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A Father's Ambition VS Guilt, Encouraging Your Child + Sherm's INTENSE Football Fight | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: fan of the show. Got a couple of those, but
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  Speaker 1: a couple of dads that are.
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  Speaker 1: One came up from Texas, Okay, and then obviously the
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  Speaker 1: Huskers like oh yeah, you know, I'm all shouting out
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  Speaker 1: the Husk boys, but Texas a cat came up to me.
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  Speaker 1: And then I think another equipment manager who was just
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  Speaker 1: an equipment manager in his past life, yeah, came up
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  Speaker 5: They're and a couple of dms too, like DM's coming
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  Speaker 5: into the for the dad's page.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we're trying to find his name real quick. But
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  Speaker 6: shout out to the us SEF. That's manager. He is
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  Speaker 6: sending us a bunch of stuff. Yes, I'm a big
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  Speaker 6: fan of alex Schoolish former Tennessee off its coordinator put
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  Speaker 6: to some b two a on Boise State.
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  Speaker 2: Did on Boise State.
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  Speaker 5: Yikes, gooned on those boys they did goon goom berets
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  Speaker 5: infiltrated Boise State. That quarterback is he general the Goombreys? Dude,
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  Speaker 5: he was discussing dialed in.
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  Speaker 1: So it's funny too because the equipment manager audience, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna say they got.
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  Speaker 2: A fan base.
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  Speaker 3: They are tight. They're tight, They're tight.
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  Speaker 6: They have accounts that are just like Texas A and
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  Speaker 6: M football equipment I had.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: By the way, Jeremy Lee's is his name, Shadow Jeremy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, a bunch of.
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  Speaker 5: Shout out Jeremy, shout out go Vols, shout out, oh
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  Speaker 5: go Bulls.
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  Speaker 3: They Yeah, they are Bulls. South Florida BALLUS. Yes, sorry,
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  Speaker 3: I thought I thought you said falls. That's on me.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out the balls, gubo. Yeah, he shout out it
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  Speaker 1: took care of business. This is not a football show.
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  Speaker 1: This is a football show for the wife soon because
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  Speaker 1: I know we got a lot of a lot of
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  Speaker 1: milk Team sixers out there.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, dude, we do.
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  Speaker 5: And that was my other shout out is the wife
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  Speaker 5: of the Arkansas.
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  Speaker 3: Razorback equipment manager d M.
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  Speaker 5: Jilly Bean, after seeing us go to the Baylor game
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  Speaker 5: with Scarlett, and was like, you have inspired me to.
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  Speaker 5: I thought I was going to miss some of the
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  Speaker 5: season this year with our newborn, but you have inspired
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  Speaker 5: me to now go to the games and try bringing
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  Speaker 5: the newborn.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, that's what it's about. I know.
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  Speaker 5: That got me really jacked. It was sick also to
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  Speaker 5: your point. For the first time in my time at Bustin'
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  Speaker 5: I had a semen Team sixer come up to me
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  Speaker 5: and he was juiced. His name is Johnnyah young Cat
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  Speaker 5: and yelled my name from like a mile away, ran
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  Speaker 5: up to me.
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  Speaker 3: How the boys hat on?
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  Speaker 5: He goes, I gotta keep it up, buck, dude, I'm
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  Speaker 5: SC six. I don't have a kid, but I'm seeming
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  Speaker 5: Team six baby. I fucking love for the dead. I
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  Speaker 5: was like, oh my god. I gave him the biggest
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  Speaker 5: hug in the entire world. I was like, Johnny, Oh
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  Speaker 5: my god, he said, I did I have a podcast
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  Speaker 5: every single day of the week when I'm working out.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't have a Wednesday one. And I said, oh
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  Speaker 5: fuck it, I like Will Compton, let's see what it's
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  Speaker 5: all about.
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  Speaker 3: Oh god, I swear.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, buddy, listen, I want to step on your territory.
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  Speaker 2: I'm anna SD sixer st six.
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  Speaker 3: Like, I don't want to fool you about being fully
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  Speaker 3: bet six.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I ain't a dad. Ain't trying to be a
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  Speaker 2: dad right now.
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  Speaker 3: He crushed it.
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  Speaker 5: Dude, I was dying, laughing, dying laughing. I talked to
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  Speaker 5: him for like twenty minutes because Joe was in the
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  Speaker 5: mom room.
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  Speaker 2: Just keeping it. Yeah, well we'll get it. We'll get
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  Speaker 2: into the.
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  Speaker 1: Storytelling, because I'm super curious how that we haven't really
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  Speaker 1: gotten to talk at all, and we've seen each other.
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  Speaker 2: In the all, like we see each other in the shop.
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  Speaker 1: We had to bust with the boys earlier, and I've
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  Speaker 1: been intentional, like, let's not get too fired up in
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  Speaker 1: time someone to learn.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I've been trying to stay away from you because.
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  Speaker 1: When you left last week, you're in the bit of
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  Speaker 1: a doghouse. I was that bit of a dog house
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  Speaker 1: situation with Wifey. That's my dad loss. Okay, we'll get
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  Speaker 1: into we'll get into Yeah we should. We rebost some
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  Speaker 1: comments at the top of the episode. Shut out people
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  Speaker 1: who've been in the comments section.
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  Speaker 5: Please can I start because I have an apology. I
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  Speaker 5: want to get in front of something.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead, Okay, go ahead.
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  Speaker 5: That's that because a fat Stafford. First Off, thank you
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  Speaker 5: for all the fat Stafford comments. They made me laugh
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  Speaker 5: every single time. Secondly, I was seeing some comments specifically
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  Speaker 5: directed at me, and I was not offended.
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  Speaker 3: If anything, I was.
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  Speaker 5: A little bit heartbroken because Will had mentioned it. One
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  Speaker 5: episode was like talking to Mike. Talking to Mike, I
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  Speaker 5: come in. Our two guys behind the desk that are
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  Speaker 5: always killing it. They also giving great production notes. Hey Sherman,
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  Speaker 5: make sure we're getting a lot of comments talking to
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  Speaker 5: the mic, and I was like, damn, cause I've been
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  Speaker 5: reading that too, So I just want to read out.
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  Speaker 5: Zach Davis two four zero two he said, Papa Team
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  Speaker 5: six member here, huge fan of the pod.
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  Speaker 3: Could be just Dad Years. It's not Zach.
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  Speaker 5: I've been leaning away from the mic and I am sorry.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna try and get better, but SUREM needs to
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  Speaker 5: speak into the microphone.
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  Speaker 1: That's great accountability, thank you, and that's good hand up
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  Speaker 1: postgame presser, facing the noise, not running away from it,
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  Speaker 1: and saying this offensive operation starts with me.
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  Speaker 3: It does.
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  Speaker 5: And this is a podcast. At the end of the day,
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  Speaker 5: I get comfortable. I started laughing. I feel like I'm
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  Speaker 5: just talking to you, but I got to remember.
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  Speaker 3: I'm right here to speakining of I. I have a few.
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  Speaker 1: There were a lot that I screenshoted, okay, and I
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  Speaker 1: have a few that's more on like the the serious
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  Speaker 1: side of things. Oh, I'll start with JJ Smith. He
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  Speaker 1: titled it IVF.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: My name is Carl and my wife's name is Ali,
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  Speaker 1: And we just stumbled upon the ivf's episode Will did
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  Speaker 1: with his wife, my wife and I. If you guys
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  Speaker 1: can recall on Mother's Day, we dropped a Mother's Day
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  Speaker 1: episode where I had my wife on bus with the
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  Speaker 1: boys and.
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  Speaker 2: We talked through our IVF journey.
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  Speaker 1: We were going through our second round of IVF here
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  Speaker 1: in a few weeks, trying for our first child as
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  Speaker 1: a cancer survivor, and the problem being on my end.
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  Speaker 1: We're going through it together. The advice they gave on
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  Speaker 1: that episode between the communication and not having a timeline,
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  Speaker 1: the whole story in general was inspirational. I think in
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  Speaker 1: life there are signs and stuff when you pay attention.
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  Speaker 1: And the fact that I came across that episode and
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  Speaker 1: heard what we needed to hear at the right time
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  Speaker 1: as a sign relating heavy on all the feelings you
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  Speaker 1: guys went through between the pain, shame, guilt, and helplessness
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  Speaker 1: that was described.
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  Speaker 2: I felt so hopeless at.
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  Speaker 1: One point, but being more open about it and seeing
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  Speaker 1: the situation can happen to anyone and their positive outcomes
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  Speaker 1: is what we needed and was bringing tears to my
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  Speaker 1: eyes at times. JJ, I appreciate you for being vulnerable
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  Speaker 1: with your boy in the DMS and sending that message.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think IVF is something that isn't talked about a
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  Speaker 1: lot because it just feels what's the word I'm looking for, taboo?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, taboo?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, just because everybody has a different journey with pregnancy.
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  Speaker 1: People try over and over, you know, I have my
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  Speaker 1: wife and I we were very fortunate that Scottie was
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  Speaker 1: our first attempt with IVF and we have a lot
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: of close friends that have tried time and time again,
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  Speaker 1: some still trying through their like on their fifth round.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah of it.
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  Speaker 1: But JJ, I just wanted to let you know I
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  Speaker 1: read that message and I really appreciated reading it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: glad that episode helped you guys out. And again, a
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  Speaker 1: big theme in that episodisode was it's not about being
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  Speaker 1: strong or seeming strong. It's more so about staying connected
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  Speaker 1: with your partner. So I'm glad you stumbled upon it.
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  Speaker 1: It warms my heart and fires me up. And thank
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  Speaker 1: you for reaching out, my friend.
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  Speaker 5: It's a great comment, hard thing to talk about, and
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  Speaker 5: it's cool that you're opening up on the podcast and
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  Speaker 5: allowing people to feel like they're having a conversation or
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  Speaker 5: feeling more comfortable to have a conversation about said subject.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate that. My friend show, do you want
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  Speaker 2: to rip off? The You want to rip off? The
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  Speaker 2: next one?
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  Speaker 3: I got another one? Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So we have our friend Zach on Twitter. I don't
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  Speaker 5: know if you saw this, will, but he put out
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  Speaker 5: a tweet of a washer that was disassembled, fully disassembled.
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  Speaker 5: I sent it to Chef he can put it up
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  Speaker 5: on the screen. Okay, he tweets at me, which thank you, Zach.
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  Speaker 5: He said, dryer goes out eighteen days before I joined
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  Speaker 5: PT six. Good I could teach Old Willie one shelf
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  Speaker 5: a think or two hauh suroom stew, which I laughed
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  Speaker 5: so hard because I'm like, he's wrapping me in with him.
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  Speaker 5: Of like I would know what the hell to do
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  Speaker 5: with this assembly A watcher like Willie wouldn't know.
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  Speaker 3: What the hell to do with this.
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  Speaker 5: Between me and handyman out here, a couple of handy
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  Speaker 5: guys sure would know.
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  Speaker 3: I back. I was like, dude, I would have no
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  Speaker 3: idea what to do.
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  Speaker 5: And he had a great reply and said YouTube University,
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  Speaker 5: which I'm a big.
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  Speaker 3: Believer in YouTube unit. Yes, yeah, I really.
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  Speaker 2: Am eth king.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah king, so Zach, shout out shout out.
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  Speaker 1: King, Yeah, shout out king. I got one from t
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  Speaker 1: Odo twenty two. Sitting in the hospital one day in
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  Speaker 1: the Fatherhood, our room had a recliner chair in the couch.
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  Speaker 1: I hopped in that chair, laid back, and my wife,
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  Speaker 1: fresh out of surgery, turns to me from the hospital
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  Speaker 1: bed and says, you better get on that couch.
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  Speaker 2: You're not going to get the couch.
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  Speaker 1: Badge I had no idea she was a milkyer that
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  Speaker 1: fired me.
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  Speaker 2: The hell up, shout out your wife.
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  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I'm so glad you picked that one.
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  Speaker 5: I read that one like the day had dropped and
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  Speaker 5: totally forgot about it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wife, Hey, you better get on that couch or
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  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna get that bad son.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, what the hell you think you're doing?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're gonna be in chair force one like sure? No,
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  Speaker 5: uh we got uh my okay, my les Pascal. Best
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  Speaker 5: day of the week is Wednesday when the pod drops.
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  Speaker 5: Thankful to be a part of PT six. Hands up emoji,
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  Speaker 5: thank you, my last Pascal, And I'm sorry for the pronunciation.
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  Speaker 2: Nice nice.
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  Speaker 5: I thought it was gonna be a longer one no, no, shorter,
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  Speaker 5: one shorter one.
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  Speaker 1: Zach Hussy forty seven thirty six, huge fan of for
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  Speaker 1: the Dead's Pod, Bustle with the Boys and inside the Bus.
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  Speaker 3: I'm basically a letuonant or a lieutenant in PT.
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  Speaker 2: Six.
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  Speaker 1: I've got five kids, four girls in one boy. I repeat,
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  Speaker 1: four girls, good good. Their ages are ten, nine, eight,
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  Speaker 1: six and five. Have my god, what was that is that?
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  Speaker 2: Five?
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  Speaker 3: That's five under five? Did he write five and five?
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  Speaker 2: Years.
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  Speaker 3: Did you say my gun or did he know I
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  Speaker 3: said that. He's just I'm just free.
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  Speaker 1: I'm rattling it off of my holy shit, been in
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  Speaker 1: the trenches so long. I've got a thousand yard dad
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  Speaker 1: staring and a black belt in bedtime negotiations. You guys
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  Speaker 1: are the reason us battle dads keep our helmets on.
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  Speaker 1: Love you boys and everything y'all got going. PT six
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  Speaker 1: PT six, Lieutenant Hussy out. I love the idea of
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  Speaker 1: the karate belts too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, black belt.
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  Speaker 3: He's got a black belt negotiation at bedtime.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 5: I have a pretty long one here. This comes from
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  Speaker 5: at to Skawee. Shout out Derek. Shout out Derek. Let's
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  Speaker 5: go Derek on the scene.
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  Speaker 2: Derek on the scene, Our Derek or Derek comment.
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  Speaker 5: Oh no, shout Sorry the comment was from to Skawe
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  Speaker 5: and it just said shout out Derek. Yeah, yeah, oh
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  Speaker 3: What uh Oh?
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  Speaker 5: I had another fun one. I was trying to find
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  Speaker 5: the other one because it was so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I found this one.
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  Speaker 4: Uh.
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  Speaker 5: I burn easy seven three seventy nine on YouTube said
• 15:21
  Speaker 5: sherm out here looking like a bookie at a floorid
• 15:24
  Speaker 5: to dog.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: Track, bro, I'm here for it.
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: I saw one on Twitter that I desperately was trying
• 15:30
  Speaker 5: to find that said, Sherman looks like he buys storage
• 15:33
  Speaker 5: units with the visor in the in the storage units,
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: we should buy six fund going start.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Showing up and just pashing your watch Storage Wars. I
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: loved Storage Wars.
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: Good show, great show. Sherm does look like you go
• 15:54
  Speaker 5: one hundred. As soon as I read that, I started
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: dying on these thoughts. Memorbi in the back and you
• 15:58
  Speaker 5: low ball them. No one knows, no one knows. The
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: video game ones would always those would get me stoked.
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: I do have a shout out that I could uh
• 16:09
  Speaker 5: wait to save for the actual pod, okay, because it
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: deals with the Baylor game.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: So I'll actually hold on to that one, okay.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: Zane Scott twenty four found out a couple weeks ago,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a girl dad good.
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: Just found out last week we're having twin girls.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: I'm scared the shit out of me. Bro.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what I would do.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: I don't either.
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: When we were talking to uh Roan at the Super Bowl, Yeah,
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: and it was fun talking to him at dinner because
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: we were kind of in the same uh you know,
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: calendar schedule of like entering into dadhood. And he made
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: a great comment and said, yeah, sure, and basically everything
• 16:48
  Speaker 5: that you've been through just times it by two.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: It's like, oh yeah, bro, scary thought.
• 16:55
  Speaker 5: I got one from Jake Peltola p T six zero
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: M so he has PT six in his YouTube pandle, which.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: That's pretty electric.
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: He said, job full time, school three kiddos under the
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: age of five, stress through the roof for the dad
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: spot football season, and lift heavy for the mental refresh.
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: Good, good, good good.
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: I love seeing the PT six in the username. I know,
• 17:27
  Speaker 5: yeah in the user name is big Time. Oh yeah,
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: j Noble eleven twenty gentlemen, I think I speak for
• 17:32
  Speaker 5: all PT six and concurring branches of the PT army here.
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: The reason this podcast is so legendary is because of
• 17:39
  Speaker 5: the vast range of emotion experience.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: You of what you have watching from it, from.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Absolute hilarious and relatable stories to dialogue that creates inward
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: reflection and betterment is truly unique. How y'all can pull
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: it off organically, keep hanging one shelf and waging war
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: against the squatting raccoons, because every time you do PT
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: six grow stronger. Ps Ifford will be in my thoughts
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: in prayers. An entire week with the house to himself.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: What cool and unusual punishment from the loving wife I forget.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: You get the week now? Yeah, I get the week now.
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: There is a developing story on that that happened about
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: five minutes ago, or five minutes ago, more like thirty
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: minutes ago.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Good, they're coming home. The good.
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: Worse, they're staying. They're staying. It's not that I tried
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: to Texas. The true goons chat with time.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Out, time out, time out. They're staying. Where are they?
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: Oh, they're staying in Texas, my family. If you weren't
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: listening last episode, we discussed that. Unfortunately, so I just
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: went on a trip to Texas with my family. Correct,
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: That was fortunate. The unfortunate part is my wife and
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: my sweet baby girl Scarlet, they're saying for an additional
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: six days until Saturday. I will be home alone. Unfortunately,
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: house to myself, just me and the doggoes with nothing
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: to do except until Saturday. No, I will have nothing
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: to do except play video games if I can squeeze
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: it in fuck, we have a group chat with all
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: of our gooners, our video game.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: Group, and we usually like to send.
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: In that Batman Jeff where he's standing on the building
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: and the bat signals up in the air. And I
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: sent that to True Glover, who I haven't spoken to
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: in three years instead of True Goons group chat. Yeah,
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: and he replied in like thirty seconds and said, Bro,
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: what up.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm gonna follow up with.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you do. It's a you're gonna
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: be bored, You're gonna be very lonely. Here's what I'll
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: do for you. Okay, when I get home and I'm
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: talk to the wife and I'm gonna really good friend
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: of mine. He's feeling very isolated in alone.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I need.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: To go be there for him and support him. You
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: gotta go somewhere and leave it no sooner. That's the
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: That's that's one thing I told him where I draw
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: the line. I don't leave the house because I got
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: a family to protect and a family to hang out with.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: But from May thirty on every night, I'm gonna support
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: him over the headset. Yeah, it's a little place we
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: call Discord.
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: Do you think you could do that for me tonight.
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: You do not have to do that, dude.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I know and trust me, no part of me wants to. Yeah,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: because I love getting to bed early. I love being
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: a father, I love being a husband.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Maybe Tuckan's running a little late.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but to be there for my friend it would
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: be I It would not only be an honor, but
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I feel like a responsibility.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, to have your back.
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: Can I tell you some even worse news of when
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: I came in today. Taylor was even saying he would
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: be one to do the same for me.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: It's a big ass for all the boys.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Can I ask a question? Yeah, go ahead. What was
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: the developing story?
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Because I always thought you had the house to yourself
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: the entire time I do it.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Was that I texted a guy haven't talked to you
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: in three years? That jiff?
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Oh this so the developing story has nothing to do
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: with your family.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: No, oh god.
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: I just to know how to reply to me randomly
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: texting this guy and then him being like, oh, what's good, bro?
• 21:26
  Speaker 5: And how do I because I don't want to be like, hey,
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: I was trying to text my video game chat.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: Sorry.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'll figure it out for you. I think
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to approach the wife with you know
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: how I've been bitching about playing video games? Do you
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: know how I hate it? Yeah, I trust me. I
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: want to do this, but sometimes discipline is choosing what
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: you want most over what you want. Now the hard
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I don't want to have to walk upstairs and play
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: this game. Yeah, what I want most is a loving home.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: That was the speaker. Oh but I need to do,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: but I don't want to do And let's go good
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: with the boys.
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah, to throw it back to episode three, The harder
• 22:08
  Speaker 5: choice is usually the right one to make. Dude, not
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: to challenge you and not to throw that into your
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: corner and add some extra pressure.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: That's what PT six has accountability. If you need to
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: check me, you gotta check yeah, yeah, all right, we'll
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: finish it off.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: This is a this is a serious one. Shirm.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, Legitimately I'm locked in. I'm locked in.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: This is from Chuck It Up four. Need some support
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: guidance from Papa Team six. My fiance is seventeen weeks
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: pregnant and sadly she ruptured. We got a bad prognosis
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: for our baby girl. How do I go about being
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: supportive and strong while also being sensitive to her. I
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: can't imagine what she's going through as she's putting some
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: of the blame on her and her body when that
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: couldn't be farther from the truth. Begging for guidance for
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: a guy that's dreamed of being a girl dad, that
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: kind of hits gosh, I hate that.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Man, that's so hard. Yeah, I first off, thank.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: You for yeah. Yeah, I appreciate you for sharing that. Man, and.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Bro, I would say, there are no words. My truest
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: advice would be your presence will be better than any.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Advice that you could give her.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: And don't minimize your own grief and your own pain
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: to feel like you were posturing and being strong. I
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: was saying a little bit ago that it's not necessarily
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: about being strong, and it's about being connected. And I
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: would say, just sit in it with her, be there
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: for her, and just do small things because there are
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: times like when you're a dad, like when you're the
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: guy in the relationship.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: You feel like.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: You're kind of useless or there's nothing that you can
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: do because your body's not the one going through it. Yes,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: and when you when your partner is going through something.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: You're in totally different mindsets. At times, you want to
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: lead with like an optimistic quote or something that's going
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: to make her feel strong or you're being strong for her. Yeah,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: And what I've learned is it's not necessarily about that.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: It's just it's just being in it with them and
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: trying to do whatever small things you might be able
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: to do, whether it's do a lot of laundry, yes,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: get her you know from my wife lake, you know,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: an ice latte, having picking up around that, like doing
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: things that when she sees you, she's thinking like he's
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: thinking about me, even though he might not have.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: The word yes.
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: In a very vulnerable emotional state, all the little things
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: are going to seem like really big things on the
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: bad end of the spectrum, and to your point, on
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: the other end of the spectrum, those little things are
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: also going to feel like baked to those little small
• 25:01
  Speaker 5: victories of making sure the couch and all that stuff
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: looks really nice and pretty, doing the dishes, doing those
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: like little things around the house. As far as that
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: kind of support, The only advice that I would give
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: to this guy that shared this is be accessible to
• 25:21
  Speaker 5: your wife emotionally allow her to pour into and onto
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: you what she is feeling and experiencing right now, make
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: sure that you also have that person, maybe not your wife,
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: but have your own person that you are able to
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: do the same because you're going to be there for her.
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: And to your point you said, like make sure you
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: feel this and you know.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Don't minimize like you know, yeah, yeah, men are men
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: will put off their grief and again, you want to
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: be a strong guy.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: And that will allow you to be there for her
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: more if you're able to offload that stuff with somebody
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: else maybe, uh and process that other than that, dude,
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: just like best wishes and.
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, dude, I'm sorry you guys.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Are you guys went through that?
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: That's hard?
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And being vulnerable with your wife, like talking to
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: her about your what you're feeling, your fears, your anxieties, it, uh,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: your openness gives her permission to lean on you.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if she's feeling like a little shut in. That's
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: a really good.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Note because sometimes so your partner wants to know, hey,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: how are okay? Is he going through something like does
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: he feel this the same way I do? He sounds
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: very stoic right now, kind of you know what I mean.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: Yes, they This leads directly into my Dad Loss with
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: the communication stuff with Jill is a perfect example of it.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Really, let's get into the deadline. We do.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Got to keep it under and out. We have to
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: keep it How to keep it tight? You gotta keep
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: it tight, got to keep it right.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: Eight minutes, eight minutes, nothing with nothing but fifty two
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: minutes to go, We're rolling.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: We're rolling.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Losses of the Week, Dad, Losses of the Week.
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: I texted Will about this, and I don't know how
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: much of the details I'll share of it because I
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: forgot to talk with Jill about me sharing.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: This on the podcast.
• 27:13
  Speaker 5: I don't want to get you back in the dog
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: I don't want to get back in the dog house.
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: But I'll share enough to where I don't think she'll
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: be upset at all. Oh and Chef was back there saying, hey,
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: we can always.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we got to protect the fathers out there. That's
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: a good man, that's a good man, a great man,
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: our captain.
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: Chef Dad Loss was Jill for like three days, seemed
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: very quiet around the house and was not short or
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: rude with me, but just like very quiet.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: And I was like, I feel like something's up with Jill,
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: like what is going on?
• 27:53
  Speaker 5: And I allowed for like a ton of opportunities of
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: you know, asking, asking, asking.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: Is everything okay? To no avail.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: Came up to this guy, my accountability buddy at work,
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: and I said, Hey, I know we have a really
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: busy day. I have one serious question for you really quick.
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: I feel like something's going on with my wife and
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: I want to try and let her know that, like
• 28:16
  Speaker 5: I'm here to listen if she wants to share anything.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Will gave me some great advice of.
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: Tell her if there is nothing wrong and I'm being
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: crazy and overthinking this, you just let me know, but
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: that I will ask you one last time because.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: I really want to know your heart. I am interested.
• 28:38
  Speaker 5: And I didn't just recite the line because I was like, oh,
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: this will get it, but it was true. I was like,
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: I want to know what is going on? And she
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: briefly shared that she was not feeling prioritized in this
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: time in our life, which is totally understandable. There's a
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: lot of stuff going on with work, there's a lot
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: of stuff going on with Scarlett, there's a lot of
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: stuff going on with planning this family weekend that we
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: just had, and with all that moving pieces, there's not
• 29:08
  Speaker 5: a whole lot of like Jill time or Jill and Sherman.
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Time, and my dad loss is I kind.
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: Of screwed up on being able to like schedule that
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: time and prioritize that time. And then we had a
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: really great follow up text of like I gotta get
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: something on the calendar, truly on the calendar where it's
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: like this is priority number one. I'm I'm sorry, no,
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: I cannot do that extra thing, or I got a
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: jet because at this time I'm.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Doing this with my wife like we are doing it.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: So that was my dad loss. So but it also
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: turned into a dad win.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah, yeah, it's awesome.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you this, You're not the only one going
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: through and not that there's been anything that's happened with
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: my wife and I, but something like dad loss related
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: is kind of just my own per personal losses. I'm
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: feeling like I'm starting to feel like guilt could be
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: creeping up just because the season is underway, and I legitimately,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: like I am a big believer that if you don't
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: write it down, it won't happen. If you don't truly
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: prioritize it. Like people talk all the time, and I'm
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: guilty of this too, but you talk about like you know,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: people talk about like faith, family, career or you know,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: career and family and all this stuff, and it's it's
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: nice to say, but to put into action.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: What the action usually.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Looks like is you're so bals to the wall career wise,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: because you want to be really good. You want to
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: be great at what you want to do. Like we
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: have an awesome we have an awesome brand, not only
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: for the dads but busting with the boys. We just
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: did the partnership with ESPN or will be in New
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: York every Thursday morning on Get Up, and there's.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Just a lot of stuff coming down the pipe.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: And I just I know myself and if I I
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: don't intentionally get something on the calendar to prioritize my
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: wife and not only prioritize my wife, but also like
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: prioritize time like with my girls. So where I do
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: like a one on one with Rue, take a little
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: scotti Joe, or take the kids so Charle can go
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: and do something. Because she's a grinder and she's very
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: she's awesome.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: She is a.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Fox whole partner. Yeah, I'm telling, but I just knowing it.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: I know something will come up if I am not
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: being the intentional husband and the intentional father and the
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: whole thing and seeing how the world of family fits
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: into the puzzle and the chaos of career. Because it's
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: it goes, it can go to the back burners, like subconsciously,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: even though it's a priority for me, because you want
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: to be so good at everything you're doing in your career.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Like again, we do.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: It's like, we got we'll reacting the games of the
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: weekend for Busting. We got our interview that we do
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: with Bussing'. We got our podcast that we do with
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: for the Dads. We got streaming that we're gonna do
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: on Thursdays. We're gonna be on Get Up Thursday. We're
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: gonna be doing fall toward stuff to where we go
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: to games on the weekend, the locker room, the locker
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: oh yes, our game, our two gamling shows, college football
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: and NFL the locker.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Room where we're doing fan duel picks.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: And to execute a high level on all of those shows.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of study and prep work and things
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: I feel like I can't be out of the looper
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: left behind, because as we get bigger, I feel like
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: there's more audience and more expectation on being able to
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: deliver and know what I'm talking about versus just spewing
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: things out into the world. So even when I'm home,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: there's times where I feel like I got a structure,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: study time, and prep for the day before, and in
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: doing all that, it gets pushed under the stack of
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: these hypothetical papers of career, my family, and my intentionality
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: with my wife. So that is as a dad loss
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: and feeling you know, you're like will gave me great advice,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking I need to fucking take my own advice
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: right now.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: We all because I do.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: It's like days can go fast, bro, and they get
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: away from you. Yes, and if something's not on the
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: calendar that hey, I'm intentionally thinking about this and prioritizing this,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: then you're going to be more in a reactive state
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: when you are when that conversation does happen.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's like I want to get on the books.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I want to get in like a cadence of you know,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: getting childcare for the night. My wife and I like
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: get like getting a hotel room, we do a staycation,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: just have like a night to ourselves and wake up
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: and go to a coffee shop.
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just stuff like that.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: And it's like it's it's on the whole, you know,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: the quadrant of urgent, important, important, not urgent, urgent, not important,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: not important, not urgent. I feel like that is like
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: it's just it's been in my mind, like the last
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: forty eight hours since we've gotten back from Columbus that man,
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I've got to get on my shit.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: I do too.
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: I felt that that way this entire weekend with work. Weirdly,
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: I've been feeling that way with Jill, and then when
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: I was like on vacation, then I was feeling.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: That way about work.
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah, And so I was like, Okay, I got to
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: make sure I'm you know, tweeting about this Baylor game
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: and you know, taking pictures of scarlet and blah blah,
• 34:03
  Speaker 5: I'll be doing a good job of because I was
• 34:06
  Speaker 5: overreacting with like wanting to prioritize Jill and walk in
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: for that and didn't want to have my phone out
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: too much in front of her and trying to find
• 34:14
  Speaker 5: that balance and which it was fine. I mean, Jill
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: is not a phone nazi or anything. And she's not
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: sitting there going like are you doing that?
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: For far the dancing right, But you're you're you're conscious
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: of I'm in my own hat, yeah exactly. And I
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: know for me, dude, I don't know how it is
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: for your workload and getting like chasing all these rabbits
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: and feeling scattered.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: How do I get like that?
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: I get a lot.
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: I get a lot of like anxiety about it.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I know for me it's like Willie see
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Willie one chelf, take one hour at the top of
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: the week, or take one out wherever it is, wherever
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: you can find an hour, just to have focus time
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: on how I'm going to prioritize the month out, the
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: week's out, write my priorities down, whether it be busting
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: for the dad's locker room. And then on the family side,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: like if I want one on one time with Roof,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I want one on one time with my wife, like
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: writing those things down and then fitting them into the puzzle,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: and even study time like prep time, like I know
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need this, but I don't want to casually
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: do it at the end of the day when my
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: wife might be thinking, hey, we can catch up and
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: watch a show. Yes, because then I'll watch said show,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: won't do any prep worker study, and then I'll be,
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: you know, scrambling before I get on said show the
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: next day, trying to like cram and figure it out.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: And then my like again, I just I have to
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: be somebody that prepares. Yeah, those who what is it
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: those who fail to prepare prepare to fail?
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: That is I am that.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I also like doing.
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: I got to do a day night with Jill on Saturday,
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: which she did a good job of making the reservation.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: All that stuff.
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: But I was like fully for it and you know,
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: happy to you know, we're taking care of Scarlett.
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: It's the first time somebody's watching Scarlett. It was my
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: mother in law. Shout out Lisa.
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: She said, I need to shout out her name whenever
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: I bring up my mother in law, So I'll start
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: doing that. I got you, that's on me. But she
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: watched Scarlet and sitting in the booth with Jill, and
• 36:19
  Speaker 5: it felt like we were dating, like before we even
• 36:23
  Speaker 5: got engaged. Like just as like you have like two
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: or three cocktails, you're splitting appetizers, you're splitting salads, you're
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: splitting the entree and we're just like in the booth together,
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: just like cuddled up, and she's getting all you know,
• 36:38
  Speaker 5: like cozy and scooting up close to me and stuff,
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: and I'm like, dang, dude, it's been a minute since
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: we've done this, and that's really sad. Yeah, that's that
• 36:49
  Speaker 5: makes me really sad because I do love Scarlet and
• 36:53
  Speaker 5: I am so excited and like wanting to raise her
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: and all that stuff, but like prioritizing.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: My my day one, my girl, I gotta do it more.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you're in those moments and you're just
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: like you feel like.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: You just forget yes, well and to court your day one,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: like just being in like a like date them.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean it becoming a roommate?
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:16
  Speaker 5: She was like, I feel like I'm your roommate right
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: now and I am having fun being your roommate.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: You're a good roommate. But let's go back to like dating,
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: and you know, I'm like, I totally get it, totally
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: get it. So it was good.
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: It was a dad loss, but it was a good
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: wake up call, especially going into this busy season of like, dude,
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: it's about to be even more crazy with everything that's
• 37:40
  Speaker 5: going to be going on around here that you really
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: need to lock in.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and to.
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: The point of my therapist, which I've yet to do
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: this my homework.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: I set it here on.
• 37:50
  Speaker 5: The pod doing the four pillars Sherman work friends and
• 37:55
  Speaker 5: uh what was the other one?
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: Sherman Jill.
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: I was gonna say it again. I just literally did
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: it again, Jill family. I gotta do it.
• 38:12
  Speaker 5: I gotta sit down and do it. I am sorry, therapists.
• 38:16
  Speaker 5: I need to do my homework assignment. I see him
• 38:19
  Speaker 5: next Wednesday.
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: I'll have it done one hour.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: What do you mean, just get to schedule it all,
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: like to prioritize to write this stuff out.
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you talk about those four pillars.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Like put pen to paper, bro quick body break to
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, make the invisible visible. You know what else?
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  Speaker 1: This podcast? This podcast, this podcast, let's keep it going.
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  Speaker 1: It is hot for the dads out there who are
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: football dads. This is the dog days of the season.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Because I hope you guys all, I had a great
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: time watching all the college football games over the weekend,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: I did as well, and then I sit there and
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: recap and reflect on, like, you know, how do you
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: get better from the stot from the side of like
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: family and hubby.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: So, although I hope you enjoyed all your games, I
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: need you to watch tape. I need you to self
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: scout on how we can get better at home. Incorporating that,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I'm already thinking, like, Okay, if I tell you how
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: to get out for an afternoon, and look, you can't
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: get around the NFL's on Sunday, colleges on Saturday. The
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: NFL industry is trying to take over basically every day
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: of the week. Yeah, but if I'm gonna tell a
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: wife you to get out, I need to have a
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: game plan. I can I can keep ru at bay.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: With Ru, I can affect the pocket, I can stop
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: the run. I can get her thrown outside the numbers.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I can get you disrupt her at the line of scrimmage.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I can do those things for Scottie. For scott Zilla,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: she's a different little animal. I'm looking at the little
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: rugrats pins like, Okay, maybe you know, if I get
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: a little pan, throw some toys in there and kind
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: of just let her loose, so that way she's in
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: a vicinity.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: That's one.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: It's like, what is it. You can't stop them, you
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: can only hope to contain them.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's scott Zilla.
• 41:13
  Speaker 5: Yes, I was seeing those videos are rude with the
• 41:15
  Speaker 5: harmonica just being so sweet doing her harmonica thing. I
• 41:19
  Speaker 5: look in the background, mother in laws just hunched over
• 41:22
  Speaker 5: scott Zilla. Scott Zilla is like on a mini bar,
• 41:24
  Speaker 5: like trying to.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: Tear it a bar, Like, oh my god.
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: That's my crackit.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Cult one is we got this little harmonica and it
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: is the most adorable thing ever. She hits the A one, two,
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: three and she starts blowing in it. I'll send you
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: the video so that way we can play it on
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: the show. But dude, it is. It is adorable. So
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: that one, that's when I sit there, I'm smiling. It's
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: like I can crack a cold.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: That one.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: Also new friends at school there.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: We did like our first little like not parent teacher conference,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: but something with so like you meet with the teachers
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: and kind of go over what they do in the classroom,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: go through a day in the life of a kid
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: at the school. And so we got to meet a
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: few new parents and there's this one gentleman I met,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: and I'll keep their names out of it.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: But they had just.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: Started that day. You made a new friend.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: I made a new friend, Oh wow, little dad friend
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: and exchange numbers or nothing. Okay, cool, play yeah plane
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: it cool and uh, but made friends with him. They
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: had just started that day, moved from the Northeast. That
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: was their day one of going to school.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Oh wow.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: And her his daughter.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: Is in the same class, same age as Rue.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: So I go home and I'm talking to Rue about
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: this new friend and I'm like, oh, was it her
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: first day? And she said yeah. And I'm like, do
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: you feel like she was nervous or scared or anything.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know. And I'm like, were you
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: nervous or scared your first and she's like yeah. I
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: was like when you see so and so tomorrow you
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: should go be like, hi, I'm Rue and ask her
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: to play and be friends with her and be really
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: kind to her because I'm sure she's really nervous and scared,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: just like you were on the first day, and you
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: want to make her feel welcome. And ever since then,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: each day she brings up this little this, uh, this
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: toddlers there, we played together and did this and that,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: so they seem like their friends. So it like warms
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: my heart that Ruth's taking the practice tape and taking
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: it out to the game.
• 43:05
  Speaker 5: This is literally we brought up Bluie before the episode.
• 43:09
  Speaker 5: That was the episode of Blue that watched over the weekend.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: How good is Blue? Buddy?
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: I was so wrong. I have the coldest take like
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: episode one or two about Blue. I'm sorry, would you
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: say about Blue?
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: Agan?
• 43:20
  Speaker 5: I said, Oh, the kids are yelling at the dad
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: and the show. I don't know if I want my
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: kid watching that.
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: What an Elle take? Yeah, it's a what a Baylor
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: versus auburn Elle.
• 43:31
  Speaker 5: But to the point quickly, people hate what they don't understand.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: They do.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: People hate what they don't understand.
• 43:38
  Speaker 5: Blue makes a new friend at the park. Guess who
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: the friend is with at the park. Their dad blues
• 43:43
  Speaker 5: with her dad and the dads start becoming friends as well.
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: On the little part, it's a good show. It's a
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: good show.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: It's a good show.
• 43:52
  Speaker 5: I'm glad that you that you made a new friend.
• 43:54
  Speaker 5: Is there a follow up plan? Where are you going
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: to hang out with this guy?
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Slow play play hard to get. I like that, you
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: know what I mean. I think next time we go
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: over shake hands.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Hey, my daughter was telling me this bond over our
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: daughters being friends type angle.
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, And maybe just take the
• 44:09
  Speaker 5: blue route and just go little you know, parking out
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: date little parts.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, we got to part parking out later today,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: so we gotta keep the show under out.
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, gotta keep on because it's it's Labor Day.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: It is Labor day.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: Labor day as we record this.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Hey, and by the way, I said last week that
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: if you guys wanted your you wanted stuff to be
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: potentially featured on the show, to comment within those first
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: forty eight hours.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: That was It was a little stressful going through all
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: the comments and screenshots that I have, like eight more
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: on here that I didn't get to because I'm thinking,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: we don't have to. You know, we can't just sit
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: here and talk to YouTube comments. I wish we could,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: I know, but thank you and Derek You've been crushing
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: and responding to everybody in YouTube. I was checking, I
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: was checking seeing all the replies. I see our a
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: little for the Dad's logo, but this has been our
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: most Last week was our most comment on episode.
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: YEP, and twice sent Derek a tweet that was like, bro,
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: this would be great to engage with, and before I
• 45:06
  Speaker 5: said it, I didn't check to see if old Derek
• 45:08
  Speaker 5: had seen himself and engage with it. And both times
• 45:11
  Speaker 5: I looked like a fool because for the dads was
• 45:14
  Speaker 5: ride under that tweet. He's already engaged.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: He's one of those teammates where you might think you're
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: telling him something, but they've already picked up the pace
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: to where you're like, okay, I need to pick up
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: my shit and.
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: Guess what he doesn't do oh, or he did it.
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: He would never you thumbs up one of them.
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: And then I'm looking like it said, you know two
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: hours ago before the dad's I'm like, oh baby, big time,
• 45:35
  Speaker 5: he's on it.
• 45:36
  Speaker 7: One thing I do want to say a lot of
• 45:38
  Speaker 7: the comments we're getting voicemails, there are some people who
• 45:42
  Speaker 7: get a little defeated if they don't see there's on
• 45:44
  Speaker 7: a show and feel like you guys aren't seeing them,
• 45:47
  Speaker 7: And so I'm making it my priority, no matter if
• 45:49
  Speaker 7: we talk it on the show or whatever it is.
• 45:50
  Speaker 7: Comments DMS voicemails, emails, Will and Sharan do see as
• 45:55
  Speaker 7: much as humanly possible. There's a lot of people who
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: are like, I don't know if Sharm's going to see this,
• 45:59
  Speaker 7: or I don't know if I will actually looks at
• 46:00
  Speaker 7: these these two just to confirm the community care so
• 46:03
  Speaker 7: much about you guys. Number one priority is getting those
• 46:06
  Speaker 7: in front of you. Just so you guys know, there
• 46:08
  Speaker 7: are people out there saying that we're getting as much
• 46:10
  Speaker 7: in front of you two as we can.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Let go just on Derek saying that, just again because
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: we did all the comments at the top of the episode. Yeah,
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: and I didn't read any that Derek and I were
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: sitting here talking about going over butte shouting out Kylie Canter.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Not sure if Shermer will to your point, not sure
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: if Will Shermer will actually see these, but if so,
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: thank you guys for the podcast. You've really helped my
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: husband have a healthier mindset entering fatherhood. We're seven weeks
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: into the trenches with baby boy, and having the pot
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: has really helped him have a more positive outlook on
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: those two am diaper changes with the little heart emoji,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: He's got me listened to each week and we both
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: thoroughly enjoy another one from Martha Byrne from Milk Team
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: six Milk Team six operator here, I'd like to issue
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: a Bravo Zulu to Shrham in one show for fully
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: indoctorating my husband into PT.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: Six.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: My favorite is when it's his turn to change a
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: blow out and all I hear upstairs is good Kennedy
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: dress line for BT sixers with a wife on the
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: pup list. Hey, I know the doctor said six to
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: eight weeks, but what is your orthodona say?
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: He says?
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: He says, it'll get a chuckle from your wife and
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: then you hit her with the you play your cards right,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: Daddy'll mount you.
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: Wait, I didn't tell you about my deployment of said
• 47:28
  Speaker 5: line last week?
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: Did I know?
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: I used the line and it got a big chuckle?
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: Just she was getting wifey in front of Joe. Oh yeah,
• 47:38
  Speaker 5: we're in the kitchen. She's kind of she's getting a
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: little bit of an attitude with me.
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: Kind of reminded me she.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Bend over and put a dish in the dishwasher and
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: you kind of give her a little hump.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: Dude, I was acting up.
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: I was acting She's trying to like, kind of get
• 47:52
  Speaker 5: onto me because I'm not good in the kitchen and
• 47:54
  Speaker 5: I'm being goofy, and you know, her tones getting a
• 47:56
  Speaker 5: little more angry and stuff. I said, in the way
• 47:58
  Speaker 5: you're talking to me right now, I kind of like it,
• 48:01
  Speaker 5: and she gets she gets more angry. I said, there
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: you go. Yeah, and she that kind of broke her
• 48:08
  Speaker 5: and she started laughing. I said, you keep on talking
• 48:10
  Speaker 5: to me like that, daddy my mounta yet.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, sir, yes sir.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: And she chuckled. I didn't chuckle off the pup list.
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: I here's okay. I knew that this was coming, and
• 48:24
  Speaker 5: I just want to say.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking until just now. Just to be full transparency.
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: It's totally fine. I want to be respectful of my wife,
• 48:30
  Speaker 5: so I don't. Okay, but uh oh, not to change
• 48:35
  Speaker 5: the subject. Did I tell you six Flags over Texas?
• 48:38
  Speaker 5: Have you been to that theme park?
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Not to No, not six Flags.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: I've been to Chicago and Cincinnati six Flags when I
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: did a little a theme.
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: Park tour, amusement park tour with my boy Logan back
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: in the day.
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: Okay, there's a great ride there. It's called Shockwave. It's
• 48:51
  Speaker 5: been closed for like six eight weeks. We got to
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: ride it. Yeah, it's a lot of fun. Yay, it's
• 48:58
  Speaker 5: got two loops on it. It's a quick one. It's
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: a quick one that's got two loops on it.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: It's fun.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: It's a good So you hit Shockwave.
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we wrote chalk Wave Die. It was great.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: Nice.
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: It's a fun coaster. If you're on I thirty you
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: can see it. From I thirty, I'm picking up what
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: you're putting down.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Come on, okay, cracking cold.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: You gotta keep this one under an hour.
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: Did you already say your cold one? Oh?
• 49:27
  Speaker 5: Just Scarlet over the weekend absolutely crushed it.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: She talked yet not yet, Yeah, takes a while.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: I keep on Scotty. All she says is dad, that dad,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah she said. She says dad Dad for sure. All
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: she can say is dad dad, And I'll be like
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: da she made that Dada dad dad.
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Yes, Scott.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: Bro she is squirrely.
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: I've yet to interact with Scott. I gotta get around
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: Scotty and yeah, and we gotta get Scarlet in on
• 50:04
  Speaker 5: that energy.
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: Like I want Scarlett to like kind of pick up
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: on that.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:08
  Speaker 5: If Scott Zilla rubbed some of that up off on Scarlett.
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: I'm more than happy.
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: Okay, but Scarlett, Scarlett's kind of her own little beast.
• 50:15
  Speaker 5: She's kind of killing it.
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, tell me more, tell us more. Beat six ers.
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: Want to know, get sixers.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you what are we to? Nine weeks old?
• 50:26
  Speaker 8: Uh?
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: This will be right now? Her two month mark?
• 50:32
  Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, her two month mark on the third, Okay,
• 50:36
  Speaker 5: let's go.
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 50:37
  Speaker 5: So, the weekend was great. I told Chef and Derek
• 50:41
  Speaker 5: minus the Baylor game result, flawless weekend, truly flawless weekend.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: I told you.
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: I told you on that text. I was like, it
• 50:52
  Speaker 5: was so refreshing. It was like Jill and I connecting
• 50:57
  Speaker 5: really well. We're doing all this fun stuff back in
• 51:00
  Speaker 5: our hometown. We're introducing Scarlett to all of our closest
• 51:04
  Speaker 5: friends and family. We took Scarlet to the Baylor game.
• 51:07
  Speaker 5: We made it all the way till the three minute
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: twenty second mark when Jackson Arnold put the nail on
• 51:12
  Speaker 5: the coffin, and I was like, all right, I gotta
• 51:14
  Speaker 5: get my baby girl back to the hotel room because
• 51:16
  Speaker 5: it was hot?
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: Was it because she couldn't make it any more?
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: Was it because the game was well? Game was.
• 51:25
  Speaker 5: We were trying to be good parents and Jill was
• 51:29
  Speaker 5: wanting to go back and she was being very sweet
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: and Langley stay and once on that fourth and whatever
• 51:34
  Speaker 5: it was fourth and three and they scored. I was like, okay,
• 51:37
  Speaker 5: we can leave fair and I got one of those
• 51:39
  Speaker 5: little bike whatever they're called.
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: Shout out those dude, shout out those bike whatever they're
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: calleds Man, you know what I'm talking about. The pedal bike.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: The pedal bikes, they're like the little taxi drivers.
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, dude, we took that, buddy, Buddy, we.
• 51:56
  Speaker 5: Took that from McClean stage. Oh, I fucked up. I
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: had a better dad loss, or not a better dad loss,
• 52:03
  Speaker 5: but I had another dad loss. But anyway, Scarlett was
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: my crackericle one. She killed it at the football game,
• 52:09
  Speaker 5: she killed it at the wedding. She killed it on
• 52:13
  Speaker 5: the flight.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: She hit the bottle on the way up the ascension,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: hit the bottle right before takeoff, and she literally home.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: That's for their ears. By the way, any new dad's
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: coming into beat six.
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: That is for their ears.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: It's for their ears.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: Don't pop feeding the pop in the bottle as you're
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: taking off.
• 52:32
  Speaker 5: I'm like super on the day I didn't, I like,
• 52:35
  Speaker 5: hardly slept before the Baylor game was truly butterflies. You
• 52:38
  Speaker 5: would have thought that I was playing in the game.
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: Oh, I know what you're saying, bro.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, going into Husker Sinsey, I was like,
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: I have nothing to do with this game, but these
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: eighteen to twenty two year olds, I feel so emotionally
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: invested that I felt like I was playing, that I
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: felt like I had a thirty play third down call
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: she where I had to go over every check. Yes,
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: what if we go to empty? What if they motioned
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: it empty? What if they go from empty and back in?
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: Are we getting back to the original call? All these
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: things going to my head? Are am I going to
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: get exposed today? That I felt on game day as
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: a pro and in college, I felt that on.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: Just us playing the Cincinnati Bearcat.
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: So I feel you, my.
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: Friend couldn't just felt Yeah?
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: And on the way to the stadium for the game,
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I started to get tired. And that is exactly how
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: I would operate like even on game days for myself,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: is you're just amp. You're trying to do all these things,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: my little game day routine, study, habits everything, and then
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: we're taking the team bus over and for whatever reason,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: I feel like a little sleepy. I feel like it
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: was like a big nerves thing.
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: Yes, I had to go to Dutch Bros. Shout out
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: Dutch Bros.
• 53:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and get a little Ice Americana with two espresso
• 53:48
  Speaker 5: shots right before the game. Yes, because I also was
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: feeling tired for no reason, because my heart was doing
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: this the entire y.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: This is it.
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to rest Jill. I'm trying to get the
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: thing on Scarlet.
• 54:01
  Speaker 5: We have like this black we bought a black one
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: for the blackout, uh whatever, the little chess mount and
• 54:07
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to rush it.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: Jill's like, you're you're gonna hurt her leg. You're rushing.
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: You're frustrated, You're trying to get to the game. You're
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: not taking your time and being sweet to Scarlet.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: Would you say to her?
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: I literally I backed. I did not say bitch. I didn't.
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: I swallowed it.
• 54:26
  Speaker 5: She's right, it doesn't matter if we're there kickoff because
• 54:30
  Speaker 5: they don't sell beer in there, and I know Jill
• 54:32
  Speaker 5: wants to have a good time and I want to
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: have a good time too.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: Crickets is right here.
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: Off Franklin Street, one of my favorite bars back in
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: the college days. I'm gonna go introduce Jill to that.
• 54:42
  Speaker 5: We're gonna go get some drinks and then we'll take
• 54:44
  Speaker 5: one of those trolley bikes. I know those trolley bikes
• 54:46
  Speaker 5: come by crickets, and we'll take that to the game.
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: Best decision I ever made.
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: I love that.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: And you also reacted to what I said so quickly
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: that new listeners might be thinking, we call our wife's
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: bitch if they say something wrong.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, we don't, but we knew.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, I didn't call her a bit. I
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: did not call her what you say to her, we
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: do that thing that we always do where we call
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: our wife a bitch. I didn't do it at that time.
• 55:10
  Speaker 5: No, what I did instead, what I did said I
• 55:13
  Speaker 5: was actually I was like nice for once, but oh dude,
• 55:17
  Speaker 5: it was great. And we only got in like two
• 55:20
  Speaker 5: minutes after kick. We only missed like the first drive.
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: Which was fine. We scored a field goal on the
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: first ye.
• 55:28
  Speaker 5: And then my shout out really quick. You follow them
• 55:32
  Speaker 5: on Instagram taking care of Babies. Yes, great, follow on Instagram.
• 55:37
  Speaker 5: That's the company that redid all the mom rooms at McLean.
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: Stadium, no way. Yeah, And buddy, you want to.
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: Talk about the trenches? Is that mom room? Dads are
• 55:51
  Speaker 5: allowed in it. When I walked in there, it was
• 55:54
  Speaker 5: a true war zone.
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: It was unreal.
• 55:59
  Speaker 5: I'll talk and like, mom's literally like breastfeeding. I'm like
• 56:02
  Speaker 5: walking in there, truly like eyes to the carpet because
• 56:06
  Speaker 5: I'm not trying to see anything right right. There was
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: some dad in there that a million percent told his wife,
• 56:12
  Speaker 5: I ain't gonna a fucking mom room. You can go
• 56:15
  Speaker 5: there by it, and she let him have it because
• 56:17
  Speaker 5: he was sitting there Indian style and the mom room
• 56:20
  Speaker 5: just rubbing her back with like.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: Wasn't even watching the TV.
• 56:24
  Speaker 5: With the game on it in the thing, dude, it
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: is truly in hell, just rubbing her back with the
• 56:32
  Speaker 5: blankest stare, and she's just.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: I only looked for a second. I didn't see anything
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: but breastfeeding. He was rubbing her back.
• 56:42
  Speaker 5: I was like, buddy, I feel you, buddy, Buddy, I
• 56:45
  Speaker 5: feel you. He was auburn tiger, so he had nothing
• 56:47
  Speaker 5: to be sad.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: That's the time where you need, like, we need just something.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: The little pet sixpence you just throw. No, I wanted
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: to Yeah, lifeline.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, Bud good.
• 56:59
  Speaker 5: You could tell the other moms in there when dads
• 57:01
  Speaker 5: would walk in, there was like a collective like anger
• 57:05
  Speaker 5: building of their husbands that dad could come. Why couldn't
• 57:11
  Speaker 5: you come?
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 57:12
  Speaker 5: And then I'm feeling bad for my pt sixers out there.
• 57:15
  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, no, they're gonna get it once she
• 57:17
  Speaker 5: gets back, because she's gonna be like, there were six
• 57:19
  Speaker 5: dads in there. Yeah, and guess he wasn't in there?
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: You your fat ass, But what are you talking about?
• 57:27
  Speaker 5: The fuck?
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: I bet them dads ain't in there?
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: Seven beer's d Was he wearing like a Was he
• 57:35
  Speaker 5: wearing one of them golf bosers him gave? If he
• 57:38
  Speaker 5: asked golf boss? I bet he was.
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: By me, i'mnna want them gay dads. Was he a
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: biler guy? I bet he's butler won't he had polo?
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: Probably biler god? Unreal?
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: Was he wearing a fainted pet.
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: Todd as dreaming? You see his boots through his jeans.
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: That's another thing, dude, don't let your boots show through
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: your pant leg.
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've I've learned that the hard.
• 58:11
  Speaker 5: I saw a lot of that going on this weekend,
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: kind of hurt the heart. And then I'm so sorry
• 58:16
  Speaker 5: I've been talking so much to wrap up the game.
• 58:19
  Speaker 5: I wasn't gonna bring this up, but I'm gonna bring
• 58:21
  Speaker 5: up on the pod because it actually is a funny story.
• 58:25
  Speaker 5: I have no animosity towards Wardamn Eagle Country, and I
• 58:30
  Speaker 5: think you guys played a fabulous game. And I love
• 58:32
  Speaker 5: Auburn fans and I have a lot of family there
• 58:34
  Speaker 5: Auburn Tigers.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you said because we have a huge audience.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: It's a huge audience, that's all Auburn.
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: So many people.
• 58:42
  Speaker 5: Hitting me up on Twitter said hey gg gs, Pat Safford,
• 58:46
  Speaker 5: sorry we had to do it to you, Wardamn. But
• 58:51
  Speaker 5: there were these two guys that were borderline blackout drunk
• 58:56
  Speaker 5: and Jill and I seeds and I think it was
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: my first time having to be a dad and step
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: up to handle a situation, and things.
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: Got dicey for a second.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: Please go on.
• 59:11
  Speaker 5: So I show up to the seats and they're in
• 59:13
  Speaker 5: our seats and it is crammed. I mean, this game
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: is packed, and I say, hey, I'm fourteen and fifteen,
• 59:20
  Speaker 5: where their butts are seats fourteen and fifteen. Oh yeah, Well,
• 59:24
  Speaker 5: Mike groom forty minute, they like skewed a little bit.
• 59:26
  Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, Bleacher, Yeah, I'm like all right, and
• 59:32
  Speaker 5: so I don't say anything.
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: Jill's not really picking up on it.
• 59:36
  Speaker 5: There was a non call pass interference call that was
• 59:39
  Speaker 5: very viral on Twitter that was in the end zone
• 59:42
  Speaker 5: right in front of me.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: I go, what was that? Very loudly because I was
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: upset in.
• 59:48
  Speaker 5: My home turf and for the rest of the game, dude,
• 59:52
  Speaker 5: when Baylor would mess up, this little dude on my shoulder,
• 59:56
  Speaker 5: drunk as a skunk is bumping me and going what
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: the hell.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: Dude, Auburn's some passive fears every.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 5: Play, dude, man like, well, just trying to get my head.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 5: But he's like bumping me and I'm bumping Jill, and
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 5: so Jill's like, you gotta do something, like you have
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 5: to say time to step up, dad, And I was like,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 5: I gotta be a fucking dad in this moment.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: Time to be a Papa Seal.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 5: And I slowly turned over him and I said, hey,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 5: what's your ticket for?
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: Like, where are your seats? And he goes, what, dude, what?
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 3: I was like, where are your seats?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 5: Cause we're fourteen and fifteen and you're sitting in fourteen
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 5: and fifteen. They're like our cousin's in the band or
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 5: cousins in the band?
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: Dude, what are.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: You talking about?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 5: I was like, well, you're bumping into me and I'm
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 5: hitting my two month old baby right there, and you're
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 5: in my seats.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: I don't care.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 5: If you're cheering for Auburn, that is fine, and you
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 5: can make fun of Baylor, that's okay. But once you
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 5: start bumping me and now I'm bumping my girl and
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 5: she's holding our little scarlet, and it all worked itself out,
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: it got a little dicey. I had to stop talking
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 5: because they started mouthing off. And then some Auburn fans
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: kind of got in the mix and helped us a
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 5: little bit. They were seats like twenty eight and twenty nine.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 3: They're like a mile away. They're in the wrong seats.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: Did they get up and go?
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we got all figured out. They got a little
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: dicey there. I'm sorry.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 5: I just talked for a very long time. You go, no,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 5: I just talked way too long.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: I'm not sitting here waiting on my turn to talk.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: I'm listening to your story.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm thinking, I don't know if I enjoy how
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: you just ended that story. I know like I needed to.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: I need to feel that your presence is actually there.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: See you keep bumping in me. There's gonna be a problem.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: So the girl, okay, so the girlfriend, I'll go, there's
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 3: gonna be an issue right now.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: You can fill the rest of the gaps with your
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: own imagination. I'm thinking, you know, maybe Jill said something
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: to him.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 5: You just sat there, Okay, so Jill said you need
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 5: to say that part that she said you need to
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: say something. So I started it like, hey, be a man, yes,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 5: and I stepped in. But I was going with I
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: was going, like with the smart ass thing because I'm like, buddy,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 5: you're in my fucking seat. Like I was being nice
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: at first, but now you're just a drunk.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 3: Asshole in my seat. There we go, where are we doing?
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 5: And uh, He's like, I mean our cousins in the
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: band and we're like we're trying to watch you.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 3: I get it you. I think your baby's really cute. Dude,
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, blah blah blah, and I go, yeah, but
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: all of that, you're in my seat. You're in my seat,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: and he's like.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 5: Giving me all these excuses, and at the end of
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: each of one of his excuses, I'm like, yeah, but
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 5: you're in my seat. And then his girlfriend tried to
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 5: step in and be like, wait, if it's such.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: A problem, we'll move.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 5: We'll move if it's such a problem, and then Jill
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 5: darts out with Scarlet. It's like, we're here with our
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 5: two month old and your friend is bumping into us
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 5: and bumping into our baby and they're not even in
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 5: the right seats. And then that's when like people start
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: coming in to be like, yeah, like get like so Jill,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: Jill did it.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she had the finishing, She had the finishing.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: Just mess with you, bro, but it you should have
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: hit him with I don't care if your cousins on
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: the goddamn fields.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 5: Right now, But dude, he would have. He would have
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 5: started some ship. He was drunk enough.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 2: He was all right, this is a.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: Kids showed to be out there like just.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: Violence.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: Some dad's taking those match And then he said this good. Yeah,
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: we're sitting at home on Twitter.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 6: It's you know, Baylor Bear fan gets a fight all
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 6: two months old, and is that just.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: Looking literally as I like clocked out. Once they started moving.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 5: They were like chatting the whole time, like turning around
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 5: being like, hey, don't sit next to him. He'll have
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 5: a problem with you. Blah blah blah, and like making
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 5: a scene and I'm just saying him. I had him like,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 5: please no, when be filming this, please know what?
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: Sure?
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 6: Like?
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: Sureman?
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: They like say something back to Sherman. Sherman just sitting
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: with you. Don't want to see me angry.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: And I'm not intimidating at all. I'm not intimidating at all.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna take another quick potty break to
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: bring you True Classic. The boys are sponsored by True Classic.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: Look at my man, shure him over there. Everybody keeps
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: saying fat Stafford, buddy, you look stacked.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 5: I didn't want to say it. I didn't want to
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 5: say talking to the mic, I didn't want to say it.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 5: And again apologies for not speaking to the mic. But
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 5: Fat Stafford's looking good.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: Looking like stack Stafford. Baby.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Hey boys, you want a better shot at Mount and
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: your wife out there. You're throwing a True Classic tea.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: I know Jilly Bean was watching you walk around the
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: house last night. Hey, shirm dog boss man. Yeah, you've
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: been working out.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: Oh honey, you know I haven't been working out.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: What are you? Something about you looks different?
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 3: Oh, it's just we're sponsored by this T Street company,
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: True Classic. I'm wearing one right now.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 5: This is a True Classic tea and it hugs me
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 5: in all the right places. It situates, hides that little tummy.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 5: It's got fat Stafford looking good.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: Baby.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go put Scarlett down for a minute. You
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: can tackle me in the bedroom. How about that?
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: I would love to. Maybe.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: Here's the cool part.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: True Classic just launched a boys line for those boy
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: dads out there. You can match, and honestly, it's way
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: better than those awkward family photo outfits and cheesy pajamas.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: You get to show up together, feel comfortable, and actually
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: look good doing it. The crazy thing is True Classic
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: has already sold over twenty five million shirts to more
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: than five million customers with over two hundred thousand and
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: five star reviews. So I am definitely not the only
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: dad who's figured this out. Sureman's not the only dad
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: who has figured this out. You can find them at Amazon, Target,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: Select Costco, and Sam's Club locations, or just head to
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: True Classic dot com slash for the dads, trust me,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: grab one and you'll thank me later.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: Jealous that the boy dad's got the boys line.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: Coming, jealus jealous three classic dot com slash.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: For the dad, slash for the dad's potty breakover.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: Back to the episode, should go survival kit, Yes, quick
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: one webbin' u's I think I might've shout at him
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: out before. But again, Scotty's having a great time with
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: her little lama webbin ups. She's got a little moosy,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: she's got deer, and she's got lama. She loves them all.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: I cannot subscribe to the webbing up culture enough. You
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: know you've heard of Tygi Tige. You know the lure
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: of tiger. Yes, you get webbinops. They got the little
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: passy on the end. They might get weathered, they might
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: lose the passy. That'll be their little stuffy for life.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: So webbing ups, that's my survival kit. Is something to
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: have in the kit if you're going to become a
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: new father. You got a little one right now. Webbing us,
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: they're the way to go. Love webbing ups. We have
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: two rolling into my dad hat.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: Please.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: So we were on the road obviously with Arrowhead and
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: Ohio State.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: When we were at Ohio State.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: It's Lee Corso's final game, right doing the last mascotthead
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: that's sound. There were a lot of different mascots at
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: the game celebrating lead course. So I'm thinking to myself,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: I have to get a photo with each one of
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: these mascots so I can go home and show Rue.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: So my dad hacks just shouting out taking photos with mascots.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: No God to travel.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: I wanted to travel because I wanted to get photos
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: with with mascots, some of your favorite animals, you know.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: I got with the Clemson Tiger, brutish, the buck guy. Uh,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: the West Virginia what's there?
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: The mountaineer, the mountaineer cat. Was it Kansas State?
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: It might not have been, uh will It couldn't have
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: been West Virginia.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: They were holding the Pat McAfee like he was like young,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: like a young picture of McAfee.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: So I just thought it was like West Virginia. Oh, okay,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: were they.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 6: No?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: It was a cat. I'm off, but either way, there's
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: a cat. Got one with the tiger, got one with
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: the buck guys, the.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 3: Duck, organ duck, got the organ? Yeah? I got to
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 3: because Rue has this massive fear of mascots. Oh no, yeah.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: Whenever I took her to the Vanderbilt game, she was
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: very scared of the common commonwards.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 3: A little spooky.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but there was also they're playing Texas longhorns and
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: the long horn was there. But she was a little
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: nervous scared of the mascots. So it's always been a thing.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, come home and show where.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: Mascots are nice. Mascots are good people. Yeah, kind even
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: though they're wearing the big head. Yeah, like they're good people.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: They're quality people. Good family, great, great, great family. I said, wow,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: look at these mascots. Oh wow, those are good, very
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: nice masks and Duck, very good mascot, great family, equax.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 3: He does quiet.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: Oh that's why Dad hack thake photos of mascots.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: Show the kiddos when you get home.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 5: I love that quick survival kitten that hack for myself.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 5: You have the survival kit, mom Cozy bottle brush kit
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 5: that came in handy this trip. It's basically just a
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 5: on the go It's the brush with a squirt nozzle
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: so you can put any soap that you'd like.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 3: To use to wash yourself.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: Buddy.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 5: It was very quick, like you get through that. That
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 5: that that also shout out graasy dude.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: We were bumping some of her songs.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was putting sure them on Gracie's corner before
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: we started the pie and we were just we were
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: viving before the show started.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 3: To Veggie's each veggies each you Veggies.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: She's got it. Whatever it is, she's got it. Dad
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 5: Hack chat GBT story time, Dude, I did it for
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 5: the first time. Write a story about Scarlet and her
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 5: mom Jill, and her dad Sherman, and how she wants
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 5: to be up in the stars tonight because the stars
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 5: are so bright.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 3: Boom.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: I said, make sure it's four minutes long, five minutes long,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 5: and it was the best story of all time. I
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 5: was like, I'm gonna be doing this all the time.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, that's a great dad Hack. Thank you.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: I've never even thought about that. My wife will hate it.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: She for whatever reason, just hates Jedge. She hates the
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: AI stuf. She's like, that's fine, she's smart, she can
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: write very well. She's like, you know, one of them,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: you got embrace the game. It's the game.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: It's the game.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 2: Maybe it's the game.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: Sounds like Charles got game of her own, some natural ability.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she'd be like will Willie one shelf, Why don't
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: you challenge yourself to write a story, sweetheart?
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: I would love to, but that'll take me days. Has
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: she been calling you Willy one shelf? No, that's good Jill.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: She's laughed at a couple because obviously Willy one shelf
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: and the fat Stafford stuff is taken on us.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 3: I was about to say, Jill sent me a couple
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 3: of fat Stafford ones. She thinks it's funny.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 6: Yeah, Shirm cad real quick, yes to Shirm's ai thing.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 6: My uncle showed this to me because we have really
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 6: young cousins that he made this for her. You can go,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 6: I forget what the website's called, but you can make
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 6: an actual like storytime book, upload your picture Charles picture
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 6: ruined Scott believe in, and make like an actually will
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 6: do like a drawing short story with pictures of them,
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 6: which I thought was like insane when I saw.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 5: Your boy Nick sent me that. The what he just said,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 5: he just said, shout out your boy Nick.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 3: Shout out Nick would slowly kind of becoming my boy neck.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: Hey, Nick is the home bro.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: He's so sick, he's.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: A good dude. He's texting me on the Earth.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 3: The nicest stuff, dude.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 5: I did the ad reads one week on here he
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 5: said natural with the Adreaids bro.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: Related.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 3: I was elated. I do have a what are the odds?
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: Please quickly? Okay, keep it under hour, keep it under
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: an hour. We still got that hotline and Lesson ummm.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 3: His name is, I have it right here?
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 2: Sorry?
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: What are the odds? Brought to us by a fan duel?
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: I just want to apologize to the Huskers out there
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: that I put on the Braska MINEU six and a half.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: They did not cover it, they did not hit. I
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: think there's a lot of optimism coming out of Lincoln
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: right now.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 5: But my apologies hey, and I don't apologize because I
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 5: technically only said smash that over on the Baylor Auburn game.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 3: And what happened the overhit overhead I did.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 5: I'm just saying Taylor Hall, he's part of that wardamn
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 5: Eagle country.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 3: Uh. For this week's what are the odd shout out? FanDuel.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 5: He laid a little bet on me and he said,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 5: I'll race you for slip Sherman money line Auburn Baylor
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 5: for diapers. So I have to buy diapers for Taylor
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 5: Hall and send it to him. And he's out of Virginia.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 5: I'm not gonna dox him, but out of VA. He's
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 5: out of VA. And Uh, Taylor, congratulations to your Auburn Tigers.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 5: I will be following up uh later this week and
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 5: I will.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 3: Be sending him. What size did he say he was?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 5: I think he's huggy four month so I'll be sending
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 5: him some huggy four month old show.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: Tuggy, no free show. Don't be doing that ship now.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I do want to shout out Cody Bova.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: Why nine?
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: Why nine? Why nine? L?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: I believe last week Dad lost, I was talking about
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: morning routines. He I mean, we use a sticker chart
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: to help get the kids ready in the morning. If
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: they fill it up to get a little toy. Also
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: a survival tip, keep an extra Roku remote. Hitting toddlers
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: love to walk off or lose the remotes. Nothing is
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: worse than getting the kids already asleep ready to watch
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: a game and this then spend the next fifteen minutes
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: looking for the remote. But I love the sticker chart,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: Dad Hack, love the support. I know people were in
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: the comments kind of helping your boy out with the
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: morning routine stuff.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: So I do greatly appreciate that.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: Six to oh one, the dads, let's get to our voicemails.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: We got some We got some hot ones this week. Yeah,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: how many two?
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 3: We got dose and they're in dropbox. Correct.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: You want to get featured on the show. Call six
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: to oh one. The dad's leave a voicemail. We've been
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: we've been having some fun ones.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 3: Sure, it's the in the episode.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 6: It's in the drop in folder.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 3: So you go to episode thirteen, Episode thirteen, then.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 6: Voicemails and dms, and then then selects for the pod
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 6: new system.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 5: Hey new system, and shout out the new system, shout out.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 3: I love that new system. I'll be ready next week.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 5: That's on me, guys, head of the new system, headed
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 5: the head of the new system, Head of the system.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 3: I'll be on it next week.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: Boy, that's Monday.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: This one comes from Tyler Prewitt.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 8: Boys, I just got the phone call. Name's Tyler Prude.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 8: I'm I'm in Georgia. How's at work? Grinding away on
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 8: a Friday before college football starts tomorrow? Go dogs? A
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 8: wife calls me water broke headed to the hospital. Now
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 8: ready to join PT six. Uh, this ship's crazy. Talk
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 8: to you all later.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 2: But wait, wait, wait did he just leave us a voicemail?
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 2: His wife's water bro They're in the car.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 3: On the way to the hospital. Any before the dads.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: That is amazing.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 5: Tyler Purutt from Bulldog Country, Go Dogs, God, that is.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: A it's a bullfucking dog right there.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, legend, Tyler.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: Thank you for calling in. Congratulations. I do hope everything
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: went well at the hospital. I hope you're ripping the
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: new PT six shirt, which you can get at btbtv
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: dot com.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 3: We will be sending you one for calling into the show.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: That is iconic.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 3: That is iconic. We need to follow up.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: Hey, we got somebody.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: They're on their way to the hospital. Yeah, their wife's
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: water broke. Yes, she's probably breathing right now. And he's
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: a hang on baby, you gotta make call the boys
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: real quick. Hey, join a BT six here.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 8: I just got the phone call.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 3: Name's Tyler in Georgia.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 8: How does that work? Grinding away on a Friday before
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 8: college football starts tomorrow? Go dogs water broke? Headed to
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 8: the hospital. Now ready to join? Uh, this ship's crazy.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: Later, No domes so he's meeting his wife at the hospital.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 3: I like the wife right there, get off the What
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 3: the fucker.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: That's a Georgia bulldog. If he's a Georgia bulldog, I
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: bet the wife's in on it too.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 5: Now, Honey, you called the boys, right, you told me
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 5: you're gonna be pet six.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 3: Tell him I'm joining milk Deep six. I told him this,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 3: she's crazy.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 2: Thank you for your over sweet.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 3: He killed it. That's awesome, Tyler, that's all time.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I would love a follow up if we can
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 5: get a follow up with them.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we just want to make sure everything went all right.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, I'd love.
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 2: To know if everything went on. Get to the next one.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 4: Hey, well, Inshtern, this is Aaron not You're ideal target audience.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 4: I'm not married, no kids, I'm obviously a female male,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 4: but really just wanted to take the time to say you, guys,
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 4: is love for your children, your daughters especially well you
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 4: only have daughters, but I'm flumbling is just so encouraging.
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  Speaker 4: I'm calling because I have the best girl dad in
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  Speaker 4: the whole entire world, and just yeah, that's all I mean.
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  Speaker 3: It honestly makes me emotional.
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  Speaker 4: But to hear you guys, speak so excitingly of your
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  Speaker 4: girls and just the future that they have. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: my dad's had the biggest impact on me just in
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  Speaker 4: sports specifically. I mean, I think we spend every single
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  Speaker 4: Saturday on the couch watching every single game from eleven
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  Speaker 4: am to eleven pm. Just the relationship with him, but
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  Speaker 4: the relationship we've had with sports has me as a
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 4: twenty three year old working in the sports industry because
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 4: of him, and it's just really really special, and I
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  Speaker 4: just I think it's awesome what you guys are doing
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  Speaker 4: with this platform and the love you have for your girls.
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  Speaker 4: So thanks for being awesome girl, dads, and just know
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  Speaker 4: your influence is so strong because my dad's my favorite
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  Speaker 4: person in the whole entire world, and I hope your
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  Speaker 4: girls feel the same for years and years and years
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  Speaker 4: to come.
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  Speaker 3: Keep it up.
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  Speaker 4: I've watched every single episode on When Say Again, not
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 4: your target audience, but you got something going and it's
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 4: great and you're y'all are awesome.
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  Speaker 1: So dude, that's awesome. You can't tell right now? Your boy, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you got water in the eyes too. That's I think
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  Speaker 1: that's every girl's dad dream right there. He's your daughter
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  Speaker 1: talking about you.
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  Speaker 2: Like that. That's good.
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  Speaker 3: Bud Ah Brady the hard ball playing right now. Don't
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  Speaker 3: to me.
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  Speaker 5: She brought the whole damn house down. She brought the
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 5: whole house down. We got Tyler Pruitt in Bulldog Country
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 5: go Dolls calling on the way to the hospital. And
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 5: I got this girl that I've never met in my
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 5: life making me cry. What the hell?
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Not even a parent just want to call in and
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  Speaker 1: show love because she has a a great girl.
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  Speaker 2: Dad.
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  Speaker 3: I can't even talk about it.
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  Speaker 5: Crazy, I can't even talk about it. Wow, thank you
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 5: so much for calling in, Like, yeah, thank you, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: That's cool. Man.
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  Speaker 3: I want to talk about it, but I can. I'm
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: gonna I'll start crying.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: It's like the water started to fill my eyes. Every
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: Saturday watch his ball like she's in the sports industry
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: and shot.
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  Speaker 3: I will say this. I won't cry saying this. Shout
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 3: out her dad, Shout out her dad. He's for sure
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 3: a PT sixer, he's a legend.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 2: And your daughter's twenty three.
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  Speaker 1: This isn't somebody you know, I know for myself in
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: their thirties, with such like retrospect on what your parents
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: did for you, that those types of words are coming
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: out now. Yeah, and when you're like older, really this
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: is twenty three, yeah, like fresh out of college.
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  Speaker 2: And knowing how good of a dad she has.
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  Speaker 5: I don't feel I'm not saying this for like, oh sureman,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 5: you are desert, but like I don't feel deserving of
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 5: that type of phone call. That's crazy, that's so kind,
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  Speaker 5: that's unreel.
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  Speaker 2: Because she's twenty three.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: It's like that like Greu's only three right now. I
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: you hope in twenty years that's how she's talking about
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: her old man.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I'm like we I won't lump you in there.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 5: I'm an idiot on here talking about goom berets and
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 5: roadshock wave and being a goofball and there's something twenty
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 5: three year old that's like these guys are great.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 3: That's talking about mountain or white. You play your cards right,
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 3: Daddy's gonna mount you and we're good.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 8: Dad.
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  Speaker 3: I'll take it.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: I'll take absolutely, gotta catch you, gotta catch you to
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: catch it for ball and hold it.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 3: And you know what we are like that.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 5: The mission statements has it perfectly. We're just messing up
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 5: along the way, but we're trying. Yeah, we're trying let's
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  Speaker 5: get to our lesson. I brought that.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: I brought out the old the Daily Dad from Ryan Holiday.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: To me, this is a staple that all dad should have.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: You don't have to sit here and agree with every
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: page and everything that's written on here. But there is
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: a lot of quality, a lot of good stuff. I
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: was reading on a part last week. This is August
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: twentieth and is titled Encourage the Dream. It's not that
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: parents don't believe in their kids. It's that they know
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: the world is hard. They know that the odds are long,
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: and most of all, nobody wants harm or crushing disappointment
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: to come to their children. That's why we discouraged them
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: from dropping out, from trying to make it as a musician,
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: from quitting their job to start a company.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 2: We're just worried.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: Will Ferrell, one of the greatest comedic actors of all time,
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: as we've talked about, certainly challenge his parents in this way.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: You're going to become a sketch comedium what Even his father,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: a working musician, had reservations about his pursuing such an uncertain,
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: unstable career. Thankfully he caught himself before Will came down
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: for advice, putting his very natural, understandable worries on the
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: back burner.
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  Speaker 2: Roy Lee Farrell led.
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  Speaker 1: With support and you know what, I think you have
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  Speaker 1: the skill, but it takes a lot of luck. If
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: you don't make it, don't worry about it. You can
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: just try something else. Roy Lee was communicating to Will
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: from his own hard won experience, just how hard and
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: unlikely success was in one of those much dreamed of
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: career fields. He was saying, you're talented and I believe
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: in you, but it's going to be really hard, so
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: hard that if it doesn't work, you have to understand
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: that it's just a reflection on the industry and not
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: on you as a person. That is an incredible gift
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: to give your children permission to try, along with permission
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: to fail, the signal that you'll support them either way,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: that nothing changes based on the path they choose, the
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: heights they reach, or the marks they fall short of.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: Encourage the dream. Thank you, Ryan Holiday, Daily Dad, shout
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: out to Daily Dad. A lot of great lessons, a
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: lot of great stuff in here. Three hundred and sixty
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: six meditations. I know I said this in the first
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: episode on parenting, Love and raising great kids, and that's
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: some bangers read.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: No, I don't read at all. This is a book
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 2: that sits. It doesn't happen every day.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to sit here and tell you I
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: am perfect at reading this book every day. But it's
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: a book that sits on our dining room table. Our
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: dining table every day because we we eat dinner as
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: a family every day that we possibly can.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: And as we're eating.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: I usually read a page on the day of Yeah,
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: and it's okay to skip a you know, if you miss,
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: if you're not home for a couple of days, or
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: you're out on the road and you miss, just pick
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: open the book and go to the date that the
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: date that you're on.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: I don't worry about catching up, just read.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 5: Yes, I feel like that that type of book is
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 5: a really good gateway drug for somebody that's trying to
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 5: get addicted to reading.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, those little daily it's an easy read.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 5: Yes, very much like the Coach I already forgot the
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 5: title of that book, but the one Coaches Playbook, Coaches Playbook.
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  Speaker 3: Coaches Playbook that your old man Papa Shroom gave us.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I do we have time that I do my lesson. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: it's very God.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: Do we have time? That question is for you.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 3: It's very quick.
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: Yes, we had time.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 3: Okay, we have time. Okay. I read the last week.
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  Speaker 2: People loved it.
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  Speaker 3: Let's go.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: People loved it.
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  Speaker 3: Lest emotional. I will not cry, and I'm not going
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 3: to quote a move. We'll see if you don't grow Okay,
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 3: all right?
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 5: So I wrote this on the plane on the way
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 5: back from Texas.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: I wrote this. Sorry you wrote this. I read this.
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 2: Let's go. Man.
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 5: After spending this past weekend in my hometown in Fort Worth,
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 5: I realized there is something special about home and family
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 5: that will never fade with age. Pulling up to my
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 5: mom's house and seeing her car in the driveway, my
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 5: dad in the living room window with his dog stage
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 5: the Texas game is already on the screen. My parents
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 5: ordered takeout from one of our favorite family restaurants that
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 5: we used to take that they used to take us
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 5: to as kids. I'm safe and happy and instantly feel
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 5: a nap coming on as I sit down on the
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 5: living room sofa. After catching up in kitchen with mom
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 5: and dad. Even driving through where I grew up in
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 5: Alito and seeing the old places I know and love,
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 5: I find so much comfort in the memories I've made
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 5: with family and friends and how those places, things, and
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 5: people shaped me into the person I am today.
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 3: I cannot wait.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 5: To pass along the same experience to Scarlett our little unit,
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 5: finding our favorite restaurants, Her walking into her parents' home
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 5: and instantly recognizing the smells, Her excited to bring friends
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 5: over to share in our home experience, her seeing me
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 5: waving in the living room window looking like a goofball
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 5: with our family dog. I am overwhelmed with the excitement
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 5: for the opportunity to build her nostalgia bank of memories.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 5: I can't wait to provide her the family slash home
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 5: that my parents provided me.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 3: DINNI kra bitch. That was so good. What would you
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 3: hate it with that?
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  Speaker 1: That was really good man, Thanks dude, Thank you, Willy
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  Speaker 1: one Shall.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, Willie one shelf and I did it really fast.
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: That was good bro, Thank you dude. Should we wrap
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  Speaker 1: it up? Yes, guys, thank you for tuning in. Make
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  Speaker 1: sure you take out the trash. Have a hell of
• 1:26:18
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• 1:26:24
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• 1:26:27
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  Speaker 2: There you go, there you go.
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  Speaker 3: Have a little fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Love you guys.