Latest / I Do, Part 2 / Amy & T.J. ReRun: The New Bachelorette: Taylor Frankie Paul
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Taylor, Folks, got a question for you on this episode today.
- 0:06Speaker 1: Are you team Taylor? Are you team Whitney? And if
- 0:11Speaker 1: you don't know what I'm talking about right now, you
- 0:13Speaker 1: are out of the loop or under a rock. Kayler, Folks,
- 0:16Speaker 1: Welcome to this episode of Amy and TJ. Robes. Sitting
- 0:19Speaker 1: next to me, Robes, we have talked to several people
- 0:20Speaker 1: the last couple of days we said we are interviewing
- 0:23Speaker 1: the women from the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. What
- 0:27Speaker 1: has been the reaction we've gotten from everybody in niversal?
- 0:30Speaker 1: My gosh, I'm obsessed.
- 0:32Speaker 2: And you know this show has been out not even
- 0:34Speaker 2: for a full week, correct, and it's already it's number
- 0:37Speaker 2: one on Hulu.
- 0:38Speaker 3: Everyone's talking about it.
- 0:40Speaker 2: I was excited to have a reason for research purposes
- 0:44Speaker 2: to have to watch the show, and that's all I've
- 0:47Speaker 2: been doing for us.
- 0:48Speaker 1: In all seriousness, were you really trying to find a
- 0:50Speaker 1: way to make an excuse for why you needed to
- 0:52Speaker 1: watch it because you felt like I should I shouldn't
- 0:56Speaker 1: be watching that type.
- 0:57Speaker 3: Of smart You know, the answer is absolutely.
- 1:00Speaker 2: I watched ninety Beyonce Married at First Sight, Love Island,
- 1:05Speaker 2: Love is Blind, full disclosure.
- 1:07Speaker 3: I love some reality.
- 1:09Speaker 1: So let's be honest, full disclosure here. I watch plenty
- 1:12Speaker 1: of those with you. This one is different for a
- 1:16Speaker 1: very specific reason that we'll get into. But right now
- 1:20Speaker 1: we need to welcome into the studio folks. They are
- 1:23Speaker 1: sitting right here in front of us, two ladies who
- 1:26Speaker 1: are looking for tickets to the Book of Mormons. If
- 1:29Speaker 1: you have this long broadway they would appreciate. With Taylor Freaky,
- 1:33Speaker 1: Paul Macy Neely, Welcome, Welcome to the show.
- 1:37Speaker 3: Welcome to guys.
- 1:38Speaker 4: You guys are entertaining to listen to.
- 1:40Speaker 5: I love your voices.
- 1:42Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 1:42Speaker 5: You're the news background.
- 1:44Speaker 3: Oh okay, yes, decades of training.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Yeah, so so okay, with that background, you know we're journalists.
- 1:50Speaker 1: We're going to get right to it. So tell us
- 1:53Speaker 1: season two. Is it confirmed? Is it happening?
- 1:55Speaker 5: It's not confirmed, but I have a feeling.
- 1:57Speaker 4: We hope, yeah, but we don't know anything.
- 2:00Speaker 3: Do you know when you'll know? Have they given you
- 2:02Speaker 3: an idea?
- 2:03Speaker 4: If I think, if it's happening, it'll be here very soon,
- 2:07Speaker 4: I think, But I guess. I guess we're not the
- 2:08Speaker 4: ones who call the shots, so real, we know good.
- 2:11Speaker 1: Hell, well, this thing is getting renewed. Is there anybody
- 2:13Speaker 1: show a hands in the room who thinks this is not?
- 2:15Speaker 1: Of course is getting renewed, but it's a congratulations. Any question?
- 2:19Speaker 1: What has life looked like since? And again it's only
- 2:23Speaker 1: would you say it.
- 2:23Speaker 3: Six days or something? It's like four, Oh yeah, well
- 2:27Speaker 3: what was it?
- 2:28Speaker 5: Friday? Came out Friday?
- 2:29Speaker 1: Wow, as we sit here, you're only a few days in.
- 2:31Speaker 1: How has life changed even in the matter of days
- 2:34Speaker 1: since the show hit who it.
- 2:36Speaker 4: Hasn't hit us?
- 2:37Speaker 5: Yeah, it like hasn't hit us yet.
- 2:39Speaker 6: I think that what's changed, just like all the comments
- 2:41Speaker 6: in all the buzz, Like if we open social media,
- 2:43Speaker 6: all we see is ourselves, which is it like normal?
- 2:46Speaker 6: So I feel like that's the weirdest part is like
- 2:48Speaker 6: seeing all the buzz and I'm like, whoa, Like this
- 2:51Speaker 6: is bigger than we anticipated or I ever thought it
- 2:53Speaker 6: would be.
- 2:54Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think going places too, I don't
- 2:56Speaker 4: think we kind of knew, like because in our circle
- 3:00Speaker 4: we're kind of like, well no, i'd say, like people
- 3:02Speaker 4: know us in Utah, you know, but we're going to
- 3:04Speaker 4: the airport now and like everyone's stopping here, can we
- 3:05Speaker 4: get a picture? And it's so weird it's like it's different.
- 3:08Speaker 5: It's I don't know nationwide. Yeah, it's like weird y.
- 3:12Speaker 3: Have you all watched the episodes back I have?
- 3:15Speaker 1: She has it?
- 3:16Speaker 4: No, I get it. It came out Friday I spent so
- 3:19Speaker 4: I have part time with my kids, and so I
- 3:21Speaker 4: got them back for those three days before I left town.
- 3:23Speaker 4: So I was like, I'm not going to sit and
- 3:25Speaker 4: watch the show. Obviously, don't want it on my screen
- 3:27Speaker 4: with my kids watching. It's like my backstory. I didn't
- 3:29Speaker 4: want it. So no, I have not gone to it.
- 3:33Speaker 4: I know, people don't blame me, like you definitely have
- 3:34Speaker 4: seen it. I was like, I literally haven't.
- 3:36Speaker 3: Okay, Macie, so what do you think having seen.
- 3:38Speaker 5: It it is? I mean it's pretty good.
- 3:41Speaker 6: I think it's hard when you watch yourself in it,
- 3:42Speaker 6: You're like, no, it's like a whole movie. Like it
- 3:44Speaker 6: doesn't seem like a real like production, right because I
- 3:47Speaker 6: just see me and my friends on the like on
- 3:48Speaker 6: the TV screen. But I mean it was juicy for sure,
- 3:52Speaker 6: Like it was crazy to see how much was cut
- 3:54Speaker 6: out compared to how much we filmed.
- 3:56Speaker 4: Too.
- 3:56Speaker 6: I was like, this almost seems like a highlight reel
- 3:58Speaker 6: of what we filmed because we filmed so much.
- 4:01Speaker 3: Or a low light in some moments.
- 4:03Speaker 5: Oh yeah, for sure. True.
- 4:07Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm curious. I don't know how much people want
- 4:13Speaker 2: to give away about what ends up happening. And I
- 4:15Speaker 2: actually read ahead because it is juicy. That is probably
- 4:20Speaker 2: a very light word to use, but everyone knows if.
- 4:25Speaker 3: You've got girl groups. I was talking to TJ about it.
- 4:27Speaker 2: You know, it gets messy and it gets difficult sometimes
- 4:31Speaker 2: we have all these different personalities. But I know that
- 4:34Speaker 2: there were problems going into the show based on what happened,
- 4:37Speaker 2: And we'll get into the backstory of this. But did
- 4:39Speaker 2: this do further damage being on the show to already
- 4:45Speaker 2: thinly put together friendships that were barely hanging on?
- 4:48Speaker 3: Did this destroy friendships doing the show?
- 4:51Speaker 5: Yes and no.
- 4:52Speaker 6: I should say like some of us got closer and
- 4:55Speaker 6: then some of us didn't.
- 4:56Speaker 5: And I think there's like a bit of a divide
- 4:58Speaker 5: right now.
- 4:59Speaker 1: For sure, Why are you giggling? You? You immediately reacted
- 5:02Speaker 1: to what she said.
- 5:02Speaker 4: Why it's just funny, Like I guess now the girls
- 5:05Speaker 4: have seen it. We were told, yeah, you're gonna have
- 5:07Speaker 4: broken friendships. Oh like really, and then there has been yeah.
- 5:11Speaker 6: Yeah, it's starting to happen right now behind the scenes,
- 5:13Speaker 6: so it's yeah, there's like drama going on behind the
- 5:16Speaker 6: scenes with everything.
- 5:18Speaker 4: So it's funny, like it's just the people you don't think.
- 5:20Speaker 4: Sometimes it's just like, oh.
- 5:23Speaker 1: Is it irreparable though irreparable harm that's being done or
- 5:27Speaker 1: just things that are going to take time to.
- 5:28Speaker 4: Get past for me, things that will take time. Like
- 5:33Speaker 4: I feel like I'm pretty forgive. I haven't seen the show,
- 5:37Speaker 4: so I don't know if I'm forgiving you this show,
- 5:38Speaker 4: but like I feel like I'm pretty forgiving, especially with girlfriends,
- 5:41Speaker 4: and so I feel like if any damage is done,
- 5:43Speaker 4: I I'll be able to forgive. We'll just be straight
- 5:45Speaker 4: up Whitney right now, you know, it's going through the mud.
- 5:47Speaker 4: And so I feel like I was saying this earlier,
- 5:50Speaker 4: like I'll always she helped me in a very dark place,
- 5:53Speaker 4: like when I was at my lowest, and so even
- 5:55Speaker 4: though she might not be a fan of me, like
- 5:57Speaker 4: I'm gonna be here for her during this cause I've
- 5:59Speaker 4: been her exact spot and so I just feel for
- 6:01Speaker 4: her at this point.
- 6:02Speaker 3: Is it true that everyone has unfollowed Whitney.
- 6:05Speaker 4: I mean I haven't, but I don't know if she's
- 6:07Speaker 4: in following me, but I think all the other girls
- 6:09Speaker 4: haven't followed her. Yeah, And I don't know. It's hard.
- 6:13Speaker 4: Like I know they're like very like upset and they
- 6:15Speaker 4: have all these feelings into they can. But I feel
- 6:17Speaker 4: like I just have been in Whitney's spot of that
- 6:19Speaker 4: villain and and it's like out of hurt too, and
- 6:22Speaker 4: she's reacting and I think it's out of she's just hurting,
- 6:24Speaker 4: and so like for me, I feel for I'm like
- 6:26Speaker 4: I see myself and so I'm not going to add
- 6:29Speaker 4: to that. I'm only going to be here for her.
- 6:30Speaker 1: Have you all reached out? Have you all tried? Is
- 6:33Speaker 1: there any communication with Whitney right now?
- 6:35Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here for you no matter what.
- 6:36Speaker 1: But is there back and forth or was just kind
- 6:38Speaker 1: of one way right now?
- 6:39Speaker 6: I mean I reached out to her and she han't respond,
- 6:41Speaker 6: but I guess she's responding to.
- 6:42Speaker 3: Taylor, And she responded to you, Taylor.
- 6:44Speaker 4: She did, and she like kind of just broke her
- 6:46Speaker 4: feelings down and her reasonings. And I haven't responded because
- 6:49Speaker 4: we've been on the go, and so I know to
- 6:51Speaker 4: like take a minute to read all of it and
- 6:52Speaker 4: then respond.
- 6:54Speaker 2: It's interesting you point out and we have a little
- 6:57Speaker 2: history and knowing what it feels like when people when
- 7:00Speaker 2: they're listening to a story, and obviously there are lots
- 7:02Speaker 2: of different sides, but people want a good guy, and
- 7:05Speaker 2: they want a bad guy or a villain and a saint,
- 7:08Speaker 2: a saint in a sinner. I think one of the
- 7:09Speaker 2: episodes is even called Saints and Sinners. Have you like,
- 7:13Speaker 2: I feel like basically somehow you've never actually been in
- 7:17Speaker 2: the bad guy situation as if yet not.
- 7:20Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean towards the end, like kind of can
- 7:23Speaker 6: go both ways, and like that end kind of makes
- 7:25Speaker 6: me look a little bit like a villain. At least
- 7:26Speaker 6: when I watched it, I was.
- 7:27Speaker 5: Like, uh oh, but like that wasn't the intention.
- 7:30Speaker 6: They did cut a scene where I asked Taylor's permission
- 7:33Speaker 6: to call this person who's like involved in Dakota's past,
- 7:36Speaker 6: but they cut that out, so I was like, Dan,
- 7:38Speaker 6: that actually kind of makes me look a little bit
- 7:40Speaker 6: like a villain. But if they saw it wasn't cut.
- 7:44Speaker 4: No, I'm just cadding she's a good friend. So it's
- 7:46Speaker 4: like hard when you're like.
- 7:47Speaker 6: I wouldn't say I'm like a natural villain like I
- 7:49Speaker 6: would just say, like, I'm not man, I'm perfect. I'm
- 7:53Speaker 6: just kidding. No, But I I just like love my
- 7:56Speaker 6: friendships and I hate when people, yeah, and I hate
- 7:59Speaker 6: when people are so hot cold Michel, I can't we
- 8:00Speaker 6: all just like be friends?
- 8:01Speaker 5: Like how hard is it to get along? Like I
- 8:03Speaker 5: don't understand.
- 8:03Speaker 3: Apparently it's really hard.
- 8:04Speaker 6: Yeah, And I understand because like you have eight strong,
- 8:09Speaker 6: like minded women, like we all are like opinionated, like granted,
- 8:12Speaker 6: like potsfried By were on a reality show together, because
- 8:14Speaker 6: so there's bound to be conflicts, right, like it's just natural.
- 8:18Speaker 1: And please know when I asked, we're only three episodes in.
- 8:22Speaker 1: Let you know that. So when I asked, I said, okay,
- 8:25Speaker 1: I know who're interview. Got Taylor, got Mace, and I
- 8:27Speaker 1: came in that like came around the corner. I said, okay,
- 8:29Speaker 1: which one is Macy's Again, she said she's Switzerland. That's
- 8:34Speaker 1: how she rides been able to go back and forth
- 8:36Speaker 1: with two different groups at least. I think we're on
- 8:38Speaker 1: episode four, by the way, but she suggested that that
- 8:41Speaker 1: might have been stressful or difficult for you. When even
- 8:43Speaker 1: I opened this episode talking about Team Whitney R Team
- 8:46Speaker 1: it seems like everybody needs to take a split outside
- 8:48Speaker 1: and you are going back and forth, and what does
- 8:51Speaker 1: that continue with you now? The stress of having to
- 8:54Speaker 1: try to manage kind of keep the whole team together
- 8:58Speaker 1: in a certain way.
- 8:59Speaker 6: I feel like right now now I'm not I'm not
- 9:01Speaker 6: even thinking about it and when there's too much going on.
- 9:03Speaker 6: But during the show, I feel like it was the
- 9:05Speaker 6: biggest stressor for me. Was like I feel like I
- 9:07Speaker 6: was always in between two groups and it was hard
- 9:10Speaker 6: because now I feel like I'm seeing online like on
- 9:11Speaker 6: social people are being like, oh, she's playing both sides,
- 9:14Speaker 6: like she's the smart one, she's the staring the problem,
- 9:16Speaker 6: Like actually no, I was stuck between two sides and
- 9:20Speaker 6: it was so stressful because like then when bore are
- 9:22Speaker 6: they saying about me? And I'm like, I'm not saying anything,
- 9:24Speaker 6: and the was Whatney saying. I'm like, I don't want
- 9:26Speaker 6: to say anything, like I just want to be friends
- 9:28Speaker 6: with everybody, and like, apparently that's an issue and I don't, like, yeah,
- 9:31Speaker 6: that's like a problem.
- 9:32Speaker 3: People want people to take sides. I think a lot
- 9:34Speaker 3: of times true, Taylor.
- 9:44Speaker 2: I want to ask you, because how this all began. Obviously,
- 9:46Speaker 2: I learned a lot about what is it soft swinging is.
- 9:50Speaker 2: We don't need to go into all of that because
- 9:52Speaker 2: I think that's been heavily discussed. However, I did have
- 9:54Speaker 2: a question because we started watching the episode and it
- 9:58Speaker 2: starts out right after all of that, and presumably when
- 10:02Speaker 2: you all got the show the TikTok that went viral,
- 10:06Speaker 2: you had been accused of cheating or being a man
- 10:10Speaker 2: or a husband stealer, and you said, hold up, everyone
- 10:13Speaker 2: was involved or a lot of folks were involved in
- 10:15Speaker 2: this soft swinging, so it was agreed upon consensual mutual
- 10:21Speaker 2: so I'm not the bad guy here. But then, of
- 10:22Speaker 2: course many of your friends and the friend group felt
- 10:25Speaker 2: like they then had to defend themselves say hey, it
- 10:27Speaker 2: wasn't me. There are a lot of questions swirling around.
- 10:31Speaker 2: Is anyone who was on the show now a part
- 10:33Speaker 2: of that group without naming names? Or are these all
- 10:36Speaker 2: people we haven't heard or seen before.
- 10:38Speaker 4: The second one? So yeah, no one was involved on
- 10:41Speaker 4: the cast shown.
- 10:43Speaker 3: Now, yeah, do you feel like you made that clear?
- 10:46Speaker 2: And that maybe that's why some of the girls were
- 10:49Speaker 2: upset that they didn't feel like their names were cleared
- 10:51Speaker 2: by you.
- 10:52Speaker 4: Now, I feel like it's very cleared. I don't know
- 10:55Speaker 4: how much they show on the show, but I think
- 10:56Speaker 4: I've cleared that up now and especially in the interviews
- 10:59Speaker 4: as well, like we've all said, know, like none of
- 11:00Speaker 4: the cast is like involved other than myself. Yeah, So
- 11:04Speaker 4: I feel like that's clear, But I don't know. Is
- 11:06Speaker 4: there still questions do you think out there?
- 11:07Speaker 6: Yes?
- 11:08Speaker 1: Absolutely, because anything anybody told me about this show about
- 11:13Speaker 1: Mormon wives, Oh they're swinging, did you not know?
- 11:18Speaker 3: Thinking who's denying it? They just don't want to admit it.
- 11:21Speaker 3: So I think.
- 11:23Speaker 4: Here's it's hard is because we are in like the
- 11:26Speaker 4: TikTok world and that's our jobs and we do that
- 11:29Speaker 4: and there's mom talk, right, So you have people that
- 11:32Speaker 4: were involved in there and then they're not on the show.
- 11:34Speaker 4: So it is very like people cannot connect. But I
- 11:37Speaker 4: think if you have been there and you did the research,
- 11:39Speaker 4: it's not hard to pinpoint who.
- 11:41Speaker 1: Is and who is I haven't done.
- 11:45Speaker 3: We have more homework so that some further interviews. But
- 11:49Speaker 3: we started out.
- 11:52Speaker 2: You started out thinking you were pregnant, you had I
- 11:54Speaker 2: believe a miscarriage, and then almost a full year goes
- 11:59Speaker 2: by before you start filming again. Yeah, obviously you were arrested.
- 12:02Speaker 2: Anybody can do that Google search as well. What happened
- 12:05Speaker 2: to you during that year and what made you decide
- 12:09Speaker 2: to start filming again?
- 12:11Speaker 3: Give us fill in that gap for us.
- 12:14Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like it was like a transformative time.
- 12:17Speaker 4: I would say, I feel like when I started to film,
- 12:19Speaker 4: you can see it clear as day. I'm I know
- 12:22Speaker 4: you haven't like finished, but I'm a different person. It's
- 12:25Speaker 4: episode one, And then I think, I you know, I'm
- 12:27Speaker 4: a completely different person going forward in the show, you know,
- 12:33Speaker 4: And so I feel like in the beginning would have
- 12:35Speaker 4: been chaos if we kept filming. I can't imagine the
- 12:38Speaker 4: show because I was like, you can just tell them
- 12:40Speaker 4: like I don't care, I don't give an f about
- 12:43Speaker 4: anything or anyone. I was just in a hurting phase
- 12:45Speaker 4: and I just like was so angry, I think, and
- 12:47Speaker 4: then I've yeah, I was dating Dakota, I went through
- 12:50Speaker 4: the miscar or the ectopic pregnancy. So I feel like
- 12:52Speaker 4: I got softer within time, and like more empathetic towards
- 12:56Speaker 4: others and like how they're feeling, because in the beginning,
- 12:59Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't care why anyone's feelings, Like I
- 13:00Speaker 4: hate all of you, like anyone that did me wrong,
- 13:02Speaker 4: you know. And so I feel like during that process,
- 13:05Speaker 4: I could empathize with people and like I just learned
- 13:08Speaker 4: a lot and I went through a lot, like of
- 13:10Speaker 4: mental health stuff. Like I feel like I was very
- 13:12Speaker 4: low in that time too, and I went to EMDR therapy.
- 13:16Speaker 4: Lots of issues in my relationship, like we were really
- 13:20Speaker 4: trying to make it working after an ectopic pregnancy of
- 13:22Speaker 4: loss and like you're barely hanging on, like Rocky we
- 13:25Speaker 4: just met, so like I'm so like it was shocking
- 13:27Speaker 4: that we're still together, you know, after all of that,
- 13:30Speaker 4: but working on that and then yeah, I got pregnant
- 13:33Speaker 4: again and that was I think that was no accident,
- 13:35Speaker 4: Like I wanted that. I think from the loss, I
- 13:37Speaker 4: was just like so hurting and I wanted I wanted
- 13:40Speaker 4: a child. I wanted that child, you know that I
- 13:41Speaker 4: had lost, so like I wanted that and he did too,
- 13:44Speaker 4: And so I feel like there's no regret there. But
- 13:46Speaker 4: I know it's hard if what everyone's no opinions of
- 13:49Speaker 4: like that's not the smart thing to do in a
- 13:50Speaker 4: rocky relationship, and you're like you're probably right, but it
- 13:52Speaker 4: was at that time like that's what I wanted, and
- 13:54Speaker 4: so I did it, and I love my baby today
- 13:57Speaker 4: and you know, I'm so happy with him and we're
- 13:59Speaker 4: still like going through stuff and rocking and obviously relationship.
- 14:02Speaker 4: Putting it on reality TV makes things difficult, right, Like
- 14:06Speaker 4: maybe I don't make the smartest decisions, but I don't know.
- 14:09Speaker 4: I went with my gut on what I wanted and
- 14:11Speaker 4: I did it so.
- 14:12Speaker 1: Well on the Since Dakota is the topic here, well
- 14:16Speaker 1: just some quick follow upd coda questions. One are you
- 14:19Speaker 1: all headed to marriage? Two? How are your parents with Dakota? Three?
- 14:23Speaker 1: How is Macy these days? With Dakota? Oh?
- 14:27Speaker 2: The eyes?
- 14:29Speaker 1: They don't lie, do they? So let's sus start with
- 14:33Speaker 1: Macy with the eyes. Okay, tell me what it.
- 14:35Speaker 6: Is joking because we have we have like beef on
- 14:38Speaker 6: the show obviously, and like I mean, I feel like
- 14:41Speaker 6: we're okay. I don't know though, because whatever this is
- 14:44Speaker 6: how it always explained a relationship.
- 14:46Speaker 5: When we're together in person.
- 14:47Speaker 6: We vibe so well, like me and Dakota, like our personalities,
- 14:50Speaker 6: like we had to travel here all together, Like we're
- 14:53Speaker 6: joking around with each other. I think for me it
- 14:55Speaker 6: was more like Taylor's coming to me saying like, hey,
- 14:57Speaker 6: he's doing this or doing that, and like this is
- 14:59Speaker 6: a red flags, the red flag you shouldn't talk to you
- 15:01Speaker 6: like this. So for me from a protective friends standpoint,
- 15:03Speaker 6: I'm only seeing the bad for a while, right, and
- 15:06Speaker 6: I wasn't really saying the good. And I think over time,
- 15:10Speaker 6: like I realized, oh, like, you know, I like him,
- 15:12Speaker 6: Like they have their floss and tailors not perfect either,
- 15:14Speaker 6: so I think when I would see stuff like that,
- 15:15Speaker 6: I was like, okay, Like so they both got a
- 15:17Speaker 6: little messy, you know, like we our relationship is on
- 15:22Speaker 6: decent terms.
- 15:23Speaker 1: But it sounds like, as you said here, you're fully
- 15:26Speaker 1: supportive of them and a future together.
- 15:28Speaker 6: Yeah, And I told like I've told her and like
- 15:30Speaker 6: I've told him, like I want you guys to work.
- 15:33Speaker 6: I give a baby together, Like I hope that, like
- 15:35Speaker 6: everything works out for sure, Like as long as everything's
- 15:38Speaker 6: good you guys are treating each other, right, then great,
- 15:40Speaker 6: like make it work, you know.
- 15:42Speaker 4: So, yeah, the goal has always been marriage. I feel
- 15:45Speaker 4: like I don't know how much they show, you know,
- 15:47Speaker 4: in the show, but I feel like I've expressed that's
- 15:49Speaker 4: the goal. I'm just not to the point of I
- 15:53Speaker 4: don't want to right now. Like for me, I feel
- 15:55Speaker 4: like there is trust issues there, you know, have how
- 15:57Speaker 4: we started, and I just need that time to like
- 16:00Speaker 4: hill from that and grow the trust back, you know,
- 16:02Speaker 4: like it needs. I'm not going to go into a
- 16:04Speaker 4: marriage not really fully trusting the person. And so we're
- 16:07Speaker 4: working on that. And then my parents love him, we
- 16:12Speaker 4: love him. They want They're like, if it were up
- 16:15Speaker 4: to them, i'd be married today.
- 16:16Speaker 1: So yeah, an early episode.
- 16:22Speaker 3: And your mom it was I laughed. It was actually
- 16:24Speaker 3: quite funny and it was real.
- 16:26Speaker 1: Yeah, they were warm about it. They weren't mean, but still.
- 16:28Speaker 4: They had Yeah, my mom's pretty harsh.
- 16:30Speaker 2: She's she's honest, you know, And you've got to appreciate that,
- 16:34Speaker 2: especially in a reality show where maybe you can't believe
- 16:36Speaker 2: or trust much of what you're seeing or hearing. Your
- 16:38Speaker 2: parents will set you straight, and I appreciate that. I
- 16:41Speaker 2: have been fascinated. So I grew up Catholic and I have.
- 16:45Speaker 3: You know, over my.
- 16:48Speaker 2: Period of time, I went from being a cafeteria Catholic
- 16:51Speaker 2: to kind of jokingly becoming a recovering Catholic. But I
- 16:54Speaker 2: didn't realize Mormonism you could have these varying degrees. I
- 16:57Speaker 2: thought you were all in or all out, and so
- 17:00Speaker 2: we see some of you drinking, We see some of
- 17:02Speaker 2: you obviously sexually being explorative, which wouldn't be something that
- 17:07Speaker 2: I would think would be sanctioned by the church. What
- 17:10Speaker 2: do you think about what this is doing or saying
- 17:13Speaker 2: about modern Mormonism for people who are watching and maybe
- 17:16Speaker 2: only have seen the Book of Mormon or have only
- 17:18Speaker 2: heard because this isn't something This isn't a religion where
- 17:21Speaker 2: you can walk into tabernacle like I don't want to
- 17:23Speaker 2: say secretive, but it's closed. It's not something that's open
- 17:26Speaker 2: for everyone. So people can only guess. What do you
- 17:29Speaker 2: think this show is doing for your faith? And what
- 17:32Speaker 2: have you heard back from maybe bishops or leaders of
- 17:35Speaker 2: the church.
- 17:36Speaker 4: I feel like it's opening people's eyes to it doesn't
- 17:39Speaker 4: have to be like that, like very one way or
- 17:41Speaker 4: the other, all in or all out, and that is
- 17:43Speaker 4: like my message out there is that's not the case.
- 17:47Speaker 4: Like I feel like we all go through these trials
- 17:48Speaker 4: that you see in the show. Everyone does, Like I mean,
- 17:51Speaker 4: people struggle with addiction and alcohol and affairs and all
- 17:54Speaker 4: these things, and even in the Mormon religion and it happens,
- 17:57Speaker 4: it's just very hush hush, and so our thing is
- 18:00Speaker 4: like just I want to share my story. I want
- 18:04Speaker 4: to come out and people like Mormons, we aren't perfect,
- 18:06Speaker 4: and that's like it doesn't have to be that way.
- 18:08Speaker 4: We all live differently, and you see that in the show.
- 18:10Speaker 4: There's a very devout and then there's one that completely
- 18:12Speaker 4: left the church, that was born and raised, right, So
- 18:14Speaker 4: it's like our message was everyone has a different story
- 18:17Speaker 4: and it doesn't have to be one way, and that's
- 18:21Speaker 4: what you think it is. That's where a lot of
- 18:22Speaker 4: people think it.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Is as you said, right, Yeah, I absolutely thought.
- 18:26Speaker 4: That, and it's not and we don't not everyone's perfect,
- 18:28Speaker 4: and that was what the message is.
- 18:29Speaker 5: And no one has reached out.
- 18:31Speaker 6: I feel like, at least from anyone that I know,
- 18:33Speaker 6: no church leaders have reached out. They posted a statement
- 18:36Speaker 6: before the show came out, and I think it was
- 18:39Speaker 6: more just because everyone was freaking out onlinees like like
- 18:41Speaker 6: they had to post something, you know, but like everyone
- 18:43Speaker 6: was just chudging a book by its cover, like when
- 18:45Speaker 6: you watch the show, like it's not like a documentary
- 18:47Speaker 6: on like Mormons, right, Like it's not like that. And
- 18:51Speaker 6: so I think, yeah, like people were just judging a
- 18:53Speaker 6: book by its cover and no one's reached out to me.
- 18:55Speaker 6: Actually someone reached out because I wasn't at church on Sunday,
- 18:58Speaker 6: Like this doesn't make sure you're doing okay. Like I
- 19:00Speaker 6: thought it was because of the show that I wasn't coming,
- 19:02Speaker 6: But I was just like kind of sex. I was like, no,
- 19:04Speaker 6: that's not the problem. I'm like, I'm good, I'm coming.
- 19:06Speaker 6: I don't care what you say.
- 19:07Speaker 1: Like, yeah, That's what I alluded to at the top
- 19:10Speaker 1: of why this show was different. There are plenty of
- 19:13Speaker 1: the housewives and reality this and that that put people together,
- 19:18Speaker 1: and you know what you're going to expect, you're going
- 19:19Speaker 1: to They're going to put them together. They're going to
- 19:20Speaker 1: take a trip, they're going to put some alcohol, they're
- 19:22Speaker 1: going to go to lunch, and it's going to be
- 19:23Speaker 1: an explosion. The thing about this story this that's different,
- 19:27Speaker 1: and there is some of that minus the alcohol. I
- 19:29Speaker 1: suppose there's some alcohol. There as some alcohol.
- 19:31Speaker 2: Yeah, that causes some of the problems, just the fact
- 19:33Speaker 2: that they're being there are there is alcohol there, But it.
- 19:37Speaker 1: Makes I'm curious about how the Mormon faith plays into
- 19:42Speaker 1: your life. I have a curiosity sitting on the edge
- 19:45Speaker 1: of my seat watching you all, not because I want
- 19:47Speaker 1: to see a fight, but because I'm curious of how
- 19:50Speaker 1: you incorporate your day and day, your relationships, your your marriages,
- 19:54Speaker 1: your kids, how that blends with your Mormon faith. And
- 19:58Speaker 1: so my question, I guess, do you find it good
- 20:02Speaker 1: and bad? You're showing a side of the Mormon faith
- 20:06Speaker 1: that people didn't say, Oh, they're normal just like me. Yeah,
- 20:09Speaker 1: that's a good thing.
- 20:10Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 20:10Speaker 1: But on the other side of that is they're showing
- 20:12Speaker 1: the Mormon faith and go, oh, that's how they are.
- 20:15Speaker 1: So it seems like it's a double sided coin.
- 20:19Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 20:20Speaker 6: I think for me, I love that we could all
- 20:22Speaker 6: show like where we're at, because I'm like, I want
- 20:24Speaker 6: other people, especially people who are making Mormon or maybe
- 20:27Speaker 6: don't feel like they're enough because they're not following the
- 20:29Speaker 6: rules or the guielms to a tea. I want them
- 20:30Speaker 6: to build the watch and relate and be like, oh,
- 20:32Speaker 6: so like I don't I can swear and be Mormon. Oh,
- 20:35Speaker 6: like I don't have I could do a coffee and
- 20:36Speaker 6: still go to church and be Mormon. Like that's I
- 20:39Speaker 6: think what we wanted out of it. Is like no
- 20:40Speaker 6: one's perfect and people are still doing things, but they're
- 20:42Speaker 6: not like they're not omen like us admitting it and
- 20:45Speaker 6: so like, and I think there's like we just want
- 20:47Speaker 6: to get rid of that guilt and shame feeling for
- 20:49Speaker 6: people who maybe feel like us and like I was.
- 20:52Speaker 6: I say this so many times where people are gonna
- 20:54Speaker 6: say it's like my whole personality. But I'm from California,
- 20:56Speaker 6: and California culture with Mormons is different. Like I grew up,
- 21:00Speaker 6: I feel fairly normal, like none of my friends are
- 21:02Speaker 6: really Mormon, like, so I feel like I have a
- 21:04Speaker 6: different perspective in general. I'm like, this is how Mormons are,
- 21:07Speaker 6: it's like how I am. But in Utah, the culture
- 21:09Speaker 6: is different, for sure, and I think it's a little
- 21:12Speaker 6: more I want to say judgmental, but it's a little
- 21:14Speaker 6: more to the book, like everyone's mostly following the guidelines
- 21:17Speaker 6: to a tee and it's not like that like everywhere else.
- 21:21Speaker 6: I feel like mostly Utah, So I think it's shedding
- 21:23Speaker 6: light on like relatability.
- 21:25Speaker 2: I've been to Utah. It is very different than the
- 21:28Speaker 2: rest of the country.
- 21:29Speaker 3: It certainly is.
- 21:39Speaker 2: I'm curious you said Taylor that in Utah people recognize
- 21:43Speaker 2: you and now you're going to probably have a very
- 21:45Speaker 2: different experience as you venture out. But how have you
- 21:49Speaker 2: been treated? Like do you see the sneers in the
- 21:51Speaker 2: eye rolls? Do people say things to you based on
- 21:55Speaker 2: just the even the TikTok situation?
- 21:57Speaker 3: What has your life been Like?
- 21:59Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like it's been overall in person, everyone
- 22:02Speaker 4: is great, And I think when everything originally came out
- 22:05Speaker 4: on TikTok, I had a like in Target, a girl
- 22:08Speaker 4: was like, just so you know, like I got you,
- 22:10Speaker 4: we have your back, we support you. And it was
- 22:12Speaker 4: like a random strang journal I was like, thank you.
- 22:14Speaker 4: Like a church, a girl came up to me after swinging.
- 22:17Speaker 4: Things just came up. She's like, I'm just glad you're
- 22:18Speaker 4: here today, and that's when she came. It was just
- 22:20Speaker 4: like things like that. But now we were at the
- 22:23Speaker 4: airport and a girl was like, oh, we were all
- 22:26Speaker 4: dressed and the same and it was the cast and
- 22:27Speaker 4: she was like like, what's going on? You know when
- 22:29Speaker 4: we were talking her, were like talking about the show
- 22:31Speaker 4: and she was like, oh yeah, none of that. Like
- 22:33Speaker 4: you could just tell she was a Mormon and like
- 22:35Speaker 4: heard about the show and already was just like none
- 22:37Speaker 4: of that. And then all of us were like just
- 22:40Speaker 4: like kind of shocked by her reaction, and like to me,
- 22:43Speaker 4: she was like, we all lived differently, we all make
- 22:47Speaker 4: mistakes and that's okay. Like was very like firm back
- 22:49Speaker 4: to her, and she's like, you know what, I apologize.
- 22:51Speaker 4: You're right, Like I think just like hearing it, and
- 22:53Speaker 4: she was like she hurt herself, like, oh, I'm sorry,
- 22:56Speaker 4: I apologize, And so that was kind of cool to
- 22:58Speaker 4: witness that conversation in But I haven't noticed it other
- 23:03Speaker 4: than that, but I'm sure we'll get it now, especially
- 23:04Speaker 4: because she hadn't seen the show right, and they're they're
- 23:06Speaker 4: going off just the title and the trailer and they're like,
- 23:10Speaker 4: that is not us.
- 23:12Speaker 6: And they usually don't say it to your face, they
- 23:14Speaker 6: say it behind your back.
- 23:16Speaker 5: I wasn't there for that. I'm dang, I'm mad I
- 23:19Speaker 5: missed that. Taylor.
- 23:21Speaker 3: I have another question for you. This is just my curiosity.
- 23:25Speaker 2: How do a group of Mormon couples even start a
- 23:32Speaker 2: conversation or even entertain the idea of this soft swinging?
- 23:37Speaker 3: Like where does that come in? Does someone bring it up?
- 23:40Speaker 3: Is it?
- 23:40Speaker 2: Like? I'm just curious how something that like that begins
- 23:44Speaker 2: in that group set it.
- 23:45Speaker 4: I think it was curiosity for everybody. So I've talked
- 23:48Speaker 4: about it before. They didn't do what you normal people
- 23:52Speaker 4: do in their college fun years, right, they got married
- 23:55Speaker 4: and for their first everyone was each other's first, right
- 23:58Speaker 4: like in most of them. Me I won't speak for
- 24:01Speaker 4: myself in that situation, and I also did party my
- 24:03Speaker 4: younger years, so I had experienced that type of life.
- 24:06Speaker 4: For them, I think it was all new. And even
- 24:07Speaker 4: for my ex, his first time drinking was twenty eight
- 24:09Speaker 4: years old, twenty nine, and so I feel like it
- 24:12Speaker 4: was like this thing that we like started to drink
- 24:13Speaker 4: and that was fun and it was cool, and then
- 24:15Speaker 4: it was like and then it just another step was
- 24:18Speaker 4: the boys like girls should kiss, and I did that
- 24:19Speaker 4: in my young year, so I was like, okay, like whatever,
- 24:21Speaker 4: let's kiss, let's be. It was just like dumb stuff,
- 24:23Speaker 4: like high school stuff. And then it was like, let's
- 24:25Speaker 4: play spin the bottle, and it progresses. It's all basically
- 24:29Speaker 4: games you play in high school and college that they
- 24:31Speaker 4: didn't experience with other people, and so it led from yeah,
- 24:35Speaker 4: that and then it was everyone's blindfolding each other, making
- 24:38Speaker 4: out with everyone and then touching everyone, and it was
- 24:40Speaker 4: just like love Island games.
- 24:42Speaker 2: Honestly, oh, yes, we're familiar, but it's like all that
- 24:45Speaker 2: maybe even I don't want to put words, but like
- 24:47Speaker 2: all that repression maybe or you can't or you shouldn't
- 24:50Speaker 2: or don't. So you end up having like teenage years
- 24:53Speaker 2: in your late twenties.
- 24:54Speaker 4: And it was fun because we had been married for
- 24:56Speaker 4: like six world. Oh I'd been married only six years,
- 24:59Speaker 4: and so it's like you're kind of at that time
- 25:00Speaker 4: of like just like little bored. I would say, like
- 25:03Speaker 4: I hate to admit it, but bored. And so it
- 25:05Speaker 4: was like spicing things up. And the guy saw they're like,
- 25:07Speaker 4: this is spicing up our wives, Like hell yeah, And
- 25:09Speaker 4: so it was never with like ill intention. It was
- 25:12Speaker 4: more just like, it's fun, my spouse is right here.
- 25:15Speaker 4: We're not doing anything wrong, like we were on the
- 25:16Speaker 4: same page. It didn't feel bad in the moment. You
- 25:18Speaker 4: look at it now and it's like it's ruined all
- 25:20Speaker 4: of our lives. Everyone's divorced, the kids are going back
- 25:23Speaker 4: and forth to houses. It's like ruined our lives, you know.
- 25:25Speaker 4: But at the time it wasn't. We didn't feel bad,
- 25:29Speaker 4: and so it was never a conversation. It just like happened.
- 25:31Speaker 6: It's funny because when I heard about it, I was like,
- 25:34Speaker 6: this is something you do in college. It's like this
- 25:36Speaker 6: is a college exploratory phase, Like why are we doing
- 25:39Speaker 6: Like why were we doing this? As like married adults,
- 25:40Speaker 6: I mean, each to their own. But when I first
- 25:42Speaker 6: heard it, like this sounds like something you do in college,
- 25:44Speaker 6: like when you're like get doing your little why And
- 25:46Speaker 6: when I.
- 25:46Speaker 4: Hear some of the people involved talk about it, they're like, yeah,
- 25:48Speaker 4: we were just kids. Like we're all thirty almost thirty
- 25:52Speaker 4: year olds old, we're not kids, like what.
- 25:54Speaker 1: They're kids in terms of experience a lot? Right, yes,
- 25:57Speaker 1: but this was but this was a one off. This
- 25:59Speaker 1: was a one This wasn't like a lifestyle you will,
- 26:02Speaker 1: I use that in air quotes, but this isn't something
- 26:03Speaker 1: that continues. It was the one off experimental.
- 26:06Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't even use the word swinger. I mean
- 26:08Speaker 4: I feel like I did, but like going back, I
- 26:12Speaker 4: said soft swinging and that wasn't even my term I
- 26:14Speaker 4: made up.
- 26:15Speaker 1: Okay, I soft swinging is that clearly defined that everybody understands.
- 26:25Speaker 4: To be a full on swinger. Ever, it was soft swinging,
- 26:27Speaker 4: and someone told me that what we're doing with soft swinging?
- 26:30Speaker 1: Okay, so I.
- 26:31Speaker 2: Said, And how long did it go on before it
- 26:33Speaker 2: started to unravel?
- 26:34Speaker 3: Folks?
- 26:36Speaker 4: A year with a couple and then with the other
- 26:39Speaker 4: couples involved. I feel like it all blew up within
- 26:41Speaker 4: two months.
- 26:42Speaker 1: I didn't know. Again, I haven't done a deep enough dive,
- 26:45Speaker 1: have you that to hear the relationships and marriages were impacted,
- 26:51Speaker 1: all of them.
- 26:51Speaker 4: Everyone was divorced.
- 26:53Speaker 1: By it being revealed or just by it happening.
- 26:56Speaker 4: I think all of it. Yeah, like it happening and
- 26:59Speaker 4: the fairs involved and issues, Yeah, I would call it
- 27:05Speaker 4: just we opened our relationship up and it went bad.
- 27:07Speaker 4: I wouldn't even call us I mean swingers at this point, Like, yes,
- 27:11Speaker 4: that's what we're known for, But like I would say,
- 27:12Speaker 4: it was just an experienced, like open relationship.
- 27:16Speaker 3: What do you want to be known for now?
- 27:18Speaker 2: And as this is, we're all now consuming this season
- 27:20Speaker 2: and hopefully there'll be a second season. What do you
- 27:23Speaker 2: all hope comes from this? And what do you want
- 27:26Speaker 2: from putting this all out there?
- 27:28Speaker 4: Yeah, it's hard to say.
- 27:30Speaker 6: I think, like, well, the goal with the show I
- 27:33Speaker 6: think for us is like relatability. We want people to
- 27:35Speaker 6: relate and to be inspired maybe from like we all
- 27:38Speaker 6: have very interesting backstories, and you don't see that all
- 27:40Speaker 6: in the season one, So we're hoping with like future
- 27:42Speaker 6: seasons you can see how we really are where we
- 27:45Speaker 6: came from deep down. And I think that everyone even
- 27:47Speaker 6: more so can relate to us because we all have
- 27:49Speaker 6: interesting stories. So I think that's the goal and the
- 27:51Speaker 6: hope is that we can share more of our lives
- 27:53Speaker 6: and hopefully impact people and you know, further our careers
- 27:57Speaker 6: of course, Like why would you do being a reality
- 28:00Speaker 6: show if you like didn't want to further your career.
- 28:02Speaker 5: I guess yeah.
- 28:04Speaker 4: For me, I feel like, yeah, it was a big
- 28:06Speaker 4: It was an opportunity to obviously tell my story rather
- 28:08Speaker 4: than my headline. Yes, that is something I did. That's
- 28:11Speaker 4: not something I want to be known for, Like I
- 28:13Speaker 4: don't want that headline. It was a mistake, a lesson learned,
- 28:17Speaker 4: and I feel like this was my opportunity to come
- 28:19Speaker 4: tell my story and that's not me anymore. Like I
- 28:23Speaker 4: feel like I've grown from that. I don't want ever
- 28:25Speaker 4: that in my life again. And yeah, this was a
- 28:29Speaker 4: chance to just like and also show rock bottom like
- 28:31Speaker 4: I went through another year of shy stuff and that
- 28:34Speaker 4: you can come out of it. And it's like we've
- 28:36Speaker 4: all hit a low spot and I feel like you
- 28:38Speaker 4: can either choose one way to go dig yourself deeper
- 28:40Speaker 4: and come out of it, you know, so just gave me.
- 28:43Speaker 3: I love that.
- 28:44Speaker 2: I and everyone, no matter who you think you are
- 28:46Speaker 2: or where you are in life or everyone, gets to
- 28:51Speaker 2: a point where you hit that moment and then you
- 28:53Speaker 2: get the empathy and you get the wisdom, yes, and
- 28:55Speaker 2: you learn how to make things better.
- 28:58Speaker 3: And that's how we go through it. So we appreciate it.
- 29:01Speaker 2: I mean, it's been entertaining, but I do think there
- 29:03Speaker 2: are lessons in there, and this is real stuff that
- 29:07Speaker 2: people don't talk about, and you guys are showing us.
- 29:09Speaker 3: So we appreciate it.
- 29:10Speaker 1: We can't say it enough. Look, we've been through our
- 29:13Speaker 1: own types of hell, but it causes us to see
- 29:16Speaker 1: a show, even as entertaining and as trashy as some
- 29:19Speaker 1: I might try to describe it as we saw you
- 29:22Speaker 1: all as human beings first, and to see you all
- 29:24Speaker 1: sitting in this room, now, that is the first thing
- 29:26Speaker 1: we see. We don't see characters on a show. You
- 29:29Speaker 1: all are just two human beings who made mistakes like
- 29:31Speaker 1: everybody else. And I have my eleven year old at
- 29:34Speaker 1: lunch at middle school right now. I told her you
- 29:36Speaker 1: all had arrived. She said, send me a pick starts.
- 29:43Speaker 1: But I'm saying, I'm saying this being doesn't come here.
- 29:47Speaker 1: She's not that interested. But I'm saying the impact you
- 29:50Speaker 1: all are having, for even that kid, and for us
- 29:53Speaker 1: and a lot of people, the impact you all are
- 29:55Speaker 1: having is enormous. What it ultimately ends up being, who knows,
- 29:59Speaker 1: but it's still we love to see a human story
- 30:01Speaker 1: and a comeback story and real, y, real folks. So
- 30:05Speaker 1: we're saying that from the bottom of our hearts.
- 30:07Speaker 4: And it was honored to be on like especially you
- 30:09Speaker 4: guys have been through your own stuff and you can
- 30:12Speaker 4: maybe relate in a sense of like we can.
- 30:15Speaker 3: Yeah, we can.
- 30:16Speaker 2: We know what it's like to be vilified and relate
- 30:19Speaker 2: to the swinging stuff.
- 30:21Speaker 4: Yeah, oh no, I mean that's what I mean.
- 30:28Speaker 2: Yes, being being the villain in anyone's story is a
- 30:30Speaker 2: really tough place to be, but it makes you better
- 30:33Speaker 2: and it makes you stronger in the end. So congratulations
- 30:36Speaker 2: on the wild success that you are experiencing.
- 30:39Speaker 3: And we hope for reconciliation, you know, we we.
- 30:42Speaker 2: Hope Whitney comes back and we get more and we
- 30:46Speaker 2: we We're going to finish the season.
- 30:47Speaker 3: I might be done by tonight. Actually to thank
- 30:52Speaker 6: You all, thank you, thank you, thecation B, the int