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__BONUS EPISODE___DA CREW PODCAST SEASON 1_ HOST APOSTLE TAMELA LUCUS · DA CREW Podcast

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May of twenty twenty by Queen Angela. Get featured. Good afternoon, Good
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afternoon, Good afternoon. Last time was on here. I was here to
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encourage parents, and now I want to make you aware about schools. But
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before I start, let me sing this song. He's a lily O the
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Vallet. He's a bride had a morning star. Oh, he's a lile
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b the vallet. He's a bride and a morning star. He's a lili
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other bout it. He is a bright and I'm on and starf Isn't that
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good news? Ooh, hollelujah. Isn't that good news? Hallelujah, Glory,
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glory, glory. He is the lily. We got to put God
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first in all things and everything, especially in this changing world because a lot
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is going on. And today I want to talk about schools and education and
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how it has changed over the years. Before there were schools, children used
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to work with their parents in the field as young as five six years old.
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Why because there was no such thing schools. You know, you just
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work in the field with your parents. So when nineteen twelve came, the
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children's labor laws started, so they had to figure out what can we do
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with these children? Children and a lot of churches have already had schools because
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they wanted their children to be educated for the world. So the government's up,
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let us start schools too, and they look at it as an opportunity
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to make some money. And it's been a money things since. And if
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you think about it, when it comes to these standardized tests and all this
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stuff, like, for real, who's actually learning? Because when you're in
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the classroom and you're trying to teach the children the basics of ABC's and one,
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two three, who's actually learning if you're telling them that they have to
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pass these standardized tests because they don't even know step one first, we even
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got away from writing a cursive. They can't even sign their own name.
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So school and education has changed over the years, and parents have to fight
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for their truth and for their education. So when it started, when school
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started, it started in the church, and that's why a lot of private
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schools, you know, get their money first. You why they're getting money
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before the public schools now, you know. And then as the years went
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by, certain children couldn't go to school. They weren't allowed to read or
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write. And then when they did allow them to read and write, they
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had to go to their own school. So it was segregated for a very
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long time, and they didn't get the same education as they're now white,
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you know what I'm saying. Children, And the sad part is if you
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look at the different schools, all you have to do is get in your
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car and drive to different neighborhoods and you'll see a big, huge difference when
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they come to schools. You can go into a certain neighborhood and you will
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see wires and electricity and stuff that's falling apart in certain schools. Then you
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can go way out in the suburbs and go to their schools, and what
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do you see, Big beautiful, bright schools with a big old band,
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a big old feel they gave everything they need and then when somebody say something
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it's an issue, you know, No, I don't know. I don't
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know, because all I know is all our children should be learning the same
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thing, especially at this day and time. Why are we still segregated?
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We're not segregated, yesuz when it comes to education, we are because certain
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schools learn different things. They learn about coding, All schools don't learn about
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coding. Dues learn about housekeeping, nursing finances, they learn that, all
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schools don't learn that. So we are still segregated. And I'm asking the
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parents to get involved, and a lot of parents say, well, I
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can't get involved. Yes, you can go to the PTA meetings, get
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involved. Don't wait till something real, real bad happened. Then you want
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to say something, you have to show up, you have to vote,
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you have to make sure they hear your voice. And so the segregation,
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it just had continued for years and years and years, and that's why the
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Brown versus the Board of Education came about because they said, you know what,
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You're not gonna keep on treating our children like this, or children have
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to learn. So in nineteen fifty four, yes, people went to court
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and they sue and they won. They won on paper, They on on
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paper, but they because if you really look at education, they really really
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didn't win the way they're supposed to have won. Because you still got Now
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you got the lottery, now you got all this crazy stuff. Oh my
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child go to this school and that school. We still have different schools doing
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different things and not giving our children what they need. There's a difference between
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need and want. And when it came to children who are in disparity,
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who really really really need the help, they had the audacity and the nerve
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to say they don't need arts, they don't need music. Well, let
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me tell you. I have been teaching and working with children from nineteen ninety
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on. Now do y'all hear me? So I've seen education change. I've
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seen things change in the classroom. When they still are taking art and music
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out of the classroom, I was like, what are you doing? Like
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what are we doing? Like the children they need music and they need art.
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They need extra curriculum because it helps their brain grow, It helps their
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brain to develop, it makes their brain branch off. And say ooh,
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I could do this and I could do that. But if you take everything
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away, calling yourself punishing them for what what have they done? Why do
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they have to be punished for what they are? Children? Let them be
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children. When I was growing up, we were allowed you know, remember
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they used to have these papers, don't They probably don't have it anymore.
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They used to give us these long rectangle papers and at the top it was
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blank, and at the bottom they had lines and at the top you can
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draw a picture. You draw a picture about your story at the top,
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and at the bottom you write about it. They took that away. Where
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does the creativity comes in? Like, the children are not allowed to think
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and explore and imagine anymore. They want to just take everything that's good away
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from children, and so we have to fight for that. And I used
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to get in trouble off taime. I don't care because thank god I was
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a social study teacher, and I thank god for that because it opened up
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a door for me to be creative. It opened up a door for me
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to help children to solve problems because I would say, if you were there,
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what would you have done and what would you have changed? And then
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I will bring different crowns in there and say draw this, draw a scenery,
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change the history, draw this, do that, and I will do
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a lot of hands on because I am a visual person. I like to
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see things and I like to see it come to pass. And so what
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I would do in my classroom our bringing legos for older children. Yes,
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a lot of people keep on saying, but they they in high school,
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they don't want to play with no legos. Okay, go ahead, go
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ahead and think that, because from fourth grade to twelfth grade I had them
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playing legos, played th old, all the stuff that you give to early
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childhood. I let them do that. Why because they had to be creative
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and solve problems. And I would give them a scenario and I say,
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okay, solve it using this, and they did. And they worked together.
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And a lot of people will get mad, said m Her class show
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is quiet. Okay, so you mad? You mad? The children were
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working together. See, that's what's wrong, because we need to teach our
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children how to socialize because they got to grow up, they have to become
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adults, and they have to learn how to get along with the next person.
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And that's what's wrong with a society. Now we have tooken socialization out.
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We tell the children soon they go in the classroom, be quiet,
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don't say a word. Well, where do they get to socialize at lunchtime?
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I mean, they don't have a class to socialize. They need to
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talk. And I remember my principal came in one time. He said,
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they sure's doing a lot of talking. I said, mm hm. He
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said you let them. I say, yes, I let them talk.
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This is a social study class, and their social liven And he looked at
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me. He thought I was crazy. But if we're gonna talk about history,
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let them talk about it. Let them solve the problem and let them
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and I will have them do skits in my classroom. And I sent out
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you know, permission slips and asked, could I video tape your children do
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a skit because we're gonna reenact history. And their parents would say, okay,
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so they will take a role of who gonna be this person, who's
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gonna be that person? Because I wanted them to have fun with history,
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because you know, when I was growing up, history was born. I
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was like, oh my god, we're gonna get this class. But I
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had to find a way to make education and make learning fun. And we
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need to bring fun back into education so that children they don't mind just running
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school and learning how to learn how to do this or learn how to do
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that. But we have taken so much fun out of education and made it
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so serious that children don't even want to go. Even the teachers don't even
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want to be in a classroom. It's like, oh my god, we
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gotta do what because all this baracracy, all this. You can't do this
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and you can't do that. And yes, they do give teachers a list
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of things they can and cannot do, and you like, well, dad,
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my hands is tied. And then the parents is getting mad as the
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educators while you're not doing this, why you're not doing that? Well,
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we can. And then when you try to explain that to some of the
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parents, they get very upset because they don't understand what's going on behind the
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scene. That's why I always tell parents, please get involved. Please call
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up to the school, Please ask if you could sit in the classroom,
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please please please. It's a please, because you need to know what's going
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on in your child's classroom. You need to know what's going on in your
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child's school. And so why are we talking about how school started all that?
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Because it has changed over the years. I remember in twenty ten,
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I kept on asking parents, please get involved, Please talk to your children,
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if your children's behavior has changed, please find a way to talk to
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your child and find out what's going on. Why, because in twenty ten,
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now this is twenty twenty three, but in twenty ten a lot of
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things were happening in the schools. And from two thousand eight, two thousand
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and nine twenty ten, I personally and some more teachers had to go to
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children who are in elementary. We're not talking about high school. We're not
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talking about junior high. I personally had to go to some funerals because of
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children taking their lives. This thing is serious when it comes to education.
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And always tell parents, pay attention to your child. But it's like they
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want to say, be quiet, be quiet, don't talk to me.
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I don't want to hear it. You got to hear it. It's a
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plead. It's a plead going now, and I've been saying it since twenty
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ten. Pay your attention to your child. If that attitude has changed,
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if that behavior has changed, get involved. And you know how children don't
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talk to me. I don't want to tell you nothing. You better go
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to that school. You better sit in that classroom. You better find out
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what's going on. You better learn your children's friends, learn their names,
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who they are, who they hang with. Be nosy. They are still
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a child, They're not an adult. They meet your help. Especially now
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now that was thirteen years ago when I was saying, parents, please get
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involved. Why because there's a lot of things that I have witnessed with my
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own eyes in the classroom. And I literally had to call parents and tell
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them what's going on with their child, even though not my child, no,
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no, not my child. I remember, Hallelujah. I was teaching
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some tenth graders and I called the parents. I said, I'm not trying
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to be funny, but do you allow your child to come to school and
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have people touch on them? And they was like, what is you talking
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about? And I said, well, they sitting here and all these children
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touching on them and they supposed to be learning. And they said, what,
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let me speak to them, and they was talk to their child.
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Find out, yeah, their child was doing things. Because a lot of
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parents, they do not want to get ball. A lot of parents say,
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well, you know, I'm already stressed that I'm tired. I already
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got to go to work. You know, you want to add this to
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me. You want to tell me this, You want to tell me that
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I'm trying to get you involved because there's a lot of things going on in
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the schools. There are a lot of things going on in the classroom.
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And then you got some schools with the principals they tell the teachers, don't
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tell the parents what's going on. Don't tell them jack because they don't want
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to get sued. They don't want to get involved. But I'm different because
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when I go to a classroom, I tell those children I'm your mama.
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I'm your mama in here from whatever time you come to school, I have
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to make sure that you are okay. I have to make sure that you're
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safe. Is okay. I didn't come here to just get a patcheck.
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I come here to teach. I come here to make sure you are safe.
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And it's very rare when you have educators like that. But I'm all
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school and you shouldn't get involved. And it's a lot of teachers said,
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well, I can't call the parents, but I want those people. Oh,
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well call you in a minute and tell you what's going on with your
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child. We got to work together as adults. We got to work together
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because these our babies. And in twenty ten, I was telling parents,
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if your child's behavior change, asked them, did anything happen in the bathroom,
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because a lot of things happen in the bathroom. Oh, my goodness,
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I don't want to hear it. I don't want to hear Why you
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don't want to hear it because you don't want to believe that this world has
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changed. You don't want to believe that something bad like this can happen to
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your child. Guess what it is. And now it's worse than ever because
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I tried to warn parents thirteen years ago, but they didn't want to hear
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it. Oh, be quiet, girl, that's not going on. I
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said, yes it is. I said, they are doing things in the
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bath room. Oh they can't be doing that. They not doing that.
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Yes, they are wherever you can think. They can imagine in a class
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in the bathroom. They are doing that in the bathroom. And if you
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look it up. There was a little boy, I believe he was nine
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years old and he went to a school here in Ohio. He was raped.
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He was game raped. This is elementary. We ain't talking about junior
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high and we're not talking about high school. We talking about elementary. He
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was game rape at his school, went home, lay in his bed.
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His mother said, you're not gonna eat. He said no and went to
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his room, and that was the last time she saw her son. Let
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me tell y'all, y'all got to get involved. So she had to do
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an investigation. She asked the school, what happened to my child? What
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happened? They kept on saying, I don't know, I don't know.
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When she finally got the lawyer, and this is the sad port she had
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to get a lawyer. The lawyer said, I want to see the cameras
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because a lot of schools have cameras. They said, I want to see
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the camera. And they showed this on National News. Do y'all hear me?
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They showed this on Natural News where her son was laying on the ground,
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his pants down, and then they they took the video back and they
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showed the children run out the bathroom laughing and giggling. That boy was torture,
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but the school tried to cover it up. And in twenty ten,
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I tried to tell parents, pay attention to your children. Because when the
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attitude change and something change, something has happened and it's not good. Talk
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to your children, give them the help that they need, and don't yell
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at them, don't scream at them, don't fuss at them, don't say
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why you allowed us happen. Don't say that to them. Because bullying has
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has went to another level of evil. Bullying when we was growing up,
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it will be you know, we cap on your mama, We cap on
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your feet, your toes, your eye. You know, you know,
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we will cap on each other as children. But this bullying, it's a
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different kind of evil. You know, at first, we at the early
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two thousand, we went through the cyper bullying, you know where people get
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on social media and talk about you, talk about your family and all the
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devil. Was a different kind of ciper bully. But this bullying now turns
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to a different level of bullying and a lot of us don't want to face
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it, but we have to because we losing our children at an early age.
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Now, you know, it washeard of children in elementary going through this
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process, but they are because evil has taken to a different level. Evil
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is at a different age and as an educator, I'm trying to warn people,
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pay attention to your children. Quit closing your eyes. Oh not much,
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y'all. That won't happen too much. We now, now we got
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parents who are taking the school board the court and now they have to go
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to Supreme Court because now we have went to a different level of evil.
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Now we got boys who are in and saying that they are a transgender and
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they wearing girls' clothes and they going in girls' bathrooms and they raping them.
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So now we get in nine, ten and eleven year olds being violated,
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and we still want to close our eyes. Pay attention to your children,
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Go to these PTA meetings, get involved, get these petitions signed. Yelling
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and screaming and hollering and marching. It's not going to get anything changed,
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but petitions will. If we can get enough parents to go to the city
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council and get these petitions and get these signs and say listen here, we
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need to do something because bullying unacceptable, unacceptable. Do you hear me?
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That's right? Unacceptable? And I'm looking at these parents. I'm looking at
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these different cases now and the parents will saying, you know, my child
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was violated, and the people sitting there just looking at them. They looking
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at them like okay, and and they said, but whatever, it is
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your child. And they're looking like, but it's not my child. And
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that's the problem in their head. It's not my child. But whatever,
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it was your child. Because every child that come to the school, if
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I'm there, that's my child. And I always tell the parents you birth
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them, But when they come to the school, I'm their mom because I
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got to watch over them. I gotta protect them. I gotta make sure
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they're safe. So if I try to warn you about something and tell you
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about something, I'm not saying it just to be saying it. I'm not
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saying it because I want you to be mad at me telling you. I'm
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trying to warn you what's going on. But some parents they just I just
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don't want to get involved. For you, your child's advocate. You're supposed
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to fight for your child, and a lot of parents they don't want to
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fight. It's like they're so overwhelmed and they so tired, and they so
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drain. It's like I don't I don't want to deal with this, but
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you have to. You have to because a teacher only can do so much
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and some teachers who actually, you know, report this. A lot of
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them get fired because you been like, we're so and so songs are gone.
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You know why because if they're a good teacher and they have reported it,
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they got fired. You know why because now we live in a system
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where they want you to be quiet. They don't want you to speak up
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for the children. They don't want you to say anything. Just keep your
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mouth closed. If you saw it, just be quiet. They don't say
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anything. That's what kind of world we live in now. But this is
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a plea to ask the parents to please get involved. I have said this
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in twenty ten. Get involved, and now is at a different level.
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Is at a different level. Our society has changed, and now we have
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to fight the government because the government think we can just do what we want.
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They already they already attack us with these different you know, how can
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I say it, these different sitcoms where the children are telling the adults what
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to do. So they started with that, then they started with where you
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know you can't discipline your children. You know, that was the next blow.
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Now this blow is worse. Yeah, they are fighting with their child.
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They are so it's like different levels. But if we get together as
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parents and sign these petitions forget the school boards, sign these petitions, go
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to your city council and get these petitions passed. You need one hundred to
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two hundred parents to sign these petitions to get these petition passed. Oh,
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I didn't know that you need at least one hundred to two hundred people.
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Don't go to the school board, go to city council because they will have
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to change the law. But it's going to take all of us to work
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together get these petitions signed. You know, if you want to be a
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trend gender, be a transgender, but have your own bathroom. Because I
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need my child to be safe and if when it comes to bullying, I
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need the schools to be reliable because too many schools are telling the principles.
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I mean, too many principles are telling the teachers be quiet, keep your
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mouth shut. I have actually got rowed up because I said you need to
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do something or I keep everything, honey. They don't want me to write
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a book because I'm gonna have my receipts. Do you hear me. I'm
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gonna have my receipts because I have been written up multiple times because I said
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this bullying has to stop. It has to stop. It's being ridiculous.
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This don't make no sense. Oh you need to be quiet, just be
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quiet. Really, you're telling me to be quiet when I supposed to report
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what's going on in the classroom. And but you're gonna tell me I'm gonna
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lose my job. So yeah, I kept on getting rolled up, and
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they did give me a letter. They gave me a letter and say your
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service are no longer needed. Teachers are getting fired because they speaking up.
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That's why you're losing your good teachers. And now you got people in there.
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There are some schools they don't even have teachers. They just hire anybody
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now because they can't even keep a teacher because they had did the good teachers
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so wrong that now it's just anybody in the classroom. And that's scary because
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now who's actually teaching the children and who actually care. That's where we act,
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and so we need if this is a plague on our teachers. I
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mean, parents, please get together, get these parties, take a day
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out, y'all. You know, given these social medias and said, listen,
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on this day, we're gonna go to city council and we're gonna sign
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this petition. Get this petition signed, because even though they said there's a
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law out for bullying, the school's not paying attention to that bullying. They
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don't even care about that. So we need to make sure it go to
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the next level. So this is my plead today, and this is what
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I want to talk about how school has changed. And I'm pleading with the
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parents. Get these petitions together. Please, I'm begging you get these petitions
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together. And author Black Diamond said, the problem is the court's taking power
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from the parents by telling them what they cannot do when you come to their
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children. Now, the children run with it and do what they want to
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do. And that's why we still got to get these petitions together because when
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it comes to correction, they don't mind having a popo on our children.
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So we need to take our power back because a lot of and we need
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to. I'm telling you we need to take a power back. Now.
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Have the people calling my house multiple times? They sure did, And you
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know what I told them, Since you think I don't know what I'm doing
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and raising my children, you go ahead and take them because that's the attitude
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I had. Do I have receipts. Sure do. I still got papers
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showing that they came and investigated me because I am not going to have children
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tell me how to run my house. And I get up every day,
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work and pay the bills. Not in my house. So we gotta we
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can discipline our children without beating. And one thing about my children, they
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could say, you go ahead and be crazy and watch Mama beat Craig Kray
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because honey, I'll take everything away from you. As long as you got
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food and some clothes, that's all you need. Cause that's kind of parent
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I am. You won't have no TV, you might not have no dresser,
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you won't have no clothes. No, you'll probably have about two outfits,
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maybe three outfits, maybe five if I'm nice, you know, but
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I'm old school. So yeah, don't reward children because you told them to
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pick up some and they pick it up. They should be picking it up
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anyway. Be the parent, stand up for your children, and get these
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petitions together, because it's the petitions that's going to make a change going to
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the school board. Get these petitions. And that's my plea for today.
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