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The Cost of People-Pleasing: How to Stop Sacrificing Yourself for Others

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

What people-pleasing really looks like and why it’s so harmful

Jim’s personal stories of struggle with mentors, family expectations, and fear

The hidden costs: burnout, perfectionism, chronic illness, and loss of identity

How prayer, scripture, and therapy can bring clarity and healing

Practical, actionable steps to begin setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself

Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish — it’s necessary

Key Takeaways

People-pleasing is often driven by fear of conflict and a deep need for approval, but it comes at a high personal cost…

The skinny

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