the Goldman are really not at peace because they did say that their hope for his accountability has ended, which is sad, absolutely true, absolutely true.
- 1:02:45Carmen Lezeth: So I moved here in 1994 in California, and I didn't just move to California, I actually landed in West LA in the neighborhood where OJ Simpson killed or did not kill his wife, depending on your perspective.
- 1:03:03Carmen Lezeth: I actually ended up buying a condo across the street, literally across the street from the place where this all happened.
- 1:03:08Carmen Lezeth: So the reason why I bring this up is I think people forget the nuance of what happened back then.
- 1:03:17Carmen Lezeth: So let me refresh your memory In 1991, rodney King, during the riots in Los Angeles, was beaten by cops.
- 1:03:27Carmen Lezeth: Ridiculously.
- 1:03:28Carmen Lezeth: It was filmed on video.
- 1:03:30Carmen Lezeth: We didn't have phones back then, but it was on video.
- 1:03:32Carmen Lezeth: It was a huge news.
- 1:03:34Carmen Lezeth: You guys remember it right, the Rodney King thing, or whatever, and cops beat him or whatever, and that was 1991.
- 1:03:39Carmen Lezeth: It was a huge news.
- 1:03:40Carmen Lezeth: You guys remember it right?
- 1:03:40Carmen Lezeth: The Rodney or whatever, and cops beat him or whatever, and it was, that was 1991.
- 1:03:45Carmen Lezeth: That was March of 1991.
- 1:03:46Carmen Lezeth: And when I moved here in 1994, that was still a really big part of our ethos as a country.
- 1:03:51Carmen Lezeth: Right that all of these cops beat a black man after pulling him out of his tractor, trailer thing or whatever, to a pulp.
- 1:03:56Carmen Lezeth: And then no one was held accountable for that.
- 1:03:58Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if people remember that, but nobody was held accountable for that.
- 1:04:01Carmen Lezeth: And then in April of 1995, oj Simpsons.
- 1:04:05Carmen Lezeth: They came out and said that he was not guilty.
- 1:04:08Carmen Lezeth: Right, that was what happened.
- 1:04:09Carmen Lezeth: So I was here in Los Angeles, I was living.
- 1:04:11Carmen Lezeth: I had a roommate at the time, chris Leterzo, and we had a huge fight about this.
- 1:04:15Carmen Lezeth: But I was one of those people who was like, oh my God, yes, I was so happy about him being let go or whatever, donnie Cochran doing whatever.
- 1:04:25Carmen Lezeth: And people are like, oh my God, how could you?
- 1:04:27Carmen Lezeth: It's not that I believed that he didn't kill his wife, that was not the controversy, that was not the issue.
- 1:04:32Carmen Lezeth: I absolutely know that motherfucking killed his wife and killed Ron Goldman.
- 1:04:37Carmen Lezeth: That was not the problem.
- 1:04:38Carmen Lezeth: But what people don't remember back then is that what people were feeling is would you be treated the same if you were wealthy and black, like you were wealthy and white?
- 1:04:50Carmen Lezeth: What a lot of people of color were excited about, wasn't that?
- 1:04:54Carmen Lezeth: Oj got off?
- 1:04:56Carmen Lezeth: And I'm not trying to speak for all people of color were excited about, wasn't that OJ got off?
- 1:04:57Carmen Lezeth: And I'm not trying to speak for all people of color, but I'm just saying my feeling and what I know from people I hang out with who are people of color.
- 1:05:02Carmen Lezeth: We were excited to see that the justice system was the same if you were rich.
- 1:05:07Carmen Lezeth: Does that make sense?
- 1:05:09Carmen Lezeth: Like that's what the exuberance was of?
- 1:05:14Carmen Lezeth: Oh so if you have money, it don't matter what color your ear is.
- 1:05:17Carmen Lezeth: You will get off, because white people got off all the time and continue to get off if they have a lot of money.
- 1:05:23Carmen Lezeth: Yeah.
- 1:05:24Carmen Lezeth: So I just want to throw that out there.
- 1:05:25Carmen Lezeth: I have never, not once ever, thought that he was not guilty and I was glad that he was in prison.
- 1:05:29Carmen Lezeth: I don't give a fuck that he died.
- 1:05:31Carmen Lezeth: I'll just say that straight up.
- 1:05:32Carmen Lezeth: And I'm just sad that he didn't suffer more.
- 1:05:34Carmen Lezeth: What?
- 1:05:35Maurio Dawson: Pick me.
- 1:05:35Maurio Dawson: I have a fun fact, something else you don't know about me.
- 1:05:38Carmen Lezeth: I just wanted to give that statement so people would understand that this is OJ related.
- 1:05:42Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead OJ related.
- 1:05:43Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead baby.
- 1:05:44Maurio Dawson: I worked with Chris Darden right after the OJ trial.
- 1:05:48Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, oh my God, poor Chris Darden.
- 1:05:51Carmen Lezeth: He went through so much.
- 1:05:52Maurio Dawson: He actually.
- 1:05:53Maurio Dawson: I remember that because I was still at Cal State, LA, at the time.
- 1:05:57Carmen Lezeth: Tell people who Chris Darden is on the audio.
- 1:05:59Carmen Lezeth: Chris.
- 1:05:59Carmen Lezeth: Darden was one of the prosecuting attorneys with Marsha is it Marsha Gray, marsha Gray, marsha Gray, and he was Black.
- 1:06:05Carmen Lezeth: He was Black, yeah.
- 1:06:05Maurio Dawson: Chris Darden was a Black man who was one of the prosecuting attorneys for the OJ trial and I was a student worker at Cal State, la at the time and I was working in the criminal justice department as an aide.
- 1:06:23Maurio Dawson: I didn't know that Another fun fact about me that you didn't know.
- 1:06:27Maurio Dawson: So I was working in the criminal justice department at Cal State LA and it was such a big deal.
- 1:06:30Maurio Dawson: News reporters were everywhere all over campus.
- 1:06:32Maurio Dawson: We literally had to have a security guard outside of our office door just so he can come into the office to do his work before he got ready to clap to go to class.
- 1:06:37Maurio Dawson: We had to keep security outside the classrooms.
- 1:06:39Maurio Dawson: It was a madhouse.
- 1:06:41Maurio Dawson: But when I got to sit down and talk to him on a one-on-one basis, you could see the turmoil, yeah, his face all the time about, um, how the outcome of that case came to be.
- 1:06:53Maurio Dawson: And he actually got.
- 1:06:54Maurio Dawson: He talked about the case quite a bit in that in a couple of his classes that semester or that, yeah, that quarter, cause he's, he taught there for almost a year.
- 1:07:01Maurio Dawson: Wow, really really nice man, very quiet, very reserved, but very troubled.
- 1:07:08Maurio Dawson: For sure.
- 1:07:09Maurio Dawson: I can say that with honesty.
- 1:07:10Maurio Dawson: He was very troubled about the outcome and he said I, you know we did our best, but it just didn't work out in our favor.
- 1:07:16Maurio Dawson: But he said all the evidence was there.
- 1:07:19Carmen Lezeth: Because Johnny Cochran was crazy amazing People get so mad at.
- 1:07:23Carmen Lezeth: Like Johnny Cochran.
- 1:07:24Carmen Lezeth: I'm like bitch.
- 1:07:25Carmen Lezeth: If I was in trouble, you know who I'd hire.
- 1:07:27Maurio Dawson: I'm calling Johnny Cochran.
- 1:07:27Carmen Lezeth: Johnny Cochran Okay.
- 1:07:30Rick Costa: If the glove don't fit, you must quit, but go ahead.
- 1:07:42Rick Costa: Rick Cynthia, your thoughts about the past, I mean, like like tomorrow said I wasn't there, did I have a feeling one way or the other?
- 1:07:45Rick Costa: I'm like carmen, I, like you, probably did um well, and I agree too, though it's nice to see that you know it's possible to get off even though you're not white.
- 1:07:56Rick Costa: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:07:58Carmen Lezeth: It's a tough one, though.
- 1:07:59Carmen Lezeth: It's a tough one because you don't, you, I mean, I see, I agree with you, rick, but it's kind of like so that becomes a socioeconomic situation.
- 1:08:07Carmen Lezeth: So if you have money, you get off on stuff.
- 1:08:09Carmen Lezeth: So our justice system really isn't equal.
- 1:08:11Carmen Lezeth: I don't have that kind of money to have that kind of defense.
- 1:08:18Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 1:08:18Carmen Lezeth: So, but yeah, I, I, I mean that's what that was about.
- 1:08:19Carmen Lezeth: And, by the way, my roommate at the time, chris Leterzo oh my God, we had such a fight.
- 1:08:23Carmen Lezeth: He was so angry with me because he heard me in my room.
- 1:08:26Carmen Lezeth: I was like we had such a huge fight about he's a white man, but it was just so amazingly like he was so angry with me.
- 1:08:34Carmen Lezeth: But, cynthia, thoughts, you loved OJ Go ahead, admit it.
- 1:08:40Cynthia Ruiz: I'm just waiting for it to be on an episode of Keep it Up With the Kardashians or something.
- 1:08:43Carmen Lezeth: Because you know that it's going to be.
- 1:08:45Carmen Lezeth: Oh right, the Kardashians are related, right, yeah, because they're bad.
- 1:08:49Maurio Dawson: Yeah, Rob Kardashian.
- 1:08:51Maurio Dawson: Robert Kardashian was one of the attorneys.
- 1:08:55Carmen Lezeth: That's right.
- 1:08:55Carmen Lezeth: He was one of the attorneys, right.
- 1:08:57Cynthia Ruiz: That's right, he was one of the attorneys on the defense with Johnny Cochran.
- 1:09:02Maurio Dawson: Mm-hmm.
- 1:09:02Maurio Dawson: Oh wow, amazing.
- 1:09:02Maurio Dawson: I just saw the last video where he was denying that he was in hospice.
- 1:09:05Maurio Dawson: That was his last tweet.
- 1:09:07Maurio Dawson: Who OJ?
- 1:09:09Maurio Dawson: Yeah, here, I'll play it for you.
- 1:09:13Carmen Lezeth: No, no, no, Don't play it, don't play it.
- 1:09:14Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to promote him, I don't want to promote him, let's not promote him you said you can't trust the media.
- 1:09:19Maurio Dawson: Basically.
- 1:09:20Carmen Lezeth: No, no, no, no, no.
- 1:09:20Carmen Lezeth: I'm not trying to be rude, but I do think I want to be very clear.
- 1:09:25Carmen Lezeth: I am 99.99% sure he killed his wife and Ron Goldman, so I don't want to promote his fucking ass, but I want to explain what the exuberance was on my part and what I think a lot of people of color were.
- 1:09:39Carmen Lezeth: It wasn't about that he didn't kill them.
- 1:09:40Carmen Lezeth: It was that there was some weird equality that happened if you had money.
- 1:09:45Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 1:09:46Carmen Lezeth: That's what happened.
- 1:09:47Carmen Lezeth: Ash just said.
- 1:09:47Carmen Lezeth: Apparently Chris said good riddance when he heard of his passing, but apparently they were close.
- 1:09:53Carmen Lezeth: Who's Chris Kardashian?
- 1:09:55Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I don't.
- 1:09:58Carmen Lezeth: I know nothing about the.
- 1:09:59Maurio Dawson: Kardashians.
- 1:09:59Maurio Dawson: Chris with a K, and she's talking about Kardashian.
- 1:10:03Carmen Lezeth: Okay, well, technically, the Goldman are really not at peace because they did say oh, I read that already.
- 1:10:06Carmen Lezeth: Right, right, I feel bad for Ronald Ron Goldman.
- 1:10:09Carmen Lezeth: So when I first moved here I think Charlie and I talked about this a little bit Charlie Matera, who we had on the private lounge, we met at what used there was Mezzaluna, which is the restaurant that she left her sunglasses at, and Ronald Goldman, the waiter, brought them to her.
- 1:10:27Carmen Lezeth: Like, there's that part of the story and it's so vivid in my mind because I remember when I first moved here there were paparazzi everywhere.
- 1:10:32Carmen Lezeth: I got this apartment for like 540 bucks, I remember it.
- 1:10:36Carmen Lezeth: It was a studio apartment here in the heart of Brentwood and it was because nobody wanted to really live here anymore, because there was just so much drama going on.
- 1:10:44Carmen Lezeth: I was like I'm in.
- 1:10:46Carmen Lezeth: I just moved here, I'm in and it was just kind of an incredible time.
- 1:10:52Carmen Lezeth: It was horrible, sad and yeah, I'm pretty sure, without a doubt, I don't think I'm.
- 1:10:58Carmen Lezeth: I would bet everything that he did do it.
- 1:11:00Carmen Lezeth: Uh, brian said so I shouldn't trade my truck in for a white bronco no, that would be no no, no, no, no, no.
- 1:11:06Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so we're almost at one hour 30 minutes.
- 1:11:10Carmen Lezeth: That went by so fast you did wow, that was a great topic, mario.
- 1:11:16Carmen Lezeth: I would have never talked about Beyonce, so I'm glad you brought that up.
- 1:11:19Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, melanie just said Robert Blake died last year.
- 1:11:22Carmen Lezeth: Do you think he was guilty?
- 1:11:23Carmen Lezeth: Who's Robert Blake?
- 1:11:26Maurio Dawson: Yeah, but Robert Blake went to jail.
- 1:11:29Carmen Lezeth: Who's Robert Blake?
- 1:11:31Maurio Dawson: He played Beretta.
- 1:11:31Maurio Dawson: Yeah, what was he?
- 1:11:33Carmen Lezeth: guilty of Don't break my heart.
- 1:11:36Maurio Dawson: I loved Ber yeah, what did he do?
- 1:11:39Maurio Dawson: I can't remember his crime but yeah, I remember that whole thing melanie.
- 1:11:43Carmen Lezeth: We're gonna follow up on the next episode next week, because I don't even know what you're talking about, but I'm so sad, I'm heartbroken.
- 1:11:50Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, everyone, we're almost at the 130 mark.
- 1:11:53Carmen Lezeth: So I just wanted to say, first of all, thank you, mario, love you, thank you for coming by.
- 1:11:56Carmen Lezeth: I appreciate you, cynthia, as always.
- 1:11:58Carmen Lezeth: Hey, rick Costa, you know I love you, my man, you're so good.
- 1:12:03Carmen Lezeth: Thank you everyone, and let me just give a shout out again to people on LinkedIn, who I keep getting so many followers and I'm so excited.
- 1:12:12Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, thank you emails.
- 1:12:17Carmen Lezeth: I appreciate the DMs.
- 1:12:18Carmen Lezeth: We are working on swag.
- 1:12:18Carmen Lezeth: A couple of people have asked me for t-shirts and hats and somebody asked me for my hoodie.
- 1:12:22Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to hook it up.
- 1:12:22Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to do it soon, I swear.
- 1:12:24Carmen Lezeth: I promise what, mario.
- 1:12:27Maurio Dawson: I asked for my swag a long time ago.
- 1:12:29Carmen Lezeth: I know, you know what I want it to be quality.
- 1:12:31Carmen Lezeth: But I think I just got to bite the bullet and just go with it and I'm going to do it, I promise.
- 1:12:35Carmen Lezeth: But anyway, listen, thank you everyone for following us.
- 1:12:38Carmen Lezeth: Please go to YouTube, like us, follow and share.
- 1:12:42Carmen Lezeth: Please help us out with that because, as much as I don't give a fuck about how many people are liking us, we really do, we really really do.
- 1:12:49Carmen Lezeth: But investors, do we really?
- 1:12:53Maurio Dawson: do, we really do, we really care.
- 1:12:55Carmen Lezeth: We really, really, really do care.
- 1:12:57Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to be better about it, so please, if you could do that, I really appreciate you and I appreciate the likes, the share, the comments, and I don't know why everyone emails me, but you can also just put a comment somewhere.
- 1:13:07Carmen Lezeth: But I'm okay with you emailing me directly, it's all good.
- 1:13:10Maurio Dawson: In the words of Rick smash that like button.
- 1:13:12Carmen Lezeth: Thank you everyone.
- 1:13:13Carmen Lezeth: Have a great night.
- 1:13:14Carmen Lezeth: We'll be here next week and remember it's all about the joy.
- 1:13:17Carmen Lezeth: Bye everyone, bye.
- 1:13:19Carmen Lezeth: Thanks for stopping by.
- 1:13:22Carmen Lezeth: All about the joy.
- 1:13:23Carmen Lezeth: Be better and stay beautiful folks.
- 1:13:26Carmen Lezeth: Have a sweet day.