Latest / Reformed Thinking / Love at the Cross: God’s Initiative and Propitiation ( 1 John 4:10)
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- 0:00Welcome to Reformed Thinking. Today we're doing a deep dive
- 0:03into a word that's, well, it's probably the most used and least
- 0:07understood word in our culture. Love.
- 0:10That's for sure. We hear it everywhere, right?
- 0:12Pop songs, political slogans, self help books.
- 0:15But it's so rarely tied to anything solid.
- 0:18So today we're going straight to the source, to one single first
- 0:22John 4.0, to figure out what genuine Christian Love Actually
- 0:26is. And that's our whole mission
- 0:27here. We're looking at first John 4
- 0:29point new in this is love. Not that we have loved God, but
- 0:33that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for
- 0:36our sins. That's how that one sentence.
- 0:37Just that one. Our goal is to really dissect
- 0:40every phrase. We want to cut through all the,
- 0:42you know, the sentimental, fuzzy ideas about God's love and get
- 0:46back to the objective historical truth of what God has actually
- 0:49done for us. And that's so key, isn't it?
- 0:51Because this verse doesn't really leave room for ambiguity.
- 0:53It walks you through God's action, this huge, heavy word
- 0:57propitiation, and the comfort that comes from knowing it's all
- 1:00based on something outside of ourselves.
- 1:02Right. It's for anyone who's ever felt
- 1:04their faith was on shaky ground because of their feelings.
- 1:08We're talking about moving off that shifting sand and onto a
- 1:10solid bedrock. OK, so let's start there with
- 1:13the confusion. The sources we're looking at all
- 1:16begin by pointing out how corrupted the word love has
- 1:18become. Yeah, they do.
- 1:20And it's basically been pulled in two different directions in
- 1:23the wider culture. Love Is All about validation.
- 1:26It's this powerful emotion that, you know, validates my choices,
- 1:29my identity, whatever I feel is right for me.
- 1:32And the God of that kind of love is what?
- 1:36Just a smiling, affirming presence.
- 1:38Exactly. The cosmic therapist who just
- 1:41accepts everyone and everything and this is the critical part,
- 1:44has no real concern for center justice.
- 1:47It's a love that costs nothing and demands nothing.
- 1:49And of course, that kind of thinking doesn't just stay out
- 1:51there in the culture. It bleeds right into the church.
- 1:54Oh, absolutely. It's all over the place.
- 1:55You get this idea of kindness without truth.
- 1:58You know, therapeutic sermons that are designed to make you
- 2:00feel good, but that carefully, carefully avoid words like sin
- 2:05or wrath or judgment. Or love just becomes that warm
- 2:08feeling you get during a worship service.
- 2:10Right. It's objective experience.
- 2:12But the common thread, whether it's secular or inside the
- 2:14church, is that the definition of love always starts with us,
- 2:19with human experience, and that's just an unstable
- 2:21foundation. So with all that confusion as
- 2:24the backdrop, how does John's statement in First John 4.9
- 2:27just, you know, cut through all? Of it, it acts like a laser
- 2:29beam. It forces the definition of love
- 2:32completely away from our feelings and anchors it back to
- 2:34a divine act. He starts with this incredibly
- 2:37forceful phrase in This is Love. Let's unpack that in This is
- 2:42love. It's not love is like this.
- 2:44It's in This is Love. It is.
- 2:45The grammar there is so direct the Greek onto 2.
- 2:49It's a demonstrative. It's like he's physically
- 2:52pointing at something. Like look over here, not at
- 2:53yourself. Here, precisely, he's telling
- 2:55you to stop looking inward, stop taking your spiritual
- 2:58temperature, stop checking your emotional highs and lows to
- 3:01figure out if you're loved or if you're loving enough.
- 3:03He's pointing you outward to a single concrete historical
- 3:07event, the cross. He's saying that love isn't some
- 3:11vague mood or a general attribute of God, it's an action
- 3:15that happened in a specific time and place.
- 3:18Any real talk about Christian love has to start there, with
- 3:21what God did in Christ, not with our own affections.
- 3:25That acts is the definition. And then, as if anticipating
- 3:29that we'd immediately try to make it about us again, he draws
- 3:31this hard line in the sand. He adds that negation, not that
- 3:35we have loved God. And that little phrase is a
- 3:40Wrecking Ball to human pride, isn't it?
- 3:42It just demolishes any idea that we get to start the
- 3:45conversation. Right, it takes our contribution
- 3:47right off the table from the GET.
- 3:48Go it does. John is categorically refusing
- 3:50any theology that says our love or our choice or our spiritual
- 3:54sensitivity is the starting point.
- 3:56I mean, this is central to reform thinking.
- 3:58It gets rid of boasting entirely.
- 3:59So if you hadn't put that phrase in, what kind of error would
- 4:02creep? In Well, you'd open the door for
- 4:03what's called synergism, the idea that salvation is a
- 4:06cooperative project. You know God does his part, We
- 4:09do our part. He reaches down, we reach up
- 4:11which? Sounds good.
- 4:12It sounds fair. It sounds fair to us, but it
- 4:15completely misunderstands the biblical picture of our
- 4:17condition. Scripture doesn't describe us as
- 4:20neutral parties looking for God. It describes us as rebels, as
- 4:24enemies. Romans 3 says no one seeks for
- 4:27God. Romans 8 says the sinful mind is
- 4:30hostile to God. So if you're hostile, you can't
- 4:33exactly initiate a peace treaty. It's impossible.
- 4:37How can our affection be the cause of our salvation when our
- 4:40hearts are by nature turned against God and makes no logical
- 4:43sense? The initiative has to come from
- 4:45the other side. OK, but what about the common
- 4:47objection? The idea that God looks into the
- 4:49future, he sees who will choose to love him, and then he chooses
- 4:52them based on that foreseen faith?
- 4:54How does John's statement here address that?
- 4:56That's a great question because that view is very popular, but
- 4:59it still puts the ultimate reason for salvation inside the
- 5:02person. Whether it's a present choice or
- 5:04a future choice, the ground is still human merit, a human
- 5:07decision. It's still something good in us
- 5:09that God responds to. Exactly, and John's statement,
- 5:13not that we have loved God, it just levels that entire
- 5:16structure. The whole point is that God's
- 5:19love is for the unworthy. He doesn't look for a reason in
- 5:22us to love us. The reason is entirely within
- 5:25himself. If our affection, even foreseen
- 5:28affection, was the trigger, then the gospel wouldn't be about
- 5:31grace for rebels. It would be about a reward for
- 5:34the rightly disposed. And when you finally get that,
- 5:37there's such a sense of relief. Oh, it's immense.
- 5:39It's where the pastoral comfort really kicks in.
- 5:42If you're standing before God doesn't start with you.
- 5:45If it's not based on you drumming up enough love or
- 5:47faith. Then you're weak and feeling
- 5:49love can't disqualify you. It can't.
- 5:51Your security is based on an action that happened 2000 years
- 5:54ago, completely outside of you. The pressure is off.
- 5:56You're secure because he moved first.
- 5:58OK, so after tearing down the Idea Human Initiative, John then
- 6:01pivots. He says.
- 6:03But that he loved us. Right.
- 6:04The word but just turns everything on its head.
- 6:07The focus shifts entirely to God.
- 6:09His love is the cause of everything that follows.
- 6:12So what are the characteristics of this initiating love?
- 6:15Well, it's sovereign, it's free, it's gracious, It's not a
- 6:17reaction to something in US. Think about Romans 5.
- 6:21God demonstrates His own love for us in this While we were
- 6:25still sinners, Christ died for us.
- 6:27How? We are enemies.
- 6:28Enemies. He didn't wait for us to become
- 6:30lovable. He loved us in our unloveliness.
- 6:33This is consistent with how God has always worked.
- 6:36Think of Israel in the Old Testament.
- 6:37Deuteronomy 7 says God didn't set his affection on them
- 6:40because they were the biggest or the best nation.
- 6:42They were the fewest of all. People the smallest.
- 6:45He chose them simply because he loved them.
- 6:47It was a free, sovereign choice first.
- 6:50John 4.10 is the ultimate expression of that same
- 6:53principle. The reason for his love is found
- 6:56only in his character. And this love can't just be an
- 6:58idea, it has to be demonstrated. So John immediately moves to the
- 7:01action and sent his son. Yes, and this is where it all
- 7:05becomes concrete. Love isn't a sentiment for God.
- 7:08It's an action. A costly, historical, verifiable
- 7:12action. But the sources we're looking at
- 7:14point out something really fascinating in the grammar here.
- 7:16And the verb has sent. OK, let's get into that.
- 7:19The Greek verb is a psalkin. Why is that tense so important?
- 7:25It's in what's called the perfect tense, and in Greek, the
- 7:28perfect tense is powerful. It doesn't just mean something
- 7:31happened in the past like the Aorta's tense would.
- 7:34It means an action was completed in the past and its results
- 7:37continue into the present. So it's not just he sent, it's
- 7:40he sent and the sending remains in effect.
- 7:42That's it exactly. The mission of the Sun is a
- 7:45finished, settled historical fact, and its effect, our
- 7:49forgiveness, our standing with God, is still active right now,
- 7:53today. Wow, so that guards against any
- 7:55idea that we have to, I don't know, re up the sacrifice or do
- 7:58something to keep it going? It does.
- 7:59The work is finished, it stands. It's an objective reality that
- 8:02you can rest on. It also, by the way, confirms
- 8:05the son's pre existence. You can't send someone into the
- 8:07world unless they existed before that sending.
- 8:10Right. He wasn't just a man who became
- 8:11divine. He was the eternal Son
- 8:14dispatched from heaven. Sent from the father.
- 8:17And this reveals this beautiful coordinated plan within the
- 8:20Trinity. This one verse gives us a window
- 8:23into how the Father, Son, and Spirit work together for
- 8:26salvation. OK, let's break that down.
- 8:28The roles of the Persons of the Trinity in this one Act.
- 8:31Well, you start with God the Father.
- 8:33He is the initiator, He is the sender.
- 8:36The verse says He loved us and he sent His Son.
- 8:39The love originates in the heart of the Father.
- 8:42That's so important because a Con caricature is the angry,
- 8:46wrathful Father who has to be appeased by the gentle, loving
- 8:50Son. And this verse completely
- 8:51refused that the plan of salvation is born out of the
- 8:54Father's love. Sending the son is the greatest
- 8:56expression of that love. It was the Father's sacrifice
- 8:59to. Then you have God the Son.
- 9:00The Son is the one who was sent. He is the Redeemer, the one who
- 9:03willingly carries out the mission.
- 9:04John's gospel makes it clear he lays down his life of his own
- 9:07accord. This isn't coercion.
- 9:09It's a unified plan born of mutual love between the Father
- 9:12and the Son. And his specific job is to be
- 9:14the propitiation. To be the propitiation.
- 9:17He comes to bear our sins and absorb the wrath we deserved.
- 9:21He executes the plan perfectly. Now, the Holy Spirit isn't
- 9:25mentioned in verse 10, but his role is essential to the whole
- 9:29thing working for us personally. It is the Spirit is the applier.
- 9:32The work is finished objectively on the cross, but it has to be
- 9:35applied to our hearts subjectively.
- 9:38A few verses later in 4.13, John says, By this we know that we
- 9:41abide in Him and He and us, because He has given us of His
- 9:44Spirit. So the spirit is the one who
- 9:46makes that external historical reality an internal personal
- 9:50reality for the believer. Yes, He regenerates us, gives us
- 9:53a new heart, and then He indwells us as a guarantee, as
- 9:57the one who confirms that what Christed on the cross is now
- 9:59true for you. It's a perfect, seamless
- 10:01operation planned by the Father, accomplished by the Son, and
- 10:05applied by the Spirit all of God for us.
- 10:08OK, this brings us to what is probably the most difficult, but
- 10:10also the most central word in the entire verse.
- 10:13Propitiation, right? It's not a word you hear much
- 10:17anymore, even in churches. Why is this one word so critical
- 10:20to John's definition of love? It's critical because it gives
- 10:24the content and the cost to God's love.
- 10:26Without it, the cross is just a tragic martyrdom.
- 10:30With it, it's a universe altering divine transaction.
- 10:33Propitiation means a sacrifice that does two things at once.
- 10:37It deals with our sin, and it turns away God's righteous wrath
- 10:40against that sin. It's a deeply sacrificial Old
- 10:43Testament word, isn't? It it is.
- 10:45It's rooted right in the Day of Atonement, Yom Kippur.
- 10:48On that day, the high priest would go into the Most Holy
- 10:50Place and sprinkle the blood of a sacrifice on the Mercy seat,
- 10:54the lit of the Ark of the Covenant.
- 10:56That act was a propitiation. It atoned for sin and satisfied
- 11:00the demands of God's holiness so He could continue to dwell among
- 11:03His people. So when John uses this word for
- 11:05Jesus, he's saying Jesus is the fulfillment of that entire
- 11:08system. He is the mercy seat, the priest
- 11:10and the sacrifice all in one. And his death performs that dual
- 11:13function. First, it's expiation.
- 11:16It deals with our guilt, all our specific concrete sins.
- 11:19It wipes the slate clean. It removes the sin.
- 11:22It removes the sin, but that's only half of it.
- 11:25The other half, the part that's so often ignored today, is that
- 11:28it deals with God's righteous wrath.
- 11:31The sacrifice turns aside the just anger of a holy God against
- 11:35rebellion. And we have to talk about wrath,
- 11:37because if there is no wrath, then this word propitiation
- 11:40doesn't make any sense. It's utterly meaningless.
- 11:42Why would you need to turn away wrath if there is none?
- 11:45John's own gospel says in chapter 3.
- 11:47The wrath of God remains on the one who disobeys.
- 11:51Paul says in Romans, we are saved from wrath through Christ.
- 11:54God's holiness isn't just a passive tyranny, it's an active
- 11:57opposition to all that is unholy.
- 11:59Sin must be judged. So Christ's death as
- 12:02propitiation means he stood in our place and took that
- 12:05judgement. He absorbed that holy
- 12:07opposition. He drank the cup.
- 12:09He bore the full judicial penalty that we deserved.
- 12:11This is what makes God's love a holy love.
- 12:13It doesn't just sweep sin under the rug.
- 12:15Right. If God just overlooked sin, he
- 12:17wouldn't be just the word. Propitiation actually protects
- 12:20the character of God. It does.
- 12:22It shows that His love operates in a way that is perfectly
- 12:26consistent with his justice. For God to forgive, the penalty
- 12:30had to be paid. His law had to be satisfied.
- 12:33Christ's death is that satisfaction.
- 12:35And this is really the heart of the doctrine of penal
- 12:37substitutionary atonement. It's the bullseye.
- 12:40It requires a penalty. That's the penal part, and it
- 12:43requires a substitute, someone to stand in our place.
- 12:46Christ is the innocent one who takes the penalty for the
- 12:48guilty. Other theories of the atonement.
- 12:50You know that Christ died just to show us God's love or to
- 12:53demonstrate how serious sin is. They fall short.
- 12:56They don't account for this specific word Hallasmos.
- 12:58They can't. Propitiation isn't about
- 13:00inspiration, it's about satisfaction.
- 13:03Illegal debt was paid in full. God's own justice was satisfied
- 13:07by the death of his own Son. That's what allows him to be
- 13:09both just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus,
- 13:12as Paul says in Romans. It's a love that upholds the law
- 13:15while saving the lawbreaker. It's an incredible concept.
- 13:18It is. And remember the goal of all
- 13:20this from the verse just before in 4.9 God sent his Son so that
- 13:24we might live through him. So verse 10 is the how life
- 13:28comes through propitiation. It's the necessary mechanism.
- 13:31Exactly. The removal of guilt and the
- 13:33turning away of wrath is what opens the way for us to have
- 13:36life. It's not just a declaration,
- 13:39it's a purchased reality. OK.
- 13:40So once we've established this objective, historical, costly
- 13:44act of propitiation, John then turns to the pastoral
- 13:48application of it all, which is assurance.
- 13:51Yes. The entire reason he wrote the
- 13:53letter, he says in chapter 5, is that you may know that you have
- 13:57eternal life. He's writing to believers who
- 14:00are being unsettled by false teachers, and he wants them to
- 14:03have certainty. And this is where it becomes so
- 14:05practical because this directly confronts the anxiety that comes
- 14:08from looking inward for that certainty.
- 14:10You know, we measure our standing with God by how we
- 14:12feel, how we're performing. And that's a roller coaster
- 14:16because our feelings are fickle and our performance is flawed.
- 14:18Every time we sin or feel distant from God, our assurance
- 14:22takes a hit because we've based it on ourselves.
- 14:24But John's whole argument forces our gaze outward.
- 14:27Entirely Assurance isn't found in the rise and fall of our
- 14:31emotions. It's found in a finished act of
- 14:33history. It's anchored in the objective
- 14:36fact of propitiation. And it all comes back to that
- 14:38little phrase. Not that we have loved God.
- 14:41That's the anchor point. He's telling you your weak,
- 14:43fluctuating love was never the basis of this relationship in
- 14:46the 1st place, so why would you look to it now for security?
- 14:50Our peace is based on His faithfulness, his initiating
- 14:55love, and His finished work. But what about in the moment
- 14:59when your heart is condemning you, as John says, when you feel
- 15:02that acute sense of your own sin and failure?
- 15:04How does this verse become a practical help right then?
- 15:07You have to preach it to yourself.
- 15:08Your feelings are screaming that you're a failure, that you're
- 15:10not a true believer. And at that moment you have to
- 15:13hold up the truth of first John 4.10 and say, no, my standing is
- 15:17not based on my love for God, but on the fact that He loved me
- 15:20and sent His Son as the propitiation for my sins.
- 15:22It's an act of faith to look away from the internal storm and
- 15:25look back to the cross. It is, You have to ask yourself,
- 15:29is the blood of Jesus enough? Was his sacrifice sufficient to
- 15:32satisfy the justice of God? If the answer is yes, then it is
- 15:36certainly sufficient to cover the sin that is troubling you
- 15:39right now. Your confidence isn't a
- 15:42historical fact, not an internal feeling.
- 15:44It's like that analogy of a bridge.
- 15:46Your security isn't based on how confident you feel walking
- 15:49across it, it's based on whether the bridge itself is
- 15:52structurally sound. Perfect analogy.
- 15:55The cross is the bridge. It was built by God himself to
- 15:58bear the full weight of his own wrath.
- 16:00If it can handle that, it can handle your doubts and fears.
- 16:03Your job isn't to feel strong. Your job is to trust the bridge.
- 16:07OK, so this doctrine isn't just for our private comfort.
- 16:10John immediately pivots to how it shapes our life together, has
- 16:13a community. Right.
- 16:14He doesn't leave it in the realm of abstract theology.
- 16:17Throughout the letter, he gives these three tests, or marks of
- 16:20genuine faith. The doctrinal test?
- 16:22Believing the right things about Jesus.
- 16:24The moral test Living a life of obedience and the social test.
- 16:27Loving other believers. And this verse 4.10, zero is the
- 16:32foundation for that social test. It tells us what kind of love
- 16:35we're supposed to have. It's not just a vague niceness.
- 16:38It has to be shaped by the cross.
- 16:40He makes that connection explicit in the very next verse,
- 16:43verse 11. Beloved, if God so loved us, we
- 16:46also ought to love one another. That little word.
- 16:49So is doing a lot of work there. A huge amount of work so means
- 16:54in this way. In what way?
- 16:56In the propitiatory, sacrificial enemy loving way described in
- 17:00verse 10, our love for each other is supposed to be a
- 17:03reflection of that. So what does that look like
- 17:05practically? Well, it means our love isn't
- 17:07based on whether someone is likable or has the same
- 17:09interests as us. It means we're patient with each
- 17:12other's faults. It means we forgive not because
- 17:14someone deserves it, but, as Paul says, as the Lord has
- 17:16forgiven you. The basis is God's prior action
- 17:19toward us. It also means being honest about
- 17:21sin, not just glossing over. It exactly because propitiation
- 17:25dealt with sin truthfully. So restoring a brother or sister
- 17:28means gently pointing them back to the cross, not pretending
- 17:31their sin doesn't matter. The sources also apply this to
- 17:33the family, which is a really powerful image.
- 17:36Yes, husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church
- 17:42and gave himself up for her. That's the standard.
- 17:44A self sacrificing, laying down your rights kind of love that
- 17:47aims for the good of the other person.
- 17:50And for parents, this changes how you view discipline.
- 17:52It has to. If you understand that you stand
- 17:55before God only because of propitiation, it makes you
- 17:58slower to anger with your own children.
- 18:01You correct them, yes, but you do it in the shadow of the
- 18:03cross, wanting them to ultimately trust in the same
- 18:06grace that saved you, not just to comply with your rules.
- 18:10So this doctrine shapes our communities, our families, and
- 18:13finally, how does it shape our mission to the world and our
- 18:15worship? It gives our mission its
- 18:17specific content. Evangelism can't just be about
- 18:20social good or making the world a nicer place.
- 18:23The message is that God loved his enemies and the only way
- 18:26back to Him is through the Son He sent to deal with our guilt
- 18:29in His wrath. So you have to talk about sin.
- 18:31You have to talk about judgment. You have to, because if you
- 18:34don't, the word love has no real meaning and propitiation becomes
- 18:39unnecessary. A faithful ministry has to
- 18:42proclaim the problem, sin and wrath to make sense of the
- 18:45solution. Substitutionary sacrifice.
- 18:47And in worship. It fuels everything It moves
- 18:50worship from being about us and our experience to being about
- 18:53him and his work. Things like the Lord's Supper
- 18:57become a dramatic reenactment of first John 4 point euro.
- 19:00We remember the body broken and bloodshed as the wrath pairing
- 19:03substitute it's. Hard to be casual about your
- 19:05faith when you're focused on that reality.
- 19:07It really is. When you grasp that God's love
- 19:09for you cost the Father his Son and cost the Son His life, it
- 19:13produces gratitude. It produces reverence.
- 19:16It anchors your praise not in how you feel that day, but in
- 19:19the objective reality of what was done for you.
- 19:21So as we wrap up this deep dive, it seems the main take away is
- 19:24that genuine love and the security it brings is found
- 19:27entirely outside of us. It's not in our hearts or our
- 19:29efforts, but in God's finished, costly historical act.
- 19:33That's the foundation for everything.
- 19:35So here's the final thought I'd leave with you.
- 19:37If Christ's death was sufficient to completely satisfy the
- 19:40justice of a perfectly holy God, allowing Him to welcome you
- 19:44without compromising his character, think about what kind
- 19:47of settled confidence that objective, finished work ought
- 19:50to create in your heart, especially on the days when your
- 19:53own feelings tell you you're not worthy.
- 19:55Your peace was purchased at the cross.
- 19:57It doesn't have to be re earned in your heart.