67. What to Say to a Friend Going Through Infertility (And What to Avoid)
In this Dear Jess episode, I answer one of the most common questions: what do you say to a friend going through infertility? I break down the one communication mistake most well-meaning friends and family make, why sharing your own similar story can unintentionally shift the focus away from the person who needs support, and the simple phrase that gives your friend agency in the conversation.
In this episode:
The most common mistake people make when trying to comfort someone with infertility
Why "relating" can sometimes backfire — even with good intentions
The exact phrases to use (and avoid)…
The skinny
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