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When You Realise You Can’t Force the Fit in a Relationship
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There comes a moment in many relationships when you ask yourself:
“Am I ever going to be enough for them?”
It’s not always about insecurity or worthiness.
Sometimes, it’s about exhaustion.
Exhaustion from trying harder.
Exhaustion from hoping you’ll be met.
Doing all the emotional labour.
From reshaping yourself to make the relationship work.
For years, we can bend, accommodate, and compromise, believing that if we just love harder, try harder, or adjust ourselves enough, things will finally click.
And then one day, quietly, the truth arrives:
You can’t force the fit.
In this…
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