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B.A.D.D. 2 BUSINESS: LOVE LANGUAGE WITH/ THE RIOS | HOST SHYNEN SAFFRON · DA CREW Podcast

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, May I have your attention please? The
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Speaker 2: Hello and good evening, everybody. Welcome to another episode of
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Speaker 2: Bad to Business. I am your host, Shining Saffron. Thank
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Speaker 2: you tonight. I think it's beneficial for all those who
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Speaker 2: are listening. We plan to reach one teach many. So
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Speaker 2: today let me introduce uh who's going to be joining
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Speaker 2: me tonight. Normally I do do a podcast by myself,
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Speaker 2: but I have the pleasure of having some guests today,
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Speaker 2: So I'm going to introduce my first my co host,
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Speaker 2: who is joining me tonight, by the name of Jazzy.
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Speaker 3: Hello Jazzy, Hello, everyone, evening.
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Speaker 4: How you feeling.
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Speaker 3: I'm great, I'm great. How is everybody doing?
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Speaker 2: I assume everybody's doing good. They're finna come in and
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Speaker 2: and join us. So I'm excited about the show. You
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Speaker 2: want to tell everybody a little bit about yourself where
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Speaker 2: you reside and would you like to do something like that?
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Speaker 3: Yep, I am Jazzy. I love to cook, eat and travel,
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Speaker 3: and everybody knows that I will travel for food. I
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Speaker 3: am coming at you live from Albuquerque, and I am
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Speaker 3: grateful here. I can't wait for an awesome show.
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Speaker 4: Awesome.
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for being here and being my coast. Okay,
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Speaker 2: so come coming up next. I want to introduce our guests,
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Speaker 2: our special guests.
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Speaker 4: Tonight.
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Speaker 2: We have mister and missus Rico, Moyses and Ri Rico.
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Speaker 4: How are you this evening?
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Speaker 5: Hello everyone, We're doing great good.
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Speaker 6: I'm so glad to be here. Thank you so much
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Speaker 6: for having us.
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Speaker 2: And thank you for joining me. Thank you for joining me.
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Speaker 2: We have a happy couple here. Do you want to.
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Speaker 4: Do yourself, say a little bit about yourself.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, we are the Ricos, and we said some Brendo Rico.
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Speaker 5: We've been together for over twelve years, married for over seven,
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Speaker 5: about to be eight. Yeah, we've been we've been together
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Speaker 5: a while, and we're here to share our story and
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Speaker 5: our message about relationships. We're passionate about it. We just
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Speaker 5: see how valuable relationships are, how impactful they are to
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Speaker 5: the future generation, how the impactfully welse there were to us.
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Speaker 5: We want to make marriages great again. So that's what
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Speaker 5: we're here for.
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Speaker 2: Make marriages great again. That's something to be working towards
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Speaker 2: making great again.
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Speaker 3: I like that. Let's get that on it.
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Speaker 7: Okay, definitely, And with that being said, they brought a
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Speaker 7: little bit of what the show is about tonight.
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Speaker 2: Tonight we are going to be talking about love language.
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Speaker 2: We know that there's different ways of communication verbal. You know,
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Speaker 2: you've got your body language, but when it comes to relationships,
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Speaker 2: we want to talk about love language. And as the
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Speaker 2: beautiful couple just mentioned, we want to give some tips
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Speaker 2: on just understanding each other and just communicating better. So,
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Speaker 2: without further ado, I want to go, let's jump right
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Speaker 2: in because we don't have a lot of time, and
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Speaker 2: you know I can go on and on and on,
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Speaker 2: but I want to give our beautiful guests a chance.
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Speaker 2: There are some of their experiences and some of their things,
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Speaker 2: So again, welcome to Bad to Business. We are talking
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Speaker 2: about love language. I did some research on some things.
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Speaker 2: Jazz and I have talked a little bit about it before,
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Speaker 2: about the different types of love languages. And I come
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Speaker 2: across you have the words of affirmation, you have touch,
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Speaker 2: you have gifts, you have service and quality time. Right,
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Speaker 2: the words of affirmation are like compliments, encouragements. The I
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Speaker 2: love to use the go, get thems, all those motivational
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Speaker 2: words some people take or give that and very well,
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Speaker 2: you have your your touch love language, which deals with
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Speaker 2: physical affection like hugs, kisses, holding hands and any other
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Speaker 2: form of let me make this clear, non sexual physical closeness. Okay,
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Speaker 2: touch does not always mean it's something sexual. It could
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Speaker 2: just mean a rub on the back of hug those
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Speaker 2: types of things too. Then we come across which you
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Speaker 2: know can be given and receiving, and that's easy, but
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Speaker 2: a thoughtful give something that actually pertains to something or
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Speaker 2: has some type of actual meaning to somebody. That's that's
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Speaker 2: a form of love service. Doing something good for your
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Speaker 2: partner that makes their life easier. We all could use
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Speaker 2: some of that in all types of relationships. But when
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Speaker 2: it comes to you and your partner, that makes I
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Speaker 2: believe that makes a strong household and your QT quality time.
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Speaker 2: Of course, that's always a good thing in a successful relationship,
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Speaker 2: giving your undivided attention to and spending meaningful time engaging
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Speaker 2: in conversation and activity.
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Speaker 4: So again, quality time.
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Speaker 2: I'm really a stickler about that because you know, different relationships,
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Speaker 2: different strokes, different folks. A lot of people may feel
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Speaker 2: like because you're in the same room with your partner,
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Speaker 2: not talking, not communicating. Hey, we're in the same room
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Speaker 2: on separate phones. You know that that is spending time together.
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Speaker 2: And I just don't believe in that. To spend time
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Speaker 2: is the as it stated, the undivided attention, spending meaningful
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Speaker 2: time and engaging with each other.
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Speaker 4: So those are the five love.
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Speaker 2: Languages that have been noted I'll say thus far in
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Speaker 2: our society.
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Speaker 4: And so I wanted to give some tips and some things.
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Speaker 2: And like I said, just a conversation, give jazz a
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Speaker 2: chance and give the ricos a chance to talk about
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Speaker 2: some things they think.
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Speaker 4: So what do you guys think? What do you think
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Speaker 4: about language? Jazz?
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Speaker 3: I mean, like you said, it can be so many
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Speaker 3: different ways to show how you love someone. It could
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Speaker 3: be the littlest gesture to something huge, But it all
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Speaker 3: depends on you and your partner and if you guys
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Speaker 3: can communicate effectively with each other. And that actually brings
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Speaker 3: me to my question. You know, like our questions that
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Speaker 3: we have. But it's like you have to make sure
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Speaker 3: that whatever language you were speaking, your partner understands it
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Speaker 3: and vice versa. You have to understand each other in
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Speaker 3: order to make it work.
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Speaker 4: Communication.
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Speaker 2: It's all about communication, and that's one of the things
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Speaker 2: you say, is key mister and missus Rico, what do
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Speaker 2: you think about the five love languages and you know,
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Speaker 2: communication in a whole.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, the final languages helped us tremendously understand each other,
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Speaker 5: under understand what if you loved, where did it come from,
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Speaker 5: and how to express it because there's a lot of
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Speaker 5: times where that we've experienced that it's hard to read
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Speaker 5: for us to receive love. For me, one of my
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Speaker 5: struggle love languages is words of estimation. But since in
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Speaker 5: the household that I grew up in, it wasn't really
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Speaker 5: that much like good job, shamp things like that. It's
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Speaker 5: and I expressed that to her was I don't even
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Speaker 5: know when a couple of days ago, where I like
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Speaker 5: how much he edifies me with the book and the
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Speaker 5: podcast and the events that I've been to and all
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Speaker 5: that stuff, And I was like, I'm just doing what
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Speaker 5: I need to do. And for her part, I don't
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Speaker 5: want to speak for her, but yeah, for her part,
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Speaker 5: it's a similar story as well.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 6: I mean I in a sense I kind of realized
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Speaker 6: that I, like he said, receiving the love language. Right,
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Speaker 6: So he does things and it be what I speak,
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Speaker 6: but I don't receive it very well. So I mean,
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Speaker 6: like just last month, we did a thirty day challenge
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Speaker 6: where we every single day we did whichever love language,
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Speaker 6: but we did something. We recorded ourselves. We posted it
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Speaker 6: on social media, and we realized that we were doing
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Speaker 6: the love languages, but we wasn't receiving them as much
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Speaker 6: as we thought. So we were doing it, but the
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Speaker 6: other person didn't even know, Like, you know, as simple
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Speaker 6: as like my husband giving me a ice cream cone
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Speaker 6: when I was relaxing. That to me was like, oh,
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Speaker 6: thank you so much. That's so sweet. But I never
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Speaker 6: saw it as like, oh, he's speaking a love language, right,
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Speaker 6: So in a sense, I think it's also the way
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Speaker 6: that you receive those and it comes to being grateful
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Speaker 6: and yeah, because like he could he could be speaking
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Speaker 6: a different language. But if I'm not grateful, then I'm
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Speaker 6: not going to receive it. So that's how I see things.
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Speaker 2: And that brings up an interesting point because you know,
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Speaker 2: being grateful allows you to recognize some things.
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Speaker 4: Right.
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Speaker 2: I was talking to someone else that was in a
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Speaker 2: relationship and it was kind of troubled and she kept
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Speaker 2: trying to do her efforts to make it. A thing
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Speaker 2: I had to point out to her is when your
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Speaker 2: other partner has mentally checked out already, you know, and
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Speaker 2: trying to prevent. But when your other partner has mentally
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Speaker 2: checked out already, they don't even see the attempts. Now,
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Speaker 2: in your case, you're you're not mentally checked out, but
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Speaker 2: you know you didn't readily identify that that was a
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Speaker 2: you know, a love language. But being grateful, you don't
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Speaker 2: see it as a love language. You can see it
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Speaker 2: as a love gesture. It doesn't have to be him
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Speaker 2: speaking to you in a way.
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Speaker 7: It's just him loving on you some type of way, right, So.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know how that could have made
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Speaker 2: your life. He do see it as a service, you know,
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Speaker 2: he brought you ice cream while you relaxing.
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Speaker 6: Even a gift, giving a gift like even just said,
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Speaker 6: like you can put it in whatever box you want,
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Speaker 6: but if you're not grateful, you're not gonna receive it
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Speaker 6: no matter what, you know what I mean. So it's
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Speaker 6: just I think a mindset shift that you have to
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Speaker 6: do within yourself of like, don't be so focused on
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Speaker 6: your own love language, be more grateful on whatever else
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Speaker 6: is doing for you, and then if you want, you
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Speaker 6: can put it on the box of like, oh, this
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Speaker 6: to me means a gift, or this to me means
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Speaker 6: an act of service.
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Speaker 7: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Well, and if you're speaking these love languages fluently, you
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Speaker 2: never really have to identify what type of language your
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Speaker 2: partner is speaking, because what you know is it's love.
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Speaker 2: I think we were talking before a brief moment where
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Speaker 2: I said, you know, I was real adamant about I
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Speaker 2: don't speak different love languages. My language is not bilingual. Okay,
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Speaker 2: I speak one language.
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Speaker 4: It is love.
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Speaker 2: Love is patient, love, this kind. So I am love
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Speaker 2: in all languages, right, But then I realized that that
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Speaker 2: is me speaking, that may not be the other person receiving,
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Speaker 2: and vice versa, you know, So it is definitely, you know,
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Speaker 2: a matter of who you're talking and how they're receiving it.
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Speaker 4: Voices.
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Speaker 2: You brought up a good point, and it was something
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Speaker 2: I was gonna bring up later on in the conversation.
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Speaker 2: But I'm glad you brought it up, and it was
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Speaker 2: you didn't grow up in a household that they kind
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Speaker 2: of did. That one of the things that we did
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Speaker 2: not consider or understand or even ask about is does
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Speaker 2: that person is that person able to receive it?
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Speaker 4: I mean give it?
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Speaker 2: You know, we could be asking for something from someone
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Speaker 2: and they're not able to give it. Right now, I
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Speaker 2: got kind of a take on this, and let me
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Speaker 2: see what you guys think about this. Now, even with
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Speaker 2: that being said, we're in a relationship. I feel like
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Speaker 2: how you grew up that is a big factor, but
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Speaker 2: how you grow with someone is a key factor. So
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Speaker 2: even though Moistes did not grow up in a household
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Speaker 2: like that, he's around someone who is doing that.
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Speaker 4: He's adapting to that.
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Speaker 2: And because you love your wife, I'm assuming that either
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Speaker 2: you're adaptive to trying to learn how to do that
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Speaker 2: or she has been okay now communicating with you and
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Speaker 2: understanding that this is why this for me and that
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Speaker 2: is okay. So how does that work after explaining to
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Speaker 2: her that that's not what you're used to or that's
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Speaker 2: not how you grew up, then, Bree, how do you
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Speaker 2: accept that? Is that accepting or is that something moist
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Speaker 2: is that you have decided you can work on. That's
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Speaker 2: one of my questions is just you know, this is
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Speaker 2: the language I speak. I can't speak that language or
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Speaker 2: I've you know, picked up some of Rosetta Stone lessons
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Speaker 2: on that.
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Speaker 5: I think's, uh, I'm just want to know. I think
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Speaker 5: that's a bit of both of me learning to and
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Speaker 5: also her not giving up showing me that love because
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Speaker 5: I know I need it, right, it's just a matter
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Speaker 5: of me being able to receive it. And she asked
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Speaker 5: me yesterday because with the whole book thing, she asked
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Speaker 5: me something about my mom, like how came my mom
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Speaker 5: doesn't celebrate it or what she tell me about it?
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Speaker 5: And I told her, my mom is those type of
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Speaker 5: people who to me directly, she doesn't give me praise.
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Speaker 5: But if someone were to ask what about your son, immediately,
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Speaker 5: Oh he's an author. Oh he's still on stage with
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Speaker 5: all this stuff. So it's part of the healing in
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Speaker 5: that part is accepting who my mom is and how
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Speaker 5: she chooses to show her love, which is through that,
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Speaker 5: which is through edifying me to other people, and kind
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Speaker 5: of grieving and letting go of the part of what
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Speaker 5: I want, which is why don't you tell me that stuff?
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Speaker 5: Right at the end of the day, she's my mom, right,
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Speaker 5: She's not my life partner. That's where I can go.
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Speaker 5: I get that fed I can, she can edified me
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Speaker 5: directly to me, and she does the reason I believe
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Speaker 5: I am the man that I am missed because of her.
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Speaker 5: She built this man to.
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Speaker 1: Be this.
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Speaker 6: Because I can say something just so you know, it
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Speaker 6: wasn't like this always, like I never I also didn't
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Speaker 6: grow up that way, so I neverly had to edify
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Speaker 6: anybody or like talk good about anybody in our.
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Speaker 4: Hispanic love affirmation.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, so in your Hispanic culture is like you talk
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Speaker 6: bad about each other all the time, Like, oh, you
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Speaker 6: know what I mean, So you bring that into your relationship.
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Speaker 6: And when I found out, you know, like you talking
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Speaker 6: good to me is my love language, I had to
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Speaker 6: shift that too, like I had to learn and it
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Speaker 6: took a few years for me to bring myself to
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Speaker 6: tell him, Hey, good job, Hey, that's awesome. Hey you're
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Speaker 6: doing a great job. Hey, like, thank you so much
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Speaker 6: for everything you're doing, Like it wasn't that before, and
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Speaker 6: that that made him feel like that we didn't care
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Speaker 6: as much or that we did did you know, like
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Speaker 6: appreciate what he did until I learned to start doing
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Speaker 6: that and with practice then.
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Speaker 7: With practice, yeah, from both that this was something you
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Speaker 7: wanted to do when you want to do something, you
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Speaker 7: want to make something work.
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Speaker 2: You know that it shows in your actions. So that's awesome.
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Speaker 2: And just on the topic of you know, just kind
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Speaker 2: of knowing what he needed when when he needs it,
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Speaker 2: and you know, because you have different communication and stuff
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Speaker 2: like that. I looked into a little bit of your
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Speaker 2: stories and just to kind of see where you guys
16:40
Speaker 2: were rooted, and I came across a story that bre
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Speaker 2: shared about a broken air conditioner. Re do you mind
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Speaker 2: sharing just a little bit of that, and we have
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Speaker 2: a there's there's something that I want the viewers to
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Speaker 2: hear about that.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was Actually it's funny because of a sudden,
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Speaker 6: our air conditioners stop working. And we've been living in
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Speaker 6: this house for a year already and we live a
17:07
Speaker 6: good life, so we haven't like at a seventy five
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Speaker 6: right now and it gets cold, you know, so we're
17:14
Speaker 6: you and it's Crescent Texas like where we live, so
17:19
Speaker 6: we stay inside.
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Speaker 3: We're like, oh no, that he is not my.
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Speaker 6: H So it went out and we were like what
17:28
Speaker 6: in the world. And my husband was working, you know,
17:33
Speaker 6: and I had the girls outside in the pool because
17:37
Speaker 6: I was like, I don't want them to feel like
17:38
Speaker 6: he did inside, so like they were in the pool
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Speaker 6: and they were swimming all day, so they had no
17:43
Speaker 6: idea what was going on. But you as a mother,
17:46
Speaker 6: like you're like struggling, you know, of like, oh my gosh,
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Speaker 6: like it's so hot in here, like we don't need
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Speaker 6: air conditioning, Like it was getting to the point of
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Speaker 6: like eighty five I think inside, and it was feeling
17:58
Speaker 6: really hot. And my husband kept telling me throughout the day, Hey,
18:03
Speaker 6: like let's get a hotel. You go to a hotel,
18:05
Speaker 6: like you can go to a hotel, And I kept
18:08
Speaker 6: fighting him on it, and I was like no, no,
18:11
Speaker 6: like it's fine, like hopefully the guy comes. The guy came.
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Speaker 6: He can't fix it till tomorrow. And he was like, like,
18:20
Speaker 6: let's go somewhere, Like I mean, we all the we
18:24
Speaker 6: can always go to my mother in law's house because
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Speaker 6: she opens her door no matter what. But growing up,
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Speaker 6: I had shared on that post that it was hard
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Speaker 6: for me to sleep at somebody else's house because when
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Speaker 6: my parents split up, we had to sleep in other
18:39
Speaker 6: people's homes for a very long time and it made
18:42
Speaker 6: me very uncomfortable. And you know, now, being a mother
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Speaker 6: of four kids, I was like I'm not gonna take
18:49
Speaker 6: my family of six to another home like it just
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Speaker 6: makes me And without question, he was like, just pack up,
18:57
Speaker 6: we're gonna He was already looking up hotels. He got
19:00
Speaker 6: to work, and he was like, we're gonna go, We're
19:02
Speaker 6: gonna stay. And I was in like survival mode, right,
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Speaker 6: because that's how I grew up. And I was like
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Speaker 6: survival mode. And we got to the hotel and got
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Speaker 6: in the shower in the room was sixty four degrees
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Speaker 6: and I was like, wow, it's like so nice and fresh,
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Speaker 6: and the girls were excited. And he came in to
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Speaker 6: the room and he was like, are you okay? And
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Speaker 6: I was like no, and then he was like, what's wrong.
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Speaker 6: So he came and he hugged me, and I just
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Speaker 6: started crying. And it made me realize that I was
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Speaker 6: so blessed. And I've known this my whole life, but
19:48
Speaker 6: I was so blessed to have a partner that now
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Speaker 6: understands me that he healed that part of me, of
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Speaker 6: my childhood, and we're like I no longer have to
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Speaker 6: worry where I'm gonna s or where my kids are
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Speaker 6: going to stay for the night of the air conditioner
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Speaker 6: goes out I no longer have to be in survival mode.
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Speaker 6: And I was crying and he was like, why are
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Speaker 6: you crying? I was like, I'm just happy. I'm not
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Speaker 6: said crying. I'm just really happy and really grateful.
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Speaker 2: And that was really touching to me because you know,
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Speaker 2: that was a love language of what we'll call service.
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Speaker 4: Right, you made her life easier. She didn't even have
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Speaker 4: to ask.
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Speaker 2: But it went a little bit deeper because one of
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Speaker 2: the I took this from.
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Speaker 4: Your story, from your post breath.
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Speaker 2: One of the things you said was when you have
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Speaker 2: someone who understands you, sees you, listens to you, and
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Speaker 2: connects with you deeply, even your past starts to feel lighter.
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Speaker 2: And I was pretty deep. You know, he was able
20:57
Speaker 2: to lighten a burden that you didn't even know you
20:59
Speaker 2: still had, you know, and so that went without saying.
21:04
Speaker 2: So even with that love language, I thought that that
21:07
Speaker 2: was very important to share because again that went without saying.
21:10
Speaker 2: I'm sure Moistest knows your past and those things from
21:13
Speaker 2: communication and what he did to ease your pain without
21:17
Speaker 2: you even saying you were in pain. You know, it's
21:20
Speaker 2: the the initiative to make sure that you don't feel
21:24
Speaker 2: that stuff that was you go, Moises, Okay, that's why
21:29
Speaker 2: she married. Also, I wanted to touch on something Moists.
21:36
Speaker 2: I you know, did a little research on you too,
21:39
Speaker 2: My man. You guys are a very inspirational couple, very
21:44
Speaker 2: inspirational couple. Mois's you talked a little bit about there
21:48
Speaker 2: are three different types of relationships. Can you touch maybe
21:52
Speaker 2: give a description and quick tips on those things.
21:55
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I believe there's three types relationships, and I
21:59
Speaker 5: equated to maybe at three different types of jobs as well.
22:02
Speaker 5: So there's relationships that you get, there's relationships that you keep,
22:06
Speaker 5: and there's relationships that you grow. The ones that you
22:09
Speaker 5: get are the very superficial ones. You're just looking to
22:12
Speaker 5: get in to get out of it, for something to
22:16
Speaker 5: get out of it, money, whatever, maybe looks status, all
22:21
Speaker 5: that stuff, even just to get into the pants. That's
22:25
Speaker 5: pretty much it. Once you get it, you're like, you're
22:27
Speaker 5: not interested anymore.
22:29
Speaker 4: You stop whatever crazy.
22:33
Speaker 5: Exactly, You stop doing whatever you did to get to
22:36
Speaker 5: that point. You already got your prize and you're ready
22:39
Speaker 5: to get out. Those are those types of relationships. They
22:43
Speaker 5: really they're hardly last. They're either when it stands, they're
22:47
Speaker 5: very short period dating and it's like, okay, well we
22:51
Speaker 5: got our feeling to depart. The second type is the
22:56
Speaker 5: relationships that you keep. The relationships they keep a lot
23:00
Speaker 5: of the time is maybe you have kids, maybe you
23:03
Speaker 5: started forming a life together, but there's really no love,
23:06
Speaker 5: there's no connection. It's more of a roommate agreement of like,
23:10
Speaker 5: we're here together, we have kids. We're staying together because
23:13
Speaker 5: of the kids, so that we don't disrupt their lives
23:16
Speaker 5: and traumatize them even more. And then once the finding
23:19
Speaker 5: finding the kids are old enough, then it's like, okay,
23:21
Speaker 5: well we're divorcing. I'm not happys like that. There's really
23:24
Speaker 5: no connection again, you're just there because at that point
23:27
Speaker 5: it's just it's just a business agreement that it's it
23:32
Speaker 5: makes sense for us to stay together instead of disrupting
23:34
Speaker 5: each other's lives. There's there's not the relationship. The relationship
23:38
Speaker 5: that you grow. Those are the where you get better
23:41
Speaker 5: with time. They actually flourish, they are fruitful. It's not
23:46
Speaker 5: just we're together for the kids. It's not just together
23:49
Speaker 5: because we like what it's in each other's pants. It's
23:53
Speaker 5: we love each other, we want to grow together, we
23:56
Speaker 5: want to be the best version of each other and
23:57
Speaker 5: want to help each other achieve that, and I guess
24:01
Speaker 5: for people who might have trouble kind of tying that together.
24:05
Speaker 5: Relating that to jobs, there's jobs that you line in
24:07
Speaker 5: your resume just to get in right because of the pay,
24:10
Speaker 5: because someone things like that, right. The jobs that you keep,
24:14
Speaker 5: you're not happy, but the pay is good, the benefits
24:17
Speaker 5: are good. Maybe you're going to something medical, so it's there,
24:20
Speaker 5: so you know what else D realm even though total
24:23
Speaker 5: like my boss and I like my co workers. I'm
24:25
Speaker 5: just gonna clock in and clock out and that's pretty
24:27
Speaker 5: much it. And then there's jobs that you grow right
24:29
Speaker 5: where you want to be in there, you want to
24:31
Speaker 5: continue moving up the ladder of the corporate ladder because
24:34
Speaker 5: you see you where you're going, you're headed, and you're
24:37
Speaker 5: investing it because the company is investing back to you
24:39
Speaker 5: and your growth. So yeah, that's what I mean about
24:43
Speaker 5: the three types of relationships.
24:45
Speaker 2: Well, I learned something this evening, something that I already know,
24:51
Speaker 2: but just putting it in persons, we know what kind
24:55
Speaker 2: of relationships we should be going for. So I don't
24:59
Speaker 2: even have to ask one of those you feel are
25:01
Speaker 2: the most beneficial. I see you guys are growing and flourishing,
25:07
Speaker 2: So that's awesome. And so I wanted to touch on
25:12
Speaker 2: a little bit of something. And even when with you
25:14
Speaker 2: talking about the relationships that grow, most relationships are anything
25:22
Speaker 2: that grow, you have to invest in, right, there's investments.
25:27
Speaker 2: So I watched a little bit of one of your
25:30
Speaker 2: podcasts and you talked about investments and and and how
25:35
Speaker 2: you invest in things.
25:36
Speaker 4: Can you elaborate a little bit on that as well?
25:39
Speaker 5: Yeah, our mindset is the number one thing we heavily
25:43
Speaker 5: invest time money into is our relationship. We built our
25:48
Speaker 5: life around our relationship and that aspect, that's like whenever
25:52
Speaker 5: I'm in job or some time out.
25:55
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and I didn't want to interrupt something that
25:58
Speaker 2: you know, if I can put it on the screen.
26:01
Speaker 2: Build our life around our relationship, not built your relationship
26:07
Speaker 2: around the life you were living what you were used
26:09
Speaker 2: to Okay, I'm sorry.
26:11
Speaker 5: No, And that's key, right, because we grew up being
26:14
Speaker 5: told you go to college, we got a good education
26:17
Speaker 5: to get a good job, right, it's not. You need
26:20
Speaker 5: to learn how to build relationships so that you can
26:22
Speaker 5: be there for your life life partner so they can
26:24
Speaker 5: support you through the college whatever job, lack of job,
26:27
Speaker 5: so and so forth, and yeah, we learned that the
26:31
Speaker 5: hard way as well. But as soon as we learned it,
26:32
Speaker 5: we were like, hey, it's us us right here. And yeah,
26:36
Speaker 5: I've told my wife it doesn't matter if we go broke,
26:39
Speaker 5: as long as we invest into our relationship and it
26:41
Speaker 5: build our relationship. I'm more than willing to go ahead
26:44
Speaker 5: and invest into that as much as much as we need,
26:48
Speaker 5: as much as we can.
26:49
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, like literally our whole life now, it's
26:53
Speaker 6: the well we've designed it. So like even his job,
26:56
Speaker 6: you know, homeschooling the kids, we designed that, like me
27:00
Speaker 6: saying that being a stay at home mom. We decided that,
27:02
Speaker 6: like we let go of the superficial things that are
27:06
Speaker 6: in our life. Like we don't even have a second car.
27:09
Speaker 6: We have one car because we're like like if we
27:12
Speaker 6: get a second car, I'm gonna have to get a job.
27:14
Speaker 6: So we're like, no, there's no way, absolutely not, like
27:17
Speaker 6: we can do it with one. Like we don't need
27:19
Speaker 6: that kind of that kind of comfort because we want
27:24
Speaker 6: is what we invest in. Right, So, like like he said, like,
27:27
Speaker 6: if we go brokens, because we invested in a relationship
27:30
Speaker 6: the most.
27:32
Speaker 4: Yeah, I get that.
27:33
Speaker 2: And then I mean with you supporting each other where
27:35
Speaker 2: you can see if one needs the car, then they
27:37
Speaker 2: use it, the other one drops off and that's teamwork, right,
27:41
Speaker 2: nobody gets upset you didn't pick me up on time.
27:43
Speaker 2: We've communicated and coordinated what needs to happen and.
27:49
Speaker 6: Relationship, I mean even with business, like I'm sorry, but
27:54
Speaker 6: like you have no idea. This man is a business
27:57
Speaker 6: man and he's done so many businesses. And if I
28:01
Speaker 6: think if we hadn't, like if we hadn't invested in
28:04
Speaker 6: our relationship so much, like somebody else would have left
28:07
Speaker 6: them because it's like business after business, and I'm like, hey, like,
28:13
Speaker 6: as long as our relationship is first, I'll support you
28:17
Speaker 6: whatever you want, Like it doesn't.
28:19
Speaker 3: Matter that that's important.
28:22
Speaker 2: When you consider who somebody is in your life and
28:25
Speaker 2: they consider who you are and actually value that stuff
28:29
Speaker 2: that actually works. And even in that Mooses, I took
28:32
Speaker 2: a quote from you where you said, before you you know,
28:38
Speaker 2: go to invest anything you think about will this next
28:42
Speaker 2: decision affect my relationship? And I thought that that was
28:46
Speaker 2: very key because you didn't ask will it affect your job?
28:49
Speaker 2: Will it affect your bank account? You know what you
28:51
Speaker 2: want to know is the next make will it affect
28:55
Speaker 2: your relationship?
28:57
Speaker 3: Right?
28:57
Speaker 4: And that means that you have consult to your wife enough.
29:01
Speaker 2: You have talked to her enough, you've studied and understood
29:04
Speaker 2: the dynamics of your relationship enough to you know that
29:08
Speaker 2: is your first thought. That, as you said, this is
29:10
Speaker 2: our foundation that we've built our life around our relationship.
29:13
Speaker 2: So therefore if something goes wrong and a lot could
29:16
Speaker 2: break apart. Right, But let me ask you this question.
29:19
Speaker 2: So I had a top conversation with one of my
29:21
Speaker 2: friends some years back, and I was talking about one
29:25
Speaker 2: of my fieled relationships, and his advice to me was, well,
29:29
Speaker 2: you got to consider it like this. In any investment,
29:33
Speaker 2: there's a fifty to fifty chance of you not getting
29:36
Speaker 2: your return back. You know, you just you invest, but
29:39
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean you'll get a return back. Now, how
29:43
Speaker 2: do you feel about that? Because I, you know, I
29:45
Speaker 2: have my thoughts about fifty to fifty and all that.
29:48
Speaker 2: But again, how much you put in is how much
29:52
Speaker 2: you should get back, right, But that does in all investments.
29:55
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that? As far as how
29:57
Speaker 2: much you invest in your relationship? Do you see your turn?
30:00
Speaker 2: Do you see a reciprocate. I know that there's some
30:02
Speaker 2: things that you have to work on, But how do
30:04
Speaker 2: you feel about investing your all in your relationship?
30:07
Speaker 4: How has that worked.
30:10
Speaker 5: For us? Magnificent. It's one of those things where in
30:15
Speaker 5: a relationship, if you can't invest one hundred percent of
30:18
Speaker 5: what you can you if you if you do, if
30:21
Speaker 5: you go that route, you may get fifty percent. If
30:24
Speaker 5: you go anything below that, then your chances of getting
30:27
Speaker 5: even fifty percent diminished, you may get zero. Because when
30:31
Speaker 5: it comes to a relationship, you invest one hundred percent
30:34
Speaker 5: of what you can.
30:35
Speaker 1: Right.
30:36
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's me who can invest more than her. Sometimes
30:39
Speaker 5: it's her that can invest more than I can, depending
30:41
Speaker 5: on what circumstances we are currently going through with her
30:45
Speaker 5: with homeschooling and you stay home mom and taking care
30:48
Speaker 5: of three little girls, and me with work and the
30:52
Speaker 5: book and and things like that. However, what we've seen
30:57
Speaker 5: is as long as we keep that one investment intact
31:00
Speaker 5: above everything else, we always consider each other. We always
31:04
Speaker 5: tell each other, hey, how is this going to affect us?
31:07
Speaker 5: I'm thinking of doing this, I'm thinking of doing that,
31:09
Speaker 5: And we continue to invest in each other. We completely
31:14
Speaker 5: invest everything. Really, we put a lot of relationships aside,
31:18
Speaker 5: and this may trigger some people, but even the relationship
31:21
Speaker 5: with our kiddos, they have to known and that come first,
31:26
Speaker 5: because if we're not here, we're not here, then believe
31:29
Speaker 5: me that relationship that we have with our kiddos is broken.
31:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just trying to keep the relationship right exactly.
31:38
Speaker 5: Tonight's exactly. It's the way that I see it is
31:43
Speaker 5: I'm a king and choose a queen, right, and we
31:45
Speaker 5: are putting our kingdom. Yeah, and what's the best way
31:52
Speaker 5: for the for the king to protect is to make
31:54
Speaker 5: sure that the king and queen are together, right, that
31:58
Speaker 5: we are seeing not by the people that are in
32:01
Speaker 5: our care, which is our family right in our village,
32:03
Speaker 5: that we are cohesive, that we're together, that we're communicating,
32:06
Speaker 5: that nothing is going to break us apart, no matter
32:09
Speaker 5: how hard they tried, because we're solid and.
32:12
Speaker 4: You're running your kingdom. Makes that a unanimous decision.
32:16
Speaker 1: Exactly.
32:17
Speaker 2: So that's that's I believe that's how it's supposed to go.
32:20
Speaker 2: Trump take note, Jaz Is there anything I mean? I
32:25
Speaker 2: could go all day again. I have other things and
32:27
Speaker 2: they keep saying stuff that just sparks, But I don't
32:29
Speaker 2: want to run out of time.
32:30
Speaker 4: Jesse, I know you had anything, please.
32:34
Speaker 3: Oh no, I mean all of my questions have really
32:36
Speaker 3: been answered, which is the point of this discussion, Like
32:39
Speaker 3: I had some, but no, they've answered everything. It's I
32:43
Speaker 3: agree with everything that they have said, and they are
32:46
Speaker 3: definitely uh a relationship that I am striving to be
32:51
Speaker 3: to be like when I grow up.
32:53
Speaker 2: Okay, the moments that came through from Carlene and she
33:00
Speaker 2: says God first, and I wanted to go ahead and
33:03
Speaker 2: draw that because moistis that was one of the things
33:05
Speaker 2: you did say that I didn't point that out, but
33:07
Speaker 2: let's not forget God.
33:08
Speaker 4: Let's not do forget that.
33:10
Speaker 2: When you said, you know, it's very important to invest
33:13
Speaker 2: and have your relationship with your maiden stuff, one of
33:16
Speaker 2: the things you pointed out was well first and foremost God.
33:19
Speaker 4: First, your relationship with God first. So you definitely did
33:22
Speaker 4: say that.
33:23
Speaker 2: So I want to make that a point that you know,
33:25
Speaker 2: God does have to be the head of everything for
33:28
Speaker 2: anything to work, right, So if I can.
33:31
Speaker 6: Say something like I feel like that's what really helped
33:34
Speaker 6: me be more submissive to my husband, that I knew
33:39
Speaker 6: that he was being led by God, that his relationship
33:45
Speaker 6: with God is huge, it's beautiful, and that if anything
33:51
Speaker 6: like being led by God. So God leads me all
33:56
Speaker 6: the time. So I'm like, you know, I understand, I
34:00
Speaker 6: trust and and I let him do his thing. And
34:03
Speaker 6: I'm like, as long as you're being led by God,
34:06
Speaker 6: I will submit to you to the fullest. And I
34:10
Speaker 6: know that triggers a lot of women. But when your
34:13
Speaker 6: man truly like you will see it, when you can
34:16
Speaker 6: truly see him, be in it, at peace and this
34:19
Speaker 6: beautiful relationship with God, like you you feel, and there's
34:25
Speaker 6: no need for you to bring out your the the
34:28
Speaker 6: masculine side of you because now your man is yeah,
34:31
Speaker 6: like now your man is.
34:32
Speaker 5: Taking care of that yes ship, and that crowd is earned.
34:38
Speaker 5: That's what's one thing that I told the guys that
34:40
Speaker 5: that that crown of king that is earned.
34:43
Speaker 1: Man.
34:44
Speaker 5: It's not something that is just a given that because
34:46
Speaker 5: he says in the Bible, wife the men too, husbands,
34:50
Speaker 5: you earn it.
34:52
Speaker 4: Well. A lot of.
34:53
Speaker 2: People feel the as of some things, you know, like
34:57
Speaker 2: the and they're just supposed to inherit.
34:59
Speaker 4: Some royal I mean, we have we have in our bloodline.
35:04
Speaker 2: But you know, faith without works is dead so we
35:08
Speaker 2: still have to do our parts. So yeah, I just
35:11
Speaker 2: I really appreciate you guys sharing all those things. I
35:14
Speaker 2: see that we're hitting more so I don't want anything
35:17
Speaker 2: to get cut off. But is there any type of
35:20
Speaker 2: closing message you like to give our folks in just
35:24
Speaker 2: learning love language, receiving it, giving it, how to stay together?
35:28
Speaker 2: Can you give us anything before we get all into
35:30
Speaker 2: your contact information?
35:32
Speaker 3: Yeah?
35:32
Speaker 5: Of course. I think the number one tip that we
35:34
Speaker 5: always continue to get people is your marriage has to win.
35:38
Speaker 5: No matter what, your marriage has to win, not you
35:41
Speaker 5: as a spouse or not not your partner, it's your marriage,
35:44
Speaker 5: meaning that two of you together, not just one or
35:48
Speaker 5: the other. The jervising you can to make your marriage win.
35:52
Speaker 4: And there's a king and on a throne to run
35:55
Speaker 4: a kingdom. Yeah yeah, otherwise I might just go getting apartment.
36:00
Speaker 3: Okay, like okay, bye, If I.
36:09
Speaker 6: Could just say one little thing when he was when
36:12
Speaker 6: we were talking about, you know, the fifty to fifty,
36:16
Speaker 6: just remember that there's going to be days where you
36:19
Speaker 6: can only give twenty percent and your spells will have
36:25
Speaker 6: to give the sixty. But it's the communication of like,
36:28
Speaker 6: hey babe, I've only got like thirty percent of me
36:31
Speaker 6: right now? Are you able to handle the rest instead
36:35
Speaker 6: of just the expectation of like he sees me that
36:38
Speaker 6: I'm overwhelmed, he sees it, I'm like screaming and yelling
36:41
Speaker 6: at It's like can you handle it?
36:44
Speaker 4: No? Like can you speak to me in some service.
36:48
Speaker 6: It's like it's coming in and saying, hey, I'm at
36:51
Speaker 6: this level. Are you able to take caress? And then
36:55
Speaker 6: I mean mine does it all the time. Like he
36:58
Speaker 6: we've connected so much, said I don't even have to
37:01
Speaker 6: ask anymore, honestly the right. But it took years of
37:05
Speaker 6: connection and communication, so don't expect them to just do it.
37:10
Speaker 6: Like it's a lot of talking to each other and
37:14
Speaker 6: giving each other the space be able to connect.
37:18
Speaker 3: And communicating that though, one thing.
37:20
Speaker 2: I keep hearing that you guys, is that you're communicating.
37:24
Speaker 2: In that space of communicating, you know, there is something
37:27
Speaker 2: called vulnerability because.
37:29
Speaker 4: You have to.
37:30
Speaker 2: And that's why him being such a safe space for
37:32
Speaker 2: you allowing you to be vulnerable, and vice versa apparently
37:35
Speaker 2: for him being vulnerable. You know, it takes vulnerability to
37:39
Speaker 2: tell somebody that you need them to do something instead
37:42
Speaker 2: of you know, staying in your prideful mind and saying
37:45
Speaker 2: they see me.
37:45
Speaker 4: Struggling, like why should I have to ask?
37:47
Speaker 6: Right?
37:48
Speaker 2: But sometimes you do because there's that ratio that I
37:52
Speaker 2: can only give ad and I'm glad that you brought
37:55
Speaker 2: that up. I can't really discuss it, but because we're
37:57
Speaker 2: running out of time. But there was a discussion about
38:00
Speaker 2: eighty twenty, right, if you can't give one hundred percent,
38:02
Speaker 2: is that okay? And the moral of that discussion was
38:05
Speaker 2: some people put that twenty part of whatever parts of
38:08
Speaker 2: twenty percent and eighty percent and vice versa. So what
38:11
Speaker 2: you think you're really getting less of is really given
38:14
Speaker 2: in a different way seeing that, so you're putting it
38:17
Speaker 2: in the twenty percent and saying you're not getting that,
38:19
Speaker 2: you know, or vice versa.
38:20
Speaker 4: However you want to speak it. So you may be
38:23
Speaker 4: getting eighty and twenty.
38:24
Speaker 2: But just as you just explained it, you got to
38:27
Speaker 2: give grace for that, you know, and then you got
38:30
Speaker 2: to be able to communicate that. But on the flip side,
38:33
Speaker 2: your partner has to make you feel safe enough to
38:35
Speaker 2: feel vulnerable enough to say I ain't got it, because
38:40
Speaker 2: if your partner makes you feel like you're in survival
38:42
Speaker 2: mode all the time, to just be like, I ain't
38:44
Speaker 2: got it, but i'll get it, you know, I'll do it.
38:48
Speaker 2: Streuss to you, which you know ultimately will bring on
38:51
Speaker 2: stress to your relationship. And now you're secretly mad at
38:54
Speaker 2: your partner and they have no idea why you threw
38:56
Speaker 2: a house shoe at them when you said good morning.
39:00
Speaker 2: You know, but that communication is key, and people got
39:03
Speaker 2: to learn how to communicate. So definitely effective communication, learning
39:08
Speaker 2: how to bring that down, but creating a safe space
39:11
Speaker 2: in your relationship to be able to do so.
39:13
Speaker 4: And I'm sorry.
39:14
Speaker 2: You've been been together how long in totality twelve years
39:21
Speaker 2: and married seven?
39:23
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I.
39:29
Speaker 4: See what I'm talking about.
39:30
Speaker 2: It's still one car and children later and able to
39:34
Speaker 2: homeschool and working hard and got.
39:37
Speaker 4: Some other things going on. So while we're.
39:39
Speaker 2: Going into that, before I start a whole other conversation,
39:45
Speaker 2: why don't you tell us your contact information and tell
39:47
Speaker 2: us some things you got going on with so we
39:48
Speaker 2: can follow you and follow.
39:50
Speaker 4: Up on your podcast.
39:53
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can follow me on Facebook. It's on Facebook.
39:58
Speaker 5: On Instagram is doing a raw underscore Rico.
40:03
Speaker 6: Yeah, my name is bringing Rico on Facebook and Instagram
40:07
Speaker 6: is doing a raw underscore breathe. And we also have
40:11
Speaker 6: a podcast doing a raw relationship Goals, which is on
40:14
Speaker 6: YouTube within the next couple of weeks. It's also going
40:18
Speaker 6: to be airing on Roku in the Prosper TV network.
40:23
Speaker 6: Yang their book, I mean, and I'm so proud of
40:27
Speaker 6: my husband because again, like he he can't receive a
40:31
Speaker 6: lot of stuff, but I just I'm always like, you
40:35
Speaker 6: are amazing, Like come on, So him and some other
40:39
Speaker 6: men they did they co author a book called Surrender
40:43
Speaker 6: to Rice King's Edition, So this is all all guys,
40:48
Speaker 6: and they told their story of surrender to God.
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Speaker 4: So it is amazing growing with this relationship.
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Speaker 5: Okay, it's the name of your book again, I'm sorry,
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Speaker 5: Surrender to Rise Edition and.
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Speaker 6: Show your Crown dot Com.
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Speaker 4: Awesome, Show your Crown dot Com.
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Speaker 2: Okay, well, of course I have all your information. I'll
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Speaker 2: be sharing that on my page y'all who are missing
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Speaker 2: it right now? But we definitely need to celebrate and
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Speaker 2: it's a young couple that's growing together in their kingdom. Okay.
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Speaker 2: And we look forward to seeing just better things and
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Speaker 2: other things. And Brie, I know that you are an
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Speaker 2: upcoming speaker, so I look forward to to how many
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Speaker 2: women you can teach and reach and both of you
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Speaker 2: just building your kingdom. And I am so honored to
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Speaker 2: have you both on on my show and as well
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Speaker 2: as on a show of this topic. I think you
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Speaker 2: really were able to give some good tips and help
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Speaker 2: some people understand about singing, giving and those things. And communication,
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Speaker 2: please communication, learn how to communicate, okay. So and then
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Speaker 2: you know, think about what type of relationships you're trying
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Speaker 2: to get, keep and grow.
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Speaker 4: That's something that you need to identify too.
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Speaker 2: So also on the receiving end, other people partners, realize
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Speaker 2: what type of relationship you're in with somebody trying to
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Speaker 2: just get something, keep something for a reason, or grow
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Speaker 2: with you. So learn those love languages, the words of
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Speaker 2: aspas and touch gifts.
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Speaker 4: Those things.
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Speaker 2: Learn that if with your partners, see if your partner
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Speaker 2: is investing in things like that. We've said a lot
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Speaker 2: of key words on successful relationships. So I hope you
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Speaker 2: guys enjoyed our show this evening. Bree and Rico, I'm
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Speaker 2: sorry Bree and Moys's Rico, the Ricos, thank you so much.
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Speaker 2: We look forward to your ROCU show too. Please reconnect
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Speaker 2: with me, let me know how that's going. Maybe we
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Speaker 2: can get an update and see how that's going. See
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Speaker 2: see who else you were able to reach and teach,
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Speaker 2: and maybe come back and do a little update, see
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Speaker 2: what's going on with you guys. Okay, thank you and Jazzy,
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Speaker 2: thank you for co hosting with me today. I know,
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Speaker 2: I know you told me you had some questions, but
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Speaker 2: they did so well. I mean yeah, right as to
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Speaker 2: ask the questions, we just have no conversation, so.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, they got answered. That's all good. I'm good, were good.
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Speaker 5: Thank you guys.
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Speaker 2: I hope you enjoyed another episode of Bad to Business
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Speaker 2: and what we brought.
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Speaker 4: To the business people. Tonight anotherisode.
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Speaker 2: I'll be posting some things and again, like I said,
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Speaker 2: I'll be posting some things on how to connect with
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Speaker 2: the ricos and follow them on their new Roku streaming journey,
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Speaker 2: is what I'm gonna say, because I believe bigger than that,
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Speaker 2: I'll be there too.
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Speaker 4: I know them, I know them, So.
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Speaker 3: Everyone all right, hope you all have a good night.
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Speaker 4: Thank you for wanting me.
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Speaker 3: See y'all later.