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I Let Someone In... and Learned a Lot · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally, Laala, Hello, gorgeous, Welcome to untraditionally, Laala.
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  Speaker 2: I am so thrilled to be back on this Wednesday,
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  Speaker 2: Happy hump Day. Oh last week was one hell of
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  Speaker 2: a week.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you what you're just say, what's the wrong?
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  Speaker 1: What's wrong? Harry? Did some little Philly break your heart? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: What did some little Philly break your heart?
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  Speaker 2: And not a Philly? But I'm thinking about switching that way.
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  Speaker 2: I'm really thinking about.
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  Speaker 1: Like guys, it's been a rough of weeks in this home.
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  Speaker 2: Well just between like the surgeries that have been happening,
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  Speaker 2: which we've spoken about that are super depressing, and then
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  Speaker 2: like me for the first time in god knows how long,
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  Speaker 2: letting my guard down and then immediately wishing that I
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't have done that. But we live and we learn,
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  Speaker 2: I know, but it took me out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't say yeah, your energy is fantastic today.
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  Speaker 1: Can I be honest? Oh, you've been a buzz killington
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  Speaker 1: for the past two weeks?
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  Speaker 2: So it two weeks? Why two weeks? Well, Mom had
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  Speaker 2: her surgery and then I was.
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  Speaker 1: And you went to Vegas, and when I got home
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  Speaker 1: from Coachella, you had been a little distant from your
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  Speaker 1: own self and mind.
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  Speaker 2: I definitely lost sight of myself and I learned a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I learned a lot and I'm I was saying to East,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I this feeling is not worth it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm never opening up again. Like I was living a
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  Speaker 2: peaceful life. My happiness was contingent on just myself and
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  Speaker 2: my kids. I learned that I have very little patience.
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  Speaker 2: I learned that I am very capable of loving extremely
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  Speaker 2: hard and maybe too quickly, which is something that I
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  Speaker 2: need to look into.
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  Speaker 1: But I was like, I'm never doing this again, he goes.
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  Speaker 2: Lauren, the last time you opened up to somebody it
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  Speaker 2: was like four years ago. Do you realize that women
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  Speaker 2: go out into the world and try to find their
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  Speaker 2: person and actively date multiple times a week and get
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  Speaker 2: these pits in their stomach. You've done it a couple
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  Speaker 2: times in five years, and you're ready to call it
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  Speaker 2: a day. I was like, you're right, I cannot be
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  Speaker 2: wounded and scarred by this. I'm going to go and
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  Speaker 2: have fun and move on, and we're not going to
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  Speaker 2: let this just like completely shatter us. To the point
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  Speaker 2: where the wall is built back up to the sky.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, but I don't know we're very the same because
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  Speaker 1: I mean, well, it is easy to get back out there.
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  Speaker 1: Like when girls like dating apps and stuff and they're like,
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  Speaker 1: I've gone on three dates this week. I'm like, Jesus
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  Speaker 1: Christ went on three days in about a year, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: But like maybe that's why they get over it a
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  Speaker 1: little quicker than me. I sit, I grovel in my
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  Speaker 1: sorrow well.
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  Speaker 2: Because it's an intense feeling and I was told that,
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  Speaker 2: which was a tough pill to swallow. I did not
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  Speaker 2: love this at all. I was talking to a friend
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  Speaker 2: and she was like, la, la, you you emotionally relapsed.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what do you mean?
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  Speaker 2: She was like, love love will put it in air quotes,
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  Speaker 2: because who the hell even knows what that means.
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I think I will know when it falls in my lap.
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  Speaker 2: But she was like, love can become like a drug
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  Speaker 2: and you can have withdrawals from it, and just like
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  Speaker 2: the communication and the things that you get used to.
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  Speaker 2: And so I've only listened to Cardi b the past
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  Speaker 2: the best week. It's the only thing I can listen
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  Speaker 2: to because she's just so spot on, she's so spot.
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  Speaker 1: On you were, but I understand that it's a relapse
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  Speaker 1: for sure. When she said that, I was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, because it also takes ninety days to break
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  Speaker 1: a habit. Yeah, but I think it only takes like
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  Speaker 1: thirty days to.
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  Speaker 2: Build one bild one. Anyway, I feel great today. I
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  Speaker 2: really feel like a fabulous human.
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  Speaker 1: You woke up and I felt your energy. Was that
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  Speaker 1: when you were getting ready to take your daughter to school? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you know what's weird the child.
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  Speaker 2: I will go through these moments and I then hit
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  Speaker 2: a point where it's like, no, we're done. We've given
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  Speaker 2: it enough of our time. We have committed into routine. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we've committed to the bit of sadness, and now fuck this.
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  Speaker 1: You think I'm gonna let.
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  Speaker 2: This this and dictate how I'm feeling going into my day?
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  Speaker 1: What the fuck is that? Is that? Why so many
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  Speaker 1: girls though and guys like after one like it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's done. It's really you got a high back on
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  Speaker 1: something to get over the other. Because now think you've
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  Speaker 1: been just like sad for the past week, two weeks.
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  Speaker 1: Most girls would have been like, fuck him, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: on another date. And they would have gone on three
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  Speaker 1: and this guy would have been in the past. I
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  Speaker 1: don't move like that. No, don't either, I don't move
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  Speaker 1: that way at all.
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  Speaker 2: But over the weekend what did help me tremendously is
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  Speaker 2: I got asked to speak at Girls Day LA, which
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  Speaker 2: is just like a moment where girls who are just
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  Speaker 2: needing to be uplifted and feel less alone can go.
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  Speaker 2: They had like an area to get tattoos, there was jewelry,
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  Speaker 2: there were just it was just a positive environment. It
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  Speaker 2: was a woman who slid into my DM and she
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  Speaker 2: was like, hey, I met you at the Magic show
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  Speaker 2: that took place in Vegas, like in twenty eighteen, and
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  Speaker 2: it was I remember it exactly and I was not sober.
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  Speaker 2: So she asked me, can you speak this year? And
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  Speaker 2: I was like, of course, that sounds amazing, and she
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  Speaker 2: gave me like what the talking points would be, and
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  Speaker 2: I just was like sitting in this room with all
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  Speaker 2: of these women who were staring at me and looking
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  Speaker 2: for the answers which none of us have, and it
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  Speaker 2: was just such a crazy I at one point had
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  Speaker 2: an out of body experience, which you guys know I
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  Speaker 2: have a lot of those, but I'm talking, and I
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  Speaker 2: see people writing things down and I see people like grabbing,
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 1: The person next to them.
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  Speaker 2: And at the very end, she was like, what can
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  Speaker 2: you say? That's you know, for someone who's for a
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  Speaker 2: woman who's feeling lost or alone, And I just started sobbing.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna be honest, I'm that girl
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  Speaker 2: right now. I was like, I so needed this day
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  Speaker 2: and I'm just grateful to be here. I feel very supported,
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  Speaker 2: I feel, you know, not alone, And it could not
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  Speaker 2: have been a more uplifting environment.
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  Speaker 1: Now when your answer just to let you know was
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  Speaker 1: beautiful because sometimes when well, when you're just like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, I don't have answers. But like when you
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  Speaker 1: if you were to be like, well you just got
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  Speaker 1: to do you know, A B and C, and then
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  Speaker 1: you leave and you listen and you're like, well am
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  Speaker 1: I not doing A B and C? You were like
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  Speaker 1: I don't have the answers, and they leave going like
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  Speaker 1: none of us do. I feel a bit better today
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  Speaker 1: about not having answers.
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  Speaker 2: I think the biggest thing is like in moments when
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  Speaker 2: you're feeling you have just lost, and then the loneliness
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  Speaker 2: on top of it, where you're like, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm doing. I feel very much by myself, and
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  Speaker 2: then you look at Instagram and everyone seems to be
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  Speaker 2: happy and living their lives. It does make you feel
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  Speaker 2: it's misery loves company and not saying that anybody in
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  Speaker 2: that room was miserable. I'm not even saying that I
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  Speaker 2: was miserable, but it was a situational We're looking for.
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  Speaker 1: Something, yes, like trying to find something out of the
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  Speaker 1: life that we're out. Yes, we're not miserable, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to say that I'm happy right that right
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  Speaker 1: now is not fucking not good. It's yeah, it's not good.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I was feeling.
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  Speaker 2: And you know what, anytime I'm feeling that way, it's
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  Speaker 2: so wild because I'll look at my calendar and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I have such a jam pack day and i just
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  Speaker 2: want to like lay in my bed and i just
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  Speaker 2: want to like feel sorry for myself, and then I
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  Speaker 2: fucking go to these things.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like I needed this so badly.
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  Speaker 2: And then from there I went to a baseball GLASSA.
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  Speaker 1: So it's GLASSA is the league that Easton plays in.
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  Speaker 2: It's an LGBTQ plus community that plays softball and Easton
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  Speaker 2: is there token straight and they.
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  Speaker 1: Put on a couple. We have a couple.
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  Speaker 2: They had each team a part of GLASSA. I think
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  Speaker 2: it was like two players for like drag drag team.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I think it was each team had one participant.
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  Speaker 1: We really had one other had too. I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: the full.
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  Speaker 2: I was a judge. Gigi Gorgeous was a judge. This
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  Speaker 2: guy named Leo who was fucking amazing. Uh and he's
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  Speaker 2: on the new season of Loot. He was fucking fantastic
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  Speaker 2: and so funny. These I don't want to call them
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  Speaker 2: amateurs because they were all fantastic. Competed to raise money
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  Speaker 2: to go to the World Series, which is in what
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  Speaker 2: where's the World's.
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  Speaker 1: Columbus, Ohio? Which clear your schedule, bitch, We're headed there.
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  Speaker 1: We want and I want you to talk about it.
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  Speaker 2: But let me just say this drag show and judging,
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  Speaker 2: it was the funnest time that I have had in
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  Speaker 2: a very very long time.
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  Speaker 1: My favorite gut gut Jason Jason on stage Jasmin Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and I was kind of like, damn, I wish I
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  Speaker 1: was up there with Jason.
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  Speaker 2: Really hell okay, put it on a little show Jason
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  Speaker 2: crushed it. It was so good. When I tell you
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  Speaker 2: one of the players, one of the players, they had
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  Speaker 2: on like jeweled tights and she fucking busted down low
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  Speaker 2: like onto her knees. In the next round, she comes
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  Speaker 2: in and the fabulous drag Queen who was on RuPaul
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  Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, are your knees bleedy?
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  Speaker 1: Were there?
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, the jewels got and Leah was like, oh
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  Speaker 2: oh not the call out, not the call out about
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  Speaker 2: the bloody knees house. I I just thinking about it,
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  Speaker 2: you guys. That night revived my soul.
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  Speaker 1: Moving on.
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  Speaker 2: So Easton is a part of glasse and he's on
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  Speaker 2: the Swingers team. Easton tell us about your what you did?
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  Speaker 2: So we punched our ticket with two w's on Sunday.
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  Speaker 2: And also, I didn't know how crazy this league was, man,
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  Speaker 2: So I wasn't there because I was in Coachella.
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  Speaker 1: But we played and we lost. But they look into
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  Speaker 1: each individual player and you are by points is how
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  Speaker 1: they kind of grade you. So if you have ten points,
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  Speaker 1: you're like in the D League, then ten to fifteen
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  Speaker 1: you're in a C league. And I'm just throwing out
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  Speaker 1: the point thing. I don't know it, but like, if
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  Speaker 1: you have too many, you have to go up these people.
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  Speaker 1: I guess the the guys on the other team were
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  Speaker 1: hitting it far, way too far. So we had a
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  Speaker 1: we put in a protest. Okay, so see, you guys
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  Speaker 1: are the rats, the lets the league.
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  Speaker 3: Baby, yeah, don't let them get us. We need that,
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  Speaker 3: we need it. So we put in a protest. Joe Schmeltzer,
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  Speaker 3: our dear friend. He had to get on like a FaceTime.
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  Speaker 1: I had no idea. There's like twenty people involved in
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  Speaker 1: They're like, okay, well how far did the ball hit?
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  Speaker 1: They go into it. Well, we won the protest. Two
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  Speaker 1: of their players. I had to go up a game.
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  Speaker 1: So what that does to our loss because we protested
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  Speaker 1: it is they have to forfeit. Okay, so we want
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  Speaker 1: off of a rat Seattle, Washington. So that's just that's
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  Speaker 1: just attorney tourney. We want to go for that, just
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  Speaker 1: so you know, we got to get those tournaments and
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  Speaker 1: so we can be prepared for the World Series. Is
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  Speaker 1: end of October, end of November. Oh, this is so exciting.
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  Speaker 1: You know what. I don't even care that you had
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: to write them out. No, I don't either team.
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  Speaker 2: Well, now in the instagram section. Everyone's saying, I know.
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  Speaker 1: Well, just one team. I think all the other teams
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  Speaker 1: are kind of like silently rooting for us.
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  Speaker 2: The whole time. And you know what, you stood up
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  Speaker 2: for what was right, So you know what, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Thrilled about us. I agree. What was the other team called?
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to give them credit? No, I want
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  Speaker 1: to roughnecks boy, and their rough aren't they rough nights?
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  Speaker 1: They're trying to like, I enjoy them all. They're all
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  Speaker 1: great teams.
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  Speaker 2: But on this in this league, everyone I talk to
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  Speaker 2: who's a part of the queer community is like, that
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  Speaker 2: is so incredible that your brother is like, I'm like, hey, allies.
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  Speaker 1: I walked to the plate most of the time. I go, hey, babies,
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  Speaker 1: just the catcher and every all of them will go
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  Speaker 1: you're the straight one, right, yeah, wet'll see how I go.
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  Speaker 1: You judged me off the swing? Yeah, oh, as they
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  Speaker 1: usually do. Yeah, I know so, but no, we have fun.
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  Speaker 1: It's so fun. It is the best pone of the
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  Speaker 1: world series. I'm so proud of you. If anybody would
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  Speaker 1: like to attend, you know, come and support the Swingers,
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  Speaker 1: we'll post it. Columbus, Ohio, let's fucking go baby, I need,
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  Speaker 1: I need, I need a sure, Yeah, let's go.
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  Speaker 2: I'm serious, all right, I'm making some merch too.
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: You recorded songs this weekend?
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  Speaker 2: How that go?
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  Speaker 1: Songs? Good? I think I've told you guys, we didn't
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  Speaker 1: own the licensing rights. We do now, that's amazing. I'm
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  Speaker 1: so proud of it. So I've been sitting on I
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: mean listening to the song. I mean, I'm popping pills,
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  Speaker 1: doing a whole bunch of shit. I wrote this thing
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  Speaker 1: three years ago I first moved out here and that,
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  Speaker 1: and it's about dad. So I was like, listening to it,
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  Speaker 1: is it the one? That? Is it? That one just
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  Speaker 1: me and Siko? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's a good one, but I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I could listen to it today.
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  Speaker 1: It's a good one, but listening back, I'm like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: I was in a terrible place. But yeah, but what
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  Speaker 1: a reminder. I was like, wow, to think about how
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  Speaker 1: far are you? I like creating it. And then I
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  Speaker 1: have the other song about my ex girlfriend that I
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: started writing a long time ago, that we got out.
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  Speaker 1: We shortened it up and just like got it out.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to listen to it. We want you
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  Speaker 1: on it. Though. Oh my favorite one. So we have
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  Speaker 1: two songs. I'm gonna start releasing. Judge me if you want.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, I just want to do it to have like
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  Speaker 2: a creative outlet. Just want to like go and feel something.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: And they were like, so are you going to have
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  Speaker 1: like a release party. I was like, no, it's going
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  Speaker 1: to release it and if people like it, they like it,
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: and if they don't actually move on, you don't. Just
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  Speaker 1: I'm not your cup of tea. Yeah, got to drink me.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: I love that the Kentucky Derby was this weekend, and
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: asking why I didn't go with Brittany. You guys, you
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: know I don't support the Kentucky Derby.
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  Speaker 1: That is true. I didn't watch.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Can I be honest? You know that the girl won
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: the first ever shy so I it's very hard because
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: it looks like cruel when you're hitting these horses. It
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: is cruel. It doesn't look cruel. They are pampered beyond
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: that's not entirely true. They're like million dollar horses. They're
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: getting like massages. They're like they are craner every day,
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: like they are every day they're making sure that they
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  Speaker 1: have no like bone spurs.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're being whipped to run as fast as
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  Speaker 2: they possibly. I don't support it, and you will not
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  Speaker 2: catch me at the Kentucky Ary.
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  Speaker 1: Well, but I know Brittany had a good time.
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  Speaker 2: You won't catch me watching, you know, I being there
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  Speaker 2: none of the things.
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  Speaker 1: I like that for you. I will watch it here
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  Speaker 1: and there. I'm on your side. Though.
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  Speaker 2: This one was fucking crazy that I saw West Wilson's
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: first cousin is accused of murdering their grandma.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know how fucking wild that is? Isn't this?
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  Speaker 2: And it was I believe like the day before he
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: had to film the Summerhouse Reunion, the call was made
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  Speaker 2: that a woman had been shot.
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  Speaker 1: And this was in I believe, Missouri. Before I go on.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Though, before I go on, how wild that this Scamanda
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: is taking place season ten? The scandal on vanderbumb Rules
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  Speaker 2: took place season ten.
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  Speaker 1: We're in a simulation. We're living in the fucking trumanshell.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, how is it so similar? And also the
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: same season? No, do you really think that? Do you
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: want to know what's crazy? Tell me in my notes,
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  Speaker 1: I said that my ache of the week is That's
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  Speaker 1: how I've been feeling that you want to be a
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: part of a scandal. No, I feel like we're living
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: in a Truman show and just none of us are
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: aware such a couple of us. They're like, would you
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  Speaker 1: give us your ache? Already? I didn't know if it
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  Speaker 1: was going to be the ache.
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  Speaker 2: Well, and now you've decided. So this is what happened.
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  Speaker 2: The Summerhouse Reunion is being filmed and West is set
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: to go. The call comes in and the Hollywood reporter
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  Speaker 2: put the law enforcement officials in Carroll County, Missouri, responded
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  Speaker 2: to reports of a shooting at a home on April
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: twenty second. When they got there, there was a seventy
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  Speaker 2: five year old woman who was deceased inside. He was
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: identified as the suspect and the grandpa. You guys said
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: that he was sitting on the couch and they have
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: it as victim number one. And so Grandma and Dakota
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: were sitting on the couch. Grandma was getting on to
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: him about not keeping up on like chores around their house,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: keeping up on chores around the house, like basically get
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: your ass up and you know, help around here. This
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: was like thirty minutes that they were chilling on the
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: couch and then the grandpa says that he just like
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: fucking shot her in the head. Can you believe that?
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: No either, and I can't even they did find a
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: holster in the house too. I'm just like, how do
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: you wrap your mind around like you're going into a
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: reunion you're a part of, like this giant scandal that
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: even Rihanna has like participated in, uh deciding she doesn't
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: fuck with you guys anymore. Thought in itself is a lot,
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: and then you find out that your grandma was shot
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: by your cousin. Simone Biles says that she is staying
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: in after it's between twenty I've seen twenty two and
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: twenty six thousand for her bill for going to a
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: red carpet and getting like all glammed up and fabulous
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: between like the stylist and all of the things. And
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: you know what, it was so refreshing to hear someone
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: like Simone Biles say that because I have, in no way,
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: shape or form ever spent twenty two to twenty six
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: thousand dollars on getting ready for an event. Okay, and
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: you have to remember, styling is like a whole different beast.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: You hire them, they bring you a bunch of clothes,
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: you pick them, you try them on, you like you wear,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: you give back, So you're spending thousands of dollars on
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: things you return.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I think the most.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: I've spent on a stylus was like sixty f five hundred,
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: and it was I believe it was multiple looks, but
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: I just find it like I would. I would rather
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: go to Rodeo Driver. Actually, my most favorite. If I'm
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: in Palm Springs, the cab is on outlets who have
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: literally every designer that you could possibly want under the sun.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Still expensive, but at least if I'm dropping thousands of dollars,
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: I get to keep it in my closet and if
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: I want to wear it again, because I love to recycle.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: It's my most favorite thing, wear it again. Like I
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: can't even imagine, like the pit that you would have
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: and the glam and the hair that you just like
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: come home and wash off and then send the outfit
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: back and all I have is like a good photo.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Guess what I might do. Tell me it's called wild West,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: and it's like three hundred bucks a month, okay, And
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: they just have like a clothing outlet and you go
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: in and you pick and you can have up to
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I think it's like thirty five hundred dollars of clothing
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: at a time, and then you return it and then
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: you can get more. And there was a month it's unlimited,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: unlimited three hundred a month, so three hundred bucks a month.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I get a gym membership, We'll just say, but a
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: membership to go in. Now I can go in because
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: I pay the monthly. Now I have three thousand dollars
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: that I can put on credit to take and where,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: and then I bring it back and then they take
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: it off and then I can go get three thousand
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: dollars worth of clothing gain or one hundred. I could
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: just go get a shirt or two. But yeah, and
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: that it was at Coachella. The girl that was running it,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: she was like, you should come in. I think you'd
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: like it. So I'm going to schedule a little walk
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: through me and Calvino. Yeah you show show so yeah,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: wild West.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: The other thing that I want to talk about is
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: how crazy it is that I was watching the Beverly
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Hills Reunion the second episode.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: It has been so good, but.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: I was so surprised to hear that the Potomac Housewives
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: had filmed with Mauricio and I've believe Chemo sabby and
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: that a lot of them were like gassing him up
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: and like flirting with him and talking about how sexy
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: he is, and then Kyle receiving uh, like I'm sorries,
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: like I that was not cool and Kyle's absolutely right,
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: and maybe I'm up in the night with this, but
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I do feel like within our little Bravo community, it
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: is like and especially with the Housewives, there's some there's
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: some sort of unspoken sisterhood where.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: You just don't date within the crew.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: Right, even if you're not on the same show, you
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: just don't do it. And as Kyle is talking about
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: like if she wants Mo back, or like why they
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: haven't filed for divorce, she's saying that it's not that
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: she's waiting for him to come back, but it's more
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: of just like a timing thing, like she's gonna know
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: when it feels right. But her eyes said something different
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: to me. And when they replayed her talking about how
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: if they would have chosen the other life right where
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: he didn't have two Nickels to his name, but we
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: thought about moving to Colorado, he would be a ski instructor,
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: and had we chosen that path, I think we would
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: still be together. And how did we let something so
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: beautiful slip away?
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: I just.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Men and women think so freaking differently, because Kyle's talking
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: about how you know, she's holding on to like the
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: memories and she thought that going to her daughter's weddings
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: or you know, graduations, that she would be with the
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: father of her child.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Then she shows up to a holiday party and her.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Not husband slash husband is like very much living a
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: single life and feeling okay about it. And I I
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: just can't help but think, like, are we supposed to
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: like be together.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Men and women? But I don't know anymore?
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Like what is the point you have your kids, you
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: build a life, and then you know you run the
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: risk of in thirty years where you have literally every
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: single memory of your adult life and becoming a mother.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: How in the world does one party Usually the woman
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: move on from that without holding on extremely tight, where
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: the man can go out and just like find women
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: in their twenties and totally be okay and not even
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: think about the memories.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: It's just.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Really really hard to wrap my mind around and reconcile
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: it because I think about this like brief interaction that
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: I had with someone, and I'm like, I can't imagine
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: having thirty years with somebody and it coming to a close.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: I'm like wrapped up in my own head. Kyle is
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: a strong woman, strong strong woman, and I don't even
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: know if I should be sharing this. It happened so
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: long ago. I have to say. When I was doing
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: the podcast with Easton and my old assistant Jessica, I
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: got the weirdest DM. And I was talking about Kyle
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: and Moe at this time, and this was like at
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: the height of them not really knowing what they were doing.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: But I got a DM from him saying something along
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: the lines of, you know, I talk about him on
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: my podcast and he would like to grab a coffee
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: and I just never opened it or responded, I like, what,
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: there's not a chance, and maybe trying to convince me that,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: like what I was saying. I don't even know what
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: I was saying on the podcast about him at that time.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: He's trying to do control damage. It could have been
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: control damage. I don't really know the point. But I'm
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: certainly not going to be caught out having coffee with you.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I want to know that's not gonna happen. What a
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: good look.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: No, I just beyond the look. It's like, just no,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: we don't need to talk about one. There's so many
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: other podcasts that are talking about this exact same thing.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: What you want to hear about? How about we all
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: we'll all grab a coffee and you can try to
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: win us all over, because it's not going to look
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: good for you.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: No, well, certainly not a one on one if you're
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: upset about the podcast. There's many a podcast that are
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: a talking So we're gonna need to make this a
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: group meeting.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: He's trying to put out like one little fire when
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: the whole mountain's flaming. It's like, buddy, just good luck.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Speaking of fires. So I was seeing that a lot
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: of people were talking. Now that it's been it's been
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: over a year since since the La fires that destroyed
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: like thousands upon thousands of acres, destroyed homes, people are
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: struggling to get their homes rebuilt. But there was this
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: ad on TV that talks about these fires. And if
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: you put in this these sprinkler systems where they go
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: off inside of the house, they're basically yes, they're basically
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: like a built in fire department where they're just like
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: the house.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: So your house is soaking wet while flames are around it.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: And Easton said that he was in an uber the
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: other day because I was like, oh my gosh, what
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: a smart idea. I'd never heard of this, and apparently
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: it's been around for a long time, these sprinklers, but
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: now there since the fires last year, it's like.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, everyone think.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: Yes, everyone's thinking this is what we're getting for our
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: new build.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: So tell me what the uber driver says. So we
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: were just talking and it just got brought up and
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I lost my house in the
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: eaten fires. I was like, oh, did it burn down?
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: And he goes, oh no, funny enough, I had the
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: indoor sprinklers and it saved it. And I go, oh,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: so you're good, and he goes, well, no, he goes,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: it's a twenty two. You're in a rock. He goes,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: either your house burns down or it's saved by the sprinklers,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: and now you're just living in black, mold and ash.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: And he was like, because things, it gets so hot
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: that the windows explode, so now everything's coming inside just
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: getting wet. And he was like, like four feet up
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: the wall, it's just like blasgusting, black, wet, moldy. And
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: he goes, so and now I'm pissed off because he goes,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I'd rather have burnt down. Now I have to He
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: can't even go to the property yet because they haven't.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: So it either gets burned down or he has to
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: demolish his home. Yeah, but he was telling me, he
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: was like, if it burns down, it burns down. Now
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: you just clean the rubble. He goes, Now my house
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: is standing, not livable, So now I have to pay
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: to have people demolish it. So now he is in
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: hasn't received any money from a lot of people, even
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: people who lost their homes to the fire don't.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but like that was his biggest thing, and he
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: was just kind of laughing about it. He was like
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I have to laugh at this point. He was like,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: so put him in, get mulled, don't have it burned.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I actually have to vote today, and I'm not no,
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: but I have heard that Spencer Pratt has a pretty
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: good chance of winning this shit. I think I think
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: his advertisements and things have been really well. I feel
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: like he's boots on the ground. He's with the people
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: he's going and he lives in his trailer, on his
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: burnt down like he's When people look at Spencer, You're like,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: all right, I can relate with this guy. He's living
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: like we do. He has a voice and is kind
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: of fighting for what we see.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: So many people are like, but he was in Reality
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: to TV And I'm looking at and I'm like, so
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: was Erica Kirk?
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Was she? Yeah? She was on Summerhouse. She was a
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: friend of beforehand Donald exactly. So yeah, the wild wild
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: West out here.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: People can change, is all I know is during those fires,
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: someone dropped the ball. Yeah yeah, yeah, one of the
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: empty change needs to happen. The last thing I'm going
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: to talk about before we jump into the ache and
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: relief of the week, because I could not believe my
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: eyes when I saw this, that Sydney Sweeney.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: You can just keep that. That's my ache of the week.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Freaking when did a hard launch?
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: Was Scooter Braun, Scooter Roun who did so many people
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: in the music industry, the most notable many Swift, Swift.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: One hundred million. It's like, yeah, off of other people's
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: hard work, he did nothing cares who cares if he Hey,
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: people can change. Hopefully he's changed whatever. I don't know.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not making any judgments. Yeah, we all have our
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: thoughts of this. The way that I love to ignore,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: right flag.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: I mean here is the heart wants what it wants, okay,
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: And when you're in it, behind closed doors and you're
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: making memories, it is very easy to fall into this
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: place of like, I don't see anything beyond what's right
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: in front of me.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I just could never be with somebody knowing that that
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: person did so many people dirty. He told her. You
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: don't know what he's told her.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a bunch of fucking lies. Yeah, we can see that.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: But again, when you're in it, when you're yeah, your
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: heart is like in it, yes, like in it, dude.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: Like the amount of times that my mind and my
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: gut are like, get rid of this person, get rid
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: of them. This is not good for you. And I've
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: always said them, and then my and then my freaking
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: heart is like no, no, oh, we can't let go.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I samh chakras aligned that's what it is.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: I'm doing that this week. I'm putting it into my notes.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: You got to get your seven chakras alone. Oh my god, Easton,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I work on mine. You're onto something. Kevin Gates told me,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Baby Diddy, what do he say? You got seven chakras,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: you got to get them all aligned. And if you
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: can get that, there's a lot of things you can
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: pray and meditate, breathing exercises, there's a lot of things
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: to get your body, your mind.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: I will never allow what happened, yeah, this, however many
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: months that it was to ever happen again. And I
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: hate that. I'm thirty five and still trying to learn this.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: But that is why I cannot wait to go. I
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: meaning I can wait, but I cannot wait to fall
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: into putting myself out there, because then what happens is
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I become comfortable alone. I think that I have it
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: all figured out, and then you know, what it reminds
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: me of is when people talk about going to rehab
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: and they're thriving in their sobriety, and then they re
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: enter the real world and it's like, oh, this is
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: very different than I thought. What happens is I become
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: so comfortable and peaceful by myself, and I think I
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: have it all figured out, and I'm like, now, I'm
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: ready to date, and I go into it and it
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: is so disorienting.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's scary when the tires hit the road.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about our ache and relief. My ache of
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: the week. Sosa is a crier, a whiner. You tell
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: her no, she starts sobbing. She doesn't want to go
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: to bed at night. She clings to me like a koala,
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: which is great.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: I love that.
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: But when it's time for bed and she's screaming bloody
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: murder and crying mama, and it's nine o'clock at night,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: which is way past bedtime. It was a lot. It's
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: turned into a lot. She's going through a weird phase.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: My relief is that it's Mother's Day. We're going to
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: a comedy show. I don't know how the jij is
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: gonna feel with the hip she may or may not
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: make it. And then we're having a group of mamas
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: go out on Sunday and just have fun with the kids.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking a little Benny Hannah from what Janet said,
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: because that's hell of fun for the kids, you know,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: so fucking fun. And I'm also getting my jaw injected today.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: And if doctor Jamon says to me la la. This
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: is called age and we're gonna need to like take
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: some skin from here, see.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: And pin it. I just need to shave back like that.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: Sign me up, guys, everybody make a big deal.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Gig said to me, Gigi gorgeous, because I was telling
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: her about this at Craig's after the drag show and
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: she was like, oh no, honey, don't do a filler.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: Just do a quick nip and a tuck. Call it
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: a day. You'll get that nice l shape. You're gonna
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: love it. I was like, you know what, that's the
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: energy I need. That's the energy I want. Nothing wrong
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: with a little Everybody help us over here, all right,
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: what you're ache and relieve and let's.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Wrap it up, guys. My ache has been Bernice. What's wrong?
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: Her little artis Oh so her aches are your aches? Yeah,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: her ache ache of the week. So trying to gets
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm thinking. So we're taking her in. We've
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: been giving her some like some powder. I don't know.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Lisa knows all the goodies about it. She gets it.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: I just feed them. But it's for joint pain. Yeah
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: it's joint pain. But yeah, that's my ache. My poor
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: little baby, and then my relief honestly, honestly, what is
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: that this is the last week of like Lisa being immobile?
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: I love that too, That's a great one. My relief
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: of the week is the hospital house is almost coming
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: to an end. Relief relief. What is that that the
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: kids do or whatever? Oh? I don't like that at all.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: All right, thank you guys for listening to another episode
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: of Untraditionally La La. Remember a bonus comes out on Monday,
• 35:55
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• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Don't forget.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: An Unlikely with myself and Amber Shoulders comes out every
• 36:02
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• 36:04
  Speaker 1: You can catch it then or Friday morning.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: We will catch you, lay you bye bye