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(VIDEO INTERVIEW) TISHIE IS AN AGE PLAYER (ABDL) · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode from Mrs. Mia's Dungeon.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today I have a special guest
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  from you. This is Tishy and Tishy Tell us
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  about yourself. For one, I'm 46 year old, 46
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  years old biologically, my little age ranges from anywhere
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  from one to four, 5:00-ish depending on the day when I can
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  get into the into my headspace and stuff like that.
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  Basically up in Northeast Ohio area and been in the lifestyle
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  for probably close to close to 20 years now.
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  OK. And as far as into the the age
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  play side of things. So do you consider yourself just
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  an into age play itself or into ABDL?
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  To me it's it's all the same, the ABDL part of it.
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  I'm actually more AB as far as the adult baby side of it.
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  There is some aspects of the DL side that that I find fit me as
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  well. But as far as anything, I live
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  the lifestyle when I can. You know, we're all adults in
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  in, in the kink world, you know, and I try to represent that.
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  At least we try to be. Yes, we try to be that.
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  That is true. Yeah, so you have a a dungeon
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  where you're at and you said they specifically have a littles
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  room that caters to you. Yes, back the the play space
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  that I, that I, that I play at a lot when they when they were
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  first opening, they actually reached out to my littles group
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  here that I belong to and actually asked for input from
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  the littles community to actually help set up the room to
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  make it more comfortable for the actual littles in the community
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  and stuff like that. They pride their self on being a
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  safe space for everybody in the kink community.
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  So we have a local group here as well.
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  And, you know, he was saying that, you know, a lot of my my
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  parties that we host, you know, they're very sex positive.
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  And he said that a lot of the adult babies, they, they don't
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  find them very appealing simply because they're more asexual.
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  Do you find that to be true? Yes, and actually that is
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  actually a big debate. It's actually in the ABDL
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  community whether you know it's a sexual thing or not sexual
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  thing. This the the dungeon that I
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  belong to is a sex positive space as well.
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  So yes, you know, on any given night, you know, maybe 123
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  littles last night, we actually only had one little running
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  around in the dungeon last night.
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  I personally don't usually with during the play parties I'm a
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  lot more than just a little. So I'm usually not in little
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  space when I'm at the dungeon, but it's nice to know that if I
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  do fall into that space, like coming out of subspace or
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  something like that, I there's been tendencies for me to fall
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  into little space. From there, I have that option
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  to have go into a room that's dedicated to where I can nurture
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  that side of myself. You know, to me it seems so
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  cathartic for so many people. I had a a young man, he comes to
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  see me often and he is just a little doll.
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  He's so precious, so sweet. You know, he's a 24 year old
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  little virgin and you know, there's certain aspects where
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  I've asked him, you know, and he's we're we're actually going
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  to bring that up to a different episode as well about his
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  feelings and thoughts on adult baby.
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  But what kind of LED you down that path?
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  At what age were you trying to identify with an age play role?
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  It's crazy getting involved in in the saying.
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  I personally it was due to medical issues with me.
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  I was in a go Kart accent when I was 1414 and 15 ish.
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  So for me at that point I had this I was having to wear at
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  night, I was having nighttime accidents.
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  Didn't understand why. I kind of hid it from my
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  parents, from everybody I knew until I moved out when I was 19,
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  I think was when I moved out and got my own place and stuff like
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  that. And then I started getting
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  deeper into the Internet and I started realizing that there's
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  people out there that are in similar situations as me.
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  You know, I was always under the stigma that, you know, diapers
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  for for adults were, were for older people, you know, the
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  elderly and stuff like that. But I realized that there was
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  other people like me that that had medical conditions that
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  still had to wear or, and then I found that there were people out
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  there that just enjoyed it and, and they found comfort in it.
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  And as the time grew on or went on, I began to realize that when
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  I was wearing, I was more comfortable, more relaxed.
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  You know, I didn't have to worry about, OK, where's the bathroom
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  or stuff like that. So it became, I became more on
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  the DL side of things to start with about mid 20s.
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  Later in my 20s is when I was first introduced to the AB side
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  of things. I don't know if you have ever
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  heard of it. It was called Diaperspace was it
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  was the site that used to be around that I became part of
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  where I met a former mommy of mine.
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  You know that you know, she she would mommy me and stuff like
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  that. And that's how I got introduced
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  to the AB side of. Things.
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  That's awesome. And then it it just kind of
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  snowballed from there. It always seems to snowball,
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  doesn't it? Oh, and that that's with
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  anything it. Is it's with anything,
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  especially when you're in some type of kink element into your
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  life and it can be so, so fulfilling.
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  It is like I said, without this community I really don't know
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  where I would be, not only the AB community, but with just the
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  kinken community in general. Like I was saying, I am more
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  than just into the ABDL side of things.
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  I am sadomasochist. I, I love the, you know, both
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  being on the receiving and giving side of, you know, impact
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  play, Violet wand play, wax play, fire play on the receiving
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  and the needle play. I haven't learned, I haven't
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  dabbled into learning needle play yet, but that's on my
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  that's on my next list. You sound like a fun girl.
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  I. Try.
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  I try to be. I try to be.
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  I love the versatility. So you like to get spanked
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  wearing a diaper? Actually, no, I don't.
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  When it comes to spanking and stuff like that in little space,
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  I, I, I hate it. I am absolutely terrified of it.
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  I don't know. But when it comes to like the
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  impact scene and stuff like that, spanking is OK.
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  I don't get where that came from, but you know, I tend to
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  not get too many spankings when in little space anyhow because
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  I'm a good girl. Where she was.
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  Comes to that. That's awesome.
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  Everybody tries to say that I'm not, but I really AM.
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  Well, see, you got those cute little dimples.
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  I can't imagine why you'd be a bad girl.
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  So so so tishy. Are you currently single?
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  Are you in a relationship? I am currently single.
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  I have been single for about 3 years now.
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  I am actually talking to a potential daddy.
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  We haven't actually met yet but he's someone fairly localish.
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  Hopefully things work out, but my last relationship I had kind
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  of shelved my little side 'cause I was mommy to my ex for the
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  three years that we were together.
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  So. So this past three years has
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  been really trying to re engage myself with my little side, get
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  more back familiar with her and try to get coax her out more.
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  Which is difficult considering it.
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  I do have an adult life, unfortunately.
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  Unfortunately. I can't.
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  I can't live at 24/7. But I also have two kids though
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  too, so that also complicates things too.
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  Those darn kids. You know, I wouldn't change a
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  thing in the world. I love my kids to death.
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  And fortunately they both, they both know about me and that I am
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  transitioning. So then that went really well.
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  Actually. The oldest took it a little
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  harder, but they didn't. They didn't like disown me or
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  not talk to me anymore or anything like that where you
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  hear a lot of stories of kids or parents or whatever basically
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  disowning somebody for coming out.
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  Yeah, it's sad. Well, it sounds like you're very
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  fortunate with all of that, so. I have been, I have been very
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  blessed with when it comes to coming out, even with my family,
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  not just my kids, There is some resistance a little bit, I mean,
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  nobody's flat out, you know, disowned me or anything like
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  that. But for the most part, it's
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  been, I have had, knock on wood a a very fortunate experience
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  when when it comes to that, that road that I've gone down.
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  That's awesome. That is.
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  So do you find it that you can date anyone in like the vanilla
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  lifestyle or do you know, do you specifically look for people in
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  there? OK, you already answered that
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  question. I see even when I tried to look
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  outside of the kink world, I have come to the realization
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  with my with my last, with my last marriage, you know, my last
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  divorce, which was 10 years plus ago, that I can't hide any part
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  of me for in order for me to be happy, I have to be out.
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  I have to be. I can't shelter or hide or close
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  off any part of me. And unfortunately that does
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  require me to say it, you know, not only about the diaper issue
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  because I'm incontinent, you know, and I have to wear at
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  night, but I am very active in the King lifestyle, in King
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  community. I am financial investor in the
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  local club here. I am actually on the board of
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  the local club that meets there and help run it.
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  I'm very invested in the community and bettering the
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  community here in in Northeast Ohio.
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  That's awesome. That's super.
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  We had a gentleman who came down recently from Ohio to one of my
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  events and you know, we were talking about who who we know in
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  Ohio. So now I have you to add to the.
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  List. Yes, you do.
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  You know, in past interviews I had interviewed Mama Peach.
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  I don't know if it's, I haven't seen her.
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  I, I mean, I've been, I, I, I, I see them, there's stuff on the
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  set life all the time and stuff like that.
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  So, and actually the the interview that you did with her
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  is actually what made me contact you and, and stuff like that.
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  That's so great. She's such a beautiful soul.
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  She's just absolutely incredible person.
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  She really is. I told her from what I yeah,
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  she's in South Florida. I told her.
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  I said you got to make it up here.
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  I got to meet you. But you know, she has this, you
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  know, she's got children, obviously.
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  You know, she's she's, I believe she's in her early 40s.
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  But you know, she's married to her husband, who is her adult
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  baby. And, you know, they share an
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  absolute beautiful relationship. They.
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  Do. They really do.
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  And that's something to cherish. Unfortunately, you know,
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  fortunately for them, unfortunately for a lot of
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  people in this community, they don't find that connection.
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  You know, it is so hard to it is so hard to find that connection
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  in this community because the the proportions are so out
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  balanced versus caregivers for to littles.
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  You know, you know, I struggle, you know, that's one of the
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  things that I did struggle with for a while is will I ever feel
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  accepted? Will I ever feel loved?
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  Will I ever find that that caregiver that I that I desire
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  and I still do to this day. You know, like I said, I am
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  talking to to a potential at the moment.
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  So hopefully that'll that'll work out and stuff like that.
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  But you know, only time will tell with that.
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  So is there more littles there than you do have caregivers?
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  Oh by far. And then that's anywhere you go
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  the the the littles outweigh the caregivers probably 100 to one
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  if not more if not a greater number.
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  My my local group LEAP or Lake Erie Age Players is as was
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  started back in 2013. It was formerly Cleveland's
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  Little Toy Box, which we at some point there I was running that
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  by myself. There was some things that got
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  brought up. So we decided to form a board
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  and when we decided, when we did that and formed the board for
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  the Littles group, we decided to rebrand it.
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  So we renamed it to Leap. We do right now it's been
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  quarterly parties, play parties which are held at a local, at
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  the local dungeon which we bring in or we're getting anywhere
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  from 4045 people or littles to our parties and for a 5 hour
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  event, you know, and I would say probably 99% are littles when it
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  comes to the Wow. Well, that's awesome still.
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  I mean, you know, that you can all unify and come together in a
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  great community. It's always such a positive
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  thing. You know, it is, it is one of my
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  friends is a, is a daddy in the community.
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  And, you know, we've, we've spoken briefly about it because
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  a lot of people, like you said, it's still a stigma for a lot of
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  people. And, you know, to me, it's, it
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  was summed up very, very well by one of my clients that I see
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  when he said, you know, at the end of the day, everyone needs
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  care. And I was like, you know, there
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  you go. You know, it doesn't matter the
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  king it is, you know, it's being treated with basic humanity and
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  compassion and, you know, just human dignity.
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  You know, no matter the case, 'cause you're not hurting
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  anyone, you know? A diaper change doesn't hurt
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  that we know one of our No, you're absolutely right.
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  There's so many more things that that a person could do that
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  would be so much more detrimental.
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  Exactly. So their well-being than the
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  regressing or to the age play or diapers or whatever.
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  Even if you know the king community, you know, you people
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  can you could turn to drugs, you could turn to alcohol.
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  You know those things will hurt you, possibly kill you.
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  You know, regression. It's not going to kill you.
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  I mean it it's it's a way to escape reality.
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  Really it is. And that's why I look.
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  At it. Without the drugs, yes.
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  You're absolutely right. That's great.
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  So where do you see yourself in the next 5 years with
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  everything? That's a hard question.
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  I mean, I'm no matter what, I'm still going to be in the
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  community. Like I said, I have found my
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  home. I have found my calling and I
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  consider my king family, my my ABDL family, my dungeon family,
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  they're my chosen family. The as a matter of fact, the one
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  the song is one of my anthems right now, Frozen Family,
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  because I heard that recently and it it fits.
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  You know, blood may be thicker than water, but water is more
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  consistent in my opinion. Right.
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  You know, I know I, if I'm having a bad day, I can, I can
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  pull up my phone and message 2030 people and, and you know,
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  be fine Whether and I do that with my family, I don't know if
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  I'm going to get a response. Well.
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  You know, half my family is scattered across the United
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  States. And then, yeah, you here.
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  You have your kink community and they embrace you.
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  Yes, very much so. That's great.
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  So is there anything that you would tell someone that was like
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  you and the ABDL community that hasn't gotten yet their foot in
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  the door or dip their toe in the water or the pool of kink?
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  Don't be afraid, OK? It, it maybe it, it's a scary
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  world to, to, to step outside your comfort zone.
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  But everybody's been there before, everybody in especially
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  in the AB lifestyle, ABDL lifestyle, everybody's been
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  there before. You know, I was there once going
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  to my first munch, first meeting, you know, get out there
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  and put yourself out there, meet these other people.
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  You're not alone. There are plenty of others that
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  are out there out here that do are into the same things you
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  are. And that goes with anything, not
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  just the ABDL side of things. You know, that goes for for the,
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  the impact side of things or the needle play side of things or,
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  you know, just in general. I mean, I see so many things,
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  you know, these days that, you know, if it's not illegal, what
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  harm is it? Exactly you.
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  Know and and as long as you you know boundaries and know how to
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  respect people, then that's all there is.
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  You know, consent is key to everything.
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  Consent and communication. Very much so, and.
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  And one of the things, you know, for me, you know, when, when we
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  get new littles coming to the other group or messaging in our
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  group and stuff like that. I, I've always wanted to offer
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  if they want to meet, you know, one-on-one to get a, a, to be
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  able to put a name to a face or have a face that, that they can
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  recognize when they come to one of the bigger events and stuff
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  like that. So that they have a little bit
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  of familiarity when they do show up to an event.
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  Because I didn't have that. My first event was blind.
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  I walked into it, you know, Oh God, am I, you know, what am I
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  doing? I think, I think I actually sat
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  in my car for an extra 10 to 15 minutes before I actually went
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  in and got the courage to go in on my first one.
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  So. Well, good for you.
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  You took that step and now here you are.
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  Yeah, yes, that's awesome. Very much so.
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  It's been, it's been a long journey, but I I wouldn't change
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  it for a little world. That's super well, Tishy, thank
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  you so much for joining us. And we certainly appreciate, you
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  know, telling, telling us your story.
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  It's it's so important. Not a problem and and if anybody
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  ever wants to reach out to me, you know, I am tishy on fetlife.
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  My message box is always open. I don't close my message box,
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  you know and it like I said and that goes with anything for the
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  the the king community. You know like I said, I'm I'm
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  mainly an ABDL, but I am also a masochist.
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  I'm also into the, the BDSM stuff.
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  I newly trans myself, you know, I've been out for eight years
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  and plus to my friends, but I just recently took the plunge
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  and actually started on my HRT journey.
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  So I'm, I'm in the community. I have, you know, I I'm here to
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  support others, not just myself. That's super.
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  That's that's just a fabulous way to look at it.
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  It really is. But thank you again and I, we
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  look forward to speaking with you again in the future.
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  All right. I would love to all.
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  Right. Thank you.