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What is the BIGGEST lie you caught someone in?!? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: I saw this article.
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  Speaker 2: These are the ten signs someone might be lying to you.
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  Speaker 2: They might be lying to you lying bastards. Do you
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  Speaker 2: guys have any Can you tell when someone's lying to you?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, When you ask them a question, they take off
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  Speaker 3: running or.
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  Speaker 4: They like look away.
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  Speaker 5: Is a big one too much or too little?
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  Speaker 1: Too oh, so there's no, there's no uh, there's no
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  Speaker 1: middle place.
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  Speaker 5: There is if there's too much eye contact, or there's
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  Speaker 5: like not enough shifted guys.
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  Speaker 2: Too many fillow words, if every sentence starts with or
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  Speaker 2: you know, basically, that's a sign they're lying. A forced smile,
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  Speaker 2: a forced lifeless smile, could be a sign they're fibbing.
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  Speaker 5: What's that thing you're doing right now?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 2: Tapping barrier rituals things like crossed arms or headshakes can
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  Speaker 2: signal defensiveness and be a subconscious tell so, oh yeah
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  Speaker 2: like this, Oh really no, I.
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  Speaker 5: Didn't do that, you know what, Like that's it's actually
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  Speaker 5: a very comfortable way to stand, you know, sometimes so
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  Speaker 5: you don't know what to do with your arms, but.
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  Speaker 6: Your arms folded.
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  Speaker 5: But like when you're talking to someone, it is like
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  Speaker 5: the body language in there. So like every once in
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  Speaker 5: a while, I'll be standing that way, and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: across my arms.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want them to feel like I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Not fidget I undo my arms because I heard like,
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  Speaker 2: you can't let good energy in when your arms are closed.
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  Speaker 4: Oh that's good. I just don't cross my arms because
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  Speaker 4: all I see is my dad making us run sidelines
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  Speaker 4: when we have he said, are you waiting for the bus?
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  Speaker 1: Get on the line. Here's the trauma over compensation.
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  Speaker 2: A liar might puff up or act overly confident with
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  Speaker 2: trying to get away with something.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've heard too many details when you ask what
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  Speaker 3: happens is a big thing too. It's like they're trying
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  Speaker 3: to make the story, so you hear a lot of
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  Speaker 3: the extra surperfluous details. So just saying yes or no.
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  Speaker 2: I dancing when you speak of eye contact is called
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  Speaker 2: I dancing. If their eyes are all over the room,
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  Speaker 2: it could be a sign of panic.
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  Speaker 4: What about like where they can't sit still or they're
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  Speaker 4: like tapping or moving fidgety.
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  Speaker 1: That's fidgety. It's actually fidgeting, is what it called.
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  Speaker 2: Unfortunately, this means all elementary school children are liars.
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  Speaker 1: Y the poker face.
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  Speaker 2: Some people remain completely still while lying to avoid giving
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  Speaker 2: anything away. Voice changes. Listen for a higher pitch or
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  Speaker 2: breathless tone. Usually this is caused by stress, long pauses.
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  Speaker 2: Liars may stall or repeat your requestion to buy time.
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  Speaker 2: I direction this is the number one thing I directly. Apparently,
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  Speaker 2: if a person looks to the right a lot, it
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  Speaker 2: means they're making stuff up.
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  Speaker 1: If they look to the left, they're trying to remember.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's a lot to pay attention to. You're trying
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  Speaker 3: to bust somebody. I'm like, okay, they're looking to their right,
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  Speaker 3: my left, my left, their right, that's a lot.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Like that show poker Face that we watched John Jay,
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  Speaker 4: the one with Natasha Lyons, Like she basically solves these
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  Speaker 4: crimes because she is a human lie detector and so
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  Speaker 4: all of these things are things that she picks up
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  Speaker 4: on and she'll be like, yep, they're lying and it's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: This is all according to body language expert Judy James.
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  Speaker 2: So those are the ten signs someone might be lying
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  Speaker 2: to you. So now we want to hear from you.
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  Speaker 2: Eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven, one or four seven
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  Speaker 2: tell us the lie, the big lie, someone like.
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  Speaker 1: You you caught them lying, the biggest lie.
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  Speaker 7: You ever caught some money?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Right, yeah, that's good. Yeah, eight nine seven. What's
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  Speaker 1: your story?
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  Speaker 8: So I had a friend come over. It's about a
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  Speaker 8: year and a half ago, and she she knocks on
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  Speaker 8: my door, opened the door. She is, you know, not smiling,
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  Speaker 8: like she knew what normally is. She comes in and
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  Speaker 8: she says, somebody posted me in this Facebook group. Are
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  Speaker 8: you familiar with the Facebook group? Are we dating the
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  Speaker 8: same guy?
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  Speaker 1: Are you asking us that? Or is that what she said?
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  Speaker 8: He is, yeah, I'm asking you that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're familiar.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, well the women are guys don't know about
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  Speaker 8: what the ladies are.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: So she comes in, she's like, yeah, somebody posted you
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  Speaker 8: in this group? Are we dating the same guy? And
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  Speaker 8: that was the first red flag because that was one
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  Speaker 8: of the times where I knew he was the only
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  Speaker 8: person that I was talking to. So I'm like, that's
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  Speaker 8: a red flag? Who would post me in that group?
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  Speaker 8: So then she goes into it and she's like, well
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  Speaker 8: I didn't react or respond or comment because I was like, ah,
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  Speaker 8: you know whatever. So I'm like, wait, that's red flag
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  Speaker 8: number two. So she keeps going on who is this
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  Speaker 8: and that and blah, blah bah. I'm like, yo, I
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  Speaker 8: don't know what you're talking about. So I asked her
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  Speaker 8: to send me a screenshot of the post so I
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  Speaker 8: can I can see it. She sends me a screenshot,
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  Speaker 8: and this is when I catch her in the lie
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  Speaker 8: because at that time, well, now Facebook has it to
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  Speaker 8: where you can switch from anonymous comment to actually using
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  Speaker 8: your profile, and that's something that is like a business
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  Speaker 8: owner like I run a social media management company. So
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  Speaker 8: Facebook allowed us to do that if we ran through
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  Speaker 8: different pages. Sometimes I'm running up to ten fifteen pages
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  Speaker 8: at a time, so I have to be able to
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  Speaker 8: switch through each profile easily. So that but allows you
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  Speaker 8: to go through your different profiles where they just opened
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  Speaker 8: that up to the public not too long ago. So
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  Speaker 8: when she sent me the screenshot, the spot where the
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  Speaker 8: anonymous post was, it was placed in the Facebook settings
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  Speaker 8: to where it was the person that actually posted it
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  Speaker 8: versus somebody that was just reading the comment or reading
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  Speaker 8: the post and wanted to comment anonymously. So when I
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  Speaker 8: sent her that, I'm like, hey, look, I know you
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  Speaker 8: posted this. You could tell me the truth, like what's
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  Speaker 8: going on? And long story short, she tried to like
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  Speaker 8: pretty much lie and manipulate me into, you know, this
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  Speaker 8: whole Facebook world that you know, some people get really
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  Speaker 8: twisted with social media and they get drawn into it.
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  Speaker 3: Was she trying to set you up so that you'd
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  Speaker 3: admit something even though you weren't anything.
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  Speaker 8: I have no idea because the one thing is like,
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  Speaker 8: when you know you're not doing something and somebody's blaming you, Mike,
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  Speaker 8: the first thought is you're the one that doing something.
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  Speaker 4: I can totally under Yeah, I can see why you're
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  Speaker 4: frustrated completely, but like, as a female, I would one
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  Speaker 4: hundred percent do that to someone I was dating. Why
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  Speaker 4: if I thought so st I don't know, because I
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  Speaker 4: want it, Like maybe if I maybe feel like maybe
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  Speaker 4: you're being a little shady, or maybe I want to
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  Speaker 4: maybe find some dirt on you from before. Maybe you're
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  Speaker 4: hiding your past, you're not communicating. I might go on
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  Speaker 4: the local Facebook group and be like, who dated him?
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  Speaker 4: And tell me everything I've Even my now fiance I
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  Speaker 4: was like, could he what would what would happen if
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  Speaker 4: I took your picture and posted this? He was like,
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  Speaker 4: why would you do that? Just because I want to?
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  Speaker 4: Because I want to see what will happen.
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  Speaker 1: I want to.
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  Speaker 4: Ruffle some feathers. So I get while you're upset, but like,
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  Speaker 4: I totally would do that.
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  Speaker 8: Well, the thing is is we were only talking about
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  Speaker 8: like two to three months, and what I learned is
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  Speaker 8: she went from one relationship to the next. Well we
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  Speaker 8: weren't like a thing thing, but we would have been.
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  Speaker 8: What I learned was when you move out of that
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  Speaker 8: and you don't heal, you end up bleeding on the
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  Speaker 8: person that didn't cut. That was deep.
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  Speaker 2: Dang dude, that's a real deep version of hurt people.
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  Speaker 1: Hurt people.
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  Speaker 8: Hurt people hurt people. So when you're sitting there blaming
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  Speaker 8: me for something. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not
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  Speaker 8: the perfect guy. I've done my dirt, but this was
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  Speaker 8: one of those moments where I knew it was only hurt.
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  Speaker 8: And I'm giving her that because here's the crazy thing.
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  Speaker 8: She's a psychologist, a licensed psychologist.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but all the all the people that help
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  Speaker 3: people are got a little bit crazy because that's why
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  Speaker 3: they went'te the other phrase help people help people.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, man, So yeah, that's that's my story right there. Man.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good one. Man.
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  Speaker 8: You got to stay away from the ones that you
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  Speaker 8: know think you doing something when you haven't given them
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  Speaker 8: a reason to even think that way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad you got out of the cliff.
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  Speaker 2: You probably wouldn't be able to call us today if
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  Speaker 2: you were still in that relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Had we I'll tie it up. Thank that your life.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, she was a little she was a little nutty.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Clive, thanks for calling it man, Thanks for
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  Speaker 2: your patience.
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  Speaker 3: Hey man, not probably have a good Haley.
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  Speaker 9: No, I caught somebody in a lie. I actually was
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  Speaker 9: married with two kids. He was in the military. We
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  Speaker 9: lived in Germany. He started acting like super sketch and
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  Speaker 9: I was like, hey, something's.
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  Speaker 6: A little off with you, and he's like.
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  Speaker 9: No, like you're crazy, you're crazy, like you've just been
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  Speaker 9: really tired whatever. So fast forward, my two year old
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  Speaker 9: has his phone in his hand and I decided I'm
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  Speaker 9: going to go through it just to see he cheated
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  Speaker 9: on me with a stripper. Yeah, he with a stripper,
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  Speaker 9: and then he like literally was trying to like date
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  Speaker 9: her and everything. And when I saw the photo, it
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  Speaker 9: was literally a photo of our living room and there
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  Speaker 9: was like, you know, the FaceTime, so it has her
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  Speaker 9: picture and it literally has our rope who remote his desk,
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  Speaker 9: his computer and I'm like, what is this and he's
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  Speaker 9: like that it's not mine and I'm like, that is
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  Speaker 9: literally your setup and he's like, no, that's not mine,
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  Speaker 9: and I go, that's our remote and he's.
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  Speaker 8: Like no, no.
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  Speaker 9: So I he was gaslighting me so much to the
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  Speaker 9: extent that I went on to Facebook and there's like
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  Speaker 9: army spouse pages and so I went on there and
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  Speaker 9: I put her little picture and I said, does anybody
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  Speaker 9: know this girl? And so I ended up getting a
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  Speaker 9: Facebook message saying hey, I heard you were looking for me.
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  Speaker 9: So yeah, So I ended up talking to her. She
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  Speaker 9: is like a Romanian girl.
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  Speaker 6: She was super sweet.
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  Speaker 9: But she called me on the phone. We talked about it.
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  Speaker 9: She sent me screenshots of my husband saying, hey, I
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  Speaker 9: moved to Germany. I really wanted to start fresh, literally
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  Speaker 9: saying all this stuff, not saying hey, I'm married, i
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  Speaker 9: have two kids, and I'm a pos.
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  Speaker 2: So was a stripper? Did she actually come to your house?
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  Speaker 2: Is that why the pictures are there? She's stripped in
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  Speaker 2: your house?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 9: No, no, no no. She was on like they were calling, they
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  Speaker 9: were facetiming while me and my kids were asleep in
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  Speaker 9: a different room.
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  Speaker 1: A man that's great, so is he your ex husband?
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  Speaker 9: Technically are still married, but I've been in Arizona back
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  Speaker 9: for two years. I left him. It turned into a
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  Speaker 9: whole like domestic dispute thing.
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  Speaker 6: I took my kids out out.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. Well, Hailey, thanks for sharing that start with us.
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  Speaker 1: That's a big.
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  Speaker 2: One Romanian strippers, Guys, I'm telling you we've talked about
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  Speaker 2: this before, Alexill what happened to you?
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  Speaker 1: Lexi?
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  Speaker 6: Heay there. So I don't have a lie that I
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  Speaker 6: caught anybody in because I feel like people know better
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  Speaker 6: than to lie to me. But when you guys were
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  Speaker 6: talking about the show pull face. If you're ever interested
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  Speaker 6: in something that's very real. On YouTube, they have a
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  Speaker 6: channel called the Behavior Chanel, and it is four of
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  Speaker 6: the top body language experts in the world and they analyze.
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  Speaker 6: They break down whether it's a botty cam or interviews
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  Speaker 6: or you know, anything like that, interrogations and they read
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  Speaker 6: body language and they talk a lot about how people
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  Speaker 6: will deviate from their baseline, which is why like the
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  Speaker 6: woman before she thought something this up to their husband
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  Speaker 6: because you've changed his behavior, like you guys said, the
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  Speaker 6: change in the pitch, blinking a lot, staring, but I'm
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  Speaker 6: one of the most interesting ones is now. I feel
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  Speaker 6: like whenever unfortunately, you know, God forbid. When children go
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  Speaker 6: missing and they interview the parents, you can really tell
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  Speaker 6: which parents are guilty and which parents are not guilty,
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  Speaker 6: just because the innocent parents are wearing their kids on
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  Speaker 6: a T shirt. They are begging people like she's four
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  Speaker 6: foot five. You know, she's so sweet, she has curly hair.
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  Speaker 6: Please if everyone just stood outside their door, you know today,
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  Speaker 6: if you looked in the car next to you, somebody
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  Speaker 6: should know something like it's a call to action. They're
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  Speaker 6: begging you. They look sleep deprived, they are desperate. You
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  Speaker 6: can read the grief on their face. Whereas parents that
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  Speaker 6: are guilty, they don't really want to talk. They're like, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: you know, everything's really been done. We don't really need
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  Speaker 6: any more help here that help people though, they're like
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  Speaker 6: honestly though, like when you pay puntimp's actually scary to see.
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  Speaker 6: They're like, you know, we've done everything we can. We've
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  Speaker 6: looked everywhere, We've exhausted all of our efforts. You know,
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  Speaker 6: they don't reach out for more help. They don't want
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  Speaker 6: to do interviews. They look well rested or anxious. Uh
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  Speaker 6: and it's really it's sad to see because I feel
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  Speaker 6: like now whenever I see it in the news, I
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  Speaker 6: can tell like, oh, this person's going to be arrested.
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  Speaker 1: So now you're a body expert, body language expert because
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  Speaker 1: you've watched so much certified Think. What's the name of
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  Speaker 1: that show again on YouTube?
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  Speaker 6: It's called the Behavior Panel.
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  Speaker 3: Behavior Everybody's sus because everybody, hey, you catch lie?
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  Speaker 7: Hey, Hey, yeah, good morning guys. I want to call
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  Speaker 7: in first of all, because that woman, she was right
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  Speaker 7: her ex it's lazy getting with the neighbor. I caught
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  Speaker 7: my axent a lie because he also got with my neighbor.
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  Speaker 7: He worked from home. I would leave in the morning
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  Speaker 7: and I would come back and all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 7: there's these dishes that I've never made that are in
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  Speaker 7: my fridge. Coming to find out, yeah, going to find out.
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  Speaker 7: She would walk upstairs to my boyfriend when I would
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  Speaker 7: leave and say, oh, I need sugar, Oh I need mustard,
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  Speaker 7: I need this, I need that, and then she'd bring
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  Speaker 7: up lust or whatever she cooked and they would eat
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  Speaker 7: it together, and then he would keep the left over.
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  Speaker 3: What it's terrible And when you confront him about that,
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  Speaker 3: how does he try.
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  Speaker 1: To worm out of it.
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  Speaker 7: He didn't actually, but he didn't say that nothing was
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  Speaker 7: that anything was going on woman than tuition. I believe
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  Speaker 7: it's always right. So I left coming to find out.
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  Speaker 7: A couple months later, they started going out on dates.
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  Speaker 7: I don't think they're together, but yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So what do you think she was making it mustard
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  Speaker 1: and sugar?
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  Speaker 7: I don't know. I think she was coming up with
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  Speaker 7: excuses just to I didn't try any of it. I
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  Speaker 7: just I was that's not my my cups that you know.
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  Speaker 2: It's just it's also weird, a little oblivious to her
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  Speaker 2: hitting on him and the fact that she he was
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  Speaker 2: keeping the leftovers in his fridge, I mean a.
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  Speaker 4: Little bit, but like don't they don't. They always say that,
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  Speaker 4: like the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
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  Speaker 4: So it was like, why cooking for a man that's
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  Speaker 4: not yours?
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  Speaker 3: I do not. I don't know.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe a lot of people who like to cook will
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  Speaker 4: do that, but meat, I'm never cooking for anyone that
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  Speaker 4: isn't my man.
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  Speaker 1: All thanks for you, have a great day. Ye, those
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  Speaker 1: are some crazy lives.
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  Speaker 4: That's crazy