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Ladies Of "Pour Minds"Podcast Talk Bartending To Touring, "Baddie" Ethics, & More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wait that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club Morning,
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  Speaker 1: everybody in cdj Envy and Ngula Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
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  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. He got some special guests
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  Speaker 1: joining us, Alexandrea from The poor Man's Podcast. Welcome. Hi,
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  Speaker 1: Thank y'all for having us difficulty, but we got it together.
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  Speaker 1: Finding how y'a feeling this morning? We're feeling good, y'all
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: complaining about being cold. I ain't got no clothes on.
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  Speaker 1: I'm to a Texas girl. You know York. Well it's
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  Speaker 1: called year like damn. Yeah, but New York is different.
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  Speaker 1: We like New York. It's your first time in you now.
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  Speaker 1: I used to come here all wow, he tried to
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  Speaker 1: play you because y'all country, that is what were you
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  Speaker 1: in New York doing? My best friend used to live here.
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  Speaker 1: He actually went to Saint John's and Queen's. We used
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  Speaker 1: to be outside. I used to be going to Griffid
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  Speaker 1: and up and down. What kind of best friend? Sirrel?
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  Speaker 1: Best friend? He's married now? He just got married over
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  Speaker 1: here actually like a few months ago. Yeah, how did
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  Speaker 1: that work out? How did she feel about, you know,
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  Speaker 1: him having a best friend that's a female woman. I
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  Speaker 1: really like her because honestly, I think most women don't
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  Speaker 1: be like that when it comes to the man having
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  Speaker 1: enough female bas screen. It was in the picture for
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  Speaker 1: you know a long time. But she's been super super
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  Speaker 1: cool and super supported, so you had to meet her
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  Speaker 1: and everything. Like when he first started dating, he's like,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to meet my friend. Yeah, but she's
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  Speaker 1: never had like any weird feelings towards me, and like
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  Speaker 1: she's genuinely like a nice person and she supports our friendship.
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  Speaker 1: Did you know she was the one for him? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because she changed him in a lot of ways really Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like he used to be wild and like she's calmed
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  Speaker 1: him down, and I like, got you. He never was
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  Speaker 1: interested though, No, he always been my best He's not
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  Speaker 1: my site, okay, And I think that's why she is
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  Speaker 1: not worried about our relationship because she know, like we
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  Speaker 1: don't even like each other like that. If he's got
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  Speaker 1: your tee, what is your tepe? I don't necessarily have
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  Speaker 1: a type. It's weird, but he just not my ain't
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  Speaker 1: got no time. Let's I just would never date him.
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  Speaker 1: That's my best friend. Well, let's talk to me my
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  Speaker 1: best friend with Saint John's too but I don't really league.
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  Speaker 1: He was an Envy's type though, but he told me
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  Speaker 1: how to DJ me growing up. Was actually went to
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  Speaker 1: Saint John's name is Mono, asshole. I was heirs with
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  Speaker 1: all you said, that is true. It's not a power
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  Speaker 1: top No, I'm definitely a poled I don't want to start.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a power I was. I would be a
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  Speaker 1: power top club. No, okay, but let's let's start from
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  Speaker 1: the beginning. How you get this podcast started? How did
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  Speaker 1: y'all meet that whole minds? Oh Lord, like the cloud?
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  Speaker 1: We was drinking and real it was called prime Time.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't Houston, but it wasn't open a long No, No,
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  Speaker 1: it was like it was DC, the guy that used
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  Speaker 1: to own be Live. So they were trying to like
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  Speaker 1: a starlet and like starlet. The script is a whack
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  Speaker 1: with the y y'all. Y'all were there drinking, chilling and
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  Speaker 1: what made y'all meeting and Lincoln connect because usually girls
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  Speaker 1: when they meet, they don't really connec y'all connected over
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  Speaker 1: y'all baby heads. He don't say something about it because
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  Speaker 1: we was laying them down this morning. We don't like
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  Speaker 1: we gonna light them edgy. No, But I think the
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  Speaker 1: reason we connected was because, like she didn't know how
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  Speaker 1: to make drinks at all, and it was my first
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  Speaker 1: real barty I would but she was a good talker,
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  Speaker 1: Like she was finessing the niggas. I was making the drinks,
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  Speaker 1: and that's we was like making a lot of money
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  Speaker 1: to have. I'm like, oh yeah, because we had a
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  Speaker 1: little program working. It was like the first night that
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  Speaker 1: we worked together, because we were actually working together for
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  Speaker 1: a few months before we actually talked, so like I
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  Speaker 1: used to see her at work, but we just never
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  Speaker 1: had a conversation. And then one night this guy came
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  Speaker 1: to the club and he was talking to me, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, he's talking about girl he went along island.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to make that. I mean he
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  Speaker 1: was asking for everything. He was like, man, yeah, how
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  Speaker 1: to make this? He the see and cold and so
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  Speaker 1: I think we made like four thousand dollars damn yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and we split it for niggas. Like I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: figure out what well it was just because like I
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  Speaker 1: think a lot of it is he was just so
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  Speaker 1: impressed that she could actually make a drink, But it
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  Speaker 1: was really me making the drinks. Like you know, so
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  Speaker 1: we just kind of got I was like, Okay, this
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  Speaker 1: is what we're gonna do. Yeah, you're gonna take all
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  Speaker 1: these niggas. I would make the drinks is let me
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  Speaker 1: know what you need, and it was like the service
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  Speaker 1: was fast because we was working together. But they didn't
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  Speaker 1: know that. So it was like, Okay, these niggas are
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  Speaker 1: simple and pressed out. Yeah yeah, basketball player and shoot
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  Speaker 1: basketball too. Oh yeah. He used to be a haul
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  Speaker 1: crazy because rama going on between the strippers and the bartenders.
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  Speaker 1: You know, they throw all the money, you know, back
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  Speaker 1: behind the bar and stuff like that, so it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: we all got to split it. And then like some
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  Speaker 1: of the bartenders didn't weren't working, and we was like
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  Speaker 1: we about to split this. So we used to be
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  Speaker 1: like stuff and the money like in our side, and
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  Speaker 1: we would be like, all, I gotta go to the
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  Speaker 1: locker real quick. And we shared lockers, so we would
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  Speaker 1: just sew our money in there, and they was like
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  Speaker 1: everybody would be complaining to me and dragging the back like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all talking about. I've never gotten
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  Speaker 1: to working at the clubs and at that club and
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  Speaker 1: he was but I used to come out here in
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  Speaker 1: barteen City scales. I think I worked at Starlist before,
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  Speaker 1: like I used to come be against bartender and I
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  Speaker 1: got into it with a stripper out here before hands. No,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know, but we got into it. Though. It
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  Speaker 1: was like pretty bad because she was like, bitch, that's
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  Speaker 1: my money, I'm weak. I was like, girl, no, it's nice.
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  Speaker 1: But I didn't know how she worked out here, like
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  Speaker 1: she was ready to fight. Turned up. You wasn't scared.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't scared, but it was just like damn girl
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  Speaker 1: calmed down and spifty dollars. So y'all were friends? Wait
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  Speaker 1: before the podcast? Two years? Years? Two or three years? First? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: first I saw y'all was on eighty five South show
• 6:02
  Speaker 1: We Call Over. I don't think DC and Chico was
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  Speaker 1: there that day. Yeah, we was cutting up, honestly, I
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  Speaker 1: have Me and carl Us have been cool for a while,
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  Speaker 1: like we just always have followed each other, and I
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  Speaker 1: think he was just kind of like sitting in the
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  Speaker 1: cut watching us. And because I think with a lot
• 6:19
  Speaker 1: of podcasters, it's like people were started and then it's
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  Speaker 1: like three months later, it's like, damn, what happened to
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  Speaker 1: your podcast? And I think he just saw us being
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  Speaker 1: so consistent and he was like, man, let me see
• 6:27
  Speaker 1: what they can do. And literally after we went on
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  Speaker 1: eighty five, it was like a bunch of clips that
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  Speaker 1: went viral and we were like everywhere and all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden like people like, okay, who are these girls?
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, but we had just been cool and he
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  Speaker 1: had been following me for a while and you know,
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  Speaker 1: started interacting and that's how it came about. That's what
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  Speaker 1: made y'all start the podcast? How did y'all start? What
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  Speaker 1: was that decision? You Like? People whenever where around people,
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  Speaker 1: they always be like y'all so crazy and y'all so funny,
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  Speaker 1: Like y'all need y'all own show. Y'all need to people
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  Speaker 1: need to see this because we really are like these
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  Speaker 1: off camera too. But I feel like too, like you
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  Speaker 1: know how when people say that, everybody feel like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they have a good conversation I podcast, Oh they've have
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  Speaker 1: a good time, Like, oh my god, girl, we need
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  Speaker 1: a reality. That's not what God got planning for. It's
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  Speaker 1: a little different because I mean we wouldn't even be
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  Speaker 1: doing shit. We would just be sitting on the couch
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  Speaker 1: at somebody house. People like man like it was every time.
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  Speaker 1: I mean no matter where we went and we're in
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  Speaker 1: front of strangers, people who knew it, it was like, okay, well,
• 7:25
  Speaker 1: let's like start a YouTube channel. We never thought that
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  Speaker 1: we were going to get into podcasts because her ex
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  Speaker 1: gave her the idea of us to start the YouTube
• 7:32
  Speaker 1: because we used to do like a little show called
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: wind Out on Wednesday before we switched it over the
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  Speaker 1: Poor Mine, and we got that idea from him. And
• 7:38
  Speaker 1: then one of her friends was already a podcaster and
• 7:41
  Speaker 1: she was like, y'all need to turn it into a
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  Speaker 1: podcast because y'all can make away more money and monetize this.
• 7:46
  Speaker 1: When we switched the name to Poor Mine, who was
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: your friend Mandy? Okay yeah, she was like, yeah, y'all
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  Speaker 1: need to make it a podcast. So that's what we did.
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  Speaker 1: Who was your ex? Nobody that man is credited manible
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  Speaker 1: sounding the podcast. It ain't no, it ain't no. Our
• 8:05
  Speaker 1: listeners are very very knowledgy, So as soon as I
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  Speaker 1: name that can be like so somebody people know, um
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  Speaker 1: yeah used to people definitely, No, people don't know DM
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  Speaker 1: me homi. I'm gonna give you like what's up, what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Work let's work and work. Brothers, he said, brother, he
• 8:34
  Speaker 1: must be terrible to be terrible good. No, he's not
• 8:37
  Speaker 1: a terrible person. I feel like, you know, a terrible rapper.
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, let me say this honestly. Okay,
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: he is. He can write. He got some good lyrics.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the it's difference between making good music
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  Speaker 1: and being like a lyricist like he has. He can
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: write all day. Raps are good songs, not so much.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, you never know, bro, No, you're gonna
• 9:04
  Speaker 1: be like this is as what was you thinking? So
• 9:10
  Speaker 1: for people that doing know, we've never heard the podcast,
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: what do y'all talk about and discuss on the podcast?
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: We talk about everything. I think. I talk about dating,
• 9:19
  Speaker 1: we talk about six we talk about music. I mean,
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: we really just be navigating through life. I think that
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: that's one of the great things about our podcasts that
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: you can see the growth, like because we keep up
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: all of the old contents, so you could look back
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: from four years ago and really just see us grow.
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  Speaker 1: You see the evolution of the conversations. At one point
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  Speaker 1: we just talk about niggas. Yeah, like men with money
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  Speaker 1: and that I think a lot of times people have
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: the podcasts all wrong, you know, like because all of
• 9:44
  Speaker 1: the clips that happen to go viral be us talking
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  Speaker 1: about men with money or you know, dating and trying
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: to figure out, you know, how to get this. But
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: I feel like our podcast is really about like celebrating
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  Speaker 1: women and what we deserve and you know, having higher stands,
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  Speaker 1: dirts and getting that confidence that you never had, and
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: you know how we can talk about music and just
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  Speaker 1: showing us in a different light because of course when
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: people look at us saying, you know, we're sexy, we'd
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  Speaker 1: like to be batties, but it's so much more than
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  Speaker 1: that to us, right, So I feel like that's who
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  Speaker 1: the podcast is for, because we like to say, you know, traditionally,
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  Speaker 1: like batties don't listen to podcasts, you know, they just
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  Speaker 1: be outside. So we feel like this is a lane
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  Speaker 1: for the baddies, you know, to come in because the
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  Speaker 1: live shows it'd be nothing. But it's different. Yeah, it's different.
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  Speaker 1: Find a batty for those who may not know what
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  Speaker 1: a baddies. I mean, I definitely feel like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you have to look the part, but that secondary I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's more of a mindset thing. No, you
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  Speaker 1: can't be musty and bad. I'm saying, you know you can't. No.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like to me, like a baddie is somebody
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  Speaker 1: who like they're they're confident first of all, like they
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  Speaker 1: walk in a room, it doesn't matter you know how
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: other people view them. They know how they view themselves.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel like that's with us, Like we don't
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: care what clip goes viral or what's y'all thing. Y'all
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: can be like hot these birds get on breakfast club
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  Speaker 1: because it's gonna be a lot of people saying that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care, you know what I'm saying. So I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's just like a confidence thing, you know,
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  Speaker 1: And like I said, we cannot act like. It's not
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  Speaker 1: the looks thing too, Like that's what you said. But
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  Speaker 1: it feel like you gotta be a nice person, Like
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you can't be a baddy and be mean. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like I mean, we don't like mean girls. Girls just
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  Speaker 1: be mean. It's helping out reasoning. What if you nice,
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  Speaker 1: confident and musty, you're not a bad man. Musty people
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  Speaker 1: be coming around like you're not so question so y'all say,
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: y'all dating all, y'all dating? Um, I'm control right, now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: talking about relationships, right, Um, I actually just got out
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: of a situation. So situation that's all you want a
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  Speaker 1: relationships because it's like it's been complicated. It's been a
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: very long time of a lot of back and forth.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, I'm single now, So what made you
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  Speaker 1: finally break up? He went back this way? Not this one.
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  Speaker 1: That's not just let me stop, no, no, no week.
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  Speaker 1: But no, I just feel like I'm at a different
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  Speaker 1: point in my life. You know, I've had a lot
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  Speaker 1: of changes, a lot of things going on. I just
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  Speaker 1: feel like we're in two different places. It ain't no
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  Speaker 1: bad blood, like I still got love for him, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't. No. I'm not a girl that like, oh
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  Speaker 1: I hate him and I'm gonna talk down on him.
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  Speaker 1: I've never been a break up. What was the situation?
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  Speaker 1: Finally say it was over? I mean a lot of
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  Speaker 1: stress and our relationship like hepo, No, not that. I
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  Speaker 1: mean I'm busy. I travel a lot. You know, he
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  Speaker 1: has a lot going on, not that life right now?
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  Speaker 1: So you got what I gotta do? Do Men get
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  Speaker 1: jealous because they see y'all, you know, starting to grow
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: in this space. I don't know, I haven't really witnessed
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  Speaker 1: jealousy so much. But I think that it's weird because
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  Speaker 1: a lot of guys that I used to talk to
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  Speaker 1: be trying to like come back to me, and they
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  Speaker 1: be trying to do like extravagant things to talk to
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  Speaker 1: me now. And I think that's very strange because it's like,
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  Speaker 1: what made you have such a slitting and change of heart.
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  Speaker 1: I like the sudden change of heart. I don't like you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like it. I mean, he didn't do come
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  Speaker 1: with y, but he's still like I'm gonna take against
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: but still needna leave me alone. Right, Facts we always
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: take together. The most expensive thing a guy has brought you, um,
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: the most expensive Honestly, I always say this. It was
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: a while back, but he put the down payment on
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: my car, Like that helped me get a car off. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: this was like two thy twelve if I got a
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: Dodge Challenger, so you know. And then I got another
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: relationship paid off my student loans, and then I got
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: him to pay off my car. A man paid off
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: your student loans, yet I'm pocketed that money and did
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: something else. No, it's good you got your students to
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: be a responsible baddie in the streets, you know, like
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: you get money from a man, girls just buying bags
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  Speaker 1: and shoes. I was the one like, let me pay
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: my bills. But now I'm happy about it that I
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: did that. But I was always the girl like getting
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: money and taking care of my business. About you. Most
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: expensive gift bought me a Range Rover last year. Nice
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  Speaker 1: new it's paid off bills. I like your student loan payments. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he paid off half on my student pay off all
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: of them. But he paid off half. But this was
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: a different Range Rover last year and it was paid off.
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  Speaker 1: But I never liked hast six Yeah, nicet all the
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  Speaker 1: student loans. He still wanted you to have to work
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  Speaker 1: for something. I think, so okay, but he was. But
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: he used to pay all my bills like he was
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  Speaker 1: taking here of me. Yeah that's fly. Yeah I paid
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: off my white student loan. You didn't. I still all
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  Speaker 1: like twenty thousand I like, And he paid twenty five
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  Speaker 1: range over like ninety thousand dollars. Bro, Yeah, I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: I should have paid for the student loans ninety thousand.
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  Speaker 1: You could sell its extra. You can't be my X
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  Speaker 1: after I pay your student loans off. You can't just
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  Speaker 1: walk away from me after that? Why you drought a
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: lot about student loan? Was like he could she could
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  Speaker 1: progress in life. Now wait minute, how do you come
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: with him? Yeah, loan? How do you just walk away
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: from a man after that? Now that were two different guys. Okay,
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: well how do you listen for both of you? How
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: do you just walk away from a man who paid
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: your student loans? That's a differently. If he talks right,
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: he don't walk away. But honestly, I feel like that's
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: what we talk about on the show a lot. I
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: feel like a lot of young women they out here
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  Speaker 1: like chasing these guys with money and then they have
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: no like end goal. And I'm not saying, you know,
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  Speaker 1: use people, That's not what I'm saying, but I feel
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  Speaker 1: like in certain situations, I mean in certain situations, so
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  Speaker 1: like we know what it is, like, let's not be dumb.
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  Speaker 1: These men want sex, you know, and women want money whatever.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're young and doing that, at least be
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: smart about it. So that's what we try to tell people.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: At least be smart, like don't be out here trying
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: to keep up with her and buying Rick Owens buying product,
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: going doing all this so for us, like when you're
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: dealing with the man and he own product than you.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, but like I just mean as
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: far as like when you're dealing with a guy who
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: buys you a bag, you'll leave. So why can't I
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: deal with a guy who pay off my student loans
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: and live before? But it was Michael, don't count Michael. Course,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I might have to take away your bad he calls.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Years ago. I ain't had no business minor that bad going.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: It used to be popping. I remember I had a
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: Michael Core's wife. That's when you was in New York.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: I got mad and through it and broke it. How
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: do you break up? How you break up with somebody
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: that bought your range over? How's it over together? Tell
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: him the wammy? Though? What's the w you know? But
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't have sex with him? I said, absolutely, Just
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: he was a guy. You know, he was a guy.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: This man bought you a range Rover and you never
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: let him smell it? No yams to break this down?
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: So what happened? He just hate babe, I want to
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: buy your rang So I met him through one of
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: my other friends, like she lives in Atlanta, and she
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: was cool with him because she used to talk to
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: his partner, and so I guess he wanted to talk
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: to me. We had hung out a few times, and
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden he just started texting her and
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: he was like, I want to buy Dray another car,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: big trick energy yeah, and so she was like, of course,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: she was like hell, yeah, I don't hear buy it.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: So then she was texting me and she was like, oh,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: what kind of cars like? So I was like, okay,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I either want a J L E Coop or I
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: want a rain Drover. So she's sent him the cards
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: and he was like, okay, I'm gonna get it, and
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: then he started taxing legs saying the same thing. He
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I just really want to get Drag
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: another car because I still have my other car too
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: that I had before he bought me, the rain River,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: And so he just ended up. He tried to buy
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: one and then he didn't go through something happy and
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: then something happened he couldn't get it. Then we got
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: into it. A few weeks later. I blocked him and stuff,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden he just popped up
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: with this white rain drover. He finally stole somebody credit
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: card that work. Yeah, yeah, probably happened. He didn't try it,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: didn't try to have sex with you, smash nothing. Of
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: course he did. But I just wasn't interesting because he
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: was corny, because even I knew he was doing it
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: because he wanted like recognition, because even when he told
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: me that he got the car, he was hitting her
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: up in my friend and he was like, oh yeah,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: I want to take all of y'all to eat, and
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna hire a videoographer to talk about it on
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: the show. It was just weird. He was doing was
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: real corner. That's that's what I said. The finesse came
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: in because I was definitely helping. I'm like, yeah, she
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: cares about you, bro get the call and then she
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: needs the call, and then I ended up flying out.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: He was going around telling people in Atlanta that he
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: had sex with me, and he never had sex with me,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: so I was like, I knew he was going but
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: if he's somebody behind it, So he was like, nobody
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: saying that here, Roman Sly you supposed to let a
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: rum or slid when somebody said I had sex you
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: a call so I didn't know that. That's what I say.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: She didn't ask for you said he in jail right now? Yeah,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: p scam he enough for something. But that's what happened
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: when you're not a nice purse. Wow, man bought you
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: a call and he not a nice But you know
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: that's a good point because I always say, just because
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: somebody does something good for you doesn't mean they're good
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: for you. And you don't mean hesterial motives, you know,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: like that wasn't coming from his heart, so you got played.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: But you said earlier that men and women know what
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: it is. Women want money and men want sex. So
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: is that really an Ontario motive? I mean, but it
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: was more than that though. It wasn't just a sex
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: for him Like I said, he wanted to recogn it
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: like he wants to be He wanted to date her,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: but not because it was like he really liked her, Like,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: oh he was ugly. He kind of looked like a lesbian.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah he's one of them. He looked like, yeah, he's
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: giving those kind of vibe like if you saw him,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: you would be confused. He was very femininely, like if
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: you saw drag with you be like, damn, I don't know.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: He asked me vibes. He was definitely like because and
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: then he tried to be my bestie. So he with
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: me texting her. It was so he was like, yeah,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: he was like, I gotta get He texts you one
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: time when he said, I got, I gotta get dry
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: the car because she said she gonna. I couldn't remember
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: the Christie like I said, I was gonna give him
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: his head. Yeah, and she didn't, but I said that
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: she was. He said, you lied to the man's mouth.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Now we lie for each other all the time, Like
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: two months ago about what we'll just be lying for
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: each other. I can't even remember it. Be like small
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: small things we'll just give each other. They look and
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, I gotta line. So no, lex,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I heard you said that women cheat better than men.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely, you believe that. I absolutely believe it
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: because black men don't cheat, so of course y'all would
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: be black black men. That is a lie. I'm a
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: black man. I got a mirror you one of billion
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: black boys. Black boys cheap. Black men don't cheat like
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: it goes. I feel like women cheat better. I'm not
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: cheating on Huh. He said, what how I got cheated
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: dating a black boy, even black. I don't even know
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: if he was black, he was black. Okay, I'm weak,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: But no, I feel like women cheat better just because
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I maybe putting up the ladies on blasts right now,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: but I feel like we're just a little more smooth
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: and sneaky with it. We don't a smarter. Yes, women
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: are smarter, like gods will be out with another girl
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: and letting her post and record and other people that
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: have seen it, Like guys are just sloppy, Like they're
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: very sloppy. They don't cover their tracks very well, like
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I'll see if I'm not saying that I've done this before.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: But it's like if I'm with my man, I see
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: a guy like my little sidnig, what's up? Bro? I
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: see it? Yea, And that was my personality. So I
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: feel like, you know, she got a lot, you know
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: what that little what if? That what if? My boy
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: blow you up? Right? But he not because when you
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: when you call with people and it's it ain't that
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: they know how to act'll be cheating on before both
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: of y'all. Hell, yeah, you mean I ain't say that.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I did not say that. I did not say that anything,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: I say nothing out. Um. I have good investigation skills.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: I've had people tell me things. I said this all
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: the time. I don't know why people like fly I had.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: I gotta taken look through them stories. If you follow
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: somebody new, I'm going to look. It's very easy to
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: put things together. You never got caught cheating lex ever,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I never. I only cheated one time though, really good girl.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: It was like way back in college, cheating on your boyfriend.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Why because the sex was wagged. Okay, that's a reasonable reason.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: And then we were in two different CDs. Okay, that's
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: another way. And he was still in Houston. Him he
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: never knows about this, Like, wow, he probably broke that
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: boy hard. He never knew. No, never know now before No,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: not him. It was somebody else. They cheated on me.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: But I found out because I went through his phone.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: And that was the last time I ever got through
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: because I lost team. She really did. Yes, I was
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: straight lost the ass and everything. He was just talking
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: to a whole bunch of girls on Instagram. Savage. Yeah,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: well I was a savage before that. I had left
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: my guard down that time. I'm bounce back, though, I
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: think for me like when I cheat if you don't
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: tell me you love me. And if I'm going to cheat,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: you said, what if you don't say I love you,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: don't tell me good morning, I'm going to cheat less
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: cheered out, She's like a certified I love you. I'm
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: going to cheat like a grand Riding queen, I love you.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I'm going to cheat. If you say grand riding, I'm
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: going version of good morning, grand rising queen, grand riding queen.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I already know you're about to be
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: on some bullshit. I don't want to hear that ship.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Damn well you say dress. You got anybody that says
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: grand rising to me? Why are you having like good morning?
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Because he might think you a biscuit? It's not no
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: yeast over here. Now? What do y'all think about Nick
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Cannon having ten kids? You know, Vivica Fox said that
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: she feels like he can't be a strong father figure
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: with ten kids from all them different women. What y'all think?
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I do feel like, if you have a lot of
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: kids in multiple households, it's hard for you to be
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: there for all else children. How how can you spreade
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: those time out there evenly to be able to be
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: there for everybody. Yeah, I think. I think it's a
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: little different. But I don't like to judge people either,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: you know, while they make their decisions. So it's not
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: something that I would want. Like I don't have any kids,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: so I feel like it's kind of strange on both ends,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Like if you're a woman with no kids, like having
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: a child for a man that has all these children,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: that's a lot like trying to get your kids to
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: know their siblings. Because I'm really close with my sister,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: so I'll be thinking like, dang, if you're like the
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: tenth kid and then the first one is like twenty six,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I just turn one, Like how are we gonna be friend? Right?
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: You know? So I've been thinking about stuff like that,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: but I don't judge people. Yeah, I agree. I agree
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: on the time thing, like you know, it's hard to have,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you know, that much time to speel with all these
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: different kids at different places. But I mean, Nigga's say
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: he's not a strong father figure. I disagree with that
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: because he's a strong Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So y'all
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be eleven and twelve is what you're saying. Gets
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: wild to become anything after like anything. After three, you walling? Really? Yeah,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: you give me the second baby Mama, like things happen whatever,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: you know, I might be like a little like, okay, girl,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: we're gonna see but after that. But it's like because
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: it's like if he didn't start with any of these people,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: would make you think, what if? To me, it starts
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: to become a pattern after it's like three or four.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: What if it's Bill Gates? Okay, well that's different. I
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: an't we talking? Now? Come on, now you're bad. He
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: hitting you. Now you're using your I like the way
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: you Why y'all so quick to be with the rich
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: white man but not the rich black man. Well, I'll
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: go ahead. The basketball and white level of money. Okay, okay, okay,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: we at the level of money. Eaton musk and he
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: cannon got money, but must really got men. Yeah, it's levels. Okay,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Which sign would y'all not date? What? What sign would
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: y'all not ate? Old geminis? Um, I don't discriminate. I'll
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: give everybody a chance. You don't want to sign you honestly,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: my situation was a capricorn. Now situation say a relationship.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Now they just crazy. It's like it's like two different
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: people June May June nor cancer bro. Oh you emotional,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: that's right. I like one to sign. Okay, I like
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: the emotion. I loved it. I feel like I don't
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: really have you remember crazy, but really I don't date.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: And there what celebrities trying to highlight y'all? Oh my god,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: let me see the DM somebody opened their DMS. Let
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: me see something. Definitely, because you aren't about to talk
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: about this tomorrow. You don't tell about what I see
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: any celebty that you holed back as said, I'm gonna
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: give this a try. You ain't got to say names
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: that you dated, went on the dating and they weren't
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: what you expected. Yeah, yeah, you know, I think honestly,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: getting into this space, you realize like and I hate
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: to say, oh my god, it's like they just be
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: corny the stuff that they care about, and like the
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: conversation conversation they don't be having anything to talk about
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of the time. It's like saw many men
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: think money is a personality trade, but they think they
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: have to lead with that. And I mean, like maybe
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: we contributed to that how we used to talk on
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: the show. We probably did, but it's just like, Okay,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I don't care about your cars and stuff, like who
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: are you as a person. But I think they're okay
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: with leaning on that because a lot of the women
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: who look good, you know, even men, they big brow
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: you and you know, but just because of what you have,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: so they feel like they have to lead with that.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: So I think that's like the biggest thing that's be
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: like a turn off with like dating these celebrity guys
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: or guys with money, and they probably feel like they
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: don't really got to do much because of who they are,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: right exactly, Like I just like I can't date somebody
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: who has no personality, who can't make me laugh, and
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: we can't have conversations of substance. It's gonna be rougher
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: y'all in a minute, though, because I mean, the more
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: the podcast grows, like, you're not gonna know if dude
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: really like y'all. They just like the the fame or
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: the look. Right Yeah, I already feel like that's happening
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: right now. It's weird because that's why I was saying
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: about the guy they bought me the car, like it
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: was just a weird energy. It was like you really
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: like me? Or do you just want to date me
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: so you can like come on a podcast. Now, let's
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: talk about flute out the flute outcomes. Somebody flies you out?
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Huh what are you giving them back? Are you expecting
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: not a damn thing? You got a range rover in
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: and giving that talking to them? The bay the ba
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: No uncle Batty my new name from not one. I
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: want y'all to stamp it. Don't call me nothing else. Okay,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: But now, honestly, I used to be like that, Like
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I used to like go on trips with people and
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: knew that I wasn't gonna have sex with them. Now
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: I tell them up front of you, no, I would
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: just go and enjoy myself and be like, you have
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: a lot to my period? Yeah I have. I actually
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: put a sandpony on one. I tell you you gotta
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: get you gonna tell a lie, You gotta play out
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: all the way through. What about what the man say?
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I don't care a period, don't stop nothing but a sentence.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Then what to be like? Well, I want to do that.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I don't want to smell like pennies in here it
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: smelling like, No, we don't have to have sex, we
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: have oral we I mean you not see this is
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking now going on here that I'm selling. Now,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: he's like, smell like it, don't smell like nothing. That's trying.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: You're smelling a penny all together. Yeah, you gotta start
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: the little Yeah ran some red lights. I ain't ever
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: smelling nothing together. Man together again, it's gonna have a
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: little spit. But now I feel like at this like age,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying like I said, the young girls just
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: have fun a good time. But for me, if I'm
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: you're wild by dirty pennies, I don't know how you
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: need one. That's kind of been like the car a
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: few times. This is a two thousand nineteen, it's a
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: two thousand twenty one. You ain't eighty four pennies like pery. Lord.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: Feel like now it's like, I'm not gonna lie to you.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: If I'm going on a vacation with a man like
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I like you, it's gonna be some that's knocking going going.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Like to me, that's a part of the fun of
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: a vacation for me. Like, of course, when you're younger,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: you just do things. You're having fun. But honestly, I
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: feel like, um, things are a little different now people
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: are weird, so you just can't be flying out with people,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: and then you know, you get yourself in some messed
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: up situations. So I feel like have good intentions, especially
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: when you're spending um, three four or five days with
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: somebody overnight you're going out the country, like then you
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: get a little different then. So I don't travel with
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: somebody that I don't feel safe with and that I
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: don't like and that don't I want to be intimate
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: with like and me and will leave you. I've got
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: lived places before facts, I will nowhere out the country
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: right right right, But like I got left in Miami
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: one time. God flew you out. Yeah, he actually lived
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: here period, and well I didn't tell him I was
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: on my period. I just striped up tallow him, like
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to have sex with him. But he
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: was mad because he had bought me some shoes. What
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: kind of shoes? And you walked right out of his life.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Damn the hotel. Yeah, he left me. He didn't book
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: my retin flight. And this was what I was still
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: living in Houston. I hadn't moved to LA. Did you
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: have the money to get back? Yeah I did, I did,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: But like what if I didn't though he ain't here,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: did you? Did you? He did? I remember that you
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: called me? Was like lead. I was like, why the voicemail?
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Now he blocked me to then he blocks me or
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: social media have fe so I couldn't even say nothing
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: to him. But y'all got to know, playing that type
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: of game, something like that, couldn't for sure for sure? Yeah,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: I think that's why we went out the country. Like
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: so did the lady downstairs called, ma'am, you check out
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: his It was a while time. I just couldn't believe
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: that happened. I called my mom, was like, girl, I
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: have to book the seven hundred dollars flight back to
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Houston one way because he didn't book my return. Flash.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Your shouldn't have win. That's right, right, But I mean
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: that's a blessing that you had it. You're right, I'm
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out the ball out Before that, I'm
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: just doing shopping. We was a auderation, right, but you
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: know what that man wants. You know why he's doing
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: all that. You know he ain't doing that for no reasons.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Why I don't. This is why I don't date outside
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: my race. Because he was a white, white and he
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: was smoking cigarettes. You should have known he was trouble.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, my friend, the one I said you used
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: to live out here. I ain't mad at you. You shouldn't.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. Shouldn't get that white man nothing.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. Now. Have y'all ever been
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: in a relationship withhe? Y'all was crazy over man? Like,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: what's blue face girlfriend name? Y'all ever been like that
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: over man? Na? I'm not gonna lie. That's too down
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: bad because I don't want to get smoke because she
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: can fight. YEA, my bad. But no, I just feel
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: like there's too many people out here in the world
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: to experience. If you're like going back and forth with
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: somebody that much, and you know, we don't know that relationship,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: that could be just be doing it for for sh'all.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: They posted on the blogs every day. I mean, we're
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: talking about them right now, so I don't know what
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: their plan is. But I feel like when it's too
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: much like combativeness, I'll just move on. Yeah. I don't
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: like toxic love. That's not fun to me. I don't
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: like how people have glorified that either. Like I like
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: to turn up and have a good time with my partner,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like I want to travel, you know,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: do things that we like, go eat, enjoy each other
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: so that peace. Yeah. Do y'all worry about men not
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: taking y'all serious because of what they hear y'all talk about.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: I ain't worried about it, but I know that probably
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: feel you know that way. They probably wouldn't, But I mean,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's how you feel. You just not
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: the goth of me, because at some point y'all gonna
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: want to set it down right for sure? Of course, absolutely,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like, outside of contrary believe we're good women. Yeah, yeah,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: but a problem great energy, Yeah, I think that the
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: problem is too like when you're in the media, people
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: can't sit or right like your media person or from
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: who you are are. Because don't get me wrong, but
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: you said this, how y'all are often we I mean, yeah,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: But I feel like still at the same time, Drey
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: and A Calling Lakes we are like personas to a
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: certain exting. Like it's a lot of things we say
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: on the show. Sometimes we say so for Shockabel you true,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: but in real life that might not be how I feel.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: I think Drey and a Call is a version of me,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: But I'm still Andrea any real life, you know. And
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: I think people would never know the side of me
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: unless you really get to know me as a person, right,
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I mean people watch us for like an hour once
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: a week, once a week, like you can't know somebody
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: like that. And I mean, I know how we make
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: people feel, you know, so they think they know us.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: But like, I don't feel like anybody who judges me
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: from seeing a week on a YouTube show can That's
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: not the person for me anyway, you know what I'm saying.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: So I don't really worry about those type of people.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: I like people who like me and want need to
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: know me, So I don't worry about the people who don't.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: When y'all think y'all would want to settle down or
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: that even something y'all thinking about right now, I will
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: get married tomorrow. Really, Yes, I told you I'm emotion
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: every time. Every my man, my man, my man. I
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: love is a lover two weeks later. People to grow
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: in love, not fault. Think about all the times you
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: felt you've hurting yourself. Well I'll fall again. Yeah, you
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But no, I just feel like
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I'm just a lover and I love love. You know,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I can honestly say I've been
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: in love like twice in my life. Like I know
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: the difference between when I'm really in love and when
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like doing something. And I think
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: Drea knows that about me too, like she knows when
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just doing something versus um like really being in love.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: But I think for me, like I said, us being
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: in this space of course, like I love like, you know,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: being on tour, Like we're on tour with the show
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: right now, and it has really shocked me, like how
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: much the show has grown and things like that. So
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: of course I want to experience that and share that
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: with somebody. You know. I feel like, now we're making money,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: I want to like build a business with somebody. Like
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: there's so much stuff that I want to do on
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: my own, but you know, I want to have a
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: partner there as well. So yeah, I think we both
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: want that for sure. Yeah, I would say, like I
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: don't know, the next few years, like next two years,
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: I like to be in a relationship and have a kid. Okay,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: but they're on tour right now. You can see that Arlington,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Virginia on the eighteenth of September, Richmond A twenty first, Tampa,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: October fourth, October fifth, Miami, and October six or Landing.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Y'all just did New York. I was a New York show.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: It was energy, was really really good. Yeah in New York.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: I feel like New York is kind of a different
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: market's kind of hard. Yeah, because we country obviously, y'all
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: can tell when we come, like to New York, people
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: be like where these country bumpkins, but all their family
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: from down south. Yeah, us love you know. I feel
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: like we came out here, We've colladed with a lot
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: of people. You know, We've met with a lot of people.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: So New York really like they like us. Yeah for real,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: y'all don't y'all don't have no other jobs. This is it.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: This is it. I finally was able to quit my job.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Like we want to ate last year. Yeah it was
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: last year. Wasn't year. Yeah, So for me, it was
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: like I moved to Atlanta literally with nothing, you know,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: I was trying to figure things out out and it
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: was really it was like a really really hard time
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: for me. Like and I think the thing that I
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: love about poor minds, And that's why we keep the
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: old videos up. Like we joke about it, like how
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: my hair used to look our makeup because like I mean,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I didn't have any money. It was what I could
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: do at the time. But we keep those old videos
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: up so people can see the growth, you know, and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: they can see what consistency and when you really believe
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: in yourself can get you. Because I feel like we've
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: only just scratched the surface of what we're gonna do,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: you know. So, yeah, I hadn't had a job in
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: like four years. Really was the last job I used
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: the bar team, Okay, but that was like, but I
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: haven't did this since like twenty eighteen. I was like
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: I had a job for a company called Regions. I
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: had like a nine to five. So it was really
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: hard because I was having to like sneak and leave
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: work because we worked that radio at the time. We
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: were doing stuff with DJ Screaming Atlanta used to report
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: to his studio. Yeah, we used to work for him
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: a lot. So it was just like hard for me.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: So when stuff kind of started rolling, it's like I
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: wasn't even ready to quit my job. They kind of
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: like gave me a ultimate. I was like, Okay, either
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be here or be there, and I was like,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: you know what. I was like, girl gone hand and quick,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: we gonna figure it out. So I was like, I
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: just quit and we figured it out. Well. I find
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: y'all very entertaining, and I think I think those lady
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: that just need to be on TV and I can't. Oh.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I wanted to ask yall about the Division video. Y'all
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: was in the Division video? Why Division video? That was fun?
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: It was really fun. I think that's really how we
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: be in real life, like and I d calling me
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: me giving her bad a like me and a bad one.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: The video was cool. The video was fun really because
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I didn't even hear the song until they came out
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: really right, so you didn't know what they didn't have
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: the song play where yall doing the video now? And
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: I just it was kind of strange a little bit
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: because they was having me like acting and so she
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: got her ball roll and stuff and it was just whiet.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I was the only one screaming. I just feel so crazy.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: I want to ask this question for the white men
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: and the Asian men and the black girl. It's cheating
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: because black men don't cheat. Mask for them, it's cheating
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: a deal breaker. You know, it's not for me. You
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: know it's crazy. I'm not gonna lie. I've always said
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: cheating is not a deal breaker for me. But I
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: honestly feel like I've had situations like transpire and things
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: go on, and I feel like, in the space I'm in,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: I think it would be, yeah, the space of a Cheatah.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: You a cheatah, So you can't be judgmental and not
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: like that. But I feel like it's a lot. No,
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: I'll just feel like versus and I am a regular person,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: so let me not say that. But I feel like,
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: you know, we have to live out our lives online
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: a lot of times, you know, like something things have
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: happened to me where I'm out eating with somebody and
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: somebody doesn't tag me and posted it and things like that.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: So I feel like when we go through things in
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: our relationship, it automatically gets magnified because people are watching us,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I feel like something
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: like that, cheating is something hard to go through. So
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: having to go through that under a magnifying glass in
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: front of everybody, I don't think I would be ready
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: for that. You know, so you can cheat, but you
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: can't let somebody Absolutely, Wow, it's rules. It's not a
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: deal breaker because the way I look at it, it's like, Okay,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: is this a I missed up one time? Thing? Is this?
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Like this is what you do? Like you're doing this
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: consistently if it's somebody that's doing it consistently, No, Like
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: it's absolutely a deal breaker for me. But if you
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: missed up, I could forgive you hint on the circumstance.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: But it's like, that's the difference. Though, you're cheating one night,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: but you paid her rent money? Oh you you like
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: the girl? Like you paying her rent? You got her money,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: You've given her money just because I buy a woman
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: of burking, I mean I like him. Excuse me, you
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: received a rangeer over you didn't like that? Man, go
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: ahead it I didn't buy it. Same difference, it's the
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: same difference. So yeah, I think honestly, but like she said,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: I kind of agree, you know, if it's levels of
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: cheating honestly, like the emotional cheating is way worse. Just
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: people who cheat should just get in a relationship with
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: somebody who you know, WI mony watch your town. Yeah,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: being a poly relationship. That's true because I feel like
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of people out there who believe in polygamy.
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: So I like polygamy. You wouldn't be in a poly
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: relationship like hell no, my man to look at me
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: like an angel untouched with that catalog po podcast his
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: untouched queen. Okay, okay, So what if you sleep with
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: a man right and the condom gets stuck in you?
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Then you go sleep with the guy you really like
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: and they find the condom? Would you want him to
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: forgive you if you got create what you need? You
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: said that same paper down now, because why is it
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: grabbing anything like that? Are you talking about? No? It is,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: but we have had a situation with snatched story that
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: grip man. If y'all ain't got that grip man at
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: y'all edge something right now? You need the group I'm weak, No,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: but situations like that, it ain't like that. Like I said,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not I'd be being funny, of course, But like
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: I said, I've had situations where I messed up. I
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: slipped up. It's not like something I do all the time.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: And I'm just you know how many times have you
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: slipped up? Every time? No? I don't honestly, but okay,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: i'll say this incentage wise, Um, honestly, I'm telling you
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: that right now. But I'm being honest. But I feel
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: like women don't be honest. I keep rying my ship.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: A lot of women be like, oh no, like y'all
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: out here. I know y'all are, because y'all be in
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: the emails talking to me about ya. I'm not gonna lie.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Community nice, no, but I'm not gonna lie. I feel
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: like this last situation I got out of, no, I wasn't.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: I was very faithful because, like I said, I wanted
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: a certain um out come, you know. So I was like,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: you know what, let me give one hundred percent of myself,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie. When I first moved to Atlanta,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: I got in a relationship. This was what twenty seventeen,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: and I was with somebody who, you know, who was
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: kind of known, and it was just like I just
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: kind of had checked out. But that was my comfort zone.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: So it was just kind of like I was just
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: in a weird space, you know. And like I said,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I was young. I'm thirty three. Now I'm like, I'm out,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: I'm out the game. I'm retired. I'NTI is tired. I
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: really don't want two three like men like I don't
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: want to do that. But in that space, I was
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: just like I was outside. I was in a new city.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I jumped into a relationship and it wasn't really what
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: I wanted. But instead of me vocalizing that, you know,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: I stepped out. So you know, I'm not proud of
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: my past. But I'm growing every day. But now it's
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: a whole day and I'm an untouched cool Thank y'all
• 45:58
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