Latest / My Veterinary Life / Mistakes Happen with Dr. Katherine Quesenberry
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- 0:09Speaker 1: Welcome to this week's episode of My Veterinary Life Podcast.
- 0:12Speaker 1: I'm your host, doctor Annie Chavant, and my pronouns are
- 0:15Speaker 1: she Her, and we are continuing in our series Mistakes Happen,
- 0:19Speaker 1: where we're talking with brave colleagues about the parts of
- 0:21Speaker 1: their career stories no one likes to talk about. It
- 0:24Speaker 1: is my hope that this series empowers you to share
- 0:27Speaker 1: more openly about your own mistakes, both for your benefit
- 0:30Speaker 1: and for the benefit of those around you, and gives
- 0:32Speaker 1: you some ideas on how to approach future mistakes differently
- 0:35Speaker 1: based on the stories you hear. Our guest today is
- 0:39Speaker 1: doctor Catherine Queensonberry, the chief medical officer at the renowned
- 0:42Speaker 1: Animal Medical Center who has served as the service head
- 0:45Speaker 1: of Avian and Exotic Pet Medicine for the past several decades.
- 0:49Speaker 1: We are so honored to have doctor Queensuinberry join us
- 0:51Speaker 1: for this series. But before we jump in, I do
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- 1:22Speaker 1: the show, Doctor Queens and Berry.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you for having me. I really appreciate
- 1:26Speaker 2: this opportunity.
- 1:28Speaker 1: Well, we really appreciate your time and your willingness to
- 1:31Speaker 1: share on this important series. And let's start by telling
- 1:34Speaker 1: our listeners a little bit about yourself. So can you
- 1:37Speaker 1: share what your current role looks like and how you
- 1:40Speaker 1: got here.
- 1:42Speaker 2: My current role as Chief Medical Officer at the AMC.
- 1:46Speaker 2: I have been at the AMC for many years. I
- 1:49Speaker 2: actually started there as an intern back in nineteen eighty one.
- 1:52Speaker 2: That I went out and did a residency at University
- 1:55Speaker 2: of Florida and then I came back. I started the
- 1:59Speaker 2: Aving Exotics Service in nineteen eighty four and worked as
- 2:04Speaker 2: service head there since. As you said, many decades, and
- 2:08Speaker 2: then right before COVID, there was an opportunity to expand
- 2:15Speaker 2: and there was an opportunity to apply for the Chief
- 2:18Speaker 2: Medical Officer position. It was a leap of faith for
- 2:22Speaker 2: me because I'd never thought myself in that role. But
- 2:26Speaker 2: I also felt like it was an opportunity for me
- 2:29Speaker 2: to maybe give back in a way to my colleagues,
- 2:34Speaker 2: the people I've been working with for so long, and
- 2:37Speaker 2: to try to help, you know, make it better, I think,
- 2:42Speaker 2: for the next generations of veterine aias. So that's where
- 2:45Speaker 2: I've been since twenty nineteen through COVID, which was challenging
- 2:50Speaker 2: through COVID in the city. But yeah, I'm having a
- 2:54Speaker 2: great time and I love what I do.
- 2:57Speaker 1: Oh that's so great to hear. And I love hearing
- 3:00Speaker 1: stories of folks that have stayed around at a clinic
- 3:04Speaker 1: and watched it evolve and change as they have evolved
- 3:07Speaker 1: and changed professionally. And so it's just really special to hear.
- 3:10Speaker 1: And I appreciate you sharing that story giving us a
- 3:14Speaker 1: little bit of context. And we're here today to talk
- 3:17Speaker 1: about some mistakes. So throughout that time that you were
- 3:21Speaker 1: at AMC, could you tell us about a time when
- 3:24Speaker 1: you made a mistake.
- 3:26Speaker 2: When you first asked me this, I you know, several
- 3:28Speaker 2: things jump into your mind, right, because it's like there
- 3:31Speaker 2: are certain things that happen throughout your career that don't
- 3:36Speaker 2: go away. You can remember them just like if you
- 3:39Speaker 2: were there. It's inevitable that something is going to happen.
- 3:44Speaker 2: And I think as veterinarians, most of us are perfectionists.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Most of us are somewhat of an introvert, and I
- 3:52Speaker 2: think we come out thinking we're always going to do
- 3:56Speaker 2: the best, and when things go wrong, it's really really hot.
- 4:01Speaker 2: So a couple of things I can say that happened
- 4:04Speaker 2: to me. I remember one time I had a patient
- 4:07Speaker 2: that was a cockatoo, which, if you know what, you know,
- 4:10Speaker 2: these big, beautiful white birds. The bird was completely healthy
- 4:17Speaker 2: and I was twobe feeding it and I was trying
- 4:19Speaker 2: to do it quickly because the bird was stressed, and unfortunately,
- 4:25Speaker 2: the bird regurgitated, aspirated, and it died. I was completely
- 4:33Speaker 2: really mortified, taken aback to have an acute death happened
- 4:40Speaker 2: on you when you one didn't expect it, and to
- 4:44Speaker 2: you know, having to face that situation, it's really one
- 4:49Speaker 2: is terrifying to realize that you're going to have to
- 4:52Speaker 2: talk to the owner who didn't expect this to happen,
- 4:57Speaker 2: and to you know, you feel horrible that this happened
- 5:01Speaker 2: on your watch, right, So fortunately at that time, I
- 5:06Speaker 2: had a boss who was very supportive, and I think
- 5:10Speaker 2: that's very important going forward. You need to have certainly
- 5:14Speaker 2: a support group for you. And I immediately told my boss.
- 5:19Speaker 2: First I had to go tell the client what had happened,
- 5:22Speaker 2: and obviously the client was very upset, very emotional, and
- 5:27Speaker 2: those are very very difficult situations. But then I went
- 5:31Speaker 2: and told my boss what happened, and I did have
- 5:35Speaker 2: support through that, so I got through that. And then
- 5:39Speaker 2: another situation was which wasn't quite as dramatic, but still
- 5:44Speaker 2: weighs on me. I remember there was a young boy
- 5:48Speaker 2: that came in with his bearded dragon, and the bearded
- 5:52Speaker 2: dragon digits were necrossing, and at that time I was
- 5:59Speaker 2: convinced I knew what was going on, you know, I
- 6:02Speaker 2: knew what was and I made prescription. I thought it
- 6:06Speaker 2: was an environmental issue, that the environment was so dry,
- 6:10Speaker 2: and I didn't think enough. And this was back before
- 6:13Speaker 2: we knew a whole lot about yellow fungus disease and
- 6:17Speaker 2: bearded dragons, but it was just coming up. But I
- 6:21Speaker 2: made the mistake probably of not reaching out to colleagues
- 6:26Speaker 2: to try to get more information about, you know what
- 6:32Speaker 2: I think I was a little too self confident in
- 6:35Speaker 2: what I thought I knew, and I felt like I
- 6:40Speaker 2: underserved this client. And I do remember that, so I think,
- 6:47Speaker 2: you know, in that situation, my mistake was I didn't
- 6:51Speaker 2: reach out. I didn't ask for more information to try
- 6:56Speaker 2: to understand what was going on.
- 6:59Speaker 1: So those are two that really stay with me.
- 7:01Speaker 2: For that that brings up you know how we deal
- 7:04Speaker 2: with these situations. And again these were earlier in my
- 7:08Speaker 2: career and I've learned since then, But you know how
- 7:12Speaker 2: you deal with these situations. And I don't know if
- 7:17Speaker 2: you've listened to Benet Brown. I think she makes a
- 7:20Speaker 2: really good point about experiencing guilt versus shame, And I
- 7:28Speaker 2: think in many situations as veterinarians, especially early in your career,
- 7:34Speaker 2: you feel shame because you feel like you're a bad person.
- 7:40Speaker 2: You internalize it that you know, I don't know what
- 7:43Speaker 2: I'm doing, I'm a bad veterinarian. As opposed to guilt,
- 7:48Speaker 2: where you recognize that you made a mistake, but you've
- 7:54Speaker 2: got to learn from that mistake. It's not a reflection
- 7:57Speaker 2: of you as a bad person or a bad veterinarian,
- 8:01Speaker 2: but it's a reflection of a you made a mistake
- 8:05Speaker 2: and you've got to learn from it and go forward.
- 8:08Speaker 2: So I think those are really important things to distinguish
- 8:12Speaker 2: what you're feeling and try to work through that, because
- 8:18Speaker 2: I think I know in my situation, I do you know,
- 8:21Speaker 2: I did feel shame at that point. You know, I
- 8:24Speaker 2: did feel like, oh my god, you know what am
- 8:26Speaker 2: I doing? And then to try to turn that around
- 8:29Speaker 2: and say, Okay, I made a mistake. I'm not going
- 8:33Speaker 2: to do that again. You've got to learn from your
- 8:35Speaker 2: mistakes and go forward.
- 8:38Speaker 1: Yeah, there's so much for us to think about and
- 8:41Speaker 1: unpack with those examples and the reflection that you've clearly
- 8:46Speaker 1: done following those cases and thinking about how they're going
- 8:50Speaker 1: to impact the way that you practice moving forward. One
- 8:53Speaker 1: thing that I want to go back to with the
- 8:56Speaker 1: Cockatoo example was your emphasis on the value of having
- 9:01Speaker 1: a supportive boss, And I think that is a really
- 9:05Speaker 1: important thing to highlight and can make a really big
- 9:07Speaker 1: difference as we're navigating these mistakes that will happen. They
- 9:11Speaker 1: will happen to everybody, But what did that conversation with
- 9:14Speaker 1: your boss look like? Like? What did they do in
- 9:19Speaker 1: that moment to make you feel supported?
- 9:21Speaker 2: You can't just hide it. You have to be upfront
- 9:24Speaker 2: with what happened. And my boss was a man. He
- 9:29Speaker 2: was very supportive and said, you know, I'm there for you.
- 9:33Speaker 2: I'll help you talk with the client, and he actually
- 9:36Speaker 2: spoke with the client himself, which I think felt very
- 9:40Speaker 2: very supportive for me. But I think that's so important.
- 9:45Speaker 2: I actually learned a term yesterday. We were having a
- 9:48Speaker 2: similar discussion. But in human medicine they have a code
- 9:51Speaker 2: they say code lavender and code lavenders when there's an
- 9:56Speaker 2: emotional situation and they call it and a support team,
- 10:01Speaker 2: which I thought, you know, I was like, oh, that's
- 10:03Speaker 2: pretty cool, you know, to have that term. But that
- 10:07Speaker 2: is so important and that's what we built at AMC.
- 10:10Speaker 2: We've built a really robust support team for when things
- 10:16Speaker 2: happen like that, because inevitably things happen, and so we
- 10:22Speaker 2: have a whole team of people, including social workers for
- 10:27Speaker 2: the clients. We have our client Satisfaction team that any
- 10:32Speaker 2: client who hasn't played or if there's a problem, we
- 10:37Speaker 2: know about it immediately, and we support the veterinarians there.
- 10:41Speaker 2: And so I think if you know, wherever you work,
- 10:44Speaker 2: if you can have a team like that, it makes
- 10:48Speaker 2: a huge difference because then you're not taking this on
- 10:53Speaker 2: and internalizing it yourself, and that can be very difficult.
- 10:58Speaker 2: We already have emotional job right in situations, and then
- 11:02Speaker 2: you deal with the situation like that where there is
- 11:05Speaker 2: a mistake and someone has lost their pet or there's
- 11:10Speaker 2: a bad outcome that even doubles down. So you have
- 11:14Speaker 2: to have some sort of support network, both at home
- 11:17Speaker 2: and at work to help you through those situations.
- 11:22Speaker 1: I was not familiar with the code Lavender either, and
- 11:25Speaker 1: I think that speaks to the importance, like the fact
- 11:29Speaker 1: that it's codified is a testament to the fact that
- 11:32Speaker 1: that these things do happen, and we do need to
- 11:35Speaker 1: be very careful and respectful with how we manage it afterwards.
- 11:39Speaker 1: And it's that management afterwards is what really makes a
- 11:43Speaker 1: big difference in what matters and allows for that growth
- 11:45Speaker 1: both with ourselves as the medical professionals, and then also
- 11:48Speaker 1: with our clients and that relationship and the patients. I'm
- 11:51Speaker 1: really glad that you shared that and that there are
- 11:53Speaker 1: similarities in place at AMC to treat these situations with
- 11:57Speaker 1: the care that they deserve. Yes, and then I also
- 12:01Speaker 1: want to revisit our Bearded Dragon because you mentioned that
- 12:07Speaker 1: self confidence was a bit at play there and feeling
- 12:11Speaker 1: like you made the diagnosis and kind of moved on
- 12:15Speaker 1: after that and maybe had some confirmation biases going on there,
- 12:19Speaker 1: And I think that's holf. Confidence is something that's so
- 12:22Speaker 1: important for us to mention, especially thinking about early on
- 12:25Speaker 1: in our career, because I feel like it's such a
- 12:28Speaker 1: tension between not feeling confident enough and then feeling overly
- 12:32Speaker 1: confident sometimes.
- 12:34Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's totally totally. I think the main thing
- 12:37Speaker 2: you have to listen. We all have to feel confident
- 12:41Speaker 2: right in what we're doing, but I think you have
- 12:44Speaker 2: to at the same time that you're confident, you have
- 12:47Speaker 2: to remain open. We all tend to get in our
- 12:51Speaker 2: little lanes, right And you learn this as you go
- 12:55Speaker 2: through your career. And I'm sure you've heard this before.
- 12:58Speaker 2: The longer you've been out there practicing, the more you
- 13:00Speaker 2: realize you don't know right.
- 13:01Speaker 1: And it's like you always have to.
- 13:04Speaker 2: Be open to other ideas, and especially you know in
- 13:08Speaker 2: situations where you practice kind of in your own lane
- 13:12Speaker 2: for a long time and then somebody else comes in.
- 13:14Speaker 2: And that's a beauty of being at AMC is that
- 13:16Speaker 2: we always have people coming in with new ideas, right,
- 13:19Speaker 2: you always have to be open and thinking, oh, well,
- 13:22Speaker 2: I've done it this way and I think it's this,
- 13:24Speaker 2: but you know, maybe maybe there's a different way of
- 13:27Speaker 2: doing it, or maybe there's a different diagnosis that I
- 13:29Speaker 2: didn't think of. So I think you have to even
- 13:32Speaker 2: though you're confident, you have to be open to being
- 13:37Speaker 2: receptive to other ideas, other thoughts, other ways of doing things.
- 13:41Speaker 2: And that's something that we all have to be aware
- 13:45Speaker 2: of as we go through our careers.
- 13:47Speaker 1: Absolutely, I think a point that I want to make
- 13:50Speaker 1: that ties both of those things in is I noticed
- 13:53Speaker 1: when you were describing the cockatoo example that you said
- 13:57Speaker 1: you wanted to do the person teacher quickly. You were
- 14:01Speaker 1: feeding through the tube, but you wanted to do it
- 14:03Speaker 1: quickly because the bird was stressed. And I think just
- 14:07Speaker 1: that little sentence to me is so important, because the
- 14:11Speaker 1: incident is never in isolation, right, It's never just the procedure.
- 14:15Speaker 1: There's a time component, a stress component of the patient,
- 14:18Speaker 1: or maybe you there's team dynamics. There's as doctor Brandt
- 14:22Speaker 1: mentioned in the Interactory episode to this series, there's individual
- 14:26Speaker 1: and systemic factors at play, or every mistake that happens.
- 14:30Speaker 1: So can you comment a little bit on that or
- 14:33Speaker 1: how maybe you practiced differently as the result of learning
- 14:37Speaker 1: from some of your mistakes.
- 14:38Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, And I can also comment and being part
- 14:42Speaker 2: a large organization, certainly, I think you learn as you
- 14:45Speaker 2: go along that. Yeah, I mean there's there's different factors.
- 14:49Speaker 2: You know, you're behind in your appointments or whatever. You've
- 14:51Speaker 2: got to get through this, But each case is individual.
- 14:55Speaker 2: You always have to take the time and don't rest
- 14:59Speaker 2: on a I've done this a million times, I don't
- 15:01Speaker 2: you know, I don't need to pay as much attention
- 15:04Speaker 2: as I've done it before because every case is different
- 15:07Speaker 2: and every case can go wrong, you know, if you
- 15:10Speaker 2: don't take the time. And I know it's hard and
- 15:14Speaker 2: stressful situations or when you're feeling rush, but you've got
- 15:19Speaker 2: to slow down, take the time, pay attention to what
- 15:21Speaker 2: you're doing. Absolutely focus, especially now right everything's on, you're
- 15:26Speaker 2: checking your phone, you're doing this, you're doing that, but
- 15:29Speaker 2: you have to focus on what you're doing with the patient,
- 15:31Speaker 2: for sure.
- 15:33Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that that's such a good reminder and
- 15:37Speaker 1: it can be so challenging, especially earlier on in our
- 15:40Speaker 1: careers when we put so much pressure on ourselves and
- 15:43Speaker 1: maybe there is some external pressure as well. Do you
- 15:46Speaker 1: have any advice. I'm gonna tap into the chief Medical
- 15:49Speaker 1: officer hat a little bit here, I think for new
- 15:53Speaker 1: grads who want to have that conversation with their either
- 15:58Speaker 1: office manager, practice own or about maybe needing some systemic
- 16:04Speaker 1: adjustments to be able to have that time that they're
- 16:07Speaker 1: looking for to double check to stay focused.
- 16:11Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think that's always the challenge, right
- 16:14Speaker 2: and you know, we've certainly at AMC had to make adjustments.
- 16:19Speaker 2: Things are so much more complicated nowadays. I think you know,
- 16:22Speaker 2: with used to you had write out something on a
- 16:25Speaker 2: piece of paper that was your medical note. Now you're
- 16:27Speaker 2: you're doing all things. That being said, with the use
- 16:30Speaker 2: of AI scribes and all that, we can be more
- 16:34Speaker 2: efficient in what we do. But I do think we
- 16:37Speaker 2: have to as administration, have to listen to the people
- 16:44Speaker 2: that are on the you know, on the front lines
- 16:46Speaker 2: and doing things and if they're feeling they can't do
- 16:50Speaker 2: something with it, or they're feeling rushed, or there's there's
- 16:53Speaker 2: too much to do, we have we have to adjust.
- 16:56Speaker 2: I mean, we have to do that because, as I said,
- 16:58Speaker 2: things are much more complicated now days. We have to
- 17:00Speaker 2: be aware of that because we want to do a
- 17:03Speaker 2: good job and we want to practice to the best
- 17:07Speaker 2: of our ability. So I think you just have to
- 17:09Speaker 2: have those frank conversations with your administration and hopefully they'll listen.
- 17:15Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's great advice. And being proactive and
- 17:19Speaker 1: being willing to have those conversations even before significant mistake happens,
- 17:24Speaker 1: and making sure that everybody on the team is familiar
- 17:27Speaker 1: with the protocols, knows who to talk to, identify that
- 17:30Speaker 1: supportive mentor as we talked about at the beginning. Those
- 17:34Speaker 1: all sound like great ideas for being able to navigate
- 17:37Speaker 1: these situations with a little bit more confidence.
- 17:40Speaker 2: Yeah. And you mentioned the word protocols, and I think
- 17:43Speaker 2: that's also very important to have at least good training.
- 17:47Speaker 2: I think training is so important, and we emphasize that
- 17:52Speaker 2: training of your support staff, training of everyone on the team.
- 17:57Speaker 2: As far as how to approach situations, I think that
- 18:00Speaker 2: is vitally important to have a smooth running team and
- 18:04Speaker 2: try to mitigate issues like this, And we're constantly training
- 18:09Speaker 2: in every aspect. We're constantly training.
- 18:11Speaker 1: That's a great point. Now I want to invite you
- 18:16Speaker 1: to do a little bit of additional reflection here, how
- 18:20Speaker 1: has your perspective on mistakes changed over time?
- 18:25Speaker 2: So I think what I've realized now is one everybody's
- 18:31Speaker 2: going to make a mistake, right, the most important thing
- 18:34Speaker 2: is to be transparent. Being open on is transparent. That
- 18:39Speaker 2: is very, very important, And it's also a service to
- 18:43Speaker 2: the client. Offering support to the client if you have
- 18:46Speaker 2: social workers or something like that, I think, or some
- 18:49Speaker 2: sort of support that way, having someone for them to
- 18:53Speaker 2: talk to if they are upset, but listening to the client,
- 18:57Speaker 2: and then going forward, you have to circle back and
- 19:01Speaker 2: see how was the mistake made, what went wrong? Why
- 19:06Speaker 2: was the mistake made?
- 19:07Speaker 1: And then you have.
- 19:08Speaker 2: To look at your own protocols, you know what you
- 19:12Speaker 2: were doing to understand why it was made, how you
- 19:17Speaker 2: can correct that going forward. And that's that's just as important,
- 19:22Speaker 2: and that's important to the client too. They want to
- 19:25Speaker 2: know if a mistake was made a lot of times
- 19:28Speaker 2: they want to know that that's not going to happen
- 19:30Speaker 2: to somebody else.
- 19:31Speaker 1: Right, So they want to hear that you are.
- 19:34Speaker 2: Making changes to know that that won't happen again. And
- 19:39Speaker 2: I think those are the things that we try to
- 19:42Speaker 2: emphasize in that I've learned through the years that are
- 19:45Speaker 2: that are key to dealing with mistakes, because, like I said,
- 19:49Speaker 2: you're always going to have mistakes. It's just part of
- 19:51Speaker 2: what we do and you have to accept that.
- 19:54Speaker 1: So being transparent and then reflecting as a team and
- 20:00Speaker 1: what we can change or what we can do better
- 20:03Speaker 1: so that this does not happen to another patient. It
- 20:06Speaker 1: sounds like the tenets of what you've learned over the
- 20:09Speaker 1: years and navigating and managing mistakes. Yes, yes, absolutely, And.
- 20:14Speaker 2: I can not add you know the other thing when
- 20:16Speaker 2: you're dealing with clients. I think obviously most of us
- 20:20Speaker 2: do this, but you do have to inform a client
- 20:23Speaker 2: of all risks of anything, and you you know, you
- 20:27Speaker 2: want to have written acknowledgment that they understand the risks.
- 20:32Speaker 2: But you also I think also when you're dealing with
- 20:35Speaker 2: a client, you have to present all options. That My
- 20:39Speaker 2: philosophy is I never force a client into a certain option.
- 20:43Speaker 2: I say these are your options. We can do this,
- 20:47Speaker 2: we can do this, or we can do this. This
- 20:49Speaker 2: may carry a lot more risks, but if it works,
- 20:53Speaker 2: then perhaps the animal will be that much better. So
- 20:58Speaker 2: I think you have to present the awe questions always
- 21:01Speaker 2: to the client and have the client make the decision.
- 21:04Speaker 2: You don't say we're going to do this, We're going
- 21:05Speaker 2: to do this. Sometimes clients don't feel like they were
- 21:09Speaker 2: fully informed of the risks or what their other options were.
- 21:14Speaker 2: Those are also very important tenants to try to prevent
- 21:18Speaker 2: a bad situation if a mistake or or something doesn't
- 21:22Speaker 2: go right.
- 21:23Speaker 1: Yeah, So that transparency that you mentioned for after mistakes
- 21:27Speaker 1: can be valuable before in talking about the procedure and
- 21:31Speaker 1: being upfront about why we're recommending it, what the benefits are,
- 21:34Speaker 1: but also what are those associated risks, so that we're
- 21:38Speaker 1: all on the same page going into the procedure. Now,
- 21:41Speaker 1: you've mentioned a few times that mistakes do happen. They're
- 21:44Speaker 1: going to happen to all of us. So as we
- 21:47Speaker 1: wrap our conversation today, I would love to get your
- 21:51Speaker 1: advice for that recent graduate who is in practice and
- 21:56Speaker 1: anxious even thinking about making their very first big mistake.
- 22:01Speaker 2: Yeah. I think I experienced this with my trainees. What
- 22:06Speaker 2: I try to tell them is that it happens to
- 22:08Speaker 2: all of us. I think, you know, if they're feeling uncomfortable,
- 22:13Speaker 2: go to someone maybe who's got five years experience so
- 22:17Speaker 2: someone a little more experienced than you and talk to them,
- 22:20Speaker 2: and chances are they're going to open up and say, hey,
- 22:23Speaker 2: this happened to me. It's not the end of your career.
- 22:26Speaker 2: You're going to get through this, and you'll learn and
- 22:30Speaker 2: you learn from your mistakes and probably you'll never do
- 22:34Speaker 2: that again, right. I mean, that's how we learn, that's
- 22:38Speaker 2: how we grow. And you have to learn it and
- 22:40Speaker 2: not take it personally. It doesn't reflect on you, as
- 22:44Speaker 2: we said earlier, as a bad, bad veterinarian or whatever.
- 22:47Speaker 2: It's a mistake and you have to look at it,
- 22:51Speaker 2: learn from it, and then you move forward. And I
- 22:54Speaker 2: think that helps a lot. And I think it helps
- 22:58Speaker 2: a lot to hear that it happens to everyone and
- 23:01Speaker 2: it happens to me, and I usually try to give
- 23:03Speaker 2: examples of where you know, it didn't happen to me,
- 23:06Speaker 2: you know. So I think that talking to someone and
- 23:10Speaker 2: getting that support is really important.
- 23:14Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, And I think I'm so glad that the
- 23:18Speaker 1: importance of community and practicing in community has been a
- 23:21Speaker 1: thread throughout this conversation. It was so helpful to you
- 23:25Speaker 1: in the case with the cockatoo of being able to
- 23:28Speaker 1: feel comfortable going to your boss and talking to him
- 23:30Speaker 1: about it and feeling the support for him and seeing
- 23:32Speaker 1: it when he was willing to speak to the client
- 23:34Speaker 1: as well, and then recognizing that that support is vital
- 23:40Speaker 1: in the navigating of mistakes, and it can look different
- 23:44Speaker 1: for different folks. It doesn't have to be your boss.
- 23:46Speaker 1: It can be that colleague five years out, or trusted
- 23:50Speaker 1: friend from veterinary school who's kind of in the same
- 23:53Speaker 1: phase as you, or a mentor in another practice. The
- 23:57Speaker 1: important thing is to identify a trusted, respected colleague who
- 24:04Speaker 1: can help share some of the emotional weight of the
- 24:07Speaker 1: situation and empathize because we've all been there, and so
- 24:11Speaker 1: I think reminding ourselves that we're not alone, that we
- 24:14Speaker 1: do have resources, and we will get through this, and
- 24:18Speaker 1: we'll get through this together is such valuable advice for
- 24:22Speaker 1: you to share with our listeners today. Yeah yeah, so
- 24:25Speaker 1: so well said, thank you, well, thank you so much,
- 24:28Speaker 1: doctor Queasenberry. I have really enjoyed this conversation and hearing
- 24:31Speaker 1: about your experiences and also learning from the reflected work
- 24:35Speaker 1: that you have done on mistakes and the valuable lessons
- 24:39Speaker 1: that we can learn from them that make us the
- 24:41Speaker 1: better professionals moving forward. So thank you so much for
- 24:44Speaker 1: your time today and really really appreciate you coming on.
- 24:47Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, and thank you to each of
- 24:49Speaker 1: you for joining us on this episode of My Veterinary
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