Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Misinformation, TikTok and Birth Control
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Hanny and Samantha and welcome stuff. I've
- 0:07Speaker 1: never told you aflecture of iHeart Radio, and we are
- 0:19Speaker 1: once again thrilled to be joined by the intrepid, the
- 0:21Speaker 1: insightful Bridget Todd. Welcome Bridget.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for having me. Love the I descriptor
- 0:28Speaker 2: word theme very alliterative.
- 0:31Speaker 1: Thank you. I've been trying to think of new words.
- 0:35Speaker 1: Helps me sleep at night sometimes. Yes, how have you been, Bridget,
- 0:44Speaker 1: I'm doing well.
- 0:45Speaker 3: We were talking off Mike a little bit about how
- 0:48Speaker 3: I feel like.
- 0:49Speaker 4: So.
- 0:49Speaker 2: I love Halloween, I love fall. October is my favorite month.
- 0:53Speaker 2: But I do feel that it took spooky season a
- 0:56Speaker 2: little bit of time to really take and I feel
- 0:59Speaker 2: it's just I'm just now starting to feel the spooky
- 1:01Speaker 2: season vibes. I watched a horror movie under a blanket
- 1:04Speaker 2: last night, so I'll really trying to get my Halloween
- 1:07Speaker 2: vibes on.
- 1:09Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I feel the same way. I am a
- 1:12Speaker 1: huge Halloween person. I love October. I love the weather,
- 1:17Speaker 1: and there's been some really great horror movie watching weather lately.
- 1:20Speaker 1: But it took a minute for me to set in
- 1:22Speaker 1: and now I'm trying to I have a lot of
- 1:25Speaker 1: horror movies on my list that I've got to get through.
- 1:31Speaker 1: It's kind of daunting, but I'm sure that I will
- 1:33Speaker 1: do it. Yes, I have. So are you a big
- 1:39Speaker 1: horror movie person, Bridget? Is this something that's new? I
- 1:42Speaker 1: have long time habit that you have.
- 1:45Speaker 3: I love horror movies. I like that. I mean, I obviously.
- 1:49Speaker 2: Like elevated horror, I love Hereditari, I love Midsummer all
- 1:53Speaker 2: that I like. But I also have a soft spot
- 1:56Speaker 2: for just bad, campy horror as well.
- 2:00Speaker 3: There's just something about.
- 2:02Speaker 2: A late eighties early nineties horror movie that gets me.
- 2:06Speaker 3: I do like it. How about you? How about you all?
- 2:10Speaker 5: Oh?
- 2:12Speaker 1: I have tried to figure this out with a good
- 2:14Speaker 1: friend of mine who we've enjoyed horror since we were
- 2:18Speaker 1: eight or nine years old. Where did that come from?
- 2:21Speaker 1: Because it's not our families don't like it. We're the
- 2:25Speaker 1: only ones in our families that like it. But I
- 2:27Speaker 1: was sneaking into horror movies when I was nine years old.
- 2:30Speaker 1: I was playing these horror games when I was nine
- 2:31Speaker 1: years old. I don't know. The most scientific explanation I
- 2:38Speaker 1: can give is that I also really love roller coasters.
- 2:43Speaker 1: And there's a scientific reason for loving things like that.
- 2:46Speaker 1: It's called you stress, and it's like a safe stress.
- 2:49Speaker 1: It feels like a safe place to relieve stress. I
- 2:54Speaker 1: don't know why at nine years old that was something
- 2:57Speaker 1: that I felt I needed. But I've been into it
- 3:01Speaker 1: for a very, very long time, and I have so
- 3:05Speaker 1: many horror movies now. I love the elevated horror, I
- 3:08Speaker 1: love dissecting horror, and I love campy horror too. We
- 3:12Speaker 1: were talking about this before. I have delved the dips.
- 3:15Speaker 1: I have found some things no one knows what I'm
- 3:18Speaker 1: talking about. You surely have, some of which we've talked
- 3:22Speaker 1: about on this show.
- 3:23Speaker 4: Yes, and we will continue to talk about on this
- 3:25Speaker 4: show soon as in fact, I think but yeah, I
- 3:30Speaker 4: think it has something to do with also the same
- 3:31Speaker 4: people who love like crime shows as well as the
- 3:35Speaker 4: single who love to cry and just be completely destroyed
- 3:39Speaker 4: by a show or a movie. There's something therapeutic and
- 3:43Speaker 4: being able to see it, live it, but not be
- 3:46Speaker 4: a part of it. I have a conversation in this
- 3:48Speaker 4: kind of the whole horror movie film. For me, I'm
- 3:51Speaker 4: very specific in my horror movies. I don't like slasher films.
- 3:55Speaker 6: I never have.
- 3:57Speaker 4: I don't like any so it was never really big
- 3:59Speaker 4: in the ninth these like Halloween, not even the Fridi
- 4:02Speaker 4: Kuger movies because it was just too much for me.
- 4:05Speaker 4: But I love a good haunting. I love a good
- 4:08Speaker 4: possession movie, which is odd. I remember also watching a
- 4:11Speaker 4: couple like a good friend of mine and I would
- 4:13Speaker 4: watch all of the the Bad Things at her house,
- 4:15Speaker 4: like that was the thing. You know, you have that
- 4:17Speaker 4: one friend where you know you can get away with
- 4:20Speaker 4: the MTV watching when your religious parents would not let you.
- 4:23Speaker 4: And also the horror movies, which are like, you know,
- 4:25Speaker 4: you're inviting demons into your mind type of conversation. But
- 4:29Speaker 4: we would watch some of the oddest ones, and I
- 4:31Speaker 4: don't even remember half of them because they were so
- 4:34Speaker 4: like out of the realm. It wasn't like we weren't
- 4:36Speaker 4: watching Grimlins. It wasn't that it was something like CAMPI
- 4:39Speaker 4: or like we would watch the dude from Grimlins. We
- 4:41Speaker 4: would watch him in a lot of other horror movies
- 4:44Speaker 4: that I don't know the name of. One of them
- 4:45Speaker 4: was like House of Wax. So it was the nine
- 4:48Speaker 4: eighties nineties rendition of House of Wax, which kind of
- 4:50Speaker 4: scarred me. And then also there was a movie with
- 4:54Speaker 4: clowns that scared me. And then another movie where the
- 4:56Speaker 4: ending is a woman serving these people pies and face explodes,
- 5:01Speaker 4: like that's the ending, And like the the main character
- 5:05Speaker 4: who's a white woman and a black man walk out
- 5:08Speaker 4: all covered in like bruises because you know they've been
- 5:10Speaker 4: through hell, and you see them walking off into the
- 5:13Speaker 4: road into the sun. But you see this scene of
- 5:15Speaker 4: this old white woman killing her husband somehow by making
- 5:19Speaker 4: his face explode because of apple pie.
- 5:22Speaker 6: Do you know a movie I'm talking.
- 5:22Speaker 3: About any I have no idea any of you.
- 5:25Speaker 1: I don't know specifically a movie you're talking about. What
- 5:29Speaker 1: there is a movie that is similar called The Stuff.
- 5:33Speaker 6: I wonder if something like that.
- 5:34Speaker 4: So, like, I have memories of those types of movies
- 5:36Speaker 4: that still play in my mind, obviously because I'm telling
- 5:39Speaker 4: you about it. But those are the types of movies
- 5:41Speaker 4: that I remember watching and loving. And they were all
- 5:44Speaker 4: VHS recordings I don't know from where again.
- 5:47Speaker 6: We would watch that. We were all the same.
- 5:50Speaker 4: We were also the same group of people who would
- 5:52Speaker 4: get that scary tales or scary stories in the mountains
- 5:56Speaker 4: of Appalachian mountain stories and read it to each other
- 5:59Speaker 4: in the middle of the woods. It's in the trailer
- 6:01Speaker 4: by ourselves at nine o'clock at night. And what I
- 6:04Speaker 4: would think is one of the most haunted places because
- 6:06Speaker 4: all I see is pictures of old people, like faded
- 6:08Speaker 4: old pictures everywhere.
- 6:09Speaker 6: With like Christian memorabilia.
- 6:12Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure it was haunted and we were like
- 6:15Speaker 4: really testing the ghost there.
- 6:16Speaker 6: So but those are the time I don't know what.
- 6:18Speaker 4: That's what I like more than anything else, and I
- 6:21Speaker 4: will find a way to like, yes, let's get into that.
- 6:24Speaker 6: Is it scary scary or is it kind of catchy scary?
- 6:28Speaker 2: What's funny to me is both of you had to
- 6:30Speaker 2: sneak to watch horror as youth. I grew up in
- 6:34Speaker 2: the opposite household I was. My dad was the person
- 6:37Speaker 2: who was taking a much too young child to the
- 6:41Speaker 2: theater to see horror movies, and we would this, this
- 6:44Speaker 2: is not gonna make him sound like a great parent,
- 6:46Speaker 2: which I swear he was, but we would stay up
- 6:50Speaker 2: late to watch Tales from the Crypt together, which to
- 6:53Speaker 2: this day I loved Tails from the Crypt. It's hard
- 6:56Speaker 2: to find. You can watch it probably bootleg on YouTube.
- 7:00Speaker 2: But there was a time in my life like maybe
- 7:03Speaker 2: a year ago when I was having a really tough time,
- 7:05Speaker 2: and I was like, would it be weird to buy
- 7:08Speaker 2: myself a cameo from the Cryptkeeper where it's just like
- 7:11Speaker 2: a cameo to me from me, where the Cryptkeeper is
- 7:16Speaker 2: giving me a message.
- 7:17Speaker 3: Would that be weird? I decided it would be.
- 7:19Speaker 2: But like, that's how much I love Tales from the
- 7:21Speaker 2: Crypt and horror anthology in general.
- 7:24Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know, I remember, as you say that,
- 7:25Speaker 4: I remember sneaking episodes of that as well as the
- 7:30Speaker 4: newer Twilight Zone.
- 7:31Speaker 6: Do you know what I'm talking about.
- 7:32Speaker 4: It wasn't the old one, it was a newer version
- 7:34Speaker 4: that also really twisted, Like I remember the Lottery was
- 7:39Speaker 4: do you know what I'm talking about? That episode of
- 7:41Speaker 4: the Lottery on the Twilight Zone and everything ends up bad,
- 7:44Speaker 4: kind of the same thing with a caper, and I
- 7:46Speaker 4: remember a haunted house on that one, Like I remember
- 7:49Speaker 4: those episocause they were like short shots of something haunting.
- 7:54Speaker 6: That never really had a good ending. And you're just
- 7:57Speaker 6: like me more than that.
- 8:02Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a sucker for the Twilight Zone and horror
- 8:05Speaker 2: anthologies in general where it has some sort of a
- 8:07Speaker 2: twist ending where oh no, it was.
- 8:11Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying.
- 8:12Speaker 5: It's like, oh yeah, yeah, like the real monsters were.
- 8:24Speaker 3: Man all I love. I'm a sucker for a like
- 8:30Speaker 3: artistic twist.
- 8:32Speaker 2: And they even make one of them on the Futurama
- 8:34Speaker 2: where time enough to read.
- 8:36Speaker 3: I broke my glasses. Oh well, I can still read
- 8:39Speaker 3: the large the large print books. My eyes fell out.
- 8:43Speaker 3: I'm a sucker for that.
- 8:45Speaker 4: Yes, well, I think you should also definitely buy that
- 8:47Speaker 4: cameo because sometimes you just need a pep talk. I
- 8:50Speaker 4: may not have that in one of your favorite like
- 8:53Speaker 4: childhood memories.
- 8:53Speaker 6: That's the best.
- 8:55Speaker 3: Oh my god.
- 8:55Speaker 2: When I was a kid, I used to do a
- 8:56Speaker 2: cryptkeeper impression. I used to do this is so such
- 9:00Speaker 2: a tangent impressions of the crypt keeper and the way
- 9:03Speaker 2: that the Martians speak on Mars attacks.
- 9:06Speaker 3: And my brother would die laughing. You would be bowled over.
- 9:10Speaker 3: That was.
- 9:10Speaker 2: Those are my two the two impressions I had when
- 9:13Speaker 2: I was a child.
- 9:14Speaker 6: I wanted.
- 9:19Speaker 2: To extra money doing a crypt Keeper cameos.
- 9:24Speaker 4: I would be there, I'd been why, I would pay Yes, yes,
- 9:29Speaker 4: this through this?
- 9:31Speaker 1: Oh wow, I love that so much. Oh well, this
- 9:37Speaker 1: is kind of an unfortunate segue. But it is true
- 9:41Speaker 1: that every time Halloween comes around there's kind of a
- 9:44Speaker 1: strange tension for me because usually there's both an election
- 9:48Speaker 1: coming up, but also, uh you know, when you talk
- 9:54Speaker 1: about like what you're really afraid of, there's sort of
- 9:59Speaker 1: the horror movie answer, which is very scary, and then
- 10:03Speaker 1: there's like the real world answer that we're living in,
- 10:07Speaker 1: which is also scary. Uh So it's sort of every
- 10:11Speaker 1: time I'm always like, I love this more Halloween seasonal
- 10:16Speaker 1: horror movie thing, but there's also this real world horrific
- 10:20Speaker 1: thing that's happening.
- 10:22Speaker 3: Oh yes, yeah, what a scarier than things like misinformation?
- 10:30Speaker 1: I mean, if there could be an evil cackle right now,
- 10:33Speaker 1: there should be.
- 10:41Speaker 4: Amazing, we're gonna we're gonna say use that as like
- 10:47Speaker 4: a meme or something. I don't know how to do
- 10:50Speaker 4: with this. Someone put it as a sound cover.
- 10:53Speaker 1: That was amazing so much. But yes, we are talking
- 10:58Speaker 1: about a lot of information today, and specifically around a
- 11:04Speaker 1: certain topic, right, bridget.
- 11:06Speaker 2: That is right because if y'all have spent any time
- 11:09Speaker 2: at all on TikTok lately, I probably don't need to
- 11:12Speaker 2: tell you that social media platforms are awash in misinformation
- 11:17Speaker 2: about hormonal birth control. And I actually find it interesting
- 11:23Speaker 2: but also kind of very telling that I'm not talking
- 11:26Speaker 2: about content that is warning about some specific side effect
- 11:30Speaker 2: really about birth control. What I'm talking about is sort
- 11:34Speaker 2: of this content that has a fit looking young woman
- 11:38Speaker 2: influencer type promising that you will kind of get a
- 11:41Speaker 2: vague feeling of feeling more like you if you go
- 11:46Speaker 2: off birth control. And so the question they sort of
- 11:48Speaker 2: ask is, who am I without birth control? Will I
- 11:51Speaker 2: feel some sort of a positive difference if I stop
- 11:54Speaker 2: using it?
- 11:55Speaker 1: Yeah? And you know this is not new, but it's
- 11:57Speaker 1: definitely been amplified by social media and these influencer as
- 12:03Speaker 1: spreading the message.
- 12:04Speaker 2: Oh yes, And I guess that like the thing that
- 12:07Speaker 2: social media is specifically flooded with is this sort of
- 12:10Speaker 2: vibe based reasoning for coming off birth control? Right, It's
- 12:13Speaker 2: not I'm having this specific side effect or this specific
- 12:16Speaker 2: issue or use case.
- 12:18Speaker 3: It's no. The vibes are all are terrible for birth control.
- 12:21Speaker 2: And there was a really great piece in the New
- 12:23Speaker 2: York Times called who Am I Without birth Control? That
- 12:27Speaker 2: I looked at that really examines how misinformation around birth
- 12:31Speaker 2: control is impacting real women. They chronicled a young woman
- 12:35Speaker 2: named Ashley, who was twenty six. They write she had
- 12:37Speaker 2: started taking birth control pills a decade earlier, when she
- 12:40Speaker 2: was fifteen. Now, as she browsed her social media feeds,
- 12:43Speaker 2: she kept stumbling on videos of women saying how much
- 12:46Speaker 2: better they felt when they stopped taking the pill, content
- 12:50Speaker 2: she was not seeking out. The post typically went like this,
- 12:53Speaker 2: a glowing blonde and a workout top the picture of health,
- 12:57Speaker 2: saying that she stopped taking birth control pills and immediately
- 13:00Speaker 2: felt more clarity of mind, like an emotional fog had lifted,
- 13:05Speaker 2: like she was a brand new, much happier person. So Ashley,
- 13:09Speaker 2: seeing all of this, decides to go off birth control
- 13:12Speaker 2: pills cult Turkey, which is not recommended by doctors, even
- 13:16Speaker 2: though she is in a newish relationship with someone and
- 13:19Speaker 2: they both agreed it is too early to even be
- 13:21Speaker 2: thinking of about kids. So who is Ashley without birth control? Well,
- 13:26Speaker 2: turns out she's a mom because just one year after
- 13:29Speaker 2: she stopped taking your pill, those pills, she became a mother.
- 13:33Speaker 3: Her baby was four months old when that article was written.
- 13:36Speaker 2: And so I thought that was such a funny way
- 13:39Speaker 2: for the article to start, thinking that if I go
- 13:42Speaker 2: off the pill, I'll have some vaguely better life, and
- 13:46Speaker 2: it's like, no.
- 13:46Speaker 3: Who are you not on the pill?
- 13:48Speaker 2: Probably a parent, to be honest, if you're having sex,
- 13:51Speaker 2: probably a parent.
- 13:54Speaker 6: A mean and then other things.
- 14:08Speaker 4: There's so much to this conversation because I think we've
- 14:12Speaker 4: already kind of hinted towards things like this in our
- 14:15Speaker 4: talk about chidwives, and then also the yoga pipeline, the
- 14:22Speaker 4: influencers in that wellness circle where we talk about this
- 14:27Speaker 4: level of misinformation and being like, if you do all
- 14:30Speaker 4: these things naturally that you're going to be so blessed
- 14:33Speaker 4: with just being a stay at home mom and being
- 14:36Speaker 4: able to take care of your family and yourself, you're
- 14:38Speaker 4: going to feel healthy and light and young and feel complete.
- 14:42Speaker 6: But all this is in a rhetoric.
- 14:44Speaker 4: To a very very dangerous conversation about the loss of
- 14:49Speaker 4: rights for those who are marginalized and specifically those who
- 14:52Speaker 4: have uteresses in this moment. But they are really doing
- 14:56Speaker 4: a great job and changing, like feminism is is being
- 15:00Speaker 4: able to be a MoMA, stay at home. Wouldn't you
- 15:02Speaker 4: rather do that than have to struggle by yourself in
- 15:05Speaker 4: a world that doesn't appreciate you. Type of conversation, so
- 15:08Speaker 4: it seems like this is one more narrative for the
- 15:11Speaker 4: wellness chain, which is an odd and very tricky, tricky conversation.
- 15:17Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you put that so well, and you know,
- 15:20Speaker 2: there is nothing wrong with wanting to become a parent.
- 15:22Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with staying at home and not doing
- 15:25Speaker 2: wage earning work if that is your choice and you
- 15:27Speaker 2: can swing it. All of those things are great, and
- 15:30Speaker 2: the point of feminism is that people should be able
- 15:32Speaker 2: to have the choices that work for them. However, having
- 15:36Speaker 2: an entire media ecosystem that essentially rebrands having less control
- 15:42Speaker 2: and less autonomy into good things is not a dynamic
- 15:46Speaker 2: where people get to make their own decisions. Really, when
- 15:49Speaker 2: you are being algorithmically fed and serviced. Because remember Ashley
- 15:53Speaker 2: said that she was not even seeking out content about
- 15:56Speaker 2: the dangers of birth control, that content found her. When
- 15:59Speaker 2: you are a wash in that kind of rhetoric and
- 16:02Speaker 2: that kind of misinformation, I would argue that you are
- 16:04Speaker 2: not really in a dynamic where you're able to make
- 16:07Speaker 2: real choices for yourself. And yeah, social media content and podcasts,
- 16:12Speaker 2: they are an entire media ecosystem spreading and amplifying misinformation
- 16:18Speaker 2: about birth control and interestingly, they're not exuplicitly warning against
- 16:23Speaker 2: birth control for religious or political reasons, right the same way, Sam,
- 16:27Speaker 2: that you were saying, Oh, it's so easy these days
- 16:30Speaker 2: to just have a.
- 16:31Speaker 3: Boi'm just into yoga and wellness.
- 16:33Speaker 2: Three swipes later and you're looking at Nazi content, right, Like,
- 16:39Speaker 2: it's so easy and a lot of that stuff. They're
- 16:42Speaker 2: able to use things that feel not non political and
- 16:47Speaker 2: they're not being talked about exuplicitly as political, but they
- 16:50Speaker 2: are political. And so with this kind of birth control
- 16:53Speaker 2: misinformation that we're seeing increasingly on social media, it doesn't
- 16:56Speaker 2: come out and say, hey, we're anti birth control for
- 16:58Speaker 2: political or religious reason. It's because birth control is bad
- 17:03Speaker 2: for you. And so I think that that is a
- 17:07Speaker 2: pretty insidious approach because just like wellness other kinds of wellness,
- 17:12Speaker 2: it doesn't just appeal to people who are political or religious,
- 17:16Speaker 2: it also just appeals to people who are concerned about
- 17:18Speaker 2: their overall.
- 17:18Speaker 3: Health or wellness.
- 17:19Speaker 2: And so increasing this message that's that being on birth
- 17:23Speaker 2: control is at odds with being healthy well and quote
- 17:28Speaker 2: pure like that is the underlying message being presented here.
- 17:32Speaker 4: That makes me want to throw my computer because I
- 17:34Speaker 4: swear to God it took us so long to get
- 17:36Speaker 4: to the point that women can say this is a
- 17:39Speaker 4: hormonal imbalance issue for me. And I have been struggling
- 17:42Speaker 4: all of my life as a teen having pains where
- 17:45Speaker 4: it took me out for two or three days, or
- 17:47Speaker 4: having this mood disorders that did not make sense, and
- 17:50Speaker 4: feeling like I'm in hell every period or rough three
- 17:54Speaker 4: weeks out of the month, Like I remember growing up
- 17:56Speaker 4: being told these are the things you're just that's just
- 17:59Speaker 4: being a one. And it took us so long to
- 18:02Speaker 4: finally get to a point and be like, oh, maybe
- 18:04Speaker 4: we should. There should be research and there should be
- 18:07Speaker 4: medical actions that can happen that could help us. And
- 18:13Speaker 4: I felt like we go there for like just the
- 18:15Speaker 4: split second, like we were actually accepting that as an okay,
- 18:19Speaker 4: that might be okay for us to have.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm glad that you said that, because I
- 18:25Speaker 2: want to be like very clear, hormonal worth control is
- 18:28Speaker 2: not for everyone. It can have side effects. Case and point,
- 18:31Speaker 2: it was not a good option for me because it
- 18:33Speaker 2: gave me headaches. So this is not me saying everybody
- 18:36Speaker 2: should go out there and get on hormonal birth control.
- 18:39Speaker 2: People should talk to their doctor and figure out what
- 18:42Speaker 2: kind of birth control is right for them. If birth
- 18:44Speaker 2: control is right for them, there are all kinds of
- 18:46Speaker 2: non hormonal birth control options to consider. Again, people should
- 18:49Speaker 2: be talking to their medical professionals. They should not be
- 18:53Speaker 2: trusting random influencers on social media or random podcasters. But
- 18:58Speaker 2: right now, those people who are really speaking the loudest
- 19:02Speaker 2: and frankly kind of owning the conversation about birth control,
- 19:06Speaker 2: and people are listening.
- 19:08Speaker 3: They really have an audience.
- 19:10Speaker 6: And it's coming back, coming back to that old school
- 19:14Speaker 6: thought of you just need to deal with it.
- 19:16Speaker 4: It's putting more things in your body doesn't help you
- 19:19Speaker 4: all these things and really being like you need to
- 19:21Speaker 4: let your body work itself out, and really telling people
- 19:24Speaker 4: to suffer because it's a wellness thing.
- 19:27Speaker 2: It's like, literally, yeah, you want to be pure, you know,
- 19:30Speaker 2: it's just birth control is just bad for you. And honestly,
- 19:33Speaker 2: the kinds of stuff that people say about birth control
- 19:35Speaker 2: is crap, just a little bit of a summary. So
- 19:39Speaker 2: Alex Clark, who hosts Culture Apothecary, which is sort of
- 19:42Speaker 2: a conservative wellness podcast on the Late Charlie Kirks Network,
- 19:46Speaker 2: turning quints to USA. She has suggested that the way
- 19:49Speaker 2: that women are prescribed birth control is linked to fertility issues,
- 19:54Speaker 2: which it isn't. She's also even said that birth control
- 19:58Speaker 2: pills can false make women feel that they might be bisexual,
- 20:03Speaker 2: which I don't think I need to tell anybody, but
- 20:06Speaker 2: just in case that's not true, birth control pills cannot
- 20:10Speaker 2: turn you queer or gay.
- 20:14Speaker 3: Genuine reaction.
- 20:16Speaker 4: I was already.
- 20:21Speaker 2: On an episode of Joe Rogan's podcast, Callie Means, who
- 20:24Speaker 2: now is an advisor to help Secretary Robert F. Kennedy
- 20:28Speaker 2: Junior basically said that the medical industry views worth control
- 20:33Speaker 2: as recurring revenue, and that the reason that they're trying
- 20:36Speaker 2: to get people to take the pill is because it's
- 20:40Speaker 2: recurring revenue, and that, oh, if you can get somebody
- 20:42Speaker 2: to be on the pill, they're going to be taking
- 20:44Speaker 2: it for most of their lives. And that's it's this
- 20:47Speaker 2: implied conspiracy that no, no, this is not medication that
- 20:51Speaker 2: might genuinely help somebody or might genuinely give somebody more
- 20:55Speaker 2: autonomy or more choice. No, no, no, no no, it's a way
- 20:58Speaker 2: to just make big Pharma is making money off of
- 21:02Speaker 2: you to harm you.
- 21:03Speaker 4: God, they are so good about taking this type of
- 21:06Speaker 4: rhetoric and I say they as being like anti abortion
- 21:09Speaker 4: slash anti uterus, anti marginal arts people group community and
- 21:14Speaker 4: taking things and making sure to do a conspiracy to
- 21:18Speaker 4: really freak everybody out. Be like, no, no, but this
- 21:20Speaker 4: is what's really happening. It's not because I'm being anti abortion.
- 21:24Speaker 4: I don't know what you're talking about.
- 21:26Speaker 2: Yeah, And so it's it's so true because when you
- 21:29Speaker 2: look up birth control on TikTok, you'll find women talking
- 21:33Speaker 2: about how birth control like room into their bodies quote
- 21:36Speaker 2: unquote by making them gain weight or taking their libidos.
- 21:38Speaker 2: And these are things that actually can be symptoms of
- 21:41Speaker 2: hormonal birth control.
- 21:42Speaker 3: So they're not wrong.
- 21:43Speaker 2: But the thing is, like, if I were to make
- 21:45Speaker 2: a TikTok about how my doctor took me off birth
- 21:47Speaker 2: control because it was giving me headaches, this is not
- 21:50Speaker 2: gonna be advice for everybody, right, Like, it's it's very
- 21:53Speaker 2: specific to me and my body. And importantly, the dominant
- 21:56Speaker 2: messages on social media frame birth control a conversation that
- 22:00Speaker 2: is not like, oh, talk to your doctor if birth
- 22:03Speaker 2: control is giving you this specific side effect. No, no, no,
- 22:06Speaker 2: it is your doctor is in cahoots with the government
- 22:09Speaker 2: to lie to you by actually forcing you to be
- 22:13Speaker 2: on birth control that is harming you.
- 22:15Speaker 3: Right, It's I honestly wouldn't have a problem. Well, I
- 22:19Speaker 3: don't know.
- 22:20Speaker 2: I guess I feel like it gets dicey when you're
- 22:23Speaker 2: putting medical advice online if you're not a doctor. But
- 22:27Speaker 2: I honestly wouldn't have that big of a problem with
- 22:29Speaker 2: it if it was just like, here's my side effect
- 22:31Speaker 2: and this is what I did. Instead, it's this purposely
- 22:35Speaker 2: conspiratorial thing that is so obviously being phrased in the
- 22:40Speaker 2: most inflammatory way to get engagement. Like The New York
- 22:43Speaker 2: Times spoke to one of these influencers who has like
- 22:48Speaker 2: just under one hundred thousand followers, who went on TikTok
- 22:51Speaker 2: and talked about birth control as being evil.
- 22:54Speaker 3: And then said, well, obviously I exaggerate on social media.
- 22:57Speaker 3: You can't have a lukewarm take.
- 22:59Speaker 2: And I'm thinking, do you really want to be taking
- 23:01Speaker 2: medical advice from an influencer who is openly telling The
- 23:04Speaker 2: New York Times that she needs to make things as
- 23:06Speaker 2: spicy and inflammatory as possible to get views on social media?
- 23:10Speaker 2: Like do you not see the way that she's incentivized
- 23:12Speaker 2: to essentially tell the most extreme story of something as
- 23:17Speaker 2: important as your health.
- 23:20Speaker 4: Again, it goes back to also in my mind, like
- 23:22Speaker 4: they're not completely wrong when it comes to women's health.
- 23:26Speaker 4: They don't care, so they they being pharmaceuticals. I sound
- 23:31Speaker 4: very very conspiratory right now in that level of like
- 23:34Speaker 4: they do want to make money. It's the same reason
- 23:36Speaker 4: why period products are not offered for free and there's
- 23:38Speaker 4: an increase and there's tax on it because they can
- 23:41Speaker 4: make more money and they know that it's needed. And
- 23:43Speaker 4: instead of helping to have a cost efficient way of
- 23:46Speaker 4: treating women as well as actually researching on how the
- 23:49Speaker 4: best way to help because some of the beginning of
- 23:52Speaker 4: birth control was real gross, real eugenics what like, it
- 23:55Speaker 4: was real gross, like let's let me real clear on that,
- 23:58Speaker 4: but instead of actually seeking to help women, it kind
- 24:01Speaker 4: of had turned the other way of like, eh, we
- 24:02Speaker 4: don't care enough about helping people with the uterses. We
- 24:05Speaker 4: don't really want to help them, but if we're going to,
- 24:09Speaker 4: we're going to make it as least effective or as
- 24:11Speaker 4: many side effects so we can also make money and
- 24:15Speaker 4: let them know this is your only solution.
- 24:16Speaker 6: Like there's this.
- 24:17Speaker 4: Level of like, you're not completely wrong, but instead of
- 24:21Speaker 4: helping in a right way, you're just making us go
- 24:23Speaker 4: back twenty steps.
- 24:25Speaker 2: Yeah, and bad actors are so good at exploiting that
- 24:29Speaker 2: kind of kernel of truth. That's what they do, right,
- 24:32Speaker 2: And so I get it because listen, Traditionally, margin bized people,
- 24:36Speaker 2: especially women, are often not listened to by medical professionals,
- 24:40Speaker 2: are often not treated with respect or care oftentimes when
- 24:43Speaker 2: you're talking about medicines and medical things, these are things
- 24:47Speaker 2: that we're not tested or researched on our body specifically.
- 24:50Speaker 2: So all of that is true, and we're right to
- 24:53Speaker 2: be pissed off about that, we're right to call that out.
- 24:55Speaker 3: But what these content creators.
- 24:57Speaker 2: Do is that they swoop in and except like that
- 25:00Speaker 2: very real problem, that very real issue, and use it
- 25:05Speaker 2: to push potentially harmful, untrue messages about our health. And so, yeah,
- 25:11Speaker 2: I completely agree that they're not wrong, and they're not
- 25:16Speaker 2: wrong to be skeptical, paranoid all of that. But then
- 25:19Speaker 2: you have these influencers basically filling the void with lies,
- 25:24Speaker 2: lies that lead to people feeling more anxious and more suspicious.
- 25:29Speaker 2: When The New York Times surveyed women about how our
- 25:33Speaker 2: current social media climate is making them think about birth control,
- 25:37Speaker 2: these messages did not just make them want to stop
- 25:40Speaker 2: using birth control. It made them fearful, paranoid, anxious, suspicious,
- 25:45Speaker 2: specifically suspicious of their own doctors, and made them feel
- 25:49Speaker 2: more trust toward random influencers or podcasters. So you can
- 25:54Speaker 2: see why exploiting that kernel of truth would materially benefit
- 25:58Speaker 2: bad actors who are pushing these lives about birth control.
- 26:01Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think there's so much going on right
- 26:04Speaker 1: now with the erosion of trust that has been ongoing.
- 26:08Speaker 1: But you got like RFKA Junior, and he's just pushing
- 26:13Speaker 1: out all of these these things about you know, what
- 26:18Speaker 1: feel like conspiracy theories to me, but to other people
- 26:22Speaker 1: seem like truths. I have a friend who worked at
- 26:25Speaker 1: the CDC and she was seeing, you know, COVID really
- 26:30Speaker 1: exacerbated a lot of things because we were trying to
- 26:33Speaker 1: get this vaccine out, but every day, like what we
- 26:37Speaker 1: knew about it was changing, and so people started to
- 26:40Speaker 1: view that with mistrust. So you've got like this building mistrust.
- 26:45Speaker 1: And then as we talked about in the episode we
- 26:48Speaker 1: did about chat GPT and people seeking out health advice
- 26:53Speaker 1: from chat gpt, where it's so expensive to go to
- 26:58Speaker 1: a doctor or to go to a hospital, and so
- 27:01Speaker 1: people are turning to technology, and people are turning to
- 27:06Speaker 1: these influencers and they're telling you like, this is what
- 27:08Speaker 1: you have to do. This is like it worked for
- 27:11Speaker 1: me us, and it's very It's a nice thing to believe.
- 27:16Speaker 1: It's a nice thing to think, Oh, I could control that.
- 27:21Speaker 1: If I just stopped taking birth control, then maybe I
- 27:25Speaker 1: will be more in control of my body. And you know,
- 27:28Speaker 1: you couple that with like lack of sexual education. It's
- 27:32Speaker 1: just a real mess that we have going on right now.
- 27:38Speaker 2: And I think I like that comparison to the chat
- 27:41Speaker 2: gept example, because you know, I don't want to shame
- 27:45Speaker 2: anybody who was using chat gept or doctor Google to
- 27:49Speaker 2: figure out what's wrong with them in a climate where
- 27:52Speaker 2: just having access to medical care is so inaccessible. However,
- 27:56Speaker 2: the answer to me is not here, take this unreliable
- 28:01Speaker 2: tool chat youpt and use that. The answer is, let's
- 28:06Speaker 2: make healthcare more accessible for everybody. And I think similarly,
- 28:09Speaker 2: the answer here should not be, oh well, let's just
- 28:12Speaker 2: have an entire ecosystem of podcasters and influencers who are
- 28:15Speaker 2: personally incentivized to make people fearful.
- 28:18Speaker 3: It's let's have a medical.
- 28:20Speaker 2: Industry that actually listens to people and that people feel
- 28:22Speaker 2: like they can actually trust, Like it's it's such a
- 28:26Speaker 2: it's it's just not a real solution. I understand how
- 28:30Speaker 2: in a climate where it is confusing to figure out
- 28:33Speaker 2: decisions for your own health and your own body, and
- 28:36Speaker 2: we have people who I would say are influencers at
- 28:40Speaker 2: the highest level of government making our health decisions, I
- 28:44Speaker 2: understand it is a funky climate. But the answer is not, oh,
- 28:49Speaker 2: just empower the influencers and podcasters to essentially act as doctors. Now,
- 28:53Speaker 2: it is how do we have a more reasonable climate
- 28:56Speaker 2: that people can trust when it comes to our health
- 28:58Speaker 2: and our bodies.
- 29:01Speaker 1: Absolutely, And I really found this next part you have
- 29:05Speaker 1: in your outline really interesting because I never heard of
- 29:09Speaker 1: it before. I'm very familiar with the placebo effects, but
- 29:13Speaker 1: I was not familiar with its polar opposite.
- 29:17Speaker 3: Yes, the no cibo effect.
- 29:19Speaker 2: So that comes from doctors Rebecca Webster and Lorna Reed,
- 29:21Speaker 2: the co authors of a first of its kind study
- 29:24Speaker 2: in a journal called Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health.
- 29:27Speaker 2: So they coined the no cebo effect, which is kind
- 29:30Speaker 2: of the opposite of the polacebo effect, where when people
- 29:33Speaker 2: start taking a medication, they then start associating that medication
- 29:37Speaker 2: with negative impacts. Right, So placebo effect is I have
- 29:40Speaker 2: not been given a medication.
- 29:42Speaker 3: But I think it's working for me.
- 29:43Speaker 2: I think I have positive impacts because of it, even
- 29:45Speaker 2: though I didn't really take it. The opposite of that is,
- 29:48Speaker 2: I am genuinely taking the medicine and now I am
- 29:50Speaker 2: associating it with negative impacts.
- 29:52Speaker 3: And so their.
- 29:52Speaker 2: Study found that the no cebo effect involved four psychological
- 29:56Speaker 2: factors that were associated with women having a negative experience
- 29:59Speaker 2: of her birth control pills. They were an expectation at
- 30:03Speaker 2: the outset that the pill would be harmful, low confidence
- 30:06Speaker 2: in how medicines are developed, a belief that medicines are
- 30:09Speaker 2: overused and harmful, and a belief that they are sensitive
- 30:13Speaker 2: to medicines. So, yeah, it is interesting that you know,
- 30:17Speaker 2: when people are taking medication, they would then be reporting, Oh,
- 30:22Speaker 2: it has made me fearful of this medication, and it
- 30:25Speaker 2: has made not trust this medication.
- 30:26Speaker 3: And social media.
- 30:28Speaker 2: We almost kind of can't talk about this phenomenon without
- 30:30Speaker 2: talking about social media because it's definitely a factor. Earlier
- 30:34Speaker 2: this year, a study by public health researchers at Latrobe
- 30:37Speaker 2: University found that among the top one hundred TikTok videos
- 30:41Speaker 2: about reproductive health, just ten percent were from medical professionals.
- 30:45Speaker 2: About fifty percent of creators made comments rejecting hormonal contraception.
- 30:50Speaker 2: The top one hundred most popular tiktoks about birth control
- 30:54Speaker 2: had to mass some five billion views. And so think
- 30:57Speaker 2: about that.
- 30:58Speaker 3: There's just there.
- 30:59Speaker 2: It's just that much more difficult for accurate content, lot
- 31:04Speaker 2: alone accurate content that is being made by an actual
- 31:07Speaker 2: healthcare professional to get traction when you're talking about a
- 31:11Speaker 2: climate like TikTok, where overwhelmingly the content that is doing
- 31:16Speaker 2: well and performing well and being a surface for folks
- 31:18Speaker 2: is content that is made by influencers and content creators
- 31:21Speaker 2: that is not based an actual fact about reproductive care.
- 31:25Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm starting to getting a lot of stuff on
- 31:29Speaker 4: my specific TikTok where I'm like Oracle, I feel like
- 31:32Speaker 4: it's already having a.
- 31:33Speaker 6: Lot of influence.
- 31:34Speaker 4: And I'm sure Bridget you may have already talked about
- 31:37Speaker 4: it on your show or you're thinking on it, whatever
- 31:40Speaker 4: whatnot with the whole new takeover with the company that
- 31:44Speaker 4: is very much associated with the Trump administration, Peter Pill,
- 31:48Speaker 4: all those people, and then there's even more bet worst
- 31:51Speaker 4: players that I can't remember their name because they're so dark.
- 31:53Speaker 2: To me, it's funny that you mentioned Peter Teal because
- 31:56Speaker 2: that podcaster I was talking about that the time spoke
- 31:58Speaker 2: to Alex Clark from the conservative wellness podcast Culture Apothecary.
- 32:03Speaker 2: She says something that I hear quite a bit. She says, Oh, well,
- 32:07Speaker 2: I don't use birth control, and you don't actually need
- 32:10Speaker 2: birth control if you just track your period. She says,
- 32:14Speaker 2: we are not given full informed consent when it comes
- 32:16Speaker 2: to the pill. Clark began taking her monal birth control
- 32:19Speaker 2: as a teenager and stop in twenty eighteen, eventually switching
- 32:22Speaker 2: to tracking her menstrual cycle on her phone. She says
- 32:25Speaker 2: she has used the app's Flow and twenty eight the
- 32:27Speaker 2: last of which was founded by the creators of the
- 32:30Speaker 2: conservative EV magazine, which we talked about you and I
- 32:33Speaker 2: all on the show, and backed by right wing kingmaker
- 32:36Speaker 2: Peter Teal. Both are a fast growing, multi billion dollar
- 32:40Speaker 2: market for women's health technology. So this is something that
- 32:44Speaker 2: I often hear in this space, like, oh, you don't
- 32:46Speaker 2: need birth control if you just track your cycle, and
- 32:48Speaker 2: conveniently you can use these apps owned by billionaire Trump
- 32:53Speaker 2: crony and if you watch that South Park episode, like
- 32:57Speaker 2: anti Christ expert himself Peter Tea, or apps like Flow,
- 33:01Speaker 2: which just this year, a California jury found that Meta
- 33:05Speaker 2: illegally collected user health data from Flow, violating the state's
- 33:09Speaker 2: wiretap law. This verdict found that Flow, Google, Meta, and
- 33:13Speaker 2: another app analytics company called Flurry we're collecting people's private
- 33:18Speaker 2: menstrual health data without consent for targeted advertising. So yeah,
- 33:22Speaker 2: super convenient. Don't use hormonal birth control because it's so dangerous.
- 33:27Speaker 2: Instead use this app owned by a Republican technocrat. Or
- 33:31Speaker 2: this app that the court says will share your intimate
- 33:33Speaker 2: menstrual data for money.
- 33:35Speaker 6: Oh goodness, is a nightmare in horror movie.
- 33:38Speaker 2: I told you, I will say the cryptkeeper would never
- 33:42Speaker 2: get mixed up in any of this.
- 33:44Speaker 3: He's very pro reproductive rights for women.
- 33:59Speaker 4: Social media has done so much for good and bad.
- 34:02Speaker 4: Like there's so many things, like we were able to
- 34:04Speaker 4: access so much more and seeing around the world and
- 34:07Speaker 4: get a little more information and data and truth, but
- 34:10Speaker 4: also a lot of the misinformation and disinformation that we
- 34:12Speaker 4: have continually had to talk about because it's only getting worse.
- 34:16Speaker 4: But like it reminds me again of like people talking
- 34:19Speaker 4: trying to use the ejaculation or the minute that sperm comes.
- 34:25Speaker 6: That's killing a baby.
- 34:26Speaker 4: I'm sorry laughing at myself in this context. And for
- 34:31Speaker 4: so long I've heard my own people, like my age
- 34:35Speaker 4: group of people, very intellectual, like even like pro choice
- 34:39Speaker 4: before tell me after they had a baby. No, yeah,
- 34:42Speaker 4: I can't use hormonal birth control because it kills you know,
- 34:46Speaker 4: it has spermicide, and that means it's killing babies, and
- 34:49Speaker 4: I cannot do that as a part of my religion.
- 34:51Speaker 4: But now it's flip that because it it may have
- 34:54Speaker 4: worked on a few, but it's starting to work less
- 34:56Speaker 4: and less, and so now that I feel like this
- 34:58Speaker 4: is its way of new talk, like no, no, no,
- 35:01Speaker 4: we're not gonna talk about that as the actual problem.
- 35:04Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean we had that.
- 35:06Speaker 2: That's a very common piece of misinformation about contraceptives is
- 35:11Speaker 2: that they are the same as abortives or abortions. The
- 35:14Speaker 2: Trump administration just this year was trying to falsely claim
- 35:18Speaker 2: that certain forms of birth control are essentially the same
- 35:21Speaker 2: thing as abortions in an effort to restrict access to contraceptives.
- 35:25Speaker 2: And so there's nothing wrong with abortion, but abortion and
- 35:28Speaker 2: birth control, as hopefully we all learn into health class
- 35:31Speaker 2: are two different things. And so if contraceptives are trying
- 35:35Speaker 2: to prevent in like a like an egg being fertilized,
- 35:40Speaker 2: if you have no fertilized egg, it's not the same
- 35:42Speaker 2: thing as an abortion.
- 35:44Speaker 3: But the Trump administration was trying to.
- 35:46Speaker 2: Use this sort of tricky false logic to essentially further
- 35:50Speaker 2: restrict birth control and reproductive health more generally.
- 35:53Speaker 3: Like that's really what it was.
- 35:54Speaker 2: But so like that is an incredibly common piece of misinformation,
- 35:58Speaker 2: And yeah, it's just that we're in a place where
- 36:01Speaker 2: it's not just being traded around the back of the
- 36:05Speaker 2: bus or you know, on TikTok, it is in our government.
- 36:11Speaker 1: Yeah, and we are seeing the fallout and impacts of this.
- 36:18Speaker 1: One thing I find interesting is I do I have
- 36:21Speaker 1: some friends who are nurses, and they told me before,
- 36:25Speaker 1: you know, people come in. People have always come in
- 36:27Speaker 1: since the internet has been a thing and been like
- 36:29Speaker 1: you know, I saw on WebMD, I have this. But
- 36:33Speaker 1: now they're kind of coming in with this I saw
- 36:36Speaker 1: on TikTok.
- 36:37Speaker 4: Is this a thing?
- 36:38Speaker 1: Should I be worried about this? And it's just just
- 36:41Speaker 1: another task for them to take on of almost educating
- 36:45Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no, that's not that's not what's
- 36:48Speaker 1: going on. But there have been some fallouts, some more
- 36:52Speaker 1: measurable than others.
- 36:53Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, So the question that I had is, well,
- 36:57Speaker 2: it definitely seems like misinformation about birth control is it's
- 37:02Speaker 2: our platforms are washing it. But is it having an impact?
- 37:04Speaker 2: And it's a little bit hard to say. It depends
- 37:05Speaker 2: on who you ask. So the New York Times work
- 37:08Speaker 2: with this company trily into Health, a healthcare analytics company,
- 37:10Speaker 2: and they conducted an analysis for The Times and found
- 37:13Speaker 2: a decrease in the use of hormonal birth control pills
- 37:16Speaker 2: among women age eighteen to forty four. In twenty nineteen,
- 37:20Speaker 2: thirteen point one percent of women said that they use
- 37:22Speaker 2: the pill. In twenty twenty four, that number fell to
- 37:24Speaker 2: ten point two percent. But researchers at the Goutbacher Institute,
- 37:28Speaker 2: which is like an abortion rights organization, they say that
- 37:31Speaker 2: they have not seen an indication of a population level
- 37:34Speaker 2: decrease in hormonal contraceptive use per their analysis of data
- 37:38Speaker 2: from the National Center for Health Statistics.
- 37:41Speaker 3: And so it's not.
- 37:42Speaker 2: Totally clear if this is having a specific impact that
- 37:46Speaker 2: people actually are abandoning hormonal birth control. It's possible that
- 37:51Speaker 2: even if they are, they're using some other kind of
- 37:53Speaker 2: birth control. But we can't not talk about the way
- 37:56Speaker 2: that this is happening against this backdrop of an administration
- 37:59Speaker 2: that is clearly just hostile toward birth control and reproductive
- 38:04Speaker 2: health care in general. This spring, more than a dozen
- 38:07Speaker 2: public health organizations sued the Trump administration, arguing that it
- 38:10Speaker 2: was undercutting access to health services, including birth control, by
- 38:14Speaker 2: withholding Title X funding. And then when you take into
- 38:17Speaker 2: effect things like Medicaid cuts, those things would leave millions
- 38:20Speaker 2: of people without access to health coverage, which obviously also
- 38:24Speaker 2: threatens to limit things like contraceptives and birth control. And
- 38:27Speaker 2: so all of this stuff is not happening in a vacuum,
- 38:30Speaker 2: and I think that that's what scholars are sort of
- 38:33Speaker 2: worried about, right this one two punch of this growing
- 38:37Speaker 2: media climate that spreads fear lies and misinformation about birth control,
- 38:42Speaker 2: also combined with these policy decisions that restrict birth control.
- 38:48Speaker 2: The New York Times spoke to Amanda Stevenson, a sociologist
- 38:50Speaker 2: at the University of Colorado Boulder, who said those two processes,
- 38:54Speaker 2: stigmatization and legal restrictions, are mutually reinforcing.
- 38:58Speaker 3: And I guess I would say the piece of this
- 39:00Speaker 3: that I find.
- 39:02Speaker 2: The most interesting to me and the most telling is
- 39:06Speaker 2: just sort of the way that social media has reinforced
- 39:11Speaker 2: being critical or skeptical or not on birth control as
- 39:14Speaker 2: a kind of identity. And here's how Doctor Jennifer Penna,
- 39:19Speaker 2: the chief medical officer for the reproductive telehealth platform WISP.
- 39:23Speaker 2: She says that she sees dozens of patients each year
- 39:26Speaker 2: who come to her with worries rooted in misinformation. They're
- 39:28Speaker 2: asking her things like, is an IUD going to make
- 39:31Speaker 2: me infertile if I go off birth control? How long
- 39:33Speaker 2: will it take me to get out of my system?
- 39:35Speaker 2: How can I do this naturally? With an aora ring?
- 39:37Speaker 2: I want to be pure, right, like all of these
- 39:39Speaker 2: things that seem so identity based, And she really traces
- 39:43Speaker 2: that back to these online wellness influencers. She says, there's
- 39:48Speaker 2: a cry for identity. Social media is becoming the algorithm
- 39:51Speaker 2: for education, and once there's a trend, it becomes the
- 39:54Speaker 2: norm for topics of conversation inside clinics. And I think
- 39:58Speaker 2: that's really the thing, is that people are watching all
- 40:01Speaker 2: of this content and the same way that I, you know,
- 40:04Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, maybe I'm somebody who should start.
- 40:06Speaker 3: Wearing more ath leisure, or maybe I'm somebody who should
- 40:09Speaker 3: drink smoothies.
- 40:10Speaker 2: The same way that social media can influence me in
- 40:13Speaker 2: that way, it is also influencing people to be incredibly
- 40:16Speaker 2: critical and concerned about this medication. And doctors are saying, listen,
- 40:20Speaker 2: we have people coming in asking us these questions that
- 40:23Speaker 2: I know are rooted in online misinformation about birth control.
- 40:27Speaker 6: That work pure. That's such a red flag. I want
- 40:31Speaker 6: to be pure.
- 40:33Speaker 3: It's bad.
- 40:36Speaker 2: And what's so funny to me is that the piece
- 40:39Speaker 2: talked to another young woman, like a black college activist,
- 40:42Speaker 2: who was like, listen, I worked my ass off working
- 40:46Speaker 2: retail to pay for birth control when I was in
- 40:48Speaker 2: high school myself, because I wanted to have the freedom
- 40:51Speaker 2: that birth control allowed me in my life, and I
- 40:54Speaker 2: wanted to have the control that it allowed me of
- 40:55Speaker 2: my life and my choices. And so she talked about
- 40:58Speaker 2: how going to colleg now and hearing from her friends
- 41:01Speaker 2: who are the same age as her, who are basically
- 41:05Speaker 2: saying like, oh, I don't want to be on birth control.
- 41:06Speaker 2: I don't want to, you know, put that stuff into
- 41:08Speaker 2: my body, and how.
- 41:10Speaker 3: Sad it makes her that.
- 41:14Speaker 2: In this day and age, this way of helping us
- 41:17Speaker 2: control our lives, our finances, our plans, our futures is
- 41:21Speaker 2: being so stigmatized and demonized that it makes her sad.
- 41:24Speaker 2: And so she became a college activist who tables on
- 41:27Speaker 2: her campus to help people get access to birth control.
- 41:30Speaker 3: And she described it like this.
- 41:31Speaker 2: She said, the biggest thing I see on social media
- 41:35Speaker 2: is this earthy, green girl lifestyle type. Shebang, It's like
- 41:39Speaker 2: a trendy aesthetic. And I guess that is my point.
- 41:43Speaker 2: If you speak to a doctor and birth control is
- 41:45Speaker 2: not for you, more power to you. But I don't
- 41:49Speaker 2: think that rejecting birth control should be a trendy identity
- 41:53Speaker 2: aesthetic that you get from TikTok. Right, these are healthcare
- 41:57Speaker 2: and medical decisions. This is a decision whether or not
- 42:00Speaker 2: to take a prescription drug. That is a decision that
- 42:02Speaker 2: you should be making with your doctor, not with some
- 42:04Speaker 2: rando on TikTok. Because you liked her green, earthy girl esthetic, right, you.
- 42:11Speaker 4: Got a fifteen second glimpse of her made up and
- 42:13Speaker 4: seemingly happy in the Golden Hour shot.
- 42:17Speaker 6: That is not truth.
- 42:19Speaker 2: Yeah, and who knows what her life is really like?
- 42:22Speaker 3: Who knows why she is telling you this? Right?
- 42:24Speaker 2: And I just think that we should really be concerned
- 42:26Speaker 2: about what happens when rejecting birth control becomes this trendy
- 42:30Speaker 2: identity aesthetic on TikTok. More and more women are going
- 42:34Speaker 2: to be losing control and autonomy over their bodies, their plans,
- 42:38Speaker 2: their futures, their finances, and their lives without even necessarily realizing.
- 42:43Speaker 3: That that's what's happening. Right.
- 42:45Speaker 2: The woman that The New York Times spoke to, Ashley,
- 42:47Speaker 2: who was like, I wonder who I am if I'm
- 42:48Speaker 2: not on birth control a parent who had a child
- 42:51Speaker 2: before her and her partner were ready to have that, per.
- 42:54Speaker 3: Her own description of the situation.
- 42:55Speaker 2: And by the way, after having her child, the New
- 42:58Speaker 2: York Times check back in with her, and she was like, oh,
- 43:00Speaker 2: I'm on birth control.
- 43:01Speaker 3: Now I can't have another kid, you know.
- 43:04Speaker 6: Yeah that was that was a follow up.
- 43:06Speaker 4: I really wanted to know, honestly, And now you're back
- 43:08Speaker 4: on Are you good now?
- 43:09Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 43:09Speaker 2: I mean, she like, I it's s I really don't
- 43:13Speaker 2: want to make it seem like I'm saying everybody should
- 43:15Speaker 2: be on birth control. But the same thing that we
- 43:18Speaker 2: talked about with the tradwives thing we should not be
- 43:21Speaker 2: pushing young people into giving up autonomy and giving up
- 43:27Speaker 2: the things that give us choices. And even if you're
- 43:30Speaker 2: not somebody who wants to or needs to be on
- 43:32Speaker 2: birth control, we should not be creating a climate where
- 43:34Speaker 2: it's stigmatized, where somebody who does need it is going
- 43:37Speaker 2: to look twice at it, or I think that's that's
- 43:38Speaker 2: unsafe for me, that's dangerous for me. If I put
- 43:41Speaker 2: this in my body, I am I might turn bisexual,
- 43:44Speaker 2: or I might be making myself infertile, or any other
- 43:46Speaker 2: kind of junk that is being amplified on social media
- 43:48Speaker 2: platforms so responsibly right now when it comes to birth control.
- 43:52Speaker 4: Right and again this comes back into this bigger layer,
- 43:55Speaker 4: like we probably need to do a playlist of all
- 43:58Speaker 4: of these episodes with you, because to connect these thoughts
- 44:02Speaker 4: once again, there is a connection to the Chadwives conversation
- 44:05Speaker 4: that we've had the misinformation about abortion from the jump,
- 44:09Speaker 4: the misinformation from things like WhatsApp who tell you it's private,
- 44:13Speaker 4: but it's not using things like this as well as
- 44:16Speaker 4: this conversation, like this is a bigger chain. This is
- 44:20Speaker 4: a bigger picture in a small detail that they don't
- 44:23Speaker 4: actually they don't tell you that, but when you start
- 44:25Speaker 4: looking at who's behind that and why this information is coming,
- 44:28Speaker 4: it is a bigger picture and it's propaganda.
- 44:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, these bad actors aren't wrong.
- 44:34Speaker 2: We are being lied to you, just not the people
- 44:37Speaker 2: they necessarily want us to be fearful of. And I
- 44:40Speaker 2: think that's exactly my point, that all of these things
- 44:43Speaker 2: are related.
- 44:44Speaker 3: Tech companies are tech.
- 44:46Speaker 2: Companies, and bad actors are materially benefiting from all of
- 44:51Speaker 2: us being fearful and less informed about these choices that
- 44:54Speaker 2: are so important for the way that we live our lives.
- 44:56Speaker 3: And you know, I birth control.
- 45:00Speaker 2: I'm at the stage of my life where it's not
- 45:01Speaker 2: a huge concern for me in general.
- 45:03Speaker 3: But that's just the thing, birth control.
- 45:06Speaker 2: It's not just about side effects or hormones or the
- 45:10Speaker 2: ability to have sex. It is about those things, but
- 45:11Speaker 2: it's also about autonomy, the ability to make informed decisions
- 45:16Speaker 2: about our own bodies based on facts and not fear.
- 45:20Speaker 2: You know, that is something that generations of women fought for.
- 45:24Speaker 2: My own mother or my own late mother, God rest
- 45:25Speaker 2: of your soul, she fought for that. And I just
- 45:28Speaker 2: don't think we should just give that up because an
- 45:29Speaker 2: influencer told us to. And I think that as these
- 45:33Speaker 2: algorithms get louder than actual medical experts, it is really
- 45:37Speaker 2: worth asking who is benefiting when we stop trusting our
- 45:41Speaker 2: doctors and start putting our trust in influencers and podcasters instead.
- 45:45Speaker 2: And so if the question is who are you without
- 45:48Speaker 2: birth control? Hopefully not just content for somebody else's wellness
- 45:53Speaker 2: grift right our wellness brand. The better question is who
- 45:56Speaker 2: could we become when we start demanding care and content
- 46:00Speaker 2: that is honest, evidence based and actually centered on us
- 46:04Speaker 2: and our bodies and what we truly actually.
- 46:06Speaker 6: Need big on the centered on us please, yes.
- 46:13Speaker 1: Oh absolutely well a very a very spooky episode indeed,
- 46:22Speaker 1: and as always, so many other things we could talk about.
- 46:26Speaker 1: We always love having you on. Thank you so much
- 46:29Speaker 1: for coming on and hallucinating these things for us as
- 46:32Speaker 1: much as they can be in our wild times.
- 46:36Speaker 3: Yeah, my pleasure. And yeah, if anybody, if the cripkeeper,
- 46:40Speaker 3: if you're listening.
- 46:44Speaker 4: Oh yes, let us know about me out call me.
- 46:50Speaker 2: Don't call me, and you probably prefer to get called
- 46:53Speaker 2: by the ghostream voice ghost space.
- 46:57Speaker 4: Yeah, there was a hot line right when the movie
- 47:01Speaker 4: was coming out that you could actually send a message,
- 47:03Speaker 4: So I put Annie's in photo she got that call.
- 47:06Speaker 1: It was fun, yes, and we played it in the episode.
- 47:09Speaker 1: It scared me very very because you told I would
- 47:12Speaker 1: never answer a number that I didn't recognize, and you
- 47:14Speaker 1: sent me a text, Samantha that was like, answer the call.
- 47:18Speaker 6: You need to answer this fun call.
- 47:19Speaker 3: It was a New York number. Dream Yeah, like.
- 47:22Speaker 6: You have it. You need to answer this call.
- 47:25Speaker 1: I did, and it scared me and I loved it,
- 47:28Speaker 1: so thank you.
- 47:29Speaker 3: Well.
- 47:30Speaker 1: I hope that you have more excellent horror movie times
- 47:35Speaker 1: Halloween times, uh, and we're looking forward to talking to
- 47:38Speaker 1: you again. But in the meantime, Bridget, where can the
- 47:40Speaker 1: good listeners find too?
- 47:42Speaker 5: Well?
- 47:42Speaker 2: You can find me on Instagram at Bridget Marie in DC.
- 47:45Speaker 2: You can find me on TikTok at Bridget Marie and
- 47:47Speaker 2: DC on YouTube at there are no girls on the Internet,
- 47:49Speaker 2: and you can listen to my podcast there are no
- 47:50Speaker 2: girls on the Internet. If you like spooky conversations about
- 47:56Speaker 2: our social media landscape, sure, I mean.
- 48:01Speaker 1: Honestly yes, yes, Oh well go do that, listeners, if
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